Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels second d We get a lot of second
Speaker 1: date update requests in from people who meet at business seminars.
Speaker 1: At work seminars just proves that business people are freaky
Speaker 1: and those environments, Man, it's so sexy. Who is that
Speaker 1: a PowerPoint presentation up there? Oh? Yeah, I got something
Speaker 1: I can point to that with. Are you drawn stuff
Speaker 1: on a poster board? Seeing a workflow? Yeah, I'm right
Speaker 1: this way. And Fiona, who's on the phone today to
Speaker 1: do a second date update, met the guy that she
Speaker 1: wants to call at a work seminar as well. So
Speaker 1: she's a freaky business person, just like everybody else out
Speaker 1: there who emails us. What's up, Fiona? How are you,
Speaker 1: hij Hi Brook? Trying to keep your mind on your
Speaker 1: business today? Are you just having all kinds of other thoughts? Well,
Speaker 1: I'm a little distracted. Yeah, I bet you are? All right?
Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about the guy that you
Speaker 1: want to call today. Well, names Ryan, And like you said,
Speaker 1: I met him on a business retreat. It was an
Speaker 1: out of town like seminar kind of thing for a
Speaker 1: couple of days, and it happened over a weekend and
Speaker 1: he doesn't work at the same company he's in a
Speaker 1: different company. No, but we're in the same industry. Okay. Cool.
Speaker 1: So we actually ended up in the same groups for
Speaker 1: a lot of our workshops and just really hit it off,
Speaker 1: got on really well. And what did you like about him? Initially,
Speaker 1: I've been to those type of things and they're so boring.
Speaker 1: I don't even look around me at all. I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to stay awake the whole time. It was a
Speaker 1: little boring at times, but he had this first of all,
Speaker 1: I mean, like knock out smile, and then once we
Speaker 1: got into the groups together, he was really fun. He
Speaker 1: was really funny, like just quick, clever business humor. I
Speaker 1: love it. So one thing that's so exciting about being
Speaker 1: in meetings is people always have to crack jokes and
Speaker 1: make the meetings longer. Was he actually was he actually
Speaker 1: funny or was it just one of those things where
Speaker 1: it was like, okay, stop it. No, I mean, I
Speaker 1: know exactly what you're talking about. He was actually funny.
Speaker 1: That's good. Everyone was laughing out. That's a surprise anytime
Speaker 1: I'm in a business meeting and somebody makes a joke
Speaker 1: where I actually laugh at him, like, wow, good job.
Speaker 1: I'm not nearly annoyed by you at all. What did
Speaker 1: you guys do on your date though? Did you go
Speaker 1: somewhere or did you just meet at the conference? We
Speaker 1: did know, so we actually Saturday, we had a two
Speaker 1: hour break, like early afternoon, so he said, hey, do
Speaker 1: you want to maybe like leave the campus and grab
Speaker 1: a bite to eat or something. Plus, you know football Saturday.
Speaker 1: I wanted to catch a couple of the games. So
Speaker 1: we just went to like a little sports bar maybe
Speaker 1: ten minutes away and kind of have a little date.
Speaker 1: Was it? I mean, did he think it was a
Speaker 1: date because it sounds like just co workers? Maybe? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I definitely wondered if he was asking me
Speaker 1: out or if it was just that. But he made
Speaker 1: a couple of references in the car on the way
Speaker 1: there that made me think, oh, is that where you
Speaker 1: asked you if you're wearing underwear, that's always a tip
Speaker 1: off for me, is this a date or not? So
Speaker 1: it became obvious after a certain point that you guys
Speaker 1: were on a kind of a date. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: we talked about things that were not work related. Finally,
Speaker 1: and I always love a chance to watch a game
Speaker 1: on a Saturday, So it was nice to be able
Speaker 1: to do that with someone who also enjoys football. Yeah,
Speaker 1: is there like one moment that like stands out to
Speaker 1: you is really awesome. I felt like the whole date
Speaker 1: was great, but there was one moment where, like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, it was just a little weird. I guess, oh,
Speaker 1: what happened that was weird. I mean we were at
Speaker 1: a sports bar and there was football on and everybody
Speaker 1: was cheering. And my family is from the South, so
Speaker 1: we're big football fans, and I get pretty enthusiastic when
Speaker 1: I'm watching football, and I was kind of, you know,
Speaker 1: yelling things at the screen, and I don't know, a
Speaker 1: little too into it. I just think one point where
Speaker 1: I yelled obscenities I was wearing at the game, you know,
Speaker 1: it was a really close game, and I looked over
Speaker 1: and he was kind of, I don't know, he just
Speaker 1: kind of had this look on his face like I've
Speaker 1: never heard words come out of anybody's mouth like that.
Speaker 1: It wasn't that bad. I mean what I was saying
Speaker 1: wasn't incredibly offensive. But I guess maybe for the first
Speaker 1: time that we ever went on a date, it wasn't
Speaker 1: terribly ladylike so if you're going out on a date
Speaker 1: with me, I would have loved that. I have a
Speaker 1: rule that I don't date girls that won't cuss, so
Speaker 1: I would have been like, just doide looking at you
Speaker 1: like that's amazing, which I think is actually more common
Speaker 1: than not. Yeah, I don't want to have to act
Speaker 1: differently around him than I would around anybody else. Yeah. Right,
Speaker 1: So did his demeanor change after you threw a slew
Speaker 1: of f words out there for the world to hear
Speaker 1: at the bar? Yeah? Not really. I mean there was
Speaker 1: just that brief moment of the look on his face
Speaker 1: and then he made a joke and moved on, and
Speaker 1: you know, that was it. So did what happened at
Speaker 1: the end of your guys little lunch, I mean, before
Speaker 1: you guys back to the worker treat Well, I told
Speaker 1: him that, you know, I'd had a really great time
Speaker 1: and would love to do it again off the retreat
Speaker 1: setting and if he said yeah, and we exchanged numbers
Speaker 1: and I texted him and got like the pay it's
Speaker 1: really busy now that I'm back. You know, I missed
Speaker 1: a couple of days, which seemed totally legitimate, and then
Speaker 1: the next time it was Hey, I'm really busy this
Speaker 1: week again, and then nothing. Oh so you've still tried
Speaker 1: a couple of times and you just stopped responding to you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean a handful. You know, I'm not like stalking
Speaker 1: the guy, but yeah, okay, so it seemed really cool,
Speaker 1: and yeah, I guess I just want to know why
Speaker 1: he's blowing me off now. I mean, I don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong, I would totally go out with him again
Speaker 1: given the opportunity, But I guess mostly I'm just curious
Speaker 1: what happened. You guys work in the same industry. Could
Speaker 1: you ruin his career if he didn't want to go
Speaker 1: out with you against No, damn, yeah, because you could
Speaker 1: threaten him if you could second date? All right, well
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date up date. Okay, okay, thank you. You're
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning, right in the middle of
Speaker 1: a second date update if you're just joining us. Fiona
Speaker 1: is on the phone. She wants to call a guy
Speaker 1: named Ryan. They met at a work retreat, hung out
Speaker 1: one day when they didn't have a lot of stuff
Speaker 1: to do, went out to lunch at a sports bar,
Speaker 1: and now he's not calling her back. She thinks the
Speaker 1: reason he might not be calling her back is because
Speaker 1: when they were out at the sports bar eating, she
Speaker 1: got a little fired up at the TV and started
Speaker 1: dropping a bunch of cuss words, and he's looking at
Speaker 1: her like, wow, that is impressive and maybe not exactly
Speaker 1: the kind of language that you use on a first date.
Speaker 1: All right, Fiona, you're ready to give this stick a call?
Speaker 1: Just trying to talk to you on your level. Fiona.
Speaker 1: Let's let's do this, damn it. All right, you're ready,
Speaker 1: I'm ready? All right. Are you worried about him saying
Speaker 1: something embarrassing about you? No, not at all. Like I said,
Speaker 1: it went really really well And the cussing is the
Speaker 1: only thing I can even remotely think of that would
Speaker 1: be embarrassing, which, frankly, I don't think is embarrassing. Yeah. Cool,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now. See we can get
Speaker 1: him on the phone. Hello. Hi is Ryan there? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: speaking Hey Ryan? How are you? This is Jewil from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Who Brooke and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's a radio show. What's this about?
Speaker 1: You recently went out on a date with somebody who
Speaker 1: listens to our show, and she emailed us asking if
Speaker 1: we could get you on the phone because she hasn't
Speaker 1: heard from you since you guys went out. It's a
Speaker 1: segment that we do on our show called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update. If somebody goes out on a date and
Speaker 1: then they get blown off, they'll email us to see
Speaker 1: if we can get the person who blew them off
Speaker 1: on the phone. And that happens to be you. Who
Speaker 1: was it that wanted to know about me? Her name
Speaker 1: is Fiona. Oh, okay, and you got has met at
Speaker 1: a work conference and I guess I had some lunch together.
Speaker 1: Uh huh. And Fiona says that she really enjoyed hanging
Speaker 1: out with you and wanted to see you again, But
Speaker 1: you haven't been responding to her when she's asked you out.
Speaker 1: I'm just not really interested. I think we're more work friends. Really,
Speaker 1: she sounds rad I mean, she's a girl that's into football,
Speaker 1: she's got her own career going on. Can I tell
Speaker 1: you what she thinks it is? Okay, Sure, she thinks
Speaker 1: it's because while you guys were eating lunch and watching football,
Speaker 1: she freaked out and started dropping a bunch of cuss
Speaker 1: words or something, and you had this look on your
Speaker 1: face that you're very shocked by that. Oh yeah, I
Speaker 1: remember that. She got into it pretty intensely. She feels
Speaker 1: like that turned you off and you don't want to
Speaker 1: talk to her again because of that. No, that was
Speaker 1: actually really more funny. Like I guess her team fumbled
Speaker 1: and then she went crazy and she yelled bag Yeah,
Speaker 1: so why do you not want to call her back?
Speaker 1: Sounds like wife material to me. Yeah. No, I actually
Speaker 1: was laughing at that. That actually was pretty funny. We
Speaker 1: were just not attracted to her then or something like
Speaker 1: physically I thought she was attractive, but then there was
Speaker 1: this thing that happened that just weirded me out super intensely,
Speaker 1: and it's never happened to me before like this, where
Speaker 1: like I liked someone, then this one thing happens and
Speaker 1: then I was one hundred turned off. What was it?
Speaker 1: Because we talked to her and we're like, anything embarrassing
Speaker 1: happened on your date? And she's like, no, not at all.
Speaker 1: Everything was pretty normal. I mean I guess she thought
Speaker 1: that everything was normal like for her in her world,
Speaker 1: but that was not normal for me. What was it?
Speaker 1: So we were eating lunch and we both ordered the
Speaker 1: shrimp and yeah, and so like, yeah, like we're either shrimp,
Speaker 1: it's fine. And I look over and she's eating like
Speaker 1: the heads and stuff. But then I look over and
Speaker 1: she's eating the shrimp tails. Some people do that, though,
Speaker 1: I think it's kind of gross too, but I know
Speaker 1: multiple people that do that. You can't. You're not telling
Speaker 1: me that her eating shrimp tails turned you off it
Speaker 1: made you think she was gross. Yes, that is so groose.
Speaker 1: I mean, you say that you know people who've done that.
Speaker 1: I don't know anyone who eats the shrimp tails, don't.
Speaker 1: I know a married couple who both do it. Some
Speaker 1: chefs leave it on on purpose. That doesn't sound that
Speaker 1: gross to me. Well, no, that's not even the worst part. Okay,
Speaker 1: the worst part is that she's eating all of the
Speaker 1: tails and then she looks over at my plate and
Speaker 1: she asks me if I'm going to eat my shrimp tails,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, uh no, And then she goes over
Speaker 1: and she eats all of my shrimps. Like I'm not
Speaker 1: a big fan eating the shrimp tails, but then I
Speaker 1: don't like sharing food anyway, But then to reach across
Speaker 1: and start eating your shrim tails, that's kind of weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not like I had an extra French fry on
Speaker 1: my plate or anything and she just wanted to eat it. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's like shrimp tails, discarded shrimp pails. That's the stuff
Speaker 1: that you had thrown onto the other plate because you
Speaker 1: didn't want to eat it because you consider it trash
Speaker 1: is grows? Is that the only reason? Because she started
Speaker 1: eating all the shrimp tails in sight, I can't get enough. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, like the eating shrimp tails is one thing,
Speaker 1: but then she's also wanted to eat mine, and that
Speaker 1: was like it, I have lost complete interest in her.
Speaker 1: That's so judging. That's such a stupid reason not to
Speaker 1: call somebody back. It's super awesome. No, that just grossed
Speaker 1: me out, and I'm sorry, I just can't be attracted.
Speaker 1: That's funny because she's actually on the other line listening
Speaker 1: to this conversation, right, Yeah, are you serious? Yeah? Fiona? Hi?
Speaker 1: Oh god, so Ryan you think I'm gross? Humh No,
Speaker 1: I just think that that was really gross what you did,
Speaker 1: like eating those tails and my tails. Honest, who doesn't
Speaker 1: eat then? Like they wouldn't leave them on if you
Speaker 1: weren't supposed to eat them. No, they're just decoration. That's
Speaker 1: the only reason they're on there, and they don't they
Speaker 1: don't want to do the work of taking them off.
Speaker 1: They're non decoration. They're crunchy, which is awesome, and they
Speaker 1: have nutrition. It's like the peel on a fruit or
Speaker 1: a vegetable. I mean, there's a lot of stuff that
Speaker 1: has nutrition that I wouldn't eat. Doesn't mean it's good
Speaker 1: to eat. I'm gonna be honest. I was super worried,
Speaker 1: but I feel like you're just kind of being a one.
Speaker 1: I mean, you can call me whatever you want, but like,
Speaker 1: I don't need to spend my time with someone who's
Speaker 1: gonna eat like that. It's nat So then you are
Speaker 1: calling me gross for eating. Yeah, you keep eating those tails,
Speaker 1: and yeah that's gross. Like now you even know about
Speaker 1: it and you're still doing it. That fries, dude, you
Speaker 1: don't leave French fries on the plate, do you know?
Speaker 1: Even if it's not your plate, if you're there with
Speaker 1: somebody else and there's a couple of fries left, you
Speaker 1: eat them. No, It's like you ate a burger and
Speaker 1: then you decided to grab the wrapper out of the
Speaker 1: trash and eat that too. Seems a bit much Ryan,
Speaker 1: I agree, But Fiona, at any point, did you, like,
Speaker 1: maybe have a second thought about eating off his plate
Speaker 1: his leftovers? No? I asked him if it was okay,
Speaker 1: and he said it was if he was grossed out
Speaker 1: by it. Why didn't you just say something that's a
Speaker 1: good boy. I was like, I'm not going to stop you.
Speaker 1: I want to see you in your natural habitat. You know,
Speaker 1: she's just a Carnivore's how we do it in the South.
Speaker 1: That's how it is. And you know what, if you
Speaker 1: can't handle that, you probably couldn't handle me. Oh that
Speaker 1: brings me to my question, and Ryan, would you like
Speaker 1: to go out on a second date with Fiona? No way?
Speaker 1: Are you sure I'll pay for it? If she was
Speaker 1: like open to maybe changing her mind, then I think
Speaker 1: about it. But it sounds like she's just gonna be eating, like,
Speaker 1: you know, shrimp tails left and right. So you're saying
Speaker 1: that you might be willing to go on a second
Speaker 1: date if you promised never to eat a shrimp tail again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you should go on a second date with me. We
Speaker 1: can go to it all. You can eat shrimp buffet
Speaker 1: and I'll tell you exactly how many shrimp tails I
Speaker 1: can eat from right in your face so you can
Speaker 1: hear it. It is. I mean, they're kind of the
Speaker 1: consistency of fingernails. Yeah, maybe I'll clip my fingernails and
Speaker 1: eat some of those too. Yeah. See, this is what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Everyone is just like disgusting and this
Speaker 1: is just close to me, Like, why do they even
Speaker 1: answer this phone ball? The worst part is that she's
Speaker 1: eaten all of the tails and then she looks over
Speaker 1: at my plate and she asks me if I'm gonna
Speaker 1: eat my shrimp tails, and I'm like, uh no, and
Speaker 1: then she goes over and she eats all of my shrimp. Okay,
Speaker 1: well that's a clip from today's second date update that
Speaker 1: you just heard. This girl Fiona wanted to call a
Speaker 1: guy named Ryan. She obviously didn't know why he was
Speaker 1: blowing her off after their date. It turns out he
Speaker 1: was turned off because they were eating some shrimp and
Speaker 1: she ate the shrimp tails. Okay, some people like the
Speaker 1: shrimp tails shrimtails, some people don't. I personally don't like
Speaker 1: the shrimp tails. But not only did she eat her
Speaker 1: shrimp tails, he had his on like that side plate
Speaker 1: that they give you, and she goes, hey, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna finish the shrimp tails and just started eating his
Speaker 1: shrimp tails, and it grossed him out to the point
Speaker 1: that he did not want to go out with her again.
Speaker 1: I mean, I understand like to eat their own like,
Speaker 1: it's not my thing either, but to be so grossed
Speaker 1: out that you were unattracted to somebody, it seems a
Speaker 1: little intense. You can never get that picture out of
Speaker 1: your head of like shrimps. I know people who fight
Speaker 1: over who gets to eat the fish eyeball. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's like the lucky part of to eat on the fish.
Speaker 1: But if it grosses you out that you eat the
Speaker 1: shrimp tails, did you think about every time I go
Speaker 1: out with her and we get shrimp, she's gonna be
Speaker 1: eating Yeah, my shrimp tails as well as her shrimp tails.
Speaker 1: Somebody texts it in at seven eight five and nine
Speaker 1: to two said, good they didn't have lobster. Just start
Speaker 1: chewing on the shell of the lobster, breaks a tooth
Speaker 1: the process of it. A lot of people are sexing
Speaker 1: it at seven eight five nine two saying this guy
Speaker 1: needs to grow a pair. It's only a shrimp tails. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think he's seen two pies some people are really
Speaker 1: grossed out by food, though, and the way and the
Speaker 1: things that people eat, and they can't get that out
Speaker 1: of their head. I saw somebody at one time eating oysters,
Speaker 1: which are good, but you know, they'd suck down the
Speaker 1: oyster and then they lick the inside of the oyster,
Speaker 1: and that gross me out. Yeah, I was just like,
Speaker 1: you got everything out of it? Where are you licking
Speaker 1: the shell of the oyster? I mean, but why not? Right? Like?
Speaker 1: I feel like, if you're gonna do it, you can't
Speaker 1: be picky about how other people do it. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm not licking the oyster. I'm just I take the
Speaker 1: meaty part out and then I'm not like putting the
Speaker 1: rest of the shell in my mouth and just chewing
Speaker 1: on it a little bit, trying to suck all the
Speaker 1: goodness out of that oyster. I licked the bottom of
Speaker 1: a bowl after I finished some ice cream. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's really no difference. It's a little bit different. I
Speaker 1: think text in it seven eight five nine too. What's
Speaker 1: the weirdest thing that you've ever seen somebody eat? And
Speaker 1: would that gross you out enough? If you saw somebody
Speaker 1: not only eat their shrimp tails, but then take your
Speaker 1: shrimp tails. Would it cause you to not go out
Speaker 1: on another date with that person? I'm curious. Remember, you
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