Speaker 1: Wine down with Janet Kramer and I heard radio podcast. Okay,
Speaker 1: we have a lot to discuss. Um, we're not discussing
Speaker 1: the reflection. Um. I got to ruin my question. What
Speaker 1: was your question? Well, I wasn't really a question. I
Speaker 1: was just going to give you crap. But I didn't notice.
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't. Yes, I don't look into reflections,
Speaker 1: and so then when you realize I really I can't
Speaker 1: take it down. So I was going to ask at
Speaker 1: that point it's like yes, but then it's like then
Speaker 1: it's something. Did you have a did you have a
Speaker 1: lot of responses? Yes? Okay, that's what I was litering. Um, yes, okay,
Speaker 1: that's all I have to say. Um, fine, what would
Speaker 1: you like to know about the reflection photo? Katherine? What
Speaker 1: would I like to know? Would actually going to ask
Speaker 1: ask what did you notice it before you put it up?
Speaker 1: And then I'm just asking asking for a friend now,
Speaker 1: But then you can't take it down because then it's
Speaker 1: like then it becomes like oh people are It's like
Speaker 1: then it becomes something. Right, What was the next question?
Speaker 1: I really just wanted to know if you noticed I
Speaker 1: did not notice it. I mean, okay, go ahead, No, nope,
Speaker 1: go ahead, Well no the tag, Yeah, I know, right,
Speaker 1: So but do we have to keep skirting around this? Okay,
Speaker 1: yes we do. Okay, I got it, because it's it's
Speaker 1: a weird. Because I don't know what to do. I
Speaker 1: can tell I. I just I'm I I'm like, I
Speaker 1: I I I I UM, it's a very weird situation
Speaker 1: that I'm in right now. Understand that it's fair. It's
Speaker 1: a weird time. It's a weird and I'm but I'm
Speaker 1: just how do I say this. I'm still I've still
Speaker 1: so much work to do that I'm trying to find
Speaker 1: the balance between happiness and doing my work. Well, I
Speaker 1: think that you can do your work and enjoy happiness
Speaker 1: at the same it's just very strange to you. Yes,
Speaker 1: because I don't trust it. That makes sense, because I
Speaker 1: feel like, because you still have work, you can't be happy. Um.
Speaker 1: I feel like there's no way that someone can be honest. Well,
Speaker 1: that's going to take some work on it, and like
Speaker 1: that it can be good. Like I was. I ran
Speaker 1: into a friend, um, Lindsay l Actually I ran into
Speaker 1: her um at the airport and we were talking about it,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I think I'm so afraid of
Speaker 1: like like I'm used to just war and not and
Speaker 1: not being on like steady ground, and like I'm used
Speaker 1: to like my you know, my therapist as like you're
Speaker 1: used to standing in sand, so you can never really
Speaker 1: get your footing. And so it's like when something's like
Speaker 1: can be and looks like it could be, study, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: that freaks me out because I'm like, would like that
Speaker 1: can't be really, like you're waiting there's no way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I and for what seven six years, I was always
Speaker 1: waiting for the other shooter drop, So clearly there's another
Speaker 1: shooter drop, and I don't want to be fooled again.
Speaker 1: So I think that's where like I get scared to
Speaker 1: like I want to talk about, you know, dating and
Speaker 1: my dating life because I'm like, I've been so fooled
Speaker 1: that I'm terrified to be fooled again. So you're terrified
Speaker 1: to be fooled, which is why I have not shared
Speaker 1: just understand anybody. But you're also probably scared of putting
Speaker 1: someone in the public and then something happening. But for sure, yeah,
Speaker 1: that makes sense. So it's kind of twofold. It's kind
Speaker 1: of yeah, because I'm like, yeah, because I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm I'm again, which is why I haven't
Speaker 1: been in anything that was exclusive. And also um or
Speaker 1: have shared. Obviously, the whole j stuff like that became
Speaker 1: public because we went out, and that's a very he
Speaker 1: was a very public person, so like, obviously that came out,
Speaker 1: but I never spoke on it because I didn't want
Speaker 1: to speak on it because I didn't know what it was.
Speaker 1: So I can't understand just dating. Yeah, it's like, just
Speaker 1: because I went on a date with someone doesn't mean
Speaker 1: we're exclusive. And you know he's my boyfriend, he was
Speaker 1: never my boyfriend. When you have to figure things out,
Speaker 1: like people have to give you time to figure things out.
Speaker 1: But I think, on the other hand, I think there
Speaker 1: are people out there that can understand that y'all don't
Speaker 1: know what it is whoever you're dating or whoever at
Speaker 1: the time. You're not going to know right away what
Speaker 1: it is. You get to date and you get to
Speaker 1: have relationships. You don't have to have it all figured
Speaker 1: out right now. It's just the critics, you know, the
Speaker 1: people out there that and I get it too. I
Speaker 1: mean that you know me tagging him well, that you
Speaker 1: know it's like I'm I'm starting, I'm starting to like
Speaker 1: warm up to the idea, but it's still just this
Speaker 1: like I'm just so scared to be burned again and
Speaker 1: I don't and and hearing comments from people being like, oh,
Speaker 1: you moved on too fast, and oh you know, of
Speaker 1: course it didn't work out because you moved anti faster,
Speaker 1: of course, or it's like and I'm just and I
Speaker 1: take that stuff unfortunately to like heart, and so I
Speaker 1: I see all that, I read all it, and I'm
Speaker 1: just like I'm just scared. And then I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: this can't be this can't be real. He's too nice,
Speaker 1: and he treats me like a queen, Like there's no
Speaker 1: way that that could never work. But that's not real. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's a tough one. I feel like that's going
Speaker 1: to take some time. Yeah, And I don't want to
Speaker 1: be embarrassed again. Like I was mortified with this stuff
Speaker 1: that came out with my X and I like I
Speaker 1: tried to change the narrative because I believe that we
Speaker 1: could have made it work, but I also when it
Speaker 1: happened again, now I look like a freaking idiot. Now
Speaker 1: I look like a girl that you know, should have
Speaker 1: left a long time ago. But I did believe in
Speaker 1: someone that could change, and you know, I put forth
Speaker 1: the work. But at the same time, I felt stupid
Speaker 1: and I don't want that to happen again. Like I'm
Speaker 1: so afraid of being like they're like is in Lindsay
Speaker 1: was like Janna, She's like, there are good people out there.
Speaker 1: I'm like, are there, Yes, there are good people out there,
Speaker 1: because I mean even like when you you know, I
Speaker 1: stated again, I've never been exclusive with anyone prior and
Speaker 1: so you know, when I was going on random dates
Speaker 1: and you know, and it wasn't a lot I was.
Speaker 1: I think I hung out with two or three guys
Speaker 1: like a date or so, um, you realize you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is not for me. And thank god I didn't
Speaker 1: talk about this person because that would have ended and
Speaker 1: then I would have looked like from one person to
Speaker 1: the next. But again, that's dating. Yeah, so why would
Speaker 1: it be bad that you dated X over here and
Speaker 1: then y'all didn't work out. That's dating. But like in
Speaker 1: the public eye, people think it's a relately. People thought
Speaker 1: that me and Jay were boyfriend girlfriend Janea were never
Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend. Now well, and that's the double edged sword
Speaker 1: or whatever the saying is for not talking about it.
Speaker 1: It's like you don't want to talk about it because
Speaker 1: you don't know what it is, but you also haven't
Speaker 1: explained because it's not to a point. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just this like do you talk about it? I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's it's a hard no. You just kind of have to.
Speaker 1: And I have respect for you know, everyone that I
Speaker 1: have dated, and you know, it's some people just don't
Speaker 1: work together, like and that's fine. But yeah, again, it's
Speaker 1: like if you don't talk about it, then it's like
Speaker 1: then people just assume. But then it's like and it's
Speaker 1: the importance, Like why can't I just live privately? But
Speaker 1: I can't really live privately because of my life. Here's
Speaker 1: what here's what. I I think that you can you
Speaker 1: can talk about it and you can enjoy it because
Speaker 1: you're happy, and I know you like to talk about
Speaker 1: things when you're happy. We all do. Who doesn't want
Speaker 1: to share when they're happy. But if for some reason
Speaker 1: a certain relationship doesn't work out, you don't. You You
Speaker 1: get to control that, You get to control the narrative.
Speaker 1: You don't have to share everything so you don't feel
Speaker 1: stupid or whatever it is. It can just be the
Speaker 1: people don't work out. I had a girl reach out
Speaker 1: to me who's like, you can't bash your ex husband
Speaker 1: and be in a new relationship. And I was like,
Speaker 1: first of all, I've never bashed my ex husband. No,
Speaker 1: I would love to, but like I'm not in the
Speaker 1: bashing industry, Like I don't want to bash. But I also, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm still posting narcissistic things because I dealt with that,
Speaker 1: and that's okay that I can still be dealing or
Speaker 1: have dealt with someone that was a narcissistic or you know,
Speaker 1: emotionally abusive or whatever in pass whether it's my ex
Speaker 1: X or my X. I don't even understand what she's saying.
Speaker 1: She's basically saying like, you can't be happy and with
Speaker 1: a new relationship and talk about couldn't disagree more because
Speaker 1: and but that's where I struggle too, because I'm like, what,
Speaker 1: you know, with my I was talking about our our therapist.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm divorced, Like why can't I just
Speaker 1: be like, you know, why can't you just allow myself
Speaker 1: to be happy and you know, let these that let
Speaker 1: the negative energy of my ex go, well, I think
Speaker 1: you can allow yourself to be happy, but you still
Speaker 1: have scars. You still have scars that are going to
Speaker 1: be there. We all mean, lots of people have those scars.
Speaker 1: I have scars from a relationship I wasn't even in
Speaker 1: a marriage from that will still come up, however, long later.
Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean you can't be happy where you are.
Speaker 1: I just think that you need to heal from those
Speaker 1: things and that just takes time. But forget those who
Speaker 1: think that you can't be happy at the same time.
Speaker 1: I think that's what culous. And I think people need
Speaker 1: to shut up personally, but they won't. So here we are.
Speaker 1: I just I'm just scared. I'm scared to be embarrassed.
Speaker 1: I'm um, I'm just scared. But well that's fair, and
Speaker 1: I just don't know. I don't know, and that's okay.
Speaker 1: You don't have to know. So there might be a
Speaker 1: reflection in the window, sometimes there might not. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know the answer. Well, I'm
Speaker 1: proud of you. Just be happy, wire yourself to be happy.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm trying, but it's just it's very strange,
Speaker 1: it's very strange when you go from something that was
Speaker 1: so toxic and so like making you feel like you
Speaker 1: don't deserve anything to like someone that's like, to my knowledge,
Speaker 1: could be great, you know, but it's so scary the
Speaker 1: next like real relationship afterwards, because I don't like, that's
Speaker 1: just like a very scary place to live when you're
Speaker 1: not used to it. Yeah. Well, and it's almost like
Speaker 1: you're comfortable places my comfortable places warfare. Yeah, that makes
Speaker 1: me comfortable. So it's like, you know, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: like navigate that, and it's just like it's a very
Speaker 1: strange feeling. It's like, why can't I just allow myself
Speaker 1: to be happy and moments for sure alone and moments
Speaker 1: you know with you know whatever, with whatever whatever reflection
Speaker 1: in a mirror. Oh lord. Yeah. So I don't know
Speaker 1: any other questions. So glad marks on on here. Couldn't
Speaker 1: have been couldn't have been happier. Um. I do have
Speaker 1: a question though, because I had a little bit of
Speaker 1: a situation that will just keep it on the the
Speaker 1: X thing, and I want to ask your opinion on it.
Speaker 1: It's a friend that I've been friends with for a
Speaker 1: long time. Okay, we were friends as a couple. Okay,
Speaker 1: when we got divorced, they didn't talk up to the
Speaker 1: other my ex. It was just me and that person.
Speaker 1: But we have grown apart because you know, we're in
Speaker 1: different friend groups and um, you know, and I even
Speaker 1: I saw this person at an event, was like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I've been so far at my own ass,
Speaker 1: like in my own that I you know, I haven't
Speaker 1: been a great friend to a lot of people. Um,
Speaker 1: and I apologize for that, and you know, I want
Speaker 1: to see you and get lunch and but also knowing
Speaker 1: that like again, we run in different a different circle. Um,
Speaker 1: but it's still so much love for the person. So
Speaker 1: then I got invited to their holiday party, um, to
Speaker 1: which it was my premiere of the movie, which, by
Speaker 1: the way, thank you guys so much for watching the
Speaker 1: movie and supporting it and you know all the comments
Speaker 1: and feedback and stuff. Love you guys so much. The
Speaker 1: holiday fixed up. It was on Lifetime. UM, it'll probably
Speaker 1: re airth if you guys missed it. But anyways, UM,
Speaker 1: I appreciate the love, but I couldn't go to the
Speaker 1: holiday party. But then I found out that my X
Speaker 1: went to the holiday party, and so it hurt me
Speaker 1: because I'm like, as my friend, why wouldn't you give
Speaker 1: me a heads up? Like none of y'all would have
Speaker 1: ever ever ever done that because and here's the thing,
Speaker 1: like I get that way, we were friends as a couple,
Speaker 1: but like you hadn't stayed in contact and you also
Speaker 1: bad mouthed him, you know. So it's like, so now
Speaker 1: you're inviting someone that you know did something really wrong,
Speaker 1: and that's fine. People again, give people grace, give people forgiveness.
Speaker 1: I have no problem with that. I think people should
Speaker 1: absolutely still stay friends with my exit they're friends, like whatever, No,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter what people do. But but then don't
Speaker 1: come to me and say bad things as well about
Speaker 1: my ex and then invite them to a holiday part
Speaker 1: and not tell me because I could have easily gone.
Speaker 1: If I wasn't, I would have gone and then him
Speaker 1: been there, like my my friend whether we had we
Speaker 1: haven't talked or hung out in a few months, like
Speaker 1: you would have told me. My true friend would have
Speaker 1: told me, so I wouldn't be a question ever, right,
Speaker 1: And like in my taking this like out of like
Speaker 1: I think people lack communication. So then I text this
Speaker 1: person and I say, hey, my feelings are very hurt
Speaker 1: that you didn't even think to say, like, heads up,
Speaker 1: we also invited your X, which i'd have been like,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for telling me. The response that
Speaker 1: I got back was the response. It was the response
Speaker 1: that i've which is why I haven't reached back out
Speaker 1: is because I'm having a hard time with how this
Speaker 1: person responded back. They said, well, I've been hurt too.
Speaker 1: Then communicate to me that you were hurt by me.
Speaker 1: By not she was like, she said, because, well, I've
Speaker 1: been hurt too, And I'm like, I just communicated something
Speaker 1: being like, hey, this really hurt my feelings, and then
Speaker 1: you're gonna go straight to it. Well I've been hurt. Well,
Speaker 1: I didn't know. I apologize to you at an event
Speaker 1: being like, hey, sorry, I've been like you know, we
Speaker 1: run in different groups, but like I apologize, like you know,
Speaker 1: I haven't. I've been dealing with the divorce and stuff. Um,
Speaker 1: I didn't know that you were that upset to then
Speaker 1: now invite my ex husband because I was the first
Speaker 1: time that you saw him at this one football thing
Speaker 1: for Jolie. So now you're going to invite my X
Speaker 1: as the first time you saw it. You know, I
Speaker 1: just like that seems I don't even know who we're
Speaker 1: talking about, just to be clear, so I'm going to
Speaker 1: be careful with what I say. But that seems just
Speaker 1: very vindictive to me. I don't know. I just don't
Speaker 1: understand why you wouldn't obviously they were upset, then talk
Speaker 1: to me. Why can't people just you and then not
Speaker 1: communicate and say that your ex like, all of it
Speaker 1: just seems very I don't like it. Well I don't either,
Speaker 1: and that's why. But the response back to me, it's like, well,
Speaker 1: I was hurt too, so so because you were hurt,
Speaker 1: you then chose to invite my ex husband. That's why
Speaker 1: it seems because you were hurt, that just seems. That
Speaker 1: just seems like they're trying to get back at you. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 1: then if you're hurt by me because I I don't
Speaker 1: include you and some of my things with my friends
Speaker 1: because we're in different groups, then communicate that to me. Yes,
Speaker 1: you you don't, you aren't in my queendom whatever, I
Speaker 1: still consider your friend. I'm not in your one group.
Speaker 1: So like we all have other friends, we all have
Speaker 1: other friends, and I get and hopefully someone y'all can
Speaker 1: like m relate to this where it's just like, if
Speaker 1: you're having feelings about someone else because you feel left out,
Speaker 1: don't invite their ex husband somewhere because you feel left out. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: and communication. I've had similar situations with friends and well,
Speaker 1: you have to communicate. And I I wrote this down
Speaker 1: because it's very similar to a situation that you know,
Speaker 1: we're kind of going with one of our friend groups
Speaker 1: where it's like I would never knowing what you even
Speaker 1: it's like nothing, I would never invite that person over
Speaker 1: and they'd be like Cat come over too, and then
Speaker 1: not telling you that I can't even imagine ever ever.
Speaker 1: But to me, I'm like, that's because you're you're my regardless,
Speaker 1: like you're my best friend and you're my friend. But
Speaker 1: that's just something you just don't do. I mean, even
Speaker 1: if even if it was the other person that I'm
Speaker 1: having the issue with, you would even say to her, hey,
Speaker 1: by the way, Cat's going to be there, Like it's
Speaker 1: just yeah, I don't even I can't imagine. I'm sorry
Speaker 1: that that happened. Well, I mean again, like I I
Speaker 1: get it, and I don't, like I don't want people
Speaker 1: to not invite, but I'm just saying like, don't say
Speaker 1: you're my friend and then not even give me a
Speaker 1: heads up and then respond back with will you hurt me?
Speaker 1: You hurt me because I'm I hurt you because I'm sorry. Yes,
Speaker 1: I've been in a hole because of my divorce, and
Speaker 1: I've leaned on my closest friends. Absolutely. I I have
Speaker 1: apologism outside friends been like, hey, you know, I really
Speaker 1: just needed like my core, and then like and I
Speaker 1: even and yeah, I like this is at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, like this is what I needed for
Speaker 1: my like healing. And maybe call me selfish, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I mean I even like pushed you guys away
Speaker 1: at times too, because I just wanted to be alone. Well,
Speaker 1: and I even told some people that weren't like in
Speaker 1: your closest closest group. I had several people reaching out
Speaker 1: to me that are still friends, going what does she
Speaker 1: need ned and me even having to say, like, she
Speaker 1: will push people away and you have to force yourself
Speaker 1: in if you want to be there. And we had
Speaker 1: a friend that did. She she forced herself. She came
Speaker 1: over anyway, whether you wanted to talk or not. Like,
Speaker 1: but that becomes about them and them being selfish. I
Speaker 1: think in my in my opinion, I think it can hurt.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean it doesn't hurt when you push away,
Speaker 1: but you have to go. This isn't about me, This
Speaker 1: is about you. Um. But communication, man, God, I can't
Speaker 1: believe they didn't even tell you. I can't just say
Speaker 1: like a head's up and then when yeah, so I
Speaker 1: mean lesson heads up, someone give them a communication. And
Speaker 1: then also like, don't go about when someone says like, hey,
Speaker 1: this hurt my feelings, don't go back, well, this hurt
Speaker 1: my feelings. Like to me, that's like you didn't even
Speaker 1: you just disregarded, yeah, the other person's feelings. So it's like,
Speaker 1: because absolutely, and I'm so sorry that she was hurt
Speaker 1: as well, but like to then invite like because you're
Speaker 1: it's just like I didn't like it and I don't
Speaker 1: and I'm I texted me like, I'm I'm more than
Speaker 1: willing to talk this out, but there's something that is
Speaker 1: pausing me from calling back because it just doesn't feel
Speaker 1: right because I'm like, a true friend would never I
Speaker 1: don't care if I haven't spoken to that friend in
Speaker 1: two years, they would never. Never, And it's not about
Speaker 1: And here's the thing it's not about my ax. I
Speaker 1: don't care. We've been in the same events together. I
Speaker 1: don't care he comes over. We're fine. Like minus when
Speaker 1: I was being bitchy the other day because I'm the
Speaker 1: holidays and I'm upset, and but I apologized, you know,
Speaker 1: like I'm giving myself radical grace and we're gonna talk
Speaker 1: about that on a bonus episode coming up the two
Speaker 1: days before Christmas. But like, you know, it has nothing
Speaker 1: to do with him. It's all about how my friend,
Speaker 1: someone that I loved handle, has nothing new about him
Speaker 1: being read. I don't care. There's gonna be plenty of
Speaker 1: things that were you know, we might be at the
Speaker 1: same thing. Yeah. No, it's by your friend, for sure.
Speaker 1: It's about how that was hand old that hurt my feelings. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like I don't know. Yeah, I mean I had
Speaker 1: a big My whole last therapy session was about friends
Speaker 1: and loyalty and you know, as we get older, it's
Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, you want to put your energy,
Speaker 1: you know, she said to me, She was like, you
Speaker 1: really need like five to seven people instead of worrying
Speaker 1: about making all these other people happy and what they
Speaker 1: think about you and what you know, whatever. It's like,
Speaker 1: hold onto your core five to seven people and cultivate
Speaker 1: those relationships. And you know, I just think that's you know,
Speaker 1: it's important. I'm about loyalty, man, and friendships. I'm loyal
Speaker 1: friends are important, especially as we get older. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I mean I agree with that, and I think about that,
Speaker 1: and that's such a good point because it's like, obviously
Speaker 1: we have different friends and other groups, but those ones,
Speaker 1: like they can still be respectful and I can still
Speaker 1: respect them. And guess what, I can't wait to be
Speaker 1: at the same Christmas party next year with him. If
Speaker 1: that's how like, that's fine. We're just not going to
Speaker 1: be super close because I you know, yeah, but you
Speaker 1: can also choose to walk away. I can, yeah, And
Speaker 1: I just don't. Oh, like, I just it's kind of
Speaker 1: one of those things where I'm like, I just it
Speaker 1: just is rubbing me the wrong way. But to flip
Speaker 1: a switch a little bit, I have to tell you
Speaker 1: something that happened when I was in Los Angeles. It
Speaker 1: was so embarrassing, like so embarrassing. I cannot wait because
Speaker 1: I want to know what you would do. Well, first
Speaker 1: of all, you wouldn't have done it anyways, what I did.
Speaker 1: But but if you but but you'll know I for
Speaker 1: a second. So I went out to the premiere for
Speaker 1: the Holiday Fix Up in Los Angeles last weekend, and
Speaker 1: oh my god, my manager Steve Caserta said he was
Speaker 1: going to come to the because I was doing a St.
Speaker 1: Jude Brooks Brothers event. Okay, so he's like, I'm going
Speaker 1: to come with my girlfriend, um to come. Hear you
Speaker 1: saying awesome, thank you, It's gonna be so fun. That morning,
Speaker 1: I um, you know, I didn't don't get any sleep
Speaker 1: because the tornadoes woke us up. Christ and Bruss was
Speaker 1: calling me, is like the go to your safe place
Speaker 1: for so I'm in my safe place and you know,
Speaker 1: then then have a flight out the next morning to
Speaker 1: go to l A. So I'm a little I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm just prefacing with with I'm a little out of sorts. Okay.
Speaker 1: So at the event, I'm about to go on stage
Speaker 1: and I see who I think to be my manager.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, and again I don't see Steve. You know,
Speaker 1: Stephen Mark are my two acting managers. I see them
Speaker 1: maybe once a year because you know, they live in
Speaker 1: Los Angeles. I live in Nashville, Like don't see them
Speaker 1: that much. And he looks literally like Steve, identical to Steve,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, has hair garrattle a bit, a
Speaker 1: little bit longer, but like so nervous. So what do
Speaker 1: I do. I run up and I give him a
Speaker 1: hug and I'm like Steve and I gave him a
Speaker 1: hug and I am just snuggled into him, and I'm thinking, well,
Speaker 1: he's not that being that warm back to me, and
Speaker 1: I'm full on having a conversation like thank you so
Speaker 1: much for coming, Oh my god, hey, like does girlfriend
Speaker 1: because saying again Burnett, even though I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: she got a little taller, but you know, um, and
Speaker 1: then you know, they called me up on stage and
Speaker 1: while I'm singing on stage, I go, holy, that is
Speaker 1: not my manager. He never said anything, he said nothing,
Speaker 1: but I'm like his response back was like, you know,
Speaker 1: wasn't really great. I was like, god, Steve's usually more
Speaker 1: like friendly, like maybe I don't know, maybe and his
Speaker 1: girlfriend are like going to fight or whatever. So from
Speaker 1: the moment I got off stage to like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I kept running into him, but I avoided him like
Speaker 1: the plague, even more so much so that we had
Speaker 1: gotten the same elevator when we were leaving, and I
Speaker 1: am mortified because I just hugged this random dude. I
Speaker 1: have no idea who he is, who he was, what
Speaker 1: affiliation he had with He probably thinks, like, why is
Speaker 1: Janna giving me this giant hut? Because he knew who
Speaker 1: I was once I went up to sing. Well, once
Speaker 1: I went up to sing, he did. He probably didn't
Speaker 1: know when he first saw me. To that man, whoever
Speaker 1: you are, I am so sorry, But what would you do?
Speaker 1: Because a part of me now wishes I went back
Speaker 1: and was like, I'm so sorry. I thought you were
Speaker 1: my manager. So you got in an elevator with him
Speaker 1: and looked the other one and said nothing, nothing, no, nothing.
Speaker 1: I think by like the second or third time I
Speaker 1: saw him, if it was just the first, I probably
Speaker 1: would have done the same thing and avoided but by
Speaker 1: the second or third time, once I was in the elevator,
Speaker 1: I would have been like, Okay, I can't. I was
Speaker 1: so mortified. I didn't even tell anyone that I was with.
Speaker 1: I didn't tell Jeff, for Emily or like, no. One
Speaker 1: didn't tell anyone because I was so mortified with what
Speaker 1: I did. I was just like I wonder who he is,
Speaker 1: like if he's somebody. And I told my manager that
Speaker 1: night at the party, I was like, Steve, first of all,
Speaker 1: where the were you at the thing? He told me
Speaker 1: you were going. And now because of that, I random
Speaker 1: some I hugged some random and he was like, wait,
Speaker 1: I'm dying. I was like, no, you don't understand, Like
Speaker 1: if I had it, if I had you guys next
Speaker 1: to each other, you guys are long lost twins. Like again,
Speaker 1: like he was a little a little skinnier and like
Speaker 1: a lot longer hair, but I haven't seen you in
Speaker 1: freaking eight months. So he wasn't there at all. No,
Speaker 1: he didn't come, but he went and he got caught
Speaker 1: for not coming. I know. I was like, well, realized
Speaker 1: it wasn't you because hugged the wrong person. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I mean that is mortifying. I'm sorry it was more,
Speaker 1: but I was just I was wondering what you would
Speaker 1: have done, like if you would have just been like,
Speaker 1: but I don't. I didn't even want to own up
Speaker 1: to the fact that, like I was just gonna go
Speaker 1: with like, I'm a real friendly person and I had
Speaker 1: a lot of people I probably would have avoided it
Speaker 1: at first, but once I kept running, I don't know
Speaker 1: the elevator, I don't know. If I could have just
Speaker 1: sat there, I don't know. I avoid so maybe I
Speaker 1: would have. Um, Okay, there's a lot to talk about
Speaker 1: when we're gonna talk about sex in the city too,
Speaker 1: because I just like, have you been watching did you watch?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so yeah, so many things. Okay, so
Speaker 1: we were we were going to maybe take some colors
Speaker 1: and talk about sex in the city. Um, but let's
Speaker 1: you know, I just have a few things I want
Speaker 1: to discuss. Okay, but speaking of my acting managers, Um,
Speaker 1: they represent Chris No. Um, I got the rundown, and
Speaker 1: I got to be really careful because I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know anything that's like going on. Um. But they
Speaker 1: were talking about the peloton thing bad um, and I
Speaker 1: thought that was genius, absolutely genius. But I had heard
Speaker 1: that someone was upset about it because they didn't want
Speaker 1: him replicating his character. I'm like, it's Chris not it's
Speaker 1: not Mr Big, It's genius. It is the most genius.
Speaker 1: I was like, if anything, if I was the creator,
Speaker 1: whoever was having whoever, I would have been like, you know,
Speaker 1: this is um, this is a uh like this helps
Speaker 1: the show well and more of the talking point of
Speaker 1: like of the whole thing like it was. I thought.
Speaker 1: I was like, that is the most genius thing I've
Speaker 1: ever heard of. Well do you think stupid question here?
Speaker 1: Do you think they already had that ad planned when
Speaker 1: they had no idea? Pelton had no idea, They had
Speaker 1: no idea of what was going on. So Ryan Reynolds
Speaker 1: was caught top it, so all they knew is that
Speaker 1: it was going to be used. But they're but yeah,
Speaker 1: so they didn't know that because I got all this
Speaker 1: scoop from the party and I was like, this is
Speaker 1: like everything that's crazy. So they had no idea. So
Speaker 1: then they were like it happened overnight. Like Ryan Reynolds,
Speaker 1: I don't know how he's involved with Peloton, but he's
Speaker 1: involved somehow, was calling my manager and was like, we
Speaker 1: need Chris for a Peloton AD and so then he
Speaker 1: had to clear it with you know, and people weren't happy.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's like it's genius. I
Speaker 1: was like, that is the most genius idea I've ever heard,
Speaker 1: because I wonder I had been watching it. I'm like,
Speaker 1: did that just like tank Peloton their stocks one down.
Speaker 1: I was about to say it, I mean, that's that's
Speaker 1: the yeah, and then there's a lot of people east
Speaker 1: and I say, you popped down? What's up? Baby? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just I'm just such a huge Sex
Speaker 1: and the City fan. And I was I'm so excited
Speaker 1: to get this information because I was so curious to this.
Speaker 1: I just as they knew. I thought so because Okay,
Speaker 1: in that episode, Peloton is featured so prominently, like gotten
Speaker 1: real close up shots of the bike. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is like clear product placement. And then I thought
Speaker 1: the ad was like make good in case things went poorly.
Speaker 1: I think it was like planned simultaneously. It's like, we
Speaker 1: know that this is going to probably tank some things,
Speaker 1: but we're going to come back with this. But to
Speaker 1: know that, to my knowledge, they had no idea that
Speaker 1: it was going to be how he died. And so
Speaker 1: then also to my knowledge, from my understanding, um, the
Speaker 1: other side of it not Peloton was not happy with
Speaker 1: it because something is going to happen that they didn't
Speaker 1: want to and I can't say what it is. I
Speaker 1: might know what it is, um. And I was like
Speaker 1: when I heard it, and I was like, oh, that
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that's nothing. Like I was like, the add
Speaker 1: is still genius. There's two separate people. It's genius. And
Speaker 1: honestly it's that to me, isn't make good to say
Speaker 1: thank you know, I'm sorry for like tanking your eleventh
Speaker 1: or sales or whatever. Oh whoa, that's crazy, I know.
Speaker 1: So then I got that gossip and then they asked
Speaker 1: me if I like it, Well, let me just say
Speaker 1: this to a lot of people, like I saw Jonah
Speaker 1: Hill's comment like or like, you know, why why couldn't
Speaker 1: carry call the ambulance? And at first, I will be honest,
Speaker 1: when I saw that he died, I mean, I had
Speaker 1: a good ball session. But and I talked to my
Speaker 1: manager about this as well. He goes. I was like,
Speaker 1: why did they have to kill him? He's like, trust me,
Speaker 1: I wanted him to stay alive, you know, because for
Speaker 1: him it's like it's money, it's his client. What would
Speaker 1: the show be, yeah, you know it's like there, the
Speaker 1: show would not be the whole thing is about Carrie
Speaker 1: and love and find yes. And I was like, well,
Speaker 1: I just wanted the happy ending, you know, happy we
Speaker 1: had that we had that when it ended, and then
Speaker 1: we had the movies. It ended, It's fine, So now
Speaker 1: it's like now I'm like, now I am again. Like
Speaker 1: everything else in sexas City, you were invested in Carry's
Speaker 1: love life, and I think, and I'm just gonna say this,
Speaker 1: when they were doing the podcast, there was a really
Speaker 1: cute guy that I noted in the podcast, and I
Speaker 1: was like, that's going to be her new love interest.
Speaker 1: M hm. He saw that. I was like, he's cute.
Speaker 1: He's cute, k And it was like a random just
Speaker 1: kind of like real, real quick. But I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm calling that. That is the dude. Yes, here's
Speaker 1: the thing that, at least to my point of view.
Speaker 1: I was excited for Carrie and Big two. I thought
Speaker 1: they were going to explore like, oh no, they don't
Speaker 1: have kids. Everyone else in their friend group has kids
Speaker 1: that are like growing up and doing these like milestone things,
Speaker 1: you know, having dance recitals and and you know, getting
Speaker 1: their first girlfriend, stuff like that, and Carry and Big
Speaker 1: don't have that. And I, as a childless person, I
Speaker 1: was like excited to see what, you know, as they
Speaker 1: get older, they don't have children, they don't have this legacy.
Speaker 1: What's going to happen with that, and then they killed
Speaker 1: They take my Big away before my very eyes, and
Speaker 1: it made me so sad. So yeah, I mean it
Speaker 1: was it was hard to see Big die. But I also, like,
Speaker 1: I get he died, and then basically came in my
Speaker 1: mind how I saw the show was he died, and
Speaker 1: basically was she was there kind of revived and they
Speaker 1: knew he was. He was dying, like there was no calling.
Speaker 1: It was like that moment. And I saw an interview
Speaker 1: I think it was with Chris or someone said it
Speaker 1: was like the they compared it to another movie where
Speaker 1: it was just like they needed I needed that moment
Speaker 1: between them. I didn't want her on the phone for
Speaker 1: Rantiket calling. It was very strange to me. Really yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought the whole that whole scene was very strange.
Speaker 1: Oh tell me more. I just I liked her reaction
Speaker 1: at first, where she just kind of stood back and
Speaker 1: she watched and it really didn't like hit her yet.
Speaker 1: That was great. And I understand that when you have
Speaker 1: a heart attack maybe you just can't move and you can't,
Speaker 1: but he was like awake and alive, but just standing there.
Speaker 1: I don't know, it was just all very odd to me.
Speaker 1: I didn't it didn't feel um, you didn't feel that
Speaker 1: authentic to me, like that's how it would happen. So
Speaker 1: I understand that having the moment, which I think is
Speaker 1: important too. I'm glad they had the moment. But he
Speaker 1: was like still alive and no one was doing anything.
Speaker 1: But he wasn't though he was done. He was moving barely.
Speaker 1: But if you're moving, you're going to think that there's
Speaker 1: still alive. Okay, I'm just being yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I get it, but I just it was I totally
Speaker 1: get your point with it. Also, like I needed that closure.
Speaker 1: I needed that, like Carrie, I needed their last like
Speaker 1: I'm that was really super sweet. Though I did love
Speaker 1: like their their moment. It was it was their looks together,
Speaker 1: it was there. It was just like and then he died.
Speaker 1: I hated that voiceover though. I thought that that was
Speaker 1: so callous, the way it's just like and just like
Speaker 1: that big die yeah on earth like this because I
Speaker 1: thought he was he was still alive at that point.
Speaker 1: He was like blinking and moving around. Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: like that's how you find out is gone, Like he's
Speaker 1: literally his hand is moving and putting it on her,
Speaker 1: but yet he's dead. I'm like, I don't understand. It's
Speaker 1: just like he's dead. Yeah, it was strange. Do we
Speaker 1: have a caller, Let's let's take our first caller who
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I was like, we have a caller,
Speaker 1: we do have callers to talk about this. Uh, we're
Speaker 1: talking about Sex in the City and just like that,
Speaker 1: which is an HBO Max original by the way, in
Speaker 1: case anyone hadn't picked that up. Major spoilers ahead. We
Speaker 1: are entering spoiler country. All here comes our first her
Speaker 1: first collar, Brittany is coming in. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: love you. Okay. So Brandy is like the head of
Speaker 1: like all One One Tree Hill and she's a big
Speaker 1: TV watcher. We love Brittany. What did you think of
Speaker 1: Sex in the City. We're talking about the death right now.
Speaker 1: I have so many opinions. I watched you on Thursday
Speaker 1: when it first came out, Like I had a dinner
Speaker 1: plans and I was like, we wrapped this dinner rout,
Speaker 1: like I need to go home because I'm avoiding the internet.
Speaker 1: And I watched a Thursday night. I kind of knew
Speaker 1: what was coming. Um, especially with the heavy recital playing
Speaker 1: and like showing big and I'm like, oh, he's gonna die,
Speaker 1: Like so um. I just think it started very rough
Speaker 1: and aggressive and the dialogue that they were, like when
Speaker 1: Carrie and them started having the dinner, you know, that
Speaker 1: lunch and they were they were very like I thought
Speaker 1: it was really forcing, clunky dialogue. But then it got better,
Speaker 1: Like it started off really aggressive with COVID and trying
Speaker 1: to but then it got better and then the second
Speaker 1: episode was really heartbreaking. That's my initial thoughts. I'd agree
Speaker 1: with that. There's one thing I want to say about
Speaker 1: I loved everything here. I mean, at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, it's I always said this, and like I
Speaker 1: could watch Sexy the City of them in the closet.
Speaker 1: They're just like I just love watching them. The second episode,
Speaker 1: the one thing that hit me the most was when
Speaker 1: I saw the flowers. I said, Samantha, that was That
Speaker 1: was the most touching moment I think of the second
Speaker 1: episode was that I hate that she's not on it.
Speaker 1: It bums me out that there's a little feud. Um.
Speaker 1: I wish, you know, for the sake of the fans
Speaker 1: and the TV set all of it would be really
Speaker 1: nice if they can, you know, and I really love
Speaker 1: how they how they how they have like blended that
Speaker 1: and like that the flower I was like, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be from Samantha. Samantha, I was like, but I still
Speaker 1: I felt like there could have been a better speech
Speaker 1: at the funeral. It's just me. I just felt a
Speaker 1: little empty. I was just like, I'm not that sad.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't. I mean, I know they
Speaker 1: had explained to Samantha's absence, and I'm glad they did
Speaker 1: and in the way they did right away. But the
Speaker 1: comments Brandon Curry had when they were walking together and
Speaker 1: then she said the h T M comment, I just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was as yeah, that's like a little dick there. So,
Speaker 1: but the flowers were the best part of the second episode.
Speaker 1: And then it's going to pass away like that, it's
Speaker 1: hard to see Stanford's character, you knowses away, so that
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is symbolic. It was, but the
Speaker 1: flowers were a good touch. How do you think they're
Speaker 1: gonna do Stanford's death or like, where are they going
Speaker 1: to say about him? I don't know what's nice about
Speaker 1: how this second episode ended. It was there alluding to
Speaker 1: a lot of things, and how the series is going
Speaker 1: to play out, and I think with his husband and
Speaker 1: the fighting is like over the top more so than
Speaker 1: it was the movie. I'm like, maybe there's something. I
Speaker 1: don't know if they will have him pass away. I
Speaker 1: really don't. I hope not. I can't deal with I
Speaker 1: can't deal with Stanford dying too, like I just like
Speaker 1: and just like that, I stopped watching. But actually, oh man,
Speaker 1: I never thought I would say this because I'm not
Speaker 1: carry on the show at all. I'm totally like a
Speaker 1: mix of Miranda and Charlotte all day. I have never
Speaker 1: felt more like Carrie. And in that podcast episode because
Speaker 1: of estimating, you talk about sex and I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't want to talk about this, She's like, like so uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, the rabbit is fantastic. See, I just
Speaker 1: I felt like her, and I just I feel I'm
Speaker 1: going to turn away in the bedroom, so I can't,
Speaker 1: like I'm so uncomfortable, right, I can't talk about her?
Speaker 1: And big Yeah that like that, Like that just seemed
Speaker 1: that was a little like you guys are in your fifties,
Speaker 1: Like why are we I don't I don't know, Like no,
Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm not saying people can't masturbate in their fifties.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, I mean, how long have they
Speaker 1: been together? This exactly? Like never asked him and carry
Speaker 1: like she's sexual, Like I don't want to. I didn't
Speaker 1: buy that. I didn't buy that either. I didn't buy it.
Speaker 1: I was gonna talk about about the forest scenes sometimes.
Speaker 1: I just saw the little force and like try. I know.
Speaker 1: So my friend actually this morning because obviously we have
Speaker 1: nothing else harder to do but talk, you know, during work,
Speaker 1: she was saying that we need to look at it
Speaker 1: is a different chapter of Sex in the City. I
Speaker 1: kept looking at like sex in the City. I'm like,
Speaker 1: what their character wouldn't do that? So I was to
Speaker 1: rephrase it into a new chapter that we're going into
Speaker 1: with these women in their fifties and reinventing themselves. I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, I'll try. Well, Brittany, thanks for coming on.
Speaker 1: I love you for having me. I'll see you next
Speaker 1: year at the Friend's benefit One Tree Hill. Yeah, November eleven, Bie, guys, Christmas.
Speaker 1: I love Bretty. She's so sweet. Yeah, she's great. Um,
Speaker 1: Eastern would you think about all that? So many thoughts
Speaker 1: something about that podcast. See if we can go back
Speaker 1: to that really quickly. I was, okay, I when I
Speaker 1: heard the show is happening through, like Carrie's gonna have
Speaker 1: a podcast, and I'm like, I like podcasts. This will
Speaker 1: be fun. How how exciting? I thought she was gonna
Speaker 1: have her own podcast. And no, no disrespect to ch
Speaker 1: d as the character. I'm sure it's a fine podcast,
Speaker 1: but like Jane is like not Janna. Sorry. Carry is
Speaker 1: like a like fourth mic on that show, Like she's
Speaker 1: like a sidekick, sidekick, And it really bummed me out
Speaker 1: because I was like, Carry needs to be the host.
Speaker 1: That should be Sex in the City of the podcast.
Speaker 1: Like I thought they were going to convert the column
Speaker 1: into a podcast, So that made me kind of bummed.
Speaker 1: I agree they should have done that, but I think
Speaker 1: they needed to bring in that new Ramirez character. I agree,
Speaker 1: but I also do in a way, like the dynamic
Speaker 1: of showing that they're older and that like even though
Speaker 1: she was a columnist or whatever, you know, she used
Speaker 1: to write the columns like she she's like I need
Speaker 1: you to do She's like, yeah, I talked about sex,
Speaker 1: but like that was sex then and like it's so
Speaker 1: different now. What we talk about. And I do kind
Speaker 1: of like that dynamic of showing that as well as
Speaker 1: like the Miranda with her professor. It just kind of
Speaker 1: shows age and um making mistakes and what you say
Speaker 1: and how you know things have changed. I kind of
Speaker 1: like that dynamic of kind of showing like Miranda didn't
Speaker 1: mean it in any way, but she's like, Oh I
Speaker 1: got this class because you're black. No, not because you're black,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, it's like whole like she's a
Speaker 1: train wrecord. I love her, but I just think it's
Speaker 1: kind of an interesting dynamic to also bring We have
Speaker 1: another caller to bring in. But do you guys think
Speaker 1: they're making the characters too old, like acting too old?
Speaker 1: Like they're like they're not old. They're in there like fifties,
Speaker 1: Like that's not like. But Steve especially, he's like, man,
Speaker 1: what was that sunny? Like he hasn't hearing aid and
Speaker 1: he's only he's like ninety years old. Like I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I mean people were up and uproar about like
Speaker 1: oh they didn't know what a podcast was. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't really listen to many podcasts either, Like my
Speaker 1: mom is a notework podcaster. You know, I think that's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's kind of a stretch. I mean I
Speaker 1: don't really I mean, I know what podcasts are, but
Speaker 1: she basically was just saying she doesn't listen to them.
Speaker 1: Rights not that she didn't know what they were, but
Speaker 1: I don't really listen besides this podcast, so it's fair.
Speaker 1: But you could listen to Oprah And I told, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's true. Um, okay, who's who's calling in? Let's bring
Speaker 1: in Gabby for another hot sex in the City and
Speaker 1: just like that take, here comes Gabby. Gabby, Hi, my friend. Okay,
Speaker 1: what was what was your take? I love it, you know,
Speaker 1: I obviously love the show. I'm so happy that it's back.
Speaker 1: I didn't necessarily love how they're making a bunch of
Speaker 1: like fifty fifty five year old people act so ancient.
Speaker 1: I'm like, my mom is like fifty six and she
Speaker 1: knows all about TikTok and Instagram and all that stuff.
Speaker 1: So seen like Miranda and Carrie just act like, oh
Speaker 1: like that they can't get into it. I'm like, that's
Speaker 1: just not realistic. And I think it does play into
Speaker 1: like a little bit of like the stigma about women
Speaker 1: in Hollywood, which kind of annoyed me because I feel
Speaker 1: like that's one of the reasons that Samantha didn't come back,
Speaker 1: because she like had these expectations that you know, she wanted,
Speaker 1: as like an older woman in Hollywood, to be like,
Speaker 1: have the opportunity for rules out so I have just
Speaker 1: sex in the city, and the franchise wouldn't give her that,
Speaker 1: so she like took that stand, and then for these
Speaker 1: characters to still be acting like portrayed so much older
Speaker 1: and out of touch than I think like fifty year
Speaker 1: old women actually are. That was a little bit annoying
Speaker 1: to me. But I'm still going to be watching. I mean,
Speaker 1: the trailers that I saw made it look like there
Speaker 1: is a lot more um like character development in those
Speaker 1: ways and advances, So hopefully the rest of the season
Speaker 1: will be a lot better. But from the first two episodes,
Speaker 1: I was like, there there, it's a little bit far
Speaker 1: fetched for me to think that they're so out of
Speaker 1: touch with a lot of like normal technology, I hear you.
Speaker 1: My only debate to that gap is Carrie always had
Speaker 1: a flip phone. Remember, She's like, I don't know how
Speaker 1: to use this thing, So that's the only thing that
Speaker 1: I'll give to my girl carry because she's like this,
Speaker 1: she's like, you know, what's her face? Hands are like
Speaker 1: a you know, blackbird's like I don't know how to
Speaker 1: use this place, you know. So that that is, to me,
Speaker 1: has always stayed consistent with at least Carrie. And I
Speaker 1: would say that for Carrie, but not for Miranda, right
Speaker 1: I can I can hear that can seem Randy to
Speaker 1: be more up on it, but I will say to like,
Speaker 1: I I feel bad for all the comments that they're
Speaker 1: getting about their looks, like their age, and it's like,
Speaker 1: what do you expect? Like we age, women age and yes,
Speaker 1: we might have a little fillers here there or botox,
Speaker 1: or we might age with gray hair, but like what
Speaker 1: did you what did what did people honestly expect We're
Speaker 1: gonna they're gonna look different, we are going to look
Speaker 1: different in twenty years. I think they expect what a
Speaker 1: lot of Hollywood is these days, and they're not necessarily that. Yeah, honestly,
Speaker 1: I mean I like that there's age now again, Like
Speaker 1: you said, like, I think it's a little too much
Speaker 1: like but yeah, I love like the physical aging like
Speaker 1: I love them Miranda's rocking her gray hair, and I
Speaker 1: kind of want the red back though, just for her
Speaker 1: own power stance. I don't know something because I feel
Speaker 1: like it's like, but yeah, m and like I think
Speaker 1: all the women look beautiful, and I think that unfortunately,
Speaker 1: like there's just gonna be trolls that are want to
Speaker 1: say things about the way that women look, which again
Speaker 1: is just like a greater issue I think within the
Speaker 1: industry that women's appearances are so much heavily criticized compared
Speaker 1: to men um But I mean, like, I love all
Speaker 1: the girls and I think that they look fabulous and
Speaker 1: I would love to look like that when I'm their age.
Speaker 1: So girl. Amen, Well, Gab, thanks for coming on. I
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Beb Yeah, thank you guys so much. Chas
Speaker 1: Merry Christmas. I would also like to say before we
Speaker 1: wrap out, it's obvious they're lending or their trending in
Speaker 1: the direction where Miranda has a drinking problem because she
Speaker 1: went to the bar and she's like, wait, like we
Speaker 1: don't open till eleven or whatever. Oh wait, oh she
Speaker 1: went twice to the bar. She went to that one
Speaker 1: and in the funeral, yeah, like she's like, oh, I'm like,
Speaker 1: which then trends me in the direction that she might
Speaker 1: be frustrated, So maybe she's going to, you know, stray
Speaker 1: a little bit, not saying drinking strays, but I'm just like, so,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm kind of like watching that storyline because
Speaker 1: I feel like she's going to get a little I
Speaker 1: think she might have a little Not saying drinking at
Speaker 1: eleven is a problem, I think we all have on vacation,
Speaker 1: but at a funeral, I'm sure. Yeah, well yeah, I
Speaker 1: kind of took it as she was about to have
Speaker 1: to go do a speech there. Oh yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1: You got drunk in my wedding microgund the other time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the other time too. But you know, I can see
Speaker 1: that she has a little something going on there. But
Speaker 1: I also think it'll be interesting to see the friendship
Speaker 1: between like her and Charlotte and then Miranda. There's something
Speaker 1: we're there too. I don't know. I guess we'll see. Okay,
Speaker 1: So we just got a spoiler because my producer Amy
Speaker 1: is listening, is watching the episode right now, so I
Speaker 1: don't I haven't watched it, but apparently spoiler. If you
Speaker 1: do not want to be spoiled, do not listen to this.
Speaker 1: But apparently Big left a million dollars to Natasha. Why
Speaker 1: would you leave money for your ex wife? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm so like confused by the whole thing. Right, if
Speaker 1: I was Carrie, I'd be like, wait what because they
Speaker 1: have probably already had a settlement, like like I would
Speaker 1: like what out of the bigness of his heart? Like?
Speaker 1: But that would would that bother you as a wife?
Speaker 1: Because that'd bother me? For sure? What if they had
Speaker 1: a kid together? They're a child, There's something else to this.
Speaker 1: I feel like there's a reason. There's got to be
Speaker 1: a reason. Right. Well, now I'm canceling the rest of
Speaker 1: the day and I'm not going to operate land now
Speaker 1: with the kids, and I'm going to sit on my
Speaker 1: couch and watch this. Man. Oh major spoiler alert, Amy,
Speaker 1: thanks for that. Wow okay, wow. Um. Well I'm gonna
Speaker 1: end this episode because now I think I want to
Speaker 1: watch it. Um. But yeah, here's to um, here's to
Speaker 1: finding your reflection. By y'all,