1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Well, two point seven FM, it's time for Ryan's Rose's 2 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: listen to this. So Heather reaches out to saneyth Tani 3 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: from Anaheim and she says, my husband was drunk the 4 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: other night and asks me, what would you do if 5 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: I were cheated on you? 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 2: No? 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: Good, Well, why do you ask that question? 8 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 3: Exactly? 9 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: Let me grab Heather. Heather, thank you for coming on. 10 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: So why does anybody ask that question? What would you 11 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: do if you cheated on me? 12 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 4: Like? 13 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: What went through your mind when he said that? 14 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 5: I just I don't know. I've not been able to 15 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 5: stop thinking about it. 16 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: Like shock fear I will yeah, right, Like what motivated 17 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: that question? 18 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 3: Would you say? 19 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 5: Well? I just I just kind of like laughed it 20 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 5: off and said you would never do that, And I 21 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 5: don't know. He was just like really quiet. So I 22 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 5: like looked over and his face was just like cold, 23 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 5: like ashen, like like he realized what he had done. 24 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:05,119 Speaker 5: And we just kind of drove home. 25 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: In silence, uncomfortable. Yeah, have you asked him about it? Since? 26 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 5: Yeah? I asked him about it the next day, just 27 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 5: you know, just straight off to that and he was 28 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 5: like what like he had no memory of asking me that? 29 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 5: And he said he was definitely not cheating on me, 30 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 5: but I just like can't stop thinking about it, and 31 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 5: I just really need. 32 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: To like no, all right, So hold on one second, Heather, 33 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 1: all right, we have to understand why Heather's husband, after 34 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,960 Speaker 1: drinking a little bit, said what would you do if 35 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: you found out I was cheating? That's just like a 36 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: weird question to ask, And she can't understand why he 37 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: would ask. So, did he do it? Was he thinking 38 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: about doing it? Did happen with somebody else? He knows? Like, 39 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: why do he ask that question? Heather cannot get it 40 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: out of her mind. You couldn't get out of your 41 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: mind either, it out into you. I couldn't. 42 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 4: You know what they say? 43 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: What do they say? Drunk words are sober thoughts, But 44 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: that's not always true. But thoughts maybe, but misdirected thoughts 45 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: sometimes what they they may say that, but they may 46 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: not always be exactly that. Have you said somethinghen you 47 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: were drinking that like you didn't totally mean? I can't remember, No, 48 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: I don't think so, I mean sisty, How you said 49 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: I love you before you meant it? Oh? 50 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what you mean by that now? Yeah, 51 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 3: like I said, I love you to Michael after the 52 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 3: first day when I was like super drunk, but you 53 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 3: were probably probably feeling that inside, but you were too 54 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 3: scared to say it. 55 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: But I don't. 56 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 3: But I don't know that that was like true love. 57 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,399 Speaker 3: I think I just loved the idea of him. 58 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 2: But how can I be in love with him? I 59 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: just want to date with him anyway. You understand what 60 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 2: I'm trying to I know what you mean. But yes, 61 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,959 Speaker 2: this came from something. It came from somewhere. 62 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: So Heather, I need you to say Ryan, you have 63 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: my permission to call, and then his name on Kiss FM. 64 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: We're going to call him. 65 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 5: Ryan. You have my permission to call uh on Kiss FM. 66 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: We're going to do that. Now, be very quiet, Let's 67 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 1: see what we can find out about this. Okay, sounds good? 68 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: All right, here we go, Good luck. 69 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 4: Hello? 70 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 3: Hi, may I speak to Ray please? 71 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 5: Uh? 72 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, Hi. 73 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 3: My name is Brielle. I'm calling from the Magical Florest. 74 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 3: How are you doing this morning? 75 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 4: Oh? Look, I I picked up just by I didn't. 76 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 4: I didn't realize this with spam. 77 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: Well no, no, listen, listen, go on with our lives. 78 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 3: No listen, listen, we actually deliver in the Anaheim area 79 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 3: and other parts of Orange County and we're offering local 80 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 3: residents a promotion today. It's a free dozen red roses 81 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 3: that you can send to anybody that you'd like. They 82 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 3: are free. I don't need cash, I don't need your 83 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 3: credit card, and though, just the name of the person 84 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 3: that you'd like to send them to and a note. 85 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 3: It's a free dozen red roses. 86 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:22,119 Speaker 4: You're just giving free flowers. Like it's it's totally free. 87 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 3: It's a promotion that we do about once a month. 88 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 3: And we're just trying to promote our delivery service. And 89 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 3: if you like us as you know, if you like 90 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 3: our arrangement, then maybe you return as a customer. This 91 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 3: will take a few minutes and whoever you want to 92 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 3: send the roses to, we'll get them by lunchtime today. 93 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 3: Is there anybody you want to send the flowers to? Yeah? 94 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:47,799 Speaker 4: Actually, you know, can I send them to Destiny? 95 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? 96 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 3: And what would you like to put on the card? 97 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 4: You know? And not roses though, like it's to like, 98 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 4: maybe do you have something else besides roses? 99 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 3: Sure, I can switch it up. We have tulips, daisy's, lily's. 100 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 4: Whatever, just sunflowers. 101 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 3: I can make it, okay, a different arrangement, okay, And 102 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 3: what would you like to put on the card? 103 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 4: Just just put I'm so very sorry, and just put 104 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 4: my initial so very sorry. 105 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: Ray, your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I 106 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: need you to hear that. I've got your wife, Heather 107 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: on the line. She's listening to this. 108 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 4: Wait are you are you serious? Wait? 109 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: Wait? Yes, this is well, that's what we're asking you. 110 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:41,559 Speaker 1: What is this? What is going on your wife? Heather? 111 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: That sounds familiar? Right, You're married to a woman named Heather? 112 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 113 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 1: Okay, who's Destiny? And why are you sorry? 114 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 4: Destiny's my buddy, Ryan's sister. 115 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:59,039 Speaker 1: But why are you sending Destiny something? Why are you? 116 00:05:59,080 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: Why are you sorry? 117 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 4: Look? Wait? This is so. This is the radio. 118 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: This is the radio. 119 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 4: Yes, I'm on radio. 120 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: That's correct. 121 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't talk about this on the radio. 122 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: All right, Well do you want to speak to Heather? 123 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 5: Did something happen at Ryan's birthday party? 124 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:17,799 Speaker 1: What happened? 125 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 3: What happened with his sister? 126 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 4: Look like I said, I can't talk about this on 127 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 4: the radio. 128 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 1: Okay, you kidding me. You need to hear that your 129 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: wife reached out to us because you asked her do 130 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: you know that you asked her what she would do 131 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: if you cheated on her? Why did you ask her that? 132 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 4: Look, I'm not cheating on my wife, okay, and that 133 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 4: I can say. 134 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 3: But did you cheat on your wife? 135 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 4: I can't talk about this on the radia. 136 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 1: Yes or now? You did? Yes or no? 137 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 4: Bro, I can't talk about this on the radio. 138 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 1: If you can't say no, then something's wrong. We're gonna 139 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: let you go right. 140 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 4: Because you can't talk about it. I'm not I'm not 141 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:08,119 Speaker 4: talking about this on the radio. 142 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: Great, We'll talk to talk to Eether about it. 143 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 4: I'm not talking on the radio. 144 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: Well stop talking. 145 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 5: Then, Well when are you going to talk to me 146 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 5: about it? Right? 147 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 4: I'm not talking about this on the on. 148 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 1: The radio talking? Y hang up? Can't well? 149 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 4: You guys called me? 150 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: Well you hang up on me? 151 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna. 152 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: Hang up please on me? Are you there? What is 153 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: that guy doing? What is your husband talking about? I 154 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 1: don't understand. Why can't I don't get it? 155 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 5: Like he didn't talk to me about it in person 156 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 5: when I brought it up totally communicatively the other morning, 157 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 5: So I don't. 158 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: Almost Could it be that he can't say if he 159 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: didn't do something wrong. 160 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 3: So he was at a party, or he was at 161 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 3: Destiny's brother's party or something like that. 162 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, he was, you know, he went out with his buddies. 163 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 5: He was one of them, was turning thirty. We like 164 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 5: never drink anymore. Our daughter was born, and since then 165 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 5: we've just been kind of laying low. You know. I 166 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 5: really thought it would be good for him to have 167 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 5: some guy time. But yeah, I don't really know. Around 168 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 5: the midnight, he called me and asked me if I 169 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 5: could just come and get him. But he was really 170 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 5: really drunk. He couldn't drive home, so I totally went 171 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 5: and picked him up. He was like barely coherent, eyes 172 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 5: half closed, and yeah, and then he just dropped the 173 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 5: bomb on me. 174 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: Okay, well we've done these for a long time. Something's up. 175 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: I hope you'll talk to you. He can't talk about 176 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: this on the radio, he said, but he can talk 177 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 1: to you about this. I hope I would go find 178 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: him now. Thank you very much, in good luck. 179 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 5: Heather, thank you, thanks so much. 180 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: So why what couldn't he say? I don't understand. 181 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 3: Obviously something happened. 182 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah,