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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo.

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Speaker 2: Brion Tapeka says, I'm getting a man that has only

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Speaker 2: been divorced for a year and he's already asked me

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Speaker 2: to move in with him. I can tell that his

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Speaker 2: teenage sons need a little more time to get to

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Speaker 2: know me before they see me in their.

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Speaker 1: Mom's house when they come to visit.

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Speaker 2: My man said, I should only be focused on his needs.

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Speaker 1: Is he right?

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Speaker 3: Well, that's not how it's going to work. You're entering

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Speaker 3: into a blended family situation. You said something in your

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Speaker 3: statement that's kind of telling you don't think they're ready

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Speaker 3: for someone to move into their mom's house. M Now,

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Speaker 3: let me explain something to the divorce. Even though it's

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Speaker 3: only been a year, the divorce is simply the day

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Speaker 3: that the court system legalized the divorce.

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Speaker 4: The divorce has.

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Speaker 3: Been occurring probably years before that, so it's not a

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Speaker 3: year is too soon? I think what the too soon

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Speaker 3: part is for the children, And I do think that

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Speaker 3: you have to build a better relationship with them and

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Speaker 3: take your time. Yeah, he would love for it, because

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Speaker 3: he's a guy all eyes on me, all attention on me.

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Speaker 3: Of course that's being selfish, but there are some other

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Speaker 3: people involved here, and if he has custody of those boys, which.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like it does, or he may not. I

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Speaker 4: don't know.

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Speaker 1: They come to visit.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Well they on their mom's side.

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Speaker 3: You do understand that winning them over, especially if they

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Speaker 3: had no problem with the mom. It's gonna be a problem.

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Speaker 3: Anytime you get into a plan of family, it's gonna

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Speaker 3: be some problems. So you have to just spare up,

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Speaker 3: take your time, do the right thing, and trust your intuition.

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Speaker 4: All right, all right?

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Speaker 2: Moving on to Frisia and Orlando, Frazier writes, I have

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Speaker 2: been going to the same hairstylist for almost thirty years,

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Speaker 2: and I went in yesterday.

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Speaker 1: She didn't speak and we barely talk. She's a moody.

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Speaker 2: Person, but if I'm paying her to do my hair,

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Speaker 2: she should have manners.

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Speaker 1: Is it time to find a new stylist?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And as to the two things, it's time for

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Speaker 3: it's time for a new stylist, and it's time for

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Speaker 3: a new damn halfstyle.

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Speaker 4: In the same damn hairstyle for thirty damn year.

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Speaker 3: She might not be speaking to you because she tied

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Speaker 3: of doing the same old pressings set every time you

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Speaker 3: bring your hands in there. Don't nobody do bangs. No

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Speaker 3: more time doing that. That could be the problem right here.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if she moved you or not, but

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Speaker 3: you pay her to do your hair. You're gonna pay

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Speaker 3: her to talk and be kind and cordial that people

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Speaker 3: should have manners. And now you go to beauty Salona's

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Speaker 3: like a female's country club. When they go to the

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Speaker 3: beauty salon off the time they talk and share. She's

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Speaker 3: kind of like the black man's country club is the barbershop.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I can understand where you're coming from. But

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Speaker 3: thirty years of the same damn halfstyle. She probably sick

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Speaker 3: of you right now. She got the all all these

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Speaker 3: old ass products that they don't make. No Bok centip

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Speaker 3: you the older wall using pro liners. You the only

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Speaker 3: one got Pergamont, only one got you, the old wont

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Speaker 3: they have greens with Glover's.

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Speaker 4: Maine and something eight.

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Speaker 3: You the only one over here shaking up a bottle

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Speaker 3: of curl free. Yeah, she probably just she got a

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Speaker 3: curl just shaking the bottle level, that's what. Yeah, here

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Speaker 3: she come again, this old ass hairstyle. I got a

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Speaker 3: din of damn caroly and I plugged up for her.

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Speaker 2: All right, Frezier moving on to Teddy and Nashville Teddy Rights.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure my girl called me the wrong name

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Speaker 2: in bed, but she's so good at lying, I'll never

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Speaker 2: know the truth. I want to get her back by

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Speaker 2: calling her the wrong name, and then will be even

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Speaker 2: Is it a good way to get revenge or will

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Speaker 2: it backfire?

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Speaker 3: Don't get stupid. This ain't no, even ain't no even

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Speaker 3: the dog. You can't out man a woman. You can't

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Speaker 3: out think a woman. You can't out with venge a woman.

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Speaker 3: Don't don't go down there. That's a dog alley down

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Speaker 3: there for on to come. That's a dog alley with

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Speaker 3: a whole lot of dumpsters in that alley. It's all

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Speaker 3: types of gonna pop up on your ass.

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Speaker 4: Boy, Listen to me.

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Speaker 3: That's like walking down the dog alley in the in

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Speaker 3: the in the in the TV show on HBO the Wire.

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Speaker 3: You in Baltimore walking down the dog alley with trash

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Speaker 3: dumpters and the and the alley is eight miles long.

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Speaker 3: You don't think nothing to happen you go down here.

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Speaker 3: You better stay your hands out there where them street

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Speaker 3: lights is the string of bell baby, that's what.

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Speaker 4: You find to be on the wire.

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Speaker 3: Boy, you gonna have to throw about four five phones

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Speaker 3: out the windo before you get to the end of day. Boy,

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Speaker 3: don't do that. Don't don't let it do that. If

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Speaker 3: she lied to you, that's fine. Man, gonna do what

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Speaker 3: you're gonna do. Y'all ain't gonna make it no way,

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Speaker 3: But don't try this revenge mode.

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Speaker 4: Call her another woman's name.

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Speaker 1: Boy boy, all right, great advice. Elo.

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Speaker 2: Last one amber in East Point says, my husband smokes cigars,

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Speaker 2: and the terrible taste from the cigars is messing up

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Speaker 2: our intimacy. I love to kiss my husband, but I

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Speaker 2: hate leftover cigar breath. I turned my head away from

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Speaker 2: him during sex, and he said, I'm over reacting. Should

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Speaker 2: I give him an ultimatum about cigars and our sex life?

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 4: I've had it, Yes, give it to it. I've had it. Yes,

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Speaker 4: what happens if it?

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Speaker 3: Tell him? You got man them cigars and I like coffee.

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Speaker 4: So see, now I have to travel with a certain kind.

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Speaker 3: They got smoker mints out there, and then they got

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Speaker 3: listerine strips. Got to keep constantly and then see, as

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Speaker 3: soon as you smoke, you need to go somewhere and

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Speaker 3: do some dental hygiene.

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Speaker 4: As soon as you smoke.

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Speaker 3: You gotta go to these little bathrooms and do stuff

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Speaker 3: right here. A beautiful tip. Now it's nasty, but it's

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Speaker 3: a beautiful tip. Get yourself one of those thick napkins

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Speaker 3: at a public ressroom and run it under some water

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Speaker 3: and put your ass some soap on it, and just

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Speaker 3: put it in your mouth and move it around.

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Speaker 4: You gotta you gotta wash your mouth out.

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Speaker 1: Not literally, you're literally watching your mouth out with it.

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Speaker 3: If you want to keep your breath. Okay, well you

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Speaker 3: can talk to these folks after this cigar. I'm just

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Speaker 3: telling you. Just try a country. It's a country assthma.

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Speaker 3: My father tart it to me, and your brother's tarted

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Speaker 3: to me. And that's how you do it. If you're

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Speaker 3: out and about, you can do it. It ain't that bad.

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Speaker 3: It's just soap, you know, it's just soap. It's back

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Speaker 3: to your soap. It's clean. It gets with her back

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Speaker 3: to boom, boom boom. That's how you do it. If

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Speaker 3: you're on the golf course. Every golf course in the

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Speaker 3: country club they got misterene and breath stuff and disposable

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Speaker 3: tooth busses in there. But you got to do that.

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Speaker 3: And no, she's not overreacting, that's real. And if you

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Speaker 3: let it sit in your mouth for hours, you smell

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Speaker 3: like a trash can.

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Speaker 4: All right, am I smoking? Sitting down?

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Speaker 3: Set it down, go get another one.

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Speaker 4: You can't do that with sex. This you can't start.

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Speaker 3: Put her down and go get another one. See how

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Speaker 3: long that marriages Heller. This is Steve Harven more on

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Speaker 3: the show Man. Ain't nobody playing with y'all. I do

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Speaker 3: not have a problem with false teeth, but you can't

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Speaker 3: take them out on the first day.

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Speaker 4: You can't take them out with me.

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Speaker 3: Ever, at no point is I answer dinner. You reach

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Speaker 3: up in your head, pull a old row damn tee found,

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Speaker 3: set him down on the table.

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Speaker 4: Give it, damn.

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Speaker 3: If you don't put them in glass, you can wrap

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Speaker 3: them up in your handkerchief, put them in your top pocket.

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Speaker 4: I don't give it.

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Speaker 3: Damn. If you know how to spin them teeth on

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Speaker 3: your finger like a basketball, you want to be sitting

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Speaker 3: up in here and watching your teeth go around.

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Speaker 4: There's more than thief over and more than show coming up.

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Speaker 4: Right after that,