WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: A Shrimp Tale

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels second d We get a lot of second

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<v Speaker 1>date update requests in from people who meet at business seminars.

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<v Speaker 1>At work seminars just proves that business people are freaky

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<v Speaker 1>and those environments, Man, it's so sexy. Who is that

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<v Speaker 1>a PowerPoint presentation up there? Oh? Yeah, I got something

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<v Speaker 1>I can point to that with. Are you drawn stuff

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<v Speaker 1>on a poster board? Seeing a workflow? Yeah, I'm right

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<v Speaker 1>this way. And Fiona, who's on the phone today to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update, met the guy that she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call at a work seminar as well. So

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<v Speaker 1>she's a freaky business person, just like everybody else out

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<v Speaker 1>there who emails us. What's up, Fiona? How are you,

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<v Speaker 1>hij Hi Brook? Trying to keep your mind on your

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<v Speaker 1>business today? Are you just having all kinds of other thoughts? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little distracted. Yeah, I bet you are? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us a little bit about the guy that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call today. Well, names Ryan, And like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>I met him on a business retreat. It was an

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<v Speaker 1>out of town like seminar kind of thing for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days, and it happened over a weekend and

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't work at the same company he's in a

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<v Speaker 1>different company. No, but we're in the same industry. Okay. Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So we actually ended up in the same groups for

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of our workshops and just really hit it off,

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<v Speaker 1>got on really well. And what did you like about him? Initially,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to those type of things and they're so boring.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even look around me at all. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to stay awake the whole time. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>little boring at times, but he had this first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like knock out smile, and then once we

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<v Speaker 1>got into the groups together, he was really fun. He

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<v Speaker 1>was really funny, like just quick, clever business humor. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. So one thing that's so exciting about being

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<v Speaker 1>in meetings is people always have to crack jokes and

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<v Speaker 1>make the meetings longer. Was he actually was he actually

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<v Speaker 1>funny or was it just one of those things where

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, okay, stop it. No, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>know exactly what you're talking about. He was actually funny.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good. Everyone was laughing out. That's a surprise anytime

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a business meeting and somebody makes a joke

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<v Speaker 1>where I actually laugh at him, like, wow, good job.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not nearly annoyed by you at all. What did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do on your date though? Did you go

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere or did you just meet at the conference? We

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<v Speaker 1>did know, so we actually Saturday, we had a two

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<v Speaker 1>hour break, like early afternoon, so he said, hey, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to maybe like leave the campus and grab

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<v Speaker 1>a bite to eat or something. Plus, you know football Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to catch a couple of the games. So

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<v Speaker 1>we just went to like a little sports bar maybe

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<v Speaker 1>ten minutes away and kind of have a little date.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it? I mean, did he think it was a

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<v Speaker 1>date because it sounds like just co workers? Maybe? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I definitely wondered if he was asking me

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<v Speaker 1>out or if it was just that. But he made

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of references in the car on the way

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<v Speaker 1>there that made me think, oh, is that where you

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<v Speaker 1>asked you if you're wearing underwear, that's always a tip

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<v Speaker 1>off for me, is this a date or not? So

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<v Speaker 1>it became obvious after a certain point that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were on a kind of a date. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about things that were not work related. Finally,

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<v Speaker 1>and I always love a chance to watch a game

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<v Speaker 1>on a Saturday, So it was nice to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to do that with someone who also enjoys football. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>is there like one moment that like stands out to

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<v Speaker 1>you is really awesome. I felt like the whole date

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<v Speaker 1>was great, but there was one moment where, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, it was just a little weird. I guess, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened that was weird. I mean we were at

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<v Speaker 1>a sports bar and there was football on and everybody

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<v Speaker 1>was cheering. And my family is from the South, so

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<v Speaker 1>we're big football fans, and I get pretty enthusiastic when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm watching football, and I was kind of, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>yelling things at the screen, and I don't know, a

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<v Speaker 1>little too into it. I just think one point where

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<v Speaker 1>I yelled obscenities I was wearing at the game, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a really close game, and I looked over

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<v Speaker 1>and he was kind of, I don't know, he just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of had this look on his face like I've

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<v Speaker 1>never heard words come out of anybody's mouth like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't that bad. I mean what I was saying

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't incredibly offensive. But I guess maybe for the first

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<v Speaker 1>time that we ever went on a date, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>terribly ladylike so if you're going out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with me, I would have loved that. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>rule that I don't date girls that won't cuss, so

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<v Speaker 1>I would have been like, just doide looking at you

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<v Speaker 1>like that's amazing, which I think is actually more common

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<v Speaker 1>than not. Yeah, I don't want to have to act

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<v Speaker 1>differently around him than I would around anybody else. Yeah. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So did his demeanor change after you threw a slew

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<v Speaker 1>of f words out there for the world to hear

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<v Speaker 1>at the bar? Yeah? Not really. I mean there was

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<v Speaker 1>just that brief moment of the look on his face

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<v Speaker 1>and then he made a joke and moved on, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that was it. So did what happened at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of your guys little lunch, I mean, before

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<v Speaker 1>you guys back to the worker treat Well, I told

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<v Speaker 1>him that, you know, I'd had a really great time

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<v Speaker 1>and would love to do it again off the retreat

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<v Speaker 1>setting and if he said yeah, and we exchanged numbers

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<v Speaker 1>and I texted him and got like the pay it's

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<v Speaker 1>really busy now that I'm back. You know, I missed

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of days, which seemed totally legitimate, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the next time it was Hey, I'm really busy this

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<v Speaker 1>week again, and then nothing. Oh so you've still tried

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times and you just stopped responding to you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a handful. You know, I'm not like stalking

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<v Speaker 1>the guy, but yeah, okay, so it seemed really cool,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, I guess I just want to know why

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<v Speaker 1>he's blowing me off now. I mean, I don't get

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<v Speaker 1>me wrong, I would totally go out with him again

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<v Speaker 1>given the opportunity, But I guess mostly I'm just curious

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. You guys work in the same industry. Could

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<v Speaker 1>you ruin his career if he didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you against No, damn, yeah, because you could

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<v Speaker 1>threaten him if you could second date? All right, well

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date up date. Okay, okay, thank you. You're

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning, right in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update if you're just joining us. Fiona

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone. She wants to call a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Ryan. They met at a work retreat, hung out

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<v Speaker 1>one day when they didn't have a lot of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>to do, went out to lunch at a sports bar,

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<v Speaker 1>and now he's not calling her back. She thinks the

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<v Speaker 1>reason he might not be calling her back is because

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<v Speaker 1>when they were out at the sports bar eating, she

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<v Speaker 1>got a little fired up at the TV and started

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<v Speaker 1>dropping a bunch of cuss words, and he's looking at

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<v Speaker 1>her like, wow, that is impressive and maybe not exactly

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of language that you use on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Fiona, you're ready to give this stick a call?

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<v Speaker 1>Just trying to talk to you on your level. Fiona.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's do this, damn it. All right, you're ready,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready? All right. Are you worried about him saying

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<v Speaker 1>something embarrassing about you? No, not at all. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>it went really really well And the cussing is the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing I can even remotely think of that would

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<v Speaker 1>be embarrassing, which, frankly, I don't think is embarrassing. Yeah. Cool,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now. See we can get

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<v Speaker 1>him on the phone. Hello. Hi is Ryan there? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking Hey Ryan? How are you? This is Jewil from

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Who Brooke and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. It's a radio show. What's this about?

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<v Speaker 1>You recently went out on a date with somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>listens to our show, and she emailed us asking if

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<v Speaker 1>we could get you on the phone because she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>heard from you since you guys went out. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>segment that we do on our show called the second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. If somebody goes out on a date and

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<v Speaker 1>then they get blown off, they'll email us to see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get the person who blew them off

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. And that happens to be you. Who

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<v Speaker 1>was it that wanted to know about me? Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Fiona. Oh, okay, and you got has met at

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<v Speaker 1>a work conference and I guess I had some lunch together.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh. And Fiona says that she really enjoyed hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out with you and wanted to see you again, But

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't been responding to her when she's asked you out.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not really interested. I think we're more work friends. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>she sounds rad I mean, she's a girl that's into football,

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<v Speaker 1>she's got her own career going on. Can I tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what she thinks it is? Okay, Sure, she thinks

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<v Speaker 1>it's because while you guys were eating lunch and watching football,

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<v Speaker 1>she freaked out and started dropping a bunch of cuss

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<v Speaker 1>words or something, and you had this look on your

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<v Speaker 1>face that you're very shocked by that. Oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>remember that. She got into it pretty intensely. She feels

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<v Speaker 1>like that turned you off and you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her again because of that. No, that was

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<v Speaker 1>actually really more funny. Like I guess her team fumbled

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<v Speaker 1>and then she went crazy and she yelled bag Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so why do you not want to call her back?

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like wife material to me. Yeah. No, I actually

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<v Speaker 1>was laughing at that. That actually was pretty funny. We

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<v Speaker 1>were just not attracted to her then or something like

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<v Speaker 1>physically I thought she was attractive, but then there was

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<v Speaker 1>this thing that happened that just weirded me out super intensely,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's never happened to me before like this, where

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<v Speaker 1>like I liked someone, then this one thing happens and

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<v Speaker 1>then I was one hundred turned off. What was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Because we talked to her and we're like, anything embarrassing

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<v Speaker 1>happened on your date? And she's like, no, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything was pretty normal. I mean I guess she thought

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<v Speaker 1>that everything was normal like for her in her world,

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<v Speaker 1>but that was not normal for me. What was it?

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<v Speaker 1>So we were eating lunch and we both ordered the

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<v Speaker 1>shrimp and yeah, and so like, yeah, like we're either shrimp,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine. And I look over and she's eating like

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<v Speaker 1>the heads and stuff. But then I look over and

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<v Speaker 1>she's eating the shrimp tails. Some people do that, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's kind of gross too, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>multiple people that do that. You can't. You're not telling

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<v Speaker 1>me that her eating shrimp tails turned you off it

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<v Speaker 1>made you think she was gross. Yes, that is so groose.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you say that you know people who've done that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know anyone who eats the shrimp tails, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I know a married couple who both do it. Some

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<v Speaker 1>chefs leave it on on purpose. That doesn't sound that

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<v Speaker 1>gross to me. Well, no, that's not even the worst part. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the worst part is that she's eating all of the

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<v Speaker 1>tails and then she looks over at my plate and

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<v Speaker 1>she asks me if I'm going to eat my shrimp tails,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, uh no, And then she goes over

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<v Speaker 1>and she eats all of my shrimps. Like I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a big fan eating the shrimp tails, but then I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like sharing food anyway, But then to reach across

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<v Speaker 1>and start eating your shrim tails, that's kind of weird. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like I had an extra French fry on

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<v Speaker 1>my plate or anything and she just wanted to eat it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like shrimp tails, discarded shrimp pails. That's the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that you had thrown onto the other plate because you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to eat it because you consider it trash

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<v Speaker 1>is grows? Is that the only reason? Because she started

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<v Speaker 1>eating all the shrimp tails in sight, I can't get enough. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like the eating shrimp tails is one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but then she's also wanted to eat mine, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was like it, I have lost complete interest in her.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so judging. That's such a stupid reason not to

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<v Speaker 1>call somebody back. It's super awesome. No, that just grossed

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<v Speaker 1>me out, and I'm sorry, I just can't be attracted.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny because she's actually on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this conversation, right, Yeah, are you serious? Yeah? Fiona? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, so Ryan you think I'm gross? Humh No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that that was really gross what you did,

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<v Speaker 1>like eating those tails and my tails. Honest, who doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>eat then? Like they wouldn't leave them on if you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't supposed to eat them. No, they're just decoration. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the only reason they're on there, and they don't they

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do the work of taking them off.

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<v Speaker 1>They're non decoration. They're crunchy, which is awesome, and they

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<v Speaker 1>have nutrition. It's like the peel on a fruit or

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<v Speaker 1>a vegetable. I mean, there's a lot of stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>has nutrition that I wouldn't eat. Doesn't mean it's good

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<v Speaker 1>to eat. I'm gonna be honest. I was super worried,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like you're just kind of being a one.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you can call me whatever you want, but like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need to spend my time with someone who's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna eat like that. It's nat So then you are

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<v Speaker 1>calling me gross for eating. Yeah, you keep eating those tails,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah that's gross. Like now you even know about

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<v Speaker 1>it and you're still doing it. That fries, dude, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't leave French fries on the plate, do you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Even if it's not your plate, if you're there with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else and there's a couple of fries left, you

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<v Speaker 1>eat them. No, It's like you ate a burger and

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<v Speaker 1>then you decided to grab the wrapper out of the

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<v Speaker 1>trash and eat that too. Seems a bit much Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, But Fiona, at any point, did you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe have a second thought about eating off his plate

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<v Speaker 1>his leftovers? No? I asked him if it was okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said it was if he was grossed out

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<v Speaker 1>by it. Why didn't you just say something that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good boy. I was like, I'm not going to stop you.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see you in your natural habitat. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just a Carnivore's how we do it in the South.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how it is. And you know what, if you

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<v Speaker 1>can't handle that, you probably couldn't handle me. Oh that

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<v Speaker 1>brings me to my question, and Ryan, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a second date with Fiona? No way?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure I'll pay for it? If she was

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<v Speaker 1>like open to maybe changing her mind, then I think

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<v Speaker 1>about it. But it sounds like she's just gonna be eating, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, shrimp tails left and right. So you're saying

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<v Speaker 1>that you might be willing to go on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date if you promised never to eat a shrimp tail again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you should go on a second date with me. We

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<v Speaker 1>can go to it all. You can eat shrimp buffet

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll tell you exactly how many shrimp tails I

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<v Speaker 1>can eat from right in your face so you can

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<v Speaker 1>hear it. It is. I mean, they're kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>consistency of fingernails. Yeah, maybe I'll clip my fingernails and

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<v Speaker 1>eat some of those too. Yeah. See, this is what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about. Everyone is just like disgusting and this

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<v Speaker 1>is just close to me, Like, why do they even

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<v Speaker 1>answer this phone ball? The worst part is that she's

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<v Speaker 1>eaten all of the tails and then she looks over

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<v Speaker 1>at my plate and she asks me if I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>eat my shrimp tails, and I'm like, uh no, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she goes over and she eats all of my shrimp. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's a clip from today's second date update that

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<v Speaker 1>you just heard. This girl Fiona wanted to call a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Ryan. She obviously didn't know why he was

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<v Speaker 1>blowing her off after their date. It turns out he

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<v Speaker 1>was turned off because they were eating some shrimp and

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<v Speaker 1>she ate the shrimp tails. Okay, some people like the

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<v Speaker 1>shrimp tails shrimtails, some people don't. I personally don't like

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<v Speaker 1>the shrimp tails. But not only did she eat her

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<v Speaker 1>shrimp tails, he had his on like that side plate

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<v Speaker 1>that they give you, and she goes, hey, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna finish the shrimp tails and just started eating his

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<v Speaker 1>shrimp tails, and it grossed him out to the point

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<v Speaker 1>that he did not want to go out with her again.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I understand like to eat their own like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not my thing either, but to be so grossed

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<v Speaker 1>out that you were unattracted to somebody, it seems a

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<v Speaker 1>little intense. You can never get that picture out of

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<v Speaker 1>your head of like shrimps. I know people who fight

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<v Speaker 1>over who gets to eat the fish eyeball. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like the lucky part of to eat on the fish.

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<v Speaker 1>But if it grosses you out that you eat the

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<v Speaker 1>shrimp tails, did you think about every time I go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her and we get shrimp, she's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>eating Yeah, my shrimp tails as well as her shrimp tails.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody texts it in at seven eight five and nine

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<v Speaker 1>to two said, good they didn't have lobster. Just start

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<v Speaker 1>chewing on the shell of the lobster, breaks a tooth

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<v Speaker 1>the process of it. A lot of people are sexing

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<v Speaker 1>it at seven eight five nine two saying this guy

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<v Speaker 1>needs to grow a pair. It's only a shrimp tails. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's seen two pies some people are really

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<v Speaker 1>grossed out by food, though, and the way and the

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<v Speaker 1>things that people eat, and they can't get that out

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<v Speaker 1>of their head. I saw somebody at one time eating oysters,

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<v Speaker 1>which are good, but you know, they'd suck down the

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<v Speaker 1>oyster and then they lick the inside of the oyster,

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<v Speaker 1>and that gross me out. Yeah, I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you got everything out of it? Where are you licking

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<v Speaker 1>the shell of the oyster? I mean, but why not? Right? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, if you're gonna do it, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>be picky about how other people do it. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not licking the oyster. I'm just I take the

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<v Speaker 1>meaty part out and then I'm not like putting the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of the shell in my mouth and just chewing

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<v Speaker 1>on it a little bit, trying to suck all the

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<v Speaker 1>goodness out of that oyster. I licked the bottom of

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<v Speaker 1>a bowl after I finished some ice cream. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's really no difference. It's a little bit different. I

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<v Speaker 1>think text in it seven eight five nine too. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the weirdest thing that you've ever seen somebody eat? And

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<v Speaker 1>would that gross you out enough? If you saw somebody

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<v Speaker 1>not only eat their shrimp tails, but then take your

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<v Speaker 1>shrimp tails. Would it cause you to not go out

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