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Speaker 3: Welcome to Can't beleeve Reckless, the production of iHeartRadio and

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Speaker 3: The Black Effects And just like that, we're back on

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Speaker 3: the air. Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless episode.

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Speaker 1: With your jess. Hilarious.

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Speaker 3: What I be doing, i'd be fixing mess. Taylor is

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Speaker 3: in here with me, but she's working or whatever. So

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Speaker 3: when she's tied, y'all, she says she's tied to y'all

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Speaker 3: senning and all these bullshit ay stories y'all can't spell,

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Speaker 3: y'all can't read not so I listen. She's pregnant, all,

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Speaker 3: so she just she's just tired, that's all. Baby's kicking,

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Speaker 3: and the baby is kicking, y'all, So she she's sick

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Speaker 3: of y'all, just like I was sick of y'all before.

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Speaker 1: But she's gonna be so just being with it.

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Speaker 3: Y'all know, y'all ever been pregnant, y'all know, it's a

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Speaker 3: lot of fucks that you don't give about a lot

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Speaker 3: of shit. So it's very hard to be pregnant and

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Speaker 3: to care about a lot of shit other than the baby.

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Speaker 1: Are you nervous yes? Her birth?

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Speaker 3: Okay, yes you are, because this is our first one.

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Speaker 3: She's having a little boy, and this is her first baby.

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Speaker 3: This is her and her man's first baby. So is

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Speaker 3: he just starting to get on your nerves as he's

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Speaker 3: starting to know? I mean, because it's gonna be that

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Speaker 3: phase that you go through, like yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean, we get into like little tiny arguments, but

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Speaker 4: it's like he just says, it's.

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Speaker 1: My hormonal Yeah whatever. But he's good. He's good though.

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Speaker 3: Now Listen, I know I've shed a little bit of

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Speaker 3: light on this before, but Taylor, when I was pregnant,

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Speaker 3: Taylor just didn't I'm not gonna say she didn't want kids,

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Speaker 3: but she didn't want to be the one to have

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Speaker 3: the kids. This is the woman who said that she

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Speaker 3: doesn't feel like I have to carry the baby for

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Speaker 3: nine months, and.

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Speaker 1: She still feels that way. I so wholeheartedly.

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Speaker 4: I just feel like, like, cool, the experience is great,

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Speaker 4: Like I get to feel his flooter's cool, but I

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Speaker 4: still want to like do some other stuff, Like yeah,

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Speaker 3: You want to be able to smoke, You want to

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Speaker 3: be you want to break from being pregnant, like not much.

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Speaker 1: Strain's too goddamn long for you.

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Speaker 4: But did you know that elephants afgans have to be

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Speaker 4: pregnant for two years? Isn't that crazy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: And you, while you're sitting over heer complaining about nine

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Speaker 3: months them big motherfucker's got to walk around with another

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Speaker 3: big motherfucker inside of him for two years, two years

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Speaker 3: just saying fun fact like no elephant like funat but

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Speaker 3: that ain't fun y'all fucking humans complain about so much ship.

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Speaker 1: How are you gonna how do you plan to give birth? Boo?

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Speaker 1: Do you plan to natural? Natural? Epidoral? Just give me

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Speaker 1: your business a little bit. I know I'm not. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. We'll see. I'm not gonna make it.

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Speaker 1: Think I'm gonna try to. You're not speak.

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Speaker 4: I'm saying like as in like natural wise like I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna try as hard as I can't, but yeah, tell

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Speaker 4: me that epida as soon as like yeah, like but

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Speaker 1: I know that's gonna beautiful. I love it. I would

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Speaker 4: It's just a pain, that's all. Like if if it

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Speaker 1: So do you want more than one kid? He does?

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Speaker 1: I want to say the second one? Yeah, family, can

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Speaker 3: The only thing that makes you not want to do

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Speaker 1: Exactly, I'm having a boy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's gonna be so close to him daddy. Girl,

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Speaker 3: Your man is gonna be so in love with this baby.

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Speaker 3: I know it's gonna be hard for you to be like.

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Speaker 3: He was like, look go ahead, bab I mean I

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Speaker 3: got this. I've been doing this more than you. You're

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Speaker 4: This is his son, girl, I know I already see it.

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Speaker 4: He's yeah, yeah, I already know how he's about to

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Speaker 4: be how he is now. But he thinks he's about

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Speaker 4: had to tell him. I was like, why don't you

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Speaker 1: Shut up? Stop y'all? So are you gonna do the

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Speaker 1: mommy makeover?

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Speaker 2: Shit?

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Speaker 3: Are you going to because you're breast beating, so you're

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Speaker 3: already gonna go back snatch. Now listen, Taylor got off

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Speaker 3: So when she come back snatched, don't be talking about,

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Speaker 3: oh did she do ozempical? Did she lay on the

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Speaker 1: She ain't gonna do it. She is scared ass girl,

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Speaker 3: But I can't wait to see what the snapback gonna

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Speaker 3: So I'm glad to hear that you are breastfeeding. Hanging

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Speaker 3: now we're gonna jump straight into it. I just had

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Speaker 1: Is my girl. I still cannot believe that she actually

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Speaker 1: I just can't believe and I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: Shed this was one of the last people everyone that

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Speaker 1: incubators that you can put the baby in. Sciences just

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Speaker 4: Science needs to step up because there are still they're

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Speaker 4: still trying to make flying cars.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they still try to make men have babyesuit some

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Speaker 1: That would be nice too, What would be nice too

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Speaker 1: if niggas can have babies.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying so, Yeah, I told Hi, I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: get the contraction about too for him, And he's like.

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Speaker 3: You want to be you mean in that sense like

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Speaker 1: Away, you know what the feeling. Maybe he will like

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Speaker 4: Seeing like our biers I made for this and everything,

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Speaker 4: I'm not taking that back.

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Speaker 1: I'm insane.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, you know everybody's there if we.

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Speaker 4: Both shared this baby.

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Speaker 1: and then he carried a yeah, like make it fair.

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Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and

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Speaker 1: then we'll be right back.

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Speaker 4: I get it though, like women were powerful, like because

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Speaker 1: Like first off, I get ever let her back on

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Speaker 4: Saying, like it's a lie, it's my first one.

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Speaker 1: It's okay.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm giving you a break. I trust me, I understand.

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Speaker 3: But them niggas ain't never have no babies. So here

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Speaker 1: Give me in trouble. They're gonna be writing in life

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Speaker 1: first of all, bitch like don't come from us, but

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Speaker 3: No for sure, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, but here we are, Hi, Jess.

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Speaker 3: If I'm not busy doing something, then I feel unproductive.

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Speaker 3: Some people will put that on postpartum depression. I don't

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Speaker 3: You know, you need everybody, need somebody to make these

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Speaker 3: So there are different puzzles, I mean, different pieces to

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Speaker 1: What is your outlet?

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Speaker 3: It sounds like all you do is work, work, work, work, work,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay to take a break, and you're about

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Speaker 3: Thank you for taking a time to read this. If

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, your grandmother is still look young though she's

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Speaker 3: That's why I say she got the Now this story

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Speaker 3: although your mom is that girl beautiful, probably is as

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Speaker 3: beautiful as the day is long, A bubbly personality, a

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Speaker 3: beautiful woman inside and out. I what if she's just

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Speaker 3: not ready. You have to consider her feelings as well,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean? With her and her husband

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Speaker 3: shared Definitely, it's not something that she can just get

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Speaker 3: over in four years. Again, like I said, four years

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Speaker 3: may be a long time to you, but not to

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Speaker 3: a wife who just lost the husband.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how long were they how long

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Speaker 1: were they married?

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Speaker 3: And when your mom's ex husband, y, I'm sorry, And

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Speaker 3: when your mom husband's was a husband was alive, When

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Speaker 3: your mom's husband was alive, did you feel like she

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Speaker 3: was the happiest that you've ever seen her? You know

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Speaker 3: what I mean? Because maybe she was, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean? If she was, do not get it, but

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Speaker 3: maybe she was. So you don't want to, you know,

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Speaker 3: push mommy into doing something like that, that something that

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Speaker 3: she will possibly regret or resent.

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Speaker 1: You know, you don't want your mom.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to create no beef between you and

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Speaker 3: your mom either, you know, because right now you got

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Speaker 3: to be strong for her because this is your girl,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. You gotta be strong for her.

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Speaker 3: So I just want to say, I love you. Tell

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Speaker 3: your mom I love her. Go give her a wrap

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Speaker 3: your arms around her.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Still also continue to uplift her though, without pushing her

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Speaker 3: into you know, let the guy keep it ain't going

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Speaker 3: no damn way, and she worked with him. Shit, let

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Speaker 3: him keep on you know, making Yeah, she might not

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Speaker 3: want a data nigga that she worked with. You know

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying, she may not and she and just

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Speaker 3: because he like her don't mean that she don't like him.

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Speaker 3: So when she is finally ready, let her choose who

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Speaker 3: she wants or you know, then you can set her

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Speaker 3: up on some dates or whatever like that. But I

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Speaker 3: think it's nothing wrong with the guy having a crush

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Speaker 3: on her. I also feel like there's nothing wrong with

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Speaker 3: you wanting your mom to get back out of there,

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Speaker 3: to get back out there and stuff, but continue to

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Speaker 3: uplift her because she may not be ready, you know,

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Speaker 3: so it ain't nothing wrong with that. And just like that,

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Speaker 3: we've come to the end of yet another carefully reckless

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Speaker 3: episode with your girl.

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Speaker 1: Just hilarious. And my boot tailor is here, my baby mama,

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Speaker 1: say bye, Taylor. Hey, she's catching on, y'all, but she's

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Speaker 1: catching on. Catch us next week right here, Peace.

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Speaker 4: May be.

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Speaker 1: And the

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Speaker 4: Mad