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<v Speaker 1>Here we go the pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a bit of a somber mood because our very

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<v Speaker 3>own Matildas were knocked out of the FIFA World Cup

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<v Speaker 3>last night, which is not the outcome they wanted, not

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<v Speaker 3>the outcome we all wanted.

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<v Speaker 2>But we could not be prouder of our girls. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it's sad that.

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<v Speaker 3>They didn't make it through, but also still history making

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<v Speaker 3>incredible to watch, an incredible how much this has changed

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<v Speaker 3>women's sport forever.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie. I cried. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>have a cry now reliving it. And I am just

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<v Speaker 2>a spectator.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't imagine the emotions that they are going through,

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<v Speaker 3>and they're mixed emotions. Obviously they're so disappointed, but they

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<v Speaker 3>must be so proud of themselves and each other as well.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's yeah, you know what, I'm sad because we

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<v Speaker 3>may not get a public holliday anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not getting the public holidays. It's not happening.

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<v Speaker 2>I was hardly on hope for that one.

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<v Speaker 1>We may not be. No, no, it's not all right

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<v Speaker 1>to break it to you, but that ship is sad.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm calling it sick anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>But truthfully, how many people can say they watched a

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<v Speaker 1>game of women's soccer before this year? It has changed

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<v Speaker 1>it for everyone. It's incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>It's changed history one hundreds and we're so proud of them.

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<v Speaker 2>We're very, very very proud of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, Moving right along, we have a really interesting predicament today.

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<v Speaker 3>We have an ask gun cut where you guys, a

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<v Speaker 3>listener calls in or writes in with their problem.

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<v Speaker 2>And today's one is so tricky.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a co parenting, stepmom, blended families question. And I

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<v Speaker 3>think a lot of OSSI's will relate to this or

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<v Speaker 3>have been in a similar situation. Yeah, I mean we

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<v Speaker 3>have the stepmom calling in. They always get painted. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a bad guy, don't they.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, evil stepmom and all the Disney movies it's always

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<v Speaker 1>the evil step mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well maybe not that evil after all.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll get around here at the pick up.

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<v Speaker 4>Ask our pat.

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<v Speaker 2>So askun Kat is a show favorite.

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<v Speaker 3>We do it every Thursday and it's where you, guys,

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<v Speaker 3>you call in with your deep, your dark, your biggest

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<v Speaker 3>problems and we do our best to answer them.

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<v Speaker 2>Now we have a really, really hard one today.

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<v Speaker 3>We have Tanya on the phone and she is having

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<v Speaker 3>some parents, some problems co parenting with her partner's X.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Hi Tanya, welcome to the pickup.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey guys, Hi, Hi Danielle Danye, what's happening.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just kind of co parent with the narcissist luck

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm on the other end and it's my partner's

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<v Speaker 5>ex wife. So I'm seeing it as the female watching

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<v Speaker 5>the male get completely screwed, and you know, his children

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<v Speaker 5>are being taken away from him and used as financial pawns.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm realizing how powerless I am. But like men

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<v Speaker 5>in these co parenting situations, I got them at a

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<v Speaker 5>very young age, extremely close. So this has only kind

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<v Speaker 5>of happened over the last year or so. Were so

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<v Speaker 5>actively involved and we had them for so long and regularly,

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<v Speaker 5>and then all of a sudden when they I guess

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<v Speaker 5>became of age. It was just they were manipulated and

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<v Speaker 5>they believe that they were only financially benefited for us,

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<v Speaker 5>and we don't have them anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>So how old were they? And then what happened a

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<v Speaker 3>year ago? Like what changed?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>So their preteens kids test both parties. We get that

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<v Speaker 4>we were acknowledged like one of the kids were lying.

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<v Speaker 4>We thought we would address it. The other party had

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<v Speaker 4>basically shared that information and manipulated this situation to go, Well,

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<v Speaker 4>they've gone through your personal devices, they've caught you out,

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<v Speaker 4>and now they're like, well, I don't want to come home.

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<v Speaker 3>So when you say the kids are being used as

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<v Speaker 3>financial pawns and against you in what capacity do you

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<v Speaker 3>mean there is the ex trying to get more money

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<v Speaker 3>from you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah, so obviously through your child support you the

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<v Speaker 4>kids have to stay a certain amount with the dad

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<v Speaker 4>for them to I guess be considered as a contributor.

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<v Speaker 4>Is not the dads have to pay more child support.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, how do you think that she's trying to manipulate

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<v Speaker 3>the kids to want to stay with her more to

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<v Speaker 3>get more money.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not think it's one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that all you can really do in this

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<v Speaker 3>situation is the kids are going to look back and

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<v Speaker 3>remember how they were treated by whom at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you are constantly not showing these kids that

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<v Speaker 3>they are loved and supported and you know you will

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<v Speaker 3>do anything for them, and they feel safe, then that

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<v Speaker 3>is going to be powerful enough. When the time comes

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<v Speaker 3>and the other mum is telling them these stories against

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<v Speaker 3>you trying to manipulate them, they're like, well, we actually

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<v Speaker 3>have an amazing time when we're with them that we

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<v Speaker 3>feel so loved and so safe. I know that they're

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<v Speaker 3>preteens and maybe it's changed, but from my understanding, I

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<v Speaker 3>grew up in a separated household. We had to do

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<v Speaker 3>shared parenting with my dad. Even at preteens, you don't

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<v Speaker 3>really have a choice around where you are at. It's

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<v Speaker 3>still too young to make that decision for yourself, and

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<v Speaker 3>so there should be some If you're not able to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to get parenting access because that's being denied

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<v Speaker 3>to you, there should be some other ways in which

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<v Speaker 3>that can be.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to go so far as say man data,

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<v Speaker 2>but there are rules.

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<v Speaker 3>Around it where you know the kids are going to

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<v Speaker 3>be co parented between the two houses, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>in order to have that opportunity to have face time

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<v Speaker 3>with them so that when they are with you, they

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<v Speaker 3>know that they're not in trouble, because that seems like

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<v Speaker 3>that's a big thing, is that they're so worried that

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<v Speaker 3>they're going to get in trouble if they're at your house,

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<v Speaker 3>but having them there to exactly as it's said, like

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<v Speaker 3>reinforce that they're not in trouble, reinforce that the love

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<v Speaker 3>is consistent and that it's not conditional based on the

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<v Speaker 3>way that they're behaving or what they're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>And I guess the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Big thing is is you can go through these periods

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<v Speaker 3>where you think that this is going to be a

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<v Speaker 3>static but in a year's time they will be older.

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<v Speaker 3>The situation will continually change as they get a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit older and as their understanding of everything changes too,

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<v Speaker 3>And I think the only thing you can be is

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<v Speaker 3>consistent with your love and your your adoration of them.

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<v Speaker 3>And also last thing, kids, even if they're yours or

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<v Speaker 3>their step children, it doesn't matter at that preteen early

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<v Speaker 3>teen age, they hate you regardless like every kid goes

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<v Speaker 3>to that moment where they're going to hate their mum

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<v Speaker 3>and they rebel and it does come back around, and

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<v Speaker 3>it will because you sound like an amazing parent. So

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<v Speaker 3>that's also I know you feel horrible, like you're the

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<v Speaker 3>horrible step mum, but we've all literally, I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>especially females but like girls, we all go through it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard on Alan because you know we have and

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<v Speaker 4>obviously you have to go back to courts now.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, the problem they do have their stay once

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<v Speaker 5>they're past twelve, so it's hard because they miss them.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, like the dynamics of our family have changed,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, the pressure on our marriage, trying to support

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<v Speaker 4>that relationship when these beautiful minds are being manipulated and said,

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<v Speaker 4>it's it's horrible to think that that's what they're growing

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<v Speaker 4>up to believe.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's tough to keep us updated. Okay, our thoughts

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<v Speaker 2>Situation, Yeah, it really isn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, guys, we're back after this. Here on

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<v Speaker 1>You guys have all heard a flubber right for.

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<v Speaker 6>The movie Yeah Green babylis with a.

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<v Speaker 1>Tummy so good? But have you heard of fubbing?

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<v Speaker 7>Sounds sexy? Fubber actually sounds quite un sexy. It's a

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<v Speaker 7>new trend that is emerging, especially in relationships. A new

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<v Speaker 7>study that has come out of the US has investigated

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<v Speaker 7>the effects of fubbing, which is snubbing your partner by

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<v Speaker 7>using he's the pH your phone.

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<v Speaker 6>Fu abbreviate everything. Yeah, no, here's what fubbing is. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>because I think you're both guilty of it. They enlisted

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<v Speaker 6>seven hundred and twelve married couples with an average of

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<v Speaker 6>thirty seven years old. That's how old they were, so

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<v Speaker 6>similar ages to us in the room. They were then

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<v Speaker 6>surveyed on their marriage satisfaction, fubbing tendencies, and communication skills.

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<v Speaker 6>The results came back grim couples who can't put their

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<v Speaker 6>phone down and who fubb each other led to marital

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<v Speaker 6>dissatisfaction and divorce.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that, yes, fubbing as a thing, but like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's just ignoring your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hold on, let me give you the signs that

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<v Speaker 1>you're a fubber, because these have come out of the university.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you all are ticking many of these boxes. Britain

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<v Speaker 1>more whatever. Signs that you're a fubber. You always have

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<v Speaker 1>your phone out when you're with your partner in your hands.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a partner that lives in the same hemisphere.

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<v Speaker 3>She's on her phone because she's on the phone to

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<v Speaker 3>her partner.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, most of your conversations with your partner are

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<v Speaker 1>kept short because you're often scrolling your phone. Short conversations.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I'm on my phone a lot, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>on it for social media? Does that matter? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what about this?

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<v Speaker 1>You fill in gaps in conversation by checking your phone.

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<v Speaker 2>No, so many people do it in everything, and people

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<v Speaker 2>do it with everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what about this? When you're watching TV together, you

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<v Speaker 1>go on your phone in the ad break instead of

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<v Speaker 1>talking to each other.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how I can answer these because Benley's

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<v Speaker 3>on the other side of the world. But what I

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<v Speaker 3>do notice is that I can What would it be

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<v Speaker 3>called inter fub inter fubbing, international fubbing. What international fubbing,

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<v Speaker 3>it's the interfub I can fub on the phone to band.

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<v Speaker 3>So sometimes this happened last night. Actually, I was on

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<v Speaker 3>a FaceTime to him on the iPad, so my phone

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<v Speaker 3>was free, and I was emailing because I had to

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<v Speaker 3>do some work emails at nighttime. And I was emailing

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<v Speaker 3>and still trying to have a conversation with him, and

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<v Speaker 3>he actually said after about forty minutes, he goes, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just gonna go call me back when you're free.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I am free. He's like you're not.

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<v Speaker 2>You're working.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like that's cool, but like call me back. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was like no, I want to put the phone

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<v Speaker 3>down to talk to him. And then every part of

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<v Speaker 3>me wanted to press send on the email.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like trying and not letting me be like send.

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<v Speaker 2>I could just see it sitting there.

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<v Speaker 1>You he fubbed him. Wow, guys, just stop fubbing your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a conversation. It's not that hard. I fubbed my partner.

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<v Speaker 1>My partner fubbed me.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to have fed you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you fugged him. I fubbed him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yet I think it's good if you're if you feel

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<v Speaker 3>like this is something that you do in your relationship,

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<v Speaker 3>it's too much, bitch. If it's something that you do

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<v Speaker 3>in your relationship, You've got to have rules, so like,

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<v Speaker 3>past a certain point of time, put your phone away,

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<v Speaker 3>or if you're watching a movie together the phones go

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<v Speaker 3>into other rooms. I think you have to have especially

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<v Speaker 3>if you're someone who's so easily distracted by social media

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<v Speaker 3>or by scrolling, you just have to have time with

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<v Speaker 3>your partner where your phone is not on you because

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<v Speaker 3>you can't be you can't be expected.

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<v Speaker 2>To have self but even our special time has to

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<v Speaker 2>be on the phone. Here go to break.

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<v Speaker 1>The pickup. Welcome everyone, britt, Laura and Mitch. Here rush

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I have a confession and an admission to make.

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<v Speaker 1>You're rocking in your chair, can you hear brittain panther.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm liking this. She's going to make an admission.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And it's upsetting to me because I know it's

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<v Speaker 3>going to make you both very happy. Because it's something

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<v Speaker 3>you have been hounding me on for a long time,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've always denied it.

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<v Speaker 2>My dog Delilah has some very toxic traits.

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<v Speaker 1>My God, that takes such self reflection.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. She's been doing the work.

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<v Speaker 1>Dailah hasn't because she's a shit of a dog. But

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<v Speaker 1>your Australian Terrier has beautiful blue eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>Who cares? She's naughty. She's very naughty. My dog Delilah

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<v Speaker 2>is a beautiful dog.

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<v Speaker 3>But everyone in you too, mainly You've always got problems

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<v Speaker 3>with her behavior, what she does, and I have always

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<v Speaker 3>defended it and said she's not that bad.

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<v Speaker 2>She's great at home.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I have taken this on very seriously, like she's my child.

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<v Speaker 3>I've always been offended at your disdain, but I do

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<v Speaker 3>admit her disdain. Delilah is the equivalent of a really

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<v Speaker 3>attractive person in a supermodel, you can get away with

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<v Speaker 3>being a bit of an asshole because they're so hot.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. She's that in a dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys. We went to your house on the weekend, Laura.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got my ear pissed. It is one day

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<v Speaker 1>from healing there. It is just about to close up

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<v Speaker 1>and be a brilliant ring. And I'm sitting on the

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<v Speaker 1>couch at your house eating some beautiful dip and Delilah

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<v Speaker 1>comes up behind me and licks my ear lobe and

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<v Speaker 1>sucks my open wound on my lobe. Now it's infected.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you should be thanking her, Mitchchuri, because dogs so

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<v Speaker 3>Liva has anty biotics sit.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why. It's why they lick wounds. So what she did,

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<v Speaker 2>it's going to eat meat.

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<v Speaker 1>There's not one dog in any hospital around the world

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<v Speaker 1>licking I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I have trained her to sniff out a wound and

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<v Speaker 3>she will lickically. Okay, That I think is very very

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<v Speaker 3>vanilla in comparison to the fact that Lola, my two

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<v Speaker 3>year old, is sitting there eating her sandwich. Her dog,

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<v Speaker 3>our dog, Buster, is sitting there being very placid, just

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<v Speaker 3>looking hoping for treats. Delilah has her heckls up and

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<v Speaker 3>is going to attack Buster to get Lola's food. And anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>you ended up dragging her through the house by the

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<v Speaker 3>collar to get her away.

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<v Speaker 2>From the kid and the dog.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, look, some of her toxic traits are. She no

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<v Speaker 3>longer eats normal food. She will leave kibble, She'll starve.

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<v Speaker 2>Herself to day.

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<v Speaker 3>She'll starve herself out until I give her salmon, tuna, fish,

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<v Speaker 3>a tea, bone steak.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>She takes the ball at the park.

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<v Speaker 3>She runs, picks it up, she doesn't fetch it, brings

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<v Speaker 3>it deep into the bushes she can go so I

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<v Speaker 3>can never retrieve it, then walks out without it.

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<v Speaker 2>Least does it with other people's balls too, does it

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<v Speaker 2>with other people. Very toxic.

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<v Speaker 3>She looks directly in the eye meat, directly when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>telling you to do something, high five, sit, go on

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<v Speaker 3>a bit, anything she knows.

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<v Speaker 2>She looks directly at me, looks through me. It completely

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<v Speaker 2>ignores me.

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<v Speaker 1>Toxic.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very toxic, very troublesome. We've had some callers. We've

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<v Speaker 2>had someone calling with their toxic traits. Make me feel better, Katrina.

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<v Speaker 1>Thirteen, Katrina, what's your dog's toxic trade?

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<v Speaker 8>So my Roody and I can say that any other

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<v Speaker 8>rot wheeler parent an that would be listening would agree that.

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<v Speaker 9>He has to be attached to me by his butt.

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<v Speaker 8>So he even if he's like running, he's running out

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<v Speaker 8>towards me for a hug, and then he'll like go

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<v Speaker 8>turn around and then back into me and have his

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<v Speaker 8>butt on me, and sometimes if I if it because

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<v Speaker 8>he's trying to sit down, he ends up wiping his

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<v Speaker 8>butt pole down my leg.

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<v Speaker 6>He's just trying to territory it does he means to

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<v Speaker 6>Katrina toxic what he's doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's a yeah, toxic, toxic thanks Steph thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>six five. What's your pet's toxic trait?

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<v Speaker 9>We don't have any children at home, and we have

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<v Speaker 9>to have a baby gates throughout the house because Pervoodle

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<v Speaker 9>runs off of the sox in any bit of clothing

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<v Speaker 9>that might be loose. And if we drop one out

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<v Speaker 9>of the washing machine before we've noticed, she'd already collected it.

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<v Speaker 2>What does she do with it?

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<v Speaker 4>We're trying to bitehole.

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<v Speaker 9>We have a lot of foxs from holes and them

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<v Speaker 9>a lot of random box now none of them really

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<v Speaker 9>match up. And if I tell her off, then she

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<v Speaker 9>runs past my favorite house plan and bites down on one.

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<v Speaker 3>Leap you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, delicate, Yeah, you don them to bite them? Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, But have you thought maybe she's trying to

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<v Speaker 2>put your clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>Away for you, Daniel who used to try and steal

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<v Speaker 3>dirty undies out of the washing basket and but through

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<v Speaker 3>those that's a whole other type of top.

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<v Speaker 1>My dog Hamish loves a tampon, but that's a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>for another time.

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't you women sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I live with women.

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<v Speaker 3>For the reason. I think the conclusion of this is

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<v Speaker 3>is that Delilah is canceled and Delila.

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<v Speaker 2>Is basic work.

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<v Speaker 3>If there's anyone out there, any dog trainers, literally slune

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<v Speaker 3>my dam all right, let's get out of here.

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<v Speaker 9>My