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Speaker 1: This is from Bailey on Steve Harvey FM. Bailey says,

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Speaker 1: I have one coworker who thinks she is a singing

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Speaker 1: star and is constantly singing around the office. I have

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Speaker 1: to remind her several times a day to keep it

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Speaker 1: down so I can concentrate or take client calls. But

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Speaker 1: she doesn't seem to be getting the message. To add

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Speaker 1: to the annoyance, she really can't sing. She walks around

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Speaker 1: singing Whitney Houston, Minnie Ripperton, Jill Scott, an shot a songs.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get management involved if I can

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Speaker 1: help it, but she just won't take a hint and

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Speaker 1: stop it already. How can I handle this without getting

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Speaker 1: our boss involved?

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Speaker 2: That's what she stopped with the hints.

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Speaker 1: Just say it, well, should she say?

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Speaker 2: Gwen? Gwen ask saying I'll just come right out with

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Speaker 2: it because her name Gwen, all these old ass artists

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Speaker 2: Shah Day, Minie Rippertons, you know, saying Nita breaker, Gwen.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna just tell you, baby, baby, you don't sound good.

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Speaker 1: You off.

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Speaker 2: You are, you ain't you flat? You ain't on key?

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Speaker 2: Stop with these hints. We had to do it to

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Speaker 2: Shirley and it worked. And she don't sing no more.

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Speaker 1: Eventually, eventually it works.

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Speaker 2: Because you know, after a while, you know, Shirley k

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Speaker 2: take a lot of criticism.

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Speaker 1: But Shirley was singing Whitney too, just going to the

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Speaker 1: top of the food chain, Whitney. It sounded good to me.

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Speaker 1: Though it sounded so good to me, I didn't understand,

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Speaker 1: are you before? I'm feeling that yeah all the time.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't give it, damn. See that's differently me

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Speaker 2: and you. It ain't that I think I can say.

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Speaker 2: I'm done saying because I feel like you ain't an yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know, Hey, this ain't for a round of applause.

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Speaker 2: I already know I ain't going nowhere with this. I

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Speaker 2: knew that. Lord, I knew that when I was nine.

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Speaker 2: You're not gonna make it as no single. Get your

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Speaker 2: ass some jokes and go about your business.

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Speaker 1: So how should she handle it? She doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: get her boss involved. Just tell her you said I

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Speaker 1: told you, Yeah, all right, Gwen, Gwenn, let me talk

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Speaker 1: to you now.

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Speaker 2: You walk around the office and you sing a lot,

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Speaker 2: and a lot of people feel that you can't sing,

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Speaker 2: and I'm one of them, and I don't want you

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Speaker 2: to get your feelings hurt by these other people. But

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Speaker 2: they talk about you behind your back. You're not a

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Speaker 2: good singer. WOWW know in your mind you think you

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Speaker 2: doing it, but you flat.

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Speaker 1: I hate that for Gwen, I really do. You're flat.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm happy for people.

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Speaker 1: I hate that for Gwen.

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Speaker 2: I got a grand daughter. IM gonna have to tell this.

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Speaker 1: To Okay, all right, we have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: You can't crush your kids. See all right, we have

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Speaker 1: time for another one. This is elder.

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Speaker 2: You got to put asking me to come down here

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Speaker 2: for recitals and stuff. I won't do this here. It

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Speaker 2: say't what you do. Now, let you draw good let's

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Speaker 2: do that.

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Speaker 1: You can't they themselves.

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Speaker 2: We don't give our participation in trophies. In my family.

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Speaker 2: You water your ass, didn't. Now you go to McDonald's

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Speaker 2: if we win, you get some ice cream. If you

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Speaker 2: get your ass whooped, because you might need a little

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Speaker 2: coolness in your mouth. But you're gonna know winning McDonald's losing,

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Speaker 2: want school ice cream?

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Speaker 1: Let's go, all right, LJ. I'm trying. And all that sprinkles.

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Speaker 1: Kids love the sprinkles, all right, LJ says, I always

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Speaker 1: thought that dating was supposed to be a two way thing.

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Speaker 1: But it seems as if the girl I've been seeing

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Speaker 1: for a couple of months doesn't see it that way.

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Speaker 1: When we first started dating, I was happy to pay

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Speaker 1: for dinner, shows and the like. Now, however, it's become

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Speaker 1: clear that it's expected. She'll even ask me if I

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Speaker 1: want to go grocery shopping with her, and when it

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Speaker 1: comes time to check out, she'll stare at me as

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Speaker 1: if to say, well, what are you waiting for it?

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Speaker 1: Lately she's been talking about how great a trip someplace

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Speaker 1: in the Caribbean would be, and all I can think is, yeah,

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Speaker 1: for you. What's the best way to address this because

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Speaker 1: I just can't afford it.

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Speaker 2: A hell, This ain't bo love, This ain't about you,

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Speaker 2: This is just about her getting with sheep. I make

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Speaker 2: up another excuse. I'm going to Russia for the holidays.

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Speaker 1: Ugh, all right, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.