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Speaker 1: that I had to observe the Sabbath. She misspelled all

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00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 1: of it. Okay, maybe she was saying sober Shabbat, yeah,

423
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: and then that I had to observe the Sabbath. I

424
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,640
Speaker 1: told him I wasn't even supposed to have any lights

425
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,880
Speaker 1: or electronics and he had to go, so I didn't

426
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: make texting him just like sitting in the dark. Um.

427
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 1: He looked very confused and said, I was, I was

428
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: weird and screwed it on out L O L. I

429
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 1: will never forget so so ridiculous, but glad I worked.

430
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 1: That's amazing. She could also just be like, oh God,

431
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: I've got the ships. Oh, inn off, you're like, Hey,

432
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 1: whant to do M to A? Why do I keep

433
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: saying eight to M Like my boyfriend I always make

434
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 1: that joke and I'm like, O eight M tonight, babe,

435
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 1: wink wink. But it's actually not asked to mouth like

436
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 1: he would be. Okay, you would do mouth to ask. Yeah,

437
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: neither works the same thing. Okay, this one's a long one.

438
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: Are you ready for it? It's from Karen and he

439
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: wants our advice on how to handle a situation. He said,

440
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: do you think a twenty four year old recent college

441
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: grad woman can truly be into a thirty seven year old, established,

442
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 1: successful man. First of all, Okay, I'm just gonna keep

443
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: on off slight. Okay, Sorry. I feel like I'm getting

444
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: deuced after she was so into me for the first

445
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 1: four weeks of dating. Then we had sex and she

446
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 1: spent the night, and then all of a sudden she

447
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: became distant and supposed supposedly because I asked her to

448
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 1: commit to me only so she got a little rattled.

449
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like there's more that she

450
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 1: won't tell me, and now I largely get short talk

451
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 1: in silent treatment. She told me on the second date

452
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: how she would want to marry me and meet my

453
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 1: mom and sister and all this ship. I thought she

454
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 1: was real and genuine, and she might have been and

455
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: might have been caught up in the dream of the

456
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 1: future with me, but I don't think she really knows

457
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 1: what she wants. And we talked all day every day

458
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: on FaceTime, snap audio text, and all of a sudden,

459
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: after four weeks of love evey, dating and talking, she

460
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: suddenly went short talking to me and being distant for

461
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 1: the most part of this past week. She told me

462
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: I didn't do or say anything wrong, but she doesn't

463
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 1: want to commit to someone and possibly move out of

464
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: state for a job, which she has been doing some

465
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 1: of lately. I think her heart is genuine, she likes me,

466
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 1: but she's fearing something that she doesn't think I can fix.

467
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: I told her all of my feelings and I put

468
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: my whole poker hand on the table in a long

469
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 1: text which she has not replied to. Should I just

470
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 1: let it go and be patient and expect some feedback

471
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: from her, or just move on and maybe me falling

472
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 1: for this girl was a mistake. Everything was mutual, and

473
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: she said and seemed to like me a lot. Well,

474
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: I mean I hate to break it to you, Kuran,

475
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: I don't think she's that into you. And look, it's

476
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: you sound like a good dude. You sound like you

477
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 1: got your ship together. You actually sound like you could

478
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 1: be a catch. Like, what's interesting about this is it

479
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: is kind of a role reversal. It's usually like the

480
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: guy who like acts like he's in love until he

481
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 1: gets that piece of ass and then he's out. And

482
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 1: I think this is a classic role reversal where she

483
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: kind of played in for some dick and then she's

484
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: not looking for a relationship. I mean she's she is.

485
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: Look I do I think to answer his initial question,

486
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 1: can someone that age be serious about someone his age? Absolutely,

487
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: But I don't think that's a blanket statement. You know,

488
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 1: it sounds like she's questioning whether or not she wants

489
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 1: to even live in that city. So if there's a

490
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: possible job opportunity that would cause her to move, like,

491
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: I can understand why she might not want to settle down,

492
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 1: especially at that age. Well, it sounds like she misled

493
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: a bit talking about marriage on a second date. But

494
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: to me, that's like red flag rap, Like it's like

495
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: the when you move too fast, you know that something

496
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: isn't right, Like that's not a real connection. That's just

497
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: some sort of weird chemistry thing or some sort of

498
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: weird like I don't even know what you call that,

499
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: but um, to me, it sounds like she's very immature.

500
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: So I mean, it sounds like you might be dodging

501
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: a bullet and to cut your losses. My astrologer says

502
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 1: rejection is your best protection. I mean, that's a good one.

503
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: It's hard to accept rejection sometimes, but it's like if

504
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: you're being rejected, there is a reason usually that, like

505
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: the universe is trying to protect you from that situation,

506
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: and like I get it, and I know it's painful,

507
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: especially like I mean, as a girl, I think we've

508
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 1: been in these situations a lot, like you say, but

509
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 1: to me, it's an immaturity thing, So it doesn't matter

510
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: guy or a girl. It's like she's talking all this

511
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 1: stuff and then all of a sudden, maybe he came

512
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: on a little too strong. Like four weeks is not

513
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: that long to be fully pouring your heart out. But

514
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 1: if you're in line with someone, it doesn't at her

515
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,959
Speaker 1: and it doesn't scare them away. So I would just say,

516
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 1: maybe it's time to move on. She doesn't deserve you, man,

517
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,360
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, you're like, you got a good head

518
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: on your shoulders, you're ready to commit, like fuck her. Yeah,

519
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: and at least you got some tail. Most most guys

520
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: put in four weeks and don't get in the ass. True.

521
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: I hope she was hot. She didn't have a busy booty.

522
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: I hope she does and ever wants it again. I

523
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: don't know. The only thing that kind of threw me

524
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: too is like, and this is like super judgment. Okay,

525
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 1: so my boyfriend is nine years older than me, so

526
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: I do think there's maturity, Like I just think guys

527
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: and girls are so different. But I'm just curious, like

528
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: what in some scenarios, what is too much of an

529
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: age gap? Do you know what I mean? Like thirty

530
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: seven and twenty four sounds like a significant different place

531
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: in life, especially in those particular years. Like that's what

532
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:03,719
Speaker 1: I mean, because that's seven, fourteen years, thirteen years. If

533
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: you make that like fifty and sixty three, it's a

534
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: little different. You're sort of in the sunset of your life. Yeah, God,

535
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 1: that makes it sound old. The sunset rapidly approaching my

536
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: sun set. You guys let's make these next years. This

537
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 1: is talking to get blade before my sun. You're rapidly

538
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: approaching the sunset. But I think at that age it

539
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: does like right out of college, like it's a it's

540
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: a brand new chapter of life. I was a disaster

541
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: at a college. Like, I mean, it's just like you

542
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 1: don't know what you want. You don't even you're barely

543
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: even like know what you want to do with your

544
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: career unless you're just super aheaded or advanced, you know,

545
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: and so like, how the funk are you going to

546
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: be able to know what you want from a relationship

547
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: and when you're thirty seven, especially as a guy that

548
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 1: I mean he said he's successful. He told us that,

549
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: I mean, look good, own it. Good for you. Find

550
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: some woman once a successful man. Yeah, or maybe go

551
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: for a cougar who already has her ship together too.

552
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know, I'm I'm not into this

553
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: twenty four year old situation. Yeah, I think you can

554
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: do better. Yeah, Okay, let's move on. This is from Erica.

555
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: I've actually had a similar situation. So this is pretty funny.

556
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 1: She said, Um, kind of funny. My fiance was going

557
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: down on me years ago and all of a sudden

558
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: started tasting blood and thought I got my periods. He

559
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: then realizes he got a bad bloody nose. We ended

560
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: up sitting on the floor with peroxy cleaning the sheets

561
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: at like eleven pm on a Wednesday. Was so awkwardly funny.

562
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: I've had that have been before. Bloody, it's not from

563
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 1: eating you outgively knocked his nose. Anyone's say eating out anymore?

564
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: I mean, what do you say, muncheon box? Well, why

565
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: don't you do the noise that you do hitting all

566
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: the walls? Um, No, you just say like going down

567
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: on a girl, you know, kind of lingus. I don't know,

568
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 1: eating out. It sounds disgusting, but it also reminds me

569
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: of like a cardivisa. Yeah, I don't know. Anyway, Yeah,

570
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 1: like I had when it was a couple of boyfriends

571
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: and he got a bloody nose, kind of bloody nose

572
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: during and so he came up and there was blood

573
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: like all over my stomach. It was like, weird, You're

574
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: just like I didn't know what was happening. I was like,

575
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: oh my god, am I dying? But yeah, I guess

576
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: it could happen. Well, I'm telling you what happened. What

577
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: do you mean? I guess it could like is that

578
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: just someone being prone to bloody noses or opens? I

579
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe he was doing blow who knows for

580
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 1: all I know, but that boyfriend could have been Um,

581
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: this girl says, I think, yeah, this is the girl

582
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: she said. Do you ever feel like you hold out

583
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: on sex if you really really liked the person but

584
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: then accidentally hook up with the ones you don't like

585
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: as much, like the one I don't like as much

586
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: won't hurt me or something? I mean, look, I think

587
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: we've been conditioned to think that like sleeping with someone

588
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: too soon is a recipe for it to end. So

589
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: it would make sense that like somewhere and your subconscious

590
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: you would be like, well this one actually seems like

591
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: it might work, and I really like him, so I'm

592
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: not going to suck it up by just sleeping with him.

593
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: I also think too, it like it really can sort

594
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: of protect your connection to like really nurture that connection

595
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: before just fucking, because you know, back to Karen, like,

596
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,239
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe maybe that's it destroyed the connection by

597
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: just like having sex too soon. I mean, I hate

598
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 1: to sound like a you know, four weeks I don't know, like, man,

599
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: trust me. On the first day, I don't care stuff

600
00:32:55,240 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: like I'm single, you know what I mean? Like so I, um,

601
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 1: I kind of get what was written by a woman

602
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: or this was a woman? Yeah, I mean I kind

603
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: of get that, like not wanting to look I can't

604
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 1: remember when I was younger, like not wanting to have

605
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: sex because I thought that like, even if I brought

606
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: it up, it would feel like that's all I cared about.

607
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: So I wanted things to feel like there was like

608
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: this really natural transition to it, or like the moment

609
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,959
Speaker 1: where it's just like okay, now it's just happening, rather

610
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: than even being like, yo, do you want have sex?

611
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: Like it just seemed like it was forcing it. I

612
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: never wanted that to feel like that's all I cared about,

613
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: And I felt like if I brought it up ever

614
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: as part of conversation, that's what it would look like

615
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 1: no matter how long I've been dating somebody, So it

616
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: would often take me a while to have sex with somebody. Now,

617
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: Like on the first daid on care, I just think

618
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: it's all about like stop over analyzing, like feel it

619
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 1: out in the moment, you know. I think it's really

620
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: fair to ask for what you want. And I think too,

621
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: there's lots of instances where it's like all both people

622
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: want is just to get laid that night, and that's fairy. Okay. Um,

623
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: this girl asked me, how has sex and dating been

624
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: since you've been kicked off the show? L O L No.

625
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,320
Speaker 1: I mean I would love to dive deeper than this,

626
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: but that doesn't exist. Well, I signed an India that

627
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: it doesn't exists. I signed a contract, but it's up bitches.

628
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 1: I'm just, first of all, want to say kicked off

629
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,720
Speaker 1: the show. I wasn't kicked off the show. I stopped

630
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: filming because the first time I went in to go film,

631
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: I mean the second I walked in, I was like,

632
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 1: I'm being set up. But a certain person that was

633
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: sitting on the couse with me, so like I'm not

634
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: gonna Yeah, Like I'm not gonna film anymore when I'm

635
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: not an executive producer and I have a zero control

636
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: over what they showed, said, did lied about all of

637
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: those things. Um, sex and dating since the show, thank

638
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 1: you for asking, has been just fine. It's been better

639
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: because there's a less stress in your life. Well, honestly,

640
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: so when we were going into season three, I was

641
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: pretty stressed out because my boyfriend, who um is actually

642
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: going to do the podcast next week and so you

643
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: guys will hear from him finally, but he's he's not

644
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 1: in the public eye at all, and he is like

645
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: so not into that part of my life. Like not

646
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,280
Speaker 1: like he's not in a supportive way, but he doesn't

647
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: care and he doesn't really want to be in the

648
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: public eye. And so I was so stressed out about

649
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: going into season three, like what am I gonna do?

650
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: Am I gonna fake like I'm not dating someone? Am

651
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: I going to say I'm dating someone? But then like

652
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: that in a weird position? Yeah, Like it was like

653
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: this really big question in my mind. And so maybe

654
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 1: that was the universe saving me because I didn't have

655
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: to go through that, But um, yeah, I don't know,

656
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 1: Like it's been a blessing to me that I haven't

657
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 1: had to make those kind of decisions for my relationship

658
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 1: because other ship was going on. That was not a

659
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: blessing to me. But you've been able to actually focus

660
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: on what matters now, Yeah, in great sex and being

661
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: present with your boyfriend exactly. This girl is not worrying

662
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: about some fake gas drama. Okay, as he pops his

663
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: other Rose didn't drinking and rose. But you know what,

664
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,439
Speaker 1: it's actually the cutest key ever. What's the company called.

665
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 1: It's called bev and they're not a sponsor but made

666
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: by chicks. I love this drink. That's good too. They're

667
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 1: not a sponsor, but they should be. I was listening

668
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: to docs today and he referenced some brand like there's

669
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: like just very conversational and he's like blah blah blah

670
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,879
Speaker 1: and like reference to Brandon Goes and they're not a sponsor. Yeah,

671
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 1: that's cute, I know. I mean, it is kind of

672
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: funny because someone you talk about stuff you like and

673
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: you forget that people always think that they're you're sponsored

674
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: by them. Um, this girl says, I mean, I'm just

675
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: nosy and I want to know if you're still dating

676
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 1: that guy. Yes, and he will be on the podcast

677
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: next week, so stay tuned. And that's not nosy, that's caring.

678
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: I know. I actually don't think it's not nosy because

679
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 1: I put my life out there, so you're entitled to

680
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: ask basically whatever you want. It doesn't mean all answer,

681
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: but um, okay, how are you supposed to be okay

682
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: with a guy you met four weeks ago sleeping with

683
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: other women because we're talking and getting to know each other.

684
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,720
Speaker 1: It feels wrong somehow for my self esteem and ego.

685
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: We can't do silence. No, I was taking a deep breath,

686
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: and I did it better. I look. I think if

687
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: he's being honest with you about it, like you kind

688
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: of have to appreciate that, right, I would say, if

689
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: you don't want to sleep with someone who's sleeping with

690
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: other people, do not sleep with them yet. Yeah, Like

691
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: that's when you in a way, like I wouldn't be

692
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: comfortable with it either. That's a mean thing, like I

693
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: can't do sex with someone who's having sex with other people. Um.

694
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 1: But but I also think it's a good sign that

695
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: he's being honest about that, because there are plenty of

696
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: guys out there that are fucking other people and not

697
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: telling you that's fair. I wonder what the conversation is.

698
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: I want more information, like he actually tell her? Does

699
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: she just know that? You know? Because she said in

700
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: quotes we're talking four weeks though, like this is such

701
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: a girl move that I'm about to do. But like

702
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: four weeks and I'm sleeping with you, like I'm kind

703
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 1: of like just stop sucking screwing other girls, like should

704
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: exactly like either where is this going? You know, you

705
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: start you do start to do that thing. I mean

706
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 1: the two months mark for me is like a very

707
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 1: much safe place to be, like where the fund is

708
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: this going? So is that is your desire to not

709
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: sleep with someone who's also sleeping with someone else safety

710
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 1: thing or is it an emotional thing? Both? I mean,

711
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: I think for me, you know, and I say this often,

712
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,760
Speaker 1: like I definitely think I'm different than a lot of girls,

713
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,399
Speaker 1: or maybe I'm I'm not so different. I think there's

714
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: maybe more girls like me. They just don't know how

715
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: to talk about it. But like I, uh, yeah, I

716
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: got cheated on so bad, Like it is such a

717
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: trauma place for me, and so I just can't like

718
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: I just can't ye physically, my body will shut down,

719
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: Like I can't enjoy sex if I knew my partner

720
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: was with someone else, like I don't even know. I

721
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,359
Speaker 1: guess if it was a hook it's called a hook

722
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: up at that point, but like, yeah, I just would

723
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: I would just not be able to do it, like

724
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: it definitely wouldn't be able to orgasm or like be free,

725
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 1: you know, like my body was No dick is that sorry?

726
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: My vibrator is better for me. It depends on the

727
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 1: dick really well. I've never bet a dick so good

728
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: that I'm like, he could have bad. It depends on

729
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: where you are in the relationship, like for me. For me,

730
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 1: it's less, it would be less the emotional thing and

731
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: more about the safety thing. Like, yeah, there's there's definitely

732
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 1: ways to have sex, but like nothing is perfect. Also,

733
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 1: sex with a condom is not very fun, Like it's

734
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: just there's a lot of stuff that with that that

735
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 1: I'm just like, yeah, I don't want to be restricted

736
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: that way, right, So I guess it is a safety

737
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: but mostly emotional safety situation for me. Well, I mean, look,

738
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,319
Speaker 1: if you're not feeling safe, it certainly affects the emotions too,

739
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: for sure. And like I was about to go, nothing

740
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 1: drives me up faster and then I called myself but

741
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: then I said it anyway, So cheers to that. Okay,

742
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,240
Speaker 1: So we got a lot of questions the week before

743
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 1: about ball play, and I didn't have totally mentioned it

744
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: all my Instagram and I completely forgot to mention it

745
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: in the podcast. Um, but I want your opinion, because

746
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: obviously you have balls and you play with balls, so

747
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 1: I feel like you're like our ball expert. Um. Maybe

748
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: you know your balls have a couple of cobwebs right now,

749
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:52,320
Speaker 1: but let's just pretend they don't. Okay, okay, um, So

750
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: this says, yes, ball play. I want to know all

751
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 1: about it, like with your hands, with your tongue, with

752
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 1: your mouth, one at a time, I'm two at a time.

753
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 1: What about the taint? I don't know. Help, I mean

754
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 1: kind of yes to all. Here's here's balls can be Look,

755
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: some people like rough play with balls. Balls can also

756
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: be very sensitive. The thing about your balls is, um,

757
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: the ball, sack and the ball are not like one thing.

758
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 1: So a testicle can get twisted, which is an incredibly

759
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: painful that happen to you. No, it has not, um,

760
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: but it is an incredibly like painful, Like I don't

761
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 1: know what's happening. I'm going to the emergency room situation.

762
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: She's raising her hand a question. It test to can

763
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 1: get twisted from someone sucking on your ball but playing

764
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 1: with it. They're like, you're on it whatever, Like yeah,

765
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 1: I mean I guess if you yeah, someone was sucking

766
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: on your balls. Like violently. Um, And I don't mean

767
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: we're just trying to figure out how to do it

768
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: at all, and you're like taking it to a violence place,

769
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: Like how did they get so dark? I don't know.

770
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 1: I'm trying to protect dudes. Balls. Do you like to

771
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 1: have your balls sucks? Okay? Do you like to have

772
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: them sucked or like juggled? I mean I like to

773
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: have them played with. I mean they're sensitive, so like

774
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 1: what does it feel like? I mean it feels good, um,

775
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,439
Speaker 1: but they can be sensitive. I imagine like I don't

776
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: have breasts at least, like I'm not supposed to. I

777
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: don't have a good one, so I'm not supposed to

778
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: what I do kind of have man titty. Um, but

779
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 1: you know I am like to me, it's kind of

780
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: they're kind of like the male version of tits. So

781
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: it's like like nipples are so sensitive, can be pretty sensitive,

782
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 1: but like in a good way. Yeah, but they can

783
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: also be like if they can hurt, well, I don't

784
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 1: want someone to like to wite the ship out of

785
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: a nipple, like maybe a little nipple like okay, So

786
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: it's like licking and sucking on balls, like start with

787
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 1: that licking and sucking the taint. I don't think there's

788
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: a whole lot that like goes on with the taint

789
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: unless you're applying pressure, because the taint is kind of

790
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: where the the male g spot is like under the taint,

791
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: inside and under. So if there's some if you're applying

792
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: pressure on that, just push a little bit, a little finger,

793
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 1: not so much, not so much. I mean that's a

794
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: little pressure though, right with you? That's true? Okay. So

795
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 1: I have a couple of notes that I've been told

796
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 1: and I want your opinion. Um, with the sucking the balls,

797
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:46,800
Speaker 1: we get here, this is our life. Um, So with

798
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 1: the sucking the balls, well, I mean, we can't even

799
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: look at each other, you guys. Back to sucking ball.

800
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,879
Speaker 1: I've been told that while you're sucking, you can't look

801
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: at you in the eye. Right now, while you're sucking,

802
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,760
Speaker 1: you should also be jacking him off because you can't

803
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: just leave the dick. Yeah, I mean, why did glasses

804
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: are I'm like, right now, I'm literally having a hot flash.

805
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: I'm not going to I mean, look, the truth is,

806
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: most guys like the dick is where it's really at.

807
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: So don't like, I don't even really care about the balls,

808
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 1: but like sometimes I'm like, but don't you want me

809
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 1: to move around? Yeah, don't abandon the dick, like keep

810
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: your hand on it to keep moving while you like

811
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: you don't want to just go down to the balls

812
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: or the team. Okay, So then another thing unless it's

813
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: like lead up to getting to the deck, like the teasing. Yeah,

814
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 1: it's like four you're working your way toward it. Yeah yeah, okay, Okay,

815
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:59,479
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Okay, I mean that's interesting the boss

816
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: of the ball, those are sensitive, but the dick is

817
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 1: where it's I if like your guy was like paying

818
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 1: attention to your badge, okay, whatever, and then I was like, okay,

819
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna play with your chips now you'd be like, um,

820
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: you forgot about the fucking main act. Okay, well I

821
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: have something to say about that. Okay. It's like she's like,

822
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: literally one time did like, my nipples are so sensitive,

823
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 1: and I don't think that's true for every girl. I

824
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: don't know what my with guys. There's some guys that like, yeah,

825
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:40,280
Speaker 1: like literally get off by having their nipples played with guys. Really,

826
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. It was shocked me, it like literally

827
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 1: shocked me. But it happened. There was like a little

828
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 1: play downstairs, but like not very much and definitely not penetration.

829
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 1: And I yeah, I'll be sure not to rub against

830
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: you sometimes, like when I don't wear wrong, I'm like,

831
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: oh god, I but sure that material. Um, I'm looking Okay,

832
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: this is it's the long one too, and I think

833
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: this is probably our last one. Um, this is from Brent.

834
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,440
Speaker 1: You know what I love. We're getting where messages from

835
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: guys that I absolutely love it. Um. This guy says,

836
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: I used to work with a girl, started as a friendship,

837
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: working out, and we just got decided to exclusively quarantined

838
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 1: together with built people. You guys, listen, I'm drinking when

839
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: I do this. You have got You've got to type correctly. Okay,

840
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: he says, together with built a relationship. I'm gonna go

841
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 1: with together we built a relationship. Okay, what's our best

842
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: guests brand? We're gonna move on that. I don't think

843
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: it's that important. Yeah, Okay. Anyway, with COVID, a dating

844
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: life became a living together situation very quickly. I understand that. However,

845
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: things were great weekly date nights, et cetera. Until two

846
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 1: weeks ago. I woke up and she asked that we

847
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 1: take time apart. She felt that I was too reliable

848
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:16,280
Speaker 1: on her and that if I were around, she couldn't

849
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: do her naps, her book reading, or her time to herself,

850
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,879
Speaker 1: even though she enjoyed my company. Who is this girl

851
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:29,320
Speaker 1: who I kind of get it and we'll let you finish. Okay, Sorry,

852
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just like I look perspective. Here's the thing

853
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: they were. They were work friends, and then they moved

854
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: they started together, they moved in together, so their new

855
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: normal became we're together two So it's a lot. So

856
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 1: I think it's fair for her to set some boundaries

857
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: and say, wait a minute, like my alone time, and

858
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with you. It has everything

859
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: to do with me and what I need. And and

860
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: I look, I am such a creature of habit that

861
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: like I would be just like him, like, oh, this

862
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: is what we do. We do everything together, that's what

863
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: we do. And if something started to change, I'd be like,

864
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: why are you acting weird? Right? But I get I

865
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: get what she's saying. I mean, I hear it too.

866
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: I just think it made me laugh that he was like,

867
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: I can't do He's totally the girl in this situation totally.

868
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: Her reasoning is she can't do her naps, her book reading,

869
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 1: her time to herself like those I don't know why they.

870
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I wonder if he's like, what are you reading? Well,

871
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 1: I guess, like what are you doing? Like there's let

872
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: her go to the back room then and take a

873
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 1: neck of the man. Yeah, okay, yeah, maybe she needs

874
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: to just speak up. Yeah, agreed. Long story short. It's

875
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: been two weeks. I've seen her a few times at

876
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: our workout sessions, but she's told me as of recent

877
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 1: as recent as today that it may be easier to

878
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: talk as friends in a couple of weeks. I know

879
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: we can be great. We just need to slow it down.

880
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,319
Speaker 1: She's agreed to meet up in a couple of weeks

881
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: to talk. What do I do? Do I cut off communication?

882
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 1: Do I stop working out? Is it even worth it?

883
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: I I think you say, I really like you. I

884
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: dig you. I'm going to give you the space that

885
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: you need. Make her miss you, man like she has

886
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: literally had a year's worth of time with you in

887
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 1: six months. It's true quarantine break up. And you know

888
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 1: what if she doesn't miss you, fuck her? Like well? Right,

889
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,320
Speaker 1: he said, he ended. The last thing he said was

890
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: both families have met, no fights ever. She's just super

891
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: to herself and independent. I'm struggling because I'm thirty eight

892
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,399
Speaker 1: and I could see myself with her long term. Well,

893
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: I got to give her the space and lay it out,

894
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: let her know how you feel, and say but I

895
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 1: respect you. I know this has been hard on both

896
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 1: of us. Let me know when you like want to

897
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 1: pick this up. It's just fucking weird times. The other

898
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 1: weird thing is is, you know what's unfortunate is sometimes

899
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: especially in this situation, like they're not actually boyfriend and

900
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 1: girlfriend doesn't sound like they ever really went there, you

901
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 1: might need to play a little hard to get to

902
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 1: make her be like, oh damn, I do want this guy. Yeah,

903
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? I hate that you

904
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 1: have to do that, but like there is something about

905
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 1: our human psyche sometimes that if someone's too available, you

906
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 1: kind of maybe make or lay it out, like, you know,

907
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: maybe say like are you are you fine if I

908
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: date other people? At this point? You know, like I

909
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: know what the boundaries are. Maker give real boundaries and

910
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 1: then go about your life and if it's meant to be,

911
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: it's meant to be And it's so cliche, but it's

912
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 1: kind of true. If it's meant to be, it'll be,

913
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: It'll be. How do we get We're gonna have to

914
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:42,760
Speaker 1: pay the licensing? Now? How did we get here? Get? Okay,

915
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,360
Speaker 1: we gotta go. We want that note. We better go.

916
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: We got We're about to go eat. I hope I

917
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: get a shrimp thrown in my throat. That's like the

918
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 1: most fun thing is wh't I throw it up in

919
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 1: the air and you have to catch it like a

920
00:50:56,840 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: great throat. Right, Hey, you guys, be on the lookout

921
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: for our cameo page. Hopefully we'll be launching. I'm gonna

922
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 1: say maybe that by next week. Um. We'll keep you

923
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: guys posted on my Instagram at velvets Edge, chip is

924
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: at chip doors. Always keep these messages coming to at

925
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 1: casual at velvets edge dot com. You can always d

926
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Speaker 1: m U s as well. We love the like dirty Ship.

927
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: I'm so glad my mom only has a flip phone.

928
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: Unfortunately my mom listens, so my dad only does Facebook.

929
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: So you don't know Ship. Now, these people don't know.

930
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: My parents, on the other hand, are like, oh God,

931
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 1: our daughter. They're like on their knees they're just praying,

932
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Speaker 1: um well,