Speaker 1: I'm Jose's father. Thank you for listening to my son.
Speaker 1: It's almost time for your second date updates Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. And if someone vanishes in a
Speaker 1: magic act, that's cool. Yes, if someone vanishes during your
Speaker 1: first date, that's not as cool. That's the magic show. Yeah, magician,
Speaker 1: that's fair. But it's especially weird when she disappears along
Speaker 1: with her car.
Speaker 2: Okay, she's definitely gone.
Speaker 1: That happened to one of our listeners recently. He's not
Speaker 1: sure if she meant to do it or if there
Speaker 1: was just a weird miscommunication at the end of the night.
Speaker 1: After you hear it, you tell us if you think
Speaker 1: it was intentional in your second date update right after this.
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: We've had some strange requests on this segment before, like,
Speaker 1: for example, the listener who wanted us to pretend we
Speaker 1: were from a British radio show lied and said that
Speaker 1: he was from London.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my accent's so good.
Speaker 1: But we tried it. Also, someone who asked our producer
Speaker 1: if we could alter his voice so his wife wouldn't
Speaker 1: recognize him if she heard it. No, that wrong show
Speaker 1: for that.
Speaker 2: No, not us.
Speaker 1: We believe it or not, we do have a limit
Speaker 1: of what we're willing to do.
Speaker 2: It's very low.
Speaker 1: It is the bar is low, but there is a bar.
Speaker 1: But today one of our listeners has emailed with a
Speaker 1: request specifically for Brooke, and we'll find out if she's
Speaker 1: willing to accommodate it.
Speaker 2: Would you like another English accent?
Speaker 1: Let's find out. His name is Briar Brier. Welcome to
Speaker 1: the show.
Speaker 4: Hey guys, Broke, I really need you on my side
Speaker 4: for this one.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I can do that. I mean unless you
Speaker 2: did something really dumb.
Speaker 1: This already stipulation.
Speaker 2: Well it's like I said, yeah, so that I remembered
Speaker 2: I don't know anything about this man.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. Why do you want Brooks approval?
Speaker 4: I just I've listened to Brooke on a couple of
Speaker 4: different occasions before you know where.
Speaker 2: The real power comes from. That's what you just needed
Speaker 2: to say.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well yeah, I mean, in a nutshell, I enjoy
Speaker 4: your insidion.
Speaker 1: Okay, So let's get into your date that you went on.
Speaker 1: What's the girl's name?
Speaker 4: So her name was Siona, Okay. I took her to
Speaker 4: like a medium price restaurant.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, he.
Speaker 4: Served a lot of different types of Americans, but it
Speaker 4: was good Brook America.
Speaker 1: I'm not a big fan lately.
Speaker 2: I love Denny's. Oh yeah, all Miami. I mean apple
Speaker 2: Lee's kind of hit sometimes. You know, Chili's is my
Speaker 2: number one. I would say.
Speaker 1: So, now we got Brook back on board, let's keep
Speaker 1: going with it. How did it go with the restaurant?
Speaker 4: You know, it was it was good. I was just
Speaker 4: really trying to focus on her and making sure that
Speaker 4: she was okay, to see if she had any any
Speaker 4: type of needs.
Speaker 2: You know, like you mean you were just like asking
Speaker 2: her questions and being inquisitive.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean like asking if she had any type
Speaker 4: of dietary restriction.
Speaker 1: That's actually good. I mean, do you really need to
Speaker 1: ask that question because I like to propose that after
Speaker 1: they've gone into anaphylactic shock, because.
Speaker 2: How could you be the hero? And if she wasn't swelling?
Speaker 1: Oh was it the crab that's making you do that
Speaker 1: with your face?
Speaker 2: Woman? You didn't know you were allergic to crab.
Speaker 1: Maybe if you eat more. Yeah, but good for you
Speaker 1: that you asked beforehand. Okay, that's a strong move.
Speaker 2: But what was the date? Like, like, what was your
Speaker 2: connection like it was fun.
Speaker 4: It was actually a lot of fun. We actually started
Speaker 4: talking about childhood TV shows.
Speaker 1: And oh my gosh, that's such a good fun topic.
Speaker 2: We all want to jump in with our parents. Yea,
Speaker 2: even you mentioned it us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what was your answer for a favorite child
Speaker 1: to the TV show?
Speaker 4: Well? Mine was actually, hey, Arnold, I don't know if
Speaker 4: you guys remember, dude.
Speaker 1: Yeah, degenerate children.
Speaker 4: Hers was Rugrats degenerate babies.
Speaker 2: Okay, but look at your both Nickelodeon kids.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I did point that out.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, dude, I mean, so you're hitting it off,
Speaker 1: finding things you have in common.
Speaker 4: And we also agreed that dunk woos are actually overrated.
Speaker 1: Overrated gosh, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I had one recently and I'm with him on that
Speaker 2: one really as good as a kid.
Speaker 1: But you should just keep talking about food because Brooke
Speaker 1: is not going to go against you again. I'm just curious.
Speaker 1: Did you have any non food, non children's topics that
Speaker 1: you covered during your conversation?
Speaker 4: Uh? Yeah, Well we did start talking about being a
Speaker 4: single on like this trained at the climate. It's it's
Speaker 4: a lot different than our past relationships. I mean, am
Speaker 4: I wrong in.
Speaker 1: Saying, man, yeah, it's crazy. We can't wagh in on
Speaker 1: that because she hasn't dated in many, many, many decades,
Speaker 1: so she doesn't know what it's like.
Speaker 2: It's been a long time, over a decade.
Speaker 1: Right, No, you use track of time. Okay, Well it all.
Speaker 2: Sounds cute, though. It sounds like you guys are vibing
Speaker 2: talking about some deeper stuff even you related.
Speaker 1: Was there something bad that happened?
Speaker 4: No, not not bad. Maybe a miscommunication or misunderstanding. Towards
Speaker 4: the end of the night, after we were done eating,
Speaker 4: I paid for dinner. Yeah, and we went to the
Speaker 4: lobby and I had to use the restroom real quick.
Speaker 4: After I came out, she was gone, like I could
Speaker 4: find her in the restaurant. I went outside, her car
Speaker 4: was gone. Oh goodness, Maybe she misunderstood me, and like saying, hey,
Speaker 4: I have to go to a restroom. It was nice
Speaker 4: talking to you and see you later, but I just
Speaker 4: need to use the bathroom. And I came back down
Speaker 4: and she was you.
Speaker 1: Thought there was gonna be more after You know, that's
Speaker 1: a real Angelica Pickles move right, Yeah, you get it.
Speaker 2: I can feel that though, like just that awkward moment
Speaker 2: You're like, wait, was that a goodbye? Do I leave?
Speaker 5: Ye?
Speaker 1: Say?
Speaker 2: And maybe she was in her head like I don't
Speaker 2: want to stay because what if he just said goodbye
Speaker 2: and then he comes out and I'm still here?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Yeah, without a proper goodbye,
Speaker 1: it's totally you don't know where you stand. So where
Speaker 1: are you in? Fiona? Now?
Speaker 4: She did touch me a little bit later.
Speaker 6: Oh that's good.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: Since then, I've kind of, you know, alluded to the
Speaker 4: fact that maybe we should get up again. I really
Speaker 4: enjoyed myself and she's always busy.
Speaker 2: Oh that sound a good time.
Speaker 1: Okay, I could be a brush off there. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: we're going to call her here in a second. But Brook,
Speaker 1: where are we at with Brier? He's asked that you
Speaker 1: have his back? Here are you willing to throw your
Speaker 1: support behind him? During the next part of the call,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you had a great date. Why is
Speaker 1: your voice going so hi when you say yeah.
Speaker 2: Boday, No, I really support Briar.
Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna come back and hopefully Brook is
Speaker 1: true to her word when we call Fiona and try
Speaker 1: and get you your second date. Update Right after this,
Speaker 1: hold on.
Speaker 3: Mane Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning Second date update.
Speaker 1: We don't have a ton of time here. It's Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning, but we're in the middle
Speaker 1: of a second date update where a guy named Briar
Speaker 1: desperately wants Brooks support because he's heard how these calls
Speaker 1: go and if she's not one hundred percent behind you,
Speaker 1: then she's one hundred percent out to get you. You
Speaker 1: are so dramatic, Jeffrey Brook is out to get me
Speaker 1: right now, one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: You are such a drama king.
Speaker 1: So just some bullet points about Briar's date real quick.
Speaker 1: He took a lady named Fiona out to a restaurant.
Speaker 1: They bonded over childhood TV shows and their mutual hatred
Speaker 1: of Dunkarouse. I'm still recapping, please don't interrupt, And they
Speaker 1: talked about how dating is different nowadays than it was
Speaker 1: with past relationships.
Speaker 6: Are you going to go.
Speaker 2: Into every detail of everything that happened? I mean, I
Speaker 2: think they just listened to part one.
Speaker 1: This is just a quick recap because not everyone heard it.
Speaker 1: Brook somewre just to just if you missed it. But
Speaker 1: after they paid the bill, there was a little miscommunication
Speaker 1: about using the restroom, because when he came out, Fiona
Speaker 1: had already left and her car was gone. At least we're.
Speaker 2: Hoping it's a miscommunication and she didn't just bail.
Speaker 1: Yes, Or is it possible that her car got towed
Speaker 1: and she blames Briar for that? What Briar, did you
Speaker 1: have her car toad on purpose so that she'd be
Speaker 1: stranded there and forced to get a ride home with you?
Speaker 1: Are you listening?
Speaker 4: I did, Yeah, I did. I am listening. No, I
Speaker 4: did not do that.
Speaker 2: I thought you just said I did.
Speaker 1: Okay, I know you're saying that, but the truth will
Speaker 1: come out when we call Fiona here in a second
Speaker 1: if she picks up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, no, I hope it does, because I'm
Speaker 4: just completely lost, that's what happened.
Speaker 2: I think she just thinks you don't like her that much,
Speaker 2: and that is something we can quickly clear up.
Speaker 4: Well, thank you so much, Broke. I really really hope
Speaker 4: that you have my backward dish because I just I'm
Speaker 4: so lost, Brier.
Speaker 2: It's all I've had so far, So let's keep going,
Speaker 2: move forward.
Speaker 1: We're all in your corner. I'm gonna dial Fiona's number
Speaker 1: and let's see if she answers here we go.
Speaker 4: Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1: Hey? Is this Fiona? Y? Hey Fiona. This is an
Speaker 1: entire radio show actually called Brooke and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 1: Morning He Show.
Speaker 2: Fiona, good morning.
Speaker 7: What's going on?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's going on is a segment that we do
Speaker 1: pretty regularly on the show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 7: Okay, that sounds fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of fun and our most popular segment, and.
Speaker 1: It could be really fun for you because we're talking
Speaker 1: about a guy that you went on a really nice
Speaker 1: date with recently, a guy named Briar.
Speaker 7: Oh all right, laugh, you.
Speaker 1: Seem a little shy.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: The thing is where we're trying to help Briar out
Speaker 1: because he told us about your date. He felt like
Speaker 1: there was a good vibe happening. But he's a little
Speaker 1: bit confused because afterwards there hasn't been any communication about
Speaker 1: a second meetup.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, No, he's reached out a couple of times.
Speaker 7: I've just been busy.
Speaker 2: Okay, so it really is just a scheduling thing for
Speaker 2: you. You plan on seeing him again?
Speaker 7: Oh no, no.
Speaker 2: You say no, you don't plan on seeing him again?
Speaker 7: No, not really?
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I mean, that's fine, But is there a
Speaker 1: reason why you feel that way because Briar isn't sure?
Speaker 7: Uh yeah, I mean he's kind of sweet. He's just
Speaker 7: a little bit of a mess.
Speaker 2: How so.
Speaker 7: Uh so he talked to you, he told you stuff.
Speaker 1: Or yeah, yeah, I mean just in a nutshell. Your
Speaker 1: date was at a nice American restaurant. You guys talked
Speaker 1: about childhood TV shows and current dating and past dating, and.
Speaker 7: So I'm guessing you heard about his breakup.
Speaker 2: He generalized.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we didn't get into any like specifics about past
Speaker 1: relationships or anything like that.
Speaker 7: Gotcha, Okay, So at one point he did open up
Speaker 7: to me and was talking about how dating is different
Speaker 7: these days, and he volunteered the information about his last
Speaker 7: serious relationship. And so he broke up with like a
Speaker 7: serious girlfriend to date an Only Fans model.
Speaker 2: That's what he told you.
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, and he wore up and down that he
Speaker 7: was like tricked into it.
Speaker 2: He probably was to date though I think it's a
Speaker 2: popular OnlyFans girls. There plenty of women on Only Fans
Speaker 2: that have like one fan, like where it's the only fan.
Speaker 1: Knowing what you know about Briar, he probably gets the
Speaker 1: top tier Only fans girls. Yeah, because I mean he's
Speaker 1: that type of guy. I could see.
Speaker 2: Him, I'll tell you this. I could see him being
Speaker 2: sweet and maybe a little naive when.
Speaker 6: It comes to yeah, so sweet.
Speaker 7: I mean he was crying.
Speaker 2: Oh no, at the table. He was crying about the
Speaker 2: only fans.
Speaker 7: Yeah, he was crying at the table because he found
Speaker 7: out that the only fans model wouldn't commit to him
Speaker 7: because she's in a relationship too.
Speaker 2: Oh wow.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so you found out that Briar left his
Speaker 1: girlfriend to be with an OnlyFans woman who refused to
Speaker 1: commit fully to him. Correct, and which why that was
Speaker 1: a turn off to you?
Speaker 2: Was paid for only fans well in a relationship.
Speaker 6: Still, for me, it was.
Speaker 7: Like we were talking about Dunkarus and kids shows and
Speaker 7: then aw, he's crying at the table about his only
Speaker 7: fans model, and I'm like, yep, dating do be different.
Speaker 2: Okay, do you think he's not over the only fans girl?
Speaker 7: Parsonally, I think he's not over it because y you
Speaker 7: be kran. And then I'm also like, what if this
Speaker 7: is us and then you meet another only fans model
Speaker 7: and she's telling you that she's going to be with you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you deposit X amount of money.
Speaker 1: Maybe or is there a chance that that was just
Speaker 1: kind of a made up story as like a flex.
Speaker 1: Sometimes guys will do that as Alex that.
Speaker 2: He got left by an only fansmoy is.
Speaker 7: Not going to flex and then cry.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying you never know.
Speaker 2: The money.
Speaker 1: We should really ask Briar about it, because I need
Speaker 1: to tell you Fion. He is on the other line
Speaker 1: right now listening to this call.
Speaker 2: Oh buddy, what yeah Brian there?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: How you doing.
Speaker 4: So littally embarrassed? But I'm okay, okay.
Speaker 7: What do you call it? Radio station Brier? Like, what
Speaker 7: did you think is going to happen?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 4: I was just kind of transfigure out what was going on.
Speaker 4: I mean I tried to reach out to you. You
Speaker 4: always said that you're busy. I mean, what's what's going on?
Speaker 7: I think? Okay, just rule of some future dating. One,
Speaker 7: I'm busy, she might be busy. Four, I'm busy. You
Speaker 7: don't want to see you?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean you told me that you were busy
Speaker 4: three times.
Speaker 7: What does that mean that you would test again?
Speaker 8: Okay, Brian, you just got to put yourself in her shoes, right,
Speaker 8: Like if you were on a date and a woman
Speaker 8: was crying about her ex, you probably wouldn't.
Speaker 2: Feel great about that future with them.
Speaker 4: I mean I was comfortable with her at the end
Speaker 4: of the day, and I don't mind being sensitive, and
Speaker 4: she was sensitive to me, I would be open to
Speaker 4: it as well. I mean, is it wrong that I
Speaker 4: was open to her? Book?
Speaker 2: It just it just comes off as maybe you're not
Speaker 2: over Yeah, you know that's the thing, but maybe you're
Speaker 2: Maybe you were crying because she took all your money, Like,
Speaker 2: was that why you're crying?
Speaker 4: It said, Yeah, well she didn't take all my money,
Speaker 4: she just took some of it.
Speaker 1: Well, that's really generous of her to leave some left
Speaker 1: over for you to date other women.
Speaker 2: Oh man, Fona, Like, how many men have been scammed
Speaker 2: by beautiful women? Oh yeah, thousands, thousands. I mean, all
Speaker 2: you want is for Briar to have learned his lesson, right, Sure?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I do want that for him.
Speaker 1: That's good, and you could help give that to him
Speaker 1: if you agree to go on another date, a date
Speaker 1: that we would pay for.
Speaker 4: I'll promise that I won't cry on the second.
Speaker 7: Date, honestly, But you didn't promise yourself that on the
Speaker 7: thirst date.
Speaker 1: Oh, Keona, do you want to date a guy who's
Speaker 1: bottling his emotions just for you at.
Speaker 6: Least about his actual No, I don't want that either.
Speaker 2: Oh man, you're a confusing woman.
Speaker 7: What did a from lab say? Complicated?
Speaker 1: Okay, so you just want to hook up with him
Speaker 1: once and then move on that? Okay, okay, okay? So
Speaker 1: is that a yes to the hookup?
Speaker 7: Briar? Very kind of you to say that that you
Speaker 7: sound comfortable with me, and you're very sweet.
Speaker 2: But no, Oh my gosh, that's okay.
Speaker 1: Jeez, Briar.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, man, I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 4: I guess I guess I'll go back to crying.
Speaker 8: Don't do that that, Briar.
Speaker 7: Please don't cry again right now.
Speaker 4: I can't guarantee that.
Speaker 1: But he starts, all right, Well, you know what, Brian,
Speaker 1: it's not a date with Fiona, but we'll set you
Speaker 1: and brook ups. You guys can hug and cry into
Speaker 1: each other's arms.
Speaker 2: I'm I'm married, so it's nothing more than that.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well he was. He was in a relationship before too.
Speaker 4: So.
Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, We're.
Speaker 1: Gotting a lot of text into sevent eighty five to
Speaker 1: nine two from the listeners saying Briar is just the
Speaker 1: sweetest man.
Speaker 2: And then are they attaching their venmos so that Briar
Speaker 2: can send them money?
Speaker 1: No, they're not doing that, and nobody's asking to go
Speaker 1: out with him either, but they do like him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the only fans girls like subscribe to me?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Probably. I mean, come on, ladies, a guy who cries
Speaker 1: at the dinner table on a first date after openly
Speaker 1: admitting that he broke up with his last girlfriend to
Speaker 1: date an only fans model. Where's the red flag there?
Speaker 1: I dare you to find it.
Speaker 2: I wish we could break that sentence up a little bit.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like a lot.
Speaker 1: Just there, maybe a few problems there. Yeah all right,
Speaker 1: maybe Briar has some personal stuff he needs to work
Speaker 1: out first before he dives back into the dating pool.
Speaker 2: But I still support men that cry, Alexis, that's right, Hey,
Speaker 2: I just not about your ex on a first.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can even cry while you email the show
Speaker 1: while asking us for help. Oh, if we see tears,
Speaker 1: we will help. Yes, put those crying emojis in your email,
Speaker 1: and we will definitely call that person who's not calling
Speaker 1: you back, and Brook will have your back one hundred percent.
Speaker 2: Let's not just make that a blanket the situation.
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, give us a few details and then we
Speaker 1: can help you out. But go subscribe wherever you get
Speaker 1: your podcasts. We're up at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: We like to shake things up every now and again
Speaker 1: on this show. But no, Brook, for the four hundredth time,
Speaker 1: we're not adding roadkill reviews on the tens.
Speaker 2: Like that.
Speaker 1: We know the mango chutney raccoon tail tastes amazing, especially
Speaker 1: if it's Microwaves.
Speaker 8: I mean, I can say that without not wanting to
Speaker 8: talk more about it.
Speaker 1: Get it. But this time we're shaking things up by
Speaker 1: doing an alternate version of our infamous second datea date.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to hear it to believe it. We're
Speaker 1: doing it. No spoilers. It's coming up.
Speaker 3: Next Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Second date updates.
Speaker 1: When you go on a date with someone and they
Speaker 1: suddenly break off all communication, no reasons given. That's called
Speaker 1: being ghosted, and that's what our second date updates are
Speaker 1: all about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it happens a lot.
Speaker 1: You're just learning the term. Now you're a little behind it,
Speaker 1: or I guess we'd also accept the terms breadcrumbing, orbiting,
Speaker 1: semi orbiting, and getting semi trucked, which is that's what
Speaker 1: happened to me off exit sixteen last Friday, got eighteen
Speaker 1: wheeled within an each.
Speaker 2: Of Real's you were disappointed, though, Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: The happiest I've been in years. But what about the
Speaker 1: people that are past the first or second date but
Speaker 1: not quite into an exclusive relationship yet. Oh, you're like
Speaker 1: in the situationship.
Speaker 2: It's still ghosting though, isn't. It's just like worse right.
Speaker 1: The thing is, we didn't really have an outlet a
Speaker 1: segment on this show to help them with that until today.
Speaker 1: Oh really, because we're about to do our first ever
Speaker 1: twenty second date update for people who've been seeing someone
Speaker 1: for like a month or so and now suddenly it's
Speaker 1: not going well and they need our help. Okay, and
Speaker 1: that's why our listener Brittany emailed saying the guy that
Speaker 1: she's been hanging out with has been acting a little distant.
Speaker 1: She can't figure it out. So Brittany, welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: I know this is a little bit different than our
Speaker 1: second date updates, so let's just start with what's the
Speaker 1: name of the guy? Or you two like in contact
Speaker 1: with each other. Now we're not in contact, Like, what's
Speaker 1: the situation.
Speaker 6: So his name is Mark? Okay, we've been dating for
Speaker 6: about a month and a half. Now we're not living
Speaker 6: with each other.
Speaker 2: It's my god, Yeah, no, we're not that after a
Speaker 2: month and a half, you're.
Speaker 4: Going to move in.
Speaker 6: I'm just letting you know. That's kind of where we are.
Speaker 6: We're not stage to move in at all.
Speaker 1: Girlfriend, then like officially.
Speaker 2: I think, so I just going to tell you haven't
Speaker 2: had the official talk yet?
Speaker 5: Then yeah, right.
Speaker 6: Like I've deleted my dating app, and he says that
Speaker 6: he was not going to be on the dating app either.
Speaker 6: Here's here's how we're going right now. Starting off awesome,
Speaker 6: of course, as most new relationships do. But lately we
Speaker 6: haven't been hanging out as much at night. Like before
Speaker 6: we'd like go on night dates or maybe I'd have
Speaker 6: a little stay over or something like that, and now
Speaker 6: it's not as much at night.
Speaker 1: I mean, doesn't that happen?
Speaker 9: Like after like a month or so, it's like all right,
Speaker 9: now we see each other maybe twice a week instead
Speaker 9: of five days away.
Speaker 2: No, I think usually it goes the opposite. Usually, if
Speaker 2: you're really into something or someone sorry or something, yeah,
Speaker 2: stay the extra club, you end up.
Speaker 1: Spending more time at their place than you do at
Speaker 1: your own place.
Speaker 2: If it's progressing well, Brittany would have been moved in
Speaker 2: by now.
Speaker 1: But that's not happening. He seems to be distancing.
Speaker 6: Himself right Like, I'm just getting these red flags. Like
Speaker 6: we're not at the point where I have his phone passward,
Speaker 6: so I can't really look at what these texts are about.
Speaker 6: But I do notice that he is texting with a
Speaker 6: girl who has the same name as his ex.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, it's a little shady. Have you like brought
Speaker 1: that fact up to him, that you've seen the messages
Speaker 1: coming from someone with his ex's name.
Speaker 6: Well, I haven't said anything because I don't want to
Speaker 6: rock the boat and cause problems because it's so fresh
Speaker 6: and so early in this relationship. I just have been
Speaker 6: getting a feeling that he's like hiding something.
Speaker 1: Man, I mean, how is all of this affecting you,
Speaker 1: like emotionally, Because if it was me and I was
Speaker 1: seeing X text coming in, I would have air tagged
Speaker 1: all of his stuff right now.
Speaker 2: Wait, why are you not just asking him? I don't
Speaker 2: understand to be paranoid without getting an answer.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, yeah, I mean why aren't you doing that?
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm not because I just don't want to
Speaker 6: lose him, because I really like him, and so I
Speaker 6: don't want to create this confrontation in case it's like,
Speaker 6: oh my gosh, my sister's name is the same as.
Speaker 2: My act Okay, I don't think that's probably gonna be
Speaker 2: his sister's names after Yeah, And like.
Speaker 6: Where's the point where we're like, oh my gosh, you
Speaker 6: want a dog? I want a dog. Let's get a
Speaker 6: dog together? Not right now, but like.
Speaker 2: Sounds like we're getting a little quick into this relationship.
Speaker 1: You guys are moving through stages.
Speaker 3: Even when you guys both stop going on dating sites,
Speaker 3: that's another stage towards well.
Speaker 2: You can't ask him a question, but you want to
Speaker 2: live together and get a dog.
Speaker 4: Let.
Speaker 1: I see what she's doing. She's like considering how he
Speaker 1: would take the conversation. He might feel attacked if she's like,
Speaker 1: why am I getting these texts? Why aren't we living
Speaker 1: together yet? Where's our dog?
Speaker 2: Wait?
Speaker 1: Though, I mean where's our doctor?
Speaker 2: That feels a lot more simple than having us intervene.
Speaker 2: What do you want us to do about it?
Speaker 6: I don't know. I just I don't like confrontation and
Speaker 6: I don't want to make things worse and really need
Speaker 6: your help to just figure it out where I don't
Speaker 6: say something stupid to his face. Yeah, okay, I mean
Speaker 6: you are the professionals.
Speaker 1: The professional confrontational people. I'm a professional comedian, lady, I'm
Speaker 1: not here for dating.
Speaker 2: Okay, you may end up getting her here. He just
Speaker 2: sounds like he may not be as interested as Yes.
Speaker 2: I don't say that to be mean, but.
Speaker 6: Bar I mean, that might be hard for me to hear,
Speaker 6: but if he's feeling that way, then I would like
Speaker 6: to hear it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's fair.
Speaker 1: Okay. So, I mean normally when we would do second
Speaker 1: date updates, we're asking about the date when we're talking
Speaker 1: to the person on the other line. This is going
Speaker 1: to be different with a twenty second date update. We're
Speaker 1: going to call him and confront him about the relationship
Speaker 1: issues that he doesn't know that his girlfriend has with
Speaker 1: his back.
Speaker 2: Such a strong word, Okay, that's politely asked.
Speaker 1: Will politely poke his brain and try and get some answers.
Speaker 1: For why he's suddenly becoming more distant in your new relationship.
Speaker 1: When we come back and give you your first ever twenty
Speaker 1: second date update, what folder do we put this in
Speaker 1: on the podcast?
Speaker 2: It's a typo.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's all Lexis's fault. Let me come back right
Speaker 1: after this.
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: If you're just joining us, we're doing our first ever
Speaker 1: twenty second date update with our listener Brittany, who's been
Speaker 1: seeing a guy named Mark for the last like six
Speaker 1: weeks or so, and even though they're not officially labeled
Speaker 1: his boyfriend and girlfriend, they have agreed to get off
Speaker 1: the apps and try to focus more on each other.
Speaker 1: Brittany doesn't really feel like he's been doing that, though,
Speaker 1: especially not lately. He seems to be going out more
Speaker 1: at nights, acting more distant from her, and the really
Speaker 1: big red flag that stood out to her is he's
Speaker 1: been getting text messages from a woman with the same
Speaker 1: name as his ex girlfriend.
Speaker 2: It does not feel like a coincidence everything else.
Speaker 1: Can we give her a benefit? At least she's not
Speaker 1: like it's his X. She's like trying to be optimistic
Speaker 1: because she can't read the text messages because he hasn't
Speaker 1: shared his passing the bottom line, a lot of concerns
Speaker 1: on her side, and she personally hates confrontation doesn't want
Speaker 1: to risk the relationship in that way, so she's asked
Speaker 1: us to step in and try to investigate for.
Speaker 2: Her because the one thing we love is confrontation.
Speaker 1: I know we're trying to keep it light here with you, Brittany,
Speaker 1: but I know you must be going through a lot
Speaker 1: emotionally right now before we make the call.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I'm a little stressed, but I mean I
Speaker 6: gotta find out before we keep going.
Speaker 2: You know, just remember you're like eight weeks into this thing.
Speaker 2: You know, it's not it does feel like a lot,
Speaker 2: but you're gonna look back and be like, oh that
Speaker 2: oh that guy, I forgot about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, actually she's six weeks into it. Let's not like reship.
Speaker 2: Your friends aren't gonna remember this guy marriage. Basically, it's
Speaker 2: not a serious as it feels.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the best way to say it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, for sure. I just I just really like him
Speaker 6: and I'm hoping that it's something light.
Speaker 1: And we hope that too for you, Yes, we do,
Speaker 1: but not for the not for the show drama. So
Speaker 1: let's just see what happens for our very first twenty
Speaker 1: second date update. We're still really doing it. We're branding it.
Speaker 7: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey is this Mark?
Speaker 5: This is Mark?
Speaker 1: Hey man, thanks for picking up the phone. We're actually
Speaker 1: a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Hey Mark, what's up MARKO morning? Sorry, I'm laughing because
Speaker 2: I'm curious how jeff is going to explain why we're
Speaker 2: calling you.
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: What what is this?
Speaker 1: So this is a segment we do for the very
Speaker 1: first time. It's called a twenty second date update. It
Speaker 1: rolls right off the tongue.
Speaker 5: Wait, I'm sorry, what what has happened? I feel like
Speaker 5: I do you guys mean to call me?
Speaker 9: Yes?
Speaker 1: Yes, we've been asked to call you by the woman
Speaker 1: that you're seeing lately, a woman named Brittany.
Speaker 5: Okay, so Brittany called.
Speaker 2: You, guys, Yes, yes, because she really likes you.
Speaker 1: But bottom line is she's noticed some differences. She feels
Speaker 1: like you've been a little bit more distant, going out
Speaker 1: more at nights than you used to.
Speaker 2: Uh huh uh huh okay, yeah, maybe not as interested
Speaker 2: in her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and judging from that response, I can't see why
Speaker 1: she would think that. But uh, there's also a big
Speaker 1: problem that she's noticed with your text messages. She's not
Speaker 1: reading them.
Speaker 2: Because she saw a name pop up on your phone.
Speaker 1: But in a non confrontational type of way. When you
Speaker 1: say the word confrontational, doesn't take it away. Okay, just talent?
Speaker 1: The name?
Speaker 5: Well, I don't know the name, but why doesn't she
Speaker 5: just talk to me about it?
Speaker 2: We asked her the exact same. You would think that
Speaker 2: would be the first step. She is very scared of
Speaker 2: rocking the boats because.
Speaker 1: She really values this relationship, this blossoming potential relationship that
Speaker 1: you two have, and doesn't want to create an issue
Speaker 1: if there isn't one. So is there one?
Speaker 9: I mean, look, there's a couple of things she doesn't now,
Speaker 9: but I don't think it's a big deal.
Speaker 2: Okay, wait, she did say that you guys both deleted
Speaker 2: your dating naps, right, Does that mean that you're only
Speaker 2: seeing her or are you still seeing other people?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: No, no, I'm only seeing her.
Speaker 9: Okay, but I am technically seeing an ex girlfriend.
Speaker 2: What, Scott, I've only seen.
Speaker 1: Her dating You need to explain, dude, it's not romantic.
Speaker 5: It's just I don't have a choice.
Speaker 2: How are you somehow a victim in this?
Speaker 9: You don't have a no, no, no, it's just I
Speaker 9: split custody of our French bulldog, so I have to
Speaker 9: like coordinate with her, like the drop offs every other week.
Speaker 5: That's why. That's all.
Speaker 2: How would she not know that you have a dog
Speaker 2: every other week?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Well, the thing is I don't have actual custody. I
Speaker 5: just have visitation rights.
Speaker 2: What's so late.
Speaker 6: A second? Let me let me clarify.
Speaker 1: So hold on, wait sorry, Brittany. Yeah, yeah, that's Brittany
Speaker 1: that she's on the other line listening to this phone call.
Speaker 2: Suddenly she's really good at confrontation.
Speaker 6: It sounds like, no, I just need a little bit
Speaker 6: of clarification. So what you're saying is that you're ditching
Speaker 6: me to hang out with the dog and your old
Speaker 6: doggy mama. I mean, why wouldn't you tell me this?
Speaker 6: Why have you been hiding this?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Well, I mean I was going to tell you.
Speaker 9: I just I didn't know how to and I didn't
Speaker 9: know if it was like weird or if you think
Speaker 9: it was like normal or weird.
Speaker 2: I just didn't know how to tell you do you
Speaker 2: only have visitation rights at night because it's the night
Speaker 2: that you're not hanging out with Brittany.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's visitation on Wednesday nights, So you're tucking the
Speaker 5: dog in.
Speaker 1: You're not going and see another girls, are you?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 4: No, I'm not.
Speaker 6: I'm not.
Speaker 2: And it isn't inviting you to stay the night on
Speaker 2: Wednesday nights, is she? No?
Speaker 5: No, it's like, I don't even go inside if I
Speaker 5: can avoid it.
Speaker 4: I just go in the backyard with the dog and
Speaker 4: like play for a few hours.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, Like I literally found a chewed up
Speaker 6: tennis ball in your jacket.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like, what is why?
Speaker 8: Oh so it's legit, Like he's okay.
Speaker 2: I mean I'd put my pet before a girl I'm
Speaker 2: at for six weeks.
Speaker 1: I mean well, I mean, Brittany, now that you've heard that,
Speaker 1: how does that make you feel? Does that make you
Speaker 1: feel better about the situation?
Speaker 6: I feel weird because you you lie to me and
Speaker 6: secretly sharing custody of a dog with your ex.
Speaker 5: But I'm sorry I lied.
Speaker 9: But I mean it's just you know, it's hard to
Speaker 9: be a good single dog parent and do what's the
Speaker 9: best interest of my dog son.
Speaker 8: Oh, I think, Brittany, I think you gotta let this
Speaker 8: one slide a little bit.
Speaker 2: It sounds really sweet.
Speaker 9: Yeah, well, I do have to say, I mean, in
Speaker 9: the interest of full disclosure, I actually don't share custody
Speaker 9: of just one.
Speaker 5: I actually share to be two dogs, two different women.
Speaker 1: Geez, what dog is a real confused?
Speaker 2: Do you remember Brittany told us that they were talking
Speaker 2: about getting a dog.
Speaker 6: You gonna say, like, if we got a dog and
Speaker 6: we broke up, you're gonna have three doggy mommies.
Speaker 1: And why we're better with dogs and women, that's for sure.
Speaker 2: I don't know, because he's not getting full custody of
Speaker 2: any dogs the only visitation. Are you just trying to
Speaker 2: be a part time dog owner?
Speaker 5: No, no, I'm just trying to do right by my children,
Speaker 5: my dog's children.
Speaker 6: Like if my life's supposed to be doggy stepmom now, cu.
Speaker 2: I mean it's a French it's kind of cute. That
Speaker 2: is cute.
Speaker 5: I mean, I would love for you to meet at
Speaker 5: least one of them at some.
Speaker 2: Point soon, at some point, you don't want to rush
Speaker 2: introducing your children to a new relationship. That makes sense.
Speaker 1: Don't traumatize those dogs for the rest of their lives.
Speaker 6: I mean, they will end up loving me better than
Speaker 6: their original mom, So I'm.
Speaker 1: Never going to get into a custody battle.
Speaker 6: Like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: This is getting kind of messy now, man, this isn't good.
Speaker 2: Okay to suggest if you guys are going to stay
Speaker 2: in this relationship, let's hold off on getting another dog
Speaker 2: for sure.
Speaker 1: But Brittany, now that the whole situation is laid out,
Speaker 1: you know he's not cheating on you. Do you feel
Speaker 1: better about the situation? Like, where's your head at?
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's good, it's kind of sweet.
Speaker 1: I mean no, it's not a second date update. We're
Speaker 1: not off to send them out again. You guys are
Speaker 1: going to agree to continue data. Why can't we.
Speaker 2: Said about a date?
Speaker 4: Yeah, why can't you send us on a date for
Speaker 4: the dog?
Speaker 1: And then the doggies mom and like there's there's too
Speaker 1: many moving parts in that a dog friendly bar. You
Speaker 1: two can just go to a free dog park together
Speaker 1: and talk things out there.
Speaker 6: Perfect, Maybe the dog mom will let you take the
Speaker 6: dog to.
Speaker 4: A dog's part.
Speaker 9: Oh wow, the X I have to put in a
Speaker 9: request two months ahead of time, so that's gonna be wild.
Speaker 1: Oh well, Okay, well what did you do in that relationship? Well,
Speaker 1: at least we have some clarification. That's what we came
Speaker 1: here to do. So best of luck to the two
Speaker 1: of you in your developing situation.
Speaker 6: Thanks so much, thanks for helping with confrontation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a lot still for a couple that's
Speaker 1: not official. Yeah, drama going on, and we'll come back
Speaker 1: in a few weeks to get our forty second date
Speaker 1: up with you and figure out where you are with
Speaker 1: your dogs and Jeffrey in the morning. Now, for me
Speaker 1: and for I think everybody in the room, that was
Speaker 1: weirdly kind of sweet to hear that. But some people
Speaker 1: might say, though, it's a red flag that the person
Speaker 1: you're dating has multiple doggy mama drama and has already
Speaker 1: suggested adopting a third.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was at sweet with one, and then when we
Speaker 2: got to two, I'm like, dude, what are you doing right?
Speaker 1: I mean, eventually her nights are going to be fully
Speaker 1: booked up visiting all these baby doggies, not to mention
Speaker 1: having to go for their birthdays and their piano recitals.
Speaker 2: And I really think that he has kind of an
Speaker 2: inflated idea of how important he is to the dog.
Speaker 1: Yeah, with his visitations once a week, play once a
Speaker 1: week with it. So if she decides to stick with it,
Speaker 1: it's going to be quite a commitment from her. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure if she really realizes what she's signing up for.
Speaker 2: You, y, I guarantee you they're going to email us
Speaker 2: back in three months and they're going to have a dog,
Speaker 2: and then another six months and then they're gonna be
Speaker 2: broken up. Oh, it's a cycle.
Speaker 8: This man's in a psychle and we didn't even ask
Speaker 8: him about cats, yeah, or grand baby dogs that he
Speaker 8: has to deal with too.
Speaker 2: We got to span new Ya, that's true.
Speaker 1: So what one of things she really needs to be
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