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Speaker 1: show will good morning everybody you're listening to the voice.

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Speaker 1: Come on Digny nine one and only. Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Man one more time. Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Yeah, I do, man, I thank God

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Speaker 1: for it every day. You know, UM my message this morning,

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Speaker 1: man's real clear. It's something that's been on me to share,

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Speaker 1: and it's it's amazing. You know, um, God can do

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Speaker 1: some amazing things for you. But what happens along the

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Speaker 1: type of hatred before I hadn't seen it. And it's

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Speaker 1: it's a great trick that the devil does. You know,

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Speaker 1: when when God is blessing you and giving you some

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Speaker 1: so it requires your attention. But in that attention, you

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Speaker 1: good thing that God does for you. That the enemy

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Speaker 1: us to remember that when we are going through some things,

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Speaker 1: I decided today it's called get it. We're about to

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Speaker 1: Let's get it. Oo look at him, say get it.

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Speaker 1: Get it till you got it. I got it. Must

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Speaker 1: Get it all. You won't get a whole bunch. Get

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, that's how we're doing it today. Charley Strawberry,

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Speaker 1: But how long would your apology to it be? Oh? Whoever?

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Speaker 1: is time now for Reverend Motown and Deacon Deaf jam

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Speaker 1: Church complaints. We girl in this bostatious way as we

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Speaker 1: um niflic hate the prepontiousness of what's been going on. Ye,

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Speaker 1: we momentalize the gravitatiousness of all this by goings, by

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Speaker 1: daciously way. Gather my deacon here umpictrious, gravitatious intus gravitations

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Speaker 1: that's what That's what death is shot for death Fernarius.

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Speaker 1: is death fernarious Jamison. We shortened it for death jam

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Speaker 1: Deafernarius Jamerson, go ahead, death Denarius, All right, pastor let's

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Speaker 1: The family cannot afford a cast get that loan. They

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Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour. Entertainment News,

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Speaker 1: Come You're list show. The sixty four Annual Grammys were

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Speaker 1: you got? Okay, Shirley, did you see the Grammys. Did

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Speaker 1: first award. Kicked things off. Silk Sonic. They did an

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Speaker 1: opening performance of dedication to Las Vegas seven seventh star.

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Speaker 1: It's the difference between Record of the Year Solo of

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Speaker 1: the Year. Child. I struggle with that every year, but

424
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Speaker 1: they won. I don't know writers, performers, all of that,

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Speaker 1: So quest love. He presented Silk Sonic with their first award.

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Speaker 1: He did a joke saying for everyone to stay five

427
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:32,719
Speaker 1: hundred feet back again, a little joke, but Silk Sonic,

428
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:36,239
Speaker 1: we love them, Anderson Pack, Bruno Mars, they cleaned up.

429
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Speaker 1: Did you see it, Junior? Did you see Anderson Pack

430
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Speaker 1: with his I turn a wig turning and cheese and

431
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: he was doing yes, yes, And when they won their award,

432
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: how they got up out of their seats like yeah, yeah,

433
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 1: just so dramatic. They are straight straight comedy. But I

434
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 1: love how you know they're dial They took the music

435
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: back to the seventies, Steve, that's what we love about

436
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: Silk Sonic. Your favorite bearer, Yeah, go back and moving

437
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 1: on every rappers favorite rapper, nas hip hop legend. Nas.

438
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: He killed it last night. He's been rapping for over

439
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 1: thirty years. He did my jam one Mike I can.

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00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 1: He did a little metal league you know, made you

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00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: look with a band behind him. So Nas he killed it.

442
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: Even Luda came on afterwards and gave it up to Nas.

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00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: Let's see what else. Jasmine Sullivans R and B song. Finally,

444
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: Jasmine Sullivan won a Grammy. It has been a long

445
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: time coming. She has been nominated over fifteen times. Really, yes,

446
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: ye see, That's where I'm through going. That's what I'm doing.

447
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: That's why you draw the times you ain't called me

448
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Speaker 1: three B the three without a call. Oh oh they

449
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: broke me at the image from that. You don't see

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Speaker 1: me down, No no, Lord goes to the host of

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00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 1: Cash Cab. I said, okay, okay, I ain't saying I'm

452
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Speaker 1: all that, but I'm molding that though, so right right right.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations to Jazz and the Sullivan Philly stand up. Your

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Speaker 1: girl finally finally got her Grammy. She got two Grammys.

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Speaker 1: Actually yes, her R and B singer her she is

456
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Speaker 1: a bad girl. She was killing it on stage. She

457
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: did her song damage and you know that has the

458
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Speaker 1: sample of that making Love in the Rain herb Albert,

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00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: Jimmy Jam Terry Lewis on stage with her while performing.

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Speaker 1: Then she killed it. My girl gets behind the drums,

461
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 1: then she performs are You Going My Way? Gonna Go

462
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: My Way? With Travis Barker. You know that's Courtney Kardashians man.

463
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: He played the drums and Lenny Kravitz and her who

464
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Speaker 1: they killed it, both of them on guitar. Great, nice performance.

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Speaker 1: Nice performance. Um. Justin Bieber he did his thing. President

466
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Speaker 1: Zelinski of Ukraine. He did a video to talk about

467
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Speaker 1: you know, music and how it is supporting the Ukrainians

468
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Speaker 1: and the war torn nation and how people can help

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Speaker 1: and how singers in Ukraine are trying to keep the

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Speaker 1: morale up if you will in Ukraine, and then you know,

471
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Speaker 1: he introduced kind of went into John Legend singing. It

472
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Speaker 1: was a beautiful, beautiful moment. Let's see what else did

473
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Speaker 1: we see? Kiss Me More with Sisza and Doja Cat.

474
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: Actually Doja Cat. They won Best Pop Duo Group Performance

475
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Speaker 1: and she was in the restaurant room when they actually

476
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: called her name. She ran to the mic and said

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Speaker 1: that was the fastest pee she ever had to do.

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Speaker 1: She's another word, but I'm going to say pee. And uh,

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Speaker 1: Sissa was on crutches. Yeah, what do you mean? What

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Speaker 1: do you mean? Yeah? Really, I mean if you she

481
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Speaker 1: said something other than pe, you want me to take

482
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Speaker 1: copy shots, We're gonna let that go. We're gonna let

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00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: it go. Black Guy Show to be authentic. You know,

484
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: I ain't don't need to misquote nobody, you know, somebody

485
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,959
Speaker 1: not getting the joke or walking away now was cool?

486
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: It was cool, Pete. We're gonna say anyway, Sissa was

487
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: on crutches. She said she fell out the bed the

488
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: day before the Grammy. Some say she twisted her ankle.

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00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 1: She heard her leg anyway, my girl was on crutches

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00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: accepting the award. She looked fabulous though. So that was

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00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 1: pretty much the Grammys, y'all. Hambaptise, Oh what can I say?

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00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: Class as he cleaned up at the end of the night.

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00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: So it was a good show. It was a good show.

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Speaker 1: Did I see Justin Bieber with a ski cap? On caller?

495
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:15,919
Speaker 1: He had a cap while performing cap to the back,

496
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: but sitting in the audience he had on just a

497
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: regular like like a skull cap. I like Justin Bieber.

498
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: I like that jam teaches. Yeah, what were you saying, Steve?

499
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: I didn't know who John was? My bad? I was

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Speaker 1: you thought it was John? I was all, well, I

501
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: wasn't John, but I was back in history. Carla's coming over.

502
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: It's Tommy time with the nephew. Right after this, you're

503
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 1: listening to show here we are, it's time for Tommy.

504
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 1: In other words, it's Tommy time. Okay, Tommy, what's on

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00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 1: your mind? Oh, y'all? I didn't talk to Cory or

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Speaker 1: to Night. Hung up on Corey. I hung up on

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00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: Corey Foe dog on times. I just I just couldn't

508
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: take it no more, Junior, I couldn't take it this time?

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00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: What did he say this time? Uh? We get on

510
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: the phone. He philosophered. Yeah, timmy man, let me ask

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00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: you something, you know, think about it, brother, because I'm

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00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: you know, I'm deep, I said, okay, man? What if

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00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: what if Bruno went to Mars? I said, what? What? What? What? What?

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00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: What if Alicia lost her keys? What I said? I said,

515
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: come on, Corey, come on, man, I ain't got time today.

516
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: What if glad Is couldn't sleep at night? I said, Corey,

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Speaker 1: come on, man, I ain't got time to I hung

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00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: up on him. He called back. What if Snoop really

519
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: was a dog? Are you see it right now? Go on? Hey?

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00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: Do you what did Malcolm have X? What? Come on?

521
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: Core man? This is stupid man. What if Taylor was

522
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: slow and not swift? Oh? Come, I can't, I can't.

523
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: I can't do this with you. Man. What if Keith

524
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: sweat dehydrated? What where did that come from? I don't know?

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00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 1: What What if Stevens started to wonder? Uh? And he

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00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: just he just wondering, don't I don't get What if

527
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 1: Hallett Burry hated but berries. What if she hated berries.

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00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying. I said, no, I understand

529
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: damn thing. What if Kevin lost his heart then the

530
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 1: last one he hit me with that one? Hung up?

531
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:49,919
Speaker 1: What if Dwayne Johnson lost his never man oh man?

532
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah, hung up on court four five time,

533
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: last name? Yeah yeah, I'm done with it. I'm done

534
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: with it. What if Jane Brown was black? What? What is?

535
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You stupid? What a yeah? Yeah,

536
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: but he was brown and not blast man? Come on?

537
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,720
Speaker 1: How you keep answering? What if? What if? What if Rickett?

538
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 1: What if Rickett didn't smile? I said, are you serious?

539
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: Right now? He's asking the phone called really stupid? What

540
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: if Tommy wasn't I'm just saying, what if he wasn't stupid?

541
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:44,439
Speaker 1: You pick any number? All right? Coming up in thirty

542
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: four minutes, one of the Jacksons coming up in thirty

543
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: four minutes after the hours. Will Smith has resigned from

544
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: the Academy of Motion Picture We'll talk about it right

545
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 1: after this. Yeah you're listening, let's say morning show, all right.

546
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: So Will Smith has resigned from the Academy of Motion

547
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: Picture Arts and Scientists. He did that this past Friday,

548
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: In a statement, Will said, I am resigning from membership

549
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: in the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Scientists and

550
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: will accept any further consequences the Board deems appropriate. He

551
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,439
Speaker 1: went on to say, my actions at the ninety fourth

552
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: Academy Awards presentation were shocking, painful, and inexcusable. The list

553
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: of those I have hurt is long and includes Chris,

554
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,240
Speaker 1: his family, many of my dear friends and loved ones,

555
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 1: all those in attendance and global audiences at home. I

556
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: am heartbroken. Will vow to never again allow violence to

557
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 1: overtake reason. All right. David Rubin, the president of the Academy,

558
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: also released a statement accepting Will's resignation and saying we

559
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: will continue to move forward with our disciplinary proceedings against

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00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 1: mister Smith for violations of the academies standards of conduct,

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00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: and advance of our next scheduled board meeting on April eighteenth.

562
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 1: So that's all of it. In a nutshell. Will resigned

563
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: apologized They're going to have a meeting and decide what

564
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 1: disciplinary actions they're going to take against Will. So there

565
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: you have it. Do you resign so they don't kick

566
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 1: you out? Is that how it works? Well, He's trying

567
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 1: to get ahead of it. He's trying to act like

568
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: it can take the narrative away from them so it

569
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 1: won't be the sting. He know that's coming. He knows

570
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,760
Speaker 1: that's coming. But the board don't meet into the eighteen,

571
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: so he know that's coming. He know that's going to

572
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: be some ramifications and repercussions and consequence. So he just

573
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: getting ahead. I'm gonna resign from the Academy and any

574
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: other further disciplines. He just getting ahead of it. This

575
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: is him his PR department. You know, people are knowing

576
00:40:54,640 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: how to handle this stuff. Control narrative, damage, control, control,

577
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: mitigate the risk. You know, that's all, that's all that is. Man,

578
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:12,800
Speaker 1: could Chris Rock and his family man such a gentleman,

579
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:17,839
Speaker 1: such class such, Yeah, I will be glad we get

580
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: past this, and you know, there are a lot of

581
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: lessons to be learned from this um. But the dope

582
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: move is Chris Rock hosting Oars next year next year. Yeah, Yeah,

583
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 1: that's the dope move. You talk about ratings, which they

584
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: care deeply about. Yeah, you know, yeah, they say the

585
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 1: ratings were up from this episode this past Oscars, and

586
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: it had nothing to do up until the slap if

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00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: you will, And you know, I just really I know

588
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 1: everybody said just a hundred times, and we keep talking

589
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: about it. It's just sad that, you know, we're not

590
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: talking about Wheel's first oscar. We're not talking about Samuel

591
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 1: All's first oscar. We're not talking about the three women

592
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: hosting the Oscars overaw, we're not talking about the Will

593
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:17,320
Speaker 1: Packer being the first black and then his assistant Shayla

594
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: being the first female to co executive produced. We're not

595
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: talking about any of that. Any of that all overshadowed

596
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: by that moment. By that moment, it really sad, really

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00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: really sad history making. It was history making and a

598
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 1: pretty flawless show up until that point. And Chris is

599
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: still class act. They're saying that his comedy shows that

600
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 1: was a heckler uh saying blank. Will Smith, he shut

601
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 1: that down. He's he's he's taking the high road in

602
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 1: this very high, very high. He's up to almost too high.

603
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: He addressed to Empire State Building. Yeah, telling you right now,

604
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 1: we'd be we'd be at subway level. Und I'm talking

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00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: about name lea sub where you need. Right after that,

606
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 1: I'd be on the that like mole level yeah, yeah, yeah,

607
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: they said that. Chris Um in his show addressed it,

608
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: saying that I know you guys probably came out to

609
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: hear what I was going to say, but I had

610
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: written a whole show before that. He said, I'll address

611
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 1: it at some point, but you know it's not going

612
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,240
Speaker 1: to be tonight. He said, It'll be funny, it'll be serious,

613
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: but I'm not doing that tonight. He went on with

614
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: this regular show that he had written. Yeah, he had

615
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: already written sold out shows too. Yeah all right, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is a nephew in the praying

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Speaker 1: Phone Call for today right after this you're listening show

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00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: coming up about four minut it's after the hour. It's

619
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Speaker 1: my Strawberry letter for today. The subject I hate all

620
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:09,320
Speaker 1: of his friends and family. Wow, we'll get into that today.

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Speaker 1: Everybody hate everybody? Right now, it is time for the

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Speaker 1: nephew and today's praying phone call. What you got for us? Nav?

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Speaker 1: Before I get into what I got, I want to

624
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: get some praise from you all that I worked all

625
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Speaker 1: weekend in Nashville, sold out seven shows, and I'm here

626
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Speaker 1: on Monday, and I just I just want to recognize

627
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 1: that I am here. You supposed to be you're supposed

628
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Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, I'm here. I'm here. What I mean

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Speaker 1: Sunday night, it's Monday morning. We all here. Yeah, we

630
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Speaker 1: worked all weekend too. I get off plays from Abu

631
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Speaker 1: Dhabi and make it on end after seventeen hour flight here.

632
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Speaker 1: You want what you want to work? Yeah? I want

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Speaker 1: to standing o for being here. Yeah. I want to

634
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: praise for keep cutting your check. I want that you

635
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:13,439
Speaker 1: know what we're getting stuff? You know? Yeah, I'm here. Yeah,

636
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: I never worked out for you. Better it's steel. Better

637
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: put it back on. Okay, it's Charlotte, North Carolina this week.

638
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 1: That's that's Friday said Sunday, that Monday, and we work Monday.

639
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: All right, here's a prank. The prank is you ain't married.

640
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: You ain't married. Let's go cat dog. Hello, Hello, I'm

641
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 1: trying to reach Brian. Yeah, how you doing, Brian? My

642
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 1: name is Daniel. Wanted to give you a call today.

643
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:52,360
Speaker 1: You got a minute? Yeah, okay, listen, um you're you're Brian,

644
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: um bron right, you're married to uh to Alfield. Yeah?

645
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 1: Hello hello, yeah, yeah, that that's me. That's my wife's Yeah, okay,

646
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: got a question for you. I do lotely. Have you

647
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: guys been married? Going on nine years now? We've been married? Now?

648
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 1: Who is this? My name is Daniel? Were you um?

649
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: Were you guys married a Greater New Missionary Baptist Church

650
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: Len the Sea. Yeah, yeah, yep, yep, that's the name

651
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: of that church. Yeah. Great, bout nine years? Yeah, that's right.

652
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:27,320
Speaker 1: Why what's going on? What's asking me all these questions? Fun? Okay,

653
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 1: do you remember the minister that officiated your actual wedding ceremony? Yeah? No,

654
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: uh reverend right? Yeah, okay, I got the right person.

655
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure I had the right person, Brian.

656
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 1: So I'm I'm sorry if it seemed a little weird

657
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: to you. Here's here's what's going on. We've just come

658
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 1: up with a new discovery, a lot of information that

659
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:55,840
Speaker 1: reverend none of his credentials are true. Everything is false.

660
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: He's not a minister at all, he never was a minister,

661
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: and every single wedding ceremony that he officiated is basically

662
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: null and void. So, and I hate to be the

663
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: bearer of bad news, but you and Alphea, even though

664
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,319
Speaker 1: you think you've been married for nine years, you guys

665
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: are not married. No, no, no, no, no, no, you

666
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: gotta have the wrong person, because then that then we

667
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: got we got married by nine years ago. And what

668
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: I'm telling you is he he never was ordained. He's

669
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: never been an ordained minister. He's not a minister at all.

670
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:39,760
Speaker 1: So when he performed this ceremony, you're a wedding ceremony,

671
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,919
Speaker 1: he had no right to be doing that. You guys

672
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 1: are not are not married. You know, you guys have

673
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: been living in sin for nine years. Hold on, hold

674
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:49,799
Speaker 1: hold on that. Let me tell you something. I ain't

675
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 1: been living. A man and my wife we have been

676
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,280
Speaker 1: married for nine years. And that man he's a preacher.

677
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 1: I'm telling he's a preacher. I'm preach land funded Sir.

678
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 1: As of today, he has no right to be in

679
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: anybody's pulpit. He has no right to be officiating, whether

680
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 1: it's weddings or funerals, no matter what it is, christenings

681
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: for children. He's not allowed to do that. And we

682
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 1: have officially stopped him from doing anything serving under as

683
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: being a pastor or a minister. We have stopped at

684
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: But what I want you to know is that you

685
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 1: have been living in sin, and you don't. We want

686
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: to try and get you guys married as soon as possible.

687
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: So you're not living in sin. Oh, No, doc, I

688
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: have been living in no sin. I have been married

689
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 1: for nine years. This woman should have been taking care

690
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,359
Speaker 1: of me and my kids for the past nine years. Wait. Wait,

691
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 1: wait a minute, Wait a minute. Guy, you guys have children. Yeah, yeah,

692
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 1: we got two, two kids, two beautiful kids. Okay, then

693
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: those kids are bastards staffords. Let me tell you something.

694
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 1: My kids ain't no bastards. What about your kids, your

695
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 1: kids in Bassetts? No, sir, my kids. My kids were

696
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: born in wedlock. Your kids have been born out of wedlocks.

697
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. Batman did my service, and he is

698
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 1: a preacher. He's a man after God's own heart himself.

699
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 1: He hasn't done everything that he comes from me and

700
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 1: my family. He is a preacher. So I know it's

701
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: hard for you to to to swallow the truth, but

702
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: I want you to know, and I need you to

703
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: be able to tell out feel that you guys are

704
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:22,240
Speaker 1: not married and not as of right now now. No, okay,

705
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 1: so heard now, back in the olden days, but before

706
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: all these, all these colleges and stuff came came about

707
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 1: you telling me that them men baking old days, that

708
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 1: they weren't no preachers, that they wasn't meant men after

709
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: the clough? Is that what you're saying to me? What

710
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:39,360
Speaker 1: are you? What are you? What are you? What are

711
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: you getting at? Sir? What I'm trying to say is

712
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 1: back in the older days, baking the twenties and thirties,

713
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 1: they didn't have all these colleges and all these degrees

714
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 1: and stuff like these new preachers got these days. That

715
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,280
Speaker 1: man now he was from back men and God called

716
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,439
Speaker 1: them and that's what they went on too. And all

717
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: them people that they married back then, they did the

718
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: same thing to day. You don't need to know what

719
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: degree to say that the you're a preacher. You don't

720
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 1: need no life to say you're a preacher. Man. My

721
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 1: wife will been married for nine years. My kids have

722
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:09,399
Speaker 1: been born in wedline. We were married. We were mad

723
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 1: by my friends and family. They was all there, sir.

724
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 1: The bottom line is that that you have been living

725
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,960
Speaker 1: in sin because you have not been married with your

726
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: wife for the last nine years. And your kids, I

727
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 1: hate to say it, your kids are bastards. Now on

728
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: now I've been told you don't say nothing else about

729
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: my kids and I ain't no custom, but don't push me.

730
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 1: My kids ain't no bad said. You're understand me. You

731
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 1: don't getting there, sir. I'm trying to give you the

732
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: truth and try to get you in here and get

733
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 1: you married so you will not be living in sin

734
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: any more than what you are. I'm living in those sins.

735
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 1: Look now, you don't make me whoop your ASTs. You understand.

736
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:49,279
Speaker 1: Man and my wife, we have been married for nine years.

737
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 1: Don't shoot up here call me talking about the way.

738
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: Ain't mad that man, ain't no preacher. You're understand I

739
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 1: get out of my whale. But you that's my life.

740
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: Those are my kids, they have been born and being lights.

741
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: Do you understand, sir. So I just wanted to call

742
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,240
Speaker 1: and give you the information so that you could probably

743
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: stop living in sin. That's all I wanted to do.

744
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 1: I ain't even a gonna sin. That's what I just

745
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: told you. You ain't hit me. I ain't living an

746
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: no fin. Maybe you're the one that's living up some sin. Now,

747
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing else said to me? That man

748
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 1: and man that's nine years ago. They get your ass

749
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 1: off my phone. So so I have one more thing,

750
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: one more thing, I'd like to say, you ain't got

751
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: nothing necess say to me. You ain't get you ass

752
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: off my dam's phone. Ya, do you understand me? I

753
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: ain't got time for this publicly, sir. Can I say

754
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,880
Speaker 1: one more thing? What you gotta say to me? Now? So?

755
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 1: I just wanted to let you know that this is

756
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: nephew Timmy from the Steve warp In Morning Show. Your

757
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: wife how Field got me to brank phone call you?

758
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:52,320
Speaker 1: Oh man? Oh lord it do? Yeah? Uh yeah, I

759
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 1: almost went in on you down you. I wouldn't let

760
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 1: me go that. Yeah, I'm gonna good that you say,

761
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 1: after you put you up to this, Afteria got me

762
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: to prank you many? Oh man? Oh man, hey man?

763
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: You all right with me? Brother? I got to ask

764
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: you something, man, what is the baddest and I mean

765
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the lands, the Steve harbrom

766
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: On the show Man right now? Yes, as I love him,

767
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: I mean, dog he took the time. Once you spelling

768
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: it out, you might will say it don't get I

769
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 1: ain't no custom Get your ass off my d a

770
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:39,240
Speaker 1: M phone. Doggy, you're spelling it out at three times.

771
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: I ain't no customer. Don't push me right right. He

772
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 1: can win a spelling b that's the show. He can

773
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: have a custom spelling me thinking that you. Coming up next,

774
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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letters. Subject I hate all of

775
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: his family and friends. We'll get into that right after this. Everybody,

776
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:08,520
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777
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:13,640
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Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air Pop Pop, just

781
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,

782
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. You just

783
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We got

784
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 1: it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Yeah,

785
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: he's at work today, Thank you, Neshew. Subject I hate

786
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 1: all of his family and friends. Dear Stephen Shirley, my

787
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: boyfriend of two years has been talking about marriage, but

788
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,919
Speaker 1: I hate all of his family and friends. We're both

789
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 1: thirty three years old and we met online. I got

790
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,319
Speaker 1: offered a job promotion and a transfer to the city

791
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 1: where my boyfriend grew up. We decided I'd take the

792
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: job and we get married. So we relocated to the

793
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: city that he grew up in. We bought a house

794
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 1: within a week of moving, and it all happened quickly.

795
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: After we got settled, he decided it was time for

796
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: me to meet his parents. They don't live together, but

797
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: they are married. He said, it's complicated. I thought it

798
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: was strange that I'd never met them, but he always said,

799
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: there's no rush. Now I know why. So here's what

800
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 1: happened to make me hate everyone. We invited everyone out

801
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 1: to dinner, and the only way to get his family

802
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 1: to go was to agree to go to a buffet restaurant.

803
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: I don't like eating at buffets, and it's not because

804
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 1: I'm busgie. It's because I got very sick one time

805
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: from eating at a buffet and that has scarred me

806
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: for life. Two of my boyfriend, two of my boyfriend's

807
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: childhood friends came to dinner with us, along with his mom,

808
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:53,400
Speaker 1: dad's sister, and his sister's four children. His homeboy smelled

809
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 1: like they work at a weed factory and they were

810
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 1: wrapping illicit lyrics at the table. His parents got into

811
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: an argument beca as his dad called his mom a trick,

812
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 1: and she flipped him off. I won't even mention the

813
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: four little, filthy children that were running all around the restaurant.

814
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: My boyfriend paid the bill for all these grown people,

815
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:16,720
Speaker 1: and he looks so embarrassed. He's whispered that he hopes

816
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:19,320
Speaker 1: this isn't a deal breaker. I don't want any of

817
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: these people to ever come to our house. But how

818
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 1: do I tell him that he's not at all like him?

819
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: Like them? So do you think he will understand? If

820
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: I'm honest, Well, yeah, I think he'll understand. But I

821
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 1: don't think you should tell him that. You definitely can't

822
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,399
Speaker 1: tell him in that way that you don't ever want

823
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: them to come to your house. You got to remember

824
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: you're marrying him and not his family, and we know

825
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 1: you hate all of them and you don't care for them.

826
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 1: But like I said, please don't tell him that. I mean,

827
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: you can think of other ways to say it, you know,

828
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 1: or if they're or if they're coming over you know

829
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: you're busy, or whatever the situation. I mean, there are

830
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 1: still his family no matter what. The great part, you know,

831
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: look at the positive He wanted you to meet them. Okay,

832
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:07,319
Speaker 1: it was about time you met his family, and that's

833
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 1: pretty big because here's a man taking you to meet

834
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 1: his family. A lot of times that's what we want,

835
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 1: to meet his family and to see you know where

836
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: he comes from. So that means he wants you to

837
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: be a part of his family. Okay, so that's a

838
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 1: good thing. He is embarrassed by them, though, he is embarrassed,

839
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:26,719
Speaker 1: and it doesn't sound like they'll be coming around because

840
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:28,879
Speaker 1: he's embarrassed and it took you a while to meet

841
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: them in the first place. He knows how they are

842
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: because he said he hoped you weren't. They weren't a

843
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 1: deal breaker meeting them. So we can't pick our family members,

844
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: we know that, but we can decide how we deal

845
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 1: with them. So you decide. You make the decisions of

846
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 1: you know, if and when they come to your house

847
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: and how that's gonna play out and all that. I mean. Otherwise,

848
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 1: if you love this man, you know you're gonna have

849
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 1: to deal with his family at some point. So you

850
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:57,959
Speaker 1: know your options are to what sell your new house

851
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 1: that you just bought in the town he grew up in.

852
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: I doubt if that's gonna happen, you know, because you

853
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 1: guys just bought it. The housing market is crazy all that.

854
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 1: The other thing is, you know, you guys can build

855
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,280
Speaker 1: a life together. You know when you do get married.

856
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 1: It sounds like you're headed in that direction. This is

857
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 1: the man you love. Build a life together with this man,

858
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 1: and to have minimal contact with his family. Don't invite

859
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: them over, Steve, This one is interesting. Everybody got some

860
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 1: family members, and they own family that they don't really

861
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 1: care for. So I can only imagine that Dad's gonna

862
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 1: be some people in their family, your spouse, mate, love

863
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 1: or friend, fiance, whatever, in their family that you're not

864
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 1: gonna like. Now y'all been together two years, you're moving

865
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 1: kind of quick. Your thirty three years old. You met online.

866
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 1: But you know this is the dude. You know. Y'all

867
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: got a job, you got offered the promotion. You transferred

868
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 1: to the city where your boyfriend grew up. You say

869
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 1: right at the top, I hate all his family and friends,

870
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: every at last one of them. We decided to take

871
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: the job that you got offered the promotion in we

872
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 1: getting married, so we relocated to the city that he

873
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 1: grew up in. We bought a house within a week

874
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: of moving. It all happened quickly, and then right after

875
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 1: y'all got son or he decided it was time for

876
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 1: me to meet his parents. Now hit a tricky part.

877
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: They don't live together, but they're married. He said, it's complicated.

878
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: We'll get into that in a minute. I thought it

879
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: was strange that I never met them, but he always said,

880
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: ain't no rush because he knew he loved you. He

881
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 1: can't let you meet his other side because you ain't

882
00:58:56,600 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: gonna understanding. Now he's different. He knew this was coming.

883
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 1: Here's what happened that made me hate everyone. Wow, we

884
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 1: invited everybody out to dinner, and the only way to

885
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 1: get his family to go was to agree to a

886
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 1: buffet restaurant. Now, right here we're talking about size. Now,

887
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 1: size or sides size? Okay, when the whole family insists

888
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 1: the only way we're going out it got to be buffet.

889
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 1: This ain't the first time they'd have made that decision.

890
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,120
Speaker 1: This is a family thing. And if you go to

891
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 1: buffets a lot, you have some size on you. We'll

892
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: get into the rest of it when we come back.

893
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 1: These are big people you're talking about. Steve Harvey's a

894
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour Okay,

895
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: the subject of today's strawberry letter I hate all of

896
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 1: his family and friends. We'll get back into it right

897
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,919
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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910
01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter and finish up your response.

911
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 1: Today's subject is I hate all of his family and friends.

912
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: You know, like I said, this is going to be

913
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: rough because everybody got some family members they don't care for.

914
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 1: Once you get into a relationship with somebody else, they're

915
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 1: gonna have some family members you don't care for. But

916
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 1: your hatred for them came all at once. This is

917
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 1: why you hate. You ain't met them but one time,

918
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 1: and you have reached the conclusion that you hate all

919
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 1: of them. You know, now, y'all to move together, y'all relocated,

920
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,920
Speaker 1: y'all bought a house. Y'all to moved in it. You

921
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:28,439
Speaker 1: got to settled. He told you it wasn't no rush

922
01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 1: to meet his parents. Now you thought it was a

923
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: little bit strange, but he knew because this could be

924
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 1: a deal break up. First of all, they his parents,

925
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 1: but they don't live together. We're gonna get into that.

926
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 1: As to why I figured this out in the letter,

927
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 1: here's what happened to make me hate everyone. We invited

928
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 1: everybody out to dinner. The only way to get his

929
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 1: family to go was to agree to go into a

930
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: buffet restaurant. Now, when everybody say we have to go

931
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 1: to a buffet a restaurant, it's because they need more

932
01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 1: bought to the table and they wants to go get

933
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 1: their own portion sizes because they are unhappy with the

934
01:02:12,800 --> 01:02:19,160
Speaker 1: portions and choices of the menu. Some people like their

935
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 1: gravy to run into their potato salad. They won't. They

936
01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 1: ham laying on top of their greens. You gotta baby

937
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 1: to go and fix your own plate. These as big

938
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 1: people we're talking about now, And I know they're big

939
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 1: people because they've decided as a unit, we ain't going

940
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:40,760
Speaker 1: nowhere less. It's a damn buffet. These as big people now.

941
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna tell you don't like my answer,

942
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 1: I don't care. I've come to the conclusion in this

943
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:48,959
Speaker 1: strawberry letter. This is a place full of big people

944
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 1: that I are proving. I don't like eating at buffet's

945
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 1: because I'm not budget. It's just because I'm very sad.

946
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 1: I got sick one time from eating at a buffet,

947
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 1: and that has scarred me from life. Nothing stops big

948
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:03,479
Speaker 1: people from eating at a buffet. They had all been sick,

949
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 1: They had all seen people pick over the food. They

950
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: didn't seen people talk under the shield while they're getting

951
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 1: their food. But big people can they as they have

952
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 1: seen the sneezes, They have done all that they cough.

953
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 1: They but big people don't give a damn because buffets

954
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 1: is for big people. Two of his childhood friends came.

955
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 1: They smell like a weed factor. That's cause they smoke weed.

956
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 1: Thus the other reason we got to go to a

957
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:40,440
Speaker 1: buffet cause we got too munchies. Now see this buffet

958
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 1: is all coming together now, and they were rapping explicit

959
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: lyrics at the table. Hell because they high. You thirty three.

960
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:53,440
Speaker 1: All his friends is all ass wanna be rappers that

961
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 1: ain't never made it. Now they at the table rapping

962
01:03:56,440 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: explicit lyrics because they high and they're hungry. His parents

963
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 1: got in the argument because the dad called his mama

964
01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: a trick and she flipped him off. Nah, we're getting

965
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:14,479
Speaker 1: into why they don't live together. Real big ass people

966
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 1: don't like staying together because it ain't a lot of room.

967
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 1: They after buffet. They can't stay in each other. See,

968
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:25,600
Speaker 1: the argument was a flip off, because that's all she

969
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:29,440
Speaker 1: had the energy fault. She was big. She'd got to

970
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 1: walk around there and said what you say, But she

971
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: crossed the table. She couldn't get up, so she just

972
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:37,080
Speaker 1: flipped him off because she big, She had the table

973
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 1: and that's and he knew she wasn't gonna get up.

974
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 1: That's why he called her a trick in front of everybody.

975
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 1: But he got the trick from the two little rapper

976
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 1: friends because they was probably doing a trick that it Son,

977
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 1: this is terrible. See how this is working out right?

978
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 1: Now together, I'll put all this together. They were doing

979
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: a trick daddy rap song. That's where he got the

980
01:04:57,360 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 1: term trick from because he didn't know it. Yeah, she

981
01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 1: didn't want to mention the full little filthy ass kids.

982
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 1: And I know they filthy because fat people don't like

983
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: bathe and other other people. The little kids are filthy, Yeah,

984
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 1: because they don't big ass people ain't got no time

985
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 1: be washing the kids and got being over in the bathtub, breathing,

986
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: losing your breath and all this hill. So just put

987
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:22,800
Speaker 1: some calls on these little filthy ass kids and let

988
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 1: them run around. My boyfriend paid the bill for all

989
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: these grown people. He looked so embarrassed. He whispered that

990
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 1: he hopes this isn't a deal breaker. I don't want

991
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 1: any of these people to come over to our house.

992
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 1: But how do I tell him that he's not at

993
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 1: all like them? So do you think he will understand

994
01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,880
Speaker 1: if I'm honest what Shirley said, you shouldn't be honest,

995
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 1: And I can understand that and I respect that too,

996
01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to be honest. But if you

997
01:05:46,600 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 1: don't want to be honest, there's some things you can

998
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: do to keep their ass out of your house. First

999
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 1: of all, you let it be known that none of

1000
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 1: your meals would be served buffet style. That's the first thing.

1001
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 1: We don't put no plates out where you can go around,

1002
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 1: scoop your own. No. That'll keep their big ass out

1003
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: of the house right there. And then secondly, when they

1004
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: come over, tell them that they have to select off

1005
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 1: a predetermined menu what they want to eat when they

1006
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 1: come over. That fat people don't like that, they're not coming.

1007
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 1: And you can keep them people out your house for

1008
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:32,720
Speaker 1: years like that. For you look at the time or

1009
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 1: every time you have a family gathering, Kenny, big ass

1010
01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 1: right back down to that buffet and deal with it

1011
01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 1: and then just go home. Thank you so much. All right, Well,

1012
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 1: please get us up on Instagram and faith bus Andreas

1013
01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM dot com. If you want to

1014
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Speaker 1: comment on Today's Strawberry Letter. You can also check out

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Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up next to

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01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: It's Junior with sports Talk right after this. You're listening

1017
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Speaker 1: to Harvey Morning Show. Do you know what time it

1018
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 1: is time for Junior and sports talk? What you got junior?

1019
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:06,960
Speaker 1: All right, shirty? What has a new champ in the

1020
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: women's division? Oh my god, U I knew you had

1021
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 1: to see this game, man boy that come on launching

1022
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 1: the Grammars Sub Carolina, raise up, take your shirt off,

1023
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 1: sitting round your head like helicopter boblooy on that hein't

1024
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: listen to me on that. On that interview I did

1025
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 1: with Earn Your Leisure and they asked me my top

1026
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 1: four the podcast rap albums of all time All eyes

1027
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 1: on Me, Yeah, blue Print jay Z, Yes, Sir, Yes,

1028
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Speaker 1: out Cash, speaker Box and Yeah. And I had two

1029
01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:54,480
Speaker 1: mold I like, I like a death certificate by ice Q.

1030
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 1: I got that and only one I ever bought with

1031
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Speaker 1: Diary ever Center Pete Pop Yeah, who, I don't know

1032
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: how y'all sleeping on him? He was. I was looking

1033
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:12,240
Speaker 1: at them like, hey, y'all ain't him. I've here, no man,

1034
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 1: hey one man sixty four South Carolina over Yukon sixty

1035
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 1: four to forty nine and out. I'm talking about never

1036
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:23,839
Speaker 1: never trailed in the game, let as many as eighteen

1037
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 1: and they didn't let him get down to six. But

1038
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:28,560
Speaker 1: you know what, that girl or Leah Boston Man, the

1039
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 1: center for South Carolina, dominated that whole game like a

1040
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: big person. Shoot. Yeah, but I'm gonna tell you what.

1041
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:40,639
Speaker 1: I was impressed with the hustle on South Carolina. Don Staley,

1042
01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 1: the coach had them girls. They was playing d They

1043
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:49,879
Speaker 1: averaged seventeen offensive rebounds a game, or seventeen rebounds offensive

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Speaker 1: rebounds a game. In the first half, they had sixteen.

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Speaker 1: They were already down. Oh, them girls was hustling. They was, yes,

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01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 1: South a line of baby Raiso, take your shirt off,

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01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:12,280
Speaker 1: wishing around your head like a Hello Copter chip Calina

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01:09:15,040 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 1: rais version. It's not like a preacher s twishing around

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01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:33,680
Speaker 1: your head, spiting like a Hello Copter. Man Water with

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01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:36,720
Speaker 1: twenty six points, a career high for her cattle girl

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01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:41,639
Speaker 1: right there. Yeah, she had that on them. Yeah man,

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01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:43,639
Speaker 1: you know, and it's the first time you can has

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01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:45,719
Speaker 1: lost in the championship game. So you know they're eleven

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01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:47,800
Speaker 1: and one, you know, but you ain't winning on not

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01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 1: over this one. That team. I was pulling for South

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Speaker 1: Carolina the whole time. Congratulations to the ladies program in

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Speaker 1: w You know, I don't even know what it's champions. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, guys, thank you. Coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey

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01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:16,880
Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening to show. Oscar

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Speaker 1: winning actress and comedian Monique and the Steam director Lee

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01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 1: Daniels have rekindled their professional relationship and will work together

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01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:30,479
Speaker 1: on Netflix's movie Demon House. Precious, of course, was the

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Speaker 1: last movie that Daniels and Monique worked on together, which

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01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:35,720
Speaker 1: was a huge success and led to Monique winning the

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Speaker 1: Oscar for Best Supporting Actress. Following the Oscar ceremony that year,

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01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 1: Monique alleged that Lee Daniels, Oprah Winfrey, and Tyler Perry

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01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: blackballed her because she chose to spend time with her

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01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:52,479
Speaker 1: family instead of going and promoting Precious. They all denied

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01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:56,440
Speaker 1: blackballing her, but Monique and Daniels didn't speak for thirteen

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01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:59,840
Speaker 1: years because of this disagreement. The two made a men

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01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:03,719
Speaker 1: on Friday. While Monique was on stage during her Monique

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01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:06,719
Speaker 1: and Friends April Full Day with the Queen of Comedy

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01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:10,559
Speaker 1: event at Saint George Theater and on Statn Island, Lee

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01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 1: Daniels joined Monique in front of the crowd and offered

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01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:17,640
Speaker 1: a public apology. Take a listing A long time to realize.

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01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:26,599
Speaker 1: I am so sorry for her, don't you in any

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01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 1: way y'all? She was my best friend, my best friend.

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01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 1: Y'all think that pressions was just that wasn't that was?

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01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:42,800
Speaker 1: That was God working through both of us. And we're

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01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 1: gonna again. Wow. Well that's good. That's thirteen years. Yeah,

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01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:55,120
Speaker 1: squashed it. Yeah, forgiveness and all of that. That's good.

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01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 1: Go get it, go make them moving. Yeah, you hate

1084
01:11:59,880 --> 01:12:01,920
Speaker 1: to hear that. You hate to hear about the beam

1085
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 1: like that last Yeah. Yeah, they've made up good. Yeah right,

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01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 1: ain't nobody slapped nobody up there? This is good, This

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01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: is really it was all live moment hugs, love and hug. Yeah.

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01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:19,760
Speaker 1: You do have to be careful now. I guess if

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01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:22,759
Speaker 1: you're if you perform on stage and somebody just walks

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01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:25,680
Speaker 1: on stage, you will get a little tight, won't you.

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01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 1: Now we are. It's gonna be a little different now though,

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01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:33,800
Speaker 1: because the presenters is gonna be a little bit more

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01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:38,800
Speaker 1: you know, prepared guard. I mean, like they all saying

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01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:40,559
Speaker 1: to say, when I see you coming, I'm gonna get

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01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: on that back leg. Yeah yeah, I don't know if

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01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:49,640
Speaker 1: Monique knew he was going to come on stage and apologize,

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01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:52,560
Speaker 1: but I'm sure she she welcomed it, and she was

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01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 1: very happy that their beef is squashed. And now she's back,

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01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:58,160
Speaker 1: you know, she'll be back on Netflix. So good, full

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Speaker 1: circle moment. Yeah, working again, fifty cents showing a love

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01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:06,360
Speaker 1: So there it is, yes, what it's all about. Good.

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Speaker 1: I'll never forget when she came to the studio and

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01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:12,760
Speaker 1: I got a chance to hold her Oscar that I

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01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:15,200
Speaker 1: remember the moment for me. Yeah, that was the moment

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Speaker 1: for me. Yeah. All good? Oh good. So, speaking of

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01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:25,800
Speaker 1: this past weekend, did y'all see uh Saturday Live the

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01:13:25,920 --> 01:13:33,840
Speaker 1: skit that theyre the Oscar slap? Oh my gosh, man,

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01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 1: it was funny. We had no idea all that stuff

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01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:40,320
Speaker 1: was going on between the time that Will walked on

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01:13:40,520 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 1: stage and sat in his seat and everything. Yeah, Saturday

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01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:47,200
Speaker 1: Night Live just added that color. Yeah that was a

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01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:53,240
Speaker 1: pretty what was really going on behind the scenes? Fill man,

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01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm such a fan of yours. Oh yeah, that's crazy.

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01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:03,960
Speaker 1: It was funny. Yeah, yeah, send it to me because

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01:14:03,960 --> 01:14:06,720
Speaker 1: I missed it. Okay, you missed the whole thing. Oh

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01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:10,080
Speaker 1: you gotta see that. Yeah, And speaking of Will, Smith

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01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:15,000
Speaker 1: has resigned from the Academy and the Academy will meet

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Speaker 1: on April eighteenth to decide um the disciplinary actions they're

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01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 1: have for Will. So that's the update on that as well.

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Speaker 1: You know you think that will be. What kind of

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01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:29,200
Speaker 1: disciplinary actions is that? Like, can't come to the oscars?

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01:14:29,240 --> 01:14:31,760
Speaker 1: I mean, what is that? Yeah, you don't know. I

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01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:37,240
Speaker 1: mean he already nominated again, yeah next year. Yeah, some

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01:14:37,360 --> 01:14:40,040
Speaker 1: people were calling for him to give back his oscar.

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Speaker 1: I don't think they're going to do that, but I

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01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 1: think that that was a bit extreme. Yeah, well I ain't.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna bring it back down there. If you

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Speaker 1: give it to me, I ain't bringing it back. All right,

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01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:55,639
Speaker 1: on the mantel piece, all right, we're moving on. Coming

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01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes, we'll have more of the Steve

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01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:05,679
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening show Eddie Murphy, Steve,

1132
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:09,280
Speaker 1: get a load of this. Eddie Murphy could play Parliament

1133
01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:14,559
Speaker 1: Funkadelic leader George Clinton. Yeah, okay, don't you love that? Hey?

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Speaker 1: O yea ye, come on, yes, that's a great actor. Anyway,

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01:15:22,120 --> 01:15:24,519
Speaker 1: this will be in an upcoming biopic. This is according

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01:15:24,600 --> 01:15:26,920
Speaker 1: to Deadline. Eddie is in talks to take on the

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01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:30,600
Speaker 1: role of Clinton in a movie that will tell the

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01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:35,639
Speaker 1: story of George Clinton's childhood in the nineteen forties North

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01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 1: Carolina to the formation of Parliament and Funkadelic in the

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Speaker 1: late nineteen sixties. Um Eddie and fellow producers are currently

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01:15:44,040 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 1: negotiating rights to Clinton's music, and the movie will also

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01:15:47,520 --> 01:15:51,160
Speaker 1: explore George Clinton's impact of the future of hip hop

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01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:55,080
Speaker 1: and hip hop artists. So there you go. I would

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01:15:55,120 --> 01:16:02,600
Speaker 1: love to see that. Hell Yale Man, I love you,

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01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:10,040
Speaker 1: George Critton, Well you don't high playoffs story, Eddie murpht

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01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:18,680
Speaker 1: be a cold ass sugar foot. I'll be up in

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01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:27,559
Speaker 1: there just crying. You're in the movie crash. Oh Lord

1148
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:40,040
Speaker 1: to harass my mind. Oh all right, we'll have more

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01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:43,200
Speaker 1: of Harby Morning Show coming up thirty three minutes after.

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01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:49,800
Speaker 1: We'll play around And would you rather? You're listening show

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01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 1: time now? For would you rather? Would you rather have

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01:16:54,520 --> 01:17:05,040
Speaker 1: a long tongue or long feet? Well, probably need to

1153
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:07,840
Speaker 1: let Tommy answer this. Well, go ahead, Tommy. You got

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01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:12,360
Speaker 1: them feet long. That me your hands as long in

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01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:14,880
Speaker 1: the world. That ain't true. So with you you want

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01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:19,360
Speaker 1: the long feet I'm taking the long feet right, and

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01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:21,880
Speaker 1: it spent a pose to the long tune because he

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01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 1: wanted to get rid of them little raccoon hands. He

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01:17:24,520 --> 01:17:28,439
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna Jesus big hands. Boy, look at his

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01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 1: hands on the zoom. You see that's on the zoom.

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01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:32,880
Speaker 1: You got him right up against the camera. I've seen

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01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:35,240
Speaker 1: him in real life. I'm gonna pull him back right

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01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 1: there there you're gonna see once again. Pull them back

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01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:40,960
Speaker 1: behind your head, get him up in front of your

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01:17:40,960 --> 01:17:43,919
Speaker 1: face like you hold up. Now. They started to get smaller.

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01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:50,920
Speaker 1: Now they're getting smaller. See my camera's actual size, Tommy,

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01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:55,599
Speaker 1: see my camera, my zoom, actual shot. I don't hand

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01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 1: the same side. And man, everybody saying you about a

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01:17:58,439 --> 01:18:05,720
Speaker 1: damn like these look like was horns, So you'll take it?

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01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:09,320
Speaker 1: What will you take? Steve? Well, I don't you know

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01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:12,760
Speaker 1: I got I'm already I'm covered. So what would I need?

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01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:17,639
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, it would you rather tongue? Long tongue

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01:18:17,680 --> 01:18:21,160
Speaker 1: or long feeture? Well, I got thirteen, so I mean

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01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:23,759
Speaker 1: any longer ain't gonna be bouting no damn shoes because

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01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:27,479
Speaker 1: fourteens ain't. Then stow, I can tell you that right now.

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01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:33,120
Speaker 1: Back on shoes shot. Get this stuff made SHAQ twenty two.

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Speaker 1: I know, I thought, so yeah, all right, Junior, you

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01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:44,680
Speaker 1: what tom okay, really, what are you gonna do with

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01:18:44,760 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 1: some long ass feet? Don't hit a little show the now?

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01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 1: He goes out here on stage like he got on

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01:18:51,320 --> 01:19:00,280
Speaker 1: skis and stuff. All right? Would you rather moving on?

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01:19:00,439 --> 01:19:03,719
Speaker 1: Would you rather ride a horse or ride a bike

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01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:10,360
Speaker 1: your only transportation? Horse, a horse or a bike as

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01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:15,160
Speaker 1: your only transportation? He'll not give me that bike. I'm

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01:19:15,200 --> 01:19:18,080
Speaker 1: not a horse. I'm gonna go to horse. I'm gonna

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01:19:18,080 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 1: go I'm like you crazy, I'm not riding no horse.

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01:19:21,080 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna give me that damn bite that horse.

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01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:29,040
Speaker 1: Horse out there in that traffic you rode no family?

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01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:32,200
Speaker 1: He say, what do you horse out that traffic? That

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01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:37,880
Speaker 1: horse on that damn traffic? Rush hour? On a horse?

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01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:49,800
Speaker 1: A bike all day? Bike, bike and rush hours the

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01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:51,760
Speaker 1: same thing. That's gonna be the worst I can take.

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01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:56,720
Speaker 1: Sasht go around bike, do like you want it to be?

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01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:00,960
Speaker 1: Andition of would you rather? Come up edited our last

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01:20:01,000 --> 01:20:03,280
Speaker 1: break of the day, and at forty nine minutes after

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01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:05,439
Speaker 1: the hour, we're closed out the show with some closing

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01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, guys, here we are on this Monday,

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Speaker 1: our last break of the day. M hmm. And congratulations

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01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:23,840
Speaker 1: once again to the Grammy Award winners from last night

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Speaker 1: Grammys Flapping Travel. That's a bad war yeah, man, yeah,

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01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:39,519
Speaker 1: I like him a smart, funny yeah. Yeah, I'm kind

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01:20:39,560 --> 01:20:43,840
Speaker 1: of boring compared to the Oscars Dose kry has nine

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01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:49,360
Speaker 1: of tv KI looking for somebody. You wanted some drama

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01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:53,280
Speaker 1: to jump off, you know how you just be kind

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01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:56,840
Speaker 1: of secretly looking forward maybe yeah, you know, I kept

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01:20:56,920 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 1: looking at the moments, waiting to see what would happen,

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01:20:59,240 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 1: but it did. Hey, you know what I want to do.

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01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:07,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you all about about you know.

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01:21:08,120 --> 01:21:11,120
Speaker 1: You know, I try to share principles of success whenever

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01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:15,040
Speaker 1: I can with people. I'm having a discussion, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: have to pull one of my young employees to the side.

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01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:19,720
Speaker 1: I kind of had this conversation with him in New

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01:21:19,800 --> 01:21:22,920
Speaker 1: York the other day because I see an adjustment that

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01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 1: needs to be made. And sometimes, man, when I'm sharing

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01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:34,599
Speaker 1: this information, it's not because I know everything. It's simply

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01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:36,960
Speaker 1: because I've just been through a lot. You know. I'm

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01:21:37,200 --> 01:21:41,280
Speaker 1: I'm sixty five years old. I've seen a lot of

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Speaker 1: endings to a lot of different movies I've seen. I've

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01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:48,559
Speaker 1: seen a lot of shows. I've met a lot of people.

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01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 1: Very rarely do I meet a person that I've never

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01:21:52,040 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 1: met before. You know what I mean in terms of

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01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:57,759
Speaker 1: the type of person. You know, I've met all types

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01:21:57,800 --> 01:22:00,760
Speaker 1: of people, and when I meet somebody that I've never

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01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:05,240
Speaker 1: met before, it's really kind of shocking to me, you know,

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Speaker 1: because I've met all types. Now, I'm not saying we're

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Speaker 1: friends anything, but because I am famous, I meet more

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Speaker 1: people than an average person does. Right, And so when

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01:22:17,160 --> 01:22:19,719
Speaker 1: I'm talking to people and I'm trying to share information,

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Speaker 1: also have to understand that I'm being listened to by

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01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:25,200
Speaker 1: all types of people. Everybody to listen to me is

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01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 1: not receptive. Everybody to listen to me is not positive.

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01:22:28,200 --> 01:22:31,720
Speaker 1: Everybody that listens to me is not open. Everybody that

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01:22:31,880 --> 01:22:33,240
Speaker 1: listen to me don't want to hear what I got

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Speaker 1: to say. I understand that. So with that in mind,

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01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:41,840
Speaker 1: I always understand that I'm not talking to everybody. You know,

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Speaker 1: I was talking off camera world. I'm never off camera.

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01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:47,840
Speaker 1: I found out because they tape everything I do. But

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Speaker 1: I was on a commercial break and I was talking

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Speaker 1: about God and a woman stood up and said, well,

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01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm an atheist. I said, okay, well that ain't got

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01:22:56,120 --> 01:22:58,720
Speaker 1: nothing to do with what I'm saying, though she said, yeah,

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01:22:58,720 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 1: but I'm an atheist and I'm in here and I

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01:23:01,080 --> 01:23:03,880
Speaker 1: don't believe in God. Okay, then I ain't talking to you,

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01:23:04,920 --> 01:23:07,439
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna stop saying what I have to

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01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:10,000
Speaker 1: say because there are a lot of people in here

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01:23:10,040 --> 01:23:12,320
Speaker 1: who believe in God, and I'm just giving you a

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Speaker 1: thought that I have. And she was insistent, I'm an atheist.

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Speaker 1: Be an atheist, do you? But don't. I ain't got

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Speaker 1: to accept your belief that there is no God, no

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Speaker 1: more than you have to accept mind that there is.

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Speaker 1: You know, in her argument got crazy? But what if

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Speaker 1: you get there and you find out it ain't no God? Man,

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Speaker 1: the bigger problem is gonna be is if you get

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Speaker 1: there you find out it is one. That's gonna be

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Speaker 1: the bigger problem if you're you know, if I get

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Speaker 1: to the end, I find out it ain't no God,

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Speaker 1: then I live the best that couldn't and had a

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Speaker 1: conscious and try to treat people writing, try to go

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Speaker 1: buy some rules and stuff and if it ain't no God,

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Speaker 1: which it is, but okay, then cool, I okay, who

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Speaker 1: who truth? Who joke on me? But now your problem

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Speaker 1: is if you get there and it is a god

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Speaker 1: and you've been talking talking to his whole life like

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Speaker 1: it ain't one, been doing like you want to. So

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Speaker 1: I don't really have time for that. But I was

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Speaker 1: talking about this subject of just talking to people who

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Speaker 1: I know. Everybody's not listening to me, so what I'm

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Speaker 1: about to tell you is not going to affect everybody

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Speaker 1: the same way. Listen to this. I'm trying to talk

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Speaker 1: to this young guy and people that work for me

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Speaker 1: to get them to understand because they always ask me, Steve,

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Speaker 1: why do you do so much? And you do. I

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Speaker 1: do a lot of stuff you don't. I don't get

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Speaker 1: paid for it. But see, if you're not willing to

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Speaker 1: do more than what you're being paid for, then you'll

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Speaker 1: never be paid more for what you're doing. If you're

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Speaker 1: not willing to do more than what you paid for,

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Speaker 1: then you will never be paid more for what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: It's the act of giving and I don't I don't

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Speaker 1: want you to live your life and not understand that.

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Speaker 1: You know, because if you give expecting for even exchange,

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Speaker 1: if you're not trading, if you're just trying to trade,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this for exactly that, or I'm doing

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Speaker 1: this if you give me that, or I'll do this

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Speaker 1: only if I get this in return. Then that's not given.

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Speaker 1: You trade and to order to give. To get the blessings,

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Speaker 1: you got to give graciously. That's not always knowing what

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Speaker 1: the comeback is gonna be. That's when you open up

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Speaker 1: your life to God's grace, mercy, and favor. That's how

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Speaker 1: you do it. It's by giving. It's just one of

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Speaker 1: the laws of ruin. You know, it's just a law

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Speaker 1: of the universe. And you have to think about that.

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Speaker 1: So listen to me. If you're not willing to do

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Speaker 1: more than what you're being paid to do, then you'll

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Speaker 1: never be paid more for what you're doing. Understand that

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to plant some seeds in the ground

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Speaker 1: and not know when they're gonna grow up. You got

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Speaker 1: to put some seeds in the ground without understanding that

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Speaker 1: this fruit may not do developed within the next year.

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Speaker 1: You gotta put some seeds in the ground realizing that

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Speaker 1: you may not bear fruit from this seed for fifteen years.

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Speaker 1: But if you're in the trading business, you'll never put

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Speaker 1: the seed in the ground because you want something for

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Speaker 1: your efforts right now. And I can't tell you how

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Speaker 1: many seeds I planned over the years that are just

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Speaker 1: starting to come to fruition. But you got to be

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01:26:25,040 --> 01:26:27,800
Speaker 1: willing to do more than what you're being paid to do.

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Speaker 1: If you ever expect to be paid for more than

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Speaker 1: what you do, remember that it is a simple law

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Speaker 1: of giving, and until you learn how to give that way,

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Speaker 1: you won't receive the full benefits. I'm just telling you

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Speaker 1: what I've learned over the years. Those are my closes remarks. Hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: I hope you like that. When if you didn't like that,

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Speaker 1: when tune in the mall, God will not have another one.

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Speaker 1: But listen, here's the most important thing. Talk to God.

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Speaker 1: He would love to hear from you. For all Steve

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