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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels second d We get a lot of second

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Speaker 1: date update requests in from people who meet at business seminars.

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Speaker 1: At work seminars just proves that business people are freaky

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Speaker 1: and those environments, Man, it's so sexy. Who is that

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Speaker 1: this way. And Fiona, who's on the phone today to

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Speaker 1: she's a freaky business person, just like everybody else out

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Speaker 1: there who emails us. What's up, Fiona? How are you,

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Speaker 1: hij Hi Brook? Trying to keep your mind on your

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Speaker 1: business today? Are you just having all kinds of other thoughts? Well,

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Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about the guy that you

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Speaker 1: want to call today. Well, names Ryan, And like you said,

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Speaker 1: I met him on a business retreat. It was an

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Speaker 1: different company. No, but we're in the same industry. Okay. Cool.

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Speaker 1: So we actually ended up in the same groups for

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Speaker 1: I've been to those type of things and they're so boring.

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Speaker 1: That's good. Everyone was laughing out. That's a surprise anytime

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Speaker 1: Was it? I mean, did he think it was a

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Speaker 1: we talked about things that were not work related. Finally,

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Speaker 1: So did his demeanor change after you threw a slew

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Speaker 1: a couple of days, which seemed totally legitimate, and then

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Speaker 1: a second date update if you're just joining us. Fiona

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Speaker 1: All right, Fiona, you're ready to give this stick a call?

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Speaker 1: Just trying to talk to you on your level. Fiona.

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Speaker 1: Let's let's do this, damn it. All right, you're ready,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready? All right. Are you worried about him saying

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now. See we can get

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Speaker 1: him on the phone. Hello. Hi is Ryan there? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: speaking Hey Ryan? How are you? This is Jewil from

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Who Brooke and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's a radio show. What's this about?

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Speaker 1: You recently went out on a date with somebody who

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Speaker 1: Date Update. If somebody goes out on a date and

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Speaker 1: was it that wanted to know about me? Her name

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. And Fiona says that she really enjoyed hanging

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Speaker 1: you what she thinks it is? Okay, Sure, she thinks

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Speaker 1: Because we talked to her and we're like, anything embarrassing

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Speaker 1: Everything was pretty normal. I mean I guess she thought

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Speaker 1: but that was not normal for me. What was it?

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Speaker 1: So we were eating lunch and we both ordered the

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Speaker 1: it's fine. And I look over and she's eating like

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Speaker 1: she's eating the shrimp tails. Some people do that, though,

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Speaker 1: I think it's kind of gross too, but I know

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Speaker 1: multiple people that do that. You can't. You're not telling

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Speaker 1: me that her eating shrimp tails turned you off it

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Speaker 1: I mean, you say that you know people who've done that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know anyone who eats the shrimp tails, don't.

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Speaker 1: it's not like I had an extra French fry on

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Speaker 1: is grows? Is that the only reason? Because she started

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Speaker 1: I mean, like the eating shrimp tails is one thing,

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Speaker 1: That's so judging. That's such a stupid reason not to

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Speaker 1: call somebody back. It's super awesome. No, that just grossed

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Speaker 1: That's funny because she's actually on the other line listening

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Speaker 1: to this conversation, right, Yeah, are you serious? Yeah? Fiona? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, so Ryan you think I'm gross? Humh No,

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Speaker 1: I just think that that was really gross what you did,

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Speaker 1: weren't supposed to eat them. No, they're just decoration. That's

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Speaker 1: the only reason they're on there, and they don't they

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Speaker 1: They're non decoration. They're crunchy, which is awesome, and they

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Speaker 1: have nutrition. It's like the peel on a fruit or

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Speaker 1: to eat. I'm gonna be honest. I was super worried,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like you're just kind of being a one.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can call me whatever you want, but like,

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Speaker 1: gonna eat like that. It's nat So then you are

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Speaker 1: calling me gross for eating. Yeah, you keep eating those tails,

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Speaker 1: and yeah that's gross. Like now you even know about

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Speaker 1: it and you're still doing it. That fries, dude, you

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Speaker 1: Even if it's not your plate, if you're there with

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Speaker 1: eat them. No, It's like you ate a burger and

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Speaker 1: trash and eat that too. Seems a bit much Ryan,

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Speaker 1: I agree, But Fiona, at any point, did you, like,

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Speaker 1: his leftovers? No? I asked him if it was okay,

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Speaker 1: good boy. I was like, I'm not going to stop you.

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Speaker 1: I want to see you in your natural habitat. You know,

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Speaker 1: she's just a Carnivore's how we do it in the South.

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Speaker 1: That's how it is. And you know what, if you

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Speaker 1: can't handle that, you probably couldn't handle me. Oh that

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Speaker 1: brings me to my question, and Ryan, would you like

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Speaker 1: to go out on a second date with Fiona? No way?

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Speaker 1: Are you sure I'll pay for it? If she was

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Speaker 1: you know, shrimp tails left and right. So you're saying

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Speaker 1: you should go on a second date with me. We

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Speaker 1: can go to it all. You can eat shrimp buffet

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Speaker 1: and I'll tell you exactly how many shrimp tails I

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Speaker 1: hear it. It is. I mean, they're kind of the

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Speaker 1: eat some of those too. Yeah. See, this is what

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Speaker 1: then she goes over and she eats all of my shrimp. Okay,

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Speaker 1: she ate the shrimp tails. Okay, some people like the

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Speaker 1: But if it grosses you out that you eat the

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Speaker 1: out with her and we get shrimp, she's gonna be

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Speaker 1: eating Yeah, my shrimp tails as well as her shrimp tails.

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Speaker 1: I'm not licking the oyster. I'm just I take the

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