WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Super Kid Shames the Day

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<v Speaker 1>The second date date. What's the fastest you've ever gone

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<v Speaker 1>from dating app to first date?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's interesting because usually it takes some your sweet

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<v Speaker 1>talking and finagling little get to know you. You make

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<v Speaker 1>a couple jokes, exchange a couple picks. But Gabe says

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<v Speaker 1>they only sent two messages before they agreed to meet

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<v Speaker 1>up to record.

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<v Speaker 3>What one the messages it had to be more than

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<v Speaker 3>how are you Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it says. It either screamed super

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<v Speaker 1>charming or super desperate? So which one of those would

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<v Speaker 1>you say describes you the best?

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<v Speaker 4>I would say definitely super charming.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's okay if you're both desperate at the

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<v Speaker 3>same time. It cancels each other out like two negatives.

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<v Speaker 5>Gabe gave a lot of people can relate. I had

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<v Speaker 5>a girl snap me the other day, Hey, I got

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<v Speaker 5>a pack of butt lights?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I come over?

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like, WHOA well, stranger danger?

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<v Speaker 2>That's yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>She obviously was yes and gave. By the way, that

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<v Speaker 1>was his mom to you're already starting off on a

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<v Speaker 1>higher level than us. Tell us about the woman that

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<v Speaker 1>you met online? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? So I met this girl in Abby up a

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<v Speaker 4>dating app, and we didn't really mess her around with

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<v Speaker 4>this small talk right away. And I'm like that anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>so it was kind of perfect. She's like, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not a big texture or pen pal person. Let's just meet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, doing is that the first message she set you?

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<v Speaker 2>Or had you messaged her first?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, that was on her dating profile.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, so it wasn't special treatment for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Correct. She's very blunt into the point, which I really loved.

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<v Speaker 3>So what did you write to her to make her

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<v Speaker 3>interested in meeting up with you in person?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? I think it wasn't much. It was like, I

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<v Speaker 4>agree with you, let's not get stuck on this app

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<v Speaker 4>in text, let's meet in person. And she had an

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<v Speaker 4>amazing so I knew I was there was attraction, So

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, great, let's meet.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome because you have the entire rest of your

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<v Speaker 1>lives to talk and bore each other and get to

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<v Speaker 1>know each other that way. Let's just cut right to

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<v Speaker 1>the June room.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that your total strangers like you, don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's one thing when you're like set up

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<v Speaker 3>on a blind date by a friend, you just there's

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<v Speaker 3>some like, well, somebody's vouching for this person.

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<v Speaker 2>True, this is like out of the blue internet stranger.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I didn't really feel if she was a stranger.

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<v Speaker 4>Like she had a nice listing, the stuff on her profile.

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of had an idea of who she was,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean, Like I kind of knew,

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<v Speaker 4>at least in writing, what kind of person she was.

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<v Speaker 4>So I felt comfortable in a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great. So that is good. Yes, yeah, a little

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<v Speaker 1>little danger is exciting. So what did you guys end

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<v Speaker 1>up doing?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you obviously met right, Yeah, so we met

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<v Speaker 4>up at a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Are really jumped right into it. I thought for sure

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<v Speaker 2>it would be coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was. It was dinner and she getting to

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<v Speaker 4>know her a little bit. At dinner. She's a very

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<v Speaker 4>to the point person, but still friendly. She wasn't like

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<v Speaker 4>ameanor and is. Then she is a very beautiful, great smile.

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<v Speaker 1>That'd be kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 5>She sits down, She's like, all right, let's get these

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<v Speaker 5>appetisers going. Don't look at me, don't talk to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's first, yeah, let's eat and then we'll go from there.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's so different, like you're going into a dinner

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<v Speaker 3>where you know nothing about this person all the other

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<v Speaker 3>days are you know some history right, a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you get to know people, then that gives

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<v Speaker 1>you reasons to not like that, safer to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, just like I've never yeah want that.

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<v Speaker 1>No one should ever ask me anything. But did it

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<v Speaker 1>work out well for you? Gab and have you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What was the conversation?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, it was a great conversation. We talked about family

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<v Speaker 4>and what she's into and what she does outside of work.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was a nice flow. I mean, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>gonna lie. And then actually, something really cute happened. Some

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<v Speaker 4>little kid came up to our table. He was in

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<v Speaker 4>a like a Superman cape, you know. He came kind

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<v Speaker 4>of running up and she was playing along like, hey, Superman,

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<v Speaker 4>are you here? Can bring a villain? Like she was

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<v Speaker 4>like playing into this kid.

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<v Speaker 3>She said, God, some parents like this is a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>Basically I would have been the same way, like kids,

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<v Speaker 4>go scram go with your parents. You're interrupting our day.

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<v Speaker 4>So like she was like charming actually, and so I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh and look at I want to have

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<v Speaker 4>kids one day, and so I'm like maybe this would

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<v Speaker 4>be a great mom.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a future milk. You didn't tell her that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's usually a turn off when you hear that on

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<v Speaker 3>a first date you're going to be a great mom.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, I held off on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a sweet thought.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the dinner end? So it ended?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought pretty well, And I said to her, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking i'd want another day with you, and she

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<v Speaker 4>kind of laughed and says, we'll see, but in a

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<v Speaker 4>cutey way. But now it's been here, we are a

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<v Speaker 4>week and a half later and nothing. She hasn't responded

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<v Speaker 4>to me, So.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe she wasn't being as cutesy as you thought when

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<v Speaker 3>she said that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, did I do something wrong? Did I say something?

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<v Speaker 4>I'd like to know where I stand.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's going to be easy if this

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<v Speaker 2>is a direct person.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna say.

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<v Speaker 5>That easier to pick up and then it should be

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<v Speaker 5>a short phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but she might be brutally honest, so prepared for that.

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<v Speaker 1>But you would think if she was that brutally honest,

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<v Speaker 1>she would have just told him directly, we're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out again. Hanging Yeah, I don't know. Could

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<v Speaker 1>have been her kid actually in real life, and she

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to like from Mommy's on the date.

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<v Speaker 2>I told you sit in booth number four, Honey.

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<v Speaker 1>That could have been her little test and you failed.

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<v Speaker 4>Super Boy, God, that really was her kid, then you

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<v Speaker 4>know that's pretty impressive. Bravo to her. I didn't see

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<v Speaker 4>that coming, but the kid didn't look like her by

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<v Speaker 4>the way, it didn't look like her, so I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>think that.

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<v Speaker 2>You better go check your bill make sure you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>pay for kids.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna find out for sure when we come back.

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<v Speaker 1>We call this woman and we interrogate her on if

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<v Speaker 1>she's a mom or not, and if she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you again.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we get come in a little looser than that.

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<v Speaker 1>We're coming hard and fast, like Superman, can we do

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Date?

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<v Speaker 1>Look, it's a kid a restaurant and he didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>kicked out Because one of our listeners, Gabe, was on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a woman recently when a super child

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<v Speaker 1>swooped up to their table. Yeah, and the woman he

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<v Speaker 1>was with, named Abby treated him really nicely.

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<v Speaker 3>Shocking, played along, even got into the game of pretend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like who's the villain? Ah broccoli is my kryptonite. No,

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<v Speaker 1>and when he suggested afterwards that they hang out again,

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<v Speaker 1>Abby replied, we'll see.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>She thought was flirting until she stopped calling him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, directly to the point. And hopefully it's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to take superhero strength to get Gabe another date here,

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<v Speaker 1>because looking around the room, I don't know if we

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<v Speaker 1>have it in a Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>To be honest, Alexis said she lifted one weight in

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<v Speaker 3>a jim yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>I did. I'm a little I might be able to

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<v Speaker 2>pull for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, two and a half pounder. Good for you, any chance?

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<v Speaker 1>Never mind, I would have given us more credit. Gabe.

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<v Speaker 1>On a scale of one to ten, how confident are

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<v Speaker 1>you that we're going to get this done for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Probably a six?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you.

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<v Speaker 1>Said ten.

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<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, then thinking at you guys, I just feel

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<v Speaker 4>like I've done something wrong and I'm a little nervous

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<v Speaker 4>about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're the reason it's a six. I like

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<v Speaker 1>that we blame you, all right, We're gonna put all

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<v Speaker 1>the blame on you if this goes wrong, but if

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<v Speaker 1>it goes right, one hundred percent of the credit goes

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<v Speaker 1>to us. I like that deal. Let's call this lady

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<v Speaker 1>for you. See, we can get another date. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Sabby?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Abby. You may or may not know us, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were hoping we could take a second of

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<v Speaker 1>your time to talk, uh date life.

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<v Speaker 4>What Hi? Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Abby? Sorry? I almost called you Gabby because I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it kind of makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You were laughing at what I said. Sorry, I probably

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<v Speaker 1>talked to her a little bit. I like talking around her. Serious, Gabby,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm mashing the name up with the guy that you

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<v Speaker 1>went out with recently.

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<v Speaker 2>Either, this is all awful.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Abby. You know what, At this point, we're

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna have Alexis takeover. Run the combo people one.

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<v Speaker 1>Where's four of us, a whole room full of us together?

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<v Speaker 4>We make more from you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're a morning show. It's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm on the radio.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye.

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<v Speaker 1>We got there when we're doing a segment called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and we're trying to help out one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners named Gabe, who you met at a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant recently.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you have a fun time with Gabe?

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<v Speaker 6>Look here this is the all I like getting to

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<v Speaker 6>know him. I found him to be interesting at first,

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<v Speaker 6>but then he said a bunch of things that are

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<v Speaker 6>pretty out putting to me, and I'm just gonna leave.

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<v Speaker 4>It at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I mean one of the good things he

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<v Speaker 3>said about you is he loved how honest you were,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I don't I don't know that he would

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<v Speaker 3>be hurt to hear what you have to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's just a little clueless. I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>he realizes that he said anything that could have come

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<v Speaker 1>across offensive.

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<v Speaker 6>One of the things that he sent to me at

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<v Speaker 6>first was you look nice in this light.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, Well, because it's in this light, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 6>There was no light. It was super dark where we were, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>I looked nice in the dark.

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<v Speaker 2>That look.

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard you say this before, like, oh, the lighting

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<v Speaker 1>in here is perfect for me, and things like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I can say that about myself.

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<v Speaker 6>He said more than that. We haven't even gotten to.

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<v Speaker 4>The other things he said.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there's more.

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<v Speaker 6>He said, I bet you're so pretty that the guys

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<v Speaker 6>online are throwing themselves at you. What the guys in

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<v Speaker 6>person don't like.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's a little bit of a stretch.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that maybe you were hurt from the lighting

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<v Speaker 3>comment and then you're like, so now you're looking for

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<v Speaker 3>the backhanded compliments.

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<v Speaker 6>No, like I have nothing else to offer except my look, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>come on, well you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what's interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't even bring up your looks when we talked

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<v Speaker 3>to him about what.

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<v Speaker 2>She has other things to offer.

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<v Speaker 3>He talked about how lovely and and and how great

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<v Speaker 3>she was with the kid and what a good person

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<v Speaker 3>she said.

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<v Speaker 1>Kid, you did mention a good moment where a kid

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<v Speaker 1>came up to the table and you were really playful.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. He was like so impressed that I shockingly be

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<v Speaker 6>good with kids, Like, of course, I'm good with kids.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems like.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time hold on, you were offended that he said

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<v Speaker 1>that you seem to be good with kids.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, like, why wouldn't I be.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think he meant it as a surprise. He

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<v Speaker 3>just has never met you before, so everything's new.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's blue expectations.

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<v Speaker 3>But I just think you give him a chance, Like

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<v Speaker 3>he's nervous, he's trying to be nice to you.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't see it that way at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you don't have to take it directly from us.

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<v Speaker 1>You can actually hear it straight from Gabe's mouth because

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<v Speaker 1>he's on the other line listening right now, wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you and not compliment you in any way. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that, Gabe. Are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey guys, Hey, Abby, Hey, here we are.

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<v Speaker 2>Like this award.

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<v Speaker 1>He's clearly a little bit scared.

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<v Speaker 6>So there's another person on the line too, good guy,

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<v Speaker 6>the one you went out with. This is like a

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<v Speaker 6>crazy party.

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<v Speaker 1>Gabe, talk to Abby, tell her what you meant.

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<v Speaker 4>So. I didn't mean anything like negative or derogatory. I

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<v Speaker 4>was trying to compliment you. I was trying to be flirty.

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<v Speaker 4>I was trying to be duty cheeky, you know what

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<v Speaker 4>I mean. And I don't remember you having an ego

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<v Speaker 4>like you do now I will say that that's but

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I just I'm shocked to hear all this.

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<v Speaker 4>And when I said you look good in this light,

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<v Speaker 4>you took it in a way that I meant that

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<v Speaker 4>had nothing to do with what you thought. It was like,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe you have some insecurity issues. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, so that's what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let me just jump in really quick. I think

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<v Speaker 1>what he meant by that is I'm really, really sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>All you have to do is bring Jeff on every

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<v Speaker 3>date you ever go on, and he will interpret in

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<v Speaker 3>the correct way.

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<v Speaker 1>Men have a hard time expressing what they really feel inside,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can translate he's deeply apologetic.

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<v Speaker 6>I am not hearing that at all, Like, GiB why.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you saying things like that, You're being like, you're

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<v Speaker 3>like accusing her of having.

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<v Speaker 2>A big ego and being insecure. Why would you even

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<v Speaker 2>mention that?

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<v Speaker 4>Again, I was being trying to be cute and flirty,

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<v Speaker 4>and now I'm hearing the side of her like which

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<v Speaker 4>came out of nowhere. She didn't say any of this

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<v Speaker 4>during our dinner. I'm just glad I didn't say anything wrong, truly,

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<v Speaker 4>because yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand gave you. You're feeling a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>attacked because she's she's she thinks that you're being insulting

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't feel that way. Maybe this is a

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<v Speaker 1>good chance to hit the reset button and try complimenting

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<v Speaker 1>her in a totally non offensive, completely one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 1>safe way. Every let's give it a shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Do not say you're smart for a woman, Don't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't don't say what Brooks husband tells to her.

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<v Speaker 4>I will compliment you right now again Abby, like I

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<v Speaker 4>did a few times. You are remarkable, You are gorgeous

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<v Speaker 4>and an incredible soon to be mother. And how you

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<v Speaker 4>kind of played with that young kid who came over

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<v Speaker 4>with the super mother?

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<v Speaker 6>What I now to?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 6>Where are you getting this?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 6>What's wrong?

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<v Speaker 4>Like what's happening here? No?

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<v Speaker 6>Enough? Honestly, this has been enough. I didn't need to

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<v Speaker 6>engage in it a second time, quite frankly. So I'm

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<v Speaker 6>just word of advice next time you go out with

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<v Speaker 6>a woman, a beautiful woman, a lovely woman. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>maybe you just try not to shame her all the time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Think it's not a bad piece of advice of course.

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<v Speaker 1>Gave you can compliment her on that nice piece of

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<v Speaker 1>advice that she gave you.

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<v Speaker 4>That was a wonderful piece of advice. Abby. I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to take it to heart, and I'm going to make

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<v Speaker 4>a note in my journal about it when I write tonight.

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<v Speaker 4>So I appreciate that, and I wish you the best.

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<v Speaker 4>You're You're beautiful, You're charming. I don't have an ego.

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<v Speaker 6>We're done wonderful.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna ask we still need to.

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<v Speaker 5>I think technically their chemistry is off, like no one's

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<v Speaker 5>done anything crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>This happen if they texted before they went on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good point. But we would love to offer

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<v Speaker 1>to send you guys out to meet up one more time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's a no from Abby. It sounds like, but Gabe,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't heard from you. Are you still in a

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<v Speaker 1>solo date by yourself?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I mean if you guys are paying, I

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't mind that. That's nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, practice, yes, by yourself, maybe across from a mirror

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<v Speaker 1>is at.

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<v Speaker 5>A lowlit diner, just talking to himself.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting super offended by the things that he said.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well that was one of those second dates that

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<v Speaker 1>escalates quickly and we don't know what to do with it.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's like, how could two opposite people just

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<v Speaker 3>find each other? Yeah, I know, they just don't go

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<v Speaker 3>well together.

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<v Speaker 1>They did, Brook, though. I do have to give it

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<v Speaker 1>to you here because for what you were very calm

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<v Speaker 1>and rational and all when talking to the callers today

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<v Speaker 1>and not emotional and controller like normal. I was impressed,

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<v Speaker 1>is what I'm trying to say.

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<v Speaker 2>That is what we call it backhand compliment. Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm just.

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<v Speaker 1>Saying that you were so poised that I hardly even

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<v Speaker 1>noticed your mismatched outfit. Okay, you can't to that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>giving you a compliment. I said, I did not know

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<v Speaker 1>that it's getting the years round.

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<v Speaker 3>If it was anyone else, i'd take offense to it.

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<v Speaker 2>But jeff and I don't really care about his opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you're hearing what you want to hear that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and just the fact that you're hearing it all at

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<v Speaker 1>your age is so let's give a lost everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't let's get I can't hear.

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<v Speaker 1>That studio loves you. That's what I'm trying to say. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to get a second date up that

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<v Speaker 1>you can email the show. We'll call that person wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. Check out all our second date updates

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<v Speaker 1>on our podcast where we get your Is that broken?

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffery, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning