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Speaker 1: With your jess. Hilarious.
Speaker 3: What I be doing, i'd be fixing mess. Taylor is
Speaker 3: in here with me, but she's working or whatever. So
Speaker 3: when she's tied, y'all, she says she's tied to y'all
Speaker 3: senning and all these bullshit ay stories y'all can't spell,
Speaker 3: y'all can't read not so I listen. She's pregnant, all,
Speaker 3: so she just she's just tired, that's all. Baby's kicking,
Speaker 3: and the baby is kicking, y'all, So she she's sick
Speaker 3: of y'all, just like I was sick of y'all before.
Speaker 1: But she's gonna be so just being with it.
Speaker 3: Y'all know, y'all ever been pregnant, y'all know, it's a
Speaker 3: lot of fucks that you don't give about a lot
Speaker 3: of shit. So it's very hard to be pregnant and
Speaker 3: to care about a lot of shit other than the baby.
Speaker 1: Are you nervous yes? Her birth?
Speaker 3: Okay, yes you are, because this is our first one.
Speaker 3: She's having a little boy, and this is her first baby.
Speaker 3: This is her and her man's first baby. So is
Speaker 3: he just starting to get on your nerves as he's
Speaker 3: starting to know? I mean, because it's gonna be that
Speaker 3: phase that you go through, like yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, we get into like little tiny arguments, but
Speaker 4: it's like he just says, it's.
Speaker 1: My hormonal Yeah whatever. But he's good. He's good though.
Speaker 3: Now Listen, I know I've shed a little bit of
Speaker 3: light on this before, but Taylor, when I was pregnant,
Speaker 3: Taylor just didn't I'm not gonna say she didn't want kids,
Speaker 3: but she didn't want to be the one to have
Speaker 3: the kids. This is the woman who said that she
Speaker 3: doesn't feel like I have to carry the baby for
Speaker 3: nine months, and.
Speaker 1: She still feels that way. I so wholeheartedly.
Speaker 4: I just feel like, like, cool, the experience is great,
Speaker 4: Like I get to feel his flooter's cool, but I
Speaker 4: still want to like do some other stuff, Like yeah,
Speaker 4: I like.
Speaker 3: You want to be able to smoke, You want to
Speaker 3: be you want to break from being pregnant, like not much.
Speaker 1: Strain's too goddamn long for you.
Speaker 4: But did you know that elephants afgans have to be
Speaker 4: pregnant for two years? Isn't that crazy?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: And you, while you're sitting over heer complaining about nine
Speaker 3: months them big motherfucker's got to walk around with another
Speaker 3: big motherfucker inside of him for two years, two years
Speaker 3: just saying fun fact like no elephant like funat but
Speaker 3: that ain't fun y'all fucking humans complain about so much ship.
Speaker 1: How are you gonna how do you plan to give birth? Boo?
Speaker 1: Do you plan to natural? Natural? Epidoral? Just give me
Speaker 1: your business a little bit. I know I'm not. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know. We'll see. I'm not gonna make it.
Speaker 1: Think I'm gonna try to. You're not speak.
Speaker 4: I'm saying like as in like natural wise like I'm
Speaker 4: gonna try as hard as I can't, but yeah, tell
Speaker 4: me that epida as soon as like yeah, like but
Speaker 4: I feel like I can see myself like I can't
Speaker 4: do it no more. It's gonna be too late, and
Speaker 4: I'm going to put that big head baby out.
Speaker 1: I know that's gonna beautiful. I love it. I would
Speaker 1: love to see it like.
Speaker 4: It's just a pain, that's all. Like if if it
Speaker 4: was just easy with that, Like I'm cool.
Speaker 1: So do you want more than one kid? He does?
Speaker 1: I want to say the second one? Yeah, family, can
Speaker 1: we get through this one first? And then I say,
Speaker 1: I just think because.
Speaker 3: It's your first time, you kind of psych yourself out,
Speaker 3: and that's fine, but girl, you gonna look back and
Speaker 3: be like, Okay, I can do this again, because what
Speaker 3: you do it once is like I can do it again.
Speaker 3: The only thing that makes you not want to do
Speaker 3: it again is if your baby badter shit and you're
Speaker 3: like another one.
Speaker 1: Exactly, I'm having a boy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's gonna be so close to him daddy. Girl,
Speaker 3: Oh my god, he's going to be in love y'all.
Speaker 3: Your man is gonna be so in love with this baby.
Speaker 3: I know it's gonna be hard for you to be like.
Speaker 3: He was like, look go ahead, bab I mean I
Speaker 3: got this. I've been doing this more than you. You're
Speaker 3: gonna turn in to Sway on you. I'm gonna turn
Speaker 3: into Coanye on you and everything.
Speaker 4: This is his son, girl, I know I already see it.
Speaker 4: He's yeah, yeah, I already know how he's about to
Speaker 4: be how he is now. But he thinks he's about
Speaker 4: to put another one in me, like since past I
Speaker 4: had to tell him. I was like, why don't you
Speaker 4: want me to be like happy?
Speaker 1: Shut up? Stop y'all? So are you gonna do the
Speaker 1: mommy makeover?
Speaker 2: Shit?
Speaker 3: Are you going to because you're breast beating, so you're
Speaker 3: already gonna go back snatch. Now listen, Taylor got off
Speaker 3: boardy okay, or I just want to let y'all know. Okay,
Speaker 3: So when she come back snatched, don't be talking about,
Speaker 3: oh did she do ozempical? Did she lay on the
Speaker 3: table to get fucking bbl Because she's scared to have
Speaker 3: a dad baby, So it makes you think she gonna
Speaker 3: let somebody put her under to do some like.
Speaker 1: She ain't gonna do it. She is scared ass girl,
Speaker 1: so it ain't gonna happen.
Speaker 3: But I can't wait to see what the snapback gonna
Speaker 3: get because I'm telling you that breastfeeding is like working out,
Speaker 3: even though you're probably gonna work out anyway, but the breastfeeding,
Speaker 3: like it helps your stomach go back down like quickly.
Speaker 3: So I'm glad to hear that you are breastfeeding. Hanging
Speaker 3: that pat she gonna have another one, all right? All right,
Speaker 3: now we're gonna jump straight into it. I just had
Speaker 3: to get because that tell.
Speaker 1: Is my girl. I still cannot believe that she actually
Speaker 1: is pregnant. Like I under said, I don't believe it.
Speaker 1: I just can't believe and I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: Shed this was one of the last people everyone that
Speaker 1: I saw it would have a baby because there's no
Speaker 1: incubators that you can put the baby in. Sciences just
Speaker 1: finished the price. Science needs to step up for.
Speaker 4: Science needs to step up because there are still they're
Speaker 4: still trying to make flying cars.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they still try to make men have babyesuit some
Speaker 3: type some type of way. We got these sciences trying
Speaker 3: to see what's going.
Speaker 1: That would be nice too, What would be nice too
Speaker 1: if niggas can have babies.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying so, Yeah, I told Hi, I'm gonna
Speaker 4: get the contraction about too for him, And he's like.
Speaker 3: You want to be you mean in that sense like
Speaker 3: you want him to be able to feel the pain
Speaker 3: that you're feeling so that maybe he can like not
Speaker 3: put another one in you right.
Speaker 1: Away, you know what the feeling. Maybe he will like
Speaker 1: cut back on we can wait two to five years
Speaker 1: or what.
Speaker 4: Seeing like our biers I made for this and everything,
Speaker 4: I'm not taking that back.
Speaker 1: I'm insane.
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, you know everybody's there if we.
Speaker 4: Both shared this baby.
Speaker 1: Oh you mean like okay, so with Nama, so you
Speaker 1: carry you carry the baby for four and a half months,
Speaker 1: and then he carried a yeah, like make it fair.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back.
Speaker 4: I get it though, like women were powerful, like because
Speaker 4: there's gonna be some woman.
Speaker 1: Like first off, I get ever let her back on
Speaker 1: our podcast because I'm just.
Speaker 4: Saying, like it's a lie, it's my first one.
Speaker 1: It's okay.
Speaker 3: No, I'm giving you a break. I trust me, I understand.
Speaker 3: But them niggas ain't never have no babies. So here
Speaker 3: we go, because you know what I stand for. You know,
Speaker 3: all right, let's get it.
Speaker 1: Give me in trouble. They're gonna be writing in life
Speaker 1: first of all, bitch like don't come from us, but
Speaker 1: I understand that's what separates us too, though.
Speaker 3: No for sure, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, but here we are, Hi, Jess.
Speaker 3: I feel so broken and lost. I've been trying to
Speaker 3: find where I fit in in this world. I have
Speaker 3: come a long way, and I'm proud of where I
Speaker 3: am in life. I just feel like I'm not happy
Speaker 3: with it and I'm not sure why. Sometimes I think
Speaker 3: maybe I'm not happy with myself, so it affects my
Speaker 3: stability with my emotions. There will be times where I
Speaker 3: overwork myself to get where I want to be, and
Speaker 3: I definitely get it done, but is done, I'm like,
Speaker 3: what's next?
Speaker 1: This is it?
Speaker 3: If I'm not busy doing something, then I feel unproductive.
Speaker 3: Even though I have accomplished so much, I have always
Speaker 3: struggled with just not feeling like I'm enough or even
Speaker 3: doing enough.
Speaker 1: So I kind of stay with me. I guess, Oh,
Speaker 1: so it kind of stays with me. I guess.
Speaker 3: I'm not sure how to fix this, but I just
Speaker 3: know that I want to be okay and really drowned
Speaker 3: in my accomplishments because I came too far. I just
Speaker 3: don't know. How have you ever felt like you weren't
Speaker 3: doing enough? Yes, I've felt like that. I feel like
Speaker 3: that a lot of times. I feel like that right now.
Speaker 3: Shit Like it's a lot you know going on, even
Speaker 3: with like since I've come back to work, you know,
Speaker 3: after being gone for about three months, you know, taking
Speaker 3: care of this new baby. You know, I'm seven months
Speaker 3: post part of now, and I've felt you know, a
Speaker 3: little lost, a lot, you know, a lot lost and broken.
Speaker 3: Some people will put that on postpartum depression. I don't
Speaker 3: claim that just because you know, I haven't really been
Speaker 3: diagnosed with it, so, you know, clinically, like, I really
Speaker 3: haven't gone to a doctor and shared these thoughts that
Speaker 3: I've been having since having my baby or since returning
Speaker 3: to work and things like that, so I have not
Speaker 3: been clinically diagnosed with postpartum depression. You know, I just
Speaker 3: kind of stick with it, keep my head up, work,
Speaker 3: and you know, my fiance affirms me, and you know,
Speaker 3: being around my kids makes me happy. I feel guilty
Speaker 3: when I'm away from my baby girl. I feel like
Speaker 3: I'm not doing enough. I always feel like that maybe
Speaker 3: my time has passed, like you know, as this nice
Speaker 3: big sensation or whatever.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
Speaker 3: I always feel like there's something that I could be doing,
Speaker 3: and I am doing a lot of shit. You know,
Speaker 3: I have a lot going on, and sometimes I feel
Speaker 3: like it's not enough hours in a day to get
Speaker 3: everything that I have.
Speaker 1: To do done.
Speaker 3: But still at the end of the day, yes, I
Speaker 3: do feel like, ah, I'm not doing enough. So I
Speaker 3: think that's very human because you hear you're having the
Speaker 3: same problem and you're not even well. I don't know,
Speaker 3: I can't say that you don't have any kids or whatever.
Speaker 3: I can't say that you. I can't even say that
Speaker 3: you just had a baby, you know, but I feel
Speaker 3: like you would have told me that. So I'm just
Speaker 3: gonna go off of what you told me. You're feeling
Speaker 3: this way, and I felt that way. I still feel
Speaker 3: this way at times, and the difference between us, I'm
Speaker 3: just gonna assume is that I just had a baby.
Speaker 3: So it goes, you know, that goes to show you
Speaker 3: that this is a very humanistic thing that you could feel.
Speaker 3: And it's okay to feel that way.
Speaker 1: I know you.
Speaker 3: Maybe it may get you down and get you in
Speaker 3: a funk, but pay attention to what you have done.
Speaker 3: That's what I've learned. Pay attention to what you have
Speaker 3: done in your accomplishments. You feel like you're not enough,
Speaker 3: but you have done so much, you know. Basking your
Speaker 3: ask and your accolades. Girl, basking your accolades. Make sure
Speaker 3: you are giving yourself grace. You know, you're only human.
Speaker 3: It is only twenty four hours in a day, you know.
Speaker 3: And while you are probably a jack of all trades,
Speaker 3: a person that wears many hats, you still have to
Speaker 3: master each craft one by one. You can't spread yourself
Speaker 3: then trying to do everything the best you know.
Speaker 1: To say what she does. She did not say what
Speaker 1: she does. She did not.
Speaker 3: I wish she would have gone a little bit more
Speaker 3: into it what she's done, but she did not say
Speaker 3: what she's done.
Speaker 1: But that's what I got for you, boo.
Speaker 3: I want you to just give yourself some grace and
Speaker 3: continue to bask in your accolades. Girl, It's okay, sh
Speaker 3: fix that crown on your head, keep your head.
Speaker 1: Up and keep working. Keep working. Understand that.
Speaker 3: Understand you can't do a lot of things by yourself too,
Speaker 3: depending on what you are doing and what your goals
Speaker 3: are in life, and what your career choice is, whatever
Speaker 3: your path is, and the type of work you do,
Speaker 3: whatever industry you're in, it's okay to ask for help.
Speaker 3: I didn't get where I am without a team, you know,
Speaker 3: and maybe some members of the team wasn't best for
Speaker 3: me at the time.
Speaker 1: But I still didn't do it all by myself.
Speaker 3: You know, you need everybody, need somebody to make these
Speaker 3: big things happen, you know what I mean, And I
Speaker 3: mean like my different companies that I that I I mean,
Speaker 3: my different businesses that I have.
Speaker 1: You know, just hilarious. Is a company is.
Speaker 3: A business, you know by itself, But there are different
Speaker 3: departments and umbrellas you know, under that big house, you
Speaker 3: know what I mean? There are different rooms. That's why
Speaker 3: I look at my company like a mansion. There are
Speaker 3: different rooms like different houses, different departments and shit, like
Speaker 3: different floors that do different things.
Speaker 1: I can't just run it all by myself.
Speaker 3: I oversee everything and I do majority of the work
Speaker 3: because I am CEO. But there is a cooo, there
Speaker 3: is a creative director, there is a producer there, you know.
Speaker 3: So there are different puzzles, I mean, different pieces to
Speaker 3: the puzzle that makes it complete, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: And you can't do it all alone. It sounds like
Speaker 3: you may be dealing with something like that as well.
Speaker 3: You need you need some of your time freed up
Speaker 3: to do the things that you want to get to.
Speaker 3: You can't do it by yourself, So build a team.
Speaker 3: Build a team, because I'm trying to figure out how
Speaker 3: I can give you proper advice when your damn story
Speaker 3: was boneless. Every time there is something that is missing,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call the story boneless. When I feel like
Speaker 3: ain't enough, ain't enough, It ain't enough. Okay, I need
Speaker 3: for you to let me know what's going on. All right,
Speaker 3: So it's okay, don't beat yourself up, don't get down
Speaker 3: on yourself, you know what I mean. Give yourself grace,
Speaker 3: Continue to pray. I don't know if you believe in God,
Speaker 3: if you're a god, fair a woman, whoever you believe to,
Speaker 3: whoever you believe your creator is, pray, pray, go to them,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Start reading, Start meditating, you know,
Speaker 3: find different ways to clear your mind. You need somebody
Speaker 3: to talk to, you know, because if you leave all
Speaker 3: of this bottled up, who are you unleashing on?
Speaker 1: What is your outlet?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: It sounds like all you do is work, work, work, work, work,
Speaker 3: and you're not even appreciating yourself for the work that
Speaker 3: you've already done and the work that you're doing, you
Speaker 3: know what I mean. So one, you need a team.
Speaker 3: Two you need meditation, You need somebody you can talk
Speaker 3: to about this, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And you need to give yourself grace.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay to take a break, and you're about
Speaker 3: to say, right, yeah, I think that's what she's missing.
Speaker 3: Also is some good me time and some you know
Speaker 3: things like that. All right, So keep a bitch updated,
Speaker 3: Hold up, Hold up, I noticed shit getting good. But
Speaker 3: listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. If
Speaker 3: you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 1: All right, Here we go, Jess, I love you girl.
Speaker 1: I love you tuboo.
Speaker 3: Thank you for taking a time to read this. If
Speaker 3: you do so, my situation isn't too bad, but I
Speaker 3: would like your opinion. So, my mom lost her husband
Speaker 3: about four years ago, and I want to get her
Speaker 3: back out there. I'm not trying to rush her grief
Speaker 3: or anything, because I get it. I miss him as well.
Speaker 3: But he wouldn't want her to keep holding herself back
Speaker 3: like this. For example, there's this guy at her job
Speaker 3: and really likes her. He really likes her. He always
Speaker 3: compliments her, saying how beautiful she is and just flirting
Speaker 3: with her. You can tell he has a crush on her,
Speaker 3: and she is just so stand offish to him. He
Speaker 3: is real consistent, though. I'll give him that. That man
Speaker 3: goes hard for her and period. Because my mom is
Speaker 3: that girl. I know that's why you pick up your mama,
Speaker 3: Because my mam and that girl too. I just want
Speaker 3: her to realize it again. Any tips that you could
Speaker 3: think of that I could give her all well, because
Speaker 3: your mom is that girl, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Just because she's that girl does not mean that she's
Speaker 3: ready to jump back out there. I know four years
Speaker 3: may be ah, you know, a long enough time for you,
Speaker 3: but just think about it.
Speaker 1: Look at Lauren London.
Speaker 3: How long ago have Nipsey passed? You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: And we haven't seen her pop out with and also.
Speaker 4: Say that she she's not going to she doesn't want
Speaker 4: to date, like she just like part of her religion
Speaker 4: in a sense, okay.
Speaker 3: Because I know Nipsey was the love of her fucking life,
Speaker 3: so who else can even amount up.
Speaker 1: To that guy that he was in her life?
Speaker 3: And kids like yeah, and I and I feel like
Speaker 3: she is one hundred percent okay with that going through
Speaker 3: the rest of her life not being with anyone, not
Speaker 3: devoting her heart to another. You know, I know that crazy,
Speaker 3: That seems so sad, but I kind of stand it.
Speaker 3: And that's why I'm saying that, like that's trauma because
Speaker 3: even with the listener, her mom might get anxiety like
Speaker 3: going on a date and make me feel guilty, like
Speaker 3: it's like a whole other step and then four years.
Speaker 3: It's not that long to you know what I mean,
Speaker 3: I be that long to her mom. I know it's
Speaker 3: not even that long to me. And I'm not even
Speaker 3: in that predicament, you know. She it's not like this
Speaker 3: was a divorce that her husband passed away. Her husband died,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So it's like, damn, you know,
Speaker 3: holding onto memories and then like is she even gonna
Speaker 3: be thinking about him on the day with.
Speaker 1: The guy or she can't get a lot of her
Speaker 1: mind yet? You know, are you?
Speaker 4: Are you?
Speaker 1: Is your mom healed?
Speaker 3: Yet you don't even know if she's healed from the
Speaker 3: passing of her husband. And her husband, I'm sure was
Speaker 3: her best friend. It's like, this ain't only my husband,
Speaker 3: this is my best friend. This is my lifelong partner,
Speaker 3: and his life was cut work. So I remember, it's
Speaker 3: a lot.
Speaker 4: It's a lot of my My grandfather passed and I
Speaker 4: felt like it was maybe like.
Speaker 1: A couple of years.
Speaker 4: And again they were they're older, but even myself, I'm
Speaker 4: dripping by my grandfather. So like my mom my aunts
Speaker 4: were saying like, oh, like call my grandma mom, like, oh, mom,
Speaker 4: got a hot date, And I was like that's not funny. Yeah,
Speaker 4: like yeah, I don't know, Like it's just like you're
Speaker 4: trying to make light of us situation, Like.
Speaker 1: You're definitely not over it. You don't feel like it's
Speaker 1: funny or cute. No, like it.
Speaker 4: Is not talking about Yeah like a no damn hot
Speaker 4: date going on over here and me all is not
Speaker 4: fucking happy over here. She like laughed, like, but I
Speaker 4: was like no, but what if she was really feeling
Speaker 4: like I mean, I'm like, what have inside? She was
Speaker 4: feeling like you like they're making fun of it, but
Speaker 4: it's like no, I'm really like I don't I'm not
Speaker 4: ready for that. For years, like what I'm saying like
Speaker 4: more than forty years, Like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, your grandmother is still look young though she's
Speaker 3: still out there. I mean she's not, but she still
Speaker 3: looks like she could be.
Speaker 1: This probably was now like fifteen so years ago.
Speaker 4: My grandma's in her nineties now, okay, she was like
Speaker 4: probably seventy.
Speaker 1: Did she ever like date again? No?
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she was probably content with that, Like I'm
Speaker 3: okay with that. You know, my husband is gone, you know,
Speaker 3: God rest the soul. But that was my partner. Dad
Speaker 3: was my guy. I don't feel like somebody else could
Speaker 3: measure up to that. So I'm not even gonna waste
Speaker 3: nobody's time, you know. But I do feel like she
Speaker 3: should let her mom kind of heal a lot more
Speaker 3: she I think her moms.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: That's why I say she got the Now this story
Speaker 3: wasn't exactly boneless. I ain't gonna say it's boneless, but
Speaker 3: you did leave some skin off the meat, all right.
Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, do you still catch your
Speaker 3: mom crying? Is your mom still like in her mood
Speaker 3: sometimes where she just misses her not? I don't want
Speaker 3: to call this man your dad because you didn't say
Speaker 3: my dad. You said her husband, you know, in which
Speaker 3: you said you missed him too. So I'm guessing that
Speaker 3: you guys had and okay enough relationship. Yeah, Like I said,
Speaker 3: although your mom is that girl beautiful, probably is as
Speaker 3: beautiful as the day is long, A bubbly personality, a
Speaker 3: beautiful woman inside and out. I what if she's just
Speaker 3: not ready. You have to consider her feelings as well,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? With her and her husband
Speaker 3: shared Definitely, it's not something that she can just get
Speaker 3: over in four years. Again, like I said, four years
Speaker 3: may be a long time to you, but not to
Speaker 3: a wife who just lost the husband.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how long were they how long
Speaker 1: were they married?
Speaker 3: And when your mom's ex husband, y, I'm sorry, And
Speaker 3: when your mom husband's was a husband was alive, When
Speaker 3: your mom's husband was alive, did you feel like she
Speaker 3: was the happiest that you've ever seen her? You know
Speaker 3: what I mean? Because maybe she was, you know what
Speaker 3: I mean? If she was, do not get it, but
Speaker 3: maybe she was. So you don't want to, you know,
Speaker 3: push mommy into doing something like that, that something that
Speaker 3: she will possibly regret or resent.
Speaker 1: You know, you don't want your mom.
Speaker 3: You don't want to create no beef between you and
Speaker 3: your mom either, you know, because right now you got
Speaker 3: to be strong for her because this is your girl,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. You gotta be strong for her.
Speaker 3: So I just want to say, I love you. Tell
Speaker 3: your mom I love her. Go give her a wrap
Speaker 3: your arms around her.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: Still also continue to uplift her though, without pushing her
Speaker 3: into you know, let the guy keep it ain't going
Speaker 3: no damn way, and she worked with him. Shit, let
Speaker 3: him keep on you know, making Yeah, she might not
Speaker 3: want a data nigga that she worked with. You know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, she may not and she and just
Speaker 3: because he like her don't mean that she don't like him.
Speaker 3: So when she is finally ready, let her choose who
Speaker 3: she wants or you know, then you can set her
Speaker 3: up on some dates or whatever like that. But I
Speaker 3: think it's nothing wrong with the guy having a crush
Speaker 3: on her. I also feel like there's nothing wrong with
Speaker 3: you wanting your mom to get back out of there,
Speaker 3: to get back out there and stuff, but continue to
Speaker 3: uplift her because she may not be ready, you know,
Speaker 3: so it ain't nothing wrong with that. And just like that,
Speaker 3: we've come to the end of yet another carefully reckless
Speaker 3: episode with your girl.
Speaker 1: Just hilarious. And my boot tailor is here, my baby mama,
Speaker 1: say bye, Taylor. Hey, she's catching on, y'all, but she's
Speaker 1: catching on. Catch us next week right here, Peace.
Speaker 4: May be.
Speaker 1: And the
Speaker 4: Mad