WEBVTT - The Recalibration Theory: How to know if the universe is testing you 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:03.080 Before we get into today's episode, we wanted to say 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.480 a massive thank you to this episode's sponsor. 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:07.200 Last Minerals. 0:00:07.840 --> 0:00:11.960 Lust Minerals is one of Australian's favorite clean beauty brands. 0:00:12.160 --> 0:00:15.480 If you are someone who has sensitive, dry or breakout 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:19.560 prone skin, then you are going to love Lost Minerals 0:00:19.600 --> 0:00:23.840 Pro Finish Foundation. It's breathable and it won't clog your paws. 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:28.320 It also contains superfood ingredients to actually look after your skin, 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:31.520 so it's not just a band aid. It hydrates and 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:34.440 it nourishes your skin while you wear it, keeping your 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:39.120 skin hydrated and so glowy. Now let's get into the episode. 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:42.239 I would like to acknowledge the traditional owners of the 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:45.760 land on which this episode is being recorded, the Komboom 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:46.400 Marry people. 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:47.360 We pay our. 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:51.479 Respects to elders, pass, present and emerging and extend that 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:55.280 respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. Today 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:02.920 I'm your host, Georgie Stevenson and this is the Rise 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:11.160 and Conquer podcast. This is the podcast where we chat mindset, 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:15.240 self development and becoming your higher self. Mix soon with 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.000 a lot of laughs, plus behind the scenes of my 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:21.720 life running two businesses and being amom. Think of us 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:24.880 as the perfect combo of brunch with your besties mixed 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:28.280 with self development. No matter where you are in your journey, 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:31.560 we're here to help you be curious, pull yourself out, 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:33.920 and embrace radical self awareness. 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:37.120 If you're ready to get into the. 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:40.720 Driver's seat of your own life and stop letting life pass. 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:42.679 You by, then you're in the right place. 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:54.920 Today we are chatting about recalibration and I even just 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:58.880 love this word. And this episode came to me when 0:01:58.960 --> 0:02:01.880 I was flying to Perth for the Terry White Conference, 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:06.520 and honestly, Tier, every time I fly, I swear I 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:09.040 then send a tear like all these notes. 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:10.320 And they're amazing every time. 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:13.200 It's honest, and then a tear because it was like 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:15.720 a couple of weeks now and a tea just read 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:18.079 them out to me and I was like, I can 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:19.720 you read it arch me because I honestly don't remember 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:20.119 what I wrote. 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:21.400 And then she read it arch me and I was like, 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:23.000 oh yeah, but it's like. 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:26.120 Things get channeled through me while I'm in the air, 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:27.840 so it's a whole vibe. 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:29.760 I love it. But anyway, getting. 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:32.079 Back to it, I was thinking about this episode and 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:38.080 this month and rise. We are talking about realignment, and 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:46.160 alignment is obviously that feeling of ease and flow and 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:51.840 getting back to a spot in your life where you're like, oh, 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:55.720 I'm in the vibe. Things are good, You're feeling yourself 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:58.600 like it feels really really good. And then when things 0:02:58.720 --> 0:03:03.760 aren't in alignment, it's difficult. It's hard, things are happening 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:07.000 to you that you're like, what the hell. And I 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:09.440 was kind of thinking about, you know, what can come 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:13.120 up when you're between these two stages, And I was 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:18.200 thinking about this concept of recalibration, and this is the 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:24.679 concept of when you're moving from being unaligned to be aligned, 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:30.079 and there really is this recalibration, you could almost say 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:35.960 this limbo stage where you need to hold your own 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:40.600 you need to trust, and you need to prove to 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:44.400 the universe that it's like, no, what I declared, what 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:47.840 I got clear, and what I wanted, I do want 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:52.960 and I can hold the energy. So the thing about 0:03:53.000 --> 0:04:00.120 this stage, though, is it's uncomfortable. It's usually like recalibration 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:04.880 is we're going from being somewhat comfortable even if it's 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:08.800 not what we wanted, and we're moving on a more 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:13.840 aligned path. But often things need to happen to shape 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:15.520 us into the person we need to be to be 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:19.720 on that more aligned path, or things need to not 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:23.479 happen to make sure we're not on the path like 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:28.239 where we were going. So sometimes it's not not that great. 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:33.880 And also I truly believe there's these moments where things 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:38.400 need to happen so it shows us the work we 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:41.280 need to do, the healing we need to do. 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:45.080 I actually I saw this quote of. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:48.760 The people in your life are here to mirror to 0:04:48.920 --> 0:04:52.839 you what you need to heal. And that is why 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:56.520 we get triggered by, you know, the closest people around us, 0:04:56.839 --> 0:05:00.000 because really they are just showing us parts of ourselves 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:03.000 that we need to heal that we don't like that 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:07.160 you know, we need to evolve. And this is what 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:09.719 I kind of think of when I'm talking about this 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:14.320 concept of recalibration. It's the sticky stage, it's like the 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:18.400 not so great stage. But the amazing part is when 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:24.040 we go through recalibration, you know you're on the right path, 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:27.280 like you're just about to get into alignment, you're just 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:30.680 about to get into flow, and things are about to 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:31.719 feel really good. 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:33.880 So I really like to. 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:38.000 Be like, oh, this is such an exciting moment. And 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:40.799 so that's the concept I want to chat about today 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:41.120 a tea. 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:46.480 I'm so excited for this one because I feel like 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:52.480 this is the part where people give up. Yes, That's 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:55.720 why I want to talk about it, because people go, well, 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:58.640 it's not for me because it's feeling really hard or 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:00.760 it's really difficult, it's really uncomfortable. 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:03.120 But I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no, you're 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:04.120 so close. 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.640 Yeah, and it's hard because it's about learning the difference 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:10.520 between am I in a moment of limbo and recalibration 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:13.760 or is this actually not aligned? And like learning that 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:17.240 barrier of like okay, no, this this actually is not aligned, 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:20.200 or if I just push that one little bit further, 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:22.239 it's going to fall into place in like ten minutes 0:06:22.360 --> 0:06:22.719 or something. 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:24.760 Yes, yeah, you just have to hold on. 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:28.640 And like I kind of have an example for this 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:33.440 of to be very like vulnerable and transparent with you guys. 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.359 I'm currently in a bit of a limbo stage, so 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:39.360 this is this is very interesting. Of course it's come 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:41.960 up though, So I'm in a bit of a limbo 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:48.160 stage because I have really been leaning into this new identity. 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:53.440 So my previous identity that feels really comfortable and really 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:59.240 good is Georgie as an influencer who is also a 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:04.159 business owner who's also a mum, And really like, that's 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:06.840 what I really have leaned into the last couple of years. 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:10.720 So even though you know I do run two businesses, 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:15.640 I also very much and I'm an influencer where I 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:19.760 post most of my day. Yeah, and I'm posting content 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:23.600 every single day, which is there's people who that is 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:26.880 literally just their job. So there's influencers who full time 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:30.720 influence who post their day, who log who do reels, 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:32.360 but that's their only job. 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:33.480 But I do that. 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:38.120 Plus I run into other companies and now a third 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:41.960 we'll get to that. And it's really interesting because I 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:45.720 just have notice and it's because I absolutely love to 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:46.040 do it. 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:46.480 Yeah. 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:52.040 I love creating content. I love sharing content because for me, 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:56.840 content is a story and I truly believe storytelling is 0:07:56.880 --> 0:08:02.080 the most emotive and inspirational way to get messages across. 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:03.480 And I really believe I was. 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:07.000 Put on this earth to get messages across and to 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:11.200 move people and impact people and make them have aha 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:15.480 moments and to make them realize things about themselves and 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:18.320 to be a mirror a lot, you know, for them 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:23.800 realizing you know, parts that they need to illuminate or parts. 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:28.120 That they don't like. I'm so happy to be your projection, 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:29.320 so happy. 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:33.400 So it's really like that's why I've never ever had 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.840 an issue with also being you know, quote unquote influencer 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:39.960 and sharing so much of myself. A bit recently, I 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:43.800 you know, have been thinking about things and a lot 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:46.800 of things have come up where you know, me and 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:50.480 Tim would love to expand our family, you know, maybe 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:52.560 close to the end of the year or like in 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:57.120 the near future, not anytimes, but you know, like we're 0:08:57.160 --> 0:09:01.640 talking about second baby, Like, yeah, conversations up. Also, me 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:06.520 and Cooper recently became co owners in Summer Skin, which 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:11.320 is an all natural, clean, simple effective skincare company. So 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:15.280 you know, I'm expanding myself in my business interest because 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:18.480 I also truly believe I was put on this earth 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:23.520 to help other small businesses because if I can help, 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:27.400 you know, you not make the mistakes that I made 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:31.240 in my businesses. Like I really am passionate about that 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:34.360 side of things too. So you know, things are evolving 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:38.040 for me, things are changing, and I'm noticing that the 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:42.160 whole being an influencer where I post every single part 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:45.440 of my day and every single piece of content is 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:48.880 starting not to feel as good as it used to, 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:54.079 just because of capacity and it not being as sustainable 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:56.960 for my energy. And also it's just like a shift 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:59.480 in what I want to share and instead of like 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:03.400 posting every single day and really like bearing all, it's 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:06.240 like I want to be really intentional about the content 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:09.640 I create. Yeah, So anyway, I'm having these thoughts, and 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.680 so I've started putting out this vibe to the universe 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:16.839 of like, I want to step out of this influencer 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:20.439 identity and I love doing identity work. That's really where 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:22.760 I thrive for myself personal development. 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:24.199 So stepping out of. 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:28.559 This like influencer vibe and really stepping into my archetypes 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:33.000 of being a business woman sharing content but in a 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:36.960 very intentional way and a bit less like how I 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:40.000 used to do it and just a different way. And 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:46.960 also being less dependent on social media in general for business, 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:50.080 because as much as social media is such a huge, 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:54.080 you know, marketing channel for business, I don't think it 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:57.600 should be the only one. If Instagram died tomorrow, I 0:10:57.600 --> 0:11:01.240 would hope that my business is still would be fine, 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:04.560 would be fine, and you know, thrive. So that's even 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:07.600 another concept I've been playing with with my belief system. 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:10.240 And I think because I did start with a personal 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:13.760 brand and then start my businesses, there are some funky 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:16.840 beliefs around well I only have my businesses because of 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:21.600 my personal brand, et cetera. And but the actual you know, 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.400 what I choose to believe and what I embody is 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:25.520 I would have. 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:27.079 Made these brands. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:30.760 I would have continued to you know, go and do 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:33.640 what I love, no matter if there was Instagram or not. 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:34.760 Yeah, for sure. 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:38.760 And so it's interesting. So this is like the whole 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:42.560 process in my mind. And so I have been like 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:46.079 playing with the new core beliefs of like I don't 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:48.840 have to be on social media, because there's also this 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:51.240 weird thing of like, well if I'm not on social media, 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:54.120 am I going to be less relevant? And you know, 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:58.880 those fear based thoughts. And I've been really playing with this, like, 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:02.199 you know, not having to be dependent on social media, 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:06.599 not having to still be sharing every single day and 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:09.880 every single moment of my life and what does that 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.200 mean and what do I want it to mean? And 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:14.040 you know, that's all my own belief work. 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:15.920 So I've been leaning. 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:17.720 Into that and I really feel like I am stepping 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:21.120 into this new identity of like business woman. I also 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:26.560 recently did a speaking gig for self Events, and I 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:31.280 spoke out the International Women's Day event and I loved that, 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:35.880 Like I've really loved captivating an audience talking about something 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:40.160 I'm passionate about and seeing them being moved, seeing them 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:45.040 feeling something, and leaving that day being like, oh wow, 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:48.840 I learned something. I have tools and that really like 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:52.360 lit something where I'm like, oh, like do I also 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:56.240 want to step into this like speaking vibes, you know, 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.520 like you know all these thoughts are coming up anyway, 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:06.640 so really telling you all you are sharing all the secrets. 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:08.679 I'm sharing all the secrets, but when am I not? 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:12.400 And anyway, So that's kind of like that's the vibe 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:16.679 for me being very honest. And it's interesting because I 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:21.000 had this moment where I was posting it on Instagram 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:24.480 and I noticed my engagement on my stories, which is 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:29.000 I have amazing if I don't say so much, amazing 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:32.360 engagement on my stories because that's where I'm most active. 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:35.720 And I noticed the engagement going down, and I was 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:40.000 really like taken aback because my feelings was like, oh 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:42.880 my god, are people not interested in my stories anymore? 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:48.160 You know? Again, a lot of limiting beliefs, like fear beliefs, 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:53.760 And I had to catch myself and remind myself of 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:58.160 what we're talking about today, of recalibration of Oh my gosh, 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:02.040 I declared to the universe I asked for I want 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:04.760 to be less dependent on my social media. I want 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:08.280 to be able to step into these new archetypes and identities. 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:13.719 And then you know, I have basically evidence where. 0:14:13.880 --> 0:14:17.520 What you want to happen beginning to happen, and you 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:18.960 don't like it totally. 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:21.640 And I had a small freak out, and then I 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:25.800 had to remind myself, but if you're leaning into these 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:28.800 new beliefs where you're not dependent on social media. 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:30.000 Why does it matter? 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:31.200 Yeah? 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:34.880 And so I had to really fell into am I 0:14:35.040 --> 0:14:39.360 the old identity where something like this would matter and 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:44.680 would be concerned? Or am I that future version of myself? 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:48.320 Am I that new identity where why would I even 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:52.640 care about this engagement because I'm not dependent on social media? 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:52.960 Yeah? 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:53.760 And it means nothing? 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:57.560 So how interesting? Because I honestly like the engagement I 0:14:57.640 --> 0:14:59.800 was like, this has never happened before, and I had 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:01.840 this moment and then I had to be like, oh 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:06.000 my god, Georgia, this is literally the universe showing you. 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:09.840 It's like it's veering you. This is perfect, is actually 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:13.880 exactly what you ask So lean into it. And so 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:18.320 I actually journal journaled about it on the plane and 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:21.080 I felt into it and I was like, no, this 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:26.240 is so amazing, Thank you, Universe, grateful, et cetera, et cetera. 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:30.360 And it's funny because literally the next week my engagement 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:33.480 went up plus some and I was like more engaged 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:33.880 than ever. 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:38.000 But it was it was just such a beautiful, like lesson. 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.280 Yeah, because I think so many of us we ask 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:47.000 for something, there's this recalibration period where we get actually 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:50.080 evidence of that new identity, but we're still the old 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:50.920 identity and. 0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:51.640 We freak out. 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:57.520 But can you hold can you trust or. 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.920 Will you block it from happening because you're scared? 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:00.720 Yeah? 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:04.200 And will you go into old patterns? And so that's 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:07.920 the opportunity I had in that moment. I had the 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:13.000 opportunity to act how I would previously, which would maybe 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:15.120 let me try and think what I do previously. 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:17.840 You know, maybe previously. 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.800 It would be Oh my god, I've got to be 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:20.720 on stories more. 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:22.640 I've got to do poles. 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:25.400 I've to be you know, you know, like god something 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:26.680 for people to tap on the screen. 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:28.480 Yeah, I've got to fucking put the time. I got 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:29.160 to use the Instagram. 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:33.560 But honestly, it's like a lot of people would go 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:35.360 to that and be like, well, how do I get 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:39.680 the engagement back? But it's going back into the old identity. 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:45.680 So even though you're not there yet, the manifestation hasn't happened, 0:16:46.200 --> 0:16:49.360 or you're not in the new identity, can you make 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:54.200 that decision from your future self instead of your you know. 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:55.200 Previous self. 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:58.400 And that it was just such a clear moment to 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.560 me that I was like, oh wow, the universe works 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:07.520 in such beautiful, beautiful ways. And I think sometimes it's 0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:12.560 those moments that really make the difference with your manifestation 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:17.560 coming to fruition and leaning into your dream life. Because again, 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:22.720 if you can't make decisions from that embodied self, from 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:26.400 that future self, when are you ever going to make 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:27.280 those decisions? 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:31.600 What would maybe be your top tip or like top 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:35.879 thing that someone could do when they're in that recalibration 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:40.760 period to figure out is this a recalibration and not 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:45.919 a test but like a test, yes? Or am I 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:48.560 barking up the wrong tree. Well, first of all, you've 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:50.960 got to be clear on what you want. So go 0:17:51.119 --> 0:17:54.760 back to like the overarching what's the end goal? What 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:57.120 have I actually asked the universe. 0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:57.720 For what I want? 0:17:58.200 --> 0:18:01.680 Go back to that, and then say if I already 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:06.040 had that, if I already was that person, would I 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:11.240 be worried? Would I feel fear? Would I actually be dysregulated? 0:18:11.320 --> 0:18:16.240 Would I feel unaligned? Because in my like in my 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:21.959 you know example, if I saw my engagement go down, well, 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:24.399 would I be worried? Well, no, because I'm not dependent 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:27.240 on social media. Yeah, so then I know it's. 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:27.800 Not even a thing. 0:18:27.960 --> 0:18:32.760 Yeah, I have a smaller, like a bit more everyday 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:36.240 example of this happening. If you listen to the podcast 0:18:36.320 --> 0:18:38.000 last year, you'd know that I was really working on 0:18:38.040 --> 0:18:43.359 my routine. Bit of a broken record about it. But 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:45.840 I got to a point where I felt like being 0:18:45.880 --> 0:18:49.959 so structured wasn't actually serving me anymore. And I said, Okay, 0:18:50.119 --> 0:18:52.879 I've mastered being structured. I know I can do the 0:18:52.920 --> 0:18:55.960 same thing every day. I need to now get to 0:18:56.000 --> 0:18:59.000 the next level and be more flexible, Like I need 0:18:59.040 --> 0:19:01.480 to get to the point where if things come up, 0:19:01.680 --> 0:19:04.359 I still get my non negotiables done in a day. 0:19:04.520 --> 0:19:07.880 It feels easy, it feels flowy. I'm not stressed. It's 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:09.720 like I don't have to go to gym before work. 0:19:09.800 --> 0:19:11.280 I can go to gym after work. 0:19:11.560 --> 0:19:13.200 I don't have to get to work at six thirty. 0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:15.640 I can arrive at seven if it feels better that day. 0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:22.919 And all of a sudden, everything just came flying at me. 0:19:23.520 --> 0:19:24.720 And I think I had. 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:28.280 Three weeks where it was just insane, Like I think 0:19:28.320 --> 0:19:31.080 that was the time we were filming the TV commercials. There 0:19:31.160 --> 0:19:34.680 was like long recording days, heaps of shoots outside of work. 0:19:34.720 --> 0:19:36.800 This person wanted to catch up. This party was on 0:19:36.840 --> 0:19:40.040 this weekend, This milestone event was on that weekend. Oh 0:19:40.080 --> 0:19:41.600 my gosh, I don't have time on the weekend, but 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:43.119 I really want to see you. So let's do like 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:47.479 a Tuesday night. And just everything came at once, and 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:49.960 I was just like, what is happening? I just got 0:19:50.080 --> 0:19:53.800 my routine downpat and I can't even stick to it anymore. 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:59.240 And but you asked for but I asked for hate 0:19:59.240 --> 0:19:59.800 When that happened. 0:20:01.640 --> 0:20:06.240 And I also realized that that also compounded another thing 0:20:06.280 --> 0:20:09.399 I'm working on that I'm still working on, and that 0:20:09.520 --> 0:20:11.200 is like my all or nothing mindset. 0:20:13.320 --> 0:20:14.160 That's big. 0:20:14.359 --> 0:20:17.520 Yeah, And that's like a big one that I'm learning 0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:20.159 lesson in a few different areas of my life is 0:20:20.200 --> 0:20:22.480 that it can't be all or nothing. 0:20:24.720 --> 0:20:26.760 I love that realization so much. 0:20:26.800 --> 0:20:30.400 Yeah, even going back to your example, like with your 0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:33.120 question of like how to know if it's just this 0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:36.600 limbo recalibration or if it's like, oh, this is not aligned? 0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:40.000 Is again you having that. 0:20:39.920 --> 0:20:43.879 Realization of like, oh, wait a minute, I did ask 0:20:43.960 --> 0:20:48.480 for this, so I do want to say if it 0:20:48.840 --> 0:20:51.800 But in that situation, if you're like, but no, I 0:20:51.880 --> 0:20:56.000 don't want this, you then just ask for something else. 0:20:57.119 --> 0:21:01.080 So again, it could be the universe showing you being like, 0:21:01.880 --> 0:21:02.480 but do you. 0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:05.119 Actually want this? Interesting? 0:21:05.280 --> 0:21:08.120 And so it's like it's reflecting to you what you've 0:21:08.240 --> 0:21:11.479 asked and you being like, hmm, do I yeah, do 0:21:11.520 --> 0:21:13.960 I actually want this? It's kind of like remember that 0:21:14.119 --> 0:21:17.600 story I told so long I think I told it 0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:20.800 in a training actually of I wanted to work with 0:21:20.840 --> 0:21:24.480 a certain brand. Yeah, and then I started working with 0:21:24.560 --> 0:21:28.160 that brand and it was like a really horrible experience. 0:21:27.920 --> 0:21:30.280 And it was kind of like the universe like being 0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:34.760 like is this really what you want? Yeah? Is this 0:21:34.840 --> 0:21:37.919 really what you want? And I was like god no, yeah. 0:21:37.960 --> 0:21:41.600 And again that's a moment where it's like, oh, this 0:21:41.680 --> 0:21:43.639 isn't just like a limbo stage. 0:21:43.680 --> 0:21:47.120 This is showing me what I actually don't want. It's 0:21:47.119 --> 0:21:51.240 like a taste test. A taste test totally. I love that, 0:21:51.680 --> 0:21:52.480 so that that. 0:21:52.400 --> 0:21:56.000 Could be something where it's like like it's you're like 0:21:56.119 --> 0:21:59.359 being like, no, I do want to be a routine Galli. 0:21:59.560 --> 0:22:02.880 Yeah, that's actually I love looking at it that way 0:22:02.880 --> 0:22:03.919 because then you're not locked in. 0:22:04.240 --> 0:22:08.440 Well that's even something like you've got to get used to. Well, 0:22:08.440 --> 0:22:11.840 this is literally why we created the Rise app, and 0:22:11.880 --> 0:22:17.960 they're like small bite size activations, pep talks, meditations, journaling, 0:22:18.520 --> 0:22:23.920 because you should really be checking in with yourself, reflecting 0:22:24.119 --> 0:22:29.359 and doing this work daily weekly, Like it shouldn't just 0:22:29.440 --> 0:22:33.280 be do you know you're manifesting six week manifesting course 0:22:33.280 --> 0:22:36.359 and then you're set for life, Like you really need 0:22:36.359 --> 0:22:40.320 to be doing this work constantly because a tea imagine 0:22:40.400 --> 0:22:43.000 if you know, the universe is showing you basically what 0:22:43.040 --> 0:22:45.840 you don't want. But because you never reflect in journal 0:22:46.240 --> 0:22:47.760 or do any of this work, it. 0:22:47.800 --> 0:22:49.199 Just keeps feeling like that. 0:22:49.520 --> 0:22:52.119 Yeah, so it's like, this is the beautiful thing about 0:22:52.119 --> 0:22:56.040 this work is like you get to constantly check in, 0:22:57.000 --> 0:23:01.280 get clear and realign. And that's what doing alignment currently 0:23:01.600 --> 0:23:04.480 this month in Rise and it's like you get to 0:23:04.840 --> 0:23:09.159 constantly realign. And the beautiful thing about alignment is like, 0:23:09.560 --> 0:23:12.480