Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ren An I
Speaker 1: Heart Radio Podcast. Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in scrubbing
Speaker 1: In on a Thursday, Thursday, Thursday. It's Thursday, and we're
Speaker 1: recording today's episode because today is actually President's Day. When
Speaker 1: you're listening to this, correct, and we're off, baby off,
Speaker 1: sleeping in? Probably not? What does President's Day? Why do
Speaker 1: we get that off? Celebrate our presidents? Yeah, Washington's birthday
Speaker 1: and Lincoln's birthday were both in February, near each other,
Speaker 1: and so those were individual kind of half holidays for
Speaker 1: a long time, and then they were combined to become
Speaker 1: President's Day and making it a real holiday that everybody
Speaker 1: gets off. Great. I mean, I'm grateful, I know, I'm like,
Speaker 1: why don't we have more holidays? I'm all for it,
Speaker 1: But why don't we st more president's birthdays or like
Speaker 1: other super important people? Yeah, like Oprah, Harry South agree, Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's left yeah yeah, yeah. And it's you know, objective
Speaker 1: or subjective. Who's important to subjective? Yeah? Anyways, we're off,
Speaker 1: and hopefully you are too, and if you're not, hopefully
Speaker 1: we can entertain you today. Um, how is Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day was good. It was chill. It was weird
Speaker 1: because it was on a Tuesday, and Tuesday's or my
Speaker 1: long work days, and so yeah, I wasn't like feeling vibes,
Speaker 1: but you did the vibe. I did the vibe, and um,
Speaker 1: we went to the grocery store and we did like
Speaker 1: we went to Greece, so we got like a full
Speaker 1: fish and we did like a big chunky Greek salad
Speaker 1: that we made at home. And then I put on
Speaker 1: my lingerie. But like normally, when I put on my lingerie,
Speaker 1: I like want to have makeup on and do my
Speaker 1: hair and like be cute. And I like literally looked
Speaker 1: like trash. He said, all you get linger, Yeah, you
Speaker 1: get this. I'm gonna eat my dinner in this lingerie
Speaker 1: and and and I'm gonna look like ash outside of it.
Speaker 1: But I was. I was confident in it, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Well that's the main part of wearing lingerie is a confidence. Correct.
Speaker 1: But I do enjoy the ceremony of it all, like
Speaker 1: getting all up and you know, but I was like,
Speaker 1: it didn't happen in me ceremonious, ceremonious. How was your
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. It was a great same thing. Haley worked
Speaker 1: all day, she had a really busy day, so we
Speaker 1: went to we went got massages at the spa, so
Speaker 1: we had like a good chunk of like three hours
Speaker 1: where it was like nice yea and felt like Valentine's Day,
Speaker 1: but otherwise it was kind of a weird, you know,
Speaker 1: just Tuesday. Yeah, we went out of town for the
Speaker 1: weekend basically because she knew it was gonna be busy,
Speaker 1: So that was kind of like our celebration of Valentine's Day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of people, I think, push Valentine's Day off
Speaker 1: for like the weekend after, so a lot of people
Speaker 1: are celebrating this weekend. But this weekend is Robbie's birthday,
Speaker 1: so we can't push Valentine's Day because his birthday's right after.
Speaker 1: So it's like we got to do it on the fourteenth.
Speaker 1: I woke up this morning. I'm so glad you said that,
Speaker 1: because I woke up this morning and I pan next
Speaker 1: that had missed Robbie's birthday. So I go and look
Speaker 1: at your Instagram to see if I had maybe missed
Speaker 1: your post for it, because I thought it was like
Speaker 1: I actually thought it was like before Valentine's Day, just after,
Speaker 1: just after, because I remember the trigger of it. It
Speaker 1: was Valentine's the birthday. Yeah, they're back to back. The
Speaker 1: back to backness of them all really throws one. But
Speaker 1: it actually is today. Happy birthday, birthday, birthday, babe, Yeah,
Speaker 1: February twenty, this is birthday. Sorry. I'm coughing the storm
Speaker 1: over here. Not in a sick way, you know, when
Speaker 1: you don't sleep. But like I helped Hayley was a
Speaker 1: work thing last night, and it was till like one
Speaker 1: in the morning, and then I just couldn't sleep because
Speaker 1: I got home. I hadn't eaten since lunch, but I
Speaker 1: was like too tired to even want to eat. So
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm just gonna go to bed, but
Speaker 1: then I think the hunger kept me away. I don't know.
Speaker 1: So your cough is from your lap when I don't
Speaker 1: feel sickness to me. When I don't sleep, my body
Speaker 1: is just like fragile. I get it. I'm with you,
Speaker 1: but you don't sleep. Ever. I've been sleeping so horrible
Speaker 1: the last two nights. I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: I'm normally like I am a honk like you I
Speaker 1: normally sleep and you cannot wake me up if you
Speaker 1: rattle the house honk, like a one of those things
Speaker 1: that just like lay, They just like lay like a log. Log.
Speaker 1: I'm like a log. I just lay there and I'm asleep.
Speaker 1: Lately the last two nights, every time Robbie gets up
Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom, I wake up. I'm waking
Speaker 1: up every couple hours, and it's bizarre. I don't know
Speaker 1: if I'm sleeping lighter or what's going on. I too
Speaker 1: am having issues, but I've been having issues for a
Speaker 1: long time. And I also am having really bad lower
Speaker 1: back pain. And I think I have to get one
Speaker 1: of those like pillows that go into your knees to sleep.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are we at that age? Just the
Speaker 1: age we're at right now. I was gonna see if
Speaker 1: we can maybe get Sleep Number as a sponsor again.
Speaker 1: And so you think it's in one of those beds
Speaker 1: that like you can adjust each side, you know, I
Speaker 1: eat one of those two actually, But that is the best.
Speaker 1: This is tomorrow's morning Hack on the Secret Joseph spoiler alert.
Speaker 1: But the best way to sleep, for the best sleep
Speaker 1: is to is on your side with a pillow between
Speaker 1: your legs and your ankle. No, but you're not supposed
Speaker 1: to sleep on your side because it's bad for your skin. Well,
Speaker 1: you're looking at two different things. Yeah, my chest is
Speaker 1: like a roly poly What does that mean? Like it's
Speaker 1: like shriveled because I sleep my chest a lot, so
Speaker 1: my skin just goes when I wake up. I have
Speaker 1: like lines, Do you sleep on your side? Yeah, that
Speaker 1: would be great when you're pregnant. Can't wait for that,
Speaker 1: because that's really all you can prepared, you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're ready. You've been training all your life, at training
Speaker 1: all my life. So yeah, I think I'm gonna attempt
Speaker 1: to get like a little wedge pillow to go under
Speaker 1: my knees. Yeah, I'm at that age apparently that this
Speaker 1: is a problem. Like, we did the same thing on
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. We worked out so hard on Sunday. We
Speaker 1: were so sore on Valentine's both of us we could
Speaker 1: barely walk. We looked like so we were there gunning
Speaker 1: each other the whole night, which is hell. Hell, the
Speaker 1: the gun hurts even without being sore. Yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: I was giggling though, because like I could, I just
Speaker 1: know that feeling it hurts and feels so good at
Speaker 1: the same time. What do you How do you sleep? Becca? Well, see,
Speaker 1: I I attempt to sleep on my back because because
Speaker 1: of my lower back, I feel like I'm I don't sleep.
Speaker 1: I've been tossing and turning. But you refuse to sleep
Speaker 1: on your side because you're worried about your skin. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I try to not sleep on my side. I'd like
Speaker 1: to not sleep on my side too. I also sleep
Speaker 1: on my stomach, which is the side of my face,
Speaker 1: so it's still a problem. I do that too, also
Speaker 1: hurts my back because then it's well, that's why the
Speaker 1: side sleeping with the pillows between your legs, it was
Speaker 1: the least amount of strain in your spine. Interesting. Well,
Speaker 1: I'll have to see if I can find a pillow
Speaker 1: that helps with the anti aging aspect of the side sleep.
Speaker 1: Had one of those knee pillows before? Did you sleep
Speaker 1: well during that? Lose it? You lose it. There's no
Speaker 1: way you can sleep nicely with that little thing. Betwe
Speaker 1: in your disagree. I love that thing. I live for
Speaker 1: that thing. By the way, that's your knees all night.
Speaker 1: I don't, but then if it doesn't, I just put
Speaker 1: it back. I just find it put it back at
Speaker 1: comfy again. I have a thing where I can't have
Speaker 1: any skin touching skin while I'm sleeping. I don't want
Speaker 1: any part of me touching any other part of me.
Speaker 1: Which is funny because years later, years later, when I
Speaker 1: as adults, I find out my sister is the exact
Speaker 1: same thing. She has a device she puts between her
Speaker 1: boobs for the same reason. She doesn't want her skin
Speaker 1: touching skin. So this is a Molnitsky family trauma. My
Speaker 1: knees touch, I can't have my ankles touch kind of
Speaker 1: any touch a therapist, long sleeve shirt, very very thin
Speaker 1: sweatpants like pajama bottoms. But even that would be too
Speaker 1: much for the bone, the knee bones to be touching
Speaker 1: each other. That would be awful. Sauce where the pillow
Speaker 1: comes in. The more I learned about you, the more
Speaker 1: interesting I find you. Truly you seem you know just
Speaker 1: like well well, But then the more I feel back,
Speaker 1: and it's the thin pants is too much for the
Speaker 1: skin on skin too much. You realize we are all weird,
Speaker 1: like every person has their weird thing. We did this
Speaker 1: at as a radio topic was it was why are
Speaker 1: you weird Wednesday and people called with the greatest stuff
Speaker 1: because everybody has those things. Yeah, everybody. Yeah. I did
Speaker 1: like one of those question boxes on Instagram one time
Speaker 1: and it was like, what's something uh like unpopular that
Speaker 1: you do? And I put as the example like sleeping
Speaker 1: with socks on, you know, something kind of basic. You
Speaker 1: would be shocked at some of the disgusting, bizarre things
Speaker 1: people do, Like I need to see if I can
Speaker 1: pull it up one day because I was horrified reading.
Speaker 1: I was like, I was just looking for like some
Speaker 1: levity giggles, giggles simplicity, being like, oh, that's interesting, maybe
Speaker 1: I could try that. It was horrifying. I'm still you know.
Speaker 1: The other day, I was thinking about the fact that
Speaker 1: you don't wash your feet. I've been thinking about that
Speaker 1: since a few podcasts ago. Yeah, I just it threw
Speaker 1: me a little bit. It's like, I knew you, and
Speaker 1: I'm getting in the shower often so I'm not dirty,
Speaker 1: not giving them a scrub hot water. What more do
Speaker 1: you need hot water? You're standing in soapy water to
Speaker 1: the soap is getting to what about the in between
Speaker 1: the toes? I get my nails done once at every
Speaker 1: rose and that I'm sorry that you're telling me every
Speaker 1: time you get the shower, you put your fingers in
Speaker 1: between your toes. I'm doing a deep cleanse. What a
Speaker 1: waste of time, you know? I like just to be efficient,
Speaker 1: different strokes, different folks. I took a two minute shower
Speaker 1: this morning. I bet it could have been two minutes
Speaker 1: and fifteen seconds if you had taken the time to
Speaker 1: wash your feet. Two minutes shower, I timed myself. That's invigorating. Mhm.
Speaker 1: Just amount of time to get my armpits, my crotch,
Speaker 1: my butt, and I'm out. That took you a whole
Speaker 1: two minutes my face. Okay, yeah. Um so I'm posting
Speaker 1: on the Facebook group right now since we're, you know,
Speaker 1: doing the show what makes You Weird to see what
Speaker 1: we get in response. That's great, that'll be by the
Speaker 1: end of the show hopefully. Um Oh, I was gonna
Speaker 1: ask what lingerie did you wear for Balent because I've
Speaker 1: seen two very different types of lingerie that you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this one was more classy. It was like a body suit,
Speaker 1: so covered like boobs body and then but it was crotchless,
Speaker 1: like open crotch. Okay, yeah, so covered majority of the
Speaker 1: body and left little for the imagination. So you dinner
Speaker 1: like that? Yes I didn't. I put a little like
Speaker 1: I put a little lace robe over it though, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I put some eye heels on. It was really
Speaker 1: ex sight because you know, like imagine being like your
Speaker 1: your truest self, and your hair is greasy, it's up
Speaker 1: in a bun with a claw. You have no makeup
Speaker 1: on you, more natural deodorant all day you're not Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you go put on your lingerie before how
Speaker 1: to go straight and went to the grocery store, had
Speaker 1: came home and started cooking. There was no time for
Speaker 1: a two minute shower. Nope. Oh yeah, just imagine that.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Really probably is a lucky guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like the romance has not fizzle, just changed gotten more. No, no,
Speaker 1: because there are there are still things. But I feel
Speaker 1: like in particular Tuesdays just like not the night for me. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just couldn't muster the full thing. Couldn't do it, could
Speaker 1: do correct. Proud of myself. I'm proud of you too,
Speaker 1: because like I can't. I don't know that I would
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, it's been like a lot, just a
Speaker 1: lot in life. So you pick your battles. Pick your battles,
Speaker 1: all right, tell her about your plan for Monday for Robbie.
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, wait wait, let's take a break and
Speaker 1: then we'll call that. Why should I want you to
Speaker 1: participate in that? Cute? Okay, we're back. So you have
Speaker 1: plans for Robbie, I guess today. Yeah, but he won't
Speaker 1: hear this. Well, yeah, he won't hear this. Um, So
Speaker 1: for his actual birthday, I got it. I'm giving him
Speaker 1: twenty four cards, So one card for every hour of
Speaker 1: the day. Okay. I got a little hour glass, so
Speaker 1: I'm gonna change, Like I'll flip the hour glass and
Speaker 1: when it's a new hour, I'll give him a new card.
Speaker 1: But it's gonna be not all from me. It'll be
Speaker 1: from different people in his life. So I'm collecting. I'm
Speaker 1: in the process of collecting them from like cousins and
Speaker 1: nephews and you know people like that. So, like you
Speaker 1: maybe to have some empty birthday cards in my car? Oh?
Speaker 1: Is it just is it like a certain look or
Speaker 1: could I get my own card? You could do whatever
Speaker 1: you want. I'll get my own card, Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I like going to card like shop it's fun to read,
Speaker 1: so like he'll get a new card, he won't know
Speaker 1: who it's wrong. Like my Haley did that for I
Speaker 1: think it was when we were about to announce our
Speaker 1: relationship and all of U. Yeah, we sent cards. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, that was emotional. It was really sweet. There's
Speaker 1: something really special about receiving. Like you know, when you
Speaker 1: you expect a card for like birthdays and stuff. I mean,
Speaker 1: you expect like one card. But I just wasn't expecting it,
Speaker 1: and so she gave me the pile and I was
Speaker 1: just like so overwhelmed. Well I was overwhelmed in general,
Speaker 1: but it was really sweet. So I'm hoping for that
Speaker 1: same sentiment. Do you think your note love note every
Speaker 1: morning is gonna uh lessen the like weight of the car?
Speaker 1: Hard to say, hard to say? Did you leave one
Speaker 1: this morning? Yes? What did I say? I don't know.
Speaker 1: You know, I have a great day, can't wait to
Speaker 1: see you. Love you. Let's get the day, get things done.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, they're very get Yeah, yeah, they're go get her.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I draw like a naughty little stick figure depending
Speaker 1: on the day. What does that mean? Naughty stick figures?
Speaker 1: So like two of them like doing things to each other. Yea, yeah,
Speaker 1: and everything's a stick. Yeah. I don't know how to
Speaker 1: draw otherwise, not an artiste, not only an author. Yes, correct,
Speaker 1: I had what are you doing this weekend? I might
Speaker 1: go down to Newport to see my sister because I
Speaker 1: haven't seen her since before Christmas. But other than that,
Speaker 1: I don't think I have any plans. What are you doing?
Speaker 1: That's nice, very nice? I really have plans on the weekend.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty relaxed, pretty relaxed on those days. I actually
Speaker 1: decided I'm not making social plans for one month after
Speaker 1: Robbie's birthday. I'm done. That is actually not gonna happen.
Speaker 1: You don't think so. I would say a week maybe,
Speaker 1: but that even feels ambitious. Yeah, a month feels ambitious.
Speaker 1: But I decided that we have so much going on,
Speaker 1: and we've been trying to do way too many things,
Speaker 1: and we're not like being proactive in certain areas, And
Speaker 1: so I said, the social calendar is on hiatus? What act?
Speaker 1: What areas do you want to be act proactive? And
Speaker 1: you're not proactive in every area? What? Though? That doesn't
Speaker 1: make I don't know. I'm getting my apartment, really getting
Speaker 1: moving through things, getting stuff donated to habitat to humanity
Speaker 1: like that type of stuff. So basically getting your apartment
Speaker 1: sorted correct big to do. It is a big to do,
Speaker 1: but you can maybe do like a one social thing
Speaker 1: a week. Yeah, you do like to go extremes. Speaking
Speaker 1: of I decided I was getting ready for an event
Speaker 1: last night and I was like, so just unwell about
Speaker 1: how pale I am right now. And I was thinking
Speaker 1: about it, and I was like, I'm just gonna reach
Speaker 1: out to Jenny and get a spray Damn you got
Speaker 1: spray tan today? No, you look dam right now? Well
Speaker 1: just my face because I just yeah, but neck below
Speaker 1: color really yeah, but we don't have to talk about
Speaker 1: that part. And I was like I'm going to get
Speaker 1: a spray tan and that I was like, I have
Speaker 1: so much self tanner, like I'm just gonna do my own,
Speaker 1: you know, later today. And it's not you know when
Speaker 1: people are like that's offensive towards towards like people who
Speaker 1: have like like pale skin. I don't think of other
Speaker 1: people like that, like you have lighter skin. But I
Speaker 1: never am like, oh my gosh, I don't take offense
Speaker 1: to it, but like people will be like it's so
Speaker 1: offensive that people always want to be tanned, But it's
Speaker 1: just a personal preference for me because I get like
Speaker 1: a gray hue of pale and it's like just like
Speaker 1: not healthy looking, you know, like you can see through
Speaker 1: my legs at certain times of the year, Like literally
Speaker 1: my skin is translucently ghostly? Is that even a word?
Speaker 1: You are? What's your back girl? Serbian? Yeah? Like I know,
Speaker 1: like your your light eyes and you have I mean,
Speaker 1: you're not naturally blonde. Serbians are like normally dark skin,
Speaker 1: dark hair, dark skin. Yeah, except for my mom my mom.
Speaker 1: I got my mom's pale skin. Well, what I'm saying
Speaker 1: is like you you don't look I feel like I
Speaker 1: look unhealthy when i'm when I don't have like a
Speaker 1: But that's how I feel. And to each their own,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. So often I feel like you
Speaker 1: have an opinion about yourself or like something you want
Speaker 1: to change about yourself, and everyone someone else takes offense
Speaker 1: to it because they're like, well I have that, and
Speaker 1: you're like, that's not about you, that's about me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not offended. You you do your spray tans. I
Speaker 1: know you like spray tan, so I didn't think you
Speaker 1: were going to be. I'm off the spray tans for
Speaker 1: a minute though, because of all the toxins. Oh hell
Speaker 1: an alley. Ali sends me a list other day of
Speaker 1: all these pants that have some like work, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: do you ever just get exhausted by the amount of research?
Speaker 1: Can we go down that path? You can take that
Speaker 1: path for a long journey, for a journey, you gotta
Speaker 1: cut it off at some point. But like the spray tan,
Speaker 1: I feel like it's like, so, what I didn't realize
Speaker 1: is your skin is like just absorbs everything. It's like
Speaker 1: your biggest or when I'm Morgan. So I'm like, if
Speaker 1: I can just keep the toxic chemicals to my face,
Speaker 1: you know, like makeup and stuff, Yeah, that's kind of
Speaker 1: what I'm going for, just on the face, just on
Speaker 1: the face where all yours ares. But you know what
Speaker 1: I realized this week, I don't know how to put
Speaker 1: bronze around my face properly. I'm always doing it in
Speaker 1: the wrong places. Well, and you know, I realized ax
Speaker 1: as I'm watching like Alex Earle, like all these people
Speaker 1: put their makeup on, I'm like, where they're putting the
Speaker 1: bronze are there. I thought I was supposed to go
Speaker 1: like on your jawline. Had to meet alex Role on
Speaker 1: Instagram because I got she made me feel insecure and
Speaker 1: I feel like it was just a healthy decision. But
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like I wanted to follow her. I
Speaker 1: was like, she's so hot, she's like so young. She
Speaker 1: was just like part I don't know how the energy.
Speaker 1: I'm jealous of her energy, like yeah, you know, never
Speaker 1: had that when I was that age, So I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's not something that I ever had before. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: over here there and thing and then sleep number temperpedic
Speaker 1: beds and alex Earl is just thriving, going from like yeah,
Speaker 1: so I had to meet her for a second until
Speaker 1: I get my spright tan. You know what's interesting though,
Speaker 1: is I don't watch her and feel sad or envious.
Speaker 1: I don't feel sad. I just felt envious. Yeah I
Speaker 1: don't have that, but not envious in a way that
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not enviously, I like a negative way.
Speaker 1: I'm mad at her. I just I don't need that
Speaker 1: in my life right now. Interesting to get back on
Speaker 1: I need to get my mojo back fully before I
Speaker 1: can a mute. Savannah Gothrie said that she's getting do
Speaker 1: you know who's that is? Oh? Yeah, she said she's
Speaker 1: giving up social media for lent, And I was like,
Speaker 1: it's an interesting, little, uh social experiment. I bet you'd
Speaker 1: feel amazing, you think so, Yeah, I don't think I
Speaker 1: could do it for forty days. Forty days is a
Speaker 1: long time. Yeah, I'm trying to think that. Do you
Speaker 1: give anything up for lent? Are you going to give
Speaker 1: anything up for lent? No is lynd Catholicism. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: never done that, Um, but I could. I should. What
Speaker 1: would you do if you were to give something up
Speaker 1: for lent? I'd probably give up like soda or something
Speaker 1: that's like well, because the whole point is that you
Speaker 1: do something that's like actively like the love. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I would do like soda, Like I don't know if
Speaker 1: I could do sugar. That might kill me. You do
Speaker 1: processed sugar, oviously, fruit and stuff. Well, I've been thinking
Speaker 1: about it. I've been thinking about it. But what I
Speaker 1: was going to say is, so this was a different
Speaker 1: time in my life because social media wasn't such a
Speaker 1: big part of my life when I went on the Bachelor,
Speaker 1: But when they took my phone. I did not miss
Speaker 1: it at all. It was almost sad when I got
Speaker 1: it back. Really, weren't we supposed to watch your season? Yeah?
Speaker 1: We were? Did we did people email in about that? Anybody?
Speaker 1: I don't think anyone joined us for that's a bummer,
Speaker 1: probably because I didn't even do it. I started it
Speaker 1: and then I mean, Haley is literally impossibly busy right now,
Speaker 1: so trying to be like, hey, let's sit down and
Speaker 1: record us watching my old season to the Bachelor just
Speaker 1: feels like it might not happen. I would do it
Speaker 1: with you. You would, Yeah, I'm so down for that. Okay, great, Actually,
Speaker 1: so we do that when haleys for tour, so that
Speaker 1: that's like part of my mechanism. Yeah sure, happy to
Speaker 1: be part of your coping mechanisms so much. Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: because I think it'd be really fun. I don't like
Speaker 1: watching myself to rewatch that. Yeah. Ali's never watched either,
Speaker 1: so maybe we could do like all three of us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'd love that. Also, speaking of watching, there's two shows
Speaker 1: right now that I'm obsessed with Love Islence's and nine
Speaker 1: is back at the UK version, and I'm just obsessed
Speaker 1: with it. I just love it. I'm also watching it
Speaker 1: like a little bit behind, but in real time, which
Speaker 1: feels amazing. He loves it. Two might like it more
Speaker 1: than Tanya. I'm telling you, if you watched the I
Speaker 1: will never forget him watching. He watched on a plane
Speaker 1: when we're flying to Hawaii and he watched the first
Speaker 1: episode and was like, I can't believe this show is
Speaker 1: real and it really hooks you in. I'm telling you whatever.
Speaker 1: I just I'm just saying. If he was not, if
Speaker 1: he did not have the joy of Tanya in his life,
Speaker 1: he would not be watching onto it. What are you
Speaker 1: talking about? Robbie knew me from The Bachelor. He watched
Speaker 1: The Bachelor. Second show is it's called Physical one hundred.
Speaker 1: We're watching it too, are you? So it's like a
Speaker 1: real life squid Games. Um, it's it's unlike Blip, but
Speaker 1: you don't die and you lose. You just lose and
Speaker 1: you get off the show. You don't like die, but
Speaker 1: it is very intense. I ges you're watching it. So
Speaker 1: we started watching it with the kids and I was like,
Speaker 1: this show is so weird. And then a few nights
Speaker 1: ago a friend of mine sent like an article and
Speaker 1: it's like one of the top five shows in Netflix
Speaker 1: right now. It's really good, but what kills me is
Speaker 1: the voice over voiceover, because I'm like, is this what
Speaker 1: they're saying? Like, I can't do you remember this show?
Speaker 1: Please tell me someone remembers this show where it was
Speaker 1: like people competing in like a obstacle course and it
Speaker 1: was dubbed by and it was funny. What was it called?
Speaker 1: That had a very funny long name to Um, I'll
Speaker 1: get it, but yes, I know exactly what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: It was hilarious. It was so funny. But this is
Speaker 1: not funny. It's supposed to be serious, but it still
Speaker 1: has that kind of same energy because you're kind of like,
Speaker 1: is there are they saying this same It's called the
Speaker 1: Most Extreme Elimination Challenge. Maybe you YouTube that. I swear
Speaker 1: you will be cackling. It is so funny. Um, but
Speaker 1: Haley loves any competition show, so she was like very
Speaker 1: into it physic Yes, that's so funny. Do you think
Speaker 1: you'd do well in that? Nor would I even want
Speaker 1: to try? It's funny because when we're watching it probably
Speaker 1: like I could do that, I could do that? Well,
Speaker 1: you can't. What are you talking about? These are like
Speaker 1: the strongest people in the world. Yeah, confident man. Do
Speaker 1: you think you could do good on it? Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: I do. I would love to see like you and
Speaker 1: I try like a wipeout type challenge though, because that
Speaker 1: would please me. But there was like this one where
Speaker 1: they were trying to get this ball it's like almost
Speaker 1: like a medicine ball, and then whoever held it you
Speaker 1: have like three minutes or whatever. I'm like, why is
Speaker 1: it so hard for them to get the ball away
Speaker 1: from somebody else? Well, because like they're they're faster, and
Speaker 1: if once you get it and you're if you it
Speaker 1: was like, once you get it, that's it, game over.
Speaker 1: I'm like, why can't you just steal the ball? Did
Speaker 1: you see the one guy, the really big buff guy,
Speaker 1: he like put it behind me. You're just like guarding it.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, so scary. Yeah it was.
Speaker 1: It's really good though. Yeah, um what was Love Island?
Speaker 1: I actually heard people were saying they weren't super into
Speaker 1: this season. Who were these people? I would say, Amanda
Speaker 1: stand so that like she was having her heart and
Speaker 1: she loves it. She loves it like you do. She Okay,
Speaker 1: to be fair, we're only like we're in the first
Speaker 1: top ten episodes, so we just started like a first
Speaker 1: top ten. There. There's sixty episodes, there's there? Really are
Speaker 1: you said that? But I thought you were joking because
Speaker 1: they're daily. It's like it's almost like a Big Brother
Speaker 1: type show. They like it's always how it is every
Speaker 1: season at sixty episodes. And have watched how many season
Speaker 1: one to three, five, six, eight, So that's like three
Speaker 1: and sixty episodes each? Yeah, oh my god, how many
Speaker 1: days of your background television. So that's why it's amazing
Speaker 1: because you can throw it on the TV and you
Speaker 1: can like brush your teeth to play with days of
Speaker 1: your life you've wasted watching this show. Glorious days. That
Speaker 1: is the people, the scrubbers that watch that show get
Speaker 1: it because people are like I get it. Everyone who
Speaker 1: watches it loves it. Yeah, and it makes me feel
Speaker 1: left out sometimes, but then I try to watch it
Speaker 1: and I can't get into it. So I don't force
Speaker 1: it all myself. Oh my gosh, try trying front trying
Speaker 1: out with this new season season nine, watch the Last
Speaker 1: of Us? Anyone watch us like the zombie show? Right? Okay,
Speaker 1: So Hailey had started to watch it and she was like,
Speaker 1: it's too scary. I can't watch it. So we were
Speaker 1: in three rivers on our Valentine strip and we were
Speaker 1: high in the kitchen and I was eating an ice
Speaker 1: cream sandwich and I was a video of this or
Speaker 1: did she high? I'm laughing at in that video. I
Speaker 1: still I knew you were high in that video. I go,
Speaker 1: is it scary? And she got she's dead silent and
Speaker 1: she goes and scares the and I jumped and I
Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing? And she was like,
Speaker 1: it's like that, Like it's that kind of scary, and
Speaker 1: I was like mad. I was ready to fight, but
Speaker 1: I was so high that I was like, we couldn't
Speaker 1: stop laughing. And She's like, your eyes got so wide.
Speaker 1: I've never seen the white of your eyes. So I'm nervous. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean moderately. So even you've seen none of it.
Speaker 1: I haven't watched it, but I heard everyone's been talking
Speaker 1: about like watching things that are scary before I go
Speaker 1: to bed. Here's the problem is like The Walking Dad,
Speaker 1: which I actually really enjoyed, but The Walking Dad has
Speaker 1: given zombie shows kind of a bad name in the
Speaker 1: sense that people are like you, you know, grows scary
Speaker 1: dead corpses. Gross. It's different from that, and it's more
Speaker 1: about the relationships and the people and they're actually not
Speaker 1: nearly many zombies after the first episode. After that it
Speaker 1: becomes much more about the people and the post apocalyptic world,
Speaker 1: which I find fascinating. You know, the day that the
Speaker 1: world ends. I always love that part of a show
Speaker 1: because everything's and then suddenly and then it's the surviv afterwards,
Speaker 1: like bird Box, but after in a show like this, Yeah,
Speaker 1: the zombies are scary, but it's the humans that become
Speaker 1: much scarier because everyone's starving and they're all fighting for
Speaker 1: whatever resources are available. So that's really interesting. And honestly,
Speaker 1: without any spoilers, and if you around social media all
Speaker 1: you've already heard about the third episode, and what a
Speaker 1: masterpiece the third episode was. It was one of the
Speaker 1: greatest romances you've ever seen on television. It was just
Speaker 1: the sweetest episode ever. We might start that show. I'm
Speaker 1: going to start, but I might have to watch it
Speaker 1: during during the day. Yeah, this feels like a daytime show, sure,
Speaker 1: just to kind of get your yeah. And then also
Speaker 1: the watchful eye, what's up, It's like, um, it's a Uh,
Speaker 1: I don't know how to explain it. It's kind of
Speaker 1: like only Murders in the Building type of show. It's
Speaker 1: on Freeform. Is it funny, No, it's not funny. It's
Speaker 1: like a mystery type show. Okay, it's on Freeform. But
Speaker 1: it's like scary, but in the campy way, Like it's
Speaker 1: like pretty the Liars vibes. Okay, it's so good. Hayley
Speaker 1: love pretty Little Liars, so maybe she'll be able like
Speaker 1: The Watchful Eye. Okay, except it comes out once a week.
Speaker 1: It's kind of annoying. I have to wait. I love that.
Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate it too, because The Last
Speaker 1: of Us is that once a week. That's why you
Speaker 1: love it so much. No bad, sisters, that's why we
Speaker 1: love what. You watch it all in one, but that's
Speaker 1: why you love it so much. It's the one downfall
Speaker 1: for the Wild and the Watchful Eye for me, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm like the only Yeah, I hate is I can't
Speaker 1: get it when you're binging sixty episode seasons of Love
Speaker 1: Island and you haven't just an addiction. I understand why
Speaker 1: the weight would be challenging. Yeah, okay, Well, I'm down
Speaker 1: to give the Last of Us a chance a shot
Speaker 1: everyone loves. Make sure you stick with it through that
Speaker 1: third episode, and I think by then you'll be hooked,
Speaker 1: all right. And after the first episode is not scary,
Speaker 1: it's not. There are still a few scary moments because
Speaker 1: they're still on the run. But I will say that
Speaker 1: the third episode really doesn't have any scary moments. I'll
Speaker 1: key all at all. And I agree with it. It's
Speaker 1: more jump scares than it is. Is it appropriate for kids.
Speaker 1: It's probably a little scary for kids, but I don't
Speaker 1: know if they like they watched The Walking Day, they
Speaker 1: watched stuff like that. I don't think, so you're probably not. Hey,
Speaker 1: I got a bunch of responses to what makes you weird?
Speaker 1: So if you want to break and see what makes
Speaker 1: this sird? Alright, we're back. We do have an email,
Speaker 1: but I do want to say I want to hear
Speaker 1: what the scrubbers do that are weird things? So what
Speaker 1: I posted was we're recording a podcast. Here's a question
Speaker 1: for you, what makes you weird? For example, I can't
Speaker 1: have my knees touching when I'm in bed. Some people
Speaker 1: sleep with their socks on, So what do you do
Speaker 1: that makes you weird? We all have something, and I
Speaker 1: included a picture of the two of you that I
Speaker 1: just took. I'm sitting right here. Mari says the knee
Speaker 1: touching makes her feel so understoods So that's nice. Someone's
Speaker 1: on my side of the knee thing. Hillary says, I
Speaker 1: can't have any volume my phone, my TV radio, my AirPods.
Speaker 1: Nothing can be volume level ever interesting, So she's like
Speaker 1: the right. Christie says, my foods cannot touch on a plate,
Speaker 1: or I won't eat them. When people mix their corn
Speaker 1: with their mashed potatoes, I find it repulsive. I've that, uh, Kayla,
Speaker 1: same thing. No knees touching, arms can't be against her body, Yes, agreed,
Speaker 1: same thing. Uh And she also doesn't like chocolate, that's weird.
Speaker 1: The cold drinks milk with ice. Katie can't have anything
Speaker 1: touching her neck or feels like choking even her even
Speaker 1: her shirt can't be too tight around her neck. Katie
Speaker 1: has a funny story, so she could only drink milk
Speaker 1: if she took it from the fridge, washed it being
Speaker 1: poured into the glass. Then she would put a napkin
Speaker 1: on top of the rubber band over so the bacteria
Speaker 1: couldn't get in the cup and you'd only of the
Speaker 1: napkins slightly for slips because the concern was that the
Speaker 1: bacteria would get into the milk and that would make
Speaker 1: her sick. Turns out she's super lactose intolerant. That bacteria
Speaker 1: wasn't making her sick. It was the milk itself that
Speaker 1: was making her sick. But that's how she always journey
Speaker 1: for her to discover that. Kirsten always washes her legs
Speaker 1: and feet before getting into bed. If you asked me,
Speaker 1: Hillary loves socks and sandals. She wears them all the
Speaker 1: time around the house. She just loves how that feels.
Speaker 1: Socks and sandals actually slide with Like, yeah, my socks
Speaker 1: and birkin socks is a really nice combo. I got
Speaker 1: to say. And Maria says, whenever someone has a shirt
Speaker 1: or even a jacket on and it's all bunched up
Speaker 1: onto their armpit like tiny is in this picture, like
Speaker 1: it is right now, I feel they need to pull
Speaker 1: it down and straighten it out. My shirt is in
Speaker 1: my army, well it's kind of bunched. It's just kind
Speaker 1: of bunchy. Yeah, like that that's what she does to
Speaker 1: people all day every day. Oh, my gosh, that's what
Speaker 1: I looked like for the sock. I think it's like
Speaker 1: a wide angle because I have spiraled way too much
Speaker 1: to be I just took the picture sitting right here.
Speaker 1: Why I didn't think the lens or something or how
Speaker 1: you took it it made an extra wow, great profile though.
Speaker 1: I thank you so much. My face feels really great lately.
Speaker 1: Yeah it does. I can do my gwashaw and I
Speaker 1: just feel like, yeah, I feel like liquids are moving
Speaker 1: and no matter how far back your head goes in
Speaker 1: that photing. Yeah, face feels real snatched and tight. Wow.
Speaker 1: Well those were like I think I understood most of
Speaker 1: this to what they're saying. Some of them I relate
Speaker 1: to like certain foods I don't want touching. But then
Speaker 1: sometimes I love mixing foods like I love I love
Speaker 1: when my if I'm eating chicken with like a turkey
Speaker 1: with the mashed potatoes that Thanksgiving, I love the mess.
Speaker 1: That's delicious. But corner mashed with data is not into
Speaker 1: that anyways. Hey, Liz says, help am I entitled Karen,
Speaker 1: My husband and I are in a one car. I
Speaker 1: gotta set a picture for you. So she's in a
Speaker 1: she and her husband in a one car garage condo,
Speaker 1: and there's a single parking spot on the street between
Speaker 1: their driveway and the neighbors driveway. The next closest spot
Speaker 1: is way down the road, like seven houses, and it's
Speaker 1: for visitors in this condo complex. Our next door neighbors
Speaker 1: a single woman with a single car that works from
Speaker 1: home and travels most weekends. She has a two car
Speaker 1: garage and a driveway, yet she parks her car in
Speaker 1: that spot at all times and rarely leaves the house.
Speaker 1: When she does leave, it's glorious. We can park there.
Speaker 1: We don't have to trudge all the way down the
Speaker 1: street in the cold and the snow for every little
Speaker 1: errand she parks in the driveway then when we have
Speaker 1: the spot, but as soon as we leave, she moves
Speaker 1: her car back out to the street. This has been
Speaker 1: going on for two years. But I recently had a baby,
Speaker 1: and it's a rough winter and I've had enough. It's
Speaker 1: miserable to run back and forth to warm the car
Speaker 1: in the snow and ice with a newborn, and then
Speaker 1: carry a car seat and millions of baby things in
Speaker 1: this weather. On a regular basis, she watches me do
Speaker 1: it and doesn't say a thing. It feels purposeful. Am
Speaker 1: I being unreasonable to ask her to park in her
Speaker 1: own driveway so we can have the spot at least
Speaker 1: until it's not freezing outside? Or is that too entitled
Speaker 1: to ask her that I can't help but think of
Speaker 1: this Sex in the City episode when Kara was randing
Speaker 1: about how single people get screwed. What would you do?
Speaker 1: I don't understand why she's just not parking her spot.
Speaker 1: That's what I don't understand of the other woman's the
Speaker 1: other woman in the driveway at the very least she
Speaker 1: has two spots. Well, like I don't. I have a
Speaker 1: two car garage, but I have stuff in my garage,
Speaker 1: so I don't park in my garage, but I have
Speaker 1: a full drive way that I absolutely parking instead of
Speaker 1: parking in front of my house. Yeah, over their own
Speaker 1: draws what I'm saying, and even like sometimes because a
Speaker 1: lot of times if Haley, if we're saying at my
Speaker 1: place and Haley pulls in behind me and then I
Speaker 1: have to leave the next morning, then it's annoying. So
Speaker 1: she normally will park in front of my house. But
Speaker 1: if someone else was like in that situation, I would
Speaker 1: be like, just let's park in the driveway and make
Speaker 1: it easier for them. Like I would never even would
Speaker 1: say of our the woman that emails Liz, I think, Liz,
Speaker 1: have you tried just asking her to park? I feel
Speaker 1: like you're at your boiling point, But I feel like
Speaker 1: you haven't even tried anything yet. You're just you're you're
Speaker 1: you haven't tried one thing. And sometimes we make up
Speaker 1: scenarios in our head like she might have this woman
Speaker 1: might be totally clueless, like she might totally might be
Speaker 1: thinking like she's doing it on purpose, but she might
Speaker 1: have no idea because single, she's not thinking about how
Speaker 1: hard it is to like lug a newborn baby up
Speaker 1: and down the street or you know, warming at the car.
Speaker 1: So I would just go over and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: I know we just have this one spot. I know
Speaker 1: that you have the drive or ask if you can
Speaker 1: park in the driveway, or ask if you can take
Speaker 1: one of her spots. That's what I'm saying, be like,
Speaker 1: I know you have to. I just had a baby
Speaker 1: and it's like so cold, do you mind if driveway?
Speaker 1: If if the if you're using that spot, yeah and
Speaker 1: that way? If she's like, oh, actually, I can just
Speaker 1: park in the driveway and you can always think she
Speaker 1: might be so lovely. If she's not, then that's a
Speaker 1: different story. We need to Yeah, you're gonna have to
Speaker 1: update us. But I think I don't think you're entitled
Speaker 1: at all to have like a friendly conversation about it
Speaker 1: and offer just to ask, like, hey, just especially during
Speaker 1: the winter with a newborn, do you mind if we
Speaker 1: use one of your driveway spots or if we can,
Speaker 1: you know, use this one spot that we have, and
Speaker 1: if she's rude, emails back and we'll have a different
Speaker 1: we'll have a different approach for you. All right, let's
Speaker 1: do some worthy and weird stuff. How about this one
Speaker 1: because a lot of people agree with this one. My
Speaker 1: last bite of every meal has to be my favorite bite,
Speaker 1: the one that will make my breath smell the best.
Speaker 1: If I'm meeting a burger, for example, the best burger
Speaker 1: bite is the center bite. So I have to eat
Speaker 1: all the way around the edges and have the center last.
Speaker 1: And other people like, yeah, I do that. I do.
Speaker 1: That is lasting delicious flames fruit if it's part of
Speaker 1: the meal, but if not, it's just the burger the
Speaker 1: center last, and a lot of people agree. Uh, Narrata
Speaker 1: eats her food counterclockwise. Sarah always drives in silence on
Speaker 1: our way home from work. Well, that's kind of nice
Speaker 1: to decompress. Perhaps, do you want to know something about
Speaker 1: my girlfriend? Yes, she drives in silence. Yes, it is
Speaker 1: the worst interesting. But then sometimes I find myself and
Speaker 1: I'll be like ten minutes outside, like from home, like
Speaker 1: I've already left, It's been ten minutes, and I realized
Speaker 1: I've just been sitting in my thoughts in silence, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I get that. Never know silence, I have,
Speaker 1: I have things in my ears. You should try to
Speaker 1: sit in silence. Practice that no thank you constantly on
Speaker 1: the phone or in meetings or like listening to music
Speaker 1: or making music. And I think there's a part of
Speaker 1: her that just likes the quiet because like that's kind
Speaker 1: of her time to I would think she would like
Speaker 1: some podcast someone talking to her around music. And she
Speaker 1: loves if she listens to music. She loves like two
Speaker 1: thousand's pop. Yeah, so when we're she hates my music. Wow,
Speaker 1: Gabby cannot have her alarm set to multiples of five.
Speaker 1: It just included a screenshots five oh six five three
Speaker 1: six o four eight oh two. That's like all interesting.
Speaker 1: Kaylea will not drink the last sip of any drink,
Speaker 1: and a bunch of people agree with that one. I'm
Speaker 1: kind of with her on that one. I feel like
Speaker 1: it's all backwash. It's in my backwash though, Yeah, but like,
Speaker 1: why do you want to drink all your bad finish
Speaker 1: my drink? I think? Uh? Katie always smells the milk
Speaker 1: jug before she throws it away, loves it. It was unnecessary,
Speaker 1: love it a lot of can off your food. Touch you,
Speaker 1: get that? Get that? Get that. How about Ava sits
Speaker 1: down to shave her legs in the shower? Is that
Speaker 1: normal or that weird? I would love to sit down
Speaker 1: in the shower if I had that ability, I'd sit
Speaker 1: the whole time. It's too small a shower where you drown.
Speaker 1: I just don't have a bench, I think is dirty
Speaker 1: feet or on the ground, and you can't feel safe
Speaker 1: sitting on the floor. Her left thigh while eating. She
Speaker 1: didn't know she had it till her she moved in
Speaker 1: with her husband. She only does it when she eats.
Speaker 1: She rubs her left thigh. It's like comforting. My silver
Speaker 1: ware cannot touch the table have to be on a
Speaker 1: plate or a napkin at all times. You want to
Speaker 1: know one that I'd used to do something the alarm clock.
Speaker 1: One reminded me of this. There was a time when
Speaker 1: I lived in San Diego. I remember specifically cause I
Speaker 1: would have to wake up at like seven for work,
Speaker 1: and I would set my alarm for four am every
Speaker 1: single morning, and I'd wake up and turn it off,
Speaker 1: and then I knew I had three hours to sleep. Interesting,
Speaker 1: so destructive. I don't know why. I like when that
Speaker 1: happened naturally, wake up goods at four hours to go.
Speaker 1: But no, I've never said maybe I had a rush
Speaker 1: when it happened naturally, and I thought I should stage this.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, your hair looks so cute today. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, thank you, Brittany. Can't Brittany have to chew
Speaker 1: her food and equal amounts on each side. One bite left,
Speaker 1: one bite. That's probably really good for her. J Georgina
Speaker 1: cannot have her lips touched silverware. She used her teeth
Speaker 1: to scrip the food off the fork. She's a psycho killer.
Speaker 1: Toot me that I can't eat sweet breakfast if the
Speaker 1: salt shaker was on the table I can't like cereal.
Speaker 1: She can cereal. I can't like eat a bowl of
Speaker 1: Lucky Charmers with the salt on the We got to
Speaker 1: get back to the teeth on the poor honestly gives
Speaker 1: me chills to purposely choose. That is that that's some
Speaker 1: dark some dark, some dark stuff. Well here's Amy, who
Speaker 1: probably would not get along with Georgina. She says, I
Speaker 1: can't rub my hands on any textured surface. I can't
Speaker 1: even rub them together. I will run out of the
Speaker 1: room if I hear someone rubbing their hands on a
Speaker 1: textured surface. Oh, she would hate me. Because every time
Speaker 1: I have a napkin and when I eat, I have
Speaker 1: to clean my fingers on the napkin after every bite.
Speaker 1: So like, it's that napkin sound? Do we have enoughkin?
Speaker 1: Ali hates it. Ali like freaks out. It's like this.
Speaker 1: So like every time I take a bite, I do
Speaker 1: Oh interesting. So like I'm I realized I can't have
Speaker 1: anything on my hand, Like if I'm doing my makeup,
Speaker 1: after every step, if I use my hands, I have
Speaker 1: to wash them. My hands are very dry. Well I'm
Speaker 1: lotion on. You're naturally I got you made me feel
Speaker 1: so stressed the other day. Immediate, just keeping keeping you fresh,
Speaker 1: all right. This is what I do that drives my
Speaker 1: family crazy. Actually, whenever I'm eating something that has crumbs,
Speaker 1: a cookie, a slice of pizza, maybe it's a sandwich.
Speaker 1: When I'm chewing, I kind of bounce it up and
Speaker 1: down a little bit to get excess crumbs off of
Speaker 1: it because I don't want them to fall into my
Speaker 1: shirt or whatever. That drives them crazy because they tell
Speaker 1: me you don't have to do that. You're doing it
Speaker 1: because they think it's not an intentional thing. They think
Speaker 1: I just do it out of habit now because sometimes
Speaker 1: it's not even a crumby thing. I'm just doing ye
Speaker 1: to Deely, I definitely do it like chips and stuff.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, cookies, Yeah, these are fun. I'm gona we
Speaker 1: got into this. This is fun stuff, good series. Everybody's weird.
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you everyone is weird. I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: if people get comfortable enough, they'll start sharing things that
Speaker 1: we'll have you feel disturbing. Like Rihanna, that's your own right.
Speaker 1: She did not sing that at the super Bowl. She didn't.
Speaker 1: She also didn't sing love the Way You Lie. She didn't.
Speaker 1: She could have done a hell of a setlist on
Speaker 1: songs she didn't play. That's the depth of her catalog
Speaker 1: even Yeah, and I know every single song that she has,
Speaker 1: but I didn't realize how many songs. I've been going
Speaker 1: back all week. I've been going back into like old
Speaker 1: Rihanna albums and like her deep cuts, the ones that
Speaker 1: were never even song singles are next to you is
Speaker 1: everyone's called photograph. There's a photograph, Russian roulette. What's that one? Like?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, this is from like her early days
Speaker 1: cold Case of Love. M I was going through something
Speaker 1: close to you, not next to you close? Oh, that
Speaker 1: one's so good. I should go and do a deep
Speaker 1: dive on like her albums because I really, I really
Speaker 1: find that I only know the main in the anti
Speaker 1: huh anti no, like her radio songs. You know my
Speaker 1: favorite songs on any album, they're never you would love
Speaker 1: h honest, back back back. I'm going to do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that. You're welcome, Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: Do we want to do the last email or do
Speaker 1: we wrap it up? I think we have to wrap
Speaker 1: it up Toinya and have to get to a meeting
Speaker 1: meetings over now. Yeah, I think the meeting happened thirty minutes.
Speaker 1: I don't care. You want to do another one? Yea?
Speaker 1: Why not? It's President's Day. When I eat cheerios, I
Speaker 1: have to eat the fattest ones first before I pour
Speaker 1: milk in. Aren't cheerio is all the same? Are the
Speaker 1: fatter cheerio with another cheerio? All cheerios are equal? Can
Speaker 1: I tell you something really random? Yeah, I haven't worn
Speaker 1: a bra in like years, and like a real bro
Speaker 1: like like well turn away, okay, like a cammy like
Speaker 1: I were just like all tighter cammies. Yeah, like I
Speaker 1: have more actual in years. And I just ordered a
Speaker 1: Skims bra. It's coming today and I'm so excited. I
Speaker 1: can't wait for the review. I know. I've just been
Speaker 1: hearing such good things about these Skims bras. I got
Speaker 1: a Skims dress and it is the best fitting dress.
Speaker 1: I'm so I'm excited to get back into the bra game.
Speaker 1: You know, it's really interesting. Last week on the podcast,
Speaker 1: I wore a real bra for the first time and
Speaker 1: again the same thing so long, and it was horrible.
Speaker 1: I couldn't get home past enough to get it off,
Speaker 1: take it off. It's interesting. It's gonna go either way.
Speaker 1: But I'm excited Skims turns things around for you, open
Speaker 1: to the possibility of not attached to the outcome. Yes, pleasure,
Speaker 1: just pleasure, just bringing the girls back up again. You know,
Speaker 1: I know that is I remember. Actually, I want to say,
Speaker 1: Ashley I Connetti said her grandma slept in her braw
Speaker 1: her whole life, and her boobs were just like sat
Speaker 1: You know that's so crazy. I don't find that to
Speaker 1: be true. I will not know if it is. Neither
Speaker 1: will I email many of these things. Okay, I'll give
Speaker 1: you the last email here. But I like the volume
Speaker 1: in Rebecca. I like to the volume in my car
Speaker 1: to be able to make eight. For example, eighteen works
Speaker 1: because one times eight is eight. Twenty three works because
Speaker 1: two to the third power is eight. The numbers of
Speaker 1: the volume of the radio in her car has to
Speaker 1: make eight. In some mathematical formula, two times to is four. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so two is eight. Lexi finds the cheesiest dorito, licks
Speaker 1: the cheese off and then smells it. Heyo, alright, Anonymous says,
Speaker 1: my sister have been named this guy since October. He's nice,
Speaker 1: but not the type of person my family expected her today,
Speaker 1: she could do better. She's only twenty, so all of
Speaker 1: us older siblings are protective and want her with the
Speaker 1: best of the best. Well, they started talking about marriage,
Speaker 1: and comments where brought up as we were planning our
Speaker 1: family vacation, like, well, maybe we shouldn't plan our family
Speaker 1: vacation because there could be a wedding to plan around
Speaker 1: a week later. Sure enough, they've got a wedding date
Speaker 1: set for Si. We're all scratching our heads. Here's the
Speaker 1: list of conflicts. Number One, I'm gonna have a six
Speaker 1: day old baby at that point. Number two, my brother's
Speaker 1: wife has finals that day and she can't reschedule that,
Speaker 1: so she's gonna have to miss the entire wedding. We've
Speaker 1: tried talking to her. She totally shuts us down. This
Speaker 1: is nothing I can do about. It is just between
Speaker 1: me and my husband, or my group, my fiance, or
Speaker 1: whatever it is. How do I turn my attitude around
Speaker 1: and try to support my sister. I'm hurt. She doesn't
Speaker 1: want me to be a part of the planning at all.
Speaker 1: She wouldn't even show me a picture of her ring.
Speaker 1: The only reason she invited me to the dress shopping
Speaker 1: with her because my Mom told him my feelings were
Speaker 1: hurts and I don't even want to go. If there's
Speaker 1: something going on with the groom, that seems like a
Speaker 1: red flag to me. Is he a controlling person all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, my sisters distancing herself from our family
Speaker 1: and treating a soul poorly. She's only twenty. Do I
Speaker 1: really just have to suffer through this with so many
Speaker 1: other family members that all thinks she's making a huge mistake. Oh,
Speaker 1: this sounds really toxic to me. This seems like red
Speaker 1: flag anytime I find that, anytime someone's like distancing themselves
Speaker 1: from family, like randomly, like that fast, there's something going
Speaker 1: on with the person that they're with. The distancing I
Speaker 1: think feels bad. But the wedding stuff, like if that's
Speaker 1: the date they want, it's her wedding, Like it's not
Speaker 1: all it's not I don't know. I'm like, well it
Speaker 1: was if it's just about the date, if it was
Speaker 1: just like, oh, they have this really beautiful relationship, we
Speaker 1: love him, they chose this date. It's inconvenient in the
Speaker 1: and the dress shopping, like maybe she doesn't want to
Speaker 1: make the dress shopping a big hullabaloo. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I'm finding it. I mean,
Speaker 1: because she's twenty and this happened so fast to me,
Speaker 1: it feels like this is almost like a toxic like
Speaker 1: I'm doing my own thing. I don't want anyone around
Speaker 1: because I love him. Leave maybe, and you might just
Speaker 1: have to accept that and support her as best you can.
Speaker 1: But you might end up having to be there for her.
Speaker 1: But that's what your friends and your family are for.
Speaker 1: They're there to pick up the pieces and what I mean,
Speaker 1: you're to be honest and help try to prevent you
Speaker 1: from making huge mistakes, Like how do you find that
Speaker 1: if you stick your nose into something and let's say
Speaker 1: they end their engagement or they end there whatever because
Speaker 1: of you, there's gonna be some sort of resentment in
Speaker 1: the future, I believe. Yeah. But on the flip side,
Speaker 1: she doesn't say anything and she's just like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let her do what she needs to do,
Speaker 1: and then she goes through a really I mean, ultimately,
Speaker 1: it's her sister's life and her what whatever decisions she makes.
Speaker 1: It's like whatever happens, it's on her. You can say
Speaker 1: something without belaboring it or like ruining your relationship over it.
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. What does she say that's
Speaker 1: not going to ruin the day, But like, hey, I
Speaker 1: just want you to really you know, I want to
Speaker 1: be your sister. It doesn't sound like she's open to
Speaker 1: hearing anything. It's the problem. Yeah, I think you give
Speaker 1: it your best shot. I'm just saying, is something going on,
Speaker 1: Like give her space and make her feel like you're
Speaker 1: not attacking her. But if she doesn't take the bait,
Speaker 1: if she doesn't open up, you can't force it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's very tough, just my humble opinion. Yeah, he probably
Speaker 1: is very controlling. He may very well be behind her
Speaker 1: pushing you away. He may very well be pushing her
Speaker 1: to get married before she's ready. But I don't know
Speaker 1: that there's much you can do without pushing you deeper
Speaker 1: into his plan. So I think you just got to
Speaker 1: support her and give her the space and opportunities. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and if it ends bad, just be there for her.
Speaker 1: And people just have to make the make mistakes. It's true,
Speaker 1: you do. You have to learn things a hard way sometimes.
Speaker 1: So I would hope if I was getting like you
Speaker 1: would say something to me if you thought I was
Speaker 1: making a huge mistake. You criticize my nails, no problem.
Speaker 1: I would say something to you. I would say something
Speaker 1: to you, but I also wouldn't make you feel like
Speaker 1: I'm so stuck. Like let's play out like it's not Haley.
Speaker 1: Let's pretend you're marrying somebody else X and I hate X,
Speaker 1: and I think it's a mistake for you. I would
Speaker 1: say I would approach you, and I would say, like,
Speaker 1: I would kind of try and do it in a
Speaker 1: non aggressive way. How are you feeling. It feels like
Speaker 1: you've been you know, I'm not sure things are not
Speaker 1: you feel like you're not in a great place, and
Speaker 1: I'm happier than I've ever been. Okay, that's great. I
Speaker 1: just wanted to bring it up because of you know,
Speaker 1: I love you, and I just want I just want
Speaker 1: your best interest. But I think if you come at
Speaker 1: it from a place of like this X is bad
Speaker 1: for you and you gotta get away, It's just it's
Speaker 1: just the way you approach it. Approach it with like
Speaker 1: a loving, caring, thoughtful manner, and then don't belabor it,
Speaker 1: don't keep bringing it up and up, because then that's
Speaker 1: just a no. Well, and I think she's just going
Speaker 1: to distance herself. So I think if you can be
Speaker 1: as supportive as you can in this situation, at least
Speaker 1: you can maintain the relationship and you can be there
Speaker 1: for her when she does feel ready to talk or
Speaker 1: open up. Correct. Great, that's hard, really, I mean, that's
Speaker 1: like a very complicated situation to navigate because a lot
Speaker 1: of people do it, ma'am. Oh, yeah, a lot of
Speaker 1: people do it. They do, they do, and they just
Speaker 1: got to do it, and they just got do and
Speaker 1: go through it, and then the friends are there to
Speaker 1: pick up the pieces. That's right, that's what we're here for.
Speaker 1: That's that's what friends are ful. Keep seann and keep driving,
Speaker 1: keep smiling, keep smiling. I'll be on your side forever more.
Speaker 1: That's what friends are full. Alright, on that out. Happy
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