WEBVTT - MINI: What did your ex want back?

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<v Speaker 2>Laura, you've been through some breakups in your time, mate,

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<v Speaker 2>Haven't I ever more than anyone I know actually settled down?

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<v Speaker 3>No, but you that's not a bad thing. You dated

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<v Speaker 3>a lot. Yeah, I kissed a lot of frogs to

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<v Speaker 3>find my prince.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Do you don't have to be defensive about That's

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<v Speaker 2>not a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't get a boyfriend. That was my problem. Some

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<v Speaker 3>of them are nice and were nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of them were absolutely horrible and useless turds.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, in any of those breakups, did they ever ask

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<v Speaker 2>for anything back? Like, you know, when you split up,

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<v Speaker 2>you might've lived together. Whatever you break up, did you

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<v Speaker 2>ever ask them for anything back? Or did they have

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<v Speaker 2>ask you for anything back?

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<v Speaker 1>I was always the person that walked away from the

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and didn't want anything from it. So, like I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>I broke up with one of I did the breaking

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<v Speaker 1>up as well, so I think I felt a bit guilty.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been together for a few years, we had furniture together,

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<v Speaker 1>we lived together, and I remember when I broke up

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<v Speaker 1>with him, I was like, do you know what you

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<v Speaker 1>keep everything, take nothing because.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt so guilty.

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<v Speaker 1>However, I did go through one breakup and I took

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<v Speaker 1>his credit card details and I may have taken some money,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's because he owed me money.

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<v Speaker 3>And there's a big backstory to that one. And I

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<v Speaker 3>think I would have won if it had gone to court.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it'll be fun. You would not take him

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<v Speaker 3>to court. Ten years statute limitations, whatever it's called. You

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<v Speaker 3>can't see me now, haha. That also doesn't exist.

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<v Speaker 2>Laura's on so many criminal things and she just goes

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<v Speaker 2>to spend ten years.

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<v Speaker 3>No, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The backstory to this is this dude he crashed my car.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been together for quite a few years. Because we

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<v Speaker 1>were together, I was like, don't worry about paying anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just pay it. And then two weeks later I

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<v Speaker 1>found out he was cheating on me. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you can pay for my car, and he refused to,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just adducted it from his credit card through

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<v Speaker 1>my business.

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<v Speaker 3>The end.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the reason I ask is, I mean, that's pretty bad,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think this is worse. This happened back in

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand and six, but it's making the rounds again,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like, it's quite an old story, but there's

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<v Speaker 2>this couple in the US that were married for a

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<v Speaker 2>really long time and the wife unfortunately got really sick.

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<v Speaker 2>She needed kidney transplants, both kidneys, and she did the

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<v Speaker 2>transplants and they didn't work and devastating.

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<v Speaker 3>It was devastating.

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<v Speaker 2>But their marriage was like really under stress because of

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<v Speaker 2>the pressure of that, and he was looking after her

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<v Speaker 2>and she was unwell and whatever else. So the husband

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<v Speaker 2>donated his kidney to his wife to literally save her

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<v Speaker 2>life and save the marriage, and amazingly it worked. Fast

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<v Speaker 2>forward a little bit and he finds out that she's

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<v Speaker 2>been cheating on him, so he gave up a kidney

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<v Speaker 2>and she had been cheating.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so then it was rough. Yeah, so in the divorce,

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<v Speaker 3>didn't want anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>He asked for the kidney back because you know, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that seems wildly unethical.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that's going to kill her.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that cheating does make you feel a bit

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<v Speaker 1>different about people, Like I wanted my money after I

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<v Speaker 1>found out my ex was cheating on me, But if

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<v Speaker 1>I'd given him a kidney, I don't want death.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, especially because she only had one. Only one works.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you come back, did this go through court? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>no one, no normal human is going to look at

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<v Speaker 1>that situation and be like, yep, cheating divorce. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you should die for that.

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<v Speaker 3>Give an organ? So what?

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<v Speaker 2>He obviously knew that no one was going to award

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<v Speaker 2>him a kidney, so he said, either you give me

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<v Speaker 2>the kidney or the value of the kidney, and he

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<v Speaker 2>put the value at one point five million US dollars,

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<v Speaker 2>which I don't even know how where you pull that from,

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<v Speaker 2>but interestingly, or actually probably pretty obviously, the court ruled

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<v Speaker 2>that any organ may not be exchanged for value, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Also putting real tickets on yourself. If you think one.

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<v Speaker 1>Kidney's one point five million, how much do you think

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<v Speaker 1>your total self is worth?

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<v Speaker 3>How do he break it down organ by organ.

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<v Speaker 1>And put an individual pick the number from. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think if you're going to give your organs to someone,

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<v Speaker 1>it has to be an ultruistic gift that knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>even if the relationship breaks down or whatever happens there,

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<v Speaker 1>you've done it because at.

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<v Speaker 3>One time you cared about them.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is a bit rich to take a kidney

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<v Speaker 1>and also be having an affair at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's pretty bad.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't simultaneous. She gave it eighteen months and then

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<v Speaker 3>she had the affair.

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<v Speaker 2>She got better and then she felt well enough front affair. Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>we've got to live on the phone. Hey live What

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<v Speaker 2>did your ex ask for back?

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<v Speaker 4>My ex asked for a bottle of oyster sauce that

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<v Speaker 4>I threw out when we were moving out, and then

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<v Speaker 4>when I wouldn't give it back to him, he asked

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<v Speaker 4>me to transfer seven dollars to cover it.

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<v Speaker 3>No brand was so attached to it.

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<v Speaker 4>Really running the mill, like I don't know I am

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<v Speaker 4>or whatever and probably can't say brand names, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>literally just running the mill oyster sauce.

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<v Speaker 3>Hang on.

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<v Speaker 2>To be clear, he asked for nothing else, none of

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<v Speaker 2>the furniture, the white goods, nothing like sentimental.

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<v Speaker 3>He just wanted the oyster sauce.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, to be fair, he did actually want something else back.

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<v Speaker 4>He also asked for his packet of Stato sticks.

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<v Speaker 3>He's got a problem. Do you know what the screams

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<v Speaker 3>to me of.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when someone will just find any excuse to

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<v Speaker 1>try and reach out and get back in touch with

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<v Speaker 1>their ex, like he's lost the plot.

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<v Speaker 2>Because this is all this does is double down on

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<v Speaker 2>why the breakup was.

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<v Speaker 3>This is but it's not rational.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just they're just so desperate to get some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of reply that they write crazy stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you transfer them, you ben Mom?

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<v Speaker 4>To be fair, I did because I was like, I

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<v Speaker 4>can't be bothered with this, I don't want to see

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<v Speaker 4>you again. I'm going to keep your oyster sauce and

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<v Speaker 4>I made a very good meal out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well done to him.