1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 3: At all at all, So. 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 4: Don't given them. 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 2: Black the mill bu bu boozy. 6 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, listening to show, I don't joy? 7 00:00:49,960 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, Joy, You don't you turn? 8 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 4: You gotta turn. 9 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 3: We got to turn the mouth. Turn you probably got 10 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 3: to turn the mouth, turn out the money. 11 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 4: Look, come. 12 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: Come on, you'll think, huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. 13 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 2: You're listening to the voice, Come on, DIGNI now one 14 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:10,119 Speaker 2: and only Steve. 15 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 7: Harley got a radio show. Here we go today. I 16 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 7: think I have something for a lot of people today, 17 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 7: at least I hope I do. And this is about 18 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 7: on your journey, And this is about something that happens 19 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 7: to us all. I mean, what happens to all of 20 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 7: us from time to time when we get discouraged, What 21 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 7: happens to all of us when we feel like quitting, 22 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 7: What happens to all of us when we have that 23 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 7: turnback moment, What happens to all of us when it 24 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 7: don't seem like it's going to pan out. Because I 25 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 7: want you to understand something that everyone, every single living soul, 26 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 7: has those thoughts about something at some point in their life. 27 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 7: I mean, you know, look, I've oftentimes been discouraged about 28 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 7: things not happening as fast as I like them. All 29 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 7: things don't pan out the way I would like for 30 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 7: them to have panned out. I mean, it's so many 31 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 7: ways to get discouraged. But what my encouragement to you 32 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 7: is when discouragement comes is understand this. It is a 33 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 7: part of the growth process. It is a test. It 34 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 7: is a test of your faith. How bad you want it, 35 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 7: do you really believe? That's all faith is is, simply, 36 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 7: and I've said this how many times. Faith is the 37 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 7: belief in things that you cannot see. So when discouragement comes, 38 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 7: set back comes, it is a test of your faith. 39 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 7: At least it's been that way for me. Now other 40 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 7: people can explain it another way. I'm not other people. 41 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 7: I can only give it to you the way it 42 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 7: has come to me and throughout my life, and man 43 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 7: o man or man discouragement sometimes it's tough to deal 44 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 7: with because it seems at times when you are discouraged 45 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 7: that is so absolute that this means the end, and 46 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 7: if you allow it to set in, it can be 47 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 7: just that the end of you, when merely merely it 48 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 7: was a test, that's all it is. But the majority 49 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 7: of people that I know who are not successful or 50 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 7: who have told me the story of how they gave up, 51 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 7: it was because at a moment of discouragement that they 52 00:04:56,200 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 7: allowed it to set in and it became so engulfing 53 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 7: that it became the reason why you shouldn't finish. And 54 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 7: then they started justifying it with hit the one that 55 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 7: I hate to hear. Well, if it's God's will, excuse me. 56 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 7: If it's God's will that you fail. If it's God's 57 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 7: will that you're not successful. If it's God's will that 58 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 7: you lay down and give up, it's God's will that 59 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 7: you allow yourself to amount to, not to not reach 60 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 7: your potential. That's God's will. That's not the God I know. 61 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 7: That's not the God I served, That's not the God 62 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 7: I've read about. That's not the God I believe in. 63 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 7: I'm sorry. I just my mother always taught me something 64 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 7: that he didn't bring me this far. 65 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: To leave me. I just don't believe that, not for 66 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 2: a second. 67 00:05:55,400 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 7: Now have I convinced myself for some things, yep? Have 68 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 7: I allowed the devil to come into the picture and 69 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 7: paint a different one from it? Yep, yep, I've done 70 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 7: all of that, But you can't blame that on God. Now, 71 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 7: come on, So when discouragement comes, try to look at 72 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 7: it if you can, as a test of your faith, 73 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 7: and you merely have to pass the test. It could 74 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 7: be for a day, a half a day, a few hours, 75 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 7: a week, a few weeks, it don't matter. Don't nobody 76 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 7: know how long the test period is. Your job is 77 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 7: to keep the faith and keep moving. Keep the faith 78 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 7: and keep moving, keep working, keep believing, keep hope alive. 79 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 7: That's your job. If you do that, that's how you 80 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 7: pass the test. It could be over tomorrow, it could 81 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 7: be over in two weeks, it could be over in 82 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 7: a month. 83 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 2: You don't know. 84 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 7: But all you got to do is wake up and 85 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 7: keep the faith and fight the discouraging feel And how 86 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:01,280 Speaker 7: do you do that? 87 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 2: Steve? Now here we go. 88 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 7: This is the part I know about for show because 89 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 7: how many times I've had to fight off discouragement in 90 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 7: order to get to where God wanted me to be. 91 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 7: What do you do when you become discouraged? Well, I 92 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 7: think of the outcome. When I get discouraged about a task, 93 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 7: I think about the outcome. Man, what would it be like, 94 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 7: if I were to complete the task, what would it 95 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 7: be like? 96 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 2: Man? 97 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: What would the outcome be for me if I hung 98 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: loan in there? If I didn't give. 99 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 7: Up, If I imagine, I imagine if I don't quit. 100 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 7: I imagine if I don't give up, what would it 101 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 7: be like? Man, Suppose everything I'm hoping for comes true. 102 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 7: But if I don't quit and give up, that might 103 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 7: just be the case. I start talking to myself like that, 104 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 7: think of what the upside is. What's the upside to 105 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 7: stay in with it? You see, all this is the 106 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 7: same thing. I'm just giving you different ways to look 107 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 7: at it. I'm saying the exact same thing over and over. 108 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 7: But I'm just trying to find the switch that connects 109 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 7: in your mind where you can say, Okay, man, I'm 110 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 7: gonna hang in there. Because if you think of the 111 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 7: outcome and the outcome is appealing to you, if you 112 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 7: imagine what it would be like if you don't give 113 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 7: up or you don't quit, if you think only of 114 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 7: what the upside is to stay in with it, And 115 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 7: then I go, where can this lead to? If I 116 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 7: stay with it, man, and the outcome comes true? What 117 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 7: else could that lead me to? Because I mean, there's 118 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 7: always more to it. So where else could this lead 119 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 7: me to? What are the possibilities? 120 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 4: Man? 121 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 7: What are the limitless possibilities? What could God possibly have 122 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 7: in store for me? If I just hang in there, 123 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 7: if I pass this test of faith? If I just 124 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 7: pass this test, now, it ain't gonna be the only one. 125 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 7: But you gotta get past this one. No, then you 126 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 7: gonna hear the smooth plane. Then it's gonna be another one. 127 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 7: It's gonna be another one. Life ain't nothing but a 128 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 7: series of tests. 129 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: Man. 130 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:24,319 Speaker 7: Man, when you're thinking about giving up, when you're discouraged, 131 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 7: think of the outcome. Imagine what it would be like 132 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 7: if you don't quit, if you don't give up, what's 133 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 7: the upside to staying with it? Where can this all 134 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 7: lead to? What can this get you to? If you 135 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 7: do this and you get to where you think you 136 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 7: want to be? Oh my god, what's after that? What 137 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 7: are the limitless and endless possibilities of holding on to 138 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 7: your faith? 139 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 2: What could really be out there for me? 140 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 8: Man? 141 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 2: If I just pass this test, you gotta talk yourself 142 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:56,959 Speaker 2: into hanging in there. 143 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 144 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your attention please. Today 145 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:14,319 Speaker 7: is a special day. Today is the day that you 146 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 7: have been given a chance, an opportunity to live again, 147 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 7: to thrive again, to get it right, to get it on, 148 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 7: to get it going, to get it cracking, all of that. 149 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 7: It's also special for a number of reasons, but none 150 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 7: bigger than the fact that he has giving you another day, 151 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 7: another opportunity. 152 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 2: Let's take advantage of it. 153 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 7: Steve Varre Mortar Show, Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi 154 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 7: Monica and the legend that is Nephew Tommy. It is 155 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 7: also another reason for a special day. Today is Shirley 156 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,199 Speaker 7: Strawberry's birthday. 157 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: Thank you, Lord, I made it another year. I thank you, guys. 158 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Shay Birthday. 159 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: Thank you guys. 160 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 4: Thanks. 161 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: Yes, Well, I'm going to eat. I'm going to shop. 162 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 9: Yes, my two favorite things in the world. I've noticed 163 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 9: even my friends. Yeah, go out to dinner with my 164 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 9: friends and shop, do a little shopping. Haven't bought myself 165 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 9: anything in a while, So I'm going to do that. 166 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:30,599 Speaker 3: And that's it. 167 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: Am I going to do it for a month or 168 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: for a week or anything, just this one day. 169 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 2: And I'm. 170 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:44,079 Speaker 1: Do you know how old I am? And I'm very 171 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: proud of that. Yes, she failed the need to ask 172 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 1: because he is stupid. 173 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 2: Birthdays. 174 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 10: If we don't know how old people live, how are 175 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 10: we doing that? I mean, it's your birthday. Used to 176 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 10: be as. 177 00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: Happy birthday and enjoy birthday and. 178 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 2: How they are? He knows that it's in the song how. 179 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 1: Stupid are you? That's in the song too? 180 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 10: Are you. 181 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 3: Stupid? 182 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:17,719 Speaker 7: Are you? 183 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: I'm grateful to be here, thank you, I'm grateful. 184 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 9: I'm really grateful, blessed for your birthday. 185 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 3: Girl. 186 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, have some fun today. 187 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 3: So you a cake? 188 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 2: Are you gonna get? 189 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 190 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 9: I'm gonna get a strawberry cake. I was like strawberry 191 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 9: cakes on my birthday and they're good. 192 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 7: And my mother in law makes a strawberry cake that 193 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 7: is great, really delicious, pink cake, peak pink icing. 194 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 1: Yes, it's so good. 195 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 11: Huh. 196 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: I love strawberry cake. Yeah I do, so I have 197 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: one every year. 198 00:12:58,840 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 199 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 7: You make a hell of banana pudding too, But that 200 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 7: what you take eat? You eat a bowl of her 201 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 7: banana pudding. You're finna go to sleep. 202 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 1: Your body, it's just going to shut you down. This 203 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: is a sugar shot sugar, You'm. 204 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 2: Fin to go into a diabetic comen. 205 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 9: Definitely all right, guys coming up at thirty two minutes 206 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 9: after the hour, we got the pastors with a word 207 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 9: right after. 208 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: This gots people. This is Kirk Franklin. 209 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 2: Hey, this is a co what's going on? 210 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: This is your boy Kevin Hart. This is your boy 211 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: Chris Brown. 212 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 10: Boy's a big snoop dog. 213 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 2: This is your boy Sandy Entertainer. And you're listening to 214 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 2: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 215 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 216 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:55,839 Speaker 7: Get into the hun Day Getaway Sales event and get 217 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 7: away with the deal so right, it almost feels wrong 218 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 7: right now. 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Pastor, it 237 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 10: is the birthday today, and we just know that the 238 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 10: congregation wanted to say happy birthday to. 239 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 2: My sister Sheriffy. That's what we wanted to do, pack 240 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 2: or Shirley or as in the Strawberlty. That's right, that's right, 241 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 2: that's right. She has been a long time member here. 242 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, Or, I do believe she's celebrating her twenty fifth 243 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 7: year anniversary as a member of the jack Pot Joint 244 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 7: of Jerusalemen. 245 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 3: Amen. 246 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: Amen again, birth Wheel. 247 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 10: You have to the the the the the the the 248 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 10: the the usher boy the Yeah, the boy wants to 249 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 10: bring the word. They laid it out for you here. 250 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 2: It is past Uh. 251 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 10: This is from the book of Usha uhh uh and 252 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 10: the and and this sermon is supposedly dedicated to sister Charley, 253 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 10: Here we go. 254 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 2: Uh what y'all know about a supermodel? Right there? M hmm, 255 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 2: what do you know about it? 256 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 10: Read fresh out of a magazine, right yeah, fresh auster page, 257 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 10: read by by her own bottle. Look, pip juice, I 258 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 10: keep me wane. 259 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 7: Right there, eighties, Come on here, pat, somebody gotta do 260 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 7: it mighty well. 261 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:13,360 Speaker 2: Be me free, bad than a mother? Stop right there? 262 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:22,160 Speaker 7: Mother is the beginning over one of my favorite words. Read, 263 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 7: I hear you saying, let me hear you play us 264 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 7: when you. 265 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 10: See me here like you know me. I keep a 266 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 10: dollar worth of dimes. You know, pippin ain't easy? 267 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 2: Stop right there? 268 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 7: Ah have often seen um hmmm players, or when you 269 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 7: see me, appreciate. 270 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 3: Like you know me. That's right. 271 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:05,679 Speaker 7: Keep a dollar worth of dimes has been interpreted two ways. 272 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 7: A more modern interpretation was I keep a dollar worth 273 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 7: of dimes. 274 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 2: Dimes. 275 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 7: Being a fine woman has been described sometimes as dimes. 276 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 2: I keep a dollar worth of dimes. That means ten 277 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 2: of them. 278 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 7: All school interpretation was I keep a dollar worth of dimes. 279 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 7: Pay Phones used to be a dime to make a call. Ah, 280 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 7: I kept a pocket full of dimes. 281 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 2: Because pim ain't he's in. Somebody gotta do it, somebody 282 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 2: ain't gotta do it. 283 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 7: And if you ain't got no dimes, hard to be 284 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 7: a pimp. Weren't no cell phones back then. 285 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 2: You need a dollar worth of dime. 286 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 10: Read up for all you chicks in the club who 287 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 10: know how to cut a rust? 288 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 2: Stop right there? 289 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 7: Anybody out here know how to damn read Yeah, if 290 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 7: you a bad girl, get at me, bad girl? 291 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 10: All right here we go past it. Now watch me now, ooh, 292 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 10: work me baby, thinking it, thinking it the way I like. Stop, 293 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 10: I'm ready to be bad. Stop right now. Yeah, ye 294 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:37,159 Speaker 10: were about to bring it up? Yes up, sister, What 295 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 10: the whole thing is that? Get at me? 296 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: I say, get at me? Yes, best preach get at me? Amen, 297 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: they shake it. 298 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,439 Speaker 3: M s. 299 00:19:54,240 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 2: Well what your mama gave you birthday? 300 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 3: Girl? 301 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 2: Over that moment? 302 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 11: Like I like it? 303 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:08,119 Speaker 3: I like this sermon. 304 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 2: Oh what is the last part? 305 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:12,439 Speaker 3: Deacon? 306 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:13,400 Speaker 2: One more time? 307 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 10: Read uh uh and saying, work me baby, taking it 308 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 10: the way I like, I'm gonna start right there. 309 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 12: Work me, work me, put me the task, work me, 310 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 12: make me do. 311 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:38,160 Speaker 7: Something he work me, roll my eyes back in my head, 312 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 7: work me, make me blow slob outside of my mouth. 313 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 2: Work have mean looking for stuff all in the back 314 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 2: of my head. 315 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 7: Work me, got mind, roll back, work me, work me, baby, 316 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 7: who put some work on me? 317 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 2: I like to get work on. I like thats happening 318 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 2: to me, out of control. 319 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 7: I'd like to have my lips quiveredro star and slobbed 320 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 7: and blowing bubbles sometimes. 321 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: Thank you for that word. That word A man, man 322 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 1: a game. I'm showing up next and his ask to 323 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: see alone Harvey in the building right after this. 324 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 2: I can't be mad. 325 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 3: Girl. 326 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 327 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 10: On August sixth, getting ready to laugh all the way 328 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 10: to the bank with The pick Up, the hottest action 329 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 10: movie of the summer coming to Prime Video. Eddie Murphy 330 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 10: stars as an armored truck driver with his rookie partner 331 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 10: Pete Davidson as they are forced into a multi million 332 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 10: dollar heights led by none other than your girl, Keep 333 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 10: Palmer from Tim Story, director of Barb. The Pickup features 334 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 10: an all star cast including Eva Longoria, Marshawn Lynch, and 335 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 10: Andrew Disklay. The Pickup coming to Prime Video August the sixth. 336 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, We'll have 337 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 9: some entertainment news for you. We're gonna recap the weekends 338 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 9: trending topics and the top news stories. 339 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,920 Speaker 1: We have a great show plan for you today, so 340 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: don't worry about that. 341 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 2: We got you. 342 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,360 Speaker 9: That's all coming up at the top of the hour. 343 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 9: But right now it is time to ask the CLO. 344 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 9: Our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. This 345 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 9: is from Sonya. Ready, CLO absolutely, This is from Sonya 346 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 9: and Raleigh. Sonia writes, when I talk on the phone, 347 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,880 Speaker 9: my husband is all up in my conversation and when 348 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:46,119 Speaker 9: I whisper, he gets offended. He had the nerve to 349 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 9: ask me if I was talking about him yesterday, and 350 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:52,200 Speaker 9: I said, yes, yes I was. Why is he so 351 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 9: concerned about what I'm talking about? 352 00:22:55,080 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 7: Well, if you're talking about him, he gonna be concerned. Listen, 353 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 7: just say the first time you've talked about he's overheard 354 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 7: some other stuff. He heard some stuff and when yeah, 355 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 7: is he. 356 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: Just knows he or is he just concerned what she's 357 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 1: talking about? 358 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 7: It now here hustling because he'll find out some stuff. 359 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,640 Speaker 7: He's overheard some stuff he didn't know about his son. 360 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 7: He made me so sick, she said, he. 361 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 2: And all e com said, oh really, it's going down 362 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 2: like that. So yeah, yeah, it's all all right, there's 363 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 2: nothing you can do about it. 364 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,199 Speaker 1: Okay, moving on to friends, You. 365 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 2: Got a cellphone? Walk off? 366 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 9: Okay, yeah, well she said she whispers and stuff. But anyway, 367 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 9: moving on to friends in Jersey City. Friend says, I'm 368 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 9: married and my wife and I have two kids. I 369 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 9: also have a grown daughter from a previous relationship, and 370 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 9: she needs a place to live. My wife doesn't want 371 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 9: her at the house, and it is putting me in 372 00:23:58,600 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 9: an awkward position. 373 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 1: What do I tell my daughter? 374 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 2: Wow, why don't you just help her get a place 375 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 2: to live? Yeah, why don't you get back? 376 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 7: Okay, that's your only solution now if you can't afford 377 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 7: to do that, when you had to go to your wife, 378 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 7: your wife don't want her here because that's another relationship 379 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 7: and she has to be reminded of what you did 380 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 7: in the past, even even if you did it before 381 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 7: you met her, even if this was a relationship before 382 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,040 Speaker 7: you even knew your wife. She just don't want it 383 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 7: up in the house. She may not be comfortable with 384 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 7: the girl. That depends on how old the girl is. 385 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, he didn't say, He just said she 386 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 1: was grown. I have a grown well she grown. 387 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 7: You know, they might not have a good relationship, and 388 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 7: then you can't expect me. You can't put your wife 389 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 7: out like that. Now, I understand you. I've been in 390 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 7: one of them situations similar to that too, where the 391 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 7: grown kid wanted something. 392 00:24:55,480 --> 00:25:00,479 Speaker 2: And my wife didn't. Yeah, the white blowed. 393 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 9: I just want to say that, all right, all right, friends. 394 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 9: Moving on to Evelyn in Savannah. Evelyn says, my boyfriend 395 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 9: and I are celebrating twenty years of dating and his 396 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 9: family is not celebrating with us because they're all so 397 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,439 Speaker 9: called Christians that think we should be married. Why are 398 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 9: they being judgmental and trying to ruin our special celebration 399 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 9: twenty years of dating? 400 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 2: We're so special about it? 401 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, twenty years? 402 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 2: What y'all celebrate? Y'all just stay together for twenty years? 403 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 1: Not marriage, but dat dating? Twenty years of dating? What 404 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: a married? Yeah, that's the question. 405 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,159 Speaker 2: It's you want to go to the movies with me? 406 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 1: That's probably what. 407 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 9: Her family's thinking too, And she thinks they're being judgmental 408 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 9: because they're not married and trying to ruin their celebration. 409 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 7: Listen to me, you had a celebration between the two 410 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 7: of y'all, stop expecting people to feel the way you 411 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 7: feel to say nothing to said, don't make no really, 412 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 7: you know you we've been together twenty years. Why y'all 413 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 7: not married. 414 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 2: By just dating? 415 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 9: Maybe they don't, she didn't say it. Maybe they're not 416 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 9: the marrying kind obviously after twenty Yeah, do. 417 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 10: They let it go? 418 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 1: She didn't say they They've been dating for twenty years. 419 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 9: That's all the information we have, and they want their 420 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 9: family to celebrate and they won't. And she said celebrate 421 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 9: so called Christians celebrate celebrate dating for twenty years. 422 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 2: That's stupid people. 423 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 9: A lot of people can't say that twenty years of shocking. 424 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 9: They didn't say they sacked. 425 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:03,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, twenty years. 426 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 2: Man, you stop expecting people to be happy for you 427 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 2: for what? 428 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 7: Because lady, he has convinced you that what you all 429 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 7: have is great the way it is, Yeah, because you 430 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,680 Speaker 7: all have had this marriage conversation, it's no way you 431 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 7: have it. 432 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 2: And what he's done is he's told you what we 433 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 2: have is great. Why would we mess that up? Oh, 434 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 2: we don't need no piece of paper to define our love. 435 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 7: You've had this conversation twenty years with the person of 436 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 7: dating the subject of marriage has come up more than ten. 437 00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 9: Times twenty years of dating. Wow, that's a lot of dates. 438 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 9: What a lot of days twenty years? 439 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:04,160 Speaker 2: Wow? All right, olive garden right there? 440 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 1: Hey, grand sticks unlimited after twenty years? Yeah, all right, 441 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: last one. 442 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 3: Steve H. 443 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 9: Mackenzie in Beaumont writes, I had a wild night recently 444 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,040 Speaker 9: and had sex in the bathroom of a club with 445 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 9: a random guy. I ran into him the other day 446 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 9: and he was happy to see me, but I barely 447 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 9: remembered him. He asked me to go out. Does he 448 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 9: want a date or just sex? Well, come on, carve 449 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 9: both both? 450 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 1: Would you wrap. 451 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 10: Well? 452 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 2: Of course he wants, of course. 453 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, in the bathroom at a club. 454 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 2: That's when it's good though. 455 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 1: Hang on, did you say anything out of your mouth? 456 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 3: No filtering, no idea. 457 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 2: I'm talking about it. 458 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 10: I'm talking about way everything, everything in the auto, many 459 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 10: everything going off, the tilet flushing back, I said, man, 460 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 10: paper running out of that machine, the water coming on 461 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 10: on the foxyboy, there's a lot happening up in there. 462 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 1: KD too much. 463 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 9: The bathroom attended is in the air with peppermans. 464 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 2: So what do you think? 465 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: Steve says he wants a date. 466 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 2: We want to have sex? 467 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 3: What what? 468 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 2: What's what y'all ain't got y'all ain't got no memories. 469 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: Right, they haven't been together twenty years. You don't even 470 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 1: know your last name? 471 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 3: Right? 472 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 2: Or yeah? 473 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 7: Right? 474 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 475 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:59,600 Speaker 9: She barely remembered him when he when she's ran into him, 476 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 9: he remembered her. 477 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 478 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: Well, hey, watch college. 479 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 7: Wow, we can go out again. We ain't get in 480 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 7: no room, all these bathroom and I know you ain't 481 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 7: expecting me to hold no doors and all this. 482 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 2: Look and be quiet. 483 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 484 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 9: some entertainment news for you right after this. 485 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 1: You're listening Hardy Morning show. 486 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 9: Well, guys, for the first time in history, in the 487 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 9: history of reality shows, we saw a mother, Jackie Christie, 488 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 9: swing on her daughter on camera. This was on last 489 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 9: week's episode of Basketball Wives. I don't know if you 490 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 9: guys saw this. 491 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 1: There's been a. 492 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 9: Very shaky relationship between Jackie Christy and her children. Jackie 493 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 9: is a wife of legendary NBA player Doug Christie. Jackie 494 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 9: and Doug's daughter, Chantelle is on the show now and 495 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 9: Chantelle's main storyline is trying to make amends with her 496 00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 9: Mom Jackie. The relationship between Jackie and Chantell went from 497 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 9: heated to explosive and turned into a physical altercation in 498 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 9: a hotel room in Hawaii. We could see Chantelle push 499 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,440 Speaker 9: Jackie off of her, and then Jackie lunged at her 500 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 9: daughter with closed fists and it looks like she punched Chantell. 501 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 9: Security came in then and pulled the ladies apart. Afterwards, 502 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 9: Jackie called her husband to tell him what happened. And 503 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 9: of course we'll have to tune in to Basketball Wives. 504 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 9: Their season finale is tonight to see how it ends. 505 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 1: I saw mom. Yeah, Chantell had a broken nail. Yeah, 506 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 1: more than daughter. 507 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 508 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, they've had a really I know, a whole. 509 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 2: Lot of black men left taste out there teas mouth. 510 00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: I'm on camera, off camera in front of people. 511 00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,480 Speaker 8: Out in the grocery store at leash kard wish there 512 00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 8: was one wait what happened? But at least Carroll hit me, 513 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:05,920 Speaker 8: y'all did y'all wouldn't y'all. 514 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 2: Be come to my rescue? 515 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 1: There was no outrage, That wasn't nothing. Who was in 516 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: the grocery store? But you need to get out of 517 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: the show. 518 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 13: The check out line number three should have did something. 519 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 13: She didn't even take that hit, that's all she did. 520 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 1: Quit the scanning and jump of her. 521 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 2: Help me, help you see me? 522 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a lot. 523 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 5: It was. 524 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,640 Speaker 1: It was a lot to see them going at it 525 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 1: like that all. You know, for that amount of time, 526 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,200 Speaker 1: you need to get off reality TV if you and 527 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 1: your child are on camera. 528 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 2: Low. 529 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was too much for the family. It really 530 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 1: is too much. And Jackie has been on the show 531 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 1: for a long time and her daughter just came on 532 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 1: this season. 533 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 534 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 7: I just have a problem with people disrespecting their brothers. 535 00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 7: I just have a problem with that. 536 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,959 Speaker 2: I mean, you know, mad Yeah, a mother. Look, mothers 537 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 2: aren't perfect people. I get that. 538 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 7: I get that, but there's a certain amount of grace 539 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 7: that they should be given. Yeah, because they gave you life. 540 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 7: They gave you life, and a lot of these kids 541 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:23,000 Speaker 7: don't even really realize it's sacrifices that their mothers have 542 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 7: made for them to even be in a position to 543 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 7: be they that they in. 544 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 1: They forget all of that, and that's part of it, Steve. 545 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 9: With these two ladies, the daughter is complaining that the 546 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 9: mother hasn't been there for her, you know, since childhood 547 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 9: and all that so she's bitter about that. She's hurt 548 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,520 Speaker 9: because of that, and it's playing out on camera now. 549 00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 9: She came on the show and it just exploded. You know, 550 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 9: we didn't even know all of this. 551 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 2: It's gonna take a lot to fiction. It's gonna take 552 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 2: a lot to Steve. 553 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 554 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 2: They swinging on your mam and your mama swinging on you. 555 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 9: It's bad enough with they fight amongst themselves, the women, 556 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 9: and now you've got families going at it. 557 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 1: Well anyway, Yeah, I. 558 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 13: Just feel like there's way too much thought. 559 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:09,200 Speaker 2: I think we are. 560 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 1: That's thought tonight. 561 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 2: When she hit me, y'all didn't do nothing. 562 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 8: I was looking at the name tag it said Cheryl, 563 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 8: and I was looking at Snickers the next moment. 564 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,399 Speaker 2: It was quick. 565 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: It was so fast, y'all. 566 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 13: So I cannot understand. 567 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 2: I can't anyth get it to me. 568 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 1: All Right, we're gonna move on. 569 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,719 Speaker 9: Despite Tyler Perry being a billionaire, we all know he is, 570 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 9: he opened up about firing his aunt that wasn't taking 571 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 9: her job seriously. Tyler did an interview with Kirk Franklin 572 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 9: uh and when talking about working with family, Tyler said 573 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 9: his aunt would always call asking him for money, so 574 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,279 Speaker 9: he offered her a job and she took it, but 575 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 9: she didn't take the job seriously, Tyler said, quote, she 576 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 9: wouldn't come to work. So I'm like, okay, well you 577 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 9: got to go. You want me to hand you the money, 578 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 9: but you don't want to work for it. See that 579 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 9: doesn't work for me. So Steve, you agree with that? 580 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 9: How Tyler hands on situation with his aunt Tommy get 581 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,000 Speaker 9: along with family? 582 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 2: No, it's I mean, it's just one hundred percent, y'all. 583 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 2: It's people. 584 00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 7: People are because you have money that you should just 585 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:24,320 Speaker 7: give it to them with no forethought to what it 586 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:25,879 Speaker 7: took for him to have the money. 587 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:30,359 Speaker 2: Tyler go to work all the time. Yeah, Tyler at work, 588 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:30,839 Speaker 2: he busy. 589 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 14: Now you. 590 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,359 Speaker 7: Want some money, He give you a chance to take 591 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 7: care stuff. Now you don't want to do that? 592 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:40,839 Speaker 2: Bye? 593 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's what happened. Yeah, it was a really 594 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 1: good episode. 595 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:50,279 Speaker 2: I fired a relative before closer than an aunt too. 596 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 1: Mean he hired you. 597 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 2: Back in the close? 598 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 1: Halla, what about today? 599 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 9: La? 600 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:13,439 Speaker 2: Finally he used to miss a lot of Mondays though, Yeah, 601 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 2: still does. Yeah. Finally. 602 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 9: Chelsea Smallett is back in the news because there's an 603 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,360 Speaker 9: upcoming documentary that will uncover the facts and his legal 604 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 9: battles surrounding his claims that he was the victim of 605 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 9: a racist and homophobic attack in Chicago. The documentary is 606 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,760 Speaker 9: called The Truth About Jesse Smalllette. It airs on August 607 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 9: twenty second on Netflix. It will feature interviews with police, lawyers, journalists, 608 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 9: investigators who all claim to have uncovered new evidence about 609 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:44,720 Speaker 9: the case. 610 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 1: Will you be watching this question that I'm gonna watch this? 611 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:56,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 612 00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 7: Who about that rope clock in the morning? You out 613 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 7: walking famously to get a sandwich? 614 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, think about old dinas one. 615 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:05,920 Speaker 13: Y'all need to watch it. 616 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,959 Speaker 9: It's gonna all be in the In the documentary coming 617 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 9: up August twenty second on Netflix Now coming up at 618 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 9: twenty minutes after the hour surprise, Junior has a poem 619 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,399 Speaker 9: for us. We'll talk about it right after this. You're 620 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,959 Speaker 9: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 621 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 8: If you're a homeowner, you know it took years of saving, 622 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,919 Speaker 8: planning and hard work to get in the door. 623 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,840 Speaker 2: Then make that house a home. Now, all that effort 624 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 2: has built something hugely valuable. 625 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 8: Equity is the portion of your home you truly own 626 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,799 Speaker 8: that can be tapped to fund what's next. And rocket 627 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,280 Speaker 8: Mortgage is here to help you turn your home's equity 628 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,799 Speaker 8: into cash. Fund your next dream with Rocket Mortgage. Visit 629 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,919 Speaker 8: Rocket Mortgage dot com today to find out more. 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You know, you know what the day is. 638 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 13: You know we're celebrating the day, Surety Strawberry birthday, Strawberry. 639 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,040 Speaker 2: Let me tell something, Shirley put a lot of thought 640 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:19,320 Speaker 2: on this. 641 00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:21,840 Speaker 13: I had to write your poem because your birthday. 642 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:22,920 Speaker 2: I thank you. 643 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 1: I appreciate that you're so welcome. 644 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,560 Speaker 13: And the name of the poem heavy birthday, Shirley. 645 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:33,760 Speaker 1: That's what right there? Deep brilliant, that's brilliant. 646 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:34,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, got it? 647 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 13: So here it goes. 648 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,839 Speaker 8: Everyone braces yourself because I have something to say. 649 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 3: I wrote this. 650 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 13: Poem for a special birthday. 651 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,960 Speaker 8: Even though she joked about my hairline, she still is 652 00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:53,839 Speaker 8: a special friend of mine. I'm not going to joke 653 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:58,319 Speaker 8: about her cooking or her big ass because she always fly. 654 00:38:58,920 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 13: I ain't gonna lie. 655 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 8: She's always correct and how we talk for show. But 656 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,960 Speaker 8: we love her more than you'll ever know. Steve Harvey Nation, 657 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 8: we are celebrating Shirley Strawberry today, and Shirley, we hope 658 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:14,880 Speaker 8: you have a great birthday. 659 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:16,400 Speaker 13: Hat birthday, Shirley. 660 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 10: The end. 661 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:17,640 Speaker 13: That's it. 662 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 2: Last night till one morning, for that commercial break, I 663 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:30,320 Speaker 2: think about it. 664 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 13: I didn't know if I want to say nothing about 665 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 13: her eyes, her cooking. 666 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: You talk about that all night, ye worry about it. 667 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 1: But they both true, though, So this is what it 668 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 1: sounds like when you put a lot of thought into it. 669 00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:42,879 Speaker 2: This point. 670 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:44,880 Speaker 8: Sureley, you should have saw I saw that clock here, 671 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 8: won I said, I spent too much time on Shirley. 672 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,480 Speaker 13: This is one o'clock in the morning, way too much time. 673 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,640 Speaker 13: But you special to me, Shirley. 674 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 2: I love you so much. 675 00:39:55,000 --> 00:40:00,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, that's what he said, because normally time talking about Yeah, 676 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,920 Speaker 9: I could have wrote I could have wrote that during 677 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:03,760 Speaker 9: a song. 678 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:05,640 Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's hear your counter. 679 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:07,319 Speaker 2: Come on commercial break. 680 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 7: Junior's still doing poems after mine. I thought we was done. 681 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 7: Now look up, and he got another poem. Where is 682 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:16,200 Speaker 7: all this coming from? 683 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:17,840 Speaker 2: I wish he's stopping. 684 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 7: Take his time to do with something else. Stop writing 685 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:25,359 Speaker 7: all these ignorant poems. Keep some of this to your self. 686 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 7: I get tired of making up stuff and doing it 687 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 7: all on the fly. I just can't figure out why 688 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,319 Speaker 7: you keep doing it. Come on, Junior, tell us why 689 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,359 Speaker 7: you keep coming up with poems about stuff you don't 690 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 7: know a thing about. The Next thing we know, he'll 691 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,239 Speaker 7: come another ignorant one flying out your mouth. 692 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 1: Being and really Jr. Thank you for using your deep voice. 693 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. 694 00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:58,799 Speaker 2: Oh he shut that down. 695 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,799 Speaker 13: Takes my copy to make sure my confidence they really love. 696 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 1: I loved your poem. 697 00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,000 Speaker 2: Your confidence need to be right there with your poem. 698 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 2: Skill writing all right. 699 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,839 Speaker 9: Coming up next, we'll hear from the one and only 700 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 9: Sister Odell. Right after this, you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 701 00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,719 Speaker 9: All right, as promised, ladies and gentlemen, she is here, 702 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 9: Sister Odell. 703 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 2: Well, for the first time, I'm not gonna sing. 704 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,960 Speaker 7: I'm just gonna get started because I've discovered that my 705 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,319 Speaker 7: sigma is so showing that I just wanted to get 706 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,520 Speaker 7: on in and have something to say. Good morning is 707 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 7: everyone's well, Good morning morning, Hi babies. 708 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 2: What's going on? Well, go ahead, what what you need? 709 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:51,400 Speaker 9: Well, sister Odell, I'll just jump right in. Have you 710 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 9: seen the new Media movie on Netflix? It was the 711 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 9: number one movie? Yeah, Media. 712 00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 2: She wouldn't even tell me she was doing another. 713 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,200 Speaker 1: Because that's your girl, right maybe. 714 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, she had what was the name of him? 715 00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 1: Medea? Is it Homecoming? 716 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 10: No? 717 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:14,319 Speaker 1: No, wedding, the wedding you've seen of it? Yeah, when 718 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,759 Speaker 1: you asked me, I forgot. I drew a blank real quick. 719 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,440 Speaker 2: But what if you ask me for I ain't all blank? 720 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:20,719 Speaker 2: I know what I didn't seen it? 721 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:25,279 Speaker 1: That wedding behind us? Yeah, destination wedding. Yeah yeah, oh 722 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 1: in the. 723 00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 2: Medea went to the Bahamas. 724 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 1: Yes, yes she did. 725 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,319 Speaker 2: Uh huh, she don't. She don't like to fly though, 726 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:35,120 Speaker 2: I didn't want to. 727 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:36,640 Speaker 9: Go. 728 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 7: Well she was there, yeah, yeah, Well you ain't got 729 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 7: to fly to the Mater, sweetie. 730 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,360 Speaker 2: You could drive down to Miami and then take a 731 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:46,879 Speaker 2: boat over. 732 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,480 Speaker 1: You're right, you are correct system there. 733 00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 7: You're don't have to know some white people though, and 734 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:55,520 Speaker 7: that's probably where why is that? Ain't been a lot 735 00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,320 Speaker 7: of white people into Medilla movies. 736 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 9: There was something in this one though, and it was 737 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,440 Speaker 9: number one, so you probably should congratulate her. 738 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, she know what she's doing now. She found that 739 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,320 Speaker 7: niche and get right on up in there, just jammed 740 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 7: up in there. 741 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,800 Speaker 15: Yes, Carly, Well, I know we're talking about media, and 742 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,279 Speaker 15: I know that's your girl, but I just wanted to 743 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,920 Speaker 15: wanted to take some time out to let you know. 744 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 15: Today is your girl, Shirley Strawberry's birthday is Yeah, yes, ma'am. 745 00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:33,320 Speaker 7: Well happy birthday, Shelley. You know what what is you 746 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 7: gonna be doing today? I see you got your strawberry 747 00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:36,960 Speaker 7: glasses on? 748 00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am. Well, you know I'm not gonna be doing 749 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:42,160 Speaker 1: a lot. I just got back from Uh. 750 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 2: Is you going on a gages? You got a new 751 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 2: man yet? 752 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:47,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? 753 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,400 Speaker 9: I have, I have a I have a friend that 754 00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:54,640 Speaker 9: I am talking to. Yeah, I do nicea. Yeah, we're 755 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,120 Speaker 9: just at the friends stage now. 756 00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. Really, what do you want for a movie? 757 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:00,680 Speaker 10: What do you do? 758 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 1: Actually? 759 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:05,759 Speaker 9: It's cister Odelle. You're gonna be surprised about this. He's retired. 760 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:11,239 Speaker 2: Why would I be surprised about that? He retired? You 761 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 2: ain't no cougar, not anymore. 762 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 10: Girl. 763 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 2: I gotta worry about that no more. Get you a 764 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:24,120 Speaker 2: nash grown man. 765 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,120 Speaker 1: What he retired from the military. 766 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:35,239 Speaker 9: You know what, No, sister Hotel. No, he was in 767 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 9: the industry, in the movie industry, in the television industry. 768 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:42,759 Speaker 2: He was Oh, who is the Sherman Ham? 769 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:44,479 Speaker 4: He's dead. 770 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:46,840 Speaker 1: I's wrong with you. 771 00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:48,880 Speaker 3: I'm just trying to. 772 00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 2: Su guess who who I knowing the teenage industry. That 773 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,080 Speaker 2: ain't an the more mod that you're seeing, Bill calls me. 774 00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:59,359 Speaker 1: No, got just trying to think. 775 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,440 Speaker 2: Everybody nothing retire. 776 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:05,920 Speaker 1: Y'all Morgan. You know that's how boom Morgan. 777 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:07,480 Speaker 3: And he's still in it. 778 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 7: Thought, girl, you ain't You ain't landing lawn, fishburners. 779 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:13,840 Speaker 3: Working. 780 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:15,840 Speaker 2: Tired. 781 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not retired. 782 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,760 Speaker 2: He was in front of the camera person or behind 783 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:21,280 Speaker 2: the scenes. 784 00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 1: He was behind the camera. 785 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:25,879 Speaker 2: Okay, we ain't gonna know him? 786 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:30,799 Speaker 1: There are you out? You out? Nice track? 787 00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 9: Meet nice try. I've been knowing him for a long time. 788 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,839 Speaker 9: He's a friend of a friend. I've been knowing him 789 00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:37,719 Speaker 9: for a real long time. 790 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 7: I asked you, where'd you meet him? Max, sweetie, that's 791 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:41,560 Speaker 7: not answering the question. 792 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,239 Speaker 3: Nice well, when you know him? 793 00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 2: No, I'm being nice. Well, when you know him for 794 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,440 Speaker 2: a long time, When did you first know him? 795 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:48,880 Speaker 10: Oh? 796 00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:49,839 Speaker 1: Look at the time. 797 00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:50,480 Speaker 2: We gotta go. 798 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,520 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Sister delf Wall. 799 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:53,880 Speaker 2: When did you know the man. 800 00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:57,280 Speaker 1: Thank you for my birthday? 801 00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 4: Wish? 802 00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:58,799 Speaker 1: I appreciate it so well. 803 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:00,719 Speaker 2: I just keep on said, who it is? 804 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 3: You never know? 805 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 1: No, you're not coming up next to Dy. 806 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,759 Speaker 9: The nephew and today's prank phone coming up right after this. 807 00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:24,360 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up 808 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,239 Speaker 9: at about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry 809 00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:32,160 Speaker 9: letter for today and the subject is my ungrateful young employee, 810 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:38,320 Speaker 9: my young my ungrateful young employee. Yeah, we'll get into it, 811 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,839 Speaker 9: find out what that's all about in just a few 812 00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,560 Speaker 9: because right now the nephew is here for today's prank 813 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 9: phone call. What you got for his neph We hit 814 00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,080 Speaker 9: it to the church, y'all. We got to get down 815 00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:50,600 Speaker 9: here and get this prank taking care of. We hit 816 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:52,759 Speaker 9: it down there to the church. You see the people 817 00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 9: that do the sign language at the church. 818 00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:55,200 Speaker 14: Uh huh. 819 00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,879 Speaker 7: Yes, you have a wonder they really getting it right 820 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,520 Speaker 7: or they really following the same words. 821 00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 2: You know, the title of this prank is can you 822 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:03,960 Speaker 2: hear me? 823 00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 10: Now? 824 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:08,680 Speaker 2: You have decided to do now? 825 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,759 Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we called a lady that do the sign. 826 00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,319 Speaker 10: That's what we're doing. We were from the were from 827 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 10: the prank. 828 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,839 Speaker 2: Huh. I don't have to know me now, yeah, can 829 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:18,480 Speaker 2: you hear me nowing? 830 00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:23,879 Speaker 10: Okay, let's go cat dog. Hello, I'm trying to speak 831 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:28,239 Speaker 10: to sister Lauren. Please, my sister Lauren. This is brother 832 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 10: David from the church. I don't know if you know me. 833 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:31,920 Speaker 10: You might know me when you see me, but I 834 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:33,439 Speaker 10: don't know if you just know me because we don't 835 00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,200 Speaker 10: really interact that much at the church. But I wanted 836 00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:37,800 Speaker 10: to give you a call. We got a bit of 837 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 10: a problem going on. Okay, you got you get Do 838 00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:41,680 Speaker 10: you have a minute to talk? 839 00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:44,000 Speaker 2: All right? 840 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:44,319 Speaker 3: Now? 841 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 2: How long have you been doing the uh the sign? 842 00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 10: You in the you know you in the ministry when 843 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,920 Speaker 10: you do the sign language for the church, and you 844 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,200 Speaker 10: know I noticed you up there at least two Sundays 845 00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,239 Speaker 10: out of a out of the month. 846 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,279 Speaker 2: You've been doing it quite a while, all right. 847 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:02,919 Speaker 11: So yes, I've been doing this for over ten years. 848 00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:07,240 Speaker 11: But I'm a little confused as to why you're calling 849 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,880 Speaker 11: about this time. I'm just a little to confused. I 850 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,840 Speaker 11: don't know who you are. You say that if I 851 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:14,560 Speaker 11: see your face. I may know you, but I what 852 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 11: what does this have to do with anything? Is how 853 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 11: long I have been doing sig language? I know I've 854 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 11: been doing it for years? So how may I help 855 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 11: you with this? Do you want? 856 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 2: Okay? So no, no, I'm not trying to learn any 857 00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:28,320 Speaker 2: sign lang. Do you do? 858 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 10: You know? 859 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 2: Miss everybody call him miss Murder? Do you know Miss Murdle? 860 00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:32,200 Speaker 7: Yeah? 861 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,440 Speaker 2: I sure do, mm hm okay, So Miss Murder. 862 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 10: That's that's that's that's that's one of my aunties right there. 863 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 10: Ms murderers. 864 00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,840 Speaker 11: Okay, And she gave you my number to call me. 865 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 11: I'm what what do you need for me? 866 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:46,360 Speaker 1: Did she get me? 867 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 13: No? 868 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,320 Speaker 10: That's what I'm getting at. So, so you know, you 869 00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 10: know my you know, my honest is death. You know 870 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:52,719 Speaker 10: she's hearing any pay you know that right? 871 00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:53,400 Speaker 3: Okay? 872 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 14: Yes, okay. 873 00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 2: So so here's a problem. 874 00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,640 Speaker 10: I ain't Murderer is telling us that you not doing 875 00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:04,480 Speaker 10: the sign language right, doing the service and like you're 876 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 10: missing some things in the scripture. 877 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:06,840 Speaker 1: Or something. 878 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,000 Speaker 11: That's incorrect. I've been doing this for a very long 879 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 11: time and I know what I'm doing. So how you 880 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:16,800 Speaker 11: so she told you for me to tell me that 881 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,440 Speaker 11: I'm not doing this outline correctly. 882 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,839 Speaker 2: That's what let me say. 883 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:22,680 Speaker 10: Let me say this to you. I don't want us 884 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 10: to get off on the wrong for Let me just 885 00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,319 Speaker 10: say this to you. Once my once my murder told 886 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,960 Speaker 10: us what was going on. You know. We then went 887 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,640 Speaker 10: to one of the deacons and asked him, you know, 888 00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,840 Speaker 10: is that way we can uh have a meeting, you know, 889 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:36,719 Speaker 10: with with with Sister Laurence so we can try to 890 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,359 Speaker 10: get this taken care of and talk about it. He said, well, 891 00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,680 Speaker 10: won't you just won't you just call and y'all can 892 00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,920 Speaker 10: just work it out. And and that's how I'm calling 893 00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:47,120 Speaker 10: you now. I hope you I don't know if you're 894 00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 10: at work or whatever. I apologize, but I'm just trying 895 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:49,960 Speaker 10: to get to the bottom up. 896 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 2: Now, let me go and say this. If I ain't. 897 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:56,680 Speaker 10: Murders say that you ain't signing right, then MI AINTI 898 00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 10: ain't lying. That means your excuse me, that means you 899 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:00,799 Speaker 10: ain't signing right. 900 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,360 Speaker 11: Really, so the pastor couldn't come to me, but he 901 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,040 Speaker 11: but you figured you would just call me and tell 902 00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:11,440 Speaker 11: me that your auntie says that I'm doing incorrectly. That 903 00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:13,200 Speaker 11: doesn't make sense to me. How does she tell you 904 00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:14,640 Speaker 11: that did she sign it to you? 905 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,640 Speaker 10: She signed language to her daughter. Listen, you ain't got 906 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 10: to worry about who she's signing too. What you need 907 00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:24,320 Speaker 10: to worry about is getting your getting your stuff together 908 00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:26,880 Speaker 10: all right, and learning how to do this the correct 909 00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 10: way so that my Aintie can get You know, Miainti 910 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 10: needs to be getting the word like everybody else getting 911 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,840 Speaker 10: the word, but she not getting it because you the 912 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 10: word is getting lost in your hands. 913 00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,879 Speaker 11: All I'm hearing is your voice is getting very loud 914 00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,600 Speaker 11: and you need to match my tone. Young man. Okay, 915 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:47,959 Speaker 11: let's start with that. What I mean, where's that match 916 00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:51,200 Speaker 11: my tone? Because you're getting very loud and I can't 917 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 11: hear through all of that. All right, Okay, okay, I 918 00:50:55,800 --> 00:51:00,120 Speaker 11: this situation you called my phone? Correct. You have the 919 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 11: problem that you're discusting with me, but you're getting more 920 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,760 Speaker 11: angry than anything else. How am I going to resolve 921 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,120 Speaker 11: this problem? I am trying to be a course. 922 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:10,120 Speaker 10: The where you resolved this problem is carryos back to 923 00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,120 Speaker 10: science school so you can learn what you need to 924 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:14,680 Speaker 10: so my Anie can get the word. Mine Ainty can't 925 00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,279 Speaker 10: get the gospel because you messing it up. 926 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,560 Speaker 11: God anointed me to do style language at that church, 927 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 11: and I've been doing it for a long time and 928 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,239 Speaker 11: I will continue to do so. So don't call my 929 00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,600 Speaker 11: phone telling me that I'm not doing something right? 930 00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:29,040 Speaker 3: You know? 931 00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,000 Speaker 2: But do God know that you not doing it right? 932 00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:35,839 Speaker 2: Do God know that? Does God know that my ain't 933 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:37,880 Speaker 2: myrtle not getting the work because of you? 934 00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:38,759 Speaker 3: Name? 935 00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:39,520 Speaker 14: Young man? 936 00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 11: Jesus, Please give me the strength to continue on with 937 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:46,080 Speaker 11: this conversation. But you know what, Lord, I'm gonna be 938 00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 11: right back. Let me tell you something. Don't you ever 939 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:53,640 Speaker 11: call my mother freaking phone telling about I ain't doing something. 940 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:54,319 Speaker 7: Man? 941 00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,400 Speaker 11: If I see you in this tree, this can't I have. 942 00:51:56,480 --> 00:52:00,600 Speaker 11: It's gonna go outside your God? Did I make my Claire? 943 00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,360 Speaker 2: I cannot believe you talking to me like this. 944 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,000 Speaker 14: Oh now you want to be calm? Now you're calm. 945 00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 11: Now you match my tone? I engaged. 946 00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,560 Speaker 2: I can't believe you just got you talking to me 947 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:10,960 Speaker 2: like that. 948 00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:12,160 Speaker 11: Are done here? 949 00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,520 Speaker 10: So you think it's cool for you to tell the Lord? 950 00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 10: I'll be right back. Thank you, Lord. 951 00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:18,919 Speaker 2: I needed a moment. 952 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,359 Speaker 14: You we've been on the phone this wall. 953 00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,640 Speaker 11: You've been stealing at me. I told you to match 954 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,480 Speaker 11: my tone. Match my tone. 955 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:30,719 Speaker 2: I am matching your tone. No, can I say? 956 00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:31,120 Speaker 10: Can I? 957 00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,080 Speaker 2: Can I give you something else in this tone? Do 958 00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:36,960 Speaker 2: you mind? If I say something in this tone, You're. 959 00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:39,040 Speaker 11: Gonna hear a click and the dog real quick, go ahead. 960 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:42,400 Speaker 10: I just want to tell you in this tone that 961 00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:46,279 Speaker 10: your friend Vonda Taylor got me to prank phone call you. 962 00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,560 Speaker 10: I am nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 963 00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:59,560 Speaker 14: In your tone, have mercy, Bonda, Bonda Taylor, Bonda Taylor, 964 00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:02,399 Speaker 14: tell me you bet I put this on the radio, 965 00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:05,200 Speaker 14: on the radio. 966 00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:08,839 Speaker 11: In Jesus name, Amen. 967 00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 3: Radio. 968 00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:12,600 Speaker 11: I'm not playing in the game time you. I think 969 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,480 Speaker 11: it's funny, but it this is my job here. 970 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,040 Speaker 2: Listen, everything is fine. 971 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,359 Speaker 11: You haven't known me. I have to tell Jesus give 972 00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 11: me a minute, because you was about to be my 973 00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:25,680 Speaker 11: pressure up. Lord, have mercy. I don't even want to 974 00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:27,560 Speaker 11: hear this, but I will be calling Bonda because I 975 00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:31,759 Speaker 11: have some mercy. Oh Lord, Lord, Lord Father, please forgive me. 976 00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,759 Speaker 10: Look, you gotta you gotta do this for me in 977 00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:39,160 Speaker 10: my tone, in my tone, tell me in your tone, 978 00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,720 Speaker 10: what is the baddest radio show in the land? 979 00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,280 Speaker 1: In your tone, see. 980 00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 14: In my tone, that's how you do it. 981 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 10: That's how you started. That's that's see, that's that's what 982 00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:59,440 Speaker 10: people won't Monday morning. They won't stupid like that. I 983 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:04,600 Speaker 10: don't share sign language lank. 984 00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,279 Speaker 2: Happy birthday. Share. That's how you do it, right you? 985 00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:11,759 Speaker 3: Who else? 986 00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:13,279 Speaker 2: Who should I prank? At the church? 987 00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,200 Speaker 7: We got the sign language? Lady, she got the way 988 00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,760 Speaker 7: past and done. Some don't call who's she dating? 989 00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 13: Prank? 990 00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,520 Speaker 2: Who's she dating? He said? 991 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:21,360 Speaker 1: At the church? 992 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:21,759 Speaker 3: Church? 993 00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:23,160 Speaker 1: He said at the church. 994 00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:25,239 Speaker 2: He don't go to church. 995 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:34,960 Speaker 10: This ain't gonna last talking or not talking. See, that's 996 00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,120 Speaker 10: how you get information. You just throw out stuff. 997 00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:42,000 Speaker 1: Also, he don't go to church, right exactly? No comment 998 00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:48,000 Speaker 1: from me? Right, Yes, I know I won't be able 999 00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:48,399 Speaker 1: to lie. 1000 00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:50,560 Speaker 2: I lie for you. 1001 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:51,480 Speaker 1: What you want me to say? 1002 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:59,320 Speaker 10: I don't prank the praise dancers. I don't prank the musicians, 1003 00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:01,480 Speaker 10: frank the park show you. 1004 00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:02,200 Speaker 2: This is how you do it. 1005 00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:04,320 Speaker 7: Excuse me, Toms, Sure, this is how you do it. 1006 00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,880 Speaker 7: This is how you lie about who you date. Cala 1007 00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:08,160 Speaker 7: asked me a serious a question. 1008 00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:14,640 Speaker 1: Where'd you meet your new friend that yesterday? You met 1009 00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:15,879 Speaker 1: her yesterday? 1010 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? Where at the grocery store? 1011 00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,600 Speaker 1: At the line. No, I don't go to the grocery store. 1012 00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:26,919 Speaker 1: So where what section in the grocery store? 1013 00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:27,960 Speaker 11: Meet? 1014 00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,760 Speaker 2: I had just gone out to produce sections. 1015 00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:42,719 Speaker 9: Coming up next strawberry letter subject to my ungrateful young employee. 1016 00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,400 Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after. 1017 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:47,719 Speaker 10: This on August sixth, Get ready to laugh all the 1018 00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:50,520 Speaker 10: way to the bank with The Pickup, the hottest action 1019 00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,400 Speaker 10: movie of the summer, coming to Prime Video. 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Subject my ungrateful young employee. Dear Stephen Shirley. 1046 00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 9: I'm a relatively successful entrepreneur and I have had a 1047 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,000 Speaker 9: lot of help along the way. I believe in returning 1048 00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:36,440 Speaker 9: the favor and helping other minorities advance any way I can. 1049 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 9: To that end, About a year ago, I hired a 1050 00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:42,280 Speaker 9: twenty six year old black female that graduated at the 1051 00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:44,720 Speaker 9: top of her class. I set her up with an 1052 00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 9: excellent starting salary and her own office. I noticed she 1053 00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,280 Speaker 9: was not much of a team player and worked better alone, 1054 00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,560 Speaker 9: and that was fine with me because she was very 1055 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:57,400 Speaker 9: smart and didn't need a lot of directions at times. 1056 00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:58,120 Speaker 1: I noticed that. 1057 00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 9: She lacks the emotional intelligence that is required in business, 1058 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,240 Speaker 9: and it was hard for her to keep her game 1059 00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:09,720 Speaker 9: face on when she got flustered. Despite that, she's one 1060 00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:12,400 Speaker 9: of my best employees, so I added her to a 1061 00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:16,720 Speaker 9: global teams meeting that we have had weekly. I've impressed 1062 00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:19,560 Speaker 9: with how much she's advanced in one year, and so 1063 00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 9: is the team. On the video call, one of our 1064 00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:27,040 Speaker 9: biggest investors acknowledged her as the newest member and congratulated 1065 00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:31,160 Speaker 9: her for being the youngest person to ever join the team. Surprisingly, 1066 00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 9: she replied, I appreciate that, but I've been doing way 1067 00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:36,920 Speaker 9: more than I was hired to do, and I'd like 1068 00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:40,480 Speaker 9: to discuss an increase in salary and a promotion. The 1069 00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,920 Speaker 9: call got quiet, and everyone looked uneasy. She's been with 1070 00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:47,720 Speaker 9: me for one year and she was awarded the highest 1071 00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 9: entry level salary of anyone. I broke the silence by 1072 00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,680 Speaker 9: telling her that we'd have to discuss that later. I 1073 00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:56,200 Speaker 9: was appalled at her attitude and I would love to 1074 00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:58,800 Speaker 9: get her viewpoints on this? Do I allow of you 1075 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:01,520 Speaker 9: points I would love to get. I'm sorry, I would 1076 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,439 Speaker 9: love to get your viewpoints on this. Do I allow 1077 00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 9: her to grow with my company or turn my focus 1078 00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,280 Speaker 9: to one of my male interns that always has a 1079 00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:16,160 Speaker 9: great attitude and is willing to learn. Please advise, this 1080 00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:19,640 Speaker 9: is not personal, right, this is business. You said yourself. 1081 00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:21,920 Speaker 9: She's smart, she graduated at the top of her class, 1082 00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:24,040 Speaker 9: she's one of your best people at the job. 1083 00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:26,480 Speaker 1: How is she ungrateful? 1084 00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:29,400 Speaker 9: Can you not afford to give her a raise? I 1085 00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:32,400 Speaker 9: know you said you were relatively successful. I mean, but 1086 00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,320 Speaker 9: can you not afford to give her one? If she's 1087 00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,480 Speaker 9: deserving and a promotion that she asked for? 1088 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:38,160 Speaker 13: Is that it? 1089 00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:40,960 Speaker 9: If it is, I think you should say that because 1090 00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:45,440 Speaker 9: I say, let her be great and don't get mad 1091 00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:47,360 Speaker 9: because she believes she deserves a raise. 1092 00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:48,840 Speaker 1: I mean, she is who she is. 1093 00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:51,720 Speaker 9: Her timing might be a bit off because you're judging 1094 00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,840 Speaker 9: how long she's been at the company and what you've 1095 00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:57,840 Speaker 9: done for her already, meaning you gave her a big 1096 00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:01,880 Speaker 9: entry level starting to salary. But it sounds to me 1097 01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:05,680 Speaker 9: like she understands her value and her worth to this company, 1098 01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:07,680 Speaker 9: and she wants to be compensated for it. I'm not 1099 01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:11,000 Speaker 9: sure why you're so upset that she wants a raise. 1100 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:15,680 Speaker 9: I think you said she's a valuable employee. You said 1101 01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,320 Speaker 9: that throughout the letter. She's young and. 1102 01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:18,680 Speaker 1: Hungry, she wants to get paid. 1103 01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:21,920 Speaker 9: You can talk to her and tell her this shouldn't 1104 01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:24,720 Speaker 9: have been discussed at that time if you like. But 1105 01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:27,240 Speaker 9: I like her confidence, I like her boldness, I like 1106 01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:30,520 Speaker 9: her fearlessness. Every company I think needs people like this. 1107 01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:33,480 Speaker 9: I think you should celebrate her, Like you said, get 1108 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,400 Speaker 9: her viewpoint, get well, you said, get our viewpoints on this. 1109 01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:39,680 Speaker 9: But see where her head is too on this situation. 1110 01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:42,720 Speaker 9: Why she picked that moment to say it? You know, 1111 01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:47,800 Speaker 9: but I don't think there's a law against asking for 1112 01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:50,040 Speaker 9: a raise. And the alarming thing in the. 1113 01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 1: Letters that you said, should you turn your focus. 1114 01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:55,520 Speaker 9: On your mail interns that always have a great attitude 1115 01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:56,760 Speaker 9: and are willing to learn. 1116 01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,560 Speaker 1: What does that have to do with anything? 1117 01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:01,240 Speaker 9: Are you upset that she a female and she asked 1118 01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:04,000 Speaker 9: for a raise? I mean, really, what are you really 1119 01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:08,360 Speaker 9: saying here, Steve? I think she deserves everything she should get. 1120 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,760 Speaker 7: Steve, My question is simple. My ungrateful young employee. Is 1121 01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:14,720 Speaker 7: this a woman writing the letter or a man? 1122 01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:17,600 Speaker 1: I assumed it was a man's but it might be 1123 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:18,040 Speaker 1: a woman. 1124 01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:19,880 Speaker 2: See I thought it was a man too. 1125 01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:23,880 Speaker 7: So now let me give you a peek inside the 1126 01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:27,320 Speaker 7: mind of a man, because if this is a man, 1127 01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 7: which I thought it was too, something else is going 1128 01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:35,360 Speaker 7: on here. See I read between the lines. Your successful 1129 01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:38,200 Speaker 7: entrepreneur had a lot of help. Long a way you 1130 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,680 Speaker 7: return to favor and all this helping minorities any way 1131 01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:44,080 Speaker 7: you can. About a year ago, you hired a twenty 1132 01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:47,480 Speaker 7: six year old black female that graduated at the top 1133 01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:51,200 Speaker 7: of a class. You set up with an excellent starting salary, 1134 01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:55,560 Speaker 7: her own office. I noticed she was not much of 1135 01:01:55,640 --> 01:02:00,439 Speaker 7: a team player. Okay, that's usually not good. She worked 1136 01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,640 Speaker 7: better alone, and that was fine with me because she's 1137 01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:04,600 Speaker 7: very smart and didn't need a lot of direction. 1138 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:09,400 Speaker 2: Okay, so you let that go at times. And here's 1139 01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:10,680 Speaker 2: the key to this whole letter. 1140 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:16,160 Speaker 7: I noticed that she lacks the emotional intelligence that is 1141 01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:19,400 Speaker 7: required in business, and it's hard for her to keep 1142 01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:23,240 Speaker 7: her game face on when she's flustered. Okay, she's young, 1143 01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:26,920 Speaker 7: but you gave her her own office. You gave her 1144 01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:31,480 Speaker 7: this grace salary. She twenty six, So what was it? 1145 01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:31,880 Speaker 2: Dog? 1146 01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:35,600 Speaker 7: So now you know I'm just watching you now. Despite 1147 01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:37,920 Speaker 7: all of that, she's one of the best employees. So 1148 01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,400 Speaker 7: you added to her to a global team meeting we 1149 01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:44,720 Speaker 7: had weekly. She's advanced. You impressed by the advance on 1150 01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:47,680 Speaker 7: one video called one of our biggest investors, acknowledged her 1151 01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:51,560 Speaker 7: newest member, congratulated her for being the youngest person ever 1152 01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:56,360 Speaker 7: joined the team, and then she replied, I appreciate that, 1153 01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:58,560 Speaker 7: but I've been doing way more than I was hired 1154 01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 7: to do it. I'd like to discuss an increase in 1155 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:03,120 Speaker 7: salary and promotion and the problem. 1156 01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:07,160 Speaker 9: Call hang on Part two of your responses coming up 1157 01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 9: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's subject my 1158 01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:14,320 Speaker 9: ungrateful young employee. We'll get back into it right after this. 1159 01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:23,800 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, it's your girl, 1160 01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:27,560 Speaker 9: Shirley Strawberry. You know, mornings just aren't complete without a 1161 01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:31,160 Speaker 9: McDonald's breakfast. Have you heard about the new spicy sausage 1162 01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:35,040 Speaker 9: McMuffin with egg It's got a creamy red pepper heat. Hmm. 1163 01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:36,720 Speaker 1: I've got to try that. 1164 01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:39,960 Speaker 9: I'm thinking it would hit just right with my morning coffee, 1165 01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:42,040 Speaker 9: and there's nothing like that rush of making it to 1166 01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 9: McDonald's in time for breakfast. Swing by and make your 1167 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:49,840 Speaker 9: morning at McDonald's Morning Bada Da Da da at participating 1168 01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:53,439 Speaker 9: restaurants for a limited time only. All right, Come on, Steve, 1169 01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:57,880 Speaker 9: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject my ungrateful young employee. 1170 01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:00,240 Speaker 7: So last a woman who wrote the letter that we 1171 01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:02,840 Speaker 7: just learned this on the commercial break from people who 1172 01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,560 Speaker 7: pull the Strawberry letter. So it's a woman, which don't 1173 01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:09,440 Speaker 7: change much. You hide this black female. You've been a 1174 01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:11,840 Speaker 7: successful entpreneur. You try to give back the minority to 1175 01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 7: help her move along. You hide his sister, twenty six 1176 01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:16,960 Speaker 7: year old black female graduate top of her class, You 1177 01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:19,520 Speaker 7: set up with an excellent starting salary in her own office. 1178 01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:21,880 Speaker 7: Know that she wasn't much of a team player. She 1179 01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:24,640 Speaker 7: worked better alone and was fine because she's very smart 1180 01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:26,640 Speaker 7: and don't need a lot of direction. 1181 01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:30,200 Speaker 2: That's what you said. But to me, here is again 1182 01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:33,400 Speaker 2: the whole meat behind this letter. 1183 01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:39,000 Speaker 7: At times I noticed that she lacks the emotional intelligence 1184 01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 7: that is required in business, and it's hard for her 1185 01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,800 Speaker 7: to keep her game face on when she gets flushed. 1186 01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:49,560 Speaker 2: A typical sign of a young person. 1187 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:55,680 Speaker 7: She's young, she young, she don't know the game face, 1188 01:04:55,800 --> 01:05:00,680 Speaker 7: she lacks the emotional business intelligence. Okay, I got it now. 1189 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:04,120 Speaker 7: Despite that, she's one of your best employees. Okay, so 1190 01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:08,280 Speaker 7: obviously you need some more employees. So I added her 1191 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:11,400 Speaker 7: to a global team meeting that we had weekly. You 1192 01:05:11,520 --> 01:05:14,560 Speaker 7: were just impressed with how much she's advanced in one year, 1193 01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:18,760 Speaker 7: and so is the team. Everybody's impressed with her. But 1194 01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,680 Speaker 7: on the video call, one of your biggest investors acknowledged 1195 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:24,600 Speaker 7: her as the newest member and congratulated her for being 1196 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,320 Speaker 7: the youngest person ever joined the team. 1197 01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:28,360 Speaker 2: And this was her response. 1198 01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:32,400 Speaker 7: You say, surprisingly, I appreciate that, but I've been doing 1199 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,040 Speaker 7: way more than I was hired to do, and I 1200 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 7: like to discuss an increase in salary and the promotion. 1201 01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,480 Speaker 2: Carl got quiet. Everybody looked uneasy. 1202 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:48,520 Speaker 7: You know why because this person that lacks the emotional 1203 01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:53,720 Speaker 7: intelligence that is required in business, and it's hard for 1204 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,200 Speaker 7: her to keep her game faced on when she flustered. 1205 01:05:56,720 --> 01:06:00,400 Speaker 7: She flustered and frustrated after year working and now she 1206 01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:07,080 Speaker 7: let it blurt out on the global team call. That's 1207 01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:10,240 Speaker 7: how you thought it was the best way to get 1208 01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:15,760 Speaker 7: a raise. Are you kidding me? You put everybody on 1209 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:19,160 Speaker 7: the phone call uneasy. She has been with me for 1210 01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:23,480 Speaker 7: one year and she was awarded at the highest entry level. 1211 01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:24,520 Speaker 2: Salary of anyone. 1212 01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:27,960 Speaker 7: And then you broke the silence by telling her that 1213 01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:30,320 Speaker 7: we'd have to discuss that later. And you know why 1214 01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:34,320 Speaker 7: you had to tell her because then you say I 1215 01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:40,200 Speaker 7: was appalled at her attitude. Well why you surprised? You 1216 01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:44,600 Speaker 7: said that she lacks the emotional intelligence that is required 1217 01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:47,120 Speaker 7: in business, and it's hard for her to teep her 1218 01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:50,760 Speaker 7: game face on when she gets flustered. She got flustered, 1219 01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:54,160 Speaker 7: she cracked. She figured, now I'm asked for a raise 1220 01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:57,400 Speaker 7: right after these compliments on. 1221 01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:00,000 Speaker 2: The global team. That's stupid. 1222 01:07:00,880 --> 01:07:05,800 Speaker 7: See this lack of emotional intelligence and business is how 1223 01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:09,600 Speaker 7: you make business. Because what I've learned in business is 1224 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:14,080 Speaker 7: not always the smartest people. It's the best people to 1225 01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:19,000 Speaker 7: work with. She don't work well with others. She works 1226 01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:22,200 Speaker 7: best by herself. You know, I can't have this crazy 1227 01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,919 Speaker 7: person talking in big meetings for me because they don't 1228 01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:28,440 Speaker 7: work well with others. And then she blew it. Now 1229 01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:31,040 Speaker 7: she says, I would love to get your viewpoint on this. 1230 01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:33,400 Speaker 7: Do I allow her to grow with my company, or 1231 01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:36,160 Speaker 7: turn my focus to one of my male interns that's 1232 01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:38,640 Speaker 7: always has a great attitude and willing to learn. I 1233 01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:42,080 Speaker 7: don't think it's a matter of turning your attention to anybody. 1234 01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:46,240 Speaker 7: I think your determination has to be is this person 1235 01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 7: worth continuing on with? First of all, I would point 1236 01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:56,440 Speaker 7: out to her the absurdness and the ridiculousness of you 1237 01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,640 Speaker 7: popping off at a global meeting asking for a raise. 1238 01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:01,000 Speaker 2: You're selfish? 1239 01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:06,600 Speaker 1: Hey, Steve, I want to ask you a question. When 1240 01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:08,360 Speaker 1: is a good time to ask for a race? 1241 01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:10,920 Speaker 2: It is when you're not on the global team. Come. 1242 01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:13,680 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like there's ever a good time. That's 1243 01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 1: my point. 1244 01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:16,760 Speaker 7: It's any times a good time to ask for a raise. 1245 01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:18,880 Speaker 7: If you ask for an appointment to see your boss, 1246 01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,080 Speaker 7: you have every right to go and ask for a race. 1247 01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:22,639 Speaker 2: I ain't knocking. 1248 01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:25,360 Speaker 7: I ain't knocking her wanting to raise. I'm knocking the 1249 01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:27,720 Speaker 7: way she went about doing it. You do that in 1250 01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:34,040 Speaker 7: corporate America. Shut a meeting for your selfish? Are you stupidole? 1251 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:37,080 Speaker 7: But no, wait a minute, are you stupid? 1252 01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:39,519 Speaker 3: And now. 1253 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:44,519 Speaker 7: You done threw out this here in front of everybody else? Like, 1254 01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:45,559 Speaker 7: ain't nobody else. 1255 01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:46,679 Speaker 2: At the comedy working hard. 1256 01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:50,120 Speaker 7: So now you got people looking at you sideways, but 1257 01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:52,320 Speaker 7: she don't care because she don't work well with others. 1258 01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,880 Speaker 7: Look pull up to the side and say, listen, there 1259 01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:58,960 Speaker 7: all know Raises. At this point you were given the 1260 01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 7: highest entry levels and you've only been here for a year. 1261 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,519 Speaker 7: This is where the company is right now. And I 1262 01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:09,080 Speaker 7: understand something now, you have to you have to put 1263 01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:15,840 Speaker 7: your time in. Sometimes young people want it all right now. Now, 1264 01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,439 Speaker 7: this woman that built this company, she ain't got no idea, 1265 01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:21,280 Speaker 7: no idea how long it took to bill. And I'm 1266 01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:23,360 Speaker 7: gonna tell you from first hand experience what I can't 1267 01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:26,240 Speaker 7: stand doing. And I've been working in building my company. 1268 01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:28,439 Speaker 7: You come in because you see me making this. You 1269 01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:31,000 Speaker 7: want this too? Well, that ain't how to work. 1270 01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:34,439 Speaker 13: Homie gets paid what they're working. 1271 01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:36,400 Speaker 1: No, I don't think that. 1272 01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:39,880 Speaker 2: All right with you. 1273 01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:44,240 Speaker 9: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter Steve Burby FM 1274 01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:45,599 Speaker 9: on Instagram and Facebook. 1275 01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:47,240 Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter. 1276 01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:50,760 Speaker 9: Podcast under Man Coming up next, it is Junior and 1277 01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:52,280 Speaker 9: Sports Talk right after this. 1278 01:09:53,680 --> 01:09:54,160 Speaker 3: What's going on? 1279 01:09:54,280 --> 01:09:56,160 Speaker 9: This is your boy, Kevin Hart, This is your boy 1280 01:09:56,240 --> 01:10:01,080 Speaker 9: Chris Brown, Big Snoop dogg. This came to cow Hi. 1281 01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:04,280 Speaker 2: This is your boy, Sandy Entertainer. 1282 01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Mary J. 1283 01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,760 Speaker 5: Blodelyddlu Dulu Do. 1284 01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:10,920 Speaker 1: What's up? 1285 01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:12,880 Speaker 9: Yatist is let us see and you're listening to the 1286 01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:14,559 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1287 01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,280 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1288 01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:25,240 Speaker 7: Get into the Hyundai Getaway Sales event and get away 1289 01:10:25,280 --> 01:10:28,840 Speaker 7: with the deal so right it almost feels wrong right now. 1290 01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:32,599 Speaker 7: Get huge savings on our popular models, including our venture 1291 01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:36,760 Speaker 7: ready SUV's like the Hondai Santa Fe, or go all 1292 01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:40,360 Speaker 7: Electric with the America's most awarded EV lineup like the 1293 01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:43,120 Speaker 7: Ionic five or Ionic six. 1294 01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:45,679 Speaker 10: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away 1295 01:10:45,720 --> 01:10:48,599 Speaker 10: with a great deal only during the Hondai Getaway Sale event. 1296 01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:51,200 Speaker 10: Visit Hondai USA dot com for details. 1297 01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:54,519 Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and sports talk. 1298 01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:57,160 Speaker 16: What you got Junior, I want you to know something 1299 01:10:57,200 --> 01:11:00,120 Speaker 16: about next thirty days. I'm going back to college. I'm 1300 01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:01,840 Speaker 16: going I'm going to play on the football team. I 1301 01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:05,200 Speaker 16: want you to root for me. I'm going to go 1302 01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:07,679 Speaker 16: to Kinnisas State. This is where I want to register 1303 01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:13,160 Speaker 16: at and play on the football team. But football get directly. 1304 01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:16,160 Speaker 15: Is this a point. 1305 01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:21,720 Speaker 2: Going you out. I'm going back to play football in 1306 01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:23,520 Speaker 2: college because they're paying players. 1307 01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:27,599 Speaker 13: Directly make the team. 1308 01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 2: You can't run? 1309 01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:30,880 Speaker 1: What look at me? 1310 01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:32,080 Speaker 2: You think I can't? I ain't. 1311 01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:33,360 Speaker 13: I got to play in the game. 1312 01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:35,480 Speaker 1: I can make running. 1313 01:11:36,680 --> 01:11:39,080 Speaker 2: Players Just tell me he's been playing his dogs on kids. 1314 01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:42,680 Speaker 8: But the fact of the matter is they're paying players directly. 1315 01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:46,120 Speaker 8: I can get all the money for my image like. 1316 01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:50,040 Speaker 2: Players your radio hosts at a comedian. 1317 01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:52,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, but I'm going to play football now and get 1318 01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:54,960 Speaker 8: another check talks about getting checks like I feel will 1319 01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:57,400 Speaker 8: get another check now. My number gonna be eighty nine. 1320 01:11:57,520 --> 01:11:58,640 Speaker 1: That's me, you me? 1321 01:11:58,760 --> 01:11:59,160 Speaker 7: How is that? 1322 01:11:59,439 --> 01:11:59,719 Speaker 3: Wise? 1323 01:11:59,760 --> 01:11:59,800 Speaker 9: You? 1324 01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:03,840 Speaker 2: That's the temperature you want it to be. That that's wrong, 1325 01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:05,120 Speaker 2: till me, that is very wrong. 1326 01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:08,720 Speaker 13: That's very wrong. That's the temperature you want it. 1327 01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:13,719 Speaker 1: And that's so true. But you're getting a check coming straight. 1328 01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:16,439 Speaker 8: So if they're gonna pay players, I might as well 1329 01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:17,800 Speaker 8: go get this extra check now. 1330 01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:20,080 Speaker 2: I'm probably not gonna get on the field. I probably not. 1331 01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:23,599 Speaker 2: What would they pay you? But listen to what you saying. 1332 01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:27,800 Speaker 2: You keep saying they're paying players. You're directly to play. 1333 01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:31,400 Speaker 2: How they gonna pay you for not playing you're not 1334 01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:34,160 Speaker 2: n I M. You're not getting none of that. Wait 1335 01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:35,599 Speaker 2: a minute, I'm already on the radio. 1336 01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:38,040 Speaker 8: I can just show y'all myself as number eighty nine, 1337 01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:40,120 Speaker 8: and I can sell all my jerseys and get the 1338 01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:40,960 Speaker 8: jersey sales. 1339 01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:44,120 Speaker 2: I get the autograph signing, I get every the pictures. 1340 01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:46,240 Speaker 1: If you see me in month. All that costs. 1341 01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:47,040 Speaker 2: It costs money. 1342 01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:49,880 Speaker 13: I'll get the maybe of jersey that's not on the field. 1343 01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:51,439 Speaker 2: We're gonna find. 1344 01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:54,920 Speaker 8: Out overthinking y'all, y'all really don't even see how mad 1345 01:12:54,960 --> 01:12:57,760 Speaker 8: this money. Directly, if I was you at seventy sixty eight, 1346 01:12:58,000 --> 01:12:59,439 Speaker 8: I would go down there and get on the field too. 1347 01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:01,880 Speaker 13: I get on the too big as you want, man, 1348 01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:03,760 Speaker 13: Come on, come on. 1349 01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:07,640 Speaker 2: I l It's totally different for you, JUNR. What is 1350 01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:12,120 Speaker 2: stand for? Your word is lose your note. 1351 01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:17,160 Speaker 3: Fundy. 1352 01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:20,479 Speaker 2: Just come to the game. That's all you gotta do. 1353 01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:21,080 Speaker 2: I'll be there. 1354 01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:24,280 Speaker 7: I'm not coming to that game. Anybody hind you. First 1355 01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,200 Speaker 7: of all, you're not gonna be able to get back 1356 01:13:26,280 --> 01:13:26,759 Speaker 7: in school. 1357 01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:32,000 Speaker 2: Let's just go there. Wow, let's just go there. 1358 01:13:34,439 --> 01:13:35,240 Speaker 13: No self esteem. 1359 01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:37,880 Speaker 2: But they look at your birthday, they're gonna be struggling. 1360 01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:44,000 Speaker 2: Jor call sure. 1361 01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:45,439 Speaker 13: Thank you for letting me go ahead and be on 1362 01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:47,439 Speaker 13: team that they're paying people. 1363 01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:48,599 Speaker 1: It's just a different check. 1364 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:51,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, the last time tackles. 1365 01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:55,040 Speaker 1: All right, Oh that's over forty years with Silk or Sell. 1366 01:13:57,120 --> 01:13:57,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, Junior. 1367 01:13:58,000 --> 01:13:59,760 Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, a mom 1368 01:13:59,880 --> 01:14:03,519 Speaker 9: is upset because her ex's girlfriend is around her kids. 1369 01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:06,680 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 1370 01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:08,400 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1371 01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:15,200 Speaker 9: All right, So this is from Alika in Toronto. And 1372 01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:18,000 Speaker 9: Melika says, I'm getting the kids ready for school and 1373 01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:21,000 Speaker 9: ironing out the schedule with my ex husband, who I 1374 01:14:21,160 --> 01:14:24,720 Speaker 9: normally have a great co parenting relationship with. He's got 1375 01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:27,519 Speaker 9: a new girlfriend and he told me that she will 1376 01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:29,960 Speaker 9: be able to pick the kids up this year because 1377 01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:33,400 Speaker 9: his work schedule changed. That doesn't work for me, And 1378 01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:37,680 Speaker 9: he said, I'm jealous. I don't want a stranger transporting 1379 01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:40,639 Speaker 9: my children. Am I wrong for how I feel? 1380 01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:43,679 Speaker 2: No, you ain't wrong. You'll know this woman. 1381 01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:47,080 Speaker 7: He introduced her to you. You don't let people pick 1382 01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:48,880 Speaker 7: up your kids? What's wrong with him? 1383 01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:50,800 Speaker 3: Man? 1384 01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:55,000 Speaker 7: You owe this woman. This woman had these children. She 1385 01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:59,320 Speaker 7: makes that decision, not you, Pardner. Trust me when I 1386 01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:02,920 Speaker 7: tell you no, she ain't wrong for that. Her kids 1387 01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:07,519 Speaker 7: them her babies. She manufactured all of them in her body. 1388 01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:10,120 Speaker 7: She ain't picking up nobody. Drive down there, see what have. 1389 01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:13,120 Speaker 3: Pull? 1390 01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:13,559 Speaker 2: You called? 1391 01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:17,879 Speaker 1: And but he immediately went to she's jealous. 1392 01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:19,200 Speaker 2: She ain't jealous. 1393 01:15:19,320 --> 01:15:24,880 Speaker 1: Dog, She's a mother that's right protective of her. 1394 01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:29,160 Speaker 7: You're you're stupid. You'd never introduced this woman. You didn't 1395 01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:31,360 Speaker 7: discuss this with your wife. You called your wife and 1396 01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:33,720 Speaker 7: told her she gonna be picking the kids up from now. 1397 01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:35,559 Speaker 3: No, she not no, what. 1398 01:15:37,640 --> 01:15:38,759 Speaker 1: Not my babies? 1399 01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:42,720 Speaker 2: We we if her name ain't even fit to be 1400 01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:43,840 Speaker 2: on the list? Dog? 1401 01:15:47,120 --> 01:15:47,519 Speaker 9: Who is she? 1402 01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:48,240 Speaker 7: Yeah? 1403 01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:51,600 Speaker 9: All right, we do have time for another one. This 1404 01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:54,720 Speaker 9: is from Shiva and Knoxville. She says, I have a 1405 01:15:54,800 --> 01:15:57,240 Speaker 9: problem with my husband walking around the house with his 1406 01:15:57,520 --> 01:16:01,640 Speaker 9: hand in his underwear. My son is picking up the 1407 01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:04,560 Speaker 9: bad habit, and it's just so nasty to me. My 1408 01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:07,479 Speaker 9: husband does it, and then he touches the remote, and 1409 01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:11,839 Speaker 9: he touches other stuff without washing that hand that's always 1410 01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:14,720 Speaker 9: in his underwear. He said, it's a habit that he 1411 01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:15,479 Speaker 9: can't stop. 1412 01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:19,320 Speaker 2: Is this habit we all do it? 1413 01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:21,920 Speaker 13: I was just about to say I didn't see nothing 1414 01:16:21,960 --> 01:16:22,439 Speaker 13: wrong with it. 1415 01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:25,120 Speaker 2: We're laying on the couch watching TV. 1416 01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:26,160 Speaker 4: We do it. 1417 01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:27,519 Speaker 3: I don't. 1418 01:16:27,640 --> 01:16:36,200 Speaker 2: I don't do that. What, Yes, Steve Junior. I don't 1419 01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:40,920 Speaker 2: y'all y'all do this. You don't take no baths, y'all. 1420 01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:48,760 Speaker 2: I'm different. You take your hole yourself. That's another line. 1421 01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:58,040 Speaker 8: I'm scratching my thigh right now. Just man stuff, She says. 1422 01:16:58,200 --> 01:16:59,840 Speaker 2: It's not a day go by. 1423 01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:06,280 Speaker 7: You have not held yourself. No more turning to TV. 1424 01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:09,120 Speaker 7: I'm not coming to your house, no more turning the TV. 1425 01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:12,880 Speaker 2: I don't want you over here, no way. I got 1426 01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:14,320 Speaker 2: news for you. Matter of fact. 1427 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:19,680 Speaker 1: So now when you go Steve's house, he's gonna. 1428 01:17:19,400 --> 01:17:21,599 Speaker 2: Say something so stupid right now that we ain't gonna 1429 01:17:22,080 --> 01:17:22,479 Speaker 2: go ahead. 1430 01:17:26,520 --> 01:17:27,439 Speaker 1: This is crazy. 1431 01:17:28,320 --> 01:17:30,200 Speaker 2: Yes, leave you. I'm telling you right now. I don't 1432 01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:33,400 Speaker 2: touch my phone no more. I'll be looking at that Instagram. 1433 01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:37,120 Speaker 2: Keep your hand off the microphone right now. 1434 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:38,120 Speaker 3: I got to do for you. 1435 01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:39,400 Speaker 1: Pott gross. 1436 01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:48,760 Speaker 2: Stop picking up my pens. Yes, stop and on that too. 1437 01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:52,280 Speaker 2: For to put herself on everything and the house. 1438 01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:55,120 Speaker 9: She just wants him to wash his hands after he 1439 01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:58,439 Speaker 9: walks around with his hands in his underwear all the time. 1440 01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:02,760 Speaker 1: Out of sizer watch. 1441 01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:06,160 Speaker 2: My aunt ain't y'all don't understand. 1442 01:18:06,600 --> 01:18:08,200 Speaker 1: No, we don't. Women don't do this. 1443 01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:13,160 Speaker 7: No item is one of the cleanest items on your body. 1444 01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:15,679 Speaker 7: It's exposed to the least amount of stuff. 1445 01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:19,080 Speaker 1: Okay, and I know you're trying to make a point, 1446 01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:26,320 Speaker 1: but since trying to intellectualize it. 1447 01:18:26,520 --> 01:18:28,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna take your nasty hands and put them 1448 01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:29,000 Speaker 2: in there. 1449 01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:29,200 Speaker 7: Man. 1450 01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:30,479 Speaker 2: Please, ain't nobody hearing that? 1451 01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:33,760 Speaker 1: So if you go over your uncle's house, you don't 1452 01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:36,200 Speaker 1: touch your I ain't going over there, no more. 1453 01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:38,439 Speaker 2: Not walking around like you. 1454 01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:42,760 Speaker 7: Have never touched yourself. Well, I can understand, I have to, 1455 01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:44,840 Speaker 7: so it's not an option for me. 1456 01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:49,200 Speaker 2: You and Junior walking around holding y'all sel y'all it every. 1457 01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:55,759 Speaker 1: Day after the hour show. Right after this, you're listening 1458 01:18:55,920 --> 01:18:57,639 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1459 01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:04,080 Speaker 9: All right, guys, So, not only is today my birthday, 1460 01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:06,559 Speaker 9: it is National Hamburger Day. 1461 01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:10,040 Speaker 1: It is National Hamburger Day. I love a good burger. 1462 01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:10,639 Speaker 10: You got. 1463 01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:14,960 Speaker 1: So who makes the best burger? 1464 01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:15,240 Speaker 4: To you? 1465 01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:17,880 Speaker 1: Who do you like besides yourself? 1466 01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:18,519 Speaker 13: I know you guys. 1467 01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:21,840 Speaker 7: If I got to go out somewhere and get one 1468 01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:25,759 Speaker 7: from a fast food place, yeah, I'm going to five guys. 1469 01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:29,400 Speaker 1: Okay, five guys, And do you like cheese on that 1470 01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:31,719 Speaker 1: burger Star or just a plain burger? 1471 01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:32,680 Speaker 7: Now? 1472 01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:33,559 Speaker 2: I like cheese. 1473 01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:38,760 Speaker 7: I only like cheese, onions, pickles, and male. Okay, yeah, 1474 01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:40,920 Speaker 7: lettuce is in the way. 1475 01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:44,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I. 1476 01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:46,960 Speaker 1: Like lettuce, but I don't really care for lettuce. 1477 01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:48,439 Speaker 3: I like that. 1478 01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:52,599 Speaker 2: I like mail grilled. I like grilled onions and grilled 1479 01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:53,320 Speaker 2: mushrooms on it. 1480 01:19:54,120 --> 01:20:00,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, listening, I like my onions raw, crunchy, purple, right on. 1481 01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:02,400 Speaker 3: Cool. 1482 01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:04,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like to bite down there. I don't like. 1483 01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:08,640 Speaker 8: Whatever McDonald make. I mean, what do you like the 1484 01:20:08,720 --> 01:20:13,240 Speaker 8: big mac or the old big quarter pounder? A double 1485 01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:15,240 Speaker 8: quarter pounder at that nice. 1486 01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:18,439 Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you something, man, I can't do it anymore. 1487 01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:21,720 Speaker 7: I cannot I used to. I think I can't go 1488 01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:23,120 Speaker 7: to fast food anymore. 1489 01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:23,679 Speaker 2: I can't. 1490 01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:28,000 Speaker 1: But if you do, it's five guys. Yeah, I got good. 1491 01:20:28,479 --> 01:20:31,519 Speaker 1: Uh huh. So tell me you like onions and jack 1492 01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:32,000 Speaker 1: in the box. 1493 01:20:32,120 --> 01:20:34,680 Speaker 2: Don't do nothing for me? No more like that? 1494 01:20:35,200 --> 01:20:38,040 Speaker 9: All right, We'll let more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1495 01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:40,559 Speaker 9: Show coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour. 1496 01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:43,680 Speaker 9: We will play around. I would you rather right after this? 1497 01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:46,400 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1498 01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:54,240 Speaker 7: Get into the hun Day Getaway Sales event and get 1499 01:20:54,320 --> 01:20:57,559 Speaker 7: away with the deal so right it almost feels wrong. 1500 01:20:57,760 --> 01:20:58,679 Speaker 2: Right now, Get. 1501 01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:01,920 Speaker 7: Huge savings on our proper the models, including our venture 1502 01:21:02,000 --> 01:21:05,479 Speaker 7: ready s u v's like the Hondai Santa Faith, or 1503 01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:09,000 Speaker 7: go all electric with America's most awarded. 1504 01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:12,439 Speaker 2: EV lineup like the Ionic five or Ionic six. 1505 01:21:12,680 --> 01:21:15,000 Speaker 10: Get down to your local Hondai dealer and get away 1506 01:21:15,040 --> 01:21:17,920 Speaker 10: with a great deal only during the Hondai Getaway sell event. 1507 01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:20,519 Speaker 10: Visit Hyundai USA dot com for details. 1508 01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:23,840 Speaker 1: Turn out to play around it. Would you rather, guys? 1509 01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:26,800 Speaker 9: Would you rather a pot luck dinner with your coworkers 1510 01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:30,040 Speaker 9: or would you rather a fancy dinner with your ex? 1511 01:21:31,200 --> 01:21:34,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna hot look dinner with y'all. Sure to bring 1512 01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:37,680 Speaker 2: it something to go with her? I have to go. 1513 01:21:38,840 --> 01:21:39,080 Speaker 10: You have. 1514 01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:45,519 Speaker 2: The Napkins cups, So if I. 1515 01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:49,840 Speaker 7: Don't want you bringing plates to nothing because I don't 1516 01:21:49,880 --> 01:21:51,680 Speaker 7: want you accidentally putting nothing on it. 1517 01:21:53,360 --> 01:21:56,120 Speaker 1: And cups, I happily do that, thank you. 1518 01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:59,880 Speaker 8: I don't want to cook anyways. 1519 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:03,680 Speaker 2: Poll I'm gonna have her brain the gumbo Junior, What 1520 01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:04,519 Speaker 2: did you talking about? 1521 01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:06,840 Speaker 8: If sure, they come up with a crock pit and 1522 01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:08,160 Speaker 8: it got steak and rice in it. We know we 1523 01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:08,640 Speaker 8: can't eat that. 1524 01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:14,360 Speaker 1: It was lamb chops. For your information, sir, I'm sorry 1525 01:22:14,400 --> 01:22:17,519 Speaker 1: for the work, junior. 1526 01:22:17,560 --> 01:22:19,320 Speaker 7: We don't want you to bring nothing to the pot 1527 01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:21,400 Speaker 7: up because we don't know what's been on your grill. 1528 01:22:21,439 --> 01:22:22,719 Speaker 2: Because you ain't got no fence. 1529 01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:27,000 Speaker 1: We don't know what we're in the neighborhood. 1530 01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:29,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't know. Something else and crawled up in 1531 01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:34,240 Speaker 2: his grill and we don't know what's happening. All right? 1532 01:22:34,479 --> 01:22:38,120 Speaker 9: Would you guys rather eat a pumpkin pie? This is 1533 01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:42,800 Speaker 9: a slice a pumpkin pie or a pig ear sandwich? 1534 01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:46,120 Speaker 3: God, you said it. 1535 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:52,760 Speaker 2: I can't do that. I I can't do that. Yeah, 1536 01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:55,880 Speaker 2: some of the pames in my life. 1537 01:22:59,320 --> 01:23:03,920 Speaker 7: All right, so many pig years before. I ain't never 1538 01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:06,720 Speaker 7: had to tell you. Right now, I'm going swallow that 1539 01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:12,599 Speaker 7: punking pie, all right? 1540 01:23:12,640 --> 01:23:15,439 Speaker 9: Would you rather have sex on a pile of trash 1541 01:23:15,920 --> 01:23:18,519 Speaker 9: or would you rather have sex in a mud pitch? 1542 01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:22,000 Speaker 2: I don't care, I'm dirty, love either way to go. 1543 01:23:22,160 --> 01:23:23,880 Speaker 2: Let's go excuse. 1544 01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:26,800 Speaker 1: Mud? 1545 01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:31,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? Probably the mud? Yeah yeah, the mud. Yeah. 1546 01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:36,360 Speaker 8: Other than that garbage, I've had sex and trashy places. 1547 01:23:39,439 --> 01:23:40,519 Speaker 1: Trying a pile of trash. 1548 01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:43,200 Speaker 2: Jeans motor in in Cleveland. I'll tell you right now. 1549 01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:49,320 Speaker 2: Jeans motor in ten down, four hours. Yep, the bed 1550 01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:53,640 Speaker 2: shake your car both down in the parket lot. I 1551 01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:55,320 Speaker 2: had to push it out cash. 1552 01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:02,000 Speaker 7: Had some Marcus since with some gum so shoot with 1553 01:24:02,400 --> 01:24:06,080 Speaker 7: gum soul souls, an orange pair of markets and with 1554 01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:09,880 Speaker 7: some gum so gum gum uh souls on them. 1555 01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:10,400 Speaker 9: Uh huh. 1556 01:24:10,640 --> 01:24:12,679 Speaker 7: Was pushing my car up the parking lot and blew 1557 01:24:12,800 --> 01:24:20,479 Speaker 7: my toes right through the You had to call my 1558 01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:22,880 Speaker 7: daddy on that one. Had to call my nephew here. 1559 01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:25,240 Speaker 3: All right. 1560 01:24:25,360 --> 01:24:28,439 Speaker 7: So if you're on vacation, gidy in and they didn't 1561 01:24:28,479 --> 01:24:29,400 Speaker 7: have chest to drawers. 1562 01:24:29,439 --> 01:24:31,160 Speaker 2: They just had a draw in the flow. 1563 01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:35,559 Speaker 1: All right, guys, that's today's round of would you rather? 1564 01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:37,960 Speaker 9: Coming up next to it is our last break of 1565 01:24:38,040 --> 01:24:39,720 Speaker 9: the day, and we'll close out the show with the 1566 01:24:39,800 --> 01:24:42,160 Speaker 9: one and only Steve Harvey right after this. 1567 01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:45,040 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1568 01:24:49,160 --> 01:24:52,240 Speaker 9: Have you thought about buying life insurance to protect yourself 1569 01:24:52,360 --> 01:24:55,639 Speaker 9: and your family? 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Thank you for the birthday wishes. 1579 01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:21,200 Speaker 9: I appreciate it. 1580 01:25:21,840 --> 01:25:23,360 Speaker 1: What birth thanker? 1581 01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:25,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, happy birthday? 1582 01:25:25,200 --> 01:25:28,479 Speaker 1: Sure, thank you, Carla, thank you so much, thank you, 1583 01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:32,120 Speaker 1: thank you. I hope you enjoy your day. Wonderful, blessed 1584 01:25:32,160 --> 01:25:34,479 Speaker 1: birthday girl. Yes to go far, so good. 1585 01:25:34,960 --> 01:25:37,799 Speaker 2: You're getting a burger. We established that right, You're getting. 1586 01:25:37,760 --> 01:25:40,200 Speaker 1: We are Yeah, okay, let's get it. I love burgers. 1587 01:25:40,640 --> 01:25:46,000 Speaker 9: I love burger cheese burgers, cheese burgers, gotta be cheese, 1588 01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:48,160 Speaker 9: lots of pickles. 1589 01:25:49,600 --> 01:25:54,000 Speaker 1: Lots of pickles, and a strawberry cake. Strawberry cake. Told 1590 01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:57,520 Speaker 1: you about that earlier. I used to like strawberry shakes. 1591 01:25:57,200 --> 01:26:00,519 Speaker 2: Too, but I probably read all that. Ain't gonna make 1592 01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:00,800 Speaker 2: it too. 1593 01:26:00,840 --> 01:26:01,439 Speaker 9: But I can't. 1594 01:26:02,160 --> 01:26:05,000 Speaker 1: I can't do it now, can't do it now, not 1595 01:26:05,160 --> 01:26:06,040 Speaker 1: at this big age. 1596 01:26:06,160 --> 01:26:06,720 Speaker 2: Can't do it. 1597 01:26:08,640 --> 01:26:10,519 Speaker 1: All right, you guys have some questions. See if you're 1598 01:26:10,520 --> 01:26:11,519 Speaker 1: ready to close this out? 1599 01:26:11,680 --> 01:26:15,880 Speaker 10: I stay ready, Okay, I got questions, I got I 1600 01:26:15,960 --> 01:26:18,560 Speaker 10: got some friends that's going through it. So give me 1601 01:26:18,800 --> 01:26:25,519 Speaker 10: your opinion on two relatives who have just completely fallen out. 1602 01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:29,840 Speaker 10: And you know, us as other us as relatives looking 1603 01:26:29,920 --> 01:26:33,280 Speaker 10: at it, watching it unfold, and we see what the 1604 01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:33,880 Speaker 10: problem is. 1605 01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:36,000 Speaker 7: But you know, you don't want to pick aside. You 1606 01:26:36,080 --> 01:26:38,240 Speaker 7: don't want to make it look like even though you 1607 01:26:38,360 --> 01:26:39,400 Speaker 7: know what's right or what's wrong? 1608 01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:39,560 Speaker 9: What? 1609 01:26:39,760 --> 01:26:39,800 Speaker 10: What? 1610 01:26:40,080 --> 01:26:40,120 Speaker 9: What? 1611 01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:41,360 Speaker 2: How do you approach it? 1612 01:26:41,479 --> 01:26:42,840 Speaker 7: Do you leave it alone because it has nothing to 1613 01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:45,280 Speaker 7: do with you, or do you try to at least 1614 01:26:45,360 --> 01:26:48,360 Speaker 7: fix two family members that if this don't get fixed, 1615 01:26:48,400 --> 01:26:49,920 Speaker 7: it's not gonna ever get fixed. 1616 01:26:49,920 --> 01:26:51,200 Speaker 2: They gonna You know, I. 1617 01:26:51,520 --> 01:26:56,160 Speaker 7: Often had to mediate several family disputes, and it's a 1618 01:26:56,240 --> 01:26:58,840 Speaker 7: cool thing to do. I would get involved because you 1619 01:26:58,920 --> 01:27:03,360 Speaker 7: know something you usually what happens with these family disputes 1620 01:27:03,479 --> 01:27:06,320 Speaker 7: is the both of the parties want to be heard 1621 01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:10,400 Speaker 7: anybody listening, and you've got to get everybody to hear 1622 01:27:10,520 --> 01:27:12,000 Speaker 7: what the other person is saying. 1623 01:27:12,760 --> 01:27:14,800 Speaker 2: And that's and that's what you have to do. 1624 01:27:15,160 --> 01:27:17,200 Speaker 7: So I would get involved to try to get through 1625 01:27:17,360 --> 01:27:21,240 Speaker 7: because there's three sides to every story. Is your side, 1626 01:27:21,720 --> 01:27:24,880 Speaker 7: it is day side, and it's the truth. You can 1627 01:27:25,000 --> 01:27:28,680 Speaker 7: only get to the truth by hearing both sides. But 1628 01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:31,800 Speaker 7: when people argument, have you ever argued with somebody where 1629 01:27:31,800 --> 01:27:33,200 Speaker 7: their whole intent. 1630 01:27:33,080 --> 01:27:33,880 Speaker 2: Is to be right? 1631 01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:38,960 Speaker 7: That that's a frugal That's that's a frugal argument, man, 1632 01:27:39,040 --> 01:27:41,519 Speaker 7: That's that's an argument when you're not gonna win, when 1633 01:27:41,560 --> 01:27:43,920 Speaker 7: a person's whole goal is to be white. I have 1634 01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:47,680 Speaker 7: this young kid that I mentor, and he messes up 1635 01:27:47,760 --> 01:27:50,800 Speaker 7: quite often, right, and I try to straighten him out, 1636 01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:53,679 Speaker 7: And the whole time I'm straightening him out, he telling 1637 01:27:53,720 --> 01:27:57,599 Speaker 7: me the why he did it. Okay, man, I got 1638 01:27:57,680 --> 01:27:59,800 Speaker 7: why you did it. And then in the why he 1639 01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:03,639 Speaker 7: did it, it's always why he felt like he should 1640 01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:06,599 Speaker 7: have did it that way. Okay, cool, I got that too. 1641 01:28:07,680 --> 01:28:10,600 Speaker 7: But do you understand the consequences of your actions? What 1642 01:28:10,760 --> 01:28:14,240 Speaker 7: you did has caused this to happen. Yeah, but I 1643 01:28:14,439 --> 01:28:17,680 Speaker 7: was right when I said this. You know what, man, 1644 01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:20,599 Speaker 7: My father in law said something that I've always remembered. 1645 01:28:21,360 --> 01:28:23,760 Speaker 7: He said, just because you can do something, don't mean 1646 01:28:23,840 --> 01:28:26,680 Speaker 7: you should. And do you know how many people may 1647 01:28:26,840 --> 01:28:28,680 Speaker 7: do stuff because they had the right to do it, 1648 01:28:28,840 --> 01:28:31,560 Speaker 7: but they shouldn't have did it. We live in a 1649 01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:34,559 Speaker 7: country that's supposed to be freedom of speech. You're free 1650 01:28:34,600 --> 01:28:36,720 Speaker 7: to say what you want to say, but should you? 1651 01:28:36,840 --> 01:28:40,519 Speaker 7: Though all the time the answer is no. Well, I 1652 01:28:40,600 --> 01:28:42,120 Speaker 7: got the right to say what I want to say. 1653 01:28:42,320 --> 01:28:46,040 Speaker 7: You do, but that don't mean you should. You have 1654 01:28:46,160 --> 01:28:50,040 Speaker 7: to practice some form of discretion. So when I see 1655 01:28:50,080 --> 01:28:53,080 Speaker 7: two people arguing and I'm listening to him, I saw 1656 01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:55,559 Speaker 7: some people arguing on the family feud said one day 1657 01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:57,960 Speaker 7: we were all sitting around and these two people were 1658 01:28:57,960 --> 01:29:00,160 Speaker 7: having this argument, and I was sitting there listening, you know, 1659 01:29:01,520 --> 01:29:03,760 Speaker 7: and I said, hey, y'all, can I say something here? 1660 01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:05,800 Speaker 7: I said, I don't think you all are hearing each other. 1661 01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:08,280 Speaker 2: What you said was this? 1662 01:29:09,080 --> 01:29:11,640 Speaker 7: Now, when they said that, what did you hear? And 1663 01:29:11,760 --> 01:29:14,639 Speaker 7: the person said something completely different from what they said? 1664 01:29:14,960 --> 01:29:17,720 Speaker 7: I said, now tell me what you said. And then 1665 01:29:17,960 --> 01:29:19,880 Speaker 7: the lady said what she said. And then I asked 1666 01:29:19,920 --> 01:29:21,680 Speaker 7: the other guy, I said, now, what did you hear 1667 01:29:21,760 --> 01:29:22,160 Speaker 7: her say? 1668 01:29:22,520 --> 01:29:24,280 Speaker 2: This is what she said to me. I said, that's 1669 01:29:24,360 --> 01:29:25,280 Speaker 2: not what she said. 1670 01:29:26,120 --> 01:29:29,680 Speaker 7: So you got to get people to listen to what 1671 01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:32,920 Speaker 7: the other person is saying and try to develop some 1672 01:29:33,120 --> 01:29:36,600 Speaker 7: type of understanding, because if you don't, it'll just go 1673 01:29:36,800 --> 01:29:40,400 Speaker 7: the wrong way. So to answer your question, if it's family, 1674 01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:43,400 Speaker 7: I would try to mediate it because sometimes you need 1675 01:29:43,479 --> 01:29:46,160 Speaker 7: an outside set of eyes and ears to be able 1676 01:29:46,160 --> 01:29:49,040 Speaker 7: to see and hear what each other is saying and 1677 01:29:49,160 --> 01:29:50,360 Speaker 7: present the case that way. 1678 01:29:50,720 --> 01:29:52,040 Speaker 2: But now here's the problem. 1679 01:29:52,120 --> 01:29:52,280 Speaker 14: Though. 1680 01:29:53,520 --> 01:29:57,120 Speaker 2: We all know somebody who I don't care what you say, 1681 01:29:57,800 --> 01:29:59,160 Speaker 2: they gonna stay right over there. 1682 01:30:00,360 --> 01:30:03,960 Speaker 7: I know some people like that. I don't care what 1683 01:30:04,240 --> 01:30:07,800 Speaker 7: you say to them, they gonna stay over there. I 1684 01:30:07,920 --> 01:30:11,639 Speaker 7: don't know if it's because they just stubborn. I don't 1685 01:30:11,680 --> 01:30:14,280 Speaker 7: know if because they just hell bent on being right. 1686 01:30:15,200 --> 01:30:18,360 Speaker 7: And I think it's a combination of both things. I 1687 01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:22,800 Speaker 7: have a family member right now that creates a narrative 1688 01:30:23,240 --> 01:30:27,240 Speaker 7: to justify everything they do. And they sit there with 1689 01:30:27,439 --> 01:30:32,320 Speaker 7: their partner and they both unify in this narrative to 1690 01:30:32,640 --> 01:30:36,439 Speaker 7: justify their actions, and everybody else can clearly see it's wrong, 1691 01:30:37,840 --> 01:30:40,720 Speaker 7: but they done justified it. Well, you can't win like that. 1692 01:30:41,680 --> 01:30:44,960 Speaker 7: And then Bishop Browner, I tell you, man, that man 1693 01:30:45,120 --> 01:30:45,880 Speaker 7: says something. 1694 01:30:46,520 --> 01:30:51,240 Speaker 2: He said, be careful of people who are victims in 1695 01:30:51,439 --> 01:30:57,720 Speaker 2: circumstances that they created. And boy, that's a tough one 1696 01:30:57,800 --> 01:31:01,000 Speaker 2: right there. And so I know a lot of those 1697 01:31:01,080 --> 01:31:03,680 Speaker 2: people who are victims. All in circumstance. I had a 1698 01:31:03,720 --> 01:31:07,040 Speaker 2: God tell me. He said, you ced me out your life. 1699 01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:10,839 Speaker 2: I said, hold up, young brother, do you not remember 1700 01:31:10,920 --> 01:31:13,960 Speaker 2: telling me that you would never talk to me ever 1701 01:31:14,160 --> 01:31:17,519 Speaker 2: again without the presence of an attorney. Do you remember 1702 01:31:17,600 --> 01:31:19,920 Speaker 2: saying that to me. Now you don't turn around and 1703 01:31:19,960 --> 01:31:21,920 Speaker 2: say I ced you out my life. You told me 1704 01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:24,759 Speaker 2: you wouldn't talk to me without the presence of an attorney. 1705 01:31:25,960 --> 01:31:27,759 Speaker 2: So you created this situation. 1706 01:31:28,160 --> 01:31:33,599 Speaker 7: Now you're the victim, man, miss me, So mediate if 1707 01:31:33,640 --> 01:31:36,800 Speaker 7: you can but recognize who you're talking too quickly, and 1708 01:31:36,880 --> 01:31:39,519 Speaker 7: if you're talking to a person that ain't gonna train sway, 1709 01:31:39,720 --> 01:31:43,040 Speaker 7: they stubborn or they gonna justify all they means, then 1710 01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:44,080 Speaker 7: you're wasting your time. 1711 01:31:44,560 --> 01:31:47,160 Speaker 2: Let it be Pray for him and move on. Those 1712 01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:48,719 Speaker 2: are my closing remarks today. 1713 01:31:49,600 --> 01:31:52,160 Speaker 7: If you didn't like those closing remarks, we would be 1714 01:31:52,240 --> 01:31:56,120 Speaker 7: here willingly God's will tomorrow and you might like those. 1715 01:31:56,439 --> 01:31:58,720 Speaker 7: Have a nice day, y'all talk to God today, he 1716 01:31:58,760 --> 01:31:59,960 Speaker 7: would absolutely. 1717 01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:04,000 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey contest no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. Participants must 1718 01:32:04,000 --> 01:32:07,080 Speaker 9: be legal US residents, at least eighteen years old, unless 1719 01:32:07,240 --> 01:32:11,679 Speaker 9: otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve harveyfm dot com. 1720 01:32:12,040 --> 01:32:14,760 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.