WEBVTT - MINI! Could you get a luxury bag for being pretty?! 👜

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<v Speaker 1>Now we all love a freebie in our lives, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like everyone gets a bad day turned around if you

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<v Speaker 1>get something for free, like a free coffee or free.

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<v Speaker 2>Juice or a hundred possessions when you win something. Laura,

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<v Speaker 2>it used to be like the radio price pig. So

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<v Speaker 2>she's always cool up radio and get free stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>It was how my love of radio started. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 3>was surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're a kleptomaniac now, so it all ties in.

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<v Speaker 1>It ties in now. The reason I bring this up

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<v Speaker 1>is because I'm a bit conflicted. I love to scroll

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok at the end of the day. Every night I

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<v Speaker 1>lie in bed, nice scroll TikTok. And there's this account

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<v Speaker 1>that I always see. It's this beautiful young woman living

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<v Speaker 1>in Europe and she goes around, finds different men in

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<v Speaker 1>social situations. She's got one of her friends secretly filming her.

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<v Speaker 1>She approaches the man, she bats her eyelids. She's wearing

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<v Speaker 1>a gorgeous outfit, she's got a face full of makeup.

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<v Speaker 1>She looks really beautiful, and she starts with a simple conversation, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you how's your day going. Then she hits

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<v Speaker 1>them with a question, can you buy me something. It

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<v Speaker 1>can be a lunch snack, it can be a sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>It can even be items as big as a d

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<v Speaker 1>or or a Mark Jacob's handbag. Have listened to it

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<v Speaker 1>to this video.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm Leila, Yes, I'm not so I have to confess

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<v Speaker 4>I did come over here with a little question.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, I've been having like a really tough day.

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<v Speaker 2>There's like a Mark Jacob's pop up like over that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm wondering if maybe, like you'll be able to come

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<v Speaker 2>there with me and like get me.

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<v Speaker 1>A big or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's so sick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So she's she's using i mean pretty privileged to

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<v Speaker 1>get free stuff and posting it online.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>My question here, though, is like who is it fault?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it the guy for being silly enough to buy something,

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<v Speaker 4>or is it her for being so manipulative that she's

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<v Speaker 4>doing it in the first place.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, look, don't as don't get so like she's

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<v Speaker 2>she doesn't she's shooting her shot. The person doesn't have

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<v Speaker 2>to say yes, And I would think if someone is

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<v Speaker 2>saying yes to buying somebody an expensive designer bag, that

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<v Speaker 2>person has a ridiculous amount of money because the average

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<v Speaker 2>person isn't going to yeah, a couple of grand well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how much they are, but like people

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<v Speaker 2>aren't just throwing that money around totally.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think that this relates to other things like

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<v Speaker 4>girls at bars and stuff who are like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>just like buy me a drink, and then they're using

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<v Speaker 4>that they have no interest in the guy whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's different if you're using.

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<v Speaker 4>Flirtation and you're kind of trying to trick someone, You're

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<v Speaker 4>feigning as though you're interested in them and manipulating them

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<v Speaker 4>almost to spend their money on you. I think that

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<v Speaker 4>that's really mean. Yeah, so uncomfortable, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't compare the two. I don't compare

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<v Speaker 2>a design a handbag to a totally dollar like rum

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<v Speaker 2>and coke from the local.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't been out in a while.

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<v Speaker 3>Inflation really hit. I don't know why that drink. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not like happy hour, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Old rum and coke from the ri.

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<v Speaker 1>You're such a country girl, and I can I can

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<v Speaker 1>I say something that I've noticed. I've recently lost forty

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<v Speaker 1>kilos and I do look physically different, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little bit of a glow up. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>amazing in myself but I have genuinely noticed a difference

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<v Speaker 1>in the way people treat me and talk to me

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<v Speaker 1>in everyday life.

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<v Speaker 3>It's because because we look you in the eye.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, yeah, you guys actually remember my name. I was

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<v Speaker 1>Michael for about six months.

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<v Speaker 3>In what way, Mitch, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean AI am single, yes, But the attention

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<v Speaker 1>from men. I never had attention from guys, from gay men, ever, ever, ever,

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<v Speaker 1>no one ever showed any interest in me. I was

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and sixty kilos. I was a big boy.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not have any and I had many friends.

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<v Speaker 1>But like that sexual chemistry that you know when you're

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<v Speaker 1>being flirted with, you know, I never had that. Now

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm forty kilos down and you know, a jawline

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<v Speaker 1>has appeared out of nowhere, men are more flirty with me,

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<v Speaker 1>even conversations in the street, in the workplace.

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<v Speaker 2>Mitch, I think genuinely, and I totally appreciate what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I think genuinely. The biggest thing I have noticed, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think it all relates, is yes, you are smaller

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<v Speaker 2>physically forty kilos, but the difference in who you are

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<v Speaker 2>and the energy you put out is huge. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like you're more open to these conversations now, Like you

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<v Speaker 2>probably don't even realize, but you put out a brand

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<v Speaker 2>new fire confidence that makes people want to come and

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<v Speaker 2>approach you, whereas before you probably didn't put that energy

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<v Speaker 2>out for people to approach you, and you weren't single,

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<v Speaker 2>so you again weren't putting that energy out. Brett.

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<v Speaker 4>I completely agree with this and the other part as well,

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<v Speaker 4>and something that I don't think you were that conscious of.

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<v Speaker 4>But when you were bigger, you used to always punch

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<v Speaker 4>down on yourself. You would always make jokes about your weight.

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<v Speaker 4>You have always, yeah, but it was self deprecating to

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<v Speaker 4>the point where it was constantly put down. And I

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<v Speaker 4>think when you do that about yourself, you also then

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<v Speaker 4>make it okay for other people to do it. When

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<v Speaker 4>you're constantly making yourself the butt of a joke, people think, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>you're cool with that, like we're cool with making jokes

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<v Speaker 4>about your weight or your size, and so people would

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<v Speaker 4>do it without realizing how much it hurt your feelings

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<v Speaker 4>because you were already doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>And now I think I agree with you, Britt.

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<v Speaker 4>There is this like ridiculous confidence that come, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>along with the weight loss, has been this new Mitch that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of come out as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. I do think there is though a bias

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<v Speaker 1>in the way that society looks and treats.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, I agree, But.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just funny who you are now, Like, now you

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<v Speaker 2>walk in and you're like, I'm so tired. I stayed

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<v Speaker 2>up all night because so many people are my depre overflowing.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, can I just address the elephant in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you guys just flirting with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Then kick that up?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what?

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<v Speaker 3>Rum and cokes on me? They're so cheap. Alright, let's go.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, we'll see tomorrow everyone, guys,