WEBVTT - Flex & Froomes 2023 Ins & Out’s 🎇 ➡️ 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:05.400 The Flex and Frooms Daily podcast. 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:10.360 Sweet Angels and Freaks, we are back. The potty is 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:13.760 our favorite to do. It's a little bit late, but 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:15.680 it's better late than ever. We want to discuss our 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:18.439 ins and out they have been published, well mine has 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.479 from me. Didn't do one, but she might this year. 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:24.160 But we do have thoughts and we will share them solicitedly. 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:27.160 Let's go Flex and Frooms. 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:31.000 Flexy. Hello, I've been in the trenches this past year, single, 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:34.440 loving it, and I have noticed. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:36.560 I won't stop you, then please continue. 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:40.080 I've noticed a very particular thing that straight men do 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:42.800 with regards to floating okay, and I've come up with 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:47.400 this system. It's called the cordial system. Cordial, the Cordy system. 0:00:47.400 --> 0:00:51.080 I'm not talking about being polite. I'm talking about Cotty's cordial. 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:57.040 Yeah, shps, sweps to a lime cordial. It's not it's 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:59.360 okay again, let's not get into my. 0:00:59.400 --> 0:01:04.160 Cotty's girl p But do you I believe that there 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:06.520 is like a weakness and a potency to men's flirting. 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:08.640 And I don't know about what is the most potent, 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:14.040 but I've decided what is the most weak diluted flirting. 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:17.480 There is cordial is such a good way to describe this. 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:19.560 It is because you can go too sweet, you can 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:23.720 go too much, the most piss week type of flirting 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.920 slash cordial. It's a little trickle is the love heart 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:31.120 on Instagram Instagram Zuckerberg? Whoever else is working in the building? 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:33.480 When and why did you start that function? 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:36.199 Wait? Like love hiding storyhearting the story? 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:36.760 Yeah. 0:01:37.280 --> 0:01:39.280 Yeah. It used to be like the bar should be 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:41.800 so low send a fire emoji. That was the lowest 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:43.959 of the bar. Now the bar has gone underground, We've 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:47.120 dug deeper, and I'm just not about it. It's like 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:50.120 you m okay. 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:52.440 I would say it wouldn't be the lowest of the 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:55.080 low if it was followed up by a more intense 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:58.559 dose of cordial. But I think the issue is people 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:04.040 use the love part like story response as an indication 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.840 of interest for you to come in and do a 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:10.160 hero dose of flirting back, and it's just not realistic. 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:15.200 It's not And might I add, over the last year, 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:18.399 I've really been nurturing my male friendships because there's something 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:20.520 about being friends with a man really opened you up 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:22.560 to the world. And it's one thing that I've gathered 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.320 we rarely think the same, and it's very surprising to me. 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:30.680 And I was told by some men who get near 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:32.720 it quite a bit, who have quite a lot of 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:35.600 female company, that they do this thing where they sustain 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:40.280 plenty of online interactions simply for validation, with no intention 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:43.600 of shutting it down because it feels good, but with 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:48.760 every intention to dodge any real display of like propositioning them. 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:51.280 That to me, I'm like, how do you have the time? 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:55.040 I saw damn spapes, I saw evidence and these girls 0:02:55.080 --> 0:02:55.560 were laying it. 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:56.040 I'm thick. 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:59.240 Of course, it's freaking me. 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:00.800 Out, flex and frooms. 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:03.880 I know it's mid Jen. We're coming out middle Jen. 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:06.959 That's one twenty fourth of the way through the year 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:10.840 already huge. But of course, a big thing that happened 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:13.080 last year at the tail end was ins and outs. 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.600 Every man and their dog on Instagram was posting their 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:17.119 ins and outs. A changing by them. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:20.760 No, I didn't either, Why not last year? 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:23.480 This year? This year? 0:03:23.760 --> 0:03:26.240 Yeah, at the tail end you did it before, though, 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:30.320 I get what you're saying. Yeah, twenty twenty three predictions 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:31.200 in twenty twenty. 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:34.440 Two, correct, I didn't do any Yeah, because I just 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:36.720 thought only that to the experts, I was on kind 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:39.560 of like a digital hiatus, which was part of my 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:40.600 in and out. 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:42.800 One hundred percent, and that was a very hot thing 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:45.480 for you to do. They definitely caught me. Look, mine 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:48.240 was requested. Actually I didn't just decide to do it, 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.280 it was requested, and they caught me at the tail 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:53.480 end of what would be my digital hiatus as well, 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:55.280 So you know, you got in why you can. But 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.600 for those who aren't aware, ins and outs lists are 0:03:57.600 --> 0:04:01.720 exactly what they sound like, a list of things, people, objects, 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:04.960 behaviors that are in for the upcoming year and also 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:07.800 out for the upcoming year. Some people approach it like 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:09.920 a prediction to say what they're predicting to be in 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:12.320 and out, and some people approach it like guidelines for 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:13.000 the next year. 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:14.720 And some people use it just as gags. 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:19.120 Oh, also that more room for gags in the upcoming year. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:22.760 I really enjoyed mine. We got to clean eighteen thousand likes, 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:24.719 so it's fair to say that others enjoyed it as well. 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:28.640 Eighteen one eight, triple zero. That's even for you. That's 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:28.920 a lot. 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:30.720 Plenty five figure. 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:32.000 Babe, far out. 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:36.919 Yeah, yeah, Jesus Christ, can you read out some of yourse? 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:38.440 I think we should do in the podcast? 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:41.120 True, shouldn't we? Okay? And since I didn't really have 0:04:41.279 --> 0:04:47.719 any there is a meme page called Insane clown Pussee posse. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:50.960 It's possy, is it? It's simply possy part of me? 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:54.000 Insane clown persee. 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:56.239 What let's let's bring up the stag anyway? 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:59.560 Hold on, hold on, hold on, because you're rushing me, babe, 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:04.640 insane not you are right. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:05.920 It's insane clown pusses. 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:06.400 It's with a you. 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:13.040 Aah, Insane clown pussee? Did it? Ins and Outs list? 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:14.960 You said it every time you have to start. 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:18.479 That's free press. I must say we be implicated, So 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:22.360 ins and outs before you share yours, of course, I'm 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.920 going to share the ones from Insane clown Pussee. That's 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:28.680 got two underscores between each word. Yes, and the picture 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:32.000 is Marilyn Monroe dress as a clown obsessed quite disconcerting. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:36.520 Oh okay, they terrify me. They're savage the account holder. 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:39.640 The account holder totally anonymous when they first sat, which. 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:40.120 I'm obsessed with. 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:43.960 Actually, it's very bold to be gaining so much notoriety 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:46.640 and to do it in in an anonymous way true. 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:49.000 When they first started, I think they posted like six things, 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:50.599 and instantly I was like, this is the funny thing 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:53.000 ever said. I messaged him in saying who are you 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:56.599 when they said, I'm not telling, and I thought my 0:05:56.680 --> 0:06:01.520 Kings and Queen twenty twenty three, In and outs blue 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:05.200 and pink already, that's saying for me in boy boss 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:07.080 out ooh alas. 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:11.000 You're giving English teacher to doing an analysis. This is what 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:11.720 the author meant. 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:14.040 Here are some of the ins and outs that I 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:19.160 think are applicable to us. Workplace bullying is this in? 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:23.280 This is in? Okay, workplace bullying yep in spray tands, 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:33.080 sure feet, yeah, huge, Sorry. 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:34.360 It's happening again. 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:46.200 Applying for compensation by masking your pandemic weight gain as 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:53.200 a vaccine related injury. 0:06:55.600 --> 0:07:06.839 Okay, Laughing as queer by saying partner with boyfriends, oh 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:12.000 my go. And finally lands bring back the binary. 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:14.440 It was the boyfriend say it's a boyfriend. 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:20.360 Okay. Outs. These are ones that I feel are quite savage, 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:27.480 maybe towards us. Outs, be real, that's your community. I've 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:28.920 had an higher education. 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:31.160 That's still your community. 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:37.280 White women starting podcasts fifty fifty, so that we're implicated 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:46.080 play please oh yeah, sorry about me tooth gems, finally 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:48.600 adding we'll see on the end of every word. 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:53.200 Okay, so just say we were the muse because that's 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:53.960 six for six. 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:56.280 That hurt. But I feel like we need to address 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.680 it on the podcast Insane clam Puss. 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:02.320 Love your work. I stand by it. Not everyone can 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:05.200 do a full mouth of tooth gems. I think what's 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:07.920 our is a singular tooth gem. I agree, because it's 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:13.160 what it's saying is. I want to be slightly alternative, 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:16.360 but I'm still very mindful of not being judged. 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:18.600 I'm still very mindful of my enamel. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:21.440 Oh but my dentist does it, so it's chill. Do 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:22.120 you know what it is? 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:26.720 It's like when people get get tattoos on, like their 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:29.920 hand or their neck, but they're tiny, like one centimeter. 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.080 If you're gonna suck it out, fuck it up. 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:35.200 Facts. 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:38.880 So what are your ins just off the dome Telly 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:41.360 Tubbo culture. Okay, yeah, that's strong for you. 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.200 It's just like I see Telly tubbies that make me happy. 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:49.240 I see your predictions or your guidelines. Vibes Okay, three 0:08:49.320 --> 0:08:52.880 vibes es are out. Unfortunately, I know, but that's I 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:54.920 don't believe in ins and outs. I just believe in 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:58.360 themes Telly Tubbies thinking about Telly Tubby's. I like things 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:00.440 that make me happy, and Telly Tubbies make me. That's 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:00.800 about it. 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:04.600 Healing you in a child and you Yeah, look, as 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:08.400 we know, my ins and outs are all about, like 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:13.679 we said, cracking open the heart canal, letting the world 0:09:13.760 --> 0:09:16.440 see the real you. But also the internet just made 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:20.480 me really angry last year, but not in like an 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.560 active way, and like this is a really sad way. 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:25.320 Like I'm so sick of this. I'm so sick of 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:28.880 looking at like internet discourse. I'm so sick of seeing 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:32.199 everyone getting offended at everything. I'm so sick of people 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:37.200 overcompensating debilitating self esteem with having a god complex. 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:39.839 It's so lame, do you know what I mean? 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.360 Like it's just so lame. I'm like, let's switch it up. 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:46.120 If you are manic depressed, just do that without trying 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:47.320 to make it a branding experience. 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:47.840 It's all good. 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:51.199 How do we switch it up while still talking about 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:51.960 important things? 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:54.880 I think there's a there's a level of matter of 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:59.240 factness that's missing. Like I noticed all these conversations get 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.600 framed in the same way, they get approached in the 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:05.400 same way. They're following the same script. Like you know, 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:07.640 we end up talking about important issues the same way 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:11.720 these disclaimers, these like I recognize and no cut it, 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:15.439 get it, just just like straight from like like we said, 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:19.440 from the heart to the brain, out the gullet just 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:21.800 say it, live it, be it, feel it. 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:25.880 It's the culture within the culture that makes the disclaimers important. 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:27.520 Otherwise they're gonna roast you further. 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:29.959 Yeah, but then if that's where we're at, there's only 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.920 one way out, and that's through. But some of my 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:36.640 inn's emotional vulnerability I want to see I'm not talking 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:40.440 crying on the internet, but the full spectrum of emotion. 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:43.920 I'm really excited to see. If you're feeling jealous, I 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:46.600 want to see that come through, you know, if you're 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:50.920 feeling hurt, let's put that out there. Not everything is 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:55.079 just like one dimensional sad, happy range. Okay, I'm excited 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:59.000 to see. I want to see people bailing when things. 0:10:58.840 --> 0:10:59.960 Are really hard. 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:01.679 I just seen people go through a lot of hard 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:06.079 stuff in masts, like the character developed character development thing. 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:07.800 I'm like, it's okay to say things are hard and 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:11.080 then just bail. You don't have to endure like cheating 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:15.400 or like a shitty work environment or bad friend, just 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:15.880 for like. 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:17.920 You know, I gotta get through it. No, I gotta 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:18.360 get through it. 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:22.760 Just leave blocking people. I think we don't do that enough. 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:28.360 So let's bring that back. Let's make monogamy cool, not 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:32.679 making non monogamy uncool, but just like validating people who 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:36.480 are able to stay in those traditional situations. 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:37.839 Well, that's what I want. 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:38.600 That's hot. 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:41.720 Now some out some outs hating slow walkers. I'm so 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:45.240 off it. It's very boring. It's pineapple pizza vibes. I'm 0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:48.840 not into it. Asking people to guess your age, your ethnicity, 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:49.959 or your star sign. 0:11:49.880 --> 0:11:52.720 Get it, I mean star star are not allow. I'm 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:53.400 bored by. 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.360 It because then it gets into the old how'd you 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:59.480 the truth over? Buying stuff to self soothe. We've got 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:02.679 to start, We've got to be better. You don't do it, 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:07.559 but a lot of us do. Hating androids, Oh mate, No, 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:11.040 it's very boring. Sorry, it's very boring them because I 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:14.640 could never be them. Okay, I admire two more fighting 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:16.480 in the comments. I don't want to see it take 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:17.360 it to your group chats. 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:18.960 I like it. Keep my engagement up. 0:12:19.520 --> 0:12:22.320 You can engage in the comments, fighting in the comments, 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:26.880 get a hobby or a job, respectability politics. Sometimes you 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:28.800 just have to give it to people the way they 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:31.080 need to hear it. And sometimes that's mean. 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:35.440 Whoa when you mean it hits different. 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:39.880 I know, but that's why I just feel like I 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:41.960 don't want that for people, but sometimes they need to 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:45.320 have it scared. The best littles are cackling lit and 0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:47.200 if we can't be cackling little, then we have to 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:47.800 be mean little. 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.040 And now you can't take the cackling, as they say. 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:51.880 Get out the kitchen. 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:52.520 That's it. 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:54.520 Thank you for sharing your outs and in so. 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:57.960 I loved to it flixy I did take heed in yours. 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:00.600 Yeah, we're always trying reflected all right. 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:05.960 This is flex and frooms on KEDA. 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:06.840 Listen. 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:10.880 Sometime last year I was like, I need to put 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:15.160 the thoughts that are in my brain somewhere besides other 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:18.280 people's brains. Thank you, Yeah, And it took a lot 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:19.560 for me to do that. It was my first active 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:22.080 self listen this for twenty twenty two Q four. We 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.840 came in late, We came in strong, so I thought 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:29.360 I would start writing down my thoughts into a journal. 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:31.360 Is it a leather bound moment? 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.880 It was, but I've just moved to like a soft back. 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:35.720 Is that the opposite of a hardback cover? 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:38.000 I don't know, but the thing was at first, I 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:40.720 was like, I need to interpret my dreams because my 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:42.600 psychotherapist told me to do that once, and I was like, oh, 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:43.400 don't worry about it. 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:45.680 But when you write it down, you can like, why 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:48.960 is the thirt buzzing during work hours? For amina? Please? 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:51.320 But when you write them down, you can easily see 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:53.360 links between what you're dreaming, what the themes are, how 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:54.640 you feel it setter. I was like, I can use 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:58.320 that in my waking days, right, And there's something so 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:02.400 like cathartic about like humoring what you actually think and 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:04.440 putting on paper because you know, when you like think 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:06.320 thoughts in your mind, you can talk yourself out of it, 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:07.560 like I didn't really think that, ha ha. 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:10.280 Once it's on paper, you realize how lame you are, 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:12.480 how lame your. 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:15.240 Insecurities are, because it's just like not that special and 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:17.680 you let them really get you down anyway. But after 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:22.480 three months of journaling, here's what I've learned nothing is 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:24.520 as serious as you want to think it is, because 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:25.920 when I go back and look at entries from a 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:26.640 week and I was like. 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:28.760 That was what we were stressed about, babes. 0:14:28.800 --> 0:14:30.400 There's been a whole week and you haven't even thought 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:33.840 about it in three days, right, that's number one. Number two, 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:37.120 if you can't be bothered to put pen to paper 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:39.840 to write it out, then don't be so bothered to 0:14:39.920 --> 0:14:42.880 overthink it. You know, like, if you can't commit to 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:44.840 the simple act of like putting pen to paper and 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:47.560 validating what you think, then is it really worth like 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:50.320 racking your brain over it a thousand times a day. 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:51.000 Probably not? 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:53.960 You're so right, right. I like that it kind of 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:55.760 gives me an ouch to not do it. 0:14:55.720 --> 0:14:59.920 Hundred percent, or to dig deeper and like really see 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:00.840 the thought through. 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:03.960 Now. I've never been one to indulge in dream chat, 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:06.200 as you know, I find it extremely boring, shoots me 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:08.120 the tears. I'm allowed to say that on the radio, Yeah, 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:11.440 it's true. But starting this year, I've started writing down 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:14.360 my dreams. Wow, because they've become really vivid and I'm 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:17.120 seeing links and it's really fun. It also makes me 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.040 feel like I'm working my brain as soon as I 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:21.000 wake up because I've got to try and like pull 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:24.560 myself back and remember the dreams. Yes, we'll talk about 0:15:24.600 --> 0:15:25.680 themes on another day. 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:26.080 We have to. 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:29.000 That being said, I want to end with this point. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:31.840 We all think we're experts with our own brains in 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.920 mind by virtue of just having them. But if we're 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:37.200 not checking in and being like, how does this stuff 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:40.520 actually work? What's plaguing me? Then how are you ever know? 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:41.360 You know? 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:44.600 So everyone put pen to paper right out your thoughts. 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:46.280 It'll save your life only. 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:46.840 If you feel like it. 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:53.960 No, this is flex and Froomes. We have a their rate. 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:56.760 Yeah, exciting thing to occur. Right now, we're going to 0:15:56.800 --> 0:16:00.000 be calling one of the VIP winners to are always 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:05.440 any Specs Savers the Island, Sydney Xxx, Party Live Recording, 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:08.680 Love Recording and then party. That's it. That's it. Their 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:10.240 name is Harry. I'm going to try them on the 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:18.160 line now, Hello Hello. 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:22.480 You go to say, give us little something to work with, 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:26.000 like hello Harry speaking, and then we'd be like hello, 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:28.480 hold on, hold on, okay. 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:33.480 Hello Harry. This is Jennifer from the at O. Hi Harry, 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:34.640 it's flexing ference. 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:40.440 Hi, how are you? How are you so good? 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:43.920 Look, we have some very exciting news. We heard that 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:45.960 you applied to come to the island to see our 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:48.480 live recording, and I just will say, congratulations, you have 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:53.360 one VIP tickets. You're joking, I'm fully serious. 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:58.000 Thank you? Oh my god. 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:00.280 Well listen, I heard that you just got back from Allay. 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:01.920 Is that right? Hawaii? 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:05.800 I did Hawaii and yeah. 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:06.680 Local state. 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:12.280 Hawaii. How was it? It was so good, like the 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:16.840 first time, the first time ever? Would you go back? Oh? Yeah, 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:21.120 definitely with my family so it was like relaxing, had 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:22.080 them pay for everything. 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:25.520 Yeah. I was gonna ask, are you a NEPO baby? 0:17:25.840 --> 0:17:29.720 Hopefully not really Like I wouldn't say that. 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:32.959 That sounds very neer baby to me. That sounds like 0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:36.080 we're not rich, We're just well off. So what is it, Harry? 0:17:36.359 --> 0:17:37.160 We're comfortable? 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:43.800 Oh well, Harry, I'm so glad that you are coming. 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:44.720 You can come right? 0:17:45.920 --> 0:17:46.120 Yeah? 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:46.440 I can? 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:50.879 The third? Is it? The third? Yeah? February? See if 0:17:50.920 --> 0:17:51.480 we even try? 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:55.280 Literally, Harry, I want to ask you something intimate. Do 0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:55.680 you mind? 0:17:56.640 --> 0:18:00.520 What's the update with the schooly situation, the bedroom disaster? 0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:01.920 Have you lost a few friends. 0:18:03.640 --> 0:18:08.119 We've lost one friend that'll do it. Haven't spoke to herself? 0:18:08.320 --> 0:18:12.280 Yeah, great numbers in the whole group. 0:18:12.359 --> 0:18:15.000 Yeah, she'd left our group chat out of nowhere. 0:18:15.680 --> 0:18:17.160 Damn girl, you can't come back. 0:18:17.200 --> 0:18:19.240 There's no return once you leave the group chat. 0:18:19.280 --> 0:18:19.919 What are you going to do? 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:20.840 Yeah? 0:18:21.200 --> 0:18:25.280 Seriously, So, yeah, that's what it is. 0:18:25.800 --> 0:18:27.920 Well, she won't be on the island. We've evicted her. 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:33.199 For those of you who aren't across the gossip that 0:18:33.240 --> 0:18:36.960 we are sharing, imagine being spectators and not part of 0:18:37.000 --> 0:18:39.359 the inn joke. Harry sent in an am I the 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:42.000 Asshole a couple of weeks ago. It was about his 0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:44.840 experience at schoolies. There was a bit of a bedroom disaster. 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:47.800 You know, people want the main bedroom, the side bedroom, 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:50.440 bloody blah blah blah. What we did say is that 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:53.399 you know, feelings will be hurt, friendships will be lost, 0:18:53.520 --> 0:18:56.320 but you know it is what it is. Harry's come 0:18:56.320 --> 0:18:58.199 out on top, so that's what matters to us. 0:18:58.760 --> 0:18:59.560 That's just howpens. 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:02.919 All right, babes, we'll see you on the third Up. 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:05.040 Until then, I hope you come with some more gossip 0:19:05.080 --> 0:19:06.159 for us. We miss you already. 0:19:06.320 --> 0:19:09.119 Oh and Harry Harry, make sure you tell everyone people 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:12.480 still have time to apply. It's Friday right now. Entries 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:15.120 close on Monday, so tell everyone. Get into the group 0:19:15.200 --> 0:19:18.080 chat and say, guys, you've got two more days to 0:19:18.080 --> 0:19:21.000 do your entries. You're very high, high chances of coming. 0:19:21.200 --> 0:19:23.640 Get Harry and ask them to do things for. 0:19:25.160 --> 0:19:25.280 All. 0:19:25.359 --> 0:19:26.520 Right, babe, we'll talk to you soon. 0:19:27.600 --> 0:19:28.520 Thank you. 0:19:28.920 --> 0:19:29.360 Babs. 0:19:29.400 --> 0:19:33.080 You're listening to Flex and Frooms, Okada. 0:19:32.760 --> 0:19:35.440 Listen Flex. Something's been breaking my soul, hardcore. 0:19:35.640 --> 0:19:36.080 Nice. 0:19:36.359 --> 0:19:40.000 This is my karenism. I am a Karen. If you've 0:19:40.000 --> 0:19:41.800 only just started listening to the show, it will become 0:19:41.800 --> 0:19:44.800 abundantly clear, probably within this show how much of a 0:19:44.840 --> 0:19:49.640 Karen I truly am. But this one is actually warranted. Okay, 0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:51.560 how do I come out and say this? I take 0:19:51.640 --> 0:19:55.959