1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,079 Speaker 1: This is from Nisha and Seattle. Guys. 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 2: She says, I'm thirty four years old and I was 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: a virgin until I was thirty. 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 1: I've been dating a man. 5 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 3: Oh my dog. 6 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been dating a man for two months. It's okay, 7 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: a good thing? Yeah? 8 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 3: Crazy great? Oh that's a good guy. 9 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 2: Dog yeah yeah, okay yeah. She says she's been dating 10 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: a man for two months and he's been sexting her 11 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: and asking her a lot of sexual type questions. She says, 12 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: I don't know what I like because I've only been 13 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: with one person. Can I be honest with him about this? 14 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: Or is that a turn off? 15 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 3: Now? 16 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 2: This is a really good question from a young lady 17 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: who needs to know. What do you guys think? 18 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 4: I think she should be honest. Well, I mean there's 19 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 4: no sense in lying about it. Just be honest and 20 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 4: telling us. You know where you're staying. You've only been 21 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 4: with one guy, so all this stuff you texted me, 22 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 4: you have no earth the idea what he's talking about. 23 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 4: And to tell you what, Take you a little slow. 24 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 4: Don't send another picture over here. I know I can't 25 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 4: do all it's a lot. Okay, take me slow with 26 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 4: all this? When I when I'm scaring open up my 27 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 4: phone in front of my coworkers. You can't show me 28 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 4: all of this. Slow down a little bit, slow down, 29 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 4: Take me slow. I'm not I'm not one of those. 30 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 4: I ain't. I just got here. I just got to 31 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 4: this kind of party. Okay, take me slow. 32 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: Please, They've only two months, sixty days. 33 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 3: You're staying me. Yeah, too fast, I'm way too fast. 34 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 4: You know. 35 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 5: How about you just tell them, hey, stop talking to 36 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 5: my clothes and just talk to me. 37 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 3: Why don't you get to know me? 38 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 1: All right? 39 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 3: Come on like that? 40 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 5: What I'm doing that? Yeah, let's just talk about what 41 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 5: I like to do, things I'm interested in. That's a 42 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 5: conversation there. 43 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, send a text and did you put yourself in 44 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 4: a hot dog bun? 45 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 3: Do that? Just send me a picture of that? 46 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: Do that too much? 47 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 48 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: Way too much? 49 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 50 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 2: Good advice, guys, really good advice, because this young lady 51 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 2: needs to. 52 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: Know and she wants to know what's really going on. 53 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: All right, we do have done market. You have madejor points, sir. 54 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 3: Move on. 55 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is too much, too soon, too much? 56 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, they've only been dating for two months. Slowing down, okay, 57 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 2: all right, we have time for another one. 58 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 3: Guys. 59 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: This is from Pamela and Lexington. Pamela says, I had 60 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: a date with a man that I've been dating for 61 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 2: six months. He got to my house and said he 62 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 2: had to use the bathroom before we left. Thirty minutes 63 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 2: passed and he was still in the bathroom. I sent 64 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: him a text. Speaking of texting, I sent him a 65 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: text to make sure everything was okay. He told me 66 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: to go get in the car, and he come out 67 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 2: in a few minutes. I refused to refuse to lean, 68 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 2: but I should have because he blew up up my bathroom. 69 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: I mean he blew it out, Okay. 70 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: After that night, after yeah, after that night, I don't 71 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 2: like him like I used to. Is that a crappy 72 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: reason to break up? Is that a crappy reason to 73 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 2: break up? 74 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 4: Wow? 75 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 2: But yeah, what do you guys think? 76 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 3: What a person like me? It's the end. It's oh, 77 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 3: it's a wrap. Yeah. I can't. I can't because I can't. 78 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 3: I can't unsee that or undo that so. 79 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: Or unsmell that. 80 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 3: Well, there you go. I can't. 81 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 4: I can't get past it. Some people get past it. 82 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 4: I can't. And why would you do that? Why would 83 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 4: you go to this lady house. You should have stopped 84 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 4: somewhere before you got that. Why would you do that? 85 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: But he was sick. Maybe he was obviously sick, you know. 86 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, sickness that though you don't know what. 87 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: But if he couldn't find he was just grateful to 88 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: be in her house. 89 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 3: He was looking for a buck. 90 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, he passed five different places coming in her house. 91 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 3: He could have stopped. 92 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: Wow. 93 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, So did you break up with somebody because they 94 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 4: had an upset stump? 95 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that's what she that's what she's acting. 96 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 97 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: Yes, is that a crappy reason to break up with someone? 98 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 3: That's the perfect reason. 99 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yes, she. 100 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 5: Blew my bathroom out. Now every time you see him, 101 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 5: that's what's gonna happen. This more stomach is indigestion is wrong? 102 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: Is everything wrong? You could have just been a one 103 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 1: time thing. Well, you can't go in. 104 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 3: Your bathroom no more. And it's the same to you. 105 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 3: You could, you just you can't. 106 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.