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Speaker 1: How does Tim feel about you being the breadwinner?

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Speaker 3: Hello and welcome back to the Horizon Con podcast. It

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Speaker 3: is your host, Georgie Stemenson. As some of you may know,

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Speaker 3: I'm currently on maternity leave, so Tim and I are

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Speaker 3: soaking up the newborn bubble and new parent life with

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Speaker 3: bringing back the best bits of the Rise and Conquer podcast.

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Speaker 3: We have nearly over two hundred episodes, so I thought

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Speaker 3: it would be a cool idea to bring you snippets

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Speaker 3: from the most listened to, the most talked about episodes

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Speaker 3: and just give you the best bits in a mini episode,

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Speaker 3: so be prepared to get straight into juicy topics, to

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Speaker 3: feel inspired, to feel motivated, empowered, and of course informed.

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Speaker 3: These episodes are shorter, but they're just full of the

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Speaker 3: the full episode. And I just want to say I

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Speaker 1: Show, Timothy, you'll go first, and then I'll go, Sure,

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Speaker 1: what do you admire and love mostly about me?

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Speaker 2: You're you're ambition. It's like a guest, so just grab

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Speaker 2: it out of it literally ambition. Nah, yeah, it is,

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Speaker 1: And also I think if you, for instance, you know

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's never even been a thought to my head

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Speaker 2: How easy is it? People like it? It's so complicated,

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Speaker 2: like fucking not really.

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Speaker 1: Support your partner with anything. Next one, this is a

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Speaker 2: Finally, sorry question like a six pack. I've only had

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Speaker 2: And I'm a bit of a funny one tell us.

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Speaker 1: And that's interesting because my I think it's the moon

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00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 1: rising is Gemini.

437
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Speaker 2: But towards the ball and I can be a bit

438
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 2: very star a bit of a bully sometimes a bully. Well,

439
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 2: I just like you aren't.

440
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: Tauruses like sloths like easy going.

441
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: Taurus is like the bull, is like the raging bull.

442
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 2: Very maybe stubborn, definitely stubborn. And Gemini is the chill

443
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 2: one baby.

444
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it says Tauruses are stead fast. I

445
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:29,120
Speaker 1: don't know what that means. Loyal nature signs are excellent

446
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: at maintaining systems and prioritizing consistency and reliability in all

447
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: areas of their life.

448
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: I do love consistency. And then what about Gemini type

449
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 2: and Gemini? All the people who starts on nerds on

450
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 2: here be like, what do you mean?

451
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: Gemini is the two phase playful and intellectually curious. I

452
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 1: don't know if that's you playful, true, playful. Gemini is

453
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 1: constantly juggling a variety of passions. That's the Gemini and me. Hobbies,

454
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: careers and friend groups.

455
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: I'm very social, though, so maybe that's butterfly.

456
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, quick witted twins, You're not that quick. I

457
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: can talk to anyone about anything.

458
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 2: I'm literally pretty quick witted, and when I get put

459
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 2: on the spot with a random person, I'm so quick witted.

460
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: You're pretty spot on, half tourists, half Gemini. I reckon ye,

461
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: all right, so let's see. Because the person asked if

462
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: we're compatible and we're doing a live search.

463
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: I never knows what George's She is a Leo.

464
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 1: Fiery dominant Leo love that for me, and I'm very

465
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 1: much a Leo truet.

466
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,959
Speaker 2: Like a big cat. I'll call you kitty cat, right

467
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 2: all right?

468
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 1: So I'm literally just I've looked up it says, Oh

469
00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: my god, this is hilarious. Oh this is I don't know,

470
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 1: I didn't even inter do this, but this is sexual

471
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: and intimacy compatibility. It says the sexual relationship between a

472
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 1: Taurus and a Leo can be in a way exhausting

473
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: for both of them. This is mostly due to the

474
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 1: fact that they can both be lazy. Says, while Tauruses

475
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 1: like to lie down and enjoy me, tim is an

476
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 1: actual slough so this makes likes to be enjoyed being loved,

477
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 1: Leo's like to lay down and be served. That is

478
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 1: fucking so true, It says. It is in the nature

479
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: of both signs to spend time in a horizontal position,

480
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: and it might be harder for them to agree on

481
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: who is on top do you agree with that?

482
00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 2: I agree with I'm always on top. I agree with listen, listen, listen.

483
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 2: I agree with basically, when the job needs to get done,

484
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 2: we fucking get it done.

485
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what does it even mean. It says,

486
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 1: when motivated, they can both be excellent lovers that put

487
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: a lot of energy into sexual activities. There you go. Look,

488
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: I want to just look at it in general, like

489
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: what we're talking about, not just oh there's okay, No,

490
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 1: I want like you're too much. You need to start.

491
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 2: Everyone's like it's yeah.

492
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 1: That's enough. People listening to this on like a Monday morning,

493
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: this is too much. So it says Taurus and Leo

494
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: can't seem to keep their hands off each other. True,

495
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 1: at the beginning, as fixed signs, they are sure and

496
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: urge for loyalty and stable affection. However, that doesn't mean

497
00:26:55,200 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: that you always have an easy relationship because this creates friction.

498
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, okay, So like it says, yeah, have

499
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: a very like fiery passion relationship, but it can create

500
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: friction because we're both very like dominant.

501
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: But I would say, but I would say that's we're

502
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 2: pretty compatible. Like to answer that question, like the friction

503
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: can be worked out. You know what I mean?

504
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So I've just looked out Gemini and Leo compatibility.

505
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 1: So's Gemini and Leo compatibility is naturally strong. These two

506
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: science have multiple similarities, such as their passion and love

507
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: of being social. Their difference also compliments each other well.

508
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: Confident Leo helps in decisive geminis and intelligent Geminis can

509
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 1: steady naive Leos. Don't fucking agree.

510
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 2: With it, but we'll dude, that is true.

511
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: I'm not unsteady.

512
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 2: You can be a bit sometimes, and that's where I

513
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 2: come into it. Calm you down. Did you do get

514
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 2: a bit unstated? You gotta admit.

515
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm a Leo, Tim's a bloody tourist slash Gemini,

516
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 1: and we're pretty on point with it. You're very much

517
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 1: a very mixed star sign. So it makes sense you're

518
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: born on there that on that day. Okay, interesting question,

519
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: We're getting a bit more serious. How do you grow together?

520
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: But not a part all I can say, Guys, Jim's

521
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: fucking rolling his eyes. Communication.

522
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a big one.

523
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 1: We literally make time to chat to each other. We've

524
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: had some like do you remember last year. No, not

525
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: last year, maybe the year before twenty nineteen when I

526
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: started seeing my solo psychologists and I was going through

527
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: a bit of a transition mentally, and there were a

528
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: couple of times where I had to like sit you

529
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: down and be like, look, here's where I'm at. I

530
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 1: am growing, I am moving into this person. Are you

531
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 1: with me?

532
00:28:58,560 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 2: And I said.

533
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: No? But Tim was very open and he's like, yeah, like,

534
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 1: I'm happy to meet your needs. I think that's huge

535
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: of when you're growing, even if the other person isn't

536
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: into the exact same thing, can they still meet your needs?

537
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 2: And Tim could with support Yeah. Yeah.

538
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 1: And I definitely feel like in a relationship it's me

539
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: always growing and you're going okay.

540
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 2: Otherwise I'm pretty much a chiller.

541
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'm.

542
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: Like a happy chill, you know what I am. I'm

543
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: a supportive chiller.

544
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. But we always joke that if Tim was with

545
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: someone else, like he just would not do anything like

546
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: not growing so happy.

547
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 2: I would be such a different person.

548
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: So different. I'm getting a bit saucy. Tim doesn't like

549
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: to get saucy on it.

550
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 2: I don't mind getting saucy on there at me.

551
00:29:55,280 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: Married sex life tips so sex life when you're married.

552
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 2: Tips, just do the same as before you're married. It's literally,

553
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 2: it's just a day that you sign a piece of

554
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 2: baber and nothing changes before that day or after that day.

555
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: They're saying, you know, if things are maybe getting a

556
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: bit stale, things are you know, maybe the guy's not

557
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: making much effort or the girl. What are your sort

558
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: of tips in spicing up the sex life.

559
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, I really had to worry about that

560
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 2: sort of situation.

561
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: What are you whispering?

562
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 2: I feel a bit funny talk about it.

563
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 1: But let's talk about it. Because we've been together for

564
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: nine years, like a long amount of time, and I

565
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: think also this is going back to the seasons thing.

566
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: Sometimes we go through seasons where can't keep our hands

567
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: off each other, doing it all the time and wanting

568
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: to and it just being like, yes, honestly that when

569
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: we're on holidays, don't reckon.

570
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 2: Well yeah, but that's everyone pretty sure, it's everyone everyone

571
00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 2: holidays and do that. But we'll go through stag you know.

572
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll go through stages where it's like, yeah, it's on,

573
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: it's a bit fun and like I guess, like, yeah,

574
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: just making a bit more fun. So like, you know,

575
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: doing it in different places.

576
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 2: That's actually a big thing for me. Yeah, Like I said,

577
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: just on the George always says, let's just do it.

578
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, fucking hell, how fucking born does that sound? Well,

579
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 2: let's go do it in the pool. That would be fun.

580
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 2: I don't know that. I think I'll get nervous or

581
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 2: turn into.

582
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: Let's be real and I hope.

583
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 2: Like spices it up a bit, mix it up, make

584
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 2: it a bit fun.

585
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: That I do want to say too. Also, there's seasons

586
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: where it's just like not a priority. If I'm really

587
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: busy with work and stuff.

588
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, a bit bland. You're not even thinking about it,

589
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 2: are you? No? And you think when's the last time

590
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 2: we had sex?

591
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. In saying that though, good stress relief when I

592
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: am busy. So sometimes it's just like tear I need

593
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 1: a stress relief.

594
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 2: I'll just go on.

595
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: But in regards to tips, I think it's like like

596
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: I said before, I honestly think a big thing of

597
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: like in the bedroom is like you feeling confident and

598
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 1: actually playing on this. Tim. Remember at the start of

599
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: the year when you got back into Jim. So Tim,

600
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: Tim has always been like you know, into Jim and stuff,

601
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: and then towards the end of last year wasn't going

602
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: as much.

603
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 2: Yea, six months, wasn't it.

604
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, And then he got back into Jim again and

605
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,719
Speaker 1: he was saying how he felt more interested in, you know,

606
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: having sex and that sort of thing because he felt

607
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: better in himself.

608
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

609
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: So it's kind of like, can you if you already

610
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: feel good within yourself? Amazing? If you don't, it's like,

611
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: can you feel better in yourself?

612
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 2: First?

613
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: That might then encourage your partner or if your partner

614
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: doesn't feel good in themselves, how can you make them?

615
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think that's a big thing. Also, like making

616
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: like knowing what your partner wants and like giving that

617
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 2: to your partner.

618
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. So if, for example, if I'm really stressed and stuff,

619
00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: Tim's like, let's go for a weekend away and knows

620
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: thats like when have I ever?

621
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 2: Well, it'd be more like us going on to beach

622
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: model or something like that.

623
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I guess I mean like making more time

624
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: for each other. Yeah, Okay, But also yeah, like I

625
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: think it's just depends on the person and the stage

626
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 1: of your life. But honestly, I think the huge, like

627
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: the biggest thing is like starts within yourself because if

628
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 1: you're feeling yourself and you're feeling confident, your partner will

629
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: see that and being like it will make them want

630
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 1: to do it, if.

631
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 2: That makes sense, And I also I'll chuck it in

632
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 2: there also just making time for your partner and getting

633
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 2: that just just like just a good solid connection because

634
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 2: you can just be so separate sometimes, like you said

635
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 2: on your phone at night and then it's just like

636
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 2: go to bed and it's just like you're not stimulated,

637
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 2: you're not really you're like sexually, Yeah, well you're not.

638
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 2: You know how like what you do on your phone,

639
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: it's on your phone and you're not really thinking about anything. No,

640
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 2: when you like sit down, put your phone and have

641
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 2: a conversation with that person, you like you feel you

642
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 2: feel more intimate with that person.

643
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well that's actually a big thing with me personally,

644
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,919
Speaker 1: I'm someone and it's probably not me personally. I think

645
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 1: it's women. But it's like, for example, it's very different

646
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,799
Speaker 1: with males Like Tim would just like want to puts

647
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: it in like let's just do it ready, But me,

648
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, let's have a combo, let's have a DM

649
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: Like literally I'll say to Tim if you like, if

650
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,840
Speaker 1: you know, I can't believe we're saying this on it,

651
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: but like if you're keen, like literally, sit down with me,

652
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 1: have a DM DM with me, give me some of

653
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,919
Speaker 1: your time and attention. Let's have a conversation and I'll

654
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: be ready to go.

655
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 2: Yeah you do say that, and then I'll just go

656
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 2: come on it just puts it in anyway, get on topic.

657
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 2: So yeah, big communication, just making tom for your partner

658
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 2: and feeling.

659
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 1: Confident within yourself. Yeah, okay, cool, Okay. Question do we

660
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 1: get on with each other like parents, like your in

661
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: laws and my in laws? Do you want me to

662
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 1: go first first? Yes? So are like we are so

663
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 1: I was singing this the other day. We are so

664
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 1: lucky with both like my parents and your parents, because

665
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: they're so easy to get on with, Like they both

666
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: you know, like each other and very easy, you know,

667
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: easy going and like you know, I love Tim's parents

668
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 1: and his mom and dad and I'll have a drink

669
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: with his mom and a laugh and all that sort

670
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 1: of things. So very lucky that it's like easy and

671
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: just you know good.

672
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 2: And then like with your mom and dad. So but no,

673
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:43,760
Speaker 2: it's like on the next level.

674
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 1: But now it's my parents more.

675
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: Than I literally do. But no, they're they're awesome. I'm

676
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 2: basically they said, I'm like the full son. Yeah. Now

677
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: they're super loving, just super like. Yeah, they're just grain

678
00:35:59,360 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 2: easy going.

679
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: We're both very like love the in laws and so easy.

680
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 2: So very they really they do help us out a lot,

681
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,439
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, with a lot of things.

682
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: So yeah, very very lucky to have those relationships. Interesting, Tim,

683
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: what advice would you give someone who hasn't found their

684
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: person yet? I would say, and I was actually having

685
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:25,720
Speaker 1: conversation with someone about this this weekend, but I would say,

686
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 1: you need to work on yourself and love yourself first

687
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: and be so okay with yourself and everything about your

688
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 1: life before you want someone else, because it's not like

689
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: it's not like someone you're wanting someone to complete you

690
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 1: and it's all just like rainbows and sunshines when you

691
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: meet someone and you know they're the one and whatnot.

692
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: It's like, if you can love yourself and work on

693
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: yourself and be okay with your own company and all

694
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: that sort of thing, I think that is actually so

695
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: important and almost like they all say, like when you're

696
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: having fun working on yourself, and not even like searching

697
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: you find the perfect one, compared to if you're very

698
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: like clingy to the idea of I just want.

699
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 2: To you need someone, I just want company.

700
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: I honestly think that's when toxic relationships can begin, because

701
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,280
Speaker 1: you're almost just with that person for company, not because

702
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: you know it actually works, and you ignore red flat. Like.

703
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 2: I know, we were quite young when we met, but

704
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 2: that was basically our Like I sort of broke up

705
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 2: with my ex and I was like, oh, listen, I

706
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 2: don't want to have a missus until I'm like twenty five,

707
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 2: and you were just sort of the same and it

708
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 2: just happened.

709
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, it does. It kind of happens when you're

710
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: least expecting.

711
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

712
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: I remember, like like three months before I met you.

713
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: I remember saying I don't want a boyfriend, I want

714
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 1: to go through my eighteen stage and all that sort

715
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: of stuff, and then we met and.

716
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,280
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I know, but yeah, I'll probably

717
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 2: just go on what do you say, babe?

718
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: Honestly, Tim, why do you think our relationship works so well?

719
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 1: Because we're ying, we're yin and yang. We're literally opposite.

720
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: We're literally opposite, and you know, we complete each other.

721
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: And also I think honestly the reason why our relationship

722
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: does work so well is because we both consistently and

723
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: constantly work on it.

724
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like it's not easy, Well not that it's not easy,

725
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 2: but it's like it is definitely other people's relationships and

726
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 2: I look at and I go, many, they got some

727
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 2: work to do, you know what I mean. Like it's

728
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 2: like they don't have this sort of connectional communication that

729
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 2: you or I have, And it's sort of like it's

730
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 2: really a bit of an eye opener, how like advanced

731
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:47,879
Speaker 2: we own our relationships, but.

732
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 1: I think it's like you know, that initial of that

733
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:55,439
Speaker 1: initial attraction and love and you know with each other,

734
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:58,919
Speaker 1: like I honestly believe we are soulmates in that way.

735
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: But on top of that, we do do a lot

736
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 1: of work, Like in regards to having that every Sunday

737
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,720
Speaker 1: morning we must do this, and knowing that every Friday

738
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: night we spend time together. There's a lot of relationships

739
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: they kind of maybe don't have that set time and

740
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: set time they work on each other. So it's kind

741
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: of like that whole it's like so that whole quote

742
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 1: of like when it's not even a quote, but it's

743
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: like where you put in work, that's where you know

744
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: you'll thrive and flourish. And we just I feel like

745
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: we always have made our relationship a priority. Oh we

746
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: got to Oh we gotta get a third puppy. Negative guys.

747
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 2: Puppies are like crazy, like we had Bear and then

748
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 2: like bears are good, and then Bear such a chiller.

749
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, like these dogs are so easy, and

750
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 2: then like you know, like so it's such a chiller.

751
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: And then little Billy come along.

752
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 1: Wolf.

753
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 2: Little Wolf came along a bit of a psycho, a

754
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 2: little bit different than Bear. And now because they're two males,

755
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:07,360
Speaker 2: they like to have wing contests, on competitions, anything and everything.

756
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 2: They can live their leg on.

757
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,959
Speaker 1: We've got a little girl, babe, a little Yorkie girl.

758
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: I would die. I always say to him for my birthday,

759
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, if you surprise me little

760
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 1: Yorky girl. And he's always like, it's not going to happen.

761
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 2: It's not gonna happen. Two dogs is enough, baby, like

762
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 2: in all honesty, like you would you want another third door?

763
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 2: Like no, but we be honest with it.

764
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 1: I know what you mean. Puppies. Puppies are also hard work.

765
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: Like even when we take our two dogs at the beach.

766
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 2: It's like I can take the two kids to the beach.

767
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: It's hectic.

768
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: Yeah I know, and except yeah I agree, Okay, I'm

769
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: with you, but love, how do we handle arguments and

770
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,760
Speaker 1: who apologizes first?

771
00:40:53,960 --> 00:41:01,879
Speaker 2: What we do is we'll have a yelling match. We'll

772
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 2: get the Adelaio system, probably have about a ten to

773
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 2: fifteen minute break without saying anything to anybody, and then

774
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 2: while myself or George will come into the other person

775
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 2: and say I'm sorry, no joke.

776
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: So that's even like this morning, like had a yelling break,

777
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,359
Speaker 1: didn't talk, and then we got on the beach and

778
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 1: Tim goes, are you finished being grumpy? And I was like,

779
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: have you finished being crumpy?

780
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: But in all, honestly, like what's the point in like

781
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:33,439
Speaker 2: holding a y It's just like it's it's wasted time

782
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 2: and it doesn't fix anything.

783
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: Me and Tim can be very feisty and spicy. That's

784
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: even like something our family says about like us, like

785
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,919
Speaker 1: we can be so spicy towards each other, but it's

786
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 1: just more we like what you see is what you get.

787
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: Like if we're at a family event, I won't like

788
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 1: not argue with Tim, if that makes sense. Where's like

789
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: my mum and dad they would never argue in front

790
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: of someone so very much. We'll just show our emotions,

791
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: but it's the whole We get over it so quick

792
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: and someone will apologize whoever's you know, usually in the

793
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: wrong or Tim and interesting, interesting and get over it.

794
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:16,240
Speaker 1: And I think it is it's even if like someone,

795
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: even if I'm pretty off Tim, sometimes I will just

796
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: apologize just to get it over with because I know

797
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,439
Speaker 1: it's not worth it. All right, two more questions, one

798
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: serious and then one very cute, and then we'll finish right.

799
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: All right, So Tim, this actually got answered quite a bit,

800
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: so I did want to ask it. So we do

801
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: have people wondering how did you feel Slash handle the

802
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 1: miscarriage asking for my husband.

803
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 2: M Listen, it was a bit tough, obviously, it's pretty

804
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 2: bit of a slap in the face. Like when I

805
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 2: was pretty hopeful that when your broak, I was like,

806
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 2: holy moly, like it's happening.

807
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially because dad weeks beforehand, I was told I

808
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: was infertile and.

809
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 2: So it was like such a shock for botus and

810
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 2: I was like so excited.

811
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: Can we quickly, can I quickly say about like when

812
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,839
Speaker 1: I told you about being pregnant, Oh yeah, yeah, So

813
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: I literally had booked in my boobs. I had literally

814
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: had booked in my boobs, and a couple of weeks

815
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: later told I was infertile. Infertile and if I was

816
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 1: to get pregnant, it was like not good, basically like

817
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: the baby might have deformities because of my thyroid issues.

818
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: So that happened. Literally found out I was pregnant the

819
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: week later and was like did the pregnancy test, almost

820
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: as a joke because I was talking to another girlfriend. Anyway,

821
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: long story shot called Tim was like you have to

822
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: come home right now. I was like sobbing, and he

823
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: came home. I like showed him the pregnancy test and

824
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: I was like hysterically crying, and he you were like

825
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: this is the best thing about Like this is a miracle.

826
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: Like tell them how excited you are?

827
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 2: Oh? I mean I was like so excited. I was

828
00:43:56,880 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 2: like because I Jorge, she called me I had to

829
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 2: come home from work because she was like, babe, you

830
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 2: need to come over, and I'm like fuck. I was

831
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 2: like thinking, funk, what have I done wrong? That was

832
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 2: like the way you said it, and then you come

833
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: home and then you put the pregnancy thing on my

834
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 2: face and I was like, ohly shit, like I'm so excited.

835
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 2: And then you're like crying and you're like, what am

836
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 2: I meant to do it? I was like, this is

837
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: the best thing ever, like just we're just going to

838
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 2: do it, like yeah, don't worry about it like that.

839
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: And then well, that's I think that's a very typical

840
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 1: thing of our relationship is me being like holy, like

841
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: in my head, like freaking freaking out, and then Tim

842
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 1: coming and being like, it's all good, babe, we will

843
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: we'll just work it out and work out, we'll get

844
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:36,320
Speaker 1: through this, and then him also I remember you saying, babe,

845
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: this is amazing, like this is good news, this is

846
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,840
Speaker 1: so exciting, and almost having to reframe my brain and

847
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: then I was like, yes, this is what we want

848
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: blah blah blah.

849
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so sweet. But like getting back to like dealing

850
00:44:53,960 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 2: with it, I mean, guys don't really share the emotions.

851
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 2: They sort of hold it in, and then you know,

852
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 2: I think a big thing would be let your emotions out,

853
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 2: like talk to your partner, really communicate with them, tell

854
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 2: them how you feel. And then I think that's that's

855
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 2: that's like a way of not like grieving, but like

856
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 2: definitely trying to get over such a bad situation. Just

857
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,879
Speaker 2: talking it out and yeah, I guess just being there

858
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 2: for each other in the bit of a time of

859
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 2: grieving and that's yeah, that's probably the best thing you

860
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 2: can do. Really.

861
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you were very supportive to me because

862
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: remember I was like a bit of a fucking mess.

863
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 2: You were a mess I was.

864
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,399
Speaker 1: And that's another thing too. I'm such a like all

865
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: in person, so after the initial shock, I was like

866
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:47,439
Speaker 1: all in, this was happening, and then to find out

867
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 1: that news, like I just couldn't really deal with life

868
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 1: for a while. And Tim was so supportive and like, yeah,

869
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 1: just I think like supportive for each other too, And

870
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 1: you're such like an adaptive go with the flow, what

871
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: is happening, we deal with that.

872
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,879
Speaker 2: Person, support them in. Yeah, but definitely talk out your

873
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 2: emotions and feelings, because that's the only way to get

874
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 2: them out of your system. If you just hold them in,

875
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 2: just keep thinking about them, not talk to anyone about them,

876
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 2: that's when it gets harder. You just you just dwell

877
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:14,359
Speaker 2: on them.

878
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and also Tim just let me be like

879
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 1: super upset for a while.

880
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just time. And honestly, it's just time.

881
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 1: Isn't time here?

882
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just time.

883
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, So talking about communication too, someone asks, well,

884
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 1: you guys are always good at communicating and sharing thoughts

885
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 1: with each other. No, So literally when I met Tim,

886
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: he was like a brass. He was like, yeah, there

887
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,360
Speaker 1: was no communication. And I also think kind of from

888
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: your childhood too, like you kind of just didn't I

889
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: think a typical boy.

890
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, a typical boy, and probably like more of a

891
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:56,720
Speaker 2: typical trady, you know, like it's a real blow.

892
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: Blow, didn't really express himself, didn't really talk too much.

893
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: And I remember even like because you came over to

894
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 1: my house and my family are like talkers, and I

895
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,760
Speaker 1: remember you being like, holy fuck, you really took soft

896
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: and me being like, yeah, this is normal. So me

897
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: personally growing up, it was like you ate at the

898
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: dinner and you spoke about your day and it's like

899
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: very expressive and me being the way I am, And

900
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: so at the start, Tim actually was And I remember

901
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: having conversations with him in the car going can we

902
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,320
Speaker 1: not just sit here in silence? Can we talk about something?

903
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: And him being like, oh.

904
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 2: Like I literally wouldn't know what to talk about. But

905
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 2: then there's like so much to talk about. Yeah, but

906
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 2: it was just always all in my head. I was

907
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 2: very closed mind, so close minded.

908
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And this is I'm honestly so happy

909
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 1: that we met when we were younger, because if I

910
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: had met you when you were younger, but I was like,

911
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 1: you know, at you know, similar well similar to now

912
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: in regards to what I'm like, I wouldn't have even

913
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:59,040
Speaker 1: given you a chance because I cannot deal with people

914
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: who don't communic, who don't express themselves. But that was

915
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 1: you at the start, and I remember having quite a

916
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: few conversations with you being like, Babe, we need to

917
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: talk about this, like in communication and whatnot. But you've

918
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,919
Speaker 1: gotten so much better and I almost feel like, yeah,

919
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: we're very on the same page with the communication.

920
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 2: Now.

921
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 1: Was there anything in particular that helped you in regards

922
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 1: to getting better at communication?

923
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 2: Not really, I guess, just like consistently talking. I guess

924
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 2: it's almost like a habit, isn't it, talking, Like if

925
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 2: you just really work on it.

926
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: Maybe the intentional time we do, like with beach coffee

927
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 1: and whatnot, because I think the communication. Thing with you

928
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: is Tim And this might be like a generalization, but

929
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: maybe more for males like Tim almost finds it hard

930
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 1: to hold a conversation and get quite deep. And I think,

931
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 1: going back, I'm more talking about deep conversations. I'm someone

932
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: who needs to have a deep conversation. And I meaned

933
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: him will have conversations about this where sometimes I maybe

934
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: don't seem that friendly because if we're not having a

935
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: deep conversation that I'm not interested with. Tim loves the

936
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: surface level hello conversation.

937
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:12,760
Speaker 2: Hey, yeah I do. I'm a bit of a sucker

938
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 2: for him.

939
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, like loves a surface level and I'm like, no,

940
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: if we're not bloody, you know, talking about manifestation our

941
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 1: star signs and what's the point.

942
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: But I've definitely gotten better though, so much better. And

943
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 2: when in saying that, baby, you can we can still

944
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 2: have a pretty good surface level conversation about random stuff. Oh,

945
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 2: it doesn't have to be a.

946
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,400
Speaker 1: Surface level it's because we knew how to talk to

947
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 1: each other.

948
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 2: Now, that's true.

949
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to always be about something super deep.

950
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: But I mean in regards to holding a conversation and

951
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 1: being able to communicate, which is something you never used

952
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: to be able to do.

953
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's be honest, like just being in like interested

954
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 2: in that conversation, you know, like and just just asking

955
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,399
Speaker 2: questions back, just getting a question asked you and just going,

956
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:49,879
Speaker 2: oh yeah.

957
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: I used to say to Tim, I was like, it

958
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: feels like I'm doing twenty one questions with you because

959
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: we'd be asking, like we'd be talking about a topic

960
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: and it would just be me asking questions and Tim

961
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 1: would just answer, and I'm like, this isn't a conversation,

962
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: Like you need to think of your own answers and

963
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,439
Speaker 1: your own replies and whatnot. And I think going back

964
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: to what helped is, I think it is that intentional

965
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: time where it's like we're sitting here, we're having a conversation.

966
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if you've got other stuff gone on, you're

967
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 2: just going to get distracted and it's just not gonna happen. Yeah,

968
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 2: we've even tried it so many times well not you know, yeah,

969
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 2: it's just not gonna happen.

970
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: But that's it's not even a youth thing too, because

971
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: I'm the exact same, like if I'm stressed with work

972
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 1: or something like that, like you'll be like, babe, you'r

973
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: like head's not here a sort of thing.

974
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:32,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

975
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,640
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976
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977
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981
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