Speaker 1: Welcome to the women while in our podcast, you guys
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Speaker 1: the women While and Out podcast. These guys are the
Speaker 1: ladies and wild and Out control them. You better get
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Speaker 1: our girl, but you know, Nick, change that. It's wilding
Speaker 1: out guys, because we are elevating, we're evolving, we're maturing.
Speaker 1: Um and I got my girl breathe to the right
Speaker 1: of me free, I'm here. I think we're gonna do
Speaker 1: a nice little toast now to keep us on. Let's
Speaker 1: just kick it out some wine. Girl. Oh yeah, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we're gonna okay what we're going. That's you, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: not one. Let's talk. You know, because I thought about this,
Speaker 1: actually you say this a lot with this in the industry,
Speaker 1: and I thought about it today on stage looking at Nick,
Speaker 1: I was like, longevity. This man has been in the
Speaker 1: industry for seventy plus years and no, seriously, he's you know,
Speaker 1: he's aging and he looks so good. He's still relevant,
Speaker 1: he's handsome, he's successful. And I was literally looking at
Speaker 1: him saying, I'm like, I just want longevity. God give
Speaker 1: me longevity. So let's cheers to longevity. And whenever we
Speaker 1: decide to do, you have longevity. You want to be
Speaker 1: a post to worker, you have longevity. If you want
Speaker 1: to be a comedian, you have longevity. In God would
Speaker 1: just continue to open up doors. Okay, guys, well now
Speaker 1: that we're talking about handsome, Now that'd not handsome subjects.
Speaker 1: What is the worst state y'all have been on? Oh
Speaker 1: my god, let me stop first. You was probably worse
Speaker 1: to him, Like, no, I wasn't, Actually I would, okay.
Speaker 1: So I so I was talking to somebody for like
Speaker 1: four years right like just and I just wanted to
Speaker 1: branch out because I was toxic. So I was in
Speaker 1: um this this. First of all, I was at my
Speaker 1: home grounds and this guy picked me up. First of all,
Speaker 1: heat passed the house and stop at the top side
Speaker 1: and said, I'm as sad. I said, I gotta walk
Speaker 1: to you inside. So I walked to him and I
Speaker 1: was like, okay. When I was like, I was like,
Speaker 1: why do you just pull back to the house? Is
Speaker 1: right there. Then I was like, okay, cool, then we're
Speaker 1: chopping it up. Didn't go inside, didn't even introduce itself,
Speaker 1: not even just say hey, because that's I met him
Speaker 1: through them my friends. I was at home and then
Speaker 1: I said, let's just go around the neighborhood and just
Speaker 1: park up and talk and chat up. Honey. We was
Speaker 1: in the car just chopping up. All I smell was
Speaker 1: a burb. I said, I'm never talking to you ever
Speaker 1: in life, like that ship was safe. I was like
Speaker 1: that burp was so stink. I said, you turn the
Speaker 1: window down. I'm never talking to you. No. No, when
Speaker 1: when he when he burped, okay, when he made that nasty,
Speaker 1: disgusting birth, I said, I like this, I'm going back
Speaker 1: in the house that like, And it wasn't even a date.
Speaker 1: It was like turned off. It was seen was in
Speaker 1: the date. But it was like moment where like because
Speaker 1: you know me, be, I don't go on dates. I've
Speaker 1: never like been on things like that. Like literally my
Speaker 1: situation was that, yeah, it was like nothing like romantic
Speaker 1: and like uh, it was always like we're gonna go
Speaker 1: where they want to go or whatever. So now I'm
Speaker 1: getting like I'm gonna step out. So I was like,
Speaker 1: let me just you know how light him in his
Speaker 1: car and like just chop it up to see his
Speaker 1: head at he showed me where his breath was That
Speaker 1: birth disgusting. Never again, that is hiarious? Did you just
Speaker 1: get out? Leave? I said, let go back house? Have
Speaker 1: you what was yours? Well? My dammas ended up dating
Speaker 1: him after this, but I literally, how'd you say that? Literally?
Speaker 1: I've met this man on riya? What's that? What? Girl? Right? Okay?
Speaker 1: So it's for like whatever verified, yeah, like industry or something.
Speaker 1: Basically that's what I should have been like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's my girlfriend talked me into it. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do this. They ended up putting
Speaker 1: me on it, and I was like it was on here, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm on her now, girl, don't go on there. I
Speaker 1: met this man. He picked me up with the girl
Speaker 1: he was already dating. You're lying where to God picks
Speaker 1: me up with this girl and I have no idea.
Speaker 1: I'm like, Hi, what's up? Where we're going? We're going
Speaker 1: to salsa? I'm like, I don't dance, Well, we're going
Speaker 1: to salsa? Dances with this girl in front of me.
Speaker 1: The whole night, and I'm like, this is the weirdest
Speaker 1: thing I've ever experienced. She's trying to dance with me,
Speaker 1: and then I find out he was trying to swinger. Oh,
Speaker 1: this has gone so at least so bad. It was awful.
Speaker 1: And after that I tried to uber and then they
Speaker 1: corned me outside and it was like the most awkward
Speaker 1: thing ever. And then she started damning me and I
Speaker 1: had the blocker. Oh my god, yes, so that's the
Speaker 1: messed up heart. So then we stopped talking, like so yeah,
Speaker 1: so then so then we stopped talking and then I
Speaker 1: run into him again. We have mutual friends, and then
Speaker 1: we end up dating for two years. Wow. Yeah, did
Speaker 1: you say badly? The same thing? The same thing? But yeah,
Speaker 1: don't do it, bless you? Where is your where is
Speaker 1: your mask? You ain't got a shield, you ain't got
Speaker 1: a mask up in your elbow, and you're gonna touch
Speaker 1: me with that? First of all, you noticed you were
Speaker 1: saying it all week, allergies, allergies where every day? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I had I had two many bad days to even
Speaker 1: talk about. I live in Atlanta, So a day in
Speaker 1: Atlanta is meet me here, and you end up meeting
Speaker 1: at the strip club and you're just walk in. You
Speaker 1: can't even you don't even talk. It's just to throw
Speaker 1: some money. And that's a date. That's a date. That's it,
Speaker 1: you know. So, but I've had some great dates lately.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about that. On another episode, we have an
Speaker 1: episode a love manifesting love because we are okay because
Speaker 1: every time it comes up, you're like, that's the next
Speaker 1: tell you all this. On another episode, We're gonna have
Speaker 1: an episode about love. But I wrote down something November
Speaker 1: two thousand nineteen, and I was so detailed, and I
Speaker 1: met my boyfriend eight months later and everything that I wrote,
Speaker 1: it's my boyfriend. When you manifest that, there's something that
Speaker 1: you missed that? What girl? Anyways, anyways, anyways, anyways, we're
Speaker 1: gonna take a break. We're gonna talk to the funny
Speaker 1: and hilarious cast member mad E Smith, my girl. I
Speaker 1: think this girl is so funny and I'm excited to
Speaker 1: her what she'd be doing, Excited to have her on
Speaker 1: the show because I feel like I've worked with her
Speaker 1: for so long and I don't know much about her.
Speaker 1: There's three d people working in production and helping on set,
Speaker 1: and there's so many cast members, and you you know,
Speaker 1: you you talk to people, but you tend to stay
Speaker 1: with you know, and pep you're comfortable with. And I
Speaker 1: hang out with V all the time and Jess and
Speaker 1: whoever I'm with. But when I talk to Maddie, I'm like,
Speaker 1: she just makes me laugh. And she's so cute and
Speaker 1: she's so funny and talented and beautiful. So I can't
Speaker 1: wait to get to know her a little more. We
Speaker 1: will be right back after this. Welcome to the women
Speaker 1: of Wilding Out Podcast Girl TV. And you know, we
Speaker 1: got to bring up my my castmate. She's hilarious. I mean,
Speaker 1: she's goofy, she's Maddie was girl. Come on, Madie, Hey,
Speaker 1: you're no wine for me, no problem, I being uh
Speaker 1: sitting in cars tomorrow. You drink too clean clear for it?
Speaker 1: You know, do you drink sometimes? But it's just for her,
Speaker 1: a little sweet like community, just for the why not,
Speaker 1: just a little prop for the end so we can
Speaker 1: do our little Yeah, that's it. You ain't even gotta
Speaker 1: drink out of it. Okay, cool? Yeah, But um so
Speaker 1: tell us in the viewers, because I'm getting to know
Speaker 1: you a little more. To actually asked, was it today?
Speaker 1: I asked you where you were from. Yeah, yeah, and
Speaker 1: you were like New York. I was like, someone's funny
Speaker 1: talking to your face today. I was like, you were
Speaker 1: so pretty. Where from and how old are you? And
Speaker 1: social security? Yeah, yeah, I'm from Buffalo. I live in
Speaker 1: New York City now, but I moved from Buffalo five
Speaker 1: years ago. And how long have you been doing comedy?
Speaker 1: Five years? I started when I moved to New York City. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what made you get into the comedy world? What were
Speaker 1: you doing before? Question? Sorry? So I moved to New
Speaker 1: York City for a job. Shifty job. I don't even
Speaker 1: know what that what a job? Is that shitty job?
Speaker 1: A shitty job? I thought it was some white people
Speaker 1: shi New York City said, I didn't get shitty cop balls,
Speaker 1: motherfucker's and she's here. Yeah. I moved to New York
Speaker 1: for a job. And then I had no friends in
Speaker 1: New York City because it's a lonely place. And after college,
Speaker 1: I was like, uh, just like lonely New York City.
Speaker 1: So I started to do open mics in the city.
Speaker 1: I was always like pretty funny in my friend group,
Speaker 1: but I just did it in New York City because
Speaker 1: you can do it there and be anonymous. I used
Speaker 1: to have like a fear of failure, so I was like,
Speaker 1: if I do it here and nobody's gonna I'll just
Speaker 1: go downtown. They'll never see me again. And the first
Speaker 1: half in MinC, I was like, we're doing it and
Speaker 1: I just kept going, Yeah, that really really dope spirit.
Speaker 1: You know, thank you, just I told you now you
Speaker 1: did a great job. Thank you your episode. Like the
Speaker 1: confidence out there, I mean, like you said you was
Speaker 1: being anonymous, if you you know, you was gonna had
Speaker 1: a spirit of failure, but it shows like the opposite
Speaker 1: of that confidence, you know, resonates on stage. Thank you everything.
Speaker 1: You're just you're just pretty yourself yourself. You're unapologically unpol you. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I lov being on stage. It's fun and you're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just have helen and stand up. There's like a
Speaker 1: lot of like, uh, mentally unwell people don't have a
Speaker 1: lot of fun. So like coming to wilding out where
Speaker 1: everyone pretty much has fun and they laugh at jokes
Speaker 1: that don't do well. It's like way more freeing than
Speaker 1: men who are looking yeah yeah dude, yeah I don't
Speaker 1: have a bed like in Atlanta, and yeah, your joke
Speaker 1: was your dead so speaking? Okay, so it was just
Speaker 1: before you came on. He was talking about dates. Okay,
Speaker 1: did you do you have a worse or you've been
Speaker 1: through I've been through the ring? Really, what was the worst.
Speaker 1: When I first moved to New York City, I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I was like blacking out and I
Speaker 1: was like going on tender dates, just talking about that
Speaker 1: bumble horrible little tinder bumble fishing, blah blah blah. You
Speaker 1: want to come in there, like what's up? I'm feeling
Speaker 1: like we have a vibe. Gave me a five star review.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I went on. You know what I did
Speaker 1: When I first moved to New York, I had really
Speaker 1: love selfice team. I used to not that, not that
Speaker 1: it has to do with it, but when I graduated college,
Speaker 1: I was like two ten pounds. So just like a
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of issues going on there, you know,
Speaker 1: more internal than external. And so when I moved to
Speaker 1: New York, I was still dealing with a lot of that.
Speaker 1: So I would go on dates panic because I think
Speaker 1: I cat fished him, and then I would blackout. Girl,
Speaker 1: tell it this is good because it might be somebody
Speaker 1: out there going through that used to be so insecure?
Speaker 1: How did you get out of those you know, spaces
Speaker 1: of insecurity, Like, how did you get to this point
Speaker 1: because you confidence that you actually showed me a picture
Speaker 1: of you know before and then now yeah, and how
Speaker 1: you two questions you don't think I'm trying to get
Speaker 1: to know you and this she's looking for some some
Speaker 1: advice that wasn't So how did you go to that journey?
Speaker 1: And how did you get to the point of having
Speaker 1: this self esteem which you're very confident now, thank you.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. I feel like it is some confidence in
Speaker 1: some of a facade. Really know, You're like, well, if
Speaker 1: I look like I'm having fun, they won't know I'm
Speaker 1: the next move. You would never see that outside making moment. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I think we all do that. Were literally
Speaker 1: like in my head, yea, literally all that I think
Speaker 1: we all go through. But you again, you know, of course,
Speaker 1: just coming from being in the place of like feeling
Speaker 1: like I'm a fail, You're I don't want to fail,
Speaker 1: and you know, having those insecurity issues. It doesn't look
Speaker 1: like that on stage. So that's the awesome thing about it.
Speaker 1: We would never know you had to talk about you
Speaker 1: to talk about it. It's good to talk about it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think there's so many women that go through that,
Speaker 1: so many when I'm like, oh my god, am I
Speaker 1: being weird? Like every dude I know, it's like I'm cool, right,
Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, yeah, we're in a Starbucks. But okay.
Speaker 1: This one was asking about your fit, like how did
Speaker 1: your fitness journey? How how did that go? It was
Speaker 1: pretty much just like I moved to New York, started
Speaker 1: doing a lot of walk in and I really think
Speaker 1: starting comedy, I was like, oh, I got a little
Speaker 1: bit of a purpose. I was floating for a while
Speaker 1: and I was like I worked in a nonprofit and
Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like this is what I'm
Speaker 1: supposed to do on paper feels very good with a
Speaker 1: capital G, but I don't feel like it's like my call.
Speaker 1: And once I started comedy and I was like making
Speaker 1: people smile and like kind of like working with a
Speaker 1: lot of comedians who had like the similar mentality of me,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is a fit and I
Speaker 1: had never found a fit and I don't want to
Speaker 1: be like that person who's like she's just like what
Speaker 1: I do, you know? But very like once I started that,
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh I got a new focus. I
Speaker 1: don't have to eat snacks at night. Wow, blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: And then like a year later, I was like, oh, shoot,
Speaker 1: I'm less weight and I'm pretty happy. Good for you.
Speaker 1: You know when you start like trying to like not cry, literally,
Speaker 1: like a little tear just went literally the word fit
Speaker 1: like just stuck out because like just definitely trying to
Speaker 1: be accepted, you know, not knowing your place or just
Speaker 1: wrying to figure it out. Essentially New York, you could
Speaker 1: float around by the stuff. They would never notice you,
Speaker 1: wouldn't you come out? Good for you? So let's get
Speaker 1: into it. We're talking about comedy. I'm Maddie. Who was
Speaker 1: your favorite comedian? Oh that's a good question. Um, only
Speaker 1: the girls here. Let me think about that. You know,
Speaker 1: it's weird as when I started stand up, I actually
Speaker 1: didn't watch a lot of comedy. I just always knew
Speaker 1: I was like the funny one in the groom. Right
Speaker 1: when I started, I thought that everyone just did stand up,
Speaker 1: And then I found out like improv versus stand up
Speaker 1: versus just acting writing TV shows so many aspects. So
Speaker 1: I didn't know a lot. But lately even watching more
Speaker 1: of who do I even watch? She's like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of dudes in it. Actually, Godfrey is
Speaker 1: really When when Godfrey came today, I was like, what
Speaker 1: the fuck he's like because I'm in Next York City
Speaker 1: scene and he's like famous in my realm. I told
Speaker 1: my boyfriend he's like WHOA. I was like, you're dating me, bitch,
Speaker 1: how dare you? Yeah? So I like Godfrey? And then
Speaker 1: I to whom Oh my boyfriend, Oh no, one is
Speaker 1: I know. I'm like, I was out of here from
Speaker 1: New York. We had our conversation and I had a
Speaker 1: deep talk after an interesting web series. Yes in New York. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was right before Corona hit together. Me and V
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, we've been together almost three years. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I met him on the tail end of my
Speaker 1: kind of like glow up. I was like, I wasn't
Speaker 1: looking for anyone, and then I was drunk at a
Speaker 1: party and this hotty was there and I said, you're
Speaker 1: gonna ring you. It might not be tonight, but then
Speaker 1: I have so Yeah, so I made this, pulled it
Speaker 1: all together like overnight, Lily, It did feel like overnight,
Speaker 1: like overnight at the time, it felt very growing and
Speaker 1: like it took a long time. But looking back, isn't
Speaker 1: it crazy when you look back and you're like, damn,
Speaker 1: we did it. Not that I'm like wow, but like
Speaker 1: kicking it got your inbox is filling up the request. Okay. Cool,
Speaker 1: because when you first start something, you're like, damn, I
Speaker 1: got a long way to go. Stuff like that. And
Speaker 1: what you did was you trust your process. You didn't
Speaker 1: like really like Okay, I'm gonna do this because everybody
Speaker 1: was doing. You really went through the process walking and
Speaker 1: you know, um and working on your comedy, just everything,
Speaker 1: working on yourself internally. So you went through your process
Speaker 1: and then when you start working on your process, that's
Speaker 1: when God onlines everything I'm saying. So that's that's the
Speaker 1: thing about everything. Yeah, you have to like push for yourself. Yeah, somebody,
Speaker 1: if you had the power to change anything in comedy,
Speaker 1: what would that be if I had had anything coming? Question?
Speaker 1: My god, it's like sixty minutes, Um, you want the
Speaker 1: full full Maddie anything in comedy, anything, there's a stereotype
Speaker 1: where there is oh my god, the women thing is
Speaker 1: rough though, just like the when I do like gigs
Speaker 1: in kind of like Middle America. New York City is cool,
Speaker 1: they get it. Any city, Atlanta, oh yeah, we love you.
Speaker 1: You go to like Middle America or like a casino
Speaker 1: and bum fuck. You get on stage and they're like
Speaker 1: this not gonna say. And then the guy goes on
Speaker 1: after you with could have the same exact jokes and
Speaker 1: the like. He reminds me of my son. So there's
Speaker 1: a lot of that still sexism that you're like pushing
Speaker 1: through and through when it comes to certain crowds. So
Speaker 1: I think that's what makes me the most annoyed. It
Speaker 1: was to see your stand up. Yeah, you should come out.
Speaker 1: I should come to you should make it happen. When
Speaker 1: when's your next day? Probably actually right after we shoot this,
Speaker 1: I'm going to l A to do a bunch of
Speaker 1: shows and all of July and yeah, yeah, So I'm
Speaker 1: going to ask you a little question. Do you know
Speaker 1: any Karen's We're gonna talk about Karen, Say, do you
Speaker 1: know any what do you think about Karen's? Like, tell
Speaker 1: me a little bit about that. Yeah, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say my mom, but she's probably gonna watch this.
Speaker 1: So next to that, you know, when people are watching
Speaker 1: everything and I will mention you, I won't put you
Speaker 1: on blast. Could you give me Christmas presents? But do
Speaker 1: I know? Do I know any Karen's ever encountered one?
Speaker 1: Like whether you knew them personally or not right right,
Speaker 1: or had like a careen moment or hurt you know
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have had one, but obviously not, although I
Speaker 1: heard something around totally, I can feel myself, you know,
Speaker 1: when you're like cranky and you're at target it and
Speaker 1: something doesn't work out? Can I speak to the I'm
Speaker 1: not going to ask that about the manager, but um,
Speaker 1: do I know any Karen's. I feel like everyone is
Speaker 1: a Karen Black. Your name ain't going He's like, is
Speaker 1: that Akisha or an Akisha's. I feel like there's always Karen.
Speaker 1: Like I saw a comedy club. I saw some Karen's
Speaker 1: get kicked out of a show and it was a
Speaker 1: crazy moment. The bouncer he's my friend, he's the manager
Speaker 1: to His name is Red, And there was a moment
Speaker 1: where they were talking throughout the entire show. And you
Speaker 1: know how when people get really offended when you would say, hey,
Speaker 1: you gotta shut then up kind of a conversation. I'm
Speaker 1: enjoining the comedian No I've had I've seen people like
Speaker 1: lose their minds. So this family talk and talk and
Speaker 1: talking throughout the whole show. All the audience members played
Speaker 1: like fifty dollars plus a two ding minimum to be
Speaker 1: in this crowd. So they're like, dude, you gotta leave.
Speaker 1: And they made it a race issue because they were
Speaker 1: a white family and the guy the bouncer was black. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and they were like, you're only picking us because of
Speaker 1: how we look. Okay, okay, definitely definitely Karen and she
Speaker 1: and then they got kicked out and there was a
Speaker 1: moment where she was like, this is why we don't
Speaker 1: like you. You don't like us, And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, she's taking one person, taking her out
Speaker 1: for for a commentary on all of race relations in America.
Speaker 1: I know, why would you come to New York City
Speaker 1: if that's the way you think? For sure? New York
Speaker 1: is so diverse. Yeah, yeah, you could be anybody in
Speaker 1: New York anybody, anybody. You can be Stoman walking down
Speaker 1: down the street. Yeah, lose clues, any lose clues, Steve
Speaker 1: Singer mic and yeah bringing on Yeah, Vic right on
Speaker 1: the side, so really quick before he goes to a break.
Speaker 1: What would you call a male version of a Karen.
Speaker 1: A male version of a Karen is just probably that
Speaker 1: like loud, boisterous guy who's like, I'm like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I'm just like socially uh, socially liberal, but like fiscally conservative,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like I understand, like
Speaker 1: I don't understand, like why would need to give people
Speaker 1: money and like why we help out other communities like
Speaker 1: I didn't. Oh, you know, like when Biden's like, let's
Speaker 1: forgive fifty and people are like, well, would they forgive
Speaker 1: fifty of my debt? Then I already paid all the
Speaker 1: mine off. Do I get a reward for people who
Speaker 1: are like me? Yeah? Those kind of people like systemic,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'd say that's a male,
Speaker 1: a male who's like blah blah bla to chatty come
Speaker 1: off to his little podcast and then goes and says
Speaker 1: exactly what that podcast person said. Not this one though,
Speaker 1: And if you keep up, you keep it real life perspective,
Speaker 1: really real roll cutting up Maddie like seriously, like we
Speaker 1: love your energy, We love you guys, cast maid. Yes,
Speaker 1: as a friend today, I'm sickening. I don't even know
Speaker 1: at night and I'm like, I'm gonna press Annie and Niles.
Speaker 1: I know you're sitting back there. He doesn't know the
Speaker 1: psychological damage producers producers not season one. When you watch
Speaker 1: people get sent home, you're like, oh, man, yeah, well
Speaker 1: now what season is this for you? My third season? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm like, you're here, you know you
Speaker 1: got like Justina's opening up to me. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: tell me more about your home. No, look, let's tell
Speaker 1: y'all about Maddie. You don't play because she took my
Speaker 1: seat today and lunch and my stuff was right there,
Speaker 1: and I said, you're just a She said, I want
Speaker 1: to sit next to my brother. It was Jacob Fanny fag.
Speaker 1: I was like, whatever, I grab it and I took
Speaker 1: my ask to the other table with the super super
Speaker 1: super yeah, super dope. So thank you so much for today.
Speaker 1: Any other questions you wanted to ask her? Anybody want
Speaker 1: to know anything else about mad Maddie? I mean, I
Speaker 1: just I mean, you're just funny. You guys are funny,
Speaker 1: and this is just the most intimate moment I've ever
Speaker 1: had with you, and literally literally but what's crazy today?
Speaker 1: I didn't we you know, we do this every night,
Speaker 1: and Um, I didn't correlate the fact that you were
Speaker 1: going to be on the show tonight, and I just
Speaker 1: started talking to you. You know, I'm like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: know more about Maddie. Yeah, and this is so beautiful.
Speaker 1: You don't know what people go through, You don't know
Speaker 1: their story, you don't sit down and have a conversation
Speaker 1: with somebody. There's so much you told us in this
Speaker 1: little twenty minutes that I never know. And I told
Speaker 1: beautiful and the shows a home on the side of you.
Speaker 1: And here just being emotional because I promise you that
Speaker 1: look right over the rainbow relatable about that. You know,
Speaker 1: women out there can relate to, people can relate to.
Speaker 1: So thank you for sharing your time. We love you.
Speaker 1: So before we go, we always do a quote. Na
Speaker 1: always sends out devotions to everybody. Um in the morning. Um.
Speaker 1: You know she's very spiritual, her mom has a past
Speaker 1: or my dad's best case. And the devotion today was actually, um,
Speaker 1: laugh on purpose, find something to laugh about. If your
Speaker 1: your friends have conversations you remember in the back yea head,
Speaker 1: laugh about it. So it's about that today, laugh on purpose. Okay,
Speaker 1: laugh on purpose. I have two quotes. Okay, give it
Speaker 1: to um number one. Okay, they're a little bit too real. No,
Speaker 1: they're not talking about it on me. I like to be.
Speaker 1: I was nervous. He was like, what then, is your
Speaker 1: problems about this? Yeah? You see I'm over here and
Speaker 1: that's Scott just kicking it. Okay. This one says, no
Speaker 1: one is you and that is your power. Beautiful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: beat doom, that's it. Boom. Okay, I got one more. Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1: This one says, uh, actually, let's not do that one. Okay.
Speaker 1: This one's who am I based on this quote? Okay,
Speaker 1: So this one's I think this is a blanket, and
Speaker 1: I think this is unrelated to but ultimately it's about
Speaker 1: the turtle and the hairship. Okay, I'm a slow walker,
Speaker 1: but I never walked back. Okay. We're always moving forward.
Speaker 1: Other people might be chasing things before you, but you're like,
Speaker 1: it's okay, that's one of my work. If it's if
Speaker 1: it's a foot, if it's you know, it's not a race.
Speaker 1: It's a marathon time. And as long as you're moving
Speaker 1: forward and you're hustling at your own paceless She is Maddie.
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you so much. Madd Ie.
Speaker 1: Your time a little break and we will be right
Speaker 1: back after this. M H, welcome back to the Women
Speaker 1: About Now podcast. Maddie just left at Maddie Smith and
Speaker 1: that's my boyfriend L I was like, Smith, what made
Speaker 1: you get emotional? Girl? Just looking at her, just looking
Speaker 1: at her and just like hearing her story, just coming
Speaker 1: from an insecure place into like seeing her on stage
Speaker 1: now and just being so confident for her art, Like
Speaker 1: that's just amazing to me. And just she's just so cute.
Speaker 1: And you know when someone looks at you as like, yo,
Speaker 1: you're doing your thing, keep going. That's like being on
Speaker 1: your ship too, you know, because people are watching you.
Speaker 1: So that's how I got emotion, like dad and we're
Speaker 1: about to be ill or even the way when I
Speaker 1: was looking at her, and you know how talking to
Speaker 1: her today, even on such a show that is primarily urban,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, she's up there with most
Speaker 1: black people. You know, it's her, Jacob. We have a few,
Speaker 1: you know, other Caucasian people on the show, but for
Speaker 1: her to solely even Jacob come on the show, they
Speaker 1: are one hundred percent themselves. They're not coming trying to
Speaker 1: be DC. I've been trying to hang with it. This
Speaker 1: is who I am. This is me a hundred percent.
Speaker 1: And I just think that's such a She's so quirky
Speaker 1: and cute and talented and beautiful and funny, and I
Speaker 1: love her laugh and so pre But she laughed about
Speaker 1: something and make you laugh, you know, so well, just
Speaker 1: tell her internal is right too. She just and like
Speaker 1: I said, I love when someone has a story like
Speaker 1: I just love to listen to here because it's the
Speaker 1: process like we all go through it. And like for
Speaker 1: her to just read her two quotes and just like
Speaker 1: she's hustling at her own face. Still she gonna like
Speaker 1: Satturday like live all them shows, Adam saying that I
Speaker 1: can see her all that. She's definitely a star in
Speaker 1: her own right. Definitely I can see this today. It
Speaker 1: was a great, great show. Yeah the episode. What I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about them show three episodes? Are you so? Brie?
Speaker 1: I felt good? Was you out there today? I was
Speaker 1: were you being well? I was an audience today? Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: I was in the truck. That truck. You got to
Speaker 1: keep the energy, And honestly, I think you're way more
Speaker 1: on camera there than it is right there. Right to
Speaker 1: keep the energy out the crowd. Yea, yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it's fun all three. He was out there all three. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I got us doing one day audience for all
Speaker 1: three and then the next day while in out girls
Speaker 1: balance it out. How are you with the girls? Got it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I got get used to that too. Yeah, Yeah, we're good.
Speaker 1: I think it's just been they've always changed. We always
Speaker 1: had new girls. It was really hard to be like
Speaker 1: bond or keep anyone because there'd be the big girls.
Speaker 1: They'd be So I would say, there's probably only a
Speaker 1: few of us that are really still here, Like, um,
Speaker 1: it would be like Alexis and Desica charm and a
Speaker 1: view of those girls. Um, but now I feel like
Speaker 1: we all kind of have a vibe. But it's the
Speaker 1: same thing like y'all are saying you pick your people,
Speaker 1: and you kind of like, yeah, but I think, um,
Speaker 1: probably me and one other girl have been here the longest. Um,
Speaker 1: have you built any bonds with any of them? Like
Speaker 1: y'all got pretty close or it's just more like yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, I had a couple of girls
Speaker 1: and then they leave, you know, or like Amber for instance,
Speaker 1: which I'm so happy for Amber to be with y'all,
Speaker 1: but that was one of my main friends. I love
Speaker 1: my girls, like what am I going to do? What
Speaker 1: am I gonna do now? So I mean it's good.
Speaker 1: But I also learned a lot from Amber with like
Speaker 1: the girls and how to really like, you know, I
Speaker 1: was always kind of shy. I would be quiet, and
Speaker 1: I was sit and wait and kind of feel everybody
Speaker 1: out and watch. And Amber such a big, beautiful personality
Speaker 1: and she's like, girl, be you don't be quiet, and
Speaker 1: so I like changed a lot being around Amber, which
Speaker 1: I love. So I feel like now she's like set
Speaker 1: me off on my own. That's she's killing killing. I'm
Speaker 1: so happy for she's been dying to do that. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: but you already know what time it is? Time for
Speaker 1: quote at a night out? It out the outro he
Speaker 1: did the introvert um mind, don't get the all. I
Speaker 1: don't want to cry. Would you even to say that
Speaker 1: you're beautiful? And you know it was that your beautiful?
Speaker 1: And yet I admire your artistry. I am your art
Speaker 1: your hustle, I'm my your It's six to me because
Speaker 1: my nove was tingling now, but I do love be
Speaker 1: I've seen the growth. Remember I DM DM was just
Speaker 1: like just be like friends, friends as friends, and we
Speaker 1: went on I Love Data yard house. I'm so mad
Speaker 1: because you didn't want me to go home with you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm so mad, but I went through house the next day.
Speaker 1: I mean you know what we did. Yeah, she did
Speaker 1: my first little Soul in Atlanta, all black. It was
Speaker 1: so cute. And then my favorite videos what that video
Speaker 1: I had when she had her black little streaks. It
Speaker 1: was so cute. I kept replaying. I'm like, this girl
Speaker 1: is so funny. Best friend? Now, what is the quote? Is?
Speaker 1: I wrote it down? Um? But is this you know?
Speaker 1: No one else is supposed to know your calling. It
Speaker 1: wasn't a conference call. It wasn't no one in this
Speaker 1: room it's supposed to understand you. It's supposed to get you.
Speaker 1: No one is supposed to understand your calling because it
Speaker 1: wasn't a conference call. What God has for you is
Speaker 1: for you. Whatever your heart desires, God gonna give it
Speaker 1: to you. And remember a delay, it's never a denial.
Speaker 1: And dream Big TV, y'all. That's Women a Widening Out
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