WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Only Tears + 22nd Date Update

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Jose's father. Thank you for listening to my son.

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<v Speaker 1>It's almost time for your second date updates Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. And if someone vanishes in a

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<v Speaker 1>magic act, that's cool. Yes, if someone vanishes during your

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<v Speaker 1>first date, that's not as cool. That's the magic show. Yeah, magician,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fair. But it's especially weird when she disappears along

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<v Speaker 1>with her car.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she's definitely gone.

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<v Speaker 1>That happened to one of our listeners recently. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>sure if she meant to do it or if there

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<v Speaker 1>was just a weird miscommunication at the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>After you hear it, you tell us if you think

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<v Speaker 1>it was intentional in your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>We've had some strange requests on this segment before, like,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, the listener who wanted us to pretend we

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<v Speaker 1>were from a British radio show lied and said that

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<v Speaker 1>he was from London.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my accent's so good.

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<v Speaker 1>But we tried it. Also, someone who asked our producer

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<v Speaker 1>if we could alter his voice so his wife wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>recognize him if she heard it. No, that wrong show

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<v Speaker 1>for that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, not us.

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<v Speaker 1>We believe it or not, we do have a limit

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<v Speaker 1>of what we're willing to do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very low.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the bar is low, but there is a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>But today one of our listeners has emailed with a

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<v Speaker 1>request specifically for Brooke, and we'll find out if she's

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<v Speaker 1>willing to accommodate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you like another English accent?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's find out. His name is Briar Brier. Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys, Broke, I really need you on my side

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<v Speaker 4>for this one.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I can do that. I mean unless you

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<v Speaker 2>did something really dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>This already stipulation.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it's like I said, yeah, so that I remembered

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know anything about this man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's true. Why do you want Brooks approval?

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<v Speaker 4>I just I've listened to Brooke on a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>different occasions before you know where.

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<v Speaker 2>The real power comes from. That's what you just needed

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<v Speaker 2>to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well yeah, I mean, in a nutshell, I enjoy

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<v Speaker 4>your insidion.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So let's get into your date that you went on.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the girl's name?

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<v Speaker 4>So her name was Siona, Okay. I took her to

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<v Speaker 4>like a medium price restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, he.

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<v Speaker 4>Served a lot of different types of Americans, but it

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<v Speaker 4>was good Brook America.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a big fan lately.

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<v Speaker 2>I love Denny's. Oh yeah, all Miami. I mean apple

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<v Speaker 2>Lee's kind of hit sometimes. You know, Chili's is my

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<v Speaker 2>number one. I would say.

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<v Speaker 1>So, now we got Brook back on board, let's keep

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<v Speaker 1>going with it. How did it go with the restaurant?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it was it was good. I was just

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<v Speaker 4>really trying to focus on her and making sure that

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<v Speaker 4>she was okay, to see if she had any any

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<v Speaker 4>type of needs.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like you mean you were just like asking

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<v Speaker 2>her questions and being inquisitive.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean like asking if she had any type

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<v Speaker 4>of dietary restriction.

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<v Speaker 1>That's actually good. I mean, do you really need to

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<v Speaker 1>ask that question because I like to propose that after

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<v Speaker 1>they've gone into anaphylactic shock, because.

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<v Speaker 2>How could you be the hero? And if she wasn't swelling?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh was it the crab that's making you do that

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<v Speaker 1>with your face?

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<v Speaker 2>Woman? You didn't know you were allergic to crab.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe if you eat more. Yeah, but good for you

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<v Speaker 1>that you asked beforehand. Okay, that's a strong move.

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<v Speaker 2>But what was the date? Like, like, what was your

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<v Speaker 2>connection like it was fun.

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<v Speaker 4>It was actually a lot of fun. We actually started

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<v Speaker 4>talking about childhood TV shows.

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<v Speaker 1>And oh my gosh, that's such a good fun topic.

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<v Speaker 2>We all want to jump in with our parents. Yea,

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<v Speaker 2>even you mentioned it us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so what was your answer for a favorite child

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<v Speaker 1>to the TV show?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? Mine was actually, hey, Arnold, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>you guys remember, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, degenerate children.

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<v Speaker 4>Hers was Rugrats degenerate babies.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but look at your both Nickelodeon kids.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, I did point that out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, dude, I mean, so you're hitting it off,

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<v Speaker 1>finding things you have in common.

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<v Speaker 4>And we also agreed that dunk woos are actually overrated.

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<v Speaker 1>Overrated gosh, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I had one recently and I'm with him on that

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<v Speaker 2>one really as good as a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>But you should just keep talking about food because Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>is not going to go against you again. I'm just curious.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have any non food, non children's topics that

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<v Speaker 1>you covered during your conversation?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh? Yeah, Well we did start talking about being a

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<v Speaker 4>single on like this trained at the climate. It's it's

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<v Speaker 4>a lot different than our past relationships. I mean, am

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<v Speaker 4>I wrong in.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying, man, yeah, it's crazy. We can't wagh in on

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<v Speaker 1>that because she hasn't dated in many, many, many decades,

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<v Speaker 1>so she doesn't know what it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been a long time, over a decade.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, No, you use track of time. Okay, Well it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds cute, though. It sounds like you guys are vibing

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<v Speaker 2>talking about some deeper stuff even you related.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there something bad that happened?

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<v Speaker 4>No, not not bad. Maybe a miscommunication or misunderstanding. Towards

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<v Speaker 4>the end of the night, after we were done eating,

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<v Speaker 4>I paid for dinner. Yeah, and we went to the

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<v Speaker 4>lobby and I had to use the restroom real quick.

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<v Speaker 4>After I came out, she was gone, like I could

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<v Speaker 4>find her in the restaurant. I went outside, her car

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<v Speaker 4>was gone. Oh goodness, Maybe she misunderstood me, and like saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I have to go to a restroom. It was nice

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<v Speaker 4>talking to you and see you later, but I just

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<v Speaker 4>need to use the bathroom. And I came back down

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<v Speaker 4>and she was you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thought there was gonna be more after You know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a real Angelica Pickles move right, Yeah, you get it.

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<v Speaker 2>I can feel that though, like just that awkward moment

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, wait, was that a goodbye? Do I leave?

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<v Speaker 5>Ye?

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<v Speaker 1>Say?

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<v Speaker 2>And maybe she was in her head like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to stay because what if he just said goodbye

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<v Speaker 2>and then he comes out and I'm still here?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? Yeah, without a proper goodbye,

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<v Speaker 1>it's totally you don't know where you stand. So where

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<v Speaker 1>are you in? Fiona? Now?

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<v Speaker 4>She did touch me a little bit later.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Since then, I've kind of, you know, alluded to the

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<v Speaker 4>fact that maybe we should get up again. I really

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<v Speaker 4>enjoyed myself and she's always busy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that sound a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I could be a brush off there. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to call her here in a second. But Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>where are we at with Brier? He's asked that you

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<v Speaker 1>have his back? Here are you willing to throw your

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<v Speaker 1>support behind him? During the next part of the call,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you had a great date. Why is

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<v Speaker 1>your voice going so hi when you say yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Boday, No, I really support Briar.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, We're gonna come back and hopefully Brook is

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<v Speaker 1>true to her word when we call Fiona and try

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<v Speaker 1>and get you your second date. Update Right after this,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on.

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<v Speaker 3>Mane Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have a ton of time here. It's Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning, but we're in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a second date update where a guy named Briar

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<v Speaker 1>desperately wants Brooks support because he's heard how these calls

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<v Speaker 1>go and if she's not one hundred percent behind you,

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<v Speaker 1>then she's one hundred percent out to get you. You

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<v Speaker 1>are so dramatic, Jeffrey Brook is out to get me

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<v Speaker 1>right now, one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 2>You are such a drama king.

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<v Speaker 1>So just some bullet points about Briar's date real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>He took a lady named Fiona out to a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>They bonded over childhood TV shows and their mutual hatred

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<v Speaker 1>of Dunkarouse. I'm still recapping, please don't interrupt, And they

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<v Speaker 1>talked about how dating is different nowadays than it was

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<v Speaker 1>with past relationships.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you going to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Into every detail of everything that happened? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>think they just listened to part one.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just a quick recap because not everyone heard it.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook somewre just to just if you missed it. But

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<v Speaker 1>after they paid the bill, there was a little miscommunication

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<v Speaker 1>about using the restroom, because when he came out, Fiona

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<v Speaker 1>had already left and her car was gone. At least we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Hoping it's a miscommunication and she didn't just bail.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Or is it possible that her car got towed

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<v Speaker 1>and she blames Briar for that? What Briar, did you

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<v Speaker 1>have her car toad on purpose so that she'd be

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<v Speaker 1>stranded there and forced to get a ride home with you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you listening?

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<v Speaker 4>I did, Yeah, I did. I am listening. No, I

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<v Speaker 4>did not do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you just said I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I know you're saying that, but the truth will

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<v Speaker 1>come out when we call Fiona here in a second

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<v Speaker 1>if she picks up.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, no, no, I hope it does, because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just completely lost, that's what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she just thinks you don't like her that much,

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<v Speaker 2>and that is something we can quickly clear up.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, thank you so much, Broke. I really really hope

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<v Speaker 4>that you have my backward dish because I just I'm

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<v Speaker 4>so lost, Brier.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all I've had so far, So let's keep going,

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<v Speaker 2>move forward.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all in your corner. I'm gonna dial Fiona's number

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<v Speaker 1>and let's see if she answers here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey? Is this Fiona? Y? Hey Fiona. This is an

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<v Speaker 1>entire radio show actually called Brooke and Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 1>Morning He Show.

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<v Speaker 2>Fiona, good morning.

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<v Speaker 7>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's going on is a segment that we do

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<v Speaker 1>pretty regularly on the show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, that sounds fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's kind of fun and our most popular segment, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be really fun for you because we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about a guy that you went on a really nice

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<v Speaker 1>date with recently, a guy named Briar.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh all right, laugh, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Seem a little shy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is where we're trying to help Briar out

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<v Speaker 1>because he told us about your date. He felt like

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<v Speaker 1>there was a good vibe happening. But he's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit confused because afterwards there hasn't been any communication about

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<v Speaker 1>a second meetup.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, No, he's reached out a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 7>I've just been busy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so it really is just a scheduling thing for

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<v Speaker 2>you. You plan on seeing him again?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>You say no, you don't plan on seeing him again?

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<v Speaker 7>No, not really?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, I mean, that's fine, But is there a

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<v Speaker 1>reason why you feel that way because Briar isn't sure?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh yeah, I mean he's kind of sweet. He's just

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<v Speaker 7>a little bit of a mess.

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<v Speaker 2>How so.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh so he talked to you, he told you stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Or yeah, yeah, I mean just in a nutshell. Your

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<v Speaker 1>date was at a nice American restaurant. You guys talked

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<v Speaker 1>about childhood TV shows and current dating and past dating, and.

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<v Speaker 7>So I'm guessing you heard about his breakup.

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<v Speaker 2>He generalized.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we didn't get into any like specifics about past

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<v Speaker 1>relationships or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 7>Gotcha, Okay, So at one point he did open up

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<v Speaker 7>to me and was talking about how dating is different

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<v Speaker 7>these days, and he volunteered the information about his last

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<v Speaker 7>serious relationship. And so he broke up with like a

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<v Speaker 7>serious girlfriend to date an Only Fans model.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what he told you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah yeah, and he wore up and down that he

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<v Speaker 7>was like tricked into it.

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<v Speaker 2>He probably was to date though I think it's a

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<v Speaker 2>popular OnlyFans girls. There plenty of women on Only Fans

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<v Speaker 2>that have like one fan, like where it's the only fan.

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<v Speaker 1>Knowing what you know about Briar, he probably gets the

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<v Speaker 1>top tier Only fans girls. Yeah, because I mean he's

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<v Speaker 1>that type of guy. I could see.

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<v Speaker 2>Him, I'll tell you this. I could see him being

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<v Speaker 2>sweet and maybe a little naive when.

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<v Speaker 6>It comes to yeah, so sweet.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean he was crying.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, at the table. He was crying about the

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<v Speaker 2>only fans.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, he was crying at the table because he found

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<v Speaker 7>out that the only fans model wouldn't commit to him

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<v Speaker 7>because she's in a relationship too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, so you found out that Briar left his

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend to be with an OnlyFans woman who refused to

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<v Speaker 1>commit fully to him. Correct, and which why that was

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<v Speaker 1>a turn off to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Was paid for only fans well in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>Still, for me, it was.

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<v Speaker 7>Like we were talking about Dunkarus and kids shows and

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<v Speaker 7>then aw, he's crying at the table about his only

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<v Speaker 7>fans model, and I'm like, yep, dating do be different.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you think he's not over the only fans girl?

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<v Speaker 7>Parsonally, I think he's not over it because y you

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<v Speaker 7>be kran. And then I'm also like, what if this

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<v Speaker 7>is us and then you meet another only fans model

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<v Speaker 7>and she's telling you that she's going to be with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you deposit X amount of money.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe or is there a chance that that was just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a made up story as like a flex.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes guys will do that as Alex that.

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<v Speaker 2>He got left by an only fansmoy is.

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<v Speaker 7>Not going to flex and then cry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying you never know.

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<v Speaker 2>The money.

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<v Speaker 1>We should really ask Briar about it, because I need

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you Fion. He is on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>right now listening to this call.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh buddy, what yeah Brian there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing.

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<v Speaker 4>So littally embarrassed? But I'm okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 7>What do you call it? Radio station Brier? Like, what

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<v Speaker 7>did you think is going to happen?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I was just kind of transfigure out what was going on.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I tried to reach out to you. You

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<v Speaker 4>always said that you're busy. I mean, what's what's going on?

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<v Speaker 7>I think? Okay, just rule of some future dating. One,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm busy, she might be busy. Four, I'm busy. You

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<v Speaker 7>don't want to see you?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean you told me that you were busy

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<v Speaker 4>three times.

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<v Speaker 7>What does that mean that you would test again?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, Brian, you just got to put yourself in her shoes, right,

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<v Speaker 8>Like if you were on a date and a woman

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<v Speaker 8>was crying about her ex, you probably wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel great about that future with them.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I was comfortable with her at the end

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<v Speaker 4>of the day, and I don't mind being sensitive, and

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<v Speaker 4>she was sensitive to me, I would be open to

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<v Speaker 4>it as well. I mean, is it wrong that I

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<v Speaker 4>was open to her? Book?

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<v Speaker 2>It just it just comes off as maybe you're not

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<v Speaker 2>over Yeah, you know that's the thing, but maybe you're

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you were crying because she took all your money, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>was that why you're crying?

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<v Speaker 4>It said, Yeah, well she didn't take all my money,

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<v Speaker 4>she just took some of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's really generous of her to leave some left

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<v Speaker 1>over for you to date other women.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, Fona, Like, how many men have been scammed

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<v Speaker 2>by beautiful women? Oh yeah, thousands, thousands. I mean, all

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<v Speaker 2>you want is for Briar to have learned his lesson, right, Sure?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I do want that for him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good, and you could help give that to him

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<v Speaker 1>if you agree to go on another date, a date

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<v Speaker 1>that we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll promise that I won't cry on the second.

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<v Speaker 7>Date, honestly, But you didn't promise yourself that on the

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<v Speaker 7>thirst date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Keona, do you want to date a guy who's

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<v Speaker 1>bottling his emotions just for you at.

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<v Speaker 6>Least about his actual No, I don't want that either.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, you're a confusing woman.

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<v Speaker 7>What did a from lab say? Complicated?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you just want to hook up with him

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<v Speaker 1>once and then move on that? Okay, okay, okay? So

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<v Speaker 1>is that a yes to the hookup?

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<v Speaker 7>Briar? Very kind of you to say that that you

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<v Speaker 7>sound comfortable with me, and you're very sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, Oh my gosh, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeez, Briar.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, man, I don't even know what to say.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I guess I'll go back to crying.

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<v Speaker 8>Don't do that that, Briar.

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<v Speaker 7>Please don't cry again right now.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't guarantee that.

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<v Speaker 1>But he starts, all right, Well, you know what, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a date with Fiona, but we'll set you

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<v Speaker 1>and brook ups. You guys can hug and cry into

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<v Speaker 1>each other's arms.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm married, so it's nothing more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well he was. He was in a relationship before too.

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<v Speaker 4>So.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, We're.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotting a lot of text into sevent eighty five to

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<v Speaker 1>nine two from the listeners saying Briar is just the

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<v Speaker 1>sweetest man.

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<v Speaker 2>And then are they attaching their venmos so that Briar

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<v Speaker 2>can send them money?

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<v Speaker 1>No, they're not doing that, and nobody's asking to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him either, but they do like him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the only fans girls like subscribe to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably. I mean, come on, ladies, a guy who cries

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<v Speaker 1>at the dinner table on a first date after openly

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<v Speaker 1>admitting that he broke up with his last girlfriend to

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<v Speaker 1>date an only fans model. Where's the red flag there?

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<v Speaker 1>I dare you to find it.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish we could break that sentence up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, like a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Just there, maybe a few problems there. Yeah all right,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe Briar has some personal stuff he needs to work

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<v Speaker 1>out first before he dives back into the dating pool.

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<v Speaker 2>But I still support men that cry, Alexis, that's right, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I just not about your ex on a first.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can even cry while you email the show

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<v Speaker 1>while asking us for help. Oh, if we see tears,

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<v Speaker 1>we will help. Yes, put those crying emojis in your email,

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<v Speaker 1>and we will definitely call that person who's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back, and Brook will have your back one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's not just make that a blanket the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, give us a few details and then we

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<v Speaker 1>can help you out. But go subscribe wherever you get

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<v Speaker 1>your podcasts. We're up at Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We like to shake things up every now and again

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<v Speaker 1>on this show. But no, Brook, for the four hundredth time,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not adding roadkill reviews on the tens.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that.

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<v Speaker 1>We know the mango chutney raccoon tail tastes amazing, especially

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<v Speaker 1>if it's Microwaves.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I can say that without not wanting to

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<v Speaker 8>talk more about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it. But this time we're shaking things up by

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<v Speaker 1>doing an alternate version of our infamous second datea date.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have to hear it to believe it. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. No spoilers. It's coming up.

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<v Speaker 3>Next Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 1>When you go on a date with someone and they

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly break off all communication, no reasons given. That's called

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<v Speaker 1>being ghosted, and that's what our second date updates are

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<v Speaker 1>all about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it happens a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just learning the term. Now you're a little behind it,

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<v Speaker 1>or I guess we'd also accept the terms breadcrumbing, orbiting,

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<v Speaker 1>semi orbiting, and getting semi trucked, which is that's what

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<v Speaker 1>happened to me off exit sixteen last Friday, got eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>wheeled within an each.

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<v Speaker 2>Of Real's you were disappointed, though, Yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>The happiest I've been in years. But what about the

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<v Speaker 1>people that are past the first or second date but

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<v Speaker 1>not quite into an exclusive relationship yet. Oh, you're like

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<v Speaker 1>in the situationship.

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<v Speaker 2>It's still ghosting though, isn't. It's just like worse right.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, we didn't really have an outlet a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on this show to help them with that until today.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really, because we're about to do our first ever

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<v Speaker 1>twenty second date update for people who've been seeing someone

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<v Speaker 1>for like a month or so and now suddenly it's

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<v Speaker 1>not going well and they need our help. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's why our listener Brittany emailed saying the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she's been hanging out with has been acting a little distant.

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<v Speaker 1>She can't figure it out. So Brittany, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I know this is a little bit different than our

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<v Speaker 1>second date updates, so let's just start with what's the

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<v Speaker 1>name of the guy? Or you two like in contact

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<v Speaker 1>with each other. Now we're not in contact, Like, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the situation.

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<v Speaker 6>So his name is Mark? Okay, we've been dating for

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<v Speaker 6>about a month and a half. Now we're not living

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<v Speaker 6>with each other.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my god, Yeah, no, we're not that after a

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<v Speaker 2>month and a half, you're.

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<v Speaker 4>Going to move in.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just letting you know. That's kind of where we are.

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<v Speaker 6>We're not stage to move in at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Girlfriend, then like officially.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, so I just going to tell you haven't

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<v Speaker 2>had the official talk yet?

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<v Speaker 5>Then yeah, right.

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<v Speaker 6>Like I've deleted my dating app, and he says that

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<v Speaker 6>he was not going to be on the dating app either.

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<v Speaker 6>Here's here's how we're going right now. Starting off awesome,

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<v Speaker 6>of course, as most new relationships do. But lately we

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<v Speaker 6>haven't been hanging out as much at night. Like before

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<v Speaker 6>we'd like go on night dates or maybe I'd have

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<v Speaker 6>a little stay over or something like that, and now

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<v Speaker 6>it's not as much at night.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, doesn't that happen?

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<v Speaker 9>Like after like a month or so, it's like all right,

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<v Speaker 9>now we see each other maybe twice a week instead

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<v Speaker 9>of five days away.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think usually it goes the opposite. Usually, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're really into something or someone sorry or something, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>stay the extra club, you end up.

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<v Speaker 1>Spending more time at their place than you do at

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<v Speaker 1>your own place.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's progressing well, Brittany would have been moved in

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<v Speaker 2>by now.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not happening. He seems to be distancing.

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<v Speaker 6>Himself right Like, I'm just getting these red flags. Like

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<v Speaker 6>we're not at the point where I have his phone passward,

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<v Speaker 6>so I can't really look at what these texts are about.

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<v Speaker 6>But I do notice that he is texting with a

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<v Speaker 6>girl who has the same name as his ex.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, it's a little shady. Have you like brought

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<v Speaker 1>that fact up to him, that you've seen the messages

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<v Speaker 1>coming from someone with his ex's name.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I haven't said anything because I don't want to

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<v Speaker 6>rock the boat and cause problems because it's so fresh

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<v Speaker 6>and so early in this relationship. I just have been

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<v Speaker 6>getting a feeling that he's like hiding something.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, I mean, how is all of this affecting you,

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<v Speaker 1>like emotionally, Because if it was me and I was

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<v Speaker 1>seeing X text coming in, I would have air tagged

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<v Speaker 1>all of his stuff right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, why are you not just asking him? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>understand to be paranoid without getting an answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, yeah, I mean why aren't you doing that?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm not because I just don't want to

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<v Speaker 6>lose him, because I really like him, and so I

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<v Speaker 6>don't want to create this confrontation in case it's like,

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<v Speaker 6>oh my gosh, my sister's name is the same as.

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<v Speaker 2>My act Okay, I don't think that's probably gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>his sister's names after Yeah, And like.

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<v Speaker 6>Where's the point where we're like, oh my gosh, you

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<v Speaker 6>want a dog? I want a dog. Let's get a

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<v Speaker 6>dog together? Not right now, but like.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like we're getting a little quick into this relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are moving through stages.

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<v Speaker 3>Even when you guys both stop going on dating sites,

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<v Speaker 3>that's another stage towards well.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't ask him a question, but you want to

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<v Speaker 2>live together and get a dog.

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<v Speaker 4>Let.

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<v Speaker 1>I see what she's doing. She's like considering how he

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<v Speaker 1>would take the conversation. He might feel attacked if she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>why am I getting these texts? Why aren't we living

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<v Speaker 1>together yet? Where's our dog?

0:23:55.200 --> 0:23:55.760
<v Speaker 2>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Though, I mean where's our doctor?

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<v Speaker 2>That feels a lot more simple than having us intervene.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want us to do about it?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I just I don't like confrontation and

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to make things worse and really need

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<v Speaker 6>your help to just figure it out where I don't

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<v Speaker 6>say something stupid to his face. Yeah, okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 6>you are the professionals.

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<v Speaker 1>The professional confrontational people. I'm a professional comedian, lady, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not here for dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you may end up getting her here. He just

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<v Speaker 2>sounds like he may not be as interested as Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't say that to be mean, but.

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<v Speaker 6>Bar I mean, that might be hard for me to hear,

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<v Speaker 6>but if he's feeling that way, then I would like

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<v Speaker 6>to hear it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. So, I mean normally when we would do second

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<v Speaker 1>date updates, we're asking about the date when we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>to the person on the other line. This is going

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<v Speaker 1>to be different with a twenty second date update. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going to call him and confront him about the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>issues that he doesn't know that his girlfriend has with

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<v Speaker 1>his back.

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<v Speaker 2>Such a strong word, Okay, that's politely asked.

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<v Speaker 1>Will politely poke his brain and try and get some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>For why he's suddenly becoming more distant in your new relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>When we come back and give you your first ever twenty

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, what folder do we put this in

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<v Speaker 1>on the podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a typo.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's all Lexis's fault. Let me come back right

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<v Speaker 1>after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just joining us, we're doing our first ever

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<v Speaker 1>twenty second date update with our listener Brittany, who's been

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<v Speaker 1>seeing a guy named Mark for the last like six

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<v Speaker 1>weeks or so, and even though they're not officially labeled

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<v Speaker 1>his boyfriend and girlfriend, they have agreed to get off

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<v Speaker 1>the apps and try to focus more on each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Brittany doesn't really feel like he's been doing that, though,

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<v Speaker 1>especially not lately. He seems to be going out more

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<v Speaker 1>at nights, acting more distant from her, and the really

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<v Speaker 1>big red flag that stood out to her is he's

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<v Speaker 1>been getting text messages from a woman with the same

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<v Speaker 1>name as his ex girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>It does not feel like a coincidence everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we give her a benefit? At least she's not

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<v Speaker 1>like it's his X. She's like trying to be optimistic

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<v Speaker 1>because she can't read the text messages because he hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>shared his passing the bottom line, a lot of concerns

0:26:15.960 --> 0:26:20.040
<v Speaker 1>on her side, and she personally hates confrontation doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to risk the relationship in that way, so she's asked

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<v Speaker 1>us to step in and try to investigate for.

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<v Speaker 2>Her because the one thing we love is confrontation.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we're trying to keep it light here with you, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know you must be going through a lot

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<v Speaker 1>emotionally right now before we make the call.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, I'm a little stressed, but I mean I

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<v Speaker 6>gotta find out before we keep going.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, just remember you're like eight weeks into this thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's not it does feel like a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're gonna look back and be like, oh that

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<v Speaker 2>oh that guy, I forgot about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, actually she's six weeks into it. Let's not like reship.

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<v Speaker 2>Your friends aren't gonna remember this guy marriage. Basically, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not a serious as it feels.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the best way to say it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, for sure. I just I just really like him

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<v Speaker 6>and I'm hoping that it's something light.

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<v Speaker 1>And we hope that too for you, Yes, we do,

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<v Speaker 1>but not for the not for the show drama. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's just see what happens for our very first twenty

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. We're still really doing it. We're branding it.

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<v Speaker 7>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey is this Mark?

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<v Speaker 5>This is Mark?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey man, thanks for picking up the phone. We're actually

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Mark, what's up MARKO morning? Sorry, I'm laughing because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious how jeff is going to explain why we're

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<v Speaker 2>calling you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>What what is this?

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<v Speaker 1>So this is a segment we do for the very

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<v Speaker 1>first time. It's called a twenty second date update. It

0:27:58.480 --> 0:27:59.440
<v Speaker 1>rolls right off the tongue.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, I'm sorry, what what has happened? I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>I do you guys mean to call me?

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<v Speaker 9>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we've been asked to call you by the woman

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<v Speaker 1>that you're seeing lately, a woman named Brittany.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so Brittany called.

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<v Speaker 2>You, guys, Yes, yes, because she really likes you.

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<v Speaker 1>But bottom line is she's noticed some differences. She feels

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:26.600
<v Speaker 1>like you've been a little bit more distant, going out

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<v Speaker 1>more at nights than you used to.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh uh huh okay, yeah, maybe not as interested

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<v Speaker 2>in her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and judging from that response, I can't see why

0:28:37.760 --> 0:28:40.880
<v Speaker 1>she would think that. But uh, there's also a big

0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:44.160
<v Speaker 1>problem that she's noticed with your text messages. She's not

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<v Speaker 1>reading them.

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<v Speaker 2>Because she saw a name pop up on your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>But in a non confrontational type of way. When you

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<v Speaker 1>say the word confrontational, doesn't take it away. Okay, just talent?

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<v Speaker 1>The name?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I don't know the name, but why doesn't she

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<v Speaker 5>just talk to me about it?

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<v Speaker 2>We asked her the exact same. You would think that

0:29:05.440 --> 0:29:09.600
<v Speaker 2>would be the first step. She is very scared of

0:29:10.320 --> 0:29:11.440
<v Speaker 2>rocking the boats because.

0:29:11.240 --> 0:29:15.720
<v Speaker 1>She really values this relationship, this blossoming potential relationship that

0:29:15.800 --> 0:29:18.920
<v Speaker 1>you two have, and doesn't want to create an issue

0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:21.080
<v Speaker 1>if there isn't one. So is there one?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, look, there's a couple of things she doesn't now,

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<v Speaker 9>but I don't think it's a big deal.

0:29:26.320 --> 0:29:30.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, she did say that you guys both deleted

0:29:30.360 --> 0:29:34.240
<v Speaker 2>your dating naps, right, Does that mean that you're only

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<v Speaker 2>seeing her or are you still seeing other people?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, I'm only seeing her.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, but I am technically seeing an ex girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>What, Scott, I've only seen.

0:29:47.800 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 1>Her dating You need to explain, dude, it's not romantic.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just I don't have a choice.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you somehow a victim in this?

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<v Speaker 9>You don't have a no, no, no, it's just I

0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:06.320
<v Speaker 9>split custody of our French bulldog, so I have to

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:10.480
<v Speaker 9>like coordinate with her, like the drop offs every other week.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why. That's all.

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<v Speaker 2>How would she not know that you have a dog

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<v Speaker 2>every other week?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the thing is I don't have actual custody. I

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<v Speaker 5>just have visitation rights.

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<v Speaker 2>What's so late.

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<v Speaker 6>A second? Let me let me clarify.

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<v Speaker 1>So hold on, wait sorry, Brittany. Yeah, yeah, that's Brittany

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<v Speaker 1>that she's on the other line listening to this phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Suddenly she's really good at confrontation.

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<v Speaker 6>It sounds like, no, I just need a little bit

0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:44.520
<v Speaker 6>of clarification. So what you're saying is that you're ditching

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<v Speaker 6>me to hang out with the dog and your old

0:30:48.160 --> 0:30:54.360
<v Speaker 6>doggy mama. I mean, why wouldn't you tell me this?

0:30:54.480 --> 0:30:55.680
<v Speaker 6>Why have you been hiding this?

0:30:56.320 --> 0:30:56.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:30:56.680 --> 0:30:58.400
<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean I was going to tell you.

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<v Speaker 9>I just I didn't know how to and I didn't

0:31:01.440 --> 0:31:03.720
<v Speaker 9>know if it was like weird or if you think

0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 9>it was like normal or weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I just didn't know how to tell you do you

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<v Speaker 2>only have visitation rights at night because it's the night

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<v Speaker 2>that you're not hanging out with Brittany.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's visitation on Wednesday nights, So you're tucking the

0:31:19.360 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 5>dog in.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not going and see another girls, are you?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

0:31:22.680 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 4>No, I'm not.

0:31:23.360 --> 0:31:23.560
<v Speaker 6>I'm not.

0:31:23.680 --> 0:31:26.320
<v Speaker 2>And it isn't inviting you to stay the night on

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:27.920
<v Speaker 2>Wednesday nights, is she? No?

0:31:28.120 --> 0:31:30.240
<v Speaker 5>No, it's like, I don't even go inside if I

0:31:30.280 --> 0:31:30.840
<v Speaker 5>can avoid it.

0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:32.480
<v Speaker 4>I just go in the backyard with the dog and

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:33.640
<v Speaker 4>like play for a few hours.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, Like I literally found a chewed up

0:31:38.160 --> 0:31:39.600
<v Speaker 6>tennis ball in your jacket.

0:31:40.280 --> 0:31:41.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like, what is why?

0:31:42.480 --> 0:31:47.640
<v Speaker 8>Oh so it's legit, Like he's okay.

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 2>I mean I'd put my pet before a girl I'm

0:31:49.280 --> 0:31:50.000
<v Speaker 2>at for six weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean well, I mean, Brittany, now that you've heard that,

0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:55.480
<v Speaker 1>how does that make you feel? Does that make you

0:31:55.560 --> 0:31:56.960
<v Speaker 1>feel better about the situation?

0:31:57.520 --> 0:32:00.320
<v Speaker 6>I feel weird because you you lie to me and

0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 6>secretly sharing custody of a dog with your ex.

0:32:04.920 --> 0:32:06.000
<v Speaker 5>But I'm sorry I lied.

0:32:06.080 --> 0:32:07.840
<v Speaker 9>But I mean it's just you know, it's hard to

0:32:07.880 --> 0:32:10.560
<v Speaker 9>be a good single dog parent and do what's the

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:12.040
<v Speaker 9>best interest of my dog son.

0:32:12.600 --> 0:32:16.720
<v Speaker 8>Oh, I think, Brittany, I think you gotta let this

0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:18.040
<v Speaker 8>one slide a little bit.

0:32:18.320 --> 0:32:19.720
<v Speaker 2>It sounds really sweet.

0:32:20.040 --> 0:32:21.840
<v Speaker 9>Yeah, well, I do have to say, I mean, in

0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:25.200
<v Speaker 9>the interest of full disclosure, I actually don't share custody

0:32:25.240 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 9>of just one.

0:32:25.960 --> 0:32:29.520
<v Speaker 5>I actually share to be two dogs, two different women.

0:32:30.120 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>Geez, what dog is a real confused?

0:32:35.440 --> 0:32:37.680
<v Speaker 2>Do you remember Brittany told us that they were talking

0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:38.680
<v Speaker 2>about getting a dog.

0:32:39.760 --> 0:32:43.600
<v Speaker 6>You gonna say, like, if we got a dog and

0:32:43.680 --> 0:32:46.560
<v Speaker 6>we broke up, you're gonna have three doggy mommies.

0:32:46.280 --> 0:32:48.760
<v Speaker 1>And why we're better with dogs and women, that's for sure.

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:50.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, because he's not getting full custody of

0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:54.720
<v Speaker 2>any dogs the only visitation. Are you just trying to

0:32:54.800 --> 0:32:56.120
<v Speaker 2>be a part time dog owner?

0:32:56.840 --> 0:32:59.800
<v Speaker 5>No, no, I'm just trying to do right by my children,

0:33:00.280 --> 0:33:00.960
<v Speaker 5>my dog's children.

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<v Speaker 6>Like if my life's supposed to be doggy stepmom now, cu.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's a French it's kind of cute. That

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<v Speaker 2>is cute.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I would love for you to meet at

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<v Speaker 5>least one of them at some.

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<v Speaker 2>Point soon, at some point, you don't want to rush

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<v Speaker 2>introducing your children to a new relationship. That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't traumatize those dogs for the rest of their lives.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, they will end up loving me better than

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<v Speaker 6>their original mom, So I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Never going to get into a custody battle.

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<v Speaker 6>Like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>This is getting kind of messy now, man, this isn't good.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay to suggest if you guys are going to stay

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<v Speaker 2>in this relationship, let's hold off on getting another dog

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<v Speaker 2>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>But Brittany, now that the whole situation is laid out,

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<v Speaker 1>you know he's not cheating on you. Do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>better about the situation? Like, where's your head at?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's good, it's kind of sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean no, it's not a second date update. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not off to send them out again. You guys are

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<v Speaker 1>going to agree to continue data. Why can't we.

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<v Speaker 2>Said about a date?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, why can't you send us on a date for

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<v Speaker 4>the dog?

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<v Speaker 1>And then the doggies mom and like there's there's too

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<v Speaker 1>many moving parts in that a dog friendly bar. You

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<v Speaker 1>two can just go to a free dog park together

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<v Speaker 1>and talk things out there.

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<v Speaker 6>Perfect, Maybe the dog mom will let you take the

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<v Speaker 6>dog to.

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<v Speaker 4>A dog's part.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh wow, the X I have to put in a

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<v Speaker 9>request two months ahead of time, so that's gonna be wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, Okay, well what did you do in that relationship? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>at least we have some clarification. That's what we came

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<v Speaker 1>here to do. So best of luck to the two

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<v Speaker 1>of you in your developing situation.

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<v Speaker 6>Thanks so much, thanks for helping with confrontation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is a lot still for a couple that's

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<v Speaker 1>not official. Yeah, drama going on, and we'll come back

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<v Speaker 1>in a few weeks to get our forty second date

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<v Speaker 1>up with you and figure out where you are with

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<v Speaker 1>your dogs and Jeffrey in the morning. Now, for me

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<v Speaker 1>and for I think everybody in the room, that was

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<v Speaker 1>weirdly kind of sweet to hear that. But some people

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<v Speaker 1>might say, though, it's a red flag that the person

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<v Speaker 1>you're dating has multiple doggy mama drama and has already

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<v Speaker 1>suggested adopting a third.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was at sweet with one, and then when we

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<v Speaker 2>got to two, I'm like, dude, what are you doing right?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, eventually her nights are going to be fully

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<v Speaker 1>booked up visiting all these baby doggies, not to mention

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<v Speaker 1>having to go for their birthdays and their piano recitals.

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<v Speaker 2>And I really think that he has kind of an

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<v Speaker 2>inflated idea of how important he is to the dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, with his visitations once a week, play once a

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<v Speaker 1>week with it. So if she decides to stick with it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be quite a commitment from her. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure if she really realizes what she's signing up for.

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<v Speaker 2>You, y, I guarantee you they're going to email us

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<v Speaker 2>back in three months and they're going to have a dog,

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<v Speaker 2>and then another six months and then they're gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>broken up. Oh, it's a cycle.

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<v Speaker 8>This man's in a psychle and we didn't even ask

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<v Speaker 8>him about cats, yeah, or grand baby dogs that he

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<v Speaker 8>has to deal with too.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to span new Ya, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>So what one of things she really needs to be

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