1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, on dating, on work, on sex, 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: on parenting, and more, Please submit your Strawberry Letter to 4 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 5 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. Let's 7 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: go next. Bugle up and hold on tight. We got 8 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: it for you here. Release Strawberry Letter subject Stuck in 9 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: an open relationship. Dear Stephen Shirley. Two years ago, I 10 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: met a guy on an online site for dating, and 11 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 1: we became close. In the beginning. He told me that 12 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: he was in an open relationship with the woman and 13 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: he wanted me to meet her. I agreed since I 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: wasn't looking for anything serious. I met the girl and 15 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: she and I have become the best of friends. When 16 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: I'm hanging out with her guy, she's okay with it 17 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: because she has another special friend that she kicks it with. 18 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: We were all okay with the current arrangement until I 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: got more serious about the guy and realized I was 20 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: falling in love with him. He's a great provider and 21 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: a great dad, not just to his own kids, but 22 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: to my son too. He tells me he loves me 23 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: and needs me, and when I look into his eyes, 24 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: I feel like he's telling me the truth. He says 25 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: that he loves the other girl too, but his bond 26 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: with me is stronger. She has admitted that she's not 27 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: in love with him, but she needs him in her 28 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: life until she gets on her feet and can take 29 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: care of herself. He has been telling me that we 30 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 1: will have a future together, but I don't know if 31 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 1: I believe him, or if he's just holding onto hope, 32 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: or if I'm just holding onto hope and being a fool. 33 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: I got caught up in something I thought I could handle, 34 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: but the open relationship no longer works for me. I 35 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: want him all to myself, but I also want to 36 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: keep the friendship with his main girl. I'm also going 37 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: to be so hurt if he's been playing me all 38 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: along just so I won't leave him. He has the 39 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: best of both worlds, and if he and I get together, 40 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: he might not want to be in a committed relationship. 41 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: What should I do? Do you think I should have 42 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: a serious talk with him to see what's up, or 43 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: just move on and find a man that doesn't have 44 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: multiple women. Wow, I'm so glad. First of all, you're 45 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: being honest with yourself, okay about getting caught up. You 46 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: know you're honest with yourself about that, because you did 47 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: get caught up wanting him all to yourself and not 48 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: wanting an open relationship. Now, but you know what, you 49 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: already know the answer to this question. You already know. 50 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: I mean you asked, should you move on and find 51 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: a man that doesn't have multiple women? Well, yes, of course, 52 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you don't want to be in an 53 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: open relationship. You said it. That's a quick answer. But 54 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: before you jump into something else, you know, with another man, 55 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: you got to take a moment to reflect and figure out. 56 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: You know how you got yourself into this situation. You 57 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: said you weren't looking for anything serious, and look what happened. 58 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: Love creeped up on you. So you're not ready for 59 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: this kind of relationship. You don't need to be in 60 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: any kind of open relationship because it can happen again 61 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 1: and again and again. You know, you can let him 62 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: know how you feel. You know, like you say, he's 63 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,519 Speaker 1: got the best of both worlds. He's got you, he's 64 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: got this other woman. So what is his incentive for 65 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: just being with you, and you don't trust him anyway. 66 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 1: You don't trust him you you're already feeling like he's 67 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: not telling you the truth, like he's lying to you, 68 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: and all of this this open relationship stuff is not 69 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: for you. You don't do open relationships, okay, And that's 70 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: what this is. And it doesn't look like he's trying 71 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: to change anytime soon because he's happy. He's got the 72 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: best of both worlds. Steve, I'm so damn confused. What's 73 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: wrong this whole letter? It's just from the title stuck 74 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: in an open relationship? How are you stuck in some 75 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: of this open? So you're stuck in the dough because 76 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: it won't open. Your foot got stuck in the door 77 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: because somebody closing order, your finger stuck in the car 78 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: door because somebody shouted. How you stuck in something that's open. 79 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 1: Let's just start right met a guy online for a 80 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: date and then y'all became close. Well I don't know 81 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: what you think that means. Y'all became close, so God 82 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: guess y'all just started having sex. Let's just gonna say that. 83 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: In the beginning, he told me that he was in 84 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: an open relationship with a woman, and he wanted me 85 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: to meet her. I agreed. What this letter is the 86 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: best letter I've read in a long time. I've never 87 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: seen more people more agreeable with some BS than this 88 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: right here, because this BS. And once you started agreeing 89 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: to BS, you must be ready to accept the BS 90 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,919 Speaker 1: that comes with agreeing to the BS. So when you start, 91 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 1: I'm in an old relationship with a moment and I 92 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: want you to meet her. That was to test to 93 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: see how far you go. Guess what you said? You 94 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 1: meet her, and then guess what I agreed? You don't 95 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: because you know why she agreed because she wasn't looking 96 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: for nothing? Says, well, what was she looking for? Then you? 97 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: Was you just looking for anything? You must have just 98 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: been on line just looking for anything. Okay, you met 99 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: the girl. She and I have become the best friend. 100 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: You got to be about one of the loneliest damn 101 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 1: people I've never met in your life. You met a 102 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: dude on line that y'all became close to out having sex. 103 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: Then he told you he was in an old relationship 104 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: with another woman. He wanted you to meet her. You 105 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: agreed because you wasn't looking for nothing? Says, you met 106 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: the girl, and now y'all the best of friends. What 107 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: the hell is wrong here? Everything? When I'm hanging out 108 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: with her guy, she's okay with it because she got 109 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 1: another special friend that she kicking it with. So, y'all, 110 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: this is just an organized orgy, that's all. This is 111 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: just just an organized orgy. She got another special friend 112 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: she kicking it with because she had an over relationship 113 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: with him, but you didn't got a relationship with him 114 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: too close to And now you didn't met her because 115 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: he wanted you to meet her. And now you agreed 116 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 1: because you weren't looking for nothing serious. Now y'all the 117 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: best of damn friends. Now you didn't found out she 118 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: got another special friend that's kicking it harder than you 119 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: and your special man. This is this love and hip 120 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 1: hop craziness. I'm tired. And then she says, we were 121 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: all okay with the current arrangement until I got most 122 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 1: serious about the guy. That's because I was watching one 123 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: show somewhere and when women have sex, it releases a 124 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: chemical in their body. The chemical is called oxytocin, and 125 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: that's it makes you crazy, kind of like oxy moron. 126 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: It's very close to that, and that's very close to 127 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: an old bleach that we used to you call oxy doll. 128 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: Oxy dog comes with blue bleaching crystals. And ever take 129 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: a bath and oxy dot and then blue bleaching crystals. 130 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: You don't switch it around good, Then blue bleaching crystals 131 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: get stuck in cracks on your body. And I went 132 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: to school the next day and I didn't know why 133 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: my ass was hot hot, and one of them, then 134 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: blue bleaching crystals had got caught in my ass from 135 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: oxy doll, and as I was walking down the hallway, 136 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: it had melted into the center of my butt, and 137 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: my whole ass just caught on fire. That was from oxydt. 138 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: This chemical that releases in women is called oxytocin. It's 139 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: a chemical that women release when they have sex that 140 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: causes them to feel more than it is love. So 141 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: that's oxytocin. That's very different from oxydt, but both of 142 00:07:56,400 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: them is a burning syst and you start have fallen 143 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: in love with this guy. Now he's now listen to this. 144 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: He's a great provider. He's a great dad, not just 145 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: his own kids, to my son too. Who is this man? Yeah, 146 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: he's a great lover. He got a woman with some babies. 147 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: He got a woman on the side. He got you 148 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 1: on the side to meet the woman on the side. 149 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: The woman on the side kicking it with another dude, 150 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: and you didn't fell in love with the man that 151 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: ain't in love with nobody but his damn self. He 152 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: tells me he loves me, and when I look in 153 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: his eyes, I feel like he's telling me the truth. Now, 154 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: I don't like to personalize letters, but you know how 155 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: many times out somebody's eyes and lied to him. I 156 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 1: remember I was just caught one time at my hand 157 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: on the babble and turned right around and told the 158 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: judge it was not me. I'm telling you, good head well, 159 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,199 Speaker 1: with tears in my eyes too, it wasn't me. I 160 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 1: sound very convinced. And you know this is before forensic 161 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: signs and stuff. This nineteen seventy four when I was 162 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: on trial, and so you know I got off because 163 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 1: it wasn't no forensic signs like that as he said 164 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: was he says, she said, his word gives my rud 165 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: and he already had a record. I didn't, okay, I 166 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: stole the books, but I said he did, And just 167 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: stay awaiting that oxy dogs beaching crystals a set of 168 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: fire to yards start kidding about. This letter is stupid 169 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: ass letter. I'd rather be talking about the blue bleaching 170 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: crystals in that oxy dog. Anyway, this man looked in 171 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 1: eyes and you felt like he's telling truth. He says 172 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: he loves me and the other girl too, but his 173 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 1: bond with me is stronger. She has admitted that she's 174 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: not in love with him, but she needs him in 175 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: her life until she gets on her feet and can 176 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: take care of herself. So he sugared that in everybody 177 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 1: he paint a little bit here, a little bit there, 178 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 1: and he do just enough to keep her need. It's 179 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: kind of like a bad paycheck, you know, you just 180 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: it's just enough to get you to the next check. 181 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: You can't quit because you got to get to come 182 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: to work, Fried, you know what I mean. That's what 183 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 1: a bad lover is of a poe ass sugar daddy. 184 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: He gave you jazz enough to get to the next check. 185 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 1: You know, I've been that too, That my sugar daddy 186 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 1: loved him only lasted to Tuesday because I didn't have 187 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 1: that much back then. If I gave you enough contract, 188 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: if I gave it to you on Sunday, you was 189 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: out of money. On Tuesday, I didn't have enough colans 190 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:19,959 Speaker 1: to the next pay check. I don't know why this 191 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: leather is so personal for me, but it's because this letter. 192 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn about it. I just thought 193 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: i'd have more fun with it. I just tell you 194 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: some things doing it. Anyway, He's been telling me that 195 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: he will have that we all have a future together, 196 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: but I don't know if I believe him or if 197 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 1: I'm just holding on the hope and being a fool. Well, 198 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 1: if you don't believe him, look back in his eyes, 199 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: because every time you look into his eyes, it feels 200 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: like he's telling the truth. So stop looking off and 201 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: keep looking in his eyes. That way here to feel 202 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 1: like he's telling you the truth. I got caught up 203 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: in something I thought I could handle, but just open 204 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 1: the relationship no longer works for me. I want him 205 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: all to myself, but I also want to keep the 206 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: friendship with this main girl. And now, really I think 207 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 1: something going on with her and the girl girl, which 208 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: is cool, probably look like a better hook up for you. 209 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 1: You and the girl out a hook up, because he 210 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: ain't he just playing both y'all? Then she says, I'm 211 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: also going to be so hurt if he's been playing 212 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: me all along? What all y'all playing ye from the 213 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: get goal, So go on and start getting hurt. Anyway, 214 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: if he and I get together, it might end up 215 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: in it might not want to be in a comedy relationship. 216 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: What should I do? Do you think I should have 217 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: a serious talk with him? Why y'all talking now? No, 218 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: I don't have a serious talk. Keep playing with it 219 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: because he's playing with you. Yeah, thank you, Steve. You 220 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: can email us or instagram us your thoughts on today's 221 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey f M. Please check out 222 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:50,199 Speaker 1: Yes you really don't have to feel this pain by yourself. 223 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: Get you some Oxi dog and put it in the 224 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 1: bath water, and don't swish them blue crystals around real clip. 225 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: When you get a couple, I'm caught up in you, 226 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 1: you'd be the same. Ain't burning Ashfield and you have 227 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: it with you anyway? Don't forget to check out the 228 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're listening to the Dame 229 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.