WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Zoo Zaddy 0:00:00.190 --> 0:00:02.380 Thanks for being here on the official Brooke and Jeffrey 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:04.660 second date update podcast. We got a classic for you 0:00:04.720 --> 0:00:07.570 today going into a long holiday weekend, at least here 0:00:07.590 --> 0:00:08.030 in the States. 0:00:08.560 --> 0:00:10.680 Yeah, that's a good point. I don't know if there's 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:12.619 any other countries that do Labor Day. Well, just take 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:15.580 it off and say that you're in. Yeah, there you go. 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:17.860 I listen to an American podcast. We're all taking the 0:00:17.900 --> 0:00:18.180 day off. 0:00:18.220 --> 0:00:21.640 Yeah, exactly. You got Monday off, my friend. Nice job. 0:00:21.739 --> 0:00:22.180 Yeah. 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:24.620 But today we're going to start with, of course, comments. 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:27.260 Yeah, Zed Webb said, I listen in every day at 0:00:27.300 --> 0:00:28.420 work from Australia. 0:00:28.440 --> 0:00:28.780 Cool. 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:31.260 I never listened to podcasts until I came across yours. 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:31.730 What? Keep it up. 0:00:31.740 --> 0:00:34.180 That's awesome. That's really cool. 0:00:34.260 --> 0:00:36.300 Wait, do we play backwards then in Australia? 0:00:36.460 --> 0:00:38.120 Yeah, because it's on the other side of the. 0:00:38.150 --> 0:00:39.560 Yeah, it's like a toilet, right? 0:00:39.590 --> 0:00:40.300 Yep, exactly. 0:00:40.330 --> 0:00:40.790 I knew it. 0:00:40.830 --> 0:00:44.270 Exactly. All right, your classic starts right now. Brooke and 0:00:44.310 --> 0:00:46.750 Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:00:47.870 --> 0:00:50.250 Jose, if you messaged a girl on a dating app, 0:00:50.729 --> 0:00:53.310 how long would you wait for them to respond back 0:00:53.370 --> 0:00:55.870 to you before you decide it's like time to move on? 0:00:55.970 --> 0:00:58.330 Two or three minutes? And then it's like, oh, she 0:00:58.350 --> 0:01:01.510 blew it. Gotta act fast if you want to hop 0:01:01.590 --> 0:01:02.070 on this ride. 0:01:02.190 --> 0:01:04.030 I assume as I'm sending it, I'm not going to 0:01:04.060 --> 0:01:04.670 get a response. 0:01:05.170 --> 0:01:08.360 Oh, you give up instantaneously. 0:01:08.380 --> 0:01:10.539 There's just no hope in you. Yeah, exactly. 0:01:10.580 --> 0:01:12.140 If I get a buzz, I'm like, is there an 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:15.840 error going on right now? Well, that's interesting. It's different 0:01:15.860 --> 0:01:18.240 than one of our listeners who says he didn't hear 0:01:18.300 --> 0:01:22.460 back for three weeks after he sent his first message. 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:27.080 But good things come to those who wait. That's why 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:31.530 I've been keeping Grant on hold for the last 48 minutes. 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:34.009 In order to talk to us. 0:01:34.030 --> 0:01:36.770 Grant, it's finally time. Welcome to the show. 0:01:37.709 --> 0:01:39.350 Hey, guys. What's going on? 0:01:39.610 --> 0:01:42.149 It's Jeffrey's trick on how he gets people to respect him. 0:01:42.890 --> 0:01:43.290 Yes. 0:01:43.350 --> 0:01:44.890 Do you respect me now, Grant? 0:01:46.170 --> 0:01:50.120 Hey, I'm very vulnerable, so be careful with me. Poor Grant. 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:51.940 He's sensitive right now. 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:52.300 All right. 0:01:52.380 --> 0:01:54.700 Now tell us about the woman that you met up 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:55.720 with recently. What's her name? 0:01:56.640 --> 0:02:00.220 Her name is Shannon. She's super cool. She's very sweet. 0:02:00.460 --> 0:02:02.900 She's very funny. Oh, okay. 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:06.100 So sweet she left you waiting for three weeks before 0:02:06.140 --> 0:02:07.300 she responded to your message. 0:02:07.320 --> 0:02:09.140 Yeah, what'd she say after three weeks? 0:02:09.740 --> 0:02:11.899 She said that she had, like, forgotten her account was 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:14.100 even active, so. Oh. 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:17.160 Do you think that was truthful or was that just 0:02:17.210 --> 0:02:19.250 something that women say to throw you off? 0:02:20.330 --> 0:02:21.770 I didn't really think about it that much. 0:02:21.990 --> 0:02:24.210 Is it today's version of, I'd never do this? 0:02:24.330 --> 0:02:24.630 Right. 0:02:24.650 --> 0:02:25.270 You know what I mean? 0:02:25.310 --> 0:02:27.210 Like, oh, I'm on a dating app? 0:02:27.270 --> 0:02:27.790 What? 0:02:27.830 --> 0:02:29.050 When did this happen? 0:02:29.130 --> 0:02:31.790 Hey. Well, I mean, she was really cool. So, like, 0:02:31.950 --> 0:02:34.050 once she was actually messaging me, I was like. 0:02:34.410 --> 0:02:34.769 Who cares? 0:02:34.790 --> 0:02:36.010 It was cool. Yeah, who cares? 0:02:36.430 --> 0:02:37.950 I don't care what happened. 0:02:37.970 --> 0:02:38.550 Typical dude. 0:02:38.690 --> 0:02:40.590 All right. So you guys connected. That's awesome. What'd you 0:02:40.610 --> 0:02:41.130 end up doing? 0:02:41.690 --> 0:02:44.900 Well, she loves animals. And so I suggested we go 0:02:44.910 --> 0:02:47.080 to a zoo. That's pretty cute. 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:48.579 Yeah, that's a great date. 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:49.320 How did that go? 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.820 Well, at first I kind of like instantly regretted it 0:02:52.940 --> 0:02:55.490 because it was a little later in the day and 0:02:55.510 --> 0:02:58.130 there were so many people there. It was super crowded. 0:02:58.169 --> 0:03:00.790 There were kids screaming everywhere. 0:03:00.810 --> 0:03:03.030 It's like being in a Chuck E. Cheese at that point. 0:03:03.050 --> 0:03:03.150 Right. 0:03:03.169 --> 0:03:04.609 There's no alcohol. 0:03:04.710 --> 0:03:05.869 Well, I was about to ask that. 0:03:05.889 --> 0:03:06.370 It's hot. 0:03:06.389 --> 0:03:08.829 Did you guys pre-funk? Because I went to the zoo 0:03:08.889 --> 0:03:10.530 drunk once and it was awesome. 0:03:10.610 --> 0:03:11.270 Oh. 0:03:11.350 --> 0:03:11.690 Alone? 0:03:11.770 --> 0:03:12.690 Yeah. Well, no. 0:03:12.750 --> 0:03:13.450 I was with the folks. 0:03:13.510 --> 0:03:13.850 Yeah. 0:03:14.190 --> 0:03:14.799 Okay, that's a little bad. 0:03:14.810 --> 0:03:16.370 Wait, wait, I think I, I don't remember now. It 0:03:16.389 --> 0:03:17.330 may have been a radio event. 0:03:17.410 --> 0:03:20.030 I just pictured Jose sitting in the otter exhibit just 0:03:20.250 --> 0:03:21.429 talking to him. 0:03:21.450 --> 0:03:22.250 Grant, was that you? 0:03:23.310 --> 0:03:25.570 Kind of. We didn't drink before, but once we got 0:03:25.590 --> 0:03:28.160 there and realized it was like a zoo, ha ha, 0:03:28.180 --> 0:03:32.220 CM funny too. You get it? I like that. I 0:03:32.260 --> 0:03:33.540 was like, why don't we just go to a bar? 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:36.680 And she was like, Well, it just so happens that 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:39.160 I have like those little, you know, those like little 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:40.580 bottles of vodka. 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:44.120 She's got a bar in her purse. I like her. 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:46.880 Is that cool or is that a red flag to you? 0:03:47.380 --> 0:03:50.540 Oh, I loved it. Yeah. So we like just got 0:03:50.580 --> 0:03:52.300 some sodas at the zoo and we made our own 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:53.800 little like cocktails and. 0:03:55.340 --> 0:03:58.070 Cans of the bottles. That's genius. 0:03:58.250 --> 0:04:00.590 You and all the other moms there. Yeah. 0:04:00.870 --> 0:04:04.330 All right. That helped things out. 0:04:05.180 --> 0:04:07.540 Yeah, I mean, it was super chill, and we were laughing, 0:04:07.620 --> 0:04:08.750 and it was just fun. 0:04:08.770 --> 0:04:10.510 That's awesome. 0:04:10.530 --> 0:04:12.190 What's the biggest highlight from the zoo? 0:04:12.210 --> 0:04:16.830 Oh, gosh. Well, she's kind of short, so she'd sit 0:04:16.860 --> 0:04:19.680 on my shoulders if the crowds were too big in 0:04:19.700 --> 0:04:21.200 the way, which was kind of cute. 0:04:21.220 --> 0:04:22.320 You put her on your shoulders? 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:25.980 She wanted to go up there? I mean, we were drunk, so. 0:04:26.779 --> 0:04:28.240 It was like a music festival. 0:04:28.339 --> 0:04:30.469 At what point did you get kicked out of the zoo? 0:04:30.550 --> 0:04:31.850 We didn't get kicked out. 0:04:32.010 --> 0:04:33.170 We didn't. 0:04:33.250 --> 0:04:34.510 We weren't belligerent. 0:04:34.790 --> 0:04:38.510 It's funny. We never asked you if she was a minor. 0:04:38.870 --> 0:04:41.430 We usually don't have to, but maybe it's just safe. 0:04:41.650 --> 0:04:43.350 She's over 18. 0:04:43.350 --> 0:04:46.440 Let's go with over 21. She's drinking. Let's go with 0:04:46.450 --> 0:04:47.650 over 21. She's 15 and she has alcohol. 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:48.880 Just for legal purposes. 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:50.000 She's like 30-something. 0:04:50.020 --> 0:04:50.400 30-something. 0:04:50.460 --> 0:04:51.300 Okay, good. 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:52.039 That's interesting. 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:53.680 And she liked being on the shoulders. 0:04:54.620 --> 0:04:57.480 I mean, I hope so. She did it a few times, so. 0:04:57.620 --> 0:05:00.680 Okay. She's the one that suggested it. 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:02.580 How did you guys leave the zoo? How did it end? 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:07.960 Well, she told me that her favorite animal were the penguins. 0:05:08.140 --> 0:05:11.240 She was in the bathroom, and I snuck into the 0:05:11.620 --> 0:05:13.700 gift shop and I bought her a stuffed penguin. 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:16.219 That's cute, bro. That's a great move. 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:18.300 Yeah, she was super happy. She gave me a kiss. 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:19.599 It was a whole moment. 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:23.440 Okay, so you guys had a penguin moment together. I 0:05:23.460 --> 0:05:23.859 like it. 0:05:25.250 --> 0:05:26.920 I mean, I felt great about the whole thing. And 0:05:27.020 --> 0:05:32.480 then later that night, she posted pictures of us on Instagram, 0:05:32.500 --> 0:05:33.320 like on her story. 0:05:33.339 --> 0:05:36.110 Okay, just the story's not as dramatic as the square. 0:05:36.230 --> 0:05:37.210 Those disappeared. 0:05:37.730 --> 0:05:38.130 I don't know. 0:05:38.170 --> 0:05:40.409 It sounds like she may be trying to make somebody jealous. 0:05:40.670 --> 0:05:41.010 Yeah. 0:05:41.029 --> 0:05:41.970 That's a good point. 0:05:42.089 --> 0:05:45.750 I don't know. And you were okay with the Instagram stuff? 0:05:46.180 --> 0:05:48.700 Yeah, but she deleted them the next day. 0:05:49.230 --> 0:05:51.730 Well, if it's Insta stories, they auto-delete. 0:05:51.810 --> 0:05:55.690 Yeah, they go way after. She deleted them before the 24-hour. 0:05:55.750 --> 0:05:56.670 Like the next morning. 0:05:56.690 --> 0:05:59.870 How many times did you check her account, Grant? 0:06:00.430 --> 0:06:01.950 You don't have to answer that if it's going to 0:06:01.990 --> 0:06:02.870 sound incriminating. 0:06:03.180 --> 0:06:04.660 It sounds like the person she wanted to see it 0:06:04.700 --> 0:06:05.070 saw it. 0:06:05.140 --> 0:06:07.660 Okay, how long has it been since the zoo date happened? 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:08.920 It's been like a week. 0:06:09.500 --> 0:06:10.240 Okay, and nothing? 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:11.520 She's not hitting you up? 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:14.140 Yeah, she's not responding to anything, so. 0:06:15.060 --> 0:06:17.100 Did you reply to her stories when you saw the 0:06:17.140 --> 0:06:18.290 pictures of you and her up there? 0:06:19.339 --> 0:06:22.940 I did the emoji response or whatever. 0:06:22.990 --> 0:06:23.469 That's safe. 0:06:23.510 --> 0:06:24.290 Which emoji? 0:06:24.870 --> 0:06:27.010 Like the heart eyes. Oh, no. 0:06:27.390 --> 0:06:28.550 That's cute. These are good things. 0:06:28.570 --> 0:06:29.270 That's easy. 0:06:29.350 --> 0:06:31.400 But I can see how you go from extreme high, like, wow, 0:06:31.450 --> 0:06:34.010 this girl kissed me, she pulsed me on the story, 0:06:34.070 --> 0:06:36.030 to then immediately she's deleting you. 0:06:36.110 --> 0:06:36.650 That hurts. 0:06:36.810 --> 0:06:37.830 It's a quick relationship. 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:38.779 Yeah, exactly. 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:41.900 It's like a little breakup. But penguins mate for life. 0:06:42.770 --> 0:06:43.320 Oh, that's true. 0:06:43.380 --> 0:06:44.479 Oh, you need to give her a rock. 0:06:44.560 --> 0:06:45.880 Yeah. That's what penguins do, right? 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:47.740 No, that's only when they can't have, that's only when 0:06:47.779 --> 0:06:48.240 they can't wait. 0:06:48.380 --> 0:06:48.680 Okay. 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:50.080 Oh, okay. Sorry. 0:06:50.180 --> 0:06:52.620 We need to trust the penguin expert there. That's the 0:06:52.660 --> 0:06:54.660 wrong message. We're going to come back and we're going 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:56.940 to try to have you and Shannon mate for life 0:06:57.190 --> 0:06:58.909 when we do your second date update. 0:06:59.150 --> 0:07:01.029 Yeah, he even thinks that's a little too intense. 0:07:01.230 --> 0:07:01.590 Oh, okay. 0:07:01.610 --> 0:07:02.810 Let's just go with a second date. 0:07:02.910 --> 0:07:03.530 Yeah. 0:07:03.730 --> 0:07:07.070 Okay. One second date. We'll start with it. Then forever 0:07:07.130 --> 0:07:09.500 in eternity when we do your second date update. 0:07:09.800 --> 0:07:10.080 Next. 0:07:10.300 --> 0:07:12.460 Now, Brooke, hop up on my shoulders. Let's do this. 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:16.300 I would break you. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:16.340 --> 0:07:17.770 Second date update. 0:07:19.090 --> 0:07:19.590 Brooke? 0:07:19.910 --> 0:07:20.350 Yes? 0:07:20.630 --> 0:07:23.610 When was the last time you were on a man's shoulders? 0:07:25.110 --> 0:07:28.690 Was it a Salt-N-Pepa reunion tour? Or when you were 0:07:28.730 --> 0:07:30.560 trying to scale the Capitol building? 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:34.000 Oh, wait, sorry, I forgot. 0:07:34.020 --> 0:07:37.250 The radio station doesn't want us mentioning that because it 0:07:37.290 --> 0:07:40.490 paints everybody in a bad light. Get out of here. 0:07:41.170 --> 0:07:43.110 That's what they were saying to you, but you wouldn't. 0:07:43.330 --> 0:07:45.320 No, he was definitely Shoop, okay? 0:07:45.340 --> 0:07:47.760 Okay, yeah. Sorry, actually, take that last part out in 0:07:47.780 --> 0:07:48.100 the end. 0:07:48.140 --> 0:07:49.580 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:50.820 But that paints us in. 0:07:50.780 --> 0:07:51.280 A bad light. 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:54.390 A good light, though, was shining on Grant during his 0:07:54.470 --> 0:07:55.010 zoo date. 0:07:55.310 --> 0:07:55.750 Yeah. 0:07:55.770 --> 0:07:59.510 Because him and Shannon enjoyed the animals together. a couple drinks, 0:08:00.110 --> 0:08:02.850 and she even got on his shoulders more than once 0:08:02.910 --> 0:08:03.620 throughout the day. 0:08:03.630 --> 0:08:05.400 I think that's so crazy. 0:08:05.660 --> 0:08:07.600 And you know that she liked it, too, because she 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:10.560 posted the photos on her Insta stories later that night 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:14.700 before deleting it before the 24-hour period was up. Yeah, 0:08:14.740 --> 0:08:16.560 that's always a bad sign. That's why I need to 0:08:16.660 --> 0:08:19.210 ask Grant. Do you think that maybe one of her 0:08:19.270 --> 0:08:22.010 friends saw a picture of you on the Insta stories 0:08:22.050 --> 0:08:24.450 and could have been like, ugh, no. 0:08:24.730 --> 0:08:24.950 What? 0:08:24.970 --> 0:08:26.210 Like talk crap about. 0:08:26.030 --> 0:08:26.490 Him or something? 0:08:26.510 --> 0:08:27.930 Yeah, like delete that. That's not good. 0:08:27.970 --> 0:08:28.130 Oh, crap. 0:08:28.790 --> 0:08:30.030 Is that possible. 0:08:29.570 --> 0:08:33.220 Uh no i thought maybe like she posted it when 0:08:33.260 --> 0:08:34.880 she was tipsy and then like the next day i 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:36.380 was like oh maybe that was like a little too 0:08:36.420 --> 0:08:37.620 much yeah but. 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:40.990 You but you replied with hard eyes so she shouldn't 0:08:41.020 --> 0:08:41.900 have felt that way. 0:08:41.730 --> 0:08:43.990 Well maybe that's why she felt that way she's like 0:08:44.130 --> 0:08:46.130 oh god he's already hard eyeing it i'm already but 0:08:46.150 --> 0:08:47.470 wait a minute i was drunk. 0:08:47.309 --> 0:08:49.309 Okay so everybody's way too in their head about this 0:08:49.370 --> 0:08:51.030 insta stories thing is what we're hearing. 0:08:50.990 --> 0:08:53.150 Yeah i i am Okay. 0:08:53.429 --> 0:08:54.459 All right. 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:56.460 All right. Well, we're going to get all the theories 0:08:56.540 --> 0:08:58.099 out of the way and just get right to the 0:08:58.140 --> 0:08:59.580 truth when we call her here in a minute. 0:08:59.600 --> 0:08:59.820 Okay. 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:00.559 You ready to do this? 0:09:01.420 --> 0:09:02.540 I'm ready. Okay. 0:09:02.580 --> 0:09:03.860 Heart eye emoji. 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:04.459 Simple smile. 0:09:04.900 --> 0:09:06.940 So maybe it was his fault. 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:09.150 Let's find out. Here we go. 0:09:15.809 --> 0:09:16.290 Hello? 0:09:17.210 --> 0:09:17.910 Hey, is this Shannon? 0:09:18.730 --> 0:09:18.990 Yes. 0:09:19.690 --> 0:09:23.410 Hey, Shannon. I'm sorry to interrupt your whatever you're doing today. 0:09:23.490 --> 0:09:25.790 But hope you have time to be on the radio 0:09:25.830 --> 0:09:26.890 with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:26.990 --> 0:09:27.929 She could be doing nothing. 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:30.100 Yeah. What's up, Shannon? 0:09:30.960 --> 0:09:31.300 What? 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:32.580 Hi, Shannon. 0:09:32.620 --> 0:09:33.020 Sorry. 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:34.030 We're a radio show. 0:09:34.670 --> 0:09:34.910 What? 0:09:36.030 --> 0:09:38.650 We're a radio show. I don't think she asked like 0:09:38.670 --> 0:09:43.660 she couldn't hear. It's just shocking information. Shannon, yeah, sounds 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:45.500 like you're not on the radio much, but we do 0:09:45.540 --> 0:09:48.240 this all the time where we reach out to people 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:50.319 trying to hook them up to go out on another 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:52.750 date with our listeners after they've been out once before. 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:54.190 Did you follow him, Shannon? 0:09:55.150 --> 0:09:55.610 Yeah. 0:09:55.950 --> 0:09:58.610 Yeah, this is called the second date update. And we 0:09:58.670 --> 0:10:01.380 heard from one of our listeners yesterday. Grant, that you 0:10:01.420 --> 0:10:02.300 two met up at a zoo. 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:04.640 Oh, God. Yeah. 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:07.699 Yeah. Oh, you sound like regretful. 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:08.200 Yeah. 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:10.860 Wasn't it fun? I mean, like his description sounded like 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:12.020 you guys had a great time. 0:10:12.090 --> 0:10:12.640 Yeah. 0:10:13.990 --> 0:10:14.950 Yeah, we did. 0:10:15.110 --> 0:10:16.130 We really did. 0:10:16.250 --> 0:10:17.910 And why is he calling you? 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:23.679 Well, Grant agrees that you guys had an amazing time 0:10:23.940 --> 0:10:26.480 and is wondering why you're not responding to him because 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:28.329 he says it's been a week since you've last talked. 0:10:29.530 --> 0:10:31.110 Right. Okay. 0:10:32.090 --> 0:10:35.170 He's super cool, and we had a great date. I 0:10:35.190 --> 0:10:37.750 can't lie. We had a really, really great date. 0:10:38.309 --> 0:10:38.689 That's good. 0:10:38.710 --> 0:10:42.040 That's good news. So are you planning on getting back 0:10:42.100 --> 0:10:43.580 in touch with him? You just haven't had time? 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:45.349 No, I. 0:10:46.890 --> 0:10:48.790 No, I mean, probably not. 0:10:49.150 --> 0:10:50.020 Uh-oh. 0:10:50.220 --> 0:10:50.300 Aw. 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:52.500 Is it a whole it's not him, it's me thing? 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:56.000 Yeah, it's just I would rather not talk about it, 0:10:56.260 --> 0:10:56.679 you know? 0:10:56.700 --> 0:11:01.270 Okay, but we rather would. And Grant, I think Grant 0:11:01.309 --> 0:11:03.950 deserves to hear at least some sort of reason why. 0:11:03.970 --> 0:11:05.210 Yeah, he's confused. 0:11:05.270 --> 0:11:07.610 You're saying yourself, he's amazing, he's a great time. 0:11:07.630 --> 0:11:12.300 I mean, look, all I can say is that There 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:16.240 is another person that I go out with sometimes. 0:11:16.260 --> 0:11:20.219 Okay. Like sometimes as in like all the time? 0:11:20.679 --> 0:11:25.790 No, no, no. But we have our own situation. Like 0:11:25.850 --> 0:11:28.490 he's a little bit of an older man and he 0:11:28.510 --> 0:11:31.809 looks out for me. And I made a mistake of 0:11:31.910 --> 0:11:36.610 posting a picture of Grant and I on my Instagram story. 0:11:38.870 --> 0:11:40.650 Did you call it a mistake or does this other 0:11:40.690 --> 0:11:41.870 person call it a mistake? 0:11:42.429 --> 0:11:45.449 Well, I mean, he saw it and he was a 0:11:45.510 --> 0:11:49.670 little bit threatened by it, I guess. And normally, I mean, 0:11:49.770 --> 0:11:52.329 it's not a problem for me to date other people. 0:11:52.630 --> 0:11:57.530 But for some reason, there was something about Grant that... You. 0:11:57.530 --> 0:12:00.670 Upset your sugar daddy. Well, I mean, I wasn't going 0:12:00.690 --> 0:12:03.130 to be that blunt. I'm sorry, I just. 0:12:03.390 --> 0:12:06.830 I was going to say, like, is this older person your... 0:12:07.929 --> 0:12:10.150 physically in a relationship with them or is it. 0:12:10.110 --> 0:12:13.670 More of like a financial relationship. 0:12:13.309 --> 0:12:15.930 Yeah i mean that's my own situation it's a i'll 0:12:15.950 --> 0:12:19.050 just say it's a good situation for me and it. 0:12:19.090 --> 0:12:21.430 Doesn't sound like it though because it sounds like you 0:12:21.460 --> 0:12:24.400 can't date who you want to date everybody but him 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:24.900 is that. 0:12:24.820 --> 0:12:29.059 True is that true he controls who you date. 0:12:29.380 --> 0:12:34.000 No he's not controlling whatsoever yeah want to do this 0:12:34.140 --> 0:12:36.420 for myself and what's right for. 0:12:36.300 --> 0:12:40.949 Me and based off of the reaction that i got 0:12:41.030 --> 0:12:44.550 from this other guy i don't want that i don't 0:12:44.570 --> 0:12:47.410 want him feeling that way so i'm making this decision 0:12:48.410 --> 0:12:48.870 and you said. 0:12:48.770 --> 0:12:51.200 That you've been seeing you've seen other guys before he 0:12:51.220 --> 0:12:53.520 doesn't have a problem with it it's just something. 0:12:53.179 --> 0:12:56.170 About grant Yeah, and I have no idea what it is. 0:12:56.350 --> 0:12:58.110 Do you know what it is? It's probably that he 0:12:58.150 --> 0:12:59.860 can tell that you really like Grant. 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:03.380 Or maybe he's just jealous that Grant can carry you 0:13:03.460 --> 0:13:05.760 on his shoulders. He's too old to do it. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:08.420 You can't do that anymore. I got a walker you 0:13:08.450 --> 0:13:09.210 can sit on. 0:13:09.230 --> 0:13:09.730 It's not as fun. 0:13:11.429 --> 0:13:14.330 Listen, I've thought about this already. I've already done my 0:13:14.410 --> 0:13:18.110 processing of it. And like I said, even though I'd 0:13:18.170 --> 0:13:20.880 like to see Grant again, I'm just not in the 0:13:20.910 --> 0:13:23.620 position right now to mess up something else that is 0:13:23.660 --> 0:13:24.740 great in my life. 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:26.660 Well, I know maybe you've had a lot of time 0:13:26.700 --> 0:13:30.770 to process this, but someone who hasn't is Grant. who 0:13:30.970 --> 0:13:33.349 literally just heard about this the moment you said it 0:13:33.410 --> 0:13:36.350 a second ago. He's on the other line right now, 0:13:36.429 --> 0:13:37.270 wanting to talk to you. 0:13:37.290 --> 0:13:39.720 Oh my gosh, I wanted to avoid this. I didn't 0:13:39.740 --> 0:13:40.900 want to hurt his feelings. 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:42.500 Well, we don't know if his feelings are hurt. 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:43.079 Grant? 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:46.540 They are hurt. Oh. Okay. 0:13:46.740 --> 0:13:48.940 Good guess, Shannon. 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:51.479 Well then, Shannon, your read on that was right. Ours 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:53.160 was wrong. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:56.569 Shannon, I'm just, I'm so confused. Like, I didn't expect 0:13:56.610 --> 0:14:00.450 something like this. You're just so, like, cool and pretty 0:14:00.500 --> 0:14:03.849 like I never imagined something like this for you I 0:14:04.370 --> 0:14:05.490 almost don't even believe you. 0:14:06.950 --> 0:14:08.540 Don't believe her she didn't know you were on the 0:14:08.580 --> 0:14:09.540 phone bro. 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:12.040 I mean I'm sure she could have guessed she's not 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:13.700 dumb hey. 0:14:13.059 --> 0:14:16.170 Wait a minute Can I be offended by that? No, 0:14:16.230 --> 0:14:17.190 that was a compliment. 0:14:17.250 --> 0:14:18.150 Oh, okay. Yeah, to her. 0:14:18.230 --> 0:14:20.150 I'm a little dumb, so I don't know. 0:14:20.230 --> 0:14:23.370 It's nice of you to say, I just don't think 0:14:23.430 --> 0:14:25.890 it's the right time for us. It's just not the 0:14:25.910 --> 0:14:26.550 right time. 0:14:26.570 --> 0:14:28.650 So how many years does this guy have left? 0:14:29.830 --> 0:14:31.290 Brooke! 0:14:31.650 --> 0:14:32.730 What's the expiration date? 0:14:32.750 --> 0:14:36.250