1 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: What's up. It's sauce on the side. Episode fourteen. I 2 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: know at some point I'm supposed to stop counting, but 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm not there yet. I think you 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: should stop counting now. Why fourteen is a weird place 5 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: to stop counting. 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 2: Because it's just like you're gonna stop eventually. Just now 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 2: the fact that you just said I'm supposed to stop counting. 8 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: Done, done, but i'm supposed to. I mean Andrew told 9 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: me to stop doing it. Now that you both told 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: me not to, I think I will can't wait till 11 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: it was up fifteen Yeah, Episode seventy five, Hi, Episode 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: two hundred and thirty four. God, and I have some 13 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: ideas of stuff that I want to do. So, first 14 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 1: of all, excited about the guest today. I'm always excited 15 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 1: about our guests. I think if I have a guest 16 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: i'm not excited about, you just won't hear it because 17 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 1: it won't be fun. And yes, there are some that 18 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: I've recorded that will never see the light of day. 19 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: Oh God, but ooh, and I gotta get Andrew in 20 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: here later for the burn books. I'm gonna burn his. 21 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: Ass, burn them. 22 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: Okay, he deserves it. Today we have one of our 23 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: security guys here at the office, Chris, Officer Chris. He's awesome. 24 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: He keeps us safe. You won't really see him, but 25 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: if you try to mess with one of us, he 26 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: will be around the corner take you out. That's what 27 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: I tell myself. I don't think he actually keeps an 28 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: eye on us. I feel like, eh, he's always there. 29 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: I will say he did come to my art show, 30 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: and he did bring a security team with him, none 31 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: of whom helped me out. They were helping everyone else. 32 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: But that's fine, really well, because here was the thing 33 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: at my art show. The entire show was there. So 34 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, Okay, there are X 35 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: amount of security people. We need one at the VIP 36 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: area just to keep people from stealing purses or whatever 37 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: because we didn't know what was going on. And then 38 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: I would like somebody with Danielle, and I would like 39 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: somebody with Elvis so that they don't get harassed the 40 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: entire time. 41 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to I'm recking my brain at this point. 42 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: I just remember those margarita's and yes. 43 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: Shout out to our boys at Gringoes and Jersey City 44 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: for providing the Margarita's and Tacos. Who right, We're gonna 45 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: have to do another show at some point. But Officer 46 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: Chris is going to come in because he is not 47 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: only a retired police officer for the NYPD and he 48 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: has a lot of great stories. He also now is 49 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: a private eye. And I have to get to the 50 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: bottom of whatever I can. And I know there's probably 51 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: not a lot he can specifically say, but I want 52 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 1: to find out some things. I don't trust it. Why 53 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: I don't trust it, You'll trust it never. You don't 54 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: trust me private eyes? You know? 55 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: Just no, I'm not paying you to do something I 56 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: could do myself. I'm nosy. 57 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,959 Speaker 1: But oh really, you're gonna show up. You're gonna just 58 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: sit outside someone's apartment for twenty four hours? 59 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 2: Done that before. Oh twenty four hours is a long time. 60 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 2: But now I need to get to the bottom of 61 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 2: that twenty four minutes. Yes, who have you rolled up on? 62 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: I can't say, can't say that was it someone you 63 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: were dating? Someone someone else was dating? Oh not? 64 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 2: Oh what I've done it for my friends? You need me, 65 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:49,639 Speaker 2: call me, girl, call me, beat me if you want 66 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: to reach me. It's gone down. It's going down. 67 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 1: I've done some creepy stuff with friends before, and never 68 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: for myself. Now for my friends, I'm like, yeah, hold on, 69 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: let me put on this hat and glasses and roll 70 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: up Long Island. I love it. It's so fun. And 71 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: just watch let me just watch where they're going. That's all. 72 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: That's it. So we got to get to Chris. Let's 73 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: bring in Chris. Chris. Chris Chris. He is a former 74 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: police officer now private investigator in our security and I 75 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: have so many things that I want to ask you. 76 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: So Chris, thank you for. 77 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 3: Joining me, Thank you for having me? 78 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: Gandhi, are you nervous? Goodness? Should have been? You make 79 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: me feel nice, nice and easy, lull you into it 80 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: and then. 81 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,239 Speaker 3: Get it's that energy. 82 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 4: You're good, Okay, excellent. 83 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: So I don't even know where I want to start 84 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: with you, because you have so many stories from the 85 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: time that you are a police officer to now working 86 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: in private investigation. And I'm sure just around these offices alone, 87 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: you've seen a lot, You've done a lot, you smelled 88 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: a lot. Where do we start? 89 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 3: I've been here six years? 90 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 4: Can you believe that you've been here longer than me? 91 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 3: Where's the time going? What well, the police officer. Yeah, 92 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 3: I started. Now I'm going to show you my age 93 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 3: nineteen ninety four. 94 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: Okay. 95 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 3: I started in the South Bronx by the Yankee Stadium area, 96 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 3: the forty fourth precinct, A rough area, A good place 97 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: to start that you really want to learn policing. I mean, 98 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: you're gonna get your cherry popped right away. 99 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 1: What made you want to become a police officer? Because 100 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: I feel like things are very different now. So in 101 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety four, what was the allure? 102 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 3: You know? The truth? I did have. That show Cops 103 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 3: was popular in the late eighties watching. 104 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: That, But truth you wanted to wrest a bunch of 105 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: people without their shirts on. 106 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, now that's true. Growing up for me was more 107 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 3: like take every civil service exam and see who calls you. 108 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:38,799 Speaker 1: Okay. 109 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 3: So I was very happy the NYPD called me and 110 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 3: I made a twenty five year career out of it. 111 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 3: I got into private security halfway there. I did it 112 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 3: on the side, and after my journey with the MYPD, 113 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 3: I opened up my own private investigation protection business. 114 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: And how's that been going? 115 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 3: Excellent? 116 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know you did security at my art show. 117 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 3: That's true, and you guys, I was on one of 118 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 3: my more exciting events. That was great. That was so fun. 119 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 1: I'm glad you had a good time. We had a 120 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 1: good time too. So it was very chaotic, there were 121 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: so many people, but it was awesome. 122 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 3: You rallied through. You did it. 123 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: Come to work the next day, baby, this is how 124 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: we do it morning. Yeah. Chris by the way is 125 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: definitely our dude because he will warn us if there's 126 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: something sketchy going on outside. He will walk us to 127 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: and from our cars. He's always looking out for us, 128 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 1: and we love you for that. 129 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 4: So thanks my pleasure. 130 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: But back to being a police officer in New York City. 131 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: What are some of the craziest things that you have 132 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: encountered and been part of? 133 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 3: This story goes well in the bar with a glass 134 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 3: of wine. 135 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: This is your party story. 136 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 3: This is my party. They're rated R version. I'm a 137 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: rookie learning the job. I'm on training. So there's two 138 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 3: veteran cops that have me in the backseat of the 139 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 3: police car teaching me the job. I mean, this is 140 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 3: literally my first week and they get a nine one 141 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 3: one call. It's a four to twelve shift, so that's 142 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 3: four to twelve midnight. It was the end of the night. 143 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 3: And in those days, stay used to call it four 144 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 3: to fours because you want to get out at midnight, 145 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 3: but you want to go to the bar to four 146 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 3: in the morning. 147 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 4: Oh okay, so it's a four to four. 148 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 3: The young guy's job, especially the night shift, it's more 149 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 3: for the young single guys. Everybody wants to get out 150 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 3: and go have a cocktail. So when the nine one 151 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 3: one call comes in of a suspicious odor, oh god. 152 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 3: The two veterans who know they went up, this ain't 153 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 3: going to be good and it's in the shift, so 154 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 3: it's going to be yours, rookie, because we're going out. 155 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 3: So we go up this walk up building where the 156 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 3: call was. It's like the second floor of a foul 157 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 3: odor inside of the apartment. Knock on the door, nobody's answering. 158 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 3: You can hear TV blasting inside the apartment. So I go. Well. 159 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 3: The procedure by the police academy is called emergency service. 160 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 3: They're like the swat guys for the NYPD. They come 161 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 3: in with a battering ram and they'll break the door. 162 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 3: They laugh and say, now that don't work here, kid, 163 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 3: You're not in the academy, and we're in the streets, 164 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 3: knock on a neighbor's door. Neighbors says, oh, it's a 165 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 3: single lady that lives and there. We haven't seen in 166 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 3: a while. We were the ones they called it's just 167 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 3: the stench. Oh god, the stench. 168 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:06,039 Speaker 4: Was really bad. 169 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's gonna get worse. So the veteran cops say, 170 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 3: really easy, go up to the roof, walk down the 171 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 3: fire skate so it's six stories, come down to the 172 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 3: second floor, break the window, get in and unlock the door. 173 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 3: We handle things our way. You know, we don't go 174 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 3: outside resources. Welcome to the job, kid, breaking and entering. 175 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: Let's figure this out. 176 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 3: Basically, I go up to the roof. And here's the 177 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 3: part I didn't tell you, Gandhi when I said I 178 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 3: was taking every civil service exam, the only one I 179 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 3: wouldn't take was the fire department because I'm scared of heights. 180 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: Ah okay. 181 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 3: Now I'm on this rooftop, huge building, like the Yankee Stadium, Ario, 182 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 3: all those buildings, and I looked down and I'm like, 183 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 3: oh no. I put one step on the fire scape 184 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 3: and you could feel the fire scape moving and you 185 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 3: could see the dust coming out of the screws like 186 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 3: I'm so old. Yeahs. 187 00:07:58,400 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: Then there's another stench because you shit yourself. 188 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 3: Well, I got blotches, I discovered. I never knew this 189 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 3: that I created blotches all over my neck. And I'm like, 190 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 3: oh no, what a pussy. Battle through it. Walk down, 191 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 3: Get to this kitchen window. Take my flashlight. Back in 192 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,679 Speaker 3: those days, they were big mag lights. Break the window. 193 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 3: Try to open it. First, it wouldn't open, it was locked. 194 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 3: Break the window. Climb in because at the end of 195 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 3: the day, your job is to make sure somebody is 196 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 3: not in need. So you got to get in there. 197 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 3: And there's this little chuala and he's biting my caf 198 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 3: come down in the kitchen and I hear the TV blasting. 199 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 3: Happened to be the TV show Cheers. Okay, to this day, 200 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 3: if I see Cheers, I'll always remember this story. The 201 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 3: stench is so bad. What I did. I kept putting 202 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 3: my nose in my armpit to smell my right card 203 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 3: to try to get a relief. As I'm walking to the. 204 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 4: Front door, I would have thrown really bad. 205 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 3: It's really bad. Now, it's really really bad. And obviously 206 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 3: this is a call that more than likely by the veterans. 207 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 3: Was da dead on arrival, which is a summertime, which 208 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 3: could be a really bad smell. But I see a 209 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 3: corpse on the couch. Oh, and it has what looks 210 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: appears to be a fetus, and the fetus has maggots. Ew, 211 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 3: so tells me this is an old had to be 212 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 3: there a few days. 213 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 1: So my feet is do you mean that she had 214 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: given birth or somebody ripped a baby out of her? 215 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 3: The end of the investigation with the Emmy and the 216 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 3: detective squads, Yes, she turned out she had a heart disease. 217 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 3: She was alone and died giving birth right on her couch. 218 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 4: Oh my god, horrible poor thing. 219 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: Did you vomit? 220 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 3: I didn't vomit, but I definitely up chucked. Whatever is that? 221 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 3: How you say that? 222 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: Oh like a little bit of the like in your mouth? 223 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? Correct? You tasted your dinner at seven people. 224 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 4: That's gonna make me split piece soup. 225 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 3: At this great Jewish deli on a hund sixty Yankee 226 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 3: court court deli. I don't know if they're still there. 227 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: Did it ruin the split peace soup? 228 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 3: For yeah? Oh it the split piece soup and cheers? 229 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: Never again. 230 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:59,439 Speaker 3: I don't know if you're ever going to get me 231 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 3: to watch it out and watched tears and. 232 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: That's just one of I'm sure many things to say. 233 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 3: You're correct, it was twenty five years of this and 234 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 3: that particular body. By the way, the arm was missing. 235 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she didn't have an arm. 236 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:13,559 Speaker 1: And how's that? 237 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 3: It was so rigmortous that under the couch the dog 238 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 3: had her arm. 239 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, yeah, wait the chihuahua. 240 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 4: Correct, so are nasty workman? 241 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 3: Her arm fell off. I know the dog pulled it 242 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 3: off because of how deceased the Bible was and it 243 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 3: was under the couch. Had to watch on it. You 244 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 3: never forget that image and the dog was playing with it. 245 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 1: And this is your I tell this story at a 246 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 1: bar story. Oh yeah, and people love it. 247 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 3: This could be a killer You just got to know 248 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 3: it's a killer story. 249 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 1: I have to say. I know my audience a little bit, 250 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: and I think they're going to have really I can't 251 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:53,079 Speaker 1: say enjoy it because it's disturbing, but we'll be interested 252 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: in it. How about that? 253 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 3: That's fine. 254 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:58,079 Speaker 1: As a police officer in the nineties into the two thousands, 255 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: what is the most common that you see here in 256 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: the city? 257 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 3: Assaults, domestic was. Yeah, it was one of your heaviest 258 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: I used to say Cupid's bad arrow maybe, But there 259 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,319 Speaker 3: was a lot of domestic halls, a lot of disputes, 260 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 3: neighbor disputes. Obviously, with all these buildings in all these boroughs, 261 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 3: neighborly dispute is just like every five minutes. Well, I'm 262 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 3: calling nine one one on you. Two people can't get along, 263 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 3: and I'm gonna call nine one. I'm gonna call namb one. 264 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 3: We're gonna call nine one one. Then your big crimes 265 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 3: like felonies of assaults with injury. 266 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 1: Now, shootings and stabbings. Shootings in the city at least 267 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: now are not as high as other people would assume 268 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: that they would be for New York City, right, because 269 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: it's hard to get a gun here. Am I wrong 270 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: about this? Or am I right about this? 271 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:44,839 Speaker 3: Yeah? It depends. I mean, if you have the resources 272 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 3: like a gang banger, and guy, really I do, really, 273 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 3: you go the gang banger. They have those resources and 274 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 3: a lot of it comes from the South. It's a 275 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 3: big thing of course, driving down there and you know 276 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 3: there is plenty of guns. But you're right, the common person, 277 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,079 Speaker 3: the resource of just getting a firearm, I would imagine 278 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 3: it is difficult. 279 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 1: So let's talk about the city. Now, we all know 280 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: the city has definitely changed. The pandemic, a lot of 281 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: stuff got weird. People were let out of jail. Bail 282 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: reform has been would we call it bail reform? Yeah? 283 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 1: How do you feel about this city right now? 284 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 3: It's it's tough. It has changed. I'm certainly one hundred 285 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 3: percent proof because I have a security business and a 286 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 3: lot of my clients are now hiring me just to 287 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 3: protect their homes in the city because of the changes 288 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 3: on their blocks. It could just be as simple as 289 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,959 Speaker 3: drug users or somebody who uses their front stairs or 290 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 3: underneath their brownstone as a porter party. Oh, being a 291 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 3: New Yorker, you know, born and raised here, my issues 292 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 3: to quality alife. There's a policy where you can't really 293 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 3: police that right now, the urine eating and you know, 294 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 3: all the little petty things that sounds like it's nonsense, 295 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 3: and you definitely they definitely had to do something about it. 296 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:59,079 Speaker 3: I mean, you can't just flood the system with quality 297 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 3: of life. But now now it seems like it went 298 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:02,439 Speaker 3: too far the other way. 299 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: So being someone on the inside of all of this, 300 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 1: do you think that there is a fix. What is 301 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: the solution? Because they're right, you can't flood the prisons, 302 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: But what. 303 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 3: Do you do? Great question, and I truthfully have to 304 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 3: say I don't know. Part of it is younger cops. 305 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 3: I think is good because if you have older cops 306 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 3: like myself, where you've been on the job during the 307 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 3: days of you can lock them up and that's it 308 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 3: and let the courts deal with it. Those guys are 309 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 3: burnt out because the new way, you know what I mean, 310 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 3: you need a young mind, You need a nice young 311 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 3: guy to come in and have to know how to 312 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 3: deal with this more. I would say with honey. 313 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: Absolutely though I mean I clearly am not a politician. 314 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 1: I don't know how the money works. But it would 315 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: seem as though a lot of these people who were 316 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: let out of jail, prison, whatever it was, have mental 317 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: issues and there needs to be some sort of mental 318 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 1: help and a facility for people who do not have jobs, 319 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: who are homeless, who are on the street, who are 320 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 1: the people shitting underneathone's brownstone or pissing on the side 321 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 1: of the road. 322 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 3: That's a great, good point. I would have disagreed a 323 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 3: few years ago. I would have said, no, that's bullshit, 324 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 3: and you commit the crime. That's it. You gotta you know, 325 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 3: doing what I do now to security at against somebody's blocks. 326 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 3: And let's face it, the truth of the matter is 327 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 3: the blocks I'm doing are people that probably are a 328 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 3: little more privileged because they could afford secure Of course, 329 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 3: my daughter says that all the time. Who has crippling anxiety? 330 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 3: She goes, Oh, god, Dad, I wish I had one 331 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 3: hundred dollars an hour to pay some guy to stand 332 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 3: in front of my house all day, I would sleep amazing. 333 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. 334 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 3: But the truth of the matter is there's a guy 335 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 3: I dealt with, and what I tried to do. If 336 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 3: I have a situation where there's a reoccurring event of 337 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 3: somebody annoying the neighborhood, I do try to get to 338 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 3: know him. It's the best way because I can't go 339 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 3: to the distation attorney. I can't go to that local priest. 340 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 3: And if I walk into the priests and say, hey, 341 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 3: this guy's shitting on the street, they're gonna laugh at 342 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 3: me too bad. So I can't physically harm them, nor 343 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 3: would I. So the one or two cases I had, 344 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 3: I mean, these guys are just mentally ill, and they 345 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 3: really are. I don't think they wake up in the 346 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 3: morning and say I just want to hang out, run 347 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 3: up and down the block and do drugs and use 348 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 3: it as a bathroom. So I don't know the answer 349 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 3: on how do we get this taken care of? It's 350 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 3: it's good, it's gonna be tough. 351 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: Well, it's a good thing that you are a retired 352 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: police officer now, so you don't have to worry about that. 353 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's it. That's right. 354 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: It's crazy thinking that you're retired too, because when I 355 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: hear retired, I think somebody who's like in their sixties 356 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 1: maybe seventies, and you're obviously too young for that. 357 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 3: But okay, fight apartment. You get to do twenty years 358 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 3: and get out not anymore, and now it's more but 359 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 3: my day, So you're right. I retired at forty eight 360 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 3: forty seven and a half years old. People are like, 361 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 3: you can't retire. Funny. I thought I could live in 362 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 3: golf for the rest of my life on my New 363 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 3: York City police pension. How's that That only lasted about 364 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 3: a year, And I really that ain't happening. Okay, you 365 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 3: got to go out and get a second living. 366 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: Word to the wise. Now let's talk about your second living. Yes, 367 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: now you are a private investigator. Yes, now you get 368 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: to see all the juicy stuff. And in my head 369 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 1: when I think private investigator, I think somebody sitting in 370 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: their car with a hat and glasses, following cheaters around. 371 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: What is the majority of. 372 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 3: Your work, magnum p I right, the Hollywood part of 373 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 3: get to travel around and drive a Ferrari. Yes, yeah, 374 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 3: that's that's not happening. 375 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: Because who would notice a Ferrari? 376 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 3: Following there is a lot of domestic and the biggest 377 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 3: thing with domestic first, when you get a call from 378 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 3: a client, I really tend to just only do it 379 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 3: if I get a call from an attorney. If I'm 380 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 3: not dealing with an attorney, then it's like, well wait, 381 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 3: I'm not just going to find out something and give 382 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 3: you the information. I don't know what you're gonna do. 383 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:43,440 Speaker 3: You I kill the person. So I like to a 384 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 3: good private eye or a smart private eye usually just 385 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 3: wants to deal with an attorney for like a divorce case. 386 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 3: And in New York State there is no such thing 387 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 3: as adultery. It's not going to work for court. No, 388 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 3: it's just a moral thing. Maybe there's kids involved, Maybe 389 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 3: mom wants to say your dad was a cheater, or 390 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 3: wants to say your mom was a cheater. Because it's 391 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 3: going to get ugly now. And this is why. There's 392 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 3: a lot of reasons why. And let's face it, you 393 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 3: want to know the other jobs. Occasional insurance jobs are big. 394 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 3: I've worked out with people filming them. They had no idea. 395 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,159 Speaker 3: I have like hidden body cameras and they're not supposed 396 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 3: to be in the gym working out. 397 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: Oh, because they're like disabled or there's something horrible that 398 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: has caused a workman's comp injury. 399 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 3: Oh. I have insurance companies that reach out to me 400 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 3: and I'll join the gym for a month and I'll 401 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 3: walk in literally say hey, can I work in with you? 402 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 3: We're both lifting weights and you're getting video. 403 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know insurance companies did that. This explains where 404 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 1: all the money's going. 405 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 3: There's all it's workmen's comp. This comp is big, so interesting. 406 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: So do any of the people that you're investigating find 407 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 1: out that you are investigating? 408 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, usually it's funny. I always think that too. I 409 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 3: had an adultry case. Here's one and I yeah, this 410 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:56,640 Speaker 3: is a here. This is a good one with changing 411 00:17:56,680 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 3: everything because I assure you discreet, I will never ever 412 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 3: give up any kind or speak about any client. But 413 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,679 Speaker 3: this was the attorney reached out to me to find 414 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 3: this couple that was dating, and it was for the husband. 415 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 3: The husband's attorney said, my wife, you know, to find 416 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 3: his wife out on a date. So we had a 417 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 3: night on the town and they had a concert in 418 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 3: Lower Manhattan, one of these small venues which she wasn't 419 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 3: aware of. The iPhone but she didn't know is married 420 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:28,680 Speaker 3: to the iPad. 421 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 1: I feel like that happens so much. 422 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 3: Out there. Clean your shit up. Your iPad might be 423 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 3: saying everything your iPhone. Those I get that a lot, 424 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 3: at least at least three occasions when they get hit 425 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:44,199 Speaker 3: with that. If however, they do it like aha, look 426 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:46,479 Speaker 3: at what we got. I always think back, like the 427 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 3: expression of their faces. It's got to be horrible. 428 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 1: It's got to be I mean, could you imagine, have 429 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: you so you've never had somebody figure out that it 430 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: was you and then confront you about it later during 431 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 1: you try. 432 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,880 Speaker 3: To be a mystery person. Get some shots. And that's 433 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 3: why better people that taught me this job try to 434 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 3: deal with like a third party attorney, have no point 435 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 3: of contact in and out. Now, if you came to 436 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 3: me and said, hey, my boyfriend's cheating on me. My 437 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 3: husband's cheating on me. I live with him, no lawyer's involved. 438 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 3: I just want to know. I personally, I would recommend 439 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 3: somebody for you. It'll take your money. I don't want 440 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 3: to get involved in that because I don't know what 441 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 3: you're going to do if I come back and give 442 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 3: you all the footage. 443 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: I bet I. So I have a theory about cheating, 444 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: going through phones, hiring investigators. I think once it gets 445 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 1: to that point where you feel the need to pick 446 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 1: up somebody's phone and go through it, it's over. Just 447 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:39,400 Speaker 1: call it thank you, Because even if I'm the type 448 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 1: of person, you can never prove a negative right. You 449 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: can never prove something did not happen. You can only 450 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: ever prove that it did happen. So just because you 451 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,479 Speaker 1: don't find something, in my head, if you come back 452 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 1: and you're like, listen and I follow this person around, 453 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: I never found anything, then I'm thinking, Okay, it doesn't 454 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 1: mean it didn't happen. You just didn't find anything. 455 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 3: That's right. 456 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: The trust is gone at that point, it's broken. Just 457 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: move on. There's something wrong, whether it's the whether it's 458 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: to you, whether it's the two of you together. Once 459 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 1: you get to that point, I just can't imagine ever. 460 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 3: Actually I have a GPS. Now that's also very interesting. 461 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 3: You can't just legally GPS. There's a whole system on 462 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 3: how you have to do that on somebody's car. 463 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 1: Oh really? Yes, I've watched a lot of Breaking Bad. 464 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 3: Are you sure that's it? Breaking Back the Chicken Polo places? 465 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:23,199 Speaker 3: Putting it on Walter, that's it because of that episode. 466 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 3: I have so many friends with Kai Bardi GPS you have. 467 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 3: I just want to see where my girl is going. 468 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 3: I want the tracker if you're feeling that way like 469 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 3: and then I come from the maybe the old school, 470 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,360 Speaker 3: and don't want to say I'm tougher, but I don't 471 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 3: want to know. No happy I'm in my relationship. I'm happy, 472 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 3: we're happy. If that's something that's going on, I don't 473 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 3: want to investigate. If it's I'm gonna know if you're 474 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,119 Speaker 3: really gonna do it throughout our relationship. I think I'm 475 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 3: gonna see some tail signs. 476 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,159 Speaker 1: So that was gonna be my question. How does this 477 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 1: translate into your personal life. Are you constantly looking around 478 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: and observing things, or do you try to keep them 479 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,640 Speaker 1: separate and say, yeah, I'm not gonna poke around. I'm 480 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 1: just gonna live this separate life. 481 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 3: It never ever affects me. I actually look at it. 482 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,120 Speaker 1: Like, because you're married, right right, I'm. 483 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 3: Married a long time. We were like high school sweethearts, 484 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 3: so yeah, we're at that point. I think now my 485 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 3: wife actually, long as her bills are paid, she would 486 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 3: just throw me out of house. Marriage long marriage. As 487 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 3: you get older, there's less and less people checking you out. 488 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:31,919 Speaker 1: I don't know about that, all right, all right, my 489 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,439 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I will I can't even say argue. But 490 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: I'm not jealous at all. I just think, oh, I 491 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: think you're cute, so I assume other people are gonna 492 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: think you're cute. And we were at a resort not 493 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 1: too long ago, and this woman swam up to him 494 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 1: and I was standing right next to him, and she 495 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: starts going on and on about he's handsome and look 496 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,159 Speaker 1: at these tattoos, asking about. 497 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 3: I met him at the tattoo gallery. He's a handsome. 498 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 3: He's a handsome boy. 499 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 1: Pain in my ass, But you know, this woman's talking 500 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,199 Speaker 1: to him. So I just swam away because I was like, 501 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: you know what, and go ahead do your thing. She 502 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: saw me standing here. She gives no fucks, so I'm 503 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,719 Speaker 1: not your security. So I just swam off and let 504 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,399 Speaker 1: them finish talking. And he said, how could you do that? 505 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 1: I can't believe you would just leave me there. First 506 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: of all, you're a grown man. You can take care 507 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 1: of yourself with this woman. But I didn't want to 508 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: be the person in their cod blocking and it's hot, thanks. 509 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:22,360 Speaker 3: It's a turn on, a turn off. And I have 510 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 3: one an older school, high school sweet art type wife 511 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 3: where she would look at me in the background shaking 512 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 3: her head like nice. As I'm engaged in the conversation 513 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 3: where I'm like, all right, can we do this later. 514 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 3: It's like way to Rockey. 515 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 1: I don't even care if people are flirting. I think 516 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: go ahead, have fun, enjoy yourself. We'll see where you 517 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 1: go this evening. 518 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 3: I'm flirty, you are flirt with It's it's just more 519 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,199 Speaker 3: good energy, right. You just know the level. I know 520 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 3: the level. It ends at the bottom. 521 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: So, speaking of that level working in private investigation, is 522 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,479 Speaker 1: there a common thread that you notice before you actually 523 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: catch someone in the act a behavior that you're like, yeah, 524 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 1: they're cheating. 525 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 3: Ah, yeah, what is it? Yeah? 526 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 4: Two cell phones phones is without a doubt. 527 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,360 Speaker 3: You know, if you, if you, if you're significant other 528 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,439 Speaker 3: has two cell phones and it's not a work phone. 529 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 3: But then again, it can be a work phone. They 530 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 3: can utilize it. Yep, two cell phones is. I'll say 531 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 3: half the time, let's not because now I'm going to 532 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 3: start fights with all these people that two cell phones. 533 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 3: Two cell phones is one after dinner disappearing. If I 534 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 3: gotta take a ride, I gotta run out and get 535 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 3: something from the store, I forgot something that usually could 536 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 3: be that, like I got to make that quick phone call. Hey, 537 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 3: you know what's going on the. 538 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: Majority of your clients are they men? Are they women? 539 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: Or is it split? 540 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 3: You know, it's it's it was in the beginning when 541 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 3: I started this. Obviously it's more men, but it's women 542 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,160 Speaker 3: are catching up. Yeah, yeah, they're they're coming around, they're 543 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 3: coming around. 544 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 1: Wait, so the clients are men or the clients are women? 545 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 3: Are more female clients catching the men? But that has changed? Really? Yeah? 546 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,399 Speaker 1: That do you think it's because women are getting stupid 547 00:23:59,440 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 1: or they're cheating? 548 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 3: I have my theory. I think tell us, Bravo, okay, 549 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 3: TV shows women see moore of being exposed Internet just 550 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 3: more of that kind of gossip type. And then they're like, 551 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 3: you know what, I do like that guy in the gym, 552 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 3: he is cute. You know what, I'm gonna live my 553 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 3: best life? 554 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: Or so you think social media has made people TV 555 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: and social media has made people more apt to cheat. 556 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 4: Sure, Now let me ask you this, Chris. 557 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,159 Speaker 1: You have two daughters to their adults. Yes, they're dating. Yes, 558 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 1: you meet the dude they're dating, or the girl they're dating, 559 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 1: whatever it is. You don't do some snooping. Come on, man, So. 560 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 3: This is funny. I'm meeting my daughter, my older it's 561 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 3: their name's Jessica. She's gonna be twenty five, meeting her 562 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:42,200 Speaker 3: boyfriend for the first time this Friday. She's been dating 563 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 3: him for a few months and now it's time to 564 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 3: But how do I say a confession I have when 565 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 3: we're on air? 566 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 1: But go ahead, I run them, Yes, as you should. 567 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,479 Speaker 1: I want to run them. And I'm not even a cop. 568 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: I don't know how you don't do it. 569 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 3: Love clients to come to me and they want a 570 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,159 Speaker 3: general comprehensive run and people go, that's horrible. No, it 571 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 3: ain't fuck that. Why would you want to know about 572 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 3: some I want to know his probably work history. Yes, 573 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 3: I want to know if he was arrested. 574 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 1: Credit score and I wouldn't and I'd. 575 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 3: Have no problem credit score. Leans, that's right. I want 576 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 3: to know everything about this person. So yeah, that answers 577 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 3: that for sure. 578 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: Okay, So let me ask you, this got a lot 579 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 1: of interesting personalities in this building. You run them. 580 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 3: I have not run anybody in. 581 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 1: This You haven't. I don't even believe that. I don't 582 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: even believe that for a second. 583 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 3: I have not run anybody in this building. 584 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: I would never do that. There have to be some 585 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,199 Speaker 1: interesting people around here doing some interesting shit. Yeah, and 586 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: you're not allowed to talk about. 587 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 3: It, are you? No? No? But yeah, it's a colorful building, 588 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 3: that's for sure. 589 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 1: I bet it is. 590 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,440 Speaker 3: We have all shapes and sizes as far as. 591 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,439 Speaker 1: The colorful Okay, can you say this, as far as 592 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,720 Speaker 1: the colorful people go? Right, which station gives you the 593 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 1: most to deal with? I think I know it? 594 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 3: Right? 595 00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 1: But which? Because you only walk you know certain people 596 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 1: out of this building? 597 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 3: Right? Right? Well? Right? Power definitely has more people looking 598 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 3: to get with them. We've had that from time to time. 599 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,959 Speaker 1: Well, they're also a lot more controversial. There you go, 600 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:14,800 Speaker 1: they're out there, they start shit. We don't really start 601 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 1: shit over here. 602 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 3: WR. I've had three Oh yeah, they start too here 603 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 3: you go. I've had three cases with WOLR. We had 604 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 3: to do again power in WLR. We had to do 605 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 3: a super like get a whole team out here and 606 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 3: just beyond high alert. 607 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 1: What's the craziest thing you've seen happen around here? 608 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 3: We had a guy in Tribeca who came by looking 609 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 3: for one of our talent, and he was out here 610 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,400 Speaker 3: at four o'clock in the morning. So that alone alarms 611 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 3: me because that's motivation. 612 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, you're up early waiting. 613 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,199 Speaker 3: That shows some good motivation. We asked him if he 614 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 3: needed anything. The security at the front desk. You know, 615 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 3: it's a suit. We call that a suit because it 616 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 3: shows the first sign of authority. You got a suit 617 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 3: on the lobby security. Hi, is there anything I can 618 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,960 Speaker 3: help you with? Because he's standing right at the window 619 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 3: and it's four o'clock. 620 00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 1: In These guys are the first ones out. 621 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,719 Speaker 3: There twenty four hours. So the guy on the midnight 622 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,199 Speaker 3: shift would be the one that will alert me. 623 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 1: Oh for Anthony, here you go. 624 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 3: And this was at this time was in Tribeca, which 625 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 3: was Steve Sure And Anthony, by the way, is amazing, 626 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:11,959 Speaker 3: he really is. 627 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:13,080 Speaker 1: He was great too. 628 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was funny. I got a call from Anthony 629 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 3: this morning for something like he's just so good. They're great. 630 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 3: The guy said to the overnight security guy at four 631 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 3: o'clock in the morning, Fuck you, free country. I'm out here. 632 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 3: Don't tell me what I got to do. Mind you business. 633 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 3: Then I have to roll up and again just stand here. 634 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 3: And now I'm not going to engage with him, because 635 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 3: He's right, it's a free country. You could stand in 636 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 3: front of a building at four o'clock in the morning. 637 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 3: So now the job details where I have to stand 638 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 3: there to try not to make it like I'm watching him, 639 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 3: but I'm watching him to wait to see. As far 640 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 3: as our procedures, we will just have talents stay home 641 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 3: that day, really work from home. 642 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: There you go. There are so many times, because you know, 643 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 1: we all walk in from different places all the time, 644 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 1: so you never even know where somebody's coming from, or 645 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: if they're coming up through the basement whatever. But every 646 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,640 Speaker 1: now and then at the old building would see somebody 647 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: looking outside and we would just walk by and be like, hey, Steve, 648 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 1: I think someone's here for Charlotta Magne. This is always like, 649 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: I know you said some shit yesterday and here yeah, yeah, yeah, 650 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 1: here it goes. 651 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 3: I love it. 652 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 1: That's funny. So nothing nothing too crazy with the people here. 653 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:19,399 Speaker 1: And if it was, you wouldn't even be able to 654 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,920 Speaker 1: tell me anyway. That's right, we'll talk off the air, Chris, 655 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 1: what about celebrities like you have to again? I know 656 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 1: you are Yeah, you can't see that because this is 657 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 1: a podcast, but Chris has a big old grint on 658 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 1: his face. I will find out. But I can't tell 659 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: you how about celebrities because I know that you've done 660 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,439 Speaker 1: with deal dealt with a lot of them. Yeah, yes, 661 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: without using a name. Are you allowed to say some 662 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: crazy things that you have seen within the celebrity world, 663 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: like a page six type of thing. 664 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 4: Sure, blind item. 665 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 3: Right, blind item? Celebrities. Uh. Even my experience in the 666 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 3: police department before I was doing private security, we caught 667 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:02,520 Speaker 3: one celebrity in the meat past area, which is in 668 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 3: Lower Manhattan, performing oral sex on the prostitute. Oh a 669 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 3: male prostitute. 670 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 1: Fascinating. 671 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, in his suv with his driver was out getting coffee. 672 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: So that was quick. 673 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 3: My thing is like, you got all this money in 674 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 3: the world, get a room. Another one was fun was 675 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 3: I was called at the Ritz Calton on Central Park 676 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 3: back with a certain celebrity. You can guess it. I'll 677 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 3: shake my head. I didn't work for him, so I 678 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 3: didn't sign to an NDA so I could say it 679 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 3: during the Was it Denise. 680 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 1: Richardson Charlie Sheena? 681 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 3: That incident was an incident of like an assault. Charlie 682 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 3: Sheen had an issue in a hotel room. I wasn't working, 683 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 3: but the manager told me, you know he was at 684 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 3: There was nine one one calls. Yeah, and then there 685 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 3: was a celebrity who loved prostitution coming to his room. 686 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 3: He would stay, of course I can't say his name. 687 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 3: He would hire security and he would rent the whole 688 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 3: floor just so nobody else was up there and just 689 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 3: have escorts come like all weekend. And that was Central 690 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 3: Park Hotel. 691 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: Sounds like a party. 692 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 3: It's a party. 693 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 1: Speaking about NDAs, I have some questions about this. So 694 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,480 Speaker 1: with a lot of the Diddy and Cassie stuff that 695 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 1: we have seen when it comes to an NDA, even 696 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: take him out of it. Just in general, when it 697 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 1: comes to an NDA. How protected is somebody by an 698 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: NDA if they're committing a crime, Like, are you never 699 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: supposed to talk about it? Do you get in trouble 700 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 1: if you blow the whistle on somebody because they're doing 701 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: something horrible and you've signed an NDA. 702 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 3: I mean the legal answer to that is if you're 703 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 3: subpoena or authorities are questioning you, now the NDA's out. 704 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 3: If it's the commission of a crime, you're not sup 705 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 3: If you're professional, I'm not going to go to a 706 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 3: barbecue and say I was just out with so and so, 707 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 3: because it's just going to get out and it comes 708 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 3: back to me and then I'm not going to get 709 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 3: work right. So I'm going to assure you so discreet 710 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 3: any of my clients. So if it's in a commission 711 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 3: of a crime and now you're working with the authorities, 712 00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 3: you're gonna you're not gonna get sued. You still might 713 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 3: get sued, but you're gonna win. 714 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 1: Now, what if the authorities don't come to me but 715 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,000 Speaker 1: say I sign an NDA and I'm out partying with 716 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:11,960 Speaker 1: We'll say Diddy because he's the one that's all over 717 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: the news. Right now, I sign an NDA. I'm hanging 718 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: out with him. I see him commit a crime. Right 719 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: Nobody has come to me and asked me did this happen. 720 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 1: I go to the authorities and say, hey, I saw 721 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: this happen. Do I get in trouble. 722 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 3: By the NDA standards? Now you'll win that you will. 723 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,239 Speaker 3: He could still make your life miserable and ssue you, 724 00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 3: bring you into depositions in court paid attorney, so he 725 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,280 Speaker 3: could still make your life a pain in the ass 726 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 3: because you're gonna have the lawyer up and now it's 727 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 3: going to hit your pocket. But in the end, there's 728 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 3: nobody gonna find you guilty for that, because it's the 729 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 3: moral of the right thing to do. It's a crime. 730 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: Because I'm just wondering, you know how so many people 731 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 1: now are coming forward and saying, oh, we knew this, 732 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 1: we saw this, it was all going on, but you 733 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: didn't have shit to say. Then now you have a 734 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 1: bunch to say. And I feel like it's not the 735 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 1: flex people think it is. 736 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 3: I think it's the domino effect on the on the 737 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 3: one side of it, where let's say it did happen, 738 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 3: what these people are saying. I think it's the ritual. 739 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 3: You always need a leader, You always need that one 740 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 3: person to come out, kind of like in the classroom, 741 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 3: we all wanted to say something, nobody wouldn't. Then the 742 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 3: one kid say, speaks his mind, Now we all want 743 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 3: to talk. I think there's that, and then I think 744 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 3: there's people, of course capitalizing on sure nonsense. 745 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 1: There's a little bit of cloud chasing, for sure, But 746 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm getting a little irritated at some of these celebrities 747 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: who are like, oh, we knew that we been knew that, 748 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: we knew that it had happened, blah blah blah. Well 749 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 1: where the fuck were you? 750 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 3: Then? 751 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 1: Why did you say anything? 752 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 3: Then why didn't you want to do the right thing? Yeah, 753 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,719 Speaker 3: all of a sudden, that's that's the problem in this 754 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 3: world is everybody just kind of has the shuggers on. 755 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 3: They do know a lot of bad things going on, 756 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 3: nobody wants to get involved. 757 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 1: Do you ever have to do security detail for somebody 758 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 1: that while you guys are doing it, you're like, you know, 759 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 1: I wouldn't really hate it if you accidentally got punched 760 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: in the face by someone because you're so terrible. Absolutely, Yes, 761 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 1: who Chris who. 762 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, you wouldn't lose sleep, that's for sure if it happened. 763 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 3: But the job is to protect them, Yeah, the fullest. 764 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 3: So you're going to make sure that doesn't happen. But yeah, 765 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 3: and nine out of ten, it's always good. It's quick 766 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 3: in and out, get him safe for tonight. It's an 767 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 3: honor if I'm known at one of many former cops 768 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 3: as the New York City connection for who's coming in 769 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 3: from La Miami. We need a guy biggest human beings 770 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 3: if we need that kind of job, or just again 771 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 3: the guy that just keeps you out. 772 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: Of trouble, you're gonna have to hire you for some 773 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 1: more things. 774 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 3: You get the friends and family right there. 775 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: Hey, and you guys are great, and you always treat 776 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: us well and always be nice to the security because 777 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 1: they're the ones that are going to help you. 778 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 4: Smile, not give me a shake, be happy. 779 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 3: I sure you your accounter won't be as bad. 780 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: That's a good. So okay, let's talk about that. Give 781 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 1: us tips to make an encounter with a police officer 782 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: less shitty, because, let me tell you, scary does something 783 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,719 Speaker 1: that I don't agree with at all. But as soon 784 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: as he gets pulled over. He just immediately starts dropping. 785 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 1: I'm on the radio on the Elvis stor In Morning show. 786 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 1: I'm on the radio. 787 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 3: I'm like, do you know who I am? 788 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: Yes? Yes, which I always say. If you have to 789 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: say do you know who I am? You lost because 790 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 1: either they know and they don't give a shit, or 791 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,080 Speaker 1: they don't know and they don't give a shit, And 792 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 1: now you're just sitting here looking like an idiot. Like 793 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 1: in the history of do you Know Who I Am? 794 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 3: Does it ever work nowadays? Remember the cop is on camera, 795 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 3: so anything you say is going to be on his camera. 796 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 3: So you might not want too much because those cameras, 797 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 3: even even the police camera, I'm sad to say, end 798 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,759 Speaker 3: up leaking out and end up on these TV shows. Yeah. 799 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: I remember Reese Witherspoon getting pulled over for duy and 800 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,359 Speaker 1: she pulled a do you know who I Am? 801 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 4: Thing? 802 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:22,400 Speaker 1: And it looked awful. 803 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,319 Speaker 3: A police encounter is public. 804 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 1: I think it should be. 805 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess yeah. I would be more like, I 806 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 3: don't show that. What is that going to do? But 807 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 3: they have to now show their side of what they encounter. 808 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,320 Speaker 3: You know, we've seen bad things on the other side. 809 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 3: I'm not naive. We know that it happens. With that said, 810 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,799 Speaker 3: here's what I told my kids when they drove. When 811 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,439 Speaker 3: a cop, especially in the dark, gets out, he pulls 812 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,800 Speaker 3: you over on the traffic stop and he's walking to 813 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 3: your car, I assure you he's as scared as you 814 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,719 Speaker 3: that first moment when he's walking to that car. He 815 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 3: don't know what he's especially when there's multiple bodies like 816 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 3: you and your friends are hanging out, you get pulled 817 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,879 Speaker 3: over this three heads that he sees as he's coming up. 818 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,760 Speaker 3: So my thing with my my own children was, well, 819 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 3: I don't know this cop, and I don't know if 820 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,319 Speaker 3: he's a little bit of a loose cannon or had 821 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,720 Speaker 3: a bad day, or has a PI and his wife's 822 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,080 Speaker 3: cheating on him. I don't know what is coming to 823 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 3: that car to engage with my children, and he does 824 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 3: have a firearm. My theory is, listen to me, put 825 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,400 Speaker 3: the freaking light on, put your hands on the steering wheel, 826 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 3: and just answer the questions. I'm very, very confident that 827 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 3: he's there because of the traffic steps. I'm not making 828 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 3: it now like I'm against the police, because I'm not. 829 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 3: I'm a police officer, but I know safety, if you 830 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 3: move the wrong way and it's dark, or just go 831 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 3: forbit your friend does something stupid. You just never know. 832 00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 1: So let's say you do have a bad encounter with 833 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,120 Speaker 1: a police officer who was acting out of line, who 834 00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 1: did something he should or she should not have done. Okay, 835 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,880 Speaker 1: what is your recourse? How do people reford? What do 836 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 1: you do? 837 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 3: What I would do? I would shut up and let 838 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 3: him win. He's gonna win on the scene, and lawyer 839 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 3: up and have your day later. 840 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,879 Speaker 1: But even from that point, like say, okay, you win. 841 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 1: Now you're searching my car illegally or for no reason, 842 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 1: whatever it is is, or now you've physically harmed me, 843 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 1: where do you go from there? Like, yes, you get 844 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 1: a lawyer. What if you can't afford a lawyer? What's 845 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 1: your first course of action? 846 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:07,839 Speaker 3: Right? 847 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:08,359 Speaker 1: Who do you tell? 848 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, they have a whole process. There's like a 849 00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 3: civilian complaint. And at the moment at the scene, I 850 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 3: would eat it. Yeah really, and I have. I've had, 851 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 3: you know, an issue. I had an issue down south 852 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,800 Speaker 3: once when I was pulled over and I didn't agree 853 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,719 Speaker 3: with where it was going. But I ate it. I 854 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,319 Speaker 3: just ate it. You want to take a look and 855 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,799 Speaker 3: I just did because I'm just for that moment, live 856 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 3: for that moment. You know it could be. I don't 857 00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 3: want it to become combative. 858 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,319 Speaker 1: It's really tough though, because you know, people are so 859 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,120 Speaker 1: scared now because you are seeing these videos of people 860 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 1: who were complying, people who were not acting out of 861 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: line to get the treatment that they then got. So 862 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 1: it's it's a tough one. 863 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,279 Speaker 3: Especially Well, we were talking about short and we were 864 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 3: talking about this before. Like the media, it's so much 865 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,839 Speaker 3: pounding the social media. If you just search it once, 866 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 3: it's going to keep coming on your phone. 867 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 1: Absolutely, they like the. 868 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 3: Police department has so many great stories going on with 869 00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,160 Speaker 3: their doing in the community. Especially again I said, this 870 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,960 Speaker 3: new way of policing I'm for with these young cops, 871 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 3: cops and kids boxing softball, and it's not on that 872 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:10,919 Speaker 3: social media like that one. 873 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: Well, police needs a better pr then that's where we 874 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:13,759 Speaker 1: need to fix it. 875 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, beat it up, Gandhi, get in there. I'll get 876 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 3: you some resources. 877 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,360 Speaker 1: Let's go all right. I don't want to only highlight 878 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,279 Speaker 1: the bad shit that happens. I mean there is a lot. 879 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: We know that there's a lot. I do want to 880 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,440 Speaker 1: highlight the good things that happen. And I do want 881 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,120 Speaker 1: to give people recourse if they feel helpless, because I 882 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 1: think that that's a big part of what's really setting 883 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:32,960 Speaker 1: everybody off. Just in general. It feels like a powder 884 00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 1: keg right now, exactly. And I think it's because people 885 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:39,279 Speaker 1: feel helpless in so many different areas, whether it's how 886 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:43,960 Speaker 1: much money you're making, insurance companies, doctors' offices, dealing with 887 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,319 Speaker 1: police officers. People don't know where to go and what 888 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,719 Speaker 1: to do to actually affect change. And I think that 889 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 1: that's what's really stressing a lot of people out. So 890 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,239 Speaker 1: if we can give them answers, I love it. If 891 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 1: we can highlight the good, I'm always on board for that. 892 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 3: I think it's great. 893 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:57,960 Speaker 1: So when you have these great stories or things that 894 00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,000 Speaker 1: are happening community, Chris, you got to tell me yeah, 895 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,239 Speaker 1: so now I can talk about it. 896 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 3: I love it. I will. 897 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,319 Speaker 1: Now you don't expect me to go do research, do you. 898 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 3: I'll put you in touch with somebody I know in 899 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 3: the NYPD with that they do a lot in the community. 900 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 1: So Chris, you also, and I will wrap it up 901 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,399 Speaker 1: with this, You're not just a former police officer in 902 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 1: our security and own a private investigation business. Yes, you 903 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 1: also have a. 904 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 4: Bar, Yes, a wine bar. 905 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 3: Yes. My family, my brother and I, we have a 906 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 3: wine bar in Bronxville, New York called Ernie's Wine Bar. 907 00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:29,319 Speaker 1: Where's Bronxville, Bronxfield's in. 908 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 3: Lower Lower Westchester. It's one of the first stops coming 909 00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 3: out of the city, out of the bronx What's called 910 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 3: Ernie's Ernie's Wine Bar. 911 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,319 Speaker 1: So if you want to see Chris, are you there? 912 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 3: Off it? I will always be there. Just just let 913 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 3: me know who's coming ex for Chris and I'll get 914 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:43,480 Speaker 3: over there. 915 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:47,319 Speaker 1: Ernie's Wine Bar in Bronxville. Chris, our lovely security guard, 916 00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:49,719 Speaker 1: and I think we can call you security guard, our 917 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 1: lovely security security and private investigator. Chris. 918 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 4: We love you, Thank you, thank you for having me. 919 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:57,440 Speaker 1: Of course, if people can people find you online or 920 00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:58,719 Speaker 1: do you not want to drop that information? 921 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 3: Oh sure, shoot me. Let's give you a few emails. 922 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,799 Speaker 1: Well you have a few emails. One he's got three 923 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 1: phones for emails. Nothing he's doing is sketchy. 924 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,280 Speaker 3: Chris Consulting at gmail dot com. 925 00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:18,280 Speaker 1: Chrisconsulting at gmail dot com. If you have some issues 926 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,359 Speaker 1: that you would like to be solved or looked at. 927 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 1: That's how you get ahold of our Chris, and have 928 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,200 Speaker 1: your lawyer reach out to him. If you want to 929 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 1: creep on a significant. 930 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 3: Lawyer first please, I don't want no more anti domestic case. 931 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: Good job, Thank you, Chris, thanks for joining us, Thanks 932 00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 1: for having me. Okay, pretty interesting. Chris has some things 933 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,400 Speaker 1: to say. I think I'm gonna have to talk to 934 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,439 Speaker 1: him off the air about some of the stuff he 935 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 1: was being very hesitant about. But anyway, let's get to 936 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 1: the other fun stuff because we need to get Andrew's 937 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: ass in here, because, like I said, I want to 938 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 1: burn him and we have to do and ask me anything. 939 00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:04,200 Speaker 1: So please hold on one second, Andrew, can you come here? 940 00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:13,680 Speaker 2: What he's such a victim's losing? H Well, go take 941 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,880 Speaker 2: the mic you deserve it today. 942 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 1: Oh wow, there he goes. There he goes learn something. 943 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 1: I'm out podcasting. Oh my god, he's gonna take out 944 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 1: a whole computer. Look at him. 945 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 5: Well, why would they put the arm of the computer 946 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,319 Speaker 5: where it could hit the computer? That's dumb. 947 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,439 Speaker 4: The computer hit the arm. 948 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:30,320 Speaker 1: Yes, this is a microphone. 949 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:31,920 Speaker 5: Yes, just what do you need? 950 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 1: I'd like to burn you. Okay, do you have any 951 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 1: idea why I want to burn you. 952 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:44,920 Speaker 5: Because of the podcast being spoken over. 953 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:46,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he knows. 954 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not going to burn me. I'm gonna burn you. 955 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,360 Speaker 1: Wait, how are you going to burn me for that? 956 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? Hold on. 957 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:56,759 Speaker 1: So here's what happened. I had doctor Brad Schaeffer in 958 00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,800 Speaker 1: for actually what I thought was a really good episode, Diamond, 959 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,880 Speaker 1: you were in there for it. What did you think? Amazing? 960 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,279 Speaker 1: Amazing episode? And we got to a lot of really 961 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,439 Speaker 1: cool things. You talked about all kinds of stuff, and 962 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,880 Speaker 1: we had people come in, like guests come in. But 963 00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 1: in the other studio recording what the hell were you recording? 964 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:15,920 Speaker 5: It was a boll chat. 965 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:16,879 Speaker 4: You were recording a. 966 00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 1: Bowl chat for the serial Killers. Yes, Andrew and a 967 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,440 Speaker 1: guy named Ben were in the other studio. We love Ben, 968 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 1: He's very nice, like him a lot. Their entire podcast 969 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 1: recorded on top of my entire podcast. So Doctor Brad 970 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,000 Speaker 1: was rendered unusable. But the serial Killer podcast just went 971 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: on to do this fucking bold chat. I hate you 972 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 1: for it? And why did I flame you? 973 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 5: I guess maybe learn how to use the board and 974 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 5: then it won't happen. 975 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 1: Oh really, wait a minute, because I'm pretty sure that 976 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,799 Speaker 1: you had something in your side that you one didn't 977 00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,359 Speaker 1: know how to shut off, and two had you known 978 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 1: how to use the board, it would not have happened. 979 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 5: Well, to be honest with you, I am terrified of 980 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,239 Speaker 5: the boards should because I am always afraid of them. 981 00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 5: I do not touch the board unless it is in 982 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 5: studio I and I know how to use that because 983 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,200 Speaker 5: I have written out instructions of what too press to 984 00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,839 Speaker 5: make it work. I never touch Elvis's board. I never 985 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:16,360 Speaker 5: touched Scotty's board because I did my impression. I swear 986 00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 5: on my life, I never touched it, and that was 987 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,920 Speaker 5: the problem. I didn't touch it because Scott's always like 988 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,319 Speaker 5: working radio, and I'm always under the impression that if 989 00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,720 Speaker 5: I touch anything there, I could be on the radio 990 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,800 Speaker 5: at any second and shut everything down. 991 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 1: Worse, destroy an hour long podcast. 992 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 5: Well, I will say, I apologize. 993 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: Well, this isn't fun. I don't want an apology. I 994 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 1: want you to fight back. 995 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 5: But then when I fight back, it's, oh, look at 996 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,680 Speaker 5: him playing the victim. Let's talk about that manipulation. I'm 997 00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,479 Speaker 5: also so sorry I spit on your hat. 998 00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 1: Sorry that. 999 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 5: I burn you. 1000 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 1: Okay, find Andrew, that was it? Whatever? 1001 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,359 Speaker 5: Well, I'm sorry. I mean, if you want, like, I'll 1002 00:42:56,360 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 5: fight you for something else. So apologizing is not good. 1003 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,880 Speaker 5: Now you're doing the thing. No, no, no, now, you 1004 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,759 Speaker 5: the one always got his pangle in arms up. 1005 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 1: He did just he just whipped up a little panglin 1006 00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 1: arms though. Did you see it? He went like this, 1007 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 1: You can't see what I'm doing, but it's kind of 1008 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,160 Speaker 1: t rexy anyway. No, here's the problem. 1009 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 5: You know. 1010 00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,680 Speaker 1: I always say this, if people just take accountability for 1011 00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:20,719 Speaker 1: what happened and say sorry, you have to move on. 1012 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,400 Speaker 1: You can't keep sucking them up. I was hoping for 1013 00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,520 Speaker 1: a lie or a pivot or it's not my fault 1014 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:29,400 Speaker 1: because I didn't get any of that. So when somebody 1015 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:30,680 Speaker 1: just says like, oh I fucked up, let's move on, 1016 00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:31,920 Speaker 1: then you gotta move on. Boo. 1017 00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:36,560 Speaker 5: Sorry, did I just ruin your show once again? Okay? 1018 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 1: Oops, that's fine. We'll have doctor Brad back in because 1019 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 1: he's cool. 1020 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 5: Ok sorry again, Okay, bye. 1021 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,040 Speaker 1: See that little voice? Fuck you? 1022 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:46,120 Speaker 3: Hey, bye. 1023 00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:49,280 Speaker 1: Bye, Andrew. 1024 00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:50,800 Speaker 3: I have a great podcast. 1025 00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:54,480 Speaker 1: Okay, let's get to the ask me anything since Andrew 1026 00:43:54,520 --> 00:44:01,080 Speaker 1: just ruined it all. Mama Mony Cat no, Mama Monica. 1027 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:02,520 Speaker 1: T oh maybe that. 1028 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 2: Okay, anyway, Mama, she wants to know where is your 1029 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 2: next vacation exotic destination. 1030 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,440 Speaker 1: Ooh, that is a great question. Vacationing one of my 1031 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 1: favorite things to do. And as you hear this podcast, 1032 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,279 Speaker 1: our show is currently on vacation, which means I am 1033 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 1: in Mexico with my boyfriend and a bunch of his 1034 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:26,360 Speaker 1: friends and hopefully I'm having a good time. But who knows? 1035 00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 1: These people are crazy? Well, I hope so what. There 1036 00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:31,600 Speaker 1: are two of his best friends from when he was 1037 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 1: in the military, and these dudes like tu Porta, and 1038 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,880 Speaker 1: they're bringing their significant others and I don't really know 1039 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:39,719 Speaker 1: any of them, so this is kind of gonna be 1040 00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,799 Speaker 1: my first time meeting them. Pray for me, Diamond, Pray 1041 00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:43,799 Speaker 1: for me. You're gonna have a good time. Are you 1042 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 1: a good time? I'm here? Why are you here? 1043 00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:49,919 Speaker 2: Because I couldn't plan a trip around this time because 1044 00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,360 Speaker 2: all of my friends are working, so I was like, 1045 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 2: I don't really know what to do. It's okay, don't 1046 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:53,400 Speaker 2: worry about it. 1047 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 1: So you're just gonna be making money. 1048 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:54,800 Speaker 3: Hello. 1049 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 1: You hear that sound? Diamond making money? It was very 1050 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:03,520 Speaker 1: similar to your flame. Love it, okay? If they want 1051 00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:04,960 Speaker 1: to find you online, where do they find you? 1052 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,560 Speaker 2: At Diamond Sincere and then on Twitter or x whatever 1053 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 2: at Diamond Sincere with an underscore. 1054 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 1: And I am at Baby Hot Sauce. Please feel free 1055 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:18,360 Speaker 1: ask any questions like, subscribe, follow, leave a review, but 1056 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,000 Speaker 1: only if you like us, and we'll be back next week, 1057 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,960 Speaker 1: hopefully with the podcast. Andrew has not ruined. Okay, bye 1058 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 1: bye