1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,720 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARBFM dot com 4 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:20,959 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buggel up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry. Let up. 10 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject my success is intimidating. Dear Stephen Shirley. 11 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: I'm thirty seven and never been married. I was in 12 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: a four year relationship and when I got promoted, my 13 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: boyfriend left the relationship. We met on an online dating 14 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: site for professionals, and we were compatible on so many levels. 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: He is an administrator at his job and I was 16 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: a team leader. When we started dating. I wanted love 17 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: and he provided that. But he also added a lot 18 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: of competition to our relationship. When I get dressed in 19 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: the morning to head out to work, he'd say I 20 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: looked powerful instead of beautiful, and he would tell me 21 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: to boss up if I complained about stress at work. 22 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: He treated me like he was my mentor and I 23 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: was beneath them professionally, but I actually made more money 24 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: than him. Then I got a promotion and a company car, 25 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: and he overheard me telling my mom what I'd be 26 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: making annually. He insinuated that I was too close to 27 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: my boss and that's why I got a promotion. We 28 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: argued for days, and then he moved out. Since we 29 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: broke up, I've had a few dates, but I haven't 30 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: found a man that matches me intellectually or financially. One 31 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: guy told me that my success is very intimidating. I 32 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: wish men could see my sweet and nurturing side, but 33 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: as soon as I tell them what I do for 34 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: a living, they decide that I don't have time for 35 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: a relationship. I have thought about telling guys that I 36 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: have an entry level job, just to see if they 37 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: would ask me out again. There are so many these 38 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: sides of me, and I would hate to have to 39 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: diminish all that I am to satisfy a man. My 40 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 1: ex married and art teacher go figure. So are women 41 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: expected to bet our eyelashes and act needy to get 42 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: a husband. That's true for insecure, controlling men. If you 43 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: want that for your husband, they do try to compete 44 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: with you and knock you down a few pegs, But 45 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to dim your light or make yourself 46 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: smaller for any man. A real man would want you 47 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: to be all that you can be and would support 48 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: you every step of the way. He would celebrate you. 49 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: Relationships are supposed to be partnerships that lead to marriage 50 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: or whatever, and unfortunately a lot of women do dumb 51 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: themselves down to get a man. My advice to you 52 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: is simply to be yourself. Don't change who you are, 53 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: shine brightly, wait for the right man to come along 54 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: and to accept you for who you are a strong, 55 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: confident woman. I mean, the people at your job see it. 56 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: Why can't he? Why can't your ex see it? Steve? 57 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 3: Real men are not intimidated by women, period. 58 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 59 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 3: Real men are not intimidated by women. 60 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 2: Period. 61 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 3: Now, if you're dating an underdeveloped man, that was your pick. 62 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 3: You picked him. So listen. I understand the narrative that 63 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 3: women have created. And this is more or less about 64 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 3: an open discussion between me and the ladies on the. 65 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 2: Show, because this letter. 66 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 3: Is how many times have we heard this that women 67 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 3: live under the guys or the illusion or delusion that 68 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 3: men are intimidated by your success. Now I offer this 69 00:03:51,360 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 3: to you, sometimes men are not intimidated but ashamed. Sometimes 70 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 3: men are not where they want to be and are 71 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 3: a bit embarrassed by it when they find out that 72 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 3: you are, and because it becomes a bit of shame 73 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 3: and embarrassment. 74 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 2: But there are so many women that. 75 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 3: Have taken this and turned it into I intimidate them. 76 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 3: And I guess that was a fair thing for you 77 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 3: all to say, because. 78 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: It sounds empowering. 79 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 3: But I want to just offer you an alternative line 80 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 3: of thinking. And if you had this alternative line of thinking, 81 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 3: it can help you cope with it. Now, Steve, why 82 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 3: women always got the dumb it down? 83 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: And figure this out? 84 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 3: You do want to wrote the letter in and say 85 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 3: you want somebody. I ain't never wrote a letter in 86 00:04:56,880 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 3: and said I wanted nobody. So now if you want somebody, 87 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 3: there's a game to this. 88 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 2: There's some gamesmanship. 89 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 3: It's gamesmanship that men have to play to get you, 90 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 3: and you know it. And it's things that you require 91 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 3: and you know it. So when something gets required of you, 92 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 3: some type of gamesmanship, you ain't got to get mad 93 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 3: at Uncle Steve because he telling you the game. 94 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to help you with the game. Now. 95 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 3: I could use this letter, which I think i'll do, 96 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 3: but I wanted to say that first so we could 97 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 3: get on the same page. I really want women to 98 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 3: understand this. Y'all met online for professionals, and we were 99 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 3: compatible on so many levels. He's an administrator. I was 100 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 3: a team leader. I wanted love and all this here. 101 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 3: When I got dressed in the morning the head to work, 102 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 3: he'd say I look powerful instead of beautiful. He would 103 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,239 Speaker 3: tell me the boss up. If I complained about stress 104 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: at the work. He treated me like my mentor, and 105 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 3: I will beneath him professionally. You the one went on 106 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 3: this dating site for professionals. That's where you went. You 107 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 3: looked for people with similar mind sex. You want a 108 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: professional man, but what you oftentimes forget is a lot 109 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 3: of men bringing their jobs home. So that guy that's 110 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 3: a professional at work, he tried. He acts like he's 111 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 3: a professional at the house too. Boss up, you look 112 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 3: powerful today. 113 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 1: Goodbye. All right, we'll have part two of your response 114 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: coming up. Steve At twenty three minutes after the hour, 115 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter, subject my success is intimidating. We'll get 116 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to the 117 00:06:53,320 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Holidays. It's hard to find the 118 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: right gifts, but you know it's even harder getting the 119 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: right gift. But get this. Verizon's got the perfect solve 120 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: for both. They have incredible gift bundles. You get the 121 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: latest phone with a new line on my plan and 122 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: a brand new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. 123 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: You can give a couple away and get yourself one too, 124 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: or you could keep them all to yourself. No one 125 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: has to know. Stop by your local Verizon. All right, 126 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject 127 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: is my success is intimidating. 128 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 3: Okay, I've told you the way that I want you 129 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 3: all sometimes to consider this, and I appreciate it. I 130 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 3: understand why you say it's intimidating, because intimidating is a 131 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 3: more empowering urn. 132 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 2: I'll give it to you. 133 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 3: And you've earned what you've earned, and you deserve to 134 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 3: be where you are, and congratulations. But a real man 135 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 3: is not intimidated by your success. Now, some men are 136 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 3: a shamed of where they are. So there's a bit 137 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 3: of shame when they meet a woman who has it together, 138 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 3: and a bit of what he called it, disappointment in themselves. 139 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 3: But if you want to call it intimidation for the 140 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 3: sake of the letter, Okay, so you're intimidating, I'm just 141 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 3: offering your way. So now, but I want to show 142 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 3: you something in this letter that I just noticed you. 143 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 3: So you were in a four year relationship then and 144 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: when you got promoted, your boyfriend left the relationship. Now 145 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 3: you met on an online dating site for professionals. Right here, 146 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 3: you went seeking this type of man, where you got it. 147 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 3: We would compare on so many levels. He's an administrator 148 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 3: at his job. I was a team leader. When we 149 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 3: started dating. I wanted love and he provided that. But 150 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 3: he also added a lot of competition to our relationship. Okay, 151 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 3: you're in the professional zone. Now, that's what y'all do 152 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 3: in corporate America. When I got dressed in the morning 153 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:01,839 Speaker 3: to head out the work, he said I look powerful 154 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 3: instead of I look beautiful. He would tell me to 155 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 3: boss up if I complain about stress at work. See, 156 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 3: you meet these professional men, so you think, and they 157 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 3: bring their job home because he thinks that's what you like. 158 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 3: And now that's what he trying to be. Now he 159 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 3: go to park right here. He treated me like he 160 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 3: was my mentor and I was beneath him professionally. Whoa 161 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 3: wait a minute, now hold up. Now, you either want 162 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 3: a man in charge. You want a man that was 163 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 3: shureley you can crown. You want a man that's a 164 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 3: I don't know what you want because when he acts 165 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 3: like he you minutor, mentor, and then you say I 166 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 3: was beneath him professionally, but I actually made more money 167 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 3: than him. Okay, See, you got to make up your 168 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 3: mind now. Oh, because you make more money than him, 169 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 3: he can't tell you nothing, He can't act like he 170 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 3: ment of you. He do know the male side of 171 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 3: things that he can offer to you and that you 172 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 3: may not have from female perspective. 173 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 2: Okay, but actually mail more money him. 174 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 3: Then I got a promotion and a company car, and 175 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 3: he overheard me telling my mom what I'd be making annually. 176 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 3: He insinuated that I was too close to my boss 177 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 3: and that's why I got a promotion. Oh now he 178 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 3: gonna make you think you slip your way to the tongue. 179 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 3: I understand your ankle. Like I said, systems, you got 180 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 3: your education, you did the credentials, you put your time in. 181 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 3: You deserve to be who you're gonna be. We arguing 182 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 3: for days, and then he moved out. He couldn't take 183 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 3: it no more because I think he got ashamed of 184 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 3: where you were getting to. 185 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 2: And he wasn't. 186 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 3: Because now he mentoring you getting promotions, company cars, making 187 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 3: most salary. 188 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 2: All this him. 189 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 3: Now, since we broke up, you had a few dates, 190 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 3: and I ain't found a man that matches me intellectually 191 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 3: or financially. One guy told me that my success was 192 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 3: very intimidating. I told you, real men, not intimidate that 193 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 3: this little boy you'd have met with all these little 194 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 3: hang ups in his own little life. 195 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 2: That's what he gonna tell you. I wish men could 196 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 2: see my sweet and nurturing inside. 197 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 3: But as soon as I tell him what I do 198 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 3: for a living, they decide that I don't have time 199 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 3: for me this. I've thought about telling guys that have 200 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 3: an entry level God, just to see if they would 201 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 3: ask me how to Can all right? 202 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 2: Go ahead? Try to do now? 203 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 3: So many sides of me I would hate to have 204 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 3: to diminish all that I am to satisfy a man. 205 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 3: So let me ask you a question when you say 206 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 3: you don't want to diminish all that I am just 207 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 3: to satisfy man. 208 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 2: So what are you leading with all this in the conversation? 209 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 3: Have you made this a level of importance to you 210 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 3: because you don't want you You can't find a man 211 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 3: that intellectually matches you or financially that seems to be 212 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 3: a package deal with you. 213 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 2: So now. 214 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 3: Are you looking for a good man or are you 215 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 3: looking for a certain type of man? And it's okay, 216 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 3: you got every right to want what you want, but 217 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 3: in here can be part of the problem because if 218 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 3: you're not just looking for a good man, if you're 219 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 3: looking for a good man with a certain type of 220 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 3: job making a certain amount of money, then get in line, 221 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 3: because everybody looking for him. So I'm not gonna be 222 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 3: able to help you because you've created all of the 223 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,679 Speaker 3: stereotypes that keep you right where you need to be. 224 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 3: You're intimidating to men you make more money than him. 225 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 3: How he mint her in me? Okay, I don't know 226 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 3: what to tell you. My ex maritor, art teacher, go figure, Yeah, yeah, 227 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 3: he got he married art teacher, Go figure, what's you? 228 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 2: You? You you throwing me a little bit? What's the 229 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 2: matter with the art teacher? 230 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 3: Well, oh, she ain't a professional, she ain't a team leader, 231 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 3: or she don't make the money you make. Oh all right, 232 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 3: so now you ain't happy what men make all other women. 233 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:32,599 Speaker 1: From Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram. 234 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,599 Speaker 3: And so women expected to better hour lives and that 235 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 3: needy four husband. 236 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 2: I like our last bat Oh stop that. 237 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free Heart 238 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: Radio app. We never sounded so good. You can download 239 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: it Today you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show