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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ren An I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio Podcast. Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in scrubbing

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Speaker 1: In on a Thursday, Thursday, Thursday. It's Thursday, and we're

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Speaker 1: recording today's episode because today is actually President's Day. When

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Speaker 1: you're listening to this, correct, and we're off, baby off,

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Speaker 1: sleeping in? Probably not? What does President's Day? Why do

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Speaker 1: we get that off? Celebrate our presidents? Yeah, Washington's birthday

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Speaker 1: and Lincoln's birthday were both in February, near each other,

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Speaker 1: and so those were individual kind of half holidays for

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Speaker 1: a long time, and then they were combined to become

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Speaker 1: President's Day and making it a real holiday that everybody

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Speaker 1: gets off. Great. I mean, I'm grateful, I know, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: why don't we have more holidays? I'm all for it,

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Speaker 1: But why don't we st more president's birthdays or like

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Speaker 1: other super important people? Yeah, like Oprah, Harry South agree, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: there's left yeah yeah, yeah. And it's you know, objective

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Speaker 1: or subjective. Who's important to subjective? Yeah? Anyways, we're off,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully you are too, and if you're not, hopefully

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Speaker 1: we can entertain you today. Um, how is Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day was good. It was chill. It was weird

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Speaker 1: because it was on a Tuesday, and Tuesday's or my

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Speaker 1: long work days, and so yeah, I wasn't like feeling vibes,

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Speaker 1: but you did the vibe. I did the vibe, and um,

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Speaker 1: we went to the grocery store and we did like

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Speaker 1: we went to Greece, so we got like a full

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Speaker 1: fish and we did like a big chunky Greek salad

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Speaker 1: that we made at home. And then I put on

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Speaker 1: my lingerie. But like normally, when I put on my lingerie,

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Speaker 1: I like want to have makeup on and do my

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Speaker 1: like trash. He said, all you get linger, Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: get this. I'm gonna eat my dinner in this lingerie

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Speaker 1: and and and I'm gonna look like ash outside of it.

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Speaker 1: But I was. I was confident in it, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Well that's the main part of wearing lingerie is a confidence. Correct.

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Speaker 1: But I do enjoy the ceremony of it all, like

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Speaker 1: getting all up and you know, but I was like,

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Speaker 1: it didn't happen in me ceremonious, ceremonious. How was your

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. It was a great same thing. Haley worked

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Speaker 1: all day, she had a really busy day, so we

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Speaker 1: went to we went got massages at the spa, so

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Speaker 1: we had like a good chunk of like three hours

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Speaker 1: where it was like nice yea and felt like Valentine's Day,

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Speaker 1: but otherwise it was kind of a weird, you know,

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Speaker 1: just Tuesday. Yeah, we went out of town for the

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Speaker 1: weekend basically because she knew it was gonna be busy,

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Speaker 1: So that was kind of like our celebration of Valentine's Day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people, I think, push Valentine's Day off

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Speaker 1: for like the weekend after, so a lot of people

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Speaker 1: are celebrating this weekend. But this weekend is Robbie's birthday,

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Speaker 1: so we can't push Valentine's Day because his birthday's right after.

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Speaker 1: So it's like we got to do it on the fourteenth.

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Speaker 1: I woke up this morning. I'm so glad you said that,

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Speaker 1: that had missed Robbie's birthday. So I go and look

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Speaker 1: your post for it, because I thought it was like

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Speaker 1: I actually thought it was like before Valentine's Day, just after,

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Speaker 1: just after, because I remember the trigger of it. It

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Speaker 1: was Valentine's the birthday. Yeah, they're back to back. The

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Speaker 1: back to backness of them all really throws one. But

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Speaker 1: it actually is today. Happy birthday, birthday, birthday, babe, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: February twenty, this is birthday. Sorry. I'm coughing the storm

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Speaker 1: over here. Not in a sick way, you know, when

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Speaker 1: you don't sleep. But like I helped Hayley was a

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Speaker 1: then I think the hunger kept me away. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So your cough is from your lap when I don't

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Speaker 1: feel sickness to me. When I don't sleep, my body

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Speaker 1: is just like fragile. I get it. I'm with you,

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Speaker 1: but you don't sleep. Ever. I've been sleeping so horrible

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Speaker 1: I'm normally like I am a honk like you I

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Speaker 1: that just like lay, They just like lay like a log. Log.

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Speaker 1: Lately the last two nights, every time Robbie gets up

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Speaker 1: if I'm sleeping lighter or what's going on. I too

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Speaker 1: back pain. And I think I have to get one

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Speaker 1: of those like pillows that go into your knees to sleep.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, are we at that age? Just the

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Speaker 1: age we're at right now. I was gonna see if

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Speaker 1: we can maybe get Sleep Number as a sponsor again.

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Speaker 1: And so you think it's in one of those beds

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Speaker 1: that like you can adjust each side, you know, I

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Speaker 1: eat one of those two actually, But that is the best.

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Speaker 1: This is tomorrow's morning Hack on the Secret Joseph spoiler alert.

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Speaker 1: But the best way to sleep, for the best sleep

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Speaker 1: is to is on your side with a pillow between

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Speaker 1: your legs and your ankle. No, but you're not supposed

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Speaker 1: to sleep on your side because it's bad for your skin. Well,

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Speaker 1: you're looking at two different things. Yeah, my chest is

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Speaker 1: like a roly poly What does that mean? Like it's

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Speaker 1: like shriveled because I sleep my chest a lot, so

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Speaker 1: my skin just goes when I wake up. I have

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Speaker 1: like lines, Do you sleep on your side? Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: would be great when you're pregnant. Can't wait for that,

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Speaker 1: because that's really all you can prepared, you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're ready. You've been training all your life, at training

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Speaker 1: all my life. So yeah, I think I'm gonna attempt

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Speaker 1: to get like a little wedge pillow to go under

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Speaker 1: my knees. Yeah, I'm at that age apparently that this

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Speaker 1: barely walk. We looked like so we were there gunning

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Speaker 1: the gun hurts even without being sore. Yeah, I know,

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Speaker 1: I was giggling though, because like I could, I just

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Speaker 1: the same time. What do you How do you sleep? Becca? Well, see,

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Speaker 1: I've been tossing and turning. But you refuse to sleep

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Speaker 1: I try to not sleep on my side. I'd like

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Speaker 1: so it's still a problem. I do that too, also

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Speaker 1: side sleeping with the pillows between your legs, it was

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Speaker 1: the least amount of strain in your spine. Interesting. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'll have to see if I can find a pillow

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Speaker 1: that helps with the anti aging aspect of the side sleep.

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Speaker 1: Had one of those knee pillows before? Did you sleep

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Speaker 1: well during that? Lose it? You lose it. There's no

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Speaker 1: as adults, I find out my sister is the exact

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Speaker 1: each other. That would be awful. Sauce where the pillow

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Speaker 1: comes in. The more I learned about you, the more

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Speaker 1: interesting I find you. Truly you seem you know just

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Speaker 1: because everybody has those things. Yeah, everybody. Yeah. I did

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Speaker 1: doing the show what makes You Weird to see what

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Speaker 1: The Bachelor. Second show is it's called Physical one hundred.

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Speaker 1: We're watching it too, are you? So it's like a

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00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 1: real life squid Games. Um, it's it's unlike Blip, but

423
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 1: you don't die and you lose. You just lose and

424
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Speaker 1: you get off the show. You don't like die, but

425
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: it is very intense. I ges you're watching it. So

426
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: we started watching it with the kids and I was like,

427
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 1: this show is so weird. And then a few nights

428
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: ago a friend of mine sent like an article and

429
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: it's like one of the top five shows in Netflix

430
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Speaker 1: right now. It's really good, but what kills me is

431
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Speaker 1: the voice over voiceover, because I'm like, is this what

432
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: they're saying? Like, I can't do you remember this show?

433
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: Please tell me someone remembers this show where it was

434
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,679
Speaker 1: like people competing in like a obstacle course and it

435
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 1: was dubbed by and it was funny. What was it called?

436
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 1: That had a very funny long name to Um, I'll

437
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 1: get it, but yes, I know exactly what you're talking about.

438
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 1: It was hilarious. It was so funny. But this is

439
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: not funny. It's supposed to be serious, but it still

440
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: has that kind of same energy because you're kind of like,

441
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Speaker 1: is there are they saying this same It's called the

442
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: Most Extreme Elimination Challenge. Maybe you YouTube that. I swear

443
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 1: you will be cackling. It is so funny. Um, but

444
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,400
Speaker 1: Haley loves any competition show, so she was like very

445
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Speaker 1: into it physic Yes, that's so funny. Do you think

446
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: you'd do well in that? Nor would I even want

447
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 1: to try? It's funny because when we're watching it probably

448
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 1: like I could do that, I could do that? Well,

449
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,439
Speaker 1: you can't. What are you talking about? These are like

450
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: the strongest people in the world. Yeah, confident man. Do

451
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: you think you could do good on it? Yeah? No,

452
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Speaker 1: I do. I would love to see like you and

453
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Speaker 1: I try like a wipeout type challenge though, because that

454
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Speaker 1: would please me. But there was like this one where

455
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: they were trying to get this ball it's like almost

456
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 1: like a medicine ball, and then whoever held it you

457
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 1: have like three minutes or whatever. I'm like, why is

458
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Speaker 1: it so hard for them to get the ball away

459
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: from somebody else? Well, because like they're they're faster, and

460
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Speaker 1: if once you get it and you're if you it

461
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 1: was like, once you get it, that's it, game over.

462
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, why can't you just steal the ball? Did

463
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: you see the one guy, the really big buff guy,

464
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: he like put it behind me. You're just like guarding it.

465
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, so scary. Yeah it was.

466
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Speaker 1: It's really good though. Yeah, um what was Love Island?

467
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: I actually heard people were saying they weren't super into

468
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: this season. Who were these people? I would say, Amanda

469
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: stand so that like she was having her heart and

470
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:13,719
Speaker 1: she loves it. She loves it like you do. She Okay,

471
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 1: to be fair, we're only like we're in the first

472
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: top ten episodes, so we just started like a first

473
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Speaker 1: top ten. There. There's sixty episodes, there's there? Really are

474
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: you said that? But I thought you were joking because

475
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 1: they're daily. It's like it's almost like a Big Brother

476
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,640
Speaker 1: type show. They like it's always how it is every

477
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: season at sixty episodes. And have watched how many season

478
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Speaker 1: one to three, five, six, eight, So that's like three

479
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: and sixty episodes each? Yeah, oh my god, how many

480
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: days of your background television. So that's why it's amazing

481
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: because you can throw it on the TV and you

482
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 1: can like brush your teeth to play with days of

483
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 1: your life you've wasted watching this show. Glorious days. That

484
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: is the people, the scrubbers that watch that show get

485
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: it because people are like I get it. Everyone who

486
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: watches it loves it. Yeah, and it makes me feel

487
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: left out sometimes, but then I try to watch it

488
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: and I can't get into it. So I don't force

489
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: it all myself. Oh my gosh, try trying front trying

490
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: out with this new season season nine, watch the Last

491
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: of Us? Anyone watch us like the zombie show? Right? Okay,

492
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: So Hailey had started to watch it and she was like,

493
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Speaker 1: it's too scary. I can't watch it. So we were

494
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Speaker 1: in three rivers on our Valentine strip and we were

495
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: high in the kitchen and I was eating an ice

496
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: cream sandwich and I was a video of this or

497
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: did she high? I'm laughing at in that video. I

498
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: still I knew you were high in that video. I go,

499
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:58,199
Speaker 1: is it scary? And she got she's dead silent and

500
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Speaker 1: she goes and scares the and I jumped and I

501
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing? And she was like,

502
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: it's like that, Like it's that kind of scary, and

503
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 1: I was like mad. I was ready to fight, but

504
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: I was so high that I was like, we couldn't

505
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 1: stop laughing. And She's like, your eyes got so wide.

506
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: I've never seen the white of your eyes. So I'm nervous. Well,

507
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: I mean moderately. So even you've seen none of it.

508
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 1: I haven't watched it, but I heard everyone's been talking

509
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: about like watching things that are scary before I go

510
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: to bed. Here's the problem is like The Walking Dad,

511
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: which I actually really enjoyed, but The Walking Dad has

512
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: given zombie shows kind of a bad name in the

513
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: sense that people are like you, you know, grows scary

514
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: dead corpses. Gross. It's different from that, and it's more

515
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: about the relationships and the people and they're actually not

516
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: nearly many zombies after the first episode. After that it

517
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 1: becomes much more about the people and the post apocalyptic world,

518
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: which I find fascinating. You know, the day that the

519
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: world ends. I always love that part of a show

520
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: because everything's and then suddenly and then it's the surviv afterwards,

521
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: like bird Box, but after in a show like this, Yeah,

522
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: the zombies are scary, but it's the humans that become

523
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: much scarier because everyone's starving and they're all fighting for

524
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: whatever resources are available. So that's really interesting. And honestly,

525
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: without any spoilers, and if you around social media all

526
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: you've already heard about the third episode, and what a

527
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: masterpiece the third episode was. It was one of the

528
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: greatest romances you've ever seen on television. It was just

529
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: the sweetest episode ever. We might start that show. I'm

530
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: going to start, but I might have to watch it

531
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: during during the day. Yeah, this feels like a daytime show, sure,

532
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: just to kind of get your yeah. And then also

533
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:47,239
Speaker 1: the watchful eye, what's up, It's like, um, it's a Uh,

534
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: I don't know how to explain it. It's kind of

535
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: like only Murders in the Building type of show. It's

536
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 1: on Freeform. Is it funny, No, it's not funny. It's

537
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: like a mystery type show. Okay, it's on Freeform. But

538
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: it's like scary, but in the campy way, Like it's

539
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: like pretty the Liars vibes. Okay, it's so good. Hayley

540
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: love pretty Little Liars, so maybe she'll be able like

541
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: The Watchful Eye. Okay, except it comes out once a week.

542
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: It's kind of annoying. I have to wait. I love that.

543
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: I hate it. I hate it too, because The Last

544
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: of Us is that once a week. That's why you

545
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: love it so much. No bad, sisters, that's why we

546
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 1: love what. You watch it all in one, but that's

547
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: why you love it so much. It's the one downfall

548
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: for the Wild and the Watchful Eye for me, Like,

549
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: I'm like the only Yeah, I hate is I can't

550
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: get it when you're binging sixty episode seasons of Love

551
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: Island and you haven't just an addiction. I understand why

552
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 1: the weight would be challenging. Yeah, okay, Well, I'm down

553
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: to give the Last of Us a chance a shot

554
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 1: everyone loves. Make sure you stick with it through that

555
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 1: third episode, and I think by then you'll be hooked,

556
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 1: all right. And after the first episode is not scary,

557
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: it's not. There are still a few scary moments because

558
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 1: they're still on the run. But I will say that

559
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: the third episode really doesn't have any scary moments. I'll

560
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: key all at all. And I agree with it. It's

561
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: more jump scares than it is. Is it appropriate for kids.

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00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: It's probably a little scary for kids, but I don't

563
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: know if they like they watched The Walking Day, they

564
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: watched stuff like that. I don't think, so you're probably not. Hey,

565
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: I got a bunch of responses to what makes you weird?

566
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: So if you want to break and see what makes

567
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: this sird? Alright, we're back. We do have an email,

568
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 1: but I do want to say I want to hear

569
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: what the scrubbers do that are weird things? So what

570
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: I posted was we're recording a podcast. Here's a question

571
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: for you, what makes you weird? For example, I can't

572
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 1: have my knees touching when I'm in bed. Some people

573
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: sleep with their socks on, So what do you do

574
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: that makes you weird? We all have something, and I

575
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Speaker 1: included a picture of the two of you that I

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00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 1: just took. I'm sitting right here. Mari says the knee

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00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: touching makes her feel so understoods So that's nice. Someone's

578
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 1: on my side of the knee thing. Hillary says, I

579
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: can't have any volume my phone, my TV radio, my AirPods.

580
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: Nothing can be volume level ever interesting, So she's like

581
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: the right. Christie says, my foods cannot touch on a plate,

582
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: or I won't eat them. When people mix their corn

583
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: with their mashed potatoes, I find it repulsive. I've that, uh, Kayla,

584
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: same thing. No knees touching, arms can't be against her body, Yes, agreed,

585
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: same thing. Uh And she also doesn't like chocolate, that's weird.

586
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: The cold drinks milk with ice. Katie can't have anything

587
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: touching her neck or feels like choking even her even

588
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: her shirt can't be too tight around her neck. Katie

589
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: has a funny story, so she could only drink milk

590
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: if she took it from the fridge, washed it being

591
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 1: poured into the glass. Then she would put a napkin

592
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: on top of the rubber band over so the bacteria

593
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: couldn't get in the cup and you'd only of the

594
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: napkins slightly for slips because the concern was that the

595
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: bacteria would get into the milk and that would make

596
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: her sick. Turns out she's super lactose intolerant. That bacteria

597
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: wasn't making her sick. It was the milk itself that

598
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: was making her sick. But that's how she always journey

599
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: for her to discover that. Kirsten always washes her legs

600
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: and feet before getting into bed. If you asked me,

601
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Speaker 1: Hillary loves socks and sandals. She wears them all the

602
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: time around the house. She just loves how that feels.

603
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 1: Socks and sandals actually slide with Like, yeah, my socks

604
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: and birkin socks is a really nice combo. I got

605
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Speaker 1: to say. And Maria says, whenever someone has a shirt

606
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: or even a jacket on and it's all bunched up

607
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: onto their armpit like tiny is in this picture, like

608
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 1: it is right now, I feel they need to pull

609
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: it down and straighten it out. My shirt is in

610
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: my army, well it's kind of bunched. It's just kind

611
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: of bunchy. Yeah, like that that's what she does to

612
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: people all day every day. Oh, my gosh, that's what

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00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: I looked like for the sock. I think it's like

614
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: a wide angle because I have spiraled way too much

615
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: to be I just took the picture sitting right here.

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Speaker 1: Why I didn't think the lens or something or how

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Speaker 1: you took it it made an extra wow, great profile though.

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Speaker 1: I thank you so much. My face feels really great lately.

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00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: Yeah it does. I can do my gwashaw and I

620
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,680
Speaker 1: just feel like, yeah, I feel like liquids are moving

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Speaker 1: and no matter how far back your head goes in

622
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:46,439
Speaker 1: that photing. Yeah, face feels real snatched and tight. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Well those were like I think I understood most of

624
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: this to what they're saying. Some of them I relate

625
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: to like certain foods I don't want touching. But then

626
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: sometimes I love mixing foods like I love I love

627
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: when my if I'm eating chicken with like a turkey

628
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: with the mashed potatoes that Thanksgiving, I love the mess.

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Speaker 1: That's delicious. But corner mashed with data is not into

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Speaker 1: that anyways. Hey, Liz says, help am I entitled Karen,

631
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: My husband and I are in a one car. I

632
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: gotta set a picture for you. So she's in a

633
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,280
Speaker 1: she and her husband in a one car garage condo,

634
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 1: and there's a single parking spot on the street between

635
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: their driveway and the neighbors driveway. The next closest spot

636
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: is way down the road, like seven houses, and it's

637
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: for visitors in this condo complex. Our next door neighbors

638
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: a single woman with a single car that works from

639
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: home and travels most weekends. She has a two car

640
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: garage and a driveway, yet she parks her car in

641
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: that spot at all times and rarely leaves the house.

642
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: When she does leave, it's glorious. We can park there.

643
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: We don't have to trudge all the way down the

644
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: street in the cold and the snow for every little

645
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 1: errand she parks in the driveway then when we have

646
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: the spot, but as soon as we leave, she moves

647
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 1: her car back out to the street. This has been

648
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 1: going on for two years. But I recently had a baby,

649
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,919
Speaker 1: and it's a rough winter and I've had enough. It's

650
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: miserable to run back and forth to warm the car

651
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: in the snow and ice with a newborn, and then

652
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: carry a car seat and millions of baby things in

653
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: this weather. On a regular basis, she watches me do

654
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: it and doesn't say a thing. It feels purposeful. Am

655
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: I being unreasonable to ask her to park in her

656
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: own driveway so we can have the spot at least

657
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,280
Speaker 1: until it's not freezing outside? Or is that too entitled

658
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: to ask her that I can't help but think of

659
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: this Sex in the City episode when Kara was randing

660
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 1: about how single people get screwed. What would you do?

661
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 1: I don't understand why she's just not parking her spot.

662
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 1: That's what I don't understand of the other woman's the

663
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 1: other woman in the driveway at the very least she

664
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 1: has two spots. Well, like I don't. I have a

665
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,760
Speaker 1: two car garage, but I have stuff in my garage,

666
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: so I don't park in my garage, but I have

667
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 1: a full drive way that I absolutely parking instead of

668
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 1: parking in front of my house. Yeah, over their own

669
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: draws what I'm saying, and even like sometimes because a

670
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: lot of times if Haley, if we're saying at my

671
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 1: place and Haley pulls in behind me and then I

672
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: have to leave the next morning, then it's annoying. So

673
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 1: she normally will park in front of my house. But

674
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:22,479
Speaker 1: if someone else was like in that situation, I would

675
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: be like, just let's park in the driveway and make

676
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,760
Speaker 1: it easier for them. Like I would never even would

677
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: say of our the woman that emails Liz, I think, Liz,

678
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 1: have you tried just asking her to park? I feel

679
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 1: like you're at your boiling point, But I feel like

680
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,399
Speaker 1: you haven't even tried anything yet. You're just you're you're

681
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 1: you haven't tried one thing. And sometimes we make up

682
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 1: scenarios in our head like she might have this woman

683
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: might be totally clueless, like she might totally might be

684
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: thinking like she's doing it on purpose, but she might

685
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 1: have no idea because single, she's not thinking about how

686
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 1: hard it is to like lug a newborn baby up

687
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,399
Speaker 1: and down the street or you know, warming at the car.

688
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 1: So I would just go over and be like, hey,

689
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: I know we just have this one spot. I know

690
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 1: that you have the drive or ask if you can

691
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: park in the driveway, or ask if you can take

692
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: one of her spots. That's what I'm saying, be like,

693
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: I know you have to. I just had a baby

694
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: and it's like so cold, do you mind if driveway?

695
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 1: If if the if you're using that spot, yeah and

696
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: that way? If she's like, oh, actually, I can just

697
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: park in the driveway and you can always think she

698
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: might be so lovely. If she's not, then that's a

699
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 1: different story. We need to Yeah, you're gonna have to

700
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: update us. But I think I don't think you're entitled

701
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: at all to have like a friendly conversation about it

702
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: and offer just to ask, like, hey, just especially during

703
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: the winter with a newborn, do you mind if we

704
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,760
Speaker 1: use one of your driveway spots or if we can,

705
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 1: you know, use this one spot that we have, and

706
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: if she's rude, emails back and we'll have a different

707
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: we'll have a different approach for you. All right, let's

708
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 1: do some worthy and weird stuff. How about this one

709
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: because a lot of people agree with this one. My

710
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: last bite of every meal has to be my favorite bite,

711
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: the one that will make my breath smell the best.

712
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 1: If I'm meeting a burger, for example, the best burger

713
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: bite is the center bite. So I have to eat

714
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: all the way around the edges and have the center last.

715
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: And other people like, yeah, I do that. I do.

716
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: That is lasting delicious flames fruit if it's part of

717
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: the meal, but if not, it's just the burger the

718
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: center last, and a lot of people agree. Uh, Narrata

719
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: eats her food counterclockwise. Sarah always drives in silence on

720
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: our way home from work. Well, that's kind of nice

721
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: to decompress. Perhaps, do you want to know something about

722
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: my girlfriend? Yes, she drives in silence. Yes, it is

723
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: the worst interesting. But then sometimes I find myself and

724
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 1: I'll be like ten minutes outside, like from home, like

725
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: I've already left, It's been ten minutes, and I realized

726
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: I've just been sitting in my thoughts in silence, and

727
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I get that. Never know silence, I have,

728
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 1: I have things in my ears. You should try to

729
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: sit in silence. Practice that no thank you constantly on

730
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: the phone or in meetings or like listening to music

731
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: or making music. And I think there's a part of

732
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 1: her that just likes the quiet because like that's kind

733
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:22,840
Speaker 1: of her time to I would think she would like

734
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: some podcast someone talking to her around music. And she

735
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: loves if she listens to music. She loves like two

736
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 1: thousand's pop. Yeah, so when we're she hates my music. Wow,

737
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 1: Gabby cannot have her alarm set to multiples of five.

738
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: It just included a screenshots five oh six five three

739
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 1: six o four eight oh two. That's like all interesting.

740
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 1: Kaylea will not drink the last sip of any drink,

741
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: and a bunch of people agree with that one. I'm

742
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: kind of with her on that one. I feel like

743
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 1: it's all backwash. It's in my backwash though, Yeah, but like,

744
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 1: why do you want to drink all your bad finish

745
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: my drink? I think? Uh? Katie always smells the milk

746
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: jug before she throws it away, loves it. It was unnecessary,

747
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 1: love it a lot of can off your food. Touch you,

748
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: get that? Get that? Get that. How about Ava sits

749
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 1: down to shave her legs in the shower? Is that

750
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: normal or that weird? I would love to sit down

751
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: in the shower if I had that ability, I'd sit

752
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:25,799
Speaker 1: the whole time. It's too small a shower where you drown.

753
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 1: I just don't have a bench, I think is dirty

754
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: feet or on the ground, and you can't feel safe

755
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 1: sitting on the floor. Her left thigh while eating. She

756
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: didn't know she had it till her she moved in

757
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: with her husband. She only does it when she eats.

758
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,760
Speaker 1: She rubs her left thigh. It's like comforting. My silver

759
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: ware cannot touch the table have to be on a

760
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: plate or a napkin at all times. You want to

761
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: know one that I'd used to do something the alarm clock.

762
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: One reminded me of this. There was a time when

763
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 1: I lived in San Diego. I remember specifically cause I

764
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: would have to wake up at like seven for work,

765
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,959
Speaker 1: and I would set my alarm for four am every

766
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: single morning, and I'd wake up and turn it off,

767
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,760
Speaker 1: and then I knew I had three hours to sleep. Interesting,

768
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 1: so destructive. I don't know why. I like when that

769
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: happened naturally, wake up goods at four hours to go.

770
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: But no, I've never said maybe I had a rush

771
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: when it happened naturally, and I thought I should stage this.

772
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, your hair looks so cute today. Oh

773
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 1: my gosh, thank you, Brittany. Can't Brittany have to chew

774
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: her food and equal amounts on each side. One bite left,

775
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: one bite. That's probably really good for her. J Georgina

776
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 1: cannot have her lips touched silverware. She used her teeth

777
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: to scrip the food off the fork. She's a psycho killer.

778
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: Toot me that I can't eat sweet breakfast if the

779
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: salt shaker was on the table I can't like cereal.

780
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 1: She can cereal. I can't like eat a bowl of

781
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: Lucky Charmers with the salt on the We got to

782
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 1: get back to the teeth on the poor honestly gives

783
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: me chills to purposely choose. That is that that's some

784
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 1: dark some dark, some dark stuff. Well here's Amy, who

785
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 1: probably would not get along with Georgina. She says, I

786
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,879
Speaker 1: can't rub my hands on any textured surface. I can't

787
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: even rub them together. I will run out of the

788
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 1: room if I hear someone rubbing their hands on a

789
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: textured surface. Oh, she would hate me. Because every time

790
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: I have a napkin and when I eat, I have

791
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,720
Speaker 1: to clean my fingers on the napkin after every bite.

792
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 1: So like, it's that napkin sound? Do we have enoughkin?

793
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 1: Ali hates it. Ali like freaks out. It's like this.

794
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: So like every time I take a bite, I do

795
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 1: Oh interesting. So like I'm I realized I can't have

796
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: anything on my hand, Like if I'm doing my makeup,

797
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 1: after every step, if I use my hands, I have

798
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: to wash them. My hands are very dry. Well I'm

799
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:02,800
Speaker 1: lotion on. You're naturally I got you made me feel

800
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 1: so stressed the other day. Immediate, just keeping keeping you fresh,

801
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 1: all right. This is what I do that drives my

802
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: family crazy. Actually, whenever I'm eating something that has crumbs,

803
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: a cookie, a slice of pizza, maybe it's a sandwich.

804
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: When I'm chewing, I kind of bounce it up and

805
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: down a little bit to get excess crumbs off of

806
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 1: it because I don't want them to fall into my

807
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 1: shirt or whatever. That drives them crazy because they tell

808
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: me you don't have to do that. You're doing it

809
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: because they think it's not an intentional thing. They think

810
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:36,280
Speaker 1: I just do it out of habit now because sometimes

811
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 1: it's not even a crumby thing. I'm just doing ye

812
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 1: to Deely, I definitely do it like chips and stuff.

813
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, cookies, Yeah, these are fun. I'm gona we

814
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:50,479
Speaker 1: got into this. This is fun stuff, good series. Everybody's weird.

815
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:54,439
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you everyone is weird. I'm telling you,

816
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,839
Speaker 1: if people get comfortable enough, they'll start sharing things that

817
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: we'll have you feel disturbing. Like Rihanna, that's your own right.

818
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: She did not sing that at the super Bowl. She didn't.

819
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 1: She also didn't sing love the Way You Lie. She didn't.

820
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,320
Speaker 1: She could have done a hell of a setlist on

821
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: songs she didn't play. That's the depth of her catalog

822
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 1: even Yeah, and I know every single song that she has,

823
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: but I didn't realize how many songs. I've been going

824
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: back all week. I've been going back into like old

825
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: Rihanna albums and like her deep cuts, the ones that

826
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:33,719
Speaker 1: were never even song singles are next to you is

827
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 1: everyone's called photograph. There's a photograph, Russian roulette. What's that one? Like?

828
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, this is from like her early days

829
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: cold Case of Love. M I was going through something

830
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: close to you, not next to you close? Oh, that

831
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: one's so good. I should go and do a deep

832
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 1: dive on like her albums because I really, I really

833
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: find that I only know the main in the anti

834
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: huh anti no, like her radio songs. You know my

835
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 1: favorite songs on any album, they're never you would love

836
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: h honest, back back back. I'm going to do that. Yeah,

837
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that. You're welcome, Thank you so much.

838
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: Do we want to do the last email or do

839
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 1: we wrap it up? I think we have to wrap

840
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:22,720
Speaker 1: it up Toinya and have to get to a meeting

841
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:29,240
Speaker 1: meetings over now. Yeah, I think the meeting happened thirty minutes.

842
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't care. You want to do another one? Yea?

843
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: Why not? It's President's Day. When I eat cheerios, I

844
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: have to eat the fattest ones first before I pour

845
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:39,800
Speaker 1: milk in. Aren't cheerio is all the same? Are the

846
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: fatter cheerio with another cheerio? All cheerios are equal? Can

847
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: I tell you something really random? Yeah, I haven't worn

848
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: a bra in like years, and like a real bro

849
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 1: like like well turn away, okay, like a cammy like

850
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: I were just like all tighter cammies. Yeah, like I

851
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 1: have more actual in years. And I just ordered a

852
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: Skims bra. It's coming today and I'm so excited. I

853
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: can't wait for the review. I know. I've just been

854
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: hearing such good things about these Skims bras. I got

855
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 1: a Skims dress and it is the best fitting dress.

856
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,439
Speaker 1: I'm so I'm excited to get back into the bra game.

857
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: You know, it's really interesting. Last week on the podcast,

858
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 1: I wore a real bra for the first time and

859
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: again the same thing so long, and it was horrible.

860
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:28,319
Speaker 1: I couldn't get home past enough to get it off,

861
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 1: take it off. It's interesting. It's gonna go either way.

862
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 1: But I'm excited Skims turns things around for you, open

863
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 1: to the possibility of not attached to the outcome. Yes, pleasure,

864
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 1: just pleasure, just bringing the girls back up again. You know,

865
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: I know that is I remember. Actually, I want to say,

866
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: Ashley I Connetti said her grandma slept in her braw

867
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 1: her whole life, and her boobs were just like sat

868
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: You know that's so crazy. I don't find that to

869
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: be true. I will not know if it is. Neither

870
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:03,399
Speaker 1: will I email many of these things. Okay, I'll give

871
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 1: you the last email here. But I like the volume

872
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: in Rebecca. I like to the volume in my car

873
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: to be able to make eight. For example, eighteen works

874
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,879
Speaker 1: because one times eight is eight. Twenty three works because

875
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 1: two to the third power is eight. The numbers of

876
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 1: the volume of the radio in her car has to

877
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 1: make eight. In some mathematical formula, two times to is four. Yeah,

878
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 1: so two is eight. Lexi finds the cheesiest dorito, licks

879
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: the cheese off and then smells it. Heyo, alright, Anonymous says,

880
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: my sister have been named this guy since October. He's nice,

881
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 1: but not the type of person my family expected her today,

882
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: she could do better. She's only twenty, so all of

883
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: us older siblings are protective and want her with the

884
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: best of the best. Well, they started talking about marriage,

885
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: and comments where brought up as we were planning our

886
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 1: family vacation, like, well, maybe we shouldn't plan our family

887
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 1: vacation because there could be a wedding to plan around

888
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 1: a week later. Sure enough, they've got a wedding date

889
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 1: set for Si. We're all scratching our heads. Here's the

890
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 1: list of conflicts. Number One, I'm gonna have a six

891
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: day old baby at that point. Number two, my brother's

892
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: wife has finals that day and she can't reschedule that,

893
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 1: so she's gonna have to miss the entire wedding. We've

894
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: tried talking to her. She totally shuts us down. This

895
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,320
Speaker 1: is nothing I can do about. It is just between

896
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,200
Speaker 1: me and my husband, or my group, my fiance, or

897
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: whatever it is. How do I turn my attitude around

898
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 1: and try to support my sister. I'm hurt. She doesn't

899
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,919
Speaker 1: want me to be a part of the planning at all.

900
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: She wouldn't even show me a picture of her ring.

901
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 1: The only reason she invited me to the dress shopping

902
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 1: with her because my Mom told him my feelings were

903
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: hurts and I don't even want to go. If there's

904
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 1: something going on with the groom, that seems like a

905
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: red flag to me. Is he a controlling person all

906
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: of a sudden, my sisters distancing herself from our family

907
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: and treating a soul poorly. She's only twenty. Do I

908
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: really just have to suffer through this with so many

909
00:49:57,000 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 1: other family members that all thinks she's making a huge mistake. Oh,

910
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: this sounds really toxic to me. This seems like red

911
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 1: flag anytime I find that, anytime someone's like distancing themselves

912
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 1: from family, like randomly, like that fast, there's something going

913
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: on with the person that they're with. The distancing I

914
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 1: think feels bad. But the wedding stuff, like if that's

915
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: the date they want, it's her wedding, Like it's not

916
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: all it's not I don't know. I'm like, well it

917
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: was if it's just about the date, if it was

918
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 1: just like, oh, they have this really beautiful relationship, we

919
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 1: love him, they chose this date. It's inconvenient in the

920
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 1: and the dress shopping, like maybe she doesn't want to

921
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 1: make the dress shopping a big hullabaloo. You know what

922
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I'm finding it. I mean,

923
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: because she's twenty and this happened so fast to me,

924
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:52,799
Speaker 1: it feels like this is almost like a toxic like

925
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 1: I'm doing my own thing. I don't want anyone around

926
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: because I love him. Leave maybe, and you might just

927
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: have to accept that and support her as best you can.

928
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:06,919
Speaker 1: But you might end up having to be there for her.

929
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 1: But that's what your friends and your family are for.

930
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: They're there to pick up the pieces and what I mean,

931
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: you're to be honest and help try to prevent you

932
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,240
Speaker 1: from making huge mistakes, Like how do you find that

933
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 1: if you stick your nose into something and let's say

934
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 1: they end their engagement or they end there whatever because

935
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:28,799
Speaker 1: of you, there's gonna be some sort of resentment in

936
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:33,800
Speaker 1: the future, I believe. Yeah. But on the flip side,

937
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 1: she doesn't say anything and she's just like, all right,

938
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let her do what she needs to do,

939
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: and then she goes through a really I mean, ultimately,

940
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 1: it's her sister's life and her what whatever decisions she makes.

941
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 1: It's like whatever happens, it's on her. You can say

942
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: something without belaboring it or like ruining your relationship over it.

943
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. What does she say that's

944
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: not going to ruin the day, But like, hey, I

945
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 1: just want you to really you know, I want to

946
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: be your sister. It doesn't sound like she's open to

947
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: hearing anything. It's the problem. Yeah, I think you give

948
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: it your best shot. I'm just saying, is something going on,

949
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 1: Like give her space and make her feel like you're

950
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 1: not attacking her. But if she doesn't take the bait,

951
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: if she doesn't open up, you can't force it. Yeah,

952
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 1: it's very tough, just my humble opinion. Yeah, he probably

953
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 1: is very controlling. He may very well be behind her

954
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: pushing you away. He may very well be pushing her

955
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: to get married before she's ready. But I don't know

956
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: that there's much you can do without pushing you deeper

957
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: into his plan. So I think you just got to

958
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:42,319
Speaker 1: support her and give her the space and opportunities. Yeah,

959
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 1: and if it ends bad, just be there for her.

960
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 1: And people just have to make the make mistakes. It's true,

961
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: you do. You have to learn things a hard way sometimes.

962
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 1: So I would hope if I was getting like you

963
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: would say something to me if you thought I was

964
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 1: making a huge mistake. You criticize my nails, no problem.

965
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 1: I would say something to you. I would say something

966
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,760
Speaker 1: to you, but I also wouldn't make you feel like

967
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 1: I'm so stuck. Like let's play out like it's not Haley.

968
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:15,399
Speaker 1: Let's pretend you're marrying somebody else X and I hate X,

969
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: and I think it's a mistake for you. I would

970
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 1: say I would approach you, and I would say, like,

971
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 1: I would kind of try and do it in a

972
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 1: non aggressive way. How are you feeling. It feels like

973
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: you've been you know, I'm not sure things are not

974
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 1: you feel like you're not in a great place, and

975
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: I'm happier than I've ever been. Okay, that's great. I

976
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: just wanted to bring it up because of you know,

977
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 1: I love you, and I just want I just want

978
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: your best interest. But I think if you come at

979
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 1: it from a place of like this X is bad

980
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: for you and you gotta get away, It's just it's

981
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 1: just the way you approach it. Approach it with like

982
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: a loving, caring, thoughtful manner, and then don't belabor it,

983
00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: don't keep bringing it up and up, because then that's

984
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 1: just a no. Well, and I think she's just going

985
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: to distance herself. So I think if you can be

986
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 1: as supportive as you can in this situation, at least

987
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: you can maintain the relationship and you can be there

988
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:12,360
Speaker 1: for her when she does feel ready to talk or

989
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 1: open up. Correct. Great, that's hard, really, I mean, that's

990
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: like a very complicated situation to navigate because a lot

991
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: of people do it, ma'am. Oh, yeah, a lot of

992
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: people do it. They do, they do, and they just

993
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 1: got to do it, and they just got do and

994
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 1: go through it, and then the friends are there to

995
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: pick up the pieces. That's right, that's what we're here for.

996
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 1: That's that's what friends are ful. Keep seann and keep driving,

997
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 1: keep smiling, keep smiling. I'll be on your side forever more.

998
00:54:54,000 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: That's what friends are full. Alright, on that out. Happy

999
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: President's Daffy President Day, Happy Happy Birthday, Robbie Red Star Rubbie. Yeah,

1000
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: I hope you get washed hair with the laundry tonight. Yeah, Rah, alright,

1001
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 1: we love you, love you by