WEBVTT - Dear Banya: To Be Continued 0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:04.680 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:14.840 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub. 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:17.400 A dub duve and the tub a. 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:21.759 Tub tub Another day and now the dolla. I was 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:27.040 gonna say podcasts but not too Another day another dolla? 0:00:27.600 --> 0:00:29.560 When are you heading off to Mexico? 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:31.960 Right after we wrap this baby? 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:37.680 We are flying off to Mexico to do what taste 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:39.240 our wedding food. 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:42.760 That's like, it's kind of crazy to think about the 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:47.199 what you the planning of a wedding and thinking of 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:50.559 a destination wedding and like you either go or you 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:52.240 either just don't taste the food and you trust that 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:53.720 it's gonna be great, or you have to make a 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:54.320 whole trip. 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:56.160 Yeah, I mean there's like a lot of stuff that 0:00:56.200 --> 0:01:00.280 you don't really think about because we're we're it's literally 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.080 like a business trip. So we're going out there just 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:04.560 for the weekend, and we have meetings, walk throughs with 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:14.880 literally every single vendor, flowers, rentals, food, music, wow, like 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:16.800 staff of the hotel because we want to look at 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.160 like some of the room one of the rooms that 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:19.959 we might stay. So like we literally just have meetings 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:21.920 back to back to back. But what's really cute is 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:23.639 that Robbie's parents and my parents are. 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:26.880 Going, oh my gosh, that's so fun. Yeah, So they're 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:29.280 not going to come to all the meetings because that feels. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:30.560 They're just gonna get to go on vacation. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:32.560 Basically, they're gonna yeah, they're gonna go, but they're gonna 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:33.479 do the food tasting with us. 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:34.240 That's so fun. 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:36.640 Yeah, So they'll be there for the food tasting, but 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:38.160 they're not going to do any of the other meetings. 0:01:38.200 --> 0:01:39.119 What are you doing? 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:42.600 So the food our hotel is. 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:44.440 Like really really good, but we were going through the 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:47.200 menu because we have to pick like two I think 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:51.800 we're picking like four past apps, two appetizers, two mains, 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:56.680 two desserts. So we're going through the menu and I 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:58.800 was like, we should I just put like a chicken 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:00.040 option because I feel like you always have to have 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:03.480 a chicken option because it feels like universal. And Robbie 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:05.559 was like, we're not chicken people. We never eat chicken. 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:07.720 And we're like at the ocean, why don't we just 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:09.760 do surf and turf, Like, We'll do a steak option 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:12.079 and a fish option. So that's what we're doing. 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:14.880 I don't feel like I've been to a wedding with 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:17.359 a chicken option. In a minute. It's always fish or steak. 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:23.960 Really, Yeah, sure, I thought I was so irreverent. I'd 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:25.520 be like, we're not having chicken. 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:28.960 No, I have chicken tacos as one of the like 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:29.720 past apps. 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:32.920 So whatever you want to do, that's right, that's what 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:33.480 I think too. 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:35.040 Oh wow, he. 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:37.600 Seriously, I can have Yes, I'm not gonna eat the steak. 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:38.200 I'll have the fish. 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.440 Fine, great, it'll be a fish of the day, so 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:43.000 whatever's fresh that day, and you'll have a vegetarian option. 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:45.440 It'll be yeah, vegetarian option. I don't know what that is, 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:46.200 but yeah, we'll have one. 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:48.359 I might have that. Who knows, we'll see you knows. 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.480 But you gave us options. That's all we can ask for. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:51.080 Yeah. 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:54.800 I felt so irreverent not having chicken. It's your wedding, 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:56.760 your party, get rid of the chicken. 0:02:57.240 --> 0:03:00.760 Yeah. You know what is interesting though, because I always 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:03.840 see these controversial takes on TikTok about, like when people 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:06.079 are like, it's your wedding, like, don't think of anybody else, 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:08.880 and they're like, but there are a lot of people 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:13.120 coming to celebrate you, So you do, in a sense 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:15.320 have to consider them, and it is a little bit 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.240 about them because they're coming to celebrate you. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:19.840 Right, It's like if I made the whole menu gluten free. Yeah, 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:21.320 Like it's like, that's so rude. 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:22.120 I would never do that. 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:25.280 Finding the balance of it being your day and in 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.440 certain decisions being like, Okay, this is what I want 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:32.320 and it's not the tradition, traditional route, but it is 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:36.000 what I want to do, but also being considerate. I 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:38.040 think our world do you feel like our world has 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:40.600 beencome very like me, me, me? And this is like 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:43.240 off subject from the wedding, but I was thinking about this, 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:46.040 how like for a long time. It was, especially growing 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:48.240 up in Christian culture is very much like serve others 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:50.560 before your self type thing. And so I've always had 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.040 that mentality of like thinking about others, which I think 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:55.840 developed into like people pleasing to an extent mm hm. 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:58.560 But there's a part of me that is grateful for 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:02.920 that mentality of like not always thinking about myself first 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:05.720 in situations, because I think our society has become so 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.720 like I do what I want and only what I want, 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:10.640 and I don't consider people because like this is what 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.480 I want to do, as opposed to just being like 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:15.520 if we all just like work together and helped each 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:17.719 other out, you know, yeah, and obviously took care of 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:20.000 ourselves because you have to put on your mask before 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:23.480 you help others. I don't know, it's interesting. It's become a. 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.239 Very like I see your point. It's true. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:26.800 It's like and it's so funny because that's the one 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:28.760 thing everybody tells me about the wedding. It's like, do 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:31.400 what you want, it's your day. And I'm like, well, yeah, 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:34.560 but I want people to like be happy, Like if 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:36.680 our guests are miserable, then like, how am I gonna 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:38.880 have a fun day if everyone's like, you know. 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:40.800 Well, That's what I'm saying. It's that balance of like 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:42.800 you getting to make the decisions that you want to 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:47.120 make in details, but also like wanting everyone to have 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:50.480 a good time to celebrate, which makes you happy right 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:52.920 in return? So right, like everybody. 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:54.919 So we're not really gonna do speeches at the wedding. 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:57.840 We're gonna do them the night before mm hmm. And 0:04:57.960 --> 0:05:00.919 it's for two reasons. One, there's nothing more buzzkilly to 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:05.720 me at a wedding than sitting through many speeches. I 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:08.120 feel like, when I'm buzzed, I want to like get 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:09.040 the party going. 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:10.120 You know what I mean. And then once the speeches 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:12.640 are over, I'm like, I'm ready for bed. So it 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:13.000 was like that. 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:16.839 And then also I feel like there's a like the 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:19.479 person you're asking to give a speech, they're not going 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:22.120 to enjoy themselves until their speech is over. Yes, so 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:24.760 I'm like, I'd rather my friends and my family just 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.000 like get down and like have fun then be like 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:28.360 stressed about giving a speech. 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:29.200 Yeah. 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:32.080 So it's kind of the the two tiers there. But 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:34.039 I don't know where I was going with that. 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:36.360 Well, you're just saying I think you were saying that's 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:40.920 not something you're that's something you're doing that's not technically traditional. 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:42.679 Right, right, right, right right, But that's what I want. 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:44.839 I want my friends and my family to just like 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:46.360 go gangbusters on Friday. 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:48.159 Are you doing band or DJ? 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:51.520 We haven't decided yet, Okay, so I'm hoping this weekend 0:05:51.560 --> 0:05:55.840 we'll have a lot of clarity on stuff. But I 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:59.480 love a band, but if the band's not good, then 0:05:59.520 --> 0:05:59.960 it's bad. 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:00.440 Yeah. 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:05.000 Yeah, DJ is pretty safe, right, Yes, Like you can't 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:07.240 go wrong with the DJ Right band. 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:08.240 We had a. 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:10.400 Band, but we also went and saw them beforehand and 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.760 we knew these days like fun eighties songs and they 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:13.400 were a blast. 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:14.200 It's like done. 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:16.240 So we can't go see them. That's the problem. 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:18.560 They have sent in videos so like we can watch 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:22.719 videos of the bands and then they have like like 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:24.440 a list of all the music that they all the 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:25.960 songs that they can do. And they also said to 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:27.760 a lot of these things because we want to do 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:30.560 like strings for the ceremony. They said, if you give 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:34.120 them enough like lee Way or Headway or whatever it is, 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:35.919 that they can pretty much learn anything. 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:37.880 So I don't know. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:41.039 By the way, I've been married for twenty two plus years, 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.520 that band is still around. They're still doing it. Yeah, 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:46.120 that should you guys google them. They're still still happening. 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:47.960 That's so wild. 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:52.560 You should have them come for like a INNIVERSI you. 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:57.160 Should shout out to the barbies and yeah, bring them out, 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:57.840 bring them out? 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.200 All right? So are you doing are you going to 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:03.000 do a cake? Are you going to do something different? 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:05.839 I think that we're going to have like a ceremonious 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:09.520 cake for like visuals and stuff. But I think we're 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:12.480 gonna have we picked out the desserts and they're they 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:15.000 I haven't tasted them yet, but they sound so bombed. 0:07:15.320 --> 0:07:17.240 Oh so you're good. That'll be this weekend that you're 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:17.600 tasting this. 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:18.360 Yeah. Yeah, yeah. 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:20.720 One of those like a chocolate like hazel nut chocolate option, 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:22.640 and then the other one's like adult chate de leche 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:23.840 like cinnamon option. 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:28.240 Yuh yeah, sounds delicious. Yeah, this is great. This is 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:31.040 this is giving forward momentum. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:33.760 Oh yeah, I know everybody is like I met this girl. 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:36.480 I was at this charity event this week, and this 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:40.440 girl's getting married next year, and she's like, what are 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:41.080 you getting married? 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:43.160 She's like, oh my god, that's so soon. 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:44.720 I don't say that. 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:48.560 Yeah, please, I'll stressed. Yeah, the anxiety is already there. 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.880 It is. Is this like something about getting older, where 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:56.000 like these months are going by so fast that I it, 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:59.320 my mind is blown that we're like talking about like 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:01.040 that Thanksgiving is right around the corner. 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:04.400 March is tomorrow, like literally it's tomorrow. 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:06.360 Mark, Well, March is like two weeks from now, basically. 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:07.720 Yeah, like we'll give it a month. 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:08.680 Yeah, yeah, it'll be a. 0:08:08.720 --> 0:08:11.520 Months the blink of an eye. Yeah, it's so. 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:13.920 Fast and then, but no, I do. I do feel 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:15.280 like January lags. 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:18.440 It does forever. Yeah, January feels like two months. Oh 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:20.840 so you gain a month. Yeah, so I feel like, yeah, 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:25.360 it's like daylight savings time. Yes, yes, yes, okay, this 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:29.280 is great. Speaking of okay, I started thinking about this 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:32.640 when Robbie was trying to get your pants up with 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:37.280 the tools, and I was, well, I went into like 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:39.920 thinking about your wedding dress and stuff and like needing 0:08:39.960 --> 0:08:43.160 to make sure we have all preparations on deck, you know, 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:46.840 just in case it doesn't above, just to be overly prepared. 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:48.760 Oh yeah, because when you zipped me up in it 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.280 at the place, it was quite hard. 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:53.880 Well no, I mean I think that's just the structure 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:58.160 of the dress is like stiff. But so what happened 0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:00.920 because it looked like a challenge. 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:05.520 So I had like ten minutes to get ready to 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:07.640 like leave the house, which is poor planning on my 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:10.800 pot a choice, poor planning on my part. And now 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:12.440 I took a nap and I was like deep in 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:14.920 rem like I had drool all over my pillow, Like 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:16.480 I was deep in my sleep. 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:18.440 So it took me a little bit while to come to. 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:23.079 So anyways, but I had to like leave for this event, 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:25.080 and I have that my outfit picked out in my head. 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:27.640 It's perfect black pants, black blazer, or black shoes out 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:29.959 the door. I don't have several black plase are the 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:32.520 perfect black pants. They're like tight and they flare. They're 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:36.720 so crue Reformation, but shout out Reformation because your zippers 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:41.760 are horrendous. Yes, And so I cannot get them up, 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:45.080 and I'm like I had to humble myself and I 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:46.400 was like, Babe, I need your help. I need to 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:48.360 like hold this together and you need to like zip 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:51.640 me in. And he's like giving it literally you can 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:53.400 see like the veins in his head popping out. 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:55.679 He's giving it his all to like get it up. 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:58.199 And he's like, Babe, it's not that it's too tight, 0:09:58.320 --> 0:09:59.080 it's the zipper. 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:01.120 Like he kept saying, it's the zipper. It's not you. 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:02.840 And I'm like, I don't care if it is me 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:04.520 or if it's a zipper. I just need it to 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:06.960 come on, like I need it to zip up. I 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.320 have to go and I'm wearing these pants. So he 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:13.960 brings out the toolkit, like a legit toolbox, like it 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:15.360 like puts on the table and it's like. 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:17.320 Sump'm oh damn. 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:17.720 You know. 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:21.120 It's like it's black like a young handle, and I'm like, 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.120 what isn't there that you're going to use on me? 0:10:23.240 --> 0:10:25.600 Like I was concerned, And he pulls out. 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:29.480 These flers to put supplier them and like like lift 0:10:29.520 --> 0:10:31.760 it up and he's giving it again all his MND 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:34.000 like he's like out of breath at this point. 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:38.280 Spoiler alert, he did not get my pants up. The 0:10:38.360 --> 0:10:42.120 zipper never got up. Yeah, And the worst part is 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:43.320 he goes just wear them like that. 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:48.080 I'm like, because you're not jacket. He goes, you're jacking 0:10:48.120 --> 0:10:49.959 and goes sit down, crush your legs, crush your legs. 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:52.760 You can't see it. And I'm like I'm like bulging out, 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:56.680 like my underwear is like exposed, God forbid. Someone hugs 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.680 me and like my ass is out, Like I just 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:02.560 can't do that. So we had to find these other 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:06.000 pair of pants, and I was laughing so hard because 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:09.280 they're like they look like pedal pushers on me, like 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:11.280 they're supposed to be pants to the ground, but they 0:11:11.320 --> 0:11:13.240 like cut off like above. So I felt like I 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:16.360 was like, yes, I felt like Serena Carpenter and her 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:19.840 good Grace's little number like these like. 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:21.400 High water type pants. 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:26.440 Anyways, I made it to the event, but yeah, I 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.920 wasn't happy with my outfit, but. 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:31.560 You know, Robbie really gave it as all. 0:11:32.040 --> 0:11:36.440 Yeah, I was moment I got you, I messager and 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:39.040 I was like, you hate to see the toolkit come out, 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:43.040 not the toolkit, the tool box, the tool box. 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:46.800 So yeah, I will be going back to the store 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:48.920 and telling them, showing them. 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:50.000 These videos that I posted. 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:51.440 That was smart. 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:55.000 Yeah, you literally tried everything, tried everything to get this 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:56.319 and the thing is they zip. 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:59.559 I was gonna ask me, which is so irritating. 0:11:59.880 --> 0:12:02.200 I had a skirt like that where I would try 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:03.679 and I couldn't get it up, and then I'd take 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:05.800 it off and it'd go perfect and I'm like okay, 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:07.200 and it wasn't that tight. 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:08.280 That's what I'm saying. 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:10.480 I mean, these are like stretchy pants, so they're like 0:12:10.720 --> 0:12:12.880 meant to type, but they're not. I mean it quote 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:16.920 like I could pull it, you know, Chris Cross, Chris Cross. 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:18.920 Anyway, but I got a lot of tips. 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:22.520 I've never seen more d ms about something in a while, 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.719 Like it was a very hot topic that I will say, 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:26.120 but I got a lot of suggestions of things that 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:28.400 you can like rub onto zippers to help them go up, 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:32.280 Like I don't even know deodorant and like all. 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:32.760 Kinds of things. 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:34.640 Yeah, leave it to the scrubbers. 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:38.040 Yeah, I know it all. Yeah, I'm so bummed. 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:41.880 Well, I'll be prepared with a kit and sort of sorts. 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:44.719 Also, I heard that wedding dress doesn't go up. 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:48.760 I'm just I'm just saying I will be prepared for everything. 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:50.960 And also I saw this thing where if you wear 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:55.000 if you use chalk. 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:57.280 Was one what put chalk on the zipper? 0:12:57.840 --> 0:13:01.160 No chalk, Like if you get a stain or something 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:02.760 on your dress or so much or like you know, 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:04.840 just something gets on your dress. You couldn't use chalk 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:07.360 on your white dress and it covers it. 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:11.200 You know, who's gonna bring the chalk to Mexico? 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:13.360 I got it. Thank you, I'm on it. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:14.360 Thank you so much. 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:18.160 But we were trying to figure out Bachelorette Yes, which 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:20.800 is still in the works. 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:22.920 It's still in the works, but I feel like January 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:24.920 is the perfect month because it's so long. 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:29.400 Yes, we just have to figure out where we're going, 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:30.880 because you don't want to go somewhere cold. 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:34.480 Correct, So we might end up being somewhere cold. Oh, 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:36.199 in this here city of Los Angeles. 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:39.560 We could do like Aspen or something she can cute. 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:42.000 I don't want to be cold. Oh, I don't want 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:44.400 to be cold. Okay, I'm not a cold girly. That 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:45.800 so I'm getting married in Mexico. 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:46.320 Okay. 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:47.959 Oh yeah. 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:52.600 The whole thing was not to not be cold, not 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:56.559 be chilly. I don't want to I don't want to cold. Wind. 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.040 Well, Los Angeles in January could potentially be cold. 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:00.920 Cold, yeah, be hot though. 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:02.240 It could be you never know. 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:06.079 I have had February's where I'm on a beach in 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:07.240 Los Angeles. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:08.840 I've had Februaries with rain. 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:12.560 Yeah yeah, we have, yeah, a lot of rain. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:14.400 So that's the thing about Los Angeles here. 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:19.400 Yeah, just unpredictable. Okay, we have some dear Bonnie questions 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:21.240 that we're going to get to, but first we're going 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:41.280 to take a break. All right, we are back. So 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:44.800 last week Tanya and I were on the phone and 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:46.520 I don't know, we were just having it was just 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:50.960 a random conversation and okay, we go to say goodbye 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:52.600 and I'm like, okay, love you, and she's like, love you, 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:56.440 and then she goes cheers and I was like, oh, 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:59.120 that was weird, and I hang up and then I 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.600 was like, did she say cheer? Like did I hear that? Right? 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:06.400 It felt like very like wonk, like forced, And so 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:08.440 she texted me She's like, I'm working on a news sindal. 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:10.400 I'm trying to say cheers at the end of like 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:13.880 my calls or like it sound. How did it sound? 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:16.480 I was like, I think the more you say it, 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:19.040 like it'll start to sound a little more natural, but 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:24.160 like it didn't sound supernatural. And last or on Tuesday, 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:26.040 I went to get drinks with or I went to 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:30.600 dinner with Keana, and she would say cheers like at 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:33.320 the end of like if she said thank you or something, 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:36.200 and it sounded so effortless, and I was like, Tanya, 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:41.520 you have to you have to just practice it. So 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:42.600 it started. 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:45.480 So it has evolved since i've since we've spoken. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.560 Laugh Oh wow, okay, because I. 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:48.320 Heard this man. 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:51.240 I was at the vet actually and this man was 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:53.320 outside on the phone and he was like, I get 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:56.640 a may Chess And I was like, oh, that is 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.680 so much cooler than by, Like By is such like 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:04.680 a blah word like goodbye bye, Like who likes that? 0:16:04.800 --> 0:16:06.080 Nobody likes goodbye. 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:10.600 Till we say love you bye. 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:14.160 Become bye bye is not great. You're right, it's very 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:16.040 final and morbid and negative. 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:18.440 Yeah, So I'm like, I want a new sendoff. So 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:20.800 I was like, I'm gonna adopt this cheers. So I 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.680 tried out the cheers with you. I tried it out 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:27.440 with Robbie. It wasn't like hitting no, but I have one. 0:16:27.480 --> 0:16:29.040 Now, what is it? 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:29.920 To be continued? 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:33.280 Big? It's a long TBC? 0:16:33.840 --> 0:16:36.600 Oh, TVC. It isn't really are your closest friends? You 0:16:36.600 --> 0:16:37.280 can do TBC? 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:39.280 Yeah, to be continued to. 0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:42.000 Like the person that the phone company, you could just say. 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:44.600 To be a continued I think that's gonna be really 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:47.040 hard to sound natural and effortless. 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:51.200 Let's practice it, can You and I just having Hey 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:54.720 tomorrow morning, can you get in a little bit early 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:57.360 because uh we need to do some extra stuff for 0:16:57.360 --> 0:16:57.960 the holidays? 0:16:58.200 --> 0:16:58.480 Sure? 0:16:58.800 --> 0:16:59.040 Yeah? 0:16:59.320 --> 0:16:59.560 Yeah? 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:02.240 Else like five sounds good okay? 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:04.800 And the trending and easy to send me three trendings? 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:05.280 Okay? 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:06.040 Is that fine? 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:06.600 That's fine? 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:13.800 And none none about Kristin Cavaleri fine, fine, okay, great, 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:15.160 all right, I'll see it in my morning. 0:17:15.200 --> 0:17:18.800 To be continued. It's so good. 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:21.520 I would almost feel dismissed by it. 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:22.480 To be continued. 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:25.359 Yeah, it's so good because it's like I cannot wait 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:26.840 to continue this with you next time. 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:30.520 Yeah, I know something about it feels dismissive, like I 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:33.159 wouldn't like it, so don't use it on me. 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:34.560 Well, I'm going to use it on you. 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:36.720 Well I'm gonna feel like you've dismissed me. 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:40.080