WEBVTT - The Great Shower Debate 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:03.760 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ren An I 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:13.200 Heart Radio Podcast. Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in scrubbing 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:17.680 In on a Thursday, Thursday, Thursday. It's Thursday, and we're 0:00:17.720 --> 0:00:22.960 recording today's episode because today is actually President's Day. When 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:26.720 you're listening to this, correct, and we're off, baby off, 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:31.560 sleeping in? Probably not? What does President's Day? Why do 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:35.880 we get that off? Celebrate our presidents? Yeah, Washington's birthday 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:38.440 and Lincoln's birthday were both in February, near each other, 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:41.880 and so those were individual kind of half holidays for 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:44.280 a long time, and then they were combined to become 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:46.360 President's Day and making it a real holiday that everybody 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:48.680 gets off. Great. I mean, I'm grateful, I know, I'm like, 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:51.080 why don't we have more holidays? I'm all for it, 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:53.920 But why don't we st more president's birthdays or like 0:00:53.960 --> 0:01:01.080 other super important people? Yeah, like Oprah, Harry South agree, Yeah, 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:07.840 there's left yeah yeah, yeah. And it's you know, objective 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:13.160 or subjective. Who's important to subjective? Yeah? Anyways, we're off, 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:15.400 and hopefully you are too, and if you're not, hopefully 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:19.760 we can entertain you today. Um, how is Valentine's Day. 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:22.560 Valentine's Day was good. It was chill. It was weird 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:25.640 because it was on a Tuesday, and Tuesday's or my 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:30.120 long work days, and so yeah, I wasn't like feeling vibes, 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:34.800 but you did the vibe. I did the vibe, and um, 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:36.760 we went to the grocery store and we did like 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:38.920 we went to Greece, so we got like a full 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.840 fish and we did like a big chunky Greek salad 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.720 that we made at home. And then I put on 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:46.760 my lingerie. But like normally, when I put on my lingerie, 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:48.120 I like want to have makeup on and do my 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:50.360 hair and like be cute. And I like literally looked 0:01:50.360 --> 0:01:54.200 like trash. He said, all you get linger, Yeah, you 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:57.160 get this. I'm gonna eat my dinner in this lingerie 0:01:57.360 --> 0:02:00.920 and and and I'm gonna look like ash outside of it. 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:03.680 But I was. I was confident in it, you know. Yeah, 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:08.600 Well that's the main part of wearing lingerie is a confidence. Correct. 0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:11.400 But I do enjoy the ceremony of it all, like 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.120 getting all up and you know, but I was like, 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:17.320 it didn't happen in me ceremonious, ceremonious. How was your 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:20.320 Valentine's Day. It was a great same thing. Haley worked 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:22.720 all day, she had a really busy day, so we 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.640 went to we went got massages at the spa, so 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:28.280 we had like a good chunk of like three hours 0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:31.440 where it was like nice yea and felt like Valentine's Day, 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:34.160 but otherwise it was kind of a weird, you know, 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:38.120 just Tuesday. Yeah, we went out of town for the 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:40.440 weekend basically because she knew it was gonna be busy, 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:43.280 So that was kind of like our celebration of Valentine's Day. Yeah, 0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:45.320 a lot of people, I think, push Valentine's Day off 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:47.080 for like the weekend after, so a lot of people 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:50.960 are celebrating this weekend. But this weekend is Robbie's birthday, 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:53.560 so we can't push Valentine's Day because his birthday's right after. 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:55.760 So it's like we got to do it on the fourteenth. 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:58.200 I woke up this morning. I'm so glad you said that, 0:02:58.240 --> 0:03:00.200 because I woke up this morning and I pan next 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:02.560 that had missed Robbie's birthday. So I go and look 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:05.120 at your Instagram to see if I had maybe missed 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:07.239 your post for it, because I thought it was like 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:11.919 I actually thought it was like before Valentine's Day, just after, 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:14.600 just after, because I remember the trigger of it. It 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:17.920 was Valentine's the birthday. Yeah, they're back to back. The 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:21.200 back to backness of them all really throws one. But 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:26.440 it actually is today. Happy birthday, birthday, birthday, babe, Yeah, 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:31.680 February twenty, this is birthday. Sorry. I'm coughing the storm 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:37.600 over here. Not in a sick way, you know, when 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:41.160 you don't sleep. But like I helped Hayley was a 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:43.360 work thing last night, and it was till like one 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.880 in the morning, and then I just couldn't sleep because 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:50.600 I got home. I hadn't eaten since lunch, but I 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:52.600 was like too tired to even want to eat. So 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:53.880 I was like, I'm just gonna go to bed, but 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:56.920 then I think the hunger kept me away. I don't know. 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:59.680 So your cough is from your lap when I don't 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:02.840 feel sickness to me. When I don't sleep, my body 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:06.440 is just like fragile. I get it. I'm with you, 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:10.760 but you don't sleep. Ever. I've been sleeping so horrible 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:13.200 the last two nights. I don't know what it is. 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:17.000 I'm normally like I am a honk like you I 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:19.840 normally sleep and you cannot wake me up if you 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:23.560 rattle the house honk, like a one of those things 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:26.400 that just like lay, They just like lay like a log. Log. 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:30.080 I'm like a log. I just lay there and I'm asleep. 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:32.960 Lately the last two nights, every time Robbie gets up 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:35.119 to go to the bathroom, I wake up. I'm waking 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:38.040 up every couple hours, and it's bizarre. I don't know 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:42.120 if I'm sleeping lighter or what's going on. I too 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:44.880 am having issues, but I've been having issues for a 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:47.159 long time. And I also am having really bad lower 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:48.800 back pain. And I think I have to get one 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:52.000 of those like pillows that go into your knees to sleep. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.039 Oh my god, are we at that age? Just the 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.000 age we're at right now. I was gonna see if 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:58.280 we can maybe get Sleep Number as a sponsor again. 0:04:58.240 --> 0:04:59.799 And so you think it's in one of those beds 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:03.240 that like you can adjust each side, you know, I 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:06.719 eat one of those two actually, But that is the best. 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:09.760 This is tomorrow's morning Hack on the Secret Joseph spoiler alert. 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:12.120 But the best way to sleep, for the best sleep 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:14.280 is to is on your side with a pillow between 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:17.360 your legs and your ankle. No, but you're not supposed 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:20.480 to sleep on your side because it's bad for your skin. Well, 0:05:20.520 --> 0:05:23.160 you're looking at two different things. Yeah, my chest is 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:27.280 like a roly poly What does that mean? Like it's 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:29.880 like shriveled because I sleep my chest a lot, so 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:32.760 my skin just goes when I wake up. I have 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.440 like lines, Do you sleep on your side? Yeah, that 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:38.280 would be great when you're pregnant. Can't wait for that, 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:41.600 because that's really all you can prepared, you know, Yeah, 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:43.719 you're ready. You've been training all your life, at training 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:45.560 all my life. So yeah, I think I'm gonna attempt 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:47.640 to get like a little wedge pillow to go under 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:50.680 my knees. Yeah, I'm at that age apparently that this 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:52.919 is a problem. Like, we did the same thing on 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.640 Valentine's Day. We worked out so hard on Sunday. We 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:58.320 were so sore on Valentine's both of us we could 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:01.200 barely walk. We looked like so we were there gunning 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:04.760 each other the whole night, which is hell. Hell, the 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:09.440 the gun hurts even without being sore. Yeah, I know, 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.360 I was giggling though, because like I could, I just 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:15.080 know that feeling it hurts and feels so good at 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:18.600 the same time. What do you How do you sleep? Becca? Well, see, 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:21.799 I I attempt to sleep on my back because because 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:24.839 of my lower back, I feel like I'm I don't sleep. 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:27.520 I've been tossing and turning. But you refuse to sleep 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:30.440 on your side because you're worried about your skin. No, no, no, 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:33.400 I try to not sleep on my side. I'd like 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.279 to not sleep on my side too. I also sleep 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:36.880 on my stomach, which is the side of my face, 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:39.279 so it's still a problem. I do that too, also 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:42.120 hurts my back because then it's well, that's why the 0:06:42.120 --> 0:06:44.200 side sleeping with the pillows between your legs, it was 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:46.240 the least amount of strain in your spine. Interesting. Well, 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:47.760 I'll have to see if I can find a pillow 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:50.880 that helps with the anti aging aspect of the side sleep. 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:53.320 Had one of those knee pillows before? Did you sleep 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:57.560 well during that? Lose it? You lose it. There's no 0:06:57.600 --> 0:06:59.960 way you can sleep nicely with that little thing. Betwe 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.400 in your disagree. I love that thing. I live for 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:05.159 that thing. By the way, that's your knees all night. 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:07.840 I don't, but then if it doesn't, I just put 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.560 it back. I just find it put it back at 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:11.760 comfy again. I have a thing where I can't have 0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:16.320 any skin touching skin while I'm sleeping. I don't want 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:18.360 any part of me touching any other part of me. 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:22.440 Which is funny because years later, years later, when I 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:24.720 as adults, I find out my sister is the exact 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:26.840 same thing. She has a device she puts between her 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:29.440 boobs for the same reason. She doesn't want her skin 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:35.800 touching skin. So this is a Molnitsky family trauma. My 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:37.880 knees touch, I can't have my ankles touch kind of 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:42.160 any touch a therapist, long sleeve shirt, very very thin 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:45.600 sweatpants like pajama bottoms. But even that would be too 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:47.559 much for the bone, the knee bones to be touching 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:49.080 each other. That would be awful. Sauce where the pillow 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:53.920 comes in. The more I learned about you, the more 0:07:54.000 --> 0:08:00.800 interesting I find you. Truly you seem you know just 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:04.200 like well well, But then the more I feel back, 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.840 and it's the thin pants is too much for the 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:14.800 skin on skin too much. You realize we are all weird, 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:20.400 like every person has their weird thing. We did this 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:22.360 at as a radio topic was it was why are 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:25.360 you weird Wednesday and people called with the greatest stuff 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:29.160 because everybody has those things. Yeah, everybody. Yeah. I did 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.400 like one of those question boxes on Instagram one time 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:37.160 and it was like, what's something uh like unpopular that 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:40.160 you do? And I put as the example like sleeping 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:43.880 with socks on, you know, something kind of basic. You 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:48.440 would be shocked at some of the disgusting, bizarre things 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:50.360 people do, Like I need to see if I can 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:52.800 pull it up one day because I was horrified reading. 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:55.160 I was like, I was just looking for like some 0:08:55.320 --> 0:09:01.160 levity giggles, giggles simplicity, being like, oh, that's interesting, maybe 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:04.520 I could try that. It was horrifying. I'm still you know. 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:05.839 The other day, I was thinking about the fact that 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:07.520 you don't wash your feet. I've been thinking about that 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:10.640 since a few podcasts ago. Yeah, I just it threw 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:13.000 me a little bit. It's like, I knew you, and 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:15.760 I'm getting in the shower often so I'm not dirty, 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:21.600 not giving them a scrub hot water. What more do 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:24.240 you need hot water? You're standing in soapy water to 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:27.160 the soap is getting to what about the in between 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:30.520 the toes? I get my nails done once at every 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:39.040 rose and that I'm sorry that you're telling me every 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:40.880 time you get the shower, you put your fingers in 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:45.000 between your toes. I'm doing a deep cleanse. What a 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:48.319 waste of time, you know? I like just to be efficient, 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:51.360 different strokes, different folks. I took a two minute shower 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:53.480 this morning. I bet it could have been two minutes 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:55.520 and fifteen seconds if you had taken the time to 0:09:55.520 --> 0:10:00.280 wash your feet. Two minutes shower, I timed myself. That's invigorating. Mhm. 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:02.840 Just amount of time to get my armpits, my crotch, 0:10:02.920 --> 0:10:05.560 my butt, and I'm out. That took you a whole 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:12.920 two minutes my face. Okay, yeah. Um so I'm posting 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:14.640 on the Facebook group right now since we're, you know, 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:16.680 doing the show what makes You Weird to see what 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:19.000 we get in response. That's great, that'll be by the 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:23.120 end of the show hopefully. Um Oh, I was gonna 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:27.040 ask what lingerie did you wear for Balent because I've 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:30.600 seen two very different types of lingerie that you. Yeah, 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:34.080 this one was more classy. It was like a body suit, 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:39.000 so covered like boobs body and then but it was crotchless, 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:44.280 like open crotch. Okay, yeah, so covered majority of the 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:49.680 body and left little for the imagination. So you dinner 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:52.120 like that? Yes I didn't. I put a little like 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:58.760 I put a little lace robe over it though, okay, yeah, 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:02.400 and I put some eye heels on. It was really 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:06.720 ex sight because you know, like imagine being like your 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:10.800 your truest self, and your hair is greasy, it's up 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:13.400 in a bun with a claw. You have no makeup 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:17.280 on you, more natural deodorant all day you're not Yeah, 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:22.760 and then you go put on your lingerie before how 0:11:22.800 --> 0:11:24.320 to go straight and went to the grocery store, had 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:27.880 came home and started cooking. There was no time for 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:32.600 a two minute shower. Nope. Oh yeah, just imagine that. 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:36.640 I don't like that. Really probably is a lucky guy. Yeah, 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:44.200 it's like the romance has not fizzle, just changed gotten more. No, no, 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:47.880 because there are there are still things. But I feel 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:52.360 like in particular Tuesdays just like not the night for me. Yeah. Yeah, 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:56.760 just couldn't muster the full thing. Couldn't do it, could 0:11:56.800 --> 0:12:01.360 do correct. Proud of myself. I'm proud of you too, 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:05.040 because like I can't. I don't know that I would 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:09.720 do that. Yeah, it's been like a lot, just a 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:14.760 lot in life. So you pick your battles. Pick your battles, 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:18.640 all right, tell her about your plan for Monday for Robbie. 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:20.480 Wait wait, wait, wait wait, let's take a break and 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.120 then we'll call that. Why should I want you to 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:45.160 participate in that? Cute? Okay, we're back. So you have 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:48.640 plans for Robbie, I guess today. Yeah, but he won't 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:51.960 hear this. Well, yeah, he won't hear this. Um, So 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:55.400 for his actual birthday, I got it. I'm giving him 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:58.160 twenty four cards, So one card for every hour of 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:01.640 the day. Okay. I got a little hour glass, so 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:03.920 I'm gonna change, Like I'll flip the hour glass and 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:05.559 when it's a new hour, I'll give him a new card. 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:07.959 But it's gonna be not all from me. It'll be 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:10.600 from different people in his life. So I'm collecting. I'm 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.360 in the process of collecting them from like cousins and 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:16.760 nephews and you know people like that. So, like you 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:20.360 maybe to have some empty birthday cards in my car? Oh? 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:23.040 Is it just is it like a certain look or 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:25.120 could I get my own card? You could do whatever 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:28.559 you want. I'll get my own card, Okay, yeah, yeah, 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:31.720 I like going to card like shop it's fun to read, 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:33.280 so like he'll get a new card, he won't know 0:13:33.320 --> 0:13:38.920 who it's wrong. Like my Haley did that for I 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:41.960 think it was when we were about to announce our 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:45.000 relationship and all of U. Yeah, we sent cards. Oh 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:48.240 my god, that was emotional. It was really sweet. There's 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:50.680 something really special about receiving. Like you know, when you 0:13:51.080 --> 0:13:53.840 you expect a card for like birthdays and stuff. I mean, 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:56.760 you expect like one card. But I just wasn't expecting it, 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:58.400 and so she gave me the pile and I was 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:01.319 just like so overwhelmed. Well I was overwhelmed in general, 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:03.840 but it was really sweet. So I'm hoping for that 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:07.319 same sentiment. Do you think your note love note every 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:14.120 morning is gonna uh lessen the like weight of the car? 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:18.839 Hard to say, hard to say? Did you leave one 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:22.160 this morning? Yes? What did I say? I don't know. 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:23.920 You know, I have a great day, can't wait to 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.720 see you. Love you. Let's get the day, get things done. 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:31.400 Oh wow, they're very get Yeah, yeah, they're go get her. 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:36.400 Sometimes I draw like a naughty little stick figure depending 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:41.360 on the day. What does that mean? Naughty stick figures? 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:45.760 So like two of them like doing things to each other. Yea, yeah, 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:49.640 and everything's a stick. Yeah. I don't know how to 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:55.760 draw otherwise, not an artiste, not only an author. Yes, correct, 0:14:57.600 --> 0:15:00.400 I had what are you doing this weekend? I might 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:03.080 go down to Newport to see my sister because I 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:06.760 haven't seen her since before Christmas. But other than that, 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:08.720 I don't think I have any plans. What are you doing? 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:12.560 That's nice, very nice? I really have plans on the weekend. 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:17.560 I'm pretty relaxed, pretty relaxed on those days. I actually 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:23.280 decided I'm not making social plans for one month after 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:28.360 Robbie's birthday. I'm done. That is actually not gonna happen. 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:31.600 You don't think so. I would say a week maybe, 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:36.400 but that even feels ambitious. Yeah, a month feels ambitious. 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:39.800 But I decided that we have so much going on, 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:42.840 and we've been trying to do way too many things, 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:47.280 and we're not like being proactive in certain areas, And 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:51.600 so I said, the social calendar is on hiatus? What act? 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:55.080 What areas do you want to be act proactive? And 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:59.680 you're not proactive in every area? What? Though? That doesn't 0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:02.840 make I don't know. I'm getting my apartment, really getting 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:07.240 moving through things, getting stuff donated to habitat to humanity 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:11.640 like that type of stuff. So basically getting your apartment 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:14.800 sorted correct big to do. It is a big to do, 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:17.120 but you can maybe do like a one social thing 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:25.720 a week. Yeah, you do like to go extremes. Speaking 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:28.880 of I decided I was getting ready for an event 0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:34.960 last night and I was like, so just unwell about 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:39.840 how pale I am right now. And I was thinking 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:42.000 about it, and I was like, I'm just gonna reach 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:43.680 out to Jenny and get a spray Damn you got 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.840 spray tan today? No, you look dam right now? Well 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:51.560 just my face because I just yeah, but neck below 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:56.160 color really yeah, but we don't have to talk about 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:58.440 that part. And I was like I'm going to get 0:16:58.440 --> 0:16:59.440 a spray tan and that I was like, I have 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:01.280 so much self tanner, like I'm just gonna do my own, 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:04.440 you know, later today. And it's not you know when 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:08.680 people are like that's offensive towards towards like people who 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:11.640 have like like pale skin. I don't think of other 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:14.040 people like that, like you have lighter skin. But I 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:17.639 never am like, oh my gosh, I don't take offense 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:20.000 to it, but like people will be like it's so 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:22.520 offensive that people always want to be tanned, But it's 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:25.760 just a personal preference for me because I get like 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:29.760 a gray hue of pale and it's like just like 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:32.720 not healthy looking, you know, like you can see through 0:17:32.720 --> 0:17:35.320 my legs at certain times of the year, Like literally 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:39.600 my skin is translucently ghostly? Is that even a word? 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:47.720 You are? What's your back girl? Serbian? Yeah? Like I know, 0:17:48.760 --> 0:17:51.680 like your your light eyes and you have I mean, 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:56.040 you're not naturally blonde. Serbians are like normally dark skin, 0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:59.480 dark hair, dark skin. Yeah, except for my mom my mom. 0:17:59.520 --> 0:18:02.720 I got my mom's pale skin. Well, what I'm saying 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:04.800 is like you you don't look I feel like I 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:06.960 look unhealthy when i'm when I don't have like a 0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:12.880 But that's how I feel. And to each their own, 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:15.080 that's what I'm saying. So often I feel like you 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:17.160 have an opinion about yourself or like something you want 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:19.560 to change about yourself, and everyone someone else takes offense 0:18:19.600 --> 0:18:22.040 to it because they're like, well I have that, and 0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:24.520 you're like, that's not about you, that's about me. Yeah, 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:28.280 I'm not offended. You you do your spray tans. I 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:30.439 know you like spray tan, so I didn't think you 0:18:30.520 --> 0:18:32.560 were going to be. I'm off the spray tans for 0:18:32.600 --> 0:18:34.920 a minute though, because of all the toxins. Oh hell 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:41.159 an alley. Ali sends me a list other day of 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:45.480 all these pants that have some like work, and I'm like, 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:48.720 do you ever just get exhausted by the amount of research? 0:18:48.920 --> 0:18:51.600 Can we go down that path? You can take that 0:18:51.680 --> 0:18:57.359 path for a long journey, for a journey, you gotta 0:18:57.400 --> 0:18:59.520 cut it off at some point. But like the spray tan, 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:01.680 I feel like it's like, so, what I didn't realize 0:19:01.680 --> 0:19:04.080 is your skin is like just absorbs everything. It's like 0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:07.080 your biggest or when I'm Morgan. So I'm like, if 0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:09.240 I can just keep the toxic chemicals to my face, 0:19:09.960 --> 0:19:12.199 you know, like makeup and stuff, Yeah, that's kind of 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:14.159 what I'm going for, just on the face, just on 0:19:14.200 --> 0:19:17.639 the face where all yours ares. But you know what 0:19:17.720 --> 0:19:19.640 I realized this week, I don't know how to put 0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:21.920 bronze around my face properly. I'm always doing it in 0:19:21.960 --> 0:19:26.000 the wrong places. Well, and you know, I realized ax 0:19:26.080 --> 0:19:28.480 as I'm watching like Alex Earle, like all these people 0:19:28.480 --> 0:19:30.560 put their makeup on, I'm like, where they're putting the 0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:32.920 bronze are there. I thought I was supposed to go 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:35.440 like on your jawline. Had to meet alex Role on 0:19:35.480 --> 0:19:39.919 Instagram because I got she made me feel insecure and 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:41.399 I feel like it was just a healthy decision. But 0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:44.040 I didn't feel like I wanted to follow her. I 0:19:44.080 --> 0:19:47.159 was like, she's so hot, she's like so young. She 0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:49.320 was just like part I don't know how the energy. 0:19:49.320 --> 0:19:52.720 I'm jealous of her energy, like yeah, you know, never 0:19:53.000 --> 0:19:55.360 had that when I was that age, So I'm like, 0:19:56.200 --> 0:19:59.040 it's not something that I ever had before. Yeah, we're 0:19:59.040 --> 0:20:04.440 over here there and thing and then sleep number temperpedic 0:20:04.520 --> 0:20:11.240 beds and alex Earl is just thriving, going from like yeah, 0:20:11.400 --> 0:20:13.320 so I had to meet her for a second until 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:16.280 I get my spright tan. You know what's interesting though, 0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:18.400 is I don't watch her and feel sad or envious. 0:20:18.960 --> 0:20:22.240 I don't feel sad. I just felt envious. Yeah I 0:20:22.240 --> 0:20:24.119 don't have that, but not envious in a way that 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:30.040 I'm like, it's not enviously, I like a negative way. 0:20:29.720 --> 0:20:32.960 I'm mad at her. I just I don't need that 0:20:33.000 --> 0:20:35.679 in my life right now. Interesting to get back on 0:20:36.040 --> 0:20:39.080 I need to get my mojo back fully before I 0:20:39.119 --> 0:20:43.080 can a mute. Savannah Gothrie said that she's getting do 0:20:43.119 --> 0:20:46.879 you know who's that is? Oh? Yeah, she said she's 0:20:46.920 --> 0:20:49.120 giving up social media for lent, And I was like, 0:20:50.800 --> 0:20:55.240 it's an interesting, little, uh social experiment. I bet you'd 0:20:55.240 --> 0:20:57.600 feel amazing, you think so, Yeah, I don't think I 0:20:57.600 --> 0:20:59.359 could do it for forty days. Forty days is a 0:20:59.400 --> 0:21:02.480 long time. Yeah, I'm trying to think that. Do you 0:21:02.480 --> 0:21:04.080 give anything up for lent? Are you going to give 0:21:04.119 --> 0:21:09.400 anything up for lent? No is lynd Catholicism. Yeah, I've 0:21:09.400 --> 0:21:15.560 never done that, Um, but I could. I should. What 0:21:15.600 --> 0:21:16.960 would you do if you were to give something up 0:21:17.000 --> 0:21:20.000 for lent? I'd probably give up like soda or something 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:22.600 that's like well, because the whole point is that you 0:21:22.680 --> 0:21:27.040 do something that's like actively like the love. Yeah, so 0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:30.439 I would do like soda, Like I don't know if 0:21:30.480 --> 0:21:33.439 I could do sugar. That might kill me. You do 0:21:33.520 --> 0:21:38.840 processed sugar, oviously, fruit and stuff. Well, I've been thinking 0:21:38.880 --> 0:21:40.840 about it. I've been thinking about it. But what I 0:21:40.880 --> 0:21:44.080 was going to say is, so this was a different 0:21:44.119 --> 0:21:48.240 time in my life because social media wasn't such a 0:21:48.240 --> 0:21:50.200 big part of my life when I went on the Bachelor, 0:21:50.280 --> 0:21:53.240 But when they took my phone. I did not miss 0:21:53.280 --> 0:21:57.000 it at all. It was almost sad when I got 0:21:57.040 --> 0:22:00.480 it back. Really, weren't we supposed to watch your season? Yeah? 0:22:00.520 --> 0:22:03.480 We were? Did we did people email in about that? Anybody? 0:22:03.520 --> 0:22:06.119 I don't think anyone joined us for that's a bummer, 0:22:06.160 --> 0:22:09.080 probably because I didn't even do it. I started it 0:22:09.280 --> 0:22:15.040 and then I mean, Haley is literally impossibly busy right now, 0:22:15.119 --> 0:22:17.760 so trying to be like, hey, let's sit down and 0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:20.560 record us watching my old season to the Bachelor just 0:22:20.600 --> 0:22:23.000 feels like it might not happen. I would do it 0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:29.040 with you. You would, Yeah, I'm so down for that. Okay, great, Actually, 0:22:29.160 --> 0:22:31.560 so we do that when haleys for tour, so that 0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:35.200 that's like part of my mechanism. Yeah sure, happy to 0:22:35.240 --> 0:22:39.240