1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Hello the Internet, and welcome to Season two thirty four, 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: Episode four of Hi Guys production of My Heart Radio. 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: This is a podcast where we take a deep dive 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: into American's share consciousness. And it is Thursday, April um, 5 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: which of course means it is national take your Kids 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: to Work Day. Um. I don't know what that means 7 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: right now for people. I mean, I guess some people 8 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: are at workplaces, probably not taking their kids to work 9 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: would be my did you ever do that? Did your 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: did your parents never take you to their work for work? 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: I mean like, yeah, I would just go to like 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 1: the gym because my dad was a basketball coach, So 13 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: I would just like show up and hang out whenever 14 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: I could. But um, okay, shoot some threes. Yeah she 15 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: was some threes. Show the players how I was done. Um, 16 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: but I didn't. It was never like a formal thing. 17 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: Now now I feel like the kids like when it happened, 18 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: because I remember being in school and like people like, yo, 19 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: we're so and so, and they're like, oh, they went 20 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: to like take your kid to work day. They went 21 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: to Nashville, take your kids to work there? Yeah, And 22 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: like my mom didn't go to a office because she 23 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: was like a freelance writer. So she worked at home 24 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: or like would be out and then my dad's like 25 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: a you know, all over the place. I didn't really 26 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: there wasn't a place to go. But anyway, a decorated artist. 27 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: By the way, congratulations to your dad. Oh the focus 28 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: on me, man, focus on bro. You know what I mean? 29 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: What is the award your dad just won? Did he 30 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,839 Speaker 1: just went an award? I don't know something all right, Well, 31 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: he must be out here. You know. There's a whole 32 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: other episode about why I'm not keeping up with my 33 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: dad right now. But uh now I'm working with you. 34 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: I know he I know he won an art prize 35 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: to go to Oh yeah, the one at Rome he wanted. 36 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: My dad used to not he he was his art 37 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: crew was so different when I was a kid. He 38 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: was like he gave up on art because he's like, man, 39 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: I gotta put it, like you need to go to school. 40 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,639 Speaker 1: And he's like, I can't just shoot Bobby Brown album 41 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: covers and then like think that's gonna pay the bills 42 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: all the time. And now he's having a renaissance, so yeah, 43 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: shout out to him. Renaissance. Man. Um. Well, my name 44 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: is Jack O'Brien, ak, pretty woman, you're moving to the street, 45 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: pretty woman. I see my help you need, Pretty woman, 46 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 1: I really do not mind helping you move. I'm sorry 47 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: which floor? Oh no, it's cool, oucha pretty woman. Won't 48 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: you pardon me? Pretty woman? I'm laying down here on 49 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 1: the street, pretty woman. I swear I'm strong as strong 50 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: can be. Could you please just call my mommy? That 51 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: is courtesy Christie. I'm a Gucci Man based on the 52 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: story I told on yesterday's episode where I tried to 53 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: help somebody move spur the moment. She was just like, hey, 54 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: can you help me with this dresser? And it ended 55 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: with me on the ground on the street with my 56 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: back thrown out, um and not feeling very cool anyway. Anyway, 57 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: shout out to the great Christie. I'm a Gucci Man, 58 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,399 Speaker 1: and I am thrilled to be joined as always by 59 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: my co host, Mr Miles grad. There once was a 60 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: school covered in Ivy, built by money straight from slavery. 61 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: The students were served by slaves at night and learned 62 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: eugenics by day. Soon may reparations come tap that endowment 63 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: fifty bill young their commitments a tiny fraction a hundred 64 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: mills seems low, and that is in response I think 65 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: we're talking about trends. Harvard saying they're gonna spend a 66 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: hundred million dollars to what was it a tone for 67 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: their connection to slavery, but not telling anybody any money. No, no, no, no, Well, 68 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: and like going far enough, we'll see going far enough 69 00:03:55,720 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: to identify like sixty three black slaves and seven eight 70 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: of American people who were in working in bondage for Harvard. 71 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: And they're like, we're gonna look into that. It's like, 72 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: you know what I spend, why don't you give them 73 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: that fucking money? If you know who they are. It's 74 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: pretty easy right there. Just figure out who descended their boom. 75 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do a lot of research about what 76 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: we should be paying them. But holy shit, Um, by 77 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: the way, was that a Was that a shanty? Yeah? 78 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: That was a shanty? Oh yeah yeah, shout out Scouty 79 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: Magoo on the discord, who you know, turned up a 80 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: story about Harvard's relaxed racism. The enjoyed the shantiness of 81 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: it all. Well to give it that shanty treatment. We're 82 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: thrilled to be joined by a very funny actor and 83 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 1: writer who you've seen on Keenan Indebted a Black Lady 84 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: Sketch show, Shrill, the movie Desperados, just all over the 85 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 1: place killing it. It is the brilliant and talented Nicole 86 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: Thurma Oh, welcome, welcome back. You know, we got a 87 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: lot of you know, so vocalized air horns. That might 88 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: have been the best. Thank you. That's like a weird 89 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: skill that I have. I feel like people always say 90 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: that when I do it, I'm just like, somehow right works. 91 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: A lot of people do that pume same. It's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, 92 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: you got a good ear. Musicians. I could just listen 93 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: to that for the rest of the episode. That's other 94 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: people would but simple remember hamhorn. Yeah. But then they 95 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: had to change it because like NBC suited him because 96 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 1: they're like, you can't have that sound bite in it 97 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: when it just go hey am. But now it's all right, 98 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: well that yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. What's new with you? 99 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 1: How have you been. I've been good. I've just been 100 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: kind of chilling. I was working a lot and now 101 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 1: I'm like unemployed, but in the way that I'm really 102 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: excited about because I get to like I'm gonna travel, 103 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to go to New York for a few 104 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 1: weeks and just chilly, and I've been just kind of 105 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: enjoying life. I've been frantic, you know, just staring into 106 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: the abyss of the news every day and working to 107 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,359 Speaker 1: not let it affect us. So yeah, my god, I 108 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: feel like I've been a little bit less in touch 109 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: with social media lately, and that's helped me a lot. 110 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: Especially Twitter. Twitter is just why I'm always like, wait, 111 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: what is happening? Okay, you know what, let me just 112 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: close my computer, And like, you guys don't have that 113 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: choice because you have to talk about it every day. 114 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: But it's like sometimes I'm like, yeah, let's just close this, 115 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 1: throw it over, you know, over me, burn it whatever, 116 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: just get it away from me. It's too much dunk 117 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: my head in a bathtub for five hours. And yeah, pretend, well, uh, 118 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: we're going to get to know you a little bit 119 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: better in a moment. First, we're gonna tell our listen 120 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: to a couple of things we're talking about today. Uh, 121 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 1: and you know, up top, we're going to talk about something. 122 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 1: You might want to tune back into Twitter because it's 123 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: about to get really good. Because Elon Musk is buying 124 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 1: Twitter and so we're just gonna talk about some of 125 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: the responses to that. Um, we're gonna talk about We're 126 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: gonna talk about Russia. They're like, they just don't give 127 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: a funk. I think I think Russia was ahead of 128 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: ahead of the game, and kind of showed us how 129 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 1: little effort you had to put into lying on the internet. Um, 130 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: they did a neo Nazi raid on, like some people 131 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: who were critical of Putin, where they like the frame 132 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: up is just lazy. It's it's not it's not altogether convincing. 133 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: So we're gonna talk about that. Uh, we're gonna talk 134 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: about a astronomer going looking for alien technology in the 135 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: South Pacific, which is exciting to me. Uh. And then 136 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: I want to talk about NPRS weird, weird tone. Uh 137 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 1: just generally, Uh, nothing new about it. It's been it's 138 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 1: been the same. I just I think I I stopped 139 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: listening for a long time and then it'll like just 140 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: popped on my car radio and I was like, what 141 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: the fuck is this? Um, So we'll talk about plenty more, 142 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: but first, Nicole, we like to ask our guest, what 143 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: is something from your search history? Listening for my search history, 144 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 1: it's always funny when you guys asked me this, Because 145 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: I am so crazy, I google everything, and so I 146 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 1: always have to be like, okay, listen, Nicole, you can't 147 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: go on a day to really sad. Guys can't be 148 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: telling them okay. But one thing I did google is 149 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: I've been thinking a lot about people pleasers and how 150 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: because I'm not, I don't think I'm much of a 151 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: people pleaser. I think I kind of like go like 152 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: straddle the line of like I'm going to please you, 153 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 1: but until it's until I want to just say no 154 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 1: because I've gotten better at saying no. But I think 155 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: that people pleasers are fascinating because to me sometimes it 156 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: almost feels like they they're lying to themselves and to 157 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,599 Speaker 1: everyone they know, and I try I'm like, so I 158 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 1: was just like googling, like is there a correlation or like, 159 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 1: what's the deal with people pleasers? Are they always kind 160 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: of lying? So that's what I was googling. Wow, was 161 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: that just look inward or you're experienced with someone who's 162 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: a people pleaser? Because I see it a lot in 163 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: the dating context to like, you start dating people, they 164 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: tell you everything you need to hear and then like oh, yeah, 165 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 1: I was just kind of saying stuff that whole time, 166 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: And you know, I may be wrong, but maybe it's 167 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: because I date men. I feel like men do it 168 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: more often than women because they want to be easy, 169 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: but then they end up kind of like pushing everything 170 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: down and not really saying it makes them happy until 171 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: they like explode. I feel like I just see that 172 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 1: more with men and you're like wait, And I think 173 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: that women don't even notice it until it's too late. 174 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: But I've tried to get better at like paying attention 175 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 1: to that and being like, yo, what do you really want? 176 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: Like what is your real opinion on this? With friends 177 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 1: and with everybody, because I think that it's like it 178 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 1: sucks to think that you'd be having a friendship or 179 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody and you're not. You're you're pissing 180 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: them off, but you don't know it because they're just 181 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: everything you say. I think, like the extreme people please 182 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 1: are certainly like yeah. My era of going all in 183 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: on just saying everything that people wanted to hear was 184 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: that I was unable to actually express any of my 185 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: inner experience out loud, so rather than to be in 186 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,839 Speaker 1: a situation where like I was like oh, I don't 187 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: know how I feel about this. I'm like, yeah, that's cool. Cool, Yeah, 188 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: I would love that too, because that felt like a 189 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 1: way to be like, oh, this person, I'm presenting myself 190 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: as an easy going person. Meanwhile, I don't know how 191 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: to say half the shout I need to. And then 192 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,839 Speaker 1: you're six months or a couple months deep into something 193 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, actually, like I've been stifling, like I 194 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: hate Harry Potter. I'm also have terrible commitment issues, and 195 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: I've just been saying it because I didn't want to 196 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: make it hot. I don't even like Sam and you 197 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,599 Speaker 1: make famine because I told you I like that. I 198 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: don't even like it's like yeah, it's like stuff like that, 199 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 1: and they're like, all of a sudden, they're exploding because 200 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 1: I don't want to watch another Harry Potter. And you're 201 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: like whoa, whoa, what's that? Like what you said, You're 202 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: all about her mind? Like what's going on? You know 203 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: what I mean? Like it really does feel like that, 204 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: and I feel like it is because people don't. I 205 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: just feel like there's such a culture of politeness just 206 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: in general with like America. I don't know if it's 207 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 1: an American thing or just people in general. But they 208 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: feel like it's the better way to be. But honestly, 209 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 1: like I would rather have someone telling me, like, I 210 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: don't like that thing you did, I don't like that 211 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: shirt you're wearing. What you're saying, you know, likes, because 212 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: we're wasting time by lying about what we do like like, 213 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: or what we do and don't want to do right. 214 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: And I have, like, you know, I have single friends 215 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: who are, you know, in their mid thirties, and they're 216 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: like dudes who are like, I don't know, like you know, 217 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 1: I just didn't work out this or that, And half 218 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: the time I'm hearing them talk, I'm like, you're not 219 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:46,239 Speaker 1: really coming with your whole self in any of these situations. 220 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: So the person you're interacting with isn't quite learning who 221 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: you are. They're they're learning a projection of who you are. 222 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: And then when the rubber has to meet the meat 223 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 1: hit the road, y'all are skinning because there wasn't any 224 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: real grip to it because you were you know, I 225 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: just I don't understand your needs because you're not expressing 226 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: your needs accurately. It's the same thing that I've been 227 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 1: also thinking about a lot lately just in general, like 228 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: we don't know how to deal with Greek. We don't 229 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: grow up learning how to deal with grief, how to 230 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 1: deal with relationships, how to really communicate with people so 231 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 1: that we get our needs met. Stuff like that sounds 232 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: of therapy, Like, but this is like the ship I 233 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: think about like lately because it's just like why don't 234 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 1: we learn that ship? Why do we learn, you know, 235 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: the Pythagorean theorem in in school, you know what, We 236 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: don't need to know that sh So it's it's fascinating 237 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 1: to me, and I'm trying to just I'm trying to 238 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: learn how to interact with different types of people better 239 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: so that so that I can I can help you know, 240 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: them feel more comfortable or something. Yeah, yeah, so that's 241 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 1: what that's my wormhole as of late has mostly been 242 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 1: like interpersonal ship. Yeah, the therapy like you kind of 243 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,680 Speaker 1: need to sound like therapy because like I think people 244 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: who suffer from this, And I'm speaking completely as an 245 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 1: outsider because I don't at all like I would never, 246 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 1: for instance, agree to do something harmful to my body 247 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: because somebody seemed nice and needed my help, such as 248 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 1: like carry a giant chest up for flights of stairs 249 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: because I thought somebody would like me more. Um, but 250 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: like I don't to, Like I'm realizing I don't even 251 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: know how I feel most of the time, like in therapy, 252 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 1: like and so like that's that's how buried that ship is. 253 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: And then like so that that's a process too, like 254 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: and yeah, just being like that's not true. They might 255 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: not even realize it's not true, they being other people 256 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: and not me, because again, I am emotionally in touch 257 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:45,439 Speaker 1: with myself at all times. I'm good at communicating it 258 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: very advanced, man, I mean these are such they're so ingrained, 259 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: like you know, just culturally through you know, patriarchy whatever 260 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: about where like we start off as kids seeking the 261 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: approval of adults. That's just that's our bread and butter 262 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: as children. Oh look at you, you did that. Well, 263 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 1: you're so cute. Oh you're so smart, And then that 264 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 1: becomes your currency. And if you don't realize that ship, 265 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 1: you get stuck in this loop of just chasing smiles 266 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: and positive responses at the fucking total detriment to yourself 267 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: and other self to you, like you're like to like 268 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: your gut, Like I'm sure that people that are doing 269 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: that just like have this like pit in their stomach 270 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: sometimes because it's just like they're not getting what they want, 271 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 1: they're not saying anything, or you don't realize that, or 272 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: you don't realize you've been doing it so long that 273 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: there is a pit because you've been doing that, you're like, no, 274 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: people like me, but it's like, but I don't know 275 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: if mine needs have been met ever at all. Ye know, 276 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: but I don't feel happy, but I don't know it 277 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: seems happy around me. What's going on? Yeah, And I 278 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: think it's the same with even like little things like 279 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 1: making plans, Like if someone doesn't want to do something, 280 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 1: they'll maybe say like, oh sure, and it's like, well, 281 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 1: I don't say sure, you say yes or no you 282 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: don't want to do it? Saying no, that's totally fine, 283 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: Like we can totally adjust. And it's like you just 284 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: start to realize that. Like I don't know, I've been 285 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 1: calling people out on that ship more because I'm just like, yo, 286 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to I don't want to drag you 287 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 1: to something you don't want to do, but I don't 288 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: want to make you feel uncomfortable. You know. It's amazing 289 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: how much I admire people who are just like, nah, 290 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: I don't really want to do that fun kind of 291 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: dark magic is that I'm telling you. You know, the 292 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 1: first time I did it was when I lived in 293 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: New York. People used to come people come visit New 294 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: York all the time, and they all want to hang out. 295 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter who they are. It can be somebody 296 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 1: who haven't talked to you since you're like where calling me. 297 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: And the first time I did is that this guy 298 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 1: was like, I'm going to be in town for a week. 299 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 1: We hadn't talked since like oh six, and I was 300 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 1: just finally because I was like, you know what, Instead 301 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 1: of telling him every single day all sorry, I kind 302 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: of I'm taking a nap, I can't hang out or whatever. 303 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: Instead of every single day trying to think of an excuse, 304 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: I literally just said, you know what, I have a 305 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 1: great trip. Now is not a great time to see 306 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: each other. Um, you know, I hope you have a 307 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: fabulous time in New York and it and he seemed 308 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 1: a little salty about it, but he got the point 309 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: and I didn't have to wear myself out trying to 310 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: say no fifty times. You know, And I do think 311 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 1: your point that like, Uh, men are particularly guilty of this. 312 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: Like I I just watched the The Batman last night, 313 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: and like, this dude has his feeling so buried and 314 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 1: like say, he's so out of touch with them. Uh, 315 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: And like I was thinking back to The Joker where 316 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: he's just like laughing with like tears streaming down his face, 317 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 1: like just doesn't know how the funk he feels at all, um, 318 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: and everyone was like, yes, I am the Joker. That 319 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 1: is totally me. I feel like that's not good. Yeah, 320 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: I'm that I'm not right. If you see yourself reflected 321 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: in the joke or something is wrong, and maybe just 322 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: go talk to somebody, you know, yeah I could help. Yeah. 323 00:16:55,920 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: What is something you think is overrated? Uh? Oh, this 324 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 1: is an interesting one. I just thought of, um sharing 325 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 1: music with friends like this is surprising to me, but 326 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 1: I was just thinking about this recently. I feel like 327 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: if you connect on one level, like you're like, oh, 328 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: you really like this artist. I really like this artist, 329 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: but then you start to like be like, oh if 330 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: you like this and you might like this people, people 331 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: don't be getting it right, and so I just like 332 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 1: I think it's a little bit overrated. I like I 333 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 1: think it's nice when people send you like a little mixtape, 334 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 1: like I care about you hear some music, but I 335 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 1: rarely like the music that people think I'm gonna like 336 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: and I appreciate it, but I don't. I don't think 337 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 1: it really does anything. Yeah, I think sometimes it depends 338 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 1: on how much you're like, really you've really funk with music, 339 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: because you can, you can have a really diverse taste, 340 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: but if you're not able to say like, Okay, I 341 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: have a feeling that they're responding to these very specific 342 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: musical elements of this track, because I think most people 343 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: like I like that band. I also like this band 344 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 1: that miss means you were on a ven diagram. Yeah, 345 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,919 Speaker 1: mus like this band too. Rather than like being like, oh, 346 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 1: you know what, like the best music like suggestions I 347 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 1: get are from people who like are like really kind 348 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 1: of get the nuanced of like nuances of the art 349 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: of it, and they're like, Okay, you'll like this because 350 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 1: it has like a good strong backbeat and like thumping 351 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: bass and like falsettos or whatever. I'm like, oh yeah, 352 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 1: different genre, but you identified that. So Miles is basically 353 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 1: saying that may be true of other people, but when 354 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: you when you're talking about me, because you know, some 355 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 1: people don't be have in the ears, some people can't 356 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: do the because they don't have that miless I do. 357 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: I mean because it's like when you when you really 358 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: understand me, that you listen to it, you'll notice like 359 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: it's like I used to feel like people. I don't 360 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: know if this is exactly a one to one, but 361 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: like people used to be like, oh, you like the 362 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 1: Knife and you'll like the x X, and I'm like, 363 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: I don't like the x X and there and people 364 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: have recommended them to me so many times, just from 365 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: other bands that don't even sound like them. And yeah, 366 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 1: it's one of those things where I'm like, no, they 367 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,159 Speaker 1: might have been from the same time period, but the 368 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,199 Speaker 1: music is actually so different that it's like, that's not 369 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: something that I would we're not hearing that the same way. Yeah, 370 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 1: that's that I agree with you. It has to be 371 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 1: like the specifics of the music that make it something 372 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: that you like, like a tone or the you know, 373 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 1: the the arrangement of it, or the background vocals or 374 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: the you know, even like the major versus minor key 375 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, like little stupid thing. And this is 376 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:24,479 Speaker 1: making me sound like an asshole, and I totally am 377 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 1: hearing myself talk right now, but I think you're right. 378 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: When I was a band geek, you know, I grew 379 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: up studying a lot of music theory, so you know, 380 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 1: and there's everyone, look you, everyone's gonna engage with the 381 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 1: art form however they want to. But I think I'm 382 00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 1: just I get really specific and I and I think 383 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 1: it it made this thing, especially when before the Internet, 384 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: discovering music was really difficult, so I had to really 385 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 1: know how to be able to describe what I wanted 386 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,679 Speaker 1: to hear or know what I wanted to hear, so 387 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 1: then when I heard it, I could be like, yes, 388 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 1: more of this, more of this, more of this, And 389 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,199 Speaker 1: the Internet only just made it super easy once you know, 390 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 1: every like it. You know, you could access anything from 391 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:06,120 Speaker 1: any time, any place. But definitely whatever. But I take 392 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: everyone's music suggestion. It's always worth It's always interesting to 393 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 1: hear when someone thinks you'll like to and I'm like, oh, 394 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: that's interesting, Like oh that it is really interesting, because yeah, 395 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,159 Speaker 1: but I don't mind getting them. But I'm always like, 396 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 1: it's not really doing it for me. But it's the 397 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: same thing as like it is. It's to me, like 398 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 1: a lot of people hate it, but I kind of 399 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: like when somebody says, like, you look like this person, 400 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,439 Speaker 1: and it's interesting to me because then I'm like, oh, wow, 401 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: so that's what I look like in your eyes, Like 402 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 1: that's what I don't anything like that, you know. Yeah, 403 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,480 Speaker 1: I feel like that I should just want to hear 404 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 1: anytime somebody has looked like for me, I should want 405 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:44,679 Speaker 1: to hear about it. Because I also feel like lookalikes 406 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,919 Speaker 1: are like people who are like, you look like this person. 407 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: Like that determines what people think about you for like 408 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 1: the first hour that you know them so much. Yeah, 409 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: they're like judging you based on some weird character. What 410 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 1: is uh? What's something you take is under radar? What 411 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 1: did I say it is under You know this is 412 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:07,400 Speaker 1: gonna be so random. But a couple of weeks ago, 413 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 1: I went on a cruise. Yeah, cruises are funky. We've 414 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,680 Speaker 1: talked about the merits of cruises in the past couple 415 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 1: of weeks for some really Yeah, it's funny too because 416 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: I just saw a girl on TikTok who was doing 417 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: like a bunch of videos from a cruise ship and 418 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: she's she was on a cruise by herself, and I 419 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,880 Speaker 1: was like, I mean cruising, I don't know. I went 420 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: on a four day cruise out of l A. I 421 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: live in l A. So I just you know, it 422 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: wasn't that hard to get there, and it was like 423 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 1: so much fun. So it's just like an opportunity to 424 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 1: embrace the corny, ist, cheesiest, dumbest things, but to not 425 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: nobody on the boat gives a funk, And that's the 426 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: best part of it to me. It's just like they're 427 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 1: wearing that the ugly tight eyed t shirts with the 428 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 1: city name on it that they just visited, Like they're 429 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: buying all the tree kids and crab and like they're 430 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 1: waiting in line for sales at these weird silver stores 431 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 1: or whatever. It's just anything about it. I mean, I 432 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 1: do feel like the cruises that make the news is 433 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 1: over the past, like decades have all been disasters, I 434 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: mean and going back centuries with the Titanic, Like we 435 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 1: don't hear the positive stories about people just being like, man, 436 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:24,479 Speaker 1: I really funk with cruises, uh, And like I've just 437 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: through having kids who are obsessed with the ocean and 438 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 1: boats and stuff, like just seeing cruise ships through their 439 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,400 Speaker 1: eyes for the first time, I'm like, wow, those are 440 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 1: that's wild that that exists, like even at all, And 441 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 1: like so I'm probably headed down a path towards the 442 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,199 Speaker 1: cruise at some point in my life and coming a 443 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 1: cruise person. That's the thing too. I think it's a 444 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,680 Speaker 1: whole culture. But yeah, it's like how yeah, how does 445 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 1: it exist? There's this huge insane boat with like a 446 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 1: water slide on it, Like what are you doing? Somehow 447 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: it works? And like the place I stayed in, we 448 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: stayed in a room that had a balcony and I 449 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is the life. So you just 450 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,640 Speaker 1: sit out there and watch the ocean go by, And yeah, 451 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: it was I don't It's like I genuinely couldn't tell 452 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,439 Speaker 1: if I was just very burnt out from work. I 453 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: just really needed a vacation. But I really do think 454 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 1: that cruises. I think people more people should take cruises, 455 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 1: especially if you live in a city where there's a port, 456 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 1: just go for a four day cruise. Like it's still 457 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,160 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm I'm constantly at odds with like 458 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 1: the how like not good cruises are like ethically and 459 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: from a pollution standpoint, but I also have to battle 460 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: the inner old black man within me who wants to 461 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,199 Speaker 1: be on a cruise ship all the time. My grant like, 462 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 1: and I said this in the past episode, my grandparents 463 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 1: loved cruises, And I was just like, I get it. 464 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 1: You don't you pay one thing and then you could 465 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: eat whenever, whenever, whatever exactly you paid. I paid three 466 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 1: d fifty dollars. I have four days of food and 467 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: drink NonStop and sunshine and pool. Oh it was. It was. 468 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: It was and the and the and the worst shows 469 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 1: I've ever seen in my life, but in the best way. 470 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, they're literally playing like unwritten by 471 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: Natalie Natasha Benningfield before the show starts, and it's like 472 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 1: everything about it was that energy the whole show. Oh 473 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: Q described the show like, what was it? I'll tell 474 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: you one show I went to it. I was dying. 475 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 1: I was dying. There was a show called eighty eight Keys, 476 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,680 Speaker 1: and so I was like, oh, okay, so it's probably 477 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,360 Speaker 1: like dueling pianos. There's something kind of like piano skills. Yeah, 478 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 1: we went to the show. Uh, there was a man 479 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 1: playing the piano, but like maybe ten minutes into the show, 480 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:32,640 Speaker 1: I realized he was not really playing the piano, Oh 481 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 1: pantomime the piano, and it was just playing over a track. 482 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: At one point, this dude and they were playing it 483 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: as it was real, like they were acting like this 484 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 1: man was really playing the piano, but I was sitting 485 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 1: on a balcony. I was like, that dude is not playing. 486 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,879 Speaker 1: And so then at one point he genuinely he just 487 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: stood up while the piano was still playing and walks away, 488 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:54,800 Speaker 1: and like it wasn't a joke, it wasn't like they 489 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 1: made it a bit. It was just like they just don't. 490 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 1: They just gave up the conceit at one point like 491 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 1: he's not playing, you know whatever, who cares? And it 492 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: just it killed me. They were like singing like a 493 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,920 Speaker 1: bunch of pop songs, and you know, they were very 494 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 1: cute and they were they were having the time of 495 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 1: their lives. Also they're doing the cheesiest shows ever, but 496 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,640 Speaker 1: they don't care. And that's what's so great about it, 497 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 1: you know, like everybody's just like leaning into it. Eight 498 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: eight keys was really something else. I mean, I was 499 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 1: like screaming. I was like, we were like looking down 500 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:29,879 Speaker 1: at his hands and he's just going like this, like 501 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,679 Speaker 1: really and he's not even touching the key. He was 502 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: really good at first, so I never would have known. 503 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, I was like, wait 504 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,400 Speaker 1: a second, Yeah, he started doing the just like slamming 505 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,679 Speaker 1: hands down on right, right, right, fake keyboard, and I 506 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, he's not even playing the piano. 507 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 1: I love I love a fun nest fake instrument playing. 508 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 1: I love it. It was. It was really fun. All right, 509 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 1: let's take a quick break and we'll be right back. 510 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 1: And we're back and uh, yeah, let's talk. You know, 511 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:12,199 Speaker 1: I think the consensus among the people I fall on 512 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 1: Twitter is that we're fucked now the Delon Musk has 513 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: purchased successfully purchased Twitter. Um, and what what what are 514 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: we hearing from? I mean I think we kind of are, 515 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: but like, what how are other people reacting with? Uh? 516 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 1: There's I mean, there's all kinds of I think everyone, yeah, 517 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 1: rightly is focused on this guy who's keeps talking about 518 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,360 Speaker 1: freedom of speech, who clearly doesn't know what the funk 519 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: that means, has bought the bird app and what does 520 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: that mean? Um, there's a few different things. There's this 521 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: one piece by this like sort of like tech critic 522 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: Shiva Vadia. Nothing in Slate, who's just talking about like 523 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,199 Speaker 1: who sort of brings up an interesting point of like 524 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 1: Twitter as a business is not a good opportunity, Like 525 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,719 Speaker 1: that's not something you want to buy as a as 526 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 1: an investment in general. Um. And you know, look, just 527 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: talking about how has a business it has been like 528 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 1: just pretty much they've they haven't figured out how to 529 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: make it profitable or to scale it. You know, the 530 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 1: many wonderful world's words of Wall Street, and they put 531 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,679 Speaker 1: it up for sale a few times, and people haven't 532 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 1: really ever bought it. And I think that just when 533 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: obviously there is this whole element of yes, Ellen could 534 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: bring all the unsavory ship bags back and open up 535 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 1: the gates. Um. But there's just just narrowly, there is 536 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 1: one potential benefit to that, which is all of that 537 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 1: conservative tech money that was spent on those free speech 538 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,880 Speaker 1: platforms like truth and Ship would become a fucking would 539 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: become moot the second he opened up the gates, because 540 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 1: that's what the whole reason people all the people like 541 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,199 Speaker 1: that fled to those other sites or like there's no 542 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 1: lives here. So if they're allowed back on Twitter, they're like, 543 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,159 Speaker 1: why am I using this ship again? Um? So that 544 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: would potentially that that that is a one fear on 545 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 1: like the conservative tech side, which is like man if 546 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 1: Trump comes act and this, that's going to be bad 547 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 1: news for these smaller apps. But that's not even like 548 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 1: the big picture is there is there are are any 549 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,360 Speaker 1: of those flourishing and like really a threat to I mean, 550 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 1: you know you hear about horrible things being said on them, 551 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't know, like is there no 552 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 1: not in this sense, like you know, especially we've talked 553 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,680 Speaker 1: about truth social like that this thing is dead in 554 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,879 Speaker 1: the water. Um and even til they're still waiting to 555 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:31,399 Speaker 1: be let in the door, many people you're not getting 556 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,640 Speaker 1: in that club. Um. But again like sort of put 557 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,479 Speaker 1: just looking at Twitter though, just as like a business entity, 558 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: you know what exactly is Elon must trying to do it? 559 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 1: Does he actually wanted to help to grow it or 560 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: does he want it to be profitable? Because what was 561 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 1: the purpose of buying it? Like, well, I think on 562 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: one side it's like, yeah, I guess you literally own 563 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 1: the libs by buying Twitter or something. But what you 564 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 1: know as a business person, because you're always talking about 565 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 1: your business acumen, like what is the goal here? Now? 566 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 1: I get that. One version is he just doesn't give 567 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: a funk he wants He'll let it melt down into 568 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 1: a total cess pit of like hate, you know, hate speech. Um. 569 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: But on the other side of that is like is 570 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 1: it growth? Is it profitability? Because the things that he 571 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 1: has talked about aren't necessarily going to reshape the app 572 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 1: or bring more people in. Like yeah, the edit button. Sure, 573 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 1: people are like, oh that would be cool. That's like 574 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 1: a bone free one for like the people who are 575 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: on Twitter. But that's going to take a lot of 576 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 1: time and effort to actually bring that to you know, 577 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: bring that to a reality. The human authentication thing to 578 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: keep bots off. Sure, but many points to the fact 579 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 1: that you know, you could just invest more in proper 580 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 1: content and user moderate ration and you know, keep things 581 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: moving in that sense. But I think the other thing 582 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 1: is that he's if he's you know, by buying it 583 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 1: and takes a private he's not beholden to shareholders at all. 584 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: So like a lot of people are trying to speculate 585 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 1: what how do you game this out? Like is it 586 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 1: going to be just a downward spiral? Is it going 587 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: to be you open it up, you bring all these 588 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 1: angry people away are angry people back on the platform, 589 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 1: which would drive away other users, which isn't going to 590 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 1: help anything for like the value of Twitter. So I 591 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: think really we can, like even even in the worst 592 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: case where you know, Trump's back and all these other 593 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 1: things are happening, those would be like those wouldn't necessarily 594 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 1: benefit Twitter in the end, I think, because they're also 595 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 1: not really innovating as a platform. You know, Twitter is 596 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,959 Speaker 1: not even the top ten social media platforms. There's there, 597 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 1: you know, there's the fully the potential for something else 598 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: to come up that people like, oh, this seems more 599 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 1: reasonable now than this other thing. So it's a bit 600 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: of like a wait and see thing. And then on 601 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 1: the on the DC side of it, you have a 602 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: Republicans say it would be bad if if Trump got 603 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 1: back on or like, oh I don't know if if 604 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 1: we need Trump back on or that could be bad. 605 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 1: But again I think that there's a twofold problem there. 606 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,480 Speaker 1: One is that they don't want Trump back because it 607 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 1: would complete he would revitalize his like stranglehold on the 608 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 1: party by him being back on Twitter it or he 609 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 1: would take over the political conversation again. Um. And then 610 00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,239 Speaker 1: the also thing is that they they fear that if 611 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 1: he's back on that helps Democrats do their really tired 612 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,080 Speaker 1: as political strategy, which is just gesture to Trump and 613 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 1: then be like, so y'all vote in blue, right and 614 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 1: right not do it ends there? Yeah, because without Trump 615 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 1: they've done so much so um well, I think they're 616 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 1: I think they realized they can't get bullied in real 617 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 1: time from Twitter like he used to like as things 618 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,560 Speaker 1: are happening, I think it's more for them. They liked 619 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:39,240 Speaker 1: that they didn't have to fear the Trump tweet anymore. Yeah, 620 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 1: time interested to deceive what I'm saying, a couple of 621 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 1: things like how many people left the platform? I know 622 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 1: every everybody was losing followers. I lost I think two 623 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,560 Speaker 1: fifty followers, and I think people are just running from 624 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,760 Speaker 1: it but they don't know what's going to happen. And 625 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: then I'm also I feel like it's like this weird 626 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 1: thing where if Trump I feel like people are always 627 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 1: weird about trumping on Twitter, where it's almost like they 628 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 1: they're like, oh man, that would be so terrible. At 629 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 1: that big bad guy that I used to quote retweet 630 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: came back, you know what I mean, Like, and I 631 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 1: kept going viral because I was talking it on Trump. 632 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 1: But I feel like there's a little bit of that 633 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 1: energy too, like they don't nobody wants it, especially before 634 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: nobody fucking wants Trump online talking and ship. But I 635 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 1: think that there's this weird energy that was there when 636 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 1: Trump was president and when he was on Twitter of 637 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: like it's kind of it's kind of exciting and spicy 638 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,400 Speaker 1: and like, let's just play with this toxic ship. But 639 00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 1: it's like that's not good because all it ever did 640 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,959 Speaker 1: was elevate the trash to a higher level. Yeah, and 641 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I think the real, the real losses would 642 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: be to like people who organize on Twitter and actually 643 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: use it for like positive things. But I think, like anything, 644 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,960 Speaker 1: an alternative could emerge that is easy, that that could 645 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 1: be as easy to use. But you know, I think 646 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 1: you know, again, you read the headlines, you think this 647 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: could be. This is scary, and yeah, it could be. 648 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 1: But it's gonna take some time to fully understand what 649 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: his vision is for this and how that works because 650 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 1: he's also he's going to find himself running Twitter in 651 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 1: the lead up to a presidential election, and Elon Musk 652 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,479 Speaker 1: is in just inherent like all it's gonna take her 653 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: some more spicy Marjorie Taylor Green type people to pop up, 654 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 1: and then what does he do with them? And now 655 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: people are going to connect him to all that, whether 656 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 1: or not he wants to platform them or d platform them. 657 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:25,959 Speaker 1: So there's a lot of extra ship connected to it 658 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: that like doesn't necessarily make Elon Musk just look like 659 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 1: the coolest kid on Twitter. So that's why I'm like, 660 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 1: definitely not. I mean, think about how much people bully Jack. 661 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: They were like Jack, what are you doing? It's like 662 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 1: that same thing is, like you really want to be 663 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 1: that guy that's constantly like having to decide if you're 664 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 1: gonna pull people or let them be on and how 665 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,479 Speaker 1: far you're gonna let people go before they just like 666 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 1: even if he's not the one making the final decision, 667 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 1: he's he becomes the de factors. The face. Yeah, I 668 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 1: don't think he gives he And I also I think 669 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: he's a combination of like, you know, realizing that all 670 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: good publicity in america's like at least increases your footprint, um, 671 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,799 Speaker 1: and also famous enough that like he's surrounded by people 672 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 1: who are gassing him up all the time. So I 673 00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 1: just think he's very dangerous. Probably part of a strategy 674 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: is to control like discourse in some way the way 675 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 1: that like you know, billionaires during the barren era, like 676 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 1: we would do that. Ship. Um, yeah, I think I 677 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,880 Speaker 1: think the concerns are founded. I still feel like you 678 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: can still use Twitter right to like coordinator to organize, 679 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 1: Like I don't. I don't feel like it like what 680 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,879 Speaker 1: it should be as a public utility, and like we're 681 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,799 Speaker 1: moving away from that obviously, and that's fucked up. But 682 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:48,800 Speaker 1: like that, like he I feel like it's not great 683 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:53,239 Speaker 1: for our side or for people who are trying to 684 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:57,280 Speaker 1: do good in the world. If like a billionaire buys 685 00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 1: all phone networks across the America and they're like, well, 686 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,239 Speaker 1: I just don't use the phone anymore, and it's like, well, 687 00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,640 Speaker 1: we're putting ourselves at a disadvantage, like we just need 688 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 1: to you know, keep well. Yeah, And I think for 689 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,799 Speaker 1: the people who need that, who are resilient, this isn't 690 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 1: gonna do much because they see the utility of it 691 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: and you can just block the funk out everybody, you 692 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,240 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Um, And maybe that's how people 693 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 1: will get on with it and it will continue to 694 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 1: you know, do its thing in the Musk era. Yeah, yeah, 695 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 1: there's just it's it's it's going to be very very 696 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:33,960 Speaker 1: interesting because there's so many. There's so many because like 697 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,279 Speaker 1: you're saying, because Twitter has become sort of like the 698 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,879 Speaker 1: this utility in a way, but it's still not even 699 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,080 Speaker 1: the top ten user basis of like social media. Plantner 700 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 1: has this very interesting place, uh and seeing what he 701 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 1: does really good or bad TVD, but again a billionaire 702 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,800 Speaker 1: buying it never good, never again. Can you guys explain 703 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 1: the edit button to me like that? I don't fully 704 00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 1: understand the because like my my understanding is that the 705 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,320 Speaker 1: reason you use that a button is if you have 706 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: a tweet up a lot of people like it, and 707 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,760 Speaker 1: then you realize like you want to change something about it, 708 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:15,040 Speaker 1: and then you edit the tweet like their likes are 709 00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 1: ascribed to like something that isn't accurate, right, Like that's 710 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 1: that feels weird, Like what like you can't you can 711 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: edit what you said, just delete the previous thing and 712 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 1: then rere pushed your Tweet's like that thing, oh I misspelled, 713 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: I misspelled said in my viral tweet. It makes me 714 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 1: crazy though, So I'm all about the edit button for 715 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,040 Speaker 1: that exactly It's like a small reason because I had 716 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,800 Speaker 1: a tweet go viral where I said like, choke uh, 717 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 1: but I didn't mean to say the US, so it 718 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 1: sounds like I'm saying like choke out like Italian choke 719 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,799 Speaker 1: when I choke up, and I was like god damn. 720 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 1: I kept just like watching it and I was like, oh, 721 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 1: I want to take it out, so I would like 722 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 1: to edit that, but it is fun. Have you ever 723 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: There's a TikTok that I saw where it was like, 724 00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 1: keep talking about TikTok but you know what, sometimes I 725 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 1: get portant with TikTok Um. There's a TikTok though that 726 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,239 Speaker 1: I saw where somebody was like texting their friend and 727 00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,840 Speaker 1: they asked a question they said like are you white? 728 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:11,399 Speaker 1: And as the person was responding the person the other 729 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: person said, if you are, then you like you say 730 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 1: that you hate black people and love slavery, and then 731 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 1: the person said yes, and then you know, they responded 732 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: immediately like it's just that it is that thing of 733 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: like where you can change what you've said, and then 734 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 1: the person who liked it is seemingly vouching for like 735 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:29,319 Speaker 1: some crazy shit, right, So yeah, I could get out 736 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 1: of control. But I don't know if people are. I 737 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 1: don't know. We could. We have to see, I guess. 738 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: But for me, it's just I want to take a 739 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,240 Speaker 1: little extra letter out of a tweet, right yeah, yeah exactly, 740 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 1: not wholesale, be like yeah, yeah, I get somebody to 741 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 1: like something the like you know, rope a doom into 742 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 1: being like okay, so you okay? So is he is 743 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,479 Speaker 1: he like team edit button is yeah, yeah, he wants 744 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 1: an edit button because campaigning on that. That's that's the 745 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 1: saddest part of his like, because he's just like, I 746 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:01,759 Speaker 1: just feel if I just got the tweet just right, 747 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 1: people would like me. It's like a buddy, we we 748 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 1: hate you because you are you know, unethically wealthy and racist. 749 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 1: That's that's our main thing. It's not because you've uh 750 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,840 Speaker 1: funked up a tweet. I for one love little Emerald boy, 751 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 1: and I would be honored to work with him. M hmm. Interesting. 752 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:31,359 Speaker 1: That is the the number of places I've just you know, 753 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: being out in public, I've had Ela Must quoted me. 754 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 1: Still boggles my mind, Like Ela Must quoted me as 755 00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: if like Socratecheese once said, some ship musk once said, 756 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,960 Speaker 1: it's all these like strivers like rise and grind people. 757 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:49,280 Speaker 1: But it's such a because he has his rep is different, 758 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 1: you know Twitter. He people don't like him on Twitter. 759 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 1: Off Twitter, it's a whole other thing. It's like, I'm 760 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,399 Speaker 1: curious of what his supporters think about that, because yeah, 761 00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 1: there's people driving around in tesla's and I've seen a 762 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,440 Speaker 1: license it that said love Musk on the back and 763 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:04,279 Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, these people are like all 764 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 1: in damn meant animal musk, love musk. Like he could 765 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 1: he could run for president and do pretty well at 766 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 1: some point in the future. He wasn't. He's not He's 767 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 1: not an American, so we can't. Oh yeah, that's right, 768 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 1: that's right. Did you see that somebody said he was 769 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,839 Speaker 1: an African American just to stir the pot because he's 770 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,759 Speaker 1: in Africa. Wasn't it a black woman? I said, come on, 771 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 1: I thought she was white. I saw one where as 772 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,840 Speaker 1: a black woman. People were like, hold on now, like 773 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 1: is this an avatar switch up? Like what what is 774 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 1: happening here? That's but crazy? Yeah, I know, thanks, they're like, 775 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,840 Speaker 1: and I think someone above was like, oh I do 776 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 1: not know about apartheid or and okay, don't worry about that. 777 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 1: All right, let's take a quick break and we'll come 778 00:39:48,120 --> 00:40:00,279 Speaker 1: back and talk MPR and we're back. Um, and this 779 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 1: is this is kind of a weird one. This is 780 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 1: just like, uh, you know, something I noticed, but I'm 781 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,279 Speaker 1: curious to get you guys thoughts. But I just like 782 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:13,320 Speaker 1: head and listen to MPR. And probably a year, Um, 783 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,200 Speaker 1: something happened with the way my phone was connected to 784 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,880 Speaker 1: my car, so I started popping on every once in 785 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,720 Speaker 1: a while around the time of the Russian invasion of Ukraine. 786 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 1: And it's like I was hearing it again, like with 787 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 1: fresh years, and it just felt insane to me, Like 788 00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 1: it's like it's so gentle and like it's explaining the 789 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 1: death of a of a pet to a child, but 790 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,680 Speaker 1: they're explaining the news of the world to an entire 791 00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 1: generation of adults. Um. And yeah. So I mean that's 792 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,399 Speaker 1: basically my thesis that if we weren't used to it 793 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:54,800 Speaker 1: from like decades of MPR being like a one of 794 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: the primary neoliberal sources of information, we'd all be like, 795 00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,520 Speaker 1: this is so fun, getting weird. Um. And then I 796 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 1: do wonder if there's you know, a a larger point 797 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:12,000 Speaker 1: about the amount of cognitive dissonance that's required for the 798 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 1: type of people who listen to NPR, sort of that 799 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:19,239 Speaker 1: gentry class of liberals, like where there's just a lot 800 00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,000 Speaker 1: of calories, a lot of mental calorie, Like you could 801 00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,919 Speaker 1: mint to bitcoin with the amount of mental work that's 802 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,200 Speaker 1: required too, you know, both be aware of all the 803 00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:32,960 Speaker 1: inequality in the world, uh, and also believe that like 804 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,719 Speaker 1: the mainstream d NC is the answer, and you know, 805 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:41,280 Speaker 1: buying into mainstream corporate media narratives and like still feeling 806 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 1: like you're the good guy. Like it's just it all 807 00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:49,240 Speaker 1: feels very um, like it's a it's a lot of work, 808 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:51,960 Speaker 1: it's a it's a weird position to be in as 809 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:57,320 Speaker 1: a neoliberal. And so I feel like there's something something 810 00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,840 Speaker 1: about this aesthetic that like helps just be like, no, 811 00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,319 Speaker 1: that's okay, this is all happening. So you are right, 812 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,560 Speaker 1: you are You're good because you're listening to stuff about 813 00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,880 Speaker 1: the bad stuff happening enough to get like a cursory 814 00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:15,359 Speaker 1: understanding of of the details. Um, but don't worry. We're 815 00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: gonna make it down, go down very smooth, and we're 816 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,240 Speaker 1: going to talk to you in the way that uh, 817 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:24,560 Speaker 1: you know, your your snobby friends talk to you, and 818 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,520 Speaker 1: you know it's we're just doing this over a glass 819 00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:31,759 Speaker 1: of like pinot grig. Don't worry like it's all cool. Um, 820 00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what do you? What do you? Guys? 821 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 1: I know I totally feel that because and we talked, 822 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 1: We talked about this all the time, because then no 823 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:41,480 Speaker 1: mainstream media outlet like it. It's always meant to sort 824 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:44,239 Speaker 1: of frame all these conversations in a very tidy thing 825 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,320 Speaker 1: where it's not going to bring too much. It's not 826 00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,600 Speaker 1: gonna bring the reader or listener or viewer to ask 827 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:54,360 Speaker 1: really tough questions about like US foreign policy or domestic 828 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:59,600 Speaker 1: economic policy. It'll describe a problem you know, somewhat you know, 829 00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 1: bad in a balanced way, but also not really confront 830 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,439 Speaker 1: the problem or offer solutions to the listener, which would 831 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,280 Speaker 1: actually spur the next first thing of like the next 832 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:11,760 Speaker 1: thought on because if it's just like and it's all bad, 833 00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,600 Speaker 1: but it's being contained there and due to that, like 834 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 1: the people do have a more optimistic outlook on the 835 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,800 Speaker 1: chances of Russia being successful in their invasion of Ukraine, 836 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,520 Speaker 1: and you're like, okay, I don't really I know that's happening. 837 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,880 Speaker 1: I don't need to fucking think deeper about this. I 838 00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:28,480 Speaker 1: don't even need to think of like what does this 839 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,400 Speaker 1: mean for the military industrial complex in the United States? 840 00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:34,799 Speaker 1: Why some factions of the U. S. Government like all 841 00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:38,440 Speaker 1: in on this, others aren't. What's the deal there? Why 842 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,799 Speaker 1: there's like you know, it's it's again. Yeah, like you're saying, 843 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 1: it sells like an illusion of being tapped in and 844 00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:48,520 Speaker 1: that you're you're on top of it all without challenging 845 00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,800 Speaker 1: you enough to really kind of begins doesn't have anything 846 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,359 Speaker 1: to do you think with that um, that annoying thing, 847 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 1: what does it ally fatigue how people are just they're like, oh, man, 848 00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:59,800 Speaker 1: I cared about this cause, but can't we take the 849 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,520 Speaker 1: like squares off our Instagram yet? You know that kind 850 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,799 Speaker 1: of thing where it's like it's like you want to 851 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,080 Speaker 1: be there and you want to support and fight, but 852 00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,360 Speaker 1: like you also want it to be kind of easy 853 00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,400 Speaker 1: and simple and short, and like maybe there's something to that, 854 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 1: like if you if it goes down with a little 855 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:16,640 Speaker 1: bit of sugar and a smooth, you know, airy voice, 856 00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,319 Speaker 1: then it's easier to handle. But yeah, then you're not 857 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:24,320 Speaker 1: necessarily hearing it all or understanding how big it could 858 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,279 Speaker 1: be because you're just like this is just it's like 859 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 1: neatly contained. Yeah, and it's the emotion is removed. Um. 860 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:35,600 Speaker 1: It's very much like hearing a professor talk about a 861 00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: thing that like an event from history more so than 862 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,880 Speaker 1: it's like hearing somebody at that this thing is actually happening, 863 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,879 Speaker 1: to that there's a you exist in the world where 864 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,839 Speaker 1: this is happening. Um. But yeah, I think like the 865 00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:55,080 Speaker 1: ally fatigue syndrome and like NPR, which has been doing 866 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,160 Speaker 1: this for you know, decades now, but I think they 867 00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:02,280 Speaker 1: both come from the same play of you know, wanting 868 00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,919 Speaker 1: to feel like you are on the right side while 869 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:10,000 Speaker 1: also wanting to stay at a safe distance from the 870 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,920 Speaker 1: like what what is actually happening? Um. I have this 871 00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:18,239 Speaker 1: clip that I pulled and I literally just like, I 872 00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,280 Speaker 1: was like, it would be helpful if we had a clip, uh. 873 00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 1: This morning, and I went to the NPR website and 874 00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 1: was like, let's find them. The thing that made me 875 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:34,080 Speaker 1: notice it was a story about Russia's invasion of Ukraine. 876 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,399 Speaker 1: So I just went and looked for a story where 877 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,920 Speaker 1: they were talking about that, and I like four minutes 878 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 1: in I thought this is you know, this isn't like that. 879 00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 1: I'm catching them saying something wild or anything. This is 880 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:52,600 Speaker 1: just an example of what I'm talking about. Um, I 881 00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,360 Speaker 1: don't know, Miles, do you wanna like I have the 882 00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 1: link there, I could just pull it up. Yeah. So 883 00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 1: for four ten And is this a podcast? No, well 884 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,320 Speaker 1: this is on the NPR. Bad they so they serve 885 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,560 Speaker 1: everything as a podcast. And I should say, like in 886 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:12,840 Speaker 1: relation to the podcast. Um, when we started like our 887 00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:16,279 Speaker 1: little shingle of like how stuff Works, which became I 888 00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,760 Speaker 1: heart like, one of our stated goals was to create 889 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 1: shows that did were not influenced by the nprs that 890 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:26,919 Speaker 1: because it felt like so many shows were just like, 891 00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,160 Speaker 1: you know, this American Life and then this American Life 892 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:34,680 Speaker 1: Descendants and like everybody was just like, hey, so this 893 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,480 Speaker 1: is from the one you know. Um, but yeah, the 894 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 1: NPR is wild influential to the point that like this 895 00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,399 Speaker 1: might not even sound that crazy to people who listen 896 00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: to a lot of podcasts inteligence capabilities including So this 897 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,480 Speaker 1: is just the end of the report of how the 898 00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 1: US is helping to investigate worker. NPR Justice correspondent Ryan Lucas, 899 00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:58,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, Ryan, doesn't doesn't Isn't that soothing? I guess not? 900 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:04,759 Speaker 1: Nice Susan boys, some nice soothing music. The first step 901 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:09,120 Speaker 1: in confirming that comes in the next story, to look 902 00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:12,200 Speaker 1: for themselves. Days ago, our colleagues got detro how to 903 00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 1: look around boro Yanka. That's one of the cities near 904 00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 1: Kiev from which Russian forces recently withdrew. And today we 905 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:22,440 Speaker 1: hear Scott's stories of two people who survived the Russian occupation. 906 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,160 Speaker 1: Natasha and her daughter's family spent a month hiding in 907 00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:33,799 Speaker 1: a cramp. What did we eat? Mostly potatoes. I had 908 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,799 Speaker 1: some spare oil, and then I have a cow, so 909 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,080 Speaker 1: I had milk, and I went to my neighbor. I 910 00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:40,320 Speaker 1: gave her some milk. She gave me some other things, 911 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:44,120 Speaker 1: some cheese. So this is how we survived. So that's 912 00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,880 Speaker 1: all right. That was the main like kind of pieces 913 00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to play because you know, so Scott, Scott 914 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,120 Speaker 1: and Skip comes in very calm, just like you know, 915 00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,759 Speaker 1: this is the story where we're going to give you 916 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,319 Speaker 1: some stuff from the ground. And then they bring in 917 00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 1: somebody who is, you know, very emotional and like you know, 918 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:08,160 Speaker 1: breaks down a little later in the interview, but then 919 00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,120 Speaker 1: they like overlay her with someone who sounds like they're 920 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 1: recounting a meal they prepared over a glass of wine. 921 00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:22,359 Speaker 1: Like ever, yeah, yeah, just when you're talking about military operation. Yeah, 922 00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:27,920 Speaker 1: so yeah for context that that woman uh was hiding 923 00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:32,839 Speaker 1: in her basement um, starving with children, trying to hide 924 00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:36,800 Speaker 1: from Russia who was trying to murder her, and like 925 00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:40,399 Speaker 1: like what do we eat? Well, we had a nice 926 00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:44,200 Speaker 1: little like potato saute and like it's like this kind 927 00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,320 Speaker 1: of feel is disingenuous because like they are giving people 928 00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 1: information that people need. I just want to take a 929 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:55,960 Speaker 1: moment to acknowledge the aesthetic and uh make fun of 930 00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,719 Speaker 1: it because it is fucking weird. I will say that. 931 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,759 Speaker 1: I remember in twenties teena I was watching CNN and 932 00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,200 Speaker 1: like watching the election results come in, and I was 933 00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,120 Speaker 1: getting so stressed out and had such anxiety. So I 934 00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 1: had to turn it to CBC Canadian TV because they 935 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: were just they're just talking. They were just they're presenting 936 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,160 Speaker 1: the facts and not going crazy, and there weren't like 937 00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:19,400 Speaker 1: air horns and loud noises every five minutes, and it 938 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,480 Speaker 1: was like the only way I could handle it. So 939 00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,640 Speaker 1: it's like I know that you know that that's working. 940 00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:27,080 Speaker 1: You know it gives them, you know, more listeners, and 941 00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:29,319 Speaker 1: people are drawn to that for that reason. I think, 942 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:33,239 Speaker 1: but yeah, what does that say necessarily about people? Like 943 00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:37,600 Speaker 1: that's how they have to handle work, crimes and things. Well, yeah, 944 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:41,200 Speaker 1: and it's just how It's just like the messaging, right, 945 00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,680 Speaker 1: Like it's one thing if someone's like, oh, hey, that 946 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:48,279 Speaker 1: house is on fire. The house is on fire. Yeah, 947 00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,640 Speaker 1: it's inhuman. It's it's it's the humanity out of it 948 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 1: was strange, and so your response to it is going 949 00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 1: to be completely different too. It's like it gives you 950 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 1: the new is with a like little like anti anxiety medication, 951 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,359 Speaker 1: Like so yeah, yeah, I don't need Yeah, people don't 952 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,759 Speaker 1: need to be listening to like the Death Metal of 953 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:14,279 Speaker 1: the News podcast. You're like, it's all fucking over. But 954 00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:17,680 Speaker 1: at the same time, you do do people a disservice because, 955 00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:19,920 Speaker 1: like you're saying this, even this is even how I 956 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:24,160 Speaker 1: saw it, especially the summer covering all the police Fucori. 957 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,760 Speaker 1: They were like then some have seen it as potentially 958 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 1: being racially motivated behavior, and you're like, hold on, yeah, 959 00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,880 Speaker 1: we're we're all looking at this in real time and 960 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,480 Speaker 1: you can't even come out and properly sort of catch 961 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,319 Speaker 1: people up. I think is the energy should be. There's 962 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,279 Speaker 1: there's a serious issue with law enforcement. I think that's 963 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 1: just there, and I get that. I think people see 964 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:49,080 Speaker 1: like we're autatorializing by saying something like that, But you 965 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:52,120 Speaker 1: also need to convey the severity of something to people, 966 00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 1: because if you say it all monotone, you're gonna think, oh, yeah, 967 00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 1: it's just a few bad apples. Meanwhile, you look at 968 00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,439 Speaker 1: the people who are in the streets and the way 969 00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,799 Speaker 1: they speak about it. They're not like, oh, it's this 970 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,080 Speaker 1: or that. We're talking about existential threats, and I think 971 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,840 Speaker 1: to take that out of the way you're telling the 972 00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 1: news allows people to think, oh, I mean, yeah, the 973 00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:12,600 Speaker 1: invasion might be fucked up in Ukraine, but that woman 974 00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:16,239 Speaker 1: seemed so, she had a cow, she had some oil y. Yeah, yeah, 975 00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,719 Speaker 1: this is yeah. I mean, this is the whole NPR aesthetic. 976 00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:25,439 Speaker 1: Is itself a reaction to the like you know, Dan rather, 977 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:32,360 Speaker 1: Peter what's his name from ABC, Tom Broke, Peter Jennings, 978 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:36,560 Speaker 1: like that whole like and like it's unnatural like that 979 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,800 Speaker 1: that is, it's weird, unnatural trying to play the center 980 00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 1: type thing UM, and NPR is like, no, we'll talk 981 00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:47,400 Speaker 1: to you, UM in this other way that feels less 982 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 1: like artificial. But now it's like so uniform across so 983 00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 1: many channels, and it just doesn't like it's now its 984 00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,799 Speaker 1: own weird artificial thing that seems to be aiming to 985 00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:07,960 Speaker 1: just like make everybody feel calm about uh and like 986 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,799 Speaker 1: feel like they're the good guy and you know, get 987 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 1: well can wear their tote bag with pride um and yeah, 988 00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,840 Speaker 1: so I asked, uh super producers Becca and Tricia to 989 00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,160 Speaker 1: you know, Becca looked into just like a history of like, 990 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:28,840 Speaker 1: what what are other people pointing this out? And she 991 00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:32,040 Speaker 1: pulled some very funny tweets and also like I think 992 00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:39,759 Speaker 1: a really smart one where somebody, um Alex Safe Cummings tweeted, uh, 993 00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 1: the system has every reason to want to revert back 994 00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:45,040 Speaker 1: to the norm, to the even keeled MPR tone of voice, 995 00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 1: and it will probably try. But Trump, to his credit, 996 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 1: in a weird way, has blown up all duplicitous civility 997 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:56,239 Speaker 1: to the ruling class. The pretty West wing illusions are 998 00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 1: mostly gone, and like, I think that's interesting to think 999 00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,799 Speaker 1: of Trump as, uh, what one of the things he 1000 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:08,880 Speaker 1: is reacting to is like this insufferable neo liberal class 1001 00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:13,640 Speaker 1: of just you know that tone like he Trump's rude 1002 00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:21,000 Speaker 1: conversational like kind of weird speaking style as a breaking 1003 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:25,600 Speaker 1: out of the like quiet politeness that MPR embodies. Um 1004 00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:29,720 Speaker 1: is kind of an interesting way to think about that. UM. 1005 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,680 Speaker 1: And then and then there is apparently like straight up 1006 00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:37,920 Speaker 1: gate keeping UM, Like we don't have them in a 1007 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:41,439 Speaker 1: room telling people to like be more zand out. Which 1008 00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 1: was the assignment. I was like, can you find out 1009 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,400 Speaker 1: if they have like a candy bowl full of like 1010 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:50,440 Speaker 1: xan X at the office or like conditioning. What do 1011 00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,239 Speaker 1: they tell the people before they go on the air, 1012 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,160 Speaker 1: is my question? Like I I still like, well, we 1013 00:53:56,239 --> 00:53:58,920 Speaker 1: won't find this out, but if if zy Gang, if 1014 00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:03,160 Speaker 1: any of our listeners have experience with this, like I 1015 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm dying to know, like what are there is there 1016 00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:10,360 Speaker 1: a process where they're like nope, okay, just calmer, all 1017 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,160 Speaker 1: right now? Can you take it down just a little 1018 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:14,840 Speaker 1: bit more? You're at like a three, I need you 1019 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,560 Speaker 1: at like a one minus. Um, Like I would love 1020 00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:22,160 Speaker 1: to just hear what that's like. Maybe when they're in person, 1021 00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:26,200 Speaker 1: the hosts talk super quietly, they're like, so you compare, 1022 00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:28,640 Speaker 1: so then the other person that's talking to them feels 1023 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:30,279 Speaker 1: like they need to talk quietly to like maybe it's 1024 00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,880 Speaker 1: just this weird like mirroring thing feel bad for the 1025 00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:35,560 Speaker 1: people of color who work in there, and they're like, 1026 00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:39,480 Speaker 1: let me tell you what I do, Like what I'm sorry, Yeah, 1027 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:43,960 Speaker 1: I mean so Uh. Producer Tricia pulled a story about, 1028 00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,360 Speaker 1: you know, somebody who an MPR contributor who was preparing 1029 00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:49,400 Speaker 1: a story for air when he became aware that he 1030 00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:52,120 Speaker 1: was altering his speaking style to fit would he believed 1031 00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:55,560 Speaker 1: to be the MPR voice. Um. And then you know, 1032 00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:59,759 Speaker 1: there there's another story where somebody was basically told, h 1033 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:04,240 Speaker 1: uh that they couldn't come on the air on MPR 1034 00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:09,400 Speaker 1: because their accent seemed to or their voice seemed to accented. 1035 00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:13,360 Speaker 1: Giselle Regatto road an essay and the Columbia Journalism Review 1036 00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 1: in which she recounted her attempt to pitch a story 1037 00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,440 Speaker 1: to NPR, only to be told by an editor that 1038 00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:22,880 Speaker 1: her piece would not air out of concern for her accent. Um. 1039 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:27,880 Speaker 1: So you know there's that too, Like there's obviously a 1040 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:32,719 Speaker 1: crazy bias there. Um. And I think, yeah, yeah, go ahead, no, 1041 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,799 Speaker 1: just do you think about what you're talking about Trump? Right, 1042 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:37,440 Speaker 1: and like the I get you know, I get that 1043 00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:40,879 Speaker 1: it's soothing, right that it makes it easier but at 1044 00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:44,960 Speaker 1: the same time, it deep down we know it's disingenuous 1045 00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:47,080 Speaker 1: because we're only listening to it because we feel that 1046 00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 1: we need to know about it, but don't want to 1047 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:51,799 Speaker 1: get freaked out by the sort of the scale of 1048 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:55,680 Speaker 1: the issue that we're trying to learn about. And I 1049 00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,120 Speaker 1: think that's another reason why a lot of people just 1050 00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:00,839 Speaker 1: you know, like people responded to Trump, because if you're 1051 00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,120 Speaker 1: hearing on the news, it's like, yeah, you know, medical dad, 1052 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:05,800 Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and this guy's been like the pharmaceutical 1053 00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,920 Speaker 1: costs are out of control and nah like that energy 1054 00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:14,280 Speaker 1: people like exactly, that's the thing that that actually connects 1055 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:17,560 Speaker 1: energetically with what I'm feeling about this whole situation. It's 1056 00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,200 Speaker 1: not the way it was presented to me. It's that 1057 00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:22,560 Speaker 1: I'm living in a very grim reality. So to present 1058 00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:25,960 Speaker 1: my grim reality with you know this like you know, 1059 00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:28,160 Speaker 1: this paint of cote or this quote or code of 1060 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,880 Speaker 1: paint that makes it really shiny doesn't help me anyway 1061 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,120 Speaker 1: in any way. So, yeah, people are gonna gravitate towards 1062 00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,200 Speaker 1: the people who at least are speaking with a level 1063 00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:39,799 Speaker 1: of emotion to it or acknowledging this verity, even if 1064 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:44,600 Speaker 1: it's disingenuous, because that feels more real at times. Yeah, 1065 00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:49,279 Speaker 1: And I mean the we've talked before about how the 1066 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:53,320 Speaker 1: fact that the alternative to the mainstream that is seeing 1067 00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:58,399 Speaker 1: the most success right now is like authoritarianism and Nazism, 1068 00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:00,680 Speaker 1: like in in America, that's the thing that has the 1069 00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:04,760 Speaker 1: most energy. They had the fucking president for four years. Um. 1070 00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 1: And I think, like, I like the fact that so 1071 00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:13,480 Speaker 1: much of the neoliberal like ideal and you know, image 1072 00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:17,120 Speaker 1: and self image is tied to NPR and a thing 1073 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,400 Speaker 1: that seems to be intentionally trying to lull you to sleep. 1074 00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,840 Speaker 1: I think is at least part of the problem. Um. 1075 00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 1: But we have we have more on this and I'm 1076 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,520 Speaker 1: going to keep talking about it because I find it 1077 00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:34,360 Speaker 1: very interesting, um, in future episodes. But Nicole, it's been 1078 00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 1: such a pleasure having you on t d Z. Where 1079 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,920 Speaker 1: can people find you and follow you? Well, first of all, 1080 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:43,760 Speaker 1: thank you for having me back. This is very fun, 1081 00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:46,080 Speaker 1: And um, people can follow me and find me on 1082 00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:50,920 Speaker 1: Twitter elon Musk's Twitter at Cole Thurman, I'm n I 1083 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:54,520 Speaker 1: C C O. L. E. Thurman and also on Instagram 1084 00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:59,040 Speaker 1: at Nicole Thurman. Amazing. Is there a tweet or some 1085 00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 1: other work social media you've been enjoying. Oh my god, well, 1086 00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:04,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw this tweet. I think 1087 00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:09,480 Speaker 1: it was yesterday that they that just the discussing film 1088 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:13,760 Speaker 1: Twitter account always be tweeting out some wild ship I swear, 1089 00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:17,440 Speaker 1: and I think, um, where is it? Of course I 1090 00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:19,120 Speaker 1: had it in my favorite and I'm not gonna be 1091 00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:23,640 Speaker 1: able to find it. Um, it was about Leah Michelle 1092 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,640 Speaker 1: and Jonathan Groff. Did you see this? Okay, here it is? It, 1093 00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:31,040 Speaker 1: says Leah Michelle reveals she once let Jonathan Groff see 1094 00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:33,760 Speaker 1: her vagina using a desk lamp to give him an 1095 00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,080 Speaker 1: illustrative lesson and satisfy his curiosity in the Female Anatomy 1096 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:39,760 Speaker 1: as a gay man with no practical knowledge of its particulars. 1097 00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:44,080 Speaker 1: And it's that it's that story is fucking hilarious. First 1098 00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:48,080 Speaker 1: of all, I was like, what, why do we speak 1099 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,320 Speaker 1: like you? We don't mean to notice you could have 1100 00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:53,479 Speaker 1: just not said that. But also I just think there's 1101 00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:58,360 Speaker 1: something so damn funny about like lately tweets are being 1102 00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,120 Speaker 1: so fucking wild when people are doing press tours for 1103 00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:04,560 Speaker 1: movies like what's happening? Like yesterday, I thought that the 1104 00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:09,480 Speaker 1: official trailer for Don't Worry. Darling Variety tweeted like Harry 1105 00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:13,280 Speaker 1: Styles performs oral sex on Florence Pew and it's like, Yo, 1106 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:17,680 Speaker 1: what happen me? We got to click on it? Okay, 1107 00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:19,760 Speaker 1: it's Harry Styles. We don't click on it. You don't 1108 00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:22,400 Speaker 1: need to say that to get us the crack. It 1109 00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,680 Speaker 1: just feels so out late, like you're just getting the 1110 00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:28,520 Speaker 1: craziest fucking stories for these press to wars, which I mean, 1111 00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:30,880 Speaker 1: I guess I appreciate the madness, but I'm also like, 1112 00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:32,360 Speaker 1: why do we feel like we have to go that 1113 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:38,200 Speaker 1: hard to like get people to be interested in a story? Right? Totally? Yeah? Amazing? 1114 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,800 Speaker 1: People find you what's tweet you've been enjoying? This reminds 1115 00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:44,160 Speaker 1: me of Megan Fox thing that just came out her 1116 00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:47,360 Speaker 1: machine gun. Kelly. We just we ingest a little bit 1117 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:51,800 Speaker 1: of each other. Shut up, Like, first of all, shut up. 1118 00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:54,919 Speaker 1: They always be talking. They don't have to say anything. Yeah, 1119 00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:59,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, we know you guys peaked when Molly Lambert 1120 00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,400 Speaker 1: interviewed y'all and we found out he said he was 1121 01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:08,480 Speaker 1: weed anything anything that you're yeah, yeah, find me at 1122 01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:10,840 Speaker 1: Miles of Gray on Twitter and Instagram. Also obviously our 1123 01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:14,000 Speaker 1: basketball podcast, Myles and Jack Got Mad boost Ease, an 1124 01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:17,640 Speaker 1: NBA podcast where we celebrate the wonderful game of basketball. 1125 01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:21,240 Speaker 1: Also my other podcast for twenty day Fiance with Sophie Alexander. 1126 01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:23,680 Speaker 1: Come check that out if you like that ninety day madness. 1127 01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:27,880 Speaker 1: Uh tweet I like is from at stolen Dan's tweeted 1128 01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:31,920 Speaker 1: uh in parentheses youth pastor voice you know who else 1129 01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:42,280 Speaker 1: called Saul. That's great. I love it, uh tweet. I've 1130 01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:47,520 Speaker 1: been enjoying uh Nicole Thurman. I don't know if you've 1131 01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:51,160 Speaker 1: heard her. Familiar when you ask someone to rub your 1132 01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:55,320 Speaker 1: shoulders and they just rub it, it's like, uh, it's like, no, 1133 01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:58,360 Speaker 1: my dude, I'm gonna need you too, straight up pummel me. 1134 01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:01,360 Speaker 1: Welcome my ship, jump up and down on it, like 1135 01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:07,880 Speaker 1: my back is a little trampoline to help me. Oh 1136 01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:12,120 Speaker 1: my god. That is Uh. My wife is exactly the same. 1137 01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:16,480 Speaker 1: That's why they're a gun. They're all I do have 1138 01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:18,280 Speaker 1: one of those, because then I'm like, YO, just hit 1139 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:19,840 Speaker 1: me with that, like don't worry, he's gonna do all 1140 01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:22,120 Speaker 1: the work. Just name it at my back, just let 1141 01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:24,440 Speaker 1: it drill it in, like, don't be afraid I have 1142 01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,400 Speaker 1: a shoulder pain that I just feel like it really 1143 01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:28,520 Speaker 1: needs to be like ripped out of my body or something. 1144 01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:33,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, be violent with me. There's an elbow or something. 1145 01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:34,720 Speaker 1: That's That's the thing I always tell people if they 1146 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,000 Speaker 1: don't have strong hands, I'm like, yo, use your elbow 1147 01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:40,120 Speaker 1: and just digging in with your elbow because like that 1148 01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,720 Speaker 1: thing that that that that doesn't you gotta work it out. Yeah, definitely. 1149 01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:45,800 Speaker 1: All right. Well, you can find me on Twitter at 1150 01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:48,000 Speaker 1: Jack Undersquirrel Brian. You can find us on Twitter at 1151 01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:50,480 Speaker 1: daily Zy. Guys were at the Daily used on Instagram. 1152 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,439 Speaker 1: We have a Facebook fan page and a website Daily 1153 01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:54,720 Speaker 1: zys dot com where we post our episodes on our 1154 01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,360 Speaker 1: foot notes where we link off to the information that 1155 01:01:57,360 --> 01:01:59,400 Speaker 1: we talked about in today's episode, as well as a 1156 01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:01,800 Speaker 1: song that we think you might enjoy. Myles, what song 1157 01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:05,680 Speaker 1: do we think? People? We're gonna go out on a track? Uh. 1158 01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:11,120 Speaker 1: This Japanese artist named Hatty Mijo and uh yeah, she's 1159 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,080 Speaker 1: just kind of um she found remember if you know 1160 01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:16,560 Speaker 1: Chibo Mato that band was in that band. Um. Also 1161 01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:19,240 Speaker 1: like he's been on like some guerrilla stuff. Really interesting artists. 1162 01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:22,280 Speaker 1: But this is a track out called Tokyo Story, and 1163 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,880 Speaker 1: this has got this if I thought it was like 1164 01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:28,680 Speaker 1: a retro like Tokyo City pop track from the eighties, 1165 01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:31,160 Speaker 1: but it's like a little bit more pretty than that. 1166 01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:33,880 Speaker 1: Um and her singing is real spooky and the production 1167 01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:35,760 Speaker 1: is really cool. So yeah, check this out. Tokyo Story 1168 01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:40,240 Speaker 1: by Miho. Alright, well go check that out the Daily. 1169 01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,240 Speaker 1: He's like guys, a production by Heart Radio. For more 1170 01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,560 Speaker 1: podcast My Heart Radio, visit the I Heart Radio app, 1171 01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:46,760 Speaker 1: Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. 1172 01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:48,880 Speaker 1: That's gonna do it for us this morning. But we're 1173 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 1: back this afternoon to tell you what's trending and we'll 1174 01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:52,840 Speaker 1: talk to you all that Bite by