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Speaker 1: are you giving directions to our very special guest, Brad Cares.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited you got a little lost. But it's okay,

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Speaker 1: You and Gary make me so happy. We met in Micanos,

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Speaker 1: just Jared. So basically, we need to find Tanya someone

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Speaker 1: So I just like walk away. I'm like, that was

422
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Speaker 1: the worst performance of all the worst so thick. We

423
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Speaker 1: turned around and they're taking pictures together with people and

424
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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, yeah, we need to we gotta go

425
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Speaker 1: her way back around? Did you say like yeah, I'm

426
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Speaker 1: taking I was like yeah, so yeah, I did it all.

427
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Speaker 1: And then we take the picture and I was like

428
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Speaker 1: I try then I try to segue into like professional Tanya,

429
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Speaker 1: you know. And I was like, thank you guys for

430
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Speaker 1: like coming. It means a lot, you know. And she

431
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Speaker 1: was why we're here, Why we're here, as if we

432
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Speaker 1: were like kids at the problem like patience or something.

433
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Speaker 1: She like, we were like thank you, and she was

434
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Speaker 1: like that's why we're here. And I was like, she

435
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Speaker 1: thinks we like do the podcast from our hospital on

436
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Speaker 1: our phone, we're talking about how much we love Gray's Anatomy.

437
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Speaker 1: It was, Oh, it was the most uncool experience. I

438
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Speaker 1: have never been less. I also love that you like

439
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Speaker 1: roll up with Selas and that's what I does. You like,

440
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Speaker 1: huh like most famous person in the world, like under

441
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Speaker 1: thirty and you're like freaking out over Sara Drew. Sarah,

442
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Speaker 1: we'd like to get Sara Drew on the show. It

443
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Speaker 1: sounds like you did not make any progress in that direction.

444
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Speaker 1: Probably scared her for sure. Why don't she want to

445
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Speaker 1: be on the show. We should get her. Let's try.

446
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Speaker 1: I will think anybody who's recap that I want to

447
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Speaker 1: see if she remembers us being does previously when you're

448
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Speaker 1: on the Red Carpet and scrubs. Was there another Sarah Drewincounty?

449
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Speaker 1: She actually ended up missing her because we were talking

450
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Speaker 1: to We're probably talking like Owen or something, So you

451
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Speaker 1: did not go up to Owen at all. Avoid But

452
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Speaker 1: can I just say that all four of them, all

453
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454
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Speaker 1: One of the patients was too sick to actually come

455
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456
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457
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458
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459
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460
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Speaker 1: You have like multiple platforms to analysis to the world

461
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462
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463
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464
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465
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Speaker 1: code Becca. So we got an email from Katie and

494
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Speaker 1: it's kind of a serious topic and so we got

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Speaker 1: a doctor onto help us with this topic because we're

496
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: not equipped for this topic for Rabbit went to medical school.

497
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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Dr Sherry? Ye? Hi, good morning,

498
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Speaker 1: Hi Dr Sherry? Are you how are you? We are great.

499
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Speaker 1: It's Becca, Tanya and Brad, Mark and Easton and we

500
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: you know, we're We're very open and honest about dating,

501
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: advice and pop culture things going in the world, but

502
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,959
Speaker 1: when it comes to health, we don't feel equipped to

503
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Speaker 1: give any medical advice. Even there were Big Gray's Anatomy fans.

504
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Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear that. I'm glad to hear that.

505
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Speaker 1: That's okay, that's where I come in exactly. Um, So

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Speaker 1: we have an email that Mark is going to read

507
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Speaker 1: and we're going to get your advice on it. Katie says,

508
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Speaker 1: I was wondering if it were at all possible suggest

509
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Speaker 1: a guest to come on the show and talk. Recently,

510
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Speaker 1: I was told that I was positive for HPV as

511
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Speaker 1: someone who has always had normal pap smirrors, And she says, sorry,

512
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Speaker 1: if you're reading this, Mark, well hey, there we are.

513
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Speaker 1: I never really had to worry about getting abnormal results.

514
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Speaker 1: I can definitely say I'm not alone and receiving this

515
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Speaker 1: kind of news reports of people men and women have

516
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Speaker 1: HPV and most people don't know they have it. Is

517
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Speaker 1: there any way you could have an expert come on

518
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 1: and answer some questions about this. I never knew about

519
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Speaker 1: HPV until now, And who knows, maybe in the odd

520
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: chance that he's listening, he will want to get tested too. Yeah, definitely,

521
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Speaker 1: And she's in very good company because it is a

522
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Speaker 1: TV is epidemic. It's out there. Um, most people do

523
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: cure it and don't know it, and that is really

524
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: the problem. So your listeners is very typical. Story. Goes

525
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Speaker 1: in for a path, the doctor calls and say, hey,

526
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Speaker 1: use HPV on your path. And by the way, it's abnormal,

527
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,719
Speaker 1: and most people freak out. I mean, it's there. They

528
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Speaker 1: have no clue they've been practicing safe sex. Maybe we

529
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Speaker 1: don't really know how consistent people are wearing condoms, but yeah,

530
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Speaker 1: it's out there. It's out there. Actually, for Katie, I know,

531
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Speaker 1: I want to speak on this. It probably is way

532
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Speaker 1: t m I and I probably shouldn't be sharing. But

533
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Speaker 1: I actually did have HPV and it was I got

534
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Speaker 1: it after the guy lost my virginity too. So here

535
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Speaker 1: I am, and I lost my virginity super late in life.

536
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Speaker 1: Like for me, I was nineteen and like all my

537
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Speaker 1: friends were like having sex at fifteen sixteen, and I

538
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Speaker 1: was very protective and I was like, you know what

539
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Speaker 1: I mean, Like, so when this happened to me, I

540
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Speaker 1: was like and at the time, I was so young.

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Speaker 1: This was before like anybody had ever known any thing

542
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Speaker 1: about it, So I was like, what the heck, Like

543
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Speaker 1: I just I literally went to the dark place. I

544
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Speaker 1: was like, I'm so dirty, I'm so this How could

545
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Speaker 1: this one the one guy that I that was my

546
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Speaker 1: boyfriend that I had slept with, How could he do

547
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Speaker 1: this to me? When you're not educating, you don't know

548
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Speaker 1: and it comes to such a shock, like I literally

549
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Speaker 1: like went to like the dark place. I was like,

550
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Speaker 1: I'm dying. And it's the complete opposite. Like first of all,

551
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: guys don't even know that their carriers, so most guys

552
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Speaker 1: don't even know to how many of I don't know

553
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: what the percentages, but there's just a lot of that

554
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: you don't even see symptoms. So I never had any

555
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Speaker 1: symptoms physically. It was all just in my past mirror.

556
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Speaker 1: And you have to treat it like a common cold,

557
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Speaker 1: So you just have to like I just had to

558
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Speaker 1: eat healthy and like kind of fight like just make

559
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Speaker 1: my immune system better. It's common, but I think that,

560
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Speaker 1: you know, the big question mark always comes is that

561
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Speaker 1: how did I do it? I'm so careful. Men, unfortunately,

562
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Speaker 1: they don't have equivalent to a PAP smere. In fact,

563
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Speaker 1: they probably rarely go to the doctor unless they're really

564
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Speaker 1: really sick. You know, women, we're getting our paths every

565
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Speaker 1: year and so we're checking for HPV on every passt

566
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Speaker 1: mare for most people. So men, of course they're not

567
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Speaker 1: being checked. They don't show symptoms, you know, if they're

568
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: wearing condoms, condoms which not most people aren't doing consistently.

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Speaker 1: Men are are basically the reservoir for HPV. So even

570
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Speaker 1: though you were virgin, you know you're this partner of yours,

571
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Speaker 1: I'm sure he might have had other partners. He could

572
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Speaker 1: unknowingly be carrying HPV passing on to you. And even

573
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Speaker 1: if you were and I'm hoping you practice safe sex, right,

574
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: good job, But this just goes to show you that condoms, unfortunately,

575
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Speaker 1: don't mean that you're not going to get it. Because

576
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: the condoms slip off, it doesn't always cover the base

577
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: of the penis. It can HPV can be on the testicles.

578
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Speaker 1: So even if you're doing your due diligence with safe sex.

579
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Speaker 1: You still can get it. Yeah, Okay. One more mail

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Speaker 1: A medical email just quickly from an anonymous listener. This

581
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: is completely different medical situation, but she's involved with a

582
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Speaker 1: guy who has hydra nitis supertiva. It makes him flare

583
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: up all over his face. He has to be in

584
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Speaker 1: a strict diet and we're band aids to stop the

585
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: boils from leaking. He's very insecure about it, only feels

586
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,760
Speaker 1: comfortable around his friends, some of his family, my family.

587
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: Sometimes I wonder if I'll be able to deal with

588
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Speaker 1: this my whole life. I feel like God has chosen

589
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Speaker 1: me to help him out through this, but I get

590
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Speaker 1: angry that we both have to deal with this disease?

591
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Speaker 1: Am I wrong for thinking this way? What should I do? See? Well,

592
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Speaker 1: you know this is the skin a dermatological skin condition

593
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Speaker 1: where you do you get these It's like cystic acne,

594
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Speaker 1: but they're they're almost a little bit more um um

595
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Speaker 1: just like or boil like um. It's you know, unfortunately,

596
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Speaker 1: it's just you know, they tend to happen easily before

597
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Speaker 1: the age of like thirty. Um. Women actually get it

598
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Speaker 1: more than men. I see a lot the vagina, and

599
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: you know it can be treated with things like um utane. Uh,

600
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Speaker 1: it's hard to treat actually, and it's just more of

601
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Speaker 1: sort of a chronic condition that can be you know,

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Speaker 1: very painful, embarrassing and these you know, like hair follicles

603
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Speaker 1: block get blocked and get inflamed. You know, it's it's

604
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Speaker 1: very painful. So but she can't contract it from him,

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Speaker 1: which is sort of the good news. Um, but there

606
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Speaker 1: are some some special dermatological doctors that take care of

607
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Speaker 1: it better than others, so treatment can can work to

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Speaker 1: help at least minimize the symptoms and discomfort. You're the

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Speaker 1: best doctor, sher. Thank you so much anytime. Yeah, thank

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Speaker 1: you for being here. I thank you for people feel

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Speaker 1: encouraged to ask any questions they have and maybe we

612
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Speaker 1: can have you back on the show. I mean, safe

613
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: sex is always an important topic. People are not practicing

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Speaker 1: it enough. Uh. I would love to talk anything, not

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Speaker 1: anything you want. Thank you, Dr Shring. Sorry was that

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Speaker 1: like way tim I that I shared that I was

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Speaker 1: laughing because you were saying everything. Oh no, she was like,

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Speaker 1: what's crazy though? Is I feel like I could have

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Speaker 1: answered this email on my own because because I did

620
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Speaker 1: because it did happen to me so young, and it

621
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Speaker 1: was like it was when I tell you, guys, it

622
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Speaker 1: was one of the most traumatic experiences of my life

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Speaker 1: because here I am saving my virginity for this man

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Speaker 1: that like and it's actually I found out that he

625
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Speaker 1: was cheating on me and it was like the darkest time.

626
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Speaker 1: But I was I became so educated on the topic,

627
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Speaker 1: and like by the time by the time I graduated college,

628
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Speaker 1: I felt like I was like the hpv hen of

629
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Speaker 1: my sorority because everybody ended up having it at some

630
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Speaker 1: point in the four years and I was like the

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Speaker 1: one going to the guy to college just with them,

632
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Speaker 1: and like, I just feel really knowledgeable about this topic

633
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: specifically because like it really really like affected me and

634
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 1: it was really hard. Um. I think it helps Katie

635
00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: lot to know that you went through that. Yeah, I

636
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 1: went through it and it sucked balls. But all the

637
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: things that you're feeling, you're it's not like I don't know.

638
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 1: I can't explain it because I've never had a I

639
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: mean full disclosure that I've never had any other STD

640
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: in my entire life. I've only had this one and

641
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: the girl. Um, but it was really like it's really

642
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: traumatizing because you think like you're keep keep going, keep talking. Yeah,

643
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 1: I tend to like do this. I just blab. I

644
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 1: have no filter, so I just I probably overshare. But

645
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Speaker 1: I do think it's important because, um, when I was,

646
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: you know, in college with my story sisters, it was

647
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: something that was really hard for people, and it was

648
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: nice for them to know that anybody could come to

649
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: me and um, I just have all the answer to

650
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 1: but you know me, like when when something happens, I

651
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Speaker 1: like go in a dent, so like I went into

652
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 1: my guy in colleges and was like, I have like

653
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 1: a laundry list of questions. I was like this this,

654
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: Like I was so pissed, like how did this guy?

655
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 1: And she was like, they don't know, they don't know.

656
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:14,120
Speaker 1: So common and curable, that's the good news. Common and curable.

657
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Speaker 1: And but sometimes you don't even have symptoms, like you

658
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659
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Speaker 1: in at. I heard media dot com this past weekend.

696
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: I made the mistake of going through my boyfriend's phone.

697
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what made me do it, because he

698
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 1: hasn't given me any reason to not trust him. While

699
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: going through his phone, there wasn't anything the other girls,

700
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: but he was speaking to one of his friends about me,

701
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: comparing me to his ax and making it sound like

702
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend was more of what he wanted His

703
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 1: friend even replied with I can appreciate you finally confessing

704
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 1: your love for Andrea. The night prior we were just

705
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: talking about our future and how is you're going to

706
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: start moving in and taking that next step. It's a

707
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: complete bombshell. I'm not sure how to feel. So I

708
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,919
Speaker 1: told him, and he broke up with me. He said,

709
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:13,360
Speaker 1: I have no right to read what he's saying to

710
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: his friends. I feel heartbroken and upset. I feel it's

711
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: all my fault because I just had to go through

712
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 1: his phone with no reason. Was I wrong? Am I

713
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 1: the one to blame? Or is he just taking the

714
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 1: easy way out? We've been dating for a year and

715
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 1: now I'm at a loss for words. Do I try

716
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: to get him back? It was a lost cause. I

717
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 1: have very strong opinion about this. Would anybody like to

718
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 1: take the lead? Did you take the leader? If it's strong? Um,

719
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,840
Speaker 1: the damage is done. You might have to just cut

720
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: this loss and learn from it. I think going through

721
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: somebody's phone is such a bad idea that you're literally like.

722
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: I think trust is a huge thing in a relationship

723
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: and if you don't once, that's like broken. And I

724
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: almost feel like you broke the trust by going through

725
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: his phone like that wasn't cool. And I get it,

726
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:59,319
Speaker 1: curiosity whatever, but killed the cat. I just think the

727
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: second that you do that, you're putting such a bad

728
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just think it's all bad um.

729
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: And also you can't take away the feeling of seeing

730
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: those texts to his friend, like you're going to be

731
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: self conscious and insecure the entire relationship, and that's not

732
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 1: good either. So I think you might just want to

733
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 1: cut this one as a loss and just learn from

734
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: it and don't do it again, because I've been there,

735
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: done that, and I'll never do it again because I

736
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 1: was cheated on in the previous relationships. So I brought

737
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 1: that into my new relationship, thinking this guy's gonna cheat

738
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 1: on me just like the one the last guy, when

739
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: he never once gave me any indication that he like

740
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: he was the most honest, trustworthy man I could have

741
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: ever dated in my entire life. And I would just

742
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: sift through looking for stuff. I'm like, what am I doing?

743
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm I know, And ever since then, I was like,

744
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: I'm just not going to do it. So I'm like,

745
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: that's my advice. Never anything you find is taken out

746
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 1: of context. You don't know the context of this, and

747
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 1: you with your girlfriends, you might get together and talk

748
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: about some X of yours, like oh, and if your

749
00:42:57,120 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: current boyfriend heard that, he wouldn't understand the text of

750
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 1: it will cause problems. It's all bad. I have never

751
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 1: ever and I know the past code. I would never

752
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: ever ever look through my husband's phone and seventeen years together,

753
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,320
Speaker 1: so this is let it go. But I'm also thinks

754
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: I'm also like not but I'm like, why are you

755
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 1: why would you be interested in that? Anyway? I know,

756
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: it's like it's like speaking of the olden days. It's

757
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: like going through somebody's diary, you know what I mean.

758
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: I feel like it's it's like the insecurity of like

759
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 1: you said, you brought that in from a previous relationship,

760
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 1: thinking like that guy did it, So this guy's probably

761
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: doing it too, and I need I need to find

762
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: out and get out of it before and catch him

763
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: before he can like blindside me. Right. Yeah, that's not

764
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: a good way to live life. No, it's awful. So

765
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 1: the advice is move once, learn from it. It wasn't

766
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 1: it wasn't the best decision, but it is something to

767
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 1: learn from and not do again. Did you have ever

768
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: done that? You've done that? No, I saw you talking

769
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 1: about Robert. When I saw it, I was holding his

770
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: phone and no, I was holding his phone and I

771
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 1: wanted the passcorden you want to give, which is still

772
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: that's also weird. I was just like listening to muse

773
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 1: that he wouldn't give her his pass code. It's like,

774
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: but if she wants just wanted to, that's weird, that's

775
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: a little weird. That's why I know the pass code

776
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: right right, all right, we had like a whole remember

777
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: we had a whole debate on this. But that's the trust, right,

778
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: that's the trust of a good relationship. You know the

779
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 1: pass codes, you know some passwords. You just don't abuse that.

780
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: I didn't even like I literally was his friend. I

781
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 1: was like going back and both with this friend because

782
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: I was controlling the music and the phone locked and

783
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:42,840
Speaker 1: then I went to open it. I was like, I

784
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,399
Speaker 1: want your pass code, and he was like like took

785
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: the phone. He was like, I'm not giving you my

786
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 1: pass code, and I was like ding ding ding. Yeah,

787
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: that's that's the flag. That's the yellow flag. All right,

788
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 1: Michelle needs some advice. You met a guy one night

789
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 1: at a bar. Hit it off, great conversations, same interest

790
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 1: and the humor. We and texting every day for the

791
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: last week or so. We've been already out on a

792
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: day to dinner drinks. Even if plans will go out

793
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: again next week. I enjoyed spending time with him. We

794
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: really have a connection. The only thing I'm struggling with

795
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 1: us he lives at home. He was twenty eight, he

796
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 1: took time off over the years, and it's only now

797
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: going back to finish his bachelor's degree. I'm very career

798
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: and goal oriented. I just got my master's degree and

799
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: I'm twenty seven. I'm more worried about what my family

800
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: and friends will say if things progress and we enter

801
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: into a relationship. Oh my god, girl, what why are

802
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 1: you worried about what people think about you? If you're

803
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 1: like into somebody and like and you guys are getting

804
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: along and he's like a nice match for you, who

805
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 1: cares what people think? Yeah, I'm confused. He's living at

806
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: home for what reason? Well, he's twenty eight, he's it

807
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: seems like he has just kind of taken some years

808
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 1: before he got his life going going. Those are the

809
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: kinds of things you're like basing the foundation of your

810
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 1: relationship and you are in big trouble. If it's all

811
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: about like how things look, it's never gonna work and

812
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: what other people think. Yeah, and I also think too,

813
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: like money's fleeting, you know, just because he lives at

814
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: home for a second and he needs, you know what

815
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: I mean, time to gather himself or whatever. Like I

816
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: don't know, I think that that there's something actually really

817
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: smart about that, you know what I mean, Like we

818
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: know somebody that's thirty eight and just moved back home

819
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: with his parents to save money to buy a bigger house,

820
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,800
Speaker 1: And I think that that's like actually really smart these days. Yeah,

821
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 1: my sister lives at home with my mom and her fiance. Yeah,

822
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,760
Speaker 1: I kind of think like they're like super happy. Yeah,

823
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: everybody's different. Everybody lives how they want to live and okay, great,

824
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 1: So I think it's worth a second days especially it

825
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:44,879
Speaker 1: was a great first day. I mean, we all know.

826
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: And you guys can match each other perfectly, Like maybe

827
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: you're a little too motivated. He can pull you back

828
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: a little bit. Maybe he's a little less motivated you can.

829
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a perfect match. There's a quote that I've

830
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: always loved you. Love quotes, give it to me. You

831
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't care how sorry, You probably wouldn't worry as

832
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: much what people think of you if you realize how

833
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: little they did, because everybody's thinking about themselves. That I

834
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 1: always like worry if I'm going somewhere and I like

835
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: put so much pressure about going into a social setting,

836
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, like I get like nervous or

837
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 1: like having to mingle, and then I'm like, they don't care.

838
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 1: They don't get worried about themselves. I really try to

839
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 1: impress that on my daughters. Don't worry about what other

840
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: people think. But you're also the star in every single

841
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: room you walk into. Back up, Um, I want to

842
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Speaker 1: talk about Chicas Tacos. Chicas Tacos Love Tacos, downtown l

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Speaker 1: A's brightest taco hot spot, known for their elevated tacos

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Speaker 1: and fresh fair. If you live in southern California, you

845
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 1: need to know about Chicas. Yeah. It's organic source, locally,

846
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: always fresh, never frozen, and created by James Beard, who

847
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: is the nut right James Beard. James Beard is the

848
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 1: award that he's been nominated for. Okay, sorry, can I

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Speaker 1: start that over. Um. The menu at Chicas Tacos is

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00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 1: organic source, locally, always fresh, never frozen, and created by

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Speaker 1: James Beard nominated chef Edwardo Rui's and that area is celebrating.

852
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 1: Was so ready to do that really excited the right.

853
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: They're celebrating their anniversary on Saturday this Saturday with a

854
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:32,480
Speaker 1: huge backlop bash called Baja Market l A. So it's

855
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 1: there's music, great chefs, beer. How do I get tickets

856
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: for that? Um? You go to www dot Chicas Tacos

857
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 1: dot com and it's thirty dollars at the door. You

858
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:43,399
Speaker 1: can get them at the door or at that website. Yeah.

859
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:45,919
Speaker 1: And it's in downtown l A, which is actually super cool.

860
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:48,879
Speaker 1: I've been wanting I've been actually wanting to go check

861
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: out downtown l A a a lot more lately, Like a

862
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: happening is happening. I've been wanting to like go to

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00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 1: dinner and like go do something funny because I moved

864
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: here in the late nineties and it was so not happening.

865
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,879
Speaker 1: There was nothing ever happening downtown. Now it's the place

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00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 1: to be. Yeah. And they also have Cauliflower Teresa, which

867
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 1: I'm very intrigued by. Yeah, I feel like they have

868
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: something for everybody. Um. The restaurant is a modern twist

869
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: on a classic Takaria. It's actually Takada. I said that,

870
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 1: Yeah that I would just like to say that. Tanya

871
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: twice this last week went out when I wasn't there

872
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: to just got her Moe Joe back happy about the

873
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: mud being back. But why do you go out when

874
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: I am not there? Why do you only go out

875
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 1: when I am not out? So, first of all, Friday night,

876
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: I thought you were going to meet us out. I

877
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: never said anything. So Jojo JoJo's brother and family were

878
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:53,359
Speaker 1: in town this weekend and they yeah, what's her brother's name?

879
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: Then I know. I got a lot of messages about him.

880
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:08,840
Speaker 1: By the way, this weekend, um hot. But so we

881
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: all went out on Friday night. Um. And the only

882
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Speaker 1: reason why I went out was because I had I

883
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: was working an event that day, so I was already

884
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 1: like made up, done up, already in Hollywood and that's

885
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:22,439
Speaker 1: where they were all going. So I was like, yeah,

886
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: so so me, I don't have to go home and

887
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 1: come back. I was like, if I go back to

888
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Speaker 1: the West Side, like I'm staying in and I'm like

889
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: putting on my sweats and like calling it a night.

890
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: But the fact that they were all coming to Hollywood

891
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 1: and I was already there, it was kind of like

892
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 1: the perfect storm. So it's nothing personal. Bec is taking

893
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,839
Speaker 1: a very personal felt personal because I'm always I'm like, hey,

894
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,399
Speaker 1: let's like I invite her almost every time I go out,

895
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,479
Speaker 1: and it's just like crickets. I'm like, oh face mask. Yeah,

896
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 1: She's like, I had my robe all and I'm like,

897
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: oh god, that's She's like, already had my soup, I'm

898
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: in my robe. I'm like, sounds like such a seventy

899
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: five year old woman. But I appreciate this because Brad's

900
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 1: exact same way. Like we'll text each other at like

901
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: six thirty and I'll be like, I already had dinner,

902
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: shower in him in bed, what about you? I start

903
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,320
Speaker 1: wrapping up at like five. Well, guess what, Brad's married

904
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: and has he has his life, and you're you're wanting

905
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 1: to find a man. I know it's a struggle, Isn't

906
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:25,760
Speaker 1: That's true? It when you were in that marriage. Yeah,

907
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 1: but I was out until two am on Saturday. W

908
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: I was Friday too, and I we both were like,

909
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,760
Speaker 1: how yeah, but you sent me a text yesterday saying

910
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: number one, you're insto. The story is stressing me out. Yeah,

911
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: because it was at one thirty and you read a

912
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:45,760
Speaker 1: club I was, I was so fun. So they're fun

913
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 1: everyone once in a blue mar know, when when you

914
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: get us out, we're like really fun. But when we're

915
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: out and we're not into it, we're like fun. Yeah.

916
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember last year that last time we

917
00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 1: went out together. I think it was about a year now.

918
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: We were at Chuck Prom together at a club together.

919
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:08,279
Speaker 1: It basically was a club that dance dropping it. Well,

920
00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's children, like, this is a children's You're

921
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: not out of this. Children doesn't count. Hey, can I

922
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 1: get some shouts because we have some good ones this week.

923
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: This is what people are doing while they listen to

924
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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Antonia. L Kaufman is in Nova Scotia, Canada,

925
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: lying in bed with a severe headache for four years,

926
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Speaker 1: she said, postconcussion syndrome, but listening to the podcast Refting

927
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: with Becca Antonia makes you feel less lonely. Canada. Shria Saragini,

928
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 1: she's driving into a twelve hour shift of the e

929
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Speaker 1: ER in San Antonio, Texas again. Chelsea is a mail

930
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: carrier in Bridgeport, West Virginia. She listens well right now,

931
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Speaker 1: is delivering the mail in Bridgeport, w v. Emily Krueger's

932
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Speaker 1: in Wisconsin. She listened while doing a triathlon. She was

933
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 1: doing a triathlon. You couldn't listen while swimming, but while

934
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: running and biking she was scrubbing in. That's so interesting

935
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 1: to me because when I run, I have to listen

936
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: to music and listen to podcast. This doesn't seem like

937
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: the perfect motivation. Yeah, are you kidding me? We're so motivational. Yeah,

938
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: you have when you're in the middle of a workout. Yeah,

939
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: And becks talking about her McDonald's hash Browns that she

940
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Speaker 1: had for breakfast. That was what she had for breakfast. Brad,

941
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: hash Browns and Dr Pepper Delicious. Thank you catch up

942
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 1: with them though I'm just playing. Oh really, no one's

943
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 1: questioning Delicious by the way, Yeah, thank you, Brad. I'm

944
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: in the validation. I feel right. I would never do

945
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: it into it it. Ranana rap is washing dishes right

946
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: now in Israel. That's where she listened and subs she

947
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: loves that. We love Galkadote, Love Galado and Vanessa Picone

948
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: is on vacation in Iceland listening with her boyfriend. He

949
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:48,960
Speaker 1: requested it. She said, what do you want to listen to?

950
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: We said, put on that podcast with the two girl

951
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:59,799
Speaker 1: friends and shout out to Duncan. Because Bourbank now has

952
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 1: a Duncan. The grand opening is this Saturday at two

953
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: hundred South Glen Oaks Boulevards Study at ninety I'm the

954
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 1: first hundred guests in line of the lobby get free

955
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 1: coffee for a year year I'm doing later. That's a

956
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 1: good guy. Welcome to Burbank Duncan. Yeah, welcome, Welcome. Um,

957
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: I'm so sad. I don't want to can we can

958
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 1: we plug anything for you? No, came out of the

959
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: goodness of your own heart. Oh my gosh. Well, if

960
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:37,879
Speaker 1: you guys do not know Brad Garski, find him, follow him,

961
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: love him. He's the best. But you truly are one

962
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: of my best friends and favorite people in the world.

963
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: So thank you for coming in. Yeah, we're so We've

964
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: been trying to get you on here for a while.

965
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 1: It's been a minute and busy schedule, so crazy, I

966
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: like literally couldn't find the building, but now you did.

967
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: For next time, it'll be yeah, and shout out to

968
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 1: your husband. Gary. We love him as well. Yeah. Check

969
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:10,240
Speaker 1: out Gary Genettie on Instagram. His instagram is so funny.

970
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: He's gonna pass me in followers. How devastating. It's basically

971
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:19,319
Speaker 1: an entire instagram. Uh, he's Prince George and he makes

972
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 1: fun of Megan Markle, but like lightheartedly in the best

973
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: way possible. Fun. It is fun, fun and lighthearted and

974
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:32,439
Speaker 1: cute and so cute. Yeah, he just started it too,

975
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:35,280
Speaker 1: Like he just started right. It's my wife's single favorite

976
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: instagram in the world. Every morning should get up and

977
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 1: that's the first thing she looks at. Oh, no way,

978
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:42,200
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Yeah, there are a lot of people who

979
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: like wake up and check it. Gary is so funny,

980
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: he's very Is that the key to marriage? Laughter and

981
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: not fighting? Yeah, you guys don't fight never, never drama. Yeah.

982
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: I like that. We like we bicker sometimes, but we

983
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:58,919
Speaker 1: don't really fight. It's normal. Yeah. Never, never a fight,

984
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: it's not worth it. Also, if you're gonna fight, don't

985
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: do it before bad's good. That's what Wow. Way to

986
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:11,919
Speaker 1: round it out with the honestly it is true, though.

987
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: We you have to come back and we have to

988
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,399
Speaker 1: do more emails because I always feel like you give

989
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 1: really good advice. Great, because you're a straight shooter. Yeah,

990
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: for sure, we can call you too if we have

991
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: something we think could be right up your ally, We'll

992
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:25,839
Speaker 1: get you on the phone. Absolutely. I don't always take

993
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 1: your advice, but I've listened. Advice to you is just

994
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 1: be normal, and I think that's pretty sounded. Yeah. Please, um,

995
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: thank you all for your emails. Continue to send the

996
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 1: man scrubbing in at I heartmedia dot com. Post on

997
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: the Facebook group. I saw so many meet ups that

998
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 1: how Toronto. Yeah, yeah, that's where I'm from. Shut up

999
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 1: next week we got I wanted to get into it

1000
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: this week, but we didn't have time. There's a big

1001
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: discussion as to whether you use a lufa or a

1002
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 1: cloth or your fingers in the shower, and we need

1003
00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: to get into that at some point. I have a

1004
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:05,760
Speaker 1: lot have an update on dr W the date tonight.

1005
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:10,279
Speaker 1: We'll have an update on that next week. And um, Brad,

1006
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Speaker 1: do you want to call time of death? It's so

1007
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: concerned you're supposed to say that time eleven thirty seven

1008
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: thirty two. It's like stared first called death ever seconds

1009
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 1: I thought he died. For a second, I was like, wait,

1010
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Speaker 1: am I dying. You were just like still like