WEBVTT - Harold Varner III

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<v Speaker 1>This is cut to it with Steve Smith Senior at

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<v Speaker 1>production of The Black Effect and I Heart Radio. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Steve Smith Senior and I'm John And this is cut

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<v Speaker 1>to it. Good do, good do. They's getting down to

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<v Speaker 1>do it, good do it. We asked the questions you

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<v Speaker 1>always want to know, but no one ever asked. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>cut to it. You ain't heard them about it? Then

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to let you know. It's all. I love

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<v Speaker 1>that movie, the second one. I like the second one

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<v Speaker 1>better than the first one. I just do. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't really tell you why. I don't like the

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<v Speaker 1>one with Wesley Snips. I like the one with What's

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<v Speaker 1>what's his name? Oh yeah, I didn't like. Yeah. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're back in the studio. Cut to its. Steve Man,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going, Bro's going good? You know, it's going

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<v Speaker 1>real good. I'm I'm excited um for the day because

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<v Speaker 1>we got a really cool guest. But then also, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just how the stars A line man was out playing

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<v Speaker 1>golf the other day, right, So we're playing golf, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm pretty I wouldn't go on the tour and

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<v Speaker 1>say I'm a pretty good golfer because I'm not. Um

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<v Speaker 1>but I can if I hit the bar, if I

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<v Speaker 1>get moving, yeah, if I if I get if I

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<v Speaker 1>get my coat, if I get my driver on it

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<v Speaker 1>and go, I can hit about two range. I just

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<v Speaker 1>smack it, but I gotta slice. I'm trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>rid of so bang. I hit that thing about it

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<v Speaker 1>goes about to fifty. Of course I'm playing that. The

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen and nine is real narrow. So they're they're playing

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<v Speaker 1>right next to each other. Boom, So I veer right.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta slice veers right. So I'm probably a huney

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<v Speaker 1>yards from the green. I'm just on the other hole.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on the ninth hole. I'll tell you when that happens.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got a honey yards to the green, ninth

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<v Speaker 1>on the ninth hole, on the right next to him.

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<v Speaker 1>So I played with um. I don't like playing with

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<v Speaker 1>the standard white ball because I struggle tom to find

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<v Speaker 1>it this early morning. I don't care if his afternoon.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on the struggle bus. So I played. I played

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<v Speaker 1>with a lot of different color balls, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>played with a red one, which is red as my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite color. So I'm playing it. Hit it so it's

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<v Speaker 1>on the other one and playing with my boy Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I'm like, Joe said, I got you all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going over park. I'm going over, and there

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<v Speaker 1>as a gentleman on the ninth hole as well, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on eight team, so I'm interfairing to his game.

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<v Speaker 1>So I take my time and I make sure I

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<v Speaker 1>can go after he hits. I'm looking for this red

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<v Speaker 1>ball on this green, green fairway so it's not hard

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<v Speaker 1>to miss, and I'm like, where's my ball? So I

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<v Speaker 1>go over and then this guy's looking at me very

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<v Speaker 1>in my mind, I'm going, damn, he's gonna want to

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<v Speaker 1>go do this whole like yeah. So I've had guys

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<v Speaker 1>approached me. Hey man, you sign my golf ball whatever, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going on there and I'm like oh and

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<v Speaker 1>he so he as he's going, he goes, hey, did

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<v Speaker 1>you hit a red ball? Yeah? Did you hit the

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<v Speaker 1>red ball? Oh? No? No, So I'm like, okay. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, is this your ball? Yeah? So he

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<v Speaker 1>found it. No, he didn't find my ball. This song

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<v Speaker 1>Ago takes my ball. Oh he stole it. He stolen

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<v Speaker 1>He picked my ball up. He said, red ball. He

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<v Speaker 1>looked up said no. He said, Lord, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>this red callaway ball. You're giving me that I have

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<v Speaker 1>not hit that that I did not purchase, but I'll

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<v Speaker 1>take it right, takes the ball, puts it in his bag.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I approach him, I said, yeah, bro, you

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<v Speaker 1>got my ball. He is now looking at me as

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm going to beat him up, and I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>probably about thirty yards away from So we're like having

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<v Speaker 1>this loud talking this in conversation. He put his ball

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<v Speaker 1>in his bag and he's staring at me pulling my

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<v Speaker 1>ball out of his bag. So he's caught. He's caught

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<v Speaker 1>still in my ball, red handed with the red ball. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and so he goes, hey, did you hit the red ball?

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<v Speaker 1>So my reply to it, what did you did you

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<v Speaker 1>not play with the red ball? Well, here's what makes

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<v Speaker 1>it even classier. Day and't half later, take my boys

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<v Speaker 1>to play golf. They want to hit the driving range. Dad,

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<v Speaker 1>you played without this the other day. Can you all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go pull up? So I got deuced six years old,

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<v Speaker 1>I got Boston years old. Pull up, We part. I

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<v Speaker 1>get out of my car. Guess who is putting his

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<v Speaker 1>bag into his trump red ball thief? Yes, he looks

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<v Speaker 1>at me, singers sticky fingers and I just giggle. He goes, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing? I said, take any balls like me?

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<v Speaker 1>He looked at me, got in his car and Doocey goes,

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<v Speaker 1>is that the guy who took your balls? I said, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>that is him. He goes, he better drive off. Soho,

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<v Speaker 1>who's our guest? We've got Harold Varner. He's a p

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<v Speaker 1>G A tour member since two thousand and sixteen. He's

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<v Speaker 1>a native of Gaston in North Carolina. He went to

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<v Speaker 1>college at East Carolina University and he's a member of

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<v Speaker 1>Brand Jordan's Are you about to take a partner? Get

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<v Speaker 1>ice up segments? So there are random questions. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you have no idea what's coming up? Not one may

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<v Speaker 1>or may not be follow ups, right, and so Smithie

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and give him the first one. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's start one off with an easy one. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>longest flight you've ever taken? Fourteen hours through Australia. How

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<v Speaker 1>was it? I slept for twelve hours, slept through all

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<v Speaker 1>my food, everything? Okay, coach business, first class. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what I was on. What is one item you

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<v Speaker 1>refuse to share? Oh? My putter? I don't like anyone

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<v Speaker 1>touching my gamer putter. That's my thing, Like, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think people put bad omens and stuff. Let me superstitious.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not superstitious. I just if it's the one I'm

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<v Speaker 1>putting with. Like, let me how many putters do you have? Probably? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>but everyone comes and takes them, but they don't mess

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<v Speaker 1>with them one playing with I'm pretty about Okay, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that later. Now, So here's a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you ready listening. I'm loud and cleary. Would you

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<v Speaker 1>rather be a hobbit or an elf for two hours? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Because of the movie Elfie. I would love to run

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<v Speaker 1>around the mall and be a freaking elf, especially a

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<v Speaker 1>black health what's going on? That's a great answer. I

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<v Speaker 1>like that, all right? What is what was in your

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<v Speaker 1>high school locker? I don't know. I didn't my senior year.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't go to it. I'm about the year before.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you were in I forgot my uh my key,

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<v Speaker 1>my little code combination. Yeah, so they can't and cut

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<v Speaker 1>it off and I didn't get it on hold from

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<v Speaker 1>any homework things. No, No, lockers in high school don't

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<v Speaker 1>have chained locks like their generally attached to the locker war.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not a locker you're talking about. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>know you went to school in Gastonia, so that changes.

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<v Speaker 1>You had to buy a five dollar lock and you

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<v Speaker 1>had to code to it and you had to buy

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<v Speaker 1>from Yeah, generally there are it's like combination, the little

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<v Speaker 1>handle to lift it up. Yeah, no, I had like

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<v Speaker 1>a no, but they had to use the cutters get

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<v Speaker 1>them off. I just forgot my combination. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't I leave my books in my car. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>School wasn't my thing. We'll just say because the easy

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<v Speaker 1>answer you donna say easy to you. I hear it coming.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't had nothing books. I made it though, you did?

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<v Speaker 1>You passed with a sixty two. Hey, I got that pass.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all. Yeah, alright, so hey, appreciate you coming on

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<v Speaker 1>to the show. Um, let's let's let's just get into

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<v Speaker 1>it and really, you know, just tell us who Harold

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<v Speaker 1>Larnery is. You know, what's your what was your upbringing? Like? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So I um, I was born in Akron, Ohio. I

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<v Speaker 1>lived there for six years, moved to gaston in North Carolina,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just grew up there and then went to

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<v Speaker 1>East Carolina. Obviously I had had an awesome upbringing. I

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<v Speaker 1>had too awesome parents. Um I grew up playing at

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<v Speaker 1>a local municipal course that it's still around. I think

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of my friends are going to go play

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<v Speaker 1>there today. So it's uh, just super well rounded, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just playing I couldn't play any other sports. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>tall enough, it wasn't big enough. So golf became, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a place for me where I just I could get

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<v Speaker 1>better and I knew I could play in college, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was just kind of a no brainer in that aspect.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I just obviously when you get to college

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<v Speaker 1>and you start getting better, you're like, you're looking at

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<v Speaker 1>the big picture. I want to play against the best

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<v Speaker 1>in the world as many times as I can. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just a fast version. Um. I had a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Bruce Sutter gave me lessons when I turned sixteen,

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<v Speaker 1>so that was my first real lesson. Um So he

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<v Speaker 1>taught me, taught me how to be a professional at

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<v Speaker 1>a early age, but also taught me how to swing

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<v Speaker 1>the golf club. How do how does Harold operate when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to hitting the golf ball? Um So he's

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<v Speaker 1>a great mentor to me. And then when I went

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<v Speaker 1>to school. I had a coach named prest Fall who's

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<v Speaker 1>now at NC State. Um, just awesome, guy. Let's go

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<v Speaker 1>back though, you're talking about sixteen. You know, when you're

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<v Speaker 1>sixteen years old, you see all that stuff. But you

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<v Speaker 1>you were introduced to golf. Yeah what age? Because you're

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<v Speaker 1>twenty nine years old. So born in n Gastonia is

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<v Speaker 1>roughly about twenty three twenty three minutes, so roughly I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's about twenty something miles from the city of Charlotte.

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<v Speaker 1>Was Charlotte. A lot of people think Charlotte is the

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<v Speaker 1>capital of North Carolina, but Raleigh is, which is about

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<v Speaker 1>two and a half three hours to and on how

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<v Speaker 1>fast you're driving all that stuff. Charlotte is not a

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<v Speaker 1>booming city in nineteen ninety. They don't even have a

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<v Speaker 1>professional football team. They don't have a professional baseball team.

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<v Speaker 1>It had to be pretty much a unique situation to

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<v Speaker 1>see a young black man walking on a public golf

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<v Speaker 1>course hungry to learn how to play golf. Yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So my dad when we lived in Ohio, he um,

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<v Speaker 1>he got me the Fisher Price clubs is like a blue,

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<v Speaker 1>little plastic two thing and had the yellow clubs that

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<v Speaker 1>went in and so start off of that when I

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<v Speaker 1>was two, and then when I turned five, I got

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<v Speaker 1>one real golf club. It was a six iron. It

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<v Speaker 1>was cut down. Um, super cool, you know. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I don't really remember it, but I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of just like always had a golf club, always

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<v Speaker 1>just hitting in my grandparents yard they had They lived

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<v Speaker 1>on about sixteen acres, so, um, I was always hitting

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<v Speaker 1>balls over the garden, messing around. And then when we

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<v Speaker 1>moved to Gastonia, Um, they had this local golf course

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<v Speaker 1>called Guests Room and this one. And then my dad

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<v Speaker 1>always played golf, so like I would either hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with my dad go play with him after he played

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<v Speaker 1>with his friends called the Parbusters who are in Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>but they play, they play all around. Um, so that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I really, you know, my dad just just tag

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<v Speaker 1>along with my dad. So when I turned seven, they

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<v Speaker 1>had this, Uh, I mean it was the coolest thing.

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<v Speaker 1>This is how this is why all sports need to

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<v Speaker 1>go towards is from June one until September one, Monday

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<v Speaker 1>through Friday, for a hundred bucks, I could go to

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<v Speaker 1>Guests Room and this one whenever as long as we

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<v Speaker 1>were walking. Yeah, and they had a grill in there.

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<v Speaker 1>So these old men that my dad played with would

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<v Speaker 1>like leave me lunch money, or like my dad would

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<v Speaker 1>give me lunch money, you know. So I just hung

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<v Speaker 1>out of the golf course the whole time. And then

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<v Speaker 1>when I turned turned nine, I played my first tournament

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<v Speaker 1>they had, you know, I just played in a a group

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, yeah, you know whatever. So I

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<v Speaker 1>got a full set of clubs, and so I got

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<v Speaker 1>addicted to it without like my parents pushing me, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like and there were other kids out there,

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<v Speaker 1>so you had a place where you could always like, oh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I know him from there, you know. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>grow up though, because like some of the kids go

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<v Speaker 1>on vacation and stuff, and I would like just go

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<v Speaker 1>play golf, and these old men would I'd be on

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<v Speaker 1>the punt green, but you want to play. I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hell yeah, I want to play. You know, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>So they would let me tag along, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>just I was very spoiled and didn't even know it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like any time that a man, grown man will take

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<v Speaker 1>a kid for that long, for four hours, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>learn something, You're gonna pick up something. And I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know I was receiving that information, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's uh, I was super fortunate. Golf's not that accessible

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I don't think any sport is, to be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you, UM, So that's that's sort of the

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<v Speaker 1>difference I think is accessibility and anything in life. If

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do something, you need to be around

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<v Speaker 1>the person that's either doing that or be able to

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<v Speaker 1>go do it on your own time. And right now

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<v Speaker 1>we don't. I mean, especially during COVID, we don't have

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have that. That's really cool. Yeah, So I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we're struggling with that. Since you bring up the

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<v Speaker 1>race thing, I think we're struggling with that just having

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<v Speaker 1>parents in their lives, you know, or just someone in

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<v Speaker 1>their lives that cares, you know. Um. The most recent

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<v Speaker 1>thing I've seen is, um, I'm guessing everyone's seen The

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<v Speaker 1>Last Dance, you know. Yeah, unbelievable. The coolest part for

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<v Speaker 1>me wasn't I think it was episode eight where Gusts

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<v Speaker 1>comes in there. You know, his dad had died, he's

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<v Speaker 1>won five times, and m J is still looking for

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<v Speaker 1>a mental still looking for someone to be in their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just kinda That's what stuck out to me

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<v Speaker 1>is that if I was if I won five times,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be that male fi, I'd be the male figure,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be the guy. But no, he's still searching, still

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to be better, and still wanting to learn something

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<v Speaker 1>from someone who's been through the you know, been through it,

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, I think that's so cool. Like I still

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<v Speaker 1>ask my dad questions. You know, there's there's that, there's

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<v Speaker 1>that with m J. There was that whole but I

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<v Speaker 1>won't even go back. You mentioned the Parbusters. Tell us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more about that. I mean you not

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<v Speaker 1>only did you have your dad, but you got this

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<v Speaker 1>group of men and what were they African American as well,

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<v Speaker 1>So you got this group with the they probably probably

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<v Speaker 1>having them little nickel bets, a little dollar bets, brainies,

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff. What memories do you have of those,

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<v Speaker 1>not even just from a golf perspective, but what are

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<v Speaker 1>some of the things maybe some of those intangibles or

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<v Speaker 1>some of those things they they instilled in you. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>once again, they gave me play. They would go play,

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<v Speaker 1>so like obviously I get a little bit older, I

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<v Speaker 1>get a little bit better. They would carry me to

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<v Speaker 1>wherever they were playing, so I I'd play for the Carbusters,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like in these team events, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>be on their team and we play, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they would they would get all lit up. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I got old enough, when I got my permit, I

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<v Speaker 1>drive him back home, you know, like where they've be

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<v Speaker 1>in Greenville, South Carolina. You know, they drive me down.

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<v Speaker 1>They'd be so early, i'd be sleep but on the

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<v Speaker 1>way back, I would drive back, you know. And I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really think about it. But ten years later, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>playing the Mini Tours. I'm driving ten hours to play

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<v Speaker 1>a Monday qualifier or something. It was nothing. It was like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I've done this, like you got You got taught by

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<v Speaker 1>the old school folks. So with teaching you, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to play this game, but you got to grind

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<v Speaker 1>it through. You know, write day, I want the championship,

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<v Speaker 1>but not this stuff, the little stuff. But to play

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<v Speaker 1>in the regular season, no rest me. They don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to play. And they were teaching you to get to

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<v Speaker 1>the playoffs and to get to the championship, to get

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<v Speaker 1>the winning parade. You gotta grind it through the regular season.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta play the good teams and the easy teams,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're preparing you for that getting up early. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It was awesome, right, yeah, it was. So they're still rounds.

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<v Speaker 1>They still the guys that that took that I hung

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<v Speaker 1>out with. They're real old out so it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>it's unfortunate sometimes when I like see them because they're

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<v Speaker 1>like they're playing from so far up, you know, they're

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<v Speaker 1>getting old. Like I mean, I know I'm getting old too,

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<v Speaker 1>but like it's weird when like they used to play

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<v Speaker 1>the same teas as me. You know, it's like now

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<v Speaker 1>it's like we're gonna play two teas up. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing with my dad, you know, he's like

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<v Speaker 1>moving up tea boxes. So it's just, uh it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't get to play with them much. But

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<v Speaker 1>something I do every uh every year around Christmas, I

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<v Speaker 1>take all my pro friends are like really good friends

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<v Speaker 1>that play really good golf, and I get the Parbusters

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<v Speaker 1>and one of my friends will play with the Parbusters

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<v Speaker 1>and we do it every year and then we have

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<v Speaker 1>like a little cook out at my parents house afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just super appreciative of them. But like they the

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<v Speaker 1>best part that like I see like real good athletes,

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<v Speaker 1>like real sports like basketball and football. They don't want

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<v Speaker 1>anything in return, you know, they never hey can you

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<v Speaker 1>do this? Can you no? Like perfect example, when I

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<v Speaker 1>come back for the Wells Farga, I don't. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>ever ask for tickets. They're coming you and uh. I

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<v Speaker 1>just hope that every kid has that opportunity to have

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<v Speaker 1>someone that genuinely cares about their well being, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Um So, yeah, you were talking about my upbringing that

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<v Speaker 1>I was When I mean spoiled, I mean it in

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<v Speaker 1>a way that I was full because they always gave

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<v Speaker 1>me an opportunity act just to be able to do

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<v Speaker 1>what I wanted to play golf, Oh you want to

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<v Speaker 1>play down here? Just roll with us, you know whatever

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<v Speaker 1>that might be. Um So, yeah, the Powerbusters are still

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<v Speaker 1>around and and the coolest thing is like if you

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<v Speaker 1>were playing and some white guy wanted to play with us, no,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, like everyone was welcome. You know. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>that's just how I was brought. I used to hate

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<v Speaker 1>it as a kid when my dad did it, but

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<v Speaker 1>we'd go play and I just wanted to fly around

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<v Speaker 1>there and he if if there were two people on

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<v Speaker 1>the pudding green, my dad would inviute him every time

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<v Speaker 1>he still does it to this day. And I when

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<v Speaker 1>I he first started doing as a kid, I was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just play man, come on, and he's like no,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'd meet the people and I still you know

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<v Speaker 1>one guy that I met at the city, he's on

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<v Speaker 1>we called the city or the Muni, but it's called

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<v Speaker 1>the Top of Creek now, but we are. He's now

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<v Speaker 1>on my board and my foundation. Yeah, and he's just

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<v Speaker 1>a really good, really good friend. So it's, uh, it's

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<v Speaker 1>crazy how it comes full circle when you get older. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's that's really who I am. That's like, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been around older people a lot of my life and

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<v Speaker 1>I just either ask questions or they put me in

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<v Speaker 1>position to learn my own lesson. We have to take

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<v Speaker 1>a break and the morning anything, we gotta pay some bills.

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<v Speaker 1>to us wherever you listen to podcasts. I got all

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<v Speaker 1>my answers questions. Um, yeah, I got all my questions answered.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm here for. A brother, cut to a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast dot com. Let's talk ball, the ball that you play,

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<v Speaker 1>the sports as you play. My first question, Bro, I now,

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<v Speaker 1>I see I was watching and I see all these

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<v Speaker 1>guys with this big old black book in their back

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<v Speaker 1>pocket and I and I believe that's the score card.

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<v Speaker 1>And I play golf. I'm not very good, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>But how did God do guys ever cheat on that

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<v Speaker 1>score card? Because when nobody I mean, I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>on camera, but they cut off to your lot? Right Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Do people really cheat? And I'm not saying don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't tell them anybody, But I'm just talking about

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<v Speaker 1>when I played golf with some of my folks right

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<v Speaker 1>at all there's some gray areas. It's just no, that

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<v Speaker 1>was a five, Bro, I counted seven. I drove there

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<v Speaker 1>was a five. I think growing up there there was

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<v Speaker 1>things like that. I think, like in the high school

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<v Speaker 1>golf for people they just want to play so good,

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<v Speaker 1>they wanted they're trying to get college scholarships. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just this number real quick. I just I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and tell you though, I never really pay

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<v Speaker 1>attention to anyone else, So you're not looking at anybody

0:21:37.040 --> 0:21:41.080
<v Speaker 1>else and keeping score on score card. No, that's what.

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<v Speaker 1>But some people correct, I think that. I think your

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<v Speaker 1>job if you're playing with someone is to protect the field.

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<v Speaker 1>I protect myself. I'm focused on my never protected to field.

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<v Speaker 1>On the PGA tour, I'm gonna go with a hard no. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but like growing up, whatever it took, type things like

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<v Speaker 1>your sheet. No, no, you know correct, you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>coming back. Are there any unwritten rules that you have broken? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>before I turned pro um, I'm name dropping. Only cares

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<v Speaker 1>for the US Open in Rockville, Maryland. And behind every

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<v Speaker 1>hole there's a three ft Like say, I'm putting this

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<v Speaker 1>way towards you, but three ft behind the hole, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not supposed to walk behind it. You're not supposed to

0:22:37.960 --> 0:22:40.359
<v Speaker 1>walk in the line. No. No, Like if I'm putting

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<v Speaker 1>towards you and the whole, this is the hole where

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<v Speaker 1>you're standing in, there's three feet where you're not supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to come in, Like I'm not supposed to come behind,

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<v Speaker 1>which is stupid, Like if you make the putt, why

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<v Speaker 1>you're worried about being behind it. So I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about this, and I get pretty fired up, like

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<v Speaker 1>just in general, because like you know, I'm firing under gas.

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<v Speaker 1>We're about to get into the US open as an am.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't ever worry about that. You're walking home long

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<v Speaker 1>as you're not walking in his line straight. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>you thought, yeah, so Frank, like lider, I walked through.

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<v Speaker 1>I just walked through, not even thinking about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I kinda I go down to read my putt and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, he's like, don't ever walk there again, looked

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<v Speaker 1>at me. I was like, instead of being nice, I

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<v Speaker 1>should have just said, yes, sir, I understand that. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that guy that North Carolina. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>look at me. What what you say? So I looked.

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<v Speaker 1>I was been down reading my putt, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you stopped, turned around, looked him in his eye, and

0:23:39.560 --> 0:23:42.360
<v Speaker 1>then you said I just looking. I was like, oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my bad. You want to say you take that somewhere else?

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<v Speaker 1>Like because the only reason he said something because I

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<v Speaker 1>was beating him. It's thirty six holes that day only

0:23:52.960 --> 0:23:55.680
<v Speaker 1>had nine more holes left. Like you know, if I

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<v Speaker 1>par in I get in the US Open, no, no

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<v Speaker 1>question to him. Yeah I was on one. How old

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<v Speaker 1>are you an? I'm twenty years old, right, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>so then I make the putts. So if we pause,

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<v Speaker 1>look at him again, huh did you say I did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong on the next home That's why, this is

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<v Speaker 1>why I did not. That's why they don't let us

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<v Speaker 1>play because see how you act, That's that's how you

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<v Speaker 1>should respond. I don't care what color you are, and

0:24:23.520 --> 0:24:26.040
<v Speaker 1>that's how you should respond. Because if I if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not disappointed that you were beating me, you you're not

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:32.520
<v Speaker 1>good enough. You you didn't excel your game to beat me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was. I was mad and I should have

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<v Speaker 1>just made I made the putt. In golf, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>there's no confrontation. It's very little. If it's conversation, it's

0:24:40.560 --> 0:24:44.560
<v Speaker 1>like big news. So like golfers, So golfers like being married.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of passive aggressive stuff. Yeah, they would rather

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<v Speaker 1>do this. They're mad at you, Hey man, you know,

0:24:48.800 --> 0:24:50.719
<v Speaker 1>why did you do that? But they'll do this right here,

0:24:50.720 --> 0:24:55.320
<v Speaker 1>they'll turn around. Yeah, that's how they operate. That's how

0:24:55.400 --> 0:24:57.640
<v Speaker 1>it works. I'm telling me it's weird. I don't know,

0:24:58.040 --> 0:24:59.840
<v Speaker 1>but it's it is what it is. So the next

0:25:00.000 --> 0:25:03.600
<v Speaker 1>old instead of just being a normal golfer and just

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<v Speaker 1>playing my game, or you have to do it right

0:25:06.119 --> 0:25:08.120
<v Speaker 1>next to the tea box, like right where he could

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<v Speaker 1>see me. I don't play that you don't want Yeah,

0:25:12.119 --> 0:25:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't disrespect me like I didn't. If I would

0:25:14.680 --> 0:25:17.080
<v Speaker 1>have known, if I had known the rule, then we got.

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:19.400
<v Speaker 1>Then we got like you've got a reason to be mad.

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<v Speaker 1>But I didn't know. Man, I'm a kid. I'm I'm

0:25:21.680 --> 0:25:24.119
<v Speaker 1>just trying to beat you, same thing he's trying to

0:25:24.119 --> 0:25:27.439
<v Speaker 1>do to me. So talking about right now gets me

0:25:27.480 --> 0:25:30.879
<v Speaker 1>fired up, just because whenever I get his age, I

0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:34.560
<v Speaker 1>hope I have more respect for human than he had

0:25:34.600 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 1>for me at that time, because that's gonna show like, hey,

0:25:37.800 --> 0:25:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you'll you're a friend, gonna be friends?

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:42.720
<v Speaker 1>O ya. If y'all know, that's that's when you're doing

0:25:42.760 --> 0:25:44.359
<v Speaker 1>the lowest of the low. You're gonna do everything in

0:25:44.359 --> 0:25:47.760
<v Speaker 1>your power to make sure we're gonna be friends. I

0:25:47.760 --> 0:25:50.000
<v Speaker 1>see him all the time. No, I ain't scared to

0:25:50.000 --> 0:25:51.760
<v Speaker 1>talk to anybody, Like, if you got a problem, just

0:25:51.800 --> 0:25:55.800
<v Speaker 1>tell me that he ain't gonna have a problem get

0:25:55.840 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 1>your but you kind of you kind of alluded to

0:26:00.800 --> 0:26:04.639
<v Speaker 1>it though we you know, somebody played football. What is

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<v Speaker 1>the really what is the what is the locker room,

0:26:09.359 --> 0:26:11.199
<v Speaker 1>if you will, of golf? You kind of told us

0:26:11.240 --> 0:26:13.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of what some of those situations how they play out.

0:26:13.480 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 1>But what what is like the locker room feel of

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:20.040
<v Speaker 1>golf amongst amongst the PGA tour athletes. Can I ask

0:26:20.080 --> 0:26:23.160
<v Speaker 1>the question absolutely what is your thought on the locker room?

0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:25.000
<v Speaker 1>And I have no idea. That's literally what we ask. Oh,

0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:28.560
<v Speaker 1>it's just like it ain't like y'all locker room at all.

0:26:29.080 --> 0:26:31.840
<v Speaker 1>It's like, all right, I played golf today, I'm I'm

0:26:32.000 --> 0:26:34.679
<v Speaker 1>either shower, I stay out of the locker room. It

0:26:34.720 --> 0:26:37.399
<v Speaker 1>ain't my it ain't my thing. Man. You don't go

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:40.520
<v Speaker 1>in there and like hang out. So you've been walking

0:26:40.560 --> 0:26:43.320
<v Speaker 1>on the course for X amount of hours, so you

0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:46.320
<v Speaker 1>just stank after that, you just go go home, go

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.240
<v Speaker 1>to my hotel and shower. I don't need to shower

0:26:48.280 --> 0:26:53.040
<v Speaker 1>with anybody. I'm not saying shower. I'm just saying scrubbing yourself.

0:26:53.119 --> 0:26:57.600
<v Speaker 1>Like I've walked the course, you smell like. But that's

0:26:57.640 --> 0:27:04.360
<v Speaker 1>what worse. So I got to answer the locker room, yes,

0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:07.919
<v Speaker 1>I'll try to bring you back, like I know. So

0:27:08.000 --> 0:27:11.320
<v Speaker 1>it's very just like since COVID, whoever is in there

0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:13.720
<v Speaker 1>has tested. So they came in there and they took

0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:17.040
<v Speaker 1>all the caddies, all the caddies tables, you got it.

0:27:17.119 --> 0:27:18.840
<v Speaker 1>They had to eat outside. They tried to do it

0:27:18.880 --> 0:27:21.160
<v Speaker 1>to the players. So what they did is they made

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:23.960
<v Speaker 1>a little table next to all our lockers, and that's

0:27:24.000 --> 0:27:26.320
<v Speaker 1>where you had to eat. You couldn't eat in the open.

0:27:27.119 --> 0:27:29.680
<v Speaker 1>It was like something out of a movie. It was like,

0:27:30.119 --> 0:27:31.720
<v Speaker 1>all right, man, can't get some food. You just go

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:34.240
<v Speaker 1>to your locker and you eat. So the locker room

0:27:34.320 --> 0:27:37.520
<v Speaker 1>is very uh so you say professional, you said, you're

0:27:37.600 --> 0:27:40.359
<v Speaker 1>just going to Your interactions with other golfers are mainly

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:43.400
<v Speaker 1>just surface level on the locker room to talk to anybody,

0:27:43.480 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 1>all right, Like it ain't cool like that. It ain't.

0:27:45.840 --> 0:27:49.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it is. I don't because I don't talk,

0:27:49.080 --> 0:27:52.160
<v Speaker 1>and no one talks, like no one really talks because

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:54.360
<v Speaker 1>they're all and then their own thing. It's like having

0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:58.359
<v Speaker 1>a hundred fifty teams every every week, a hundred fifty

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:02.640
<v Speaker 1>lllc's basically they're all independent contractor correct. So like they're

0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:05.080
<v Speaker 1>going there and they're just like, hey man, how's it

0:28:05.119 --> 0:28:08.600
<v Speaker 1>going alright? Good? How did you play? All right? Change

0:28:08.600 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>his shoes? Guy watches him, he puts them there overnight,

0:28:11.600 --> 0:28:14.080
<v Speaker 1>You come and get him the next day. It's it's

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:18.119
<v Speaker 1>it's weird, stuffy, it's weird. If you grew up in

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:22.840
<v Speaker 1>a place where you say hello to everyone, you socialize,

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:26.240
<v Speaker 1>how's your how's your life doing? Like, how are your kids?

0:28:26.280 --> 0:28:29.520
<v Speaker 1>What are you about? But I will say the PGA

0:28:29.600 --> 0:28:32.000
<v Speaker 1>Tour is a family whenever thing hits the fan, like

0:28:32.200 --> 0:28:36.160
<v Speaker 1>camilovi Jak has just lost his uh, his daughter from

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:38.480
<v Speaker 1>brain cancer. So it's just kind of that's when it

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:41.760
<v Speaker 1>hits home, like it's uh, those guys will do perfect

0:28:41.760 --> 0:28:46.240
<v Speaker 1>example VJ when Tucker when this guy's son, who's instructor,

0:28:46.400 --> 0:28:49.320
<v Speaker 1>when his son almost died. VJ called him. He said,

0:28:49.320 --> 0:28:51.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll get the plane wherever he is. I go get

0:28:51.760 --> 0:28:53.800
<v Speaker 1>him where's it, wherever he needs to go. So like

0:28:53.840 --> 0:28:58.120
<v Speaker 1>in that aspect, the PGA tours unbelievable. They would. I mean,

0:28:59.400 --> 0:29:01.040
<v Speaker 1>just to think of out there, calm like, hey man,

0:29:01.360 --> 0:29:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I'll take care of it, don't worry about it. That's

0:29:03.160 --> 0:29:05.760
<v Speaker 1>I think that's really cool. But when you're on a

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:08.600
<v Speaker 1>good day, you just go in there. Your stuff is

0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:11.640
<v Speaker 1>in there, like your golf balls, so you and your shoes.

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:14.640
<v Speaker 1>You know, that's about it. You talked about you have

0:29:14.760 --> 0:29:18.760
<v Speaker 1>to drive yourself when the when when the Carbusters would

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:21.080
<v Speaker 1>you pick their pick you up early and when you

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 1>got older you would drop them off or drive them.

0:29:24.800 --> 0:29:33.320
<v Speaker 1>How this transportation transportation? Um, you know, living in living situations,

0:29:33.440 --> 0:29:39.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, hotel, Airbnb, insures like all of those things. Yeah, alright, so, um,

0:29:39.320 --> 0:29:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I'll probably spend thirty dollars and flying I don't I

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 1>don't fly private that much. I might fly here, and

0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:54.360
<v Speaker 1>they're just not there in my life yet. But we

0:29:54.400 --> 0:29:58.200
<v Speaker 1>have an unbelievable retirement program. If you're you're fully invested

0:29:58.240 --> 0:30:01.000
<v Speaker 1>after five years on tour, If you years within ten years,

0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 1>you're fully invested. So it's uh so my fully investment

0:30:04.720 --> 0:30:07.880
<v Speaker 1>invested tournament was last week. So I got the email

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:12.680
<v Speaker 1>super you know, so you're talking about my story. So

0:30:12.840 --> 0:30:15.440
<v Speaker 1>when I got on tour, I knew nothing about I

0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:18.400
<v Speaker 1>knew about retirement, but how it really works, you know,

0:30:18.440 --> 0:30:24.640
<v Speaker 1>like obviously you're gonna correct. So I and I also

0:30:24.680 --> 0:30:26.719
<v Speaker 1>wanted to know how does a tour run? So I

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 1>ended up signing up for the Player Advisory Council. I

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:32.040
<v Speaker 1>want to know what these board members talk about, because

0:30:32.560 --> 0:30:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I knew down the road one day I was gonna

0:30:34.120 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 1>have a foundation and what what is my board going

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:38.800
<v Speaker 1>to be about? Who's gonna be on my board and

0:30:38.800 --> 0:30:40.760
<v Speaker 1>how I want to aligne that. So I got on

0:30:40.880 --> 0:30:43.239
<v Speaker 1>there and I saw some of the questions. You know

0:30:43.280 --> 0:30:46.240
<v Speaker 1>that we're on there, and it's there. My new there's

0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:48.320
<v Speaker 1>this year I was on there. I wish I was

0:30:48.360 --> 0:30:51.800
<v Speaker 1>not on there this year. Um. I really wish Jay

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Monahan would have taken a more dictatorship because there weren't

0:30:55.080 --> 0:30:58.320
<v Speaker 1>that many options with the COVID. It was like, hey,

0:30:58.360 --> 0:31:01.320
<v Speaker 1>this is what needs to happen, we need to play,

0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:04.440
<v Speaker 1>but they kept us on there. We probably had five

0:31:04.520 --> 0:31:07.400
<v Speaker 1>calls during COVID. I mean they were all like hour

0:31:07.440 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 1>and a half to two hours, and you know, I

0:31:09.440 --> 0:31:13.000
<v Speaker 1>learned a lot. So I'm on this thing and then

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:16.000
<v Speaker 1>we start learning like why it is important to be

0:31:16.080 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 1>fully invested, you know, like if you're not fully invested,

0:31:18.240 --> 0:31:20.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't get you don't get the money, like because

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:22.880
<v Speaker 1>you see the money adding up, like you, but I

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:24.720
<v Speaker 1>didn't know you. You don't get it if you don't

0:31:24.720 --> 0:31:28.400
<v Speaker 1>play five years. So like it's very uh, it's very

0:31:28.440 --> 0:31:32.360
<v Speaker 1>eye opening. But it's uh, what's eye opening that you

0:31:32.360 --> 0:31:34.479
<v Speaker 1>don't get the money? If I mean there's there's cases

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:38.680
<v Speaker 1>where players have needed one more event and didn't get

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:43.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's, uh, it's good and bad. I think

0:31:43.480 --> 0:31:45.840
<v Speaker 1>it's a I think if you're good at golf, you're

0:31:45.840 --> 0:31:48.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna play your five years period, you know, as simple

0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 1>as that. So it's not like you didn't have the

0:31:50.720 --> 0:31:52.960
<v Speaker 1>chance to and they give you a window of Hey,

0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:55.600
<v Speaker 1>if you lose your card after three years and then

0:31:55.680 --> 0:31:57.840
<v Speaker 1>you come back in two years and play for three months,

0:31:59.360 --> 0:32:01.480
<v Speaker 1>what's already in there? So it's a was a tough

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:04.960
<v Speaker 1>sport it is. It's just it can be lonely. I

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 1>don't mind it. I was gonna ask you. You mentioned

0:32:07.320 --> 0:32:09.920
<v Speaker 1>how almost transaction it was. Where do you find your

0:32:09.920 --> 0:32:15.239
<v Speaker 1>camaraderie there? I just about two years ago, I just

0:32:15.280 --> 0:32:18.400
<v Speaker 1>really looked myself in the mirror and I was like,

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.600
<v Speaker 1>what what do I want to do? Because like the

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:23.480
<v Speaker 1>goal has always been to get to the PGA Tour,

0:32:23.600 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, like you know we're talking before this thing.

0:32:26.280 --> 0:32:28.239
<v Speaker 1>I almost lost my job, Like I finished like one

0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:33.440
<v Speaker 1>and the FedEx And it was just a huge wake

0:32:33.480 --> 0:32:35.240
<v Speaker 1>up call because the year before my rookie year, I

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:37.160
<v Speaker 1>just came out there fine. You know, I had four

0:32:37.240 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 1>top tens. It was easy. It was like I'm gonna

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 1>be here forever. Then the next year, almost lost my card,

0:32:42.800 --> 0:32:46.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, and you you would understand when life really

0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 1>starts happening. My soon to be wife, she lost her

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:51.320
<v Speaker 1>brother that year. It was just kind of like a

0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:53.480
<v Speaker 1>it was a weird year. I had my only professional

0:32:53.480 --> 0:32:57.320
<v Speaker 1>win that year. Then I she lost her brother. You know,

0:32:57.360 --> 0:32:59.440
<v Speaker 1>like you got you gotta keep playing, you gotta you

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:02.160
<v Speaker 1>gotta find the way. So like it was, the world

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 1>continues to rotate even though like you're going through. So

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 1>it taught me a lot to like, it's a business.

0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:13.600
<v Speaker 1>This is if you want to make it a business

0:33:13.600 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 1>and you want to be good, you got to choose

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:18.160
<v Speaker 1>that like that that requires sacrifices. Like, man, I love

0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:20.480
<v Speaker 1>having a good time. That's that's important to me, having

0:33:20.480 --> 0:33:22.520
<v Speaker 1>a good time. But playing well will give you the

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:26.320
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to have a good time, like and finding that direction.

0:33:26.320 --> 0:33:27.720
<v Speaker 1>So I just looked myself in the mirror and I

0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 1>was like, what what do I want to do? And

0:33:29.800 --> 0:33:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I have two really good friends who I really just

0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:35.600
<v Speaker 1>asked these questions to, like what do you think? And

0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 1>then it got to the point where I started dictating.

0:33:38.920 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 1>You know, I could tell the different tone and how

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I Hey, this is what I want to do. Correct

0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:47.360
<v Speaker 1>And I think you have to in golf. You can

0:33:47.360 --> 0:33:50.320
<v Speaker 1>play good golf and get away with not choosing that,

0:33:50.440 --> 0:33:53.120
<v Speaker 1>not deciding what you want. But it sounds like you

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.560
<v Speaker 1>can't because if you are not tightened up, and you

0:33:56.600 --> 0:34:00.760
<v Speaker 1>don't because you you you said you came in as

0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:07.000
<v Speaker 1>a rookie, I'll play here forever, but you're you're shooting

0:34:07.040 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 1>be wife, fiance, your girl lost her brother. However, you

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 1>still committed to getting up and putting on the golf

0:34:15.680 --> 0:34:18.680
<v Speaker 1>shoes and putting the bag over your shoulder and practices it.

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:24.839
<v Speaker 1>But yet between everything that transpired and you actually going

0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:28.480
<v Speaker 1>out there and putting it together, there was something obviously missing.

0:34:28.560 --> 0:34:30.719
<v Speaker 1>There was a gap. Did you figure out what that

0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:36.200
<v Speaker 1>gap is? Because I understand you can get distracted, but

0:34:36.320 --> 0:34:40.040
<v Speaker 1>almost losing your card that means you didn't just lose

0:34:40.200 --> 0:34:45.800
<v Speaker 1>one or two, you know, opportunities you I mean, what

0:34:45.800 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 1>what's the whole season? Where you just kind of were

0:34:47.680 --> 0:34:49.719
<v Speaker 1>like out of it. You're like, so, but you guys,

0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 1>what's the whole season? How many golf tournaments or how

0:34:53.120 --> 0:34:57.480
<v Speaker 1>many matches golf tournaments? How many of the on the

0:34:57.520 --> 0:35:00.600
<v Speaker 1>whole year? But so you know whether you're there's some

0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:03.319
<v Speaker 1>that are on the same week, Like they'll have a

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 1>w g C and then they'll have an opposite field

0:35:05.600 --> 0:35:09.360
<v Speaker 1>event with less FedEx cut points, so like a major

0:35:09.440 --> 0:35:13.120
<v Speaker 1>and a less major. Yeah, basically so they So I'm

0:35:13.160 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna play anywhere from twenty five to thirty two events.

0:35:18.400 --> 0:35:22.520
<v Speaker 1>So so five to thirty two events, forty eight count

0:35:22.560 --> 0:35:26.120
<v Speaker 1>towards your card. No, only the ones you play count. Yeah,

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:30.640
<v Speaker 1>but I'm saying opportunities and then you might not be

0:35:30.760 --> 0:35:33.720
<v Speaker 1>qualified for some of them, so that takes some away.

0:35:33.760 --> 0:35:37.560
<v Speaker 1>But I'm I'm gonna play five to thirty two events.

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I know this, Maybe it sound harsh. So you shipped

0:35:40.080 --> 0:35:46.080
<v Speaker 1>the bed about thirty two matches? Yeah, no, not thirty

0:35:46.080 --> 0:35:48.520
<v Speaker 1>two because I won that year in Australia, but it

0:35:48.560 --> 0:35:52.279
<v Speaker 1>didn't go towards How many beds did you ship enough

0:35:52.640 --> 0:35:55.920
<v Speaker 1>enough to wear? I didn't. I couldn't on the last well,

0:35:56.040 --> 0:35:59.040
<v Speaker 1>The reason I'm asking is because the I see it

0:36:00.040 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 1>now that I'm done. You hear the Monday Morning Couch

0:36:03.680 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Potatoes talking about quarterback, you know, Monday Morning running back,

0:36:07.560 --> 0:36:11.560
<v Speaker 1>the Monday Morning Linemen right talking about calling the local

0:36:11.680 --> 0:36:18.160
<v Speaker 1>radio leaving comments and talking about everybody. And I imagine

0:36:18.200 --> 0:36:23.480
<v Speaker 1>that you have the same avid fanatics fans doing the

0:36:23.520 --> 0:36:27.200
<v Speaker 1>exact same thing watching Good Morning Golf for the Golf

0:36:27.280 --> 0:36:29.680
<v Speaker 1>channel like I do. And sometimes and and I sit

0:36:29.719 --> 0:36:32.960
<v Speaker 1>there and I go, I I love to play around

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:36.080
<v Speaker 1>the golf as the last guy on the tour, like

0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:38.120
<v Speaker 1>if I played as bad as the last guy on

0:36:38.160 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 1>the tour. But you know, I mean, people, how much

0:36:40.280 --> 0:36:48.600
<v Speaker 1>money I'll take that bad shot? A tiger's awful day.

0:36:49.120 --> 0:36:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I would give my left arm to have his birthday,

0:36:52.239 --> 0:36:56.640
<v Speaker 1>to have his worst day ever. Pretty much. Yes. And

0:36:57.600 --> 0:37:02.359
<v Speaker 1>because I'm just imagining all of what you exce, you know,

0:37:02.480 --> 0:37:06.960
<v Speaker 1>you experience. It has to have it has to be

0:37:07.000 --> 0:37:10.719
<v Speaker 1>a mental breakdown or a mental thing that you go

0:37:10.840 --> 0:37:15.160
<v Speaker 1>through every single day. You got forty nine opportunities and

0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:19.640
<v Speaker 1>pretty much twenty nine seven them you struggle through correct

0:37:21.480 --> 0:37:25.040
<v Speaker 1>to keep your focus daily reminder of focus. Um, I

0:37:25.080 --> 0:37:26.960
<v Speaker 1>took on a lot as well, like I wanted in

0:37:27.040 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 1>Australia that December, so it gave me European Tour status,

0:37:30.480 --> 0:37:33.680
<v Speaker 1>which was really good. Why is that important European stylish?

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:36.200
<v Speaker 1>So you could you could you could run the tables

0:37:36.400 --> 0:37:38.719
<v Speaker 1>and make your world ranking go up if you play

0:37:38.800 --> 0:37:41.320
<v Speaker 1>some of the European events and play over there to

0:37:41.440 --> 0:37:45.640
<v Speaker 1>have hold on the pool. So you kind of like, yeah, hey,

0:37:45.880 --> 0:37:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I want to go play in the UK. Cool, all right?

0:37:48.680 --> 0:37:51.160
<v Speaker 1>The world ranking is way better over there that way

0:37:51.280 --> 0:37:53.960
<v Speaker 1>than it is in America. So I tried to I

0:37:54.000 --> 0:37:55.920
<v Speaker 1>just tried to do it all. I'm damn I can

0:37:55.960 --> 0:37:57.799
<v Speaker 1>do it, you know, That's what I'm thinking in my head.

0:37:57.840 --> 0:38:00.120
<v Speaker 1>But like life comes at you fast, just when you

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 1>think you can do anything, you gotta be you gotta

0:38:02.560 --> 0:38:04.680
<v Speaker 1>stay true to the fundamentals and where you want to go,

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 1>but you gotta make a choice. You got so all

0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:11.359
<v Speaker 1>right that happened. And then once I started playing well,

0:38:11.400 --> 0:38:13.439
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm gonna find a way to where

0:38:13.480 --> 0:38:15.279
<v Speaker 1>I can do this all the time, Like I can

0:38:15.320 --> 0:38:17.800
<v Speaker 1>I can manage to be like I'm gonna I'm coming

0:38:17.800 --> 0:38:20.040
<v Speaker 1>here to win the tournament. Sometimes you just go through

0:38:20.040 --> 0:38:22.560
<v Speaker 1>the motions. You're just like man I'm here this week,

0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:26.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm playing. Okay, let's hope something good happened. You think

0:38:26.080 --> 0:38:27.640
<v Speaker 1>Tiger goes up to a turn and I hope something

0:38:27.680 --> 0:38:30.799
<v Speaker 1>good happens. I don't. I don't think so. But I'm

0:38:30.840 --> 0:38:35.200
<v Speaker 1>not perfect, so you don't. But y'all perfect example, you

0:38:35.280 --> 0:38:38.719
<v Speaker 1>gotta go past just being on the PGA Tour, Like, no, man,

0:38:38.800 --> 0:38:40.719
<v Speaker 1>we were on the tour because that's where I wanted

0:38:40.719 --> 0:38:42.719
<v Speaker 1>to go. But now you gotta shoot a little bit higher,

0:38:42.800 --> 0:38:44.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, like, how do we how do we get

0:38:44.239 --> 0:38:47.280
<v Speaker 1>on the schedule where like, oh, we're gonna play twenty

0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:49.359
<v Speaker 1>events this year, we're gonna play all the majors, all

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:51.879
<v Speaker 1>the w g c's, and we're gonna have a chance

0:38:51.920 --> 0:38:55.080
<v Speaker 1>to win them. And I started like, every about two

0:38:55.200 --> 0:38:56.960
<v Speaker 1>or three months, I get in contention. I played in

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:58.759
<v Speaker 1>the last group of the p g A and I

0:38:58.840 --> 0:39:02.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't play well, you know, like just just kept getting

0:39:02.080 --> 0:39:05.279
<v Speaker 1>closer having chances to win. And then I will say, though,

0:39:05.560 --> 0:39:09.440
<v Speaker 1>there is no greater feeling than having a chance to

0:39:09.480 --> 0:39:13.600
<v Speaker 1>win a tournament. I unbelievable. What's that feeling when you're

0:39:13.600 --> 0:39:16.719
<v Speaker 1>locked in? How does that feel when you're locked in?

0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Is unbelievable? But doing it when everyone's watching, everyone's cheering.

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:25.200
<v Speaker 1>It's like, I just man that it's so much fun.

0:39:26.280 --> 0:39:29.880
<v Speaker 1>I've caught passes in front of seventy thousand. You go

0:39:30.000 --> 0:39:33.560
<v Speaker 1>to a golf tournament, somebody flicks a picture and the

0:39:33.600 --> 0:39:39.440
<v Speaker 1>shutters working. I've seen golfers go bowl listed great question,

0:39:39.960 --> 0:39:43.080
<v Speaker 1>it's terrible. How are you guys unable to focus to

0:39:43.200 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 1>hit that ball? When I get you gotta catch it

0:39:45.640 --> 0:39:48.200
<v Speaker 1>from the seventy thousand people know? How about you gotta

0:39:48.360 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 1>you gotta catch it? And you know, Luke kick Ley,

0:39:50.840 --> 0:39:55.520
<v Speaker 1>it's about all you got. All you gotta worry about

0:39:55.640 --> 0:40:00.960
<v Speaker 1>is a squirrel thinking your ball? Is it not? Yeah,

0:40:01.040 --> 0:40:08.640
<v Speaker 1>y'all can't get it? How y'all just can't perform? I

0:40:08.680 --> 0:40:10.839
<v Speaker 1>will say. The only thing that gets me is when

0:40:10.840 --> 0:40:13.480
<v Speaker 1>people walk behind the pen, like if I'm like a

0:40:13.560 --> 0:40:16.400
<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty yards out, sometimes the volunteer will be

0:40:17.239 --> 0:40:21.840
<v Speaker 1>put the hands. As long as you ain't for me,

0:40:21.880 --> 0:40:23.360
<v Speaker 1>as long as you are not in front of the

0:40:23.360 --> 0:40:26.719
<v Speaker 1>golf ball, that's a great yeah, because I mean the

0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:30.200
<v Speaker 1>alternative you get bothered as long as you you're not

0:40:30.280 --> 0:40:32.960
<v Speaker 1>where I think you might get hurt. I'm hitting, so

0:40:33.160 --> 0:40:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I do think it's uh. Sometimes it's embarrassing because like

0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:41.760
<v Speaker 1>pros will be like, oh, yeah, we play a sport,

0:40:41.800 --> 0:40:44.480
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no, man, we play golf, like if

0:40:44.480 --> 0:40:45.960
<v Speaker 1>we play the real sport, and I don't think it's

0:40:45.960 --> 0:40:49.279
<v Speaker 1>a sport, not to the degree where like you have

0:40:49.360 --> 0:40:51.759
<v Speaker 1>to be you gotta be mentally tough in a way

0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:54.799
<v Speaker 1>where like, oh man, I can play eighteen holes, but

0:40:55.120 --> 0:40:57.279
<v Speaker 1>it may come on, man, you gotta walk and you

0:40:57.360 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 1>only got to be ready for to be thirty seconds

0:41:01.640 --> 0:41:03.120
<v Speaker 1>and then you just walked in the next one. So

0:41:03.160 --> 0:41:05.279
<v Speaker 1>how is your how do you believe your focus is

0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:08.799
<v Speaker 1>on this? I just believe I'm better and everyone. So

0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:10.640
<v Speaker 1>like when I get out there, I just like do

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:13.759
<v Speaker 1>what I do, Like I I legit. You almost like

0:41:13.920 --> 0:41:16.279
<v Speaker 1>let go, like you all when I first got there,

0:41:16.360 --> 0:41:17.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh I want to hold on. I want to have

0:41:17.760 --> 0:41:19.719
<v Speaker 1>my card for no, I just let go, Like just

0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:23.279
<v Speaker 1>do what you do, like be be Harold, Be the

0:41:23.280 --> 0:41:25.160
<v Speaker 1>best Harald you can be, because if I'm doing that,

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:27.440
<v Speaker 1>it gives me the best chance to perform. And then

0:41:27.719 --> 0:41:29.839
<v Speaker 1>once you start getting in contention, as you let go,

0:41:31.160 --> 0:41:32.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't ever try to hold on it. So you

0:41:32.640 --> 0:41:35.960
<v Speaker 1>have a lot of nerves starting off before you turn

0:41:36.040 --> 0:41:38.120
<v Speaker 1>I first got in contention. Yeah, because you just want

0:41:38.120 --> 0:41:40.719
<v Speaker 1>to do so freaking good. Especially when you start getting there,

0:41:40.719 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 1>You're like, I can do this. I can play good

0:41:43.120 --> 0:41:46.600
<v Speaker 1>even without my best stuff. So like you, you just

0:41:46.680 --> 0:41:49.160
<v Speaker 1>work your way into it. You're like, by if I

0:41:49.200 --> 0:41:51.200
<v Speaker 1>just can just keep working, get a little closer, and

0:41:51.200 --> 0:41:53.600
<v Speaker 1>then by Sunday you're like this game on. You know,

0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:56.160
<v Speaker 1>like last week there were no fans, but I felt

0:41:56.840 --> 0:41:59.680
<v Speaker 1>I felt it on Sunday, just like, hey man, you

0:41:59.680 --> 0:42:03.120
<v Speaker 1>gotta chance to do something that you haven't done before,

0:42:03.520 --> 0:42:05.799
<v Speaker 1>and whatever that is, we're gonna We're gonna go for

0:42:05.880 --> 0:42:08.080
<v Speaker 1>it instead of worry about like if I do this,

0:42:08.080 --> 0:42:10.279
<v Speaker 1>this will happen. No, let's worry about the right now.

0:42:10.400 --> 0:42:12.319
<v Speaker 1>Right now, I need to hit this fair away. So

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:15.400
<v Speaker 1>like having that discussion with you know, my two closest

0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:19.200
<v Speaker 1>friends and myself, it made it easier to let go.

0:42:19.680 --> 0:42:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Hey man, take a deep breath. You're here for a reason.

0:42:23.360 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I think it's about that time. Just take a little breather. Good,

0:42:26.800 --> 0:42:33.560
<v Speaker 1>do it good, getting down to do it good. Hey Gerard,

0:42:33.680 --> 0:42:36.920
<v Speaker 1>why did you get that T shirt? Oh? Yes, I

0:42:36.960 --> 0:42:39.080
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0:42:39.080 --> 0:42:42.040
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0:42:42.080 --> 0:42:43.799
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0:42:44.160 --> 0:42:46.480
<v Speaker 1>buy you a T shirt, subscribe to us whereever you

0:42:46.520 --> 0:42:51.799
<v Speaker 1>listen to podcasts. Tell us about your first interaction with

0:42:52.800 --> 0:42:57.360
<v Speaker 1>Tiger Woods. Yeah, so the first one was pretty funny.

0:42:57.520 --> 0:43:02.120
<v Speaker 1>I was in l A and alright, so my locker

0:43:02.200 --> 0:43:06.719
<v Speaker 1>points this way, my locker points this way. So this

0:43:06.760 --> 0:43:11.560
<v Speaker 1>is alphabetic, this is audio podcast. They can't see you.

0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:14.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh well, are you looking at me? So I'm just

0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:16.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to visually show you. I'm just saying,

0:43:17.320 --> 0:43:21.680
<v Speaker 1>that's that easy. Anyway. I didn't know man he was recording.

0:43:21.719 --> 0:43:27.080
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was it's still photography. So we're Uh.

0:43:27.400 --> 0:43:31.480
<v Speaker 1>So I'm sitting at my locker and we I had

0:43:31.520 --> 0:43:34.880
<v Speaker 1>heard that, you know, something about like hey, you know,

0:43:34.880 --> 0:43:37.759
<v Speaker 1>I would loved it, you know, try to get you

0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:40.480
<v Speaker 1>wearing Nike, you know, and obviously i'd wear something in

0:43:40.520 --> 0:43:43.720
<v Speaker 1>the T up collection. And you know, I didn't didn't

0:43:43.719 --> 0:43:45.280
<v Speaker 1>hear much of it after that, and I was already

0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:49.240
<v Speaker 1>in Jordan gears. So we come. He's coming right towards

0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:54.560
<v Speaker 1>me and my caddy and coming right and he could

0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:56.239
<v Speaker 1>have been going to his locker no, he was going

0:43:56.280 --> 0:43:58.840
<v Speaker 1>to because his lockers behind me, but my agent and

0:43:58.920 --> 0:44:03.319
<v Speaker 1>my caddy just leave. I'm like, all right, So I

0:44:03.360 --> 0:44:05.480
<v Speaker 1>wanted to. I wanted to play with him sometime that

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:08.040
<v Speaker 1>year because my first two years he was hurt, like

0:44:08.120 --> 0:44:10.960
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't you know, I wasn't playing at all. So

0:44:11.080 --> 0:44:13.759
<v Speaker 1>he comes and he's like, he's like, how long is

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:15.600
<v Speaker 1>that Jordan deal? You know, like just to ask me.

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, all right, man, So I just told him,

0:44:18.080 --> 0:44:20.880
<v Speaker 1>you know whatever. So whatever. A couple of days go

0:44:21.040 --> 0:44:23.919
<v Speaker 1>by and I see him again as locker and he's

0:44:23.960 --> 0:44:27.040
<v Speaker 1>like he's just super chill now. But like that's that

0:44:27.120 --> 0:44:30.800
<v Speaker 1>was my first interaction, and it was I mean, I

0:44:30.880 --> 0:44:33.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't know what to say. I'm like, damn thog Hey,

0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:37.359
<v Speaker 1>how you doing? You know, guics to meet you? So

0:44:37.440 --> 0:44:41.240
<v Speaker 1>it was it was very interesting. But um, we've developed

0:44:41.239 --> 0:44:45.279
<v Speaker 1>an awesome relationship since then. He I've practiced with him

0:44:45.320 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 1>down and uh in Jupiter. You know, he's been so

0:44:48.120 --> 0:44:50.399
<v Speaker 1>good to me. But the funny part when I asked

0:44:50.440 --> 0:44:52.359
<v Speaker 1>him to play. We're at the Wales Fargo and he's

0:44:52.400 --> 0:44:55.000
<v Speaker 1>coming by and I'm like, man, I'm tired of asking you.

0:44:55.040 --> 0:44:57.719
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna play, But like, let's do this. So when

0:44:57.760 --> 0:45:00.759
<v Speaker 1>you play with Tiger, you're on his schedule, like when

0:45:00.760 --> 0:45:03.120
<v Speaker 1>he wants it up, you're going when he's gonna you

0:45:03.160 --> 0:45:04.880
<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna be like, hey man, let's just go a

0:45:04.920 --> 0:45:08.759
<v Speaker 1>little bit earlier. So you're saying you don't have that

0:45:08.800 --> 0:45:12.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of pool. Just I got with the girl at two,

0:45:12.360 --> 0:45:17.480
<v Speaker 1>so can we either go after that or before? So

0:45:17.560 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 1>he uh, he's walking by and him like, let's play

0:45:21.120 --> 0:45:23.200
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, all right, I'll send you a text

0:45:23.719 --> 0:45:27.440
<v Speaker 1>and tomorrow night. I'm like, a dude, what I mean,

0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:29.200
<v Speaker 1>it ain't that hard to because on the tour, like

0:45:29.280 --> 0:45:32.200
<v Speaker 1>when there's no pro ams, because there's no problem at TVC.

0:45:32.520 --> 0:45:34.879
<v Speaker 1>He's like, you know, you go whever. You know, it's

0:45:34.880 --> 0:45:36.839
<v Speaker 1>not like you gotta playing out what you're gonna do.

0:45:37.200 --> 0:45:38.680
<v Speaker 1>So he texted me, he's like, we're gonna play it

0:45:38.760 --> 0:45:40.719
<v Speaker 1>this time on tim We're gonna play it this time

0:45:40.719 --> 0:45:43.360
<v Speaker 1>on one on Wednesday, and I was like, all right,

0:45:43.400 --> 0:45:46.759
<v Speaker 1>I'll be here. So we show up and man, I

0:45:46.800 --> 0:45:49.880
<v Speaker 1>just started picking his brain. I couldn't stop, Like that's

0:45:49.920 --> 0:45:53.520
<v Speaker 1>that's like, that's why I wanted to get with him.

0:45:53.680 --> 0:45:58.279
<v Speaker 1>But I also just he's the reason why I watched golf, Like, no,

0:45:58.360 --> 0:46:00.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I didn't watch any golf after I've done

0:46:00.760 --> 0:46:03.320
<v Speaker 1>playing the other day. I just he's changed the game.

0:46:03.760 --> 0:46:06.399
<v Speaker 1>He made it to where it was, Oh, I want

0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 1>to watch golf because Tigers playing. So what is as

0:46:10.719 --> 0:46:16.840
<v Speaker 1>a as a African American golfer? What was it about

0:46:16.920 --> 0:46:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Tiger that made it interesting? I mean, you were part

0:46:21.040 --> 0:46:23.479
<v Speaker 1>of you knew about golf, you were introduced at golf

0:46:23.520 --> 0:46:26.960
<v Speaker 1>by your pops at two years old. However that it

0:46:27.080 --> 0:46:30.880
<v Speaker 1>had to be something more than just or was it

0:46:31.040 --> 0:46:33.960
<v Speaker 1>just for black guys playing golf? Okay? For me, it

0:46:34.080 --> 0:46:36.880
<v Speaker 1>was just how good he was, Like, dude, when so

0:46:37.080 --> 0:46:39.440
<v Speaker 1>I remember watching him in the two thousands when he

0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:42.480
<v Speaker 1>won in nine seven, Like I never knew like Augusta

0:46:42.480 --> 0:46:45.000
<v Speaker 1>didn't have any black members. I never knew anything about color,

0:46:45.080 --> 0:46:48.319
<v Speaker 1>Like damn dog, damn the color. He He's hitting the

0:46:48.360 --> 0:46:50.840
<v Speaker 1>best shots when it matters the most, He's beating people

0:46:50.840 --> 0:46:54.080
<v Speaker 1>by fifteen and I'm watching it. I'm like, I mean,

0:46:54.080 --> 0:46:56.000
<v Speaker 1>what is he going to do next? Type think it

0:46:56.120 --> 0:46:58.440
<v Speaker 1>was his dominance, Yeah, dude, he I mean he's won

0:46:58.520 --> 0:47:02.799
<v Speaker 1>eighty two times, you know, so it's just incredible. That

0:47:02.880 --> 0:47:05.359
<v Speaker 1>was my thing but when I started talking to him

0:47:05.400 --> 0:47:08.560
<v Speaker 1>and just getting to know him, that guy just wants

0:47:09.480 --> 0:47:12.520
<v Speaker 1>he wants to be normal and he never will be

0:47:12.560 --> 0:47:15.440
<v Speaker 1>able to get that. I mean, I don't think so.

0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:18.719
<v Speaker 1>So it's just I've been super thankful that he lets

0:47:18.719 --> 0:47:20.520
<v Speaker 1>me pick his brain. Like if I text him, he

0:47:20.600 --> 0:47:24.040
<v Speaker 1>gets back to me. It's, uh, give us one thing

0:47:24.200 --> 0:47:27.319
<v Speaker 1>that this is perfect. So like growing up, like I

0:47:27.360 --> 0:47:29.160
<v Speaker 1>never played in front of a lot of people, like

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 1>hardly ever, even on the corn Ferry tour like our

0:47:33.239 --> 0:47:36.040
<v Speaker 1>our developmental tour to get to the PGA tour, you

0:47:36.080 --> 0:47:37.840
<v Speaker 1>don't really play in front of a lot of people.

0:47:38.680 --> 0:47:41.600
<v Speaker 1>So when you play with Tiger, I mean, this is zoo.

0:47:42.320 --> 0:47:44.600
<v Speaker 1>It's I mean, there might be twenty people in your

0:47:44.680 --> 0:47:49.919
<v Speaker 1>group and you're round a practice round. He told me that.

0:47:50.160 --> 0:47:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I said, man, how do you focus with all these people?

0:47:52.120 --> 0:47:54.359
<v Speaker 1>Because like when people show up watching me, Man, I'm

0:47:54.360 --> 0:47:57.359
<v Speaker 1>looking at everything, I'm checking out, I'm screening it. I'm like,

0:47:57.760 --> 0:48:00.840
<v Speaker 1>who is it? What is it? Who? I don't know him?

0:48:00.920 --> 0:48:03.120
<v Speaker 1>You know all the other stuff too. I said, how

0:48:03.120 --> 0:48:06.839
<v Speaker 1>do you focus? And he said, it's like it's like

0:48:06.920 --> 0:48:09.399
<v Speaker 1>reading a book with the TV on. Do you ever

0:48:09.440 --> 0:48:11.680
<v Speaker 1>notice when you read with the TV on, like you

0:48:11.719 --> 0:48:13.719
<v Speaker 1>can you can keep reading, but you kind of know

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:15.719
<v Speaker 1>what's happening with the TV. And I was like, yeah,

0:48:15.719 --> 0:48:18.840
<v Speaker 1>he's like it's the same thing. So he all he

0:48:18.960 --> 0:48:20.799
<v Speaker 1>just told me, he's like, just read your book. It

0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:23.959
<v Speaker 1>was a great analogy because, like it showed, it makes

0:48:24.000 --> 0:48:28.800
<v Speaker 1>me aware that he sees everything just because he ain't

0:48:30.040 --> 0:48:32.160
<v Speaker 1>zoning in, he can hear it, he can see it.

0:48:32.360 --> 0:48:34.360
<v Speaker 1>So it made me free up even more. Like I

0:48:34.440 --> 0:48:36.919
<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, damn, I can look at whatever

0:48:36.960 --> 0:48:40.520
<v Speaker 1>I want, but I know if I just relax and

0:48:40.560 --> 0:48:42.480
<v Speaker 1>read my book, I'm gonna be back and where I

0:48:42.520 --> 0:48:45.120
<v Speaker 1>need to be. How did that relationship with Michael Jordan

0:48:45.160 --> 0:48:48.000
<v Speaker 1>come about? Yes, so guy named Fred Whitfield, who I'm

0:48:48.040 --> 0:48:53.480
<v Speaker 1>sure everyone knows awesome. Yeah, he he's pretty I guess

0:48:53.520 --> 0:48:55.920
<v Speaker 1>he's bored right now because he's been texting me every round,

0:48:56.160 --> 0:48:59.280
<v Speaker 1>like you know, he usually texts every Sunday like good tournament,

0:48:59.360 --> 0:49:02.200
<v Speaker 1>hanging there, your head up, you know, just so so encouraging.

0:49:02.640 --> 0:49:06.000
<v Speaker 1>But he, I guess, I mean talked to m J

0:49:06.280 --> 0:49:09.839
<v Speaker 1>and they wanted to start a golf line, and it just, uh,

0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:12.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, I was fortunate enough to be the guy

0:49:13.040 --> 0:49:17.960
<v Speaker 1>so it's pretty Uh, it's really awesome. Um So how

0:49:18.040 --> 0:49:20.000
<v Speaker 1>do you get the notification that you were Jordan or

0:49:20.040 --> 0:49:24.160
<v Speaker 1>the introduction order or just like what was your what

0:49:24.200 --> 0:49:27.319
<v Speaker 1>was your interaction? What was your interaction? All right? Uh so,

0:49:27.880 --> 0:49:30.640
<v Speaker 1>uh played in Greensboro, Fred. It came out and watched

0:49:31.040 --> 0:49:34.840
<v Speaker 1>and it was the same year almost no I've played,

0:49:34.960 --> 0:49:37.160
<v Speaker 1>and so this is how I met Fred. I played

0:49:37.200 --> 0:49:40.680
<v Speaker 1>in the Hoopie Foundation event and he uh, I was

0:49:40.719 --> 0:49:43.120
<v Speaker 1>a pro then, and he he didn't let any more

0:49:43.120 --> 0:49:45.400
<v Speaker 1>pros play after that because we won with Rip Hamilton's

0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:48.440
<v Speaker 1>and we didn't. I didn't play another one, but I

0:49:48.480 --> 0:49:50.160
<v Speaker 1>came back and I spoke to the kids, you know,

0:49:50.280 --> 0:49:52.719
<v Speaker 1>just you know, just helped him out whenever I could.

0:49:52.760 --> 0:49:56.520
<v Speaker 1>But after that tournament, he uh he texted me. He said, Hey,

0:49:56.640 --> 0:49:58.560
<v Speaker 1>the Boss is gonna text you tomorrow. I was like,

0:49:58.800 --> 0:50:01.960
<v Speaker 1>all right, cool that stay. I get off the plane

0:50:02.760 --> 0:50:04.919
<v Speaker 1>and the text shows up and he's like, hey man,

0:50:04.960 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 1>good playing. Uh I'd love to get you in the brand.

0:50:08.360 --> 0:50:11.120
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, so you get a personal text

0:50:11.120 --> 0:50:15.359
<v Speaker 1>from him, Jay? Correct? So continue after you got off

0:50:15.400 --> 0:50:20.960
<v Speaker 1>your coach See that was in my coach at that

0:50:21.120 --> 0:50:24.439
<v Speaker 1>was very classes coach. My show like I fly coach

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:26.200
<v Speaker 1>as much as I can. I'm not me brother, No,

0:50:26.400 --> 0:50:28.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't want to talk to you. COVID

0:50:28.600 --> 0:50:31.919
<v Speaker 1>now you can. You can't see listeners, but his nose

0:50:32.000 --> 0:50:37.320
<v Speaker 1>is way up in the air, super so freaking. I

0:50:37.320 --> 0:50:39.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I have to. I didn't text him back

0:50:39.880 --> 0:50:45.839
<v Speaker 1>because I went to because you didn't. So Michael Jordan

0:50:45.920 --> 0:50:48.840
<v Speaker 1>texts you, congratulations, we want to go. We want you

0:50:48.880 --> 0:50:54.840
<v Speaker 1>to go with Jordan Brand And your reply is, oh,

0:50:53.640 --> 0:50:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I I went, I replied, just not right. Then, I replied,

0:51:00.000 --> 0:51:01.919
<v Speaker 1>as soon as I got off the golf course, which

0:51:02.040 --> 0:51:04.400
<v Speaker 1>was how many hours it had to be at least

0:51:05.200 --> 0:51:09.120
<v Speaker 1>eight hours, So you left Michael Jordan's on rid so

0:51:09.640 --> 0:51:11.160
<v Speaker 1>that is not high win. Then when I got to

0:51:11.160 --> 0:51:14.120
<v Speaker 1>the golf course, and this is your story, but you're

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:18.400
<v Speaker 1>telling us coming out of this is exactly what happened.

0:51:18.400 --> 0:51:20.040
<v Speaker 1>I got off the plane, I got to text, I

0:51:20.080 --> 0:51:21.920
<v Speaker 1>got my bags, I went straight to the court. You

0:51:21.920 --> 0:51:23.719
<v Speaker 1>didn't get the text. You looked at the text, You

0:51:23.760 --> 0:51:26.759
<v Speaker 1>look at the text, put the phone back. This is

0:51:26.800 --> 0:51:29.200
<v Speaker 1>all true. So this is audio. But I'm you're gonna

0:51:29.200 --> 0:51:35.160
<v Speaker 1>hear my phone hitting. He's gonna yeah, I get back

0:51:35.160 --> 0:51:37.160
<v Speaker 1>to that dude, when I see it, it is not

0:51:37.680 --> 0:51:41.840
<v Speaker 1>something like that. Went more saw the text. This guy's

0:51:41.880 --> 0:51:43.440
<v Speaker 1>coming at me. He's like, hey, when you want to

0:51:43.480 --> 0:51:46.160
<v Speaker 1>get your curse, And I'm like, yeah, I need my

0:51:46.200 --> 0:51:50.520
<v Speaker 1>cursey call. I just did. Man, I looked at your

0:51:50.600 --> 0:51:54.040
<v Speaker 1>phone from that text until at the end of golf.

0:51:54.160 --> 0:51:56.240
<v Speaker 1>I looked at it, but I didn't have time to reply.

0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:58.239
<v Speaker 1>You didn't have went on for the go and when

0:51:58.280 --> 0:52:00.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm on the golf course, you had other people to

0:52:00.360 --> 0:52:02.640
<v Speaker 1>talk to more important, No, I had business to take

0:52:02.640 --> 0:52:05.839
<v Speaker 1>care of my job. I was lost. You didn't hear

0:52:05.880 --> 0:52:10.000
<v Speaker 1>that part of I'm out lost my tour play If

0:52:10.000 --> 0:52:12.920
<v Speaker 1>you don't finish in the top one, you lose your card.

0:52:13.239 --> 0:52:15.640
<v Speaker 1>So I finished one twenty three, and I was like, well,

0:52:16.080 --> 0:52:18.160
<v Speaker 1>damn man, I'm gonna keep going because in the playoffs

0:52:18.400 --> 0:52:20.279
<v Speaker 1>they stacked the points up to where you can just

0:52:20.520 --> 0:52:22.400
<v Speaker 1>you can just keep going. You can just roll your

0:52:22.400 --> 0:52:24.520
<v Speaker 1>way all the way to east like, so I get

0:52:24.800 --> 0:52:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I just get in the mode to wear if I

0:52:26.719 --> 0:52:28.480
<v Speaker 1>play well this week, I'm gonna be able to go

0:52:28.560 --> 0:52:31.960
<v Speaker 1>next week. So and what happened is I flew on Tuesday.

0:52:32.640 --> 0:52:34.560
<v Speaker 1>For some reason, I flew on Tuesday and then on Wednesday,

0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:37.120
<v Speaker 1>we weren't allowed to practice, so you had a lot

0:52:37.160 --> 0:52:40.920
<v Speaker 1>of phone time. Oh that, I replied, when I got done,

0:52:41.000 --> 0:52:43.080
<v Speaker 1>I got my eighteen holes in because I've never seen

0:52:43.120 --> 0:52:48.239
<v Speaker 1>the golf course. What was his response when you finally yeah,

0:52:49.560 --> 0:52:51.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he's pissed, but I just said, hey,

0:52:51.760 --> 0:52:54.279
<v Speaker 1>m J, you know, man, that'd be awesome. I'd love

0:52:54.280 --> 0:52:57.120
<v Speaker 1>to work that out. Um. And then about two days

0:52:57.239 --> 0:53:01.319
<v Speaker 1>later it was done. And one thing I learned and

0:53:01.360 --> 0:53:05.840
<v Speaker 1>whatever MJ wants and Jay gets, and I've been super

0:53:05.880 --> 0:53:07.440
<v Speaker 1>fortunate to be one of the people that you know,

0:53:07.560 --> 0:53:11.200
<v Speaker 1>benefit from. All right, Well, Harold, this next segment that

0:53:11.320 --> 0:53:14.399
<v Speaker 1>we have is called the Deep Three, and basically, these

0:53:14.400 --> 0:53:17.399
<v Speaker 1>are three questions that will ask you that just goes

0:53:17.520 --> 0:53:20.520
<v Speaker 1>beyond your Jay's those nice Jordan clothes you have on,

0:53:20.640 --> 0:53:24.160
<v Speaker 1>but really analyzes your life and gives a perspective of

0:53:24.160 --> 0:53:26.839
<v Speaker 1>you outside of being a golfer. So, yes, that ask

0:53:26.880 --> 0:53:32.080
<v Speaker 1>the first one, does Harold want to be known for

0:53:33.000 --> 0:53:36.520
<v Speaker 1>an excellent black golfer or just to be known as

0:53:36.560 --> 0:53:39.200
<v Speaker 1>a great golfer, great golfer without a doubt, that's what's

0:53:39.200 --> 0:53:40.600
<v Speaker 1>going to give me the best chance to help the

0:53:40.680 --> 0:53:43.320
<v Speaker 1>most people. Because if I go through life and the

0:53:43.360 --> 0:53:45.280
<v Speaker 1>only thing I can say is I help black people,

0:53:45.840 --> 0:53:48.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean, how sad does that sound? That means I

0:53:48.360 --> 0:53:52.239
<v Speaker 1>limited my reach and I just don't want to ever

0:53:52.280 --> 0:53:57.239
<v Speaker 1>be on that Peggy backing off that a little bit,

0:53:57.840 --> 0:54:00.360
<v Speaker 1>what's it like when you go into a real room,

0:54:00.400 --> 0:54:02.880
<v Speaker 1>whether it's that boardroom you talked about, or you go

0:54:02.920 --> 0:54:06.160
<v Speaker 1>into that locker room and you're you're often the only

0:54:06.200 --> 0:54:10.120
<v Speaker 1>person of color and you have to almost explain your blackness?

0:54:10.120 --> 0:54:15.239
<v Speaker 1>What what is that like? Almost always having to explain

0:54:16.000 --> 0:54:20.480
<v Speaker 1>and be and be that source of of blackness in

0:54:20.320 --> 0:54:25.000
<v Speaker 1>a room. Um, it is. It's been difficult lately, but

0:54:25.120 --> 0:54:27.560
<v Speaker 1>before I never thought about it. I go in that room,

0:54:27.560 --> 0:54:30.000
<v Speaker 1>as Harold Varner, I have a chance to If you

0:54:30.040 --> 0:54:32.319
<v Speaker 1>want to know about where I come from, I'm gonna

0:54:32.360 --> 0:54:35.120
<v Speaker 1>tell you. You know, whether that's race or whatever. Is

0:54:35.160 --> 0:54:36.719
<v Speaker 1>like when you ask me why I grew up, I'm

0:54:36.719 --> 0:54:39.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you, Like, that's just how it is. Um.

0:54:39.160 --> 0:54:42.720
<v Speaker 1>But right now it's important too. It's important to America,

0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:45.239
<v Speaker 1>but it's also important to black people to listen. You know,

0:54:45.360 --> 0:54:47.479
<v Speaker 1>there's people that do want to help. I think there's

0:54:47.520 --> 0:54:50.239
<v Speaker 1>more good than bad, and we're in a position right

0:54:50.239 --> 0:54:53.440
<v Speaker 1>now to where we only focus on the bad. So

0:54:53.480 --> 0:54:56.120
<v Speaker 1>when I do go on these rooms, yeah, I get

0:54:56.160 --> 0:54:58.280
<v Speaker 1>to I get to tell my story because I'm black,

0:54:58.520 --> 0:55:01.560
<v Speaker 1>But I also have an opportunity to get at a

0:55:01.560 --> 0:55:04.560
<v Speaker 1>person of another nationality to be able to help us.

0:55:04.840 --> 0:55:08.439
<v Speaker 1>You know, It's just just the way I grew up perspective, Yeah,

0:55:08.480 --> 0:55:10.680
<v Speaker 1>because I think there's people that want to give opportunity

0:55:10.800 --> 0:55:15.040
<v Speaker 1>I and I just don't know if I hand out

0:55:15.080 --> 0:55:17.600
<v Speaker 1>just because we see something that is evil is the

0:55:17.600 --> 0:55:21.200
<v Speaker 1>best way. Um, I don't. I don't think George Floyd

0:55:21.239 --> 0:55:23.680
<v Speaker 1>is a way that we should just all today, we're

0:55:23.680 --> 0:55:25.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna help somebody. If I choose to help someone just

0:55:25.480 --> 0:55:28.279
<v Speaker 1>because I saw a videotape of evilness, that's then I

0:55:28.320 --> 0:55:31.520
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't help anybody in the first place. Um. And I

0:55:31.520 --> 0:55:33.000
<v Speaker 1>don't know too many people that can look at that

0:55:33.080 --> 0:55:35.640
<v Speaker 1>video and be like, oh man, that was that that

0:55:35.640 --> 0:55:37.799
<v Speaker 1>that wasn't that bad? I mean, you lost your mind.

0:55:37.840 --> 0:55:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't want to associate with that person. So when

0:55:41.160 --> 0:55:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I go in there, I have an opportunity to honestoly

0:55:43.880 --> 0:55:46.200
<v Speaker 1>share my story, but I have an opportunity to use

0:55:46.280 --> 0:55:49.000
<v Speaker 1>these people as ways to get closer to where there's

0:55:49.000 --> 0:55:51.200
<v Speaker 1>not a bridge. We don't need a bridge. Man, We're

0:55:51.400 --> 0:55:54.359
<v Speaker 1>we're humans that want we want good. I don't know.

0:55:54.600 --> 0:55:56.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't associate myself with too many people that want

0:55:56.760 --> 0:56:00.160
<v Speaker 1>to see bad things happen. And now it's turned into

0:56:00.200 --> 0:56:04.160
<v Speaker 1>a political battle. So we're fighting a lot of battles.

0:56:04.160 --> 0:56:06.600
<v Speaker 1>But there's enough good in this world to make it.

0:56:07.239 --> 0:56:08.680
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna make it. We're gonna be all right. We're

0:56:08.680 --> 0:56:13.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna see it through. As a golfer and as a man.

0:56:14.760 --> 0:56:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you know your own blind spots? Yeah. I like

0:56:18.840 --> 0:56:21.440
<v Speaker 1>showing off. I like being the man. I like talking smack,

0:56:21.560 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 1>but those things don't always get me closer to being

0:56:24.440 --> 0:56:27.560
<v Speaker 1>getting that win on the PGA tour. You know that

0:56:27.560 --> 0:56:31.359
<v Speaker 1>that is my thing? Like who doesn't like being? Like

0:56:31.400 --> 0:56:33.160
<v Speaker 1>you said earlier, everyone wants to be the best, but

0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:36.040
<v Speaker 1>they don't want to do the little stuff. But I've

0:56:36.080 --> 0:56:38.840
<v Speaker 1>been doing the little stuff so I can talk smack

0:56:38.920 --> 0:56:41.560
<v Speaker 1>and say, hey man, it's more work, you know, especially

0:56:41.600 --> 0:56:44.160
<v Speaker 1>when I'm tasting it. I'm getting to getting more of it.

0:56:44.320 --> 0:56:48.320
<v Speaker 1>I uh, I enjoy it. Once again, it's my journey.

0:56:48.640 --> 0:56:51.680
<v Speaker 1>And I had a conversation with however one the other day,

0:56:51.719 --> 0:56:54.000
<v Speaker 1>who you know he's won everything. You know, he's won

0:56:54.160 --> 0:56:56.680
<v Speaker 1>thirty some times on the Champions Stories, won a couple

0:56:56.680 --> 0:56:59.840
<v Speaker 1>of majors. Um He said, Harold, do you look yourself

0:56:59.840 --> 0:57:04.160
<v Speaker 1>in the mirror? And I was like, yeah, but lotional

0:57:04.440 --> 0:57:06.799
<v Speaker 1>brush my teeth. See if I got a ZiT once

0:57:06.880 --> 0:57:09.279
<v Speaker 1>or twice? You know, nothing crazy. He said, Tomorrow when

0:57:09.280 --> 0:57:11.799
<v Speaker 1>you wake up, shower, do what you do. Said look

0:57:11.840 --> 0:57:15.520
<v Speaker 1>yourself in the mirror and just looking right now. And

0:57:15.920 --> 0:57:18.280
<v Speaker 1>I thought that was so eye opening because if you

0:57:18.320 --> 0:57:21.560
<v Speaker 1>can look yourself and know that Harold can keep Harold

0:57:21.560 --> 0:57:24.600
<v Speaker 1>accountable because when you're growing up, you have as a kid,

0:57:24.720 --> 0:57:27.040
<v Speaker 1>you have humans that keep your accountable. You have a coach,

0:57:27.080 --> 0:57:29.640
<v Speaker 1>you have something. But like when you get to where

0:57:29.680 --> 0:57:32.280
<v Speaker 1>I am in life, it's only up to Harold. Like

0:57:32.840 --> 0:57:34.920
<v Speaker 1>what does Harold want to do? Like you know, like

0:57:35.560 --> 0:57:37.400
<v Speaker 1>what is that? And you don't know that if you're

0:57:37.440 --> 0:57:39.560
<v Speaker 1>just bouncing around all the time, every once in a a while,

0:57:39.600 --> 0:57:41.480
<v Speaker 1>you need to sit down and look yourself and like

0:57:42.000 --> 0:57:44.440
<v Speaker 1>have a conversation with yourself. You know it might sound crazy,

0:57:44.440 --> 0:57:52.600
<v Speaker 1>but it's been really good for me. Yeah. I love

0:57:52.640 --> 0:57:54.560
<v Speaker 1>what you said. You gotta run your journey. I mean,

0:57:54.720 --> 0:57:57.120
<v Speaker 1>each individual doesn't matter what color the skin you are,

0:57:57.560 --> 0:58:01.440
<v Speaker 1>each individual person must run their journey um and then

0:58:01.520 --> 0:58:04.320
<v Speaker 1>their journey they're gonna go through some ups and downs um,

0:58:04.360 --> 0:58:08.680
<v Speaker 1>good and bad peaks and valleys, but no one can

0:58:08.720 --> 0:58:10.600
<v Speaker 1>get you out of and no one is gonna save you.

0:58:11.280 --> 0:58:14.720
<v Speaker 1>And just talking to him was really awesome because we

0:58:14.760 --> 0:58:18.160
<v Speaker 1>got to shoot, shoot the breeze, chit chat tall, laugh,

0:58:18.280 --> 0:58:21.360
<v Speaker 1>joke around. But also I got educated on some things.

0:58:21.560 --> 0:58:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Him as the person, him is the golfer, Him is

0:58:23.880 --> 0:58:26.800
<v Speaker 1>the man, him to be assumed a husband, and then

0:58:27.200 --> 0:58:30.920
<v Speaker 1>him as a son, and what his what his father

0:58:31.440 --> 0:58:34.800
<v Speaker 1>is still with him? And then those the par barbusters,

0:58:34.840 --> 0:58:38.680
<v Speaker 1>the par busters, what they instilled in him, and understanding.

0:58:39.200 --> 0:58:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't care how much technology uh is advanced. The

0:58:45.200 --> 0:58:51.360
<v Speaker 1>old community. It takes a village or community to raise

0:58:51.360 --> 0:58:56.320
<v Speaker 1>your child still here today. COVID no, COVID doesn't matter.

0:58:56.800 --> 0:59:00.480
<v Speaker 1>And he was raised by village and that just gets

0:59:00.560 --> 0:59:04.480
<v Speaker 1>to reap the benefit the fruit, not fruits, the fruit

0:59:04.640 --> 0:59:08.520
<v Speaker 1>of that labor. It's Harold Varner, a pretty dang fantastic

0:59:08.560 --> 0:59:12.680
<v Speaker 1>golfer and a pretty cool man that happens to where

0:59:12.720 --> 0:59:17.160
<v Speaker 1>the Jordan's and playing and playing golf, so it's cool. Herold.

0:59:17.200 --> 0:59:20.960
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<v Speaker 1>by Alex Johnson, lyrics and vocals by Anthony Hamilton. You

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<v Speaker 1>ain't heard them about it, then we're about to let

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<v Speaker 1>you know. It's all