WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Fast Service Disservice

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we have rules on this show, and people

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<v Speaker 2>tend to abuse those rules.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean, I don't really like the rules.

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<v Speaker 2>But looking at several individuals in this room specifically, come.

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<v Speaker 3>On, Jeff would be such a hall monitor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, screw the FCC whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you know, we did get an email for

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<v Speaker 2>a second date update recently from a guy named Blake

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<v Speaker 2>who says, you really should contact me because even though

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<v Speaker 2>I technically went on two dates, it should only count

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<v Speaker 2>as one because they were both super short.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh two quick dates.

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<v Speaker 5>Regular sounds like two bad dates if they're that quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe, Blake, why were your dates so short?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, okay, so it's not my fault. I don't think.

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<v Speaker 6>It's a few different things. I don't think, of course,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it could be my fault. We just went

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<v Speaker 6>to two different restaurants and I researched them, and it

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<v Speaker 6>went ones that were like the highest rated, and they

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<v Speaker 6>really did have like super super good service. But the

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<v Speaker 6>problem is, and what I don't really want to complain about,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, but also it just came out too quick. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>like we order in boom food comes out.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, when you're at a fast food restaurant that's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 6>We went to a five star pizza place first, and

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<v Speaker 6>then I just wanted to be casual, you know, But

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<v Speaker 6>then I ordered out that I ordered the pizza in

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<v Speaker 6>boom it was there.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, let's rewind a little bit before we get into

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<v Speaker 2>the food and.

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<v Speaker 1>The horribly fast service. Could that what works? What's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the girl that you went out with?

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<v Speaker 6>Her name is Kate?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, we always just guess assume you met her on

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<v Speaker 5>an app or something.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we did. We met her on a dating app?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, nice?

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<v Speaker 3>And did she stand out for a particular reason.

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<v Speaker 6>Her profile was kind of like quirky, Like it seemed

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<v Speaker 6>like she was funny, you know what I mean, And

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<v Speaker 6>she was really cute and it just seemed like we'd

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<v Speaker 6>have a lot to talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean, it's good that you went on two

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<v Speaker 2>dates with her if they both went by that quickly, like,

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<v Speaker 2>tell us what happened.

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<v Speaker 6>So the first one was the pizza place, and then

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<v Speaker 6>we went to another like kind of American like far food,

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<v Speaker 6>soul food type of thing. So I ordered mac and cheese,

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<v Speaker 6>and again it came out and like literally and like

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<v Speaker 6>that's the thing. I feel like such a I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't like complaining about the food coming out so quick.

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<v Speaker 6>But both these places, the food came out and mac

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<v Speaker 6>and cheese. You don't want to let it get cold

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<v Speaker 6>and hard, so you know, we were focused on the food. Again.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like the one time you want the service

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<v Speaker 4>to be.

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<v Speaker 5>Slow, but even if it came out fast, like you

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<v Speaker 5>would parlay that into oh, I keep want to keep

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<v Speaker 5>hanging out with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go get a drink.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I didn't plan before.

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<v Speaker 6>And and also I don't want to push it, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>like I feel like first dates, you just kind of

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<v Speaker 6>want to go to one spot to feel each other out.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, it's not like a whole like let's paint

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<v Speaker 6>the town red things.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so how is the feeling of each other out?

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<v Speaker 1>How did she feel?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't know yet. I don't know yet, but no,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I think it went really well. She's really funny,

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<v Speaker 6>she's cute, like I said, And I mean the conversation

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<v Speaker 6>went seemed to float to which is another thing. It

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<v Speaker 6>went so fast. Our conversation was just like effortless, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's so good.

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<v Speaker 7>It's like the date can take an hour and you

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<v Speaker 7>feel like you've talked ye so long. It's like, wow,

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<v Speaker 7>we've covered so much things.

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<v Speaker 6>So it really felt like thirty seconds whenever it took

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<v Speaker 6>forty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, can I ask?

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<v Speaker 5>Because now you have two dates to compare him to, right, like,

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<v Speaker 5>and obviously she went out on a second date, so

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<v Speaker 5>the first date full success?

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<v Speaker 8>Right?

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<v Speaker 5>Was the end of the second date different? Did you

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<v Speaker 5>get a different vibe than the end of the first date.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it was a little bit awkward because it

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<v Speaker 6>felt rush. I didn't know if it was like time

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<v Speaker 6>should I go in for a kiss yet? So it

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<v Speaker 6>was kind of more just like a just like a

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<v Speaker 6>hug and goodbye. But it didn't seem crazy awkward, you

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<v Speaker 6>know what I mean, Like I don't know if my

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<v Speaker 6>radar is off, but it seemed like she was into it.

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<v Speaker 7>See this is you should have just kept ordering food.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, oh, can I got a sandwich?

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<v Speaker 9>Now?

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<v Speaker 4>Can I get this? That way, you're like meal prepping

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<v Speaker 4>for your whole week, and you get more time.

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<v Speaker 2>You're buying more time, and then you look like a

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<v Speaker 2>ball or signing a two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Shit competitive eater.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a good live like Joey Chestnut over there, she

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<v Speaker 6>might not want to get into a long term relationship

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<v Speaker 6>with because my blood pressure is going to be so hot.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean it sounds like the biggest problem for you.

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<v Speaker 2>What you're saying is that everything went too quickly. You

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to slow things down for your dates, right, Well.

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<v Speaker 6>Like I said, it went too quickly. Sometimes you kind

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<v Speaker 6>of want one of those awkward pauses every once in

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<v Speaker 6>a while, or something funny and cute to happen so

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<v Speaker 6>you remember it. But it all just went so smooth,

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<v Speaker 6>like it went perfectly, Which is.

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<v Speaker 2>That's your problem, isn't it that the service is too fast,

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<v Speaker 2>the conversation is too good.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>You're got.

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<v Speaker 4>In that short of a time.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I don't know that there's like somebody who's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna not call someone back because.

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<v Speaker 3>It was too fast, too good.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's not this is gonna sound weird.

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<v Speaker 7>But I can kind of see that because if there's

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<v Speaker 7>not he said, there's nothing memorable that happened, there's nothing

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<v Speaker 7>for you to be like, oh that was exciting, or.

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<v Speaker 1>That it was just too Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if we're able to get Kate on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone and convince her to do a third date. What's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be your game plan for that? To make

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<v Speaker 2>sure you don't make the same takes.

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<v Speaker 6>I was gonna think. I was thinking about a baseball game,

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<v Speaker 6>but they have new rules in place to speed up

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<v Speaker 6>the games or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, an hour and a half now, yeah, nice, So.

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<v Speaker 6>They'll try and get me a gift card for the

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<v Speaker 6>slowest restaurant in sound Yeah okay.

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<v Speaker 3>It also sounds like you talk really fast.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's what it is. Okay, I'm excited, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Down he's like, okay, so hi, how are you? What's

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<v Speaker 4>your name? How is your day? What do you do

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<v Speaker 4>for a living.

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<v Speaker 6>But it's charming and fast, that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, we're gonna try and slow things down

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<v Speaker 2>here for just a second, and then when we come.

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<v Speaker 1>Back, we'll pick things back up.

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<v Speaker 2>Call Kate for you and try to convince her to

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<v Speaker 2>go out on a third date, hopefully much longer than

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<v Speaker 2>the first two. When we do a second date update,

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<v Speaker 2>next second date, update, two dinner dates, both at record speed.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like we should play faster music.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm afraid to do that, just because of what

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<v Speaker 2>happened to Blake's voice.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a fast talker.

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<v Speaker 2>But one was pizza, one was mac and cheese, and

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<v Speaker 2>Blake basically told us that he blinked and the food

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<v Speaker 2>was suddenly there in front of him, blinked again, the

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<v Speaker 2>table was bust and the date was over. Yes, that's

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<v Speaker 2>why he did two of them. But both times the

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<v Speaker 2>service was just too quick. And I mean, here's what

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<v Speaker 2>I think we need to do. We kind of need

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<v Speaker 2>to game plan as a show before we make this call.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that we shouldn't say that everything happened so

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<v Speaker 2>quick when we call Kate, like, because she might have

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<v Speaker 2>a different perspective on it, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>It's usually not.

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<v Speaker 5>A negative thing, right Like, if you feel like time

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<v Speaker 5>passes quickly, it usually means that you had a great experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he didn't say that they ever actually talked

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<v Speaker 2>about that. That was just his perception that the weight

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<v Speaker 2>staff moved too quickly, right fact, So I think we

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<v Speaker 2>asked her open ended questions, how do you feel about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Blake?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I want to see what she thought too. I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know if I'm just like looking at it from

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<v Speaker 6>a one side, like a single faceted for.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you know we never asked you. Are you guys

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<v Speaker 5>texting or communicating it all?

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<v Speaker 6>Not really, not as much as i'd like to. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>I've reached out to her a couple of times and

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<v Speaker 6>choo kin and just be polite.

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<v Speaker 5>But okay, you're getting cold from her via messages.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so that's why I came to you, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, Well, let's swoop in like the waiters at

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<v Speaker 2>those restaurants real quick and just get things going.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial her number right now.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna have such a hard time not mentioning that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you are the phone better one time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, thanks for having confidence in me. Here we

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<v Speaker 1>go number right now.

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<v Speaker 8>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, is this Kate?

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Kate. What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>We're brooking Jeffrey in the Morning, A whole morning show

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<v Speaker 2>from the radios.

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<v Speaker 6>Here.

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<v Speaker 8>You're from the radio. I don't know who you are.

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<v Speaker 3>We also do a podcast, so that's cool.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't help.

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<v Speaker 2>We do a segment on our show to help people

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<v Speaker 2>with their dating lives. It's called Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 8>And you're calling me, Well, you don't need the help.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone you went out with needs help, right.

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<v Speaker 1>You're great at dating, That's what we've heard.

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<v Speaker 2>From one of our Yeah, from one of our listeners, Blake,

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<v Speaker 2>who met up with you not once but twice.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh gosh, oh it's ay question.

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<v Speaker 3>All we want to know is like, how'd you feel

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<v Speaker 3>about Blake?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean he was nice, Probably not the person for me,

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<v Speaker 8>but he seems nice. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, did you like not have fun on the dates?

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<v Speaker 8>Or okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Nice?

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<v Speaker 5>And okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait what did you say a little?

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<v Speaker 8>What strange?

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<v Speaker 1>Strange?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we kept talking to Blake and he did not

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<v Speaker 5>bring up anything strange.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you think about the length of the date?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it Mama Bear, Papa Bear or baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Bear told you he couldn't already ran.

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<v Speaker 1>It blanked out? So where we got? What's your think,

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<v Speaker 1>Mama Bear, Papa Bear, baby bear? About the length? Too short?

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<v Speaker 1>Too long? Just right?

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<v Speaker 8>You're at how long the date was? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>In your experience, O, these are normal questions that radio

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<v Speaker 2>hosts always ask.

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<v Speaker 3>It is so awkward sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I like you, I do. It's endearing Cake.

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<v Speaker 8>The length of the date was a normal length, I think?

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<v Speaker 5>Answer, I mean, do you have to tell her why

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<v Speaker 5>you asked that?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because the reason that I'm asking is when we

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<v Speaker 2>spoke to Blake. The impression that he got was that

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<v Speaker 2>the service was really really good and delivered the food

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit too quickly for his taste.

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<v Speaker 5>He felt like maybe the date was rushed and he

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<v Speaker 5>couldn't make the connection he wanted to with.

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<v Speaker 8>You, Like, the service was good. But both times that

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<v Speaker 8>we ate because we went to dinner. Both times he

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<v Speaker 8>ate his meal super super fast.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, I could see that when we were

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<v Speaker 5>talking to him.

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<v Speaker 3>He has a lot of energy.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, imagine going to dinner with the cookie monster. Okay,

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<v Speaker 8>it's thirty seconds, there's crumbs everywhere, and then they're done,

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<v Speaker 8>Like how is he.

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<v Speaker 3>Even picking anything up with those giant hens?

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<v Speaker 1>And man, he tries to teach you about letters afterwards.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember the macaroni cheese.

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<v Speaker 5>When we talked to him, he mentioned, like, when you

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<v Speaker 5>get the macaroni cheese, you got to eat it right

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<v Speaker 5>away because if you don't eat it right away, then

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<v Speaker 5>it's going to be cold.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, he said that he would gag if the temperature

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<v Speaker 8>of the cheese was like room temperature.

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<v Speaker 5>Gag not really though, Like he just meant he didn't

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<v Speaker 5>like it when it was room temperature.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he serious?

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<v Speaker 8>No, No, he meant he physically couldn't handle it, like

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<v Speaker 8>he was going to hurl.

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<v Speaker 3>My god, texture thing.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel about that explanation?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean it got worse to be honest with you,

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<v Speaker 8>Like what really well, it started this really odd conversation

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<v Speaker 8>about textures that he can and can't handle. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 8>just got me thinking, like I'm looking at him thinking, Okay,

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<v Speaker 8>let's say we're in a serious relationship. Well, what would

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<v Speaker 8>that be?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I do think it's good that you are thinking

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<v Speaker 2>about down the road, a future, possible long term relationship.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm not anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>This is it just a little speed bump, Yeah, a

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<v Speaker 5>possible relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Right over that speed bump and connect you to Blake

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<v Speaker 2>right now he's on the other line listening and wants

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think that that's that weird. People have textures,

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<v Speaker 6>people have likes and.

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<v Speaker 3>This, like, why don't you start with a high high?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry we kind of hurt my feelings a little bit.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean people are just let people beat people, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, why is that we had a great time off?

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<v Speaker 6>All the conversations were great. I means like we were

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<v Speaker 6>both kind of into the same stuff just because I

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<v Speaker 6>eat weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she hang up?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she's still there.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, No, he was on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Sorry, that's how these work.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, But I'll go ahead and talk to Blake about

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<v Speaker 2>his aversion to certain food textures.

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<v Speaker 8>I think it's a normal thing.

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<v Speaker 6>People have preferences.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it's a little. Like I said, I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 8>to be mean. It's just a little high maintenance. But

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<v Speaker 8>I have to kind of bring up because it's not

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<v Speaker 8>just the food thing. It's kind of like the other

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<v Speaker 8>thing that you said that you can't do.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think only when you talk about that on

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<v Speaker 6>the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>What's that, Blake? You can't leave us in the dark

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<v Speaker 3>on stuff that sounds important.

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<v Speaker 6>I just prefer not to have it out.

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<v Speaker 5>In the Oaken, Is it more embarrassing than you not

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<v Speaker 5>being able to eat like potatoes or something.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think it's embarrassing. I think it's normal. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>Then it's a it's a more private kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, there's a texture that you can't handle.

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<v Speaker 6>It is the texture that I can't handle. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 4>The picture of someone's lips, like you'll never kiss her.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's what I'm thinking that it is, maybe he's

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<v Speaker 2>right and we shouldn't talk about this on the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't get it either, But he thinks it's normal.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think that it is now, Jeffrey, Like,

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<v Speaker 5>are you thinking something dirty?

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<v Speaker 6>It's a little dirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I think there's a part all.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, that's just that's too bad for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, are we right? Are we in the ballpark?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm just gonna say to me. I know he had

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<v Speaker 8>a texture issue, but intimacy is important. And I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Why we talking about people time to find a woman

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<v Speaker 3>to date delivering that type of information on the first day.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that was the second date. It was the.

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<v Speaker 3>Second okay, you know it's it's like a partnership. You

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<v Speaker 3>give and you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe Kate's willing to go without that part of the relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>and I recommend Kate if you are, then we would

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<v Speaker 2>pay for the third date that you and Blake went

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<v Speaker 2>on to a place that doesn't serve any cheese whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 5>Kate, are you interested still, because I think everybody here

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<v Speaker 5>is just uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we are.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean you wouldn't want me to live a life

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<v Speaker 8>like that. Would you wouldn't?

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<v Speaker 6>You guys are.

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<v Speaker 4>Something.

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<v Speaker 3>What I tell my kids with food is that.

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<v Speaker 2>You have don't don't don't talk about your kids.

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<v Speaker 9>Let's call the therapist before get watch list. God, Blake,

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<v Speaker 9>I am so sorry, boy, but this technically is all

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<v Speaker 9>your fault and you do have some walk to do

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<v Speaker 9>on yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll do my best. I'm try okay about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Look Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the one time that I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>do a part three and talk more about something the

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<v Speaker 2>second date.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't ever want to know how it goes for

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<v Speaker 3>him either.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I will say after we recorded it, Blake

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<v Speaker 2>did email the show with five words.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I would if I could.

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<v Speaker 3>That is not.

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<v Speaker 1>Your response.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe you're just not interested in women.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't think it's not his fault.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear his words? He would if he could.

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<v Speaker 2>This man is just as tortured inside as she is.

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<v Speaker 2>The desire to do something, the inability physical writing.

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<v Speaker 3>Down, the excuse I would if I could.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a sweet thing to say to someone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we do all sorts of stories on this show

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<v Speaker 2>about tech trends and new inventions. Scientists better be working

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<v Speaker 2>on this, make a pill for it or something they

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<v Speaker 2>need to upgrade.

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<v Speaker 3>Blake, It's really not a rampant problem. I'm just telling

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<v Speaker 3>you it.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a big problem though for him. He's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be single for a long long time after this if

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<v Speaker 2>they don't do something about it. But remember, you can

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<v Speaker 2>always hear all of our second date updates on our

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<v Speaker 2>podcast at Brook and Jeffrey.

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