Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I
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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing Happy Pride. It's Pride mind, it
Speaker 1: is Pride month, and it's cycle sinking months. Yes, it
Speaker 1: is Tanya's first cycle single, single cycle single. What did
Speaker 1: I see? Cycle sinking? Cycle sinking is happening, And I
Speaker 1: mean so so you haven't You're like just gearing up
Speaker 1: for the cycle the month. No, like I started, I'm
Speaker 1: starting it now. And I think it takes on your
Speaker 1: period right now. Well, you're on your cycle the whole
Speaker 1: twenty eight days, like the whole month. I always on
Speaker 1: your cycle, except that in that negative energy, you're always
Speaker 1: on your cycle. That's the whole point. But what I'm
Speaker 1: saying is it's basically so that when your period comes,
Speaker 1: it's not as horrible as it can be. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: just supposed to like level out all my hormones. It's
Speaker 1: gonna make my period better, my PMS symptoms better, it's
Speaker 1: gonna make my brain fog go away, it's gonna make
Speaker 1: me leaner. It's just like an all around good situation,
Speaker 1: and I'm really excited about it. When and got um
Speaker 1: our body fat tested last week, because yeah, so Red
Speaker 1: Star is gonna do it like in tandem with me,
Speaker 1: like to support me. But obviously he can't cycle think,
Speaker 1: so he's going to do his own version, which is
Speaker 1: just like losing body fat. So we went and did
Speaker 1: that together. I am body fat. Wow. I think that's awesome. Congrats. Yeah, honestly,
Speaker 1: it's not terrible. It's it's like I think it's good. Uh,
Speaker 1: it's not. It's not totally my my goal in this,
Speaker 1: but it's good to know, you know, like where you're at.
Speaker 1: I thought when you said cycles, thinking that you two
Speaker 1: are going to try and make an effort to think
Speaker 1: your cycles, because that seems like a very time you think.
Speaker 1: I wish I'd rather do that than when she's doing
Speaker 1: right now, because I had in and out before this,
Speaker 1: and I was doing my own cycle sinking cycling. It's
Speaker 1: honestly not that bad. It's like it took me a
Speaker 1: while to kind of like learn and digest it all.
Speaker 1: But when you break it down, it's really just like
Speaker 1: I still work out, but I just have to change
Speaker 1: change my workouts in tandem with like the point of
Speaker 1: my cycle that I'm in and then you just incorporate
Speaker 1: different foods in the different cycles, and there stuff I
Speaker 1: already eat, like cucumbers and pine nuts and turkey and
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's just kind of
Speaker 1: like sprinkling these things in, um depending on your face.
Speaker 1: So I think the difference between us is that I
Speaker 1: kind of enjoy an excuse to lash out and be
Speaker 1: a little p mss e and to be like I
Speaker 1: am eating everything and anything I want, back to back
Speaker 1: to back because I'm on my period. You know, I
Speaker 1: do that multiple times in a month, just because I can.
Speaker 1: I don't want that. I don't want those excuses, no cravings. No,
Speaker 1: I want to be steady. I want my hormones to
Speaker 1: be steady. I want to I want to try. I've
Speaker 1: been hearing so much about it, and so many people
Speaker 1: reach out to me um from the podcast about this
Speaker 1: this process, the cycle thinking thing. So I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: going to dive in and give it a shot. I'm
Speaker 1: curious to see, like how how quickly you notice the difference,
Speaker 1: and um, like, what you actually really significantly changes. I
Speaker 1: think since it's like all natural and it's like through
Speaker 1: food and diet, I think it might take a couple
Speaker 1: of cycles, and I don't think it's gonna be anything immediate,
Speaker 1: but we'll see sticking to it. Proud of you. I'm
Speaker 1: glad that one of us has the you know, willpower
Speaker 1: and determination to accomplish these types of things so that
Speaker 1: I don't have to, you know, I don't have to
Speaker 1: test out the thing for other people, because Tanya, we'll
Speaker 1: do it for you. Yeah, I've adopted the role of
Speaker 1: like period girl. I'm like, if there is anything like, yeah,
Speaker 1: going on with your period or your vagina or any
Speaker 1: sort of you're I'm on top of it. I'll try.
Speaker 1: You don't have the info you're seeking the info? Correct, Um,
Speaker 1: what did you do? This weekend? Was a long weekend?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I actually wanted to tell you, and you
Speaker 1: inspired me to do this because I was telling you
Speaker 1: I was like in my pajama shirt because I just
Speaker 1: came straight and didn't packed stuff to sleep at right stars.
Speaker 1: And for so long he's been telling me to just
Speaker 1: leave stuff. He's like, leave stuff here. You can have
Speaker 1: a whole drawer, you can have a whole side of
Speaker 1: like whatever you want, like, leave stuff here. But because
Speaker 1: of the breakup, I've been so hesitant to leave anything.
Speaker 1: So I've literally left like ahead of my toothbrush and
Speaker 1: makeup wipes. That's all I've had there this entire time.
Speaker 1: I refused to leave anything else. And after you said that,
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I feel really good.
Speaker 1: He's been more than vocal about having me leave stuff there.
Speaker 1: So I went to town and like ordered a whole
Speaker 1: my whole like set, my whole face set ums. I
Speaker 1: got my uh sunscreen there. I have my daytime lotion,
Speaker 1: my nighttime lotion. I have my chapstick deodorant, mirtize. I
Speaker 1: like decked out the um what is it called the
Speaker 1: Cainety cabinet? Yeah, so really much two small items to
Speaker 1: like fifteen Like you open up thing and there's a
Speaker 1: venus venus razor like it is it is, Tania fied I. I, um,
Speaker 1: you know, I only like to call the break up
Speaker 1: the trigger events. I would really appreciate if you referred
Speaker 1: to it as proper name, the trigger event. I totally.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think anyone would feel scared or like
Speaker 1: hesitant to jump back into something that calls hurt like that.
Speaker 1: So I don't think you being hesitant to take anything
Speaker 1: was not normal. But I think because he was like, hey,
Speaker 1: bring your stuff like that was like the green light.
Speaker 1: You know. He said it multiple times and I was
Speaker 1: just like yeah, yeah, yeah, but like he didn't really.
Speaker 1: It's like having to pack up my bathroom stuff after
Speaker 1: the trigger event was like really hard, and I was
Speaker 1: just like, you know what, my my scorpion always would
Speaker 1: be like just throw it all away, No, it's expensive.
Speaker 1: I would think you want to go get it for me,
Speaker 1: or I would show up looking like the best I've
Speaker 1: ever looked and strut in there and take it, get
Speaker 1: it all. Yeah. But now I'm like fully set up,
Speaker 1: like you've been really like pushed me over. And I
Speaker 1: was like, what am I waiting for the time. I
Speaker 1: being like, let's just you know, faith overfere it. Yeah. Same.
Speaker 1: I mean I get it too, But I think with
Speaker 1: the steps that y'all have been making, like the changes
Speaker 1: in this net this most recent time, like since the trigger, um,
Speaker 1: I feel like you leaving stuff is like a safe option,
Speaker 1: Like that's a safe thing right now. Yeah you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's nice. Like taking your bathroom stuff back and
Speaker 1: forth is really annoying. So now I'm like just pumped
Speaker 1: to just carry clothes. Yeah. Now, well then we'll slowly
Speaker 1: bringing in some clothes. I thought about that, but I
Speaker 1: like having my clothes here. I think maybe you can
Speaker 1: get like an extra pair of your favorite jeans or
Speaker 1: like sounds so like wasteful, right, I have two pairs. Well,
Speaker 1: I have two pairs of my favorite jeans because once ize,
Speaker 1: you know, I outgrew them for a time. So I
Speaker 1: have a bag of your pair for when i'm cycle
Speaker 1: thinking and I need a little extra pushing for the
Speaker 1: cushion and correctly. I feel like you, this is how
Speaker 1: you feel when you're like saying the wrong one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: grower not a shower was a good one, by the way.
Speaker 1: I almost said that on e when I was talking
Speaker 1: to the glass animals, and then I remembered what it
Speaker 1: really meant, and I was like, I can't say, gosh,
Speaker 1: if you would have been like y'all, I just love
Speaker 1: y'all because y'all are such growers and not just showers. Well,
Speaker 1: it was about their song, their song. It was a
Speaker 1: grower not a shower because it grew on you, well know,
Speaker 1: it grew on the world because it came out a
Speaker 1: long time ago. But it's just now like ttok, famous,
Speaker 1: I don't think so if we shouldn't be telling any
Speaker 1: of these things. So that would have been hilarious. If
Speaker 1: you just said that on the band would have thought
Speaker 1: it was hilarious. It probably would have gone viral, Like
Speaker 1: we need to stop correcting her on these You're right,
Speaker 1: you're right. Maybe maybe if it doesn't us no harm.
Speaker 1: We just all kind of give each other a look
Speaker 1: and like, don't don't say anything, you guys. Let let her,
Speaker 1: let her go. Yeah, So it was a big weekend.
Speaker 1: How was yours? My weekend was good. I so I
Speaker 1: was in Florida. Last time we did the podcast, I
Speaker 1: was doing it remote from the Panhandle, um, and it
Speaker 1: was great. I went my dad turned sixty years old,
Speaker 1: and so I went to San Diego for the wedding
Speaker 1: and then flew out the next day. And it was
Speaker 1: really good to see my family. It's like so many
Speaker 1: people that sometimes it's chaotic. But I had this moment
Speaker 1: of realizing, like I think with my family, I've always
Speaker 1: because maybe like we have different views or like different
Speaker 1: opinions on certain things. I've always felt like, well, I
Speaker 1: really want like us to all agree. And I kind
Speaker 1: of had this moment when I was there of like
Speaker 1: I think if you're able to just all love each
Speaker 1: other and respect each other in the differences, that it's
Speaker 1: okay to have different opinions and different And I think
Speaker 1: I just had a moment of realizing, like I don't
Speaker 1: need everyone to change, Like I don't need to change
Speaker 1: everything or make sure everyone's agreeing, Like it can just
Speaker 1: be that we all love each other. And and my
Speaker 1: brother got engaged. Yeah customers forever ago. Yeah, congratulations to
Speaker 1: him and his fiance Casey. Congratulations. He Um. They did
Speaker 1: like a photo shoot for this photographer where they live,
Speaker 1: and it was like for her wedding venue, and she's
Speaker 1: a wedding photographer. So they shot in like wedding dress
Speaker 1: and tuxedo and everything, and then she told them to
Speaker 1: go change into um, like a more casual old dress
Speaker 1: suit combo, and so she came out thinking that it
Speaker 1: was part of the shoots, still like for the venue.
Speaker 1: And then he got down on one knee. So it
Speaker 1: was fun that we all got to be there for that.
Speaker 1: That is really fun. Yeah, so Christopher is no longer
Speaker 1: on the market. Another one bites the dusk, so they say, um,
Speaker 1: so yeah, that was really fun. And then I came
Speaker 1: back on Friday and had went to the beach twice
Speaker 1: nice this weekend weekend. It was just beautiful. So it
Speaker 1: was fun. Had a good weekend. That's good. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: got to watch the Friends reunion, which we're gonna get
Speaker 1: to a little bit. We're gonna get to. I actually
Speaker 1: had like I so we had like a big I
Speaker 1: wotna say big barbecue, middle middle size barbecue. And this
Speaker 1: was the first time I feel like I've been around
Speaker 1: a big group of people kind of since the pandemic.
Speaker 1: And let me tell you, I was thriving. I was
Speaker 1: just like, I want to do this every weekend. I
Speaker 1: want to be out and about. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be in this apartment anymore. Like I just want to
Speaker 1: be out with people and bibing on some wine and
Speaker 1: playing Jenga. I know, I being around a big group.
Speaker 1: I I I thought like being in Florida, because like
Speaker 1: Florida basically never even like shut down, and so I
Speaker 1: thought I would be, you know, going out to eat,
Speaker 1: and it's really crowded there right now. But I felt
Speaker 1: it didn't feel it was like fun to be around
Speaker 1: groups of people and like not just the immediate family
Speaker 1: that you're used to so I was like flying high,
Speaker 1: flying high. And then I came home on Sunday or no,
Speaker 1: was it yesterday. I don't even know what day it is.
Speaker 1: And I sat on my mirror and I broke it.
Speaker 1: And now I'm like panic that I have what mirror? Mirror? Uh?
Speaker 1: You one of those mirrors that you like put on
Speaker 1: your vanity that like you get close to, like you
Speaker 1: like a magnifying mirror. It wasn't a magnifying mirror, but
Speaker 1: it was like that's eyes. So I was like this side,
Speaker 1: and I have this ingrown hair like in my vagina area,
Speaker 1: but like not like in your bikini line, but like
Speaker 1: not where you can see it. You have to like
Speaker 1: squat over something. So I put it on my toilet.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, go into town on this ingrown hair.
Speaker 1: I can't just leave it chills anyways, So I was successful.
Speaker 1: I got it, and I for some reason just left
Speaker 1: it there. And then I the hair came out, and
Speaker 1: I left the mirror there and then I went like
Speaker 1: I just went about my day and I went to
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom and I just sit on my toilet.
Speaker 1: I don't think to lift the thing because I always
Speaker 1: just leave all my toilet seats open, and I sat
Speaker 1: right on the mirror and it just cracked in half.
Speaker 1: So your ass cracked the yes, exactly, my bare my
Speaker 1: bare ass, that's a dangerous no. Yeah, but nothing. I
Speaker 1: have no shards in there exactly. Yeah, So I would
Speaker 1: I would actually think what happened was good luck, because
Speaker 1: bad luck would have been charts of glass in the huha, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think they're yeah. Yeah. So now it's just like
Speaker 1: sitting in my bathroom. I don't I don't want to
Speaker 1: throw away because I don't know what. I don't have
Speaker 1: to do it that. I'm sure there's a good You
Speaker 1: should ask the scrubbers. I feel like they do. What
Speaker 1: do I do with it? As to have the least
Speaker 1: amount of bad luck? Is there like a butt shaped
Speaker 1: print on it? Like with the cracked glass? You want
Speaker 1: to see it? Going to go get it? I'm sad
Speaker 1: to say. She already texted me a picture of the mirror. Disappointed, uneventful.
Speaker 1: It's just a mirror with the crack in it, that's
Speaker 1: all it is. Well, I got all these images now
Speaker 1: of like how big is the crack? Crack? Come, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you're crack spl I mean it's split right
Speaker 1: down the middle. I know, I'm not thinking if not
Speaker 1: like symmetrical. Literally just it's an equator right down the
Speaker 1: center of the mirror. Yeah, it's yeah, it's like the
Speaker 1: PEPSI symbol. So I can technically, but I don't want
Speaker 1: to like look at it, like I don't want to
Speaker 1: look at it. Like if someone were to say, what,
Speaker 1: what do you think happened here? How did this break?
Speaker 1: I would guess someone sat on it because it's just
Speaker 1: like it just makes sense right like one. But she
Speaker 1: got outside evenly distributed A wait, totally yeah, at least
Speaker 1: I'm even yeah, even keeled. That's how I describe you
Speaker 1: all the time. Okay, So I get back from Florida
Speaker 1: and Tony was like, Hey, are you at home? And
Speaker 1: she kept asking if I was home and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm at the beach or whatever. We were gone, and
Speaker 1: so finally she texts me, She's like, are you home?
Speaker 1: And I want to come drop something off? And I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, we're home now. So um, she I'm
Speaker 1: gonna what did you what? How do you pronounce it?
Speaker 1: She's like, I have some hola that I want to bring.
Speaker 1: It's like amazing, I want you to try it. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's been so persistent all day about some
Speaker 1: like bread. So she comes over and um, Haley was
Speaker 1: over there, and I'm she hands it like there's a
Speaker 1: She hands me a bag. I don't even look at
Speaker 1: the bag at first, and I pulled the bread out
Speaker 1: or the hala and I'm like, oh, like I don't
Speaker 1: never like you know, I'm just I have no idea
Speaker 1: how I'm so to react. And so I pull it
Speaker 1: out and I'm like okay, and I look up and
Speaker 1: Haley's filming like with the phone, and I'm like, what
Speaker 1: is going on? And so I put it back in
Speaker 1: like thanks, like see yuh, and she goes, don't look
Speaker 1: in there. So I look in there and I realized
Speaker 1: the bag is from Restoration Hardware, and I pull out
Speaker 1: this like folder and it is a printed photo of
Speaker 1: like my dream dining table that Tanya bought me, Like
Speaker 1: I can't even describe to you, like I I still
Speaker 1: don't know how to respond to it, like I'm I've
Speaker 1: been totally overwhelmed for four days now or however long
Speaker 1: it's been of just being able to accept this gift
Speaker 1: because it's like the nicest thing and I had told
Speaker 1: I don't even think I told you right, No, you
Speaker 1: did it, And like so I've been like himming and hying.
Speaker 1: I really wanted to get her something like really beautiful
Speaker 1: and really nice and special for this like home, and
Speaker 1: I wanted to do something big because I don't think
Speaker 1: you realize and you don't realize it, but you've done
Speaker 1: the same for me time and time again in our friendship.
Speaker 1: I have not done not to that left know, but
Speaker 1: like you do stuff like that time and time again,
Speaker 1: like especially like early on, when like I couldn't even
Speaker 1: afford to do stuff for myself, like you would do
Speaker 1: it for me, like you wouldn't even bat an eyelash.
Speaker 1: And so I knew I wanted. I knew I wanted
Speaker 1: to do something nice, but I was really like I
Speaker 1: just didn't know what to do. And then you were
Speaker 1: when you were showing me your house, you were like, okay,
Speaker 1: I need to get you know, I have to do
Speaker 1: things in phases because when you buy a house, like
Speaker 1: it's just everything so expensive at it. And I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: she's gonna do the gate and then she's gonna do
Speaker 1: a shase, and then you're like and then I have
Speaker 1: this dream table that I want to get for right here,
Speaker 1: and you're like and you showed it to me on
Speaker 1: your phone and I was like oh, and then I
Speaker 1: asked you. I was like, that's it. I want to
Speaker 1: get a table because like a table is what you
Speaker 1: make memories around. Like that is like, that's that's it.
Speaker 1: And so I don't know even know if you remember,
Speaker 1: but I grabbed your phone and I asked you to
Speaker 1: get me something from the kitchen or something. So I
Speaker 1: took a picture of it. I took a picture of
Speaker 1: it on your phone on my phone, and uh. I
Speaker 1: was like in cahoots with Haley to make sure, like
Speaker 1: you weren't going to buy it for yourself and like
Speaker 1: all this stuff. And then I go to this store
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, it's not ready until August, and
Speaker 1: so I was like okay, uh. And then the guy
Speaker 1: was so cute at the store. He was like, I
Speaker 1: can print off a picture of it, and we can
Speaker 1: put it in an envelope and you can put it
Speaker 1: in a bag. Like that's perfect. But then I wanted
Speaker 1: like an excuse because I was like I don't want
Speaker 1: to give her the bag. And so I was like
Speaker 1: the halla is such a good throw off because it's
Speaker 1: totally something I would do, Like I'd like, it's amazing, crackers,
Speaker 1: I want you to try um. And it's like it's
Speaker 1: a perfect way to like throw her off. So it
Speaker 1: really went. It went off like exactly how I planned it.
Speaker 1: It was so good. Okay, you guys don't understand this table.
Speaker 1: Though I have a lot of other things I needed
Speaker 1: to do for the house. I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I already have a dining table. I won't rush, you know,
Speaker 1: to buy this one's really you know, it's like a
Speaker 1: dream table, and but I'll get it eventually, you know.
Speaker 1: I was just like, one thing at a time, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to rush. So when I say, I am
Speaker 1: still processing it like it was just the most like
Speaker 1: the thought behind it of what you got me and
Speaker 1: then what it actually is was just like the nicest
Speaker 1: thing ever. Well, I love you and you deserve it,
Speaker 1: and you don't even realize. She doesn't realize she does
Speaker 1: this all the time. I'm I don't do this all
Speaker 1: the time. You do, and you're in different ways you do.
Speaker 1: But it was like, really it was I was totally
Speaker 1: thrown off by the hall. I was like, is she
Speaker 1: gonna give me something like my sister heat it up?
Speaker 1: What do I do with this? Like and then she's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: how did my freezer? So I decided to take it
Speaker 1: out and I'm like, so this is old old bread,
Speaker 1: so good. Like you just like feel her annoyance through
Speaker 1: the text message, you know what I mean of like great,
Speaker 1: I've never tried hollow before. Sounds cool. Like I could
Speaker 1: just hear her annoyance because like all day I've been like,
Speaker 1: are you home? Are you bad? Because all day it
Speaker 1: was are you home? She never said anything. She's like,
Speaker 1: you know, I want to drop something off and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, we're not. We're at the beach.
Speaker 1: And then and then finally I'm at home and she's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring some hollow I may or I just
Speaker 1: tried or something. And I was like, you've been harassing
Speaker 1: me all day for this. It's just so good, And
Speaker 1: it was so that was that was the best part.
Speaker 1: Did you ever consider giving it to her on the podcast? No,
Speaker 1: because that would have been really good, I know now
Speaker 1: that I think about it. I really didn't think about that.
Speaker 1: It was a lot for me, Like I would have
Speaker 1: felt even I was overwhelmed in the presence of like
Speaker 1: my own in my own home. I don't even know
Speaker 1: what I would have been doing. Like it really threw
Speaker 1: me in like the best way. But now every time
Speaker 1: I have dinner or said at the table, I'll think
Speaker 1: of Tanya. That's the whole point. It's a beautiful gift
Speaker 1: and it's a beautiful thought. The holiday is very questionable.
Speaker 1: But the rest of the yeah, well it's just so
Speaker 1: funny because I was really like putting so much thought
Speaker 1: of just like what makes sense, And like I was
Speaker 1: talking a Red Star about it, and he was like,
Speaker 1: maybe you get her some because you said your fish
Speaker 1: died and so he's like, maybe you get like two
Speaker 1: best friends, like beautiful fish that can be friends and
Speaker 1: the thing together. I just think, Well, the whole thing
Speaker 1: was that I was going to replace the coy fish,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, I really like
Speaker 1: the pond. It just says it's it sounds really nice,
Speaker 1: but there's nothing in there for me to take care of.
Speaker 1: And everyone had been like I wouldn't even get anymore
Speaker 1: because the raccoons come and like swipe them. And I
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I don't want to go through the
Speaker 1: trauma of that, and then she said that Red Star
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you should get her some coy fish,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, honestly, I'm he didn't do that because
Speaker 1: I already have to find someone to watch Phoebe when
Speaker 1: I leave. I'm gonna have to be like, can you
Speaker 1: feed the fish in the back. It was like such
Speaker 1: a Eureka moment, though, when you said that you were
Speaker 1: wanting that. I was like, that's it, that's really really thoughtful.
Speaker 1: I'm I realized I need to be bad. I go.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how to accept this. She's like,
Speaker 1: just say thank you, and I'm like, okay, well that
Speaker 1: feels inadequate. You just say thank you and we have
Speaker 1: a really great dinner when it comes in. Yeah, yeah
Speaker 1: we will. Yeah, so make some hollow maybe homemade, perhaps
Speaker 1: not frozen. Um, but yeah. I really want to talk
Speaker 1: about the friends the Friends reunion, because I have some thoughts.
Speaker 1: I think you do too. I have good, bad, and
Speaker 1: the ugly. Okay, well we'll be right back at that. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're back. So Friends reunion. Do we start with the good,
Speaker 1: the bad, bad, or the ugly? Well, let's get a
Speaker 1: general consensus. Do everybody like it. Okay, So I have
Speaker 1: not seen it, and I'll tell you why. We're going
Speaker 1: to watch it as a family because Brooklyn has gone
Speaker 1: through the whole thing. Allie's almost there. We're gonna watch
Speaker 1: it together, and we had family in town this weekend,
Speaker 1: so I spent the weekend doing everything you can imagine
Speaker 1: to do as a tourist in Los Angeles. So I
Speaker 1: have not seen it yet. I apologize, but I'm not
Speaker 1: worried about spoilers. I'm looking forward to hearing your recap. Okay. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: and spoilers are like our Yeah, I saw spoilers before
Speaker 1: I watched it the day after, and I had already
Speaker 1: seen spoilers. Yeah, easty, I have watched it either. I'm
Speaker 1: I'm admittedly not not a big Friends fan. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: we went to the Friends thing in New York together.
Speaker 1: That was a blast, and that's my best friend's memory.
Speaker 1: But I haven't watched the show. We all did the
Speaker 1: pivot together. We all did the pivot we suppose by
Speaker 1: the fountain. It was a great time. Did I know,
Speaker 1: Do we know that you are not a huge Friends
Speaker 1: fan at the time? Yeah, we did, Okay, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: know when you're signed feld, you're not friends and I
Speaker 1: think I remember the Eastern was like there's some guy
Speaker 1: the guys here, that's and I was like, Gunther here right. Well,
Speaker 1: then Tanya over your thoughts on it, okay, So I
Speaker 1: was freaking out. I actually stayed up to watch a
Speaker 1: little bit of the beginning because I just couldn't handle it.
Speaker 1: I was sobbing within the first ten minutes because I
Speaker 1: had to tell you, as a Friends fan, I can't
Speaker 1: even I can't even watch the last season and I
Speaker 1: haven't watched the final episode since two thousand four since
Speaker 1: it finished. Like I physically can't watch the final episode
Speaker 1: with the keys on the thing like and then walking
Speaker 1: out with I can't do it, Like I just ball
Speaker 1: And so anytime I get close to the series finale
Speaker 1: and I had to stop it, like I can't do it.
Speaker 1: So when it opens up with the scene, I was like,
Speaker 1: just buckets already, and then they started they walk them
Speaker 1: in one by one and they're all like reminiscing, and
Speaker 1: I just lost it. Like I literally didn't stop crying
Speaker 1: until they all came in and like hugged each other.
Speaker 1: I mean, it was definitely I don't think that's crazy
Speaker 1: because it was very emotional, like I could feel like
Speaker 1: when David Trummer because he was the first one that
Speaker 1: walked in, it was like you could feel him just
Speaker 1: taking it all and it was like almost palpable like
Speaker 1: that whatever he was experiencing. Yeah, So, like the beginning
Speaker 1: really got me in the fields. And I've seen it
Speaker 1: multiple times and I cry every single time, so it's
Speaker 1: not even like a one off. Like every time I've
Speaker 1: watched it. The first chunk, I'm sobbing, and Red Star
Speaker 1: was just like are you okay? Because he likes friends.
Speaker 1: He's like a Seinfeld guy. Yeah, Like, but he likes friends,
Speaker 1: so he you know, he understands it and he likes it.
Speaker 1: He really likes Matt Leblancie, really likes Joey. But um,
Speaker 1: it's just like are you okay? I don't think you understand.
Speaker 1: That was me when McDreamy died. My mom was genuinely like, Becca,
Speaker 1: are you okay? And I was like I literally think,
Speaker 1: I go, you don't understand. It's like my first love. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: Like like when if I watched I put if I
Speaker 1: put Friends on before we fall asleep, I shake the
Speaker 1: bed because I'm like laughing so hard, and I like,
Speaker 1: I have to stop it because I can tell it's
Speaker 1: keeping him awake, and I'm like, I'm sorry, Like I
Speaker 1: just can't do it. I'll have I tapped to her
Speaker 1: it off. But anyways, So I really enjoyed the beginning
Speaker 1: part of it, and I really enjoyed the reenacting of
Speaker 1: the scenes, like going back and having them like reread
Speaker 1: some of those classic scenes and then they basically they
Speaker 1: kind of they re enacted. All the reenacting was good.
Speaker 1: All the guest stars that were like the bringing back
Speaker 1: of the people that were on the show. I loved
Speaker 1: the fashion show lost me. Did we need that? No? No,
Speaker 1: I almost felt like they were they were like, hey,
Speaker 1: some of these people want to be a part, Like
Speaker 1: can we find a way for them to be on it?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, And no, no shade to any
Speaker 1: of this letter that I would have I would have
Speaker 1: if someone asked me to be in that, I would
Speaker 1: have died. I would have given a limb to be
Speaker 1: in that audience, like maybe for sure a toe, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: when they for sure a toe? When they when I
Speaker 1: found out I was a live audience, Yeah, I didn't
Speaker 1: know how to process the fact that that opportunity was there,
Speaker 1: and I begged someone to let me on that broken
Speaker 1: glass to be in that audience. I would have I
Speaker 1: probably would have chopped off like a part of a
Speaker 1: toe or something. I thought it was a full toe
Speaker 1: you because the fashion show, I would have been like, really,
Speaker 1: I could deserve half of my toe for this. Um.
Speaker 1: So that was the part. That part kind of threw me.
Speaker 1: And then I hate to say it because I love
Speaker 1: Lady Gaga, but the Lady Gaga moment it was weird
Speaker 1: to me. It just felt kind of random, like out
Speaker 1: of place, right, But I you know, with that being said,
Speaker 1: I loved how it was just kind of funny because
Speaker 1: it went like she was singing Smelly Cat like belting.
Speaker 1: It sounds like her voice is insane, and then she
Speaker 1: gets really serious and it was kind of like, okay, now,
Speaker 1: Lisa Kudro, is she in Phoebe or she Lisa group?
Speaker 1: Like they have so they sing Smelly Cat together and
Speaker 1: and then um, Lady Gaga basically says like kind of
Speaker 1: thank you to Phoebe for you know, being yourself and
Speaker 1: letting all of us feel more comfortable to be ourselves.
Speaker 1: And it's actually she's like thanks, thanks for being different,
Speaker 1: like thanks for being the weird one so that all
Speaker 1: of us could feel comfortable. It was really it was
Speaker 1: actually a really sweet moment, but like Lisa Kudro was
Speaker 1: just like, I don't know, she didn't I don't know,
Speaker 1: she didn't't react in a in a way. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: let's let's dive in there, and it just like fell flat.
Speaker 1: And I was just like, well, because I felt like
Speaker 1: Lisa Coudro was like in Phoebe character and then probably
Speaker 1: wasn't ready for that, Like I mean, it was like
Speaker 1: moment and it was like do we have time for
Speaker 1: me to yea, like do we have time for this?
Speaker 1: And so then it just kind of but I liked
Speaker 1: I liked what she said because it was true, like
Speaker 1: Phoebe was like the kind of like crazy one who
Speaker 1: was so confident who she was. Um. But honestly, though,
Speaker 1: those were the only two moments to me that I
Speaker 1: could have done without. Every other part of it was
Speaker 1: so spectacular. I loved hearing um how they were cast
Speaker 1: and what order they were cast, the backstories of how
Speaker 1: they were cast. I enjoyed the like the romance stuff
Speaker 1: between Ross and Rachel Okay, when I first started watching
Speaker 1: the series, I could not believe that there was never
Speaker 1: a real life romance between the two of them. So
Speaker 1: when I heard that, I felt so validated because to me,
Speaker 1: their chemistry, especially when they first got together, was so insane, insane,
Speaker 1: and so for the full ten seasons of the series,
Speaker 1: I was just waiting for their that moment, for them
Speaker 1: to have like a scene together, a romantic relationship, and
Speaker 1: they waited until the very end. Basically, well basically they
Speaker 1: did say that they they both had feelings for each other,
Speaker 1: but they had they were in relationships. Each one of
Speaker 1: them were in relationships at the time, so they never
Speaker 1: really got to give it a shot, but like the
Speaker 1: love was there, so like, are they both single now?
Speaker 1: I think so. He described it as ships in the night,
Speaker 1: which is such a like sad, like hopeless romantic way
Speaker 1: of saying it, Like they were just like passing ships
Speaker 1: in the night. Yeah. And then I also enjoyed that
Speaker 1: Joey Matta Blanc was telling us how like Courtney Cox
Speaker 1: would always have her like script in the sync or
Speaker 1: like write her lines on the table. I love that.
Speaker 1: And then they were like kind of reminiscing about certain
Speaker 1: episodes and Rachel Rachel Jen France and was like, do
Speaker 1: you guys remember Want the Ball? And David Shrummer had
Speaker 1: no recollection of it. I was like, how do you
Speaker 1: know I remember that episode? Like I know. I loved
Speaker 1: that they were referencing old episodes and they didn't even
Speaker 1: remember them. And I would be like, like, I don't
Speaker 1: like I could recite every line of that episode. I
Speaker 1: I just loved it, and I'm like, I the fact
Speaker 1: that I felt like they were so happy. It was
Speaker 1: like watching a family first and then hearing like they
Speaker 1: all the creators were basically talking out like how they
Speaker 1: started it and then how they kind of realized they
Speaker 1: how they hit gold when like all this stuff started
Speaker 1: to happen. I don't know, it was just a really
Speaker 1: cool I felt very inside. I felt very validated as
Speaker 1: a fan. I felt really good. I mean I could
Speaker 1: have used more, like I could have had more of it. Oh,
Speaker 1: I wish they would do a series of the reunion, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I didn't necessarily need like a scripted episode, Like
Speaker 1: I don't even think I would have liked that because
Speaker 1: I loved how they did it, But I just felt
Speaker 1: I loved hearing that the girls all had lunch together
Speaker 1: every day, and just cool to see a cast that's
Speaker 1: been together that long that there was there didn't seem
Speaker 1: to be anything that like caused a huge wet wedge
Speaker 1: between any of the friendships. Like it was more so
Speaker 1: kind of like everyone's lives just moved on after the show,
Speaker 1: but they all still had so much love for each other,
Speaker 1: so it was like fun to watch. It was almost
Speaker 1: like watching this high school reunion that we all got
Speaker 1: to be a part of. It's great. Yeah, if Jennifer
Speaker 1: Anderson and David Schwimmer ended up together in real life,
Speaker 1: just end me and I would not. I couldn't. I
Speaker 1: would not be able to handle that information. I would
Speaker 1: would They would be like Harry and Megan. They'd be
Speaker 1: like Royalty. Oh yeah, oh yeah, they would need a
Speaker 1: reality show to film that. I mean, they would never
Speaker 1: do that, but no chance. I would never do that. No, never, No.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was amazing. I loved it. I feel
Speaker 1: the same way about Rossall. Okay, I got into this
Speaker 1: like Titanic kick thing where there's this deleted scene in
Speaker 1: the boiler room in the It's like in the extras
Speaker 1: of Titanic. I always have wanted Kate Winslow and Leonardo
Speaker 1: DiCaprio to be together since I've watched, since I watched Titanic, like,
Speaker 1: I've always loved that they remained friends. And there's a
Speaker 1: scene and I knew Ashley Connetti would like relate to
Speaker 1: it because she loves Titanic like I do. And I
Speaker 1: was like, does it just bother you that they took
Speaker 1: this scene out? It is the greatest kiss of all
Speaker 1: time and they cut it from the movie. I don't know,
Speaker 1: Like I need to know why they watched that scene
Speaker 1: and then we're like, let's cut it because it is
Speaker 1: the most amazing kiss. And if they didn't have a
Speaker 1: relationship outside of that movie during that time, I don't
Speaker 1: believe it. Sure, But I'm always like I get annoyed
Speaker 1: with Titanic because I'm like, Rose could have made room
Speaker 1: on that I mean obviously on that door, Like they
Speaker 1: could have both. I just watched this the other day.
Speaker 1: She could not She could have made room, but the
Speaker 1: weight was too great. It would have sank. But you
Speaker 1: don't even know. You don't know unless you try. He
Speaker 1: tries to get on one time, freezing cold water. I'm
Speaker 1: going to give it more than one shot. And if
Speaker 1: this was the love of my life, like I would
Speaker 1: definitely give it more than one shot, and then maybe
Speaker 1: I would try like kissing him as to create body
Speaker 1: warmth while try to not sink the thing. Go on
Speaker 1: and off, rotate who's on the door, Like you have
Speaker 1: some time off, I'll get in the water. Like I
Speaker 1: feel like there was other ways they could have figured
Speaker 1: maneuvered that then this. I could never date an actor
Speaker 1: like I just I'm sorry his hand is on her
Speaker 1: neck and he's like biting her lip. If that were
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and he was sucking someone's face like that,
Speaker 1: I would not be okay, okay, that brings me to
Speaker 1: something else I want to talk about. So you mentioned
Speaker 1: I think actually on our podcast you were talking Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I think with I don't know, you were talking about
Speaker 1: how Red Star isn't really jealous, like he don't like
Speaker 1: doesn't get jealous. He's like, does that bother you? Do
Speaker 1: you like wish there was little to do? You like
Speaker 1: like that he's so secure? Do you wish secure jealousy?
Speaker 1: Now that you bring it up, it is weird. I
Speaker 1: mean he's so secure, Like he's just very like secure,
Speaker 1: which I like because he's securely attached and you know,
Speaker 1: I'm like doing that whole attachment style, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I envy that he has that. But do you find
Speaker 1: yourself to be the jealous type? No? Not no, not jealous,
Speaker 1: not jealous. But I'm definitely not as secure as he is,
Speaker 1: that's for sure, but more so. And I'm talking about
Speaker 1: like you're not you're like if he were, but like
Speaker 1: if he were an actor and he was doing that
Speaker 1: with somebody, even though I know it's professional and there's
Speaker 1: no feelings and there's no feelings there, I could not
Speaker 1: handle it. I will say I made the quotation marks
Speaker 1: with her fingers when she said no feelings. It's important
Speaker 1: that people know that because they can't see you. Oh
Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, because there are certain times where I
Speaker 1: see a like if I were with either Kate Winslet
Speaker 1: or Leonardo DiCaprio and I saw that scene and we
Speaker 1: were dating during that time, there will be some fights. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you're not too far off from that, okay, friend,
Speaker 1: and was like, I could don't think if I were you,
Speaker 1: I couldn't handle it. I mean, I consider myself in
Speaker 1: every relationship I've had. I can be jealous, but I'm Also,
Speaker 1: I'm very confident and secure in our relationship, yet I
Speaker 1: still have that like scorpio like that's mine. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: but no, but what's your job and you need to
Speaker 1: kiss people? I get it again with the air quotes,
Speaker 1: but it's like it's it's that would be really hard
Speaker 1: for me. I couldn't do it. I couldn't do it.
Speaker 1: But my point is more, I'm sorry, we can't. We
Speaker 1: can never end. I never worked out was acturly by
Speaker 1: because he's just kissing people on movies and I just like,
Speaker 1: I can't have it. But I kind of like when
Speaker 1: because in a hell I do find I think there's
Speaker 1: healthy and I think there's unhealthy, and like there's like
Speaker 1: a healthy amount of jealousy to where I feel like
Speaker 1: it's nice. It's nice both ways, both ways. Yeah. See,
Speaker 1: Red Star just doesn't know jealousy. The other day, Tanya
Speaker 1: posted something on her story about like she was on
Speaker 1: a run and she was saying she felt like really
Speaker 1: gross and this guy like stopped and asked for her numbers.
Speaker 1: She posted it and I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: like I would be if I were a Red Star,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, who stopped that to your number? Like,
Speaker 1: what do you look like anything? I didn't even ask
Speaker 1: me about it. Was there any part of you that
Speaker 1: posted that to get a reaction from him? No, because
Speaker 1: if you would have asked me, I would have been like,
Speaker 1: I mean there was like it was heat, nothing there.
Speaker 1: But I posted it more so because I felt so
Speaker 1: disgusting that day when I went on my run, and
Speaker 1: mind you, I was like sweating, like like gross, Like
Speaker 1: I was wearing this great like heather gray tight shirt
Speaker 1: and I had like rings around my armpits. I literally
Speaker 1: looked so gross. And I was like on my son
Speaker 1: and I was listening to this bomb playlist and I
Speaker 1: was just like dancing and singing and like running, just
Speaker 1: having a good time. And this guy literally stopped me
Speaker 1: and asked me for my number, and I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, It's just like goes to show you
Speaker 1: that we spend so much time getting all gussied up
Speaker 1: and doing all the things before we you know whatever,
Speaker 1: when in reality, if you're just like having a good time,
Speaker 1: it like comes out of you. Like I literally looked disgusting.
Speaker 1: What if he has a sweat stained fetish? He might have,
Speaker 1: he might have, but like fully to the point where
Speaker 1: like the guy was like literally ran up to me
Speaker 1: to like stop me, and I stopped because I thought
Speaker 1: he maybe needed directions or something like. It seemed like,
Speaker 1: you know, I didn't think it was gonna ask me
Speaker 1: for my number, but it was more like a Wow,
Speaker 1: I need to remember this when I'm in my head
Speaker 1: about the way that I look about you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, I just I don't know it was
Speaker 1: I would have posted that to get a reaction. I
Speaker 1: would have posted that to see like if I was
Speaker 1: needing some extra attention. No, no, nothing. Literally, the only
Speaker 1: time I ever have seen him get like and I
Speaker 1: want to say, like a hair just like like he
Speaker 1: jokes about it, but I think there's a hint of
Speaker 1: like an inkling of jealousy was when Harry Style sang
Speaker 1: the extra song for me and then he made eye
Speaker 1: contact with me and this like video that's that um
Speaker 1: he made eye contact him like winked or something. We
Speaker 1: all remember Tanya, Uh that video. He's like, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a friendly wing like so he says it joking, but
Speaker 1: there's like a hair that I feel like it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was. So that's the only time ever. All my
Speaker 1: feelings about that video I was like, so happy for you,
Speaker 1: yet so jealous, Like I couldn't really distinguish where the
Speaker 1: line was of health. Okay, wait, Eastern Mark, where do
Speaker 1: you stand on being jealous? Mark? Would you like to
Speaker 1: go first? Um? I think it's something that Umm, I
Speaker 1: think I was very guilty of it when I was younger.
Speaker 1: I think it's mean you mature path in a lot
Speaker 1: of ways. But also it's kind of something you kind
Speaker 1: of wish was there. Sometimes you kind of like it's
Speaker 1: it's nice to feel a little bit. Obviously, there's a
Speaker 1: line you don't want somebody who's overly jealous, but it's
Speaker 1: kind of nice to feel a little bit because you
Speaker 1: know it's it's it's it's it's compliment and question though,
Speaker 1: if Amy and Allison were to decide they wanted to
Speaker 1: be an actress and had to make out with hot eyes,
Speaker 1: how would you feel about that? No, I think I
Speaker 1: think that would be really difficult. I completely agree with
Speaker 1: you on that. I don't know how. I don't know
Speaker 1: how any of them do that, especially some of the
Speaker 1: more graphic situations. I'll never understand. I'm gonna show you,
Speaker 1: I'm going to can you see Yeah? Oh wow? This
Speaker 1: is truly erotic. Here's the thing, though, Money is an
Speaker 1: incredible that the hesitation, he's like biting her lips. I mean,
Speaker 1: those two really could have done something, but that don
Speaker 1: Kate Winslet had to go and get older every year,
Speaker 1: and Leo cannot handle that. He will not tolerate someone aging.
Speaker 1: Um Okay, eastn uh. How do I feel about being jealous?
Speaker 1: Or what would I do about? Are you know, like,
Speaker 1: are you the type? Like? Okay, let's say Mark and Easton,
Speaker 1: y'all go out on a date night, Allison Amy, they
Speaker 1: go up to the bar to get a drink and
Speaker 1: you look over and there's a man and he's chatting
Speaker 1: with them and they're like laughing. How do you feel?
Speaker 1: I'd be so stressed out about how I'm supposed to react, because,
Speaker 1: like I, I am very secure. I'm extremely secure in
Speaker 1: my relationship. Allison makes me feel like the greatest dude
Speaker 1: in the world, and I believe it heardly and uh,
Speaker 1: I I've never I've never felt jealous of anyone or
Speaker 1: anything since I've been with her. But if that happened,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, hmmm, am I supposed to step in
Speaker 1: here and assert my dominance? Like because it doesn't ultimately
Speaker 1: bother me, but society expects a certain thing, you know.
Speaker 1: That's how red Star is. Yeah, just secure, admirable, you know.
Speaker 1: So I would probably if like, yeah, we were like
Speaker 1: out on the town and some dudes like chatting him up,
Speaker 1: I'd probably walk over and be like I tropped my
Speaker 1: six ft two frame over there and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: what's going on over here? What you guys talking about? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've done that before. At a certain point, like okay,
Speaker 1: it's enough, let's move along, can we You know, I
Speaker 1: remember I've done that before. You walk up You're like, hey, wifey, Yeah, wifey?
Speaker 1: You does anybody call their wife wifey? Well you know that.
Speaker 1: I mean in a panic situation, you'd say things that
Speaker 1: you wouldn't normally say to a certain dominance. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Well I'm glad we all know where we all stand.
Speaker 1: So I'm Tanya is not really so much jealous. I'm
Speaker 1: a little bit jealous. Y'all are very secure men. Tony
Speaker 1: can go out get hit on as many times Red
Speaker 1: Star post about it. Red Star doesn't think twice doesn't
Speaker 1: know very well. It's like, after I got back together,
Speaker 1: I was like I was praying for you every day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's been around the block a few times. He knows
Speaker 1: that that's kind of not healthy necessarily for a relationship
Speaker 1: to be acting all possessive like that. He's probably comfy,
Speaker 1: just comfortable with that's this this stage of the game. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you should be. You should feel honored that you make
Speaker 1: him feel I do. I do. I feel very like
Speaker 1: I feel very good about that, and I feel very
Speaker 1: good about the way he makes me feel too good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm glad we got that settled. Anyways, it's a great
Speaker 1: kiss and Titanic that they cut out. But I was
Speaker 1: trying to say that all started because I was trying
Speaker 1: to say that It's like I've always wanted that with
Speaker 1: Ross and Rachel. So if they got together in real life,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know, what are you doing. It's
Speaker 1: almost like I've never been pregnant. Um, so I don't
Speaker 1: know what it feels like to have milk in your boobs.
Speaker 1: She's just like touching her. Here we go. I'm looking
Speaker 1: at her and she goes, I know, and I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't know what I'm saying that,
Speaker 1: you know that, I know, I'm just like caressing because
Speaker 1: my boobs are really hurting right now, and I'm just
Speaker 1: like thinking, in a few months, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: feel this pain. Hopefully my hormones are gonna be leveled out.
Speaker 1: But I imagine that this is what it feels like
Speaker 1: when your boobs fill up with milk. It's just like
Speaker 1: they're so uncomfortable, Like I can't I can't stch them,
Speaker 1: like my bra hurts on them, like I'm trying to
Speaker 1: massage them, but like nothing helps. Maybe we can maybe
Speaker 1: we can do that after the podcast what you're not
Speaker 1: doing well? It's like I can hear it, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: can they Like the best part is after this, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to strength train for one hour and I've
Speaker 1: been up since four o'clock this morning. Yeah, I just
Speaker 1: I cannot grasp how your brain Like I'm thinking about myself,
Speaker 1: it's four I'm up at four am, it's three five.
Speaker 1: I'm like, my boobs hurt, I don't feel great, but
Speaker 1: I'm following this pattern where I have to strength train,
Speaker 1: and so I somehow will myself to do it. I
Speaker 1: can't even relate. I'd be like, you know of what
Speaker 1: my body's asking me to rest. So I'm going to
Speaker 1: do that. Well, no, Luckily I have Red Star holding
Speaker 1: me accountable right now because he's like, after the podcast,
Speaker 1: you can come over and like I'll train you for now.
Speaker 1: And he's not gonna train me. I'm gonna watch some videos,
Speaker 1: but he's gonna make sure that I do it, and
Speaker 1: uh yeah, So it's nice to have a supportive lad. Yeah. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, it's really cute. Something really cute about Red Star.
Speaker 1: He came over before we went to the Pink premiere
Speaker 1: and he met Phoebe for the first time, and he
Speaker 1: like loved Phoebe. Phoebe is like boy crazy, she has
Speaker 1: like she has crushes on every guy that comes in
Speaker 1: through the door. And he she was like, and she
Speaker 1: loves Tanya, Like I think she really loves all my friends,
Speaker 1: but she really gives Tanny and the attention she needs.
Speaker 1: She does the emotional attention she does. And so Tanya
Speaker 1: texts me when was that a couple of days ago,
Speaker 1: and she was like red Red Star says he misses
Speaker 1: Phoebe and he was only around for like ten it.
Speaker 1: I know, I'm like getting to a point where like
Speaker 1: everything like I don't even want to say it because
Speaker 1: I don't want to jinx it, but like it's so
Speaker 1: good right now that everything he does like makes me
Speaker 1: smile and I'm like, you're just the cutest thing. I
Speaker 1: don't like squeeze your face off. Oh that's great, Yeah,
Speaker 1: not like actually squeeze it off, but like I just
Speaker 1: like everything. I'm like, you're so freaking cute and I
Speaker 1: just want to squeeze. It's called cute aggression, is it? Ye, Phoebe?
Speaker 1: I still have I have with him real bad right now? Okay,
Speaker 1: does he get stage fright or like anxiety or like
Speaker 1: stressed when you go to film him cutting things on
Speaker 1: your incest story now? Because I really feel like he
Speaker 1: was like flexing his hands this weekend on the video
Speaker 1: of like really felt like he was like I gotta
Speaker 1: really perform here. I don't know what I do think
Speaker 1: his hands are like very like hot, like he has
Speaker 1: hot hands, man hands. But the amount of people that
Speaker 1: agree with me makes me feel like he should do
Speaker 1: some sort of hand modeling, Like I'm actually not kidding,
Speaker 1: Like I was like, I like a lot of people
Speaker 1: have been saying, how like manly and like like good,
Speaker 1: your hands are so like we should look into this. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: why not? A little side gig, just a little side gig.
Speaker 1: I think they really if he had to caress hands
Speaker 1: with another actress, and that's where I would draw the line.
Speaker 1: But I actually I was at the nail salon and
Speaker 1: this woman is like a foot model recruiter or something,
Speaker 1: and I like, was what listening to her recruit the
Speaker 1: man next to me because she's like, give amazing feet
Speaker 1: and like a lot of men don't have. So like
Speaker 1: I'm listening to this entire conversation go down. She's basically
Speaker 1: giving him his her card and saying like I want
Speaker 1: you to like foot model for me, blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: And she was like they paid two fifteen foot fot
Speaker 1: Like people, well you can you know, if you can
Speaker 1: have good photo feet, you can send photos of your
Speaker 1: feet and make money. Should we see what her foot
Speaker 1: rating is on Wiki feet Live on the podcast? Yeah,
Speaker 1: just like a creepy turn. There's photos of your feet
Speaker 1: on there. They know this. It's just she was just
Speaker 1: remarking on how attractive red stars hands are. I now
Speaker 1: you're going to the perv website? Yeah? Is it though?
Speaker 1: Or the people who have like no, but what if
Speaker 1: people just have a good eye for a good feet
Speaker 1: like that lady, they don't think that's what it is. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: this lady seemed legit, like she didn't seem creepy at all,
Speaker 1: Like it seemed like she was actually like, I don't
Speaker 1: know exactly what she don't want. We don't want to
Speaker 1: kink shame anyone here. If you're in the feet, we
Speaker 1: love you and we support all your feet fetishes. But
Speaker 1: but red stars, hands are quite that's great. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: if you're pervy enough to maintain a website of women's
Speaker 1: feet taken without their knowledge and rate them that, I
Speaker 1: think you're creepy. I'm sorry. I have five stars on
Speaker 1: my feet. Four people voted ugly and five people voted bad.
Speaker 1: So I'm like going to find that. So you have
Speaker 1: four out of five? No, I have five. I have
Speaker 1: five stars. Oh that's good. Five out of five. Look up,
Speaker 1: t you doesn't feel healthy to me? The feet. Look
Speaker 1: at these hands? Okay, no, see we're doing too much,
Speaker 1: too much visual. This is an audio podcast. They can't
Speaker 1: see the video clippolio. They can't see his hands, beautiful feet.
Speaker 1: You also have five stars, five out of five stars.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Great guys are doing horrible things while looking
Speaker 1: at those pictures. Just so you're aware their photos on
Speaker 1: my Instagram. You said didn't counteract what I said. That
Speaker 1: wasn't an argument to what I what I'm saying. They
Speaker 1: can go to my Instagram like if they're going to
Speaker 1: be I don't. I mean, I just I feel if
Speaker 1: if it had been lower rating, I would be very
Speaker 1: upset right now and just like discuss it. But I
Speaker 1: have a good rate on there, so I just want
Speaker 1: to stand up for the I'm not a foot person.
Speaker 1: I can't stand feet. I wish we all just walked
Speaker 1: on our ankles. I hate them all, but but but
Speaker 1: I will say, I am so impressed by the passion
Speaker 1: and the enthusiasm that feat people have for everything in
Speaker 1: in their world. Is such a zest for for their interests.
Speaker 1: It's yeah, and change the body part and you'll realize
Speaker 1: how creepy it is what you're saying. Well, we talk
Speaker 1: about hands, yeah, right, But if somebody had an entire
Speaker 1: website dedicated to boobs and rating boobs and hear these
Speaker 1: boobs and how much I love boobs, and it's creepy.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, this is a creepy thing that people are doing.
Speaker 1: But what if it's hands. It's the exact same thing
Speaker 1: that we're talking about with the Red Star having nice hands.
Speaker 1: You're not going to find a wicky hands. I really
Speaker 1: don't think you are. Or what about nose. I don't
Speaker 1: find a wicky nose because you see, it's not about
Speaker 1: admiring the body part, it's about guys with a fetish.
Speaker 1: And to me, the foot is an inner changeable body
Speaker 1: part to the ears and the nose, Like it's like,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, it's just a weird body
Speaker 1: part that I don't really have an So the fact
Speaker 1: that these people have fixated on this one and they're
Speaker 1: going so hard on it, like it's fast. Yes, quite literally,
Speaker 1: it's so fascinating to me. I just bet My favorite
Speaker 1: thing is that I used to say I hated feet
Speaker 1: so much. I wish we all just walked around the rinkles.
Speaker 1: I've never heard anyone to say that, So yeah, I
Speaker 1: just feel so connected right now. You can't just walk
Speaker 1: around on your ankles, I don't know. Like feet definitely
Speaker 1: serve a great purpose, but you could you imagine if
Speaker 1: you be like walking on stilts every day and exhaust
Speaker 1: I love shoes. I have a lot of shoes. I'm
Speaker 1: a big shoe guy. I just hate the things that
Speaker 1: go in them. You know, That's that's all it is. Well,
Speaker 1: we're all very grateful for our feet, and you know,
Speaker 1: it's it's something. Some people admire feet, some people admire hands,
Speaker 1: some people admire butts. You know, it's like, we all
Speaker 1: have our things. You know what I'm saying. Mark, if
Speaker 1: you don't want to go creepy on this line, I'll
Speaker 1: learn Mark goes to weeaky armpits all the time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he totally does. He's a closet wicky armpitter. Marks marks
Speaker 1: side because his Wiki fee rating is three point two.
Speaker 1: That's that's how i'd feel too, I get it, Mark. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, well what oh so neither Well Tanya watched Grays.
Speaker 1: I didn't, but I'm fine, what can you tell me
Speaker 1: about happened? Because Tanya couldn't even tell me what happened.
Speaker 1: You know, It's funny. I was just thinking before the show,
Speaker 1: like always talking about Grays. I'm like, what happened? That's
Speaker 1: why I back. I was like, it's a very run
Speaker 1: of the mill, routine episode of Grace Anatomy. Yes, five
Speaker 1: people on the Facebook group told me and I. We
Speaker 1: apologize for saying it was the finale of this past week.
Speaker 1: We're so sorry about that. But yes, this week is
Speaker 1: the fally, so this should be good, right, Something good
Speaker 1: should happen this week because last week was kind of
Speaker 1: like treading water. Well, yeah, you saw the photo that
Speaker 1: they posted, right, No, so they posted well, I mean again,
Speaker 1: it could be um, um, I don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: But they posted a photo of Maggie and MoMA blank
Speaker 1: at his name Winston. Maggie and Winston. It looks like
Speaker 1: at their wedding. Oh well, well yeah, because they revealed
Speaker 1: the last one, remember in the parking lot. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: don't look happy, right, so they looked quite perturbed. So
Speaker 1: I don't know, we'll see. Well, they did say this,
Speaker 1: could you know they were saying this could be the
Speaker 1: series finale? All right, Yeah, we know it's not, but
Speaker 1: they're saying it worked. If it is this either series finale,
Speaker 1: so that would be interesting. Some high expectations for it,
Speaker 1: if that's the case, right, Probably too high, but yeah,
Speaker 1: I know I'm scared. My expectations are pretty high too.
Speaker 1: But we'll see. All we can do is see, you know,
Speaker 1: all we can you know what all we can do
Speaker 1: is see, and that is and all we can do
Speaker 1: is live, live and listen. And tomorrow will come and
Speaker 1: we can we'll see and live and listen again. It's beautiful. Um,
Speaker 1: before we go today, I wake up be four in
Speaker 1: the morning to say in therapy, my therapist is something
Speaker 1: so good. She said, you know when you know like
Speaker 1: old oil lamps. She was, like an oil lamp where
Speaker 1: it's a lamp and it burns from oil, like the
Speaker 1: oil burning like back in the centuries, exactly in the centuries. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's similar to a lava lamp that Eastern has. Okay, Um,
Speaker 1: but oh my, didn't you want to watch Marvy Stone? Yeah,
Speaker 1: now I want to watch it. I just started it
Speaker 1: last night. I mean, she's she's she's epic always. Anyways,
Speaker 1: the oil lamp. So my therapist was saying. We were
Speaker 1: talking about how sometimes we give so much to the
Speaker 1: point where we feel depleted because we like give everything
Speaker 1: we have to other people. And she was like, give
Speaker 1: of your light, not of your oil. So shine your light,
Speaker 1: like give your light, like, let be a light in
Speaker 1: people's life, but don't give them what fuels you like,
Speaker 1: don't give away everything that fuels your light. That is
Speaker 1: so profound. I know. It really just like hit me
Speaker 1: and I was like, wow, I so often give what's
Speaker 1: fueling me versus just like giving what I have to,
Speaker 1: Like I'm always giving to depleting my oil to where
Speaker 1: my life can't even shine anymore because I'm so I've
Speaker 1: given everything that is so profound. I don't even know
Speaker 1: how to digest that right now, we don't. Let Chice
Speaker 1: did on that what all of you all said on
Speaker 1: that it is so good because wow, because you have
Speaker 1: so you can give all your light and joy and
Speaker 1: you can do all those things. But when you start
Speaker 1: taking away the things that fuel you bring you the joy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well just saying like you know, you you when your
Speaker 1: tank is full, you can and then you have a
Speaker 1: little bit extra, you can give that to people because
Speaker 1: you have the you have the energy, and you have
Speaker 1: the you know, love whatever. But she was like, the
Speaker 1: issue sometimes we make is giving when we don't even
Speaker 1: have enough for ourselves, Like we try to give it
Speaker 1: for other people, but we don't even have enough for
Speaker 1: ourselves to even feel. It's like sometimes let's say you're
Speaker 1: doing a million different things, like on a Sunday, right
Speaker 1: and you you told somebody that you'd go to their
Speaker 1: birthday party, You told somebody that would come to their this,
Speaker 1: and you know that. But on every Sunday you go
Speaker 1: to church and that brings you, that fuels you for
Speaker 1: the week. And you miss church because you're doing X
Speaker 1: Y Z for everybody else in your life, and then
Speaker 1: you miss your fuel. It's good. So anyways, Um, how
Speaker 1: much did she charge you for that little nugget feet? Ye?
Speaker 1: For the good stuff, you know, good stuff. Yeah. Um,
Speaker 1: well that's it for today. Anything you'd like to add, Nope,
Speaker 1: I've learned a lot today. I've learned that Easton and
Speaker 1: Mark are both very secure and and love feet, and
Speaker 1: Eastern loves Easton doesn't like feet, but he respects people
Speaker 1: who love feet, and Mark thinks feet fetish is creepy,
Speaker 1: but he loves arm beans and loves to live left
Speaker 1: love and touch your boot. Yeah. And you know what,
Speaker 1: I actually do want to get a Lisa Vitti on
Speaker 1: the podcast at some point because she's the woman who,
Speaker 1: like I don't say, invented it, but she's the doctor
Speaker 1: behind it all and it's pretty groundbreaking what she's doing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm I mean, like I said, I don't know that
Speaker 1: I'm doing it, going to do it, but I am
Speaker 1: very curious to see what you notice about doing it.
Speaker 1: Thrilled that you're taking this journey for all of us,
Speaker 1: you know what. Happy to fall on the sword. All right. Well,
Speaker 1: on that note, I hope you all have a wonderful week.
Speaker 1: That's right, um, And we'll be back next Monday. Can't wait,
Speaker 1: can't wait. Bye bye,