1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,880 Speaker 1: So Lisa had a couple of weeks off. 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 2: Okay, one week was spending at a courthouse, but the 3 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 2: first it was fun. Yes, you you went traveling with 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 2: your new. 5 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, this can be the make or break moments started. 6 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 3: This is where you can discover if something gives you. 7 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: This is out of the comfort zone totally. 8 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 3: I mean seriously traveling with someone for the first time. 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 3: And I've been racking my brain here trying to come 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 3: up with something to tell you that's really annoying or 11 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 3: ikey or surprise me. 12 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 4: And I can't traveling compassion. 13 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 2: Oh no, so you're building yourself up for a for 14 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 2: a tumble. 15 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: Nothing's perfect nothing. 16 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 4: No, nothing's perfect. Certainly not perfect, but it was it was. 17 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 4: I can't. I can't really fault the traveling experience. 18 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 3: He was very generous with the the wardrobe space he gave. 19 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 3: He offered me all the hangers if I wanted them, 20 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 3: and I said no, no, I didn't pack clothes that 21 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 3: really need to be ironed. He likes to shop, so 22 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 3: more than happy to take me to places where, you know, 23 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:20,479 Speaker 3: good shopping spots that he knew about and doesn't make 24 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 3: a fuss if I want to try on six pairs 25 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 3: of shoes. 26 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 4: He is a very good wine during companion. 27 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: So this is okay. 28 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 2: So you did Melbourne and you did Adelaide, so let's 29 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 2: face it, you didn't really push like you weren't. 30 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 3: No, you know, we're taking take it one step at 31 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 3: a time. This was a wine, you know. 32 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: One wine and shopping to. 33 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 4: It and shopping to it. 34 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: Hardly putting the test? Is it hardly? 35 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 3: Well? 36 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 4: Are you sharing space you know around the clock. 37 00:01:55,800 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 3: Absolutely, And I am an old person set my way. 38 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: I'm becoming that. 39 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 4: So you know, it's very very testing. So it went great. 40 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 4: That's what. 41 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 3: That's all I can report. What happened to you when 42 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 3: you traveled for the first time, had a great time. 43 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 2: Mine was probably a little bit more under under pressure. 44 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: Well because not long after I met my now wife, Yes, 45 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 2: she announced that I'm moving to China for a year 46 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 2: to work not in Shanghai or Beijing, but out in 47 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 2: the middle of nowhere in guan Shi, Gwaneshi Province. Okay, 48 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 2: some people who will know where that is. So yeah, 49 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: So we were traveling in parts of China where no 50 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 2: one spoke English, and so we're getting around cities like Nanning. 51 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,519 Speaker 2: We got caught up in an airline strike, which included 52 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 2: fist fights at the departure gate in Kunming when the 53 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 2: plane actually. 54 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 4: Filmed me tastings assurance Smith any day. 55 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 2: Flew ence to our destination and we're just about to land, 56 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 2: and then powered up again, turned around. 57 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: And went back to where we just come from. 58 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: That was their way of protesting against the against the airline. Okay, 59 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 2: and and then everybody and then we got back. And 60 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 2: then everyone's getting the biff on in the in the airport, 61 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 2: and we didn't. So we were lost in the middle 62 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 2: of you know, nowheresville. 63 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 3: And no one speaking the language coming to each other 64 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: for support. 65 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, that in itself is. 66 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:30,559 Speaker 1: Uh, that's that's a little different to a wide topic. 67 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 4: The relationship moment though. 68 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 3: Okay, you win, definitely, definitely together, definitely. Well, our flight 69 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 3: to Adelaide was delayed by forty minutes. 70 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: Did anybody punch anybody out? 71 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 4: I don't know. We're in the contest. 72 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: Meanwhile in the real world. Ge all right, so what happened? 73 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 2: I think your I think your relationship needs to be 74 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 2: put to the test a little tougher before we called it. 75 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 3: Go to a. 76 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 4: Russian gulag or something next time. 77 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: Well, it sort, you'd know whether it was for real 78 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 2: or not. 79 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 4: What happened when you traveled together for the first time? 80 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 4: Where did you go? Did things go wrong? Did it 81 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 4: make or break the relationship? 82 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: I was just going to say, And that's the big, 83 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: the big question too. Are you still together? 84 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 4: It can it absolutely can be the make or break moment. 85 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: Did it kill it? Or did it make it stronger? 86 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 4: John's on the line. 87 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: Hello, John, Morning, John. 88 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 5: Good morning, guys. There you going. 89 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: We're good. 90 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 5: Well, it actually went quite disastrously. 91 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:37,359 Speaker 4: Where did you go? 92 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 5: My girlfriend and I went to Bali, Okay, and it 93 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 5: was her first time out of the country, not my 94 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 5: first time. And just for the benefit of the listeners, 95 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 5: John is not my real name. I'm not living anyone. 96 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: Okay, this is going to be a good story. Change 97 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: your name. 98 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 4: You bet you went to Bali. 99 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 5: So we went to Bali, and you know, I've been before. 100 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 5: I had barley belly before. I know, you know, I 101 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 5: know what the signs are. Anyway, I had a bit 102 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 5: of a cook gut and you know I've had you know, 103 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 5: we went out, had a great meal, went to this 104 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 5: you know, we went back to the hotel and we 105 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 5: turned in about two o'clock in the morning. I woke 106 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 5: up something didn't see him quite right, and I could 107 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 5: and I could feel this awareness in the bed, and 108 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 5: I thought, hang on, what's going on anyway, I put 109 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 5: my hand down and I just felt it, and oh 110 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 5: my goodness, it was absolutely covered. If crap was pictures, 111 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 5: this bed was the louve, it was everywhere. It was 112 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 5: just from from one corner to the other. You won't 113 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:53,799 Speaker 5: but you just can't bore you. No, No, it was me. 114 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: You changed your name. 115 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 5: So so what happened was I thought, oh, look, we've 116 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 5: got to deal with this. We just can't leave it, 117 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 5: you know, because she's going to wake up eventually, if 118 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 5: she doesn't pass out from the smell anyway. So so 119 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 5: I woke her up very gingerly, and I just said, look, baby, 120 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 5: go and go and jump in the shower. Why And 121 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 5: then I held my hand up and she goes there, No, 122 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 5: So she went, she went and jumped in the shower, 123 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 5: and then I stood up, and you know, all of this, 124 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 5: all of the rest of this gift fell out of 125 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 5: my shorts and strip the bed back, got it, got 126 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 5: it all stooped, and there was no there was no 127 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 5: hiding as it was everywhere. Got on the phone straight 128 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 5: away to housekeeping, asked for some fresh sheets. He brought 129 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 5: to the room. The guy comes to the door. I'm 130 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 5: handing him his big pile like it. You know, I 131 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 5: still carries the baby. I'm just handing a big pile 132 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 5: and it covered in this stuff. It was horrific. And look. 133 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 5: I looked at the guy. He looked at me. I 134 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 5: looked down. I looked back at him and I said, look, 135 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 5: I'm sorry. My girlfriend has ballei belly. It's her first time. 136 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 5: Please don't please, don't be angry with her. And he 137 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 5: looked at me and he holds you and he holds 138 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 5: his hand up and he goes, no, that's okay. It 139 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 5: happened all the time. 140 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: I'll just take these to the incinerator. 141 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 5: No. 142 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 3: So the next day when you go to breakfast at 143 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 3: the buffet, they're looking at her. 144 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: Yep, yep, John, what a crap holiday? 145 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 4: Are you still together? 146 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: There's tests and and that's testing and sure, thank you John, 147 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 2: not your real name, but good on you for owning 148 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 2: up anyway, even if it is under a pseudonym. 149 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 3: Wow, Pete Canning to said, morning guys, short trips with 150 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 3: the X spouse were fine, but long trips I'd rather 151 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 3: have stuck pins in my eyeballs. 152 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 4: Are they still together? No? 153 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 3: X X Yes, I missed that terrible navigator apparently. Oh yeah, 154 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 3: now in the car with someone giving directions. Thank goodness 155 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 3: for Ways the GPS. 156 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 2: Yes, Ways, definitely, I'll never break up with Ways. No, 157 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 2: we get along just fine. 158 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: It is easy. 159 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 4: Whether there's a pothole, it does. Danuel in bold divers Hello. 160 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: How's the go and go go ahead? Did your trip 161 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: go as well as Lisa's? Well? 162 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 6: I went to CMC last year with my partner, and 163 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 6: we've been dating together for about a year. At that point, 164 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 6: started off shaky, sitting in Virgin delay after denay, so 165 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 6: it was about two and a half hours of delays. 166 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: Oh darn yeah. 167 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 6: So it was a bit stressful to start with, but 168 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 6: then we get there and it was all the smooth saleen. 169 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 6: We rock up at like eleven thirty at night, high 170 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 6: the car, go to the hole to go to the 171 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 6: first of all, no fighting, no arguments. 172 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: No nothing. 173 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 6: I couldn't falter. Love it and fast forward to present. Yes, 174 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 6: and I'm already in looking at proposing. 175 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 4: Everybody passed the test. 176 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: I love it. Except the airline. 177 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 4: Fantastic. 178 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: That's all right. You know what that two and a 179 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: half hour delay, now, let's be fair, that two and 180 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: a half hours that made it that exactly little extra 181 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: time to talk, just a little bit of testing at 182 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: the beginning. 183 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, clinging together through the uncertainty of where would 184 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 3: this damn. 185 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 4: Play take off. 186 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 6: We're sitting in the airport just and laughing because people 187 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 6: were stressing about it, and we'll get there. 188 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 189 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 2: And if you're both of the same mind, that's when 190 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 2: you sit there and go, oh this this is good. 191 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 2: We can both handle a stressful moment together. 192 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: Yes, definitely, well. 193 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 3: Done, Daniel, and congratulations as keep us posted and how 194 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 3: that will go. 195 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:02,839 Speaker 1: I want to know. 196 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 4: I'm interested now, Okay, see Daniel, have a great day.