Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sinners podcast with your host now funk that with your
Speaker 1: low blastes Malone. Please read your Facebook post that you
Speaker 1: posted all right, so I said, Hey Facebook, fam, so sad.
Speaker 1: Today I was talking to one of my co workers
Speaker 1: and she was saying her and her husband rarely make love.
Speaker 1: He rarely initiates, and sometimes this month before their intimate again,
Speaker 1: she asked me if he could be cheating and what
Speaker 1: should she do? I don't know, should she initiate? So?
Speaker 1: Why the fuck? How did she come up with he's cheating? Well,
Speaker 1: she asked me, like, do you think he could be cheating? Why?
Speaker 1: Because they're not intimate? She said that. She said that
Speaker 1: she even did like a whole thing where she laid
Speaker 1: out like some little candles for him and everything, and
Speaker 1: he was happy, like, oh this is sweet. But she
Speaker 1: said that he was tired and he went he fell asleep.
Speaker 1: What the fund does women do all the time? Women
Speaker 1: doing all the time go to sleep to sleep? How
Speaker 1: in that equation doesn't equal another woman? Well, because she
Speaker 1: said that they hardly ever rarely, because she's so hot,
Speaker 1: how could somebody possibly not want to sleep with her?
Speaker 1: Right now? I don't think that can be that that
Speaker 1: maybe they maybe they did get down before, like a lot,
Speaker 1: and maybe it just switched up, you know, maybe she
Speaker 1: felt some type of way like maybe it's not the same.
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe they were, maybe their sex life
Speaker 1: was better, maybe she was having sex a lot or whatever,
Speaker 1: and then that it's like non existent basically. So I
Speaker 1: feel like, Okay, you're not having sex with your husband
Speaker 1: or your your husband. You guys aren't being intimate. He's
Speaker 1: not loving on you, and he's not loving on you.
Speaker 1: So that's what fucking loving on you? No is loving
Speaker 1: That is loving on me? Is it? So all these
Speaker 1: niggas that you slept with the past was loving on
Speaker 1: you know, we're talking about my husband, we're talking about
Speaker 1: all of the other husbandly things because we're just talking
Speaker 1: about this, we're talking about sex. So they don't ever
Speaker 1: mentioning on you because it's not. But you're not. You
Speaker 1: cut me off. I was gonna say, and she loving
Speaker 1: on him, and he living on anybody? You fuck for nothing.
Speaker 1: You funk without love all the time. It's happening in
Speaker 1: your life multiple times. But so don't try to make
Speaker 1: it like so you love each other so you're loving
Speaker 1: on each other, loving each other is the fact that
Speaker 1: I thought it was nice and I fucking came home.
Speaker 1: That's loving on you, loving on and you was eating
Speaker 1: the food, paying the meals. No, that not that too,
Speaker 1: because this is the one thing that they make of
Speaker 1: that was just fucking you wasn't doing That's what. That's
Speaker 1: what And this is what kills me about marriage. Why
Speaker 1: are you so mad? It's crazy that Read the message again.
Speaker 1: Read the message again. This is why I'm upset because
Speaker 1: he rarely initiates the whole message, read again, said Hey,
Speaker 1: Facebook fans, so sad. Today I was talking to one
Speaker 1: of my co workers and she was saying her and
Speaker 1: her husband rarely make love. He rarely initiates, and sometimes
Speaker 1: it's months months before they're intimate again. She asked me
Speaker 1: if he could be cheating and what she should do.
Speaker 1: I don't know, should she initiate? So this is the problem.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you my flaws and that lame ash
Speaker 1: it and this is my issue at times with the
Speaker 1: concept of marriage and women. Right, nothing about that says
Speaker 1: he has to be with another woman too. Intimacy is
Speaker 1: so much more than what you've been getting from them
Speaker 1: other niggas all the time. Every nigga will suck you
Speaker 1: for free. Intimacy really stands for closeness. Fucking has never
Speaker 1: bought you closer to anybody you fucked. It actually runs
Speaker 1: motherfucker's away. I am totally in understanding that that is
Speaker 1: a personal conquest of that woman by herself questioning who
Speaker 1: she is. Am I not hot anymore? I think that
Speaker 1: would bring in security um into her mind, like damn,
Speaker 1: like he's not, does he not? Because you're treating him
Speaker 1: like you're treating every single nigga in your life. That
Speaker 1: wanted to say, but but listen. So she said that
Speaker 1: he told her that he's attracted to her and he's
Speaker 1: not attracted to her body. Oh ship, Well that's another
Speaker 1: He had a conversation with him why they're not having sex.
Speaker 1: He said, that's not the main' not even gonna bring
Speaker 1: that part into it. That's back out. That's back out
Speaker 1: of that part because this doesn't make it right. But
Speaker 1: let's focus on the beginning. This focus on the beginning.
Speaker 1: Why is it when somebody's not sucking you, they have
Speaker 1: to be So let me ask you a question. Do
Speaker 1: you think it's possible for a man to get his
Speaker 1: dig hard for two people in the same day to
Speaker 1: seven is possible, So why the fund would it be
Speaker 1: she's cheating? Why couldn't come another bit and then fun
Speaker 1: his wife? What you mean how did that just equate
Speaker 1: to notice? And this is my problem when you're missing
Speaker 1: the point. What she's saying is he cheating because she's
Speaker 1: not sleeping with her, that's what she's equated with. He's
Speaker 1: not getting this pussy. He got to be getting some pussy. Well, really,
Speaker 1: that's stupid because we can get all the pussy dollar
Speaker 1: bill stuck up. Okay, it's still you still going out
Speaker 1: and getting pussy. It don't matter. What does it have
Speaker 1: to do with me not fucking you? What does that
Speaker 1: have to do with him not loving her? I don't
Speaker 1: even get into that now. I don't, I don't, I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't even What does it have to do with
Speaker 1: me not fucking you? You're not because you're sucking someone else,
Speaker 1: So we can't suck people in the same day. Who
Speaker 1: said that? And then what the funk are you talking about?
Speaker 1: That's cheating? You're missing the point. I am back up.
Speaker 1: Let's let's go over the gains. Please put the training.
Speaker 1: I don't understand, she said in the message, because that
Speaker 1: he has to be cheating. Do you think he's cheating
Speaker 1: because he's not fucking me? Why would you not think that? Though?
Speaker 1: So my question to you is, could he not fuck
Speaker 1: you and somebody else in the same day? That's cheating? Why?
Speaker 1: Why are why is my cheating? Well why you're not
Speaker 1: even listening, y'all just hearing, But why is my husband
Speaker 1: sleeping with another woman the same day? No? The thing is,
Speaker 1: the thing is, the whole point is that he could
Speaker 1: still be attracted to her. He could go have sex
Speaker 1: with another one does with you as his wife does.
Speaker 1: It doesn't need to be that one or the other.
Speaker 1: He can be doing both so in the same day.
Speaker 1: So okay, So and then it's it doesn't have to
Speaker 1: be the one, but he's not having sex with her,
Speaker 1: So what does it have to do with cheating? Um, well,
Speaker 1: if your man is not having sex with you, then
Speaker 1: we say cheating because he's sleeping with someone else, regardless,
Speaker 1: because because he's not having sex with you, I mean,
Speaker 1: so we just got to have sex, That's what it is.
Speaker 1: That's what you fucking think of us, of men, We
Speaker 1: just gotta funk somebody. Yeah, everybody, what are you talking
Speaker 1: about to? Or we can? You can, but for the
Speaker 1: most now, I don't try to spend this ship hold on,
Speaker 1: hold half wait, no, y'all niggas be out. They're doing ship.
Speaker 1: It don't matter. It could be a woman too, don't matter.
Speaker 1: If you're not having questions, you had your point. No,
Speaker 1: if y'all having sex, if you're if you if I'm
Speaker 1: married to you, and all of a sudden you just
Speaker 1: stopped sucking on me. We're not nothing. And we're not
Speaker 1: even communicating this. I'm not even saying it's not I'm
Speaker 1: not even saying it's not her father or his father
Speaker 1: or whatever. The whole point is, no one's communicating, and
Speaker 1: I'm you're now you're feeling like, damn, like what is
Speaker 1: going on? You're going to question everything. That's just one thing.
Speaker 1: It could be normous of things. Why not because you're
Speaker 1: doin somewhere else? Let me, she's thinking, he is? I mean,
Speaker 1: so let me get this right. So you think if
Speaker 1: you're married for somebody four years, you're gonna sunk like
Speaker 1: the first day. No, so the funk are you? So
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question? What is that I'm
Speaker 1: going to ask you. I'm going to ask you more questions.
Speaker 1: Why is it? How am I a man? And I
Speaker 1: understand intimacy is way more than sex, So fucking is
Speaker 1: a serviceable port, like it's a serviceable purpose. There's a
Speaker 1: reason why we're fucking. Our mind could be the reason
Speaker 1: why we want to feel special. It could be a
Speaker 1: hard penis a thousand things. What happens as you get older,
Speaker 1: your penis don't get hard as much. That's why I
Speaker 1: start taking peels. This problem But in regardless of whatever
Speaker 1: is fucking problem is, why is it? The why is
Speaker 1: the bitch did not take her to get Why he
Speaker 1: didn't take her to get it? Let me take it
Speaker 1: to the doctor because maybe you did not working? Why
Speaker 1: is the first thing? It's another woman? Well, like I
Speaker 1: said ahead, I was gonna say, I'm sorry, no sellings
Speaker 1: glasses Malone read what's up, hey, Red? What's up? I
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Speaker 1: this is not with some tone? What's up? Man? What
Speaker 1: I was gonna get to? What Red? Right? You know?
Speaker 1: I think you interjected that other part to it kind
Speaker 1: of after the reason why it's an issue, because he's
Speaker 1: not the reason why she's thinking that, because I'm trying
Speaker 1: to listen to everybody. I think the reason why she's
Speaker 1: thinking he's cheating is because the conversation happened about her body. Now,
Speaker 1: even though that's a whole another conversation, it's not the company.
Speaker 1: That's not fair. But she interjected that, and I was
Speaker 1: wondering why, Like I was gonna ask her, what did
Speaker 1: you ask her if she talked to him about it,
Speaker 1: because you can't just assume some ship. Now, if you're
Speaker 1: just assuming that's wrong, I don't make no sense that
Speaker 1: at that point, you're just saying a man is just
Speaker 1: shallow and all he that's what they're saying. No, that's
Speaker 1: not what she's not. She's saying, don't lie. No, I'm
Speaker 1: not saying you don't think men are shallow. I don't
Speaker 1: think men are shallow. But you're gonna lie from all
Speaker 1: one point. I did, at one point just think that
Speaker 1: men that they all want to have sex. They do,
Speaker 1: they do, but that's not that that's not but no,
Speaker 1: but what's wrong with wanting to have sex? Though? Let
Speaker 1: me ask you a question trash. Let me ask you
Speaker 1: a questions. Yeah, I'm confused. Men do want to have sex,
Speaker 1: but it's not like that's not all we're doing. But
Speaker 1: because that's because men don't always want to have sex,
Speaker 1: that's a whole different, that's a whole that's what she says.
Speaker 1: So when she's saying that to you, she's saying, that's
Speaker 1: all we think about. Okay, look, no, of course not.
Speaker 1: How is he gonna tell you what what I'm thinking
Speaker 1: that because because I'm like, so, let me get this right.
Speaker 1: If he not fun and you he fucking somebody, they
Speaker 1: don't ness it, then why would that be eventually eventually? Why?
Speaker 1: Because he's gonna want to have sex? I feel like eventually,
Speaker 1: so what if he rolls over seven? And I'm not
Speaker 1: saying like, of course because if you're older and stuff
Speaker 1: like that, you know you may not be getting past.
Speaker 1: That's a that's a whole another conversation right there. To
Speaker 1: man women to think that the same pussies like every
Speaker 1: time Valentine's Day, you've been there for twenty five years,
Speaker 1: a great birthday, birthday, birthdays? Not everyone make it funny. No,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what makes it funny? I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you why that's funny. And this is same day.
Speaker 1: We never use you for your birthdays. We never be
Speaker 1: for yourthday. What are you talking about. I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: everything because I'm a requests because we're not. You will
Speaker 1: try to present that old dress, it up that dress
Speaker 1: all the time. We don't want the same drug all
Speaker 1: the time. That's not yes, it is, it's the same
Speaker 1: missing the point. See what you're doing is you're not
Speaker 1: listening to you. You're not. Yes, I am. We have
Speaker 1: never ever gave you dick as a present. You know
Speaker 1: that's not because like what I'm saying that I did
Speaker 1: never heard that. I never I never heard that. But
Speaker 1: I've never been like that either. And if she and
Speaker 1: if she did, you not your photo to see that
Speaker 1: same us present. And I'm not just putting it's not
Speaker 1: it's not to say that you're not a magnificent woman.
Speaker 1: That I'm far pressed from saying that, Olivia. That's not
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I know you do. And what I'm
Speaker 1: saying to you is what I'm saying to you is
Speaker 1: somehow you like if this nigga is not getting this pussy,
Speaker 1: he gotta be getting pussy from somewhere. The first thing
Speaker 1: that y'all think when somebody not fucking you in a
Speaker 1: marriage is that they are sleeping with someone else. And
Speaker 1: it's not true. It's not the first thing. It's not.
Speaker 1: It depends on it's not true their patterns. You know,
Speaker 1: what you're doing is you're manipulating how you think they
Speaker 1: are as a person and trying to size them up.
Speaker 1: You're not thinking about their health, you're not thinking about
Speaker 1: everything about their mind that makes them. First of fucking
Speaker 1: is not just a physical thing, it's not. It's a
Speaker 1: mental thing. So motherfucker could be going through a all
Speaker 1: the things and his mind ain't. Don't suck it. And
Speaker 1: that don't mean that he sucked somebody else. That could
Speaker 1: be a freedom of sucking somebody else. But the fact
Speaker 1: that when you read that message, right, she didn't mention
Speaker 1: anything specifically about oh, he could be not attracted. It
Speaker 1: literally was like, well, if he's not sucking me, he
Speaker 1: must be cheating. Or she asked her that. She said, no, no,
Speaker 1: this is not She didn't put that in the message.
Speaker 1: She didn't put that in the message. See the thing
Speaker 1: she said after she didn't put the message. So we're
Speaker 1: not even gonna that ship didn't happen. That's probably a
Speaker 1: lie to say the message why why would he have
Speaker 1: to be She's basically asking, like what should she do?
Speaker 1: She did the whole candle thing, like the whole um
Speaker 1: romantic thing or whatever, you know, to try to, I
Speaker 1: guess initiate because I'm like, well, his dick lighting candles
Speaker 1: ever been needed? I don't I think that. I'm okay.
Speaker 1: I might agree with that. Most man, you're missing the
Speaker 1: point of what this whole conversation is when it comes
Speaker 1: to marriage, and you should know you're an expert. You
Speaker 1: went to I was married for eight years, so feel me.
Speaker 1: I was married to so feel me. But see, this
Speaker 1: is different. Women do things. No, I'm not disrespected, it
Speaker 1: is different. It's different. Is this a racial thing? Again?
Speaker 1: This is one of the few times I'm not being racist.
Speaker 1: I'm racist all the other So why is it difference?
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is women in the space, especially
Speaker 1: in the marriage, tend to make well before marriage, even
Speaker 1: but especially the marriage. It has to be about me.
Speaker 1: Women turned into serious me monsters. So it's like, he's
Speaker 1: not exactly That's what I say. It's not fair for
Speaker 1: me to say terms because they really be. It's not.
Speaker 1: This is a message. Every woman is a stuff, every
Speaker 1: single woman who because why would the fuck this because
Speaker 1: why in the funk would you think, well, he not
Speaker 1: sucking me, he must be sucking somebody because I don't
Speaker 1: know how he could not intimate And then they tried
Speaker 1: to make it with them like pretty words intimate, man,
Speaker 1: this nigga probably help me and watch TV and talk
Speaker 1: to her about this day and all the intimate moment
Speaker 1: she just well I had I went through that before myself.
Speaker 1: I could imagine, but again personally, and I felt I
Speaker 1: felt like because I called you and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: well you know we're not like vibe and we're not
Speaker 1: being but but you were like, well, do you'll watch TV?
Speaker 1: Do you do this intimate all the all the other
Speaker 1: intimate things. But I'm this is the problem when you
Speaker 1: marry a woman who's had sex before y'all were married. Ship.
Speaker 1: I agree, it matters. I agree, huh. I tell you,
Speaker 1: I really do. Right. Didn't get God getting some ship right?
Speaker 1: It's like God is like good money, bro. God will
Speaker 1: say some ship and it will make perfect sense. And
Speaker 1: the reason he's saying you shouldn't be sucking before you married,
Speaker 1: and so you don't be compared to that shallow compared
Speaker 1: to the shallow ship you married. So a woman could
Speaker 1: sleep with some nigga, I just want to fucker. Really
Speaker 1: think that nigga lover. He don't got to do nothing,
Speaker 1: He just gotta want to funk her all the time.
Speaker 1: They'd be like this, nigga really love me? No he don't.
Speaker 1: He loves sucking you again, because no, you don't. But
Speaker 1: it's no, definitely. I think it's because you guys want
Speaker 1: to have sex and that, but that's not And this
Speaker 1: is the tricky part. So there's a two part question.
Speaker 1: So there is a physical thing trash, right, there's a
Speaker 1: physical demand for men that six that change as you
Speaker 1: get older. Right, your body picks on how healthy you are,
Speaker 1: depends blood, blood, pumpy, add thousands of things. As I
Speaker 1: get older, I realized I have to take care of
Speaker 1: myself because really controls my sex drive like that matters.
Speaker 1: M Part two is the mental part for men, it's
Speaker 1: the personal conquest of somebody. I've told you this a
Speaker 1: thousand times. Where we tend to value vagina like it's
Speaker 1: special because we really feel like especial when you're giving
Speaker 1: it to us because we like, she chose me, so
Speaker 1: that's okay. So if you think that it's special though, no,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying those a lot of women that it's
Speaker 1: not special. That's the problem. Just listen and it niggas realized.
Speaker 1: And see I've realized none of them are special. It's
Speaker 1: just your turn. You maybe you you may get the
Speaker 1: last term, but it's still just your turn. Right. But
Speaker 1: it's important right that you know the difference because like
Speaker 1: what you're about to say right now, because we see
Speaker 1: it that way. When you get married, that's when you
Speaker 1: really realize it is not as special as you thought
Speaker 1: it was. Vagina, when you get married, because you because
Speaker 1: it's the one person. It's just the one. It's not that,
Speaker 1: it's not that it's just serviceable. It's there, and you're
Speaker 1: not conquering a person. Mentally, this person has already been conquered.
Speaker 1: So the mental part of you feeling special that she
Speaker 1: gave you some pussy goes out the door now because
Speaker 1: now it becomes a job for her to give you pussy.
Speaker 1: And no matter what people say, marry people funk like
Speaker 1: it's a job. Yeah, they're not that you're not always
Speaker 1: sucking the dick. When you first meet and you're sucking
Speaker 1: his dick and doing backflips and flips, and ship you
Speaker 1: get married them head become a special occasion would do
Speaker 1: when they first sucked the dick, and especially they're coming
Speaker 1: off this is the greatest dick I've ever seen they do.
Speaker 1: And then if you get into a relationship or you
Speaker 1: marry that person, that head is gonna go away. It's
Speaker 1: the whole point of what made it Excitedly, you're not
Speaker 1: because you're not because it becomes the ladies. It's not
Speaker 1: it's a serviceable job, I don't think, and it's not
Speaker 1: it's again again again, I think we're missing the point.
Speaker 1: It's not so much about that. It's the fact that
Speaker 1: over time those things changing that that's not the most
Speaker 1: important thing that's holding it together, actually, because the least
Speaker 1: important thing it does because what happens is I told
Speaker 1: read this a while ago. I said, look, when you
Speaker 1: become an adult and you really bond with somebody, intimacy
Speaker 1: is for real now. So you only think of intom
Speaker 1: me as intimacy as sex. When you ignorant and you
Speaker 1: just fucking and you get a boyfriend and you think
Speaker 1: we're this is how we get close when you really
Speaker 1: get with somebody in a marriage per se. So I've
Speaker 1: been single now going on five years. I've been selling
Speaker 1: a bit about two purposely. I've been dating to get
Speaker 1: to know women. I realized when I take out the sex, mhm,
Speaker 1: like you don't really like them. I don't, Damn I don't.
Speaker 1: And it's like, but I've met something that are cool
Speaker 1: and I liked you. But but to me, I'm like,
Speaker 1: when you take out the sex, when you really get
Speaker 1: to know who she is, where her head is at,
Speaker 1: and then also expressed I'm about to tell him, yes,
Speaker 1: I agree with him because two weeks ago, No, I
Speaker 1: never said I didn't agree with you. I'm sorry, my
Speaker 1: bad because he because the way you probably said was
Speaker 1: yelling at me. No. No, but I do really like
Speaker 1: I feel I don't know, maybe because I'm getting older,
Speaker 1: Like I really like sex. Sex is like the last
Speaker 1: fucking thing I'm thinking of, Like I literally want to
Speaker 1: like enjoy that person. I want to like have conversations,
Speaker 1: meanful ship, like do some ship, Like I feel like
Speaker 1: once you start sucking ship, yeah, it just comes, don't know,
Speaker 1: it's just weird. This is the thing also about sex,
Speaker 1: and I think you mentioned that in one of the
Speaker 1: other podcast might have heard it today actually, where you said,
Speaker 1: if you want to, if they want to see how
Speaker 1: a man what his true colors are, give him some
Speaker 1: pussy first day. It's true, and you know it's crazy
Speaker 1: about that. It's kind of true because you guys would
Speaker 1: get learned so much about that if you I know,
Speaker 1: sounds crazy, right, just give him the pussy. But when
Speaker 1: you give the man the pussy, you'll see right there
Speaker 1: if if he really funk with you, if he really
Speaker 1: funk with you, he's gonna call you and he gonna
Speaker 1: and it's not even gonna be at that point once
Speaker 1: he says, oh the pussy's good, she's cool. Hey, you
Speaker 1: want to go to a movie, you want to go
Speaker 1: have dinner. Now, as far as how many nigs gonna do,
Speaker 1: that's gonna down. Ye. That's why I recommend don't because
Speaker 1: it's really your only power play because outside of that,
Speaker 1: you don't do nothing. When you dating the nigga or
Speaker 1: engaged to a nigga on the way to marriage but
Speaker 1: cost him money, you provide no benefit. Think about it.
Speaker 1: The nagua gonna take you out, You're gonna buy you stuff.
Speaker 1: He's trying to woo you. It's just costing him money
Speaker 1: in time. But I was I was watching something, a
Speaker 1: clip of something recently, uh, and that that lady was talking.
Speaker 1: White lady from like she talks to these people from
Speaker 1: like London. I mean she's a white lady though, and
Speaker 1: she always talks to black people, but she's a white lady.
Speaker 1: But she talks about marriage and she has people on
Speaker 1: the show. But she statistically said eight percent of men today,
Speaker 1: modern day men are not getting married because there is
Speaker 1: no value. There's nothing in value of it to us,
Speaker 1: Like there's no there's really no incentive to get married
Speaker 1: if the woman is not really like understanding what it
Speaker 1: is to be a wife. Because too many women nowadays,
Speaker 1: it's like and you know, and I don't even say
Speaker 1: all women. I think it's a lot more younger women.
Speaker 1: And it's sad that there's older women that look up
Speaker 1: to the younger women. That's crazy. Men do the same ship.
Speaker 1: But where was that going with this? I got lost
Speaker 1: right now when I was cooking. Yeah, I just got completed. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember where I was. For men to
Speaker 1: get married. What's the incentive because you don't necessarily like
Speaker 1: if you get if you're gonna get married, Like, what
Speaker 1: do you get from women? Don't know how to beat
Speaker 1: women today? That's what I was getting a lot of them,
Speaker 1: not you guys. A lot of young women don't know
Speaker 1: how to be a wife. But it's not women a wife.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why that change. So sixty years
Speaker 1: ago you had to get married to get pussy. So
Speaker 1: to have at home pussy, m hm, we special. Seventy
Speaker 1: years ago, eighty years ago to have at home pussy
Speaker 1: on demand was special because it wasn't the culture of
Speaker 1: being what they say, a free or slept like slept walks.
Speaker 1: That wasn't a popular culture then. A whore wasn't popular.
Speaker 1: You just didn't sleep with men because you want to
Speaker 1: sleep with men. You really made them earn your body.
Speaker 1: They had to earn your body. Now it's like women,
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm making a choice. You're gonna make
Speaker 1: a bad decision. So it wasn't about I don't know
Speaker 1: if women even then were super great at being wives.
Speaker 1: They learned, but I think they had that specialty of
Speaker 1: the pussy. So now today, but they were younger, so
Speaker 1: they actually had time to be nurtured into being wives
Speaker 1: to or the perfect wife of that person. But but
Speaker 1: if you really look at it today, you can get
Speaker 1: somebody to fuck you all the time without marrying them. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I mean but that but you know what, I don't
Speaker 1: even put that. Uh well, obviously you gotta put the
Speaker 1: men and women right, But I think that ship has
Speaker 1: to do a lot with society. Bro. Like, it's just
Speaker 1: how people look at you. It's too everything is too
Speaker 1: in this free space, you know, you know, taking it
Speaker 1: back to the anti semitism, and you can't say this,
Speaker 1: and if you don't and if you don't agree with
Speaker 1: my lifestyle, then you're homophobic or your this and that,
Speaker 1: and it's like all these different things that just get
Speaker 1: it just so funked up and intertwined. And I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you something. Social media definitely sucked it up a
Speaker 1: lot too, because now your woman got a thousand your
Speaker 1: your husband or the wife has a thousand more things
Speaker 1: to compare you, and and and it's fucked up because
Speaker 1: you're never getting the reality of the situation. Social media
Speaker 1: is like ESPN for regular people. It's just the highlights
Speaker 1: of their life. It's the highlights of their life. They'll
Speaker 1: never show you when they're looking fucked up like people
Speaker 1: back no filter would be wearing makeup facts. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: the first filter. So again it's a weird place. But
Speaker 1: I thought that messaging was really important. That that's on
Speaker 1: is Facebook because it really goes into this weird ego
Speaker 1: thing women have developed to where it's like, oh, well
Speaker 1: the man told you it was nice, he was tired.
Speaker 1: The first thing they imagine is he has to be
Speaker 1: sleeping with somebody if he's not sleeping with me. I mean,
Speaker 1: after a while, I don't think it's something where it's
Speaker 1: like I'm saying, I'm saying that it's a thought at all.
Speaker 1: That's crazy to me because because it makes because it
Speaker 1: makes you, because it makes you become you don't realize
Speaker 1: how messed up in your mind, like the last but
Speaker 1: I feel like you talk. I feel like you're saying
Speaker 1: if that's the initial uh emotional respect a month. I
Speaker 1: mean she said it months at a time, months at
Speaker 1: a time. If it's months at a time, I mean
Speaker 1: that you gotta when you're in the married you'd be like, yo,
Speaker 1: know what's going on? You? You? You wonder what's going
Speaker 1: on you? Will you find somebody else? Is she? Is
Speaker 1: you fucking with her? Is she sucking? Wait a minute, No,
Speaker 1: I don't. That's not true. Right. The point I'm saying
Speaker 1: to you is, are they turning you down? That's different?
Speaker 1: Are they rejecting you as different? Was he rejecting her?
Speaker 1: So what she's saying is she made this bullshit ass
Speaker 1: thing that was more cater to her than him. Did
Speaker 1: she just pull out his dick? And she didn't. She
Speaker 1: didn't say that. She the only time that she said
Speaker 1: that or whatnot. She made this romantic when she did that.
Speaker 1: But know what she did tell me that how long
Speaker 1: have they been married? Um, it's been like seventeen years?
Speaker 1: There it is there, Lucy, Lucy and Ricky was staying
Speaker 1: a separate bad at that point, you're missing the point.
Speaker 1: Plus is old. There's no spice. There's no that can't
Speaker 1: be spice. It's not supposed to be spice. There's couple
Speaker 1: of that all the time. I've been together for two
Speaker 1: three years and they're going through this. Sorry, I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: if they were going through that again, we have a
Speaker 1: different conversation. This is another thing. There's no spice to fucking.
Speaker 1: No spice to fucking that's a cultural thing. I don't know,
Speaker 1: my nigger, I was racist. I'm just saying. I just know.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you know, you know, you know Mexicans,
Speaker 1: but we got lots of kids. That's just where that's
Speaker 1: because they get pricked every time they're very first, she
Speaker 1: needs to give it a Mexican problem. The problem is
Speaker 1: do you really care about so now you just want
Speaker 1: to get sucked off, that's your problem because all that
Speaker 1: wonderful thing was doing his life the old school, like
Speaker 1: you know, like like grandmothers and stuff, grandfather's. It was
Speaker 1: literally that they would just get fun because there was
Speaker 1: It wasn't a holding hands. If he was just sucking
Speaker 1: her and not kissing her, she would complain if she
Speaker 1: was not, if he was sucking her not kissing her,
Speaker 1: she'd be complaining if he was like he he don't
Speaker 1: kiss me. Women broke in a marriage is going to
Speaker 1: find a problem. Now, let me just stop saying. Women
Speaker 1: human beings in marriages start to find things to complain about. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: because expectation is the enemy of gratitude. See how she
Speaker 1: thinks it's supposed to go. It's fucking up with what's
Speaker 1: going on instead of her being grateful for this wonderful marriage,
Speaker 1: This nigga might be handling this business, chilling with watching
Speaker 1: TV with her. You know they're chilling watching movies. Whatever.
Speaker 1: Everything he does, he holds her hand, kissing on the chief,
Speaker 1: brings the food. It's not the point. It's not the
Speaker 1: pointing if if they were had something like if there,
Speaker 1: if they had something going on before, and think things
Speaker 1: have what you think has happened in seventeen years, I
Speaker 1: don't know some people still be fucking man, everybody, don't.
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it. It's really genuinely think people
Speaker 1: be together for with her for eight I'm sorry, married
Speaker 1: to her for a with her for twelve every year,
Speaker 1: but she didn't. She didn't say, you mean to tell
Speaker 1: me you wasn't every day for a year. That was
Speaker 1: a whole another thing. I remember, I had told myself
Speaker 1: accountable for a lot of ship. That made her start
Speaker 1: thinking other ship. I agree that, I agree, but now
Speaker 1: he wasn't. And she definitely thought that that, like, oh
Speaker 1: you must be and sometimes not. And the reason she
Speaker 1: didn't have a reason not sometimes I just didn't want to.
Speaker 1: Just bottom line, I had moments where I've cheated, right,
Speaker 1: But that's not why he didn't want to welcome her.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, what I'm trying to I see, no, not.
Speaker 1: What I'm trying to express is that there were times
Speaker 1: where she was still attractive to me, and I knocked
Speaker 1: her down when I want to, And there were times
Speaker 1: where I just want to watch TV, sit down next
Speaker 1: to me, let me rub on your feet, rub on
Speaker 1: my feet or whatever, and let's chill. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying that. And I wasn't out doing nothing. I
Speaker 1: wasn't thinking about it. Yes, but yeah, yeah, because lord knows,
Speaker 1: if you turned me down, that's just because of the pattern.
Speaker 1: And it's not just like the whole thing we say,
Speaker 1: having sex before marriage, you have that experience. So she
Speaker 1: had the experience of him stepping out before. So of
Speaker 1: course she's gonna it's not of course, that's it, Yes,
Speaker 1: it is. That's how it will play in her hand.
Speaker 1: She shouldn't be. It shouldn't because if you, if you
Speaker 1: take him back, then that should just be a y'all
Speaker 1: was supposed to start off with clean slate. But if
Speaker 1: I had what he had done, then there would be
Speaker 1: no reason for her to think that's a lie. The
Speaker 1: reason she think that that's not true. The reason she
Speaker 1: thinks that is because he exists. It has nothing to
Speaker 1: do with it's because he no, because because you guys
Speaker 1: are kind of like he's basically saying, even if I
Speaker 1: had not been a cheater and I just decided not
Speaker 1: to sleep with her, chances are nine out of ten
Speaker 1: times at some point that's going to be a thought
Speaker 1: when reality, if I'm not cheating and I've never cheated,
Speaker 1: why are you even having that thought. I've never done anything,
Speaker 1: So like maybe I just am not feeling like doing
Speaker 1: that right now. That's it, because what happens is but
Speaker 1: I wouldn't reject her, but you can't but reject her
Speaker 1: is different. And let's see what happens is they'll do
Speaker 1: something like being naked. Bro. It's years now, bro, Like
Speaker 1: come on now, if she's naked, So like, if she
Speaker 1: gets in the bed and she's naked, Um, she can't
Speaker 1: just expect like, oh, we're not nine any We're not
Speaker 1: nineteen anymore, not nineteen anymore. I mean maybe it just
Speaker 1: depends on what you do when you have a low
Speaker 1: rider for ten years and when you have a low rider.
Speaker 1: You have a low rider for ten years. You don't
Speaker 1: always have to hit the switch, stupid. You don't always
Speaker 1: got to hit switch. You know, you know you have hydraulics.
Speaker 1: You're not always trying to show everybody you got hydraulics.
Speaker 1: You have them, you have them. Yeah, I see the comparison.
Speaker 1: I see the analogy. And what really changes, honestly, is intimacy.
Speaker 1: I had this conversation with this conversation with my sister,
Speaker 1: my cousin. What changes for men is intimacy. Men are
Speaker 1: the last. I'm starting to not believe that. I'm thinking
Speaker 1: women is. But I used to always think men were
Speaker 1: the last to learn true intimacy, they were the last.
Speaker 1: But I'm starting to believe that's not true. You know
Speaker 1: what it also is, like you said, society where we
Speaker 1: are now, the things that the young women are, ladies
Speaker 1: that are taught growing up now, don't they don't know
Speaker 1: the intimacy because they aren't spending that time. But I
Speaker 1: think also the understanding of intimacy is where the lions
Speaker 1: get cross also like no, but yeah, but that's like
Speaker 1: so simple, closest, that's the exact definition. Right. What women
Speaker 1: like to do is make their own rules and so
Speaker 1: a woman's intimacy. No, that's not true. Most women like
Speaker 1: that is yeah, because but that's not that's what he said,
Speaker 1: like technically by the words, it's literally as spending time
Speaker 1: time together. But they like no, because you're not doing
Speaker 1: in the house. It's intimacy, but just not all you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because you want other people to
Speaker 1: see because historically you have created this thing where other
Speaker 1: people have to be involved in your life. We need
Speaker 1: to go out on the date. Do you understand why
Speaker 1: people go out on dates to get No, that's not
Speaker 1: why you that's going to the movie. It's not why
Speaker 1: you go out on date. To the day is so
Speaker 1: you can But that's not kicking it in because for me,
Speaker 1: I didn't have people come to my house like I
Speaker 1: would want to go out with them or you know,
Speaker 1: but do you understand what a date? Do you understand
Speaker 1: what a date is? For a date is to get
Speaker 1: to money? But you know why the funk will be dating?
Speaker 1: If I'm married to you after ten years, why am
Speaker 1: I dating you eight years? Like you go out you
Speaker 1: might hang out. Hey, let's go he's talking out. Just
Speaker 1: call it a day. He's talking on a technical term, ladies,
Speaker 1: like he's just he's trying. He's just using the word
Speaker 1: like in other words, I get what you're saying, and
Speaker 1: you guys are basically saying like, now we can still
Speaker 1: go out and have fun. He's saying, cool, that's not
Speaker 1: a day anymore. We're literally they don't want to be
Speaker 1: pursued like the first day. Yeah, that's why they're like
Speaker 1: Rihanna saying like I'm the only one in the world
Speaker 1: one of those, but I'm the only They're not honest.
Speaker 1: They're not being honest in these conversations, and that's why
Speaker 1: we don't ever come to a mutual meeting ground because
Speaker 1: we could never help them work out that issue. The
Speaker 1: issue is they want to be pursued and treated like
Speaker 1: it's the first day. That's what they're talking about. Spice,
Speaker 1: the first time you met me, how excited you was
Speaker 1: to see me. Now it's not like that. Now I
Speaker 1: see who you really are. So it's either going to
Speaker 1: be a deeper love or you also can see some
Speaker 1: ship you don't like. But that's the other part. Two.
Speaker 1: If a man's well, maybe not every situation, but but
Speaker 1: for the most part, if a man sticks around and
Speaker 1: he's staying around. He funk with you. No, man's like
Speaker 1: if you give him, if you give him the vagina
Speaker 1: and he and he really don't funk with you. Oh oh,
Speaker 1: man ain't ship. But no, you just didn't see the
Speaker 1: signs he didn't want because he was looking at his
Speaker 1: physical appearance and minus the signs. That's the thing that
Speaker 1: they have in their power. So when somebody shows strength
Speaker 1: to reject it and towards to not be the grand
Speaker 1: stand and then there's guys who in their d MS
Speaker 1: like can I get that thing that that guy doesn't
Speaker 1: want but he wants you? That's my problem, that's my
Speaker 1: problem with the initial message. This nigga is coming home
Speaker 1: working thousand things, probably with her watching TV with her.
Speaker 1: All of these signs of intimacy, right, all of these
Speaker 1: amazing and signs of intimacy are being ignored because he's
Speaker 1: not doing it. I'm gonna put her business out there
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna just say so, although I wasn't a
Speaker 1: horrible husband. I had my moments, but I wasn't a
Speaker 1: bad husband, you know what I mean. She had her house,
Speaker 1: she had her two cars, she had a lot of ship. Right,
Speaker 1: that's just materialistic. I married her, but she wanted a
Speaker 1: certain for me, like almost traditional. I've never been traditional,
Speaker 1: working under five, come home and that's it, you know.
Speaker 1: Even now I have my little side hustle as a
Speaker 1: courier business, and then inside of that come fuck with glasses.
Speaker 1: The dude she's been with now, who she met two years,
Speaker 1: I'm assuming he was possibly in the picture already because
Speaker 1: she got with him like two years after we divorced.
Speaker 1: She's been with now for eight years, living in his house. Right,
Speaker 1: dude ain't married her? Yeah? Who didin't married her? I
Speaker 1: gave her everything that she wanted, and what he's not
Speaker 1: giving her she'll just take because hey, fuck it. But
Speaker 1: you missing the point of why that is. Okay, tell
Speaker 1: me why you can't never give a woman everything she
Speaker 1: wants because she don't know what she want. That's going
Speaker 1: to change. But she went over there thinking that that's
Speaker 1: everything she wanted. As my point, but that that's not
Speaker 1: what they go to think. See what they think is
Speaker 1: they can make whatever they want. That again, it goes
Speaker 1: back into that same because y'all, for sure, I think
Speaker 1: y'all can change it. Yeah, that's the thing you definitely
Speaker 1: used to think that you definitely listen to this ship
Speaker 1: because I guess I'm just a whole, totally different breed.
Speaker 1: Never try to change. I've never tried to change the
Speaker 1: name Can't get Right, and I left that alone. Can
Speaker 1: Getting Right. No, it wasn't that that was his nickname
Speaker 1: because she was there for whatever the purpose was at
Speaker 1: that time. I never tried to change him. That was
Speaker 1: his name, Can't get Right, and I fun with him,
Speaker 1: and so I didn't want too with that again. I
Speaker 1: like you say about trying to change sense of power,
Speaker 1: that they're controlling the same power. It was never about powers.
Speaker 1: That's why I wanted to date at the time, like
Speaker 1: you had faith and believe that that could be something.
Speaker 1: I literally didn't you have faith that could be something.
Speaker 1: She's lying, She says, No, Okay, okay, here's when I
Speaker 1: knew when I called him can't get Right. I knew
Speaker 1: that wasn't if I give you a fucking nickname, that's
Speaker 1: what you are and and that's it. You didn't so
Speaker 1: you didn't see a future, but you continue to see
Speaker 1: the guy I'm asking because I was. I was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we were hanging out, but I knew I knew what
Speaker 1: it was. Well, yeah, okay, I like because I liked.
Speaker 1: But at one point before he wasn't getting right when
Speaker 1: you were when we first Okay, listen when when when
Speaker 1: we first met, he had just moved out here. He's
Speaker 1: not from here. We first met, everything was cool. We
Speaker 1: were just you know, it wasn't nothing like. It was
Speaker 1: just no. We weren't even working at the time. We
Speaker 1: didn't start working for years later, so we didn't. We
Speaker 1: were just hanging out. No, that wasn't even either. I
Speaker 1: was just literally, I mean, you don't have everybody you date,
Speaker 1: you don't have to fund glasses, Like, what are you
Speaker 1: talking about? You can literally he was actually able to
Speaker 1: spend time with me and not to get But I
Speaker 1: know he said that now I've never but I never.
Speaker 1: I don't know how did I start just doing podcast
Speaker 1: because where I'll be looping Nato. No, it's not no bullshit.
Speaker 1: We're not talking. I'm not married, don't have hot sex. Listen,
Speaker 1: I'm listening. I'll tell you about my damn story. I
Speaker 1: was turning it into the I'm sorry, but I was
Speaker 1: turning it into the fact day I wanted to know,
Speaker 1: you know, where what you know, what is the point
Speaker 1: of keeping him around. If you're not trying to change him,
Speaker 1: what were you doing? Oh yeah, no, I was just
Speaker 1: hanging out with him for what is that? I was
Speaker 1: having fun at that time? Were you having sex by
Speaker 1: that time? By that time? I was so he was
Speaker 1: just having sex? You had kept him around for just sex? Okay,
Speaker 1: let me tell you why I calm can't get right.
Speaker 1: It wasn't about because what he did to me A
Speaker 1: question though, Did you keep him around just for sex
Speaker 1: at that point? At that point? Yeah, keeping the one
Speaker 1: Like I'm serious, that's what it was. We had a
Speaker 1: good time. I'm not lying. No, don't tell me I'm lying.
Speaker 1: I'm not lying. I promise you are lying. But the
Speaker 1: reason why I called him can't get right, It wasn't
Speaker 1: because of how he was treating me. I was calling
Speaker 1: can't be right because all the stupid ship that he
Speaker 1: was doing. I was like, he couldn't in his life
Speaker 1: that okay, But that's so that's what I didn't get right.
Speaker 1: I said he was just through the through the sex.
Speaker 1: Were you doing it because you felt intimacy? Like he
Speaker 1: made you feel special at least in those moments? I mean, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we did. We had we had that friendship. We had
Speaker 1: a good friendship, have a friendship. No, we were friends,
Speaker 1: not if he's sucking you. I mean the guys get
Speaker 1: friends on you, they get friends zone, and that just
Speaker 1: because just because the dude is sucking on you, like
Speaker 1: if y'all, y'all can still be friends like guys do
Speaker 1: it too. It's not women don't just friends zone. We
Speaker 1: were fraid if you're still having sex with them or
Speaker 1: had sex. Well we've had sex still, most most men
Speaker 1: are not gonna friend zone you unless you friend zone yourself.
Speaker 1: Like you know, if where he for women, there is
Speaker 1: no great area. So it's friends or relationship. So that's
Speaker 1: why it's they considered friends on if we not together,
Speaker 1: if I don't have a title, I'm your friend. So
Speaker 1: that's why they say it's friend z. That's what I
Speaker 1: meant by that. I wasn't meaning yeah, but this is
Speaker 1: my point though, back to that point, it's it's it's
Speaker 1: crazy how we're able to look back around to guys
Speaker 1: could actually date you when not fuck you. The point
Speaker 1: I'm saying because you just went through a whole spill
Speaker 1: saying that this married man who pretty much been with
Speaker 1: his wife and being an honorable man and ship like that.
Speaker 1: Because he hasn't sucked her, he has to be doing
Speaker 1: something wrong. I don't know he's an honorable man. Though
Speaker 1: we don't know anything about this man she didn't have.
Speaker 1: No can not specify what type of man she has.
Speaker 1: She just said, So why can I not judge him
Speaker 1: on the up? So why you imagine I'm saying you
Speaker 1: wouldn't have stopped me. His old raggedy ass ain't sucking
Speaker 1: you to like who? I referred to him as an
Speaker 1: honorable husband. I referred to him as an honorable husband
Speaker 1: because I would imagine he's doing everything else and he's saying, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm a blah blah blah and I'm coming home. He
Speaker 1: had to be there to see he's not saying he's
Speaker 1: not there. I want women to initiate more. Said again,
Speaker 1: you want women to initiate more. Well, I think I
Speaker 1: think that women need to understand that you guys need
Speaker 1: to initiate more like. It shouldn't always just be a
Speaker 1: man like a man. I know me, I would want
Speaker 1: my woman to come give me that dick like cool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree with you. I'm just saying I think there's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with it. Especially if it's your other. I've
Speaker 1: said this apple times because why are let me ask
Speaker 1: you a question as a single man. The reason I
Speaker 1: pursue pussy is it makes me feel good about myself.
Speaker 1: I feel special if a woman when you know, when
Speaker 1: I was running the streets and hanging out and young nigga,
Speaker 1: and it made me feel special when accomplished. When a
Speaker 1: woman gave me pussy, I was like, I have to
Speaker 1: be special. She chose me me. There's always that moment
Speaker 1: when she's taking off her drawers and I'm like, how
Speaker 1: can I believe she about to give me the pus?
Speaker 1: And then when you do it, that's the conquering part
Speaker 1: because you have from so the point I'm saying to
Speaker 1: you is why do you guys do it before you're married?
Speaker 1: What do you gain? Do you feel accomplished that he's
Speaker 1: gonna give me the dick? I must be special. I
Speaker 1: think they just have. They just have. We're not gonna
Speaker 1: We're not gonna answer that because that's what we get it.
Speaker 1: Try can tell you can verify bis bis. When a
Speaker 1: girl that you've been looking at want to get some pussy,
Speaker 1: don't you be like, yeah, she you know I'm that
Speaker 1: nigga like I'm happy, I'm special and I always remember
Speaker 1: this if anyone does it to kiss on the ash,
Speaker 1: cheek or the leg, that's to thank you, just say,
Speaker 1: you know, I never got really my point, but I'm asking.
Speaker 1: That's why men, That's what propels men to have sex,
Speaker 1: outside of the physical desire of procreation is the conquest
Speaker 1: of feeling special. So right, there's the physical desire that
Speaker 1: you get, the urge being hard, right, the physical desire
Speaker 1: of the purpose of sex to procreate. Right, you have
Speaker 1: that boom, Okay, that's one part. The other part is
Speaker 1: the mental the mental gratitude you feel by being chose
Speaker 1: of being worthy of a woman's body. You feel special.
Speaker 1: The less nigger she slept, would you feel even more special?
Speaker 1: This bitch only chose me, or she chose me and
Speaker 1: only him. That's it. You feel special. And that right
Speaker 1: there where he just said is exactly why you guys
Speaker 1: are held to hire standards. When y'all cheat, it's even
Speaker 1: worse than that body counting everything. So those are the
Speaker 1: two reasons. So I agree we could physically have the
Speaker 1: same desire right of to pro create his human beings.
Speaker 1: You know, you you get horny like everybody else to appropriate,
Speaker 1: and then we figure out ways to block it, pull
Speaker 1: out condom, purple troul, whatever you do. But that's the
Speaker 1: physical desire pro creation right. Attraction creates procreation, right, that's
Speaker 1: the breeds procreation right boom, we just block it. The
Speaker 1: set reason is we feel accomplished and special, like you
Speaker 1: gave us your body. So if you don't feel like us,
Speaker 1: what's your second reason? So for me, I'm like ready
Speaker 1: to have sex with you when I've connected mentally, like
Speaker 1: when I feel like we have like a like a
Speaker 1: connection and not like not but not when you're ready?
Speaker 1: What do you accomplish? What do you gain that person?
Speaker 1: I gained that your soul is immortal combat your soul
Speaker 1: is have you have you ever been ever been with
Speaker 1: a woman that almost had your soul? And you're like,
Speaker 1: what am I thinking about? Twice? Twice? Okay, it's pretty destructive? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it is, so what drives us? So the second accomplishment
Speaker 1: we get is we have conquered something. We have conquered
Speaker 1: a challenge that other men we know are trying to conquer, right,
Speaker 1: and we all conquer women. Right, It's like you have
Speaker 1: to choose us. We have to be special enough for
Speaker 1: you to give us your body, because the way it
Speaker 1: was created it was special, not the way you guys
Speaker 1: handle it now, but in its inception, in creation, it
Speaker 1: is a woman's body is a special, amazing things. It
Speaker 1: still is. But they just mishap they're just horrible owners. Again.
Speaker 1: That's why I say, but a lot of that ship
Speaker 1: is going into these young girls, man, because I don't
Speaker 1: even want to get into them little or figure out no,
Speaker 1: but it's it's important because that's what we're seeing right now,
Speaker 1: because that's so what is your What do you gain?
Speaker 1: We gain the conquest, We gained the ability I can
Speaker 1: call trash andl She chose me. She gave me that pussy, nigger.
Speaker 1: That's actually why we would tell each other that too.
Speaker 1: I have those I've been selected. I'm a part of
Speaker 1: a special play of niggas and who she wants to
Speaker 1: give pussy to? I am the guy. So what do
Speaker 1: you guys get? Do you guys gonna tell that he
Speaker 1: chose me, bitch, he gave me that dick? Do you
Speaker 1: feel special? Do you feel special? Do you feel like
Speaker 1: you got something that was special? I feel like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we have a connection that's special. Like, did you feel like,
Speaker 1: did you got it? He liked me? You know, he
Speaker 1: loved me? Kind of what are you a hopeless shrowman?
Speaker 1: Tell me the truth? Are you a hopeless romantic? She
Speaker 1: loves love man too. I feel like we had a connection.
Speaker 1: What's your sign? Let's just sh are your birthday. I
Speaker 1: just feel happy birthday, Thank you. That's the funniest part.
Speaker 1: So so you feel like you get somebody love you.
Speaker 1: So you get that a lot of these she was
Speaker 1: looking a corner. Boys, what do we get when we get? Okay?
Speaker 1: So I agree that we share a physical desire to procreate. Right,
Speaker 1: that's something we both share. We're attracted. The desire to
Speaker 1: procreate propels us physically. Right, that's the hormonal system that
Speaker 1: creates the hormones. That's why we're horny. Right, we just
Speaker 1: figured out ways to approcreation. But that's the desire. Go,
Speaker 1: that's what's happening. Right. Um. The second thing men get
Speaker 1: is accomplished. We start to feel like, oh I am special.
Speaker 1: She chose me. This woman's body, A woman's body is amazing.
Speaker 1: It's amazing thing. And she's like she's allowing me to
Speaker 1: have it. She's giving herself to me. That's what we get.
Speaker 1: So I have that now a part of my resume.
Speaker 1: It's like my suit and my suit case, my suit,
Speaker 1: that's a part of my resume. Uh, BRIT's box is
Speaker 1: now on my resume. Your box like I have it?
Speaker 1: What is your seconds for your second? Think? What do
Speaker 1: you gain when you allow a men to sleep with you?
Speaker 1: That's what we get. I get the ability to tell
Speaker 1: trash she chose me? You do? Really? Is that the
Speaker 1: like you do? Like you have to choose? So hold up?
Speaker 1: If a man, so what do you get? Do you
Speaker 1: feel like he chose because you know better? You like
Speaker 1: that ship ain't worth worry? I'm afraid. Come on, no,
Speaker 1: I know most the same thing you get. It's it's
Speaker 1: only you become a victim. Well, we know ready looking
Speaker 1: for love. So whoever got that probably be true to
Speaker 1: love Red, Red, that's ready, Red, You got kids? Okay, okay, man,
Speaker 1: that's up? Do you? I don't really know. I don't
Speaker 1: really like his I definitely don't feel like I would
Speaker 1: think that you're specially yeah, that he loved me and
Speaker 1: no ship like that like I wouldn't. I don't know, no, no,
Speaker 1: no or not? What do you feel? What do you think,
Speaker 1: what do you gain? Yeah? What why would you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What would make you have sex with me? And how
Speaker 1: do you feel a bomblished after it's over? Because the
Speaker 1: way again, like I'm telling you guys, right, we were satisfied, right,
Speaker 1: the same thing you satisfied, the hormonal system, but also
Speaker 1: we satisfied that we're special because you chose us, You
Speaker 1: chose me. I am the guy you chose to give
Speaker 1: yourself to this valuable thing that can create children and
Speaker 1: bring children into this earth. You gave that to me.
Speaker 1: Can't get right, what did you get set out of that?
Speaker 1: You know? Because they don't get nothing, no that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but there's another reason why, the real deep reasons. It's
Speaker 1: because they don't understand that. That is the It's like
Speaker 1: it's like smoking weed. They're smoking weed, right, but you're
Speaker 1: not supposed to be smoking weed. That's not what weed
Speaker 1: is for. That's not what the plants for having sex.
Speaker 1: We talked about that having sex it's for appropriate like biblically,
Speaker 1: it's for propriate that it's literally for me to have
Speaker 1: a baby. So because we misuse it, right, we feel
Speaker 1: and it is because you your body is amazing. It
Speaker 1: is the gift. So you're giving us the gift right
Speaker 1: that keeps on giving you get nothing. That's why you
Speaker 1: expect everything else. That's why you like a nigga better
Speaker 1: take me out? Well, I ain't. Never nobody was like,
Speaker 1: I gave you that dick, she better take me out.
Speaker 1: But not every woman feels like, oh, he better take
Speaker 1: me out. No, you feel like he owes you something
Speaker 1: because you know you gave it to him. There are
Speaker 1: some women that, dude, they've I think that. I do
Speaker 1: think there's women women that are crazy that don't think so.
Speaker 1: I think you have to be crazy to not think
Speaker 1: a man owes you something once you give him some pussy.
Speaker 1: Something is wrong with those women, not the other women.
Speaker 1: The other women got it right. I just gave you
Speaker 1: some pussy, nigga. This is not a fair change. As
Speaker 1: much as I would love as y'all feel like I'm
Speaker 1: a chauvingist, I am not. I understand pussy is more
Speaker 1: valuable than that. If that was the case, there be
Speaker 1: blades where niggas walking the stroll and women pull it up.
Speaker 1: And then let me ask you a question. Do you
Speaker 1: think part of how a woman, when she becomes a woman,
Speaker 1: views the way she gives her body would be dictated
Speaker 1: by if her father's in her life actively and understanding.
Speaker 1: That's a huge that's a huge part of it. I
Speaker 1: think women like that you have to treat them a
Speaker 1: certain way. They can't. You can't. They know what it's
Speaker 1: supposed to feel like if their father is doing a
Speaker 1: good job. They've seen how a man should treat them, okay,
Speaker 1: because I mean, do you know how I end with
Speaker 1: my daughter? Man? Sometimes they don't get it right because
Speaker 1: but for the most part, yeah, that helps, you know,
Speaker 1: because they know how to be They know how a
Speaker 1: man should love them. So the ones that don't grow
Speaker 1: up with a father and maybe some kind of traction
Speaker 1: figure it out and I think no guidance at all,
Speaker 1: you really trying to figure it out. But it definitely
Speaker 1: does as a woman, just because a mother could never
Speaker 1: show you like a father's love is the first man
Speaker 1: that ever loves you. So a lot of a lot
Speaker 1: of women that come from our community before they get married,
Speaker 1: never had their first love. Their first love was whoever
Speaker 1: their first love was, it wasn't their father. And you know,
Speaker 1: you got those weird situations where the father could be sick,
Speaker 1: messed up, but a real pure father's first love is
Speaker 1: the first man that loves you and he don't want
Speaker 1: nothing from you. Every other nigga you meet and the
Speaker 1: rest of your life is gonna want something from you.
Speaker 1: That nigga shout out to your pops because he's a
Speaker 1: solid nigga. That nigga don't want nothing from you. That's
Speaker 1: the first love you get from a man. And then
Speaker 1: you meet another nigga that carries on his tradition. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna love you, but you should be
Speaker 1: loving him. You should be providing the same love that
Speaker 1: his mother gave to him. I know that, and that's
Speaker 1: looked upon as that's looked upon as some negative ship.
Speaker 1: Why I don't think broken? Okay from what a lot
Speaker 1: of women. A lot of women are broken. So they
Speaker 1: be like, why I don't want to love you like
Speaker 1: I'm not your mama? Bits you supposed that be his mama?
Speaker 1: Why you gotta be wait what go back rewind. She
Speaker 1: gotta do what she's supposed to be his mama, who's
Speaker 1: supposed to be his wife, be nurturing like his mother.
Speaker 1: That is not the same. You're supposed to love the
Speaker 1: nigga like his mother loves him, and your your husband's
Speaker 1: supposed to love you like the way your father loves you. Yes,
Speaker 1: it is, it actually says it. But again, y'all such
Speaker 1: perverse because y'alln't quick fucking into the conversation because guess what,
Speaker 1: fucking don't got nothing to do with love. No, that's
Speaker 1: that's why the motherfucker's who love you the most don't
Speaker 1: fuck you. You need to get a line so we
Speaker 1: can call that lady next time. What did you What
Speaker 1: did you mean here? What are you saying that he's
Speaker 1: cheating he didn't sleep with you? Because I heard that.
Speaker 1: I've heard this conversation a few times, a lot of times, really,
Speaker 1: a lot of times where it's like, were he not
Speaker 1: sucking him? Like? That? Don't mean he don't funk with you?
Speaker 1: Y'all are sharing intimacy in multiple ways, right, So if
Speaker 1: you want to fucking suck his dick because he's talking
Speaker 1: about cheat when when you cheer, it doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: you're not sucking with her, you know that. But that's
Speaker 1: not the point I'm saying the fact that you're like, well,
Speaker 1: he's got to sleeping with somebody else. No, because if
Speaker 1: he fucking with you and he's fucking he can suck
Speaker 1: y'all both. Right. There has been times in my life,
Speaker 1: multiple people in the day that's happened to me. It's
Speaker 1: okay saying it's pretty awesome and if he's good at
Speaker 1: what he does, you know that should never comes to
Speaker 1: her something I've never told another human being except a nigger.
Speaker 1: I've slept with four women, different women, three different times
Speaker 1: in my life in the same day. That's Nasty's happened.
Speaker 1: I hope you use condoms every time women develop. No,
Speaker 1: it wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't like, it wasn't a desire.
Speaker 1: It wasn't a desire. It wasn't at once. Yes, I
Speaker 1: got chose four different times. You can't eat, can turn down?
Speaker 1: Why that's what I listen when you out there on
Speaker 1: the I don't know if that's when it happened, but
Speaker 1: what I can say for my sit talking about you
Speaker 1: out on the road. So this is prime twenty some
Speaker 1: year old glasses at best, thirty early thirty glasses, young glasses.
Speaker 1: So to be chose by four different women in one day,
Speaker 1: that's pretty I needed to rise to every occasion. And
Speaker 1: my young trooper was with the challenge. Now, it wasn't
Speaker 1: something apart was this, So I did that before three
Speaker 1: when that was kind of I was just champion. I
Speaker 1: slept crazy. But so what happened was a girl spent
Speaker 1: the night. We're talking, and so it was like at
Speaker 1: six in the morning for she left, a girl called me.
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm gonna stop by. I want to drop
Speaker 1: up something. It wasn't like I was trying. I've never
Speaker 1: tried to a girl said she was gonna drop something off.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, drop it off from here. She
Speaker 1: came sex again, Wow, and that same bit and what bad?
Speaker 1: What was counter? Big counter? I just want to make
Speaker 1: sure it was whatever is that the third time I
Speaker 1: was in the streets, Wow, left and came home and
Speaker 1: a girl came by spend the night, and it happened.
Speaker 1: It happened to that. That's why he's asking questions like
Speaker 1: what do you get out of it? Because those women
Speaker 1: came and gave it to him, and that does happen.
Speaker 1: You do have women that come and want to give
Speaker 1: it to you, and you do go, damn, that's special,
Speaker 1: that she's special to give it to you, so that
Speaker 1: you can just her her hormonal cycles is a matter
Speaker 1: I'm saying, But you don't get that second thing, and
Speaker 1: that's what fox it up for you. You don't have
Speaker 1: that second thing. You don't get to claim like if
Speaker 1: I tell you that right now, trash right now, it's like, damn,
Speaker 1: my nigga is a cold bars over there right now. Damn,
Speaker 1: that's kind of player. If you said you sat with
Speaker 1: four girls in the same day, Y gonna be like
Speaker 1: you little horr. She's not gonna say it out loud,
Speaker 1: but in the back of room mind she come like
Speaker 1: this little because that second thing that we used to
Speaker 1: make it happen, that second thing, which is the conquest
Speaker 1: of somebody deciding you are valuable enough to give puss
Speaker 1: you too? Can I tell you what I think that
Speaker 1: they think. What's that? I'm gonna just try to speak.
Speaker 1: You gotta sell me wrong. But I think sometimes that
Speaker 1: they give the vagina thinking that that's gonna lock the
Speaker 1: man in. And if they give it to him, like
Speaker 1: you said, the expectation is now he's gonna he's mine.
Speaker 1: I think so too, Yeah, he's mine. But that's what
Speaker 1: I was saying to her. They don't say it either,
Speaker 1: not because because then that would be defeating because they
Speaker 1: know that's not a realistic so they don't Women don't
Speaker 1: set unrealistic well, they have unrealistic expectations, they don't set
Speaker 1: unrealistic goals. So they won't say make me the only
Speaker 1: woman in the world. They'll say, make me feel like
Speaker 1: the only only woman in the world. Good looking out
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