1 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: Happy Wednesday, she pivots listeners. Today We're going to do 2 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: something a little different with the holiday tomorrow. I hope 3 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: most of you are driving or traveling somewhere sudy and warm, 4 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: so I wanted to share some of our older episodes 5 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 1: that you might have missed. Links are in the description 6 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: for easy access, So pick your fave for multiple faves 7 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: and let us know what you think. With the Olympics 8 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: right around the corner, I couldn't help but share our 9 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 1: episode with the world's most decorated track and field athlete 10 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: male or female, Alison Felix. Over the course of her 11 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: running career, she competed in five Olympics and nine World Championships, 12 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: winning a total of thirty medals between the two. An 13 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: incredible professional feat but not Allison's full story. During our conversation, 14 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: Alison shared how her journey has been about more than 15 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: just medals, and since we recorded, she had another baby. 16 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 1: This episode is safe to listen to with kids in 17 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:07,759 Speaker 1: the car. 18 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,119 Speaker 2: The first two Olympics, I got silver medals, and then 19 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 2: it was the third Olympics where things, you know, really 20 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 2: came together for me and I finally got, you know, 21 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 2: ultimately my individual gold medal. Just success was like gold, 22 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 2: Like that's the only way to like determine it, That's 23 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: the only way that it measured up. And I just 24 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 2: I went there a really difficult time after getting the 25 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 2: second silver medal, and I was just like this, I 26 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 2: don't know if this is ever gonna happen for me. 27 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: And then after you know, going back the next four 28 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 2: years and dedicating myself and you know, giving everything I had, 29 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: when it finally did come together, it didn't exactly feel 30 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 2: like what I thought it would. I think I had 31 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 2: like I had built it up to be, you know, 32 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 2: this incredible thing. Like I thought everything was going to change. 33 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: I thought my life was going to be different, and 34 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 2: then it happened and kind of like nothing changed, and 35 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: I went back to life and everything was the same, 36 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: and it took me time to unpack it. But I 37 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: think it was just, you know, the magic was along 38 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 2: the way. It was the process. It was the growing, 39 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: the stretching, becoming, you know, all of that, and so 40 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 2: it was less about the actual accomplishment, but more about 41 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 2: the journey to get there. 42 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 1: Once you finished Allison's episode, give Paula Nierres a listen. 43 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: Her episode is from season one back when we did 44 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 1: just ten episodes, and even though we had a limited 45 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: number of slots, I knew I wanted Paula on. I 46 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: met Paula when I was working at the Service Member's 47 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: Legal Defense Network, and her story stuck with me. A 48 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: Navy veteran, Paula left behind the life and career she 49 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: knew and loved to pursue her authentic self as a 50 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: transgender woman and eve of the very holiday when we 51 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: celebrate and honor freedom. I thought her story was only 52 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: fitting as someone who fought for both country and self. 53 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: If you're thinking about listening with your kids, Paula's episode 54 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 1: does have some mentions of self harm, so listen with care. 55 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: Here's a short clip. 56 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 3: This is still you know, ten to fifteen years before 57 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 3: anybody was going to challenge any of these policies in court. 58 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 3: And you know, Charleston in nineteen ninety two not a 59 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 3: bastion of progressive thought. It wasn't you know, it wasn't 60 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 3: the battlefield to fight in. And you know, and that's 61 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 3: one thing is that in pivoting and looking at you, 62 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 3: how you deal with situations is I'm a firm believer 63 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 3: in keeping your autonomy is I'm not a big fan 64 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 3: of victim feeling like you're a victim. It's like, yeah, 65 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 3: society has stigma, and society discriminates against you know, and 66 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 3: I don't I don't lessen the impact of what that 67 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 3: can be because you know, I'm very privileged, you know, 68 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 3: which gives me some of the armor and the weapons 69 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 3: to be able to deal with that in a way 70 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 3: that other people can't. But every single one of us 71 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 3: has the capacity to make the decisions for how we're 72 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 3: going to live our life. If you want to be free, 73 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: if you want to live authentically, you've got to be 74 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 3: willing to pay the price to do that. You know, 75 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 3: freedom isn't free. So for me, you know, obviously living 76 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 3: authentically was important enough for me to make a decision 77 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 3: to live authentically and pay the price, you know, sacrifice 78 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 3: my career in the Navy, deal with discrimination. 79 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: I truly cannot recommend Paula's episode enough. Her episode won 80 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,160 Speaker 1: a few awards, so it's definitely worth a listen. Finally, 81 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 1: I wanted to share an episode that lives with me 82 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 1: to this day, Tetiana Podo. On this emotional episode, Tetiana 83 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: recounts her personal experience as Ukrainian civilian volunteer working to 84 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: help her father's unit on the warfront. She left her 85 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 1: job at Spotify and Silicon Valley to return home to 86 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: Ukraine with her family and help in whatever way she could. 87 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 1: When I last spoke with Tetiana, her father was recovering 88 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: from a serious injury, but now healed. He's received an 89 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: award from President Zelensky for defense of Ukraine, a huge honor, 90 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: and now she has started a venture capital firm founded 91 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 1: to source and nurture precede stage defense tech companies with 92 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: an impact on Ukraine's victory. They're on the front lines 93 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: fighting for freedom that we are so lucky to celebrate 94 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 1: this week. Despite the heavy nature of this episode, Tetiana 95 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: speaks with such a lightness and hope throughout it all. 96 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 1: For Tetiana's episode, You're more than welcome to listen with 97 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: your kids. It is safe for kids, but it is 98 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: some heavy content, so listen with care. 99 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 4: You know, it's just like numbers, and I feel like 100 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 4: a lot of people become defensive dies by this. You know, 101 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 4: a lot of people get used to it. It's all 102 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 4: all news to many people, but for us, it's just continued, 103 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 4: you know, it's been a year, but you know, maybe 104 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,359 Speaker 4: it's not on the front page of the news, but 105 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 4: for me, it's really horrible. It's still you know, my 106 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 4: father is there fighting. You know. It's like you never 107 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 4: get used to the fact that every morning people you 108 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 4: love are in danger. But people are not scared. 109 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 5: If anything, people are very committed to victory. It's like 110 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 5: people a grieve whenever something bad happens. It feels personal. 111 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 5: But people when they drink, they toast them, they say, 112 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 5: to victory, to victory. 113 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed these throwbacks and check them out 114 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 1: during your July fourth travels. Each one truly has a 115 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: special place in our hearts here on the she pivots team. 116 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 1: If you do listen to a throwback episode, post a 117 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: photo and tag us on Instagram at she pivots. The 118 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: podcast special Thanks to the she Pivots team, Executive producer 119 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: Emily eda Velosik, Associate producer and social media connoisseur Hannah Cousins, 120 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: Research director Christine Dickinson, Events and logistics coordinator Madeline Snovak, 121 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: and audio editor and mixer Nina pollock I endorse she 122 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: Pivots