1 00:00:15,076 --> 00:00:24,276 Speaker 1: Pushkin, this is solvable. I'm Jacob Weisberg. There are only 2 00:00:24,316 --> 00:00:29,556 Speaker 1: a few real cons that exist, and the bones of 3 00:00:29,596 --> 00:00:31,676 Speaker 1: the story are the same, and they've been the same 4 00:00:31,716 --> 00:00:36,356 Speaker 1: for centuries. Author Maria Khanikova has been writing about these 5 00:00:36,396 --> 00:00:39,716 Speaker 1: stories for a number of years. Her book The Confidence 6 00:00:39,756 --> 00:00:43,476 Speaker 1: Game explores stories of con artists, opportunists, the people who 7 00:00:43,556 --> 00:00:45,956 Speaker 1: build up our trust and then take everything we have. 8 00:00:46,756 --> 00:00:49,836 Speaker 1: I think Bernie made off the late investor who destroyed 9 00:00:49,876 --> 00:00:55,076 Speaker 1: countless lives with false promises and financial theft. But before 10 00:00:55,076 --> 00:00:58,356 Speaker 1: we pledge to fight to abolish all scams, remember this 11 00:00:58,476 --> 00:01:02,356 Speaker 1: another side to those familiar stories too, The flip side 12 00:01:02,516 --> 00:01:07,756 Speaker 1: of our vulnerability too, cons is human connection and trust 13 00:01:07,796 --> 00:01:10,596 Speaker 1: and all the good stuff. So how do we protect 14 00:01:10,676 --> 00:01:14,116 Speaker 1: our loved ones and ourselves? Will scams be an enduring 15 00:01:14,196 --> 00:01:18,356 Speaker 1: part of society forever because we refuse or are unable 16 00:01:18,436 --> 00:01:21,476 Speaker 1: to learn from our mistakes Rather than admitting, Yep, I 17 00:01:21,556 --> 00:01:24,436 Speaker 1: was dumb. I fell for a scam. You say, oh no, no, 18 00:01:24,916 --> 00:01:27,636 Speaker 1: Here are all of the mitigating circumstances and it probably 19 00:01:27,716 --> 00:01:30,476 Speaker 1: wasn't even a scam. So I think that it takes 20 00:01:30,516 --> 00:01:35,756 Speaker 1: a strong person because it's embarrassing, it's embarrassing, because embarrassing 21 00:01:35,756 --> 00:01:40,156 Speaker 1: to admit it. So can scams be solved? Maria Kannakova thinks, 22 00:01:40,156 --> 00:01:49,316 Speaker 1: so being victimized by a scam is actually a solvable problem. 23 00:01:49,396 --> 00:01:52,516 Speaker 1: Maria has gone from investigating the lies we tell ourselves 24 00:01:52,636 --> 00:01:55,956 Speaker 1: to mastering the bluff herself by learning to play poker 25 00:01:56,156 --> 00:01:59,036 Speaker 1: at a world class level and writing about that too. 26 00:01:59,716 --> 00:02:02,156 Speaker 1: So I started by asking her why she's so hooked 27 00:02:02,196 --> 00:02:06,996 Speaker 1: on these concepts of big and small manipulations. My first 28 00:02:07,036 --> 00:02:11,436 Speaker 1: book was about Charlock, So I've kind of traveled this 29 00:02:11,636 --> 00:02:14,996 Speaker 1: gamut from you know, how do you be a detective? Too? Okay, 30 00:02:14,996 --> 00:02:17,316 Speaker 1: what are the what are the bad guys doing? To 31 00:02:17,476 --> 00:02:21,196 Speaker 1: kind of being the bad guy myself but within a game, right, so, 32 00:02:21,636 --> 00:02:24,996 Speaker 1: so there are rules. And one of the reasons that 33 00:02:25,196 --> 00:02:29,516 Speaker 1: I've that it's been such a passion of mine is 34 00:02:29,516 --> 00:02:33,436 Speaker 1: that I hate to see in reality, not in a game. 35 00:02:33,516 --> 00:02:36,756 Speaker 1: I hate to see people being taken advantage of, and 36 00:02:36,796 --> 00:02:40,956 Speaker 1: how often that happens, and how scammers often will target 37 00:02:41,036 --> 00:02:45,636 Speaker 1: the most vulnerable parts of our population, the most vulnerable people, 38 00:02:45,916 --> 00:02:48,796 Speaker 1: and then we as a society target them again by 39 00:02:48,796 --> 00:02:52,116 Speaker 1: blaming them and by saying, oh, well, you were just 40 00:02:52,156 --> 00:02:55,036 Speaker 1: stupid you were just greedy, you were just dumb. You know, 41 00:02:55,076 --> 00:02:57,356 Speaker 1: you shouldn't have fallen for it. I wouldn't have fallen 42 00:02:57,396 --> 00:03:00,156 Speaker 1: for it, and that just gets me. Yeah, well, I 43 00:03:00,196 --> 00:03:02,836 Speaker 1: was going to ask you because of your long standing interest. 44 00:03:02,876 --> 00:03:04,796 Speaker 1: I mean, is this personal for you in any way? 45 00:03:04,836 --> 00:03:08,356 Speaker 1: Have you been scammed yourself or people close to you 46 00:03:08,516 --> 00:03:12,716 Speaker 1: been victim of scams? I personally have not been scammed 47 00:03:12,756 --> 00:03:14,916 Speaker 1: that I know of, but one point I always make 48 00:03:15,036 --> 00:03:17,876 Speaker 1: is that you know, the best scams are ones that 49 00:03:17,956 --> 00:03:21,516 Speaker 1: you're probably not aware of. So I'm sure I've been 50 00:03:21,516 --> 00:03:26,636 Speaker 1: scammed on small things. And when you're about to get 51 00:03:26,676 --> 00:03:30,916 Speaker 1: on the subway, someone stops you and says, hey, you know, 52 00:03:30,956 --> 00:03:34,516 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I lost my wallet. Do you have 53 00:03:34,556 --> 00:03:37,236 Speaker 1: the fare for the subway, for the bus, for the train. 54 00:03:37,316 --> 00:03:40,396 Speaker 1: I need to get back to my family. And there's 55 00:03:40,436 --> 00:03:43,436 Speaker 1: so many excuses, and you can do one of two things. 56 00:03:43,476 --> 00:03:46,356 Speaker 1: You can say I think you're a con artist. I'm 57 00:03:46,396 --> 00:03:48,396 Speaker 1: not going to give you any money and walk on. 58 00:03:48,836 --> 00:03:50,756 Speaker 1: You feel kind of shitty, You feel like a bad 59 00:03:50,836 --> 00:03:53,916 Speaker 1: person because what if they actually needed you. I've lost 60 00:03:53,996 --> 00:03:57,036 Speaker 1: my wallet, I've needed help in the past, and I 61 00:03:57,076 --> 00:04:00,356 Speaker 1: think we've all probably been on the other side of that, 62 00:04:00,916 --> 00:04:03,956 Speaker 1: And so the trade off is, yeah, maybe you get scammed, 63 00:04:04,396 --> 00:04:07,996 Speaker 1: but I'd rather take the risk of being the victim 64 00:04:08,076 --> 00:04:12,076 Speaker 1: of a scammer and particular instance, and I'm sure I've 65 00:04:12,116 --> 00:04:14,916 Speaker 1: been scammed that way. Well, that's interesting. I mean, I 66 00:04:14,956 --> 00:04:18,516 Speaker 1: have an experience that still sticks with me from high school. 67 00:04:18,556 --> 00:04:21,156 Speaker 1: I remember in Chicago, where I was growing up, walking 68 00:04:21,156 --> 00:04:23,876 Speaker 1: through Lincoln Park and there was a guy kind of 69 00:04:23,956 --> 00:04:27,036 Speaker 1: ragged looking walking with a gas can, and he stopped 70 00:04:27,076 --> 00:04:29,956 Speaker 1: me and told me this whole sad story about how 71 00:04:29,956 --> 00:04:32,636 Speaker 1: he was trying to get back to Florida to see 72 00:04:32,636 --> 00:04:34,676 Speaker 1: his family and his card run out of gas and 73 00:04:34,716 --> 00:04:37,036 Speaker 1: he needed the money for gas. Now, I was probably 74 00:04:37,036 --> 00:04:39,276 Speaker 1: fifteen years old or something like that, but I think 75 00:04:39,276 --> 00:04:40,836 Speaker 1: I gave him ten dollars, which would have been a 76 00:04:40,876 --> 00:04:44,076 Speaker 1: lot of money to me at the time, and I 77 00:04:44,196 --> 00:04:46,436 Speaker 1: felt kind of good about myself for doing that. And 78 00:04:46,436 --> 00:04:48,116 Speaker 1: then a week later I was walking through the park 79 00:04:48,116 --> 00:04:49,956 Speaker 1: and there was the same guy walking around with his 80 00:04:50,076 --> 00:04:54,636 Speaker 1: gas can, and you know, it just it sticks with 81 00:04:54,716 --> 00:04:59,756 Speaker 1: you because it's a sort of formative experience of misplaced trust. 82 00:05:00,316 --> 00:05:02,476 Speaker 1: You know, the cure or can be worse than the disease, 83 00:05:02,596 --> 00:05:04,956 Speaker 1: right if the cure is to be mistrustful of people 84 00:05:05,356 --> 00:05:08,676 Speaker 1: and to be kind of hard shelled and not have 85 00:05:09,116 --> 00:05:12,236 Speaker 1: empathy for people who seem to be in a bad 86 00:05:12,316 --> 00:05:15,916 Speaker 1: situation because they might be scamming you. That's not a 87 00:05:15,916 --> 00:05:21,636 Speaker 1: good outcome either. I couldn't agree more. I actually saw 88 00:05:21,676 --> 00:05:26,796 Speaker 1: that sentiment phrased in the most beautiful way by Ricky Jay, 89 00:05:26,996 --> 00:05:30,436 Speaker 1: who was a lifelong student of the Khan. He was 90 00:05:30,676 --> 00:05:34,356 Speaker 1: fascinated by them, and he wasn't he wasn't just a magician. 91 00:05:34,436 --> 00:05:37,316 Speaker 1: He was someone who really enjoyed kind of that dark side. 92 00:05:37,676 --> 00:05:40,556 Speaker 1: And he said once in an interview, he said, I 93 00:05:40,596 --> 00:05:43,236 Speaker 1: wouldn't want to live in a world where we can't 94 00:05:43,276 --> 00:05:47,116 Speaker 1: get conned, because that's a world where you can't believe 95 00:05:47,236 --> 00:05:51,836 Speaker 1: in anyone or anything. And I think that there's a 96 00:05:51,836 --> 00:05:55,476 Speaker 1: lot of truth to that that the flip side of 97 00:05:55,476 --> 00:06:00,596 Speaker 1: our vulnerability to cons is human connection and trust and 98 00:06:00,636 --> 00:06:04,196 Speaker 1: all the good stuff. And so it's it's one of 99 00:06:04,236 --> 00:06:07,876 Speaker 1: these things where, you know, do we want to solve 100 00:06:08,156 --> 00:06:11,516 Speaker 1: all cons forever and ever? I don't actually think we do. 101 00:06:11,796 --> 00:06:13,436 Speaker 1: I think we want to target it and be a 102 00:06:13,476 --> 00:06:16,556 Speaker 1: little bit more specific and say, okay, you know, we 103 00:06:16,636 --> 00:06:21,196 Speaker 1: can make ourselves invulnerable to online scams or two kind 104 00:06:21,236 --> 00:06:24,636 Speaker 1: of different scams of that sort. But in terms of 105 00:06:24,716 --> 00:06:28,796 Speaker 1: human to human contact, I think that we're always going 106 00:06:28,836 --> 00:06:31,476 Speaker 1: to have to leave a window open for vulnerability. And 107 00:06:31,516 --> 00:06:34,476 Speaker 1: that's okay, that's really interesting. I want to get into 108 00:06:34,516 --> 00:06:37,556 Speaker 1: the types of scams in a minute, but first I 109 00:06:37,556 --> 00:06:40,436 Speaker 1: want to ask you, just broadly speaking, if we agree 110 00:06:40,436 --> 00:06:42,636 Speaker 1: on that that the solution to scams is not to 111 00:06:43,316 --> 00:06:46,516 Speaker 1: go in mistrustful of everyone you meet, what is the 112 00:06:46,596 --> 00:06:50,756 Speaker 1: way to avoid becoming a victim of scams by actually 113 00:06:50,796 --> 00:06:54,596 Speaker 1: being smarter and a little bit more skeptical and a 114 00:06:54,636 --> 00:06:59,236 Speaker 1: little bit less giving of information about ourselves. The modern 115 00:06:59,316 --> 00:07:03,036 Speaker 1: day person has given up privacy in so many ways. 116 00:07:03,436 --> 00:07:06,716 Speaker 1: You know, we have public profiles on all sorts of 117 00:07:06,756 --> 00:07:11,556 Speaker 1: social media where we list really portant information about ourselves. Obviously, 118 00:07:11,556 --> 00:07:13,916 Speaker 1: you know you've got the big ones. You know your birthday, 119 00:07:14,396 --> 00:07:17,956 Speaker 1: and every single network keeps wanting to know my birthday 120 00:07:18,156 --> 00:07:20,276 Speaker 1: and keeps reminding me, don't you want people to wish 121 00:07:20,276 --> 00:07:21,956 Speaker 1: you a happy birthday? And I say, you know what, 122 00:07:21,996 --> 00:07:24,556 Speaker 1: I'd rather not thank you, because the people who know 123 00:07:24,676 --> 00:07:26,236 Speaker 1: me and who care about me can wish me a 124 00:07:26,236 --> 00:07:29,036 Speaker 1: happy birthday, and I don't need the world at large 125 00:07:29,076 --> 00:07:32,636 Speaker 1: knowing my birthday. But we also post happy things, you know, 126 00:07:32,676 --> 00:07:36,716 Speaker 1: the birth of children, exactly when they were born, the 127 00:07:36,876 --> 00:07:40,556 Speaker 1: date of the time, their weight, their eye color, all 128 00:07:40,596 --> 00:07:45,396 Speaker 1: of these things, happy moments, sad moments, divorces, marriages, it's 129 00:07:45,436 --> 00:07:48,396 Speaker 1: all out there, and this is all information that can 130 00:07:48,436 --> 00:07:52,436 Speaker 1: be used against us by con artists. I always advocate 131 00:07:52,476 --> 00:07:55,396 Speaker 1: and people look at me like I have twenty heads, 132 00:07:55,476 --> 00:07:57,796 Speaker 1: especially when I'm talking to you know, high school students 133 00:07:57,876 --> 00:08:00,716 Speaker 1: or college students, and they just think that I'm this 134 00:08:00,996 --> 00:08:04,076 Speaker 1: complete monster when I say, you know, make things private, 135 00:08:04,396 --> 00:08:07,316 Speaker 1: don't ever accept friend requests from people you don't know, 136 00:08:07,756 --> 00:08:10,796 Speaker 1: don't share these types of things. And it's one of 137 00:08:10,796 --> 00:08:15,116 Speaker 1: these things where I'm pushing against a tide that I 138 00:08:15,156 --> 00:08:17,556 Speaker 1: think I'm going to lose. But that's kind of something 139 00:08:17,676 --> 00:08:22,116 Speaker 1: really really simple that we can do to actually make 140 00:08:22,156 --> 00:08:24,676 Speaker 1: ourselves less vulnerable. The other thing I would say is 141 00:08:24,796 --> 00:08:28,676 Speaker 1: education actually works. So it turns out when you're looking 142 00:08:28,796 --> 00:08:33,916 Speaker 1: at people's susceptibility to cons that if you teach them 143 00:08:33,996 --> 00:08:37,636 Speaker 1: about specific types of cons and what the scripts are 144 00:08:37,756 --> 00:08:39,916 Speaker 1: and how people get to you and what they say 145 00:08:39,996 --> 00:08:44,076 Speaker 1: ahead of time before they're in that hot emotional situation, 146 00:08:44,436 --> 00:08:46,436 Speaker 1: then they're not going to fall for it. So a 147 00:08:46,436 --> 00:08:49,796 Speaker 1: great example is the grandparent scam. So you get a 148 00:08:49,836 --> 00:08:53,956 Speaker 1: phone call. Your grandchild has been in an accident. They're 149 00:08:53,956 --> 00:08:56,996 Speaker 1: in the hospital. We need money. You can't call their 150 00:08:56,996 --> 00:08:59,916 Speaker 1: parents because they were on drugs. You know, they were 151 00:08:59,956 --> 00:09:02,636 Speaker 1: in Mexico. And oh my god, your grandchild really was 152 00:09:02,676 --> 00:09:07,356 Speaker 1: in Mexico on vacation. Surprise, surprise, Right, social media posts 153 00:09:07,396 --> 00:09:10,076 Speaker 1: you can actually use real information, and so you get 154 00:09:10,076 --> 00:09:13,916 Speaker 1: scared and you wire money. This happens all the time. 155 00:09:14,236 --> 00:09:16,596 Speaker 1: But it turns out that if you actually teach people 156 00:09:16,676 --> 00:09:19,636 Speaker 1: about this scam, they stop falling for it. They'll start 157 00:09:19,676 --> 00:09:23,116 Speaker 1: asking verifying questions. So the old you know what I 158 00:09:23,156 --> 00:09:26,516 Speaker 1: always keep coming back to is what we're taught as 159 00:09:26,596 --> 00:09:30,876 Speaker 1: journalists from the very beginning. Trust but verify, Yeah, verify, verify, 160 00:09:31,076 --> 00:09:36,196 Speaker 1: verify whenever you're making an important decision, whenever you're forging 161 00:09:36,236 --> 00:09:39,476 Speaker 1: a new relationship, especially when there's money involved. But even 162 00:09:39,516 --> 00:09:42,836 Speaker 1: if there's no money involved, verify. Don't take things at 163 00:09:42,836 --> 00:09:47,396 Speaker 1: face value when it's actually important. Yeah, but verify, no 164 00:09:47,476 --> 00:09:51,636 Speaker 1: matter how scared you are. The enemy of verification is convenience, 165 00:09:51,716 --> 00:09:55,316 Speaker 1: I mean, slows you down and it's all the pathwords 166 00:09:55,356 --> 00:09:58,356 Speaker 1: you have to remember and the two step verification you 167 00:09:58,396 --> 00:10:01,356 Speaker 1: know to log on to anything, and you know, often 168 00:10:01,396 --> 00:10:04,756 Speaker 1: it's a deterrent to just getting what you want to 169 00:10:04,756 --> 00:10:06,876 Speaker 1: do on the thing you want to read or the 170 00:10:06,916 --> 00:10:09,916 Speaker 1: thing you want to transact online, and of cour ninety 171 00:10:09,956 --> 00:10:12,236 Speaker 1: nine point nine percent of times you'd be fine. So 172 00:10:12,276 --> 00:10:14,636 Speaker 1: it's very tempting not to go through that step in 173 00:10:14,676 --> 00:10:18,916 Speaker 1: the process. Absolutely, I think convenience is the enemy, and 174 00:10:18,996 --> 00:10:22,316 Speaker 1: I will add to that, desire is the other enemy. 175 00:10:22,396 --> 00:10:26,676 Speaker 1: That we often want to believe something is true so 176 00:10:26,756 --> 00:10:29,036 Speaker 1: much that we don't want to verify it. I don't 177 00:10:29,036 --> 00:10:31,116 Speaker 1: actually know the real origin of the phrase to I 178 00:10:31,156 --> 00:10:34,196 Speaker 1: can help someone who might know. Well. Ronald Reagan made 179 00:10:34,196 --> 00:10:39,156 Speaker 1: it famous when he was opening nuclear negotiations with Mikhail Gorbachev. 180 00:10:39,556 --> 00:10:42,676 Speaker 1: And there was a Russian scholars just something I happen 181 00:10:42,716 --> 00:10:44,636 Speaker 1: to know because I wrote a book about Ronald Reagan. 182 00:10:44,916 --> 00:10:49,236 Speaker 1: Suzanne Massey. She was a Russian scholar who his book 183 00:10:49,396 --> 00:10:52,556 Speaker 1: Ronald Reagan read, and he invited her in and she said, 184 00:10:52,556 --> 00:10:54,236 Speaker 1: I want to teach you a phrase in Russian to 185 00:10:54,516 --> 00:10:57,876 Speaker 1: use with Gorbachev. And I can't say it in Russian, 186 00:10:57,956 --> 00:11:01,036 Speaker 1: but it's it's a Russian phrase, trust but verifying, and 187 00:11:01,116 --> 00:11:03,396 Speaker 1: Reagan loved it, and so of course every time he 188 00:11:03,476 --> 00:11:06,196 Speaker 1: kept repeating it and repeating it and every by the 189 00:11:06,236 --> 00:11:08,916 Speaker 1: fifth meeting with GARBAGEV. Garbachev was like, don't say that 190 00:11:09,116 --> 00:11:13,036 Speaker 1: trust verify. Think again. But it is a good it's 191 00:11:13,076 --> 00:11:15,436 Speaker 1: a very good lesson to apply. And you know a 192 00:11:15,436 --> 00:11:18,516 Speaker 1: lot of places, right So imagine we're talking about the 193 00:11:18,556 --> 00:11:21,636 Speaker 1: online environment right now. A lot of scams online happen 194 00:11:21,676 --> 00:11:25,116 Speaker 1: on dating websites where you meet someone and they're not 195 00:11:25,156 --> 00:11:27,876 Speaker 1: who they say there they are, and there's a lot 196 00:11:27,916 --> 00:11:30,596 Speaker 1: of emotional stuff involved. And in that sense, you don't 197 00:11:30,676 --> 00:11:33,796 Speaker 1: verify because of convenience. You don't verify because you want 198 00:11:33,796 --> 00:11:36,396 Speaker 1: to believe in this. You want to believe that it's 199 00:11:36,476 --> 00:11:39,316 Speaker 1: wonderful and it's great, and you're meeting someone who really 200 00:11:39,356 --> 00:11:42,236 Speaker 1: cares about you, and so you're willing to overlook a 201 00:11:42,236 --> 00:11:44,596 Speaker 1: lot of things. And so I think that if when 202 00:11:44,596 --> 00:11:47,556 Speaker 1: you put those things together, they are a potent combination 203 00:11:47,676 --> 00:11:52,276 Speaker 1: towards not verifying and towards just trusting. Has there been 204 00:11:52,316 --> 00:11:55,036 Speaker 1: innovation and surely that is one of the oldest categories 205 00:11:55,036 --> 00:11:59,116 Speaker 1: of scamming. Is is there any digital innovation around that, 206 00:11:59,316 --> 00:12:02,516 Speaker 1: or is this simply an old form being distributed via 207 00:12:02,596 --> 00:12:06,116 Speaker 1: new technology. Yeah. I think the answer to both of 208 00:12:06,156 --> 00:12:09,396 Speaker 1: those things is yes, in the sense that there are 209 00:12:09,436 --> 00:12:14,876 Speaker 1: only a few real cons that exist, and the bones 210 00:12:14,916 --> 00:12:16,836 Speaker 1: of the story are the same, and they've been the 211 00:12:16,876 --> 00:12:20,156 Speaker 1: same for centuries, and they just get kind of updated 212 00:12:20,196 --> 00:12:22,996 Speaker 1: with the time and with the place. It's funny, I 213 00:12:22,996 --> 00:12:26,396 Speaker 1: think that every single time there's a new technology, one 214 00:12:26,436 --> 00:12:30,356 Speaker 1: of the first movers to adapt it is the con artist. 215 00:12:30,796 --> 00:12:34,396 Speaker 1: So you'd probably soon after you've had the Alexander graham 216 00:12:34,436 --> 00:12:38,396 Speaker 1: bell first phone call, probably the next one was a 217 00:12:38,436 --> 00:12:42,316 Speaker 1: telemarketer or some sort of a scam phone call soon 218 00:12:42,436 --> 00:12:46,636 Speaker 1: on its heels. So every new technology just invites its 219 00:12:47,236 --> 00:12:50,676 Speaker 1: ease of access. The Internet is just kind of this 220 00:12:51,356 --> 00:12:55,316 Speaker 1: absolute gold mine for con artists, not just because of 221 00:12:55,316 --> 00:12:59,036 Speaker 1: the information we provide, but because there's such easy access 222 00:12:59,116 --> 00:13:02,996 Speaker 1: to so many people and dating sites. You already have 223 00:13:04,076 --> 00:13:08,596 Speaker 1: your victims pre screening themselves. They're going on there because 224 00:13:09,396 --> 00:13:13,156 Speaker 1: they're lonely, they're vulnerable, they're looking for connection, they're looking 225 00:13:13,196 --> 00:13:15,916 Speaker 1: for something. One of the things that we find about 226 00:13:15,956 --> 00:13:19,756 Speaker 1: the victims of con artists are it doesn't really matter 227 00:13:19,836 --> 00:13:22,596 Speaker 1: how educated they are, or how old they are or 228 00:13:22,636 --> 00:13:25,996 Speaker 1: any of that. But what does matter is where they 229 00:13:26,036 --> 00:13:29,436 Speaker 1: are in their life in terms of are you going 230 00:13:29,476 --> 00:13:32,476 Speaker 1: through a moment of transition? Are you emotionally vulnerable? And 231 00:13:32,516 --> 00:13:34,916 Speaker 1: it turns out that those moments of transition and change 232 00:13:35,116 --> 00:13:38,836 Speaker 1: are the times when you're most likely to get scammed. 233 00:13:43,036 --> 00:13:49,316 Speaker 1: Scams play on kind of primary emotions, you know, lust, loneliness, fear, 234 00:13:49,556 --> 00:13:54,516 Speaker 1: and greed. It's interesting how many scams are openly from 235 00:13:54,596 --> 00:13:58,916 Speaker 1: someone engaging in corruption inviting you to participate it or 236 00:13:58,996 --> 00:14:01,596 Speaker 1: help them in their corruption. I mean, I think of 237 00:14:01,636 --> 00:14:04,196 Speaker 1: that classically as the you know, the son of the 238 00:14:04,316 --> 00:14:07,516 Speaker 1: Nigerian oil minister scam. You know where you get a 239 00:14:07,596 --> 00:14:10,236 Speaker 1: text or an email saying this is money in a 240 00:14:10,276 --> 00:14:13,516 Speaker 1: bank account and I need your help to access it 241 00:14:13,756 --> 00:14:16,116 Speaker 1: and I'll share it with you. That is be a 242 00:14:16,156 --> 00:14:21,116 Speaker 1: thief with me. Indeed. Indeed, and why not that Nigerian 243 00:14:21,196 --> 00:14:24,556 Speaker 1: oil minister didn't get it fairly anyway, so they have 244 00:14:24,676 --> 00:14:29,516 Speaker 1: it coming. It's wonderful what we can justify when some 245 00:14:29,556 --> 00:14:32,236 Speaker 1: poor person is actually the son of the Nigerian oil 246 00:14:32,276 --> 00:14:35,756 Speaker 1: minister and has I imagine he has very little credibility 247 00:14:37,036 --> 00:14:39,756 Speaker 1: when it when he explains who he is. But you know, 248 00:14:39,796 --> 00:14:43,716 Speaker 1: I was thinking about this. Bernie Madeoff recently died, and 249 00:14:44,436 --> 00:14:48,836 Speaker 1: one of the interesting subtleties of the Madeoff case is 250 00:14:48,996 --> 00:14:53,436 Speaker 1: that an argument was made that many of his investors 251 00:14:54,196 --> 00:14:57,916 Speaker 1: thought he was a scammer. They just misunderstood the type 252 00:14:57,916 --> 00:15:01,356 Speaker 1: of scam. They thought he was involved in insider trading, 253 00:15:01,796 --> 00:15:05,036 Speaker 1: and they were beneficiaries of it, because, of course, it 254 00:15:05,076 --> 00:15:09,076 Speaker 1: was very un usual, unrealistic for a stock market investor 255 00:15:09,636 --> 00:15:17,636 Speaker 1: to generate consistent double digit returns. So sophisticated investors either 256 00:15:17,716 --> 00:15:21,756 Speaker 1: weren't paying attention or had an inkling that something was up. 257 00:15:22,196 --> 00:15:24,476 Speaker 1: They just didn't realize that they were the victims. They 258 00:15:24,516 --> 00:15:28,676 Speaker 1: thought they were, that he was victimizing other people and 259 00:15:28,956 --> 00:15:31,116 Speaker 1: you know, they didn't need to know about it. Was 260 00:15:31,156 --> 00:15:33,436 Speaker 1: that your understanding of what was going on there. It 261 00:15:33,516 --> 00:15:36,156 Speaker 1: was my understanding of some of it, but some of 262 00:15:36,156 --> 00:15:41,516 Speaker 1: it was also just people really being taken advantage of. So, yeah, 263 00:15:41,556 --> 00:15:44,476 Speaker 1: there were some sophisticated adventistors with made Off, but there 264 00:15:44,476 --> 00:15:46,796 Speaker 1: were also people who just gave him their life savings 265 00:15:46,916 --> 00:15:49,916 Speaker 1: because they'd heard from others who they trusted that this 266 00:15:49,956 --> 00:15:52,516 Speaker 1: is someone who's good at what he does, and he 267 00:15:52,676 --> 00:15:55,436 Speaker 1: ruined their lives completely. I mean, he wiped them out. 268 00:15:55,796 --> 00:15:59,476 Speaker 1: And I think that it's important not to lump everyone 269 00:15:59,516 --> 00:16:01,636 Speaker 1: in together, because I do think that there were people 270 00:16:01,716 --> 00:16:05,516 Speaker 1: who really weren't sophisticated and who don't understand that those 271 00:16:05,556 --> 00:16:09,116 Speaker 1: types of returns are crazy, and who just say, oh, 272 00:16:09,156 --> 00:16:12,356 Speaker 1: you know, it's a great opportunity. Right. It's not actually 273 00:16:12,396 --> 00:16:15,676 Speaker 1: crazy in the modern world to see these sorts of 274 00:16:16,236 --> 00:16:19,436 Speaker 1: sometimes insane returns, And if you're not a sophisticated investor, 275 00:16:19,956 --> 00:16:24,076 Speaker 1: it's not necessarily greed in the sense of ha ha, 276 00:16:24,676 --> 00:16:27,836 Speaker 1: he's taking advantage of someone on my behalf. It's the 277 00:16:27,916 --> 00:16:30,516 Speaker 1: sense that I've worked really hard. These are my life savings, 278 00:16:30,636 --> 00:16:35,236 Speaker 1: and I found a smart opportunity, so why not take 279 00:16:35,276 --> 00:16:38,916 Speaker 1: advantage of it. Other people who are smart are doing it, 280 00:16:39,076 --> 00:16:42,236 Speaker 1: so why not me. Let me invest in crypto. Look 281 00:16:42,236 --> 00:16:45,436 Speaker 1: at the returns people are getting. That seems like a 282 00:16:45,516 --> 00:16:48,436 Speaker 1: really great thing to do. Let me buy some of 283 00:16:48,436 --> 00:16:52,156 Speaker 1: that coin. Oh boy, I'm a millionaire. I'm glad you 284 00:16:52,196 --> 00:16:54,196 Speaker 1: brought up crypto because I wanted to ask you whether 285 00:16:54,276 --> 00:16:56,916 Speaker 1: that qualified as a scam, or what part of it 286 00:16:56,996 --> 00:17:00,276 Speaker 1: might qualify as a scam. I mean, you have simultaneously 287 00:17:00,356 --> 00:17:05,836 Speaker 1: presumably a speculative bubble, which isn't necessarily made off type 288 00:17:05,836 --> 00:17:10,996 Speaker 1: scam where someone is benefiting from it. People are all participating, 289 00:17:11,036 --> 00:17:14,756 Speaker 1: and it's fueled by the greater full theory. And then 290 00:17:14,796 --> 00:17:17,836 Speaker 1: there's just stupidity, you know, making investing a lot of 291 00:17:17,876 --> 00:17:20,996 Speaker 1: money and things that are worthless. I saw recently a 292 00:17:21,196 --> 00:17:24,716 Speaker 1: report about a Delhi and New Jersey that trades on 293 00:17:24,756 --> 00:17:28,716 Speaker 1: the Penny stock exchange that has a market capitalization of 294 00:17:28,756 --> 00:17:31,836 Speaker 1: one hundred and ten million dollars and had revenues last 295 00:17:31,876 --> 00:17:34,756 Speaker 1: year of thirty seven thousand dollars. So, you know, I 296 00:17:34,756 --> 00:17:36,436 Speaker 1: don't know if that's a scam, it's just a really 297 00:17:36,476 --> 00:17:39,396 Speaker 1: stupid investment. And then you now have to have what 298 00:17:39,476 --> 00:17:42,676 Speaker 1: looks a little bit like a new phenomenon, which is 299 00:17:43,116 --> 00:17:49,556 Speaker 1: especially on cryptocurrency, things that are openly stupid investments that 300 00:17:49,636 --> 00:17:54,396 Speaker 1: have no value, that don't even pretend otherwise doge coin, 301 00:17:54,796 --> 00:17:59,596 Speaker 1: whatever whatever it is, and people participating in them knowing 302 00:17:59,756 --> 00:18:02,636 Speaker 1: it's a scam or knowing it has no value. Is 303 00:18:02,716 --> 00:18:04,956 Speaker 1: that all as old as time or are there actually 304 00:18:04,956 --> 00:18:08,516 Speaker 1: some new things happening here? So it's a fascinating question. 305 00:18:08,636 --> 00:18:11,116 Speaker 1: And if I knew the answer, then I would know 306 00:18:11,276 --> 00:18:15,956 Speaker 1: to either drastically short crypto or to invest everything I 307 00:18:15,996 --> 00:18:19,676 Speaker 1: own in it. And I don't. I don't understand the space. 308 00:18:20,156 --> 00:18:23,396 Speaker 1: That's why I actually have never invested in crypto myself. 309 00:18:23,916 --> 00:18:27,316 Speaker 1: It has all the markings of bubbles of your It 310 00:18:27,356 --> 00:18:32,756 Speaker 1: looks like John law and he had this crazy idea. 311 00:18:32,956 --> 00:18:37,076 Speaker 1: It's the basis of markets now, where instead of having 312 00:18:37,116 --> 00:18:40,916 Speaker 1: something that's backed in gold, you back it in you 313 00:18:41,196 --> 00:18:45,476 Speaker 1: issue shares and you have kind of this partnership agreement 314 00:18:46,276 --> 00:18:49,076 Speaker 1: and you can speculate in things then, and you can 315 00:18:49,116 --> 00:18:54,516 Speaker 1: infuse the economy with more liquidity. And he ended up 316 00:18:55,196 --> 00:18:57,836 Speaker 1: basically convincing the government of France that this was going 317 00:18:57,876 --> 00:19:01,316 Speaker 1: to be a great idea, and everyone invested in this 318 00:19:01,356 --> 00:19:04,356 Speaker 1: great opportunity in America that was going to buy up 319 00:19:04,356 --> 00:19:08,076 Speaker 1: all sorts of land and do great things, and people 320 00:19:08,156 --> 00:19:12,036 Speaker 1: became million errors overnight, and then that whole bubble crashed 321 00:19:12,156 --> 00:19:15,196 Speaker 1: and everyone went broke and Law went to prison. That 322 00:19:15,356 --> 00:19:19,276 Speaker 1: was that. But there's this kind of great debate. Was 323 00:19:19,356 --> 00:19:21,876 Speaker 1: John Lawe kind of a brilliant economic innovator and I 324 00:19:21,876 --> 00:19:24,836 Speaker 1: just didn't end up working or was he a con artist? 325 00:19:25,156 --> 00:19:29,476 Speaker 1: I was surprised at how bitter the disagreement is between 326 00:19:29,476 --> 00:19:32,356 Speaker 1: economists about whether John Law was a good guy or 327 00:19:32,396 --> 00:19:35,796 Speaker 1: a bad guy. I feel like with crypto, you know, 328 00:19:36,396 --> 00:19:40,236 Speaker 1: you have this situation where it's totally new once again, 329 00:19:40,476 --> 00:19:45,236 Speaker 1: and it's also backed by seemingly nothing, and so I 330 00:19:45,316 --> 00:19:47,476 Speaker 1: have no idea. I don't know if people are going 331 00:19:47,516 --> 00:19:49,796 Speaker 1: to end up in jail. I don't know if it's 332 00:19:49,836 --> 00:19:53,396 Speaker 1: a con or a bubble, or if it's going to 333 00:19:53,436 --> 00:19:57,796 Speaker 1: be the future. And a lot of smart people that 334 00:19:57,996 --> 00:20:00,116 Speaker 1: I respect say it's the future, and a lot of 335 00:20:00,156 --> 00:20:04,156 Speaker 1: smart people I respect say it's a bubble. It has 336 00:20:04,196 --> 00:20:06,476 Speaker 1: all the hallmarks of a scam. But well, one thing 337 00:20:06,516 --> 00:20:08,396 Speaker 1: we can be fairly sure about is where you have 338 00:20:08,556 --> 00:20:11,076 Speaker 1: that kind of financial hype, they're going to be scams 339 00:20:11,116 --> 00:20:14,036 Speaker 1: around it. Yes, so bitcoin may not be a scam 340 00:20:14,036 --> 00:20:17,516 Speaker 1: in any conventional sense, but there are surely scammers who 341 00:20:17,756 --> 00:20:21,676 Speaker 1: see people's eagerness to profit from this phenomenon and are 342 00:20:21,796 --> 00:20:26,676 Speaker 1: figuring out how to scam them around cryptocurrency. So to 343 00:20:26,716 --> 00:20:31,116 Speaker 1: avoid being scammed in general, we are to a significant 344 00:20:31,116 --> 00:20:35,796 Speaker 1: degree resisting human nature, which is really tough. So what 345 00:20:35,916 --> 00:20:43,516 Speaker 1: are the Maria Conakova takeaways? The precepts to avoid getting 346 00:20:43,556 --> 00:20:46,916 Speaker 1: in the situation where you're vulnerable to a scam. And also, 347 00:20:47,316 --> 00:20:49,676 Speaker 1: you know, when you think aren't sure if something's a 348 00:20:49,716 --> 00:20:53,436 Speaker 1: scam or not, to assess whether whether to misprust it, 349 00:20:54,556 --> 00:20:57,436 Speaker 1: trust but verify. So the more you want something to 350 00:20:57,476 --> 00:21:00,756 Speaker 1: be true, the more you need to actually ask questions, 351 00:21:00,796 --> 00:21:04,636 Speaker 1: be skeptical, and know what you're going to say when 352 00:21:04,676 --> 00:21:08,676 Speaker 1: people put up a fight and get indignant. Because oftentimes 353 00:21:09,156 --> 00:21:13,036 Speaker 1: these conversations are difficult to have, and so we rather 354 00:21:13,116 --> 00:21:15,636 Speaker 1: avoid having them, and so we end up not having them. 355 00:21:15,916 --> 00:21:18,036 Speaker 1: And so I actually think that a lot of it 356 00:21:18,076 --> 00:21:22,316 Speaker 1: comes from preparation, from actually figuring out ahead of time. 357 00:21:22,556 --> 00:21:25,276 Speaker 1: You know, Okay, you know I think that this I'm 358 00:21:25,276 --> 00:21:28,396 Speaker 1: going to have to have this difficult conversation. This person 359 00:21:28,516 --> 00:21:30,556 Speaker 1: might tell me I can't believe you don't trust me? 360 00:21:30,876 --> 00:21:32,556 Speaker 1: You know who do you think I am? They might 361 00:21:32,636 --> 00:21:34,796 Speaker 1: yell at me, and this is what I'm going to say, 362 00:21:35,036 --> 00:21:38,156 Speaker 1: going to say, I do trust you, I completely understand. However, 363 00:21:38,756 --> 00:21:41,636 Speaker 1: you know I need you to be able to verify this. 364 00:21:41,756 --> 00:21:44,796 Speaker 1: I'm sure you can understand that it's a lot of 365 00:21:44,796 --> 00:21:48,156 Speaker 1: money or whatever it is, and think about it ahead 366 00:21:48,196 --> 00:21:50,316 Speaker 1: of time and think through things ahead of time. The 367 00:21:50,356 --> 00:21:54,116 Speaker 1: other thing I would say is to never make decisions 368 00:21:54,116 --> 00:21:56,316 Speaker 1: in the heat of the moment. And that's also easier 369 00:21:56,356 --> 00:22:00,436 Speaker 1: said than done. But just think right now as you're 370 00:22:00,476 --> 00:22:04,156 Speaker 1: listening to this, is it ever true that someone is 371 00:22:04,196 --> 00:22:08,156 Speaker 1: going to die if you don't make a payment immediately? 372 00:22:09,236 --> 00:22:12,796 Speaker 1: Is it true that the IRS is suddenly going to 373 00:22:12,916 --> 00:22:15,836 Speaker 1: arrest you if you do not immediately do this or 374 00:22:15,956 --> 00:22:19,636 Speaker 1: immediately do that. One of the things that scams often 375 00:22:19,676 --> 00:22:22,636 Speaker 1: do is they create this feeling of immediacy, of pressure 376 00:22:22,716 --> 00:22:24,516 Speaker 1: so that you act in the heat of the moment. 377 00:22:24,876 --> 00:22:27,156 Speaker 1: And the number one thing that you can do is 378 00:22:27,196 --> 00:22:31,236 Speaker 1: to step back and reflect and actually have time, because 379 00:22:31,276 --> 00:22:35,316 Speaker 1: time is the great and to emotion and to kind 380 00:22:35,356 --> 00:22:40,436 Speaker 1: of the heat of an emotional moment, and it cools 381 00:22:40,556 --> 00:22:43,156 Speaker 1: it naturally cools you off and helps you reflect and 382 00:22:43,196 --> 00:22:46,916 Speaker 1: helps you figure things out. And so if you can 383 00:22:47,076 --> 00:22:50,956 Speaker 1: pause and not act immediately, I think that's going to 384 00:22:50,996 --> 00:22:53,676 Speaker 1: prevent a lot of scams. And the funny thing is 385 00:22:54,116 --> 00:22:59,196 Speaker 1: that these sorts of safeguards do exist in a lot 386 00:22:59,236 --> 00:23:03,196 Speaker 1: of infrastructure, and we tend to ignore it and try 387 00:23:03,236 --> 00:23:06,836 Speaker 1: to push through it so that we can act right away. 388 00:23:06,996 --> 00:23:09,276 Speaker 1: It's like a bank, you know, if you're trying to 389 00:23:09,436 --> 00:23:13,196 Speaker 1: perform a suspicious transaction will often say you know, hey, 390 00:23:13,356 --> 00:23:17,636 Speaker 1: you know, pause, we don't want you to actually do this. 391 00:23:18,116 --> 00:23:20,276 Speaker 1: It might be a scam and you get mad at 392 00:23:20,276 --> 00:23:25,076 Speaker 1: the bank rather than say, oh, maybe they're actually doing 393 00:23:25,156 --> 00:23:28,836 Speaker 1: something that's good for me. But that's I think finding 394 00:23:28,876 --> 00:23:32,196 Speaker 1: moments of reflection, I think is a really important way 395 00:23:32,236 --> 00:23:35,516 Speaker 1: that we can avoid being scammed. And the final kind 396 00:23:35,556 --> 00:23:38,916 Speaker 1: of psychological tool that I have that I think can 397 00:23:38,956 --> 00:23:42,556 Speaker 1: be incredibly useful is if you think something might be 398 00:23:42,596 --> 00:23:44,956 Speaker 1: a scam, or if you really want to believe something 399 00:23:45,556 --> 00:23:48,196 Speaker 1: or kind off you are about to make a decision, 400 00:23:49,556 --> 00:23:53,356 Speaker 1: think about what you would tell someone else if they 401 00:23:53,356 --> 00:23:56,476 Speaker 1: were in that situation. Try to imagine that it's not 402 00:23:56,516 --> 00:24:01,836 Speaker 1: actually you. Try to imagine that it's your best friend, 403 00:24:02,276 --> 00:24:07,196 Speaker 1: your brother, your neighbor, someone who isn't you, and just 404 00:24:07,516 --> 00:24:12,076 Speaker 1: walk through that scenario. Is it believable? Imagine they're telling 405 00:24:12,116 --> 00:24:14,956 Speaker 1: you that they have this opportunity, or that someone's calling 406 00:24:14,996 --> 00:24:17,316 Speaker 1: them and telling them that this is happening. What would 407 00:24:17,316 --> 00:24:19,036 Speaker 1: you tell them? What advice would you give? Would you 408 00:24:19,076 --> 00:24:22,956 Speaker 1: say this is amazing, transfer money immediately, or would you say, 409 00:24:22,996 --> 00:24:25,396 Speaker 1: wait a second. Here are the questions you should be asking, 410 00:24:25,436 --> 00:24:27,876 Speaker 1: Here are the red flags you should be looking out for, 411 00:24:27,996 --> 00:24:31,156 Speaker 1: because we're so much better at being objective when we're 412 00:24:31,196 --> 00:24:34,596 Speaker 1: talking about someone else. There's one more question I want 413 00:24:34,596 --> 00:24:37,356 Speaker 1: to ask you, which is whether some societies are just 414 00:24:37,516 --> 00:24:41,276 Speaker 1: more written with scams and prone to scams than others, 415 00:24:41,476 --> 00:24:44,916 Speaker 1: and also whether the same society at different points of 416 00:24:44,956 --> 00:24:48,916 Speaker 1: time are more afflicted by scams. You know, when patent 417 00:24:48,996 --> 00:24:52,356 Speaker 1: medicine was all the rage, where there just more scams 418 00:24:52,356 --> 00:24:55,316 Speaker 1: in America than there are now, or you know, to 419 00:24:55,676 --> 00:24:58,036 Speaker 1: bring it a little closer to home, when we had 420 00:24:58,076 --> 00:25:01,196 Speaker 1: a kind of amazing scam or as president, is that 421 00:25:01,236 --> 00:25:03,676 Speaker 1: tone set at the top and does it trickle down 422 00:25:03,996 --> 00:25:07,876 Speaker 1: to scamming elsewhere as opposed to when you don't have 423 00:25:07,956 --> 00:25:12,796 Speaker 1: someone like that office. Absolutely, yes, the tone is set 424 00:25:12,836 --> 00:25:16,476 Speaker 1: at the top. There are societies with more scams than others. 425 00:25:16,996 --> 00:25:20,436 Speaker 1: There are times in a society where there are more 426 00:25:20,476 --> 00:25:26,476 Speaker 1: scams than other times, and it's not something that's innate 427 00:25:26,676 --> 00:25:29,956 Speaker 1: to the humans there, but it is something that is 428 00:25:30,116 --> 00:25:34,556 Speaker 1: created by social circumstances. So if your president is a 429 00:25:34,596 --> 00:25:38,116 Speaker 1: con artist, yeah, absolutely, there are going to be more 430 00:25:38,196 --> 00:25:42,316 Speaker 1: scams and more cons not just because suddenly there are 431 00:25:42,436 --> 00:25:46,196 Speaker 1: more scammers, but because the norms change because people who 432 00:25:46,676 --> 00:25:50,596 Speaker 1: might be more law abiding in normal times suddenly feel 433 00:25:50,636 --> 00:25:55,676 Speaker 1: empowered to cross that line. So a country like Russia today, 434 00:25:55,996 --> 00:25:58,716 Speaker 1: which has had such a long history, you know, as 435 00:25:59,196 --> 00:26:02,636 Speaker 1: the Soviet Union, as Russia, and where people have pretty 436 00:26:02,636 --> 00:26:06,196 Speaker 1: low levels of trust, one of the countries with the 437 00:26:06,236 --> 00:26:09,316 Speaker 1: highest levels of scams. There's just so much to take 438 00:26:09,316 --> 00:26:12,636 Speaker 1: advantage of and so much is broken. And whenever you 439 00:26:12,676 --> 00:26:16,636 Speaker 1: have a society where informal organizations have to step up 440 00:26:17,596 --> 00:26:21,556 Speaker 1: to provide any sort of services, that also opens up 441 00:26:21,556 --> 00:26:25,036 Speaker 1: the possibility for scams. But this idea that if scams 442 00:26:25,036 --> 00:26:28,036 Speaker 1: are flourishing, people will same people will get scammed and 443 00:26:28,116 --> 00:26:30,956 Speaker 1: scammed again is a little at odds with the idea 444 00:26:31,036 --> 00:26:34,276 Speaker 1: that once people are scammed, they can be disillusioned and 445 00:26:34,356 --> 00:26:38,396 Speaker 1: become savvier and more skeptical. I mean, we recently did 446 00:26:38,396 --> 00:26:41,276 Speaker 1: an episode of True Yeah, we'll give you an example. 447 00:26:41,316 --> 00:26:42,956 Speaker 1: We just did, and you can tell me why it 448 00:26:42,996 --> 00:26:47,676 Speaker 1: doesn't apply. We recently did an episode of Solvable about 449 00:26:47,836 --> 00:26:51,156 Speaker 1: cults with a woman named Diane ben Scoter who was 450 00:26:51,196 --> 00:26:54,876 Speaker 1: a mooney in the seventies, and I would wager that 451 00:26:54,956 --> 00:26:57,556 Speaker 1: she is the least likely person to fall for a 452 00:26:57,636 --> 00:27:01,636 Speaker 1: cult scam. Ever, again, because she's devoted her career to 453 00:27:01,716 --> 00:27:04,996 Speaker 1: figuring out how it works. Right, So you're saying that 454 00:27:05,116 --> 00:27:08,276 Speaker 1: isn't it isn't common to learn from the experience in 455 00:27:08,316 --> 00:27:13,996 Speaker 1: that way. She is actually not unique but rare in 456 00:27:14,196 --> 00:27:16,996 Speaker 1: the fact that she knows she was the victim of 457 00:27:17,036 --> 00:27:20,236 Speaker 1: a cult, and she, as you say, she's devoted her 458 00:27:20,276 --> 00:27:23,316 Speaker 1: life to trying to figure out how it works and 459 00:27:23,356 --> 00:27:27,396 Speaker 1: how to avoid something like that. Most people, when they 460 00:27:27,436 --> 00:27:33,516 Speaker 1: get scammed won't admit it because they would rather lie 461 00:27:33,596 --> 00:27:36,156 Speaker 1: to themselves and say, oh, it wasn't really a scam, 462 00:27:36,556 --> 00:27:39,836 Speaker 1: you know, let's make excuses. That was just a failed opportunity, 463 00:27:39,876 --> 00:27:43,996 Speaker 1: It was this, it was that, And the cognitive dissonance 464 00:27:44,076 --> 00:27:46,996 Speaker 1: is so high that they just go through all of 465 00:27:47,036 --> 00:27:51,636 Speaker 1: these hoops of rationalization about why I'm not the type 466 00:27:51,636 --> 00:27:54,676 Speaker 1: of person who normally fall for a scam, but this 467 00:27:54,796 --> 00:27:58,436 Speaker 1: was a unique circumstance. But the fact that you've rationalized 468 00:27:58,556 --> 00:28:02,076 Speaker 1: so much of it away actually leaves you quite vulnerable, 469 00:28:02,596 --> 00:28:05,636 Speaker 1: because rather than admitting, yep, I was dumb, I fell 470 00:28:05,716 --> 00:28:08,596 Speaker 1: for a scam, you say, oh, no, no, here all 471 00:28:08,636 --> 00:28:11,836 Speaker 1: of the getting circumstances, then it probably wasn't even a scam. 472 00:28:12,156 --> 00:28:15,356 Speaker 1: So I think that it takes a strong person because 473 00:28:15,356 --> 00:28:20,596 Speaker 1: it's embarrassing to it's embarrassing, to embarrassing to admit it. Yeah, 474 00:28:20,636 --> 00:28:22,796 Speaker 1: it's it's a hit to your reputation and to our 475 00:28:22,836 --> 00:28:25,676 Speaker 1: sense of self. You know, I'm not the kind of 476 00:28:25,796 --> 00:28:29,476 Speaker 1: person who falls for a scam like that. A lot 477 00:28:29,516 --> 00:28:34,516 Speaker 1: of times people don't even report it because it's heartbreaking 478 00:28:34,556 --> 00:28:37,556 Speaker 1: to their families and they know it, and their families 479 00:28:37,596 --> 00:28:40,516 Speaker 1: had sometimes even warned them, and they did it anyway, 480 00:28:40,596 --> 00:28:44,556 Speaker 1: and so they feel just they feel like they've let 481 00:28:44,596 --> 00:28:48,196 Speaker 1: everyone down, and so they just they won't even admit it. Marie, 482 00:28:48,316 --> 00:28:51,836 Speaker 1: you've been talking about ways that individuals can make themselves 483 00:28:51,916 --> 00:28:55,516 Speaker 1: less susceptible to scamming, But what about the role for 484 00:28:55,676 --> 00:29:01,596 Speaker 1: government and institutions in protecting people against scams. I do 485 00:29:01,716 --> 00:29:04,156 Speaker 1: think that there's certainly a role to be played by 486 00:29:04,196 --> 00:29:08,876 Speaker 1: institutions that get used as friends for scams, and there 487 00:29:09,276 --> 00:29:12,796 Speaker 1: as simple as actually using some of these same psychological 488 00:29:12,836 --> 00:29:15,436 Speaker 1: tools that we've been talking about on an individual level, 489 00:29:15,756 --> 00:29:19,156 Speaker 1: but ratcheting it up to an institutional level. It doesn't 490 00:29:19,156 --> 00:29:21,556 Speaker 1: even have to be a bank, if you're a dating website, 491 00:29:21,916 --> 00:29:25,916 Speaker 1: if you are a place where you know that scams 492 00:29:26,156 --> 00:29:29,756 Speaker 1: take place, and scammers take advantage of your infrastructure. Also, 493 00:29:29,916 --> 00:29:33,356 Speaker 1: try to have some safeguards in place. Now there's some 494 00:29:33,436 --> 00:29:38,236 Speaker 1: really great new AI capability to try to scan images 495 00:29:38,316 --> 00:29:41,476 Speaker 1: and figure out is this a stock photo? Is this 496 00:29:41,756 --> 00:29:44,996 Speaker 1: photo appearing in more than one profile. I don't actually 497 00:29:45,076 --> 00:29:48,076 Speaker 1: know if a lot of websites are using that sort 498 00:29:48,076 --> 00:29:50,916 Speaker 1: of capability, but it exists, and I would argue that 499 00:29:50,956 --> 00:29:53,116 Speaker 1: it's on them that they should actually be trying to 500 00:29:53,156 --> 00:29:55,396 Speaker 1: protect their users by doing things like that and trying 501 00:29:55,436 --> 00:30:00,276 Speaker 1: to flag proactively people who might be scammers. So yeah, absolutely, 502 00:30:00,356 --> 00:30:03,636 Speaker 1: I think on all of those levels there's room to 503 00:30:03,756 --> 00:30:07,116 Speaker 1: try to protect the consumer, to try to protect us. 504 00:30:09,156 --> 00:30:11,516 Speaker 1: Ya Kanakova is the New York Times bestselling author of 505 00:30:11,556 --> 00:30:15,396 Speaker 1: The Biggest Bluff, The Confidence Game, and Mastermind How to 506 00:30:15,436 --> 00:30:18,516 Speaker 1: Think Like Sherlock Holmes. To learn more about scams and 507 00:30:18,516 --> 00:30:20,876 Speaker 1: how to protect yourself, check out the links in our 508 00:30:20,916 --> 00:30:24,796 Speaker 1: show notes and Solvable Fans. As we mentioned recently, we 509 00:30:24,876 --> 00:30:27,876 Speaker 1: have a great news to share with you. Host Ronald 510 00:30:27,916 --> 00:30:30,796 Speaker 1: Young Junior is joining our team. 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