WEBVTT - A Look Back: Hannah Ann Interview 

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Happy Hour listeners. I hope you enjoyed these throwback

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<v Speaker 1>episodes of Happy Hour. We'll be back with new episodes

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<v Speaker 1>very soon.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know where to start with this one,

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<v Speaker 2>so first of all, I just have to announce that

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<v Speaker 2>we are coming to you live from backstage at.

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<v Speaker 3>After the final rows. I mean, how do we.

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<v Speaker 2>Sum this up into one word? Becka, I mean, barbs

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<v Speaker 2>what I've been saying, But I'm a speechless you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>we have so much to get into, so much to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about, Bacher Nation, Bacher Happy Hour listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>I know you were upset that we didn't have.

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<v Speaker 2>A podcast yesterday, but my god, was it not worth

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<v Speaker 2>the wait? Were we not all waiting for what was

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<v Speaker 2>going to happen tonight? We have a special guest with

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<v Speaker 2>us in the studio today. But first I just have

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<v Speaker 2>to say that I'm so happy that I am not

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<v Speaker 2>doing this alone like I had to at Women's tell All,

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<v Speaker 2>I have my wonderful co host with me Becca Koper

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<v Speaker 2>is in the building.

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<v Speaker 3>Back.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back.

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<v Speaker 4>I am here off the road, taking a break from

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<v Speaker 4>the tour for a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 1>And Rachel, as you said, I mean, obviously we.

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<v Speaker 4>Could have I've had a podcast today, but there was

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<v Speaker 4>so much that was left inside that we had to

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<v Speaker 4>see go down. So now you're getting the full gist

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<v Speaker 4>of everything that we saw in the past two days,

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<v Speaker 4>which I mean, this entire season was a crazy wild ride,

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<v Speaker 4>and this evening just really I think summed everything that

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<v Speaker 4>we've seen in the past ten weeks up in one night.

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<v Speaker 4>And my mind is I mean, I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>kind of shaking right now. My mind is still a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit blown.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think what's so great is, I'll be honest,

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't get a lot of answers tonight. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like we heard a lot of talking, and there was

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of talking in circles except for one person

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<v Speaker 2>who I'm so thankful we get to talk to tonight. A

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<v Speaker 2>lot of circular talking. And I think that what's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be so great about our podcast tonight is that

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to unravel exactly what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to get down to it.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to ask the hard questions that weren't asked

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<v Speaker 2>on stage, and we're going to make sure we get

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<v Speaker 2>those answers.

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<v Speaker 3>That we know Bacher Nation needs.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're going to talk to some people tonight, but

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<v Speaker 2>I am so excited that we are talking wit.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me give you a drumm roll. We need a

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<v Speaker 1>drum roll for the person.

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<v Speaker 2>Only one person one tonight, and that person is Hannah Ann.

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<v Speaker 3>Hannah Ann, welcome to Ba's for Happy Hour.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you guys having me.

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<v Speaker 4>Well we I mean I needed personally first say, when

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<v Speaker 4>I first met you five seconds ago, you often and

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<v Speaker 4>I was hugging you, and I felt like I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to just take you under my wing because throughout this

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<v Speaker 4>entire journey that I've had for years, there's probably only

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<v Speaker 4>one other person who has now experienced things like I

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<v Speaker 4>have experienced, and that is you. And let me first

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<v Speaker 4>start by saying, yes, we're so excited to have you.

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<v Speaker 4>We can't wait to dive in and get your side

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<v Speaker 4>of everything.

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<v Speaker 1>But the way you handle things when.

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<v Speaker 4>Peter ended things and even tonight on stage, it was

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<v Speaker 4>with so much grace and dignity. But I looked up

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<v Speaker 4>to you in a way you said the things that

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<v Speaker 4>you had to say, and when I was in your position,

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<v Speaker 4>I was so I think blinded and nervous and anxious

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<v Speaker 4>and feeling like so constricted that it was finally nice

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<v Speaker 4>to see a badass woman stand up there and say

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<v Speaker 4>what she needed to say to put Peter in his place.

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<v Speaker 1>And as Rachel said, I really do feel like.

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<v Speaker 4>You are the winner of tonight because you handled it

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<v Speaker 4>with so much dignity.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy that you're here.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think I speak on behalf of all of

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<v Speaker 4>veterination when I say our hearts broke for you. I

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<v Speaker 4>mean we were watching backstage and I truly felt how

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<v Speaker 4>I felt years ago, and so thank you for being here.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you for putting your heart and everything, your love

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<v Speaker 4>life on the line. You know, it's a weird it's

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<v Speaker 4>a weird world when it's for other people's entertainment, but

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<v Speaker 4>you handled everything beautifully, and I keep saying with so

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<v Speaker 4>much grace, but thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>I was thank you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It was great.

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<v Speaker 2>And I like the whole time that we were watching

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<v Speaker 2>what happened tonight, Becca and I just.

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<v Speaker 3>Kept like chatting like two little girls.

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<v Speaker 2>And Becca kept saying that she understood you and what

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<v Speaker 2>you went through. And I know that we're gonna, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>dive into that even further into the podcast. But this

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<v Speaker 2>is the first podcast that you've done, as you said,

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<v Speaker 2>so thank you so much for doing our podcast first

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<v Speaker 2>and you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can stop after that.

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<v Speaker 2>Because no one has talked to you, and then the

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<v Speaker 2>first time we really heard you speak, I really want

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<v Speaker 2>to get start from the beginning because we saw you

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<v Speaker 2>one way and then we do not. It's one of

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<v Speaker 2>the things that we did not get the answer to,

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<v Speaker 2>even with you talking and standing up for yourself, we

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<v Speaker 2>did not understand how it got to where it did,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're so help hoping to get those answers tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>So I really want to get into it because I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you have been unfairly judged, and I'll even

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<v Speaker 2>say that I did it as well.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I first time we talked to Peter and I saw

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<v Speaker 2>you still him so many times. I compared you to

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<v Speaker 2>Luke p I was like, is she a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>Luke peish?

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<v Speaker 3>And he said, no, she's not, and he was like

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<v Speaker 3>really defensive.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, Okay, we got it. She's going

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<v Speaker 1>some places.

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<v Speaker 2>No. But I feel like one one theme in y'all

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<v Speaker 2>season is that there was a lack of communication and

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<v Speaker 2>people weren't really communicating their feelings and their thoughts, and

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<v Speaker 2>you got a lot of heat for it as well,

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<v Speaker 2>But tonight you put all that to rest. So let's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of start from the beginning with you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>getting the first impression Rows and how that night went down,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I guess one, did you think you were

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<v Speaker 2>going to get it? And did you feel like you

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<v Speaker 2>had a target on your back? And this is pre

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<v Speaker 2>Champagne gay, Let's just not well yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, So the first night, you know, getting the first impression,

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<v Speaker 7>I you know, there's a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Of girls around, and I wanted you.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, I was excited to see Peter.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, we film all night long, hours and hours

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<v Speaker 7>and hours, so the times that I would go up

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<v Speaker 7>and see him again hours had passed.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, of course I want to go see him again.

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<v Speaker 5>If I get the opportunity, I want to go speak

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<v Speaker 5>with him again.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I've been waiting to like speak with him,

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<v Speaker 7>and I'm here for purpose. My words have a purpose

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<v Speaker 7>and meaning behind them, and I I was excited to

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<v Speaker 7>get to know him. Plus, if I'm taking the time

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<v Speaker 7>to start this journey, I want to be sure if

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<v Speaker 7>we even have a connection. You know, I enjoyed spending

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<v Speaker 7>time with the other girls, but at the forefront of

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<v Speaker 7>my mind was always going to be Peter and seeing

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<v Speaker 7>if we had that connection, and if I didn't ever

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<v Speaker 7>feel that, I would have parted ways.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, weren't you worried about being that girl, that

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<v Speaker 2>girl who's going to be the one stealing him because

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>You were going to get the first impression of usk? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>So does that not cross your mind at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I know at one point you said, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>typically like this, but we couldn't tell.

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<v Speaker 7>Right right, And I think in the beginning I came

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<v Speaker 7>off completely like the wrong way, and looking back on

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<v Speaker 7>and I'm like, oh my goodness, like that was not

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<v Speaker 7>what I wanted to come across as. But I was

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<v Speaker 7>just focused on me and Peter and tried to keep

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<v Speaker 7>that at the forefront of my mind at all times,

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<v Speaker 7>and enjoyed the entire process, even if meant, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>spending time with the girls. But at the end of

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<v Speaker 7>the day, when I was there Peter and Peter only

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<v Speaker 7>and trying to figure out and give our give us

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<v Speaker 7>the best shot.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and I will say because we did sit down

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<v Speaker 4>with Peter at the very beginning and I asked him,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, did you like that that haim An

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<v Speaker 4>stole you so many times?

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<v Speaker 1>And he did. He was all for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he said he was wanting to talk to me

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<v Speaker 5>more that night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, okay, so he liked it. So clearly it was

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<v Speaker 1>reciprocated on both ends.

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<v Speaker 4>It wasn't like he was like, who's this crazy girl

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<v Speaker 4>who keeps stealing me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I know it might seem like I was pressing myself

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<v Speaker 7>on him, but he was telling me he wanted to

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<v Speaker 7>talk to me more that night, you know, and opportunities

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<v Speaker 7>were presented to me to talk to him. And it's

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<v Speaker 7>been a couple of hours. I'm like, sure, Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 7>told me to talk to him again, so I'm like,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm going to So feelings were, you know, on both

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<v Speaker 7>sides wanting to communicate and talk more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it were. It did, It clearly did. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we go on to I mean fast forward a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>This whole champagne gait.

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<v Speaker 4>Which was champagne was such a common theme. I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like throughout what was your take? Because when we recapped

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<v Speaker 4>that week, I was saying, you know, there's clearly the

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<v Speaker 4>show does certain things. They set up certain things to

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<v Speaker 4>you know, stir the pot and to cause that drama.

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<v Speaker 4>And I really truly was like, I don't think han

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<v Speaker 4>Ann knew that that.

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<v Speaker 1>One was Kelsey's. I think she just saw it was

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<v Speaker 1>a cute set.

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<v Speaker 4>Up for her and Peter, So we didn't think you

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<v Speaker 4>did it maliciously. But what was your take when that

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<v Speaker 4>all went down?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my goodness, when all that went down, I wastely

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<v Speaker 7>blindsided by it and I.

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<v Speaker 6>Didn't know how to handle it.

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<v Speaker 7>And you know, in the end, me and Kelsey were

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<v Speaker 7>able to like, you know, put aside our differences and

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<v Speaker 7>become friends because we were like, hey, we have like,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, a couple more weeks with each other, hopefully,

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<v Speaker 7>like we have to pull you know, we have to

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<v Speaker 7>put this bull crap aside.

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<v Speaker 6>And like learn to you know, be friends or at

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<v Speaker 6>least live like in the same house together.

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<v Speaker 7>So when all that went down, I was like, oh crap,

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<v Speaker 7>Like I've never had that conflict like this, Like how

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<v Speaker 7>do I handle this? So like I was just trying

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<v Speaker 7>to be as logical as possible and just be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't steal your champagne, and like that came across

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<v Speaker 7>maybe to some people as like cold hearted, but I

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<v Speaker 7>was just trying to like be as straightforward and concise

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<v Speaker 7>as possible and not let the emotions get to me.

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<v Speaker 5>And it did.

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<v Speaker 3>Upset me.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember that night.

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<v Speaker 7>I cried all night long, and I remember some of

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<v Speaker 7>the girls in the house were like, you know, they

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<v Speaker 7>can't ant like people like like the other girls need

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<v Speaker 7>to see the side of you, Like they need to

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<v Speaker 7>see that you're.

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<v Speaker 5>Upset and see that you didn't mean that.

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<v Speaker 7>But in the moment, I was just trying to be

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<v Speaker 7>as clear as possible with her, so she knew that

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<v Speaker 7>my point got across.

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<v Speaker 6>I did not steal your champagne. That's where you know I'm.

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<v Speaker 7>Not just champagne, because I was just trying to like,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, we'll let her know that.

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<v Speaker 4>And I get it. I mean I never was in

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<v Speaker 4>a sorority. I mean, I have a big group of girlfriends.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you're.

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<v Speaker 4>Living with twenty plus people from all across the country,

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<v Speaker 4>people that you don't know, you don't know how they interact,

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<v Speaker 4>how they process things, it's a really scary thing. And

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<v Speaker 4>I and I think you handled it well. I will say,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I would have probably done the same. I

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<v Speaker 4>would have been like, look, I can't feel this fire

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<v Speaker 4>so much. I'll say what I have to sail confronted.

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<v Speaker 4>Hopefully it dies. But it's a really people I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think realize how scary that first week is, Like it's

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<v Speaker 4>all aknown so you have no idea what to expect

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<v Speaker 4>with the lead, with the production aspect, with living with

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<v Speaker 4>so many people, and so it's it's unturned territory that

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<v Speaker 4>no one, no one should actually know how to handle that.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, right.

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<v Speaker 7>And me and Kelsey didn't know each other at that point,

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<v Speaker 7>so we didn't kind of know, you know, how we

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<v Speaker 7>both you know, how we both respond to situations are

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<v Speaker 7>very different.

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<v Speaker 5>But what I know now about her and what she

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<v Speaker 5>knows now about.

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<v Speaker 6>Me, it would have been completely different.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean that was like day five based yea, so

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<v Speaker 7>we didn't know each other at all, which would have changed,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, both of our responses to the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I think what was hard for people to handle is

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<v Speaker 2>you were so cool, calm and collected.

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<v Speaker 3>In your response.

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<v Speaker 2>And I remember saying, I was like, I probably would

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<v Speaker 2>have responded the same way that it came across as nonchalant, right, And.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I think that it's being misunderstood because

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<v Speaker 3>I got it. I was like, kudos to her. It's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even think I could have handled it that well.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the one thing was that I think you

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<v Speaker 2>said it was bullying her, and I think it's a

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<v Speaker 2>word that we throw out around too often.

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<v Speaker 3>She definitely cursed you out, which was wrong. She was

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<v Speaker 3>wrong and how she handled.

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<v Speaker 2>It for sure, But I think the way you handled it,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think you needed to cry and match her

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<v Speaker 2>emotion in that. I thought that the way that you

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<v Speaker 2>handled it kind of diffuse the situation and it didn't

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<v Speaker 2>create a Fanasco.

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<v Speaker 1>Can talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Masco, Yes she is, and what happened.

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<v Speaker 7>This whole season has been a Fanasco and that is

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<v Speaker 7>my cap on the whole entire season.

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually gonna do you know the right word? Right?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, fanasco.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't you say the right word fiasco?

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<v Speaker 5>Fiasco?

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<v Speaker 3>I was trying to give you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to give you a chance.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I like to say, fanasco.

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<v Speaker 3>But for the record, you do know it's fiasco.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but you should trademark fanasco.

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<v Speaker 3>I should.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just like, and you know what's so funny is

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<v Speaker 7>that in the moment I said that, and I had

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<v Speaker 7>no idea that I even like misspoke, Like I had

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<v Speaker 7>no idea and like that'sn't even like a word that

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<v Speaker 7>I had used in the bath, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I had no idea where that came from.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, your brain was shumbled that first week.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot went down. I would have been making them.

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<v Speaker 4>I do still make up my own words, So I

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<v Speaker 4>don't blame you for that. So we go on.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, of course we see you form friendships like you

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<v Speaker 1>and Kelsey seem.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, she's a really sweet girl, you guys. She doesn't

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<v Speaker 7>have a mean bone in her body.

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<v Speaker 1>She's very very just had to get past the champagne.

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<v Speaker 2>Women.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell she was cool.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't steal your champagne. After that, she became like.

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<v Speaker 7>A really great friend, honestly, and you're still friends. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>we are, all right, she's a really nice person.

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<v Speaker 3>So let's jump. Let's just just move on. Well, you

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<v Speaker 3>know you got roses.

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<v Speaker 2>We were We knew you were a front runner, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>after you won the modeling thing, which totally should have

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<v Speaker 2>or how are those is that revolved that you're wearing?

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<v Speaker 3>Are the Revolt clothes working for?

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<v Speaker 1>Does not to point that out?

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<v Speaker 2>Like a girl's dream, right, like, just to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to get twenty five twenty four thousand dollars worth whatever

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<v Speaker 2>it was worth.

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<v Speaker 1>Of clothes the closet No, it is not, and it should.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good problem to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want to just just get right to Fantasy

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<v Speaker 2>Suites because you have a meme that's going around where

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<v Speaker 2>you're looking and I wish you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys know that's what happy our listeners.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I'm talking about, where you're like, it's

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<v Speaker 2>the best meme ever with the brown and the squinty

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<v Speaker 2>guys like, say what now, that's that's.

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<v Speaker 3>What the face is.

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<v Speaker 2>So we learn in the Fantasy suite. We all know

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<v Speaker 2>what goes down to Fantasy Suite. Nobody, whether you've watched

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<v Speaker 2>Bouts or or not, you know what Fantasy Suite is about.

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<v Speaker 2>And in this Fantasy this week, you guys all stay together, right,

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<v Speaker 2>which is crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>But you learn about Madison. You learn her thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>About Fantasy sueet week, which at that point she had

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<v Speaker 2>shared with you, but she hadn't shared with Peter himself, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And then it became this.

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<v Speaker 3>Whole ultimatum thing. Was it an ultimatum?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it not?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm asking you? Was it an ultimatum?

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<v Speaker 6>Was it an ultimatum?

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<v Speaker 7>You know, for me, me and Madison are just two

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<v Speaker 7>different people and we make different decisions, and I felt

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<v Speaker 7>completely uncomfortable that entire weekend that I even knew, you.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, the conversations that she was wanting to have with Peter.

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<v Speaker 7>I was just wanting to focus on me and him

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<v Speaker 7>and not let anything.

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<v Speaker 6>Distract me from that.

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<v Speaker 7>So thinking that it's an ultimatum between Madison and Peter,

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<v Speaker 7>not necessarily because I.

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<v Speaker 6>Think Madison was doing what was best for her, But that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Not an ultimate that's not the definition of an.

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<v Speaker 2>Ultimatum is like if you do this, then this, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, doesn't matter your motive behind because it's not

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<v Speaker 2>wrong to believe what you believe and to feel that.

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<v Speaker 7>No, but nobody's a judged her for that. I never

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<v Speaker 7>judged her for that. Was I taken back by it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, because I didn't want to be involved in it.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't want to have these conversations with anyone, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>about them and Peter. I was focused on me, and

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<v Speaker 7>so when she was telling me, you know, she felt

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<v Speaker 7>like he couldn't do certain things for her to move

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<v Speaker 7>forward with him, I was just kind of like gave

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<v Speaker 7>her a look of a what were.

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<v Speaker 3>You close with her in the house?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, we I was, Yeah, I was close with her.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to know did she talk because we didn't

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<v Speaker 4>see her bring up this conversation with Peter until the

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<v Speaker 4>very end, the very end.

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<v Speaker 1>And was this something because I feel like when I

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<v Speaker 1>was on ra season.

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<v Speaker 4>With all the girls, we talked about a lot, like

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<v Speaker 4>everything was out in the open.

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<v Speaker 1>There wasn't many secrets between us.

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<v Speaker 4>So was this something that was brought up in the

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<v Speaker 4>in the house with all of the girls beforehand, or

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<v Speaker 4>was that the first time you were hearing about it too?

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<v Speaker 7>I think when we sat down, we you know, had

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<v Speaker 7>to have that conversation about her telling Peter her standards

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<v Speaker 7>and stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I gave that look because I was kind

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<v Speaker 5>of taken back by it.

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<v Speaker 3>So you hadn't heard it before?

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<v Speaker 7>No, I was thinking in my I knew, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>she had certain lifestyle values and I knew that they

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<v Speaker 7>didn't line up with Peter's.

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<v Speaker 6>But I was thinking that they might have had that

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<v Speaker 6>conversation weeks before and its prior.

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<v Speaker 7>But my face is kind of like, oh gosh, I

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<v Speaker 7>don't want to get involved in this, like you know

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<v Speaker 7>you do you know, for me, I was never intending

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<v Speaker 7>to give Peter a hall pass of you do whatever

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<v Speaker 7>you want. My intention was I see the big picture

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<v Speaker 7>and me and you truly begin after all this is

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<v Speaker 7>over after when it's just me and you, And that

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<v Speaker 7>was my intention behind it. I just wanted him to,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, focus on him and try to be as

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<v Speaker 7>understanding as possible the amount of streuss and pressure he's under.

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<v Speaker 5>And if we meet each other and the end.

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<v Speaker 6>Great, that's when we start. Yeah, that's when it's just.

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<v Speaker 5>About me and you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's an uncomfortable week period, no matter what your values are.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just uncomfortable knowing while I'm sitting here something else

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<v Speaker 2>is going on. Like it it gets to everybody back then,

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<v Speaker 2>I have both been there on both sides of it.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to know you went first, and obviously

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<v Speaker 4>Victoria and then Madison. Do you think had well a,

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<v Speaker 4>had you guys all been removed from each other and

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<v Speaker 4>be gone in a different order, would things have changed?

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<v Speaker 7>No, Because I think Peter and Madison hold different lifestyles

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<v Speaker 7>or lived. I think Peter Madison lived different lifestyles and

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<v Speaker 7>hold different values. And I don't think this is exactly just.

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<v Speaker 6>An issue with the fantasy speek.

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<v Speaker 7>So I think it's lifestyles and how you see life

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<v Speaker 7>and how you judge everything out of life.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's so interesting that you say that, because, like

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<v Speaker 2>Becca was saying, as women in the house, you chitchat

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<v Speaker 2>and you talk and you get to know each other

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<v Speaker 2>better than you get to know whoever the lead is.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're saying, you say you knew that they had

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<v Speaker 2>different lifestyles and they were on different pages. As a viewer,

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't get that till week seven, and it was

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<v Speaker 2>only that we got that they had were different as

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<v Speaker 2>far as religion.

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<v Speaker 3>We had no idea they had different lifestyles. But obviously

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<v Speaker 3>you were privy to that information.

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<v Speaker 2>So Madison made a point during Fantasy Sweet Week where

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<v Speaker 2>she said to Peter, I've been struggling this entire time,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've been having.

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<v Speaker 3>A really hard time. Is that something that you saw

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<v Speaker 3>in the house.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so we.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't see that, and what and what did you see?

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<v Speaker 5>I saw?

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<v Speaker 7>You know, she was struggling with the week and just

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<v Speaker 7>knowing that. I think she was coming to the realization

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<v Speaker 7>that they live very different lifestyles, which is hard to

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<v Speaker 7>kind of comprehend when you're in when you're on the

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<v Speaker 7>show and you're not in your lifestyle, you're not on

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<v Speaker 7>your day to day basis of your hobbies and like

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<v Speaker 7>your schedule and how you live your life.

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<v Speaker 6>So I think that was trying.

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<v Speaker 7>I think at that point that was coming very apparent

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<v Speaker 7>to her, and I think that that's what she was

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<v Speaker 7>struggling with, along with just the stress of fantasy fantasy

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<v Speaker 7>see week, which is stressful for anyone.

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<v Speaker 4>I do want to get to the whole lifestyle thing

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<v Speaker 4>in a bit because it leads me into some questions

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<v Speaker 4>like after you and Peter were already together, so can

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<v Speaker 4>we fast forward? Yeah, because I want to get to

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<v Speaker 4>the juicy, the juicy part everyone. So the last week

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<v Speaker 4>you met the family, they fell in love with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Madison at the family, it wasn't this, It wasn't the same.

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<v Speaker 4>And that you know, I don't want to talk about

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<v Speaker 4>Madison too too much because she's not here. I want

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<v Speaker 4>to focus on you and your time with Peter.

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<v Speaker 1>So you get to that last.

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<v Speaker 4>Week and you would absolutely then no idea that Madison

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<v Speaker 4>had left early.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct, no idea.

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<v Speaker 4>So when he told you, because we've seen the proposal,

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<v Speaker 4>he's standing there, and we also didn't know if you

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<v Speaker 4>were going to show up at first. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you're kind of making a sway, So you get to

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<v Speaker 4>that moment and he's in the middle of this speech

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<v Speaker 4>to you where it should be about you, guys, and

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<v Speaker 4>he goes, Madison left two days ago. And in that moment,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if you guys caught it, but when

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<v Speaker 4>he said Madison, his tone switched a little bit and

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<v Speaker 4>all he says is is that all he said? I

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<v Speaker 4>want to know, was he just like she left a

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<v Speaker 4>couple of days ago, and then goes on.

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<v Speaker 1>To all these great things about you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, yes, it was completely downplayd didn't give me the

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<v Speaker 7>courtesy or respect to have a sit down conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, this this is what's been going on this week.

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<v Speaker 3>This is where my.

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<v Speaker 7>Headspace is at. Let's talk this through. Didn't owe me that,

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<v Speaker 7>just told me that very quickly and downplayed it, and

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<v Speaker 7>then immediately went to but my heart choes is you

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<v Speaker 7>and your love of my life. But I don't want

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<v Speaker 7>to spend forever with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you get an inkling that kind of what we

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<v Speaker 2>saw happen post engagement was going to happen that night.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we never usually see someone say I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if I want to show up right. Usually, when you

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<v Speaker 2>get to that point, that person is ready to go

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<v Speaker 2>there whether they're going to accept a proposal and they

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<v Speaker 2>have no idea. You were struggling before the engagement. Why

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<v Speaker 2>was that because we never really got those answers.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, my instincts were telling me I wasn't getting all

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<v Speaker 7>the information I needed to make a decision with Peter.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's intuition.

0:20:46.200 --> 0:20:48.080
<v Speaker 5>That's intuition, and that's instincts.

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<v Speaker 7>And should I have stayed on that bed in Australia, Absolutely,

0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:53.480
<v Speaker 7>But I wasn't going to give up on someone that

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<v Speaker 7>I loved and he the last words he told me

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<v Speaker 7>on our last chance date was that he was going

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<v Speaker 7>to make the decision that's best for both of us.

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<v Speaker 5>To trust him.

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<v Speaker 7>And when you're with someone, you know, this is a

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<v Speaker 7>wacky situation, but I'm taking it for what it is.

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<v Speaker 7>When you're with someone, you trust their word. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 7>that's why I showed up. So I was going to

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<v Speaker 7>trust his words and follow through. And in the end,

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<v Speaker 7>I think he, you know, took advantage of the fact

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<v Speaker 7>that he conveniently left out very important information prior to

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<v Speaker 7>me making a commitment with them. And you know, as

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<v Speaker 7>the audience is watching this for the very first time,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just like an average viewer, like, I'm just like

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<v Speaker 7>everyone else watching this, like a lot of information was left.

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<v Speaker 4>Out, which is why Bauchler happy our listeners. I need

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<v Speaker 4>to reiterate this because I was the same way when

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<v Speaker 4>I was in your position. This is Hannah Ann's first

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<v Speaker 4>time truly watching this all go down. Yes, she lived it,

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<v Speaker 4>but there's so many pieces to this entire puzzle that

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<v Speaker 4>she missed that she didn't see, and so she.

0:21:49.520 --> 0:21:52.239
<v Speaker 1>Was backstage watching it just like we all were watching it.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I'm sure in those moments and even now,

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<v Speaker 4>there's going to be a lot that you're still processing.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I ask you a question when you say that

0:21:59.119 --> 0:22:00.800
<v Speaker 2>there was a lot you did and see, are you

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<v Speaker 2>just talking about what happened post engagement or are you

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<v Speaker 2>also talking about what you watched the entire h this

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<v Speaker 2>whole journey, like all these weeks, this entire.

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<v Speaker 7>Season, entire season entirely explain that really it was Peter

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<v Speaker 7>wanted me to stay with him, and he downplayed his

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<v Speaker 7>feelings towards Madison completely, and even you know, after our breakup,

0:22:29.520 --> 0:22:31.960
<v Speaker 7>he couldn't really own up to it and reached out

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<v Speaker 7>to my parents and said that he you know, basically

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<v Speaker 7>that he was struggling processing all of his emotions.

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<v Speaker 6>That's what he left that and it was very vague.

0:22:43.600 --> 0:22:47.800
<v Speaker 7>He speaks half truths, and so while I'm watching this season,

0:22:47.800 --> 0:22:50.679
<v Speaker 7>I'm like, oh, okay, that makes a lot more sense,

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<v Speaker 7>Like this is why we broke up. Makes a whole

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<v Speaker 7>lot more sense because he couldn't really own up to

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<v Speaker 7>the fact of how he was truly feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know too.

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<v Speaker 4>So after okay, so after you guys did get engaged,

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<v Speaker 4>and he was very vague about oh, yeah, Madison left

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<v Speaker 4>two days ago, but you guys still ended up together.

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<v Speaker 4>You have days when you're together before I'm sure you

0:23:09.320 --> 0:23:12.280
<v Speaker 4>flew back to the US, before you know, you got

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<v Speaker 4>back to your normal life. Did he in those moments

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<v Speaker 4>ever disclose more of why she left? Did you guys

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<v Speaker 4>get into that conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 7>He always whenever that conversation was brought up, it was

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<v Speaker 7>always like this is the past, and always made sure

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<v Speaker 7>to reassure me that I was his person, that I

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<v Speaker 7>was a loved life, and that he was always going

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<v Speaker 7>to choose me. So always kind of went in with

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<v Speaker 7>that reassurance to where I'm like, hmm, okay. But as

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<v Speaker 7>the season started to roll, things weren't quite adding up, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's break this down because I'm an evidenced, like logical,

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<v Speaker 2>I need to see how things timeline out. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>we talked to Peter. So you get engaged somewhere around

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<v Speaker 2>a week before Thanksgiving around that time. Yeah, you're together

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<v Speaker 2>this whole time. We talked to Peter first week in January.

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<v Speaker 2>He tells us he is so happy. We talked to

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<v Speaker 2>his parents. As we can see, Barb cannot control her

0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:09.520
<v Speaker 2>emotions and she was happy at that time. So if

0:24:09.560 --> 0:24:11.680
<v Speaker 2>it wasn't you, we would have already known.

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:12.400
<v Speaker 3>She was not okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So the season has started, y'all are still together? When

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<v Speaker 2>did you have the conversation that we saw happen on

0:24:21.200 --> 0:24:22.400
<v Speaker 2>TV TV?

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<v Speaker 7>You know, like I said on stage, the beginning of

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<v Speaker 7>January was when he approached me that he needed to

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<v Speaker 7>speak with Hannah Brown. Yeah, to know about that, that's

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<v Speaker 7>the first red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>But start talk about that. He told you he needs

0:24:41.720 --> 0:24:42.520
<v Speaker 2>to talk to Hannah Brown.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, he told me he needed to talk to Hannah

0:24:44.760 --> 0:24:46.480
<v Speaker 7>Brown because he needed closure?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he not get that?

0:24:48.000 --> 0:24:51.600
<v Speaker 7>I was trying to convince me that I should feel

0:24:51.600 --> 0:24:55.040
<v Speaker 7>comfortable with that, And I'm like, why did.

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<v Speaker 3>He need closure?

0:24:55.600 --> 0:24:58.840
<v Speaker 7>Why do you we we're engaged, right and just listen.

0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:01.200
<v Speaker 7>I wasn't on that group date with him and Hannah Brown.

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<v Speaker 7>I had not seen that episode of them all cozy

0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:08.000
<v Speaker 7>cozy up in a couch, him crying and.

0:25:08.000 --> 0:25:09.400
<v Speaker 5>Her possibly come back in the house.

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<v Speaker 7>I have no idea, like none, And so when he

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<v Speaker 7>brought that up, I'm like, wait, what, Like, I know

0:25:15.720 --> 0:25:18.240
<v Speaker 7>she came back in the season, but can you explain more?

0:25:18.280 --> 0:25:20.120
<v Speaker 7>And that was kind of when the episode was coming out,

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<v Speaker 7>and I'm like, why should.

0:25:21.880 --> 0:25:24.119
<v Speaker 5>I feel comfortable with this? This is something that I

0:25:24.160 --> 0:25:25.680
<v Speaker 5>feel like if you don't.

0:25:25.520 --> 0:25:27.560
<v Speaker 7>You don't seem like you're ready for any kind of commitment,

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<v Speaker 7>let alone an engagement. That was the first red flag

0:25:31.920 --> 0:25:34.119
<v Speaker 7>And I was questioning my own self because he was

0:25:34.119 --> 0:25:36.840
<v Speaker 7>trying to convince me that that is something that he needed,

0:25:37.920 --> 0:25:40.440
<v Speaker 7>and I'm like, I just I don't quite feel.

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<v Speaker 5>Settled with that.

0:25:41.000 --> 0:25:42.080
<v Speaker 3>So did he get the closure?

0:25:42.760 --> 0:25:42.920
<v Speaker 6>No?

0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:45.480
<v Speaker 5>That was that was pretty close.

0:25:45.880 --> 0:25:47.800
<v Speaker 6>I think that was like a week before he broke up.

0:25:48.040 --> 0:25:49.920
<v Speaker 3>So he never reached out to her. He never tried

0:25:49.960 --> 0:25:50.800
<v Speaker 3>to contact her or.

0:25:50.720 --> 0:25:53.959
<v Speaker 4>Was Hannah Brown code for oh, let me maybe have

0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:57.720
<v Speaker 4>conversations with other women aka Madison where he was trying

0:25:57.760 --> 0:25:59.920
<v Speaker 4>to open up the door and like test the water

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<v Speaker 4>and see how you felt.

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<v Speaker 7>I probably, I don't quite know. That was so close

0:26:05.800 --> 0:26:08.320
<v Speaker 7>to us breaking up, and then there was that going on,

0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:10.879
<v Speaker 7>you know, and then there was the whole Oh the

0:26:10.880 --> 0:26:14.440
<v Speaker 7>season started and I have unresolved issues.

0:26:14.520 --> 0:26:18.159
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, what's unresolved issues? I mean, I'm by your side.

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:20.439
<v Speaker 5>I gave you my word to be by your side.

0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:23.199
<v Speaker 7>And his unresolved issues were having to watch back the

0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:24.080
<v Speaker 7>show once again.

0:26:24.119 --> 0:26:26.399
<v Speaker 6>He completely downplayed it completely.

0:26:27.280 --> 0:26:28.920
<v Speaker 7>And you know, when I showed up to the breakup,

0:26:28.960 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 7>that was the very first time I heard him say

0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:32.920
<v Speaker 7>I can't give you my full heart. And I told

0:26:33.000 --> 0:26:34.880
<v Speaker 7>him before I even went out there, I said, hey,

0:26:34.960 --> 0:26:37.640
<v Speaker 7>like you're wanting to in things, give me a little

0:26:37.680 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 7>bit of a heads up. I'll be fine, trust me,

0:26:41.040 --> 0:26:43.920
<v Speaker 7>I'll cry, you know, just just give me a heads up.

0:26:43.920 --> 0:26:46.240
<v Speaker 7>And we actually had talked that morning that.

0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:48.399
<v Speaker 6>We weren't going to break up, that we were going

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<v Speaker 6>to work through it.

0:26:49.160 --> 0:26:53.600
<v Speaker 3>When was this February the February.

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<v Speaker 5>Very end of January, very end of January.

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<v Speaker 3>So y'all went all through December, Christmas, cool, just fine.

0:27:00.080 --> 0:27:02.960
<v Speaker 2>You never had any inkling that he was because you

0:27:03.440 --> 0:27:06.919
<v Speaker 2>during your breakup you kept saying I know you've been struggling,

0:27:07.040 --> 0:27:07.960
<v Speaker 2>and I'm here for you.

0:27:08.160 --> 0:27:10.000
<v Speaker 3>That that didn't start till January.

0:27:10.119 --> 0:27:11.560
<v Speaker 5>That did not start till January.

0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I because one of the one of the

0:27:15.880 --> 0:27:19.560
<v Speaker 2>questions we had when we were watching was seeing how

0:27:19.640 --> 0:27:22.600
<v Speaker 2>happy he was to go get that ring for you, Nilane.

0:27:22.600 --> 0:27:26.080
<v Speaker 2>We were sitting with Nilane watching tonight, and he was

0:27:26.160 --> 0:27:28.520
<v Speaker 2>like the man I saw get that ring is not

0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:31.719
<v Speaker 2>the man that I see now, like just totally different

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:35.280
<v Speaker 2>he was. He was ecstatic, approsing.

0:27:34.640 --> 0:27:38.159
<v Speaker 4>He was kissing ring, like showed us pictures of the

0:27:38.240 --> 0:27:40.720
<v Speaker 4>day of Peter kissing the ring he picked out.

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:43.679
<v Speaker 2>So I think what we're all trying to understand, like

0:27:43.760 --> 0:27:46.760
<v Speaker 2>Becca and I, but also just like our listener's maachter Nation,

0:27:47.080 --> 0:27:52.240
<v Speaker 2>is what happened. I get the Hannah Brown unresolved. I

0:27:52.520 --> 0:27:55.720
<v Speaker 2>don't know what that was. But with the with whatever

0:27:55.760 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 2>he said to you where you started, for you to

0:27:58.400 --> 0:28:00.920
<v Speaker 2>say when you were headed to la Hey, if we're

0:28:00.920 --> 0:28:04.080
<v Speaker 2>breaking up, let me know what was happening, because that's

0:28:04.119 --> 0:28:05.240
<v Speaker 2>not the first thing I would say.

0:28:05.320 --> 0:28:07.480
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean, it's just like what he told my

0:28:07.520 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 7>parents even after a breakup, he was having trouble processing

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:11.600
<v Speaker 7>all of his emotions.

0:28:11.600 --> 0:28:14.160
<v Speaker 6>Peter does not own up completely to the full.

0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:17.359
<v Speaker 7>Truth, just kind of like on our engagement day, he

0:28:17.440 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 7>knew that if he told me the full extent of

0:28:19.840 --> 0:28:22.040
<v Speaker 7>where his heart and head was at that entire week,

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:24.240
<v Speaker 7>he knew the outcome would have been different. He knew

0:28:24.240 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 7>that when we sat down had to open an honest conversation,

0:28:27.119 --> 0:28:29.040
<v Speaker 7>my instincts would picked up on that he was not.

0:28:29.040 --> 0:28:29.960
<v Speaker 6>Ready for a commitment.

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 5>I think that's not what he wanted.

0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:36.040
<v Speaker 4>I think that Peter that we've seen all season is

0:28:36.480 --> 0:28:39.320
<v Speaker 4>he's a hopeless romantic. He kind of he has his

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:41.920
<v Speaker 4>head in the clouds where he I think he hypes

0:28:42.000 --> 0:28:44.560
<v Speaker 4>himself up to think he wants certain things, and it's

0:28:44.600 --> 0:28:48.160
<v Speaker 4>not until he can take a step back or start

0:28:48.160 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 4>rewatching this season where he sees the things that he

0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:53.880
<v Speaker 4>now can't have. And I will say, like when I

0:28:53.920 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 4>was still with Ari, because we were together for about

0:28:56.160 --> 0:28:59.360
<v Speaker 4>a month and a half, had three happy couples together,

0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:02.160
<v Speaker 4>like you guys, you know, I knew he had been

0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:05.120
<v Speaker 4>startling and he felt guilty for how things went down

0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:07.880
<v Speaker 4>with obviously Lauren, and I'm sure the other girls like

0:29:07.880 --> 0:29:10.480
<v Speaker 4>that's just a human instinct, but it wasn't.

0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:12.160
<v Speaker 1>You know. He started watching the season back.

0:29:12.160 --> 0:29:14.520
<v Speaker 4>Our season started when we were still together, and he

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 4>said he watched our season, our first episode, so the

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:19.360
<v Speaker 4>first date, it's like, oh my gosh, I'm more in

0:29:19.360 --> 0:29:21.239
<v Speaker 4>love with you now than I ever was. And then

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:23.120
<v Speaker 4>fast forward to the next week where I wasn't on

0:29:23.200 --> 0:29:25.760
<v Speaker 4>that date with him, and he started seeing other things.

0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 4>And I think it's in that moment where you watch

0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 4>it back as a man, because I don't think I

0:29:30.040 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 4>got this as a woman, but I'm trying to trying

0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 4>to kind of process and put my feet where what

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:38.080
<v Speaker 4>am I trying to say, put my feet in his shoes?

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:40.400
<v Speaker 1>Whatever? Where He started.

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:42.360
<v Speaker 4>Then watching it back and started seeing his first date

0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:46.520
<v Speaker 4>with Maddie and realizing the feelings were buried that he couldn't,

0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:48.920
<v Speaker 4>as you said, quite on up to and acknowledge.

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:53.080
<v Speaker 1>Guys are hard human beings to try.

0:29:53.840 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 4>The thing that I think makes me feel for you

0:29:58.960 --> 0:30:00.080
<v Speaker 4>is that we see.

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Him get down on one knee. Well did we see

0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:04.120
<v Speaker 1>him get down on one knee?

0:30:04.120 --> 0:30:05.520
<v Speaker 5>He did get down on one day.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I missed the part.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I was so frazzled on it, but you're like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, he he gets engaged to you, he proposes

0:30:13.080 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 4>to you, he promises you all these things without being

0:30:15.880 --> 0:30:19.200
<v Speaker 4>fully honest. And for everyone listening, for all the men

0:30:19.240 --> 0:30:21.520
<v Speaker 4>out there, if you think that you have to do

0:30:21.560 --> 0:30:23.920
<v Speaker 4>a certain thing because it's gonna make us feel better,

0:30:24.280 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 4>don't like be honest with us and give us the

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<v Speaker 4>respect and the courtesy to make our decisions. Maybe had

0:30:30.240 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 4>you known the full extent of everything, who knows what

0:30:32.520 --> 0:30:34.600
<v Speaker 4>had happened, you could have very easily said, you know,

0:30:34.680 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 4>I love you, I want to be with you, I

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:39.800
<v Speaker 4>want to work through things. Maybe an engagement won't necessarily happen,

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:43.320
<v Speaker 4>but every woman and man who's on the show too

0:30:43.320 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 4>deserves that respect.

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:45.960
<v Speaker 6>And deserves the truth.

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:46.440
<v Speaker 1>M hm.

0:30:48.200 --> 0:30:50.840
<v Speaker 7>And so I don't know exactly what happened, I mean,

0:30:51.080 --> 0:30:54.360
<v Speaker 7>nothing really surprises me by Peter. Watching back the season

0:30:54.480 --> 0:30:57.480
<v Speaker 7>has actually been really helpful for me because it's helped

0:30:57.520 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 7>me work through any unresolved feelings that had towards him,

0:31:01.840 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 7>because I'm able to see how he is consistently indecisive

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 7>and confusing, and who wants to be with that? And

0:31:09.160 --> 0:31:11.200
<v Speaker 7>that doesn't make me feel secure and being with him,

0:31:11.560 --> 0:31:14.680
<v Speaker 7>and so It's really helped me move forward because I

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:17.960
<v Speaker 7>know I deserve more than just someone giving, you know,

0:31:18.000 --> 0:31:20.200
<v Speaker 7>than someone just half loving me. You know, I deserve someone,

0:31:20.560 --> 0:31:22.360
<v Speaker 7>you know, someone who's going to give me a hundred percent.

0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:27.120
<v Speaker 7>And I felt like me being so clear and not

0:31:27.200 --> 0:31:29.120
<v Speaker 7>playing mind games with him, that he would give me

0:31:29.160 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 7>that return.

0:31:30.400 --> 0:31:32.240
<v Speaker 5>But really he was just reckless with my heart.

0:31:32.960 --> 0:31:36.320
<v Speaker 4>Well, and he had said all season I want someone

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:38.440
<v Speaker 4>to love me as much as I love them, and.

0:31:38.360 --> 0:31:39.160
<v Speaker 1>That was you.

0:31:38.880 --> 0:31:41.479
<v Speaker 4>You gave that to him, You did, you loved him

0:31:41.520 --> 0:31:45.920
<v Speaker 4>more of anything, And so I think he didn't. I

0:31:45.920 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 4>think he went into the season thinking one thing, thinking

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:50.920
<v Speaker 4>it was going to be this magical, like beautiful, super easy,

0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:53.640
<v Speaker 4>great seemless love story, and that wasn't the case. And

0:31:53.680 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 4>I think he couldn't quite own up to what it

0:31:56.560 --> 0:32:07.000
<v Speaker 4>was he truly wants and needs in a partner. All Right,

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:10.560
<v Speaker 4>Bachelor Happy Hour Listeners Part two with the amazing Hannah Ann.

0:32:10.600 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 1>We'll be coming up this Friday.

0:32:12.560 --> 0:32:14.760
<v Speaker 4>But you know, we have to get into everything that

0:32:14.880 --> 0:32:18.320
<v Speaker 4>happened during the finale. So Rachel, we got to dive

0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:20.120
<v Speaker 4>in you and I need to talk back up.

0:32:20.200 --> 0:32:22.440
<v Speaker 3>We need to talk about what we saw. So hannah

0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 3>An came out.

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:23.720
<v Speaker 1>She was a boss.

0:32:23.800 --> 0:32:24.320
<v Speaker 3>She killed it.

0:32:24.400 --> 0:32:26.240
<v Speaker 2>She said her piece. She put Peter in his place.

0:32:26.280 --> 0:32:28.400
<v Speaker 2>He couldn't even defend himself. All he could say was,

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:31.800
<v Speaker 2>you're right. So the second half of the episode we

0:32:31.960 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 2>deal with what happened with Madison. Chris Harrison goes to her.

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:38.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna sum this up real quick, because we just

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:39.760
<v Speaker 2>want to get to the meat of it. Chris Harrison

0:32:39.760 --> 0:32:42.080
<v Speaker 2>goes to see Madison. Madison says she's still into Peter,

0:32:42.640 --> 0:32:45.200
<v Speaker 2>and she goes out to fly with Peter. We don't

0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:47.320
<v Speaker 2>know the exact timeline. We don't know how much time was.

0:32:47.360 --> 0:32:49.000
<v Speaker 2>It seemed like it was very quick. Seemed like she

0:32:49.000 --> 0:32:51.600
<v Speaker 2>hopped on a plane and flew out with Chris Harrison

0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:54.360
<v Speaker 2>to La. That's how it was presented to us. She

0:32:54.400 --> 0:32:56.080
<v Speaker 2>gets to La, Peter has no idea he's going to

0:32:56.120 --> 0:32:58.320
<v Speaker 2>see her. They see each other, they say they have this.

0:32:58.440 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 2>They have so much to talk about. Of course, in

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:03.240
<v Speaker 2>true fashion this season, we see them talk about absolutely

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:06.160
<v Speaker 2>nothing other than they have feelings for each other, and

0:33:06.200 --> 0:33:10.320
<v Speaker 2>then it cuts to Peter talking about Madison. We see

0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 2>Madison come out, We see them sitting there there, seem.

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:15.840
<v Speaker 3>Happy, but they're not touching.

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:19.600
<v Speaker 2>There seems to still be some space in between them,

0:33:19.720 --> 0:33:24.520
<v Speaker 2>and we see them once again kind of dance around

0:33:24.760 --> 0:33:26.560
<v Speaker 2>what it is that they are. We still are they

0:33:26.560 --> 0:33:29.680
<v Speaker 2>boyfriend girlfriend? We know they're not engaged, We obviously know

0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:32.560
<v Speaker 2>they're not married. And one thing we learned for sure

0:33:32.760 --> 0:33:35.240
<v Speaker 2>is that Barb and the rest of the family and

0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 2>apparently the friends as.

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 3>Well, do not approve of their relationships. So Becca, that

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:43.400
<v Speaker 3>sums up what we saw.

0:33:44.400 --> 0:33:47.200
<v Speaker 2>Where do we even start to begin about it? I mean,

0:33:47.720 --> 0:33:51.080
<v Speaker 2>all of that being said, what was your take when

0:33:51.080 --> 0:33:52.920
<v Speaker 2>it came to watching what went down tonight?

0:33:52.960 --> 0:33:55.040
<v Speaker 3>Because I didn't expect any of this.

0:33:55.120 --> 0:33:58.640
<v Speaker 2>You could read a spoiler an article, have your own

0:33:58.680 --> 0:34:01.200
<v Speaker 2>preconceived notions, but you know it was gonna go down

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:01.560
<v Speaker 2>like this.

0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 4>No, And the best way I can describe it is

0:34:04.800 --> 0:34:07.360
<v Speaker 4>when we first sat down with Peter at the very

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:10.239
<v Speaker 4>beginning of his season, he said he felt like there

0:34:10.320 --> 0:34:13.720
<v Speaker 4>was something new and crazy thrown his way every week,

0:34:14.320 --> 0:34:17.640
<v Speaker 4>and I feel like that didn't stop even through the finale,

0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:21.800
<v Speaker 4>And like, think of everything that went down tonight, people,

0:34:21.920 --> 0:34:25.520
<v Speaker 4>the main craziest part should have been that switcheroo and

0:34:25.560 --> 0:34:26.680
<v Speaker 4>the breakup.

0:34:26.239 --> 0:34:27.720
<v Speaker 1>With Hannah Ann and it wasn't.

0:34:27.920 --> 0:34:30.560
<v Speaker 4>It was everything that played out after and Rachel, as

0:34:30.600 --> 0:34:34.360
<v Speaker 4>you said, we don't know where Madison and Peter stand.

0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:35.719
<v Speaker 1>We don't know what is going on.

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:38.319
<v Speaker 4>We don't even know if they're in a relationship, if

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:41.120
<v Speaker 4>they're not in a relationship. Rachel is currently holding up

0:34:41.120 --> 0:34:43.600
<v Speaker 4>a picture of Madison right now, and I don't know

0:34:43.680 --> 0:34:44.560
<v Speaker 4>what that means.

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:49.520
<v Speaker 2>But Laurie K Publications just couldn't help herself and posted

0:34:49.560 --> 0:34:54.719
<v Speaker 2>a picture of Madison her new client, about how she's

0:34:54.760 --> 0:34:59.080
<v Speaker 2>the epitome of a class act. So Madison already has

0:34:59.400 --> 0:35:02.600
<v Speaker 2>a manager slash pr person slash agent who couldn't wait

0:35:02.640 --> 0:35:05.120
<v Speaker 2>five seconds to post that this is her new client.

0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, Becca, I know that you're talking and I'm

0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 2>so distracted, but it just so goes into something that

0:35:12.600 --> 0:35:16.640
<v Speaker 2>we talked about this season when it comes to we

0:35:16.680 --> 0:35:19.360
<v Speaker 2>couldn't understand and I really wish we had the opportunity

0:35:19.400 --> 0:35:20.799
<v Speaker 2>to talk to Madison, and I really wish we had

0:35:20.840 --> 0:35:21.759
<v Speaker 2>the opportunity to talk to.

0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:23.000
<v Speaker 3>Peter about.

0:35:24.320 --> 0:35:27.440
<v Speaker 2>Why are you here when you're looking for a certain

0:35:27.520 --> 0:35:32.040
<v Speaker 2>type of man who has certain values, certain standards, and

0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 2>there's nothing.

0:35:32.960 --> 0:35:35.760
<v Speaker 3>Wrong with that. You should want what you want for yourself.

0:35:35.800 --> 0:35:38.719
<v Speaker 2>But the confusing part comes in you're looking for him

0:35:38.719 --> 0:35:41.360
<v Speaker 2>in a place where usually those type of men don't dwell,

0:35:41.680 --> 0:35:44.960
<v Speaker 2>and as we have under as we understand, Peter is

0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 2>not that type of man for you, which is his

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:48.600
<v Speaker 2>parents and friends concern.

0:35:49.400 --> 0:35:51.799
<v Speaker 3>And in trying to.

0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:54.719
<v Speaker 2>Figure out the logical way of what could her possible

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.799
<v Speaker 2>motivation and reason be for being here, one of those

0:35:57.880 --> 0:36:01.960
<v Speaker 2>is that she wants to experience the platform.

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:02.880
<v Speaker 3>The Bacheorette, the followers, whatever.

0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:08.640
<v Speaker 2>And I just find it very coincidental that she has

0:36:08.760 --> 0:36:13.959
<v Speaker 2>hired a manager slash pr person slash agent to represent her,

0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:17.040
<v Speaker 2>which we know prior to the season being over with,

0:36:17.120 --> 0:36:19.799
<v Speaker 2>because that person posted her on International Women's Day and

0:36:19.840 --> 0:36:23.440
<v Speaker 2>the season was still going and now couldn't miss a

0:36:23.440 --> 0:36:25.960
<v Speaker 2>beat to let everybody know, Hey, if you want dis

0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:29.960
<v Speaker 2>on Madison, I represent her, which makes me question her

0:36:30.040 --> 0:36:33.560
<v Speaker 2>motives this entire time. I'm sorry, well sorry, and I

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:35.680
<v Speaker 2>think Madison fans are going to come after me, but

0:36:35.760 --> 0:36:36.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

0:36:36.239 --> 0:36:38.120
<v Speaker 3>You have to be logical about this situation.

0:36:38.200 --> 0:36:40.719
<v Speaker 2>Hannah Ann told us she doesn't even have one, and

0:36:40.760 --> 0:36:42.400
<v Speaker 2>this girl's been modeling for years.

0:36:42.600 --> 0:36:45.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, Rachel, you are talking to a real follower here.

0:36:45.719 --> 0:36:49.320
<v Speaker 4>Because there are certain timelines that we have to adhere

0:36:49.400 --> 0:36:56.360
<v Speaker 4>to as the lead, and getting a representation at that

0:36:56.560 --> 0:37:00.440
<v Speaker 4>point doesn't add up. I, for one, don't even have

0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:03.279
<v Speaker 4>an agent still, and I've been baucherette, I mean two

0:37:03.360 --> 0:37:06.839
<v Speaker 4>years ago, and I still just do most things myself.

0:37:07.600 --> 0:37:11.040
<v Speaker 4>So you know, Rachel, as you just mentioned, you're probably

0:37:11.040 --> 0:37:12.759
<v Speaker 4>gonna get a lot of backlash for that. But that's

0:37:12.800 --> 0:37:15.080
<v Speaker 4>not the case people. I mean, Rachel's calling it like

0:37:15.160 --> 0:37:18.200
<v Speaker 4>it is, and it's a very strange scenario that we

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 4>find ourselves in after this whole Bachelor world, but it

0:37:22.640 --> 0:37:27.400
<v Speaker 4>doesn't add up. It's very interesting to me given the

0:37:27.440 --> 0:37:30.440
<v Speaker 4>timeline of everything, it doesn't make sense.

0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:33.120
<v Speaker 1>That aside.

0:37:33.480 --> 0:37:38.240
<v Speaker 4>I like, my main takeaway from tonight is we watched

0:37:38.400 --> 0:37:41.960
<v Speaker 4>last night's episode and we watched Madison send herself home

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:46.000
<v Speaker 4>two days before the finale because, as she said, their

0:37:46.080 --> 0:37:48.040
<v Speaker 4>lifestyles and their morals.

0:37:47.719 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Don't line up, they don't match, so she removes herself.

0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:53.680
<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's one thing good for her in that moment,

0:37:53.719 --> 0:37:55.600
<v Speaker 4>for standing up for what she believes in, what she

0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:59.399
<v Speaker 4>thinks is right and logical. Yes, nothing since then has

0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:01.960
<v Speaker 4>changed though, besides Peter is still saying he loves her.

0:38:02.480 --> 0:38:07.120
<v Speaker 4>You know, guess Chris Harrison flew out to Auburn to

0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:10.040
<v Speaker 4>tell her that Peter was engaged and then ended this

0:38:10.080 --> 0:38:13.239
<v Speaker 4>engagement because he still loves Madison. But regardless, like their

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:16.200
<v Speaker 4>lifestyles are still the same, he was still engaged. She

0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:18.480
<v Speaker 4>had an issue with him being intimate with women in

0:38:18.480 --> 0:38:19.319
<v Speaker 4>the fantasy suite.

0:38:19.640 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Well, what do you think.

0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:22.960
<v Speaker 4>Happened during those couple months when he was engaged. He

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:27.040
<v Speaker 4>had a woman he was engaged to being intimate with.

0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:28.720
<v Speaker 4>Nothing has changed.

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:34.640
<v Speaker 2>I just don't understand how I understand her feeling. Even

0:38:34.680 --> 0:38:36.160
<v Speaker 2>if I don't agree with it, it doesn't mean that

0:38:36.160 --> 0:38:38.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't under understand it. I understand the feeling of

0:38:38.880 --> 0:38:41.800
<v Speaker 2>how difficult that is to accept a proposal from someone

0:38:41.800 --> 0:38:45.160
<v Speaker 2>that you know that just was intimate with other a

0:38:45.200 --> 0:38:47.719
<v Speaker 2>woman or other women when we don't know for sure.

0:38:48.800 --> 0:38:50.880
<v Speaker 3>So that's fine that that's what you believe in. What

0:38:51.000 --> 0:38:52.000
<v Speaker 3>people have been so.

0:38:52.080 --> 0:38:53.960
<v Speaker 2>Proud of her and praising her for is that she

0:38:54.120 --> 0:38:57.000
<v Speaker 2>has these morals and these convictions and she holds true

0:38:57.000 --> 0:38:59.440
<v Speaker 2>to them. Now, you know, as you were saying, Becca,

0:38:59.760 --> 0:39:02.840
<v Speaker 2>he got down on one knee and said he wanted

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:05.120
<v Speaker 2>to give his whole heart and spend the rest of

0:39:05.160 --> 0:39:08.440
<v Speaker 2>his life with another woman, has spent time, you know,

0:39:09.200 --> 0:39:14.799
<v Speaker 2>cultivating that relationship, and then breaks it off and says he, well,

0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:16.480
<v Speaker 2>he didn't tell her he wanted her, but you knew

0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:17.920
<v Speaker 2>that he break broke it off. And I think Chris

0:39:17.960 --> 0:39:19.960
<v Speaker 2>Harrison said it was because of her, So she did know.

0:39:20.719 --> 0:39:24.200
<v Speaker 2>And you're so easily willing to take him back. It's,

0:39:24.640 --> 0:39:26.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, the same people who were praising her for that.

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:29.799
<v Speaker 2>How can you still hold true that, Oh she knows

0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:31.759
<v Speaker 2>what she wants and she deserves better. But yes, she

0:39:31.800 --> 0:39:34.680
<v Speaker 2>goes running back to him. There's just so many contradictions.

0:39:34.760 --> 0:39:40.399
<v Speaker 2>It's so confusing that I understand why his family has

0:39:40.480 --> 0:39:43.720
<v Speaker 2>their concerns, which brings us to a whole nother topic.

0:39:44.800 --> 0:39:47.600
<v Speaker 2>They had that camera on poor Barb with I don't

0:39:47.640 --> 0:39:49.319
<v Speaker 2>even think she knew the whole time.

0:39:49.400 --> 0:39:50.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh she did not know.

0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:53.000
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh. I felt so bad for her.

0:39:53.120 --> 0:39:57.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm a person who cannot control my facial expressions. Becca,

0:39:57.040 --> 0:39:59.160
<v Speaker 2>you say you can't control your hands, you don't know

0:39:59.200 --> 0:40:01.120
<v Speaker 2>what to do with them, A make sure. I cannot

0:40:01.160 --> 0:40:03.879
<v Speaker 2>control my facial expression, so I just wear it all

0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:04.600
<v Speaker 2>on my face.

0:40:04.719 --> 0:40:06.720
<v Speaker 3>And this was a this is a mother.

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:09.400
<v Speaker 2>You guys, you may not agree with her, but this

0:40:09.440 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 2>is a mother who is concerned about the well being

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:16.120
<v Speaker 2>and the heart of her son, and she wants somebody

0:40:16.120 --> 0:40:18.799
<v Speaker 2>who loves her son unconditionally, and she had that with

0:40:18.840 --> 0:40:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Hannah Ann. Yes, maybe her delivery was a little bit off.

0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:25.839
<v Speaker 4>Yes, Rachel, as you said, it is a mother and

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:30.040
<v Speaker 4>I am not a mom, but I can only imagine

0:40:30.239 --> 0:40:33.960
<v Speaker 4>that protectiveness that mother bar instinct that you have for

0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:37.520
<v Speaker 4>a children a child, and we saw that with her

0:40:37.640 --> 0:40:40.479
<v Speaker 4>and all she wanted she's been saying this the entire time,

0:40:40.600 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 4>is that she wants somebody to love her son the

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:45.680
<v Speaker 4>same way she fell in love with her husband. And

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 4>she saw that with Hannah Anne. Now one thing that

0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:51.600
<v Speaker 4>I'm glad that she brought up. And maybe this is

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:53.959
<v Speaker 4>the moment where she should have been cut off after

0:40:54.000 --> 0:40:57.680
<v Speaker 4>she said this the first time, but she said, you know, Madison,

0:40:57.760 --> 0:40:59.920
<v Speaker 4>when she came in after having this great moment with

0:41:00.040 --> 0:41:01.480
<v Speaker 4>Hannah Ann, Madison came in.

0:41:01.640 --> 0:41:03.600
<v Speaker 1>She made them wait for three hours.

0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:07.560
<v Speaker 4>She didn't say sorry, you know, apologies for making you wait.

0:41:07.600 --> 0:41:10.279
<v Speaker 4>This is already a long process as it is like

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:12.080
<v Speaker 4>they've been waiting to see their son. They've only seen

0:41:12.120 --> 0:41:14.239
<v Speaker 4>them for one day in the span of a couple months,

0:41:14.480 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 4>and so that in itself, I'm sure is frustrating. But

0:41:18.320 --> 0:41:22.080
<v Speaker 4>and Barb dis closed this very briefly today to us

0:41:22.120 --> 0:41:25.799
<v Speaker 4>and on the TV. But when when she had that

0:41:25.840 --> 0:41:28.840
<v Speaker 4>moment with Madison, and it wasn't aired, but she asked

0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:30.600
<v Speaker 4>Madison do you love my son?

0:41:30.640 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 1>And Madison in that moment said no.

0:41:32.920 --> 0:41:35.040
<v Speaker 4>So as a mom, I can only put myself in

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:37.520
<v Speaker 4>that position and say, well, I have one woman here

0:41:37.840 --> 0:41:41.560
<v Speaker 4>who is all in, wholeheartedly ready to give herself to

0:41:41.640 --> 0:41:44.600
<v Speaker 4>my son, and one who, at this moment in time,

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 4>you know he's ready to get engaged tomorrow, is saying no,

0:41:47.200 --> 0:41:48.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't love your son.

0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:51.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, of course she's gonna have questions.

0:41:51.400 --> 0:41:53.839
<v Speaker 4>Of course she's gonna call that out to Peter and

0:41:53.880 --> 0:41:55.440
<v Speaker 4>say maybe she's.

0:41:55.280 --> 0:41:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Not the one for you.

0:41:55.960 --> 0:41:57.960
<v Speaker 4>And now, granted, people, I know that there's a lot

0:41:58.440 --> 0:42:00.359
<v Speaker 4>that we don't see. You know, we're trying to make

0:42:00.360 --> 0:42:03.239
<v Speaker 4>a show in a two hour period once a week.

0:42:03.280 --> 0:42:06.359
<v Speaker 4>There's so much that goes down. But going off of

0:42:06.400 --> 0:42:08.600
<v Speaker 4>what we know, that is alarming.

0:42:08.800 --> 0:42:11.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and like, let's break this down. What you said.

0:42:11.840 --> 0:42:15.480
<v Speaker 2>So a lot of times people say to us you're

0:42:15.520 --> 0:42:18.800
<v Speaker 2>not taking into consideration what you didn't see. Well, you're welcome,

0:42:18.880 --> 0:42:21.360
<v Speaker 2>you guys, to bar because she told you what you

0:42:21.440 --> 0:42:25.360
<v Speaker 2>didn't see. So just imagine last night. You hear Barb

0:42:25.520 --> 0:42:27.880
<v Speaker 2>express her feelings, and you see her crying, and you

0:42:27.920 --> 0:42:31.160
<v Speaker 2>see her saying but she's just not into you, She's

0:42:31.160 --> 0:42:33.239
<v Speaker 2>not here for you, and you're wondering how in the

0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:36.640
<v Speaker 2>world is she saying that. Then people go on social

0:42:36.680 --> 0:42:39.800
<v Speaker 2>media and are all in Barb's comments and they're saying

0:42:39.880 --> 0:42:42.040
<v Speaker 2>all these things to her. So Barb feels the need

0:42:42.120 --> 0:42:45.120
<v Speaker 2>to defend herself. Okay, whether you agree with her or not,

0:42:45.480 --> 0:42:48.000
<v Speaker 2>she felt the need to speak her truth. So what

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:50.319
<v Speaker 2>did she do the first opportunity she was given the

0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:51.120
<v Speaker 2>chance to do it?

0:42:51.239 --> 0:42:54.080
<v Speaker 3>She spoke her truth and she explained.

0:42:53.600 --> 0:42:57.240
<v Speaker 2>To you, guys that in three hours, or she waited

0:42:57.320 --> 0:42:59.520
<v Speaker 2>three hours for Madison to come speak to her in

0:42:59.560 --> 0:43:02.400
<v Speaker 2>Madison did not even want to come in and meet

0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:05.000
<v Speaker 2>the parents. How would that make you feel as a

0:43:05.040 --> 0:43:10.239
<v Speaker 2>family member, possibly meeting the fiance of your son, the

0:43:10.280 --> 0:43:11.520
<v Speaker 2>potential fiance of your son.

0:43:11.719 --> 0:43:14.200
<v Speaker 3>The girl doesn't even want to walk in and meet you.

0:43:14.840 --> 0:43:17.239
<v Speaker 2>Then she does come in and meet you, and that's

0:43:17.320 --> 0:43:21.359
<v Speaker 2>only because your son begged her to come in. How

0:43:21.360 --> 0:43:23.719
<v Speaker 2>do you accept somebody into your family when that's how

0:43:23.719 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 2>you're starting off. Then when she does come inside, she

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:30.040
<v Speaker 2>doesn't even have the courtesy to apologize for the three

0:43:30.080 --> 0:43:33.400
<v Speaker 2>hours she kept the family waiting. So you're already setting

0:43:33.440 --> 0:43:35.799
<v Speaker 2>this scene and this mood for the family to come

0:43:35.800 --> 0:43:38.520
<v Speaker 2>and talk to you. Then, Barbaraville that when she did

0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:42.279
<v Speaker 2>talk to her, as Becca stated, she said love. I

0:43:42.320 --> 0:43:45.240
<v Speaker 2>don't love him when asked, and she said she wouldn't

0:43:45.280 --> 0:43:49.360
<v Speaker 2>accept a proposal. So of course Barb is crying knowing

0:43:49.360 --> 0:43:51.360
<v Speaker 2>that her son is madly in love with a girl

0:43:51.560 --> 0:43:54.799
<v Speaker 2>who does not reciprocate those feelings, and that is the

0:43:54.800 --> 0:43:57.520
<v Speaker 2>emotion that you're seeing come from Barb. So before you

0:43:57.640 --> 0:44:00.600
<v Speaker 2>judge her and you jump on her, yes, I both

0:44:00.640 --> 0:44:02.799
<v Speaker 2>agree she took it just a little too far and

0:44:02.840 --> 0:44:03.759
<v Speaker 2>aired a little.

0:44:03.480 --> 0:44:04.360
<v Speaker 3>Too much information.

0:44:04.640 --> 0:44:07.360
<v Speaker 2>But in that moment, in what she said, that she

0:44:07.520 --> 0:44:10.360
<v Speaker 2>is giving you the background that you guys so desperately

0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:13.319
<v Speaker 2>beg for, and you're still holding it against her because

0:44:13.320 --> 0:44:16.440
<v Speaker 2>we've seen social media today and you guys are ripping Barb.

0:44:17.400 --> 0:44:19.279
<v Speaker 2>That is what I just like, don't think it's fair

0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:22.799
<v Speaker 2>and I don't understand how when she said that and

0:44:22.880 --> 0:44:27.400
<v Speaker 2>she put it back, the ball back in Madison and Pete's,

0:44:27.680 --> 0:44:29.440
<v Speaker 2>Pete's Peter's court.

0:44:30.280 --> 0:44:33.120
<v Speaker 3>What was Madison's response? Nothing.

0:44:33.560 --> 0:44:37.839
<v Speaker 2>She never addressed what Barb said. She never addressed saying

0:44:37.880 --> 0:44:39.879
<v Speaker 2>she wasn't in love with Peter. She never address saying

0:44:39.880 --> 0:44:41.839
<v Speaker 2>she wouldn't accept a proposal, that she made them wait

0:44:41.880 --> 0:44:43.359
<v Speaker 2>for three hours, that she didn't want to meet them.

0:44:43.719 --> 0:44:47.279
<v Speaker 2>She skirted over that and simply responded by saying, I

0:44:47.320 --> 0:44:50.560
<v Speaker 2>have always been myself this entire time. And what did

0:44:50.640 --> 0:44:51.520
<v Speaker 2>the audience do?

0:44:51.960 --> 0:44:52.360
<v Speaker 1>Clap?

0:44:52.920 --> 0:44:55.879
<v Speaker 4>I will say this, though you know, there's a lot

0:44:55.920 --> 0:44:58.480
<v Speaker 4>that went down tonight that was painful to watch and

0:44:58.520 --> 0:45:02.120
<v Speaker 4>to take in William struggling with the lack of conversation

0:45:02.640 --> 0:45:04.279
<v Speaker 4>between I wanted.

0:45:04.040 --> 0:45:06.520
<v Speaker 2>Her to explain why she did that, and she did

0:45:06.520 --> 0:45:08.880
<v Speaker 2>and she just said I've been myself, and you guys clapped.

0:45:09.160 --> 0:45:11.600
<v Speaker 4>But she did say one thing that I will say

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:15.200
<v Speaker 4>warranted a good response from the audience, as she said,

0:45:15.239 --> 0:45:17.600
<v Speaker 4>it's not just Peter finding love, it's me too, and

0:45:17.640 --> 0:45:19.960
<v Speaker 4>it's fifty to fifty, which I will back her up

0:45:20.239 --> 0:45:22.479
<v Speaker 4>in that regard and say, yes, girlfriend, it is fifty

0:45:22.480 --> 0:45:25.120
<v Speaker 4>to fifty. I appreciate that, but still there was that

0:45:25.239 --> 0:45:27.680
<v Speaker 4>lack of communication, There was that lack of conversation. She

0:45:27.719 --> 0:45:30.880
<v Speaker 4>didn't address the conversation with Barb that Barb.

0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Had brought up.

0:45:31.239 --> 0:45:35.600
<v Speaker 4>Also to the moment when we saw Madison go back

0:45:35.600 --> 0:45:37.200
<v Speaker 4>to LA and see Peter for the first time. I

0:45:37.239 --> 0:45:39.200
<v Speaker 4>mean clearly he was shocked, as he said he thought

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:42.319
<v Speaker 4>it was Chris walking behind him. But in that moment too,

0:45:42.320 --> 0:45:45.600
<v Speaker 4>when they reunited, there wasn't really any depth to that

0:45:45.640 --> 0:45:48.640
<v Speaker 4>conversation either other than love and Rachel you said the

0:45:48.640 --> 0:45:50.320
<v Speaker 4>best when we were talking to Hannah Ann.

0:45:50.719 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 1>Is that, uh, it's a room.

0:45:53.760 --> 0:45:56.040
<v Speaker 4>Ever for the most part, veterination is made up of

0:45:56.080 --> 0:45:59.600
<v Speaker 4>hopeless romantics. It's a room of people who want the

0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:02.360
<v Speaker 4>lead and these people on TV to find love.

0:46:02.520 --> 0:46:03.399
<v Speaker 1>That's the base of it.

0:46:03.480 --> 0:46:06.759
<v Speaker 4>And yes Peter is expressing that to Madison, but there

0:46:06.840 --> 0:46:07.920
<v Speaker 4>needs to be.

0:46:07.760 --> 0:46:08.520
<v Speaker 6>More than that.

0:46:08.560 --> 0:46:09.800
<v Speaker 1>There needs to be more.

0:46:09.680 --> 0:46:12.440
<v Speaker 4>Addressed than just I love you, I ended my engagement

0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:15.239
<v Speaker 4>for you, like all of the reasons why you guys

0:46:15.360 --> 0:46:18.239
<v Speaker 4>ended in the first place are still there, and that

0:46:18.320 --> 0:46:20.600
<v Speaker 4>needs to be brought up because me, as a viewer,

0:46:20.640 --> 0:46:23.160
<v Speaker 4>and I've said this all season, is that I feel

0:46:23.160 --> 0:46:24.640
<v Speaker 4>like I'm missing so much.

0:46:25.320 --> 0:46:27.720
<v Speaker 2>I guess my thing is is the whole it's fifty

0:46:27.760 --> 0:46:30.000
<v Speaker 2>to fifty, and that's right, But are you giving fifty

0:46:30.000 --> 0:46:32.960
<v Speaker 2>to fifty because that's not what we're seeing. And then also,

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:36.880
<v Speaker 2>it's my journey. Okay, that's true. It is your journey,

0:46:36.880 --> 0:46:38.839
<v Speaker 2>and nobody's taking that away from you. But we're trying

0:46:38.880 --> 0:46:42.480
<v Speaker 2>to understand the contradictions that are within your journey. We're

0:46:42.480 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 2>trying to understand where you are with Peter and where

0:46:45.000 --> 0:46:47.919
<v Speaker 2>your heart is. Because I'll be honest, I didn't see

0:46:47.920 --> 0:46:50.480
<v Speaker 2>it on that stage tonight. I don't doubt that Peter

0:46:50.600 --> 0:46:53.840
<v Speaker 2>and Madison have love for each other. I one hundred

0:46:53.840 --> 0:46:56.480
<v Speaker 2>percent agree with that. But what I saw on that

0:46:56.560 --> 0:46:59.879
<v Speaker 2>stage tonight. All I saw was that it's not if

0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:02.239
<v Speaker 2>this is gonna end, it's whend it's going to end.

0:47:02.480 --> 0:47:05.640
<v Speaker 2>The odds are always against you already. And if you

0:47:05.680 --> 0:47:08.719
<v Speaker 2>don't believe what I'm saying or what Becca saying, can

0:47:08.800 --> 0:47:10.480
<v Speaker 2>we talk about the voice of reason in the.

0:47:10.440 --> 0:47:13.839
<v Speaker 3>Family, Pete Senior. When Pete Senior.

0:47:13.560 --> 0:47:16.759
<v Speaker 2>Spoke, he said, when you're in the beginning of a relationship,

0:47:16.800 --> 0:47:19.319
<v Speaker 2>that's when it's light and it's fun, and you're so

0:47:19.760 --> 0:47:22.719
<v Speaker 2>like two getdy kids getting to know each other, and

0:47:22.760 --> 0:47:25.080
<v Speaker 2>that has not been the case for Madison and Peter.

0:47:25.600 --> 0:47:29.640
<v Speaker 2>It's been difficult. It's been hard. They're so opposites attract,

0:47:30.000 --> 0:47:32.680
<v Speaker 2>but your morals and your values have to be the same,

0:47:33.040 --> 0:47:35.160
<v Speaker 2>and that what Peter's family is saying is that they're

0:47:35.200 --> 0:47:36.400
<v Speaker 2>not on the same level.

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:38.200
<v Speaker 3>So this relationship is kind of doomed.

0:47:38.239 --> 0:47:41.520
<v Speaker 2>If Madison is really that strong into her convictions, which

0:47:41.560 --> 0:47:45.440
<v Speaker 2>no one's faulting her for, then you can't possibly want

0:47:45.480 --> 0:47:47.520
<v Speaker 2>the type of man that Peter is, which again that's

0:47:47.520 --> 0:47:49.080
<v Speaker 2>not a problem for him, that's who he is.

0:47:49.400 --> 0:47:52.680
<v Speaker 3>It just won't work. It's just you.

0:47:52.560 --> 0:47:54.960
<v Speaker 2>Can want to see them together and want love for

0:47:54.960 --> 0:47:56.920
<v Speaker 2>Peter and want love for Madison, but the two of

0:47:56.960 --> 0:47:58.160
<v Speaker 2>them together, it.

0:47:58.239 --> 0:48:00.520
<v Speaker 3>Just doesn't work. And if you didn't think, if I thought, it.

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:03.719
<v Speaker 2>Was because they were different in their lifestyles and their values. Now,

0:48:03.840 --> 0:48:06.279
<v Speaker 2>add on top that the family does not like her,

0:48:06.920 --> 0:48:09.279
<v Speaker 2>The family does not get along with her, and she

0:48:10.440 --> 0:48:14.120
<v Speaker 2>went back at Barb, not faulting her for defending herself

0:48:14.160 --> 0:48:15.879
<v Speaker 2>at all. I probably would have done the same thing,

0:48:16.320 --> 0:48:18.520
<v Speaker 2>but on Live TV went back and forth. It is

0:48:18.600 --> 0:48:21.200
<v Speaker 2>clear that there is tension there, that they don't get along.

0:48:21.440 --> 0:48:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Peter's very into his family, and there's just no way

0:48:24.719 --> 0:48:26.640
<v Speaker 2>that Madison herself is going to want to be a

0:48:26.640 --> 0:48:28.880
<v Speaker 2>part of a family that's not into her and that

0:48:28.920 --> 0:48:31.440
<v Speaker 2>doesn't accept her, which Barb just said in front of

0:48:31.440 --> 0:48:32.520
<v Speaker 2>millions and people.

0:48:32.200 --> 0:48:34.240
<v Speaker 3>In front of the whole world, like it's doomed.

0:48:34.680 --> 0:48:37.239
<v Speaker 2>And it's sad to say that because we wanted Peter

0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:39.800
<v Speaker 2>to find love, but it's doomed.

0:48:40.560 --> 0:48:40.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:48:40.920 --> 0:48:44.160
<v Speaker 4>And one thing too, like playing into feelings and emotions.

0:48:44.280 --> 0:48:48.440
<v Speaker 4>You know, I'm I really try to watch body language,

0:48:48.840 --> 0:48:51.839
<v Speaker 4>and tonight we saw it on stage. But even last night,

0:48:51.920 --> 0:48:56.560
<v Speaker 4>in the date that Peter and Madison had together when

0:48:56.600 --> 0:48:59.120
<v Speaker 4>he's trying to convince her to come meet his parents,

0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:04.640
<v Speaker 4>there's the physicality there is lacking, like she there. If

0:49:04.640 --> 0:49:07.960
<v Speaker 4>people please will go back and watch that moment from yesterday,

0:49:08.000 --> 0:49:10.200
<v Speaker 4>there's moments where Peter tries to go in to kiss her,

0:49:10.239 --> 0:49:12.439
<v Speaker 4>to hold her, and she's like recoiling from him.

0:49:12.480 --> 0:49:14.080
<v Speaker 1>And then tonight you get.

0:49:13.920 --> 0:49:17.480
<v Speaker 4>On stage and I remember, you know, granted, my situation

0:49:17.560 --> 0:49:19.800
<v Speaker 4>with Garrett a couple of years ago during My Family

0:49:19.880 --> 0:49:21.759
<v Speaker 4>is completely different from this.

0:49:21.920 --> 0:49:24.640
<v Speaker 1>I cannot compare the two. But in this moment, for

0:49:24.680 --> 0:49:25.160
<v Speaker 1>the most part.

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:28.080
<v Speaker 4>This should be you're finally in public together, you can

0:49:28.120 --> 0:49:30.440
<v Speaker 4>finally say to there's names in front of everyone. There

0:49:30.520 --> 0:49:34.960
<v Speaker 4>should be some sort of excitement and giddiness. And like,

0:49:34.960 --> 0:49:39.280
<v Speaker 4>I couldn't keep my hands off Garrett and the couches

0:49:39.280 --> 0:49:42.080
<v Speaker 4>seem to get smaller. Hear my ear on the stage.

0:49:42.360 --> 0:49:44.720
<v Speaker 4>But when Peter and Madison were sitting on it together,

0:49:44.920 --> 0:49:46.719
<v Speaker 4>it's like they weren't touching whatsoever.

0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:49.399
<v Speaker 1>It was like they I don't know, it just felt

0:49:49.400 --> 0:49:51.359
<v Speaker 1>off to me. It felt very strange, and it's all off.

0:49:51.480 --> 0:49:53.360
<v Speaker 4>And of course, as you said, yes there was tension

0:49:53.400 --> 0:49:56.800
<v Speaker 4>with the family, and Barb had mentioned with his friends too,

0:49:57.760 --> 0:49:59.920
<v Speaker 4>But still, if you still want to make this real

0:50:00.000 --> 0:50:02.680
<v Speaker 4>relationship work, you still have to have some sort of

0:50:04.640 --> 0:50:07.279
<v Speaker 4>communication internally with each other. And if they want to

0:50:07.280 --> 0:50:10.280
<v Speaker 4>make this work, like Peter, have her back, like grab

0:50:10.360 --> 0:50:13.560
<v Speaker 4>or hold her close, like, do something to reassure her

0:50:13.680 --> 0:50:14.560
<v Speaker 4>in this moment.

0:50:14.880 --> 0:50:16.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it just wasn't there.

0:50:16.400 --> 0:50:18.399
<v Speaker 2>You should have taken up for her, Like I don't

0:50:18.480 --> 0:50:20.840
<v Speaker 2>agree with going up against your family like that, and

0:50:21.080 --> 0:50:24.799
<v Speaker 2>I definitely believe in respect, but I felt like he,

0:50:25.040 --> 0:50:27.200
<v Speaker 2>like you said, he should have butted in a bit

0:50:27.520 --> 0:50:29.960
<v Speaker 2>and defended her a little bit more. Yeah.

0:50:29.960 --> 0:50:32.000
<v Speaker 4>Well, and we were watching it and in that moment,

0:50:32.320 --> 0:50:34.680
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, Peter, stand up for her, have her back,

0:50:34.719 --> 0:50:36.680
<v Speaker 4>say something. You know, we saw him be like, well, Dad,

0:50:36.719 --> 0:50:39.359
<v Speaker 4>say something. But it's like, if that was my man,

0:50:39.640 --> 0:50:42.440
<v Speaker 4>I would want him to have my back regardless. Yeah,

0:50:42.440 --> 0:50:45.080
<v Speaker 4>And I would want to feel safe and secure in

0:50:45.120 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 4>that moment, because it's terrifying. You're on You're in front

0:50:48.120 --> 0:50:50.319
<v Speaker 4>of a live audience on live TV with millions of

0:50:50.320 --> 0:50:54.600
<v Speaker 4>people watching. Yeah, like you need to be together if

0:50:54.640 --> 0:50:55.719
<v Speaker 4>that's what you're trying to be.

0:50:56.160 --> 0:50:59.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And you hit the knell on the head because

0:50:59.840 --> 0:51:02.279
<v Speaker 2>you knew how your family felt about her before we

0:51:02.400 --> 0:51:05.560
<v Speaker 2>did tonight, and so you should have been prepared to

0:51:05.640 --> 0:51:08.160
<v Speaker 2>fight for your relationship just a little bit more. If

0:51:08.480 --> 0:51:11.520
<v Speaker 2>you choose Madison, then stand behind and behind it and

0:51:11.560 --> 0:51:13.400
<v Speaker 2>fight for it and fight for what you guys have.

0:51:13.840 --> 0:51:15.920
<v Speaker 3>And we didn't see that from them tonight. I just

0:51:17.000 --> 0:51:19.359
<v Speaker 3>this whole thing. It's it was more.

0:51:19.520 --> 0:51:22.800
<v Speaker 2>We've been calling this season a shit show, but tonight

0:51:23.320 --> 0:51:26.040
<v Speaker 2>it really was the culmination of that.

0:51:26.360 --> 0:51:32.480
<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was way way crazier than I expected.

0:51:33.760 --> 0:51:36.600
<v Speaker 2>My advice to Peter and Madison at this point would

0:51:36.640 --> 0:51:40.200
<v Speaker 2>just be like, you just need to go away from

0:51:40.239 --> 0:51:43.400
<v Speaker 2>the public and find yourselves, because I do know what

0:51:43.440 --> 0:51:45.920
<v Speaker 2>it's like for everybody to have an opinion about your relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>and sorry, this is what we do on this podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>We have opinions about what we just saw, so I

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<v Speaker 2>get that, but you need to go away from the spotlight,

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<v Speaker 2>do you and figure yourselves out without anybody else having

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<v Speaker 2>their own opinion.

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<v Speaker 3>Even his family.

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<v Speaker 2>Madison and Peter needed to find who they are away

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<v Speaker 2>from everybody else. I'm not quite sure what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope she focuses on their relationship and if you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to come back to Peter and knowing what you're

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<v Speaker 2>walking into because she kind of got into it with

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<v Speaker 2>the mom before, then I hope that you give it

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<v Speaker 2>your all and I hope that's your focus more than.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever your new career is.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to end it on a high note, though,

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<v Speaker 4>because we've this entire season, we've seen so much stuff

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<v Speaker 4>go down, and tonight that was no exception.

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<v Speaker 1>But we did.

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<v Speaker 4>Introduce one other badass lady to the stage, which was

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<v Speaker 4>our upcoming back short Claire Crawley, which you know we

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<v Speaker 4>didn't get to see too much of her. I'm kind

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<v Speaker 4>of bummed because I was hoping she'd be able to

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<v Speaker 4>meet a couple of her guys that she will soon

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<v Speaker 4>be dating. But she is going to be a brother

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<v Speaker 4>of fresh air, I think for us and she, I

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<v Speaker 4>really like not to bring up anyone's past, but I

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<v Speaker 4>liked the scene that Chris pulled up of her with

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<v Speaker 4>Juan Pablo and putting him in his place and saying

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<v Speaker 4>what she had to say, because we know going into

0:53:09.960 --> 0:53:12.960
<v Speaker 4>this upcoming season she's not going to be afraid to

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<v Speaker 4>call out guys. I think she's going to nip the

0:53:15.440 --> 0:53:18.239
<v Speaker 4>bullshit in the butt when she can, and it's going

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<v Speaker 4>to be such a different vibe from what we've seen

0:53:21.800 --> 0:53:24.560
<v Speaker 4>in Peter's season, I think in the couple seasons past.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm really excited and looking forward to Claire agreed.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the franchise has spoken, they heard you,

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<v Speaker 2>Bacher Nation.

0:53:33.320 --> 0:53:36.800
<v Speaker 3>They're wiping the slate clean. I think we've gone through.

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<v Speaker 2>This phase of leads and I think we're a little

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<v Speaker 2>over it at this point with the outcomes that we've received.

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<v Speaker 2>So it'll be nice to see what Claire brings to

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<v Speaker 2>the table, because it's going to be something different.

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<v Speaker 3>So I hope you guys are excited as.

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<v Speaker 2>We are to watch it, and you know we'll be

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<v Speaker 2>covering it here on Bats Are Happy.

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<v Speaker 4>I also really hope that Claire finds love and there's

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<v Speaker 4>an engagement, because I want to see what a lasting

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<v Speaker 4>ring looks like, because I feel like they've been so

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<v Speaker 4>brief we can barely even see them these.

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<v Speaker 1>Past couple of seas days. That's well said. We need

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<v Speaker 1>more of the lane. We gotta put in La to work, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So let's put a pin in it because we've

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<v Speaker 2>got more for you, guys. You're welcome coming up on Friday,

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<v Speaker 2>We've got part two of our Hannah and interview because.

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<v Speaker 3>We just couldn't get enough of her.

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<v Speaker 2>We had to keep the conversation going and we know

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<v Speaker 2>you guys want to hear a whole lot more from her,

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<v Speaker 2>So Friday we'll be back.

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