Speaker 1: The second d D Is it possible to accidentally catfish someone?
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess people let's say that on our
Speaker 1: show all the time, where they showed up to the
Speaker 1: date and oh no, he's even more attractive than his pictures.
Speaker 1: I wasn't prepared for a Clooney Hemsworth lookalike. Always me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I lost a bunch of weight and I'm super buff. Now, yeah,
Speaker 1: I just forgot to update my profileoto. Yeah. Well, one
Speaker 1: of our listeners is worried she may have unintentionally catfished
Speaker 1: her date. Her name's Morgan, and she's a solid six
Speaker 1: in her photos online, but in eleven when you see
Speaker 1: her in person, isn't that right? You're off the scale.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't go that far, you guys. I'm probably like
Speaker 1: a ten point five. I don't know anyone that even
Speaker 1: calls himself attendance. Yeah you funny, humble? Yeah, well, Morgan,
Speaker 1: we want to help you here. Tell us about the
Speaker 1: guy that you cat fished by accident. What's his name?
Speaker 1: His name is Kent? Okay, and you don't honestly think
Speaker 1: that Kent isn't calling you back because you're too hot? Right? No? No,
Speaker 1: I mean that's not it. I just I mean, some
Speaker 1: stuff happened during the day, but we met online. Look,
Speaker 1: I was like almost done with these apps because I've
Speaker 1: been on some really horrible date and like the last
Speaker 1: day was this guy. He actually asked me if I
Speaker 1: could donate my kidney to his uncle the first date.
Speaker 1: He was serious, that is a good family member that
Speaker 1: will just start dating rands just to find an oregan donor.
Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand that question. On a second date,
Speaker 1: maybe it's a little bit too soon exactly. I was like,
Speaker 1: can we just wait till we date for months and
Speaker 1: then maybe you know, maybe so you're about to delete
Speaker 1: your app is what you're saying, yeah, and then can
Speaker 1: reach out to me, And he like gave me the
Speaker 1: cheesiest line, is there an airport nearby? Because my heart
Speaker 1: is taking off? Oh God? And that made you I'm
Speaker 1: not deleted like I would think that that would be quicker.
Speaker 1: How do you respond to that? Or do you even respond?
Speaker 1: I wanted to mess with him, so I was like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: thanks a lot. My dad was a pilot and he
Speaker 1: actually crushed. Oh oh I got dark? Wait is that
Speaker 1: true dark humor? I know? But I was like I
Speaker 1: wanted to mess anything because I thought it was like
Speaker 1: such a cheesy line. I was like, oh yeah, and
Speaker 1: he was like, oh my god, I'm so sorry. I
Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm not kidding, just kidding about my
Speaker 1: dad's fiery dad. Yeah, I was sorried he didn't delete that.
Speaker 1: That's a cute way to start off a conversation. Where
Speaker 1: did you turn that into a date somehow? Yeah? And
Speaker 1: so like we were just laughing in and they had
Speaker 1: me out for drinks. What happened is that I decided
Speaker 1: to change my hair too, right before going on this day.
Speaker 1: That's the catfish part right all right. Yeah, it was
Speaker 1: a pretty dramatic change. He went for the full makeover, yes,
Speaker 1: kind of. I mean I went from blonde to back
Speaker 1: to burnett, which is my natural color, and I actually
Speaker 1: went short hair. That's a dramatic change. Yeah. So is
Speaker 1: he able to recognize you? Did you give him a head? Oh? No?
Speaker 1: So he comes in and he doesn't even see me,
Speaker 1: and I like I had to wave at him and
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, I'm here, because the reaction was
Speaker 1: like whoa, how do you even recognize you? I kind
Speaker 1: of like, yeah, did he at least like was it
Speaker 1: a compliment like, Wow, you're so much prettier now. I
Speaker 1: think it was just really surprised. So no, it didn't
Speaker 1: come up as a compliment. Okay, what I don't know
Speaker 1: if you're so much prettier now as a compliment either,
Speaker 1: because it means I think we need to work on
Speaker 1: your compliments. I didn't think. Yeah, yeah, all right, off
Speaker 1: to a little bit of a rocky start here. Were
Speaker 1: you able to get things on track? I did. So
Speaker 1: we sat down and we started talking and things got
Speaker 1: back on track. And actually we found out the silly
Speaker 1: hobby that we have in common. We actually love karaokeing
Speaker 1: both of us. That is a silly, stupid, dumb Jeffrey
Speaker 1: loves karaoke like love. It is cute. We both really
Speaker 1: love to go a lot. And so anyways, we bonded
Speaker 1: about that and then at some point the other thing
Speaker 1: that happened, it was a little odd, is that I
Speaker 1: have a ring on my finger and he actually noticed that.
Speaker 1: And it's not a wedding ring or anything, but it
Speaker 1: is an old promised rank from one of my first boyfriends.
Speaker 1: Hell are you where that? Well? I loved the ring
Speaker 1: and I wear it on the other finger. It's not
Speaker 1: like I'm wearing it as did I'm engaged or anything. Okay,
Speaker 1: but it's like a diamond. It looks like an engagement ring.
Speaker 1: It does look a little bit like an engagement ring. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: And so I told him and say, hey, I just
Speaker 1: really love to string it's from old boyfriend has nothing.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even have any contact with this person,
Speaker 1: and so I should like to really like it. And
Speaker 1: so he I'm not even sure if he was even
Speaker 1: weirded out about that. Well, it's strange that you even
Speaker 1: brought it up because he may have not even noticed it.
Speaker 1: I mean, if it's not on that finger, dude, I
Speaker 1: don't know, right, I know a lot of guys that
Speaker 1: don't forget to look where it's like, dude, did you
Speaker 1: marry Like I don't know, it's like, oh I didn't
Speaker 1: look at her fingers or when you said it was
Speaker 1: like one of my ex boyfriends. You probably thought it
Speaker 1: was just a joke, like your dad that had a
Speaker 1: plane crash would have been funny. Yeah, he died in
Speaker 1: a tornado. Act Yeah, so how did you? And can't
Speaker 1: end the day? You know, it ended up just fine.
Speaker 1: We had a friendly hug and it seemed like things
Speaker 1: we're going to continue, like I'm going to reach out
Speaker 1: to you, and and then it just does not have
Speaker 1: them in like that at all. So um, I reach
Speaker 1: out a couple of times, and you know, his answers
Speaker 1: are kind of short because not the same kind of
Speaker 1: black and forth that we had before. It is the ring,
Speaker 1: like just knowing someone. I think it's not staying blond. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll find out the real answer if we play a
Speaker 1: song come back called Kent and get your second date
Speaker 1: up date right after this. Okay, thanks for second. Let's
Speaker 1: play a little game of spot the red flag. Okay, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you two are going to let's try There's a blonde
Speaker 1: girl who shows up to the first date with a
Speaker 1: totally different hair color, wearing an ex boyfriend's promise ring,
Speaker 1: joking about her fake pilot dad crashing his plane. I
Speaker 1: can't I can't find the rest. I see all green.
Speaker 1: You know what's good about red flags? You can cut
Speaker 1: little red hearts out of them. So I don't know
Speaker 1: why Kent wouldn't be calling our listener Morgan back after
Speaker 1: their first stag. I don't know, Brooke, what do you think?
Speaker 1: I am really at a loss? You know, I think
Speaker 1: it's really normal to wear old promise rings. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: because usually when you're like nineteen or eighteen or whatever,
Speaker 1: you can afford a big diamond Morgan, I mean, do
Speaker 1: you see anything wrong with what happened on your first date? There? You, guys,
Speaker 1: I don't call those ref facts. I call them having
Speaker 1: a sensic humor. The promise ring was a joke, funny flags. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: it really doesn't matter what any of us think. It
Speaker 1: all comes down to Kent and his opinion of your
Speaker 1: first date. That's what we're gonna try and get from him.
Speaker 1: Right now. Okay, let's dial his number and hope that
Speaker 1: he picks up. Yes, no numbers also read flu Here
Speaker 1: we go. What hey is this? Ken? Yeah? Who's this?
Speaker 1: Who do you think we are? Not a good question?
Speaker 1: Maybe he might guess right, I'm gonna get somebody. I'm
Speaker 1: not the keyn I'm talking to. Congratulations? Good at this? Who? Who?
Speaker 1: Who are you? We are? A morning radio show? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh okay, it's about the standard answer that we get
Speaker 1: a lot of the times when we do these. But
Speaker 1: we're we're doing something called a second day update. We're
Speaker 1: trying to get some answers for our listener Morgan on
Speaker 1: why you're not calling her back after going out with her?
Speaker 1: H Oh oh yeah, that's like good because you know
Speaker 1: she obviously liked you. Yeah, so we demand answers. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you literally could not be more awkward. It's like, you know, Ken,
Speaker 1: we can ask nicely, why don't you call him Morgan
Speaker 1: back after you guys had such a great first date.
Speaker 1: She's our friend, she's what did she like call you? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she reached out to us and told us all about
Speaker 1: your first hang out together, and she did. Overall, it
Speaker 1: seemed pretty good, but she did mention there were a
Speaker 1: few possible awkward moments, like she brought up that she
Speaker 1: looked a little bit different than her photos online. Well,
Speaker 1: so different that you didn't even recognize her. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: was a little shocking. Did that upset you? Yeah? So
Speaker 1: pretty and and uh most importantly, I think like her
Speaker 1: personality was the same. So lovely answer. So if that's
Speaker 1: the case, then was there something else that happened on
Speaker 1: the date, Because she says that she's been trying to
Speaker 1: reach out to you, but you've been kind of avoiding
Speaker 1: her via text. Well, I don't know if she told
Speaker 1: you about the whole ring situation. What ring situation? You know?
Speaker 1: Says this promise ring some her ex boyfriend had given
Speaker 1: her and they were together for like five years, and
Speaker 1: I guess it meant a lot to him and her.
Speaker 1: And oh you got that much detail? Huh, yeah, did
Speaker 1: you not. I'll be honest with you, Ken, she didn't
Speaker 1: mention that she was wearing an ex's ring, but we
Speaker 1: didn't know the story behind it, that they were together
Speaker 1: for five years or whatever else happened with it. Oh, well,
Speaker 1: there there's a little more. Basically, she's, uh, when they
Speaker 1: broke up, he asked for it back and she said no,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Well, I mean it's just a promise ring.
Speaker 1: Is that that? Yeah? I mean it's also like a
Speaker 1: broken promise. You know. That's what upset you. I don't
Speaker 1: understand that she's something about that bothers me that I
Speaker 1: guess he was kind of lousy that he asked for
Speaker 1: it back, but he did ask for it back and
Speaker 1: she said no. But then on top of that, and
Speaker 1: this is like kind of the the I don't want
Speaker 1: to call it the clincher, but like, but really sticking
Speaker 1: to my cross that you know, she knows apparently that
Speaker 1: he follows her on Insta, and so every time she
Speaker 1: poses for pictures she makes sure the ring is like
Speaker 1: visible so he can see it someday. No, I think
Speaker 1: it's revenge, like it's proving to him, like he still
Speaker 1: got your ring? Right, well, I mean whatever it is,
Speaker 1: it's like she's still wearing his ring and still needs something.
Speaker 1: It's that has to beach the jewelry to her. It
Speaker 1: has to do with him. Yeah, it feels like it, right,
Speaker 1: We should find out? Yeah? Yeah, ok, Jeff, I guess
Speaker 1: we We could call her and ask, but oh wait,
Speaker 1: she's already on the line, Jeff. The type of person
Speaker 1: creepily waits on the other line, listening in on other
Speaker 1: people's conversations. I guess that's the type of person. Morgan. Hi,
Speaker 1: oh okay? Uh? Well, um, so she's been listening to
Speaker 1: all ARUs. I didn't even realize that that's totally on her.
Speaker 1: It is, Morgan, What were you doing there? I'm bad girl? Yeah, girl, Well,
Speaker 1: I think you're putting too much wait on this ring,
Speaker 1: saying I mean I kept the ring because I liked
Speaker 1: the ring, and I where I wore that ring for
Speaker 1: a really long time, and I'm not going to take
Speaker 1: it off for taking a picture for Instagram's nothing to
Speaker 1: do with you have any secret feelings for your ex boyfriend. No,
Speaker 1: I mean he wasn't a nice person to me, especially
Speaker 1: when the relationship ended. So yeah, I mean, I want
Speaker 1: to make sure that he can see for my pictures
Speaker 1: that I'm still wearing the ring. All right, So she
Speaker 1: doesn't think about him at all. There you go, just
Speaker 1: when she posts directly at him online to get back
Speaker 1: at him for all the horrible things he didn't him
Speaker 1: in every photo a very healthy, healthy sort of sounds
Speaker 1: like to me, it sounds like you talked about him
Speaker 1: a lot on your date. Yeah, I mean he wanted
Speaker 1: to know why I was wearing the ring and so
Speaker 1: I told him the story. But I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: have feelings for my ax. I mean to me, it
Speaker 1: sounds like you may not have feelings like you like
Speaker 1: want to be with him anymore, but you certainly have
Speaker 1: feelings like you want him to see you live in
Speaker 1: your life. He's still important to you. And honesty with
Speaker 1: my exes, like, if there's drama, I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: post for them, I'm blocking. But what's the point of
Speaker 1: posting online? If your exes aren't supposed to see it,
Speaker 1: like that's the whole reason we do anything online. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not flaunting it, and I'm just not taking it off.
Speaker 1: I don't know the people who post ring pictures slot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you're saying that you're still not going to take
Speaker 1: it off. Exactly. I'm gonna wear it because it's my ring.
Speaker 1: He gave it to me and I want to use it.
Speaker 1: I'm not wearing on the other finger. No, I'm not
Speaker 1: engaged to anybody. She'll never take it off. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be like another promise that we're thinking.
Speaker 1: Maybe the only way she'll take it off is if
Speaker 1: Kent gives her an even bigger and it all starts
Speaker 1: with you going on another date with her Kent that
Speaker 1: will pay for Yeah, I mean it's Ken's up. Fred.
Speaker 1: I really like you, Ken. I mean no red flags here, Ken,
Speaker 1: I don't see anything that she's gonna You can even
Speaker 1: take a picture with her together with the two of
Speaker 1: you and your brand new ring and post it right
Speaker 1: at her ex boyfriend. Are you guys finding the ring
Speaker 1: or just the date? We can barely afford the day, bro,
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I thought we had good chemistry. I
Speaker 1: like you, so I'll try it out. But honestly, I
Speaker 1: am not about the drama. I'm not about you. You
Speaker 1: know your relationship with your ex. You're saying yes, but
Speaker 1: you don't want the drama. I don't know that I've
Speaker 1: changed her hair. She's going through something. I can't tell it.
Speaker 1: You guys are talking me into it or out of it.
Speaker 1: I can't tell either. But I do want to know
Speaker 1: what happens on date number two. Yeah, you guys are
Speaker 1: going out to get Yeah, why not? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I guess miracles do happen. Guys. You want to start
Speaker 1: taking bets on how many dates they last? Brooke, what
Speaker 1: do you got half a one? I was gonna go
Speaker 1: with one and a half. You think it's not even
Speaker 1: the full date? Okay, she's showing up again with a ring,
Speaker 1: so it's my ring and I'll where where I want.
Speaker 1: I mean, And if you if your ex boyfriend's listening
Speaker 1: to this on podcast, somebody missed out. Yeah, he feels
Speaker 1: that big time broke and Jeffrey in the Morning