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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject He's never satisfied. He's never satisfied.

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Speaker 1: But I am, Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm married to my

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Speaker 1: college sweetheart and he's a great man, but we don't

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Speaker 1: get along now. I wore the pants in our family

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Speaker 1: for years because I made the most money.

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Speaker 2: Back then.

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Speaker 1: All he could do is please me and cater to me.

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Speaker 1: I got used to it and it worked fine for me.

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Speaker 1: He couldn't wait to get a better paying job and

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Speaker 1: then switch back to wearing the pants and our marriage.

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Speaker 1: Right after he started his new job, he started mouthing

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Speaker 1: or that. I let him do it because I know

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Speaker 1: for years he couldn't talk slick to me because he

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Speaker 1: was broke. Here's the funny part, though, Now he's got

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Speaker 1: a new job, it came with a new level of stress.

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Speaker 1: Now that he's got a new job, it came with

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Speaker 1: a new level of stress. That stress led to high

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Speaker 1: blood pressure, and that high blood pressure led to an

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Speaker 1: increase in his medication, so that led to him not

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Speaker 1: being able to perform sexually.

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Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 1: He has been a miserable wreck for a year, and

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Speaker 1: I have gone on with my life without him. I

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Speaker 1: to the house on Mondays and we meet at a

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Speaker 1: hotel on Thursdays. It's not about the sex. It's just

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Speaker 1: nice to talk to a man that has his stuff together.

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Speaker 1: He's not stressed about me being married, and he's not

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Speaker 1: afraid to make love to me in my bedroom that

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Speaker 1: I share with my husband. It's not like my husband

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Speaker 1: and I are putting that mattress to use anymore. I

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Speaker 1: try to tune out my husband's constant complaining about his job,

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Speaker 1: and I'm tired of him getting himself riled for sex

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Speaker 1: when he knows he can't last for thirty seconds. I'm

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Speaker 1: over him and this marriage, and maybe if he had

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Speaker 1: a better attitude I could deal with it. Having an

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Speaker 1: affair is the easiest way out for me. Life is

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Speaker 1: too short to be unsatisfied, So how can he live

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Speaker 1: like that? Do you know he's thinking? Do you think

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Speaker 1: he's thinking of divorce as much as I am? Should

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Speaker 1: I try to work it out if he seems to

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Speaker 1: not care not. This has to be one of the saddest,

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Speaker 1: most pathetic letters. I mean, first, the dumb rule about

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Speaker 1: you making the most money so you wear the pants.

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Speaker 1: That was stupid because you emasculated your husband with that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's no such rule in marriage about whoever

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Speaker 1: makes the money is the boss or wears the pants.

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Speaker 1: You made that up. I'm really surprised that your husband

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Speaker 1: went along with that foolishness. Quite frankly, marriage marriage is

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Speaker 1: a partnership, okay, between two people who love each other,

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Speaker 1: and the universal rule, the universal rule now is the

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Speaker 1: man is head of household. What you've done is turn

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Speaker 1: your marriage into a miserable place to be. And I

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Speaker 1: guarantee you that that's not just your husband's new job

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Speaker 1: that is stressing him out. It's you it's you too.

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Speaker 1: You're a terrible wife. You should never be married because

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Speaker 1: there's no love, there's no commitment, there's no respect from you.

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Speaker 1: Everything you shouldn't do you're doing, and you're cheating on

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Speaker 1: top of that. Is it any wonder he has high

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Speaker 1: blood pressure? I mean, what have you ever thought that

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Speaker 1: he might catch you in your man having sex in

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Speaker 1: his house, in his bed. Have you ever thought of that?

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Speaker 1: So if he does, he can go ahead and divorce you,

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Speaker 1: that's for sure. I mean, once he's rid of you,

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Speaker 1: I bet his blood pressure will go down, he can

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Speaker 1: start to live a better, happier life. I just think

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Speaker 1: you're a mess in this letter. You're a selfish mess.

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Speaker 1: And to you, I say, get yourself together.

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Speaker 3: There this this letter right here. I just don't like

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Speaker 3: the lady at all. I mean, lady, I just don't

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Speaker 3: like you. I don't I don't like anything about you.

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Speaker 3: I don't like anything about what you wrote in this letter.

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Speaker 3: I agree to surely one hundred percent, but you just you,

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Speaker 3: you took trifling to just a whole another level.

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Speaker 2: Uh, you know, just listen to the way she talks.

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Speaker 3: I'm married to my college sweetheart and he's a great man,

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Speaker 3: but we don't get along now. I wore the pants

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Speaker 3: in our family for years because I made the most money.

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Speaker 3: Back then, all he could do is please me and

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Speaker 3: cater to me. I got used to it and it

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Speaker 3: worked fine for me. He couldn't wait to get a

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Speaker 3: better paying job, and he has swent back to wearing

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Speaker 3: the pants in our marriage. Girl has grem explains, I

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Speaker 3: don't give it, moham. Much money I made, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna take the pass off in a month,

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Speaker 3: and I'm not wearing the skirt at no point in

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Speaker 3: the relationship. And I'm pretty sure that he didn't agree

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Speaker 3: to taking his pants off. You took him off because

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Speaker 3: your determination for what he is as a man was based.

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Speaker 2: Purely on how much money he bought in.

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Speaker 3: So right after he started his new job, he started

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Speaker 3: mouthing off and telling me he wasn't gonna do this,

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Speaker 3: or that I let him do it because I know

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Speaker 3: for years he couldn't talk slick to me because he

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Speaker 2: Then who are you, lady, I mean, just.

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Speaker 3: You can't talk back to me because you broken.

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Speaker 2: Time, lady, you don't even understand, so listen.

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Speaker 3: So here's the funny part though, now that he's got

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Speaker 3: a new job, it came with a new level of stress,

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Speaker 3: and that stress, the stress has led to high blood pressure,

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Speaker 3: and that high blood pressure led to an increase in

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Speaker 3: to perform sexually. He has been a miserable wreck for

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Speaker 3: a year, and I have gone on with my life

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Speaker 3: without him. Wow, lady, everything about you. You don't stand

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Speaker 3: by your man if he broke. You don't stand by

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Speaker 3: your man if he can't perform. You do you just don't?

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Speaker 3: Why did you? You don't stand by your man under

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Speaker 3: no circumstances. You're just a little trifling little wife. He

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Speaker 3: got to be working performing. Yeah, I got more of you,

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Speaker 3: all right?

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Speaker 1: Well, have part two of Steve's response. You just heard

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Speaker 1: him say he has more for the woman in this

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter subject He's never satisfied.

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Speaker 2: But I am.

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject He's never satisfied,

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Speaker 1: but I am.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you are, because you just do what you

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Speaker 3: want to do. Your marriage college, sweetheart, things fell apart.

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Speaker 3: He lost his job or whatever, wasn't making money, so

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Speaker 3: you put the pants on in the family. And because

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Speaker 3: of that, all he could do was please you and

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Speaker 3: cater to you.

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Speaker 2: You got used to it, and it work fine for me.

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Speaker 3: But you said, you know, he couldn't wait till he

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Speaker 3: got a better paying job so he could get back

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Speaker 3: to wearing the pants and our mess. Well, he did,

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Speaker 3: but the job came with some stress. Stress came with

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Speaker 3: high blood pressure. High blood pressure came with increasing medicine

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Speaker 3: and increasing medicine calls him not to be able to perform. Second,

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Speaker 3: then you said, he's been a miserable wreck for a year.

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Speaker 3: I've gone on with my life without him.

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Speaker 2: Boy.

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Speaker 3: So, if you don't make money around you, you in trouble.

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Speaker 3: If you get stressed out around you, he's in trouble.

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Speaker 3: If he can't perform, he gets in trouble. He got problem,

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Speaker 3: and then you just go on your life without it.

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Speaker 3: I have a man on the side, and he comes

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Speaker 3: over to the house on Mondays and we meet at

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Speaker 3: a hotel on Thursdays.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, what so you got a.

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Speaker 3: Man on the side that comes over to y'all's house

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Speaker 3: on Monday, and then y'all meet at a hotel on Thursday.

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Speaker 2: So hold on, hold on, hold on. I gotta keep

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Speaker 2: going back over this.

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Speaker 3: So, if you don't have money, you ain't.

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Speaker 2: Cool with that.

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Speaker 3: If he get back to work and he put his

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Speaker 3: pants back on, you ain't cool with that. If he

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Speaker 3: gets stressed out, you ain't cool with that. If he's

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Speaker 3: on hot blood medication, you ain't cool with that. If

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Speaker 3: he can't perform sexually, you ain't cool with that. Now

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Speaker 3: you go get a man on the side and cause

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Speaker 3: of convenience.

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Speaker 2: Y'all now at this man's house in his bed.

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Speaker 3: On Mondays and we meet at a hotel on Thursday.

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Speaker 2: And then you say it's not about the sex. What

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Speaker 2: is it about? Then?

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Speaker 3: What are y'all over there doing? And when y'all get

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Speaker 3: the hotel and y'all come over to the house, it's

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Speaker 3: just nice to talk to a man that has his

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Speaker 3: stuff together. Oh you're talking about a man.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, oh oh. Let me get this right.

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Speaker 3: So you think that it's nice to just meet a

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Speaker 3: man that don't have to deal with nothing that comes

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Speaker 3: in the package called marriage. You're talking about the one

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Speaker 3: that don't have to pay bills, that don't have to discuss,

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Speaker 3: that don't have to be undistressed, that ain't trying to

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Speaker 3: make a life, that ain't trying to put a together. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: this conversation is easy because they ain't about nothing. That's

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Speaker 3: why that's so easy. And then he's not stressed about

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Speaker 3: me being married. And he's not afraid to make love

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Speaker 3: to me in my bedroom that I shared with my husband.

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Speaker 3: You don't see the triflingness in that he's not afraid

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Speaker 3: to make love to me.

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Speaker 2: I would, Hey, man, let.

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Speaker 3: Me tell you something let me tell you, I wish

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Speaker 3: I would walk in my house. I wish I would

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Speaker 3: I wish I would walk in my house and walk

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Speaker 3: up on somebody in my house. You ain't even got

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Speaker 3: to be doing nothing just now. You ain't got to

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Speaker 3: be in the bed just being what you in here for.

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Speaker 3: I've been not walking house, seat up in here eating. No,

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Speaker 3: you can't have a plate now. I don't know yet

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Speaker 3: if I don't know you, and you in my house

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Speaker 3: and you're eating a plate of food before my wife

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Speaker 2: She already can tell by the look on my face.

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Speaker 3: I got to get some information to this food right quick,

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Speaker 3: right quick.

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Speaker 2: But now you done take it there.

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Speaker 3: So now it's not like my husband without putting that

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Speaker 3: husband's constant complaining about his job, and I'm tired of

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Speaker 3: he can't last for thirty seconds. I'm over him and

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Speaker 3: this marriage. Maybe if he had a better attitude, I

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Speaker 3: an affair is the easiest way out for me.

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Speaker 2: Really, really, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, your whole demeanor as a human being weeks of triflingness.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you're just a trifling chick man all the

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Speaker 2: It ain't a woman sitting here. I got you, girl.

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Speaker 3: I know where you're coming from, and I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 3: it is somebody like that, because people are You can

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Speaker 3: get people, go along with anything, but they's just trifling too.

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Speaker 3: Life is too short to be unsatisfied. So how can

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Speaker 3: I live like that?

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Speaker 2: You're not.

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Speaker 3: You're not living like that. You're doing what you want

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Speaker 3: to do. Do you think he's thinking of divorce as

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Speaker 3: much as I am? Should I try to work it

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, you're already working it out.

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Speaker 2: You don't see what you've done.

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Speaker 3: You've already worked it out your way, and what you're

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Speaker 3: talking about whether he can you don't care. So why

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Speaker 3: are you questioning your your husband in this letter at all?

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Speaker 3: With everything in this lest your First of all, your

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Speaker 3: husband ain't did nothing wrong. He at work, he stretched out,

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Speaker 3: he tried to get the finances back in order. That struck,

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Speaker 3: he got high blood. Now he taking medication. Now he

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Speaker 3: can't perform now you've got you a man. Now y'all

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Speaker 3: having sex in y'all's house, in y'all's bed on Mondays

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Speaker 3: know if your husband would want to do it. I'm

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Speaker 3: telling you right now, lady, you messing around with someone,

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Speaker 3: You're on a dangerous ground. And this man who comes

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Speaker 3: What man in his right mind goes to another man's

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Speaker 3: house gets naked in his house, in his bed. I

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Speaker 3: don't understand the mentality of that. Both of y'all will

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Speaker 3: mess around, get hurt. I don't know nobody to do that,

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Speaker 3: no man?

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