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Speaker 1: it easier to meet someone at a wedding or is
Speaker 1: it harder? Oh? Oh, that is a tough question because
Speaker 1: people I've always found it harder personally. I mean, you
Speaker 1: go up there, you deliver a great pickup line, compliment
Speaker 1: the girl on her beautiful white dress, going for the kissing.
Speaker 1: I'm getting thrown out. Yeah, for putting myself out there.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. One of our listeners, and Nate agrees with
Speaker 1: me because he says he met a girl at a
Speaker 1: wedding and apparently was not as easy as he expected
Speaker 1: it to be. Nate, Welcome to the show. How you doing, man,
Speaker 1: how's it going? Please don't tell me it was the
Speaker 1: the mother in law, any of it. Yeah, I mean god,
Speaker 1: it's a crazy story. I oh my god. Wait was
Speaker 1: it someone that was single that you met? She was single? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: brides are technically single until they say they're not. Jeffrey
Speaker 1: being engaged as someone else who doesn't qualify you as single. Okay,
Speaker 1: well that's good to know. Yeah, I've learned something here.
Speaker 1: But go ahead and nate. Who who is the woman
Speaker 1: that she met? What's her name? Okay? Her name is Meg? Okay,
Speaker 1: Meg okay? And I figured bring in the professionals. I
Speaker 1: need help with the situations, okay. And did you notice
Speaker 1: Meg right away at the wedding? I did notice her
Speaker 1: right away. I saw her sitting in one of the pews,
Speaker 1: crossed the aisle, and I'm like, oh, wow, okay, she's
Speaker 1: really attractive. I should try to talk to her. And
Speaker 1: it was pretty much a struggle to even get to
Speaker 1: meet her. What was your strategy to meet her? Well?
Speaker 1: I was first. I was like, oh, maybe we'll be
Speaker 1: at the same table, but of course we weren't. So
Speaker 1: I was actually trying to switch with somebody, like a
Speaker 1: single person at her table. Actually was able to move
Speaker 1: one table closer, but I was still a table too
Speaker 1: far away. And then I was trying to another table
Speaker 1: over and that didn't work. You can't do that at
Speaker 1: a money do you how much time and energy goes
Speaker 1: into like eating charge. Yes so much. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: eating the fish. I didn't order the fish. At this point,
Speaker 1: you're just taking someone else's chair, so your table hopping,
Speaker 1: slowly making your way closer and closer to her table.
Speaker 1: Did you ever make it? I never made it to
Speaker 1: her table. You just wait till she's up at the
Speaker 1: bar and then time your drink at the same time
Speaker 1: as hers or yeah, right, that's exactly what happened. It's
Speaker 1: so great. Okay. It feels almost like you were trying
Speaker 1: too hard, like it could have probably happened organically. Saw
Speaker 1: you really trying to force it, saw each table you
Speaker 1: getting closer and closer. That wouldn't be a little bit creepy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like the term nae her, I'm like anything. So was
Speaker 1: there ever a moment when you were able to get
Speaker 1: some one on one time with her? Yeah, finally at
Speaker 1: the bar. I hear at the bar because she was
Speaker 1: my moment, okay, and I go up there and then
Speaker 1: I tell her that I actually have to talk to
Speaker 1: the groom, which you mind bringing the drink over to
Speaker 1: our table? Oh? He made her your waitress for the night. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was my Movieeah, I made her my waitress. That's
Speaker 1: a terrible blue wow. I mean, I mean, yeah, I
Speaker 1: would love if someone that to me. He did it work?
Speaker 1: It did work? Oh wow? Right, So she brought the
Speaker 1: drink over to the table and that was cool. So
Speaker 1: we were able to talk for a little bit, you know,
Speaker 1: obviously we knew common people, and it went well. And
Speaker 1: then I was like, hey, would you like to get
Speaker 1: dinner sometime? And she was actually a little surprised. I
Speaker 1: guess that, like I was hitting on her at the
Speaker 1: wedding you know, so stereotypical, but oh she didn't pick
Speaker 1: up that you were hitting on her at first, and
Speaker 1: then finally was like, oh oh wait a minute, like
Speaker 1: you yeah, yeah, okay. So so the wedding night was
Speaker 1: not considered the actual date, right, that was the Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was the meetings. Wokay, So what was the date? Like,
Speaker 1: hopefully you didn't make her your waitress there too, right though, exactly.
Speaker 1: So we went out for dinner and that went really well,
Speaker 1: like we got to know each other. We chatted a
Speaker 1: bit and we had some fun and uh, what was
Speaker 1: the vibe like, were you nervous? I mean on her
Speaker 1: side and your side? Well, she actually called me out.
Speaker 1: She said, did you stage that whole waitress thing? Did
Speaker 1: you just to meet me? She pulled me out, and
Speaker 1: I actually I was like, yeah I did. But it
Speaker 1: started out really good. We were being playful with each other. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it's a good sign when somebody can give you crap,
Speaker 1: you know, like yeah, and you can take it you
Speaker 1: give it back like that's a good dynamic. Someone's laughing
Speaker 1: at your creepiness. Then there's a shot a moment. So
Speaker 1: how did the rest of the night go? Well? Okay,
Speaker 1: So then she did say that she talked to the
Speaker 1: bride about me, and she wouldn't say exactly what she said,
Speaker 1: but she just said that I would be trouble. No,
Speaker 1: wait are you? I mean at the wedding. Were you
Speaker 1: the groom's friend or the bride's run I didn't know,
Speaker 1: or both the groom's friend. Why would she say that
Speaker 1: your trouble because obviously I don't know you. I'm such
Speaker 1: a great guy, I don't have no idea. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean typically, like if I were to say that about
Speaker 1: one of my husband's buddies, it's because they drink a lot.
Speaker 1: There with multiple different women all the time, the very
Speaker 1: attractive qualities yeah, like you know you. Yeah, there's a
Speaker 1: rumor about you. Well, how did the date end? So
Speaker 1: then it was the next stage. We went to one
Speaker 1: of those arcade bar places, so it continued. She was
Speaker 1: still into it, okay, So we were having fun there
Speaker 1: and then she kissed me in front of street Fighter.
Speaker 1: Oh does that mean something? It's interesting the way that
Speaker 1: you said it, though you said she kissed you? Is that?
Speaker 1: Is that? What was she kissed you at the street Fighter?
Speaker 1: Or did you kiss her? Okay? Well I kissed her,
Speaker 1: but she kissed me back, okay, okay, so it was
Speaker 1: your move, it wasn't her move, all right, right, but
Speaker 1: it was just typical. And did you take any plans
Speaker 1: to see each other again? We were just like, oh,
Speaker 1: we'll talk and we'll set up something. And then of
Speaker 1: course this is what I'm calling. I haven't heard from
Speaker 1: her since she had didn't responded to any texts. Have
Speaker 1: texts here, probably three or four times. Maybe she talked
Speaker 1: to the bride again. Yeah, yeah, we'll find out what
Speaker 1: really happened. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back,
Speaker 1: we'll call Meg for you, and we'll try and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, Yeah, that's great things,
Speaker 1: all right, Nate, hold on. When you think of the
Speaker 1: most romantic Hollywood moments of all time, there's Jack and
Speaker 1: Rose kissing on the bow with a Titanic Noah and
Speaker 1: Ali's passionate kiss in the rain from The Notebook, And
Speaker 1: of course, our listener Nate and his date Meg swapping
Speaker 1: saliva in front of the Street Fighter video. Hey, that's
Speaker 1: the sound of their tongues punching each other. That my
Speaker 1: twelve year old dreams from me anyway, But one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Nate, had a nice dinner date with a
Speaker 1: girl named Meg, followed by a little arcade action. But
Speaker 1: afterwards she's been blowing him off, and he wants to
Speaker 1: know why. So, Nate, how you feeling before we call her?
Speaker 1: I'm so really good, honestly, I mean I hate to
Speaker 1: say this, but I'm thinking she could be the one. WHOA,
Speaker 1: that's pretty quick. I mean, I just we just didn't
Speaker 1: get that sense from the you know, talking to you
Speaker 1: a second ago. No, No, I really love love her. WHOA,
Speaker 1: you just set it again. I mean I love being
Speaker 1: with her. Oh wow, that's okay. So now I'm starting
Speaker 1: to think the reason she's not calling you this movie.
Speaker 1: You came on too strong? Yeah, okay, I never say
Speaker 1: anything like that in front of her. I'm just feeling
Speaker 1: really positive. Okay. It's a lot. Writing on this now
Speaker 1: makes me want to make in front of a street
Speaker 1: fighter machine though, I'm going to get those types of feelings.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm worried. I need to bring a machine
Speaker 1: around with me. Okay, no, don't do that. That doesn't
Speaker 1: make sense, I think. Yeah, we all need to stop
Speaker 1: talking and just call up Meg and figure out what's
Speaker 1: going on. You ready, man, I'm ready. Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1: I'm a dollar number right now. Hello, Hey, I'm looking
Speaker 1: for Meg. Um, this is Maggie. Who who's calling Maggie? Oh?
Speaker 1: Is that is mag Do you go by Meg? Ever? Um?
Speaker 1: My friends call me Meg, but I don't know who
Speaker 1: you are. I mean, hopefully we can do friends after
Speaker 1: we're done with this. But we're calling on behalf of
Speaker 1: one of our listeners who went out on a date
Speaker 1: with you recently. Okay, again, still awkward and not really
Speaker 1: sure like okay, that's pretty part for the core with
Speaker 1: these we're doing something called a second date update. That's
Speaker 1: where if you go out with someone and afterwards, if
Speaker 1: that person isn't calling you back. You can email our
Speaker 1: show for help and we'll reach out to them for
Speaker 1: you to help you figure out the reason why. And
Speaker 1: so the listener that we're calling for his name is Nate.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know Nate. Okay, do you like Nate?
Speaker 1: Maybe I should just say, how do you feel about Nate?
Speaker 1: I mean, Nate's a funny guy. Yeah. We did speak
Speaker 1: with Nate a little bit earlier, and he told us
Speaker 1: all about how you guys met. He told us about
Speaker 1: your dinner date and go into the arcade together, and
Speaker 1: he said there was even a kiss that you guys
Speaker 1: had at the end of the night. So from our end,
Speaker 1: it all sounded pretty good. He's a little bit confused
Speaker 1: why afterwards you're not calling him back though, I mean,
Speaker 1: he's a nice guy and all, and like we did
Speaker 1: have a pretty fun date. I just wasn't sure. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure how to proceed. I'm not really sure if
Speaker 1: I want to pursue it. So that's why I've just
Speaker 1: kind of been like radio silent. I just don't want
Speaker 1: to give the wrong impression or the wrong idea to him.
Speaker 1: Could I ask? Because he did mention that you told
Speaker 1: him that the bride of the wedding said that he
Speaker 1: was trouble. Is that what you're referring to? I mean,
Speaker 1: is it just because of something she told you. I
Speaker 1: don't want to embarrass him because, like I said, she's
Speaker 1: a nice guy. He's a funny dude. Well, he probably
Speaker 1: wants to know, Like if somebody was saying stuff behind
Speaker 1: your gay, yeah, you know, warning people about you, you'd
Speaker 1: want to know what they were saying and to defend
Speaker 1: a little bit. A lot of time, rumors are exactly
Speaker 1: that it could be not even true. Yeah, totally. This
Speaker 1: isn't a rum This was like true. I saw it
Speaker 1: with my own eyes. She saw it, so she warned
Speaker 1: you what did you see at first? But she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I gotta be cautious. I'm like, oh my god, if
Speaker 1: he a criminal, does he have a record? Yeah, But
Speaker 1: it wasn't that. It may be worse depending just how
Speaker 1: you look at it. She told me that he loves
Speaker 1: the chance, but he is terrible, Like he's a terrible dancer,
Speaker 1: but just doesn't like he's so oblivious about how bad
Speaker 1: he is. Oh, I don't think there could be Like, dude,
Speaker 1: if people love to dance, like just let him dance.
Speaker 1: Who cares if it looks like an idiot? Do you
Speaker 1: want to date that person? But do you want that person?
Speaker 1: Is so fun at a party? Like everybody loves that person,
Speaker 1: no matter how terrible. Saw what you saw him dance
Speaker 1: at a wedding before you said yes to a date.
Speaker 1: But the difference is Brooke knows that she's like a
Speaker 1: mediocre dancer. The bride says that he's oblivious to it.
Speaker 1: But but you said yes after you saw him dance
Speaker 1: at the wedding. I didn't really see him dancing that
Speaker 1: much at the wedding because you're a lot going on,
Speaker 1: a lot of people are dancing. Yeah, so wait, when
Speaker 1: did you see him dance? Then? So we went obviously,
Speaker 1: you know, we went to an arcade bar, and of
Speaker 1: course they had dance Dance Revolution. This is the whole
Speaker 1: realm of dancing. But nobody's nobody looks good when they
Speaker 1: do DDI it looked like idiots. I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: like stepped up. Oh my god. Like when he saw
Speaker 1: he was like a little can I canny scores, He's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, oh my god, oh my god, we
Speaker 1: have to play. We have to play next, Like twenty
Speaker 1: thirty minutes, he is just like going to town. Oh no,
Speaker 1: was he so sweaty he was in It was just
Speaker 1: so bad, Like he just kept getting these really low
Speaker 1: scores and he's like, I don't understand what's happening. He's
Speaker 1: doing well, So wait, you just sat there and watched
Speaker 1: him do this for twenty to thirty minutes. I felt
Speaker 1: like so like people are looking. I felt awkward. How
Speaker 1: do you tell someone like maybe we should stop? Like
Speaker 1: at one point I watched the bar and reply to
Speaker 1: my drink and oh no, no, like you go, you go,
Speaker 1: you get yourself down a drink. He's like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to lose my game. Excuse me, sir. Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: defend a bad dancer forever. But that I mean, it's
Speaker 1: almost like borderline rude. Yeah, he's ignoring you for thirty minutes.
Speaker 1: I don't think he probably didn't even realize that he
Speaker 1: was doing that. But I think maybe we could find
Speaker 1: out by asking him. Because Meg, I need to tell
Speaker 1: you or sorry, excuse me, Maggie. I know we're not
Speaker 1: friends yet, Maggie, I need to let you know. Nate's
Speaker 1: been on the other line listening and he wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Oh, oh god, I am on the
Speaker 1: other line, and I will say that you were getting
Speaker 1: some terrible scores yourself. Oh that's why are you being defensive?
Speaker 1: Need to come in like that because we ragged on
Speaker 1: his DDR skills, The claws are going to come. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't even take it that seriously. Like I was
Speaker 1: set about getting low scores, like you were devastated that
Speaker 1: you were getting low scores on Dance Dance Revolution, Like
Speaker 1: there's a bigger difference. I don't know. I mean, you're
Speaker 1: acting like you should be on Dancing with the Stars
Speaker 1: or something, and that's not the case. I'm not. I don't,
Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't think I should be on Dancing
Speaker 1: with the Stars. I'm not thinking dancer. I don't even
Speaker 1: think that matters. I think what matters is you were
Speaker 1: more concentrated on this game for a half an hour
Speaker 1: than your date. You sent her to the bar by
Speaker 1: yourself to get it her own. I don't think it
Speaker 1: sent to a constrict I am a great dancer, A right, Okay,
Speaker 1: your scorer on the game, would you beg to differ?
Speaker 1: But that game was a polished One of the senses
Speaker 1: is broken Okay, Okay, I think we're learning a lot
Speaker 1: more about I'm gonna tell you something. It definitely wasn't
Speaker 1: broken because the person who like went right before him
Speaker 1: before this whole thing started. That he really high score
Speaker 1: because he works there. Okay, he knows the senses not
Speaker 1: working right, he knows how to use it. Okay, I
Speaker 1: think we're missing the point of this. Hall. I thought
Speaker 1: you wanted to go out with her again. Remember how
Speaker 1: much you like her? You really like her? Yes, well,
Speaker 1: I actually doesn't seem to like my dancing. I mean,
Speaker 1: now what, I haven't just about the dancing anymore. It's
Speaker 1: just about the delusion right now that I'm listening to. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm a great dancer. There's nothing delusional about that. So
Speaker 1: to be clear, if he had scored higher on then
Speaker 1: you would be interested. I don't think any score would
Speaker 1: really impress the I mean, the fact of the matter
Speaker 1: is I was pretty much ignored for such a good
Speaker 1: amount of time. I just really don't understand, like how
Speaker 1: you could ignore your date to just try to get
Speaker 1: the highest score possible and not realize, like when you're
Speaker 1: constantly failing, like you know, atry, I'm like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna send videos of me dancing. You can see a
Speaker 1: dance for you. I'm gonna block your number right Listen,
Speaker 1: I don't take so much offense. You know, dancings like art.
Speaker 1: It's in the eye of the beholder. Look, man, if
Speaker 1: I was you, I would not listen to Brooks. She's
Speaker 1: a really, really bad dancer. I would just stop the
Speaker 1: dancing altogether and focus on the relationship. If you guy
Speaker 1: have a connection, that's what we need to be focusing on.
Speaker 1: There is no relationship. There's no connection, there's nothing. Like
Speaker 1: I'm done. I well hold on before you're done. I
Speaker 1: do need to ask you if you would like to
Speaker 1: go out on another day with names. Yeah, we'll pay
Speaker 1: for dancing. There won't be any dancing. I don't think anything.
Speaker 1: You can't hearan see that. Yeah, who knows. He could
Speaker 1: take me to a restaurant and next thing I know,
Speaker 1: there's a dance floor opening up. You would be so
Speaker 1: lucky if you dance floor opened up in the middle
Speaker 1: of a restaurant and we were there. Yeah, you will
Speaker 1: find your dancing partner. I just don't think it's Maggie.
Speaker 1: I have to say, you guys really blew it for me.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm the one that was fighting for you, dude. Professional. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're the professionals at blowing it. That's why maybe we
Speaker 1: should rename this segment blowing It and Jeffrey. It will
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