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Speaker 1: We're back, Susan and Kathy here. Welcome to Bachelor Happy

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Speaker 1: Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for joining us, and.

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Speaker 2: If you haven't listened to our episode from Wednesday, you

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Speaker 2: gotta go check it out. We had former bachelor Zach

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Speaker 2: and his fiance Katie on the pod. Kathy, weren't they fantastic?

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Speaker 1: Oh? You know, they are an amazing couple. I think

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Speaker 1: I said it on the on the podcast yesterday. When

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Speaker 1: you look at them and how they speak and how

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Speaker 1: well they talk with each other, they're so in love.

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Speaker 2: It's I don't learn so many things about them, like

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Speaker 2: Katie's sharing that she visited Texas and she's from Canada

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Speaker 2: and said I want to make this my home and

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Speaker 2: did it. And how they communicate together, what they shared

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Speaker 2: about their future. I loved it.

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Speaker 1: I you know what I find amazing. They've been together

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Speaker 1: what several months, and they already know so much about

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Speaker 1: each other And what makes a great relationship. I should say,

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Speaker 1: what makes a relationship great? They work together, they spend

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Speaker 1: time together, they have date nights. Katie does the cleaning,

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Speaker 1: Zach has dinner ready for when she gets home from work.

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Speaker 2: I were not thrilled when he said sometimes I'll have

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Speaker 2: dinner ready. When she walks through the door, I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, a man after my own heart.

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Speaker 1: I know you and you're cooking, But honestly, I really

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Speaker 1: I mean, if anyone questions whether the process can work

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Speaker 1: on The Bachelor, listen to this podcast again. They are

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Speaker 1: proof positive how great and fast a really loving relationship

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Speaker 1: can grow.

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Speaker 2: And we talk to them about the difficulties of living

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Speaker 2: together when you don't really know each other well and

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Speaker 2: you're getting to know each other. And how about what

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Speaker 2: they shared.

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Speaker 1: They communicate, that's right, that's what you and I were talking.

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Speaker 1: They compromise, they communicate. It's I feel like these are

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Speaker 1: the words that we keep saying, but it's these are

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Speaker 1: the things that make a great relationship. And they I'm

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Speaker 1: just so happy for them and I can't wait to

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Speaker 1: go to their wedding.

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Speaker 2: I know I never destination or alstin either one works

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Speaker 2: for you.

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Speaker 1: Know what, You're gonna have to get some cowboy boot

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Speaker 1: Susan if it's in Texas.

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Speaker 2: I've got like forty pair.

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Speaker 1: Okay, perfect, Okay, So listen. Today we're going to be

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Speaker 1: answering questions from fans who have written in asking for

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Speaker 1: advice and you are not going to believe some of

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Speaker 1: these questions. They're really good, Susan. You can submit your

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Speaker 1: questions at bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour.

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Speaker 2: Well wait, I want to do that, but first let's

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Speaker 2: get started with today's question of the day. So what's

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Speaker 2: something you used to believe about relationships but no longer do?

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Speaker 2: What do you not believe in anymore?

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Speaker 1: I think that for me, it's not that I don't

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Speaker 1: believe in it. I think that love is something that

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Speaker 1: takes a lot of work, stain and love. It's easy

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Speaker 1: to fall in love, fall in lust, but I think

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Speaker 1: that relationships don't just happen. They take a lot of

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Speaker 1: work to be good. What about you?

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Speaker 2: I agree with that something that I used to think.

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Speaker 2: I used to think that that puppy love, or that

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Speaker 2: lust love, the beginning stage, that one year thing is

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Speaker 2: going to last forever. But I know it does it.

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Speaker 2: You're exactly right, Kathy, Yeah, it takes work, which is

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Speaker 2: why you want to find your best friend, somebody that

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Speaker 2: without the love and the intimacy, that you could hang

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Speaker 2: out with every day. You know what I mean? You

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Speaker 2: share your space with, share your time with.

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Speaker 1: Well, I agree with all that, But I also think

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Speaker 1: that relationships change over time. You just said that, I

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Speaker 1: mean they evolve, and a good relationship in a perfect world,

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Speaker 1: we grow together in a relationship and we find ways

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Speaker 1: to build our relationship stronger. But you know, it takes

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Speaker 2: Yeah, some people give up too early. I mean it's happened.

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Speaker 2: As I said earlier talking with Zach and Katie. You

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Speaker 2: reasons why relationships don't last, because you're not speaking your.

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Speaker 1: Truth and well. And I think sometimes I agree with that.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you have to hold it and at compromise. I

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Speaker 1: keep saying that coming back. You know, you just not

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Speaker 1: everything you think needs to be said, right. But I

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Speaker 1: What do you think I like it?

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Speaker 2: So do you read the first one?

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Speaker 1: Okay Ron from North Carolina says, I'm sixty nine and

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Speaker 1: a retired military man. My wife passed away almost two

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Speaker 1: is thirty and has two children. She has been inviting

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Speaker 1: a week, and when I leave, we hug. I'd like

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Speaker 1: ask first or tell her I'm attracted to her. How

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Speaker 2: Oh? Well, Ron, thank you very much for sending you

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Speaker 2: this question to us, and we're going to talk about this. Kathy.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a strong feeling one way or the

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Speaker 2: other on this?

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Speaker 1: Susan? Yes, Perhaps you didn't let me just say two

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Speaker 1: words to you, two little phrases here.

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Speaker 2: I know what you're going to say. The age I

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Speaker 2: know it.

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Speaker 1: He is sixty nine. She is thirty with two young children.

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Speaker 2: Down, ok, Ron, hear me?

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Speaker 1: Hear me?

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Speaker 2: Wrong?

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: So when you're hugging her, you know, when you look

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Speaker 2: be receptive of that kiss or perhaps when you get

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Speaker 2: real close to say, I really want to kiss you,

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Speaker 2: but I don't want to ruin this relationship. Are you

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Speaker 2: okay with that? Are you what's wrong with that?

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Speaker 1: Susan?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: First of all, her children are young, so unless she's

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Speaker 1: looking for a grandfather for those children, he is absolutely

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Speaker 1: deluding himself that a thirty year old would be interested

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Speaker 1: forty years. Let's do the maths and start shouting.

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Speaker 2: Inviting him three times a week and she has two children.

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Speaker 2: There's age. There doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: Age doesn't matter. Are you really okay? If you really

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Speaker 1: believe that, I want you to start counting, and at

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Speaker 1: the end of this episode you're still going to be

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Speaker 1: counting the years between them. So it's ridiculous. It's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: It is a big gap.

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Speaker 2: I agree with that, it is a huge gap.

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Speaker 1: However, she's probably inviting him because he's an older man

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Speaker 2: Are you consider yourself an older woman that people pity

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Speaker 2: you're seventy and look at you, you're still hot?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, thank you.

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Speaker 2: It could be an adult relationship on the side. You

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Speaker 2: don't know where people want to be.

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Speaker 1: I know where a thirty year old doesn't want to be,

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Speaker 1: and that's in the arms of a seventy year old guy.

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Speaker 2: Give it, Ron, I'm all about it. Communicate with her,

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Speaker 2: don't shock her, Communicate with her, and please let us

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Speaker 2: know the results.

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Speaker 1: Ron My thought for you is by the kids happy

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Speaker 1: birthday cards and sign it love your neighborly grandfather. You're done, Okay,

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Speaker 2: This is Casey from California. She right, My girlfriend and

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Speaker 2: I have been in the same sex relationship for almost

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Speaker 2: five years. Okay. Prior to being together, I had a boyfriend. However,

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Speaker 2: she has only been with women. I have been thinking

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Speaker 2: can fully commit to me. I was totally shocked, but

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Speaker 2: I really love her. Should I suggest bringing a man

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Speaker 2: let her go off and do her thing. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to lose her, but I can't imagine her being

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Speaker 1: Can I? Can I start off on this one?

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Speaker 2: Please?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Casey, you have to let her go. She's not

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Speaker 1: know that your heart will break if she leaves you

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Speaker 1: for a man, But do you really want to be

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Speaker 1: It's a choice she has yet to make.

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Speaker 2: What do you think? I agree with a lot of that, Kathy,

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Speaker 2: But again, our big C word. Communicate about it, talk

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Speaker 2: and Casey is comfortable with it, bring the man over.

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Speaker 2: It's that what you two feel comfortable with. I don't

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Speaker 1: To do a live in Susan. Do you have because I'm.

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Speaker 2: Very open minded that way, And if they're comfortable with that, but.

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Speaker 2: Well, she says, she out of nowhere. She's thinking she'd

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Speaker 2: It doesn't say that I was thinking pure sex. She

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Speaker 1: Okay, But Casey's saying, should I suggest bringing a man

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Speaker 2: Do you not agree that they should talk about it?

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Speaker 1: You always should talk about it, But I think it's hard.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I think Casey's obviously in love with

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Speaker 1: our hearts, our hearts get broken. Sometimes things change, people change,

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Speaker 1: relationships change, situations change.

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Speaker 3: And you do want to know before you get into

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Speaker 3: that exactly. I think, Susan, you and I can I'm

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Speaker 3: also I'm sorry now, I was just going to say,

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Speaker 3: I think you and I can agree that we wish

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Speaker 3: both of them. Have you ever, Susan, let me ask

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Speaker 3: you something. Have you ever had to let someone go

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Speaker 3: and see if they've come back? You know that old

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Speaker 2: I am the worst at breaking up, absolute world's worst.

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Speaker 2: I feel too bad, you know what I end up doing.

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Speaker 2: It takes like six months. I've already decided it's done,

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Speaker 2: it's over, but I'm still there. Yeah, because I don't

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Speaker 2: like hurting people's feelings. And you know, I'm a mush mush.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I agree with that, but I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: Okay, do I know you have a son in law?

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Speaker 1: Tell me, tell me what that's like.

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Speaker 2: No, of course not. I want to know where your

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Speaker 1: it's just an accident.

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Speaker 2: So, everybody out there, if you have a question for us,

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Speaker 2: Just go to Bachelor nation dot com slash Golden Hour.

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Speaker 2: You may even be featured on one of our podcasts.

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Speaker 1: We would love to hear from you. Okay, So all

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Speaker 1: of you out there in Bachelor Nation, you know that

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Speaker 1: Susan and I are great friends. We take care of

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm in, I'm in? Which one of us is

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Speaker 1: Oh, both of us? I think we think we would

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Speaker 1: I've got like a kiss. I have kiss, I've done

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Speaker 2: In and hang in? You don't pull back?

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Speaker 1: All right, go Kathy? Hey, okay, how about this one?

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Speaker 1: Who is most likely to go skinny dipping in the ocean? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Wait, wait, bless us all.

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Speaker 1: In case anyone tells me to have a good memory here,

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Speaker 1: let's just remember about Susan skinny dipping in the pool

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Speaker 1: at the mansion. So Susan, who's most likely?

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Speaker 2: Every morning, six thirty a m. Nobody was up. It

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Speaker 1: Not me? Never?

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Speaker 2: Why why would you do that?

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Speaker 2: You've got have to go meet them?

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Speaker 1: How many times you and I have talked about this

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Speaker 2: Kathy. That's cat pishing. That's the word cat pishing. That's

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Speaker 2: when they put something up. Well really catfishing is it's

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Speaker 2: If it's a thirty year old picture a twenty year

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Speaker 1: So yeah, just think you're teaching me something every day. Susan, Okay,

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Speaker 1: What's your limit?

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Speaker 2: Too much? I mean, it depends on who I meet,

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Speaker 2: but probably ten.

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Speaker 1: I'd go ten. That's about it, all right, all right?

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Speaker 2: I mean, if that really he was attracted to him

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Speaker 2: and liked him, twelve would be pushing the limits.

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Speaker 1: And Susan, if not, really, if you really really really

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Speaker 1: liked him and it was next door admit it, you'd

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Speaker 1: go thirty.

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Speaker 2: Well, that wouldn't be for a relationship, though, that would

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Speaker 2: be something different. That's what That's what I was reading

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Speaker 2: that time. Yeah, all right. Who would be the first

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Speaker 2: one to hit the dance floor at a wedding?

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Speaker 1: We just did it. We just did it at my

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Speaker 1: son's wedding. We both were the first ones out on

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Speaker 1: the dance floor.

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Speaker 2: It was great, absolutely, and it was so much fun.

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Speaker 1: Okay, who is most likely to buy a round of

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Speaker 1: shots for strangers at a bar?

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Speaker 2: I've done it.

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Speaker 1: I've done it, and you know I'm going to throw

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Speaker 1: back a shot. So okay, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: Right on Joey's Hip to the Final Rose when they

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Speaker 2: passed out those shots, I was like, oh, I gotta

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Speaker 2: do this. Gut be give me yours. You already sipped it.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's nothing wrong with doing a shot. It

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Speaker 1: just makes a day without a shot. It's like a

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Speaker 1: day without sunshine.

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Speaker 2: God. Okay, here's one who would have a vacation fling.

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Speaker 2: What's a fling? Tell me what a fling is? Gath,

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Speaker 2: I think is that a fling?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I'd go for what I'd say that that would

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Speaker 1: could be considered a fling. Would you do it?

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Speaker 2: I don't think, I know, not just once and done.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what if it was a what if it

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Speaker 1: was a two week vacation fling?

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Speaker 2: No, my luck, I would do it. I would fall okay,

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Speaker 2: and then they'd never call me again, and I'd hate myself.

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Speaker 1: You know, my vacation. You know what my luck would be.

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Speaker 1: He'd have lied about where he was from. I'd get

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Speaker 1: home to Austin. He'd be like living down the street

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Speaker 1: torturing me. My god, all right, which one of us

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Speaker 1: we are? We've talked about this, Which one of us

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Speaker 1: would often to split the bill with a man on

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Speaker 1: the first Yeah, we've covered that one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So who would be the first one to sign

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Speaker 2: up for another reality show?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Ding ding ding?

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Speaker 2: We we're already. I mean, we had such an experience

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Speaker 2: being on the Golden Bachchelor. It was so much fun.

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Speaker 2: Like we said before about friendships, about getting to know

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Speaker 2: who we are and being okay.

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Speaker 1: You know and who you know when you think about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know about you, but I didn't think that's

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Speaker 1: what I was going to get out of our friends,

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Speaker 1: out of being on the reality TV show. Who ever

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Speaker 1: thought we knew going in only one woman was going

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Speaker 1: to get the guy. But did you really think that

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Speaker 1: you would build a friendship like we have.

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Speaker 2: I never even thought I went there to fall in love, right.

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately we got into the friend zone. I did make

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Speaker 2: a friend, I mean Gary and I we be friends forever.

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Speaker 2: But no, no, I never gave that a thought.

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Speaker 1: I mean I would sign up for some reality shows.

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Speaker 1: But I think the lessons we learned were so great

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Speaker 1: and the friendship we made were so great it was

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Speaker 1: definitely worth it, okayly, and.

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Speaker 2: Then the message we got to share with everybody about

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Speaker 2: it's never too late to feel good about yourself, to

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Speaker 2: live life again, and.

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Speaker 1: It's never too late to have a fling. All right?

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Speaker 1: The last one who gives better love advice? Who do

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Speaker 1: you think?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I think both of us have something to share,

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Speaker 2: Katie that we can't pick one.

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Speaker 1: I agree. I think we both have lived a lot

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Speaker 1: of life. We've both had great experiences and heartbreaking experiences,

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Speaker 1: and I think that's why we're both able to give advice.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and I'd be happy to share what I know

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Speaker 2: and what I've learned with all of you.

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Speaker 1: I think that's what makes this podcast so great. We

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Speaker 1: can share our thoughts and we're waiting to hear from

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Speaker 1: other people as well to help them with their.

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Speaker 2: Let them give us their thoughts on what we say.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we're missing something right.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I'm missing. I'm waiting for my

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Speaker 1: dms to get full because they're still crickets.

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Speaker 2: So, ladies and gentlemen, thanks so much for joining us.

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Speaker 2: That does it for this episode, and don't forget check

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Speaker 2: us out on Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

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