1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know. Y'all bad. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: At all at all. The dogs giving them all. 4 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 2: Back a million bus buss things and. 5 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 3: Boozy listening to to. 6 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 4: I Joy Joy. 7 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 5: You don't use that. 8 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 4: You gotta turn. 9 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 3: I can't. 10 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: I got to turn out. 11 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 4: Turn you probably got to turn mouth turn out the water, 12 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 4: the water upo me. 13 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 2: Come come on, you'll think that. 14 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 6: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are 15 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 6: listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now. One 16 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 6: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man got 17 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 6: a radio show because God is in a blessing business. 18 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 6: I just happen to be a recipient. I just happened 19 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 6: to got a couple of things right, and man, his 20 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,119 Speaker 6: grace and mercy carries you the rest of the way. 21 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 6: All you got to do is get a couple of 22 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 6: things right, and then his grace and his mercy will 23 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 6: take over his favor, his love of you. It's already evident. 24 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 6: I mean, you know, because so many times we go 25 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 6: along without even acknowledging him or conferring with him in 26 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 6: our decisions. And we look up when we find ourselves 27 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 6: in a predicament and he always comes, comes to the rescue. 28 00:02:54,720 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 6: He always manages to show up. He's never too he's 29 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 6: never one minute too late. And so in light of 30 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 6: this today I wanted to talk to you about something. 31 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 6: It's another principle of success that I'd like to share 32 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 6: with everybody this morning. And once again, these are not 33 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 6: things that you don't know or you've never heard before. 34 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 6: These are just reminders along the way. And one of 35 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 6: the things you have to be conscious of is don't 36 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 6: be afraid to change. Don't be afraid to change because 37 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 6: change is coming anyway. See, I have a theory, don't 38 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 6: be afraid to change because change is coming anyway. You know, 39 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 6: everything changes, nothing remains the same nothing, and change is inevitable. Now, 40 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 6: you could participate in the change, or you can react 41 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 6: to the change. Are you following me. You can participate 42 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 6: in the change or you can react to the change. 43 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 6: But don't be afraid to change because change is coming anyway. Now, 44 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 6: what I mean by that is this, in participating in 45 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 6: the change or reacting in the change, there is a difference. 46 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 2: See, if you react. 47 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 6: To the change, that means the change has occurred and 48 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 6: now you have to make the necessary adjustments to the change. Example, 49 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 6: the boss walks in. You think your job is good. 50 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 6: The boss walks in and hands you a pink slip. 51 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 6: That right there, that's a change. Now you didn't participate 52 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 6: in this change because you didn't ask for the pink slip. 53 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 6: But now you've got to react to the pink slip. 54 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 6: Whenever you have to react to the change, it's an 55 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 6: adjustment period. It almost throws you off. So change is 56 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 6: going to come. It always does. You could participate or 57 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 6: you can react. Or let's say your boss comes in 58 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 6: and hans you the pink slip and you said, you 59 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 6: know what I've been preparing for this day. 60 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 2: Always knew nothing. 61 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 6: Last forever, I've been working on the sideline on the 62 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 6: business idea I had, and I had or I had 63 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 6: several other applications in around town. I was just holding 64 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 6: off to see what was going going. So when they 65 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 6: hand you the pink slip, the transition, the adjustment you 66 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 6: make is a lot more smoother transition because now you 67 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 6: just transition into your new business idea that you've been 68 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 6: working on. Are you transitioned into the apps you already 69 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 6: had in or the contacts you made the preparation for 70 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 6: when the day they come in hand you the pink slip. Well, Steve, 71 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 6: what did they surprise you with it? This is just 72 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 6: one example I'm giving you. So you know, let's let's 73 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 6: not nick pick the message. So what I'm saying to 74 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 6: everybody is, don't be afraid to change, because change is 75 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 6: coming anyway. So many people are stuck in a rut 76 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 6: because of our refusal to change. I was hell bent 77 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 6: on a certain thing going a certain way, and this 78 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 6: is how it was gonna go. Well, that that I 79 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 6: was thinking didn't really fit. Now in my own personal experience, 80 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 6: this may not be yours, but in my own personal experience, 81 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 6: the things that I've had the most trouble letting go 82 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 6: of was something I wanted when I line myself up 83 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 6: with the will of God to ask God what he 84 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 6: wanted from me. You understand, those things came a lot 85 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 6: more easy to me because it was in the will 86 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 6: of God. It was what God wanted me to do too. Okay, 87 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 6: see what you mean by that? Okay, here we go. 88 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 6: When things were going wrong in relationships for me, what 89 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 6: I did was the biggest mistake I've ever made, was 90 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 6: I attempted to fix what was wrong in my relationship. 91 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 6: Outside of the relationship feel me. Okay, So I'm out 92 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 6: there working my groove like I want to. Well, now, 93 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 6: guess what. There's the cause and effect for all of 94 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:27,119 Speaker 6: that too. Your house ain't gonna get better. 95 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:32,679 Speaker 2: It can't. And then that lays room for some other things. 96 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 6: And so now when the change come, guess what I 97 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,679 Speaker 6: got to react to it. Now, I gotta, I gotta, 98 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 6: I gotta have a reaction to it. Had I lined 99 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 6: myself up in the will of God, the transition may 100 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 6: have grown differently. It could have still ended the relationship. 101 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 6: But guess what, some of the pain I's in I 102 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 6: ain't had to go through. I bought a lot on myself. 103 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 6: Sometimes you're pursuing a passion of yours, and what God 104 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 6: really wants you to do is pursue your gift. So 105 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 6: now you're pursuing your passion, right, you passion about golf. 106 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 6: You love golf so much. You just determined, But now 107 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 6: you're messed around. You ain't made it on the PGA 108 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 6: Tour yet, and you forty five, still talking about I'm 109 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 6: gonna play on the PGA Tour. Really, okay, maybe you 110 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 6: ain't as good as this you think, or maybe you're 111 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 6: not as gifted as you think. Maybe you're pursuing a passion. Sometimes, man, 112 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 6: we have to change and we have to ask God 113 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 6: what is his will? His will is much simpler. It's 114 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 6: a simpler rule. Not going to be easier, it's simpler. 115 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 6: See when I wake up. Now, it's simple for me 116 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 6: to wake up because I know that are few things 117 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 6: that I have to do. I have to click this 118 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 6: mic on. I have to be positive. I have to 119 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 6: be inspirational. I have to be a formative. I have 120 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 6: to be uplifting. Got it, That's what he wants. All 121 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,439 Speaker 6: I got to do is sit down, close my eyes, 122 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 6: ask God to help me be who he want me 123 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 6: to be. And for the most part, he tell me 124 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 6: what to say. Now, guess what he's done though, to 125 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 6: create this in me. I went through enough things in 126 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:25,119 Speaker 6: my life. I had enough challenges. I made plenty of mistakes. 127 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 6: So now at my age, I can turn around and 128 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 6: tell somebody listening to me, Okay, this is what I did. 129 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 6: This is a mistake I made. Maybe you see yourself 130 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 6: in this story right here. Maybe you don't have to 131 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 6: go this way, or this is what I've learned about 132 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 6: becoming successful. 133 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 2: Here's a principle that I learned. 134 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 6: But then guess what, I had to be unsuccessful to 135 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 6: get it though, didn't I? So you can't have a 136 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 6: testimony without a test Change is coming. It's inevitable. You 137 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 6: can participate or you can react. I much prefer to 138 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 6: participate in the change. 139 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 2: All right, let's go. 140 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 141 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 6: Ladies, gentlemen, everybody listening. I need your attention for this simple, 142 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 6: very simple, but factual announcement. Today is the day that 143 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 6: the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad 144 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 6: in it. It's a very simple scripture. It means so 145 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 6: much to me. I would invite you to just do 146 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 6: the same. Here's a deal. Today is all we really have. 147 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 6: The past belongs to history, the future belongs to God. 148 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 2: We have today. You should rejoice and be glad in it. 149 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 2: Because this is yours. 150 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 6: That's why they call it the present, because it's an 151 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 6: unwrapped gift. It's the present. This is yours, this is ours. 152 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 6: Let's get in. 153 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morty Show. 154 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 6: Sheary Strawberry calling for elements, Monica Junior Berotter, know this, kids, 155 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 6: break and the legend of nephew Tommy yours truly, Junior. 156 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 1: What boy, I tell you what? 157 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 7: I remember one of your more famous jokes Willie Turner, 158 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 7: like give my money. 159 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: I saw it the. 160 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 7: Other day, man, man, So what list have you gone 161 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 7: through to get your money? If somebody don't have Steve 162 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 7: Harvey money, what lists have you been through? 163 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:28,199 Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you one of the biggest impacts, one 164 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 6: of the moments. 165 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 2: It's the true story. 166 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 6: I got paid in Arkansas one night and we were 167 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 6: performing at this comedy club that was upstairs on the 168 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 6: second floor had a bar, and I kind of stayed 169 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 6: till the show was over, talking to some of the 170 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 6: bartenders and waitresses, and I put my little cash in 171 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 6: a bag, which was seven hundred and fifty dollars, and 172 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 6: I'm walking because I could walk across the street to 173 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 6: the condo that they let the comedia stay in. And 174 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 6: I come downstairs on the walk across the parking lot, 175 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 6: and this dude runs up behind me and grabs me 176 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 6: from behind, and I kind of turned and I could 177 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 6: see the waitresses upstairs on the balcony when I had 178 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 6: just left, and they was talking and laughing, so I 179 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 6: thought it was one of the little bartender's playing. You 180 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:18,719 Speaker 6: know how they play. I don't really play like that. 181 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 6: You know how he I go along with it. For 182 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 6: a pickup truck, he grabs me from behind. It was 183 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 6: kind of tight, but I said, okay, that's how he's 184 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 6: trying to play. He wasn't strong enough to toss me, 185 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 6: but he was holding me. A pickup truck pulls up 186 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 6: right in front of me, and the dude jumps out 187 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 6: the truck and is charging at me. 188 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:41,319 Speaker 2: Now right there, the hood in me goes off. Yeah. 189 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 6: I don't know if they still playing, but it don't 190 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 6: look like playing to me, So I'm gonna act. 191 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 2: Like it ain't no play game no more. 192 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 6: I put my chin on my chest and threw my 193 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 6: head back into his face as hard as I. 194 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 2: Could, bust his nose. 195 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 6: But here the dude come, the little white dude gonna 196 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 6: ben over and charge me. 197 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: And I was way quick at the end. 198 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 6: I was in my thirties, So yeah, bending over charging me, 199 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 6: that's a mistake. 200 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 2: I'm put the knee in your chin. 201 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 6: Come to find out, they was robbing meg. I you 202 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 6: ain't got no gun, you ain't got no knighte. 203 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,239 Speaker 2: Y'all ain't strong, y'all. Ain't coordinated? 204 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:27,719 Speaker 8: You robbing me? Yeah, you ain't got none of qualification, boy. 205 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 2: And you can't fight. 206 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 6: You know where to hear you get my seven fifty. 207 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,560 Speaker 6: All right, it's a nice day at the outside. Nice 208 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 6: activity right after the show. Yeah, still have my hands, 209 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 6: thank you, Lord. 210 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour. Run 211 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 9: that brank back right after this. 212 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 213 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 2: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 214 00:13:56,360 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 6: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. Until now, 215 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 6: introduce it the Hondai Ionic nine, a three row electric 216 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 6: suv with over three hundred miles of range, ultra fast 217 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 6: charging capability, and lots of space. 218 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 3: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face in an EV. 219 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 3: Visit Hondai USA dot com for more details. EPA estimated 220 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 3: rings for nine based on fully charged batteries for comparison 221 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 3: purpose only. Actual rings will vary based on several factors. 222 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: It's time now to run that frank back with the nephew. 223 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: What you got for his neph. 224 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 3: Me and your baby getting married? We just mad, We 225 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 3: just getting married. Let's go get run that frank back. 226 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 5: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to read. I'm trying to read 227 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 5: a mister. Yes Sey, mister, how you doing, I'm trying. 228 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 5: Let me let me make you I'm calling the right person. 229 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 5: Your daughter is Crystal? Yes, okay, cool, Yeah, I got 230 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 5: the right person. Hey listen. Oh well, I wanted to 231 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 5: do mister Richards is called and introduce myself to you 232 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 5: and let you know who I will. My name is Jeff, Jeff, 233 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 5: and I've been seeing Crystal, uh, you know, pretty much 234 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 5: like the last five to six months, and I wanted 235 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 5: to let you know that I'm very very interested in you. 236 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 5: And I know this is kind of crazy for you 237 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 5: to get a phone call for me, but I'm very 238 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 5: interested in Crystal right now, and I wanted to you know, 239 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 5: I just wanted to do the man thing and just 240 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 5: reach out to your man and say I'm really interested 241 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 5: in and uh in marrying your. 242 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 10: Daughter and marrying my daughter. Well, hold on, man, what what? 243 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 5: What? My name is? 244 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 11: Jeff jeffl Okay, Jeff, Jeff, listen. 245 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 10: I'm very close with my daughter, and my daughter has 246 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 10: never ever mentioned you. I talk my daughter every day. 247 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 5: Wow. I don't know what that's about, but it's been 248 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 5: like about five close to six months that me and 249 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 5: Christal being you know, going out, you know, up here 250 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 5: at the school. But what I want to do is 251 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 5: tell you that I really, really really like Crystal man 252 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 5: uh and I want to call and tell you that, 253 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 5: you know, I'm really really interested in many Crystal. You know, 254 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 5: I want, I really do want Christal to be my wife. 255 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 10: Well, I again, I've never heard of you before, and 256 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 10: my daughter has never ever mentioned you. My daughter isn't 257 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 10: dating anybody right now. My daughter's in grad school. 258 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 5: I understand that. And you know, we you know, it's 259 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 5: been you know, we've been you know, a little back 260 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 5: and forth or whatever. But you know, the main thing 261 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 5: in me and Christal really, you know, we really we 262 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 5: really do love each other. Miss I want to And. 263 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 10: If you love my daughter, she would have told me 264 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 10: that she was in love with someone. 265 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 5: Well you know what you know. And maybe it's a 266 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 5: situation where Christa is like a little maybe a little 267 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 5: uneasy about talking to you about it. You know what 268 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 5: I'm saying. 269 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 10: My daughter can talk to me about anything. 270 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 5: We talk every day, right right, just just like you. 271 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 5: I talk to my daughter every day. 272 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 10: And how old is your daughter? 273 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 5: My daughter? Fifteen? 274 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 10: Hold hold on, wo man, Man, you said your. 275 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 5: Daughter was fifteen, right, right, right? 276 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 12: Okay? 277 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 1: How old are you? 278 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:15,400 Speaker 12: I'm forty six, forty six? You forty six year old? 279 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 12: You want a man? 280 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 10: My twenty five year old daughter. 281 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 5: He let me say this right here. Love ain't got 282 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 5: no limit, man, And I understand you know. I was 283 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:30,719 Speaker 5: a little shocked at first about the age difference between us, 284 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 5: but you get you know what, Man, how shocked to me? Okay? 285 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 5: And I understand that. But what I'm trying to explain 286 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 5: to you, man, is that it comes a time. Man. 287 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,239 Speaker 5: You just don't know what's gonna happen. Man. Love just 288 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 5: love is love. Man. 289 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 10: And you've been locked there on parole at the university 290 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 10: on work release and let my daughter, Yeah, I want 291 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 10: with you. 292 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 5: Man. I'm gonna say this, man, Crystal is just a 293 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 5: beautiful person. 294 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 6: Man. 295 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 10: Hold on, man, you calling me at the Blue Dollar. Look, man, 296 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 10: I got a lot of work on my desk and 297 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:05,120 Speaker 10: you calling me telling me you form a gentile bird 298 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 10: wants to marry my daughter. My twenty five year old 299 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 10: daughter and you are fifteen in my age you want 300 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 10: to marry my daughter? Man, I am not trying. 301 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:14,120 Speaker 12: To talk to you about it. 302 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 10: Well, I need to do this. I need to talk 303 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 10: to Crystal and get to the bottom of this. 304 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:18,120 Speaker 6: That's what the hell I. 305 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 2: Need to do. 306 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 5: And I understand that, Miss, you was probably gonna I 307 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 5: want to talk to and I ain't got no problem 308 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 5: with that. What I'm trying to explain to you is that, man, 309 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 5: love ain't got no limit. Man, It's just something that happened. 310 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 5: Crystal loved me, I love her, and it is what 311 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:34,640 Speaker 5: it is. I just wanted to try to get your 312 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 5: blessings on this. 313 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 10: You can't get my questions skill. Man, he gil gonna 314 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 10: marry my daughter. 315 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 12: Now. My daughter been a private. 316 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 10: School all love life. She's gonna do this. It's all 317 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 10: four years of college and she's going to grad school 318 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 10: and now you're gonna marry my daughter. You may on 319 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 10: your work with me. 320 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,400 Speaker 5: Hey, miss I understand that. What I'm what I'm trying 321 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 5: to explain to you that you know what, man, Sometimes 322 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 5: love is right the second time around. You understand I'm saying, 323 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 5: what the. 324 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 12: Hell you mean the second time? 325 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 5: I got kids already. What I'm trying to say is 326 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,400 Speaker 5: it didn't work out with me on the first time. 327 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 5: What I wanted to do, man, is just call you 328 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,719 Speaker 5: and solidify the culinary experience. 329 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 12: Orry got to doing food, but the hell is you 330 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:18,200 Speaker 12: talking about it? Look? 331 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 11: Look, look, look, I gotta talk to my daughter. I'm 332 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 11: gonna call Crystal and I'm gonna find out what the 333 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 11: hell is going on, because look, man, I'm not even 334 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 11: trying to have this conversation with you. 335 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 5: And I look comparent, I understand all that. I understand 336 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:32,679 Speaker 5: what you're saying. What I want to say to you 337 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 5: is just right here. Crystal is twenty five. Even if 338 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 5: you don't agree with this, here, we're gonna eat low 339 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 5: and make sure that we do. 340 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 10: Look here, you ain't doing a thing with my daughter 341 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 10: unless it's my here, man, you ain't doing my stuff. 342 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 10: I don't even know your jail bird. You ain't doing 343 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 10: I'm gonna call my daughter. Finally, you really lost your mind. 344 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 10: Think your old jail bird is gonna be Larry and 345 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 10: my daughter. My daughter's got a future. He ain't got 346 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 10: the hell is wrong with you? 347 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 12: You mine? 348 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 5: I'm not finishing it and go back and forth with you. 349 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,199 Speaker 5: Miss me and Crystal getting married. 350 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 10: This will not happen under any circumstances. 351 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,640 Speaker 5: Mind what you think the circumstances are. Me and Crystal 352 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 5: getting married. That's it, not love. Man. 353 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 12: I don't know what's wrong you think you are. 354 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 10: It's wrong with you. 355 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 5: Know what has gotta be? I got one more thing 356 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 5: I need to say in there. Me and Crystal just 357 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 5: gonna come over there and drive down there and tell 358 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 5: you exactly what's going on in our life right now. 359 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 10: What you got to say to me? 360 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 5: Are you listening to me? 361 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 12: What the hell you got to say to me? 362 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 5: I got to say this. This is ness you Tilly 363 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 5: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked 364 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 5: by your daughter Crystal and her boyfriend. 365 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 2: God, ain't this. 366 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 12: I'm sad Im Jib American crazy man. 367 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 5: Your baby girl just wanted to put a smile on 368 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 5: your face. Man, I gotta ask you, what is what 369 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 5: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show 370 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 5: in the land. 371 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 11: And the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 372 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 9: I'd be yeah, thank you nephew coming up next to 373 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 9: his ask the CELO, our chief love Officer, Steve Harvey 374 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 9: in the building. 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Visit 384 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 3: Hondai USA dot com or call five six two three one. 385 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 2: Four four six zero three for more details. 386 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 9: It is asked the CLO with Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Ready, Steve, 387 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 9: here we go. This one's from Marshall in Kansas City. 388 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 9: Marchelle says, I reconnected with a male friend after five 389 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 9: years of not talking because his sex was garbage. We 390 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 9: did it only once and I put him in the 391 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,959 Speaker 9: friend zone. Afterwards, he wants us to try dating again. 392 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 9: So should I test the waters first to see if 393 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 9: he's better at sex? 394 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 6: I mean, what are you talking about? Should I test 395 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 6: the waters first before you what? 396 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:49,679 Speaker 1: She does it again? 397 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,199 Speaker 6: What do you mean test to waters first before she 398 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:53,920 Speaker 6: does it again? How do you test the water? 399 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 2: You do it right on into the water again. 400 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: She wants to do it? Yeah, she's asked, Well, she 401 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:58,320 Speaker 1: do it. 402 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 6: That's all she did before was she did it one time? 403 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 6: It was garbage. She put him into friends off. Now 404 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 6: she's calling us to say, should I test the waters 405 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 6: again before I go in? 406 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 2: How you test the waters? You gonna have sex with 407 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 2: the dude again? Right? 408 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 9: She wants to see if he's learned anything. If he's well, 409 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 9: got only. 410 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 2: One way to find out. You can't ask. 411 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: What you're gonna ask? 412 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,360 Speaker 2: Are you still garbage in the bad baby? I ain't 413 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 2: never be garbage? Baby, I learned how to do it, 414 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 2: yet I turned him up. I turned him out, but 415 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:29,920 Speaker 2: he got five years. 416 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,359 Speaker 6: Depending on how old he is, you know, if he 417 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,160 Speaker 6: and his farty, it's gonna be the same nothing. 418 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,440 Speaker 2: Now, if he was twenty one, might be in for 419 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 2: a surprise. Oh it's a big surprise. 420 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 6: But if it's forty forty five, he the same dude, 421 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 6: Miss guiding women. 422 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 2: He's a tide. 423 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,159 Speaker 1: So should she take a chance or not? 424 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 12: Oh? 425 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 2: You ain't the holdly that's why he available. 426 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 6: You ain't the only one discovery why you. 427 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 2: Think every time you talk to him his disavailable? That part? Yeah? 428 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 9: All right, go ahead, all right, here we go, Suki 429 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 9: and Oklahoma, says my seven year old son told me. 430 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 1: That his teacher is a brown cow. 431 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 9: He said his classmates call her that his teacher is black, 432 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 9: and he is one of the only three blacks in 433 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 9: the class. Do I need to start calling these racist 434 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 9: parents or should I talk to the principal? 435 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 6: Yeah, you need to start calling these racist parents and 436 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 6: start with your little racist boy. 437 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: They got him. He down there repeating what he hearing. 438 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 2: She's the brown cow. 439 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 6: And it's to be a minute, and y'all need to 440 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 6: check it, yes, because this is how it starts. If 441 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 6: it goes unchecked, it gets it gets out of head. 442 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 2: And he's and he's seven. 443 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,360 Speaker 1: So yeah, you got to say something, okay, all right, 444 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:02,440 Speaker 1: all right? 445 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:02,679 Speaker 12: Uh. 446 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 9: The Kwanda in Terrytown says, uh, my husband told me 447 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 9: that he offered his coworker a ride to work after 448 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 9: her car was stolen. I found her page on Instagram, 449 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 9: and she's got a lot of revealing pictures of her 450 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 9: big old butt and she's cute. She forbid him from 451 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,640 Speaker 9: taking her to work. 452 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 2: Let's say, why do you. 453 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 6: Think he offered to ride? That's why he offered to ride, 454 00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 6: So you can forbid him or whatever you want. 455 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 2: But you know he already offered. 456 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 12: Nice. 457 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,200 Speaker 1: He wanted a friend. He wasn't doing that. 458 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 6: He wanted a friend, wasn't nice. What it's being nice for? 459 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:01,160 Speaker 6: What me and everything men do is with her. Every 460 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 6: single thing is with purpose. Picking you up because you 461 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 6: need a ride was stolen. Let her daddy take her 462 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 6: to work. She ain't got no girlfriends can drop us off. 463 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 6: But the women on the job just got caused. Why 464 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 6: you volunteer? You already know the conversation he catches here, 465 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 6: Go ahead and pick up and see what happened. 466 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 2: Trying to be a better person than get a woman 467 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 2: to ride. That's all. 468 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 6: I'm just trying to better get an uber app And 469 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 6: I don't get the problem all this stuff that's out here. Now, 470 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,359 Speaker 6: she need a ride. Her car got stolen. Now you're finish. 471 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 6: Take our car over there in that racked neighborhood and 472 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:45,639 Speaker 6: now we ain't got no ride. 473 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: You breaking it down. 474 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:52,679 Speaker 9: The yellow So you're telling Dakwanda, yes, she should forbid 475 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 9: her husband from taking her to work. 476 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 2: Why he tell her all he had to do was 477 00:26:58,920 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 2: go and pick her up? 478 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,479 Speaker 6: Well, you even early, now you know I got some 479 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 6: pre work things I got to do. Anything can happen, though, 480 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,119 Speaker 6: right because I mean, God forbid if you get an 481 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,440 Speaker 6: accident with this woman, well it's happening now. 482 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 2: He'd have told the truth. And look where he at. 483 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:22,720 Speaker 2: He be a strawberry letter. I told you all about 484 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 2: this truth. 485 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:28,959 Speaker 6: Now I have told you over and over about this truth. 486 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:33,400 Speaker 6: Just walking in the house confessing so stupid behind. 487 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,479 Speaker 2: It ain't time for that now. You done looked up 488 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 2: her page. 489 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,360 Speaker 3: But if she wouldn't fine, it'd be okay. 490 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 6: If she wasn't fine, you wouldn't be offering the ride. 491 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 2: It's a catch twenty two. I get it, understand. I 492 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 2: want the lovely people that they call Man. I'm going 493 00:27:59,240 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 2: to work. 494 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 6: People tell me, look got over there. 495 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 2: He ain't doing good, is it? Man? 496 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 6: Look at that dude, he got a ride with her 497 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 6: morning to work. I know I'll get a divorce. Just 498 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 6: ain't about white. They know what you're looking at over here. 499 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 8: This ain't Joe car. 500 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 2: Find your pins. 501 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,400 Speaker 1: Just being nice man, just helping help. 502 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 6: You got a wonderful personality to beautiful on the inside. 503 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 2: All right? 504 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: Moving on last one. 505 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 9: Crazy uh Vedra in Memphis says, I've been dating a 506 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 9: guy for a while and his eight year old son 507 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 9: is very rough and like to tackle me and wrestle 508 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 9: with me. I've had several bruises, and I've asked him 509 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 9: to control his son, but he won't. I avoid the 510 00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 9: boy whenever possible, because I'm going to hurt him him. 511 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 9: Should I knock his little butt out one good time? 512 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 2: That's what you got to do, you on it. 513 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,520 Speaker 6: He come in there to tackle, Just raise your knee, 514 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 6: put it dead on his chin, rock his little oop. Sorry, 515 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 6: here's what you do. Tackle him when he tackle him first, 516 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 6: he ain't looking. Just put your foot in his lower 517 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 6: back and send it across the room dead into them blinds. 518 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 5: He's eight. 519 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 2: Now you need it, and I stop all that tackling. 520 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 1: Uh huh? 521 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 2: Why? 522 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 1: Why one't his dad saying? 523 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 6: My grandson used to bite me when he saw on it. 524 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,320 Speaker 6: Then I beat his back and we stopped all the 525 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 6: biting ended. 526 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 1: All right? 527 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 12: Thanks? 528 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 8: Come here, it's. 529 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 6: Steve Harbin Marley show Man. It might be two birds 530 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 6: in that bush. But if you let this bird go 531 00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 6: to reach in there for the two in the bush 532 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 6: and they fly the bush, you ain't got nothing. 533 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 2: A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. 534 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 7: But if it's two and that I'm having to catch both, 535 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 7: wouldn't that be better. 536 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 6: See keyword in that was a small word with the smaller, 537 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 6: the smallest words with the biggest consequences. If if I 538 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,239 Speaker 6: robbed this bank, and if they don't catch me, I'm 539 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 6: gonna be rich. Okay, a whole lot of ifs sitting 540 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 6: in prison today. 541 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 2: Coming up right after. 542 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 543 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 9: Let's keeping it one hundred questions from from Carla for 544 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 9: the crew is have you prayed for the downfall of 545 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 9: your X and Y? Have you prayed guys anybody for 546 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 9: the downfall of your ex? 547 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 12: No? 548 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,920 Speaker 2: I ain't that better. I'm not that. 549 00:30:53,760 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 9: Guy allegedly allegedly, allegedly I prayed for the Lord to 550 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 9: take you out my life. 551 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 2: I prayed for that. 552 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you didn't want anything bad. 553 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 7: I mean when I heard something bad about my ex, 554 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 7: I didn't really be upset about it. 555 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 8: I'm like, what that happened to them? 556 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: I didn't. I wouldn't that I took it. Yeah, you know, 557 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 1: she pregnant. What it's a down. 558 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 5: To? 559 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 6: Nothing like real bad to have him like you know 560 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 6: I was. Yeah, I prayed for a you know, locked 561 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 6: y'all one time. 562 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't talk. 563 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, just a temporary stroke, you know, left. 564 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 8: Just just Toby. 565 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 6: Court on court day. On court day, I did ask 566 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 6: for a car accident. Oh but it wasn't nothing. I 567 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 6: just wanted to want not to make it. That's what 568 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 6: dint want to be her if I want the car 569 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 6: to be told you're going through your Yeah, yeah, but 570 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 6: tell me what were you? 571 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 2: I wish you ran out of gas on a cliff? 572 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 2: You know. 573 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 13: So wait, when we first started this segment and surely 574 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 13: asked y'all this question, y'all was like, nah, I ain't 575 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 13: never done nothing pray, But what was your question? 576 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 7: Though? 577 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 9: The question is have you prayed for the downfall of 578 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 9: your ex? 579 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 2: And if you had not the downfall, but. 580 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: Something that happens, you know, but to fall down. 581 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 9: Okay, I'm just saying that's the same thing, guys, Okay, 582 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 9: same thing. 583 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 6: You don't like slip on some steps in your heels, yeah, 584 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 6: and go into an uncontrollable free fall. 585 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 2: Stuff like that that in slow. 586 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 1: Motion a heel called in a sewer grite. You know, 587 00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: now we ball your damn. That's about the most you've done. 588 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: Nothing really bad though, right guy, bad. 589 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 8: Stranger come up and slap the hell out of them. 590 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 2: Something like that. 591 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 1: That's when you draw the line something bad. 592 00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 6: Just I don't look really bad to have, you know, 593 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 6: you know, if I find out, you know, you know, 594 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 6: it's all just so, he don't mean nothing bad. 595 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 7: No, no, yeah, chased by a pit bull or something 596 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 7: like that. 597 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 6: You know, Like I find out your house got burned 598 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 6: down and all the tapes was in there, I'll be cool. 599 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:34,800 Speaker 13: What tapes? 600 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: What's going on? 601 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 2: Any tapes might super glued your mouth. 602 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 3: That's a question for y'all, because y'all the one carried grudges. 603 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 9: Wait a minute, Tommy, you're the one. I know you're 604 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 9: not talking about carrying grudges. 605 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 6: I think you own the some what I recalling. I've 606 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 6: been your friend, Oh lord, eighteen years now. You ain't 607 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 6: ever forgave what's her name? 608 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 5: Not? 609 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 1: What's his name? Okay, we're not talking. 610 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 2: About that right now. You ain't ever for gay what's it? 611 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 8: What's his name? 612 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,840 Speaker 2: Elva, elva, elba? 613 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:19,360 Speaker 1: So Celie, you ain't let it go? 614 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 2: Hell no, even today? 615 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 1: Hell no, I want to mind to die. 616 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 9: Yeah, at my hand, I wanted to be the murderess. 617 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 1: Surely not you. Yeah, I want't sure you see me 618 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,720 Speaker 1: scriptures every morning Yeah. 619 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:39,880 Speaker 12: Me too. 620 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,360 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm not perfect Jr. 621 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 3: I know they said, you know how to slide on 622 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 3: the car and disconnect breaks in by. 623 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 2: Four Call the pold sugar in a man tank one time. 624 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 1: I have no proof of that called. 625 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 6: Five pound calling when the man games tank exploded? What 626 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 6: what what? 627 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 8: What? 628 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:05,240 Speaker 1: What? What? 629 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 2: What did you need? 630 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 12: What? 631 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 6: How do I need proof? When the butcher knife is 632 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 6: still in the last time? 633 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 1: Allegedly this is a question for the guys. 634 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean just out there, just stabbing the town. 635 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:26,480 Speaker 1: I have no proof of. 636 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 12: That is. 637 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:29,439 Speaker 2: Calling for real. 638 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:33,319 Speaker 13: I will be President Trump on this show because there's 639 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 13: no collusion, no obstruction. 640 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:41,760 Speaker 6: Stabbed caller took a butcher knife, stabbed out the tail 641 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,799 Speaker 6: lights and the head lights and park lights on the car. 642 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,960 Speaker 1: Call just the light Jr. Allegedly Steve is just talking. 643 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: So he can't even do that. 644 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 7: Go out at night when where you're going, because that's 645 00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 7: what got him in trouble. 646 00:35:59,040 --> 00:35:59,799 Speaker 1: He was out at night. 647 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, at a night hard to creep. Ain't no lights 648 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:03,440 Speaker 2: on your car? 649 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 8: Godly, just when you think you know the people you 650 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 8: work with. 651 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,200 Speaker 13: We've grown so much since then. Yeah, we're not petty 652 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:18,000 Speaker 13: like that. We're not petty like that. Yeah, and it 653 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 13: wasn't sugar allegedly in the gas tank. It was a 654 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 13: water hose that you Oh sorry, hey what just. 655 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 2: His car? Just buttering? 656 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: Why allegedly it's Steve Harben Marty show man. 657 00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,799 Speaker 6: How did you How did your father affect your world view? 658 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 1: Your view of the world exactly. 659 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 6: I wasn't allowed to have no view of the world. 660 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 6: You just need to see what I see and that's all. 661 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,360 Speaker 6: No worry about what they're doing over there in Spain 662 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 6: and all that. That ain't your biousness. You don't have 663 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 6: no worldview. You just see what I'm You just better 664 00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,359 Speaker 6: look at what I'm trying to show you, and on this. 665 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,959 Speaker 2: World view you get that later. 666 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 6: Uh well, right now, we're digging this hole and put 667 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 6: this post in and make these sense that's your view. 668 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 6: Look down in that hole, make sure it's deep enough. 669 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 6: That was I wasn't allowed to have a worldview. 670 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,800 Speaker 2: Coming up right after. 671 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,439 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 672 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 2: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 673 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 6: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space until now. 674 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 6: Introducing the Hondai Ionic nine, a three row electric suv 675 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 6: with over three hundred miles of range, ultra fast charging capability, 676 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:46,719 Speaker 6: and lots of space. 677 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,359 Speaker 2: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face. 678 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 3: And an ev Visit Hondai USA dot com for more details. 679 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,000 Speaker 3: EPA estimated rings for Ionic nine based on fully charged 680 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,040 Speaker 3: batteries for comparison purpose only. Actual rings will vary based 681 00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:00,279 Speaker 3: on several factors. 682 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 9: It is time for would you rather for today? Would 683 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 9: you rather now think about this? Would you rather receive 684 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 9: the Nobel Peace Prize or would you rather get an Oscar. 685 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 7: I'm gonna go with Nobel Peace Prize because they fighting 686 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 7: at the Oscars. 687 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 2: I'm not slat. 688 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:21,520 Speaker 1: Lots of people. 689 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,240 Speaker 8: Slat when you win about peace. 690 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 6: I'd love to get the Nobel Peace Prize and to 691 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:33,319 Speaker 6: mean more to me. Yeah, person, I am because you 692 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 6: know it's it's it's an award. It's a reward versus 693 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 6: an award. It's a reward for hard work. Oscars is 694 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:54,600 Speaker 6: an award. Okay, you know something you get a reward 695 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:58,200 Speaker 6: for you accomplish something, you receive benefit of something you've done. 696 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,040 Speaker 6: And award they just give something. It's usually a group 697 00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 6: of people or something like that. It ain't got to 698 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 6: be unanimous and all like that. So I'm about the 699 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 6: Noble Peace Prize. 700 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 9: Okay, all right, would you rather starve for a week, 701 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:15,919 Speaker 9: starve for a week. 702 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,040 Speaker 1: Or go to jail for a day. 703 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,840 Speaker 2: I'm going to jail, going to jail, really. 704 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:27,319 Speaker 6: Hell yeah? Before I think that they feed you in there, 705 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,960 Speaker 6: they get you something. He's gonna like it. So we're 706 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,799 Speaker 6: not gonna say, up, be a star for a week, man, 707 00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,279 Speaker 6: you know the shake. You're gonna be and go down 708 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 6: here and do this jail time, the jokes, make a 709 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:38,800 Speaker 6: couple of big friends and stuff. 710 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:39,160 Speaker 2: I know. 711 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:43,160 Speaker 6: I talked to hoods man. I'll be in there, motivating, encouraging, 712 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 6: having dog. I ain't even gonna be sleep I'm gonna 713 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 6: stay up the whole time. Back to the wall. 714 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 2: It's just to day. I'm not gonna I'm going to jail, though, 715 00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey, what up. 716 00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,760 Speaker 1: Y'all going about a week week in jail? 717 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 6: A week in jail or a week of starving? When 718 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 6: you say starving, what do you. 719 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: Mean start no food? 720 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 2: No food, no food? 721 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:12,439 Speaker 6: No oh no, no, no, no, I'm going to jail. 722 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,520 Speaker 6: You ain't gonna you ain't gonna be able to do that. Okay, Yeah, 723 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,640 Speaker 6: at least I can accomplish something in jail. I'm gonna 724 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,840 Speaker 6: be hundre to be stealing. I had to be so 725 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 6: quiet for that week of starving laying in the hospital. 726 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 1: All right, all right, moving on. 727 00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:37,719 Speaker 9: Would you rather use sandpaper as toilet paper or use vinegar? 728 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,839 Speaker 6: As I dropped, I'm gonna use that sandpaper for toilet paper. 729 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,799 Speaker 6: I'm just gonna flip that other side over. You ain't 730 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 6: putting that vinegar in my eyes. That ain't what you 731 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 6: fit to do. I can't go blind. Yeah, you can 732 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,880 Speaker 6: rate that sandpaper straight across my not putting that vinegar 733 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,359 Speaker 6: in my eye. I can deal with that right there. 734 00:40:56,719 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 6: I've cut my butt before. I've done it more than once. 735 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:07,319 Speaker 2: Harry, all right, gont do it? Put this vinegar in. 736 00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:11,439 Speaker 1: My Today's version of would you Rather Less? 737 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:11,680 Speaker 8: Sup? 738 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 1: It's DJ call this you boy. Chris bron Hey, this 739 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 1: is Keisha Cole, Lost People. This is Kirk Franklin. Hey, 740 00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 1: this is John Legend. 741 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,000 Speaker 2: And you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 742 00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 743 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 9: Let's have some fun, guys, come on, time to play 744 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:31,359 Speaker 9: who on the. 745 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 1: Show would you trust? All right, Carla has a list. 746 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 13: Of questions for us. Let's go Carla. All right, Shirley, guys, 747 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 13: here we go. Who would you trust? So who on 748 00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,200 Speaker 13: the show would you trust to bail you out of jail? 749 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 1: Where the money reside? 750 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:55,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, he ain't gonna answer that phone when they called. Now, 751 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 3: let me tell you that that one call you got, 752 00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:59,960 Speaker 3: you're not not picking that up. 753 00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:04,240 Speaker 2: No, no call, somebody else tell them. 754 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:07,759 Speaker 13: Right, So same question for you, Steve, who would you 755 00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,440 Speaker 13: call on this show to bail you out of jail? 756 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 2: You got to do a blow. 757 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,359 Speaker 3: Because because in his mind, ain't none of us got 758 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 3: no money? 759 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,759 Speaker 6: Well, ah, y'all got enough money to get me out. 760 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 6: But who would pick up the phone and act? 761 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:26,480 Speaker 2: First? 762 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 6: Monica would be on the internet because she is want 763 00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 6: to post it on her I g. 764 00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 13: Hey, all right, here's another question. Who on this show 765 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 13: would you trust to protect you from an intruder? Let's 766 00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 13: go Tommy? Surely anybody? 767 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:05,440 Speaker 2: Okay, So you can't pick yourself? Okay, well of course me. 768 00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:08,400 Speaker 6: But I picked Tommy because he's hot headed. 769 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he's. 770 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,880 Speaker 2: Gonna do something. He's gonna spring in. Actually gonna be 771 00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:15,240 Speaker 2: a problem be Tommy. 772 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:21,640 Speaker 13: Well, all right, who on this show would you trust 773 00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:25,880 Speaker 13: to keep all of your vegas secrets. 774 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:33,040 Speaker 6: Definitely not Monica, not the Mouth of the South. 775 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 3: I picked shey ye, yeah, gamble, you don't drink surely? 776 00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, because carl ain't gonna go down, because because 777 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:49,800 Speaker 6: she haled cold. 778 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 2: If wald. 779 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:55,880 Speaker 6: You know? 780 00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,200 Speaker 1: Okay, all right? 781 00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,320 Speaker 13: Who on this show would you trust to be kind 782 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:06,720 Speaker 13: to your family if you died? 783 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? Everybody would be kind to the family. 784 00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,840 Speaker 1: Okay, good, so everybody? All right? So who on this 785 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 1: show would you trust to perform c p R on you? 786 00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:31,520 Speaker 2: That had to be you are Shirley? Definitely? I would 787 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,280 Speaker 2: you Shirley A Monica my father. 788 00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:35,240 Speaker 12: I can't. 789 00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,919 Speaker 1: I can't have them on these two. 790 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:42,000 Speaker 3: I can't wake up in Jay over me blowing out and. 791 00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:47,640 Speaker 1: Stay still out. 792 00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,000 Speaker 2: Just give me an ambulance, man, listen, how get that? 793 00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:52,120 Speaker 1: But he saved your lot. 794 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:54,239 Speaker 6: I can hold my breath that long. Hell, I'll took 795 00:44:54,320 --> 00:45:00,520 Speaker 6: a shot, little brain damage. I'll recover some therapy. 796 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,359 Speaker 1: At what I wake up your life like. 797 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:03,719 Speaker 2: Here? 798 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,879 Speaker 3: At least when I wake up, switch places with him. 799 00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,400 Speaker 3: Don't let me see him over me, y'all. 800 00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,080 Speaker 1: Okay, that's crazy, All right, here we go. 801 00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 2: This is a good one right here. 802 00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:16,920 Speaker 1: Pool on the show, would you. 803 00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:22,560 Speaker 13: Trust to keep your sex tape from falling into the 804 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,240 Speaker 13: wrong hands. 805 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 6: God who Well, well, first of all, look who had 806 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 6: the biggest reaction. That means there's a possibility there's a 807 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 6: tape out there somewhere. 808 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,480 Speaker 3: They don't, they don't, they don't, they don't play VHS 809 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 3: is no more. 810 00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:46,400 Speaker 2: They don't have no more BHS. 811 00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,319 Speaker 8: We got digital baby. 812 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:52,840 Speaker 2: Wow. 813 00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,680 Speaker 9: All right, look at the time we gotta say, Junior, 814 00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,719 Speaker 9: I say Julie coming up? 815 00:45:59,760 --> 00:45:59,920 Speaker 2: Mad? 816 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,880 Speaker 1: Oh not Carla or me? Okay, I trust Carla? 817 00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 2: Looking at it. 818 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 6: Hell, now y'all all send it to the wife, you know, 819 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:13,439 Speaker 6: not for free? 820 00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 2: All right? 821 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,960 Speaker 9: Coming up next to the nephew with today's prank phone call. 822 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:21,800 Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 823 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,640 Speaker 1: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour. 824 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 9: It's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is 825 00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,000 Speaker 9: the candy Lady. 826 00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:34,320 Speaker 1: The candy Lady. 827 00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,960 Speaker 9: Okay, we'll see how sweet this one is in just 828 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 9: a few but right. 829 00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 1: Now it is time for the nephew and the prank 830 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for his nest? 831 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:43,439 Speaker 12: What you got? 832 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,799 Speaker 3: Well, A lot of men gonna hit their brakes because 833 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,360 Speaker 3: they don't want to hit this phrase right here Chile's 834 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,040 Speaker 3: support is late. 835 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 2: Get it in all right, here we go, cut dog. 836 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 2: Child support is late? 837 00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:03,800 Speaker 12: Hello, God, yeah, what's up? What was this? Just pressing? 838 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 6: Man? 839 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:08,600 Speaker 12: Uh? Me and me and me and your your ex man, 840 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 12: me and we uh we've been kicking it for the 841 00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 12: last three months. 842 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:17,239 Speaker 14: I'm man, I don't care about you. And see we're 843 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:17,880 Speaker 14: not together. 844 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,880 Speaker 12: We're not together. So why are you calling me? Okay, 845 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:25,040 Speaker 12: you're no, that's cool rct to. I understand all that 846 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 12: you call me to tell me the child together or 847 00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,759 Speaker 12: something with you. I don't care about what you do 848 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:32,600 Speaker 12: mean not together, I don't. I don't give it about 849 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 12: what do Okay, okay, no, no, no player. I understand 850 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,080 Speaker 12: that what I was calling you about was, you know, 851 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:42,480 Speaker 12: you kind of behind like two three months on the 852 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 12: on the child support man, and I told her I 853 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 12: was gonna handle this. I told her I was gonna 854 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 12: handle the situation, you know. 855 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,680 Speaker 14: So I don't need you to handle nothing. 856 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:56,120 Speaker 12: You don't need to be worried about about how many 857 00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:57,120 Speaker 12: months I'm behind. 858 00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:58,040 Speaker 14: Who the hell. 859 00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:01,360 Speaker 12: Telling you all this? Anyway? When when can we expect 860 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,239 Speaker 12: another payment? Is what I'm asking you. First of all, 861 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 12: don't whoever. 862 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:08,879 Speaker 14: Call my phone with that you understand me. Don't call 863 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,240 Speaker 14: my phone man because I'm about my daughter. 864 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,279 Speaker 12: Man, I ain't trying to I ain't trying to hear. 865 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,439 Speaker 14: I don't need you on my back and I don't 866 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 14: need see on my back and by no child. 867 00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,560 Speaker 12: For it, because I do for my daughter. Man, So 868 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,960 Speaker 12: don't call my phone with that. Okay, okay, Well, look, 869 00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:27,600 Speaker 12: is you working right now? Man? You man? Say listen here? 870 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 5: What what? 871 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:28,200 Speaker 10: What? 872 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 14: What's your name? 873 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:32,319 Speaker 12: Preston Prayer pressor what I'm saying? Is you working right now? 874 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,880 Speaker 12: And I do whatever it takes to take care of 875 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,879 Speaker 12: my daughter, man, So don't you worry about my job 876 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 12: security and what I'm doing. Okay? Well, can I just 877 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,879 Speaker 12: come when I just come by there whenever you get 878 00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,239 Speaker 12: paid next time so I can pick up you know, 879 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:46,879 Speaker 12: the child. 880 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:47,160 Speaker 5: Man. 881 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 14: You don't need to come by nowhere. I tell you what. Yeah, 882 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,880 Speaker 14: you bring y'all around you come, i'ma give you directions 883 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,360 Speaker 14: right now. You bring your phone over here because I 884 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:58,560 Speaker 14: want I want to see your calling my phone talking 885 00:48:58,560 --> 00:48:59,919 Speaker 14: about my daughter and then. 886 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,240 Speaker 12: Looking out for the well being of the baby. 887 00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:02,440 Speaker 5: Man. 888 00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 12: That's what we do. 889 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,120 Speaker 14: What you think I've been doing ever since she came 890 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,920 Speaker 14: in this world. That's what I've been doing ever since 891 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:09,879 Speaker 14: she got here, been looking. 892 00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,840 Speaker 12: Out for her well being. And some come just getting 893 00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,719 Speaker 12: the pitch. You want to tell me about my daughter, 894 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 12: Well then quit. Why is you three months behind then? Man? 895 00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:19,720 Speaker 2: Matter of fact? 896 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:23,319 Speaker 14: I do everything I can for my daughter, So for 897 00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,360 Speaker 14: you to sit up here and call me talk about it, 898 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 14: I'm three months behind. I don't even keep up with that. 899 00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:31,480 Speaker 14: I send money when I can, I dough for my daughter. 900 00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,120 Speaker 14: I do for my daughter for I do for myself. 901 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,040 Speaker 14: So if I ain't got it to saying that means 902 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 14: I ain't got it at all. But give me a 903 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 14: second and I'll go get it. But don't we calling 904 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,880 Speaker 14: me about my daughter? Man, talk about I'm three months behind? 905 00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:45,319 Speaker 12: Okay, well look her. First of all, I ain't you know, 906 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 12: I ain't working right now, so we really need you 907 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,080 Speaker 12: to go on and get the money over what hold on? 908 00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:53,200 Speaker 12: Hold on, hold on, you ain't working, But I'm out 909 00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,080 Speaker 12: here hustling you calling me about some money. But you 910 00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:57,200 Speaker 12: over there laying up. 911 00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,680 Speaker 14: With most of y'all. Need to get off, y'all, and 912 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,600 Speaker 14: what the hell I'm doing. That's what I can't understand. 913 00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:03,239 Speaker 5: It's two of you. 914 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 12: But it's one of me, and you want to come 915 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,080 Speaker 12: to me with that, man, I told her I was 916 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:11,200 Speaker 12: gonna handle this situation back being behind on this, you know, 917 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,879 Speaker 12: just little child for pull situation. That's all I'm saying. 918 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,840 Speaker 12: I need you to go on on and give me 919 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 12: a date man on when we can expect her payment. 920 00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:22,279 Speaker 14: Okay, I'm getting you a date right now. Bring your 921 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 14: over here right now and come pick up the payment. 922 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 14: I got it for you right now. You just tell 923 00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,000 Speaker 14: me what kind of car you drive so I know, 924 00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:30,040 Speaker 14: because I don't. 925 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 12: I don't want to. 926 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:33,160 Speaker 14: I don't want to bust the wrong to pull up 927 00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,280 Speaker 14: to my driveway by mistake. I do everything for my daughter. 928 00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,880 Speaker 14: My daughter don't have no walt on, no knees. I 929 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 14: put shoes on her feet, clothes on her back, food 930 00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 14: in us something. I do everything for her. I don't 931 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,360 Speaker 14: need you, and I don't. My daughter don't. 932 00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 12: Need you at all. I pick up from school every 933 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 12: day and. 934 00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:53,160 Speaker 14: Take her to her grandmother's house. So I want to 935 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 14: live by no two. 936 00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,400 Speaker 12: Or three months behind because. 937 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:57,160 Speaker 14: She ain't with I. 938 00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,919 Speaker 12: I can see if I want two or three months 939 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:02,920 Speaker 12: and she without listen, man, that's another thing with me. 940 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,480 Speaker 12: And there can't talked about. We're not gonna need you 941 00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:07,279 Speaker 12: to be taking up from the school no more. I'm 942 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,719 Speaker 12: gonna be getting her from the school when she al. 943 00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 12: I wish I would catch up stuff at my daughter school. 944 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:15,600 Speaker 12: You ain't picking up my daughter. 945 00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:17,600 Speaker 14: Man, I don't even know who the hell you are. 946 00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:21,880 Speaker 12: I told you my name is Preston Many. No, Preston. 947 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 14: I'm telling you what, man, I don't want you no 948 00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:28,359 Speaker 14: where near my daughter. That I'm gonna talks right now 949 00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,719 Speaker 14: because I don't want you no where near my daughter. Man, 950 00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:34,520 Speaker 14: you understand me. I don't want you nowhere near my daughter. 951 00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,200 Speaker 12: Man. If I came here and lie my daughter, I'm 952 00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:40,239 Speaker 12: gonna whoop your I'm gonna let my daughter know me 953 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 12: have an hegg and the baby is getting the long fie. Man. 954 00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,359 Speaker 12: All I'm saying is we just need you to send 955 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:49,920 Speaker 12: us money. Man. You hey, Hugh and y'all. I'm glad 956 00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,120 Speaker 12: y'all doing good cause she anyway, But don't put my 957 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,800 Speaker 12: daughter in the middle of man. Man, I'm just having 958 00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 12: to be in between jobs, that's all. Man. 959 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,880 Speaker 14: Well you need to get out, yo, look in between 960 00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:02,319 Speaker 14: your sheet and. 961 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:03,440 Speaker 12: Go find you something. 962 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,800 Speaker 14: Find you a manhood sitting up there, probably on the couch, 963 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:08,440 Speaker 14: eating up all up pop toarch. 964 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,080 Speaker 12: And I've only had two of them pop toarchs. Man, 965 00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:11,640 Speaker 12: that's all. 966 00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:13,919 Speaker 14: You ain't supposed to be having none of them because 967 00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,600 Speaker 14: I bought that for my daughter, man, and I appreciate 968 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,719 Speaker 14: you eating none of that over there. You need to 969 00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 14: get off here and feed yourself like I do. I 970 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,240 Speaker 14: feed myself and my daughter and probably. 971 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,759 Speaker 12: Still let me trate this here, man, I just want 972 00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 12: to talk to you about our child. 973 00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 11: Man, Our child. 974 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:32,279 Speaker 14: That ain't your child, that's my. 975 00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,359 Speaker 12: You ain't say, man, don't you ever say that? Man. 976 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:39,880 Speaker 12: Don't you ever say that to me? 977 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:40,200 Speaker 5: Man? 978 00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:42,920 Speaker 12: That is not our child. Man, that's my child. 979 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,520 Speaker 14: Let me tell you something, man, Let me tell you something. 980 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:47,880 Speaker 14: Put your here to this phone real close. 981 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:48,160 Speaker 2: Man. 982 00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:52,879 Speaker 12: I'm about my daughter, like me and what I'm trying 983 00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 12: to do. 984 00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:54,680 Speaker 14: You ain't been here the whole time. 985 00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:55,759 Speaker 12: You trying to walk up. 986 00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:56,879 Speaker 14: In here and talk about a hour. 987 00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 12: I'm her daddy. Man, I'm just trying to be a 988 00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:02,120 Speaker 12: good stuff for the man and get the child report 989 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 12: that father. 990 00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:05,520 Speaker 14: Y'all got to get married first. You ain't no man say, man, 991 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:09,560 Speaker 14: say I'm gonna talk to and hell this I garant 992 00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:11,759 Speaker 14: you hold no no no no, no no. 993 00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:14,440 Speaker 12: You don't talk to no more. You understand what I'm saying. 994 00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 12: You talk to me. You're dealing with me. I told 995 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,799 Speaker 12: you I was gonna handle it, so you're gonna make 996 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:19,680 Speaker 12: me mad now Like I told you know, you don't 997 00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:20,759 Speaker 12: talk no more. 998 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,920 Speaker 14: I'm talking whenever I want you. We got a child together. 999 00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:25,280 Speaker 5: You just got in the pistol. 1000 00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,080 Speaker 12: Don't you call no more. You don't talk to empor 1001 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:30,680 Speaker 12: you talk to me from now. You talk to presson. 1002 00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:34,879 Speaker 12: I'm ana talk to I'm at it. Help with trust me, hey, man, 1003 00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:37,480 Speaker 12: let me tell you something. You don't call man, you 1004 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,920 Speaker 12: deal with me. Do you understand I'm telling I'm not 1005 00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,279 Speaker 12: dealing with you with him saying, you hear me? The 1006 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:44,240 Speaker 12: only thing I'm gonna deal with you is my foot 1007 00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 12: up there. That's the man to deal with man. I 1008 00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,000 Speaker 12: got one more thing I need to say to you. Man, 1009 00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:51,200 Speaker 12: I don't want to hear nothing else. You got the 1010 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,600 Speaker 12: same player. I didn't hear everything you had to say. 1011 00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:54,879 Speaker 14: Let me tell you something, man. 1012 00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,439 Speaker 12: You want a job. We hied right now. I put 1013 00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,799 Speaker 12: you in with the man in charge. God, get you 1014 00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:01,600 Speaker 12: a job. Don't nobody want to work with you. Man, 1015 00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 12: I don't like your attitude. You need to work with 1016 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,400 Speaker 12: somebody because you ain't working with nobody right now. I 1017 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 12: got one more thing I need to say to you. 1018 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,319 Speaker 12: You listening, man, say what the hell you gotta say? 1019 00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:11,920 Speaker 1: Man, this is. 1020 00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:16,000 Speaker 12: Nephew tell me from the Steve Harvey Morning with him. Say, Man, 1021 00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:20,439 Speaker 12: I don't care who you are. I'm fit by my daughter. Man, 1022 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:24,080 Speaker 12: his nephew tim me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1023 00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:29,279 Speaker 12: You just got pranked by your cousin Kendrick Man. Oh 1024 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 12: oh man, I'm gonna kill it. You're all right? Oh no, man, 1025 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,080 Speaker 12: because I don't play with by my daughter like that. Man, 1026 00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:42,680 Speaker 12: I don't. That's my world, man, that's my heart. Man, 1027 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:46,919 Speaker 12: I don't that. Man. A let me ask you this here, man, 1028 00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:50,040 Speaker 12: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio 1029 00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:57,960 Speaker 12: show in the land. Man, Steve's Harvey Morning Show. 1030 00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:58,879 Speaker 2: Done it again? Yeah? 1031 00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:03,320 Speaker 1: You almost I got real. 1032 00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:05,239 Speaker 2: I think I was. I was close. 1033 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:08,279 Speaker 14: Call. 1034 00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 6: And man, it's cause you know I ain't working right now. 1035 00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:19,360 Speaker 6: We really needed hame to or that dude. You ain't working. 1036 00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:21,279 Speaker 1: Preston our daughter. 1037 00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:23,040 Speaker 2: Every day. 1038 00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,360 Speaker 6: And that's another thing we ain't gonna here, gonna mean 1039 00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 6: go by there and pick up no more. 1040 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:36,520 Speaker 13: All right, all right, nephew, who that was close? 1041 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: Thank you? 1042 00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:41,880 Speaker 9: Coming up next today Strawberry Letter subject the Candy Lady. 1043 00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:43,920 Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. 1044 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,000 Speaker 2: No one likes having to choose. 1045 00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 6: That's why with the Miraca's best lineup of hybrids from Hyundai, 1046 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,360 Speaker 6: you get the best of both worlds, like the reliable 1047 00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:59,440 Speaker 6: and efficient Tucson Hybrid with America's best wanting all the 1048 00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:03,280 Speaker 6: stylish you had, capable Santa Fe Hybrid with the power 1049 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,279 Speaker 6: to navigate the toughest ter rain. 1050 00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,080 Speaker 3: It's like having your cake and eating it too. 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Please submit your 1057 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:35,680 Speaker 9: Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVEFM dot com by clicking Submit Strawberry Letter. 1058 00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,799 Speaker 9: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 1059 00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,040 Speaker 9: just like we're going to read this one right here, 1060 00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:40,720 Speaker 9: right now. 1061 00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:45,200 Speaker 1: And you never know it could be yours. That's right, it. 1062 00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:47,799 Speaker 2: Could be Buckle up and hold on tight. We got 1063 00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 2: it for you. Here it is strawberry letter. 1064 00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:50,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. 1065 00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:55,359 Speaker 9: The Candy Lady is the subject. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm 1066 00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:58,040 Speaker 9: a fifty nine year old mother of two grown sons, 1067 00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,839 Speaker 9: and I pride myself on how well I raised them 1068 00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:05,160 Speaker 9: by myself. They both are educated and have great jobs. 1069 00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:07,840 Speaker 9: My oldest son is married and he is a baby 1070 00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:10,480 Speaker 9: on the way with his wife. My youngest son is 1071 00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,640 Speaker 9: twenty nine and he is trying to send. 1072 00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:14,720 Speaker 1: Me to an early grave. 1073 00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:17,640 Speaker 9: When I was raising my boys, I had a village 1074 00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,600 Speaker 9: of strong women to help me. One of my nearest 1075 00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,520 Speaker 9: and dearest friends helped me the most, and my sons 1076 00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,760 Speaker 9: loved to call her the candy Lady because she always 1077 00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,880 Speaker 9: has some kind of candy in her purse. She never 1078 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,880 Speaker 9: had children and never got married, but they never saw 1079 00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,440 Speaker 9: her go through all of the men and the drama 1080 00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:38,880 Speaker 9: in her life. Up until twenty twenty, she was in 1081 00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:42,600 Speaker 9: an eleven year relationship with this married man. After they 1082 00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:46,360 Speaker 9: broke up, she was very depressed, and I did all 1083 00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:48,840 Speaker 9: I could to snap her out of it. I even 1084 00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,960 Speaker 9: sent my twenty nine year old son over to change 1085 00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,919 Speaker 9: her locks to prevent the married man from creeping back 1086 00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,840 Speaker 9: into her life. She called me a few days after 1087 00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:59,920 Speaker 9: that and said she was getting her life back on 1088 00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:02,520 Speaker 9: track and my son was going to teach her how 1089 00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:03,520 Speaker 9: to play tennis. 1090 00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:05,680 Speaker 1: I thought that a hobby would be helpful. 1091 00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,840 Speaker 9: Little did I know she and my son have been 1092 00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:13,000 Speaker 9: seeing each other for over a year. He's been living 1093 00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:15,560 Speaker 9: with her for a while, and he won't tell me 1094 00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:18,760 Speaker 9: how or why it all happened. He came to me 1095 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,320 Speaker 9: last week and said he wanted to tell me something, 1096 00:58:21,600 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 9: But before he told me, he said there is nothing 1097 00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 9: I can do about it. He told me that I 1098 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:30,720 Speaker 9: shouldn't be upset with my friend because age doesn't matter, 1099 00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:34,160 Speaker 9: and he called her his soulmates, the candy lady that 1100 00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:38,720 Speaker 9: I know has had over a hundred soulmates over the years. 1101 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:41,320 Speaker 1: I don't want my son with this old hefa. 1102 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,200 Speaker 9: Is there anything I can do to break up my 1103 00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,000 Speaker 9: son and the candy lady? 1104 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:46,320 Speaker 1: Wow? 1105 00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,680 Speaker 9: First of all, I mean this is one of those, 1106 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:53,920 Speaker 9: you know, ultimate betrayal type situations, because she knows better 1107 00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,320 Speaker 9: that she's your age. You say you're fifty nine and 1108 00:58:57,360 --> 00:59:02,320 Speaker 9: she's you know, doing your twenty nine year old son. Yeah, 1109 00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:06,600 Speaker 9: this she went behind your back. Basically, you know you 1110 00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:08,919 Speaker 9: guys are supposed to be friends. She knows your son 1111 00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:12,880 Speaker 9: with off limits. And here's what you know, you already know. 1112 00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:15,680 Speaker 9: There is nothing you can do about this. I mean, 1113 00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:17,960 Speaker 9: as a mother, I know you don't want this for 1114 00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:21,000 Speaker 9: your son. You do not like them together. This woman 1115 00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:24,520 Speaker 9: is your friend, so you know all her business, and 1116 00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:26,680 Speaker 9: you don't think she's good enough for your son. You 1117 00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:29,240 Speaker 9: know what she's been through, all the men, the married 1118 00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,520 Speaker 9: men for eleven years that she was with. All you're 1119 00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:35,840 Speaker 9: doing is looking out for your son. At this point, 1120 00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:37,960 Speaker 9: you think she's way too old, as you mentioned in 1121 00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:40,240 Speaker 9: the letter, for your twenty nine year old son, and 1122 00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:43,280 Speaker 9: that she has too much baggage. There's nothing wrong with 1123 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:46,439 Speaker 9: how you feel. But here's the other thing. They are 1124 00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:50,280 Speaker 9: both grown. They are both consenting adults. She's I guess, 1125 00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:53,320 Speaker 9: around fifty nine, he's twenty nine. He never even told 1126 00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,960 Speaker 9: you how this happened or came about, but you know 1127 00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:59,240 Speaker 9: he was over there and she probably you know, seduced him. 1128 00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:03,280 Speaker 9: And they want each other right now. That's what they do. 1129 01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:07,400 Speaker 9: They're grown. Like I said, consenting fore to do whatever 1130 01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,320 Speaker 9: they want, and what they want is each other. They 1131 01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:14,920 Speaker 9: already live together, so basically your hands are tied. He's 1132 01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:17,920 Speaker 9: been with her for a whole year. Sometimes you just 1133 01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,560 Speaker 9: gotta pray, let it go, give it to God. This 1134 01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,760 Speaker 9: relationship and all that comes with it, good or bad, 1135 01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,760 Speaker 9: is called life experience. For your son. You're trying to 1136 01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:29,400 Speaker 9: stop that, but you know it's not a lot you 1137 01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,520 Speaker 9: can do at this point. I wish you the best, 1138 01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:36,320 Speaker 9: but I don't see anything you can do at this point. 1139 01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:45,800 Speaker 6: Steve Well, candid lady, candy lady friend, a little candy boy. 1140 01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:50,640 Speaker 1: Ah, have. 1141 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:56,600 Speaker 6: On take on this letter that is going to shock 1142 01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:02,880 Speaker 6: all Paul and really just be upsetting to So before 1143 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:05,040 Speaker 6: I get into this letter, I want to say that 1144 01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:09,960 Speaker 6: I personally stand by everything I'm about to say. I 1145 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:15,240 Speaker 6: have no reason to apologize. I am not asking you 1146 01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,800 Speaker 6: to agree with me. As a matter of fact. 1147 01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:27,200 Speaker 2: I d C be clear about that. Oh I don't care. 1148 01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:27,760 Speaker 9: I d C. 1149 01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:33,040 Speaker 6: I'm gonna create my own emojis online. Yeah, wyd I 1150 01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 6: got a new one. I d C because I really 1151 01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,320 Speaker 6: be wanting to text that most of the time when 1152 01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,920 Speaker 6: I'm texting. So that's the new one. I d C 1153 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:43,040 Speaker 6: stands for I don't care. I wish I'm gonna start 1154 01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:46,400 Speaker 6: texting it. Save me a lot of texts. All right, 1155 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:48,800 Speaker 6: let me tell you that this fifty nine year old mother, 1156 01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,920 Speaker 6: these two grown sons, now here's a lot of what 1157 01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:55,320 Speaker 6: I'm proud of single mothers that raise their children. I 1158 01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:57,320 Speaker 6: really am, and I think you do a great job. 1159 01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:01,000 Speaker 6: But I keep telling y'all. You can raise these boys 1160 01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:03,920 Speaker 6: to be good citizens. You can raise them to be gentlemen. 1161 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:07,480 Speaker 6: You can really raise them to be God fearing. You 1162 01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,160 Speaker 6: can raise them to obey the law. You can raise 1163 01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:13,000 Speaker 6: them a lot of ways. You can't make them men. 1164 01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,280 Speaker 6: I don't care what you do. You can't make them men. 1165 01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:20,520 Speaker 6: The how they decide to be as men. It's gonna 1166 01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 6: have a lot to do with another man. 1167 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:22,840 Speaker 12: Now. 1168 01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:23,880 Speaker 2: You can instill a. 1169 01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:26,120 Speaker 6: Lot of the great qualities of a man in him, 1170 01:02:26,600 --> 01:02:28,360 Speaker 6: but when it's time to be a man, he has 1171 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,200 Speaker 6: to stand alone. Your oldest son is married, he got 1172 01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:33,600 Speaker 6: a baby on his way. Your youngest son twenty nine, 1173 01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:37,360 Speaker 6: he trying to send you to early grade. See you 1174 01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:40,360 Speaker 6: mad because one of your nears and dearest friends helped 1175 01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:43,760 Speaker 6: me the most. And my sons love to call her 1176 01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:46,400 Speaker 6: the candy Lady. She been the candy Lady for a 1177 01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 6: long time. You got the title of this letter, right, 1178 01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:53,480 Speaker 6: And when I come back, I'm gonna tell you how 1179 01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:58,040 Speaker 6: much candy the Lady has been passing out and for 1180 01:02:58,200 --> 01:02:58,800 Speaker 6: how long? 1181 01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:00,960 Speaker 2: And who all had to cook? 1182 01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:03,200 Speaker 1: All right? 1183 01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:06,680 Speaker 9: Hang on, Steve, Part two of your responses coming up 1184 01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:10,040 Speaker 9: at twenty three minutes after the hour today Strawberry letter, 1185 01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:13,880 Speaker 9: subject the Candy Lady. We'll get back into it right 1186 01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:17,960 Speaker 9: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1187 01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,240 Speaker 8: Everybody that's your favorite play cousin Junior. 1188 01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,880 Speaker 7: You know what, I love having cookouts in the summertime, 1189 01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,439 Speaker 7: but it is so expensive. But have you heard about 1190 01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,840 Speaker 7: what Sam's Club is doing though? With locked in Summer 1191 01:03:31,920 --> 01:03:35,080 Speaker 7: Value until July twenty second, parties are held over on 1192 01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:38,280 Speaker 7: one thousand items, from paper plates to trash bags, the sunscreen, 1193 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:41,000 Speaker 7: to ice cream, even apple pie. It's a no brainer 1194 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,480 Speaker 7: to join Sam's Club because locked In Summer Value can 1195 01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:45,800 Speaker 7: help you save on all the things you need. 1196 01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:47,800 Speaker 8: To have a great summer. I plan on joining. I 1197 01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:48,680 Speaker 8: think you should too. 1198 01:03:48,840 --> 01:03:51,200 Speaker 7: Go sign up for a membership and join Sam's Club 1199 01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,040 Speaker 7: today at samsclub dot com. 1200 01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:53,920 Speaker 1: Slash join. 1201 01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:57,680 Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 1202 01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,640 Speaker 9: The subject the candy Lady. 1203 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:03,480 Speaker 6: Well, this fifty nine year old woman raised her two sons, 1204 01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,520 Speaker 6: did a great job, instill a lot of values. That 1205 01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:08,960 Speaker 6: one of her sons is married with a baby on 1206 01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:12,480 Speaker 6: the way. The oldest son very proud of him. And 1207 01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:17,040 Speaker 6: then she's having some trouble with the youngest one. He 1208 01:04:17,640 --> 01:04:20,760 Speaker 6: is twenty nine. He trying to send her to her 1209 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:25,320 Speaker 6: early grave. He say, well, let's get into this. Then, 1210 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:27,880 Speaker 6: she said, when I was raising my boys, I had 1211 01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:34,200 Speaker 6: a village of strong women to help me that needed 1212 01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:39,200 Speaker 6: to be a man in there. But no problem. Women 1213 01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:41,800 Speaker 6: do a great job being mothers and single mothers, and 1214 01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:45,840 Speaker 6: they've done great job raising some boys and some young 1215 01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,800 Speaker 6: men had turned out just fine. But the job of 1216 01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:53,080 Speaker 6: manhood has to fall squelly on the shoulders of another man. 1217 01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:55,360 Speaker 6: I can't teach my daughters how to be women. I 1218 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:57,480 Speaker 6: don't care how much I talk to him. He's just 1219 01:04:57,480 --> 01:05:00,520 Speaker 6: too much about it. I don't know. And so it 1220 01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:04,439 Speaker 6: is with manhood. But you did a good job. Now, 1221 01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,120 Speaker 6: one of your nares and Deer's friends helped you the most. 1222 01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:09,720 Speaker 6: And my son loved to call her the candy Lady 1223 01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:14,040 Speaker 6: because she always had some kind of candy in her purse. 1224 01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:17,760 Speaker 2: We'll get into that in a minute. She never had. 1225 01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,920 Speaker 6: Children, never got married, but they never saw her go 1226 01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:23,880 Speaker 6: through all the men and the drama in her life 1227 01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:29,640 Speaker 6: up until twenty twenty. Now, this woman, candid Lady, was 1228 01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:32,480 Speaker 6: in eleven year relationship with this married man. After they 1229 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,720 Speaker 6: broke up, she was depressed, and I did all I 1230 01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:37,120 Speaker 6: could to snap out of it. 1231 01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:42,600 Speaker 2: Now here's what you did. You sent the twenty nine year. 1232 01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:46,720 Speaker 6: Old boy yours over there to change her locks to 1233 01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 6: prevent the married man from creeping back into her life. 1234 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,640 Speaker 6: She called me a few days later after that and 1235 01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:56,400 Speaker 6: said she was getting her life back on track and 1236 01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,480 Speaker 6: her son was gonna teach you how to play tennis. 1237 01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:02,720 Speaker 2: I thought that a hobby would be helpful. 1238 01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,000 Speaker 6: Little did I know she and my son have been 1239 01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:09,040 Speaker 6: seeing each other for over a year. He been living 1240 01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:11,240 Speaker 6: with her for a while, and he won't even tell 1241 01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:17,920 Speaker 6: me how while I don't have if. 1242 01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:16,760 Speaker 8: They do early grade. 1243 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:20,959 Speaker 2: Before I finished crying, let me. 1244 01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:26,280 Speaker 6: Tell you what happened, he went over the Candy lady house. 1245 01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:35,040 Speaker 6: Candy Lady turned into the cookie Lady. See, you can't 1246 01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:42,080 Speaker 6: you can't keep passing our candy to grown me. See, 1247 01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:47,520 Speaker 6: it ain't candy for me no more. It's cake, pie cookies. 1248 01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:51,480 Speaker 6: I like cookies because they He is here to get to. 1249 01:06:56,440 --> 01:07:00,720 Speaker 6: Now here's your problem. He won't tell me how why 1250 01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 6: it all happened. So then he came to me last week. 1251 01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:05,960 Speaker 2: I'm looking at it. 1252 01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:10,800 Speaker 6: He been living with her for a while, and he 1253 01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:15,520 Speaker 6: won't tell me why, Oh it all happened. 1254 01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:17,240 Speaker 2: No, Sureley, you can't stop me. 1255 01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:20,280 Speaker 6: I'm been knowing this help for my whole life, and 1256 01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:22,800 Speaker 6: you're trying to help her. I see my son over there, 1257 01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:26,840 Speaker 6: and help her get herself together and change these locks. 1258 01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:28,880 Speaker 6: So this bounced, and don't come back up in there, 1259 01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:31,240 Speaker 6: and then she gonna set up here and just stop 1260 01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:33,320 Speaker 6: passing our cadd All of a sudden, she got to 1261 01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:36,160 Speaker 6: give it our cooking over there, and he stupid, he'd 1262 01:07:36,160 --> 01:07:38,440 Speaker 6: ha got hold of something this hole, that cooking, and 1263 01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:41,040 Speaker 6: now the cooking, and then he don't know what he's doing. 1264 01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:43,840 Speaker 6: He don't even know what he doing over there. He 1265 01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:46,840 Speaker 6: came to me last week. He told me he's going 1266 01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:49,320 Speaker 6: to tell me. I'm trying to tell you the story. 1267 01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:55,320 Speaker 6: Now it's going to tell me it's but before he 1268 01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:57,600 Speaker 6: told me, he told me, wasn't nothing lowed to do 1269 01:07:57,720 --> 01:07:59,680 Speaker 6: about it? I am you gonna come and tell me, 1270 01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:02,680 Speaker 6: And then you gonna tell me, ain't nothing like doing 1271 01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 6: about why you're telling me? I want to do something 1272 01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:09,720 Speaker 6: about it. I want to help myself. Go hear about 1273 01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:10,800 Speaker 6: this old heaver. 1274 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:13,640 Speaker 2: And she then put it on him. She don't put 1275 01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,080 Speaker 2: it on me. What that dude, she'll put it All 1276 01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:19,040 Speaker 2: him is good and all is good is experienced. 1277 01:08:19,800 --> 01:08:19,920 Speaker 12: Ha. 1278 01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:23,640 Speaker 6: I know what she did to him. But then he 1279 01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:26,080 Speaker 6: gonna tell me I should be up saying, you see 1280 01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:29,559 Speaker 6: me crying, you'll see me crying. 1281 01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:30,360 Speaker 1: You don't tell me to be. 1282 01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:32,439 Speaker 6: I'm saying, you'll tell me how to be. Will come 1283 01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:34,760 Speaker 6: in here and tell me you screwing this whole heaven. 1284 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:39,040 Speaker 6: Then I ain't suposed to be all say because he 1285 01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:42,760 Speaker 6: he gonna tell me. I shouldn't be all saying because 1286 01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:43,799 Speaker 6: my freeing cause. 1287 01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:45,080 Speaker 2: Age don't matter. 1288 01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:50,479 Speaker 6: This old helpful And if you talking about age don't matter. 1289 01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:52,760 Speaker 2: She thirty years older than you. 1290 01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:57,920 Speaker 6: I know girl, Well, she don't want no kids, She 1291 01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:00,480 Speaker 6: can't no kid, she can't have no red. 1292 01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:05,559 Speaker 2: She could have some medicare what she can have and 1293 01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:07,280 Speaker 2: then and then. 1294 01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:11,000 Speaker 6: He gonna call her his soul mate. I want to 1295 01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:14,320 Speaker 6: just say, you're stupid, basted. This candle lady that I 1296 01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:16,639 Speaker 6: know that had one hundred soul mates over the year. 1297 01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:20,200 Speaker 6: She have screwed all these man and now you just 1298 01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:20,840 Speaker 6: one of them. 1299 01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:23,000 Speaker 2: Now you a hundred and one. You lack a puppy. 1300 01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:25,719 Speaker 2: Now you're wanted a one hundred and one. Damnation. 1301 01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,559 Speaker 8: I don't mean I don't want myself over there. 1302 01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:32,200 Speaker 9: The old help. 1303 01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:34,439 Speaker 2: He said, anything I can do to break up my 1304 01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:35,599 Speaker 2: Saturday can lady? 1305 01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:38,840 Speaker 6: Yes, there is something you can do. And I want 1306 01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:40,960 Speaker 6: to tell you, and I beg to different that there's 1307 01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:44,720 Speaker 6: nothing you can do, kidd is, And I'm gonna let 1308 01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:48,240 Speaker 6: the letter close out. You gonna have to go over 1309 01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:59,360 Speaker 6: there and jump on them. Thank you all for listening 1310 01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:00,400 Speaker 6: up as that's. 1311 01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:05,559 Speaker 9: For free on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM and check 1312 01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:06,920 Speaker 9: out this Jobbery Letter podcast. 1313 01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:09,280 Speaker 2: Y'all know how to fight still be friends. We're sixty. 1314 01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:12,240 Speaker 1: We used to do that all the time you're listening. 1315 01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:16,760 Speaker 1: You took the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1316 01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:20,160 Speaker 7: Everybody that's your favorite play cousin junr and you know what, 1317 01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,880 Speaker 7: I love having cookouts in the summertime. But it is 1318 01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:25,559 Speaker 7: so expensive. But have you heard about what Sam's Club 1319 01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:28,320 Speaker 7: is doing though? With locked in Summer Value until July 1320 01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:31,439 Speaker 7: twenty second, prices are held over on one thousand items, 1321 01:10:31,439 --> 01:10:34,280 Speaker 7: from paper plates, the trash bags, the sunscreens, to ice cream, 1322 01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:37,000 Speaker 7: even apple pie. It's a no brainer to join Sam's 1323 01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:39,000 Speaker 7: Club because locked in Summer Value can. 1324 01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,120 Speaker 1: Help you save on all the things you need. 1325 01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:43,080 Speaker 8: To have a great summer. I plan on joining. I 1326 01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:44,000 Speaker 8: think you should too. 1327 01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:46,479 Speaker 7: Go sign up for a membership and join Sam's Club 1328 01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:49,200 Speaker 7: today at samsclub dot com slash join. 1329 01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:53,160 Speaker 9: All right, so Junior's here today with this is a 1330 01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:54,960 Speaker 9: comedy segment you called Junior Win? 1331 01:10:55,080 --> 01:10:57,479 Speaker 1: Did what's that about? And did Win? Did you know? 1332 01:10:57,800 --> 01:10:59,839 Speaker 7: We've been saying a lot of things that been happening, 1333 01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:03,959 Speaker 7: but you just don't know when it started, Like, for example, 1334 01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:05,839 Speaker 7: when did kids getting luckish? 1335 01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:09,360 Speaker 8: You ever go to that port and see this little 1336 01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:10,640 Speaker 8: pat in front of you? 1337 01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:13,639 Speaker 7: When did all my draws was in the same luggage 1338 01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:14,439 Speaker 7: with my grandmother. 1339 01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:19,599 Speaker 8: My crawls is gonna get to Brazil? When did kids 1340 01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:20,280 Speaker 8: get luckied? 1341 01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:26,120 Speaker 7: I don't know when it started? Where did people start 1342 01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:31,160 Speaker 7: wearing house shoes everywhere? I'm at church, somebody stepped out 1343 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:32,799 Speaker 7: their house shoes to get to the altar. 1344 01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:35,679 Speaker 8: And now when you leave your shoes out here in church. 1345 01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:40,000 Speaker 1: Like that, When did it happen? 1346 01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:41,080 Speaker 5: Like? 1347 01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:43,200 Speaker 8: When did vegans get so outspoken? 1348 01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:47,840 Speaker 7: You ain't never know who the hell was a vegan 1349 01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:50,760 Speaker 7: that upset by everything you can't eat? 1350 01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:51,719 Speaker 8: That it had a mother? 1351 01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:52,719 Speaker 1: I don't care. 1352 01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:57,360 Speaker 8: Vegans? 1353 01:11:57,360 --> 01:11:57,760 Speaker 1: Is I mean? 1354 01:11:57,800 --> 01:12:02,320 Speaker 8: When did all this stuff start speaking? When did we 1355 01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:04,040 Speaker 8: just never mind just wearing ripped jeans? 1356 01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:08,280 Speaker 7: Remember used to get your yeah, everybody jeans toe? 1357 01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:08,839 Speaker 1: Oh yeah? 1358 01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:13,840 Speaker 8: Why am I looking at Dwayne's draws? Just when did 1359 01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:14,400 Speaker 8: that start? 1360 01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:15,200 Speaker 12: Yeah? 1361 01:12:15,280 --> 01:12:17,800 Speaker 7: We just don't know when it happened. When people used 1362 01:12:17,840 --> 01:12:20,400 Speaker 7: to borrow money? Now they cash happens? 1363 01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:24,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, for dinner, he didn't ask, Remember I can our? 1364 01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:25,799 Speaker 8: Borrow was important? 1365 01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:28,240 Speaker 1: They don't do that, no more, they don't do none 1366 01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:28,439 Speaker 1: of that. 1367 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:31,040 Speaker 7: When did big guys just start showing their stomach with 1368 01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:31,679 Speaker 7: no results? 1369 01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:32,879 Speaker 8: You know they don't, they don't. 1370 01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:36,519 Speaker 7: Care, no remorse. They just the stomach just out matter 1371 01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:39,080 Speaker 7: of fact? When did women just start wearing their stomachs hot? 1372 01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:44,200 Speaker 8: When did all of this happen? When when did white 1373 01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:46,679 Speaker 8: kids get comfortable with saying the N word? To black kids. 1374 01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:50,679 Speaker 8: When did that start? When did we start knocking our kids? 1375 01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:51,519 Speaker 8: When did that stop? 1376 01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:52,640 Speaker 12: Now? 1377 01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:54,719 Speaker 8: Cause my nephew is sitting up here. 1378 01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:56,519 Speaker 7: Making f's at school and we ain't been in school 1379 01:12:56,520 --> 01:13:00,000 Speaker 7: a week. When did this start? Just when did it happen? 1380 01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:00,840 Speaker 7: But we just don't know. 1381 01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:03,160 Speaker 8: We have to figure out when did that happened? 1382 01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:04,120 Speaker 12: That's what. 1383 01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:07,880 Speaker 7: When Jerry, we just started thinking about it. This stuff, 1384 01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:13,559 Speaker 7: stuff change, it's no no, when did it happen? Wow, 1385 01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:16,600 Speaker 7: I'll tell you another profile. Okay, here's one that that 1386 01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,599 Speaker 7: everybody knows. This something that we don't even know when 1387 01:13:18,600 --> 01:13:19,080 Speaker 7: this started? 1388 01:13:19,560 --> 01:13:19,720 Speaker 12: Well? 1389 01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:21,760 Speaker 8: Remember when when did wear a jogging suit? 1390 01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:22,000 Speaker 2: Member? 1391 01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:26,000 Speaker 7: When when it meant you was going jogging? Now people 1392 01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:27,920 Speaker 7: wearing jogging suits ain't jogging. 1393 01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:29,680 Speaker 1: No way you talking about me. 1394 01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:35,080 Speaker 7: That used to mean something you got on a jogging suit. 1395 01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:36,639 Speaker 8: I can assume yup, was going. 1396 01:13:36,520 --> 01:13:42,040 Speaker 7: Job now now now now to drive throughs, you ain't 1397 01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:42,599 Speaker 7: doing nothing. 1398 01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:45,360 Speaker 8: We're walking in it, sleeping right now. 1399 01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:48,120 Speaker 13: I'm just work now. 1400 01:13:48,200 --> 01:13:49,240 Speaker 8: I'm in one right now. 1401 01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:53,479 Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, this is Monica, This is Hey, this is 1402 01:13:53,479 --> 01:13:55,400 Speaker 1: Mary J. Blid Yo, this is Steven A. 1403 01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:55,799 Speaker 2: Smith. 1404 01:13:55,840 --> 01:13:58,760 Speaker 1: Hey, this is con You have no idea what it is. 1405 01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:01,200 Speaker 3: This is Carlos Miller and this may or may not 1406 01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:02,920 Speaker 3: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1407 01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:05,519 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1408 01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:11,920 Speaker 9: All right, So, Junior, it's summertime and you have some 1409 01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:14,559 Speaker 9: important side piece rules you gotta know and. 1410 01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:18,479 Speaker 7: Follow absolutely, shirt. It's that time of years. Yeah, and 1411 01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:19,240 Speaker 7: it's gonna happen. 1412 01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:22,120 Speaker 6: I'm gonna be the voice of reason here. So yes, 1413 01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:24,640 Speaker 6: I see something wrong with this rule. I'm gonna have 1414 01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:25,360 Speaker 6: to tighten you up. 1415 01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:27,800 Speaker 7: Okay, that's fine, but there ain't nothing wrong with these 1416 01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:29,080 Speaker 7: rules because this goes gonna happen. 1417 01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:29,800 Speaker 2: Here we go. 1418 01:14:29,920 --> 01:14:34,080 Speaker 8: First rule number one, don't fall in love. 1419 01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:36,000 Speaker 2: Okay. 1420 01:14:36,320 --> 01:14:38,840 Speaker 7: See what that means is fall in love with your 1421 01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:43,000 Speaker 7: side piece could mess up the relationship. You just need 1422 01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:45,559 Speaker 7: to know what this is. It's just six, that's all 1423 01:14:45,600 --> 01:14:49,280 Speaker 7: we do. It's man, This. 1424 01:14:49,120 --> 01:14:51,479 Speaker 8: Ain't no boys to me in love. This ain't no 1425 01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:52,439 Speaker 8: Brian big Knight. 1426 01:14:52,800 --> 01:14:55,479 Speaker 7: This is Tupac how you want it? 1427 01:14:55,720 --> 01:15:04,080 Speaker 6: Yeah? What see if you're agreed, that's the way it's 1428 01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:04,760 Speaker 6: supposed to work. 1429 01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:11,439 Speaker 2: But god much who that can happen? Yeah, that is 1430 01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:13,519 Speaker 2: what it is. And the beginning, but oh. 1431 01:15:13,400 --> 01:15:20,600 Speaker 13: My goodness, fall hard as hell go ahead, Jim, all right, 1432 01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 13: here we go up. 1433 01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:24,640 Speaker 8: Number two. Being a side piece. 1434 01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:30,840 Speaker 7: Means keeping your expectations in check. Okay, Yes, I'm going 1435 01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:34,439 Speaker 7: on family vacation with my family, but I will only 1436 01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:36,920 Speaker 7: be there when I'm not needed at the house. Means 1437 01:15:36,960 --> 01:15:39,479 Speaker 7: don't don't worry about what we're going. I'll be back. 1438 01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:42,360 Speaker 7: I can't be there every day. I can only be 1439 01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:44,759 Speaker 7: there the day that she I'm not needed at the house. 1440 01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:48,160 Speaker 2: And no, you cannot go on the family. 1441 01:15:51,479 --> 01:15:51,839 Speaker 8: Okay. 1442 01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:55,400 Speaker 7: Rule number three, and this is important. You got to 1443 01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:58,599 Speaker 7: be under cover. That means you must communicate and meet 1444 01:15:58,720 --> 01:16:02,240 Speaker 7: up with me without anyone else knowing. You need to 1445 01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:04,679 Speaker 7: act like you in a spy movie. This James Bond 1446 01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:10,120 Speaker 7: were doing. Yes, we're a spy movie. 1447 01:16:11,760 --> 01:16:12,080 Speaker 8: That record. 1448 01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:16,519 Speaker 7: Don't look at me since signals okay, use your hands, 1449 01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:19,000 Speaker 7: since I know what that means. I'll be in the back. 1450 01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:21,120 Speaker 7: I know what I know where back at. You can't 1451 01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:22,960 Speaker 7: just stead he talk to me di record? 1452 01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:23,640 Speaker 8: Am I right? 1453 01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:24,000 Speaker 12: Record? 1454 01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:25,400 Speaker 2: That's a very. 1455 01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:35,640 Speaker 7: Okay, Yeah, you're going know this is very important. You 1456 01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:39,720 Speaker 7: got to know the risks when you're getting involved with me. Okay, 1457 01:16:39,960 --> 01:16:43,600 Speaker 7: it's just about you and me. It's about you, me 1458 01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:48,120 Speaker 7: and her. Okay, think about everyone when you make a move. 1459 01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:52,080 Speaker 8: You have to know how you have. 1460 01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:53,960 Speaker 2: You have to consider her too. 1461 01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:58,320 Speaker 1: Yes, oh really that's consider her. 1462 01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:02,920 Speaker 7: Yes, know her work schedule, no time she gets home, 1463 01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:06,439 Speaker 7: know what time she called that way you know, But 1464 01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:07,439 Speaker 7: not to say nothing. 1465 01:17:09,600 --> 01:17:12,519 Speaker 8: This is important. You have to know the risk for this. 1466 01:17:13,120 --> 01:17:16,280 Speaker 1: Yes, it's crazy, but now this is a big one. 1467 01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:18,040 Speaker 7: And this is the one y'all like to do because 1468 01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:19,840 Speaker 7: when you see it, you confront and all this stuff. 1469 01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:21,320 Speaker 7: But then what you need to understand. I don't care 1470 01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:23,920 Speaker 7: who you talking to, even if it's my own mama. Okay, 1471 01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:30,000 Speaker 7: never talk and never admit to anything. If there's some 1472 01:17:30,120 --> 01:17:33,439 Speaker 7: drama things about to get crazy, let me handle it. 1473 01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:36,799 Speaker 1: And let me do all the talking, all the lying. 1474 01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:40,120 Speaker 8: Right, Absolutely, go ahead. 1475 01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:42,400 Speaker 2: I'm in charge of all lies. 1476 01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:46,920 Speaker 1: Leave it to the experts. 1477 01:17:47,280 --> 01:17:47,800 Speaker 12: Right. 1478 01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:50,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, and here the last one, the last one. This 1479 01:17:50,960 --> 01:17:51,759 Speaker 1: is very important. 1480 01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:54,280 Speaker 8: You said, all of us very fun they are. 1481 01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:56,240 Speaker 7: If we're gonna make this work, call it. They all 1482 01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:59,639 Speaker 7: got to be important. Okay, and I mean this. No 1483 01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:04,800 Speaker 7: social media, lord, no, there will be no selfies. There 1484 01:18:04,840 --> 01:18:07,439 Speaker 7: will be none. Don't take pictures of us just showing 1485 01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:10,799 Speaker 7: us holding hands. Don't take no pictures of us, our clothes. 1486 01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:13,400 Speaker 7: Don't tag me and none of these picture and definitely 1487 01:18:13,439 --> 01:18:14,000 Speaker 7: don't get in. 1488 01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:14,599 Speaker 1: My d ms. 1489 01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:19,320 Speaker 7: Nothing, no TikTok, no, no snapchat, no faith book, Twitter 1490 01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:23,599 Speaker 7: no nothing, no notes, no text, nothing, no social media nothing. 1491 01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:25,400 Speaker 8: This don't even exist. 1492 01:18:26,080 --> 01:18:30,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, and those are your route for the side 1493 01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:31,840 Speaker 7: piece hook up this morning up? 1494 01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:32,200 Speaker 1: Would you? 1495 01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:32,519 Speaker 12: Wow? 1496 01:18:34,479 --> 01:18:35,360 Speaker 2: Well, I don't. 1497 01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:42,479 Speaker 6: I don't post nothing, and if you did post, I 1498 01:18:42,520 --> 01:18:44,600 Speaker 6: wouldn't know nothing about it. 1499 01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:46,719 Speaker 1: Thank you. 1500 01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:49,320 Speaker 9: We'll let mark of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1501 01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:50,840 Speaker 9: up in twenty minutes after the hour. 1502 01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:54,240 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1503 01:18:58,360 --> 01:18:58,680 Speaker 1: All right. 1504 01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:02,880 Speaker 9: So in the Weird Animal News, a couple in Louisiana 1505 01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:06,040 Speaker 9: heard a strange noise, so they walked to the porch 1506 01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:09,960 Speaker 9: to investigate and found that the screen door was torn. 1507 01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:13,599 Speaker 9: Then they saw a tail that was attached to a 1508 01:19:13,920 --> 01:19:18,960 Speaker 9: massive nine foot alligator just sitting there. The couple quickly 1509 01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:21,519 Speaker 9: called for help from the sheriff's office and a neighbor 1510 01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:25,799 Speaker 9: who raises alligators. The sheriff's office, along with a gator handler, 1511 01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:29,960 Speaker 9: captured the gator and eventually released it into the nearby river. 1512 01:19:30,600 --> 01:19:34,439 Speaker 9: But the gator didn't go peacefully. It put up a fight. 1513 01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:39,360 Speaker 9: It tossed patio furniture all over the porch. Experts say, 1514 01:19:40,000 --> 01:19:43,479 Speaker 9: if you find yourself in this position, you've encounter an 1515 01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:47,360 Speaker 9: alligator on land, run in a straight line as fast 1516 01:19:47,439 --> 01:19:50,559 Speaker 9: as you can, don't zigzag and all of that. And 1517 01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:55,080 Speaker 9: if an alligator grabs you, fight and go for its eyes, 1518 01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:58,839 Speaker 9: its nose, or throat, which are its most sensitive areas. 1519 01:19:59,240 --> 01:20:05,280 Speaker 13: What yeah, whats Jr? 1520 01:20:05,880 --> 01:20:08,879 Speaker 6: Dragging you off the break into the water. I'm supposed 1521 01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:09,559 Speaker 6: to grab his. 1522 01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:11,920 Speaker 1: What now his eyes? 1523 01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:16,439 Speaker 6: Try to grab one of them roots on that tree. 1524 01:20:19,240 --> 01:20:22,320 Speaker 1: I cannot see this happening. Listen to anyone I know? 1525 01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:26,280 Speaker 2: All this alligator fighting taking it you. 1526 01:20:28,920 --> 01:20:31,000 Speaker 6: When you run into a bed, you better zig zag 1527 01:20:31,400 --> 01:20:33,040 Speaker 6: because they don't change directions. 1528 01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:35,160 Speaker 2: Good we. 1529 01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:38,439 Speaker 1: Play another round? It would you rather? 1530 01:20:39,200 --> 01:20:40,120 Speaker 2: Right after this. 1531 01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:42,719 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1532 01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:50,439 Speaker 2: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow rooms? 1533 01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:54,599 Speaker 6: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. 1534 01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:56,120 Speaker 2: Until now introduce it. 1535 01:20:56,280 --> 01:21:00,479 Speaker 6: The Hondai Ionic nine, a three row electric v with 1536 01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:04,840 Speaker 6: over three hundred miles of rage, ultra fast charging capability, 1537 01:21:04,960 --> 01:21:06,040 Speaker 6: and lots of space. 1538 01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:08,919 Speaker 2: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face. 1539 01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:11,879 Speaker 3: In an ev Visit Hondai usa dot com for more details. 1540 01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:15,080 Speaker 3: EPA estimated rings for nine based on fully charged batteries 1541 01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:17,880 Speaker 3: for comparison purpose only. Actual rings will vary based on 1542 01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:18,679 Speaker 3: several factors. 1543 01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:22,280 Speaker 9: All right, guys, it is time for would you rather 1544 01:21:22,400 --> 01:21:23,120 Speaker 9: for today? 1545 01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:25,400 Speaker 1: Would you rather now think about this? 1546 01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:31,240 Speaker 9: Would you rather receive the Nobel Peace Prize or would 1547 01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:33,719 Speaker 9: you rather get an Oscar? 1548 01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:34,559 Speaker 2: Hmm? 1549 01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:37,880 Speaker 7: I'm gonna go with Nobel Peace Prize because they fighting 1550 01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:38,599 Speaker 7: at the Oscars. 1551 01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:40,120 Speaker 2: I'm not slash. 1552 01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:43,679 Speaker 1: Lots of people run up your slash when you win 1553 01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:44,960 Speaker 1: about peace. 1554 01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:47,559 Speaker 2: I'd love to get the Nobel Peace Prizes to mean 1555 01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:48,200 Speaker 2: more to me. 1556 01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:56,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, person, Because you know it's it's it's an award. 1557 01:21:57,760 --> 01:22:05,960 Speaker 6: It's a reward, verse an award. It's a reward for 1558 01:22:06,080 --> 01:22:08,920 Speaker 6: hard work. Oscars is an award. 1559 01:22:09,720 --> 01:22:12,240 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay. 1560 01:22:12,479 --> 01:22:15,840 Speaker 6: You know something you get a reward for you accomplish something, 1561 01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:19,280 Speaker 6: you receive benefit of something you've done, and award they 1562 01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:22,320 Speaker 6: just give you something. It's usually a group of people 1563 01:22:22,400 --> 01:22:24,640 Speaker 6: or something like that. It ain't got to be unanimous 1564 01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:28,680 Speaker 6: and all like that. So I'm about the Noble Peace Prize. 1565 01:22:28,520 --> 01:22:33,880 Speaker 9: Okay, all right, would you rather starve for a week, 1566 01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:35,080 Speaker 9: starve for a. 1567 01:22:35,040 --> 01:22:37,840 Speaker 1: Week, or go to jail for a day. 1568 01:22:39,120 --> 01:22:40,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm going to jail, Going to jail? 1569 01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:42,120 Speaker 14: Really? 1570 01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:44,680 Speaker 2: Hell yeah? Hell before. 1571 01:22:46,320 --> 01:22:49,519 Speaker 6: They feed you and there they gonna like it. So 1572 01:22:49,640 --> 01:22:51,439 Speaker 6: we're not gonna say it'll be a star for a week. 1573 01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:52,960 Speaker 2: Man, you know the shake. You're gonna be and go 1574 01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:54,519 Speaker 2: down here and do this jail time. 1575 01:22:56,680 --> 01:22:56,960 Speaker 12: Jokes. 1576 01:22:57,040 --> 01:22:59,120 Speaker 6: Make a couple of big friends and stuff. I know how, 1577 01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:04,880 Speaker 6: talk to hood man. I'll be in there, motivating, encouraging, having. 1578 01:23:06,040 --> 01:23:06,639 Speaker 2: The dog. 1579 01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:08,680 Speaker 6: I ain't even gonna be sleep. I'm gonna stay up 1580 01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:12,960 Speaker 6: the whole time. Back to the wall, just ad, it's 1581 01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:15,280 Speaker 6: just to day. I'm not gonna I'm going to jail. 1582 01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:17,360 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey, what up, y'all? 1583 01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:20,639 Speaker 1: It's going about a week in jail. 1584 01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:23,920 Speaker 6: A week in jail or a week of starving. When 1585 01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:25,160 Speaker 6: you say starving, what do you. 1586 01:23:25,160 --> 01:23:29,120 Speaker 1: Mean start no food, no food, no food? 1587 01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:32,360 Speaker 6: No oh no, no, no, no, I'm going to jail. 1588 01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:35,439 Speaker 6: You ain't gonna you ain't gonna be able to do that. Okay, Yeah, 1589 01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:37,559 Speaker 6: at least I can accomplish something in jail. I'm gonna 1590 01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:39,760 Speaker 6: be I gonna be stealing. I had to be so 1591 01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:44,640 Speaker 6: quiet for that week of starving laying in the hospital. 1592 01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:48,120 Speaker 3: Week. 1593 01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:51,160 Speaker 1: All right, all right, moving on? 1594 01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:56,080 Speaker 9: Would you rather use sand paper as toilet paper? 1595 01:23:56,640 --> 01:23:59,360 Speaker 1: Or use vinegar? As I dropped? 1596 01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:02,599 Speaker 6: Use that sadpaper for toilet paper. I'm just gonna flip 1597 01:24:02,640 --> 01:24:04,559 Speaker 6: that other side over. You ain't putting that vinegar in 1598 01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:06,679 Speaker 6: my eyes. That ain't what you shouldn't do. I can't 1599 01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:11,880 Speaker 6: go blind. Yeah, you can rate that sad paper straight 1600 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:14,719 Speaker 6: across my if you're not putting that vernica in my eye. 1601 01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:17,479 Speaker 6: I can deal with that right there. I've cut my 1602 01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:26,400 Speaker 6: butt before. I've done it, man, more than once, Sherry, yeahright, gonna. 1603 01:24:26,200 --> 01:24:28,439 Speaker 2: Do is put this vinegar in my eye. 1604 01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:30,160 Speaker 1: Today's version of would you rather? 1605 01:24:30,280 --> 01:24:32,679 Speaker 9: Coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour last 1606 01:24:32,680 --> 01:24:34,800 Speaker 9: break of the day and closing remarks from the one 1607 01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:36,800 Speaker 9: and only Steve Harvey right after this. 1608 01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:44,920 Speaker 1: If you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Hey, y'all, 1609 01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:47,280 Speaker 1: this is Monica, This is Spike Lee. Hey, this is 1610 01:24:47,280 --> 01:24:49,240 Speaker 1: Mary J. Blood Yo, this is Steven A. 1611 01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:49,599 Speaker 2: Smith. 1612 01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:52,240 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Shaka Khan. You have no idea what 1613 01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:52,640 Speaker 1: it is. 1614 01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:55,080 Speaker 3: This is Carlos Miller and this may or may not 1615 01:24:55,200 --> 01:24:57,640 Speaker 3: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1616 01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:01,760 Speaker 13: This broadcast has sponsored by PayPal. I got to put 1617 01:25:01,760 --> 01:25:06,360 Speaker 13: you onto something I just learned about PayPal. PayPal offers 1618 01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:10,280 Speaker 13: people more flexibility. You could choose to pay now, pay 1619 01:25:10,400 --> 01:25:14,360 Speaker 13: in four, or monthly. I just purchased airline tickets. My 1620 01:25:14,479 --> 01:25:17,000 Speaker 13: husband and daughter and I are so ready for vacation. 1621 01:25:17,520 --> 01:25:22,000 Speaker 13: Don't just pay PayPal. PayPal pay later options are subject 1622 01:25:22,080 --> 01:25:22,720 Speaker 13: to approval. 1623 01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:24,160 Speaker 1: Eligibility varies. 1624 01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:28,240 Speaker 13: Learn more at PayPal dot com slash by now pay later. 1625 01:25:29,280 --> 01:25:31,320 Speaker 9: All right, here we are, guys, our last break of 1626 01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:33,000 Speaker 9: the day on this Friday. 1627 01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:36,960 Speaker 1: It is Friday. Thank you lord, all of that. 1628 01:25:39,520 --> 01:25:44,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, oh yeah, hey, you know, you know I've been 1629 01:25:44,800 --> 01:25:49,880 Speaker 6: opening this show lately and I've been talking about the tood. 1630 01:25:50,600 --> 01:25:53,760 Speaker 6: I call it the tube, you know, because you know 1631 01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:56,120 Speaker 6: sometimes you get accused of Hey, you know you need 1632 01:25:56,160 --> 01:25:59,200 Speaker 6: to watch your tube now. You know, your tude is 1633 01:25:59,240 --> 01:26:02,360 Speaker 6: too strong with me. And I've been opening the show 1634 01:26:02,680 --> 01:26:05,800 Speaker 6: talking about the tude. But the tude. I really was 1635 01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:07,880 Speaker 6: thinking about it after I did it this morning. I said, 1636 01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:11,759 Speaker 6: you know what, man, that really make you know sense? 1637 01:26:13,840 --> 01:26:18,120 Speaker 6: You know, it's the three tudes that can change your life. 1638 01:26:19,040 --> 01:26:23,240 Speaker 6: And the three tudes are this if you start your 1639 01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:34,759 Speaker 6: day with gratitude, that showing gratitude will immediately immediately affect 1640 01:26:35,160 --> 01:26:42,360 Speaker 6: your attitude. And once your attitude has been properly adjusted 1641 01:26:42,560 --> 01:26:52,400 Speaker 6: and affected, those two things will start to direct change 1642 01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:55,360 Speaker 6: your altitude. 1643 01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:58,200 Speaker 2: So twud, when I say the tudes, you know, get 1644 01:26:58,240 --> 01:26:59,200 Speaker 2: your tu together. 1645 01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:04,080 Speaker 6: It's really really a motivating thing, man, And I just 1646 01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:15,280 Speaker 6: stumbled on it. Gratitude, attitude, altitude, And that's really, man, 1647 01:27:15,360 --> 01:27:18,360 Speaker 6: the three things man, that can really change your life 1648 01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:21,920 Speaker 6: because gratitude is such a major principle of success that's 1649 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:23,600 Speaker 6: oftentimes overlooked. 1650 01:27:24,120 --> 01:27:24,960 Speaker 2: And what I mean. 1651 01:27:24,840 --> 01:27:28,519 Speaker 6: By that is it's not it's not a theory that 1652 01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:32,559 Speaker 6: successful people came up with. It's a scripture. I don't 1653 01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:34,639 Speaker 6: know which one it is, but it is a scripture. 1654 01:27:34,680 --> 01:27:37,639 Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure SUREY could find it. When it talks about, 1655 01:27:37,800 --> 01:27:41,680 Speaker 6: you know, giving thanks. You know, the more grateful you are, 1656 01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:44,479 Speaker 6: the more things God will give you to be grateful for. 1657 01:27:44,640 --> 01:27:47,360 Speaker 6: There's a scripture applied to that. But it's when you 1658 01:27:47,479 --> 01:27:51,320 Speaker 6: come to God in prayer. You open up your prayer 1659 01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:55,960 Speaker 6: with thanks. That's the proper way to pray, to open 1660 01:27:56,080 --> 01:27:58,040 Speaker 6: up by saying thank you. 1661 01:27:58,040 --> 01:27:59,960 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. But it only makes common sense. 1662 01:28:00,040 --> 01:28:02,200 Speaker 6: I mean, you think about it, you know, instead of 1663 01:28:02,240 --> 01:28:05,679 Speaker 6: always walking in the door asking somebody for something. 1664 01:28:06,200 --> 01:28:09,760 Speaker 2: Hello, how you doing? You know, I really appreciate you man. 1665 01:28:09,840 --> 01:28:12,760 Speaker 6: You've been very kind to my family and uh, and 1666 01:28:12,800 --> 01:28:14,920 Speaker 6: I don't mean to be you know, step on your 1667 01:28:14,920 --> 01:28:17,760 Speaker 6: toes anything, but you've done so much for us. 1668 01:28:18,520 --> 01:28:19,880 Speaker 2: I need one more favor. 1669 01:28:20,160 --> 01:28:21,960 Speaker 6: That's a better way to walk in the door, to 1670 01:28:22,120 --> 01:28:24,120 Speaker 6: just walk in the door and go, hey, what's up? 1671 01:28:24,240 --> 01:28:26,439 Speaker 2: Man? Hey, look man, can I get a hundred? 1672 01:28:26,840 --> 01:28:27,000 Speaker 11: Well? 1673 01:28:27,040 --> 01:28:29,200 Speaker 6: Wait a minute, man, can you get a hundred? Just 1674 01:28:29,280 --> 01:28:32,360 Speaker 6: like that with no hay, how you doing? Sorry about you? 1675 01:28:32,360 --> 01:28:35,479 Speaker 6: Give me something? But when you go to God, if 1676 01:28:35,520 --> 01:28:39,479 Speaker 6: you start your prayer with gratitude, it's to acknowledge the 1677 01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:44,719 Speaker 6: fact that you already recognized that you have been sending 1678 01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:47,000 Speaker 6: some grace and some mercy in your life that you 1679 01:28:47,160 --> 01:28:51,000 Speaker 6: may not really even be deserving of, because that's what 1680 01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:57,800 Speaker 6: grace is. Grace is God's unmerited favor, and what it 1681 01:28:57,880 --> 01:29:01,040 Speaker 6: means by that is unmerited means you can't earn it. 1682 01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:05,880 Speaker 6: You can't do anything to get it. Grace is given 1683 01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:11,759 Speaker 6: out freely, without cause, purpose or justification. When God gives 1684 01:29:11,760 --> 01:29:13,720 Speaker 6: you grace, He just give it to you and you 1685 01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:16,120 Speaker 6: can pass judgment all you want. I know you probably 1686 01:29:16,160 --> 01:29:18,080 Speaker 6: think is a lot of people that don't deserve grace, 1687 01:29:18,240 --> 01:29:20,000 Speaker 6: but you ain't the one that has the ability to 1688 01:29:20,040 --> 01:29:22,840 Speaker 6: pass it out. And I thank God for that, because 1689 01:29:22,880 --> 01:29:25,400 Speaker 6: if people determine who got grace, we probably wouldn't get 1690 01:29:25,479 --> 01:29:26,200 Speaker 6: none at all. 1691 01:29:26,720 --> 01:29:28,240 Speaker 2: But God is to give of grace. 1692 01:29:29,800 --> 01:29:34,840 Speaker 6: And God's grace is his unmerited favor to us when 1693 01:29:34,840 --> 01:29:36,679 Speaker 6: He does things for us. 1694 01:29:37,439 --> 01:29:38,799 Speaker 2: That we don't even deserve. 1695 01:29:40,800 --> 01:29:43,320 Speaker 6: And that's why you hear old people say all I 1696 01:29:43,360 --> 01:29:46,599 Speaker 6: want is a little more grace because they understand how 1697 01:29:46,640 --> 01:29:47,479 Speaker 6: powerful it is. 1698 01:29:48,600 --> 01:29:52,439 Speaker 2: I wish you could purchase grace. I would take any 1699 01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:55,400 Speaker 2: extra that I have and buy its. 1700 01:29:55,479 --> 01:29:58,040 Speaker 6: Matter of fact, I would take all that I have 1701 01:29:58,160 --> 01:30:02,000 Speaker 6: to buy grace because such a beneficiary of grace man, 1702 01:30:02,360 --> 01:30:05,840 Speaker 6: because it's unexplainable how good God has been to me. 1703 01:30:06,840 --> 01:30:09,439 Speaker 6: And I can only tell you that I know a 1704 01:30:09,439 --> 01:30:12,280 Speaker 6: lot of what God does to me is simply because 1705 01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:18,000 Speaker 6: I have the good sense to show gratitude. I have 1706 01:30:18,320 --> 01:30:22,000 Speaker 6: enough sense to thank Him all the time for what 1707 01:30:22,080 --> 01:30:25,640 Speaker 6: He's done for me. And now millions and millions of 1708 01:30:25,640 --> 01:30:27,880 Speaker 6: people who do the same thing, and they have the 1709 01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:30,719 Speaker 6: life to show for it. This life I'm talking about 1710 01:30:30,840 --> 01:30:34,719 Speaker 6: is not in terms of money. It's often just times 1711 01:30:34,920 --> 01:30:37,000 Speaker 6: in terms of quality of life. Because let me tell 1712 01:30:37,000 --> 01:30:38,439 Speaker 6: you something, I know a lot of people with money 1713 01:30:38,439 --> 01:30:43,280 Speaker 6: ain't happy at all. But I'm just talking about quality 1714 01:30:43,320 --> 01:30:48,840 Speaker 6: of life. Having family, some friends, having relationships, being able 1715 01:30:48,840 --> 01:30:54,000 Speaker 6: to work, be happy, enjoying yourself. All of this is possible. 1716 01:30:54,400 --> 01:30:58,360 Speaker 6: But grace is everything, man, it really really is. And 1717 01:30:58,479 --> 01:31:00,960 Speaker 6: to get it, I think the only thing I can 1718 01:31:01,000 --> 01:31:04,760 Speaker 6: attest to mine is that he knows I'm grateful. And 1719 01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:08,040 Speaker 6: I will occasionally tell people about what he's done for me. 1720 01:31:08,760 --> 01:31:11,799 Speaker 6: I'm a living witness to that. I'm a living witness 1721 01:31:11,840 --> 01:31:17,040 Speaker 6: to his grace, his mercy, and his forgiveness because he did. 1722 01:31:17,080 --> 01:31:22,720 Speaker 6: If he hasn't forgiven me several times, I've been using though, 1723 01:31:22,760 --> 01:31:25,280 Speaker 6: I've been used up my third opportunity. If I was 1724 01:31:25,320 --> 01:31:29,240 Speaker 6: a cat, I've done my nine lives over and over 1725 01:31:29,280 --> 01:31:34,000 Speaker 6: and over. He's He's forgiven me thousands and thousands of times. 1726 01:31:34,680 --> 01:31:38,400 Speaker 6: And that's just grace, and that's mercy, and that's favor. 1727 01:31:38,840 --> 01:31:42,640 Speaker 6: But it starts with gratitude. If you change your gratitude, 1728 01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:45,839 Speaker 6: it affects your attitude. And once your attitude is affected, 1729 01:31:46,160 --> 01:31:49,280 Speaker 6: it changes your altitude. Those are the tudes we're working 1730 01:31:49,320 --> 01:31:51,680 Speaker 6: on today, y'all. Have a great day, have great We 1731 01:31:51,800 --> 01:31:54,040 Speaker 6: can't talk to God, he'd loved to hear from you. 1732 01:31:54,160 --> 01:32:05,040 Speaker 9: Here for all Steve Harvey contests. 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