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Speaker 1: The second date date. What's the fastest you've ever gone

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's interesting because usually it takes some your sweet

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Speaker 1: talking and finagling little get to know you. You make

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Speaker 1: a couple jokes, exchange a couple picks. But Gabe says

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Speaker 1: they only sent two messages before they agreed to meet

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Speaker 1: up to record.

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Speaker 3: What one the messages it had to be more than

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Speaker 3: how are you Wow?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it says. It either screamed super

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Speaker 1: charming or super desperate? So which one of those would

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Speaker 1: you say describes you the best?

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Speaker 4: I would say definitely super charming.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's okay if you're both desperate at the

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Speaker 3: same time. It cancels each other out like two negatives.

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Speaker 5: Gabe gave a lot of people can relate. I had

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Speaker 5: a girl snap me the other day, Hey, I got

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Speaker 5: a pack of butt lights?

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Speaker 1: Can I come over?

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Speaker 5: And I was like, WHOA well, stranger danger?

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Speaker 2: That's yeah, I know.

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Speaker 1: She obviously was yes and gave. By the way, that

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Speaker 1: was his mom to you're already starting off on a

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Speaker 1: higher level than us. Tell us about the woman that

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Speaker 1: you met online? Right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So I met this girl in Abby up a

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Speaker 4: dating app, and we didn't really mess her around with

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Speaker 4: this small talk right away. And I'm like that anyway,

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Speaker 4: so it was kind of perfect. She's like, Hey, I'm

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Speaker 4: not a big texture or pen pal person. Let's just meet.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, doing is that the first message she set you?

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Speaker 2: Or had you messaged her first?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 4: No, that was on her dating profile.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so it wasn't special treatment for you.

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Speaker 4: Correct. She's very blunt into the point, which I really loved.

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Speaker 3: So what did you write to her to make her

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Speaker 3: interested in meeting up with you in person?

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Speaker 4: Well? I think it wasn't much. It was like, I

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Speaker 4: agree with you, let's not get stuck on this app

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Speaker 4: in text, let's meet in person. And she had an

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Speaker 4: amazing so I knew I was there was attraction, So

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Speaker 4: I'm like, great, let's meet.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome because you have the entire rest of your

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Speaker 1: lives to talk and bore each other and get to

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Speaker 1: know each other that way. Let's just cut right to

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Speaker 1: the June room.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that your total strangers like you, don't.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's one thing when you're like set up

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Speaker 3: some like, well, somebody's vouching for this person.

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Speaker 2: True, this is like out of the blue internet stranger.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I didn't really feel if she was a stranger.

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Speaker 4: Like she had a nice listing, the stuff on her profile.

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Speaker 4: I kind of had an idea of who she was,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like I kind of knew,

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Speaker 4: So I felt comfortable in a big deal.

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Speaker 1: That's great. So that is good. Yes, yeah, a little

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Speaker 1: little danger is exciting. So what did you guys end

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Speaker 4: I mean you obviously met right, Yeah, so we met

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Speaker 2: Are really jumped right into it. I thought for sure

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was dinner and she getting to

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Speaker 4: know her a little bit. At dinner. She's a very

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Speaker 4: to the point person, but still friendly. She wasn't like

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Speaker 4: ameanor and is. Then she is a very beautiful, great smile.

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Speaker 1: That'd be kind of funny.

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Speaker 5: She sits down, She's like, all right, let's get these

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Speaker 5: appetisers going. Don't look at me, don't talk to me.

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Speaker 5: Let's first, yeah, let's eat and then we'll go from there.

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Speaker 3: But it's so different, like you're going into a dinner

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Speaker 3: days are you know some history right, a little bit.

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Speaker 1: But if you get to know people, then that gives

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Speaker 1: I get it, just like I've never yeah want that.

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Speaker 1: No one should ever ask me anything. But did it

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Speaker 1: work out well for you? Gab and have you? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What was the conversation?

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Speaker 4: Like, it was a great conversation. We talked about family

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Speaker 4: So it was a nice flow. I mean, I'm not

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Speaker 4: gonna lie. And then actually, something really cute happened. Some

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Speaker 3: She said, God, some parents like this is a restaurant.

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Speaker 4: Basically I would have been the same way, like kids,

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Speaker 4: So like she was like charming actually, and so I

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Speaker 2: It's a future milk. You didn't tell her that.

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Speaker 3: That's usually a turn off when you hear that on

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Speaker 3: a first date you're going to be a great mom.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I held off on that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a sweet thought.

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Speaker 1: How did the dinner end? So it ended?

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Speaker 4: I thought pretty well, And I said to her, you know,

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Speaker 4: kind of laughed and says, we'll see, but in a

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Speaker 3: Maybe she wasn't being as cutesy as you thought when

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Speaker 4: Yeah, did I do something wrong? Did I say something?

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Speaker 4: I'd like to know where I stand.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's going to be easy if this

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say.

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Speaker 5: That easier to pick up and then it should be

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but she might be brutally honest, so prepared for that.

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Speaker 1: But you would think if she was that brutally honest,

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Speaker 1: to hang out again. Hanging Yeah, I don't know. Could

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Speaker 2: I told you sit in booth number four, Honey.

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Speaker 1: That could have been her little test and you failed.

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Speaker 4: Super Boy, God, that really was her kid, then you

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Speaker 4: know that's pretty impressive. Bravo to her. I didn't see

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Speaker 2: You better go check your bill make sure you didn't

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Speaker 1: We're gonna find out for sure when we come back.

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Speaker 1: We call this woman and we interrogate her on if

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Speaker 2: I think we get come in a little looser than that.

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Speaker 1: We're coming hard and fast, like Superman, can we do

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Speaker 1: your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 4: Date?

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Speaker 1: Look, it's a kid a restaurant and he didn't get

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Speaker 1: kicked out Because one of our listeners, Gabe, was on

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Speaker 1: a date with a woman recently when a super child

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Speaker 1: swooped up to their table. Yeah, and the woman he

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Speaker 3: Shocking, played along, even got into the game of pretend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like who's the villain? Ah broccoli is my kryptonite. No,

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Speaker 1: and when he suggested afterwards that they hang out again,

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Speaker 1: Abby replied, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: She thought was flirting until she stopped calling him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, directly to the point. And hopefully it's not

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Speaker 1: going to take superhero strength to get Gabe another date here,

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Speaker 1: because looking around the room, I don't know if we

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Speaker 3: To be honest, Alexis said she lifted one weight in

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Speaker 2: I did. I'm a little I might be able to

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Speaker 1: Wow, two and a half pounder. Good for you, any chance?

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Speaker 1: Never mind, I would have given us more credit. Gabe.

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Speaker 1: On a scale of one to ten, how confident are

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Speaker 4: Probably a six?

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Speaker 2: I thought you.

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Speaker 1: Said ten.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, then thinking at you guys, I just feel

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're the reason it's a six. I like

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Speaker 1: that we blame you, all right, We're gonna put all

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Speaker 1: to us. I like that deal. Let's call this lady

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Sabby?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey Abby. You may or may not know us, but

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Speaker 1: we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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Speaker 1: and we were hoping we could take a second of

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Speaker 4: What Hi? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Abby? Sorry? I almost called you Gabby because I mean

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Speaker 2: it kind of makes sense.

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Speaker 1: You were laughing at what I said. Sorry, I probably

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Speaker 1: what's up?

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Speaker 4: You know what?

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Speaker 1: I'm mashing the name up with the guy that you

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Speaker 2: Either, this is all awful.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Abby. You know what, At this point, we're

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Speaker 1: just gonna have Alexis takeover. Run the combo people one.

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Speaker 1: Where's four of us, a whole room full of us together?

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Speaker 4: We make more from you.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're a morning show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 6: I'm on the radio.

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Speaker 3: Ye.

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Speaker 1: We got there when we're doing a segment called a

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Speaker 1: second Date Update, and we're trying to help out one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners named Gabe, who you met at a

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Speaker 1: restaurant recently.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: Did you have a fun time with Gabe?

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Speaker 6: Look here this is the all I like getting to

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Speaker 6: know him. I found him to be interesting at first,

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Speaker 6: but then he said a bunch of things that are

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Speaker 6: pretty out putting to me, and I'm just gonna leave.

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Speaker 4: It at that.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean one of the good things he

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Speaker 3: and so I don't I don't know that he would

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just a little clueless. I don't think that

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Speaker 6: One of the things that he sent to me at

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Speaker 6: first was you look nice in this light.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, Well, because it's in this light, that's the thing.

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Speaker 6: There was no light. It was super dark where we were, Like,

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Speaker 2: That look.

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Speaker 1: I've heard you say this before, like, oh, the lighting

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Speaker 2: I can say that about myself.

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Speaker 6: He said more than that. We haven't even gotten to.

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Speaker 4: The other things he said.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there's more.

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Speaker 6: He said, I bet you're so pretty that the guys

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Speaker 3: I think that maybe you were hurt from the lighting

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Speaker 6: No, like I have nothing else to offer except my look, Like,

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Speaker 2: Know what's interesting.

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Speaker 3: He didn't even bring up your looks when we talked

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Speaker 3: to him about what.

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Speaker 2: She has other things to offer.

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Speaker 3: He talked about how lovely and and and how great

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Speaker 1: Kid, you did mention a good moment where a kid

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Speaker 6: Yeah. He was like so impressed that I shockingly be

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Speaker 1: Every time hold on, you were offended that he said

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like, why wouldn't I be.

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Speaker 3: I don't think he meant it as a surprise. He

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Speaker 2: And he's blue expectations.

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Speaker 3: But I just think you give him a chance, Like

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Speaker 6: I don't see it that way at all.

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Speaker 1: Well, you don't have to take it directly from us.

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Speaker 1: You can actually hear it straight from Gabe's mouth because

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Speaker 1: I don't know that, Gabe. Are you there?

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Speaker 4: Hey guys, Hey, Abby, Hey, here we are.

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Speaker 2: Like this award.

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Speaker 1: He's clearly a little bit scared.

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Speaker 6: So there's another person on the line too, good guy,

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Speaker 1: Gabe, talk to Abby, tell her what you meant.

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Speaker 4: So. I didn't mean anything like negative or derogatory. I

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Speaker 4: I was trying to be duty cheeky, you know what

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Speaker 4: I mean, I just I'm shocked to hear all this.

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Speaker 4: And when I said you look good in this light,

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Speaker 4: had nothing to do with what you thought. It was like,

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Speaker 4: maybe you have some insecurity issues. I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Oh, so that's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me just jump in really quick. I think

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Speaker 3: All you have to do is bring Jeff on every

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Speaker 1: Men have a hard time expressing what they really feel inside,

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Speaker 6: I am not hearing that at all, Like, GiB why.

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Speaker 3: Are you saying things like that, You're being like, you're

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Speaker 2: A big ego and being insecure. Why would you even

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Speaker 4: Again, I was being trying to be cute and flirty,

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Speaker 4: during our dinner. I'm just glad I didn't say anything wrong, truly,

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Speaker 1: I can understand gave you. You're feeling a little bit

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Speaker 1: safe way. Every let's give it a shit.

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Speaker 2: Do not say you're smart for a woman, Don't say that.

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Speaker 1: Don't don't say what Brooks husband tells to her.

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Speaker 4: I will compliment you right now again Abby, like I

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Speaker 4: did a few times. You are remarkable, You are gorgeous

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Speaker 4: and an incredible soon to be mother. And how you

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Speaker 6: What I now to?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 6: Where are you getting this?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 6: What's wrong?

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Speaker 4: Like what's happening here? No?

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Speaker 6: Enough? Honestly, this has been enough. I didn't need to

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Speaker 6: I don't.

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Speaker 2: Think it's not a bad piece of advice of course.

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Speaker 1: Gave you can compliment her on that nice piece of

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Speaker 4: That was a wonderful piece of advice. Abby. I'm going

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Speaker 4: So I appreciate that, and I wish you the best.

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Speaker 4: You're You're beautiful, You're charming. I don't have an ego.

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Speaker 6: We're done wonderful.

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Speaker 1: Gonna ask we still need to.

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Speaker 5: I think technically their chemistry is off, like no one's

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Speaker 2: This happen if they texted before they went on.

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Speaker 1: It's a good point. But we would love to offer

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Speaker 1: Well it's a no from Abby. It sounds like, but Gabe,

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard from you. Are you still in a

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean if you guys are paying, I

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Speaker 1: Okay, practice, yes, by yourself, maybe across from a mirror

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Speaker 5: A lowlit diner, just talking to himself.

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Speaker 1: Getting super offended by the things that he said.

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Speaker 3: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well that was one of those second dates that

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Speaker 3: You know, it's like, how could two opposite people just

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Speaker 1: They did, Brook, though. I do have to give it

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Speaker 2: That is what we call it backhand compliment. Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Saying that you were so poised that I hardly even

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Speaker 1: noticed your mismatched outfit. Okay, you can't to that I'm

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Speaker 3: If it was anyone else, i'd take offense to it.

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Speaker 2: But jeff and I don't really care about his opinion.

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Speaker 1: I think that you're hearing what you want to hear that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and just the fact that you're hearing it all at

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Speaker 1: your age is so let's give a lost everybody.

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Speaker 2: I can't let's get I can't hear.

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Speaker 1: That studio loves you. That's what I'm trying to say. Remember,

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Speaker 1: if you want to get a second date up that

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Speaker 1: you can email the show. We'll call that person wasn't

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Speaker 1: calling you back. Check out all our second date updates

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Speaker 1: on our podcast where we get your Is that broken?

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Speaker 3: Jeffery, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning