1 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's a thread show, Mike. Yeah, 2 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: all right, Mike, let's talk about this date that you went. 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 1: I was married for waiting by the phone. 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: What happened, Well, we we got set up by a 5 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: mutual friend who said, I think you too, you know, 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 2: you might be good together, so maybe you can go 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 2: get a drink and see what happens. And we do that. 8 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 2: We you know, we went two bars, had a few drinks. 9 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 2: It was a it was a really great time. She 10 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 2: she was very fun to talk to. You know, I 11 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 2: think there was some you know, I think we hit 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 2: it off pretty well. And she then says, hey, what's 13 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 2: you know, the night doesn't need to be over. Do 14 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: you want to go see a movie? Okay, yeah, I'm 15 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: thinking this is great. She wants to, you know, extend 16 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 2: the date here. So so we go see a movie. 17 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 2: I think we both both enjoyed it. And then afterwards, 18 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 2: you know, I was personally I was hoping for more, 19 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 2: but it is, you know, she was just like good night. 20 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: I dropped her off and I said, hey, I had 21 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 2: a really good time. I want to call you. She said, okay, 22 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: And it's in It's like five days and I haven't 23 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 2: heard back from her. You know, I tried calling her 24 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 2: because I definitely want to go out again. I just 25 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 2: haven't heard it from everything. I don't know she's you know, 26 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 2: she's I don't know, she's just playing games with me 27 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: or what's going on? 28 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: Right, But you're kind of annoyed because she said call me, 29 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: and I mean it wasn't even you planned on one 30 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 1: thing and then it became two things, so the day 31 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,839 Speaker 1: even got longer. So she obviously at some point thought 32 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: something good about you. 33 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 2: Definitely definitely, and I just I was getting goodbyes the 34 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 2: whole time. I was like, this is great. This, you know, 35 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: this could be something. 36 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: Mike wants to know what's going on with his lady friend. 37 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: Why she's not calling him for another date after a 38 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: drink and then a movie, an extended date, but yet nothing. 39 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: Hi is this Mary? 40 00:01:59,120 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 3: Yeah? 41 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: Good morning. My name is Fred Iam calling from the 42 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: Fred Show, the morning radio Show. I have to tell 43 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: you that we are on the radio right now. The 44 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: whole crew is here and I wouldn't need your permission 45 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Is it okay if we 46 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: chat for a couple of minutes on the show. Sure, 47 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: you're okay with good All right, I'm calling about a 48 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: date that you went on recently with a guy named Mike. 49 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: Do you remember that? 50 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 3: Yeah? I do. 51 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: You guys went on this date and why you said 52 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,679 Speaker 1: call him and he did and you haven't called him back. 53 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 3: I mean we had a nice time, you know, don't 54 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 3: get me wrong. Like he was he's a friendly guy, 55 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 3: he was good looking. But you know, I just I 56 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 3: just decided that a second date not not going to 57 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 3: happen this time around. 58 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: Well, why did you tell him to call you then? 59 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: I mean, at the end of the day, you could 60 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: have just probably said to him, you know, it's probably 61 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: not going to work out. 62 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 3: I mean I was I think it was just be nice, 63 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 3: like that's what you say at the end of the date. 64 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 3: And then I got home and I like thought about 65 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 3: it to more and I was like, you know what, No, 66 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 3: I'm not talking to this dude. 67 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: I mean, what what was the deciding factor? Like what 68 00:02:58,440 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 1: made you? 69 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but Mike should know why there's not going 70 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 3: to be a second date. I don't really like want 71 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 3: to get into it, you know, I don't want to embarrass. 72 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 1: Him like this, But what did you do? Mike? 73 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: I thought, I did everything right. I mean, I you know, 74 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: I dropped a lot of money on the date, so 75 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 2: you know, I was like complimented her and outdoors open, 76 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 2: I was I thought it was a gentleman. 77 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 1: So what happened? Then? 78 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 3: All right, look, this is this is kind of embarrassing. 79 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 3: But I mean, all right, so we're you're having a 80 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 3: nice time, right, The conversation was great and like he 81 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 3: was cool. But then we go to this movie, right 82 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 3: and whatever, watching a movie and in the middle of this, 83 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 3: I get a text message and I like, look at 84 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 3: my phone. Even they're not really supposed to be in 85 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 3: a movie, but whatever, I love my phone, and it 86 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 3: Mike texting me in the middle of the movie. 87 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: But he's right next to you, so yeah. 88 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's sitting next to me and he's texting me, 89 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 3: and he's he's asked me for a sam in the 90 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 3: middle of the movie. It does not work. Yeah, he 91 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 3: texted this to me. 92 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: You did this, Mike? 93 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: Well, I mean yeah, we were in the batcher of 94 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 2: the theater, and you know, I guess I read the 95 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: situation wrong. 96 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 3: I free, I mean, you even that's not reading this. 97 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 2: Situation, like, I mean, that's that's four play, not four play. 98 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know what you think four play is, 99 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 3: but it is not text message. 100 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: So what I just I'm just talking. 101 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 2: So that's what what's the problem. I mean, this is 102 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 2: you know, you're surprised. Yes, I have a girlfriend in 103 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 2: the past who's been like a lot of sex scene. 104 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 2: I mean, that's kind of what the day and age 105 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 2: is like. 106 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: So going to a movie automatically means yeah. 107 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm just I'm the right guy's. 108 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 3: Texting is like when you know the dude and you're like, hey, yeah, 109 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 3: I indeed, but this is our first date. 110 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: Why did you text her? Why don't you just turn 111 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,679 Speaker 1: to your right or left? 112 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, because then because then she can immediately 113 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: say no, and I think and then that would shut 114 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 2: the whole date down. But that gives her some time. Wow, 115 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 2: I mean I can't respect that. But I was. I 116 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: really liked you and I was open to get a second. 117 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 3: I mean, but look, I'm sorry, is this is how 118 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 3: like you think dating is, Like, that's not that's not 119 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 3: who I am. Like, I'm sorry, but that's not what 120 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 3: I do. 121 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 2: That's the wrong. This is dating. This is what people do. 122 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: I've done some dumb things. I've never done that. I 123 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: think a lot of people would disagree with you, So 124 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 1: there will not be any sort of h He can't 125 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: apologize that, you just see nothing. 126 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 2: If we go on another date, if I ask for 127 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 2: it out loud, would that be better? 128 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 3: Maybe? But I'm sorry I'll not so you if this 129 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 3: is what you think that, if you if this is 130 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 3: how you think the relationship is going to go, then 131 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 3: there's not going to be a second date. 132 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: Man, back to twenty fourteen, I'm so glad we're so 133 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:10,679 Speaker 1: much more woke.