WEBVTT - Laugh On Purpose feat. Maddy Smith 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:04.400 Welcome to the women while in our podcast, you guys 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:11.280 the girl anybody, she girl, she go Pretty's Welcome to 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:13.319 the women While and Out podcast. These guys are the 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:18.600 ladies and wild and Out control them. You better get 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:23.480 your show. Hello, ladies, tonight we're gonna have the women 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:33.400 a while, you know podcasts on the car tag girl 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:36.600 beat someone here, beautiful, beautiful. I was gonna say, whiling 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:38.479 our girl, but you know, Nick, change that. It's wilding 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:43.440 out guys, because we are elevating, we're evolving, we're maturing. 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:46.640 Um and I got my girl breathe to the right 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:50.280 of me free, I'm here. I think we're gonna do 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:52.440 a nice little toast now to keep us on. Let's 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:54.640 just kick it out some wine. Girl. Oh yeah, okay, okay, 0:00:54.880 --> 0:00:59.880 we're gonna okay what we're going. That's you, Okay, I'm 0:00:59.880 --> 0:01:03.200 not one. Let's talk. You know, because I thought about this, 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:05.760 actually you say this a lot with this in the industry, 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:07.720 and I thought about it today on stage looking at Nick, 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:11.480 I was like, longevity. This man has been in the 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:17.080 industry for seventy plus years and no, seriously, he's you know, 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:20.800 he's aging and he looks so good. He's still relevant, 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:25.000 he's handsome, he's successful. And I was literally looking at 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:27.440 him saying, I'm like, I just want longevity. God give 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:31.200 me longevity. So let's cheers to longevity. And whenever we 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:36.200 decide to do, you have longevity. You want to be 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:38.240 a post to worker, you have longevity. If you want 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:40.680 to be a comedian, you have longevity. In God would 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:46.680 just continue to open up doors. Okay, guys, well now 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:50.200 that we're talking about handsome, Now that'd not handsome subjects. 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.680 What is the worst state y'all have been on? Oh 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:57.720 my god, let me stop first. You was probably worse 0:01:58.000 --> 0:02:00.560 to him, Like, no, I wasn't, Actually I would, okay. 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:03.280 So I so I was talking to somebody for like 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:05.600 four years right like just and I just wanted to 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:08.360 branch out because I was toxic. So I was in 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:10.680 um this this. First of all, I was at my 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:12.880 home grounds and this guy picked me up. First of all, 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:16.239 heat passed the house and stop at the top side 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.079 and said, I'm as sad. I said, I gotta walk 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:22.880 to you inside. So I walked to him and I 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:24.000 was like, okay. When I was like, I was like, 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:25.440 why do you just pull back to the house? Is 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:27.760 right there. Then I was like, okay, cool, then we're 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:30.480 chopping it up. Didn't go inside, didn't even introduce itself, 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:33.399 not even just say hey, because that's I met him 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:36.120 through them my friends. I was at home and then 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.280 I said, let's just go around the neighborhood and just 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:42.680 park up and talk and chat up. Honey. We was 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:45.040 in the car just chopping up. All I smell was 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:49.000 a burb. I said, I'm never talking to you ever 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:52.240 in life, like that ship was safe. I was like 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:54.840 that burp was so stink. I said, you turn the 0:02:54.880 --> 0:03:00.280 window down. I'm never talking to you. No. No, when 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:04.120 when he when he burped, okay, when he made that nasty, 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:11.320 disgusting birth, I said, I like this, I'm going back 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:14.160 in the house that like, And it wasn't even a date. 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:17.280 It was like turned off. It was seen was in 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:18.800 the date. But it was like moment where like because 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:21.200 you know me, be, I don't go on dates. I've 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:23.440 never like been on things like that. Like literally my 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:27.520 situation was that, yeah, it was like nothing like romantic 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:29.679 and like uh, it was always like we're gonna go 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:31.920 where they want to go or whatever. So now I'm 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:34.320 getting like I'm gonna step out. So I was like, 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:35.880 let me just you know how light him in his 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:37.360 car and like just chop it up to see his 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:41.480 head at he showed me where his breath was That 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:48.080 birth disgusting. Never again, that is hiarious? Did you just 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:54.840 get out? Leave? I said, let go back house? Have 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:59.160 you what was yours? Well? My dammas ended up dating 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:04.240 him after this, but I literally, how'd you say that? Literally? 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:12.160 I've met this man on riya? What's that? What? Girl? Right? Okay? 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:18.560 So it's for like whatever verified, yeah, like industry or something. 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:22.800 Basically that's what I should have been like, I don't know. 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:25.320 That's my girlfriend talked me into it. I was like, 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:26.960 I don't want to do this. They ended up putting 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:28.800 me on it, and I was like it was on here, Yeah, 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:30.919 I'm on her now, girl, don't go on there. I 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:32.920 met this man. He picked me up with the girl 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:37.080 he was already dating. You're lying where to God picks 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:39.040 me up with this girl and I have no idea. 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:42.160 I'm like, Hi, what's up? Where we're going? We're going 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:45.120 to salsa? I'm like, I don't dance, Well, we're going 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.560 to salsa? Dances with this girl in front of me. 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:50.360 The whole night, and I'm like, this is the weirdest 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:53.680 thing I've ever experienced. She's trying to dance with me, 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:58.440 and then I find out he was trying to swinger. Oh, 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:02.240 this has gone so at least so bad. It was awful. 0:05:02.240 --> 0:05:04.760 And after that I tried to uber and then they 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:06.760 corned me outside and it was like the most awkward 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:10.040 thing ever. And then she started damning me and I 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:15.160 had the blocker. Oh my god, yes, so that's the 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.400 messed up heart. So then we stopped talking, like so yeah, 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:20.479 so then so then we stopped talking and then I 0:05:20.560 --> 0:05:22.360 run into him again. We have mutual friends, and then 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:25.600 we end up dating for two years. Wow. Yeah, did 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:33.640 you say badly? The same thing? The same thing? But yeah, 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:38.240 don't do it, bless you? Where is your where is 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:41.240 your mask? You ain't got a shield, you ain't got 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:43.120 a mask up in your elbow, and you're gonna touch 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:46.200 me with that? First of all, you noticed you were 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:53.239 saying it all week, allergies, allergies where every day? Yeah, 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:55.080 I had I had two many bad days to even 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:58.039 talk about. I live in Atlanta, So a day in 0:05:58.080 --> 0:06:00.240 Atlanta is meet me here, and you end up meeting 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.159 at the strip club and you're just walk in. You 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:04.120 can't even you don't even talk. It's just to throw 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:10.760 some money. And that's a date. That's a date. That's it, 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:14.640 you know. So, but I've had some great dates lately. 0:06:15.760 --> 0:06:18.080 Let's talk about that. On another episode, we have an 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:23.159 episode a love manifesting love because we are okay because 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:27.320 every time it comes up, you're like, that's the next 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.320 tell you all this. On another episode, We're gonna have 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:33.000 an episode about love. But I wrote down something November 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:38.080 two thousand nineteen, and I was so detailed, and I 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:40.560 met my boyfriend eight months later and everything that I wrote, 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:46.000 it's my boyfriend. When you manifest that, there's something that 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:55.040 you missed that? What girl? Anyways, anyways, anyways, anyways, we're 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:57.640 gonna take a break. We're gonna talk to the funny 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:02.160 and hilarious cast member mad E Smith, my girl. I 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:04.760 think this girl is so funny and I'm excited to 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:08.440 her what she'd be doing, Excited to have her on 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:10.480 the show because I feel like I've worked with her 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:13.600 for so long and I don't know much about her. 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:16.800 There's three d people working in production and helping on set, 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:19.400 and there's so many cast members, and you you know, 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:21.720 you you talk to people, but you tend to stay 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:24.200 with you know, and pep you're comfortable with. And I 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:25.880 hang out with V all the time and Jess and 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:28.280 whoever I'm with. But when I talk to Maddie, I'm like, 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:30.520 she just makes me laugh. And she's so cute and 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:33.280 she's so funny and talented and beautiful. So I can't 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:34.680 wait to get to know her a little more. We 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:42.920 will be right back after this. Welcome to the women 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:46.960 of Wilding Out Podcast Girl TV. And you know, we 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:51.320 got to bring up my my castmate. She's hilarious. I mean, 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:59.520 she's goofy, she's Maddie was girl. Come on, Madie, Hey, 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:12.080 you're no wine for me, no problem, I being uh 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:16.680 sitting in cars tomorrow. You drink too clean clear for it? 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:19.880 You know, do you drink sometimes? But it's just for her, 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:24.680 a little sweet like community, just for the why not, 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.400 just a little prop for the end so we can 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:30.360 do our little Yeah, that's it. You ain't even gotta 0:08:30.400 --> 0:08:34.920 drink out of it. Okay, cool? Yeah, But um so 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:37.360 tell us in the viewers, because I'm getting to know 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:39.000 you a little more. To actually asked, was it today? 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:41.160 I asked you where you were from. Yeah, yeah, and 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:43.560 you were like New York. I was like, someone's funny 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:50.400 talking to your face today. I was like, you were 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:53.439 so pretty. Where from and how old are you? And 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:58.360 social security? Yeah, yeah, I'm from Buffalo. I live in 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:01.240 New York City now, but I moved from Buffalo five 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:03.040 years ago. And how long have you been doing comedy? 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:05.880 Five years? I started when I moved to New York City. Yeah, 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.560 what made you get into the comedy world? What were 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:15.560 you doing before? Question? Sorry? So I moved to New 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:18.880 York City for a job. Shifty job. I don't even 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:29.240 know what that what a job? Is that shitty job? 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:32.480 A shitty job? I thought it was some white people 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:44.839 shi New York City said, I didn't get shitty cop balls, 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:49.800 motherfucker's and she's here. Yeah. I moved to New York 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:51.920 for a job. And then I had no friends in 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:56.160 New York City because it's a lonely place. And after college, 0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:59.400 I was like, uh, just like lonely New York City. 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.280 So I started to do open mics in the city. 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:03.640 I was always like pretty funny in my friend group, 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:05.679 but I just did it in New York City because 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:08.640 you can do it there and be anonymous. I used 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:10.760 to have like a fear of failure, so I was like, 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.840 if I do it here and nobody's gonna I'll just 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:17.360 go downtown. They'll never see me again. And the first 0:10:17.360 --> 0:10:19.520 half in MinC, I was like, we're doing it and 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:25.439 I just kept going, Yeah, that really really dope spirit. 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:28.199 You know, thank you, just I told you now you 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:31.400 did a great job. Thank you your episode. Like the 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:34.199 confidence out there, I mean, like you said you was 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:36.840 being anonymous, if you you know, you was gonna had 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:41.239 a spirit of failure, but it shows like the opposite 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:46.560 of that confidence, you know, resonates on stage. Thank you everything. 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:54.040 You're just you're just pretty yourself yourself. You're unapologically unpol you. Yeah. 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:58.520 I lov being on stage. It's fun and you're like, yeah, 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:01.120 it's just have helen and stand up. There's like a 0:11:01.120 --> 0:11:07.079 lot of like, uh, mentally unwell people don't have a 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:09.880 lot of fun. So like coming to wilding out where 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.600 everyone pretty much has fun and they laugh at jokes 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.760 that don't do well. It's like way more freeing than 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:23.480 men who are looking yeah yeah dude, yeah I don't 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:32.600 have a bed like in Atlanta, and yeah, your joke 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:37.880 was your dead so speaking? Okay, so it was just 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:40.200 before you came on. He was talking about dates. Okay, 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:42.199 did you do you have a worse or you've been 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:45.400 through I've been through the ring? Really, what was the worst. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:49.199 When I first moved to New York City, I was like, 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:51.920 oh my god, I was like blacking out and I 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:55.040 was like going on tender dates, just talking about that 0:11:56.840 --> 0:12:05.440 bumble horrible little tinder bumble fishing, blah blah blah. You 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:08.280 want to come in there, like what's up? I'm feeling 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:10.360 like we have a vibe. Gave me a five star review. 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:12.800 Uh yeah, I went on. You know what I did 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:14.160 When I first moved to New York, I had really 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:16.360 love selfice team. I used to not that, not that 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:18.840 it has to do with it, but when I graduated college, 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:21.840 I was like two ten pounds. So just like a 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.600 lot of a lot of issues going on there, you know, 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:27.960 more internal than external. And so when I moved to 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.960 New York, I was still dealing with a lot of that. 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:33.319 So I would go on dates panic because I think 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:39.320 I cat fished him, and then I would blackout. Girl, 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:45.680 tell it this is good because it might be somebody 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:48.640 out there going through that used to be so insecure? 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:51.520 How did you get out of those you know, spaces 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:54.200 of insecurity, Like, how did you get to this point 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:58.760 because you confidence that you actually showed me a picture 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:02.400 of you know before and then now yeah, and how 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:05.559 you two questions you don't think I'm trying to get 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:08.720 to know you and this she's looking for some some 0:13:08.800 --> 0:13:15.840 advice that wasn't So how did you go to that journey? 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:18.040 And how did you get to the point of having 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:20.640 this self esteem which you're very confident now, thank you. 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:25.040 That's crazy. I feel like it is some confidence in 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:28.920 some of a facade. Really know, You're like, well, if 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:31.160 I look like I'm having fun, they won't know I'm 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:39.160 the next move. You would never see that outside making moment. Yeah, yeah, 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:42.560 I mean I think we all do that. Were literally 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:52.559 like in my head, yea, literally all that I think 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:56.800 we all go through. But you again, you know, of course, 0:13:56.920 --> 0:13:59.440 just coming from being in the place of like feeling 0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:01.439 like I'm a fail, You're I don't want to fail, 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:05.600 and you know, having those insecurity issues. It doesn't look 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:08.679 like that on stage. So that's the awesome thing about it. 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:11.280 We would never know you had to talk about you 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:13.920 to talk about it. It's good to talk about it. Yeah. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:15.520 I think there's so many women that go through that, 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.600 so many when I'm like, oh my god, am I 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:22.400 being weird? Like every dude I know, it's like I'm cool, right, 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:30.400 like yeah, yeah, yeah, we're in a Starbucks. But okay. 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:38.560 This one was asking about your fit, like how did 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:40.400 your fitness journey? How how did that go? It was 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.320 pretty much just like I moved to New York, started 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:44.600 doing a lot of walk in and I really think 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.880 starting comedy, I was like, oh, I got a little 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:49.880 bit of a purpose. I was floating for a while 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:52.240 and I was like I worked in a nonprofit and 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:54.400 I was like, I feel like this is what I'm 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.160 supposed to do on paper feels very good with a 0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.880 capital G, but I don't feel like it's like my call. 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:03.480 And once I started comedy and I was like making 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:05.960 people smile and like kind of like working with a 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:08.440 lot of comedians who had like the similar mentality of me, 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:10.360 I was like, oh, this is a fit and I 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:13.080 had never found a fit and I don't want to 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:15.720 be like that person who's like she's just like what 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:18.920 I do, you know? But very like once I started that, 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:20.800 I was like, Oh I got a new focus. I 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:23.880 don't have to eat snacks at night. Wow, blah blah blah. 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:26.120 And then like a year later, I was like, oh, shoot, 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:29.920 I'm less weight and I'm pretty happy. Good for you. 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:33.560 You know when you start like trying to like not cry, literally, 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:38.760 like a little tear just went literally the word fit 0:15:39.000 --> 0:15:43.400 like just stuck out because like just definitely trying to 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:46.560 be accepted, you know, not knowing your place or just 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:49.160 wrying to figure it out. Essentially New York, you could 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:51.200 float around by the stuff. They would never notice you, 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:58.000 wouldn't you come out? Good for you? So let's get 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:01.160 into it. We're talking about comedy. I'm Maddie. Who was 0:16:01.160 --> 0:16:05.160 your favorite comedian? Oh that's a good question. Um, only 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:15.760 the girls here. Let me think about that. You know, 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:17.760 it's weird as when I started stand up, I actually 0:16:17.760 --> 0:16:20.040 didn't watch a lot of comedy. I just always knew 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:22.040 I was like the funny one in the groom. Right 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:26.360 when I started, I thought that everyone just did stand up, 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:28.320 And then I found out like improv versus stand up 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:33.320 versus just acting writing TV shows so many aspects. So 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:38.720 I didn't know a lot. But lately even watching more 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:43.160 of who do I even watch? She's like, I don't know, 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:47.360 there's a lot of dudes in it. Actually, Godfrey is 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:49.840 really When when Godfrey came today, I was like, what 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:52.280 the fuck he's like because I'm in Next York City 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:55.240 scene and he's like famous in my realm. I told 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:58.720 my boyfriend he's like WHOA. I was like, you're dating me, bitch, 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:04.840 how dare you? Yeah? So I like Godfrey? And then 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:10.040 I to whom Oh my boyfriend, Oh no, one is 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.840 I know. I'm like, I was out of here from 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:16.159 New York. We had our conversation and I had a 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:22.240 deep talk after an interesting web series. Yes in New York. Yeah, 0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:25.240 it was right before Corona hit together. Me and V 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:32.000 my boyfriend, we've been together almost three years. Yeah. Yeah, 0:17:32.320 --> 0:17:34.520 So I met him on the tail end of my 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:37.400 kind of like glow up. I was like, I wasn't 0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:40.320 looking for anyone, and then I was drunk at a 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:42.920 party and this hotty was there and I said, you're 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:51.600 gonna ring you. It might not be tonight, but then 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:54.800 I have so Yeah, so I made this, pulled it 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:58.680 all together like overnight, Lily, It did feel like overnight, 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:02.399 like overnight at the time, it felt very growing and 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:04.560 like it took a long time. But looking back, isn't 0:18:04.560 --> 0:18:06.080 it crazy when you look back and you're like, damn, 0:18:06.080 --> 0:18:09.199 we did it. Not that I'm like wow, but like 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:18.520 kicking it got your inbox is filling up the request. Okay. Cool, 0:18:19.200 --> 0:18:21.639 because when you first start something, you're like, damn, I 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:24.399 got a long way to go. Stuff like that. And 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:27.280 what you did was you trust your process. You didn't 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:29.320 like really like Okay, I'm gonna do this because everybody 0:18:29.400 --> 0:18:32.280 was doing. You really went through the process walking and 0:18:32.680 --> 0:18:36.520 you know, um and working on your comedy, just everything, 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:39.600 working on yourself internally. So you went through your process 0:18:39.880 --> 0:18:41.760 and then when you start working on your process, that's 0:18:41.760 --> 0:18:44.840 when God onlines everything I'm saying. So that's that's the 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:50.000 thing about everything. Yeah, you have to like push for yourself. Yeah, somebody, 0:18:50.000 --> 0:18:52.120 if you had the power to change anything in comedy, 0:18:52.160 --> 0:19:01.359 what would that be if I had had anything coming? Question? 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:05.800 My god, it's like sixty minutes, Um, you want the 0:19:05.800 --> 0:19:10.480 full full Maddie anything in comedy, anything, there's a stereotype 0:19:10.560 --> 0:19:13.520 where there is oh my god, the women thing is 0:19:13.880 --> 0:19:20.040 rough though, just like the when I do like gigs 0:19:20.240 --> 0:19:22.560 in kind of like Middle America. New York City is cool, 0:19:22.760 --> 0:19:26.480 they get it. Any city, Atlanta, oh yeah, we love you. 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:28.960 You go to like Middle America or like a casino 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:32.840 and bum fuck. You get on stage and they're like 0:19:33.920 --> 0:19:36.879 this not gonna say. And then the guy goes on 0:19:36.960 --> 0:19:39.399 after you with could have the same exact jokes and 0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:42.960 the like. He reminds me of my son. So there's 0:19:43.119 --> 0:19:47.080 a lot of that still sexism that you're like pushing 0:19:47.160 --> 0:19:50.080 through and through when it comes to certain crowds. So 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:52.480 I think that's what makes me the most annoyed. It 0:19:52.600 --> 0:19:55.120 was to see your stand up. Yeah, you should come out. 0:19:55.280 --> 0:19:57.920 I should come to you should make it happen. When 0:19:58.080 --> 0:20:01.480 when's your next day? Probably actually right after we shoot this, 0:20:01.520 --> 0:20:03.000 I'm going to l A to do a bunch of 0:20:03.000 --> 0:20:12.680 shows and all of July and yeah, yeah, So I'm 0:20:12.680 --> 0:20:14.800 going to ask you a little question. Do you know 0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:17.040 any Karen's We're gonna talk about Karen, Say, do you 0:20:17.119 --> 0:20:20.520 know any what do you think about Karen's? Like, tell 0:20:20.560 --> 0:20:23.320 me a little bit about that. Yeah, Oh my god, 0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:28.199 I'm gonna say my mom, but she's probably gonna watch this. 0:20:28.200 --> 0:20:33.399 So next to that, you know, when people are watching 0:20:33.440 --> 0:20:35.679 everything and I will mention you, I won't put you 0:20:35.680 --> 0:20:39.760 on blast. Could you give me Christmas presents? But do 0:20:39.800 --> 0:20:45.080 I know? Do I know any Karen's ever encountered one? 0:20:45.240 --> 0:20:47.800 Like whether you knew them personally or not right right, 0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:50.080 or had like a careen moment or hurt you know 0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:54.920 you wouldn't have had one, but obviously not, although I 0:20:55.040 --> 0:20:58.119 heard something around totally, I can feel myself, you know, 0:20:58.119 --> 0:21:00.240 when you're like cranky and you're at target it and 0:21:00.280 --> 0:21:04.360 something doesn't work out? Can I speak to the I'm 0:21:04.400 --> 0:21:07.360 not going to ask that about the manager, but um, 0:21:07.560 --> 0:21:10.960 do I know any Karen's. I feel like everyone is 0:21:11.000 --> 0:21:13.879 a Karen Black. Your name ain't going He's like, is 0:21:13.880 --> 0:21:21.080 that Akisha or an Akisha's. I feel like there's always Karen. 0:21:21.320 --> 0:21:26.720 Like I saw a comedy club. I saw some Karen's 0:21:26.760 --> 0:21:30.520 get kicked out of a show and it was a 0:21:30.560 --> 0:21:33.959 crazy moment. The bouncer he's my friend, he's the manager 0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:37.200 to His name is Red, And there was a moment 0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:38.879 where they were talking throughout the entire show. And you 0:21:38.920 --> 0:21:41.119 know how when people get really offended when you would say, hey, 0:21:41.160 --> 0:21:44.280 you gotta shut then up kind of a conversation. I'm 0:21:44.359 --> 0:21:47.560 enjoining the comedian No I've had I've seen people like 0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:51.040 lose their minds. So this family talk and talk and 0:21:51.080 --> 0:21:53.359 talking throughout the whole show. All the audience members played 0:21:53.359 --> 0:21:55.280 like fifty dollars plus a two ding minimum to be 0:21:55.400 --> 0:21:57.760 in this crowd. So they're like, dude, you gotta leave. 0:21:58.160 --> 0:22:01.800 And they made it a race issue because they were 0:22:01.840 --> 0:22:06.080 a white family and the guy the bouncer was black. Yeah, 0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:08.040 and they were like, you're only picking us because of 0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:14.760 how we look. Okay, okay, definitely definitely Karen and she 0:22:14.920 --> 0:22:17.080 and then they got kicked out and there was a 0:22:17.119 --> 0:22:19.160 moment where she was like, this is why we don't 0:22:19.160 --> 0:22:21.359 like you. You don't like us, And I was like, 0:22:21.520 --> 0:22:25.480 oh my god, she's taking one person, taking her out 0:22:26.040 --> 0:22:30.160 for for a commentary on all of race relations in America. 0:22:30.840 --> 0:22:32.320 I know, why would you come to New York City 0:22:32.359 --> 0:22:34.760 if that's the way you think? For sure? New York 0:22:34.800 --> 0:22:37.800 is so diverse. Yeah, yeah, you could be anybody in 0:22:37.840 --> 0:22:43.080 New York anybody, anybody. You can be Stoman walking down 0:22:43.520 --> 0:22:47.240 down the street. Yeah, lose clues, any lose clues, Steve 0:22:48.600 --> 0:22:57.159 Singer mic and yeah bringing on Yeah, Vic right on 0:22:57.200 --> 0:23:01.080 the side, so really quick before he goes to a break. 0:23:01.200 --> 0:23:03.040 What would you call a male version of a Karen. 0:23:03.840 --> 0:23:08.040 A male version of a Karen is just probably that 0:23:08.359 --> 0:23:13.159 like loud, boisterous guy who's like, I'm like, I don't know, 0:23:13.160 --> 0:23:18.360 I'm just like socially uh, socially liberal, but like fiscally conservative, 0:23:18.520 --> 0:23:21.320 you know what I mean. It's like I understand, like 0:23:22.400 --> 0:23:24.200 I don't understand, like why would need to give people 0:23:24.280 --> 0:23:27.600 money and like why we help out other communities like 0:23:27.800 --> 0:23:30.200 I didn't. Oh, you know, like when Biden's like, let's 0:23:30.240 --> 0:23:33.120 forgive fifty and people are like, well, would they forgive 0:23:33.160 --> 0:23:35.800 fifty of my debt? Then I already paid all the 0:23:35.880 --> 0:23:38.000 mine off. Do I get a reward for people who 0:23:38.000 --> 0:23:44.280 are like me? Yeah? Those kind of people like systemic, 0:23:46.440 --> 0:23:48.120 you know what I mean. I'd say that's a male, 0:23:48.280 --> 0:23:52.560 a male who's like blah blah bla to chatty come 0:23:52.560 --> 0:23:55.080 off to his little podcast and then goes and says 0:23:55.160 --> 0:23:57.840 exactly what that podcast person said. Not this one though, 0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:03.879 And if you keep up, you keep it real life perspective, 0:24:04.000 --> 0:24:08.800 really real roll cutting up Maddie like seriously, like we 0:24:08.960 --> 0:24:12.200 love your energy, We love you guys, cast maid. Yes, 0:24:12.359 --> 0:24:19.800 as a friend today, I'm sickening. I don't even know 0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:23.520 at night and I'm like, I'm gonna press Annie and Niles. 0:24:26.400 --> 0:24:28.000 I know you're sitting back there. He doesn't know the 0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:37.320 psychological damage producers producers not season one. When you watch 0:24:37.359 --> 0:24:40.600 people get sent home, you're like, oh, man, yeah, well 0:24:40.640 --> 0:24:43.879