WEBVTT - RYAN'S ROSES- The Drunken Question

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<v Speaker 1>Well, two point seven FM, it's time for Ryan's Rose's

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this. So Heather reaches out to saneyth Tani

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<v Speaker 1>from Anaheim and she says, my husband was drunk the

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<v Speaker 1>other night and asks me, what would you do if

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<v Speaker 1>I were cheated on you?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Good, Well, why do you ask that question?

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me grab Heather. Heather, thank you for coming on.

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<v Speaker 1>So why does anybody ask that question? What would you

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<v Speaker 1>do if you cheated on me?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What went through your mind when he said that?

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<v Speaker 5>I just I don't know. I've not been able to

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<v Speaker 5>stop thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like shock fear I will yeah, right, Like what motivated

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<v Speaker 1>that question?

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<v Speaker 3>Would you say?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? I just I just kind of like laughed it

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<v Speaker 5>off and said you would never do that, And I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know. He was just like really quiet. So I

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<v Speaker 5>like looked over and his face was just like cold,

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<v Speaker 5>like ashen, like like he realized what he had done.

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<v Speaker 5>And we just kind of drove home.

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<v Speaker 1>In silence, uncomfortable. Yeah, have you asked him about it? Since?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I asked him about it the next day, just

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<v Speaker 5>you know, just straight off to that and he was

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<v Speaker 5>like what like he had no memory of asking me that?

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<v Speaker 5>And he said he was definitely not cheating on me,

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<v Speaker 5>but I just like can't stop thinking about it, and

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<v Speaker 5>I just really need.

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<v Speaker 1>To like no, all right, So hold on one second, Heather,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, we have to understand why Heather's husband, after

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<v Speaker 1>drinking a little bit, said what would you do if

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<v Speaker 1>you found out I was cheating? That's just like a

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<v Speaker 1>weird question to ask, And she can't understand why he

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<v Speaker 1>would ask. So, did he do it? Was he thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about doing it? Did happen with somebody else? He knows? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why do he ask that question? Heather cannot get it

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<v Speaker 1>out of her mind. You couldn't get out of your

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<v Speaker 1>mind either, it out into you. I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what they say?

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<v Speaker 1>What do they say? Drunk words are sober thoughts, But

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<v Speaker 1>that's not always true. But thoughts maybe, but misdirected thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes what they they may say that, but they may

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<v Speaker 1>not always be exactly that. Have you said somethinghen you

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<v Speaker 1>were drinking that like you didn't totally mean? I can't remember, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so, I mean sisty, How you said

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<v Speaker 1>I love you before you meant it? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know what you mean by that now? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>like I said, I love you to Michael after the

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<v Speaker 3>first day when I was like super drunk, but you

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<v Speaker 3>were probably probably feeling that inside, but you were too

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<v Speaker 3>scared to say it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't know that that was like true love.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I just loved the idea of him.

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<v Speaker 2>But how can I be in love with him? I

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<v Speaker 2>just want to date with him anyway. You understand what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to I know what you mean. But yes,

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<v Speaker 2>this came from something. It came from somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>So Heather, I need you to say Ryan, you have

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<v Speaker 1>my permission to call, and then his name on Kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to call him.

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<v Speaker 5>Ryan. You have my permission to call uh on Kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to do that. Now, be very quiet, Let's

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<v Speaker 1>see what we can find out about this. Okay, sounds good?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go, Good luck.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, may I speak to Ray please?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>My name is Brielle. I'm calling from the Magical Florest.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you doing this morning?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Look, I I picked up just by I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't realize this with spam.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a free dozen red roses.

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<v Speaker 3>Is there anybody you want to send the flowers to? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, you know, can I send them to Destiny?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And what would you like to put on the card?

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<v Speaker 4>You know? And not roses though, like it's to like,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe do you have something else besides roses?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, I can switch it up. We have tulips, daisy's, lily's.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever, just sunflowers.

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<v Speaker 3>I can make it, okay, a different arrangement, okay, And

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<v Speaker 3>what would you like to put on the card?

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<v Speaker 4>Just just put I'm so very sorry, and just put

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<v Speaker 4>my initial so very sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Ray, your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I

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<v Speaker 1>need you to hear that. I've got your wife, Heather

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<v Speaker 1>on the line. She's listening to this.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait are you are you serious? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait? Yes, this is well, that's what we're asking you.

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<v Speaker 1>What is this? What is going on your wife? Heather?

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds familiar? Right, You're married to a woman named Heather?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, who's Destiny? And why are you sorry?

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<v Speaker 4>Destiny's my buddy, Ryan's sister.

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<v Speaker 1>But why are you sending Destiny something? Why are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you sorry?

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<v Speaker 4>Look? Wait? This is so. This is the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the radio.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I'm on radio.

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<v Speaker 1>That's correct.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I can't talk about this on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well do you want to speak to Heather?

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<v Speaker 5>Did something happen at Ryan's birthday party?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened?

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<v Speaker 3>What happened with his sister?

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<v Speaker 4>Look like I said, I can't talk about this on

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<v Speaker 4>the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you kidding me. You need to hear that your

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<v Speaker 1>wife reached out to us because you asked her do

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<v Speaker 1>you know that you asked her what she would do

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<v Speaker 1>if you cheated on her? Why did you ask her that?

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<v Speaker 4>Look, I'm not cheating on my wife, okay, and that

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<v Speaker 4>I can say.

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<v Speaker 3>But did you cheat on your wife?

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<v Speaker 4>I can't talk about this on the radia.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes or now? You did? Yes or no?

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<v Speaker 4>Bro, I can't talk about this on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>If you can't say no, then something's wrong. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>let you go right.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you can't talk about it. I'm not I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>talking about this on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Great, We'll talk to talk to Eether about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not talking on the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Well stop talking.

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<v Speaker 5>Then, Well when are you going to talk to me

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<v Speaker 5>about it? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not talking about this on the on.

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<v Speaker 1>The radio talking? Y hang up? Can't well?

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<v Speaker 4>You guys called me?

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<v Speaker 1>Well you hang up on me?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang up please on me? Are you there? What is

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<v Speaker 1>that guy doing? What is your husband talking about? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand. Why can't I don't get it?

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<v Speaker 5>Like he didn't talk to me about it in person

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<v Speaker 5>when I brought it up totally communicatively the other morning,

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<v Speaker 5>So I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Almost Could it be that he can't say if he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do something wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>So he was at a party, or he was at

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<v Speaker 3>Destiny's brother's party or something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he was, you know, he went out with his buddies.

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<v Speaker 5>He was one of them, was turning thirty. We like

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<v Speaker 5>never drink anymore. Our daughter was born, and since then

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<v Speaker 5>we've just been kind of laying low. You know. I

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<v Speaker 5>really thought it would be good for him to have

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<v Speaker 5>some guy time. But yeah, I don't really know. Around

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<v Speaker 5>the midnight, he called me and asked me if I

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<v Speaker 5>could just come and get him. But he was really

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<v Speaker 5>really drunk. He couldn't drive home, so I totally went

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<v Speaker 5>and picked him up. He was like barely coherent, eyes

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<v Speaker 5>half closed, and yeah, and then he just dropped the

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<v Speaker 5>bomb on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well we've done these for a long time. Something's up.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you'll talk to you. He can't talk about

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<v Speaker 1>this on the radio, he said, but he can talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you about this. I hope I would go find

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<v Speaker 1>him now. Thank you very much, in good luck.

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<v Speaker 5>Heather, thank you, thanks so much.

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<v Speaker 1>So why what couldn't he say? I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>Obviously something happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah,