1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Fearlessly Failing Hot Seat. In this EPP, I 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: fire rapid questions at one of our fearlessly failing guests. 3 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: Ps. I'm gonna be honest with you. 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: I'm not so good at the rapid part. I get 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: too intrigued by the awesome answers. Now a new EPP 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: is going to drop every Wednesday, so enjoy this shortest 7 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: style episode of Fearlessly Failing Hot Seat. 8 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 2: Welcome for the hot Seat. Doctor Gina Cleo. 9 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: Such a good name, this isn't it, author the Habit Revolution. 10 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: I'm about to get you to sign my copy, but 11 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: first we're going to do a hot seat. 12 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 2: So these are fun questions. It's rapid fire. 13 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: And for people that haven't listened to the Monday episode, 14 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: go and listen to this beautiful long form interview that 15 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: we've just done. 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 2: It was so fun, right sweet or savory? 17 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 3: Sweet? 18 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 2: Okay? 19 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: If you could have a last sweet meal, what would 20 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: it be? 21 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 4: Easily a custard pie, like a Portguguese custod p. 22 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 2: Oh, so that's really your favor. 23 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 4: I would drive all the way to the farm and birrons. 24 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 4: They are big, gigantic, they're like three them. Don't judge me, 25 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 4: I will eat the whole. 26 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 2: Thing as you should. 27 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 3: No. 28 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 2: No, they're designed single zero one. 29 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 3: Thank you very good. 30 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: Matt also loves their sausage rolls. 31 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 3: Oh they are so good, the pork and fennel. 32 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's his fame. 33 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I think Man and I have similar 34 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 3: taste buds. 35 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: It sounds like it sounds like if you had a 36 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: favorite city, what would it be? 37 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 3: My favorite city? 38 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 4: Oh? 39 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 3: Would be Oh my god, there's so many. 40 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 4: I've done a lot of travel over fifty countries. 41 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 2: You can list a few, you can give me the 42 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 2: top three. 43 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 4: I'm so bad at these reper fire things because I'm like, hmm. 44 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: Like I get so in my head about like what 45 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: about do you have an Australian city that you love 46 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: gorkas you love Goldie? 47 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I live there, I love it. I can give 48 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 4: you countries. I love Italy, Yeah, I love Israel. Yeah, 49 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 4: and I really love Ireland. Maybe there's a thing in 50 00:01:58,200 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 4: the eyes. 51 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 2: Oh, I think I really want to go to Island. 52 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 2: I've not been. 53 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 3: It's pretty awesome. 54 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 2: Does it feel a bit Game of Thrones vibes? It does? 55 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 4: And the weather totally leans to it as well, And 56 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 4: like just the you know, they've got these like roof 57 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 4: things that are like thatched roots. 58 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's the right word. But there's like a 59 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: romance to them or something. 60 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,839 Speaker 3: They're amazing. Island's beautiful and the culture is fun. 61 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've got it. It's on my I'm dating 62 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: an Italian. I've not been to Italy. Oh my, I know, sure, 63 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: I know. 64 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 3: Does he make really good covenar? 65 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: He makes everything good? Okay, So what about now? Okay, 66 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: so I've done yeah, city nature spot. Oh I love 67 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: the beach and I also love the forest. 68 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 2: Me too. 69 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't make me choose between them. About the mood, 70 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: I'm the same, but I think I would pick forest 71 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: if I was you know, someone said and then I 72 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: heard this thing, it's probably monarchy, but if you love 73 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 1: the forest, you don't have a fear of death. 74 00:02:58,720 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 2: And I was like that. 75 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: Tracks Okay, I mean darker, I don't know, scary, but 76 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: I find it like endearing and like, yeah, I love it, 77 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: like I love it, yeah totally yeah. Okay, So okay, 78 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: so you like both beef and forest. Okay, what about you? 79 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: If you could have a superpower, what would it be? 80 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 4: Oh okay, my superpower would be to either fly yeah, 81 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 4: or I think I'd want to be invisible. 82 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 2: They're the most common answers. 83 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 3: What would you say? 84 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: So, I've no one's ever asked me, but I would, 85 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: I reckon. I would probably like to do something where 86 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: I could something with a mind, like helplines, or do 87 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: something with minds. 88 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 3: Or our own mind of someone else's. 89 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: I like that I've been able to heal or help 90 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: or do something to like or you can you could 91 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: read someone's mind and know what is wrong with them 92 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: and then heal them or something. 93 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 4: That's so generous. Mine's like, I just want to fly 94 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 4: so I can go to Italy for lunch. 95 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 1: Someone said shape shift and they were like, if I 96 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: could shake shift into an eagle, I feel like. 97 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: That'd be good. 98 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 3: That would be really cool. 99 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: Actually yeah, And they were like, oh yeah, I want 100 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: to shape shift into all these different people. 101 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 2: I was like, no, no. 102 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 4: Captain animals like an ethical issue. It was like identity 103 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 4: that do you have a favorite you sound like because 104 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 4: you like voices and whatnot. 105 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite song that you're just like, Oh. 106 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 4: Oh, I was busting out to Beyonce on the way here. 107 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 4: Oh and again, I'm such a phase person. Like if 108 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 4: you ask me my color or food, like it changes 109 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 4: right from week to week. So at the moment, Beyonce 110 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 4: like the real like the live, busting out voice. 111 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 1: That's my favorite because isn't her live now? You can 112 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:41,679 Speaker 1: go see the movies really and I'm definitely in America. 113 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: My Ala friends have been going her most recent. 114 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 3: Show amazing also come out here. 115 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 4: I'll let you know, okay, But my favorite voice of 116 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 4: all is Russell Crowe. Oh yeah's a great voice and 117 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 4: his voice, especially in the Gladiator like melted me. 118 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: Do you know Chris Hemsworth was getting an Actor Award 119 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: last year and he's like, that's how I watched you 120 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: and that's how I set my voice. And I was like, oh, 121 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: I love that you just admitted that, mate, because your 122 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: voice is iconic too. 123 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 124 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 2: All the Hemmies have great voices. 125 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 4: They really yeah okay, oh yeah? Do they match up 126 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 4: to Russell's a bit? 127 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 1: There's there's there's a like I always said this word wrong, 128 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: but like gravitas or something that his voice has. I 129 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: interviewed one of my favorite voices ever, Owen Teale. He's 130 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: a Welsh actor. He's the Baddie of Game one of 131 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: the real baddies off Game of Thrones and his voice 132 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: is like delicious. 133 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 2: Oh. I was like, I don't need to ask questions, 134 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 2: talk to me voices. I fully feel you. 135 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: Okay, do you have a movie that you're just like 136 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: I could watch this. I know it's not a fair question, 137 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 1: especially to. 138 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 4: Like people, I know, do I have a movie? I'm 139 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 4: gonna have to say The Gladiator. 140 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 2: That's a brilliant movie that it's. 141 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: The only one that I've watched like over and over. 142 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: I know all the words and that soundtrack, Oh. 143 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 3: My god, sometimes I listen to it. I've got that. 144 00:05:58,320 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 3: I sit in my sauna and I listened to him. 145 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 4: This is People would be like, you have issues because 146 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 4: why you listening to this really sad song? 147 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 2: But I love it. 148 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: Do you also do you write to music when you're 149 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: writing a manuscript or working? Yeah? I do because I find, yeah, 150 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: soundtracks the best thing, yeah to listen to. 151 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 2: When I'm writing. 152 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's like does something to your 153 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: brain waves? 154 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 2: Focus? 155 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 156 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, it depends on the music. You can't have like 157 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,679 Speaker 4: beats in it because it can like distract you. Yeah, 158 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 4: but yeah, that's so like things that have sort of 159 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 4: like brown noise or that hummy. 160 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 2: Kind of brown noise. 161 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 3: Brown noise is you know. 162 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 4: White noise. It helps you, like with sleeping. Brown noise 163 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 4: helps with concentration, so it's it slows down distractive brain 164 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 4: waves and sort of helps you to focus. Super cool. 165 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 4: And I think it's like the duller. It's a duller tone. 166 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 2: Mate. Can we just be friends? Place? 167 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 4: This is? 168 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 3: We already are? 169 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 4: I mean we're about to eat Italian food. 170 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's so good. You've got to come 171 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 2: down and visit. We'll have to cook or something. 172 00:06:56,279 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: My final question is for somebody that is new to 173 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 1: building new habits, what is something that they could start today? 174 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: And it can be the same answer you gave them 175 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: the long form because this is a separate interview. 176 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm going to say to be really clear about 177 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 4: what it is that you actually want to achieve, whether 178 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 4: it's creating a new habit or breaking an old one, 179 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 4: and why it matters to you. Does it truly align 180 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 4: with your value systems, with your identity, with your lifestyle. 181 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 4: There's absolutely no point trying to change something if it's 182 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 4: going to be so far out or you don't actually 183 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 4: intrinsically care about it. It's only going to work short term, 184 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 4: so I think, really sit with yourself, like, come home 185 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 4: to yourself, be like do I actually care about this? 186 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 4: And why do I care about it? What will my 187 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 4: life look like with it or without it? And is 188 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 4: it worth the effort? Because there's a cost to change 189 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 4: and you have to be willing to pay the price 190 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 4: for it. 191 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: Oh, my love that when you went out with a 192 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 2: real bang then, didn't you? 193 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought you'd like that one. 194 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: No. 195 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: The Habit Relution is available now at link in the 196 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: show notes to get yourself a copy. 197 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: I am so wrapped to have. 198 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: This, this book, and I'm going to be taking it 199 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: with you where I travel as a little check in 200 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: and a barometer. 201 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 2: So thank you so much, thank you so good.