1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: Welcome to Episode three seven four. Jordan Reynolds. Jordan K. 2 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: Reynolds is his Instagram. If you wanna go look at 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: it and see what he looks like as we do it. 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: I always find I like to do that during interviews. 5 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: I want to see a picture of the face the 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: person that I'm talking with. But here we are, Episode 7 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: three seventy four. He is a Grammy Award winning songwriter. 8 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: I mean he's got two Grammys for ten thousand hours 9 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: and God only knows by for King and Country. He 10 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: is a CMA Triple Play Award winner, and that means 11 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: he wrote three number one songs in a twelve month period. 12 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: He wrote Tequila, he wrote Speechless, he wrote All to 13 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 1: Myself with and for Dan and Shay. He's got so 14 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: many number one He was just nominated for another Grammy. 15 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: It's his fifth nomination, and he has won the a 16 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: c M four Song of the Year in twenty nineteen 17 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: with Tequila. But I really enjoyed this talk. I really 18 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: like someone who comes in and challenges me, not like 19 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: I'll show you, let's argue, but who like presents ideas 20 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh that's interesting, Well what about this? 21 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed this talk. I hope you will too. 22 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 1: Jordan k Reynolds is his name, And let's go with 23 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 1: another episode of the Bobby Cast. I'm in that weird stage. 24 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: I was over my house because we just left the 25 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: radio show came here, by the way, God, you're here. 26 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: Are you tired? No? You've kind of got a dialed 27 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: at this point? Probably, Mike, are we tired? I don't 28 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 1: really know. I feel this way all the time. I 29 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: don't know if I'm tired. How Like, what time did 30 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 1: you get? That is a really good question. I did 31 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: not expect for it to stop me in my tracks. 32 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: So are you tired? Now? I get sleepy quite often, 33 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: But I think it would be like asking a bodybuilder 34 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: who's lifting weight? Is that heavy? Because that's what they 35 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: do all the time. They have to do it at 36 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: a high level, or they don't grow and get stronger. Well, 37 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: you been doing this for how long? Now? Just radio 38 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: itself in any form? Since I was seventeen mornings, since 39 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: I was twenty two. It's almost twenty years, bro, that's crazy. 40 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: So I started really I've been lucky enough to be 41 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: a grizzled veteran, but I started really young. It's so 42 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: that the most impressive part about what you do is 43 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: being tired or whatever it is and still having your 44 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: brain fire, because you have to be firing on all cylinders. 45 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: I wonder how firing my brain would be if I 46 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: wasn't tired, though it would probably be insane. Well, and 47 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: I appreciate you making it about me, but I don't 48 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: want to make it about me. But I guess I 49 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 1: think it's the end of the year too, are you? 50 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 1: Do you have senior ittis a bit as a writer 51 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: as a creator. So the last couple of years I've 52 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: done like a Thanksgiving through your the end of the year, 53 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 1: I just block it off just to I usually end 54 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: up writing, but like it's a good mental thing for me. 55 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, like Awards week, everything starts slowing down. 56 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: Everybody's kind of like, all right, we got a couple 57 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: more weeks, and I'm just like, I think it's just 58 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: better instead of having like scheduled rights, It's like if 59 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: somebody is around and we're in town, we're like, let's 60 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 1: just get together. Cool, we got another plane. So I 61 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 1: kind of I do and I don't because I knew 62 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: that the finish line was already coming yesterday was the 63 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: finish line from me. It's the finish line of obligations. 64 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: That's right, that's good. Yeah, yeah, like that. I don't know. 65 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: For me, it's never senior ititis as much as it is. 66 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: I got to get all this stuff done by then. 67 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: M hmmm, because we check out. I would never stop. 68 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: I should. I have a wife and she makes me 69 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: and it's a good wife. Yes, but it's very It 70 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 1: was really tough for me at first because my whole 71 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: life I've just run as hard as I can because 72 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I have to not to prove to 73 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: anything to anybody else, but proved myself, and I feel 74 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: like I have to or I'm not going to be 75 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: able to maintain success at all. Do you ever worry? 76 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: But if you don't keep writing that, you're going to 77 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: either lose an edge inside of you or people are 78 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: going to lose the fact that they think right now 79 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: you're hot and they want to work with you. Of course, 80 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: of course, I think, like you get into an industry 81 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: like this that's so subjective and you think like I 82 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: am the golden child. I think you have to literally 83 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: think that. You know. I love that you say that 84 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: because you have people will tell me and I'm glad. 85 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,119 Speaker 1: I'm thinking, I'm thankful you said that, because I would 86 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: have said it anyway. But it comes off so much 87 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: worse if I just come out of nowhere and go like, 88 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: look at me, I'm awesome and I don't think that, 89 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: but I say it. I say it all the time, 90 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: where a lot of people will go they'll send me 91 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: a message, or people that are disagreeing with how I 92 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: do things, or they don't like just the show or 93 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 1: a TV project to work on, and they're like, you 94 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: are just You're so self obsessed, You're so self indulgent. 95 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: And I'm like, that's my career. It's either what I'm doing, 96 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: what I'm thinking, how I feel about it, what it 97 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: has to be. I'm tired of me most of the time. 98 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I think it really does. But I 99 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: have to believe. But I have to believe that what 100 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: I'm saying is good enough to put it out and 101 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: somebody has wants to consume, either with their time or 102 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: their money. If we're being honest, though, in literally any 103 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 1: job ever, you have to have that. If you're the executive, 104 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: it's some because you're getting you're stepping into a situation 105 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: where like you're looking at your calendar and you're going, 106 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 1: I have so much to do, Okay, the only person 107 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: who can do this is this Bobby, you know, like 108 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: Bobby who is on and doing it, and like you 109 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: have to convinced to that. But like say you're Elon 110 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: Musk and you're going into a meeting and you're like, sure, 111 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: he's got impostius. He is the richest man in the world, 112 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,920 Speaker 1: but like he's been really lucky too. He's going into 113 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: meetings going like I any decision I make really really 114 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: affects things, and I have to have the confidence to 115 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 1: know like I can do this. And it doesn't mean 116 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: like you're egotistical. I don't think it just you just 117 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: have to believe in yourself, you know. And there is 118 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: a line and I don't always cross or I don't 119 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: always walk it correctly where confidence and arrogance meat, and 120 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: sometimes I don't. I'm not quite as confident I should be. 121 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: Sometimes I'm so confident that comes off the aga. Sometimes 122 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: I'm really confident in some areays and just insecures craping others. Yeah, 123 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: so I could come off where it's like, oh, stop 124 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: doing this act where you just you hate yourself. No, no, no, 125 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: there are parts of me that really I've struggled a 126 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: long time with you and don't really love and I'm 127 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: trying get better, and there are parts of me where 128 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: I go, oh, I'm I'm a well oiled freaking machine. 129 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: Put myself up against anybody. We we like have this 130 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 1: weird thing in our culture where you can't um, you 131 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 1: can't fully endorse yourself, you know, like it's it's such 132 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: a bizarre thing. But we also want people who like 133 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 1: know what they're doing. So I think the ticket to 134 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: that feels like if you do ride the line, if 135 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 1: you overstep and you've stepped into arrogance or whatever, it's 136 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 1: like just like you've done You've done a lot of 137 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 1: work on yourself. It's obviously seems like like you can 138 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: just apologize. Like that's the cool part of humanity is 139 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: like anytime we mess up and just be like, ah, 140 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: you know what, remember that thing I said. I didn't 141 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: mean that. You know, Yeah, culture doesn't allow completely for that, 142 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 1: But our culture doesn't really allow nuance. What's and you 143 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: make a point where it's like, yes, people want this, 144 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: but they also don't want this. But they want this, 145 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 1: but at the same time, it doesn't allow nuance at all, 146 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: so you're kind of you're just fistfighting the wind. Yeah, 147 00:06:55,960 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: that's right, that you can't really win. Every thing's nuanced religion, 148 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: you know, music, everything. Yeah, yet there isn't room for 149 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: it in the world that we live in because the 150 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: loudest folks are those that don't live nuanced. There's you know, 151 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 1: pretty black and white. There are some situations that I've 152 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: been in and i'll talk about it now, and I 153 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: really haven't talked about this at all, but I feel 154 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: like I can safely talk about your super bright guy. Um, 155 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: whenever Morgan got into trouble and I came on the 156 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: other next morning and I'll just talk about stuff, and 157 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: I got on the air and it's all on YouTube 158 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: still to this day. I never pulled it, and I said, 159 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: here's what's up. He's got to go away for a 160 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: little bit. I don't think we should cancel because I 161 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: don't believe in canceling folks. But I do believe in 162 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: second chances, and I do so I do this thing 163 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: where I say, we're not canceling him, but he can't 164 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: just stay right now. So I get crushed from for 165 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: the sake of it. We'll call it the woke side. 166 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 1: They're like, no, you cancel him right now, or you 167 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: are the problem. The other side we'll call the non 168 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: woke side. They're going, you don't tell him to go away. 169 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: He stays right here and you there, and I'm going 170 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: in my mind and I haven't read any blogs. I 171 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: just say what I feel because I don't want to 172 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,679 Speaker 1: be shifted by someone else's perspective. I tell my story. 173 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: I talk about how it's affected me, how I don't 174 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: even understand how it's affected others, because I don't live 175 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: the life of somebody that's not me. I explained my 176 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: education yet my ignorance, and I try to make sure 177 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: everybody knows that. And then I say, here's my opinion. 178 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: He and I know Morgan, and I like Morgan, and 179 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 1: i'd like Morgan. I said, but this is bad. It's 180 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: a mess up. He's got to go learn and he's 181 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: got to come back. But I was sensibility has no allies. No, 182 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: it doesn't, and it sucks. Well. I think what you 183 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: don't see, though, in what you don't hear as loud, 184 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: is all the people who totally agree with you at 185 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: all think about like politically even you know, in the 186 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: realm that we're all in. It's like my generation doesn't 187 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: know what to think because we're like, um, I'm not 188 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: far right. I'm not far left. I believe this, and 189 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: I believe that. Like, but like you're not allowed to 190 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: like if you if you say you are this thing, 191 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 1: then you are also all these other things. There's no nuance. 192 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: So I just think a lot more people fall in 193 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: the middle on those things and just wholeheartedly agree, Like, yeah, 194 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 1: people shouldn't just be canceled. Like it's like third Jesus 195 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: in here. It's like throw the first stone, draw the line, 196 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: throw the first stone. He without sin, you know, like 197 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: all these people who are like the loudest probably about 198 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,719 Speaker 1: canceling him. I don't know. It's like, all right, well, 199 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: what have you done perfectly? You know there are consequences 200 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: to things. Yeah, there's consequences. Absolutely. I was crushed. It 201 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: was a nightmare for me, and I just I didn't 202 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: expect to have no But I don't care if people 203 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 1: come out and support me, because I've built a career 204 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: off just saying how I feel in dealing where they 205 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 1: go to bad. But I didn't I feel like everyone 206 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 1: that would reach out, meaning uh folks through social media. 207 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: Everybody would be against me because those are the people 208 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 1: that that say stuff though, like people that are bold 209 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: and loud. And but even that with the arrogance in 210 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: the confidence fine line and if I win the middle 211 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 1: and what it's like, well then who are you? What 212 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: the it's it's difficult and nuances not really, I won't 213 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 1: say accepted. Nuance is not really encouraged. It's everything, dude, 214 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: everything is nuanced. Yeah, it's fascinating when you talk about politics. 215 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:42,959 Speaker 1: You know, I I don't say I'm down the middle, 216 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: but I definitely say I do things and enjoy things 217 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 1: on both sides. I'm not down the middle. Yeah I'm not. 218 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: But did I grow up with guns in a small 219 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 1: rural town in Arkansas and I see that as a tool. 220 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: I also know it can be a weapon. But do 221 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: I see it as a tool? And we need to 222 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 1: describe absolutely? Do I all so think with guns? We 223 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:02,839 Speaker 1: shouldn't let idiots get guns and they should have to 224 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: go through a process a little harder than absolutely. That's nuanced. 225 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: That is, yes, you're taking a little bit of both sides. 226 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 1: And I will scream this and I will say, hey, look, 227 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: if we want to drive a car, which I'll drive 228 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: a car to work. Got a license. When I had 229 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: to drive an eighteen Whelard from my nat GEO show, 230 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 1: I had to go and get a different license. It 231 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: was bigger and it could do more damage. And so 232 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: when I have a twelve gauge, but then I want 233 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: to go to one of these. Okay, I'm not a 234 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: big fan of gum, but I'm not gonna say my 235 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: my ability what I say goes. So Okay, let's say 236 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: that gun still exists, but you should probably have to 237 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 1: get that eight te wheeler of license to be able 238 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: to do that. And I think it's like the easiest 239 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 1: thing that common sense common sense, But yes, it is tough. 240 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,679 Speaker 1: And where would you put your confidence? Like when people 241 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: meet you, will work with you a couple of times, 242 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: how do they feel about your general demeanor because you 243 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 1: are a guy who's done a lot, succeeded at a 244 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: very high level of confident person. Does it ever come 245 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: across as too humble or to to too confident? Even man, 246 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: that is great. I don't know how people perceive me 247 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: honestly completely, But like I think something that I try 248 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: to do is create like a comfortable space where people can, 249 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: like you're doing right now, have a healthy conversation. Have 250 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: you met with Laura Belts recently nominated for Laura Songwriter 251 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: of the Year in The Grammy's Unreal. She's been a 252 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 1: dear friend of mine. We kind of got started at 253 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: similar time. You know, she's a little before me. But 254 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: something I've really respected about our relationship is and if 255 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 1: every writer relationship could be like this, I just wish it, 256 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: and this is what I try to create. But we 257 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: have We come from very different places, we have very 258 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: different views on things a lot of times, but we 259 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: can sit and have a conversation and I mean talk 260 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 1: about the world in general, Like that's what's missing, is 261 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 1: we're so scared of things that we don't understand and 262 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 1: it's generally not as scary as you think, and there's 263 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: nuance like it's I mean, I remember growing up and 264 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 1: thinking totally black and white and certain things that now 265 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh. I mean I just had 266 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: no empathy for these things. Are didn't know that side 267 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 1: of the story because there was no exposure. Probably that's 268 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: been it for me to write. The more exposure I get. 269 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: Two things the more I have an empathy or an 270 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: understanding that I don't understand totally dude. I mean it's 271 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 1: it's everything. Yeah, So I don't know. I mean I've 272 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: definitely I think I can feel it. I feel like 273 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: the arrogance and confidence thing. But generally speaking, I try. 274 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:24,559 Speaker 1: Like I mean, songwriting is such a service industry. Um, 275 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: It's it's kind of similar to what you do, Like 276 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 1: you're really good at making other people look good. It's 277 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: like that's kind of my job too, um is find 278 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 1: like a tasteful way to plot the best things in 279 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 1: an artist or best thing in other songs. So I 280 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 1: think to do that, you have to create an environment 281 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: where people are just like totally feel like they're safe 282 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: to say whatever they need to say. They can be 283 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 1: who they want to be. And you know, past a 284 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: certain level, you know, like we're trying to write like 285 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 1: hit songs, we're just not trying to finish the song anymore, 286 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: you know, So we have to really be nuanced and 287 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: how we create an environment that feel safe enough to 288 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: do that? You know what I mean? You grew up 289 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: in the Midwest? What was home? Like? I was a kid, Um, 290 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: so both my parents my dad was a music pastor 291 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,719 Speaker 1: at a pretty big church in St. Louis, and like, 292 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 1: we did that all grown up. So I was a 293 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: p K pastor's kid. That is. Um. So, both my 294 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 1: parents and musicians, they never did it, like on a 295 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: bigger scale. I think they would have, UM, but they try. 296 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 1: They actually were in a like a tour. I say 297 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: that right out of college, um or high school. They 298 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: went in this like Internationals I think was the name, 299 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: and they went around and like did acapella music for 300 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: kind of all over the world. But they got to 301 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: experience how hard it is though. I mean they knew, yeah, 302 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: but that was the beauty of it too. Is like 303 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: I never I came here and went to Belmont, and 304 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 1: I never once thought like a creative job was out 305 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: of the question, just because I saw my dad. You know, 306 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 1: I saw my parents doing things that were not My 307 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: dad is just not the typical dad. You know, my 308 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: mom's not the typical moment, it's like there was a 309 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: lot of freedom to be like, all right, you wanna 310 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: quit taking piano lessons, that's cool, I don't care, you know, 311 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: like usually it's one of two ways. That's interesting that 312 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: he was like that because you get parents that are 313 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: jaded by the experience or the art, even if they're 314 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: still in it and go, man, I don't want you 315 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: to do this. Yeah, I already sensed that temptation because 316 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: we've we've been on the roller coaster of it and 317 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: seen like the super highs and the super lows and 318 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: you're just like, oh, I don't know. But in the 319 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 1: same breath, I see like the positive side, I'm just 320 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 1: so pro like whatever our kids end up wanting to do, 321 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: like just letting him do it, Like there's gonna be 322 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: smart kids and they're gonna figure it out. Like I mean, 323 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 1: I applied to one school, which is just not crazy 324 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: to think about, but I just was like, that's what 325 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: my parents like, we trust us where he wants to go, 326 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: and he's gonna, you know, if that's what he wants 327 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: to do, and it worked out. But yeah, it's like 328 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: trusting that our kids will do them do the same. 329 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: But did you do music because a like, intrinsically it's 330 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: just an existence and you you think maybe be genetically 331 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: because it was in them, or and and is the 332 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: answer can be there can even be nuance to this answer? 333 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: Or do you think because of your mom or dad 334 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: and their love for music. You wanted there to love, 335 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: so you did what they love, which actually encouraged you 336 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: to love it more. Wow. What a question, man. You're 337 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: great at asking questions. That's a good that's a good 338 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 1: talent to have to Um, maybe both, maybe a little 339 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 1: bit of both. I definitely grew up so I grew 340 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 1: up playing classical violin. Like in third grade we had 341 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: to play an instrument and it was violin. So did 342 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: you choose violin? I don't remember choosing anything. I just 343 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 1: feel like one day I had a violin and then 344 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: I looked up senior year and I was like, I've 345 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: been doing this for a long time. Um it, I 346 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 1: think like music stuff always came natural. I honestly didn't 347 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 1: think about it. I hate it sounds like Braggy's saying that. 348 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 1: I just I honestly didn't see myself. So I don't 349 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: know if you know Cody Fry he um good buddies 350 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: with Ben Rector that care he played for him. He's 351 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: DUDEO met a belmat just like Freak. He's a prodigy 352 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 1: dude like just genius level musician And I tht oh 353 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 1: those huture musicians. But is he is he playing with 354 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: Ben on his next Yeah, I mean I talked to 355 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 1: Been this morning, but I really close crazy Yeah okay, okay, yeah, 356 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 1: go ahead. Yeah. So I would see those dudes like musicians. 357 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, codies musician. He knows every single thing 358 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,880 Speaker 1: he can, you know whatever, And so it wasn't really 359 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: to a college. I started going like, oh, I think 360 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: I do have something kind of innately in me, Like 361 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,120 Speaker 1: I think there's something in me that just like has 362 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 1: to get out. And it's wild too, because songwriting. I mean, 363 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 1: before I moved to Nashville, I did not know songwriting existed, 364 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 1: like I was. I didn't think about I didn't care. 365 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:41,879 Speaker 1: So you didn't come here to be a songwriter. You 366 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 1: came here for I don't know, finger quotes music. Yeah, 367 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:46,679 Speaker 1: I mean I so I got to senior year of 368 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 1: high school and I mean I had literally I've just 369 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 1: done like hardcore, classical violent. That was like my life. 370 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: What did you think that was gonna lead to? Was 371 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: it gonna stop? Like like I played football until twelfth grade, 372 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: and I played a lot, but I knew it was 373 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 1: stopping after twelveth grade the moment I knew. So they 374 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 1: have those like all State orchestras or whatever the things, 375 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 1: and I just I'm like, I love being around people. 376 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: I like a deep connection, and I like a good conversation. 377 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 1: So I went to this all state thing and in 378 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: senior year, and it's literally just all about what chair 379 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: you're sitting in, like, and if you're sitting at the 380 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: closer chair, you know, to the people, that means you 381 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: are better than the person next to you whatever as 382 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: you go up on. So there just wasn't a lot 383 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: of like relationship in any of that. And I just 384 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: remember thinking I went to this thing and I was like, 385 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:36,640 Speaker 1: I tried to talk to my stand partner and they 386 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 1: were just kind of like I didn't want anything to 387 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: do with it, and I was like, I don't think 388 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 1: this is the right place for me. I love music, 389 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: and so a lot of crowds. To my oldest brother Josh, 390 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 1: he uh, he's a like a freak audio guy. He's 391 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: been with a little big town do in front of 392 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: house for them for like over ten years. He engineers 393 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: their records and stuff now, but at the time he 394 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 1: was like, why don't you just come to Belmont, like 395 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 1: do do a vocal degree? Because girl he was dating 396 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 1: at the time was a voice pager. It's so weird 397 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 1: to think of all the things that hang in the batch. 398 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 1: I like had sung at church, you know, I was 399 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 1: in a band, but like loose, I didn't I had 400 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 1: know what it was doing. And so my rationale I 401 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:17,199 Speaker 1: was like, all right, well, I can teach myself to 402 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 1: play instruments, I can't really teach myself to sing, right, 403 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 1: So I mean, dude, it's wild thinking, like I just 404 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: wanted with a voice macher. So me and Russell Dickerson 405 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: were like in the same major, same time, and we're 406 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:31,719 Speaker 1: the only two guys who graduated with that degree at 407 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: the time too, because everybody usually drops out. That's what 408 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: am I supposed to do with this degree? So? Wait, 409 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: so you finished it? You got a voice degree? I 410 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 1: sure do. Did you in that process of getting a 411 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: voice grade, do you study songwriting at all or do 412 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: you just study is sing better? Does? Yeah? It's mostly 413 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: just singing better. So it's a commercial voice degree, which 414 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: means anything but classical. But you also the first two 415 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: years all you study is classical, which is hilarious. Um. Yeah, 416 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 1: it's basically just to like the mean, honestly, the I 417 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: would do these panels of like perspective. One of the 418 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: word is students and their parents would come in and 419 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 1: they would ask us. Parents was tray to ask you, 420 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 1: what are you going to do with a voice major? 421 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,400 Speaker 1: And I just made something up. I mean, I don't 422 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: even remember what I said at this point, I would 423 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: be more honestly, I don't really know. You know. Uh. 424 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: One of my good friends christ and Rogers, I think 425 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: is probably doing like the epitome of what you can 426 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 1: do with the voice major. And she's like unbelievable b GV. 427 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: She's like sings with everybody like she is like a 428 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:35,159 Speaker 1: professional singer. But did she need that voice degree or 429 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,920 Speaker 1: or the second part of that is did the process 430 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: of getting that degree help her achieve the level that 431 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: she needed or did it just bring her here and 432 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: then she did it while she was here? I mean, 433 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 1: who knows? I think I'm I'm such a I'm so 434 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 1: pro I wouldn't change anything because everything got you exactly 435 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:58,199 Speaker 1: what you needed. But like I you know, yeah you 436 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 1: learned that. And I'm asking because I have a dumb 437 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 1: degree to here isn't dumb, but I'm saying people classifies 438 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,239 Speaker 1: and I also now say it's a waste and I 439 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: think I was talking to some guys the last time. 440 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:12,160 Speaker 1: I said, I went and spoke at a college and said, 441 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 1: don't you're here for this, we don't do it, get out, 442 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 1: get something else, because yeah, and they told me not 443 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 1: to come back. There was a whole situation which kind 444 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 1: of a blessing in disguise, you know, less less things 445 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 1: to do. Um, So I have radio television, but I 446 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: started when I was was seventeen, and then I you know, 447 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: then I wrote in college as well, but it was 448 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 1: a I was already doing it, and so I told 449 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: people to do just go do it well, and that 450 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 1: that was always the thing of Belmont. There was the 451 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 1: Belmont bubble, you know. It's like we did the showcases 452 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,679 Speaker 1: and stuff, which was fun and it did bring some 453 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: cool opportunities, but for the most part, it was always 454 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: like there were the people who did everything Belmont. There 455 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: were the people who did things outside of Belmont, and 456 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 1: that was the experience. It's just I was just telling 457 00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 1: somebody that I like, we're just getting to the place 458 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 1: now where our friends from Belmont have like kind of 459 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: powerful positions now at companies and it's kind of starting 460 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 1: to pay off. You're like, I remember when I knew 461 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: none of these A R people, and now these are 462 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 1: people are my friends, and I can be like, hey, man, 463 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: you should check out this song for dust much, you know, 464 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: like that makes it so much easier and more fun, 465 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: and it just feels like a family. So yeah, I 466 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 1: think I think going through the I needed college. I 467 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: needed those for you sing better, Like what's the point 468 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: you definitely do. Yeah, I had a my um my 469 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: voice teacher's name is Jamie Wingington, and he's, in my opinion, 470 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: one of the best. Did you want to be a 471 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 1: singer when you finished? I've listened to the EP I've 472 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:40,680 Speaker 1: heard I've heard your stuff, right, But I wonder what 473 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: you learned about yourself in the process. Was it because 474 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,159 Speaker 1: obviously you're having to start songwriting at some point, you 475 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: didn't know what that was a thing? You're singing your 476 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: recording you like, were you just experimenting? Definitely? I was 477 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 1: flying by the seat of my pants. I was having 478 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 1: a blast. Just I was like playing for people. Um. 479 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 1: I worked at a urch for a few years and 480 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 1: I was leading worship there, so it's like I was 481 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: using my degree, but I was genuine just like I'm 482 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 1: just gonna stumble into something I think I knew like 483 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: I wanted to be. I did a lot of demo work, 484 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 1: like acoustic stuff early on. That's how I f first 485 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: met John Osborne. Like before brothers Osborne was doing anything, 486 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: you know, playing sessions and stuff, and man, I stumbled 487 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: hard into song running. I just had no idea, Like 488 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 1: I I it's impossible for me to like give advice 489 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 1: to younger people because I'm like, I don't know what 490 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,159 Speaker 1: you do. You know, like moved to Nashville and just 491 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 1: start writing songs. You know, it's like that's the first place. 492 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:38,400 Speaker 1: Are you an eternal optimists? Oh? Absolutely, I feel it. Yeah, 493 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 1: And you're going you know, I just felt like I 494 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 1: stumbled into something. Oh yeah, So in your mind is 495 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: it just gonna work out? It's always gonna work out. 496 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 1: It's interesting I feel that I feel the opposite eternal pessimist. 497 00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: It's oh, man, I wish there was a word for 498 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 1: a longer fascinating. I love you. Have you met Jordan 499 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: Minton another Shawn Marion Towns coming. He's got a couple 500 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: of hits. One of my best s buddies. He is 501 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: the same way and we have the best conversations because 502 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 1: we view think I'll be so shocked about Wait, what 503 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:07,880 Speaker 1: do you mean it's not. Of course it's gonna work out, 504 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 1: you know, I believe it's gonna work out for others. 505 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: Nothing works out for me. That's fascinating. Yeah, nothing works 506 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: out for me, and if it does, it's because it 507 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 1: has had to fail seventy three times and I am 508 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 1: just tenacious enough to last to finally make it work out. 509 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 1: That's my that's fascinating. Yeah. Completely, it's like and Nope, 510 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 1: it's not gonna work. Whatever we're doing a gonna work. 511 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: So does that mean like you're constantly are you anxious 512 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: about the future? Where does your brain completely? Yeah? Absolutely, 513 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: absolutely anxious about everything. I think I'm gonna get sick 514 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,679 Speaker 1: and die. I think I'm going to the big issue 515 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 1: that I've had. What's your Instagram number eight? You're an eight? Yeah? 516 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: Is that the dictator? Yeah, it's the Yes, I'm that 517 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 1: one eight and I'm really close to a one, like 518 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: it was like so close to being a one ectrotionist. 519 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: I'm a challenger, that's what I am. Yeah, that's the eight. 520 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: I would challenge. Um, I'll challenging, but something I know 521 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 1: I'm wrong. I'm like, oh, yeah, you think this right, Well, 522 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: I know that's not right, but I'm my challenge you 523 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 1: to beg with you and yeah, but I'm gonna make sure. Um, 524 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: but I feel like it isn't going to work itself 525 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 1: out until I have to break it figure out how 526 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: to put it back together in its own way that 527 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,400 Speaker 1: allows me to work it out. That is just it 528 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,440 Speaker 1: blows my mind. And I'm sure it's trauma. Yeah, yeah, 529 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 1: something taught you that somewhere along the way. Or it's 530 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 1: love or lack or you know, all these things that 531 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 1: we have no idea how they've affected us and when 532 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 1: they've affected us. But yeah, my my wife who grew 533 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: up different than me. She's from a small town in 534 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 1: Oklahoma and I grew up small town in Arkansas. We 535 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 1: have that in common. They're actually pretty close. Her mom 536 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: and dad are still together and they're awesome. I never 537 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: had parents, and so it was like learning a new 538 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:57,400 Speaker 1: language and what she struggles with me and I totally 539 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:00,160 Speaker 1: understand her not understanding, which I think for me it's 540 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: a valuable lesson is I now can understand I don't 541 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 1: understand things, and why other people can't understand things is 542 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 1: that I'm always freaking out that I'm not gonna be 543 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: able to pay bills soon. And she's like, you'd be 544 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: like for the rest of your life, You're gonna be fine. 545 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 1: And I'm like, but I don't think you understand what if? 546 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: What if? She goes But she has the hardest time 547 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 1: of understanding that all my trauma is rooted in. I 548 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: can't go back to how it was. Yeah, I will 549 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 1: never go back. And I think that's a lot of 550 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: that is there. Now. I'm a positive person. I am 551 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: someone who pursues it and love it and put it 552 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 1: up and show everybody like somebody like yourself. I praised 553 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 1: you around town like this is Jordan. Everybody, I put 554 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,639 Speaker 1: you up one of those big speakers like Jordan. The 555 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,199 Speaker 1: most part. You should love them because I love it. 556 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: I just I wish that was more me. Yeah, man, 557 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 1: but I know it, like I know myself. Do you 558 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: feel like you know your You know yourself now at 559 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 1: this point? Do you like yourself? I'm starting to learn 560 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: myself definitely better. I'm starting to like believe things for myself. 561 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 1: I feel like most people do that, like in their twenties, 562 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: mine didn't really it to like thirties. Um, what has 563 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: really like kind of made me lock into like the 564 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: some of these things. But speaking to bed director, he 565 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: posted some song the other day and like the one 566 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 1: of the lyrics said, like I'm I started, I've stopped 567 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: blaming my parents for everything or whatever it was. And 568 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 1: we have two kids now, they're young, it's like three 569 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 1: and one. But I already can kind of see some 570 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: of these things you when we're talking about. Yes, I 571 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 1: think trauma does absolutely affect us in certain ways, but 572 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,440 Speaker 1: there are certain things that are like innately in us, 573 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 1: like we're talking about, like with the difference with my 574 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 1: little boy my little girl. Already I can be like, 575 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I mean, like we didn't teach my 576 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 1: little boy will get like he'll run into the wall 577 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: face first. I mean, he is bleeding from his nose 578 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 1: and he'll just well like, buddy, are you okay? He's 579 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: like I'm fine, I'm fine. I'm like, You're not fine? 580 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 1: Was that you? Um? I don't know. I actually don't know. 581 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 1: I didn't ask my mom. But we've never taught him 582 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 1: like hey, suck it up, you know, like, don't don't 583 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,680 Speaker 1: show your emotion. If anything, we are on the other 584 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,679 Speaker 1: side of that, so like some of those things you're like, 585 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 1: you know, you just don't you can't teach, Like maybe 586 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,679 Speaker 1: it's just in us and nature nurtures this super Like 587 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm so intrigued and even curious about myself because I 588 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 1: never knew my dad. Are you left us? Five and so? 589 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: But I will run into people from time to time 590 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: back home that will go, oh, you're just like him, 591 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: that is Wild. You're you're you're, you're you're quick like him. 592 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,400 Speaker 1: You said you do multiple things, And I'm like, well, 593 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 1: that's weird. I didn't get it from him because I 594 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 1: was around him, so whatever it is, it's kind of 595 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 1: embedded inside of Wild. And I wondered too, like some 596 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 1: of that stuff like skipped around generations and you're like, oh, 597 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: you're just like you're great grandfathers. Yeah you know what 598 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like some of that stuff to shows up. 599 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 1: I don't know your parents, are they they still they're 600 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 1: still with us, still with us? Yeah? Yeah, they actually 601 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 1: moved um to Hendersonville about ten years. They're here. Yes, 602 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 1: they're here. So my oldest brothers here, they're in like Goodlittzville. 603 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 1: The only other sibling. H No, I've got another one 604 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 1: on his name is Jeremy he is. He was in 605 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 1: the UK for a bunch of years. He's an actor 606 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 1: and did a lot of theater stuff arts. Yeah, it's crazy. 607 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: I mean it is kind of wild, um, But I 608 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 1: think so much of that is just the belief thing. 609 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 1: It's like we all knew we could do it because 610 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 1: our parents did. But also the energy that your parents 611 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 1: put into letting, because it takes a lot of work 612 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: for for them to express and prove to you guys 613 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 1: that you can go into the work and do whatever 614 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: you want. Like that's that's a lot of energy from 615 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 1: them just to be able to convince you guys that 616 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 1: if you do the work, you can do whatever. Oh yeah, 617 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: I think too. There's some beauty of growing up we weren't. 618 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 1: We were lower middle class, you know. And I don't 619 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 1: say that to shame my parents. I say it to 620 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: congratulate my parents. We had an amazing childhood, you know, 621 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 1: like it was. It was a beautiful childhood, and my 622 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 1: parents did everything they could to make an amazing I 623 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 1: never feel like I missed out on anything. Um, But 624 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 1: there's like a beauty to growing up with nothing essentially, 625 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 1: you know, like we need I have to go on 626 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 1: vacation or anything, because when I got into college, like 627 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 1: there was no expectation of like, well you better start 628 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: making six figures, you know, like that was never That's 629 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 1: still my parents don't give a crap, you know, they 630 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 1: don't care what we're making, Like they just wanted to 631 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 1: be doing what we love and like that that I 632 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 1: can already like sense that, like, oh is this gonna 633 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: be different from my kids now because they're going to 634 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 1: grow up with a little more means and that like 635 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: I we're just trying to be very intentional about like 636 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 1: not letting that stuff pass off because I think there's 637 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: some beauty and going like you don't need to do 638 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 1: what dad did to be successful, Like that just doesn't matter. 639 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 1: I already know that, you know success. Have you read 640 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 1: um Psychology of Money? Um? But as money, I usually, uh, 641 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm scared of it and don't read it and go 642 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: let somebody else do business managers they're great. Yeah, yes, 643 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 1: if now I struggled with that big time, just paying 644 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 1: somebody to look at have my money, talked about money 645 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 1: letting go of control. It was the hardest I couldn't built. 646 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna you're you're gonna have access to all the 647 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: wait what and I'm gonna pay you to have acts 648 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 1: and and other people do this. I mean I probably 649 00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: spent multiple multiple therapy sessions just talking about that. That 650 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: well it's funny because I well, yeah, talk about a 651 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 1: difference in our brand. I when we because we have 652 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: just started working with this finishment in the last few months, 653 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 1: and instantly, I mean I had a like my body 654 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 1: had a reaction of us having been in a positive way. 655 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: Like I didn't realize how anxious and stressed I was 656 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 1: trying to do it all my own until we gave it. 657 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, within the week, my stomach started feeling better 658 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 1: all these things because I was just like, you know what, 659 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: it's gonna be great now because I don't have to 660 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,800 Speaker 1: deal with love it. It's just wild. Yeah, I'm envious 661 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 1: that that you can do that, and I'm trying to 662 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 1: get better at that. Yeah, it's tough because because it 663 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 1: hasnt worked out. You know, I'll be honest, I can 664 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 1: do that too. I look at myself and go, you 665 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 1: know what you say, But well, here's the danger of 666 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 1: being in an internal optimist because it's it is like, 667 00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 1: it's cool. I like this, let's do dangers about danger, 668 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 1: let's do let's do pros and con this is good. 669 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: Do pros first. What's what's the pro of being an 670 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 1: eternal optimist? Um, anything is possible, Like any room, Like 671 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 1: when I go in to write a song, I say 672 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,600 Speaker 1: this out loud, I'll say, there is no reason why 673 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: we cannot write a song of the year today. There's 674 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: no reason. I mean, like look at I mean, I 675 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 1: remember going like when we wrote Tequila, like we weren't 676 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 1: even in that headspace yet, and like that can happen. 677 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,640 Speaker 1: So it's like, gosh, now that we're trying to do it, 678 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,239 Speaker 1: like we can definitely do it, you know what I mean. Like, 679 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 1: So that's the positive. Anything is possible, any write, any 680 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 1: combination of people, anything, we can make it work. All right, 681 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: let me positive. Here's positive being eternal pessimist. You're never 682 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: disappointed because you are, well, it's gonna happen anyway, You're 683 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: I'm I'm almost never disappointed because I already don't expect 684 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 1: it to work out. So when it doesn't, yeah, uh 685 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 1: and you all yeah and you and you rarely get 686 00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 1: hurt because you are do you expect the worst to 687 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 1: happen because it has before it will happen again. So 688 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: you're almost never disappointed and you never heard. So you're 689 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: you're you, You're protected by the way. I'm not saying 690 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 1: this is the way to go. I'm just saying this 691 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: is this is the positive about that. I totally get that. Yeah, okay, 692 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 1: go with the opposite side of yours. Okay. So, like, 693 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 1: speaking of business management, um, I'm telling my friend who's 694 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 1: an eight, one of my best buddies. I'm telling him like, 695 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: because I'm so excited about this, and I'm like, dude, 696 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna do business minute. They're gonna take everything like 697 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 1: I don't have to think about it again. And his 698 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: first thought, I'm thinking he's gonna be like, dude, that's awesome. 699 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,760 Speaker 1: He's like, yes, So who audits them? And I was like, 700 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 1: what do you mean why I don't audit them. He's like, dude, 701 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 1: they have complete control over your finances. And I was like, 702 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,800 Speaker 1: I didn't look at it that way. So the danger 703 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 1: can be and you know, I'm like caution, I would 704 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 1: say I'm more depending on the situation, I'm more cautiously optimistic, 705 00:33:56,560 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 1: Like when it comes to an investment, like the pro 706 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 1: of that, like we got into thirty A because I 707 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: was just like, let's do it, you know, like we're 708 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 1: gonna do it, and took an aggressive move and it 709 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 1: really paid off to be down there. But then after 710 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,840 Speaker 1: that I had to sit and go, this is not 711 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 1: going to happen again, most likely, So let's now be 712 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: cautiously optimistic and not just throw everything at the wall 713 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 1: and it's all gonna stick, you know, Like so that 714 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 1: those are the you know what I'm saying, Like you 715 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 1: can get yourself in trouble thinking everything's gonna work out 716 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 1: because realistically, not everything's gonna work out. You buy a 717 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: lot of crypto, and I bought something it might be 718 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:42,719 Speaker 1: working out, but it might work my Okay, here's the 719 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: bad part about being an eternal pessimist is that it's 720 00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,280 Speaker 1: hard to find real joy. M hmm, hard to celebrate. 721 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,959 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, I never said, I mean, yeah, 722 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: that's tough. It is. I will tell you that it's 723 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:01,719 Speaker 1: hard to celebrate for an optimist too, because is I 724 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 1: think part of it is like you think your best 725 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,319 Speaker 1: days are yet to come, and you're like, oh, this 726 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,960 Speaker 1: is this is cool, but this is not. This is 727 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:09,799 Speaker 1: not gonna be the biggest thing we've ever done. And 728 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 1: then you look back on things and you go like 729 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 1: that was pretty big. Maybe I should have just been 730 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 1: excited when that was happening, Like that's that's where my 731 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: brain goes. And my wife talked about a good wife, 732 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,400 Speaker 1: like she's so good about small things now, you know, 733 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: like going, hey, we just the other night. Doesn't Lynch 734 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 1: face time me on a Friday night and he was 735 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 1: just I pick up the thing and he's playing this 736 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 1: new song that me and Devin Dawson and Lisa Vannerhem 737 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,880 Speaker 1: wrote and it jacked me up. I don't like, I 738 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 1: feel like I wouldn't. Normally I'd be like, okay, cool, Yeah, 739 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: he's a kind of song. You know that's great, But 740 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 1: is it gonna be a single? I don't know how, 741 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:48,120 Speaker 1: you know, or you know whatever. So in those moments, 742 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 1: like that moment, I sat back down on the couch 743 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm so fired up right now. 744 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,399 Speaker 1: Like this song that I love, doesn't Lynch his face 745 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 1: time me. He's in love with it. Zach crowd loves it. 746 00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:58,880 Speaker 1: This is sick, you know, Like and my office like 747 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 1: wait to go. Oh that's awesome. You know, this is cool. 748 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 1: You're celebrating this Moe. I was like, I'm gonna be 749 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 1: excited about this, like you know, so that's that's where 750 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 1: it can get celebrating. I think either way is tricky. 751 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 1: It for different reasons. And I think if it's something 752 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:19,799 Speaker 1: cool one, well there ain't never gonna happen again. You're like, well, 753 00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,279 Speaker 1: surely there's another there's not. There's some bigger coming. And 754 00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, this is it, this is this probably 755 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 1: is truly this is the top of the mountain. But 756 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 1: my again, my wife, who has been such a great 757 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,279 Speaker 1: I won't even say counterbalance. I think she's just been 758 00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:36,319 Speaker 1: She's added complete elements of complete balance or elements because 759 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:40,399 Speaker 1: I'm definitely not there. She will force me to, even 760 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: if I don't fully accept it here and recognize why 761 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,720 Speaker 1: some little moments should be acknowledged. And sometimes you wouldn't 762 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 1: make me say the word celebrate, but she'll be like, okay, cool, 763 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 1: well we're we're not gonna be so pump. We're gonna 764 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:57,320 Speaker 1: at least acknowledge right now this, even if it means 765 00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 1: I mean small things. It's like my wife doesn't drink. 766 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 1: I don't really drink that much, you know, Like so 767 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: like alcohol is always the first celebration. I feel like 768 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,640 Speaker 1: for most people, it's like, hey, we're going to like 769 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,279 Speaker 1: make a nice meal tonight, or we're gonna go out 770 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,080 Speaker 1: to dinner to night, and it's like it's not that 771 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: big of a deal, but we're gonna do something to 772 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 1: remember how this felt, you know what I mean, Like, 773 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 1: that's just I think it's necessary. I don't want to 774 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: get the end of all of this and be like, man, 775 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 1: I just I just didn't celebrate. I didn't I wasn't excited, 776 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 1: and like all these people looking at our lives and 777 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 1: going like what you weren't excited about that stuff? Like 778 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 1: how could you not enjoy that? You know, I get 779 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: that from her? How why are you not enjoying this? Yeah, 780 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 1: like we'll go on a trip and not in a 781 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 1: shameful way, no, not at all. It's like, come on, 782 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,719 Speaker 1: this is awesome. You know. My wife is very much like, hey, bro, 783 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 1: like why do you work so hard all the time 784 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 1: and kill yourself and have these huge goals? If you 785 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 1: have every once a while, I can't actually celebrate, like 786 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,359 Speaker 1: can't have some of the spoils that you've worked for. 787 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 1: And so we'll be well, you know, we'll go on 788 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,399 Speaker 1: to trip things like though I wouldn't ever be able 789 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 1: to do in my life, and she'll go, look look 790 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: what you look what we got to do because this 791 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: is what you like. So so going back to the 792 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 1: psychology of money thing, Um, this guy said this, and 793 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:15,520 Speaker 1: I've I feel like I have to repeat it to 794 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 1: myself weakly, but he said he interviewed all these billionaires 795 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,920 Speaker 1: in the book is amazing in general. But he um, 796 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 1: he's like, what is success? What is wealth? What is success? 797 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 1: You ask those people and they said, the ability to 798 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,359 Speaker 1: wake up and do what you want to do, with 799 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: who you want to do, for as long as you 800 00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: want to do, And that is true success. You could 801 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:35,840 Speaker 1: do that making thirty grand a year, you know what 802 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,399 Speaker 1: I mean. Like, um, but that's like the beauty. Going 803 00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,439 Speaker 1: back to like this enjoying the spoils of it. There's 804 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,319 Speaker 1: almost like a thing in our culture of like, well, 805 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,319 Speaker 1: you're doing it, you're right, so right it all the 806 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 1: way out, you know, all the way like take full 807 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 1: advantage of it. And in the meantime you're like not 808 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 1: getting to spending time with your wife or your kids 809 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,799 Speaker 1: or whatever. You know, Like it's like you gotta enjoy it, 810 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,200 Speaker 1: you know, like yeah, that that is the point of 811 00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,600 Speaker 1: all of it, you know, like you in the balance 812 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 1: in it. You got a couple of Grammys. Uh yeah, 813 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:10,920 Speaker 1: we got one. I mean I thought you got one 814 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,840 Speaker 1: for maybe two so Dan and Shay one for the 815 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,400 Speaker 1: accounts tequila in ten thours. You didn't. You don't win 816 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 1: Speechless maybe okay? So are you loosely associated? You're loosely grams? 817 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 1: I think like three or four okay, but you have 818 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: one physical one that we just got nominated yesterday for 819 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 1: another Christian Grammy Country, right, yeah, for Kan Country. That's awesome. 820 00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 1: So random. Yeah, um, why Ben Vaughan, you know, Wren 821 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 1: travel He uh, he came to me and Josh Kerr. 822 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,399 Speaker 1: It was like a couple of years ago. Hey, um, 823 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 1: He's like, you guys are you guys are Christians? Right? 824 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:51,640 Speaker 1: And you write music? You should you should get together 825 00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 1: with for King Country. And I was like, I know 826 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: that math makes sense in your head, but I don't 827 00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 1: write Christian songs like so this could be a train wreck. 828 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,680 Speaker 1: And literally the first day we got together, we wrote 829 00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:06,840 Speaker 1: the song God only knows that ended up winning the Grammy. 830 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: It was like it just started this insane like super cool, 831 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 1: you know, i'm CCM is so tricky for me. Contemporary 832 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,200 Speaker 1: Christian music. Yeah, yeah, now you're in. Now you're in 833 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 1: the biz. It can come across cheesy if you're not careful. 834 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 1: And so I think, like, what's cool about those guys. 835 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: They just do such a good job of making like 836 00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:28,399 Speaker 1: real good music, Like it's really good. We have great 837 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,439 Speaker 1: conversations about life with those guys. I just love making 838 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 1: music with those dudes. They're just wholesome dudes. You do 839 00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 1: you cut the track, it's out whatever. Was it a 840 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 1: success in that world as just a song, Yeah, it was, 841 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,279 Speaker 1: like I think it was like a fourteen week number one. 842 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,800 Speaker 1: That's that's success. Yeah, But but that world is a 843 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 1: little different than country. It's like what country used to 844 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:53,279 Speaker 1: be kind of fourteen weeks or at anything. Yeah, I mean, 845 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 1: if I'm playing Madden and I'm I win fourteen super 846 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:57,719 Speaker 1: Bowl against the computer on rookie mode, I'm still I 847 00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,799 Speaker 1: was pretty freaking good. That's pretty good, man. I don't 848 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,680 Speaker 1: I can't actually pretend to completely understand that side of 849 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,239 Speaker 1: the industry, but like, um, yeah, it was a it 850 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:10,359 Speaker 1: was a pretty big success in that world, and it's 851 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: just cool. I mean, man, I don't I feel like 852 00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,760 Speaker 1: in songwriting I have to do a lot of different 853 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,560 Speaker 1: things to keep me interested, were inspired, you know, And 854 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,080 Speaker 1: so those have been just like super fun ways to 855 00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 1: feel inspired. And you know, like we come into it 856 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 1: not being Christian writers and go like what if we 857 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,359 Speaker 1: said this, and like, gosh, we would never say that 858 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,359 Speaker 1: in this, you know what I mean. Like that's kind 859 00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:33,920 Speaker 1: of how I fell getting into country. It was like 860 00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 1: I don't know the country lingo that well growing up 861 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 1: in St. Louis. I've got some country grandparents, you know, 862 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,360 Speaker 1: But like I had to like kind of fake my 863 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 1: way through it until I knew what was going on. 864 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,080 Speaker 1: But I also had something to say that all the 865 00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 1: country people didn't have to say, you know what I mean. 866 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 1: So there's it's like harnessing that piece of you that's 867 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 1: a little different, that's okay. You know, was your first 868 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,040 Speaker 1: I know your first number one was tequila? Hopefully I'm 869 00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,200 Speaker 1: right on this. Was that your first single was my 870 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,879 Speaker 1: first single? Are you kidding me? It was the first 871 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,759 Speaker 1: single in your first number one? Man, we went tequila. 872 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 1: Speechless on myself ten thousand hours. Glad, I think I 873 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,400 Speaker 1: should probably go to Bow before that. And then like 874 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,919 Speaker 1: Glad you exist we had this ride and I knew 875 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 1: it wasn't real. It's like, all right, yes we got 876 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,399 Speaker 1: into the right time. Yeah, you know, like it it's 877 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,840 Speaker 1: said horribly unrealistic expectations, even though I knew it shouldn't, 878 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, I just had incredibly 879 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: unrealistic expectations. It's crazy. That was your first single. I'm 880 00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,000 Speaker 1: not even talking about number one because it was such 881 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:34,920 Speaker 1: a massive song. And I will also say it was 882 00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 1: a complete bias. We're very close to Abby and Dan. Yeah, 883 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 1: and Dan said he's gonna stop by by the way. Great, 884 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:44,439 Speaker 1: I mean, he's around the car. He probably knows the code. 885 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 1: I mean, we're my wife and Abby are like best 886 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 1: of friends, so we're so that being said, I still 887 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 1: that Tequila was such a Donna Donna Donna and then 888 00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 1: the freak the Jaws just attacked that shark was so 889 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,320 Speaker 1: big for so long. It was a real staple of 890 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 1: that year in country music. And that's your first single. 891 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 1: It was crazy. I remember, Um, could you even appreciate it? Yeah, no, no, 892 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 1: definitely not. I mean I remember, like vividly, this was 893 00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 1: the first time this is kind of happening. So before 894 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,399 Speaker 1: Tequila came out speaking of three day we were down there. 895 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,239 Speaker 1: We're staying at christ and Hillary's house, Hillary Scott's house, 896 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 1: and I had come with my in laws. So I'm 897 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:29,560 Speaker 1: playing for my sister in law. She's always been a 898 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,560 Speaker 1: great like uh test for me. I'll play new songs 899 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,560 Speaker 1: for him, Like what do you She's just a country listener, 900 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,640 Speaker 1: you know. So I played her four or five songs 901 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 1: we've been you know whatever, and I'm just playing acoustic 902 00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,239 Speaker 1: and I got done with tequila and she was like, 903 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:42,800 Speaker 1: you did not write that song? And I was like, 904 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I did, but it wasn't even like 905 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:47,799 Speaker 1: my most I wasn't even most excited about that song. 906 00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 1: It's like just how we you know. And that was 907 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,520 Speaker 1: like October so and I was like, yeah, I think 908 00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:55,840 Speaker 1: it's actually the next Dan and Jay single, you know, like, 909 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 1: which is crazy, you know, um, but the first one 910 00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:01,480 Speaker 1: off that Problem Jake because it was the first project. 911 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 1: I remember the new the new aesthetic with that song. 912 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:08,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all the symbols and yeah that I mean. 913 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:12,560 Speaker 1: Props to Dan and h and Rohan Colie over at 914 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 1: Warner like Rohan had just signed on him and Dan 915 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 1: have been good buddies for a long time and Um 916 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 1: Rohan's first project was basically convincing everyone at Warner that 917 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 1: Tequila needed to be the first single. They were not 918 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:27,120 Speaker 1: in a stage in their career technically on paper where 919 00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,600 Speaker 1: you could just throw a ballot out as the first single. 920 00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 1: I don't even know if really anybody's in that stage ever, 921 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,080 Speaker 1: you know, like it's a tough spot to be in. 922 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 1: And Rohan is like, I will put my life on this, 923 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,560 Speaker 1: which is a I mean, he did so much behind 924 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,359 Speaker 1: the scenes to make that song happen. You just never 925 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 1: know like it. But what it did was it set 926 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 1: up the rest of the record to be elevated. You know, 927 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:50,440 Speaker 1: like if it had gone you know, all to myself 928 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,439 Speaker 1: first or whatever else, even like it would have changed 929 00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:57,800 Speaker 1: the trajectory of that whole project. So the year and 930 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:03,839 Speaker 1: or so or nineteen whatever, the year we had lost 931 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 1: the c M A and the Grammy and then won 932 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 1: the A c M it was a wild Yeah. I 933 00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,680 Speaker 1: remember when it lost the c M A because I 934 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 1: was I was with Dan. It was a dark night. 935 00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 1: It was a dark night, and Dan and I are 936 00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 1: a lot alike, and we were both pretty o C 937 00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:24,400 Speaker 1: D about different things. Dance, O C D like crazy. 938 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:26,800 Speaker 1: I'm O c D like crazy. He's also doing it 939 00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,400 Speaker 1: crazy and I respect it and love it and but 940 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 1: get it. And I remember just going O man. So 941 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,680 Speaker 1: I just I reached out that night and after we 942 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 1: had talked, and I was like, bro, I noticed what 943 00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:41,880 Speaker 1: I'll be feeling right now. Maybe you're not, maybe you're not, 944 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:46,040 Speaker 1: But I felt like that. And I said this in 945 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:49,879 Speaker 1: an Instagram even the other day, how Dana had such 946 00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:54,120 Speaker 1: as with you guys had such a massive collection and 947 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 1: it wasn't rewarded when it should have been. So then 948 00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,560 Speaker 1: everyone knew it and started to get rewarded afterward later 949 00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:03,160 Speaker 1: because of because they were that should have been rewarded. Yeah, 950 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 1: isn't that always happens in award shows too? It seems 951 00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:08,759 Speaker 1: like like the Grammys, like somebody will win the next year. 952 00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:10,360 Speaker 1: I firmly believe that's why I haven't won the No 953 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 1: About Peace Prize yet. Any one more year and the 954 00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 1: next year, Yes, that's it has to be right, you know, Yeah, 955 00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:18,600 Speaker 1: I think it could happen. I did feel like you 956 00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:20,960 Speaker 1: guys hardcore were robbed out of this Song of the 957 00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:22,840 Speaker 1: Year there, But again, how mad can you be whenever 958 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,440 Speaker 1: you're on such a run man. I just you know, 959 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,440 Speaker 1: I have said this to other songwriters. It's like winning awards. 960 00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,880 Speaker 1: Nobody remembers who won the last year. BEFO. We're talking honestly, 961 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 1: nobody gives a crap. Absolutely, but winning is sick having 962 00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 1: an award in your studio. If it helps people like 963 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: legitimize you or whatever or just trust you more, then 964 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 1: that's great. But don't put all your eggs into I've 965 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 1: got to win or even I gotta win Songwriter of 966 00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,200 Speaker 1: the Year. It's like we're in the age of Ashley Gorley. 967 00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,359 Speaker 1: You're not winning song at the root. But someone would say, 968 00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,440 Speaker 1: can I counterpoint you? Yes, because I don't believe and 969 00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,800 Speaker 1: I believe what you're saying about the point anyway, Okay, 970 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,279 Speaker 1: that's cold. Jordan's've written all these number one songs, so 971 00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 1: shut up and telling me what I should be happy 972 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,440 Speaker 1: with having. Whenever you came out of the womb with 973 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:10,640 Speaker 1: the number one. Yeah, oh, I mean yeah, By the way, 974 00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 1: I don't I don't even believe what I said right there, 975 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 1: but I was just no, it's good to have the countram. 976 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:19,480 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, but it's I think sometimes seek validation 977 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:25,520 Speaker 1: from what I would consider respected peers. Yeah, and I 978 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,919 Speaker 1: think because you're right, nobody remembers the awards. They honestly don't. 979 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,160 Speaker 1: It's always easier when, of course, yeah, a winner saying 980 00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 1: a ward shows don't matter. It's like, well, easy for 981 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 1: you to say, right, yeah. And it's like me trying 982 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,440 Speaker 1: to host the c M A S. I'm like, eventually 983 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,120 Speaker 1: they got to give it to me, and so many people, 984 00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 1: big folks, Hey, it doesn't matter, nobody cares. But I'm like, no, no, 985 00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:48,200 Speaker 1: that's been that's been what I've been working toward forever. 986 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,440 Speaker 1: But it's a personal thing, right, And it does always 987 00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,759 Speaker 1: seem to go that you don't know what you got, 988 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: know that, like you you know, once you get the validation, 989 00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 1: say you're a country artist, you get the validation of 990 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,000 Speaker 1: country radio. Bobby Bones is on your team and he's 991 00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 1: playing your music. Rarely actually does that line up with 992 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,759 Speaker 1: a lot of the award show nots now maybe a 993 00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,840 Speaker 1: c M s are a little more like commercial friendly 994 00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 1: kind of vibes, especially Grammys. Dan and Shay The fact 995 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 1: that they get nominated for Grammys and have radio success 996 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,360 Speaker 1: is like, that's that's a unicorn, you know, like usually 997 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 1: one comes without the other. It's just almost you have 998 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:29,719 Speaker 1: to have such unparalleled success to even be in the 999 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:33,440 Speaker 1: Grammy slash Commerce. Yeah, and and they've done it. It's 1000 00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:36,839 Speaker 1: super crazy. Yeah, Yeah, it's super cool. Are you because 1001 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 1: when I think of you, I obviously know all the 1002 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 1: songs that you've written for Dan and Shade because of 1003 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:46,600 Speaker 1: my personal relationship with that group. Are you in a 1004 00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 1: lot of people's minds that got the Dan and Shade team? Guy? 1005 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 1: It's a great question, man. I like me and my 1006 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:57,560 Speaker 1: publisher talked about that stuff. We kind of like early 1007 00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 1: on because I also do tracks, and I was like, 1008 00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:02,400 Speaker 1: I don't want to be another track boy, you know, 1009 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,279 Speaker 1: I want to be I want people to know that 1010 00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:07,279 Speaker 1: I'm a songwriter all these things. I think we were 1011 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:11,080 Speaker 1: just very intentional early on about going we're gonna get 1012 00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,440 Speaker 1: in a lot of different camps. We're gonna really like 1013 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:17,399 Speaker 1: try to spread this out. And I think I kind 1014 00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:19,920 Speaker 1: of pride myself in being able to be a chameleon 1015 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,719 Speaker 1: and like whatever room we're in, you know. So I 1016 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,520 Speaker 1: think I'm sure there are like people who are surprised 1017 00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:26,840 Speaker 1: when they come in there, Like I thought you were 1018 00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:28,600 Speaker 1: just like the pop country dude, and we write like 1019 00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,279 Speaker 1: a super country song or something like. I think that 1020 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:33,719 Speaker 1: has definitely been a fear of like, I don't want 1021 00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:35,839 Speaker 1: to just be the pop country doude, especially a time 1022 00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 1: where pop country is not cool right now. You know 1023 00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:41,600 Speaker 1: it seemingly it's like I think in the writer's room, 1024 00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,080 Speaker 1: you know, just having those relationships to their writers. I 1025 00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:47,360 Speaker 1: don't think that's necessarily I could be wrong, though, that 1026 00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,600 Speaker 1: could be the eternal optimist of me. You know, it's 1027 00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 1: funny about pop country, and you're right, but it's still 1028 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 1: circles all the way back. We're talking about a minute 1029 00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,840 Speaker 1: ago or forty five minutes ago. Is that okay? Pop country? 1030 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,480 Speaker 1: Let's say it's not cool because it is not cool. However, 1031 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 1: just like I said, there's no sensible it's still the 1032 00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:12,160 Speaker 1: most consumed. It's still but nobody's coming up going. I'm 1033 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,040 Speaker 1: a huge fan. It's like the weekend. Do you ever 1034 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 1: meet somebody it's like on the biggest weekend fan. No, 1035 00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,080 Speaker 1: but you know, strange, like crazy the freaking weekend. I 1036 00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:23,200 Speaker 1: looked up Khaleg the other day, like I don't feel 1037 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,560 Speaker 1: like I've heard I mean, you have heard his songs recently, 1038 00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,880 Speaker 1: but like he has like fifty million monthly listeners on Spotify. 1039 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 1: There are a lot of people who love it, but 1040 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,400 Speaker 1: there's just no need for them to scream because they 1041 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:37,440 Speaker 1: don't feel like anybody is doing them a disservice. Yeah, definitely, 1042 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,040 Speaker 1: and like they already pop country was already on top. 1043 00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,440 Speaker 1: It's like you don't have to root, you know, like 1044 00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,719 Speaker 1: we don't have to know that you're a fan of Alabama, 1045 00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:46,440 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Not this year obviously, but 1046 00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:49,040 Speaker 1: like if you've already done it, you're like, yeah, you've 1047 00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,360 Speaker 1: already done it. It's like we talked about with kids. 1048 00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:53,879 Speaker 1: When you have your first kid, people are like, oh 1049 00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:56,719 Speaker 1: my gosh, we're so excited you've announced you having your 1050 00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:58,879 Speaker 1: second kid. They're like, okay, cool, you already had a kid, 1051 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 1: you know, like that's just gonna happen. Did you get 1052 00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:06,320 Speaker 1: to meet Dolly? No? I didn't. Josh Kerr did he? 1053 00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,359 Speaker 1: Like I think he got a tracker on the thing. 1054 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 1: But no, it would have been sweet, it would have 1055 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,040 Speaker 1: been well, so it could happen. It's amazing to me 1056 00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:15,799 Speaker 1: that she wanted Grammy and didn't even show. I mean, 1057 00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:18,320 Speaker 1: that's that's a power move. You know, you're getting no 1058 00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:22,759 Speaker 1: more powerful than Dolly. It's it's phenomenal. You're going to go, Yeah, 1059 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,600 Speaker 1: we'll go. Have you You've been every time you've been nominated, Yeah, 1060 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:28,319 Speaker 1: it is. It a pretty cool trip though, dude, it's 1061 00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,719 Speaker 1: one of the coolest trips. The last one was weird 1062 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:35,759 Speaker 1: because it was and Kobe died that day. That day, 1063 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:39,040 Speaker 1: it was literally we were in the elevator like going 1064 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,040 Speaker 1: down to the main spot and it was like, Kobe 1065 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,880 Speaker 1: Bryant has died in a helicopter crash outside of l A. 1066 00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:48,920 Speaker 1: We're like, what, so we won a Grammy and the 1067 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,320 Speaker 1: pretail by this thing. Walk outside there's just thousands of 1068 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:55,360 Speaker 1: people out there, just surreal, like, but man, LA is 1069 00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:58,600 Speaker 1: such a magical place. I love going out there, and yeah, 1070 00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 1: it's just such a fun thing. How do you not 1071 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:04,279 Speaker 1: write the same song. You've gotta find ways to be 1072 00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,879 Speaker 1: inspired by new things. That's like what I was saying 1073 00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 1: earlier of like I can't just write super country songs, 1074 00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 1: or I can't just write pop country, or I can't 1075 00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:15,200 Speaker 1: just write pop or Christian. It's like you have to 1076 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,239 Speaker 1: have a well balanced diet and that like inspiration is 1077 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 1: just like everything, you know, Like when you're trying to 1078 00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,399 Speaker 1: get a hit, if you're not inspired by the idea 1079 00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:26,239 Speaker 1: you're writing in the room, or if it doesn't make 1080 00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 1: you just go like, oh my gosh, like, let's just 1081 00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:33,120 Speaker 1: chase it till we do find that. So I mean 1082 00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 1: that that's the easiest way, like finding new sounds, writing 1083 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:40,880 Speaker 1: on different guitars, I mean, but also still borrowing, you know, 1084 00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 1: like you don't throw the baby out with the bath war, 1085 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:46,200 Speaker 1: like borrow the things that did work and transplant those 1086 00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:47,839 Speaker 1: into the new songs. You know, Like do you ever 1087 00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:53,279 Speaker 1: find yourself inadvertently pardon the word, stealing a song from yourself? Oh, 1088 00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:56,040 Speaker 1: definitely yeah, And you have to go, oh, well, yeah 1089 00:52:56,080 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 1: that's me, but I can't oops. I mean yeah, typically 1090 00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,520 Speaker 1: the first person in the room to be like, even 1091 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,280 Speaker 1: if I don't know what it is, I'm like, doesn't 1092 00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:07,839 Speaker 1: this sound like something? And shouldn't we be careful? You know? Um? 1093 00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:09,920 Speaker 1: But yeah, that's just natural. I mean, we only have 1094 00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,680 Speaker 1: so many things in our brain that our brain naturally 1095 00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:17,520 Speaker 1: goes to. You are you constantly thinking of song concepts, 1096 00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:22,240 Speaker 1: titles and or melodies? Always trying to think of concepts? 1097 00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:27,000 Speaker 1: I mean, to me, that is the basis of all music, 1098 00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:31,520 Speaker 1: but specifically country music, Like that's the inspiration point. You know, 1099 00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:37,760 Speaker 1: what is the concept that you knew immediately, kept savored, 1100 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 1: treasured and it turned out to be something. Dude, this 1101 00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:42,279 Speaker 1: is gonna sound like I'm making this up or like 1102 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:47,160 Speaker 1: rose colored glasses? What are I had the idea for 1103 00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,440 Speaker 1: tequila had when I taste tequila, and there's only been 1104 00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,440 Speaker 1: a couple of those moments that I was like, this 1105 00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:57,279 Speaker 1: is definitely a song. I had that and then um, 1106 00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 1: in the same time period, I had an idea called 1107 00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 1: what Keeps You Night that was on the Dana Sha record. 1108 00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 1: It was like the only outside song on that, Like 1109 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,440 Speaker 1: you just get a feeling because it feels like I 1110 00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:09,239 Speaker 1: can already see the song, like I can see the 1111 00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,960 Speaker 1: whole thing from looking at the title. Um, it wasn't 1112 00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,080 Speaker 1: my title, but ten thousand hours was like that for me. 1113 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,919 Speaker 1: Dan said that title. We did like a writing trip 1114 00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,800 Speaker 1: before the Grammys in l A, I guess in twenty 1115 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,560 Speaker 1: nineteen whatever year was, and he had thrown out that 1116 00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,279 Speaker 1: title in the room and nobody bit on it, and 1117 00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,800 Speaker 1: I was like, dude, I am obsessed with that title. 1118 00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 1: I forgot about it. Like three months later, We're right 1119 00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,239 Speaker 1: with Jesse Joe Dillon, and I was like I've got 1120 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:35,160 Speaker 1: this title ten thousand hours, and I was like, do 1121 00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:37,800 Speaker 1: we have to write that? Like that is? That is 1122 00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 1: a smash? I don't even know however, way we do that, 1123 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,239 Speaker 1: like we will make sure it's right, you know. Like, 1124 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,080 Speaker 1: but there's only a few of those kind of songs. 1125 00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:54,200 Speaker 1: And I feel like, why do you think certain songs 1126 00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:59,959 Speaker 1: resonate within yours with within oneself more than others, because 1127 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,920 Speaker 1: you're thinking of all of them, Like, what do you 1128 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,680 Speaker 1: think it is? I mean, it could be so many. 1129 00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,040 Speaker 1: I think it's nuanced. We haven't said that in a while. 1130 00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,480 Speaker 1: I think it's time bring back. What's so tricky is 1131 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,680 Speaker 1: like something that really inspires you may not inspire me 1132 00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,040 Speaker 1: or vice versa um or you I might just not 1133 00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,560 Speaker 1: catch the vision for it or whatever. But like, I mean, 1134 00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:22,160 Speaker 1: it's probably because it's reminding us of something else we 1135 00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,920 Speaker 1: love and we don't quite know it. I mean, most likely, 1136 00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:27,239 Speaker 1: it's like when you see someone on the street and 1137 00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:29,359 Speaker 1: you're like, wow, that person is really attractive. It's like, oh, 1138 00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:33,200 Speaker 1: it's because it looks like my cousin. Well, that's a 1139 00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,920 Speaker 1: weird life you live. I was trying to pull on 1140 00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:39,960 Speaker 1: the and then you went there, good, good, good. You 1141 00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:43,120 Speaker 1: get in a room with a new songwriter somebody like 1142 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:44,719 Speaker 1: this person is really great. You should spend some time 1143 00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,239 Speaker 1: with them, and they say, Jordan's and what do I 1144 00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 1: need to know about this town? And this like help 1145 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,239 Speaker 1: me out because and it's somebody that you see is 1146 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:53,960 Speaker 1: raw but really good. What do you tell that person 1147 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:57,440 Speaker 1: because I'm sure this has happened to you many times? Um, 1148 00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,719 Speaker 1: what's crazy is you kind of already can tell. And 1149 00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 1: I always felt this way, like coming up like people back, oh, dude, 1150 00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:07,560 Speaker 1: you're gonna have hits, no problem, And I'm back, well 1151 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:09,279 Speaker 1: that why don't you tell the artist I'm writing with 1152 00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:11,320 Speaker 1: that Like I can't get a you know, hit to 1153 00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,800 Speaker 1: say in my life. But like there's a certain like 1154 00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:17,759 Speaker 1: personality type and talent level that like even if they're 1155 00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:20,360 Speaker 1: not quite there, you can be like that person is 1156 00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:22,560 Speaker 1: going to do it. So it's not it's like less 1157 00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:26,200 Speaker 1: even like giving specific advice. I think about. There's this girl, 1158 00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:30,280 Speaker 1: Mackenzie Carpenter. She's a new um artist in town. Everybody's 1159 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:31,840 Speaker 1: been talking about her. She's amazing, is it? And I 1160 00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:33,440 Speaker 1: wrote her the first time and I was just like, yep, 1161 00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,600 Speaker 1: she's got it, like she has she has the personality 1162 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,320 Speaker 1: to do it. She's got the look, she's got like 1163 00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:42,120 Speaker 1: all the things amazing writer. And I was like, we 1164 00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:44,480 Speaker 1: don't really have to tell you anything, just like keep 1165 00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:47,120 Speaker 1: your head down and keep writing songs. Don't be um, 1166 00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,799 Speaker 1: don't be upset if you're not getting in the rooms 1167 00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,440 Speaker 1: that you want to get in. Um. Things that I 1168 00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:54,839 Speaker 1: have to still tell myself is like, sometimes you're still 1169 00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 1: just not ready. That doesn't mean you're not talented enough, 1170 00:56:57,840 --> 00:56:59,520 Speaker 1: but it might mean you don't have the skill set 1171 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,399 Speaker 1: that you need. It's like the amount of times I've 1172 00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:04,160 Speaker 1: written a song and the next week I'm writing with 1173 00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,160 Speaker 1: a new artist and I'm like, or with an artist 1174 00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:07,880 Speaker 1: that I've been trying to get in with. It's like 1175 00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,640 Speaker 1: I just learned this little trick that now is going 1176 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:12,400 Speaker 1: to be in this song, and I'm like, oh, what 1177 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:14,640 Speaker 1: if I hadn't written this song today to get me 1178 00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 1: prepared for that. Like that's a close example, but like 1179 00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:21,240 Speaker 1: just be okay, like waiting it out a little bit, 1180 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:22,920 Speaker 1: if that's what it means, Like you want people to 1181 00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:24,840 Speaker 1: be excited to get in the room with you, But 1182 00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:26,360 Speaker 1: that's advice you said. You don't have any advice to 1183 00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:27,640 Speaker 1: tell them and then you said I don't have anything. 1184 00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,680 Speaker 1: But here's what I would say. You did say it. 1185 00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,840 Speaker 1: That's great advice. I lied, Yeah, I definitely lied. What's better? 1186 00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 1: It's okay to lie here what's better songs? So it 1187 00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:38,840 Speaker 1: is okay to lie? Absolutely? Okay, good, Yeah, most of 1188 00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 1: this has been alive. By the way, I'm not even here. 1189 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:42,560 Speaker 1: This is a recording of me Mike's pushing a button 1190 00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:45,760 Speaker 1: ball wall a wall. It is compressive. Yeah, it's difficult 1191 00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:47,320 Speaker 1: for me to talk to a wall though. That is 1192 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:51,680 Speaker 1: that is It's difficult, but it's impressively technology. Um, what 1193 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,800 Speaker 1: was the question better songs? Yeah? So um started with 1194 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,120 Speaker 1: a buddy of mine wh's actually my lawyer, Sam's Chase Neely, 1195 00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:02,240 Speaker 1: and I just like, I love talking about songwriting. I 1196 00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:07,400 Speaker 1: could just talk about songwriting forever. And um, my buddy 1197 00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 1: Chase has actually done this kind of program with a 1198 00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,760 Speaker 1: few other people, like authors and stuff and kind of 1199 00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:14,280 Speaker 1: like the master class kind of feel, but this is 1200 00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:19,960 Speaker 1: geared towards new writers. Um, just like getting your footing 1201 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:23,840 Speaker 1: and like just going deep into like actual things things 1202 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:25,960 Speaker 1: that like you wouldn't have to really tell a new 1203 00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:30,320 Speaker 1: writer who's already signed. It's like going past the point 1204 00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 1: of what you think you need to explain and explaining 1205 00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:34,920 Speaker 1: that stuff like here's rhyme schemes. Here are the simple 1206 00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:39,520 Speaker 1: rhyme schemes. You know, kind of starting in that that world. Um, 1207 00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 1: but I'm just like passionate about songwriting. I love songwriting 1208 00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 1: that much. They're like, we're just gonna throw a bunch 1209 00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:47,080 Speaker 1: of you and you can just talk and talk about songwriting. 1210 00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:49,520 Speaker 1: And I was like that sounds great. So yeah, we've 1211 00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:51,240 Speaker 1: been doing it for it's about a year now. We 1212 00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:54,800 Speaker 1: just kind of started this subscription part of it. But 1213 00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,280 Speaker 1: I got to interview a bunch of my good friends 1214 00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:00,520 Speaker 1: and stuff. Just recently into like a well week long 1215 00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:02,760 Speaker 1: virtual semit thing. I have to do like podcast kind 1216 00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:04,360 Speaker 1: of thing and talk to all these people about song Right. 1217 00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:05,880 Speaker 1: It's just so fun for me. I love it. And 1218 00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,320 Speaker 1: that's a Better Songs dot com bet com. What's that 1219 00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:13,880 Speaker 1: gonna run me? Uh? For you make a deal? You 1220 00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:18,120 Speaker 1: can also follow on Instagram at Better Underscore Songs Underscore. 1221 00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:23,680 Speaker 1: This is a really softball question, but a real answer. 1222 00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,360 Speaker 1: What is your favorite song that you've written that you're 1223 00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:30,040 Speaker 1: most proud of and it it could be forced for 1224 00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,360 Speaker 1: a success, It could be for something that took you 1225 00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 1: a year to actually finish, or it could be a 1226 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:37,600 Speaker 1: message I don't I don't really care, and I'm actually 1227 00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,840 Speaker 1: vamping to give you time to think right now. Yeah, 1228 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:43,400 Speaker 1: it's so, it's it's such a broad question. But what's 1229 00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:48,280 Speaker 1: your favorite song that you've written. It's difficult because favorite, 1230 00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 1: you know, like, I'm just attaching all these feelings to 1231 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,880 Speaker 1: these things and the song talk about a softball answer. 1232 00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:57,919 Speaker 1: The song that really I do feel that way about 1233 00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:03,160 Speaker 1: is Tequila. Like it's to me like the best representation 1234 01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:06,760 Speaker 1: of what I love to do, you know like, and 1235 01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:11,120 Speaker 1: just like simple and make somebody feel something, you know like, 1236 01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:12,720 Speaker 1: and the fact that it was my first thing I 1237 01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:15,080 Speaker 1: feel like people that was always like a fear of 1238 01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:17,400 Speaker 1: mine in a weird way. I didn't think about it 1239 01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:19,840 Speaker 1: a lot, but like I had buddies who had hits 1240 01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:22,120 Speaker 1: early on, and they just like weren't proud of them 1241 01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:24,360 Speaker 1: like we do like writer's rounds, and like, I'm not 1242 01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,280 Speaker 1: gonna play that song. I'm like, dude, it's a hit. 1243 01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:28,880 Speaker 1: People love this and they're like, I just don't. I 1244 01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:32,200 Speaker 1: don't think it represents me that well. And I was like, oh, 1245 01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:33,680 Speaker 1: I hope I don't have one of those, you know, 1246 01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,520 Speaker 1: So it's so fun like having I feel that way 1247 01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:40,000 Speaker 1: about I mean, all the hits, but like specifically Tequila. 1248 01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 1: It's like it's just so sick being like, I'm so 1249 01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:47,000 Speaker 1: proud of how this song turned out. Dan crushed the production, 1250 01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,240 Speaker 1: Like the piano thing is my piano that I created 1251 01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 1: in logic, like when I first started doing tracks, and 1252 01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:56,040 Speaker 1: now know that like that was the reason I created 1253 01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:58,120 Speaker 1: that piano was to be in Tequila, you know, like 1254 01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:01,120 Speaker 1: just wild. You know that kind says I'm super proud 1255 01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:03,840 Speaker 1: of that song. I think I always will be too, 1256 01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:07,080 Speaker 1: I mean realistically, And this is not the eternal optimist 1257 01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:08,920 Speaker 1: to me because even as I'm saying, I don't believe it, 1258 01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:12,360 Speaker 1: but it's like when I die, it'll probably be like 1259 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:15,760 Speaker 1: Jordan Reynolds, songwriter of Tequila, you know, like that realistically 1260 01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:18,280 Speaker 1: will probably be it. I don't believe that because I 1261 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:22,560 Speaker 1: can't exist that way. But um yeah, which song was 1262 01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:27,160 Speaker 1: the most tedious to finish of your hits? That we 1263 01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:30,440 Speaker 1: would know? That is a great question. Honestly, probably speechless 1264 01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:34,840 Speaker 1: because we were so into the records. He was already done, 1265 01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:36,680 Speaker 1: the album was done, like he was about ready to 1266 01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:39,320 Speaker 1: turn it in. Dan texting me like nine pm on 1267 01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,520 Speaker 1: Thursday night was like, hey, I got this last idea. 1268 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,880 Speaker 1: I just remember being very like we combed through that 1269 01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:48,800 Speaker 1: stuff so hard, like just to make sure because we're like, 1270 01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:51,080 Speaker 1: I mean, this is our last shot. If if this 1271 01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:52,800 Speaker 1: is not going to beat anything on the record, this 1272 01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:55,440 Speaker 1: song disappears, so like, let's make sure this is it. 1273 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,720 Speaker 1: I mean, it's funny because I try to not think 1274 01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:00,560 Speaker 1: of it as work. You know, it's hard to remember. 1275 01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:03,560 Speaker 1: And but we've been doing a lot more rights recently 1276 01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:05,520 Speaker 1: where we break it up into two days and we 1277 01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:07,480 Speaker 1: like let it be tedious, you know, like in a 1278 01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 1: good way, so you don't force all right, guys, it's 1279 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:13,440 Speaker 1: three o'clock. We we gotta finish it. Yeah, you just 1280 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:15,919 Speaker 1: purposefully you go, we're not going to finish it today. Yeah, 1281 01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:19,880 Speaker 1: Oh that's there. Yeah. I like that. There's there's been 1282 01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 1: a little too much empasis on success being finishing a 1283 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,080 Speaker 1: song in a day. The efficient part of me doesn't 1284 01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,040 Speaker 1: like it, but I like it the creative side of 1285 01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:29,680 Speaker 1: me because I'm running dual dual sides here, like I'm 1286 01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:31,880 Speaker 1: running business, but I'm also like I have be super creative. 1287 01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:33,840 Speaker 1: The creative side of Me's like, oh, I'm not supposed 1288 01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:36,240 Speaker 1: to finish to days. I just I can relax and 1289 01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,960 Speaker 1: get to that place where I'm my most creative, Like 1290 01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,880 Speaker 1: that's great. Oh yeah, and I'm a three on the Instagram, 1291 01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,240 Speaker 1: which is the achiever, which means I like to finish 1292 01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:47,520 Speaker 1: things like and so it's a good exercise for me 1293 01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:50,600 Speaker 1: to go. It's okay to take a break and step 1294 01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:54,360 Speaker 1: away and go let's hear with fresh ears, Like does 1295 01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,880 Speaker 1: that really hit? Like we think it's hitting, you know, 1296 01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 1: like how can this be elevated? How can that second 1297 01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:01,880 Speaker 1: verse even better than when we think it is? Just 1298 01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,280 Speaker 1: from listening again, you know, getting away from it. What 1299 01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:06,840 Speaker 1: do you want to say now about Dan and Shade 1300 01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,720 Speaker 1: and music? You've've written some stuff and yeah, man, I'm 1301 01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:13,120 Speaker 1: I'm really excited for this new phase for them. I think, like, 1302 01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:16,840 Speaker 1: you know, as things have got more country, Like if 1303 01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:21,600 Speaker 1: there is anyone who just is a genius when it 1304 01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,000 Speaker 1: comes to figuring out music industry stuff is Dance Mars, 1305 01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:27,960 Speaker 1: Like he's he's known it and no he's not perfect, 1306 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:31,480 Speaker 1: nobody's perfect, but like he has such a like gauge 1307 01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:34,280 Speaker 1: on what's happening, Like I think the next album is 1308 01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,880 Speaker 1: gonna be so sick. He's been playing me stuff and Okay, 1309 01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:39,160 Speaker 1: I'm glad you said it because I wasn't saything about record. 1310 01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 1: But yeah, cool, yeah, you're you're in the mix. Then good. Yeah, 1311 01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:46,480 Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna say that, or I was gonna then say, 1312 01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:48,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know. I didn't talked to Dan 1313 01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,400 Speaker 1: in weeks. We were at a charity event together and 1314 01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 1: he was like, hey, we'll record, you know, just so yeah, great, 1315 01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:55,440 Speaker 1: good things are happening. I think it's gonna be really good. 1316 01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:58,000 Speaker 1: And you know, I mean, it's so funny you thinking 1317 01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,280 Speaker 1: about Danna say, like we think of them as pop country. 1318 01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:01,680 Speaker 1: You can listen to the Dan Chase self to out 1319 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,840 Speaker 1: elements like it's not really that poppy. It's still full 1320 01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:07,160 Speaker 1: band and you know, like it's just not that big 1321 01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:09,760 Speaker 1: of a departure. But the songs are great and I 1322 01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,800 Speaker 1: think they're fired up. Say sounds better than he's ever 1323 01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:15,480 Speaker 1: sounded in his life, which is even difficult to believe 1324 01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:17,240 Speaker 1: that he could sound better than he does. But are 1325 01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:19,520 Speaker 1: you fired up? Are you excited? Oh? Yeah, yeah, I'm sticked. 1326 01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:21,880 Speaker 1: I don't want you to give an answer here, don't 1327 01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:23,880 Speaker 1: be specific, but you ever get a song back to 1328 01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:25,320 Speaker 1: your written and you're like, oh, that's what they did 1329 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:28,040 Speaker 1: with it, not even them, but anybody. Oh yeah, I 1330 01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:31,560 Speaker 1: oh yeah, man, I feel it's it's few and far between, thankfully. Um. 1331 01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:33,520 Speaker 1: That's part of the reason I got into doing tracks 1332 01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:35,240 Speaker 1: and stuff was to be able to have a little 1333 01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,800 Speaker 1: bit of influence in that world. But like I would say, 1334 01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:43,680 Speaker 1: by and large, like I trust the Nashville producers, and 1335 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,520 Speaker 1: if like we also have the report with now that 1336 01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:49,440 Speaker 1: like I think I could, they might ask like hey, 1337 01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 1: like where they're gonna ask for tracks, they're gonna do 1338 01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:54,040 Speaker 1: something that we're I'll still have some influence. I'm not 1339 01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,760 Speaker 1: typically worried. There have been a few surprises. Are you 1340 01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 1: working on anything solo? Uh? I mean I'm always kind 1341 01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:05,080 Speaker 1: of like dabbling for fun. It's not like the thing 1342 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:09,000 Speaker 1: I prioritize. Really, I've been trying to write solo and 1343 01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:11,720 Speaker 1: think like what would I just do? You know, But 1344 01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:13,560 Speaker 1: in the back of my mind, I'm always like, who 1345 01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:15,440 Speaker 1: could this be for? You know, it's just gotten too 1346 01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,840 Speaker 1: easy righting other people. So now you're you're like leveling up, 1347 01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:20,800 Speaker 1: like go on level four, Donkey Kong. That's where it's 1348 01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:23,840 Speaker 1: jumping right by myself with one year Yeah yeah, yeah, 1349 01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:26,720 Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Well listen, man, i I'm just I'm a 1350 01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,520 Speaker 1: big fan. I guess I'm a big fan of you 1351 01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:31,480 Speaker 1: personally because I just have so many people that are 1352 01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,880 Speaker 1: in both of our I don't have a very big circle. 1353 01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:38,080 Speaker 1: I stay pretty private. But when you have people that 1354 01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:41,280 Speaker 1: you really value and they also value somebody, you then 1355 01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:44,640 Speaker 1: value them through association and just appreciate and just know that. 1356 01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:47,520 Speaker 1: That's like a good dude. And so you've always kind 1357 01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:49,160 Speaker 1: of been that, even though we've not spent any time together. 1358 01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:51,000 Speaker 1: So I was excited that you were coming over today. 1359 01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:54,160 Speaker 1: And can I tell you the first time I gained 1360 01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:57,880 Speaker 1: some serious respect for Bobby Bens By the way, I 1361 01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:59,919 Speaker 1: would love to hear this story. I'm always weird about 1362 01:05:59,920 --> 01:06:00,960 Speaker 1: it because I want to hear it, but I don't 1363 01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:03,160 Speaker 1: want to, but I don't. Can actually the awkward? But no, 1364 01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:06,880 Speaker 1: this is good. Have we ever met? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 1365 01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:09,280 Speaker 1: so this is this is that story. Okay, this is 1366 01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:11,480 Speaker 1: a great story. Okay, read and it can be tell 1367 01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:13,360 Speaker 1: the whole truth. Even make me look good. This makes 1368 01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:15,480 Speaker 1: you look great, honestly, what makes you look really good? 1369 01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:20,360 Speaker 1: So week of I mean, this is this beenen when 1370 01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:22,960 Speaker 1: that self titled album came out and Danna say this 1371 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,160 Speaker 1: is gonna I don't know if I'm allowed to say 1372 01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:28,400 Speaker 1: this is my might break the rules here, see behind 1373 01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:31,400 Speaker 1: the curtain here. But so Dana were doing a week 1374 01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,520 Speaker 1: of album released with Bobby Bones albums coming out on 1375 01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:37,920 Speaker 1: whatever Friday. Every day they're coming in and playing so 1376 01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,040 Speaker 1: Dan and she asked me, will you just come play 1377 01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:43,800 Speaker 1: keys with us? Were really like cus Well, We're like, hey, 1378 01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:46,040 Speaker 1: they're actually gonna film along one day. That's the part 1379 01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:48,480 Speaker 1: that no one's supposed to. It's okay, infod listen to this. 1380 01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:52,320 Speaker 1: I let him know we recorded stuff in debate. Appreciate that. Yeah, 1381 01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:56,160 Speaker 1: you can cut it off. So, um, we show up 1382 01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:58,200 Speaker 1: with four outfits. You know, it's four days. So we 1383 01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:00,480 Speaker 1: do the first one. I'm wearing like all black, and 1384 01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:03,320 Speaker 1: we finished and we're like, all right, let's get ready 1385 01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:05,400 Speaker 1: for the next one. And I was like, all right, 1386 01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:07,200 Speaker 1: what should I wear? And you kind of chimed in. 1387 01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,600 Speaker 1: You're like, man, are you just gonna be You're sitting 1388 01:07:09,600 --> 01:07:11,800 Speaker 1: in the same spot and I was like yeah. He's 1389 01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:13,440 Speaker 1: like You're like, dude, don't worry about it. Just you 1390 01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:14,720 Speaker 1: can keep the same thing on. I was like, are 1391 01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:17,480 Speaker 1: you sure, Like, like, dude, yeah, it doesn't matter. It's 1392 01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:19,600 Speaker 1: all good, you know, just like totally chill. And I 1393 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,000 Speaker 1: was like, all right, cool, So Danna sha change. We 1394 01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:24,760 Speaker 1: get set up. We rolled the second one. We're going 1395 01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:27,160 Speaker 1: it's the next day. You know. It's like, hey, everybody, 1396 01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:29,280 Speaker 1: you know, Bobby Bones here whatever. We got Danna Shay 1397 01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:30,960 Speaker 1: and again, and they're like, yeah, we're gonna play this 1398 01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,160 Speaker 1: song speech less. We actually wrote with our buddy here 1399 01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:35,800 Speaker 1: and you go hold on his saying, this guy back here. 1400 01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:39,440 Speaker 1: He was here yesterday, right, And they're like, yeah, yeah, 1401 01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:42,360 Speaker 1: he's here. He's like he's wearing the same outfit that 1402 01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:45,960 Speaker 1: he wore yesterday. And I was like, I didn't even 1403 01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:48,120 Speaker 1: have a mic. I couldn't respond. And I was like, 1404 01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:54,160 Speaker 1: you dog, I was like instant respect. I was like, man, 1405 01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:57,480 Speaker 1: that that is that's funny. That's the next level comedy. 1406 01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:59,640 Speaker 1: That's funny. I mean, I'm laughing at that. I don't 1407 01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:02,000 Speaker 1: remember out that was funny. Bro. It was like, all right, 1408 01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:04,640 Speaker 1: I think I could hang with this from on enjoyment. 1409 01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:08,120 Speaker 1: That's classic. It was awesome. I've told that a lot 1410 01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:10,960 Speaker 1: of people's funny. I don't think I knew what to expect, 1411 01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:14,040 Speaker 1: Like I just I was just like stoked to be there, 1412 01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:16,560 Speaker 1: and so I think the fact that that happened, I 1413 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:18,559 Speaker 1: was like, Man, he's a good dude. That's a good dude. 1414 01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:21,000 Speaker 1: He's got it, he's got it. Oh that doesn't like 1415 01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:22,600 Speaker 1: me saving a kid from a well or something. That 1416 01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:26,920 Speaker 1: turns out to me, Yeah, that's that is great. Well, 1417 01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:30,720 Speaker 1: you guys follow Jordan Jordan K Reynolds. I'm a big fan. 1418 01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:35,160 Speaker 1: You are remarkably warm to be around. Like from from 1419 01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:38,760 Speaker 1: the minute I walked in and we sat down. I've 1420 01:08:38,840 --> 01:08:41,439 Speaker 1: done this enough times in one form or the other. 1421 01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:45,439 Speaker 1: Either I click with someone, I can click with someone, 1422 01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:49,160 Speaker 1: or I don't and we get through it. But like 1423 01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:53,680 Speaker 1: you're easily You're just a guy that I think you 1424 01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:56,160 Speaker 1: just like you. Thanks, super talented, you don't have to 1425 01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:59,080 Speaker 1: be likable. Um, I've really enjoyed the last hour we've been. 1426 01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:01,559 Speaker 1: We've just over and I've really enjoyed it. So thanks 1427 01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:03,400 Speaker 1: you were that last time you're here, though, So it's 1428 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,360 Speaker 1: kind of weird. I'll probably again wouldn't be funny. I 1429 01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:07,519 Speaker 1: every time I see him now, he's just in the 1430 01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:09,639 Speaker 1: same clothes as the kind of make it a point. 1431 01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:11,280 Speaker 1: I'll keep it with me just in case. Around into you. 1432 01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,360 Speaker 1: What are you doing the rest of the day. Uh, well, 1433 01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:17,320 Speaker 1: we're about to head to Texas. So my sister in 1434 01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:21,360 Speaker 1: law's wedding. Okay, let's say congrats to Caitlin. You know, well, congratulate. 1435 01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:24,400 Speaker 1: By the time you hear this, you'll be married. Caitlin. Congratulations. 1436 01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:27,280 Speaker 1: I can't believe you're getting married. I knew all these years, 1437 01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:30,360 Speaker 1: I said, I said to Jordan, I said, when Caitlin 1438 01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:34,200 Speaker 1: finds him. And when I mean him, I mean Jack Jack. 1439 01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:36,719 Speaker 1: You might have even said, yeah, why I said Jack 1440 01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:40,240 Speaker 1: or Jackie boy, I can't remember j j Um. I 1441 01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:43,240 Speaker 1: knew it was him, Caitlin. And so congratulations. This is 1442 01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: gonna last a long time. And wait till you hear 1443 01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:46,760 Speaker 1: the song Jordan wrote just for you. He was playing 1444 01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:48,960 Speaker 1: it for me on the phone. So at the wedding 1445 01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:52,120 Speaker 1: them play yeah, Jordan, thank you, buddy. You guys follow 1446 01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:55,040 Speaker 1: at better underscore songs, underscore and at Jordan Kay Reynolds 1447 01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:59,240 Speaker 1: and I think anything else, Mike, We're good, all right, 1448 01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:00,880 Speaker 1: We're good. There is is Jordan Reynolds