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Speaker 1: I discovered my wife's four year affair, so I publicly

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Speaker 1: I don't even know where to begin. My wife, Leah

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Speaker 1: We have two beautiful children, our five year old son

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Speaker 1: How many times I've read that soons?

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Speaker 2: I read it maybe once every day, at least once one,

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Speaker 1: Or at least I thought we were trying.

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Speaker 2: Dang.

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Speaker 1: But four weeks ago, my entire life came crashing down.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Horror Squash four seven

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Speaker 1: read it where you can tell us all your crashing

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Speaker 1: down stories. So forty six male started to notice when

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Speaker 1: she was glued to her phone more than usual. Leah's

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Speaker 1: always been private, but this was different. She'd smile at

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Speaker 1: her screen than immediate lock it. When I walked into

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Speaker 1: the room, the screens auspicious.

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Speaker 2: I was texting my my best friend Isabella the other

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Speaker 2: day and Riley was like, who you was smiling? Who smiling?

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Speaker 2: Like texting? And I was like, Isabella.

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Speaker 3: Smiling like that?

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Speaker 2: Friends.

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Speaker 1: One night after she fell asleep. I couldn't resist. I

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Speaker 1: checked her phone.

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Speaker 3: Dude, resist, Yeah, so if he has the voice in

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Speaker 3: your head where resist?

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Speaker 1: Yes, resist unless unless you see.

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Speaker 2: Unless you see the text and it says I'm cheating

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Speaker 2: on my husband.

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Speaker 1: Or I've been I can't wait to smooth you.

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Speaker 2: You have no probable cause.

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Speaker 1: You have no probable cause. But I guess you're about

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Speaker 1: to find it. Oh.

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Speaker 3: I said this the other day. But if you got

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Speaker 3: to be snoopy, then your relationship is poopy.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 1: That is the oldest adderge in the book. You said

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Speaker 1: that Socrates, Aristotle, Aristotle. Yeah, one of those guys when

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Speaker 1: I found but I found still makes me sick to

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Speaker 1: my stomach. There were messages with a coworker, Eric forty eight, male,

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Speaker 1: going back years, explicit texts, photos, promises of love, even

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Speaker 1: references to secret trips they'd taken while I was at

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Speaker 1: home with the kids, believing she was working late. Dang,

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Speaker 1: she was working that booty late. That's she sure working

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Speaker 1: late late. My heart was racing my hand's trebling, knees,

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Speaker 1: weak arms, sweaty spaghetti arms, pit spaghetti. Yeah. I confronted

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Speaker 1: her the next morning. No, no, no, At first, she

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Speaker 2: Was how how do you misunderstand.

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Speaker 1: Those platonic, spicy texts?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just said I love you.

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Speaker 1: Ically, I love you, I want to marry you.

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Speaker 3: Platonically.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I feel like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, it's I love you, birch. I want to

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Speaker 1: very alright. But you know I'm quoting it, coding it.

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Speaker 2: Have you not seen that I'm.

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Speaker 1: Word which anyway, my heart was raising my hands trembling.

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Speaker 1: I confronted her the next morning. At first she denied it,

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Speaker 1: said I was misunderstanding. But when I read her the

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Speaker 1: messages out loud, her face crumbled.

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Speaker 2: You did some slam poetry with her cheating messages?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to cheat or not to cheat? That it's not

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Speaker 2: Whether it'tis nobler in the mind to divorce you or

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Speaker 2: to stay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't know that much Shakespeare, I do,

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Speaker 1: but I was trying to change it up. Did you

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Speaker 1: did get your job? You get your job? She admitted it.

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Speaker 1: She said it started four years ago, long before our

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Speaker 1: youngest was born. Your kid is it your kids?

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Speaker 2: Is that kid? Your kid?

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Speaker 1: That kid might not be your kid.

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Speaker 2: Dutcha says, you misunderstand. This was supposed to be a secret.

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Speaker 2: You weren't supposed to know.

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Speaker 1: Never supposed to hurt you, because you would never find out.

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Speaker 2: I didn't mean to hurt you. I just meant to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the whole point of it being a secret.

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Speaker 1: Now that you found out, now you're sad. Look what

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Speaker 1: is bliss. She tried to justify it. You were distant,

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Speaker 1: we were struggling, No, but nothing could excuse this. So

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Speaker 1: needing to see it for myself. Wa wait, So he

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Speaker 1: confronted her, Yeah, and she's just like just.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, I've been cheating on you for four years.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna go see him now see you.

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Speaker 2: He's like, well, I need more proof.

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Speaker 1: Why are you doing this to yourself?

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Speaker 2: Just break out? Divorce her divorce?

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Speaker 1: Also, can we get to seven hundred and fifty, like,

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Speaker 1: so I can spin that wheel and do one of

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Speaker 1: the new ones.

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Speaker 2: Guy, please spent a whole.

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Speaker 3: Story one of them in general.

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Speaker 1: Huh No, because then that's that's she's.

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Speaker 3: Just doing interpretive dance. I want to do it. I

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Speaker 2: It to them without work.

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Speaker 1: Well I'll give you a little hint of what interpretive

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Speaker 1: dances is. Sure enough, After her shift, she walked up

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Speaker 1: arm in arm with Eric, not even trying to hide it.

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Speaker 3: I hate this so much.

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Speaker 1: She got to the car.

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Speaker 3: Please stop.

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Speaker 1: I followed them to restaurant like a happy couple, laughing

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Speaker 1: and holding hands. It broke me, But what shattered me

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Speaker 1: completely was I learned they built their own life together.

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Speaker 4: Okay, stop please all right, that's a what do you

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Speaker 4: How do you feel about this?

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Speaker 2: If you I'm just saying, we have a big old

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's what that's that's all the podcast people, hey,

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Speaker 1: podcast people. Every week there psda, this is cringey. This

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Speaker 1: is uh competitive dancing. It's not competitive, it's interpretive.

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Speaker 2: Just to be clear, fighting for something.

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Speaker 1: All right, we can, we can? I'd rather Yeah this

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Speaker 4: What we'll do? How will we do this? After dance.

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Speaker 4: We got a little taste. We'll do a pull pull.

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Speaker 2: On interpreted Yeah, say dance or trivia dance.

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Speaker 1: Or trivia silence is so.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm going in all right. Uh, they've been

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Speaker 2: Where whoa they've been they've been They've been renting an

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Speaker 3: No, don't you do that too? Whoa whoa?

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, pun dmc just tipped one hundred and

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Speaker 1: You really want that interpretive dancing?

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Speaker 3: Stop? Man, oh man, thank you, hold on before we do.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it was like we've gifted five focused story memberships.

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Speaker 2: I thought maybe Riley.

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Speaker 1: Pun dmc also my favorite one of my favorite user

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Speaker 3: Wait, I'm metting the time first before we read take

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Speaker 3: your something. You can't give them free time? Man?

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Speaker 1: All right? Are we going? Are we doing it? Am

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Speaker 1: I doing it? I saw them go inside, watching them

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Speaker 1: I checked on them for four nights and they had

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Speaker 2: Dude, what are you doing? Why are you like? It

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Speaker 2: seems like, oh, he's trying to like uncover something, but

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Speaker 1: She already admitted it, dude, that's when I snapped, and

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Speaker 1: all of her belonging.

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Speaker 3: That's when you snapped.

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Speaker 2: That's when she was probably like, well, I've already confessed,

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Speaker 1: I filed for divorce. Let's go, and am fighting for

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Speaker 1: to forgive her, saying she doesn't want to lose the family.

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Speaker 1: We belt, maybe you should have four consecutive nights with

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Speaker 2: Slash four consecutive years.

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Speaker 2: Do we think about those years?

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Speaker 1: But how can I friends and family keep asking me

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Speaker 1: if I regret how I handled it publicly humiliating her,

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Speaker 1: are them. They don't deserve this chaos, and as much

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Speaker 1: So am I the ag hole?

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Speaker 2: In what There is a world? In what world?

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Speaker 1: If you're kicking her out?

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Speaker 2: No, she cheated on you for four years.

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Speaker 1: Lulu said. Technically he can't kick her out because they

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Speaker 1: own the house together. That's true, that is true.

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Speaker 2: But you can divorce her, so do that.

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Speaker 1: You should divorce her if you throw if you threw

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Speaker 1: all her stuff out, you're not the ale Like I

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Speaker 2: Legal trouble perhaps, But yeah, she sucks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she sucks. Yeah, what is the deal with that?

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Speaker 1: So let's say your partners like continually cheating on you,

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Speaker 1: and you're like, I'm divorcing you, and then throw out

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Speaker 2: The if you got damage, she could probably she probably do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, protect yourself. Op, don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Nicole h is, Oh, she already has a second apartment.

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Speaker 2: Why would she stay at the house. Yeah, she's already

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Speaker 2: she was staying at that apartment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just say, move all your stuff out. I

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Speaker 1: feel like, take, I think you're not the a hole? Well,

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Speaker 1: are you the I think the What I will say

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Speaker 1: is she did something so terribly wrong. I would say,

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Speaker 1: don't think it's the right thing to do generally, but

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Speaker 1: also I don't think it's the right thing to do

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Speaker 2: Yeah, works better.

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Speaker 1: Just I think that works better because she has that apartment.

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Speaker 1: Interpretive advance, interpretive dance, We'll just dance?

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Speaker 2: Two and you think the two pounds learning to sign?

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Speaker 3: Use the Little Sam's Room, the literas you guys see

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Speaker 2: Honestly, that's productive.

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Speaker 1: What would I learn in jail? What would you learn

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Speaker 3: Don't drop the soap.

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Speaker 1: your smile on a receipt today, and I'm passing that

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. Hey Joe, Oh we know we did.

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Speaker 2: We did, yes, but thank you again. Hey Jus, we

446
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Speaker 2: appreciate you again. Let me go check that. Actually, okay,

447
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:08,439
Speaker 2: let me read that.

448
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Speaker 3: Uh no, I think we didn't.

449
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:16,199
Speaker 1: But there's another one from hate or we read we

450
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Speaker 1: read gay Swans, Yeah, and we read that.

451
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 2: But pun DMC, thank you once again for the one

452
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Speaker 2: hundred and sixty books. More time to get the spinol

453
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Speaker 2: and we're making our way to that seven fifty likes.

454
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Speaker 2: We're doing well.

455
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Speaker 1: Should we do a call in? I kind of want

456
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Speaker 1: to do a call in?

457
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, everyone's being so nice to me.

458
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Speaker 1: Right now, I know how to do a call in.

459
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Speaker 2: I don't think we can do it right now?

460
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Speaker 1: Did you learn how to?

461
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 2: We haven't done a call in so long. We'd probably

462
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: have to get Riley.

463
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: But but but you've learned how to put a page

464
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Speaker 1: on the screen.

465
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I do so, just a discord thing.

466
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 1: But yeah, so you could just put the discord page on.

467
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 3: But don't they have they get to the likes first.

468
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: Yes, that's true. That's true. If we get to seven

469
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 1: fifty legs, we'll do call it no, we'll do a

470
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Speaker 1: wheel wheel, a wheel spin and maybe do it.

471
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Speaker 3: Look at this guy. This guy's earlier and now he

472
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 3: wants to do all Who is this guy?

473
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 2: I want to read this story?

474
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 3: Okay, God, look at the boats, Look at the boats?

475
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: Whoa split?

476
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 1: It's pretty all right. So that means I'm going to

477
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 1: change one interpretive dance to trivia.

478
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Speaker 2: Huzzah. But let's get into this next story.

479
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 3: Let me just move there.

480
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 2: Who who just read?

481
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 3: Sam did?

482
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 2: Okay?

483
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 3: I don't know? Actually who did? Okay? My mother in law?

484
00:25:50,200 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 2: Yes, good for it. My shot grows Gosh, I don't know,

485
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 2: I don't know. Sch Bed says, it's the holiday spoil us. Okay,

486
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 2: well you're doing that, and I'm reading the story. My

487
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 2: mother in law disinherited my husband because he had an affair.

488
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 1: Baby, what just one affair?

489
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 2: Baby, She's on your side, Come on, she's ride or

490
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 2: die for you. My name is emiliu omii omii Omie

491
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 2: twenty six, and I have a five year old son.

492
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 2: My ex husband twenty nine cheated on me with his coworker,

493
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: Bethany twenty eight. I was two months pregnant with our

494
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Speaker 2: second child when I found out Bethany was going to

495
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Speaker 2: have his child. Oh my god. By the way, this

496
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 2: comes from throwaway inherit eh on the Okay Storytime subpartate.

497
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 2: So Op was pregnant and Bethany was pregnant. That is

498
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 2: a lot to deal with. Oh, so I miscarried. My

499
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,360
Speaker 2: ex left the house to be with her. It's been

500
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: two years since the baby was born. My mother in

501
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,159
Speaker 2: law has been supportive of me and has nothing to

502
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 2: do with my ex or his mistress and their child

503
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 2: up until a few months ago. I adore my in

504
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 2: laws and we're extremely close. My mother in law and

505
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: parents are the best of friends. She loves me and

506
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 2: her grandson more than anything. This infuriates my ex husband's

507
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 2: a fair partner. My in laws cut contact with them

508
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 2: straight away. Bethany was jealous that her child would never

509
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 2: know the love of grandparents. At least her son has

510
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 2: a father. Absolutely, I do think that there's more pausing

511
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 2: really quick. I don't think that the grandparents should take

512
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 2: it out on the kid though, Like I think that

513
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: having a relationship with the kid is important. You don't

514
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: necessarily have to like the parents.

515
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: Or I agree, yeah, yeah, the kids shouldn't bear the

516
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: brunt of their yeah higher.

517
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 2: This brings us to the problem. Unfortunately, my mother in

518
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 2: law has been very ill for a while and so

519
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 2: she's updated her will. My ex husband was an only child,

520
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 2: so he would get everything, but now my son will

521
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 2: inherit her house, villa and money.

522
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Speaker 1: Whoa the villa.

523
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 2: I will receive a large portion of her money and

524
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 2: all of her belongings until my son turns eighteen. It

525
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,959
Speaker 2: will be in my trust. If I pass before that,

526
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 2: my parents will take care of it. They do not

527
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 2: know this. The thing is, once they caught wind of

528
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 2: her being ill, my ex husband begged for forgiveness. The

529
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,439
Speaker 2: mistress started being nice towards her. She started fights and

530
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 2: called her horrible names before and forced her to be

531
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 2: around his baby. My mother in law is bedbound, but

532
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 2: she says she wants to leave with a bang, so

533
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: she'll endure this. I haven't encouraged her to do anything

534
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:51,719
Speaker 2: and this is her choice alone. They want her money

535
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 2: and her son thinks he is still included in the will.

536
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 2: He also thinks his child will now be acknowledged by

537
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,720
Speaker 2: his grandmother and will also receive money. Now, my mother

538
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 2: in law hasn't actually said she's forgiven them. She despises

539
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,479
Speaker 2: her son and his mistress for tearing apart our family.

540
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: She wants to reward those who'd de observe it and

541
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 2: get revenge in one go and pausing really quick, can

542
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 2: we do a poll? Should this Should the affair baby

543
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Speaker 2: get money or not? You know, be part of this

544
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 2: will because I kind of think it's a little I

545
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: still think it's like a little bit unfair to put, like,

546
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Speaker 2: you know, cast off the baby.

547
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 3: So what do you want to what are the options

548
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 3: you want to do?

549
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: Give the baby money, baby money or not baby money

550
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: or not baby money. I think the baby, I think

551
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: the money should get baby.

552
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 2: I think it's totally fair to not give I think

553
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 2: it's totally fair to not give the the son, like

554
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 2: the mother in law's son money because he sucks. But

555
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 2: I feel like the baby should.

556
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Speaker 3: Get money baby money. Okay, but first look, look look

557
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 3: at the voting for trivia and dance against.

558
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Speaker 2: Samuel winning trivia.

559
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: Okay, But so I took off just be clear, I

560
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: took off one interpretive dance and added one trivia got it? Okay,

561
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: So there's one dance and one trivia to.

562
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Speaker 2: Be clear, she can do whatever she wants. But because

563
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 2: like it is her money. Okay, it's just like maybe

564
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 2: it would be nicer, but it is her money that

565
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: she can do with whatever she wants. At the poll,

566
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Speaker 2: Sarah Landry says, just the baby, not the dad, which

567
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 2: is what Yeah, I agree, I agree. The unimpressed. Oh wait,

568
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,479
Speaker 2: it's going too quiet. I can't believe it. Cowbout as

569
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 2: God says, only if it's in a trust for the

570
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 2: baby when it turns eighteen. Otherwise the son will take

571
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 2: it absolutely, like that would be necessary, very necessary.

572
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: Oh true.

573
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, like make sure that dad, we can't touch.

574
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: It, because we've heard that happen many a time.

575
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I think it'll have to be in a trust.

576
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 2: But there is more to the story.

577
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 3: The poll is up amazing baby money.

578
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Speaker 2: Baby money, and this and baby money means money to

579
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 2: the affair baby. The mistress keeps on hinting on how

580
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: her child will grow up and attend a great college,

581
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 2: et cetera, money involved things whenever she's around My mother

582
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 2: in law actually mother in law's niece, my cousin my marriage,

583
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 2: has overheard her on the phone discussing what wallpaper she

584
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 2: wants in the dining room when she moves in, and

585
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 2: how my mother in law has no taste whatsoever, so

586
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: she's insulty or while she's trying to take her money.

587
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 2: She also mentioned how she finally will be able to

588
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 2: take down pictures of my son when my ex owns

589
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 2: the house. Too bad for her. It will belong to

590
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: my son. No changes will be made until my son

591
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 2: becomes eighteen. It's his grandmother's home and he should be

592
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 2: allowed to cherish it in the way she's decorated it.

593
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 2: I'm not really allowed to tell anyone. And though this

594
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 2: revenge will be satisfying, I'll have to lose my mother

595
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 2: in law. That's sad. And so far we have sixty

596
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: two percent for baby money and thirty eight percent for now,

597
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 2: which I think I'm on the baby money side. On

598
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 2: the baby money, she wants to some sort of trust. Yeah,

599
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 2: it's kind of a wind loose situation and I dread

600
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 2: the day when she'll take her last breath. She means

601
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 2: a lot to me. I love her. She wants this

602
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 2: for her grandson and has said that she cannot rest

603
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 2: until she knows her son and his mistress I've been punished. Dang.

604
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: She wants this because her childhood was also ruined because

605
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 2: of her father and his affair partner. She wants my

606
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 2: son to know he was loved and will always be loved.

607
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: I hope my son will always value the great woman

608
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 2: in his life. The great women in his life. I

609
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 2: wish I had more time with his grandmother. That's sad.

610
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 2: I might make an update if anyone wants it, though

611
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 2: I pray to God it's a long time before that

612
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: and there isn't at it. But uh, yeah, I know

613
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 2: these these the baby mama or the mistress is being

614
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:51,239
Speaker 2: very just. She's just very assuming a lot. Yeah, she's like, oh,

615
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take this house, which you know it's not

616
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 2: really o peas you know, Oh PE's not the a

617
00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 2: hole because she doesn't have a deciding vote about the

618
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: baby money.

619
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think I think the baby should

620
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: get the baby money.

621
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 2: The baby should get some baby But.

622
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: Do you are a question? Yeah, do you think the

623
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: baby should get the baby at least? Seems like sixty

624
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: seven percent of us think the baby should get the

625
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: baby money. Yeah. Do you think the baby should get

626
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: the baby money immediately? In a trust at eighteen or

627
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: in a trust at twenty five?

628
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 2: I think a trust at eighteen.

629
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: I feel like in a trusted twenty five.

630
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 2: Well, but I think I trust at eighteen. But you

631
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 2: can do a thing where it's like you only get

632
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 2: a certain amount you know, you don't.

633
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 3: Know that's all of it. Yeah, I like that.

634
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 1: Such a great idea.

635
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, but I feel like this story is

636
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 3: very game game of thronesy.

637
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 2: Like, oh, your mistress will never get anything.

638
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 3: I'm yeah, it's like the sun will get to it

639
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 3: and you won't know until he's eighteen.

640
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very like a lot of a lot of

641
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: moving parts here. Yes, but there is an edit. I

642
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 2: thought this post would attract just a handful of people,

643
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 2: but wow, wow, thank you all for listening to me

644
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 2: and giving me advice. Ask for these who are angry

645
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 2: at me for not asking my mother in law to

646
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 2: include my ex's new child, I can't do anything about that. Yes,

647
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 2: I'm happy and that selfish, but I'm going to put

648
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 2: myself and my son first. That child contributed to my

649
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 2: miscarriage and is one of the reasons why my son

650
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 2: is not at a father for over two years. Totally

651
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,279
Speaker 2: get where op he's coming from, but again, it's just

652
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,399
Speaker 2: a baby bit I just made. But also, oh, he's

653
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 2: going through a lot of emotions, and it's fair. I

654
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 2: can't change my mother in law's mind about him. I

655
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 2: do pity the baby, but it's not up to me

656
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 2: to fend for it. Totally true, it's not my responsibility.

657
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 2: I've tried talking to my mother in law, but she's

658
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 2: had her whole childhood ruined because her father made is

659
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 2: a fair children his top priority. This is why she

660
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: wants nothing to do with it or her son. He

661
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 2: knows that she went through so much because of cheaters,

662
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 2: yet he decided to do the same to her. He

663
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,839
Speaker 2: has seen his grandfather favor his aunt and uncle over

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Speaker 2: his mother. If this happened to you, you wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: so happy about sharing yet another thing with the baby.

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Speaker 2: Thank you again to the those who have listened to me,

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Speaker 2: and I've read out the nice comments to my mother

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Speaker 2: in law. We had a great laugh together. And by

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Speaker 2: the way, you could have a great laugh with us

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Speaker 2: by joining us live every weekday at three PMPSD on YouTube,

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Speaker 2: Facebook and TikTok. Just to our profile.

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Speaker 1: We're probably live right now.

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Speaker 2: Just happ it combine and there is a little bit

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Speaker 2: left to this story. But do you have any final thoughts?

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Speaker 1: I really I think our idea of trust given to

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Speaker 1: the baby at eighteen. Not all the money goes to

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Speaker 1: it to the baby, but it kind of unfolds over

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Speaker 1: a time I think is the best move.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that's gonna happen because I think

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Speaker 2: the mother in law is has been traumatized in the

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Speaker 2: past by this, and you know, probably wants to not

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Speaker 2: give the baby any money out of spite. Spite which

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Speaker 2: is not really Op's you know, bag of bag of dirt, beans,

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Speaker 2: bag of beans, bag of beans to handle. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't think Ope's necessarily done anything in the wrong

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Speaker 2: year is just kind of yeah, not yet, there's a

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Speaker 2: little bit left.

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Speaker 1: Let's see.

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Speaker 2: Edit to the mistress would send me photos of her

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Speaker 2: ultrasounds after I miscarried. That is evil that like ort

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Speaker 2: cloud or cloud put you mistress and send her to

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Speaker 2: the ort cloud either to me or to my family.

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Speaker 2: In the first envelope cloud cloud, do you want to

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Speaker 2: hear what she did? The mistress? So there was this

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Speaker 2: mistress who had an affair baby with Op's husband, and

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Speaker 2: she sent photos of her ultrasounds after Opie miscarried.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a demon.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a demon to do that.

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Speaker 2: M hm, that's not a person, either to me or

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Speaker 2: to my family. In the first envelope, she sent a

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Speaker 2: list of all a list a letter full of the

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Speaker 2: nastiest things about me, my son, and my miscarre baby.

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Speaker 2: She even tagged me on social media on an account

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Speaker 2: I didn't know about. It was an invitation to her

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Speaker 2: baby shower. She had done plenty of disgusting and hurtful

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Speaker 2: things to me regarding my miscarried baby. The people who

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Speaker 2: are coming at me in the comments would not be

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Speaker 2: as civil as me if anything like that happened to them.

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Speaker 2: Ignoring her child is honestly the best option. I do

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Speaker 2: not want my son to grow up with her son. Man.

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Speaker 2: And to those who are insulting and thing rude things

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Speaker 2: about my dying mother in law, you are truly disgusting.

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Speaker 1: Come on read it be a little niceros.

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Speaker 2: And that is the end of that story and maybe

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Speaker 2: the end of this stream.

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Speaker 1: We got some bad, little little tidbits at the end.

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Speaker 2: Those were so sad. What a way to dang to.

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Speaker 1: The mistress for being a piece of trash. You're okop

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Speaker 1: put into a black hole and make black hole spaghetti.

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Speaker 2: But regardless of your mother in law's decisions. You don't

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Speaker 2: have to worry about them like they're gone.

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Speaker 1: But we got some donos before we wrap up this street.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we we got some donos on Let's

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Speaker 1: see you got some on YouTube. We already citing the gosh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're read. But I think that's it. Guys.

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