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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 2: Yes we are, my girl, my girl.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you've been staring at me with that look in

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Speaker 1: your eye since I walked in.

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Speaker 2: I just am so loving you lately.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I have just done anything to

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Speaker 1: deserve that.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you have, and you are and it's just your

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Speaker 3: essence and your being and who you are. So I

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Speaker 3: don't know why you're so squeamish about it, like accept

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Speaker 3: the love except the love I want to give you

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Speaker 3: and show you.

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Speaker 1: I accept it. I just am like, why out of nowhere,

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Speaker 1: I haven't done like I haven't. We haven't spent time

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Speaker 1: together in like an intimate setting, so I'm just trying to.

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Speaker 2: Gage it very intimate lately, quite frankly.

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Speaker 1: Not that intimate.

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Speaker 2: Hell, so just like chilling like a villain.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, actually no, we're not in our backguard living room, Hags.

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Speaker 1: We did have some living room, Hans. Yeah, I have

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Speaker 1: a Kinker store right now. And let me just tell

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Speaker 1: you debilitating.

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Speaker 2: Oh is it on your right side? I can see swollen.

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Speaker 1: My whole lift is swollen. I get them so bad

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Speaker 1: and they're so dramatic, and I was thinking, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking earlier, I was like, I want to

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Speaker 1: wish this on my worst end to me, but I

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Speaker 1: was like, you know what, this would be the perfect

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Speaker 1: thing to wish because it's not like death, but it's

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Speaker 1: like pain.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it looks like could I pop it?

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Speaker 1: No, you can't pop it.

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Speaker 2: It looks poppable, it's not.

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Speaker 1: That's just like what don't no, please listening, Please never

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Speaker 1: try to pop a anchor.

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Speaker 2: Sword spoiler alert.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's been just really tough. And then Haley

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Speaker 1: and I went and ate dinner and I was aggressively

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Speaker 1: eating pasta because it was so good and I bit

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Speaker 1: it and that's where it went downhill.

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Speaker 2: I literally can see it from here.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so every time Haley goes to kiss me,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, like just because the other side of

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Speaker 1: my mouth.

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Speaker 2: You know what you should do?

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Speaker 3: Though, Whenever I have a canker swore, I take this

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Speaker 3: is I'm not a doctor, so just take.

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Speaker 1: This just so it's worth just a disclaimer.

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Speaker 3: Disclaimer, but it works for me like a charm. Okay,

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Speaker 3: whenever I have a canker swore, I take a Q

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Speaker 3: tip and I dip it in warm water, and then

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Speaker 3: I stick it in a pile of salt, like Himalayan

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Speaker 3: pink salt, and then I put it right on the

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Speaker 3: canker swore, and I just hold it there, and I

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Speaker 3: just hold it there, and I just hold it there

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Speaker 3: and then I do that like duck. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 3: do that like two or three times, and then the

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Speaker 3: next day it's like significantly better.

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Speaker 1: So I've heard of this. I have dealt with cankers

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Speaker 1: like they come when I'm stressed, which I haven't been stressed,

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Speaker 1: So I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know why I'm stressed about let's talk about that.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not stressed, but you know what I think happened.

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Speaker 1: I've been baking and using like so much sugar and

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Speaker 1: like butter and flour, and I think and I've been

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Speaker 1: eating cookies like the literal cookie.

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Speaker 2: Monster canker stores from sugar.

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Speaker 1: Can you you don't think I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: think so, because I haven't really been stressed, unless it's

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Speaker 1: like a delayed something from being stressed.

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Speaker 4: They're caused by emotional stress, dietary deficiencies, menstrual period.

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Speaker 2: Not excessities excessivities.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I imagine I'm very deficient in nutrients as we

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Speaker 1: can imagine, as I'm eating like four to five chocolate

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Speaker 4: For meal, consuming a lot of sugar foods. That's on there,

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Speaker 4: totally feeding me facts about canker.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Mark for the canker facts.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think that could be it because I

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Speaker 1: got on this ever since Thanksgiving all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: I'm like a baker. It's just in my it's passion. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's my fixation of the month.

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Speaker 3: I guess instead of scrubbing in and we should call

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Speaker 3: it baking in, baking in.

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Speaker 1: It's just like we talked about baking or what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, our new recipe of the week could be cute.

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Speaker 1: Well, I can't be doing it because it's causing me

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry about that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Wow, we had a big weekend, Well you had a

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Speaker 1: big weekend. Min was pretty fine. That's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: It it was a big weekend. And you know what,

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Speaker 3: What when I and I don't know if it's age,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just gonna have to chalk it up to age.

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Speaker 3: I cannot not have a good night's sleep and function

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Speaker 3: normally the next day, like I had.

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Speaker 2: Do you ever get chills when you're really tired?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get like achy, like I feel like I'm

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Speaker 3: I had the chills all weekend long, like just like

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Speaker 3: I was frigid all weekend because I was just so tired.

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Speaker 1: It was actually pretty cold in Malibu too, so I

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Speaker 1: think jingle Ball.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it's a combination of all things. But I

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Speaker 3: was like, wow, I've never I've never had like the

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Speaker 2: But totally worth it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean totally worth it for the chills.

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Speaker 1: I loved your jingle Ball outfit. I thought you got

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Speaker 3: I know, Becca Goes did Brian style you. I was like,

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Speaker 3: this is a Tanya rad special baby.

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Speaker 1: I love that designer resiic.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how that's it by.

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Speaker 1: Ariel, who is a designer. Aril Resik at a dinner

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Speaker 1: that I went to and we were just talking and

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Speaker 1: she was like, oh, yeah, I have a clothing line

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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh what is it? And she

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Speaker 1: told me and I would I would always see it

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Speaker 1: on my feed and I was like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I love your stuff. So when you when you wore

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Speaker 2: There, there she is.

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Speaker 3: And I was going to actually get it in white,

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Speaker 3: because you know, like jingle Ball, So I did it

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Speaker 3: in green, but and then I found the US on Amazon.

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Speaker 2: I mean I literally typed in green.

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Speaker 3: I think I typed in like Emerald green heels, and

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Speaker 3: crossing my fingers that it would match, and it matched perfectly.

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Speaker 2: And they were very comfortable too.

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Speaker 1: You gonna ask were they of comfort?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean I wouldn't say like, no, heel to me

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Speaker 2: Like a hookah.

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Speaker 3: But hokkah, hookah, hakka, hokah.

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Speaker 1: She's gone downhill.

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Speaker 2: It's not like I'm walking around a hookah. But for heels,

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Speaker 2: they were very comfortable. Great, Well, you looked great, Thank

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Speaker 2: you so much.

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Speaker 1: How was jingle Ball super super cute?

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Speaker 3: Do you know who I'd love to have on the

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Speaker 3: podcast if he's around, although not really sure where he's

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Speaker 3: living these days.

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Speaker 1: Let me guess, did he perform yes? Flow Rider?

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Speaker 1: He I don't even know who.

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Speaker 2: Because I got's flow Rider and that's.

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Speaker 1: All Rodrigo and Brina Carpenter and flow Rider.

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Speaker 3: No Easton gotta guess uh a Jr.

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Speaker 2: Nope, but close.

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Speaker 1: I don't close.

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Speaker 3: I remember who played all right, I'm just gonna tell

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Speaker 3: you now Horn Oh we love now.

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Speaker 3: I haven't seen him since before the pandemic. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: Like it's been a minute. And we were in the

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Speaker 3: hair congratulations on order, and I was like, you are

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Speaker 3: the cutest thing in the whole world.

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Speaker 1: I weirdly feel like I feel like he's so massive,

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Speaker 1: and yet he feels attainable for our show.

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Speaker 2: I think so too.

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Speaker 1: Something to work on.

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Speaker 2: Something to work on.

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Speaker 3: Although twenty twenty three was the year for Patrick Dempsey

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Speaker 3: and it's coming really to the end.

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Speaker 1: I have a strong feeling, not to be negative or

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Speaker 1: Debbie Downer, that we're not going to get we will

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Speaker 1: not have him in doing twenty three.

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Speaker 3: You know what, I don't like that attitude. I know

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Speaker 3: you want it up until December thirty. First, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: hold out hope.

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Speaker 1: I love that about you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, and if not, maybe we get a Patrick

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Speaker 2: dempsty impersonator or something.

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Speaker 1: I want the real thing.

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Speaker 2: I want the real thing too.

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Speaker 1: I sit here and stare at him and marvel at him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but now Horn was super super cute and actually

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Speaker 3: he was watching. At the end of the night, Olivia

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Speaker 3: Rodrigo ended the show she like closed, you know, like

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Speaker 3: the headliner, and he was standing on the side of

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Speaker 2: I think it's like the cutest thing ever.

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Speaker 1: You think he was trying to shoot a shot.

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Speaker 3: Uh No, I don't think he was trying to shoot

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Speaker 3: a shot. I think it was just like chillin' okay,

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Speaker 3: but it was so cute. Is Nil Horn single?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what about him. For Raquel, I'd be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I do feel somebody's probably tried to set

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Speaker 3: them up already at some point. I don't know for sure,

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Speaker 3: but I feel like that path might have already been.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just over here trying to match make where

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Speaker 1: I can end her text? Have you everyone I asked

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Speaker 1: her about She's like.

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Speaker 4: No, she's pretty pick I believe he's in a relationship.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna say, I feel like I have designer

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Speaker 4: shoe buyer.

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Speaker 1: Okay, congrats Nia. We will not be trying to set

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Speaker 1: her up with our friend Raquel. I mean, I'm up

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Speaker 1: with our friend.

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Speaker 3: No, we will not be trying to set them upright,

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Speaker 3: It's still cute.

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Speaker 2: Nonetheless, what was.

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Speaker 1: Who was your favorite performer?

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Speaker 2: Alvia Rodrigo?

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Speaker 3: So you know Olivia is managed by Aleen Kashishian. If

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Speaker 3: you don't know who Aleen Kashishian is, she is a

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Speaker 3: Selena gomezz.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was like, I heard that same.

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Speaker 3: But she's so badass, like she always has all these

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Speaker 3: talks and she's like such a super like women for women,

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Speaker 3: That's our order. That's very martini tasting. The Leachi martini

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Speaker 1: I was like give it to Robbie and he's like,

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Speaker 1: I can't take a blanket. I'm a man.

449
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:22,640
Speaker 2: I was like, oh god, he's a mirror on their mirror.

450
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 7: Yeah.

451
00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:25,680
Speaker 1: He was like shivering and then he finally took it.

452
00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 1: He's like, that's really what a man does. Exactly said

453
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,640
Speaker 1: I'm cold, and he takes the health given.

454
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Speaker 2: Exactly a modern man.

455
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,840
Speaker 1: A modern man.

456
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Speaker 2: So we actually came to a.

457
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Speaker 3: Discovery at that dinner that I want to get to

458
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Speaker 3: when we come back.

459
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Speaker 7: Great tease you know what I'm trying to say.

460
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Speaker 1: All right, we're back. What discovery did you come to?

461
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Speaker 3: So spoiler alert if you are not aware. I am

462
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:14,640
Speaker 3: obsessed with Survivor and I found out on Saturday night

463
00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:22,320
Speaker 3: that Dean Belle formerly Dean Anglert wants to be on Survivor.

464
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 3: H like actually legitimately wants to be on the show.

465
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:26,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

466
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 3: I don't know anybody at CBS except for the girl

467
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 3: behind their instagram, which is pretty good. Yeah, I'm gonna

468
00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,959
Speaker 3: try dming. I don't really know how that people do

469
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 3: they do you nominate people, do.

470
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 2: They like apply?

471
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:42,280
Speaker 1: I don't know.

472
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 3: Watching Dean on Survivor would be top tier television in

473
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 3: my opinion.

474
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 1: He doesn't want he said, he doesn't want to like

475
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 1: go through an audition process. He just wants them to

476
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,439
Speaker 1: come to him and say, like, we want you on

477
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 1: the show. He doesn't want to have to go through

478
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 1: like any like do they have an audition process? No,

479
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 1: but probably like how the Bachelor, it was like you

480
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 1: went and and and then I don't know, tell me, oh, okay,

481
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 1: this is a fun little I don't know if I've

482
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,479
Speaker 1: ever told this. Maybe I have. We've had it's been

483
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: six years of this podcast heard it.

484
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 3: I didn't know there was a process. So you sent

485
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 3: in a tape and then they pick you.

486
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 1: No, no, no, So Laura nominated me.

487
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, and I uh like she would always she watched

488
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 8: it like loyally at the time, and she would always

489
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 8: be like, Becca, let's send in a video of you

490
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:35,120
Speaker 8: for the Bachelor.

491
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, I'll never do that, you know.

492
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 1: It was very like straight laz, I'm not chasing a man. Hello,

493
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: And and so she texted me it was like on

494
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 1: a Tuesday, and she was like, Hey, did you know

495
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:51,600
Speaker 1: that all you have to do to nominate someone for

496
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 1: the Bachelor is send in a paragraph about them in

497
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: a photo. And I was kind of like, no, I

498
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: didn't know that. And then that weekend I got off

499
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 1: a plane. I was in Chicago, and I do you

500
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 1: remember the Do you remember mag Con? It was like, fortunately,

501
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:10,679
Speaker 1: I've worked read the guy who was like one of

502
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: the like started mag Con. I was like, here's you

503
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,639
Speaker 1: have one of the founding fathers. I was like his assistant.

504
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: And so we were in Chicago and I got off

505
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,880
Speaker 1: the plane and I had a voicemail and he was like, Hi,

506
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 1: this is Scott from the Bachelor. Your friend Laura nominated

507
00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: you and we would love to meet with you. And

508
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 1: so I texted her and I'm like I just got

509
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,640
Speaker 1: a call from the Bachelor and She's like, I literally

510
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,439
Speaker 1: did that this week. I can't believe they called you

511
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: so fast. And I was like, I'm not doing it.

512
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: She was like, you have to do it. So I

513
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 1: got home and I had a call with them, and

514
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,200
Speaker 1: then I went up. I came up to La from

515
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,439
Speaker 1: San Diego and I met with them. This is in March.

516
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,199
Speaker 2: We didn't start with them, meaning like you meet for

517
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 2: coffee or like I.

518
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 1: Went to their offices. It was like on the West side,

519
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: off like Olympic or something, and yeah, so I met

520
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 1: with them and and they were, you know, they did

521
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: the whole thing like we think you'll go very far,

522
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: which I'm sure they told everyone that who doesn't leave

523
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: that going like I'm my destiny is above like set

524
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 1: ahead of me. So I go, I go home. This

525
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: is a March. I every like month or so, they'd

526
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: call and be like, hey, just checking in, like are

527
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: you still single? Are you still interested in going on

528
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: the show? And I was like, yeah, still single, so interested.

529
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 1: And then the final casting weekend came and it was

530
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: like all the like having to do like meet with

531
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 1: an investigator, investigator like a private investigator to see if

532
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: you had anything in your past. Yeah, and then we

533
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: took like photos and stuff, I think, and then yeah,

534
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 1: and then I went home and I waited to hear

535
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 1: if I made it to the final like to go

536
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: on the show.

537
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 2: So it's a meeting, it's like a phone call, a

538
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 2: meeting investigating.

539
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: Some people like it's immediate, like depending on timing of

540
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: when they meet. Like Caitlin Bristow actually had put submitted

541
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: a tape for the season before ours, and they really

542
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: liked her, but they were like, we're gonna wait and

543
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: put her on this next season because I think they

544
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 1: wanted her for Crystals because she was so like such good.

545
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: She was just like a great person to have on

546
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: TV and like him being from like Farmland, Iowa, and

547
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: she was this like spunky firecracker and like so funny

548
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 1: and like was.

549
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 2: The Bachelor before Crystals Wan Pablo, Yeah, Caitlin try to date. Well, yeah,

550
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 2: that she was what she wanted to do. Wow.

551
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, it was like a really interesting thing. But

552
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 1: like some people, I think Jordan Rodgers got called like

553
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: the week of to go on JoJo's season, Like it

554
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: was really fast.

555
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 3: So Dean could potentially be the Jordan Rogers of sin.

556
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 1: I think will only do it if he had.

557
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 2: The Jordan Rogers. Yeah.

558
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 4: Before we move on from your early Bachelor experience, I

559
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,679
Speaker 4: went to the Bachelor mansion for the first time. That

560
00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 4: was a thrill and I wanted to you hear all

561
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 4: the only stories about this place, you know, and I

562
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 4: got to like walk the grounds. It was crazy. Do

563
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 4: you remember what room you were in there?

564
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, So on Chris's season, like when you went

565
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: up the stairs, I was to the right, like I

566
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: was on the very end.

567
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, I stood there are there like rooms with

568
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 3: bunk beds, Like is it like a sleeping porch and

569
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 3: a sorority?

570
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Every room has like multiple bunk beds

571
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 1: in it.

572
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 2: It's like my dream.

573
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, you would have thrived just in that part

574
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,360
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor, h you would have thrived. And then

575
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,479
Speaker 1: on Ben's season, I was the middle room which had

576
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 1: the bathroom was like the grated, like the grate on

577
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: it the mirror. Yeah yeah yeah, that was very challenging.

578
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 4: Can you just go in that pool? Whenever you want.

579
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 1: So they don't warm the pool because they don't want

580
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 1: you to get in it because you have to take

581
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,640
Speaker 1: your mic off. So if I wanted a break from

582
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: the mic, I would be like, I just want to

583
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: go dip in the pool. And they were like, it's freezing,

584
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: and I'm like, that's okay, it sounds nice, just so

585
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: I could like, because you wear like a pack on

586
00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: your back and you have it on twenty four to

587
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 1: seven and it's so uncomfortable, not when you sleep, but

588
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 1: like you always have it on, and so they would

589
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: like the bathroom. Yeah, they were like they were like,

590
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: we're not listening to it. I always switched mine off though,

591
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: I would always switch myne off. I'm like, this is

592
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable.

593
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, and like what if you're like changing your

594
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 2: tampon and like.

595
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: What noises are like changing your pad?

596
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,640
Speaker 2: It's like sh I.

597
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: Mean yeah, I think they probably see in here so

598
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: much that they're like.

599
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 2: Ever, that's like, yeah, inappropriate.

600
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: So uh. And I was telling Ben it was really

601
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: weird because on Chris the season, I felt like we

602
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: didn't sleep at all, Like we would have to wake

603
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: up so early and stay up so late, like five

604
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 1: or six, Like we wouldn't go to sleep till like

605
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: four or five from a rose ceremony, and then they'd

606
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 1: have us up like six or seven for like Dick

607
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: card stuff.

608
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 2: I'd be a mess.

609
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: It was brutal. But then on Ben's season they would

610
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 1: I just would go up to the room and I'd

611
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 1: sleep like they would never bother me.

612
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: Interesting.

613
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 1: So I don't know if they were just like like

614
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: she's not gonna give us anything like that entertaining, just

615
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 1: like don't even let her go, let her be.

616
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I appreciated that.

617
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, the Bachelor Mansion lots of memories. It's it's, uh,

618
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: it's such an interesting place because it's like so people

619
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 1: were like why won't they paint it? Like why won't

620
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: they update it?

621
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 4: It's it's bizarre, like like all the I mean, it's

622
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 4: clearly just the house they ran out for stuff, and

623
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 4: it's like we got there and like, not only is

624
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 4: there no furniture in there, there's no light fixtures in

625
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 4: a lot of the room. So like after the sun

626
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 4: went down, like I was like using my flashlight to

627
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,479
Speaker 4: get into my back by my gosh.

628
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: I was like, gosh, yeah, because they always just have

629
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 1: all the studio lighting. Yeah, I don't even think about that.

630
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 4: It was it was cool being there, though.

631
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: You know, how are the Golden Bachelor women.

632
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 4: They were awesome. I I uh, I've met a lot

633
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 4: of Bachelor people in my life. I've never wanted a

634
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 4: picture with one of them until Sandra came in.

635
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: Wow.

636
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 4: I love Sandra. I got a photo with Sandra. She

637
00:28:58,080 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 4: was my favorite.

638
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: The fart around the world heard around the world.

639
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 4: Uh, there's a part where they're playing pickleball and Jesse

640
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 4: Palmer's like, here comes Sandra. She's had two knee replacements

641
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,959
Speaker 4: and she's missing her daughter's waiting to be here. And

642
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 4: I started crying from laughing at that. I love Sandra

643
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 4: and she was so cool. All the bachel Golden Bachelor

644
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,239
Speaker 4: ladies were awesome. They're so great. I hope they'll get

645
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 4: their own shows. I hope they're all the.

646
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 3: Bachelorette I do you know what I have pitched the

647
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 3: next Bacherette one of the Golden Bacher contestants.

648
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I hope so it was so I felt

649
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: like it was such a hit. It would be such

650
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: a miss for them to not do it. But my

651
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: dream is a bachelor in Paradise, Golden Bachelor in Paradise,

652
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: and they're like in Palm Springs or something. Yes, like

653
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: you know, like pickleball.

654
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 4: With the West Palm Beach.

655
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

656
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 3: Do we have any facts of like how the Golden

657
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 3: Bachelor did? Is that like public knowledge?

658
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 4: I don't. I'll pull up the exact numbers. But I

659
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 4: remember seeing that the finale was like the best viewed

660
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 4: one since the pandemic. I think, why.

661
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: Did you watch it? Have you? Did you ever watch

662
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: it or catch up or anything I did.

663
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 3: I kept trying, okay, but it's the death that was

664
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 3: hard for me. Every single week hearing about somebody's spouse

665
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 3: dying before I went to sleep.

666
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 2: I just I just it made me sad.

667
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 4: Robbie told me that too.

668
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 3: At Nobuy, he only gave it. I went a lot

669
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 3: further than Robbie. Robbie gave it one episode.

670
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 4: I was like, everybody dies, bro it comes for.

671
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 2: Us all it does. Robbie after that, yeah, the storyline.

672
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 3: He was out after the first episode, but I kept going.

673
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm gonna keep giving it a shop

674
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 3: then because I was like, okay, maybe I'll just get

675
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 3: through Jerry's Gary's, Gary's you know, story and then it

676
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 3: was every date after talking about how they lost their spouse,

677
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 3: and I was like, I can't do it.

678
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 2: It just makes me too sad.

679
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: Well, spoiler alert, there was a finale and he chose

680
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 1: I know who he chose. Okay, so we're watching it's me,

681
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: Haley and Taylor Banks and Hailey is like, heaving, she's

682
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: solving so much during the breakup.

683
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 2: Oh, because he had to send one of them home. Yeah,

684
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 2: I knew who was at.

685
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: Home, Leslie, And it was like painful because it felt

686
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: like that heartbreak of that you're so angry and you're

687
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: sad and you're embarrassed and you're just like I want

688
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: to tell them to get out, but also be like

689
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: don't leave, you know, like if you could feel it,

690
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: and knowing that she you know, she was like, this

691
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: is so embarrassing and it's happening on national television, and

692
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: she was like and I'm at least grateful that you

693
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: came and told me in my room as opposed to

694
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: doing it like at the like making me come and

695
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: get dressed up in a fancy dress. And it was

696
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: just like pain and he was like sobbing, was like

697
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: are you good? Really? Are you good. This show like

698
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: wrecked her.

699
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's what I feel like. I just feel

700
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 3: like I was always sad and like wanting to cry.

701
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, well it's pretty upset. I mean it was, but

702
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: it was really sweet. It was a great season.

703
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 2: So is now Leslie like the front runner to be

704
00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:58,960
Speaker 2: the Bacheorette?

705
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: So I think Leslie or there was this woman who

706
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: went like left kind of early on because her daughter, Yeah,

707
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: get Joan. She's like a TikTok star. She does a

708
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: lot of tiktoks and people are like Joan for Bachelorette

709
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: and she so that I think it would be between

710
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: those two, but maybe maybe someone else. Okay, But I

711
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: was mostly jealous about the Bachelor Mansion because of the

712
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor woman in the bachi that looked fun.

713
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that I was working. I couldn't do that.

714
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 2: You couldn't dabble in the bottom.

715
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 4: I did not know. I saw them practicing.

716
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 2: No soy sauce for you.

717
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 4: No soy sauce. I got pizza later, lies true.

718
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: What kind of pizza though?

719
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 4: Pepperoni?

720
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, can I tell you something.

721
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 3: I've never wanted a piece of pizza more than I

722
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 3: did on Friday night sidebar.

723
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 2: There's something about it Get one no, because it was

724
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 2: going to a different crew and I just like watched

725
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 2: it go bye, smelled it.

726
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 4: I was like, when you're working an event like that

727
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 4: and it's a long day, I feel like nothing hits

728
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 4: better than pizza or in and out.

729
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 3: Yeah after yes, And like I had the Sophie's choice

730
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 3: at the end of the day because I got there,

731
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 3: I really hadn't eaten. I didn't eat anything, and then

732
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 3: when you're at the venue, I'm eating like nuts and chips,

733
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 3: and like I didn't really have a meal.

734
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got to get to your what you eat

735
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:19,479
Speaker 1: in a day?

736
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: No, but that was like a weird day because you're

737
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 3: at the forum, so you just have to kind of

738
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 3: eat what's there. Yeah, And so I didn't really have

739
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 3: a meal, and it's eleven o'clock we do Olivia Rodrigo.

740
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 2: I'm leaving.

741
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 3: It's like eleven thirty, and I was like starving, So

742
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 3: I wanted to go to In and Out, but then

743
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 3: I really just wanted to get to bed, and I

744
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 3: was I went straight to bed, and I regreted not

745
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 3: going in and out.

746
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 1: You have to end a night like that with a

747
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: delicious meal. I no, no, but for myself, I had a

748
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 1: lot of fun to do it.

749
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: When you're like with someone, it.

750
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: Is, you know, fun. But it's great alone too, is it?

751
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 7: Yeah?

752
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 2: Have you ever in I've never in and outed it alone.

753
00:33:58,080 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: You're missing out.

754
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 4: I have done it a lot.

755
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 2: I've never never in and it alone.

756
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: Wow, you should do that. Take yourself on a little

757
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: in and out date.

758
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, Okay.

759
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: All I'm gonna say is I watch the most disturbingly

760
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: crazy cult documentary that I've ever watched. And I can't

761
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: talk about it because if I describe what it is,

762
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: You're gonna stare at me like you always do when

763
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 1: I describe something that you don't watch, and it's like

764
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: crazy insane. But I need someone to message me and

765
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: talk about this documentary which is on HBO Max and

766
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 1: it's called Love has Won the Cult of Mother God.

767
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 2: Why would you ever watch that?

768
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: Because someone was saying, oh, Taylor Banks was telling me

769
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: like this, have you I love a good like kind

770
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: of like crime documentary, love a good cold documentary. Nothing.

771
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: I don't know that anything will ever top this wow insanity,

772
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: but just be prepared. It is graphic. So yeah, I

773
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: just that's been on my brain and I need a

774
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 1: palate cleanse ace.

775
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 2: You know, it's a great palate cleanses. Survivor.

776
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well Survivor. I just finished season forty, which

777
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 3: was like the Winners at War, best season I've ever

778
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 3: watched a Survivor because they brought back it was all

779
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 3: the winners. So it was like twenty seventeen or twenty

780
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 3: winners from past seasons.

781
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: Did you know all of them?

782
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 3: No, because I haven't watched one through seventeen and I

783
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 3: knew most of them. Yeah, yeah, so good. And then

784
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 3: what was crazy is I'm watching the whole season. I'm

785
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 3: so into it. And then the finale they used to

786
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 3: do their finales live from LA but it was COVID

787
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 3: and so it was on Zoom and I was watching it. Actually,

788
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 3: we watched it last night. We finished it, and I

789
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 3: was like, that sucked because it was such a great,

790
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,720
Speaker 3: powerful season. And then we just got the Zoom ending

791
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 3: and they're all on Zoom and their homes and I was.

792
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 2: Like, damn.

793
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. The pandemic sucked for many reasons, including the Survivor finale.

794
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,839
Speaker 3: The no I know, but like I guess, I think

795
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 3: we were so used to just like watching stuff like

796
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 3: we were like, I'd rather get it on zoom and

797
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 3: like have them do it.

798
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: We were just they were doing stuff right right.

799
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 3: But now looking back and watching it, I was like, oh,

800
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 3: I wish I could have asked Mo, like, you know,

801
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 3: like ask more questions, Yeah, to my TV that and

802
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 3: then Jeff Probes would know and ask the contestants.

803
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did catch up on the Squid Games.

804
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 2: Have you watched the Battleship episode yet?

805
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've a We're literally as caught up as you

806
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: can be.

807
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 2: Oh my, the Battleship episode was iconic.

808
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:55,919
Speaker 1: It's so luck based in a show like I think this, Haley,

809
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 1: I think you'd be really good at this, and I'm like,

810
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: I don't think so, because it's you don't even have

811
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: to have skill. You just have to be maybe to

812
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: an extent, but a lot of it.

813
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 3: Now Because if you were skilled, if you were really

814
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 3: good at Battleship, you'd say I want to be the

815
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 3: captain because I'm gonna win this for my team.

816
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 2: That's skill. That's not luck.

817
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: No, if your battleship is just getting lucky with.

818
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: Your guests, no, it's not. There's skill in Battleship.

819
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: Guessing where the other boats are? Isn't luck?

820
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 4: No, what can you describe the skill?

821
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 3: So I don't have it, so I can't describe it,

822
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 3: but there is a skill to it, like people who

823
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: play battleship often are gonna be better at battleship.

824
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 2: Then let's say me playing Battleship's patterns.

825
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 4: I guess you could probably patterns like.

826
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 3: C four is like a common like missile thrower. People

827
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 3: always want to throw at C four. There's some skill.

828
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 3: I'm sure if you look on Reddit, I'm sure you'll

829
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 3: find something.

830
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 4: Okay, slash Battleship.

831
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,919
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, not worth the argument, But a lot

832
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: of the other stuff is.

833
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 2: Luck Like which one the one?

834
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: Where did you finish it?

835
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:07,359
Speaker 7: No?

836
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,240
Speaker 2: I just finished the Battleship episode.

837
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: Oh you're so far behind? Oh?

838
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 2: Really, the best show you've ever watched?

839
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 1: And you're are you watching Survivor finale instead of because.

840
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 2: I'm watching Winners at War? Are you kidding me? Top

841
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 2: tier television?

842
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think if we watched anything else?

843
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 7: Uh?

844
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: Oh Special Forces? Did you finish that?

845
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:28,359
Speaker 2: Not finish yet?

846
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 3: But what I don't have that many hours in a

847
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 3: day to watch TV.

848
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: You watch like fourteen seasons of Survivor.

849
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 2: I watched I.

850
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 3: Watched two episodes of television a night usually, so it

851
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 3: depends when we have the kids, we watch something that

852
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 3: I watch with the kids. So, like, you're not gonna

853
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:50,919
Speaker 3: watch Lego Masters, No I'm not. It's actually not bad TV.

854
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 3: I kind of quite like Lego Masters. But that's where

855
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: I watch all my baking shows. And then I'll watch

856
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 3: like one episode of something that I want to watch

857
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 3: before I fall asleep. Uh huh, not that much time.

858
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: Well maybe for the sake of like having discussions about things,

859
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: you can watch one episode.

860
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 2: If you told me ahead of time, I would do.

861
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: I assume I got caught up because you said it

862
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: was the greatest show you've ever watched, and you can't

863
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 1: get over how amazing it is.

864
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:19,399
Speaker 2: I know, I love it. I'm still watching it.

865
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 1: You're just giving it like a weekly you're treating it

866
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 1: like a weekly episode TV show.

867
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 3: I can't we watch it with the kids, so I

868
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 3: can only watch it when we have them. So we

869
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 3: watch it when we have them, and when we don't

870
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 3: have them, I can't watch it.

871
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 1: Oh, you're watching squid games with the children?

872
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:32,720
Speaker 7: Correct?

873
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 1: Gotcha? All right, Well, I'll be more intentional about saying, Hey,

874
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: I'm caught up to this point on this show that

875
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: you're watching. Are you gonna be able to catch up

876
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: on it this weekend so we can talk about on

877
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: the podcast.

878
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, a little proactive would be Okay, appreciate it.

879
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 1: I rushed through it thinking that you were being caught up.

880
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 1: And now we wait till like December ninth for the finale.

881
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 1: Well yeah, four days, yeah, four days, all right, because

882
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: then next week, if you watch it, if you get

883
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 1: all caught up, we can talk about the finale. Okay, Okay,

884
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:25,240
Speaker 1: We're gonna take a break and we have some emails.

885
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: All right, we are back. Easton is going to fill

886
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: in for reading the emails today.

887
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Speaker 4: Thank you. It's my pleasure to do this because I

888
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Speaker 4: can read. This is from Ali. Hello friends, Becca, Tanya, Mark,

889
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 4: and Easton smiley face. I would love your objective opinion

890
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 4: on what to do. Four years ago, I met my

891
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 4: husband while we were both living in Colorado. He is

892
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 4: originally from Nebraska, so after dating a while, we moved

893
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 4: to Lincoln. Fast forward to now. His dad is awful.

894
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 4: He is so rude. He has made it known that

895
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 4: he does not like me very much. For no reason.

896
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 4: He is mean to his wife, my mother in law,

897
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 4: and just makes everyone's life hell. We've gone family therapy

898
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 4: to try to fix it, but he's just older and

899
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,800
Speaker 4: he's set in his ways. Here's my dilemma. I feel alone.

900
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 4: My husband does not have many friends here in town,

901
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 4: and it's hard. We're going on year three of trying

902
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 4: for a baby and dealing with the many struggles of infertility.

903
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 4: I missed my sisters and family back in Colorado, and

904
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 4: part of me wants to move back. My husband is

905
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 4: open to it and willing to move back, but it

906
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 4: can't shake the feeling of guilt. He loves Nebraska, he

907
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 4: is Nebraska. It's his happy place here, and a part

908
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 4: of me would always feel selfish for taking him away

909
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 4: from it. I just feel like with his parents getting

910
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,320
Speaker 4: older and he does not have any friends or siblings here.

911
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 4: Once we finally get our miracle baby, we won't have

912
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 4: any help or community and it feels so isolating. So

913
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,760
Speaker 4: my question is how do I look past the guilt

914
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 4: of it? Do we move? Do we say help? Love

915
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:55,720
Speaker 4: you all? I'm a day win scrubber.

916
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like he's particular cularly happy there either.

917
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 2: Well, she says that he is Nebraska, so no, I

918
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 2: think he.

919
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: Loves being home, but I don't feel like he's like

920
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,760
Speaker 1: integrated into like a friend group or like super close

921
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 1: with like connecting with his family. And if he's willing

922
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: to move to Colorado, I think maybe he's trying to say, like,

923
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 1: I love where I'm from, and I'm also willing to

924
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: go where you're going to be happy.

925
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 4: I'm sure there's Cornfield's in Colorado they can find.

926
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I feel like we're missing a part in

927
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 3: the email where we don't know what his thoughts are,

928
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 3: like how she brought it up to him yet, or

929
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 3: is this just stuff that she's like going through in

930
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 3: her head before she talks to him, Like she's like,

931
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 3: I feel bad asking him to do that. I feel

932
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 3: like you have to just be open and honest and

933
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 3: ask him his opinion and then he might say no,

934
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 3: I don't want to do it, and then you can

935
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 3: kind of come figure out a solution or a compromise.

936
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 3: But I feel like you got to just ask yeah.

937
00:42:56,360 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: And I also think like it feels with his dad

938
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: and the family dynamic being stressful, Like y'all don't feel

939
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: like you're in a good routine. And I think that

940
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: you met in Colorado, so he obviously has he likes

941
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: Colorado because he moved there, and then you moved for

942
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:18,399
Speaker 1: him to where he loves to be. And now it's

943
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 1: kind of like, do we go and create our new

944
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 1: you know, life somewhere that we're both happy and like

945
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: can meet people and community and have you know, go

946
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:33,240
Speaker 1: visit Nebraska when when we can, but not feel stuck there.

947
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 4: It seems to me like this is like if she

948
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 4: just says, let's move to Colorado, he would be he

949
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 4: would say sure, Like it seems like she's over Yeah,

950
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 4: like she's she feels guilty about it. But I mean

951
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 4: it's not like he said I'm not leaving Nebraska like that. Yeah,

952
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 4: I know, as I was doing an xcent and I

953
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 4: felt bad immediately, but I'm sorry everyone in Nebraska. I

954
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 4: love Cornesker State. Yeah, I mean, it's not like you

955
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 4: put his foot down. And also, when you have a kid,

956
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 4: you're gonna want to be in your family that will

957
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 4: help you out.

958
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 3: I know, But I feel like, not this, she's not

959
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 3: really liking her father in law.

960
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:18,359
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. Like the because she's from Colorado, right,

961
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 4: oh yeah, yea, So they go back to Colorado. I

962
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 4: assume there's gonna be more of a network there. Yeah,

963
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 4: to care for this child instead of this terrible father

964
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 4: in law. You got just move. I bring it up

965
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 4: to him. He's probably gonna be down for it.

966
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 3: And you know what always works as a pros and

967
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 3: cons list? Yes, pros and cons lists.

968
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 2: Are top tier.

969
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:39,280
Speaker 4: List.

970
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:43,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I know, a persuasion, Oh yeah, tactics. I feel

971
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 3: like a pros and cons list could do you some

972
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,800
Speaker 3: real good and you make the pros list really really long.

973
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 1: But it sounds like he's open and wants you to

974
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 1: be happy. So I think it's worth like trying to

975
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 1: start your life in a place where both of you

976
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: can set roots in. He's willing to do that for you,

977
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: and I think that it feels time to make that

978
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:12,720
Speaker 1: decision and start fresh.

979
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 3: And do it then in the next couple of weeks,

980
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 3: because twenty twenty four is about to be here.

981
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't feel rushed, you know, yeah, sure, sure, sure,

982
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: fresh start, fresh start, but good luck.

983
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 2: We love you, we love you.

984
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 4: Uh one more. Yeah, let's uh here's anonymous. Uh. I'm

985
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 4: writing and seeking advice my fiance and I have been

986
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 4: engaged almost a year and together for four years. Getting

987
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 4: married getting married to day bro woo hoo. I was

988
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,720
Speaker 4: excited about that woo hoo part. I am so ready,

989
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 4: But there is one thing I've been struggling with. He

990
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 4: is very into sports, mostly football. We go to all

991
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 4: our college football games together, which is so fun. However,

992
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 4: he is almost two into it. He spends ninety nine

993
00:45:52,040 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 4: percent of the day, mostly Friday through Monday, on his

994
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 4: phone looking at sports betting and quote unquote making his

995
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 4: picks for the week. To give you an idea, his

996
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 4: screen time was ten hours one day and he has

997
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 4: a full time job. I am all for having hobbies,

998
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 4: but it's really become an issue because I feel like

999
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 4: we never talk. He's pretty quiet at baseline, and he

1000
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 4: hasn't made an effort to be intimate or plan any

1001
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 4: fun date nights. I can't even remember the last time

1002
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 4: we went on a date. He's, without a doubt, the

1003
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 4: guy for me, and this is just a little hump

1004
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 4: we need to get over. But I'm unsure how to

1005
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 4: approach the situation. I brought it up a couple months

1006
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 4: ago and he said he'd be better about being attentive

1007
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 4: and intentional all their time, but nothing has changed. He

1008
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 4: really is a good guy and a hard worker. He

1009
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 4: has a great career, and he treats me well besides

1010
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 4: not prioritizing quality time. But I feel like he has

1011
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 4: definitely been more attentive in the past and now it

1012
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,319
Speaker 4: feels like we're just living together as pals. And I

1013
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 4: really think it's from sports.

1014
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, so so drive me crazy.

1015
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:45,680
Speaker 3: I mean I kind of experienced it, not on that level,

1016
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 3: but like I get what she's saying, because but there

1017
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 3: has to be a compromise.

1018
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 2: The way that she's explaining it, that would make me.

1019
00:46:56,000 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 3: So frantic and so unsettled, because like last night was

1020
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,240
Speaker 3: Monday Night football, but we were we wanted to finish

1021
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 3: off this season of Survivor, so probably didn't watch.

1022
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,240
Speaker 2: He was watching it on his phone.

1023
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 3: Whatever, she says, picking his bets or picking his picks

1024
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 3: or checking up on his squad or whatever they do.

1025
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 2: And it is very annoying because he's like on his phone.

1026
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 3: So it's like I get it, but I'm like, he's

1027
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 3: making the compromise because we're watching Survivor, so he's still like,

1028
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 3: you know, playing with his team on his phone. Yeah,

1029
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 3: And Sundays are kind of the same. He's like very

1030
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,240
Speaker 3: locked into football on Sundays. But if it was Friday

1031
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 3: through Monday, that's like Friday, Saturday, Sunday.

1032
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,320
Speaker 2: That's four days out of the week.

1033
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 3: Being locked into your phone and like not being attentive,

1034
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 3: and that is a lot. And so I feel like

1035
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,959
Speaker 3: you need to say something. And even if it's okay,

1036
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 3: maybe he still wants to have his Friday to Monday.

1037
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,919
Speaker 3: Maybe you can do some compromises and maybe you could

1038
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 3: do a date night on like a Wednesday, so you

1039
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 3: still feel like you're getting that quality time.

1040
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: I just don't think Friday through Monday needs to be

1041
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:03,320
Speaker 1: fully attend attention to one thing. That feels like excessive

1042
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 1: no matter what. I don't care how much I am

1043
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 1: all about hobbies and having passions and football is on

1044
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: the weekends, but it's like set a time of like

1045
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: how long you're going to be on your phone looking

1046
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 1: at that stuff and if you want to watch one

1047
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,720
Speaker 1: of the games. But that's so unfair to your partner

1048
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 1: to put them in that position.

1049
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 4: There's a big red flag coming out to me about this.

1050
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 4: And I don't think this is a sports issue. I

1051
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 4: think this is a gambling problem, because she says he

1052
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 4: spends all most ninety percent of the day on the

1053
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 4: weekends looking at sports betting and making his picks for

1054
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 4: the week. So that means because at first I thought like, oh,

1055
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 4: he's just in front of the TV the whole time.

1056
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:46,320
Speaker 4: But I think this man is I don't say addicted

1057
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 4: to gambling, but I think gambling is a big component yes, betting,

1058
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 4: and that leads to a lot of other problems that

1059
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 4: will not go away and only get worse.

1060
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 3: Okay, So then that's like a trickier thing because how

1061
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 3: do you It's like, how do you tell someone they

1062
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 3: have a problem. You can't tell someone they have to

1063
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 3: have a problem. They have to figure it out themselves.

1064
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, and he probably sees he's like, this is.

1065
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 2: What I like, is what I like to do, right,

1066
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 2: he calls it a hobby.

1067
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, and hey, hey, hey babe, I'm getting money from

1068
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 4: this and I'm getting rich here.

1069
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 2: But honestly, I would seek a professional.

1070
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe a couple therapy.

1071
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, or if you want to do a couple sapy,

1072
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,399
Speaker 3: maybe like you go to like a professional that can

1073
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 3: help you pro talk to him in like a way

1074
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 3: that's gonna help him versus. I feel like if you

1075
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:29,879
Speaker 3: went to him and you were like, you have a

1076
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 3: gambling problem, He's gonna shut it down, you know what

1077
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 3: I mean, Like, you can't just do that. There's probably

1078
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 3: a more methodical way that you can go about doing it.

1079
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1080
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 4: I don't want to freak you out, Anonymous, but you

1081
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 4: say it's your fiance. As you get closer that wedding day,

1082
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 4: there's gonna be I'm sure there's gonna be some financial

1083
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 4: problems that will come to light. I'm just gonna say, yeah,

1084
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 4: right now, you probably don't know about them, but I'm

1085
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 4: not saying the exist. But a guy who spends the

1086
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 4: whole weekend looking at sports betting.

1087
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Speaker 1: And also, like you don't feel chosen, You don't feel

1088
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,760
Speaker 1: like he puts He puts all his effort and energy

1089
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 1: into football, like you deserve to for someone to look

1090
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:10,320
Speaker 1: after you and your needs, and this feels very selfish

1091
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: on his part. So I think you just need to

1092
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: approach him, and maybe you do need a professional that

1093
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: can help you do it in a way that's productive

1094
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 1: and not like just riddled with anger and make him

1095
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:27,320
Speaker 1: defensive but accusatory. But good luck, that's very, very challenging

1096
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I feel like this last one's funny because

1097
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: it won't take many a long time.

1098
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 4: Let's do it. This from Chloe sos re listening to

1099
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 4: one of the episodes from twenty twenty one with Chelsea

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Speaker 4: Handler Good Vibes only as the title, and in the

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Speaker 4: thirty ninth minute we Love a Timestamp, Tanya says she'd

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Speaker 4: rather buy a house than thinking about the money would

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Speaker 4: take to throw a wedding. I truly can't believe my

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Speaker 4: ears right now. Listen how excited she is in real

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Speaker 4: time as an engaged girl. Mind blown emoji. Just had

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Speaker 4: to bring this to someone's attention. Love the pod.

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Speaker 3: Wow, that is the whole problem. That's why I haven't

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Speaker 3: started planning my wedding because it's like you see, as

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Speaker 3: you get older, you look at how much everything is,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, I don't want to spend this on

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Speaker 3: a wedding. I'd rather buy put a down payment on

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Speaker 3: a house. So it's like very debilitating because like you're

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Speaker 3: it's kind of like you're in that space. I can't

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Speaker 3: make it. That's why I just can't make a decision.

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Speaker 3: But then you get into like your bridal era and

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Speaker 3: you're like so excited about all that stuff. So I'm

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Speaker 3: like so excited about it and I want to do it,

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Speaker 3: but then I get debilitated because I'm like, but I

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Speaker 3: don't want to spend I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's it's so crazy, it's so crazy. And so.

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Speaker 1: You still have the same mindset, but you also are

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Speaker 1: just like, now that it's happening, you can't imagine not

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Speaker 1: having a wedding.

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine not having a wedding, for sure.

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Speaker 3: I definitely want to do it, but like the way

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Speaker 3: that I want to do it, I feel like I

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Speaker 3: can't what I mean, it's so expensive. I'd rather save

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Speaker 3: that and buy a house.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, well, could you do like a cute little

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Speaker 1: courthouse thing.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: So, like when you think about the when I think

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Speaker 3: about the wedding of my dreams.

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Speaker 1: You'd like regret not having a wedding.

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Speaker 2: I'd regret not doing anything correct.

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Speaker 1: Living in your mansion but correct.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, well you bought a.

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Speaker 1: House and then eventually you did a ceremony.

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Speaker 2: Like have a wedding in like ten years, No.

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Speaker 1: Not ten years, ye, like yeah, like a couple of years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like the further and further along you go, Like,

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Speaker 3: I have friends who got married. They did like a quick,

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Speaker 3: quickie wedding because they got pregnant and they were going

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Speaker 3: to like have a wedding after the baby came, and

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Speaker 3: now they're just like, eh, yeah, I feel like you

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Speaker 3: just get more and more less motivated. Yeah, correct, Right, Well,

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Speaker 3: so that girl is still there who talked to Chelsea Hammler,

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Speaker 3: which is why I feel like I'm in a predicament.

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Speaker 1: That I'm in a predicament because she won the house

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Speaker 1: and she wants a wedding.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I have not said millionaires. So it really

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Speaker 3: puts you in a pickle.

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Speaker 1: A pickle of sorts. But I think if even if

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Speaker 1: you have the wedding, which is what you desire and want,

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Speaker 1: I think the time will come when you feel ready

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Speaker 1: to buy house. It all lines, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So yep, just trying to keep you know, just

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Speaker 3: work a little harder.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just.

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Speaker 2: A little harder, next two to three years.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll be back next week. And I

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Speaker 1: think there's two episodes next week. Yeah, yes, yeah, there.

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Speaker 4: Are two episodes next week. Where are they going to be?

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Speaker 1: Only time will tell, Only time will tell, and only

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Speaker 1: we know and.

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Speaker 2: Sneak peaks here.

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Speaker 1: Greeks, it's our final book Club episode. Just kidding. We

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Speaker 1: love you so much and hope you have a wonderful

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Speaker 1: week and we'll be back next week.

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Speaker 2: I love you, love you, Bye.

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Speaker 7: Hm.